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Wow, didn't watched the whole video, just the 3:40 you said. Totally different guy than he was before that scandal. But I don't blame him, he was really over the top (in a bad way) in his video that went viral and the repercussion was also over the top (again, in a bad way). I kinda understand he's more like soft now.
/r/seduction22/05/15 01:22 AM
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For me is the hand, if you can take her hand, interlocking fingers and all that, then you can kiss her. Never failed once for me. Hand in hand implies a lot of intimacy. For instance, if you see a guy and a girl walking around with arms over each other shoulder, there is a big chance they're only friends, but if you see a guy and a girl walking hand in hand, they're a couple for sure.
/r/seduction19/01/15 10:12 AM
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Yeah I may be overthinking it. It happens just when I'm home chillin with a girl, like "doing nothing", and not for so long. I think it bothers me a little too much because I usually get pissed off when I'm with my close friends and they don't put their phones down. But that's not the case when I'm with a girl.
/r/seduction22/09/14 02:14 PM
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Oh I'm not saying about girls doing this on a date, which I should say something along those lines you wrote. But I'm talking about girls doing this when we're just chillin at home or things like that. I may be overthinking it. Last time I was in this situation, the girl friends were messaging her a lot complaining that she wasn't even answering. And I had my fair share of phone time too. I try to avoid phones when I'm with friends or girls but not everyone seems to do the same and I think it ea…
/r/seduction22/09/14 03:26 AM
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Always good to remember that! A great quote by Ferris Bueller that can relate: "Cameron has never been in love - at least, nobody's ever been in love with him. If things don't change for him, he's gonna marry the first girl he lays, and she's gonna treat him like shit, because she will have given him what he has built up in his mind as the end-all, be-all of human existence. She won't respect him, 'cause you can't respect somebody who kisses your ass. It just doesn't work."
/r/seduction10/05/14 01:03 AM
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I did a post called "How to have an awesome night out" some time ago and I think people liked it. Take a look, it may help: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1i7asd/how_to_have_an_awesome_night_out/
/r/seduction05/02/14 04:58 PM
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It's all about the moment and the subcommunication. A lot of my friends (guys and girls) say it's sick the way that I approach some girls (for instance, calling them like I was calling a dog). They also say that, if it were with them, they would reject me right away. Funny thing though, I've already pick-up almost all of my female friends. People tend to be really fun and playful in environments like parties.
/r/seduction28/09/13 12:38 PM
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I think you need to chill out dude. You're too worried about things that are not so important and doesn't make difference like the words that are being used. It's just two people having fun in a club. Doesn't need to take it so serious.
/r/seduction28/09/13 01:17 AM
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Oh, this was beautiful, thanks! Someone that got the idea.
/r/seduction27/09/13 11:07 PM
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Do you really think I mean it when I say to a girl that I don't know that I'm going to marry her? Do you really think that the girl take this statement so serious that it makes me a liar because acctually I don't have the intention to marry her? I've already said this to friends of mine and we're still very good friends. The whole point in this is not to make the girl think I really have this intention, but to make her know, in a fun and surprising way, that I want her. Like I've said, it's not …
/r/seduction27/09/13 10:49 PM
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The "marrying" part is just being fun. Going to a girl in a party/club and saying something like "I thought you were good looking and I would like to know you better." usually doesn't work (at least for me) because it isn't fun, it's just too normal, and she problably have listened to this lots of times before. What I've learned about cold approach is that the best way to engage a girl is to shock her in a certain way. You can shock her being obnoxious/asshole or you can shock her by being super…
/r/seduction27/09/13 10:31 PM
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That's problably all inspiration you're going to find, guys saying what works and some flashes of them picking up girls. And you never gonna find a video of some guy running a perfect game on a girl and having a perfect pick-up like theory says. Like Julien himself says, there is no perfect pick-up, everything can happen and you have to learn to improvise and "predict" what is going to happen. This knowledge you will only get with practice. And I'll leave this here for you...
/r/seduction24/08/13 10:29 PM
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It seems like you're just too afraid to do it yourself. What would change if you see this guy picking up chicks with his techniques? I think that infield videos are great but don't get so attached to having to see the results before believing in something about seduction/attraction. After all, all that Julien said in the video are things we already know works. And even if you watch a video with some guy picking up some girl with his style of game, it doesn't mean it would work for you, you will …
/r/seduction24/08/13 10:04 PM
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Well, so watch it: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlWrFgIR6CU
/r/seduction24/08/13 07:35 PM
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If you don't know if what she is doing is friendly playfulness or sexual flirtiness, assume it's the second. Remember: Always assume attraction. You're problably confused because you're letting the girl set the frame of the interaction. YOU have to set the frame. Don't wait or wonder if she is being friendly or flirting. If you want to just be friends, act friendly. If you want to flirt, start flirting and see how she reacts.
/r/seduction14/08/13 04:26 PM
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You have to do the claw with 100% belief that it will work. If you do it like a chode, people will treat you like a chode. Do it with 100% belief and act with purpose. I use it when girls are passing by me or sometimes when I approach from her side like you said. Grab her and open, ask her name, wathever. If she says something about not touching her just ignore and continue to game like nothing happened. But of course, if the girl seems too ofended by this or if some of her guy friends didn't li…
/r/seduction14/07/13 06:29 PM
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Sim!
/r/seduction13/07/13 02:49 PM
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Can you quote where the text says this?
/r/seduction13/07/13 02:48 PM
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Thanks for the correction! I know it sucks to read bad grammar and I'm trying to improve my writing, so I think it's great when someone gently point the mistakes.
/r/seduction13/07/13 02:45 PM
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It was too long. I even tried to host the text online somewhere but didn't find any good site to do it. :(
/r/seduction13/07/13 02:39 PM
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Closing Time to kiss. In every approach you have to make the interaction be man to a woman. It's not about being friends. It's about you're being a man and her being a woman. That's why you have to touch her, take her hand, get closer. The kino escalation is something like this: Touching her when approaching: spin-handshake, grab her arm, just a touch in her shoulder wathever... Touching her when talking: pull her closer so I can listen to her better, hand in her back (something like this http:/…
/r/seduction13/07/13 04:45 AM
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ACTION Approach. Approach. Approach. You will get better at every approach, you can see your progress at the same night. When you approach, talk to new girls and new people, it helps your momentum and your game gets better. I walk out of every set more awesome that I was before. Dance, have a good time, laugh, do some crazy stuff. Do what you think will be fun for you to do. It's your journey! You want the girl, you don't need her, you are enough. When approaching a girl, you're giving her the o…
/r/seduction13/07/13 04:45 AM
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I just saw a video saying that his pranks are fake. I don't know about that, maybe they are. But the thing is, he is an attractive guy, if he went to the streets approaching a lot of girls like that, I'm preety sure he would score some make-outs. Women (at least some of them) are not too difficult like some people think. Maybe he fake his pranks because it's difficult to get people to accept to be in the videos after the prank is done. I've watched some of his recent videos and now he has to ask…
/r/seduction04/07/13 08:54 PM
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Sorry, english is not my native language and I never understood the difference between "a" and "an".
/r/seduction26/06/13 06:20 PM
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I can relate to this. I'm not so beautiful that I intimidate women with my looks, but I'm at least good looking and my life with girls have improved very very much after I started watching and reading stuff about pick-up, a lot of these stuff coming from good looking guys.
/r/seduction20/06/13 03:06 PM
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Yes, I've seen that movie. No, I don't think it's a good idea. Acctually everytime I watch that movie it gets worse. I liked it a lot the first couple of times, but then I just started to see how things are forced and unnatural there. What would you ask her anyway? About the personal issues like in the movie? I don't think so, and what is the right answer for the questions you gonna ask? I would not recommend. There is a lot of better games to play with her.
/r/seduction01/05/13 04:05 AM
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Ok, this kind of question is weird for me because I never really thought about this, but I will try to help you. I think this is the same of thinking "I'm on state? I'm in a good mood?" when trying to get on state. If you're trying or wondering, is because you're not in state. So, if you are thinking about what you're thinking when you're talking, it's not a good sign, but relax, you can fix it. First thing, relax! Really, just let go. To be successfull with girls you gotta be outcome independen…
/r/seduction24/04/13 02:56 AM
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In a couple of days I will post right here on seddit. This that I posted here is just some intro of the article, where I talk about Opening, attracting, closing and even some mini field-reports.
/r/seduction21/04/13 01:22 PM
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Search for real social dynamics infield. I think that these that I posted are the best ones because they show a lot of interactions and are really good to put me in state. But I also like this one: RSD Alexander Infield Video 2010 - The Best Parties And Moments
/r/seduction21/04/13 01:13 PM
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Sorry about my grammar, english it's not my native language. Can you tell me what were the mistakes? I am writing a very long article about this and it will sure have some grammar issues, so I need to improve.
/r/seduction21/04/13 05:04 AM
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I think I started studing seduction a year ago, but only this year I decided to go deep in this and really practice it. I took sometime to get to the level I am, but I'm still not satisfied. I have some sticking points, for instance, I still have to drink at least a little to get in state (this sucks) and I think my game is a bit worse when I really like the girl that I'm gaming. So, we're always learning, sometimes it's hard, sometimes I thought the game wasn't for me. I've got a lot of rejecti…
/r/seduction20/04/13 04:35 AM
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Yes, you shouldn't feel bad for not being on that level, every step and improvement in the game is great! (: I started practicing more this year. I go out to clubs at least one time per week and I'm already on a level that is not unusual for me make-out with 3~5 girls in one night, and the club that I most go to it's small and have a capacity for only 280 people, so I think it's a good number for such a limited field. If you really practice your game, you get better and your mindset changes a lo…
/r/seduction20/04/13 03:45 AM
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I can't believe I forgot smile. Thanks for remembering!
/r/seduction20/04/13 03:33 AM
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My method on how to have great night out: Know that the night will be good. Don't create a lot of expectations, just know the fact that a night out won't affect your life for worse. So you just have to win when going out. Watch videos like this and this a couple of hours before going. Talk with everyone you can. Don't be affraid of anyone. If you go talk with someone being friendly and they be rude with you, it's not a big deal, they're not the kind of person you want in your life anyway. I am w…
/r/seduction19/04/13 06:31 PM
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Haha, some guys in the RSD are fucking good looking for sure and this can make us doubt of what they have to say. But I've already watched lots and lots of videos of these guys and they have really great stuff to teach for sure. And for the records, I am a good looking guy and can confirm to you that if I wasn't improving my game and the way I deal with girls I would problably still be in the same place I was 3 years ago: A good looking guy that get no girls and that felt in love with his first …
/r/seduction18/04/13 05:06 AM
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I think your question is: "How do I pick up girls?" And to know the answer to that question, just read seddit(go to the top posts, they are great), watch some videos, read some books and stuff like that. And the most important, approach approach approach! Get the reference points, the best knowledge that you can get in the game is the things that you learn infield. There are a lot of girls that doesn't want anything serious too, maybe you're not setting the right frame when meeting them. And by …
/r/seduction17/04/13 04:58 PM
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I think the majority of the Real Social Dynamics videos are focused on Inner game. I recommend you to see these just to start: Real Social Dynamics' Brad Branson | Becoming the Gorilla Real Social Dynamics Julien Manifesto -- How To Pick Up Girls From Open To Close Natural Instinct Method Manifesto, Guide to Picking Up Girls From Cold Approach There are a lot more and some even more focused in Inner game that you can find if you look for, but I really like these. Another great video is the David…
/r/seduction17/04/13 04:50 PM
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This is based on the experiences that I've had in the game. I don't know if that is right or not, but for me, if I kiss the girl on the mouth in the first interaction with her, it's very likely that we won't have anything serious. All the girlfriends that I've had took sometime for the first kiss, and that's why I think we started dating, because we had enough confort when the kiss happened, we already liked each other for who we were, and not just for making-out or sex. But, like I said, I don'…
/r/seduction16/04/13 09:06 PM
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I have a high success rate k-closing too. (#-closing too if I really want, but most of the times I don't) And I just don't get to the next steps because I don't want to. But some of these girls really likes me, even when I don't want anything with them. So I will give you some tips based in my interactions that made the girls like me and want the next steps: Make a connection: If you just attract the girl, is very likely that she will kiss you, speccially if you are in a club or places like club…
/r/seduction16/04/13 07:15 PM
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Still good enough for me. The girl is polite and smiled for me. Better go talk with her. Politeness is one of the most importants personal traits that I look for when meeting new girls. (:
/r/seduction15/04/13 09:13 PM
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If the girl smiles for you, she is very interested, so you don't have to worry. Just go there and say whatever comes to your mind. Even the simple "Hey, who are you?"/"Hey, what's your name?" can work in situation like that. Come on, she already smiled for you! Or you can go and say: "You can't look at me like that and don't say anything." If you want something more "seductive".
/r/seduction15/04/13 03:14 PM
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The best thing to do in situations like this is to let it go. Really, it's not of a big deal, I'm sure there are many other girls wanting to have a good time that will be very polite and fun with you. Just say "Ok, have a great night."(*) and go to another set. And about how to tell if a girl is really not interested when saying this, I like to think this way: If she is smiling, I can stay. I already had girls in my arms saying "Go away! No!" and laughing a lot, having a good time! So all I had …
/r/seduction27/03/13 03:30 AM
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Nice!
/r/seduction25/03/13 04:35 PM
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So you're thinking of giving a rose in your first date? Please, don't.
/r/seduction31/12/12 02:17 AM
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You escalate. Take step by step in the right speed. If you go too fast, will be creepy, and if you take too long to make the move, it will be creepy too. So, always assume attraction and make your moves, if she seems to like it, you go to the next step, if she seems unconfortable, you release and escalate again. You need to read some material to know better the phases, but is something like this: Meet her, she is attracted to you, kino all the time Hand-holding, arm in arm, hugs (try to do all o…
/r/seduction31/12/12 02:14 AM
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I think the best way in the begining is just playing and having fun. I try to touch a lot every girl I know, touchs like tickles, saying "I wanna fight with you", and then grab her by her neck (not hurting! it's almost a hug), things like that. It's incredible how these playful touchs create confort between you two and let things easier when you want to escalate for the kiss. Remember to take step by step. After playing/teasing/touching the girl like I said, look for IOI's and move to the next s…
/r/seduction30/12/12 03:56 AM
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Am I just thinking of excuses? Yes. Should I just say screw it, text her and see if I have a good time? Yes. Just something like "Hey HB8, this is JakeTheLog. Where should I pick you up for the birthday dinner tonight?" Yes, something like that. I would try asking her if the birthday dinner is still on. I would definitely go to this birthday dinner, it's a new opportunity to make new friends and have fun. Don't focus to much in just get the girl get the girl get the girl. You can hang out with h…
/r/seduction29/12/12 06:44 PM
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It is VERY good! Really, when I found the video, I was thinking to watch just a couple of minutes to see how it was, it turns out that I watched more than one hour. It's the best video about body language that I've seen.
/r/seduction27/12/12 01:39 PM
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Do you study? Or have a job? If you study or have a job, you have situations where you are able to meet people almost everyday, the first step is to start being friends with those people.
/r/seduction16/12/12 06:02 AM
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So you need to practice. Go out man, meet some friends, make new ones. It will be hard to go out your confort zone in the begining, but after some times, it will be really fun and you'll be more expert. Trust me on that.
/r/seduction16/12/12 05:25 AM
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Try to focus the conversation on the other person or on you both. And always kino! Touch everytime you can, touching the person will create a fast feeling of confort with each other. Make jokes! I'm not saying for you to tell jokes, just to play with her, tease her, say something about her clothes, make fun of her in a way that she knows that you are just playing. Read some mistery routines and things like this.
/r/seduction16/12/12 03:24 AM
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If people like you, why do you seat alone?... I think you should work in your mind, do something for you and your self-esteem. And if you're never gonna see these guys after six months from now, it's good because you can try everything on them, speccially the girls, try routines and all kind of these things, if it doesn't work.. fuck it, you're never gonna see them in a few months anyway.. Just try to get to college more happy, with confidence and a high self-esteem (:
/r/seduction12/12/12 02:58 AM
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Part 1 Part 2 Sorry for taking so long, only saw your comment today :/
/r/seduction10/12/12 06:32 PM
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Man, in the begin of this year I was in the same situation as you are. My first love dumped me, and I found out she had cheated on me once. After 2 years of relationship, my situation was very painful (I was 19 in the time too). It was time to go to college and I decided to go to the same city/college she was going too. We started going out a bit and in a party she kissed a guy in front of me. WORST. FEELING. EVER. I stopped talking to her, I was missing so much classes and with no reason to liv…
/r/seduction07/12/12 03:12 AM
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