ddrj Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
47	How to go beastmode and change your dating life He's selling a course. It's a long form sales letter in the form of a post	/r/seduction	29/12/24 06:14 PM
5	Where do all these girls come from? You know how they say every guy thinks they know how to fight until it comes down to it? The same applies to women in the context of seduction. They think they know everything about it until you ask them to go and approach.	/r/seduction	07/11/24 10:40 PM
1	Double Texting to set up 2nd date Who cares? Double text. The goal isn't to look cool but to actually meet.	/r/seduction	29/10/24 01:22 AM
13	The problem with pickup artists I know so many naturals that are absolute pieces of shit who don't go to the club to have fun. In fact they look stoic or even pissed from afar and they still pull left and right some of the hottest chicks I've seen. On the other hand, I see a ton of guys who go out and have fun but still go home empty handed. Who's the most fun guy to be around? A funny guy that makes everyone laugh. Who's also one of the guys that women don't see as a sexual option? The funny guy. I think you swung from one fa…	/r/seduction	24/10/24 12:44 AM
23	Advice no one asked for about losing "The one" Hard to logically accept the concept of "the one" in a world of 8 billion people.	/r/seduction	23/10/24 09:46 PM
2	Bringing girls back in a ghetto apartment. Why don't you take them back to their place or to your car?	/r/seduction	12/10/24 11:50 PM
3	A relationship will not make you happy, this is why I disagree. The majority of people in relationships are in it due to codependency. These issues get magnified as time passes and many warning signs that often go overlooked during the initial phases of courtship are brought into the light later. As a result our country has an incredibly high divorce rate (55% of all marriages last I checked). If relationships (romantic) were really a significant factor to happiness, we'd have fewer divorces and fewer breakups (I can't find accurate statistics fo…	/r/seduction	08/10/24 10:30 PM
0	Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself. TLDR: (1) pass shit tests (2) have a strong frame	/r/seduction	27/08/24 09:53 PM
4	What do you think are the factors that facilitate the cold approach? You just do it. There's no point in waiting for the stars to align.	/r/seduction	18/08/24 01:55 AM
2	Dealing with jealous or hostile men Who gives a fuck what others think. Most guys won't do shit unless you're gaming their girl and even then they'll just step in between you and the girl. Learn how to effectively dissipate hostility. No need to learn how to fight. Your time is better spent just looking like you can fight (gym) and gaming (don't forget your goal).	/r/seduction	06/08/24 11:28 PM
44	Fastest Bar Lay Mine was like 3-5 mins many years ago. I was drunk and stumbling through the dance floor and I saw this cute blonde chick. I approached pretty direct and it was received well. Then I made out with her and started fingering her right there and then she said "can we go somewhere?" So I said sure and led her to the women's bathroom and banged in the stall. I think there was a total of like 3 sentences I said. Sometimes you just get lucky by virtue of being out.	/r/seduction	03/08/24 10:54 PM
5	How do you guys do it? Thanks man, feels good to be recognized. When regular people find out that I go out a lot, they think it's all just for fun and I'm having the time of my life. Instead, I'm getting rejections and constantly having to mentally reframe it to have no sting. It's easy to say to not care, but I guess for me, it's harder to put it into practice.	/r/seduction	26/07/24 02:49 AM
1	How did you get rid of your victim mentality? Replying because this is honestly the best advice in this thread. This little post is actually better than the entirety of that book "the subtle art of not giving a fuck"	/r/seduction	18/07/24 09:15 PM
2	Today I saw what they call Naturals at work in Seduction A lot of people don't realize that a lot of "game" actually comes from copying women. They do push pulls naturally. The only difference is that you add leading to your interactions and that's it	/r/seduction	05/06/24 01:22 PM
1	Approaching Other than quitting, what other option do you have?	/r/seduction	24/02/24 02:51 PM
8	I’ve lost more girls to inaction than to overpursuing Closed mouths don't get fed	/r/seduction	11/08/23 03:46 PM
1	Let's talk about Aaron's concepts! People feel what you feel about you. Non attachment makes you magnetic. Don't chase and they will chase you. 1st - agreed. law of state transference. people will feel nervous if you're feeling nervous 2nd - basically teaching non neediness 3rd - meaning don't overly compliment or chase them and they'll wonder why you're not like almost every other guy	/r/seduction	21/09/22 05:18 AM
3	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) good stuff. haters gonna hate	/r/seduction	12/09/22 01:57 AM
2	LPT: Most of society is completely against your seduction goals. In addition, people get jealous when you start achieving physique goals and financial goals. Just the way the world is and it sucks but that's where you can start to weed out the wrong people from your life	/r/seduction	04/09/22 08:42 PM
1	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt... Thanks for the honest reply. Yeah I figured it was mostly online. Would you say maybe like 80%?	/r/seduction	29/08/22 05:33 PM
1	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt... Out of curiosity... Did most of the 56 girls come from cold approach or online dating? Cus I know some good looking guys that just clean up from online dating and this number isn't anything crazy for them	/r/seduction	29/08/22 02:09 PM
58	You are f***ed. I 100% agree. Have you noticed all the "new" ways of the current dating options for men? There's online dating, social circle game, Instagram game and some other shit. With online dating, you're fighting for 20% of women against 80% of other guys. There's a huge disparity in the amount of men outnumbering women by a massive scale, not to mention the algorithm. Make no mistake guys... these are apps made for profit and to get you to spend your money in hopes you'll get some/more/better matches. S…	/r/seduction	12/07/22 06:58 AM
1	Fickleness of Women: How little your approach would impact their lives Spotlight Effect	/r/seduction	15/02/22 06:56 PM
1	What are predictors/ indicators that a women has a high body count? Who cares?	/r/seduction	03/02/22 03:25 AM
0	[deleted by user] No you don't. You don't think about it. You just do. Like jumping into a cold lake. Inching bit by bit doesn't help and only prolongs the inevitable. You just jump right in	/r/seduction	25/01/22 03:59 PM
2	[deleted by user] These guys don't know what they're talking about. It's the same GQ advice they parrot about wearing better clothes, cologne, getting a social circle or doing activities like rock climbing lol. This is going to be the best advice you're gonna get : "the feelings of confidence only come after the actions of confidence". People are often resistant to doing things that frighten us. But if it was easy, everyone would be doing it. Take action first and then you'll feel confident.	/r/seduction	25/01/22 04:55 AM
10	nice guy obstacles to attraction and expressing intent Treat women like women and not your mother	/r/seduction	05/01/22 12:22 AM
4	Being lean vs being big Steroids.	/r/seduction	01/01/22 05:59 PM
1	How should I dance at clubs/parties to have that ‘confident’ vibe? Don't listen to them. Solo game is the fastest way to get good, confidence and results.	/r/seduction	22/11/21 03:49 PM
2	Very awkward date She did you a favor. Imagine having to deal with this type of behavior for an elongated period of time.	/r/seduction	17/07/21 05:08 PM
3	I LOVE Women but my porn addiction is really killing my desire and confidence How is it bad for mental health? Serious question	/r/seduction	09/07/21 09:44 PM
52	An unusual story and what I've learned about attraction and confidence Dude if she's this crazy without even having met you, imagine how crazy she'll be after things happen	/r/seduction	03/07/21 02:06 PM
-3	Finally broke the Gym Code Hell yeah, good job! I don't like "rules" like this. I don't even know who came up with it but I also followed the unwritten rule of not talking to girls at the gym. Then I saw this natural guy who talked to chicks at the gym and went on multiple dates with chicks from the gym and I remember thinking, "why does he get to break the rules but I can't because of some unwritten rule?"	/r/seduction	23/06/21 06:45 PM
4	Left my number on her truck Thank you SO MUCH for going against seddit's advice. Last time you posted, a bunch of people shit talked you. Most people here don't even approach or are women and give you advice on how they would like to be approached. Trust me... only take advice from people who do the actual approaching. You wouldn't ask a beggar for stock advice right? Good shit	/r/seduction	19/06/21 12:14 AM
7	I accidently hit on a 16 year old today If you were in his situation, what would you have done differently? Especially if you didn't know that she was 16?	/r/seduction	15/06/21 11:23 PM
19	I accidently hit on a 16 year old today Jesus Christ. He already said he's embarrassed as hell, learned from his mistake and didn't know. Why are you shaming and gaslighting him even further?	/r/seduction	15/06/21 11:19 PM
32	“Do women like muscles?” I went from being fat to ripped and the difference is night and day. Just the pure amount of attention you get is crazy. I even got approached just today and I'm short	/r/seduction	12/06/21 03:17 AM
3	How to get any girl you want, period. Hey man! How dare you say something about the clickbait title?? Don't you realize that the op is just trying to give some generic advice? Wow.	/r/seduction	11/12/20 10:18 PM
–	What To Do If You're Afraid to Approach a Girl Yup. Exactly. Which is where a mindset of learning comes into play. It's not really rejection people should be concerned about. Nor combating it with excitement. It should be coming from a place of learning. Tweaking. Adapting. Getting better.	/r/seduction	20/04/18 03:20 PM
–	What To Do If You're Afraid to Approach a Girl And then you get all excited and you approach and she horribly rejects you. Then you have to get excited again to approach another girl. And then again. And again. Over and over until you have evidence that this is the wrong strategy completely. This video is nothing but stupid advice. There's only so many times you can conjure up an emotion reliably in the overwhelming evidence that is contrary to what you intended especially in the beginning stages. But don't worry, I'm not going to criticize …	/r/seduction	20/04/18 03:11 PM
1	For Asians and Indians Very true. A chapter from Mark Manson's Models talk about how asians actually do have it easier than blacks and latinos because of how blacks and latinos are portrayed on the news	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/15 04:30 PM
-1	Girl's therapist is trying to nip my Red Pill in the bud Either continue doing what you're doing as that's how you got the girl OR if you feel bad for her, don't do either i.e. don't neg her, don't compliment her.	/r/askTRP	29/04/15 05:04 AM
5	Going out alone(clubs, bars etc) First off, good job on wanting to explore solo game. Secondly, just as everyone has said here, go talk to someone as soon as you enter the venue. If it's a girl, great, if not, no problem. As long as you minimize the TIME you take to socialize. Now don't get stuck talking to the bartender or a guy for too long since you are here to get girls. Just use them to get your social skills flowing and then move on. You can always come back to them later. Thirdly, have a plan. If you're talking to two wo…	/r/askTRP	17/04/15 04:30 PM
9	I finally told the girl who used me all year for school work I wouldn't help her anymore. To add to this comment: don't let anyone take advantage of you OP, male or female.	/r/TheRedPill	04/04/15 02:26 AM
4	Best places in the USA for guys that like white women. Dallas, TX	/r/askTRP	28/03/15 09:41 PM
2	Looking to end relationship on a Red Pill note. I got into this relationship while swallowing the blue pill but got burned. Something I read on reddit recently... "The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. Love and hate both require passion but indifference doesn't". Reread your post while keeping this in mind and a new answer should be obvious.	/r/askTRP	16/03/15 02:52 PM
24	Bumped into an ex FWB from BP days... Answer to your question: No. Next.	/r/askTRP	16/03/15 02:42 PM
2	Sometimes I feel depressed on nights out? Very very interesting. What you're experiencing is called a state crash. I used to have the worst state crashes ever. Worse than any of my friends until I started proactively observing the patterns of thoughts or actions I was experiencing prior to the state crash. It's only when you notice recurring elements that you can make a change to what's causing your state to crash. Unfortunately, I can't even give suggestions because you haven't noticed a pattern other than that it just happens out of n…	/r/askTRP	05/03/15 05:49 AM
1	Girls think I'm just going to fuck once and never call back Throw in more comfort. Find commonalities and blow it up, share vulnerabilities, tell her why she's different from other girls. Just don't do too much of it or she'll think she is really too special and will try to go the dating to relationship route.	/r/askTRP	04/02/15 10:18 PM
1	Growing a beard. Funny because I've been getting a lot of compliments from women on my beard. They rarely shit test me either.	/r/askTRP	04/02/15 02:26 AM
2	How do you explain beta males who have healthy LTRs? Came here to say this. Opposites attract. A beta male will enjoy a relationship with an alpha female as will an alpha male with a beta female. One of my friends is the most jacked and alpha LOOKING male out of my social circle but he end up always falling for alpha females. When I asked him why he chases these type of female who usually leave him heart broken and depressed in the end, his reply was, "because they call me out on my shit man, they put me in check... I need a girl to call me out". …	/r/askTRP	03/02/15 08:55 PM
-6	I have problems having one on one conversations. Not just with girls but with anyone. Even family members, and friends. I need help Seddit. What's wrong with you? Seriously... you don't need seddit. You need to book an appointment with a psychologist. Why do people think that seddit will solve all their problems?	/r/seduction	21/10/12 12:15 AM
-1	Advice for the guys asking "When can I F-close??" Sounds like you're trying to rationalize your way out of your failures with the game.	/r/seduction	23/09/12 01:27 PM
-4	I'm not looking to pick up tons of girls, but simply to improve my social interactions in general (i.e. get people to like me more). Is this the right place? Sorry but there's a reason this subreddit is called seduction	/r/seduction	20/06/12 04:29 PM
7	A bomb went off in my head. This has to be the best seduction related post I have read in years and I've been in the game for a while now. The quality of this is astounding. Thank you so much for sharing this with us. It really takes a lot of soul searching and then patience to write something like this. Having your inner most thoughts, experiences and desires articulated in text for the world to see takes a lot of courage. I appreciate the fact that you took the time to do this. Thank you.	/r/seduction	22/01/12 08:41 PM
0	As an experiment I have become a male friendzoner, and the results have been more amazing than I could have expected. Oh please, this is exactly what he is experimenting with. In his original post he talks about women who do this to men and so he is going to mirror them to see what works. Don't kid yourself and think that women don't do this. I will say though that everyone does this, not only women. The OP just has never done this and is experimenting with it. If you think that OP's quote you pasted was emotional manipulation, then by that definition, a TON of women are manipulative, yet I don't see everyone h…	/r/seduction	09/01/12 08:24 PM
0	As an experiment I have become a male friendzoner, and the results have been more amazing than I could have expected. I don't know why everyone is denouncing this guy and his experiment. I think it's a fantastic idea. On one hand he has pivots and wings who are also his friends that he can talk to. On the other, he has girls that are fuck buddies. What's wrong with this? There is no emotional manipulation going on. I think everyone's failed to realize that he has separated the girls into different categories. He is NOT taking a girl to a club, using her as a wing and then fucking her later on in the night. Ever…	/r/seduction	09/01/12 04:36 PM
-8	This video is very inspiring. Totally agree! If OP doesn't see this, I'll post it for him :P	/r/seduction	06/11/11 03:37 PM