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Manhattan
/r/seduction03/11/14 05:05 PM
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Kansas
/r/seduction31/10/14 05:20 PM
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Depends on how commited/serious it is. I have girls that I see once or twice a week. It's easy to see multiple girls that way. When I lived with an ex. Hell no I didn't have time for multiple women, I had enough trouble finding time for my bros.
/r/seduction20/09/14 10:17 PM
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Yes it would make a difference but you're probably done growing so it's time to accept that not everyone is equal and it's time to find that other aspect of yourself to attract women.
/r/seduction20/09/14 10:12 PM
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Alright let me rephrase. Height is a major factor in attractiveness to the vast majority of women. If a woman is taller than you, the odds are very against her being attracted to you. That doesn't mean it doesn't happen. I know from first hand experience. The odds are just significantly better when the man is taller than the woman.
/r/seduction20/09/14 09:46 PM
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As a short but otherwise sexy guy. I just have to accept the fact that any women my height or taller just aren't interested. There are still other women out there who are also short. Not that height is the end all be all. I've dated one woman taller than me and one exactly my height (so she was taller in heels). Being short doesn't ruin everything. Just makes it significantly harder. 5'6" here btw.
/r/seduction20/09/14 05:25 PM
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Whenever this happens I'll step sideways, so she has to turn to face me and turn her back on him in the process. He'll rage everytime. If he keeps trying I'll ussually make some sort of silent gesture like "can you beleive this guy?" Followed by a "you want to step outside/over there?" Ussually works. Occasionally won't. If it doesn't you probably werent going to get too far with her anyway and you've just created a dignified exit.
/r/seduction12/09/14 06:23 PM
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Got super drunk and started talking to people. It got easier and easier with less and less alcohol, and now I can talk to anyone while totally sober.
/r/seduction10/08/14 12:04 AM
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I've got a friend like that, he's gay though, so he pushes them my way.
/r/seduction09/08/14 05:49 AM
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Women have support, men don't. Is it really a surprise?
/r/seduction24/06/14 05:19 PM
2

You could pick up smoking.
/r/seduction24/06/14 06:55 AM
4

Ask her on a date. Be clear it's a date. She will tell you if she has a boyfriend. Either way, she'll be flattered.
/r/seduction11/06/14 05:35 AM
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Not at all true, sorority sisters tell each other everything. Dick size of dudes they've fucked included. Had an... experience with that. It was odd. That said, penis size doesn't really make or break sex.
/r/seduction02/06/14 04:53 AM
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Slow it down abit. Start taking her clothes off, and yours.
/r/seduction31/05/14 12:30 AM
1

Start taking your/her clothes off. She's in your bed, she's waiting for that.
/r/seduction31/05/14 12:29 AM
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You were able to get in bed with a girl and then fuck it up? That's impressive.
/r/seduction16/05/14 03:24 AM
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snap them out of 'work mode' first. How should I go about that?
/r/seduction11/05/14 07:56 PM
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Thanks for the feed back, I'm at a fairly large school, and greek life is prominent. Also, it's actually a few hundred bucks cheaper to be in a fraternity than it is the dorms at my school (although an off campus house or apartment is still the cheapest option.) So not really a con there. Anyway, thanks for the response.
/r/seduction05/05/14 03:00 AM
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Seconded, there's power in being comfortable in silence. Plus, it tests her interest and ability to maintain good conversation.
/r/seduction14/04/14 03:27 AM
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"Hey sweetheart!"
/r/seduction08/04/14 05:03 AM
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Be realistic. Go for women your age. Libraries, movie theatre lobbies, places like that are great especially at your age.
/r/seduction30/03/14 07:53 AM
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She fools around with other guys. She says she never sleeps with any of them. I honestly don't really care. We always use a condom anyway.
/r/seduction07/03/14 07:44 PM
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I've run two marathons in the last two years, and I max my bench at 180% my body weight, I know what the fuck I'm doing in the fitness department.
/r/seduction05/03/14 12:25 AM
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Thanks, I'll look into it, but height's not really a problem, I'm still taller than most girls. I'm just not tall.
/r/seduction05/03/14 12:24 AM
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Hey, thanks for reading the post, dumbass. I'm not having trouble getting women, I'm just trying to shift their views of me from cute to hot.
/r/seduction05/03/14 12:23 AM
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Yeah, I've got a few spots on my cheeks that just refuse to grow hair, plus a weird bald spot on my chin. The stache is really thin. I look like shit if I'm not clean shaven.
/r/seduction04/03/14 05:41 AM
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Do both of those already. Thanks anyway.
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:32 AM
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Get in there and just talk, practice! You'll be shitty at first, some girls think that's kinda cute. You'll get better. It took me about 3 weeks of only Spanish to feel confident enough to hit on girls in a different language. But you need to be social!
/r/seduction29/01/14 04:54 AM
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Small college town, with a ban on hookah bars. I used to hookah a lot in highschool.
/r/seduction24/01/14 10:40 PM
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Bookstores are fantastic like /u/unthought_ suggested, easy conversation starters there. The gym gets mixed reactions some girls don't mind, others will hate you if you approach them there, so at your own discretion. In college? The library or student union. Both are fantastic.
/r/seduction19/01/14 04:42 PM
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I would say invite them to drinks with a group of other employees. Don't do anything in a corporate setting. Be freindly and charming, but don't outright flirt at work.
/r/seduction25/12/13 05:22 AM
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Here is a little video you should watch, the important part is from about 0:35 to 0:45.
/r/seduction15/10/13 09:42 PM
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Serious serious weight loss can get rid of baby face. But it takes a while and is seriously unhealthy, then you'd need to bulk up again. So don't do that. Just wait to outgrow it. it's not a huge problem.
/r/seduction15/10/13 06:00 PM
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Maybe this is different in other places, but where I am, it's rude for the guy not to walk on the road side of the sidewalk. So #5 might not be the best.
/r/seduction13/10/13 08:33 PM
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So you made friends, which is good, but not the right ones, which is still okay. It sounds like you're a freshman, and probably at a smaller christian liberal arts college in the midwest. (just assuming, thats been my experience with what you described.) It's a large State school with a heavy focus on engineering, but it's the midwest, so lots of religious people everywhere. I don't have a problem getting alcohol either, but it's a dry campus, my roomie already got busted for alcohol, he's in so…
/r/seduction13/10/13 07:16 PM
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I didn't but the main group I've kinda clumped in with is the bible thumpers. Everyone's already formed their circles and aren't quite as receptive to new people.
/r/seduction13/10/13 07:12 PM
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Not old enough for bars.
/r/seduction13/10/13 06:10 PM
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Not old enough to get into bars.
/r/seduction13/10/13 06:09 PM
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It was mostly, "go talk to new people, make friends with everyone you meet." And I did a lot of that, the people who were the most receptive were the uber religious people.
/r/seduction13/10/13 05:39 AM
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Be cool, chuckle, smile, she can handle herself, and getting territorial will probably be seen as clingy/over protective. If the guy is getting to be a real problem, like touching that she clearly has no interest in, then you get involved, tell him to look for another lady, or something, it's not hard to tell him off at that point.
/r/seduction22/09/13 05:47 AM
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I'm going to guess that when you force a smile, it looks forced, and that is just as bad as a blank stare. One way to force a genuine looking smile is to think of something that makes you laugh. I think of this whenever I need to look happy. Be sure to practice, looking in a mirror while you do will help.
/r/seduction08/09/13 08:02 PM
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Walk up to her, "Mind if I sit here?" Only a total bitch would say no, in which case, bullet dodged. Have a nice chat with her. All there is to it.
/r/seduction02/09/13 06:32 AM
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Nope, sorry.
/r/seduction28/08/13 08:12 PM
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Too young to buy beer, otherwise would have done that first thing.
/r/seduction27/08/13 09:57 PM
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What would be a good night out for freshmen? Honestly stummped. We can't go somewhere to drink, so parties basically have to be left to the upper classmen.
/r/seduction27/08/13 09:56 PM
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Very other end of the hall. I've only got an "Emergency only" fire escape by my room. :(
/r/seduction27/08/13 09:53 PM
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About half of everyone says joining a frat is the best choice I could make, and the other half are congratulating me for not joining, I'm more than a little confused by this.
/r/seduction27/08/13 09:52 PM
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It's hotter than balls here, everyone's held up in the union or their dorms, but will do when it cools off a bit.
/r/seduction27/08/13 09:49 PM
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I have no idea how any of that works, but I'm pretty sure I missed my opportunity. Everyone rushed last spring.
/r/seduction27/08/13 09:48 PM
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keep your door open at all times unless you have a specific reason I'm at the very end of an empty hallway. I've literally only had the guy next door stop by, my door has been open whenever I'm in my room.
/r/seduction27/08/13 12:12 AM
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Uhh... Dont.
/r/seduction15/08/13 09:42 PM
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It's called the power of the vagina, they don't have to do any work to get guys.
/r/seduction15/08/13 05:00 AM
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Ok, I'm good friends with a number of small designers (yes, most are gay). They invite me to their shows, some even pay me to help out. This has been fantastic for meeting a lot of models. A little flirting is all I ever get around to doing (In a relationship at the moment), but my two cents is; they know you see them as something different. They will treat you differently when they know that you know they're a model. Their guard will be up. Also, make friends with designers. That's a wonderful …
/r/seduction25/07/13 10:22 PM
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Well manicured hands? Possibly? I've had women say it's attractive when a guys hands look good, but getting manicures is definitely not something you would see a tough leader "alpha" guy doing.
/r/seduction15/07/13 05:28 AM
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Depends on how close you're getting. If you're talking about grinding, then it might not be a bad idea to ask. Some women will get really upset if you don't. That said, some women prefer if you don't. It never hurts to watch and see what they prefer. But the second you have the information you need, it's time to make a move.
/r/seduction14/07/13 06:34 AM
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Ok, have fun at your party.
/r/seduction14/07/13 06:30 AM
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Yes it totally does, when I shave, I look 16, and my game suffers. When I don't shave I look mid 20's, and I do much better.
/r/seduction12/07/13 04:12 PM
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Speak some of the language, a complete language barrier will end you. Ask them to help you practice, it works like a charm for me, but then again, I speak pretty good Spanish.
/r/seduction09/07/13 06:10 PM
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Bars mostly. But literally anywhere you see a woman is fine.
/r/seduction25/06/13 04:19 AM
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I was 17, I was at a teen club (a dance club for kids basically), dancing on some girls. I hit it off with one, I think she was around my age, but that didn't really come up. She pre gamed, a lot. I stole a few kisses throughout the night. Eventually, I told her I had some whiskey in my car. We left, drank some, clothes started coming off. It was my first one night stand (if it counts as one). It only lasted like an hour, because then her friends started worrying about her, and she had to go.
/r/seduction11/06/13 07:39 PM
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Potential thyroid problems if your dosage is too high. Be sure your doctor knows what he's doing. It's also not cheap. And remember you get angry, energetic, and pissy. Not a great addition, you'll probably do stupid stuff.
/r/seduction02/06/13 08:17 PM
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Height is not nearly as important as personality. That said, if you're dead set on changing your height, look into testosterone boosters (injections). Keep in mind this will only help your height if you're not done growing (So, younger than say, 22.) It will also make you harrier, more energetic, more moody (typically angry/pissy), and widen your shoulders, and basically stop hip growth (laterally).
/r/seduction02/06/13 06:44 PM
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So, how old are you?
/r/seduction31/05/13 11:42 PM
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Please tell my you're <18.
/r/seduction31/05/13 11:01 PM
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Flirt with other girls when you're in social situations. Don't escalate, or try to do anything with these girls, but a little flirting is harmless. If it bothers your GF then she has some trust issues you'll need to address, but just talking to other women isn't a terrible thing to do.
/r/seduction31/05/13 10:55 PM
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If you don't get laid at senior prom, you're an extra special kind of awkward.
/r/seduction20/05/13 04:07 AM
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Something that's important to note. American guys tend to be much more forward than other nationalities in the first world. That's not nesecarily a bad thing. You'll catch her off guard and she'll be flattered. So it could be a plus. However, a disatvantage you'll face as an american is how casual you are. It's changing with our generation. But the norms are much more formal. That includes behavior and dress, so keep that in mind. Dress like a local, behave like an american. It will fascinate th…
/r/seduction08/04/13 11:57 PM
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"Yes" works just fine for me.
/r/seduction29/03/13 03:20 AM
0

Unless you can actually dance well, don't do it.
/r/seduction21/03/13 04:04 AM
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Can't you're boned.
/r/seduction28/02/13 05:51 AM
10

Whatever works mate.
/r/seduction24/02/13 04:16 AM
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I've fallen on that grenade more than once, but my friends have returned the favor. If you've got a guy friend, just ask him to run interference, it works wonders.
/r/seduction22/02/13 12:42 AM
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Kino. Just because she doesn't like to communicate with words doesn't mean she doesn't like to communicate.
/r/seduction21/02/13 04:06 AM
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Not at all. Ask him.
/r/seduction28/12/12 08:07 PM
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I've tried it. It failed. She pressed charges, but dropped them later. Never gonna try again.
/r/seduction17/12/12 02:01 AM
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Chatted up some of her friends later, she noticed and inturupted, kinda peeved I kissed her earlier, but before she could make me sound like the bad guy, I just told her friends "I kissed her". They spent a solid ten minutes trying to get me and her (the girl I kissed earlier) alone. It was hilarious. Of course the girl didn't want to be alone with me, but her friends were on my side. Nothing happened between me and the girl, but shits and giggles were had by all.
/r/seduction09/12/12 05:20 AM
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I ended up chatting with a group of her friends later that night. When she noticed, she walked up and said "Do you guys know what this guy did?" They looked at me and said "What?" I said "I kissed her." After that, they were trying to get her to chat with me one on one. She didn't want to and I probably wouldn't in her position, but it was funny as hell.
/r/seduction09/12/12 05:18 AM
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Find a stranger, try something so bold you wouldn't do it with some one you were dating. (Try to keep it appropriate for the situation) If it works, hey! Wow, you are the man! Holy shit! That would be fucking epic! However, it will probably not work out. But after that, anything will seem minor. How I got over it. I was at a party, a little tipsy. (Teenager at the time, at a high school party.) I hadn't had any love life or really a relationship of any sort with any girl for about a year. I walk…
/r/seduction09/12/12 03:19 AM
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It's not hard to get here either. It'll just cost you more, if your not legal yet. And bars and pubs tend to be strict about age.
/r/seduction09/12/12 12:42 AM
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Damn, I want to live in Ireland now...
/r/seduction09/12/12 12:17 AM
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It's 21 here in the US, and my fake got confiscated. :/ Lucky you.
/r/seduction08/12/12 08:04 PM
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18M here, been on seddit since I was sixteen. You'll have plenty of success using everything exactly as you heard it here. (Except the bar stuff of course)
/r/seduction08/12/12 07:51 PM
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Never too early to start. Hit up some teen clubs and try this stuff out! (Most big cities have teen clubs, I dunno where you are... just a suggestion.)
/r/seduction08/12/12 07:33 PM
1

Be an asshole to a stranger. Glass shatters Done.
/r/seduction04/11/12 11:08 PM
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Haha, I've used this, it works most of the time.
/r/seduction15/10/12 03:07 AM
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Get shitfaced. That helps. OR if you're underage, or designated driver, or something; pretend to be shitfaced with some friends where its a zero pressure type thing (it helps if they're wasted). Get into character. Give zero fucks. It's more about being relaxed and comfortable with the situation than having the balls to do something. Ladies like it if you're relaxed and confident. Once you start making a lot of approaches you stop being nervous about it. This is just a suggestion, but it worked …
/r/seduction03/10/12 01:21 AM
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