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dbugbackagain/r/seduction18/02/19 11:22 PM
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Get a good therapist and work it through. With commitment and openness to change huge transformations are possible. Also read 'Letting Go - The Pathway to Surrender' (yes, esotheric af but incredibly useful as a tool!) and 'No More Mr. Nice Guy'. I'd also recommend a 'The Fearless Man Live' weekend if you can afford it (~300 bucks). Gave me a huge headstart in my own personal development especially in the love/vulnerability area and emotions in general. Also for the love of god stop that incel t…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 10:42 AM
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Read. There's much out there on self development but even a good fantasy novel will do. It's actually much better than porn and videogames. I can personally recommend the following combo in exactly this order: Jordan Peterson - 12 rules for life (optional - I'd recommend it though) No More Mr. Nice Guy David Hawkins - Letting Go (since you have correctly identified your current state as one of apathy this will be a big one for you) The Sedona Method No More Mr. Nice Guy (if it hit hard the first…
/r/askTRP09/07/19 06:34 PM
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That or any other sport / martial art that interests you.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 06:19 PM
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https://youtu.be/Hk1sx7-fgsI I found this to be most helpful. Some key aspects: Talk about fun/interesting stuff and stay away from interview style questions Measure her investment by text length and emoji use. Try get her to invest more then you. Keep the amount of texting within reasonable boundaries. People have lives and usually don't want to text all day. Meme Magic is fun and may work but I haven't tried that. My personal sample size is small but so far it went quite well that way. Good lu…
/r/seduction29/04/19 03:26 PM
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I'd appreciate it if the people that downvote this left a comment explaining their objections. I'm new to this I'll take all the input I can get!
/r/seduction19/02/19 10:11 AM
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Yeah I do like to gl out on a segway haha I'll add a tl;dr just gimme 10 min. Edit: There you go.
/r/seduction19/02/19 04:57 AM
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I've had multiple guys tell me that girls from cultures which heavily represss female sexuality are the ceaziest in bed. I've also heard of guys getting beat into a bloody pulp by their families. This could be amazing but it could also be life threatening. Be careful man!
/r/seduction12/02/19 08:45 AM
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Never done this but here are my thoughts: Have her pick out a few girls at a bar she'd like to be with and then you go pick them up and bring your gf in later? Dunno just wanna help!
/r/seduction12/02/19 08:39 AM
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I 2nd this. I guess I was lucky to have a very mild case only. Still it was devastating to loose a significant amount of circumference (sth. I was very proud of since I'm a bit below the average in length). Getting throuh it however I learned a valuable lesson. You are not your penis. Your masculinity is not dependant on it. It's not even depensant on your skills in bed or the amount of testosterone in your blood or the amount of muscles visible under your shirt. Masculinity is a way of acting a…
/r/seduction12/02/19 07:07 AM
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"Ask me again tomorrow ;) " but you gotta be pretty confident to bring that.
/r/seduction08/02/19 08:14 AM
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Feel you man. But I feel like that (cringily naive & stupid) old me is a large part of what is both driving and enabling me to be better. You can use that as an orientation fixpoint, a measurement device so to speak. We all need such fix points from which to orient ourselves. The more defined they are the more valuable and reliable they proof. When look at it that way you'll find yourself short of resentment for that old you. E.G.: I was a pathological Nice Guy in many ways. Obviously I'm moving…
/r/seduction08/02/19 08:04 AM
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And even if she is proven tonhave made it up in court beyond doubt she will still have people on her side claiming that either he deserved hit or other excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:27 AM
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Outstanding move! Did the same completely by accident on my last bdayparty (lots of guys were sick or couldn't come) so there were 3/4 women. Had similar experience to yours and same outcome ;)
/r/seduction30/01/19 12:00 PM
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Granted I may have taken an extreme position. The guy above raises some good points. You can try that route however don't let yourself become her gay best friend. When in doubt aim to be a good aquaintance (who's fun to be with, maturing rapidly, flirting with her friends, disappearing from parties with hot girls, etc.) and not her dear teddy bear ready to do her bidding at a moment's notice. The friendzone hurts way more than burning bridges imo so be careful not to let yourself be dragged in.
/r/seduction11/01/19 05:08 PM
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Tell her it's dating or nothing. You have enough friends. Then she cannot bullshit you anymore about wanting to """preserve the beautiful (read platonic, exploitative and frustrating) thing we have""". That'll show her true colors (which in this case will most likely mean no interest on her part).
/r/seduction08/01/19 07:37 PM
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Well... online dating is weird there's not really a way around it. It can only help to accept that before meeting up. Who cares if it's awkward! Just breathe and start a conversation. Maybe just acknowledge the fact that you are de facto strangers to release some tension. Even the worst case scenario isn't that bad really: Let's say you sit there, mind blank and unable to think of a word. Just relax and hold the tension. In 99% of cases she will start a conversation. Wether or not you are ready.…
/r/seduction08/01/19 10:49 AM
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Thx mate!
/r/seduction08/01/19 09:03 AM
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Damn I need to try that!
/r/seduction07/01/19 10:55 PM
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I've been going down the whole "I wanna have a good convo" road long enough to tell you to listen to u/ntipz011 . It's a gentlemans job to try to fuck a woman. I know it's difficult and hard and stressful but you have to take action! You know why people in movies fall in live over a deep conversation and then the girl tells the guy to kiss her already? Because it's a fucking movie! Reality is different. You have to learn this. It's painful but worth it. I've not come very far myself yet but beli…
/r/seduction07/01/19 10:07 PM
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Man I feel you. Here's my 2c. Read/Listen to Robert Glover's Book "No More Mr Nice Guy". The audio book is on youtube and just over 6 hours. You can easily go through it in a week. For me however some passages hit so hard I binged it in 2 days and have listened to it over 4 times since. Sry if I sound like a shill but this book has been the single most powerful positive influence in my life since the advent of Jordan B Peterson. Here's what I did / am doing with all the girls in whose friendzone…
/r/seduction07/01/19 09:36 PM
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Man... thanks for sharing, it really encouraged me! I too let too many possibilities slide but not anymore. Next time I'm gonna kill it like u/FlareGER ;) Grüße aus Wien!
/r/seduction07/01/19 08:11 PM
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(Big ups to a fellow DnB comrade) If you prefer not to speak during the beginning bc verbal game is hard you can just look back at her for starters and turn/dance towards her a bit. If she too turns to you you can dance a bit with her maybe pull her in a bit to talk closer to her ear, the loud music gives you a good a excuse to get close/touch her. Now that you're already dancing/close the talking should be easier. That should get you going. If she doesn't invite you after you looked back she ma…
/r/seduction07/01/19 03:58 PM
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Let me know once you find a good guide
/r/seduction07/01/19 03:44 PM
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Fair enough haha
/r/seduction05/01/19 02:01 PM
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This is the last year he's coaching himself. Sadly I cannot afford it this year... I don't think I heard of Zan Perrion but I'll look into him, thx! Edit: Zan's great. Thx man
/r/seduction03/01/19 09:07 PM
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Thx for the catch up! Oh boy looks like he really crossed a line in japan... haven't looked into his videos specifically but I have seen a few from different RSD coaches especially Max. I have mixed feelings about them. They always seem to be hyper hyper and über energetic as if they just sniffed a (thick) line off some victoria secret model's (thin) ass to the point of coming across as fake. The content itself I found to be useful only to a degree. It's very precise and boxed and there is use i…
/r/seduction03/01/19 08:57 PM
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Been/am there. 2 Thoughts on this: When you are in a relationship you are a) validated by your gf by the fact that she's in a relationship with you and b) probably not horny af in a needy way since you're meeting your sexual needs. a) Learn to like yourself or if necessary become someone you can like and have confident in (for real though, not by lying through your teeth). That way you won't depend on external validation. b) set standards. You are the prize - she has to qualify. Maybe test/tease…
/r/seduction03/01/19 06:00 PM
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Julien. The other is a good rule of thumb.
/r/seduction03/01/19 05:44 PM
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I guess I'm out of the loop. Care to point me towards some info on this?
/r/seduction03/01/19 05:39 PM
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Can we settle on 9 out of 10 times? There are situations where being the bigger person just leaves you angry because you didn't stand up for yourself. There's little utility in that.
/r/seduction03/01/19 03:25 PM
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