ddrluna Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
56	I wanted to contribute something: My divorce and how I didn't screw over my ex husband.		ddrluna	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 03:22 AM

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10	The Futility of Gender-Neutral Parenting the brains of women and men are identical. ...But... Weren't people saying that Trans people are able to be distinguished from non-trans people because they have brain structures/formations that appear more like the opposite sex? That can't be the case if male and female brains are supposedly "identical". So which side of the progressive stack is full of shit here? The Trans community or these morons?	/r/RedPillWives	05/02/17 05:57 PM
2	Women of PPD, if you only had to choose between TWO men on SMV, which of these two would you choose and why I'm more attracted to the first one's face (I like clean-shaven men). And both of them are a little too muscular for my preferences. I generally prefer an ottermode physique in men. If I absolutely had to choose on photo only, I'd go with the first one because the facial hair on number two really doesn't do it for me at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/17 07:35 PM
5	I think slutty girls are cool In the end, I think that people should sleep with as many or as few people as they want as long as they're smart/safe about it and both parties are properly informed as to where they stand. If you want to wait until marriage, go for it. If you want to be the town bicycle, you do you. However, no other person should be expected to equally respect your life choices later down the line. If someone who slept around with 300 men meets the perfect guy who is then turned off by her promiscuous history,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/16 01:11 AM
3	How many Red Pillers here associate with the MRA? How many Blue Pillers here associate with Feminism? Either way, please elaborate why. I consider myself more red pill than blue pill, and I also prefer to call myself an egalitarian, because I think feminism these days is treated like a female superiority movement by a large fraction of feminists, and so I generally prefer to avoid that bullshit like the plague. As for MRAs, I know there are some bad ones, and I generally choose not to align with that group because of similar image issues, but between the two groups, I do think that MRAs have many more legitimate grievances than …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/16 03:27 PM
1	How many Friends do you have? I have different groups and different closeness levels with all of them. Our standard "Friday night games" group consists of my husband and I and four other constants. I'd consider these people my best friends, people I'd do just about anything for. We used to live with two of them in the same house and it was glorious, and since we've moved out they've said they would've sold their house to buy one closer to us if they were in a better financial position. There are others that occasionally come…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/16 04:25 PM
2	Q4Women: How would you react if your guy says he's not in the mood? I'd be like, oh, okay. No biggie. If by some odd chance I was SUPER horny in that moment, rather than be pissed that he's not into it right now, I'd just go quickly deal with it myself and then get back to doing whatever we then wanted to do together. I can't imagine that scenario going any other way. I mean, it's clearly intended to be a pointed question regarding the opposite scenario, but even then I think it'd be weird for a guy to get pissed off if she's not interested (unless this is a sit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/16 07:03 PM
2	Caption Challenge #2 "FEMINISM STANDS FOR EQUALITY YOU STUPID WHITE MALE!"	/r/RedPillWives	02/10/16 04:15 AM
3	Please help me to minimize this mess I've created with the love of my life Well, kudos for gracefully accepting criticism and acknowledging your weaknesses at least. If you can do this in your talk with your ex (if he allows it, of course), he might be more willing to give you a second chance. Everyone is guilty of saying stuff they don't mean every now and then, but when I put my foot in my mouth with my husband, I make sure to apologize for being a bonehead and I NEVER try and turn things around on him. Shifting blame may make you feel good temporarily but it's a bul…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/09/16 07:29 PM
11	All along it's been my horrible attitude that ruined what we had Good for you! Nobody's perfect, and the fact that you've started to question your old behaviours and make positive changes puts you miles ahead of a lot of people. I'm glad that it seems to be working well for you. I hope you continue to improve and succeed in your relationship.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/09/16 06:22 PM
12	Please help me to minimize this mess I've created with the love of my life You've never been so heartbroken... even though you broke up with someone OVER TEXT that you claimed to be so head over heels with on a stupid whim. You didn't attempt to have an adult conversation to communicate how his cancellations were making you feel. Or, wow, maybe even asked him why he kept cancelling or checked if he was doing okay (crazy, I know). Instead, you decided to "show him" by breaking up with him. Over text. The end of your relationship, that YOU ENDED (and then regretted, but …	/r/RedPillWomen	29/09/16 04:30 PM
5	RP Male here - is dick size important? I've only had two dicks inside me before (average and above average), and of the two, the average one was (is) much preferable. I mean, there are size queens out there, but I really think that most women don't care so much.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/09/16 03:41 PM
9	NSFW: Anal sex. He wants it, I hate it. First of all, as someone who was begged to do things I didn't care to do in my previous relationship, it's really okay to tell them to go away if they keep pestering about it. It's seriously disrespectful if a partner doesn't respect your boundaries and keeps insisting on things you aren't interested in or don't like. On the other hand, if you legitimately wanted to try and make it feel less uncomfortable for you, there are a few things you could experiment with. For example, you could try takin…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/16 03:46 AM
34	Do women actually want men to suffer? And red pillers say WOMEN are solipsistic. The fact that you assume that women show affection towards their significant others just to SPITE YOU is ridiculous. You view half of the human species in such a one-dimensional manner that it's really no wonder that you have no success in relationships. This kind of attitude towards others is cancer for any personality, in men or women. I hold disdain for any woman who thinks all men are stupid player dicks out for nothing but sex and occasionally foot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/16 08:29 PM
7	The best possible partner to have is your FOIL. Having been with someone my opposite first, and with someone much more similar to me second, I can safely say that, while the first relationship was interesting to start, we quickly found that our differences eventually pulled us apart more than anything. Not just in our incompatibilities in major elements (sexual, financial, etc.) but even down to our hobbies. In the end, we were barely even doing anything with each other anymore because he found my hobbies boring and I found his to be too outl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/16 04:21 AM
3	What's your opinion on asexuals? Did you know there is a spectrum of asexual identities? Asexuality, fine. I think most people can accept the fact that there are some folks that have very low or no libido. The rest of those terms are horseshit though. I would bet my left ass cheek on the fact that they'll never make it into the common vernacular, and if anyone tried to use one of those labels in casual conversation you'd see a slew of proverbial question marks above people's heads. You'd inevitably have to explain it every single time the word left your mouth and I guarantee that it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/16 10:25 PM
3	CMV: Every male is a potential rapist Every plane trip has the possibility of ending in a crash. Swimming in the ocean could potentially lead to you getting eaten by a shark. Leaving your home in general carries the possibility of all kinds of terrible shit happening throughout the day. These are all very unlikely occurrences that we usually try to tell people not to be afraid of. Why? Because these are all irrational fears which we like to refer to as "phobias". Phobias are often unpleasant and tend to hold people back from doing t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/16 01:42 PM
5	It's so unfair - women are not overwhelmingly winning in family courts any more Oh my god, the melodrama in that article makes me want to tear my hair out. I can't believe how unsympathetic they are to the fact that this is the same thing that men go through when they aren't able to see their children at all, let alone short periods of time.	/r/MensRights	11/05/16 03:48 PM
2	This B.S. floating around my Facebook feed... You know, I have had a guy follow me in his car. He pulled up to the curb to try to motion me over. Twice. Then I turned around and tried to walk back home, as the bag of chips I wanted from the convenience store wasn't worth this bullshit. The guy actually turned his car around and followed me into my cul de sac, and when I hid behind a car in the hopes he wouldn't see me, he circled around again. It was one of the scariest things I've ever had happen. But you know what? I didn't generalize my …	/r/MensRights	06/05/16 05:10 PM
4	BP: can you please provide some images of what you consider "too much muscle" to be attractive? I consider myself pretty middle-ground, pill-wise, but I agree with this assessment. That first photo is perfect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/16 01:43 PM
3	"You are either a normal person (feminist) or a sexist." - Masie Williams Someone posted this shit on my Facebook Feed yesterday. I called them out on the fact that calling people names because they don't subscribe to your particular banner is not productive in the slightest. I'm pretty sure I wasted my time, but I nevertheless resent the notion that, because I'm not a feminist I'm all of a sudden a sexist, a misogynist, or a gender traitor.	/r/MensRights	09/04/16 05:25 PM
1	Have hubs in room during birth? My husband and I have talked about it and he probably will not be present for the birth. When he was 19, his ex got pregnant (she told him she was on the pill, but she was either deliberately misleading or was simply really bad at taking them, he's not quite certain). Being completely unprepared and terrified at that stage of his life, he said the birth process was one of the most traumatizing things he's ever been through. I understand this situation completely coloured his experiences of birth…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/04/16 05:07 AM
1	Q4Women: Men's heights I'm 5'2". My husband is 6'4". He's the tallest I've ever been with but I dated someone who was only a few inches taller than me before. Height has never really factored in when selecting for mates for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/15 12:27 PM
1	TRP and Rape Denial Okay, so then in the real world, why would any man want to work when their women will make more for less work anyway? Hell, assuming they can even get the job, with equality measures ensuring that they're the last to be chosen on the list of people to hire. If the hypothetical woman in the other guy's dubious example truly just sees a man as existing for her benefit, I doubt this system will work well for her. This isn't even my belief in the way things work. If you're wanting someone to defend …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/15 05:09 PM
0	TRP and Rape Denial Let's use an example of Jack and Sally. The logic is thus: Sally is a woman who believes Jack exists solely for her benefit. Everything he does is to make her happy. Jack has a well-paying job and buys Sally every little thing her heart could ever desire while she basically does nothing but sit around and look nice. All of a sudden, thanks to a big feminist outcry, there is a new rule at Jack's job that says that there must be an equal number of men and women. Jack is therefore one of the unluck…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/15 02:48 PM
0	TRP and Rape Denial That must be it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/15 06:43 PM
2	TRP and Rape Denial Well, I can see I'm wasting time here. Y'all have fun now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/15 06:35 PM
4	TRP and Rape Denial Putting aside the blatant generalizations for a moment, even if I were the sort to believe that men exist for my benefit, feminists actively working to screw over men would therefore not be to my benefit, and therefore, there would be a sizable difference between feminists and "the average woman". Logic. It's a good thing from time to time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/15 06:29 PM
10	TRP and Rape Denial Nah, this is what feminists actually believe. Hence why I avoid the label like the plague.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/15 05:59 PM
20	TRP and Rape Denial Because that mantra has very much helped all the men who have been falsely accused, despite not doing the very thing you just mentioned.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/15 04:47 PM
3	Tampon tax: an immoral anachronism or feminist histrionics? Mine used to be absurdly heavy when I was younger, but ever since I went on birth control, it barely lasts me 4-5 days. It's glorious.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/11/15 11:03 PM
3	Tampon tax: an immoral anachronism or feminist histrionics? It's not just in the UK. In Canada, the GST is 5% on the dollar and the PST is variable. If a box of pads or tampons is five-ten dollars, that means I'm spending at least an extra $0.25-$0.50 per box. But hell, let's go bonkers and bump it up to an extra full dollar per box because we're big spenders like that. Let's say a box lasts me three months. That would mean I'd need to buy four boxes over the course of a year. So in spending upwards of $40 on feminine products over a year, my heightened …	/r/RedPillWomen	27/11/15 04:20 PM
2	Casual Sex...Questions for Women No, I haven't. Perhaps because I was raised in a rather conservative fashion, or perhaps because my mother (who I didn't live with) slept around more than anyone I know and that life did not look appealing to me. No, definitely not. No. And I haven't seen it happen a lot in the people I know. The main example I can think of is one guy who frequently likes to attempt to juggle multiple chicks at once. He does try to commit, but can't seem to keep his hands out of the cookie jar. He's cheated in e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/15 03:56 PM
1	Personality types (mtbi) at PPD. I'm INFJ and have been my entire life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/15 11:59 PM
8	Why are men these days obsessed with anal sex? Do they even like women? Source: me? I actually find it easier to orgasm from anal than from vaginal sex. I don't really know how to describe it other than it feels different. Very satisfying. I could describe it as feeling like it "hits a different spot" than vaginal sex. Just because your friends don't like it, doesn't mean everyone else doesn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 07:32 PM
4	Q4RP have you ever not been in the mood for sex? Was it because you had a stroke?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/15 10:10 AM
3	Man Flu... My husband works his ass off to put food on the table and to improve his skills for most of the year. The absolute least I can do is care for him when he's not feeling so well--bring him tea, food, tylenol... whatever he wants. I would never think to belittle him; I'm not in his head, I don't feel his symptoms. For all I know, if I get sick with something and he catches it, it affects him in a totally different way than it affects me. There was one time near the beginning of our relationship whe…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/09/15 02:54 PM
12	"You are replaceable. Don't forget it." Another way of putting it could be, Yes he does love me for me. But if I turn into someone else, say, a 100-pound-heavier, lazier, naggier version of me, it wouldn't be the "me" he was originally attracted to, would it?	/r/RedPillWomen	08/09/15 07:57 PM
1	What's worst, infidelity or divorce? Female.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/15 02:45 PM
1	Ladies, who would you rather sleep with. Alpha Donald Trump or Feminist Niceguy Joseph Gordon Levitt? Fair enough. That's hard to find nowadays, at least openly admitted in public by people in the public eye. I'd say Kanye is better than Trump, although then it becomes a matter of physical preference just as much as alpha/beta trait preference. That and Kanye is kind of a dumbass. It's difficult to find a fair comparison.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/15 04:18 AM
11	Ladies, who would you rather sleep with. Alpha Donald Trump or Feminist Niceguy Joseph Gordon Levitt? Uhh... could you not find an example where the parties are a little closer in terms of age and appearance? I consider myself non-feminist (anti-modern-feminist) and if I absolutely had to choose between the two I would pick the latter just because I think Donald Trump is on par with a cave troll. But then again, the blatant ignorance of this comparison almost leads me to believe that this is just a troll post, so there's that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/15 03:42 AM
2	What's worst, infidelity or divorce? I think infidelity is worse. I used to be in the "divorce is this awful, unjustifiable thing" camp. In some cases, it still can be. But increased perspective has shown me that it can be a useful tool to aid people who grew apart, or made a hasty or naive choice to get married too early and discovered that people can change rather quickly once they think they have a relationship locked down. Most of the people I knew who got a divorce for whatever reason are better for it now, either in better po…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/15 03:37 AM
4	Men other than my SO disgust me I have definitely never gone so far as to vomit because a man told me I was attractive or behaved flirtatiously. That seems a little neurotic, I'll be honest. But whenever a guy starts talking to me in public and I'm not with my husband at the time, I usually make an effort to bring him up in conversation right away. It's not too hard, and it usually tones down the flirting behaviour right quick without having to be rude.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/08/15 01:33 PM
3	Do women in their mid to late 20s look old? Why the preference for 18-20 year olds? I don't really have much to add to what everyone else is saying, but I must say that your attitude in this thread is more likely far less attractive to anyone than your age. If you're 26 and act like you're already an old maid, then nobody's going to want to be around you. Self-pity is not an attractive quality in a person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/15 05:24 PM
17	"You don't know what feminism is" I think some feminists need to be directed to the definition of equality. There are few things more aggravating than some uppity feminist claiming that I simply "don't know the definition" when I say I'm not a feminist. Like, would you kindly fuck off, as I'm an educated individual capable of distinguishing the difference between an idealized image and the current reality?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/15 06:20 PM
2	Red pill men, do you have rape fantasies? Honestly, I don't think rape fantasies are typically influenced by anything like that at all. I feel like most people who have them, have them because of the helplessness factor. Any woman I've ever heard, including myself, who expresses an interest in rape fantasies talk about being dominated. Some have even said it takes away the pressure of having to reciprocate because they can just let themselves be used by their partner. For men with rape fantasies, I suppose it can go either way. Being he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/15 04:05 PM
1	Why would a woman say she want's a nice, sweet gentlemen to go out with, when she in fact ends up with an asshole? I think, generally, it's just because I feel like very rarely are people objectively assholes. I think that, far more commonly, some people might do dickish things occasionally and be perceived by others as assholes, but overall there's a lot more going on than one or two incidents might suggest. I actually have a humorous and kind of embarrassing example of this. For the past while my husband and I have been renting half a house with his best friend and his girlfriend. Now, his best friend is o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/15 01:37 AM
1	Why would a woman say she want's a nice, sweet gentlemen to go out with, when she in fact ends up with an asshole? No, man, it's totally not my circle of friends. That's why I referred to them as HIS friends and not our friends. It's just like how they all got together and talked about how I was a bitch for leaving him. I'm sure they didn't discuss any of the things he did which led to my leaving him. Nope, it just became black and white that I'm the bad guy. But you know what? I ain't even mad. Like I said, those guys are his friends. They're meant to support him when he's feeling down in whatever way they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/15 01:28 AM
0	Why would a woman say she want's a nice, sweet gentlemen to go out with, when she in fact ends up with an asshole? Exactly, I totally agree. Like, I had an interesting situation happen while I was in high school. I was playing in an arcade (DDR, the username is appropriate), and one guy came up to me and made some confident-sounding compliments. He perhaps wasn't the best looking guy in the world, but he was pleasant and relatively interesting to talk to. We wound up dating for a few months. However, after we started dating, he basically started worshiping me. I found it really uncomfortable, because it just…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/15 11:55 PM
0	Why would a woman say she want's a nice, sweet gentlemen to go out with, when she in fact ends up with an asshole? I definitely never said all my friends think he's an asshole. I said I wouldn't be surprised if my ex and HIS friends thought he was an asshole (you know, by virtue of him coming after my ex). And all I'm really trying to say is that it's not as simple as a nice-guy/asshole dichotomy. Simplifying it down to this is not going to be productive for anyone. A "nice guy" might see the woman of his dreams with a man he perceives as an asshole, but the point is basically that just because he may think …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/15 11:36 PM
4	Why would a woman say she want's a nice, sweet gentlemen to go out with, when she in fact ends up with an asshole? This is the way I always discuss this subject whenever it comes up. Person A and B are both nice, polite, sweet and gentle. Person A has a good job, dresses well, takes care of himself, and has a good sense of humor and a confident air about him. Person B lives in a crappy apartment, has no general life skills other than working the till at a gas station, let himself go a little in the weight/health department and is a little more of an introvert. I think it's obvious what most women will be att…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/15 08:54 PM
2	Red pill men, do you have rape fantasies? Probably more a marker of being out of touch. They're only referenced on Reddit like multiple times a day with the "magnet" joke, after all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/15 08:45 PM
3	Red pill men, do you have rape fantasies? Gigolo = Male Prostitute. Juggalo = Insane clown posse fans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/15 04:33 PM
14	Red pill men, do you have rape fantasies? Pretty sure rape fantasies are far more common in women. For example, I have had fantasies of the sort since before I fully understood what sex was. It actually makes me a little sad that my husband isn't more into it. Ah well. DM;HS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/15 04:01 PM
19	Red pill men, do you have rape fantasies? Not for nothing, but why start it, then? You post this incredibly pointed question and then get angry when people respond sarcastically/react with disdain when anyone answers in a way you don't like? 'The fuck outta here with that shit. You're clearly not looking for debate. Looks more like you're looking for enemies to tear down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/15 03:53 PM
3	Facial hair. Yay or nay from rpw? Firstly, I don't prefer the "real women" comments any more than I assume you would like us appealing to anything a "real man" should do. But secondly, I personally think facial hair compliments very few men. Most I've seen with and without tend to look better without to me, with a few notable exceptions (such as Robert Downey Jr., to name one people would know).	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/14 09:34 AM
2	BEND AND SNAP: THE RED PILL WOMAN TRAP The joy of this is, I couldn't care less what these or other people say about me. Realistically, the only person's opinion that matters to me is my husband's, and he likes when he comes home to a nice cooked meal and a clean house, so there you go.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/12/14 06:36 PM
4	Men, have you ever been slut-shamed? Women, have you ever been virgin-shamed? Well, I once dated a guy under the impression that we were going to be exclusive but told him I was a virgin and didn't want to rush into any sort of physical relationship. This did not make him happy. For the first two weeks he made a whole shitload of not-so-subtle "hints" about how horny he was (classy) and then after I wouldn't give in, one of his friends told me about how he went and snogged some other girl behind my back. The whole thing was less than a month long. I wasn't at all broken u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/14 02:35 AM
1	How do you feel, personally, about partner count? I strongly prefer a number below ten in partners. I've only slept with two men (and have been with two women in the context of threesomes with my husband). I've been pretty selective with the people I'm with for the most part, and I generally appreciate someone who shares the same level of... what's the word I'm looking for? I guess holds a similar level of exclusivity with the people they choose to be with. Like, I think my husband has been with 6 or 7 women, for example. Don't get me wrong, ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/14 03:57 AM
2	"F Bombs for Feminism", or little girls dressed up as princesses encouraged to cuss. Ugh. I apologize. I'm not really fit to comment on the video as I couldn't get more than 20 seconds into it before I hastily ctrl+w'd the tab. I don't get why they think things like this will somehow make their cause MORE attractive. I haven't seen or heard something that irritated me quite that much in a long time.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/10/14 05:19 PM
1	What is a purple piller? Haha, yeah, I went to TBP once and had a good chuckle at a post mocking something from TRP. I think it was one of the topics I legitimately think is over the top. Their criticism was sarcastic and awesome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/14 02:22 PM
3	Fellow red pillers, have any blue/purple pillers convinced you to change any of your thoughts about TRP? I'll start by saying "not really", but that's only because I've always taken a moderate approach to the pills. For example, I enjoy a lot of the RPW aspects that involve working actively on oneself and one's relationship to make both the best they can be. However, I like to think I'm smart enough to look critically at what I read to weed out the particularly radical/polarizing/overly generalizing material and apply only the relevant aspects to my own life. Red Pill Men, even more so. I go on the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/14 03:50 AM
11	What is a purple piller? As far as I'm concerned, it's just someone who's not all red. I subscribe to several RPW tenets for my relationship. However, there are some that I don't follow. Since I'm not fully red, I'm at least a little purple. That's always been my way of seeing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/14 11:06 PM
3	Has any of you changed views since coming here? Heh. Yeah, in general, it's those types of behaviours I take issue with. But I do try not to be too judgmental of what other people like to do with themselves. It's just like how there are some more extreme red pill views that I also prefer not to subscribe to. Still, in general, having been raised by my conservative father, most of my views do lean more red.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/14 07:39 PM
3	Has any of you changed views since coming here? Well, there are a few things I regularly see getting referenced as "blue pill", like sleeping around a lot, or certain needlessly argumentative behaviours in relationships. Whether or not other people call them "wrongs", all I can say is that mostly, they aren't my style. There are "blue pill" lifestyles that I see as just fine for others but not necessarily preferable for me. I generally like to be a little more traditional in my own personal dealings, for example.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/14 07:26 PM
12	Has any of you changed views since coming here? Honestly, not really. But mostly because my views were already moderate. I mean, I leaned red in my behaviours, but I wasn't to the point where I felt everyone else necessarily must be that way in order to achieve happiness. And I've always accepted that there are wrongs on either side. Realistically, a change in my belief would mean to polarize one way or the other, and I haven't seen any reason to need to do that. I generally find that true of all extreme beliefs. Usually there's a nice middle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/14 06:58 PM
3	This Woman Mocks Women that Stand Against Modern Feminism I really love how the first weapon of the feminist in this discussion is to claim ignorance in any and all of the opposition. As though someone can't possibly have researched and made their own educated opinions on the subject. Nope, they must just be a bunch of stupid teenage girls clamoring for attention from boys. And they wonder why people are turning away from their shitty ideology.	/r/MensRights	27/07/14 05:49 PM
14	How Pinterest Is Killing Feminism Wait, they're not talking about anything like how men-haters and victimhood-embracers are killing feminism, they're talking about how wanting to look fit and eat healthy is killing feminism? Was the person who wrote this on crack? I mean, thank goodness they're getting blasted in the comments section, even though most of those people are just upset because "that's not what feminism means".	/r/RedPillWomen	24/07/14 04:38 PM
4	Are women capable of empathy and love? I'm sorry, but I disagree. Very, very few men would tolerate staying in a relationship with a woman who stops giving a shit, gets fat, stops giving the man sex or doing anything around the house. By no means is that unreasonable. I mean, Jesus, I left a guy once because he practically stopped showering and put on 40 pounds over the course of 2 months ("Because I have you now, I don't have to try anymore". I shit you not, he said this. We'd been together 5 months). Letting yourself go in a relati…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/07/14 07:54 PM
21	Are women capable of empathy and love? I always thought that tenet was one of the stupider aspects of TRP. Of course women don't love unconditionally--NOBODY loves unconditionally. Some folks will get left for whatever reason and then try and rationalize it to themselves by saying "Oh, it must be a woman thing, they can't love unconditionally", rather than assume that one woman in particular was a bad fit or, heaven forbid, that they did something worthy of being dumped over. If a man was dating a beautiful woman who he thinks he'll …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/07/14 07:49 AM
3	What is "Purple Pill"? For me in particular, I identify as purple because, although I agree with a great deal of what I read on RPW, there are still just a few things I don't agree with. Since I'm not fully sold on the one end, I must be somewhere in between. I still consider myself leaning red, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/14 02:34 AM
12	What religions and/or philosophies do RPW follow? A lot of stuff that gets posted in the RPW forum is Christian, but I'm pretty sure a lot of the ladies there are atheist/agnostic (including myself).	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/14 01:06 AM
0	What do you RPers think of this marriage advice? So... Let me get this straight. This guy wants a young, thin, perfectly beautiful virgin girl who doesn't drink, is eager to give up her entire sense of self for his whims, and who just so happens to have parents that didn't divorce (because she really has control over that aspect of her life). It's laughably unrealistic. I think I know maybe one person whose parents aren't divorced, and she's more career/school-oriented than anyone I know, for example. The second I see lists like this that star…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/14 06:21 PM
1	What Your Sleeping Position Says About How Much You Love Your Partner This seems awfully spurious... My husband has a very difficult time falling asleep in general and I can't sleep if I'm too hot or touching anyone. We cuddle at night when we come to bed and then separate before we go to sleep. Not to mention I usually sleep on my stomach.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/14 05:44 PM
11	Does anyone else find feminist men unattractive? Ugh. I was just saying this to my husband the other day. There's no quicker way to turn me off than to watch some guy prostrating himself in front of an audience of shrieking harpies, going off on how all men are horrible and "WE AS MEN MUST DO X TO MAKE WOMEN FEEL COMFORTABLE". Ugh. Every chance I get I jump in the conversation. I have a male feminist facebook friend and I'm always quick to tell him that I really do not need defending, except perhaps from his god-awful white knighting.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/14 07:31 PM
2	Has your mind ever been changed here on PPD? http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/291kun/how_do_you_handle_your_guys_unhealthydestructive/ Aha. I found it, and I do believe it was deleted. I don't think the thread was solely about weight issues, judging from some of the responses, but nevertheless, a lot of them seem to be about leaving him to make his own choices, which I'm not a fan of. If my husband is clearly doing something unhealthy that might shorten his life span, of course I'm going to want to help him break those bad hab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/14 06:35 AM
4	Great example of how feminists make everything unpleasant [x-post from tumblrinaction] Ugh, I know, right? I was totally raped because I let him have sex with me. The horror!	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/14 06:28 AM
2	Has your mind ever been changed here on PPD? Ugh, I've been searching for the past half hour, since I saw your response, and I can't find anything. A lot of posts like this seemed to come from Danabanana and it seems like she's deleted her account. The post that this discussion was happening in might have been deleted as well. The only other one I recall seeing was ages ago and it would take me forever to go back through all the material and find it. All I know is that I saw it and decided not to post in that thread because I didn't want t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/14 06:27 AM
9	Great example of how feminists make everything unpleasant [x-post from tumblrinaction] Oh my gosh, what a bunch of hooey. I don't understand why these gals even bother if they're so offended by every aspect. If they're so strong and independent why don't they just live their lives alone already? I mean, if everything about being with a man is so detestable... Heaven forbid my husband asks me a favour and then I go do it. Then I'm OBEYING him. Oh lawdy!	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/14 02:22 AM
9	Has your mind ever been changed here on PPD? On the contrary--PPD has affirmed my position. However, my position was always moderate. I visit RPW mostly as an anti-modern-feminist (that is, I'm for egalitarianism but not for whiny bitching about useless bullshit that doesn't actually matter) and also as someone always interested in tips to help make my husband happy. But there are plenty of aspects I super disagree with. Things like "I must at all costs stay thin and healthy for my husband but if he starts to eat unhealthily and gains a bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/14 05:33 PM
5	TRPers: No, seriously, how is "Captain and First Mate" not extremely sexist? Of course it's sexist. It's postulating that men and women ought to hold different amounts of power in the relationship for the smoothest sailing. It is, by definition, sexist. Here's the thing, though. People who follow the RP view to a T argue that men and women are fundamentally different. By this logic, because men are -typically- more dominant and women are -typically- more submissive (or at very least would generally be more willing to work only part time and stay at home the rest of the t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/14 05:35 AM
3	What does RPW have to say about #FreeTheNipple? I'm not super into it. I generally try to be reasonably modest. I'm not some 1800s woman that demands as much skin be covered as possible, but I certainly don't think it's ideal to walk around naked all the time, either. Some things, I think, should be kept relatively intimate. If I were just letting it all hang out all the time, how would that impact my relationship? I like to think that that ought to be kept reasonably exclusive. I don't feel like I'm missing out by not having every guy I pass…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/06/14 06:13 AM
2	The men who told their wives they were FAT (spoiler--they lost weight!) What I don't get is why some of these gals need their men to tell them they've gained weight. Don't they know? Aren't they paying attention? Don't they care that their man fell in love with someone 30-50 pounds lighter than them? I weigh myself at least twice daily and moderate my eating behaviour accordingly. I don't need my husband to tell me about my weight because I'm on top of it. There have been times when he offers me a snack or some wine when I'm slightly higher weight (I have a range of…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/06/14 06:15 PM
2	Red Pillers, do you view TRP as an absolute truth or a different lens through which you view the world, and how open are you to listening to other points of view? Agreed, certainly. I mostly stick to RPW, because I find a lot of the stuff in TRP to be overly bitter (though good for an entertaining read if I find myself bored). Most of the time, the stuff in that forum is pretty reasonable and I appreciate it. The stuff that I don't, though, I either explain my position or simply leave it alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/14 06:10 PM
1	Red Pillers, do you view TRP as an absolute truth or a different lens through which you view the world, and how open are you to listening to other points of view? I enjoy the aspects of red pill that involve being the best you can be to your husband and overcoming some of the more irrational aspects of femininity. I was raised primarily by my father so I already consider myself pretty chill most of the time, but arguments do happen from time to time and it's important to focus on communication and respect and not underhanded tricks to feel superior or like I've "won". My husband and I are a team. We win together, not against each other. But I don't think …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/14 05:24 PM
1	Question for RP, why not just be yourself? Well, as I mentioned, I don't agree with everything. But when others are talking about aspects I don't agree with, I generally don't bother to post about it. I save debate for the debate areas. Otherwise, I just chime in when I read something I like. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a fan of the fact that they banned you. I don't think any subreddits should ban someone for reasonable discourse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/14 12:39 AM
3	Question for RP, why not just be yourself? I can't speak for any RP men, but I've always had a strong desire to be a good wife and to do everything I can to make my husband happy, including improving household skills. When I found the RP women subreddit, it just felt like I'd found a group of women who wanted to do largely that same thing. So realistically, a lot (not all, mind you) of what I found on that subreddit pretty much already -was- "me".	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/14 11:14 PM
6	TBP and Virgin Shaming Well yeah, but the main question was referring to calling people virgins, hence my focus. Ideally, we should all just avoid name-calling altogether because it's just not a good way to relate to people. Of course, these insults are particularly annoying because calling people them doesn't change anything. I mean, if you did call a woman a slut it's not like it takes any of the previous dicks out of her sexual history. It's pretty silly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/14 10:01 PM
4	TBP and Virgin Shaming Regardless, it's still a crude means of attacking someone's character. If one absolutely must do that, they should at least pick something the intended target can improve on on their own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/14 04:49 AM
5	TBP and Virgin Shaming Frankly, I don't get what's so wrong with being a virgin. I would rather be a virgin than someone who sleeps with a new guy/girl every weekend, personally. It's a stupid insult. "Whoooa, that guy thinks sex is significant enough to wait for the right person! OHHH SNAP!!" "Whoaaaa, that guy has had bad luck with women, what a LOOOSERRR." It's just stupid. Like really, out of all things to insult a person for, you choose to insult him for something generally out of his control (that is, he can't f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/14 10:14 PM
2	Women - have you ever been a "spinning plate" and how did it feel? Ahahaha, someone tried to do this to me. Thing is, he didn't know the meaning of the word subtlety, and his friend was a good guy and told me that he was also seeing someone else at the same time that I didn't know about, so that ended inside of a week. I think we went on two dates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/14 02:26 PM
1	Why do Redpillers and Red Pill Women think they have the moral standing to refer to some women as 'sluts' or 'riding the cock carousel' when they themselves often advocate for plenty of casual sex? I'm happy to answer your questions! There are some things in RP women I've just always agreed with, like being feminine, keeping my hair long (whoo, if you saw a picture of me with short hair versus with long hair, I would expect you'd agree... I absolutely cannot pull off a short haircut!), avoiding being needlessly confrontational, or when I am confrontational avoid using underhanded tactics that some people will turn to. Then there's things I've, not necessarily -learned- from red pill women,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/14 10:11 PM
3	Why do Redpillers and Red Pill Women think they have the moral standing to refer to some women as 'sluts' or 'riding the cock carousel' when they themselves often advocate for plenty of casual sex? I don't fully subscribe to all red pill notions, and I don't disrespect other people who don't, so I'm really just trying to offer the perspective I'm getting from the whole thing. I don't really espouse all aspects of that mindset (for example, I'm not interested in a man with most of the red pill ideals. Frankly, I find a lot of stuff on the RP men page detestable, if not worth a few yuks at how impossibly bitter it can get). All I take from the red pill women page is tips on how to keep my ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/14 08:59 PM
1	Castration. Huh? Of course you should get your pet fixed. ESPECIALLY if you're letting it outside on the regular. Jesus. The last thing we need in this world are more stray animals. This really isn't a "pill issue".	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/14 07:03 PM
1	Does it make any sense to "not respect women"? I check red pill men every now and then to see the sorts of things they're saying (sometimes it has a kernel of truth to it, other times I find it patently absurd). I saw this the other day and it was definitely one for the latter category. The reasons they list for not respecting women apply to (as I understand it) a pretty small minority of women. I don't tend to respect people who believe in the listed aspects either, honestly, but I don't generalize that to people who don't. It would be like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/14 06:52 PM
14	Why do Redpillers and Red Pill Women think they have the moral standing to refer to some women as 'sluts' or 'riding the cock carousel' when they themselves often advocate for plenty of casual sex? I don't really read the red pill men side much, but from what I know of the red pill women side, they absolutely do not advocate plenty of casual sex. If men are going to want to settle down with someone, generally speaking they're going to want someone who hasn't shared herself with a bunch of other guys. Whether or not anyone thinks this is fair is, well, kinda irrelevant. The fact of the matter is, almost all of the men I've spoken to care at least a little bit about it. No amount of telling …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/14 06:24 PM
1	Hi ladies. What do you all think of this church pamphlet? I do lean towards thinking that more traditional roles are helpful, and, under ideal conditions, are even preferable. But I'm certainly not going to judge anyone who wants to deviate from that lifestyle. I mean, if two parents both need to work to support their household, then that's just fine by me. I really don't see the harm in suggesting that women be kind and show self-control, though. Ideally all people should ascribe to these values.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/05/14 07:09 PM
1	Hi ladies. What do you all think of this church pamphlet? Agnostic/gnostic is simply a qualifier. Theism or atheism is the actual belief. I know very few gnostic (claim to know for sure) atheists. Most people, including myself, are agnostic atheists. I don't believe there is a god (in the same sense I don't believe in unicorns), but I could certainly be swayed with concrete evidence.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/05/14 07:06 PM
7	Why this subreddit has its head on straight. (Meta) Really? Why in the world would you spout off that you only give your boyfriend a blowjob a few times a year as though that's something to be proud of? Even if you're not into every aspect of RPW, I can't possibly see what's the problem in wanting to make sure your husband is sexually satisfied. I don't get it.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/05/14 03:55 AM
13	Why this subreddit has its head on straight. (Meta) I love how one of the responses in this thread is about (I'm paraphrasing) "What about what HE can do for HER/ME?" Dude. My focus isn't on me. My focus is on making him happy. And when I make him happy, he in turn wants to make me happy. We both have a very mutually happy relationship. =/ I don't get what the issue is.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/05/14 03:17 AM
12	"Female experience simulator" Agreed. It's ridiculous. Hell, one time I can legitimately say I was "harassed". I was walking home from the convenience store one night and was followed by a guy in his car through the neighborhood (he actively tried to pull over a few times motioning for me to come to him) until I finally ducked down a side road and hauled ass home. I don't know what might have happened. It was the one time I was legitimately freaked out because strangers just looking for directions or something innocent aren'…	/r/MensRights	26/04/14 11:46 PM
26	"Female experience simulator" Okay. As a woman... It's fear mongering garbage. Every choice ends with being sexually harassed. This is not a reflection of the real world.	/r/MensRights	26/04/14 11:01 PM
1	Bold brows are in style I enjoyed seeing the history, but I really gotta say I think the modern ones look like a pair of caterpillars compared to some of the others. Style be darned, I think I'm gonna stick with keeping mine trim.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/04/14 05:31 PM
5	Could RPW's philosophy be aptly described by "New Feminism"? Darn it all, can we stop trying to call literally everything under the sun feminism? It's really getting old. No, I am not a feminist. Seriously. These guys can't just keep widening their umbrella and taking every concept related to women and putting it under that. I'm sick of it. (My vitriol is not loosed on the OP, just on feminism as a whole.)	/r/RedPillWomen	13/04/14 06:18 PM
1	A Man's Words for RPW I didn't participate in the other thread, but I did just go read it. I think you ought to put yourself in the shoes of others. Your "friend" made the post because she was confused about her feelings and was simply seeking advice on a situation she didn't quite understand or know what to do with. I totally understand that. I mean, I'm not the sort of person who spends a lot of time or effort on a man who's clearly not interested in something serious with me, but I can understand other people who …	/r/RedPillWomen	13/04/14 05:05 PM
1	The Myth of Female Intelligence Eh. Regardless, it's still below average.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/04/14 12:43 AM
3	The Myth of Female Intelligence I think 100 is considered the average, though anywhere from 90-110 is pretty darn close. Anything below 80 is considered "borderline" or "impaired", so I really doubt people would prefer near-mentally retarded to average.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/14 08:06 PM
0	The Myth of Female Intelligence Tomorrow? We'd be in some shit. Over time? I think women would gradually get over their obsession with taking stupid courses like women's studies and would pick up the slack to ensure survival of the human race. But maybe that's just me being optimistic. Arguing whether women are inherently useless or whether the society they live in has allowed them to behave uselessly is another thing entirely. Given that there are currently women who DO do these things already (though there aren't many, I ful…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/14 07:52 PM
14	The Myth of Female Intelligence Eh. You know, I was fine for the first while. It's a little crass, but there's no denying it's true. I've known about the different bell curves for years. My fiance, for example, is miles ahead of me both in intelligence and in life experiences. I know this, and it doesn't make me feel inadequate or anything because I'm comfortable with where I'm at and with who I'm trying to be for him and for the betterment of our eventual family. But the part that turned me off is the assumption that women ar…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/14 06:50 PM
9	The Myth of Female Intelligence Eh, this seems a little disingenuous to me. Nobody wants to date a haggard bitch/asshole. Even if a man values intelligence in a woman, if given the choice between your two women, he's going to go with the latter. Now if we compare two sweet, feminine women where one has an IQ of 85 and one has an IQ of, say, 110, then maybe we might have a question.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/14 06:30 PM
2	Opinions on women wearing sneakers? I'm definitely more utilitarian when it comes to shoes. I'll take comfort over appearance almost any time (to a reasonable extent: I'm not going to wear big manly sneakers with a dress or something silly like that). In the winter, I wear sneakers most of the time (usually wearing jeans) and in the summer, I have a few different options I stick to, like sandals and a couple of cute black heels/fancier sandals I'll wear with my dresses. I can't wear heels all the time due to bad knees, unfortunate…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/03/14 01:14 AM
7	Long-term effects of porn? I look at a lot of studies on porn with healthy skepticism; I think it's safe to believe that men "raised" on hardcore kink or fetishism porn might have difficulty getting off to vanilla sex later in life, but I seriously doubt the same problem exists in those who just like watching people have plain old regular sex on camera. I'm sure you've heard of one study they were attempting to do but could not complete it because they couldn't find a single guy that didn't watch porn. I think it's safe t…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/14 08:16 PM
5	It’s The Boner, Stupid Honestly, I would find it weird if it was!	/r/RedPillWomen	15/03/14 03:04 AM
6	It’s The Boner, Stupid Ah, I see. That's definitely not what I gathered from this, since he specifically referred to it as a "boner killer". You're right though. Frankly, a degree means little unless people can put it to good use. And I certainly don't think the ideal situation for most is to put off their younger years to pursue such a thing if they can avoid it.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/03/14 08:20 PM
1	Happy Steak and a BJ Day Ladies! I had said to him at the beginning of the week that we ought to go to the new BBQ restaurant in town he'd been wanting to visit for today. His response was that he didn't want to go on a Friday (fair enough), so we wound up going yesterday. I'm just going to try cooking a new recipe for today instead. As for the blowjob, our usual take on that is if it's not the off-week, why not just go all the way?	/r/RedPillWomen	14/03/14 06:32 PM
2	It’s The Boner, Stupid You might be right. Though I don't necessarily think that a woman furthering her education should be seen as a bad thing either. As long as: If she wants a family (children especially), it doesn't get in the way of taking care of said family, or If she doesn't want children, that she doesn't let it get in the way of her relationship, OR, If she's not interested in pursuing a relationship, she doesn't get super butthurt if she has a more difficult time finding someone to settle down with in her 3…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/03/14 06:25 PM
21	It’s The Boner, Stupid I agree with most of this, to be sure. When I started to go through the list I was just nodding my head and thinking "Yup, I sure do see a lot of these things these days". But then when I got down to "graduate degrees" I was a little bit put off. "Oh. So this is the kind of guy that just wants himself a Miss South Carolina. Well, it takes all kinds, I guess." I'm all about putting my fiance's needs first wherever I can, but I really don't see why I need to be an uneducated bimbo to do that.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/03/14 06:16 PM
3	Women, what is your reproductive strategy? I'm 25, almost 26 right now. I'm still chugging away at my bachelors in psychology (I'm taking courses by correspondence and painting suites and houses in the meantime), but I'm taking it reasonably slowly both for my sanity because these courses require a LOT of reading and for financial purposes (no student debt). Honestly, I'm INTERESTED in having kids at almost any time. Problem is, we're not in the best financial situation to start doing so yet. We're renting the basement of a house and bot…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/03/14 07:12 PM
12	I...don't believe this. I strongly suspect that's what the italics were for.	/r/MensRights	11/03/14 08:25 PM
1	50's Ads: Overthinking Things I think the responses are overly sensitive. Not to mention I think this is a really good example of the solipsism topic that regularly gets brought up. Whoever wrote this seems to have taken an obnoxious level of personal offense to these ads without even thinking about the social context in which they were made. Yes, back then men and women generally had pretty linear family "roles", and generally most people didn't have problems with it. I'd hardly be surprised if people of that time found the…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/03/14 05:38 AM
4	How come feminists see hot women as "demeaning"? (X-Post from /r/TheRedPill) From what I gather, a lot of them find it demeaning because it attracts a lot of male attention. The radfems, in particular, who want women to be the superior gender and look down on men would probably find it particularly distasteful (just like why women who side more with men on social issues are considered gender-traitors), as though said women are pandering to the enemy. On the same note, then, it's strange that a lot of them prefer to protest topless. They like to say it's to get attention …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/03/14 09:07 PM
3	RoK article: 'Society Owes Men Sex' It leaves a bit of a bad taste in my mouth. I'm happy to provide my own spouse with sex whenever he asks, but the important thing is that I chose him. I wasn't gifted to him like something from under the Christmas tree. I think I'd be a bit put off if he acted as though he deserved me simply by virtue of being male. Not all men are created equal. Let's completely put aside the morbidly obese, unambitious, does-nothing-but-sits-and-plays-WoW-all-day kind of guy and assume we have a society of men…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/03/14 03:02 AM
7	What does your man do when you are out of line, bitchy or disrespectful? Hehehe. I like the concept of teasing in some cases, like where the issue is clearly silly. My fiance doesn't do that with me but an old friend does that with his wife. My favourite was (in a massively exaggerated voice) "D'aaaaw, is somebody baking a batch of the frowniiiiies?" Makes me laugh every single time.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/14 06:59 PM
2	What does your man do when you are out of line, bitchy or disrespectful? That's what I thought too. He said he didn't hurt her, though, just picked her up when she knew she was in trouble. The only time I saw him get really mad/aggressive with her was one time where she was being uncharacteristically bitchy and took a swipe at me just for being too close. He just about tossed her out of the bedroom for that one (she hasn't been that way since; she's returned to her normal cuddly self. Don't know what caused her switch that day). Either way, yeah, any time I'm angry, …	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/14 06:50 PM
3	What does your man do when you are out of line, bitchy or disrespectful? Usually when either one of us feels the other is being out of line (it doesn't happen often), we pretty much just say when we think the other person said something out of line. The most recent example, I think, was when the cat was doing something really annoying (I believe it was that she was trying to force herself behind the blinds to sit at the window) and he grabbed her harder than I felt was necessary (she cried out in a sound that wasn't normal) so I told him I didn't think he should be s…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/14 07:15 AM
2	Finding myself in red pill femininity, but... There are plenty of things involved with Red Pill that I don't necessarily agree with 100%. That is to say, I'm similarly atheist and generally left-leaning. But I think the most important part of all is working hard to make sure my soon-to-be husband is the happiest he can be. I think if you're working towards the same then that's just fine!	/r/RedPillWomen	23/02/14 06:50 PM
2	Woman loses weight. Coworkers get nasty (h/t TRP) I don't usually like to completely discount stories most of the time, but I gotta say, I seriously doubt most of this stuff happened. I couldn't possibly imagine some random individual working in a clothing store putting their job in jeopardy by saying something like that. Most people in this economy would be far too reluctant to potentially risk losing their employment for the sake of one snarky comment. On top of that, and I don't mean to sound like I'm saying this in an offensive light or any…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/14 08:29 PM
1	Saw this on Facebook - This is the type of thing that really annoys me. If I saw this on my news feed I would tell the person that in no sense are they obligated to have a relationship and marry a man if they find it as distasteful as they're clearly portraying. What a fucking martyr. Most women with babies I know are happier to have them than their husbands are.	/r/MensRights	22/02/14 03:44 AM
1	And this is what is wrong with our generation. Yikes. So, all I got from this is that a pre-wall 20-something that doesn't have her shit together and can't find a decent guy in amongst her fucking around is trying to push this lifestyle on others so that when she inevitably reaches what will no doubt be a very cruel fourth decade of her life, she won't feel quite so badly about how she can't find a man to respect her, doesn't have anything of value (be it a career, savings, family, or whatever), and that all of her life experiences to date were, in…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/14 05:03 AM
2	On my Facebook- I just hate this garbage so much. As someone who was raised by her father when her mother decided she'd rather fuck around (literally and figuratively), I volunteer to tell that person to eat a dick.	/r/MensRights	18/02/14 04:56 AM
1	I'll need a female opinion on this: My GF of 3 years just left me because apparently I was "too alpha" for her taste That's all well and good, but you'll notice I say "Treats them like an addendum". Just because you don't need someone to be happy doesn't mean you shouldn't give them any consideration or positive attention.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/02/14 01:48 AM
1	Getting to know you- MBTI style Seeing quite a few INFJs around here! I'm one too. I really like this test because I feel it really accurately captures a person's personality. Most if not all of the INFJ traits suit me to a T. I've taken it multiple times and my traits have just gotten stronger over time. My fiance has taken it a few times. Unlike me, he's gotten different results each time he's taken it. But I think that the one we established was most accurate was ENFP. Hilariously, the type that's most likely to decry tests…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/02/14 06:10 AM
8	I'll need a female opinion on this: My GF of 3 years just left me because apparently I was "too alpha" for her taste No offense, dude, but a large chunk of what you described, if true, makes you sound incredibly selfish. Very few, if any, women want to be in a long term relationship with a man that treats them like an addendum to his life. I'm not saying you have to lay down your arms and give in to her every whim and ignore your own desires, but is it too much to ask to give her SOME consideration sometimes? The guy I was with before my fiance shared a lot of these traits and in the end it just made me feel l…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/02/14 03:43 AM
1	Watching porn in a relationship This is one thing I've never understood. I don't get why people feel insecure with regards to porn. I mean, I can understand WHY someone might possibly feel that way, but I don't get why those feelings can't just be rationalized away the second they realize that their significant other remains physically and emotionally faithful to them and them alone. My fiance and I watch porn together and separately (though I like a type of porn that makes him uncomfortable, haha) and it does nothing but help…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/14 05:54 AM
1	Super Bowl or boring Neither of us like sports. Both of us regularly bond by making fun of it together.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/14 05:41 AM
1	How many of you actually celebrate V Day? Not us! To be fair, we don't really celebrate any holidays other than halloween. We don't like the obligation. Though one time he secretly got me flowers and candy with a card that said "Happy Valentine's Day" on like, November 10th or something. That was pretty adorable.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/14 05:35 AM
2	"Kill all men" is empowering. "Kill all black men" is racist. Oh for heaven's sake. The tumblr account is "Misandry Mermaid"; what makes anyone think this is a rational individual worthy of any attention to begin with?	/r/MensRights	03/02/14 05:14 AM
3	Ladies of RPW, what would you go back and tell your 20-something self if you could? I'm only just under 6 years off 20, but there are nevertheless a few things I would say. I'd tell myself not to marry my ex. Not because I feel that he was a bad experience, necessarily, but because I feel like it would have just been easier when I inevitably drifted apart from him if we hadn't been married. Don't get me wrong, I learned a lot from him, but I really should have known better. There were so many things we clashed on. Important, life-direction things. I thought we could work them o…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/14 07:22 PM
3	Woman Dresses to Please Her Man and Her Friends are Livid Can we just put all of the man-hating feminists on an island somewhere where they can hate men amongst themselves and get off our backs about wanting to be good wives and girlfriends? I feel like that would be easier. Anybody who would compliment her for looking great while under the impression she did it for herself and yet would insult her upon hearing she did it to look good for someone else is a raging hypocrite in my opinion. Good for her for working hard to please who she feels is most imp…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/01/14 08:34 PM
1	Why do women lie/give bad advice about dating? It was more supposed to be "you can't generalize dating advice". I could give you "advice" to get confidence, status, and physical fitness (or even more basic, obvious shit such as maintaining a basic level of hygiene), and you could still fail at getting a date and then assume that it's shit advice. For example, someone with confidence could go up to someone that is shy/doesn't like to be approached and be turned down flat. And I've also seen plenty of "physically fit" guys that are also butt-u…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/01/14 08:39 PM
9	Why do women lie/give bad advice about dating? I've been trying to figure out how to word this eloquently, but the best way I can say it is this: Here are three women. Jessica: Likes bad boys who don't care about being polite, works in a motorbike shop, is sporty, swears like a sailor, is tough to approach. Marie: Works in a flower shop, paints in her spare time, acts in some community plays, is outgoing and friendly and open to conversation. Anne: Is slightly religious, volunteers with animals, likes reading, doesn't like to be approached b…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/01/14 06:39 AM
5	22 Things Only Single Women Understand So, to make sure we're being clear here, let me reiterate: "Eeeeehhhh I have so many prooooblems eeeeehhh if only I had a man around to help me with them meeeeehhh. :( ... BUT I AM A STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMYN AND I LIKE BEING ALONE. Ehhh So lonely... What's that, friends in happy relationships? Am I jealous of you? Nah. ...Eeehhh... :(" That's about what I heard.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/01/14 04:23 AM
12	Bend and Snap: The Red Pill Woman Trap - apparently we're seen as the latest, coolest thing since feminism! I choose to look at it this way... All over the place you see people complaining about their relationships for various reasons. Just everywhere, all the time. We are people that want to try and avoid these pitfalls and make our significant others happy. If that makes someone else bitter or resentful, that is entirely their problem, for I have a happy and loving relationship that I STRONGLY suspect they are lacking. And even if being red pill were a "fad", I fail to see how the "fad" of wanting t…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/01/14 05:51 AM
2	Christianity and the Red Pill I paint. Mostly suites but we do houses and businesses, too. *I guess I should also mention I'm in school for psychology. 4th year of my bachelors, going straight into my masters afterward.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/01/14 10:24 PM
4	Christianity and the Red Pill I'm definitely not religious, nor is my fiance. I wouldn't even call myself conservative by most standards. But I am definitely anti-feminist and would argue that the race for total equality is a futile (and potentially harmful) one. I joined here because at my core, I feel happiest when my soon-to-be husband is happiest. I want to be the best wife to him in any way I can, and I appreciate a great many of the insights here. For example, I've always believed that sex should not be handed out like…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/01/14 06:53 PM
7	Love Me for Me Some people just seem to have gotten this warped idea that the way they are is automatically something worthy of preserving and that somehow any improvement is a deviation from themselves and is therefore bad. To heck with trying to better myself. I was born unique and perfect and anyone who doesn't love me, faults and all, is UNWORTHY of my greatness, right?	/r/RedPillWomen	08/01/14 08:51 PM
12	23 Things to Do Instead of Getting Engaged Before You're 23 I'm more irritated that she advocates sleeping around with more than one guy and waiting to see how long it takes for them to realize they're being screwed in more ways than one. Disgusting behaviour. I can understand people not wanting to marry too soon, but trying to claim marriage is inferior to such lofty goals as eating a tub of nutella in one sitting is pretty sad, I gotta say.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/01/14 09:04 AM
3	Let's Ban Weddings I was wondering that myself. People like to comment all the time about how people who plan a wedding are focused on planning a party instead of a life together. Now, don't get me wrong, some of them may very well be. But most of them don't plan the ceremony just for the party alone. Most of them don't expect their relationships to end. Some of them are more prepared than others, and others are perhaps more optimistic than they ought to be, but what does it matter? If they want to spend the money…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/12/13 05:26 AM
2	"What a girl does while she's single (and she was) is not an indication of what she does while in a relationship." Is this utter bullshit? I think that it's very possible for people to change. A person can certainly decide that she doesn't want to be the town bicycle and settle down with one individual and lead at least a reasonably happy life (we can discuss the likelihood of this actually happening until we're blue in the face but I think we can all at least agree that it's possible). However, like the OP said, it is not possible for a person's history to change. And a woman who decides to sleep with 50 guys by the time she's 25 …	/r/RedPillWomen	27/11/13 04:16 AM
4	LURKERS! Im calling you out... Been lurking here for a while. I'm engaged to be married, currently. I've been married once before and left for a lot of complicated reasons I won't get into just now (I've talked a bit about it in my post history). I'm not sure if having been divorced once excludes me from being a RPW, but nevertheless I've only physically been with two people, my ex-husband and my fiance. If nothing else, I greatly support the idea that you shouldn't be just giving yourself away sexually in that sense. I'm in …	/r/RedPillWomen	27/11/13 03:59 AM
46	What made you realize that Mens Rights was a legitimate issue? I think, probably because of my upbringing, I've always empathized more with men and men's issues than women. My mother and father split up when I was three or so, and my Dad took custody of me because my mom was too busy sleeping around and doing drugs to be bothered with either of us. My dad didn't demand child support or anything, he just did his best to raise me alone. At least, until he married a woman who turned out to be the picture of the stereotypical abusive stepmother after they were …	/r/MensRights	02/11/13 10:22 PM
3	You know how the leftoids love to say that privilege is invisible to those who have it? Have you ever seen one of those dichotomies that puts some dirty punk teenager next to, say, Marilyn Monroe and asks "Women: what happened?" That's kind of what these images are doing: making a false dichotomy comparison. You can compare girls doing menial bullshit to men fighting in the army, or you can also make the same comparisons between teenage boys doing the same sorts of stuff and women doing, say, I dunno, brain surgery or something and you'll have the same bad comparison. Not to mentio…	/r/MensRights	23/10/13 06:27 PM
2	What are some ways that feminism backfires on women? Quoted from my "Psychology of Criminal Behaviour" text, in the chapter on female crime: "Hunnicutt and Broidy (2004) assert that changing gender roles initially brought on by the women's liberation movement have unintentionally increased the "economic marginal roles" of women by pushing them farther into the economic margins of society. Specifically, the women's movement has perpetuated the belief that women are better off financially, a situation that has caused society to overlook evidence to …	/r/MensRights	28/09/13 05:27 AM
40	Feminists block doors to Men's Rights lecture And this is why I look at anyone who tries to claim that feminism still fights for "equality" with disbelief.	/r/MensRights	05/09/13 04:12 PM
0	I wanted to contribute something: My divorce and how I didn't screw over my ex husband. I really do think you're being oversensitive and reading too much into it on that end. If I'd told you he sucked in bed, you'd have every right. But the reason the second sentence existed was not to bring attention to its weirdness but to the fact that he ignored my requests to not do them. That's what mattered. Of all the people who have come to talk here on this matter, you're not the first to come here to accuse me of doing it for attention, but to imply that I would degrade men for being men…	/r/MensRights	05/09/13 03:41 PM
0	I wanted to contribute something: My divorce and how I didn't screw over my ex husband. Other people have made this comment in a more concise manner. I'll direct you to the responses I made to them as I don't feel like typing it out again. But the gist of it is, I don't want a pat on the back. I want it known that I don't support a system that, as you so eloquently put it, allows people to "kick their dog" so easily. And just as an aside, I don't see how "we didn't work together physically as I didn't like some of his preferences" might be seen as taking a swipe at his sexuality, b…	/r/MensRights	04/09/13 06:15 AM
14	This poster is up in my dorm at UMD. This is kind of ridiculous... GOD DAMN IT. Now we need a notary for the notary! WHEN DOES IT END?	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 11:23 PM
19	This poster is up in my dorm at UMD. This is kind of ridiculous... The Hooga Booga made me laugh. Nice touch. But the sad thing is, that's basically what a bunch of them seem to think: that, as men, you're just a bunch of Neanderthals that want sex regardless of cost. At this rate I wouldn't even be surprised if they start demanding contracts. Then after that they'll demand that it be notarized.	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 10:21 PM
13	I showed my GF this subreddit and she just laughed. Especially at the idea of men being raped by women... That makes me really sad to hear. Does she identify as a feminist? If so, you should ask her, if she's really for "equality", why she scoffs at the idea of men having a place to discuss inequalities and injustices against them. If the words "patriarchy" or "privilege" enter anywhere into her rebuttal, it might not be worth your time, I'm afraid. Any woman who doesn't also want equal rights for someone she's supposed to care about is definitely not someone to stay with. As for the rape comment, t…	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 10:03 PM
62	This poster is up in my dorm at UMD. This is kind of ridiculous... Fuck me BUT MAKE SURE YOU GET CONSENT LOL All kidding aside, though, it really is super insulting to men. As if the average man doesn't understand what consent means or what rape entails. No, no, we'll fix all our problems as long as those stupid men learn that rape is bad. It's a totally bullshit implication. Men are not criminals. Criminals are criminals. And criminals are not going to be dissuaded from rape (or whatever their crime of choice may be) by a poster telling them "NO, BAD CRIMINAL.…	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 09:50 PM
2	I wanted to contribute something: My divorce and how I didn't screw over my ex husband. Well, in the end that's what we did. We divided our stuff without any legal stuff involved except for to stamp the divorce papers. But still, I can definitely get behind the point you're getting at. In the end, I tried to compromise but people really should feel like they should be able to take what they've earned and are entitled to. Problem is I guess that runs the risk of some women feeling entitled to more than they actually are, so there you have it.	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 07:32 PM
1	I wanted to contribute something: My divorce and how I didn't screw over my ex husband. If you want to know the actual inspiration for the post it was because someone posted about how everything in this forum is always so negative. It got me thinking. I've not been subscribed for very long but I wanted to contribute something that might seem positive. I also wanted to discuss how much I dislike that women get free rein to screw men over in divorce court and that if the only thing that I as an individual can do to help is to not be a part of a system like that, then that's what I'll…	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 06:51 PM
2	I wanted to contribute something: My divorce and how I didn't screw over my ex husband. Well, whether or not he was a big spender in the relationship he did earn more than me and therefore contribute a lot. I do think it wound up being fair that he got what he did. Having thought about it I really don't feel like I came off too badly.	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 06:48 PM
2	I wanted to contribute something: My divorce and how I didn't screw over my ex husband. I really don't even like the term privilege either way. It implies that all men or all women have certain powers in certain domains. Certainly a lot of men hold high positions but there are also a lot of men on the streets. Certainly a lot of women have the power to screw men over but some don't. Maybe I'm just bitter because the typical feminist response to men is "check your privilege" rather than hold an actual conversation with you. Pisses me off.	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 06:46 PM
1	I wanted to contribute something: My divorce and how I didn't screw over my ex husband. Well, I did save it, yes, but like I said he did contribute a LOT over the course of our relationship and was earning a fair bit more than me. Since we were together for a few years I felt it was only fair, all things considered.	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 06:43 PM
2	I wanted to contribute something: My divorce and how I didn't screw over my ex husband. No kids. I definitely didn't ask for any alimony either. I was more than capable of earning my own money before we were together and nothing changed when we divorced. I do want a family, but I wasn't ready when I was with him. Still in university, still trying to better myself.	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 06:41 PM
3	I wanted to contribute something: My divorce and how I didn't screw over my ex husband. Thank you for taking the time to write this response. I'm glad to have the chance to clear up a few things. First, let me assure you I didn't really write this with the intention of necessarily getting pat on the back, per se. I wanted to start up a discussion on how this ought to be an outcome that happens more often. Second, any gifts I did try to give back to my ex was done with the intent of trying to show that just because I was leaving, it didn't mean I was going to turn into a gold-digger…	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 01:44 PM
7	I wanted to contribute something: My divorce and how I didn't screw over my ex husband. Thank you! I've found a really wonderful guy, definitely. I only hope I can make him as happy as he makes me.	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 06:29 AM
5	I wanted to contribute something: My divorce and how I didn't screw over my ex husband. I agree. In most of the cases I've seen where two people are in a relationship and either of them could be called "the bad one", it's almost always been the woman. I don't enjoy that it's those people that get to have the power. If the only thing I can do to help is to not take advantage of a system like that, then that's what I'll do, but I really would enjoy being able to do more. Trouble is where to start being just one individual...	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 05:51 AM
7	I wanted to contribute something: My divorce and how I didn't screw over my ex husband. I hate the sexism, too. The trouble is finding a way to overcome it, especially in a society that seems to be rapidly embracing feminism. I don't blame people for being fearful of a system like that. Not whatsoever.	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 05:48 AM
4	I wanted to contribute something: My divorce and how I didn't screw over my ex husband. Bahahaha, never really thought about it that way. I guess I felt like he was already losing out on a fair bit (he didn't want to end the relationship but also put zero effort into trying to fix it until it was well past too late) so it wound up working out relatively "even" in a sense.	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 04:04 AM
12	I wanted to contribute something: My divorce and how I didn't screw over my ex husband. Will do. I was the first of my friends to be married. The guy I'm with now, he's been divorced once as well. His ex-wife definitely didn't let him off the hook easy, unfortunately. Fortunately, all of my friends treat men well. Those who didn't have been cut out of my life, for sure. I graduated with someone who tricked a man into fatherhood. Needless to say, not friends with that person any longer.	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 04:03 AM
2	Hello r/mensrights I have perused media from both Men's rights and Feminism. I've noticed a trend amongst both. Men's rights, though it has its bitter individuals who have already suffered (I can tell, as this type of bitterness only tends to be borne out of experience) injustices or rejections from women, is largely already an egalitarian group--it welcomes newcomers of all genders and offers mostly respectful debates about gender issues and areas where men still face inequalities in the system. Naturally, the fo…	/r/MensRights	03/09/13 02:53 AM
3	Anti-lads' mags and anti-people This is one aspect that just really pisses me off about feminism. They try to claim they're all for equality/that they want more female privilege/whatever bullshit hypocritical flavour of the month, but then the SECOND you get women deciding that WHAT THEY WANT to do with their life/time is to take sexy naked pictures or make porn or whatever, you get a shitload of feminists jumping down MEN's throat because for some reason it is solely their fault that these poor helpless women felt compelled t…	/r/MensRights	28/08/13 08:38 PM
1	LadyMRA, no posts for 26 days I didn't even know such things existed. That seems weird to me. I came here in protest of feminism (you guys are far more egalitarian than they are (with a few obvious exceptions)) so why in the world would I need a segregated subreddit for something like that? Almost seems to defeat the purpose.	/r/MensRights	28/08/13 08:01 PM
1	Ontario sisters to pay $125K in defamation damages for alleging sexual abuse “This decision gives added weight to the concern that (our clients) may face a defamation suit . . . It’s going to have a chilling effect.” Or, y'know, you could just not make false rape charges. That could work.	/r/MensRights	28/08/13 03:57 AM
2	Feminists and Moving the Goal Posts Oh it's common all right. Heck, even in a comment thread in here I just had yesterday, I had someone telling me that men's victimization was a small problem and when I said that suffering should be paid attention to regardless of gender they called it a hateful statement. You absolutely can't win with these people unless you're talking about women's "suffering". They couldn't give less of a shit about anything that happens to men because men are supposed to be the "privileged group" and any suff…	/r/MensRights	27/08/13 04:54 PM
6	Where the hell did that come from? Do you know what a circular argument is? Do you think that helping men's suffering is mutually exclusive from helping women's suffering? Do you think it is hateful to want to prevent suffering regardless of what gender is suffering? Don't let the door hit you on the way out!	/r/MensRights	26/08/13 07:47 PM
8	Where the hell did that come from? If the only thing I've done is to comment on reddit, then at least I can say that my comment on reddit was against someone downplaying the problem of men being victimized. And I fail to see how my refusing to see men being victimized as a "small problem" is holding back women from doing anything.	/r/MensRights	26/08/13 07:30 PM
11	Where the hell did that come from? Not for nothing, but it isn't a small problem to the people who go through it. I've never been a rape victim myself, but I would never downplay male victimization compared to female victimization just because "it happens less". That's not an excuse to ignore what they go through altogether. Why does it have to be one or the other with you guys? Why can't we just accept the fact that both genders can be victimized?	/r/MensRights	26/08/13 06:42 PM
6	Where the hell did that come from? Such is the way of a lot of feminists: block out any views that may dissent with their own, prevent any reasonable discourse to sort out said views, and disassociate with anyone who might dare attempt such discourse. People like this don't give a shit that men might be suffering. All they care about is themselves and the fact that the suffering of any woman is obviously ten times that of any of you privileged men. Why else would they downplay male circumcision when compared to female circumcisio…	/r/MensRights	26/08/13 06:37 PM
9	Feminist attacks the idea of sexbots I think that most of them are just incredibly, incredibly bitter, either through their personal experiences with men or through the parroting of the feminist doctrine that "all men are privileged patriarchy monsters that want nothing more than to rape you!!1 RARRRGH!!!" So, quite naturally, when they see something like this, they take it in the worst possible way and assume that you evil menz are just inventing this with the purpose of making women obsolete. You know, because you're all such mis…	/r/MensRights	26/08/13 06:17 PM
3	Can we talk about 50:50 custody of children? Yup. My roommate has joint custody with his ex-fiancée. They alternate weeks and bring their son to day-care each afternoon. It is absolute hell on their finances, though, no question of that. Edit: I forgot to mention something else I noticed in this thread just now. Despite having joint custody, my roommate does pay child support. That part I think is total bullshit and shouldn't be a thing at all.	/r/MensRights	26/08/13 05:59 PM
1	When people ask why you're not a feminist, or why you're against feminism, how do you respond? Thank you for that. Frankly, I'm even more pleased to learn that because it further emphasizes the point that feminism is a nuisance of a cause more than anything. I've never taken a feminist course in school on principle, but that didn't mean I didn't encounter it in some of the texts. It figures that we're only presented the positive side of things and not any of the stuff like what you told me. I shit you not, in one textbook it was like switching to a completely different book in the chapter…	/r/MensRights	25/08/13 10:14 PM
0	When people ask why you're not a feminist, or why you're against feminism, how do you respond? I like this a lot. I'll definitely have to use that. Really, I've just been hearing it a lot lately... "That's not what feminism means" or similar sentiments. Frankly, if a group is not dictated by its actions, then what is it dictated by? It's become quite clear that feminism is no longer about what it once was. Women, for all intents and purposes, have achieved meaningful equality in western society. The people who are still complaining are lobbying for bullshit pissing contests, really. I've …	/r/MensRights	25/08/13 07:27 PM
5	When people ask why you're not a feminist, or why you're against feminism, how do you respond? I think so too. In one of my courses in university, the topic of different family strategies came up, with complementary being that the women would stay home and care for the children and the man would work as opposed to both parents working. Getting into the details about it and discussing how the former (in the case that the working partner makes enough money) tends to work more effectively just made me think that maybe the "equality" that some of these feminists are striving for might not be …	/r/MensRights	25/08/13 06:35 AM
13	When people ask why you're not a feminist, or why you're against feminism, how do you respond? I've never really been asked this question before. I could give a lot of reasons, but I think the most relevant one is that I don't appreciate a doctrine telling me that I'm somehow less equal than men and that I should be fighting to rectify it. Pushing aside the debate whether men and women can be or even should be completely 100% equal to begin with, I've never felt lesser than men in my life. I've always been treated very well by my fiancé and all of my male friends and I do the same to them…	/r/MensRights	25/08/13 01:48 AM