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If you don't have the abundance, you need to sharpen your skills.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 03:13 PM
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The answer to this is very simple. You improve yourself without talking about it. Boast about your accomplishments and act arrogant, but don't show how much effort you have actually put into it.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 03:04 PM
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Naive complacency.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 12:57 PM
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I think you're on the right track. You stopped yourself from showing your insecurity about balding. You stopped yourself from getting lovey dovey at her remark. Understand that the moment you start slipping and simping, her interest for you will disappear instantly. Always have back up plan(s).
/r/askTRP29/07/20 12:52 PM
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If you are really successful with women and have TRP down, there is nothing wrong with marriage. Most guys simply don't have the goods to handle it. I don't blame your acquaintance for "getting married," but I do see a lot of signs that he is a SIMP and is going to get played.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 12:23 PM
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Trp doesn’t celebrate getting married unless you want to celebrate sex tapering off, and incentivising your wife to leave you. I see this a lot. If your wife loses interest in you in this manner, the REAL red pill, is that it is a reflection of YOU.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 12:21 PM
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"But she’s been my best friend of many years." This is a red flag. "And always has a attitude and pulls away when I try to show affection. " Another red flag. ​ I'll be honest, if she is pulling back and not showing interest THREE MONTHS into the relationship, I don't see this going very far. The great relationships that I have had with girls, they are literally all over me 3 months into the relationship. This sounds like a crappy relationship to me, as well as a waste of time. Start looking for…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 12:18 PM
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Contrary to popular belief, simping gets you LESS pussy.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 12:09 PM
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Social Programming. Everywhere you look, men are programmed to be weak, supplicating, submissive, and apologetic. Just think back at your schooling growing up, turn on the TV, long in to any social media platform, watch the news, read any article at any mainstream site.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 12:08 PM
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It's part of an overall strategy to demoralize western civilization. They have been very successful. The way people think now is vastly different from 20 years ago. "Cultural Marxism" is your quick, two word answer.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 11:59 AM
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"Why do the SAY they hate men so much because of it?" Look at history, and look at the world. The more dominant, violent, and patriarchal men are in any given society the MORE RESPECT they get from women. The more softer and progressive that men get, the more women complain about how awful men are and how much they hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 12:47 PM
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Just relax, nothing wrong with spreading your seed.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 05:15 PM
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I tend to respond with apathy when women act this way, apathy and indifference to her, what she does, what she doesn't do, and even indifference regarding the time we spend together. Stop cooking meals for her. Cook for yourself (without appearing butthurt, just cook and eat at different times or go to a restaurant). Stop doing what she is expecting from you. I'd probably also not come home as often, I would spend time outside of the house and not care about when she cleans and when she doesn't.…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 05:11 PM
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"Unfortunately a substantive portion of the Red Pill community are miscalibrated, socially retarded spergs, who don't want to think and don't want to strategize." ​ I see a lot of people here who aren't flexible thinkers, who need to literally memorize guidelines and coldly apply them to real life situations without understanding the nuances and dynamics of actual social interactions.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 05:04 PM
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Oh damn, if I was alone I'd be going to some parties and hooking up with some new girls. But I'm not alone, so I'll be with my girl tonight.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 05:00 PM
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lol, yeah, something similar happened to me with one of my first girlfriends. I thought she was all innocent and believed her when she said how much she liked me. She even had her friends in on it, they told me how much she was in love with me and liked only me. I was a kid, so this is high school age stuff. So I was all dedicated to her to and was a real sap. She ended up dumping me abruptly over the phone one day. It turns out, she had a new boyfriend (who she had probably been seeing when we …
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:58 PM
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No no no. Don't listen to these guys. Anyone who gives you a LIST of canned openers doesn't know why cold approaching succeeds or fails. They think its the literal expression of the cold approach, but its really 100% whether or not she likes you and you have chemistry when you start talking.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:13 PM
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Those were pretty cool. Basically anything is okay. I even used the "don't I know you from somewhere" once. I don't know WTF was wrong with me that day. But she said "nice line" and started laughing and then we started talking from there. The thing about cold approaches, is you can say almost anything, its your energy, confidence, and quite frankly, the existence (or lack of existence) of instant chemistry that will decide if you are successful or not. The idea that you need a canned set of phra…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:12 PM
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Stop being so insecure and stop monitoring her phone. If she isn't acting the way you want her to, its because YOU are not attracting her and inspiring her. No amount of mate guarding and cell phone monitoring is going to accomplish that. I disagree with the guys who say to "next" her. The next girl will do the same thing to you. There are no "unicorns" but a woman can and will be faithful to you if YOU are alpha enough. The key to the occasion is YOU. Its not this girl, its YOU. YOU are not ins…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:08 PM
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Its not realistic for her to get angry when someone texted her a compliment and "shut them down." You can't expect your girlfriend to go on a crusade of actively shutting down every thirsty beta who sends them a compliment. Most girls just say 'thanks" or ignore the compliments from men they aren't interested in. Requiring them to do more to show how dedicated they are to you communicates insecurity and smacks of mate-guarding.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:01 PM
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You can recover from this. Just pretend like it didn't happen and do better next time. If you try to discuss the incident or revisit it, you are only highlighting it and magnifying its importance. Next time, don't act so insecure. Part of ANY relationship, especially with an attractive women, are thirsty guys giving her compliments. If you can't handle that, you aren't cut out to date an attractive woman, or probably any woman.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 03:58 PM
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lol
/r/askTRP31/12/19 03:49 PM
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There’s at least redpillwomen; they do a decent job in promoting the art of feminism What art is that? Nobody does a "decent job at promoting the art of feminism." Feminism is UNfeminine.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 03:45 PM
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Perfectly said. Although it is an interesting question that attempts to sort out an apparent contradiction, OP is not understanding what a psychopath really is. He's assuming its an obsessed man, ala Hollywood movie psychopaths who are obsessed with a single woman.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:49 PM
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There is some of that, yes. Men who are slapped in the face with a truth that should have been obvious like "women like attractive men" get angry and lash out at women. But in reality, the real RP is that the way a woman behaves, is a reflection of the MAN. If a woman treats you poorly as a man, its because you are low quality, unattractive, weak, have poor social skills, or have other traits that don't inspire attraction. Ultimately, any man only has HIMSELF to blame if he is not having success…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 02:02 PM
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The Red Pill is going to select for certain types of men, and I assume the types of men it selects for are ones who do not take responsibility for their life situation in any way, hence the universal blame on Disney or whatever else you can find there. Your perception isn't accurate. Guys who get the red pill understand that a woman's behavior is mainly a reflection of THEM. I've said it a lot of times, and get upvoted every time. The true red pill, as a man, YOU and only you are responsible for…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 02:00 PM
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No, actually it puts me off even more. They’re so obsessed with casual sex that they actively seek it out. I don't see anything wrong with humans seeking sex, and this is true for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 01:53 PM
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The way that I read, RP, is it is just being honest about women and relationships. It is FACT and INFORMATION based, rather than being based on wishful thinking and fantasy. I certainly won't complain about women who enjoy their sexuality. If a woman wants to have fun sexual relationships with men, that is up to her. Women that fit that description have added huge amounts of satisfaction to my life. I wouldn't refer to any of them as "sluts." I have a lot of female friends and girls that I know …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 01:50 PM
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Define "open up."
/r/askTRP12/12/19 02:43 PM
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I see some people who portray women as "only good for sex." There is nothing that is further from the truth. A great female companion can do EVERYTHING with you. This is what I do with my girl, we go hiking, we go camping, we go to concerts, I like boxing, so she goes with me to boxing matches. I play sports so we'll go play sports together. She gets into what ever I am into. We go to a lot of gatherings and parties, we go out to eat, we go to events. I get involved in her interests too. Her sis…
/r/askTRP12/12/19 02:12 PM
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I like them being a part of my life. Great companions, great sex, great conversations. Normal men who can easily have quality women be a part of their life choose to do so.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 03:57 PM
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Take this as a learning experience. I hope that you learned that your breakup text was also a cringy simp move. A lot of guys have been here at some point, so don't be hard on yourself. But remember these lessons for next time.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 03:54 PM
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lol, I see this here a lot. In reality, its only natural for women to be a MAJOR part of your life if you are a man. Trying to tell ourselves nice little lies to make ourselves feel better is not going to help.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 03:22 PM
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You just need to move on and find someone else. Its a HUGE cringe that you are trying to get closure and still trying to contact her. And like the others here said, when a girl sees you cry and get real emotional, it hurts her image of you and she may lose attraction. It might not seem to make sense, but that is just the way it is, even if you have a great reason to be sad. Sorry.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 04:09 PM
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I started hooking up with hot girls when I was broke. You can be in a weak spot financially and get girls. And its great, because you know those girls like you for you.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 04:03 PM
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Good question. I have a lesbian friend who told me that only time that she has felt real attraction for a man is when he is being a REAL MAN. For whatever that is worth.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:32 PM
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Not true at all. The myth that ugly girls are nicer, have better personalities, and are more interested was created by guys who only get positive attention from ugly girls.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:30 PM
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I think that most girls have great personalities to be honest. I would say that 80% have good personalities. The ones that I know, anyways.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:29 PM
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You have a female friend who is a BAD influence on your girlfriend? It sounds to me that your female friend isn't a real friend.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:27 PM
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It makes sense in a big picture context though. Focus on yourself and being your best, then on getting laid. I disagree with the general idea that one has to come first. Focus on yourself and being your best, AND getting laid. This idea that you need to construct yourself into some specific image before being successful at women in counterproductive. PRACTICING with women is one of the ways that you get better with them.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 03:11 PM
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It's tough to fight on different fronts at the same time. Focus on working on yourself, financially and as you need. No, no no no! You are basically saying to work on yourself and get RICH and then talk to girls. The best way to get good at talking to girls is to PRACTICE, not by avoiding them under the guise that you are "working on yourself." You don't need to be rich to get girls. And, in reality, if a girl likes you for YOU and not your money, you are in a better situation. It is completely …
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:07 PM
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ANYWHERE. Here are some places that I have met some girls I hooked up with. Girl 1: The bus at school Girl 2: Through mutual friends, social circle Girl 3: Cold approached her at school in the food court (university) Girl 4: She worked at a restaurant, I talked to her there Girl 5: At a nightclub, she was smiling at me, so I approached Girl 6: In a cafeteria, I went up and talked to her Girl 7: In college, walking to class Girl 8: In a library ​ I could go on. Basically, you look at her, she loo…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:04 PM
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Perhaps. I don't know enough about the issue to automatically make that connection.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:47 PM
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"Getting laid is harder when you think and try to go and get it. It's much easier if you work on yourself and stop being in your head." A lot of great points in there. This is one that I disagree with though. If I want to get laid, I go out, talk to girls, and get laid. The idea that it just happens without effort is a justification to AVOID the pressure that goes with the effort.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 02:43 PM
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So is the issue "fap vs. no fap" or "porn vs. no porn." I didn't see anything about porn in the title. I am not interested in porn myself, its boring AF. I prefer everything that goes with real relationships with women.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:39 PM
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It is, but running all by itself is not combat sport training.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:38 PM
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You should always have plenty of options. You sound like you believe that if you like a SINGLE girl enough, you can ONLY go for her, and you are also more deserving of her because you are so committed to her. Your mentality is unhealthy. She is not obligated to date with you. Just because you think you care for her more than others doesn't mean that she should, or that she will, say yes to you. She is an individuals with her own preferences, goals, and tastes, and there is a good chance that you…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:35 PM
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Part of it is PROGRAMMING. And part of it is just being an ASSHOLE. They think that if they are nice enough to girls (or pretend to be nice enough), the girl will say YES to them. They've seen it on every blue-pilled movie that has ever been made. They end up severely devastated and disappointed when they find out that being a progressive democrat, agreeing with everything that a woman says, and being a doormat didn't produce the promised results, lol. There are also guys who are not necessarily…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:31 PM
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I've never been in BJJ, but I have been in other combat sports and they are GREAT in so many ways. I definitely recommend a combat sport over running and salute you for your choice, good luck.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:24 PM
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I keep myself on track by knowing the importance of the test and what will happen when I fail. The other way I have kept myself focused, and this is not recommended, is by waiting until the night before to BEGIN studying. Now I have not fucking choice but to concentrate because I have to learn a semester's worth of material in a few hours, lol. Really though, all you have to do is know that if you fail your exam, you're fucked. You'll lose your scholarship, it will mess up your transcripts and y…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:11 PM
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I've always wondered why the "fap vs. no fap" issue is so big. Does it really even make a fucking difference?
/r/askTRP07/12/19 01:54 PM
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You don't give enough information about your interactions to accurately gauge what happened. But by reading through the lines, I notice you said that you " had a ton in common" which leads me to believe you bored her by texting small talk, questions about her, and information about you. You probably killed any excitement with your interactions with her and the thought of her meeting you is now boring. You aren't going to text your way into a girl's heart and "getting to know her" and having thin…
/r/askTRP01/12/19 04:22 PM
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You don't give enough information for me to answer with any degree of certainty. I do know losers (who are losers as far as accomplishments, drug addiction, and habits) who get plenty of girls. Studies have shown that women find psychopathy, machiavellianism, and narcissism to be attractive traits.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 04:18 PM
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Although people say Brad Pitt shit is the ultimate goal, but that won't make dudes submit to you Make "dudes submit to you"? LOL WTF is this shit?
/r/askTRP24/11/19 03:26 PM
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Exactly. I pissed off all the roid defenders here.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 03:11 PM
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So true, you can get pretty close to what girls actually like WITHOUT roids. All these Roid-Defenders on there calling me out because I bashed on the roids think that girls want a HUGE as bodybuilder. Its not that hard to get a body good enough that gets a girl's attention.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 03:10 PM
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That's a pretty spirited defense for steroid use. I saw your post history, asking about "Certificates of Authenticity" when ordering roids from China. You must be pretty desperate to risk your health that way. In reality, most guys don't need steroids to get close enough for the ideal body type that girls like. I've never needed to use steroids to get DIMES, even before I bulked up, I was getting 10s, so I've never felt the same need that you have to use steroids. I know that you suffer from vit…
/r/askTRP24/11/19 03:07 PM
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Exactly.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 03:01 PM
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It is, you can get more lean with roids, but you can get lean enough without roids. I just said "I'm not ripped as someone on the gear" Roid heads with huge ass muscles aren't as ideal as they think.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 03:00 PM
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socialmaxing not in the context of hanging out with guys, but it honing your social skills and talking to girls face to face.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:56 PM
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I'm starting to think moneymaxxing is the best way to slay. I don't think so, I think its SOCIALmaxing, in as honing your abilities based on practice. Moneymaxing is less and less effective, and when it is effective, you end up with some psycho ass girls that will fuck up your life.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:48 PM
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Social media accounts help you maintain roster of potential prospects and back-ups, which is what I have them for. But I rarely use them though.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:45 PM
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I would eat a lot of meets, easy stuff to prepare, like ground beef, lots of chicken breasts, lots of high calorie peanut butter, whole milk with whey protein, and basically everything else. I would go to parties and eat all kids of food, have my girl cook for me all the time. I would avoid sugar though. I never got ultra scientific with my diet, no time for that shit, and too many social gatherings where food is served. I would just try to eat a lot of non-sugar calories, avoid too many bread p…
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:40 PM
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You are assuming you are applying it correctly.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:34 PM
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A little bit of ROID RAGE anger there boy. I saw your post history, ordering roids from CHINA, talking about estrogen and libido. I didn't say anything for you to assume that I'm a "fat fuck." What I said was: "I'm not as ripped as someone on the gear." You must be so desperate that you order roids from China and then ask about Certificates of Authenticity to make sure you gear is legit. The same desperation, anger, and envy that causes you to call me a fat fuck is the same kind of envy that cau…
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:33 PM
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I also increase lifts during cutting as well. But the main point is LOOKS and not maxing out. I was better built for sports before bulking up, because my training and body were 100% performance based before that.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:31 PM
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For some reason, I get more hot girls' attention than them. (?) Maybe its face or overall presence, accomplishments, who knows. But they can't stack their lists of hotties with mine.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:30 PM
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I can definitely be that too. But when you act like a WEAK ass, that is when she is more receptive to other guys.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:28 PM
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Yup! Under-eating is pretty much an epidemic when it comes to guys trying to put on muscle. Number one rule EAT. I've seen so many lifting and not get any results because of lack of eating.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:28 PM
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No, don't do that. Look at my post above, life is short. Don't waste your time in "monk mode" practice and hit up on girls every day, that is much more effective.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 05:04 PM
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You're trying to hook up with them by DM, that was your first mistake. Anyone can try that, and they DO. That is why it doesn't work.. Girls have a MILLION thirsty guys sending them DMs and don't want to deal with that. Don't listen to these guys about "monk mode" that is a bunch of bullshit. What you really need, is to improve your game, and by game, I mean on the phone or in person, not so much sending messages. When you do game in person, you eliminate 95% of your competition that is too cowa…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 05:03 PM
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You aren't eating enough. It only took me a couple of months to put on 15-20 lbs. A lot of it was fat, sure, but I look MUCH better. The way I did it, was I would eat as much as I could, and then chug some milk. This doesn't work for everyone, some people end up getting fat. Everyone was asking me how I got so buffed and my shirts all got tight. I would lift heavy and EAT and rest. But if you haven't seen significant results, its usually lack of caloric intake. A LOT of guys think that lifting a…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 04:53 PM
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funny, but not accurate. People here ask questions when they are having difficulties and the answers incorporate experiences of both successes and failures.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 04:17 PM
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That might have been it, but I think she actually lost interest in him the moment she saw him that night.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 03:49 PM
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She most likely reassessed you and decided she didn't like you anymore. Girls are fickle like that, they can turn from showing interest to completely ghosting in a blink of an eye. ​ Your best bet is to avoid dwelling on this. I have had, what I thought, was a girl was interested in me. And she went on to ghost me or reject me in some way as well. It has happened to all guys, whether or not they admit it.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 03:49 PM
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I'm not religious, but I am intelligent and I do coldly analyze the causes of things. The power of the west is drying up. In relative terms, its power has already declined in proportion to the world at large. Also, biologically, the people of the west are becoming a tinier and tinier portion of the world population and will be gradually replaced, along with their religion, form of government, and knowledge of their history. Your comment is actually an example of the myopia in which most people a…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 03:36 PM
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That other guy did a better job of escalating. It happens. I have missed some opportunities like this myself. Closing doesn't always go well. I think your SECOND biggest screw up, or maybe your first, is to be all butt-hurt. Telling her you don't tolerate it and all that. She isn't LTR material, so why are you acting all butt-hurt? Just relax and keep your frame, you may have just fucked up on an easy hook up.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 03:33 PM
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I don't enjoy the cultural degeneracy, because whether or not you admit in, things in the current state are not the best case scenario and have a negative effect on our quality of life. However, I do enjoy watching blue-pilled SIMPS get their just desserts.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 03:26 PM
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Very well said. Usually, when women act this way, it is a REACTION to a weakness that her man is showing. OP needs to take responsibility for the fact that it was most likely HIM that caused this. One of the biggest Red Pills out there, is that the way a woman treats you is mainly a reflection of YOU.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 03:25 PM
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The Bible did SOMETHING right though. Because centuries from now, historians will observe that after the west's decline coincided with the west rejecting the religion that once was its core.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 03:21 PM
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I have had my own business now, but before I did, I worked for a company with a "chain of command." One of the top guys was a real jerk. He was real mean to the OTHER young workers, but not me so much. One day, he was yelling at them for something stupid. And then he started yelling at me about something that wasn't even my job to do. There were about 10 people watching. Rather than taking it, I got in his face and told him never to talk to me that way. I could see his face twitch with fear and …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 02:45 PM
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Your title should read "Why is a woman seen as UNATTRACTIVE if she is ugly?" Women are never seen as worthless by society, they are lauded, praised, respected, and protected more than men. Its just that when women accomplish things, generally, men do NOT see them as more attractive. However, to say that women don't get credit when they do great things is complete horseshit. Women even get credit when they DON'T accomplish anything. Elizabeth Holmes and Theranos is a case study on this. Elizabeth…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 02:33 PM
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A woman can literally cure cancer tomorrow and she would not be fully appreciated Oh bullshit. If a WOMAN cured cancer, she would get a lot more media attention than a man ever would. MEN are the ones who have made most of the advances in all areas of science, and are usually forgotten. Whenever a woman does anything for science or any great accomplishment at all, she gets EXPONENTIALLY more attention than a man would if he had accomplished the same. Just look at the Elizabeth Holmes and Therano…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 02:23 PM
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Yup, exactly. I did fine at 165, but at 185 HUGE difference. Things got so easy with girls I couldn't believe it. OP could be wells served by hitting the weights and eating a lot. He'll rethink his post when he sees his options increase.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 05:15 PM
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Karl Marx saw the nuclear family unit as something that emerged because of capitalism and something that functioned to prop up the capitalist system. Subsequent Marxist authors have attacked the family unit for the last several decades. I am a bit taken aback that TRP posters don't know how Marxism feels about the family unit.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 04:56 PM
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Marx was against the family unit.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 04:54 PM
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Yes it can. Its possible to get a woman who loves you and is loyal to you. Most guys admittedly, aren't capable of it though. You still always need to maintain your opportunities, and have back up abilities and plans, because it can change in an instant.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 12:24 PM
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Its can't be blamed on "capitalism." Feminism is also the cornerstone principle of "marxism" which aims to empower the government by destroying the family unit. Marxists also want women in the workplace.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 12:23 PM
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It all evens itself out. I would suggest its even EASIER in the US than other countries to get hot women. US Men are lumps of fat, low muscle tone, skinny arms, pot bellied. Its pretty easy to get into the top 20% with some style and working out. Once you are there, the fit girls will go for you. You are 5'10" 166. I know you say you are fairly fit and in good shape. I used to be 5'11" 165, also fit and in good shape. I went on a weightlifting and eating binge and got up to 180-185. HUGE differe…
/r/askTRP22/10/19 11:56 AM
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A lot of guys find it easier to talk to girls they already know. This, unfortunately, includes women who are already taken by their friends and family. Honestly, I think its a symptom of having WEAK game when you talk to your friends' women. You are supposed to create you own opportunities by stepping out of your comfort zone and meeting new women. Get this mentality out of your mind before you end up being one of those guys who cheats (or unsuccessfully tries to cheat - even more humiliating) w…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 12:39 PM
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You're not gaming them well. They have boyfriends and see you as a non-threat so they talk to you and joke with you. They are a "captive audience" so to speak, so they are somewhat obliged to get along with you since they are your friends' girlfriends. A lot of my friends started getting girlfriends before I would regularly have girlfriends and I noticed the exact same thing. It wasn't that I was good at talking to them, it was just the fact that they were talking to me because they were my frie…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 12:36 PM
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In my country at least stripclubs are way too expensive I'm kind of with you there. I've never been into stripclubs. They still have eye candy though. Out of curiosity, what country do you live in and what are the prices?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 12:26 PM
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I met a girl in the club who I ended up making my girlfriend, lol at myself. It was a fun few months, but she had some issues. I 'll put it that way.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 12:24 PM
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I've had more luck picking up girls on the street than I have in a club. Same here. But I'll tell you this, put on 15-20 lbs. of muscle, wear tight shirts, and see how easy it gets in the club.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 12:23 PM
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Great field report. You kept your frame, didn't look needy and insecure the entire time and it paid off.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 12:22 PM
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There is no real "founder." Everyone has their own thoughts and opinions. His opinions are his opinions, nothing more. They aren't necessarily shared by anyone. I don't even know who that guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 12:08 PM
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We are here to discuss things, not here to find a safe space. Its an interesting topic and there have been some pretty good responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 02:46 PM
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I don't think you read what I wrote. TRP isn't a monolith and some outlandish things said by RooshV isn't where most people stand. Feminists who say that all sex is rape and all men should be killed don't speak for all women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 02:20 PM
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I agree that many men believe that they need to convince women by pressuring and coercing them into having sex. It can be with "nice guy coins" it can be an expected reward for doing something for a woman, it can be an expectation after taking her out to eat. It can be a mentality that you need to convince her to "put out." I argue that this is the mainstream, blue pill mentality. Sex with a woman seems to be a PRIZE. Men think that if they do enough things for a woman, at some point he is owed …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 02:13 PM
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Its much more common in the TRP forums to stop pursuing a girl when she says NO or shows signs she is not interested. RooshV has said some things that have gotten him vilified. But if you read advice, the MAJORITY of redpillers have the opposite approach with women. The key to be successful with women, is to talk to a lot of them, and don't waste your time with women who don't reciprocate. That is what I do. I have great relationships with women because the ones that like me reciprocate and we s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 02:01 PM
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I see this a lot, but somehow manage it.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:43 PM
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" the sad part is that a lot of redpillers believe women need to be led and women dont know what they want! " ​ You are misrepresenting red pill and actually have things backwards. ​ A more common belief is to stop pursuing women when they don't reciprocate and to cut her loose. It is actually the BLUE pillers who believe you have to be persistent and somehow "convince" a girl to have sex with you. Red pillers are afraid of false accusations and stay away from women who have to be worked on in o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 01:38 PM
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I see a lot of women bashing here. Women are what they are. But if you know your shit, and are truly near the top, then you overall opinion with women includes that happiness and joy they can bring to your life as well. Most guys aren't good enough with women to see it from that point of view.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 11:45 AM
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You know why we still believe in it? Because we witness it does happen to some guys. We know guys that are married with kids. We see women who actually are loyal to their man and wouldnt leave them. ​ A girl's behavior is mostly a reflection of YOU. If you are good enough some girls will be loyal to you. Its not about finding a unicorn though, its about YOU being high quality enough and being on top of your game (psychologically and physically).
/r/askTRP19/10/19 11:44 AM
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Very well said. Being good with women can eventually land you a high quality LTR with an awesome woman. That is ultimately more fulfilling than perpetual plate spinning.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 11:41 AM
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I think the OP makes a very good point. There are far too many people on here who focus exclusively on self-improvement and have the fantasy that if they just strictly follow some set of rules to improve their SMVs, one day women will chase them. But that's not going to happen. Women aren't attracted to Boy Scouts True, there is WAY too much of this here.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/19 11:38 AM
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Everyone has been cheated on. This has happened to everyone. I had a girl who I thought was the most special snowflake the world. She ended up breaking up with me unexpectedly and returned with her former boyfriend. Looking back, I'm glad it happened, because I experienced a lot of better women after her. There were girls who were much prettier, smarter, and who I was much more compatible with.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 11:32 AM
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"Should I freely drop other things and get those mental anxieties in check first?" In my experience, not just NO, but HELL NO. The way that I deal with shitty times, is by having more energy, being more organized, and trying harder. Looking back at my life, shitty times are everything that caused me to be successful. Pretty much all of my personal growth has occurred based on my reaction to failure, tragedy, and challenges. Examples: family tragedy and being broke caused me to improve my grades …
/r/askTRP18/10/19 12:39 PM
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A very controversial issue here. I would, and not only do I think its possible for guys to do so, I'm going to go against the grain and say that there are TONS of girls out there who are wifey material. It is possible to have a girl committed, faithful, and loyal to you, and love you in that way. The way that women treat you is ultimately a reflection of YOU. That is the hardest red pill to swallow. I see a lot of comments about women and how bad relationships are with them, and how they are a w…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 11:58 AM
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This is a great post for me, because sometimes I have the tendency of being too nice.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 11:52 AM
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This illustrates why I tell guys in TRP to have a girl like you for YOU. All this crap about getting a good job and "improving your SMV" through your career in BS. All it does is get you a gold digger. When girls see me in the club or in person, they don't know about my professional success. Poor people pretend they are rich, I pretend I am poor. You should learn to get dimes when you are BROKE.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 11:32 AM
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Perfectly well said. Non red pilled guys are TERRIFIED of rejection.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 03:09 PM
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I've never found the "be persistent" advice to be the best use of my time.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/19 04:41 PM
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Could be. But there are already more girls than I have time to be successful with. So I'll gladly concede those girls to others who are willing to cut through their bitch shield.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/19 03:51 PM
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That might be. But I'm not going to waste my time on that kind of girl. If she doesn't reciprocate, I'm gone.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/19 03:20 PM
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" NEVER assume she doesn't like you until she PHYSICALLY walks away or pushes you away. EVEN if she says she is not into you. If she is still standing there flirting with you, talking to you she is still into you. " I disagree with that. Once she shows a lack of interest in any facet, including not being enthusiastic when I talk to her on the phone or in person, I back off and ghost. Any rejection at all, I stop pursuing.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/19 02:54 PM
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You is stuck in da Friendzone Great post. I agree that he lost his opportunity long ago. Texting for a YEAR and now a text that she has a boyfriend. Also, the boyfriend might see those texts and some guys mate guard and react with anger towards the guy. However, I disagree with the comment about the "friendzone" to the extent that it means that its impossible to fuck female friends.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 01:54 PM
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Its in the way you carry yourself, the way you dress, your physical appearance, and how you interact with others. Women also tend to like men who WIN at life in general. Its similar to us as men, finding women attractive, but not exactly the same.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 01:36 PM
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I reread it. You didn't mention what country you are from in it.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 01:29 PM
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Everyone has their own way. For me, I've noticed that arrogance and narcissism seems to work. ​ Girls comment on it after they have hooked up with me or even after they are just TRYING to hook up with me. They talk about my confidence and things like that. For the MOST men, however, you can't create interest. Either she is interested in you or she is not.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 01:26 PM
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It has nothing to do with babyboomers. Its HUMANS you are thinking of.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 01:21 PM
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Its not the programming. You can recognize how fucked up the world is and still bring some positivity into it and into the lives of others. I've successfully done it. Despite how fucked up the world is, I'm financially well off (or my own doing), have a great LTR, my own business AND I help other people. ​ You might be in the anger stage right now so you don't realize that positivity is possible. What country do you live in that you just NOW realized how competitive and cruel the world can be?
/r/askTRP13/10/19 01:18 PM
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Wait for her to contact you. She has to take the initiative now (if anything is to happen at all). Don't bother contacting her again. Don't feel bad, this is all part of the game. It has happened to me too. ​ A girl met me at my work, she introduced herself to me. We had a date set up, I was already to go. I called her, she said she would call me back. I waited and waited. She didn't. I called her, she didn't answer. Finally, she called me again and told me she had to do something else that came…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 01:15 PM
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This happens a lot to westerners, the US and Europe especially. They have been programmed by the media and society at large They don't have the same life-and-death challenges as people from other countries When the shroud of blue-pilled bliss comes off, they are hit with the realizations of what the world is really made of. With that said, you can still live a good life and make the world a better place for others.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 01:04 PM
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No. I've seen this same thing play out TWICE. A guy that I know bought his wife a house, a new car, and all sorts of other shit. She kept telling everyone how he made her dreams come true, follow your dreams, he's the best man ever, blah blah blah. Within six months, she was having sex with someone else and eventually left him, despite his roses, his begging, him admitting he wasn't good enough and all kinds of other crap. ​ Not 3 months later, another girl was saying all the same stuff about he…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 01:00 PM
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Yeah, don't worry about it. Girls start liking you MORE when they see your messages if they see you have lots of options. ​ The same thing happened to me. My S/O got into my social media account and saw my messages. She saw a bunch of girls sending me messages. Luckily, I didn't message them back. Also, I didn't send any thirsty ass messages to anyone. Only girls messaging me. If anything, it turned her on when she saw all the attention I got. ​ Girls LOVE fuckboys. What they say and what they d…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 12:55 PM
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Any tight shirt that I wear makes girls start looking at me, smiling, and rubbing up to me. It doesn't take much, even buying a package of Hanes white T shirts at wal mart and some jeans.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 12:51 PM
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The reason why it makes you charismatic, is because you are too nervous, insecure, and anxious in social settings. The alcohol takes away your inhibitions. Just strive to be low inhibition and talk to people without GAF.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 12:46 PM
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Interesting topic. I read a study that men's voice tone changes depending on who they are talking to. When you talk to another man that you perceive as more dominant, your voice tone gets HIGHER and shriller. When you talk to someone who you believe is less dominant, your voice gets deeper.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 12:40 PM
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Lol what. One thing is certain, women will use sex for power dynamics. She controls the sex and she controls you. This happens a lot in LTRs. The way to flip it is having her know that if she doesn't give it to you, there are plenty of others who will. Not with words, but with actions. No empty threats, and no efforts made to let her know, it will happen on its own. Just go out there are fuck some dimes. If a girl tries to use sex to control you, then its fair game, and see her antics stop real …
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:52 PM
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Great example. There is no real benefit to getting in streetfights; and the potential loss is everything.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:42 PM
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Arrogance that can be backed up (as you define confidence) is certainly best. But what about arrogance without merit? Can it be attractive to women itself? Perhaps it actually is. Even undeserved confidence and unmerited arrogance appears to attract women (although less than deserved confidence). Of course, if a complete loser is arrogant and confident, he probably won't be successful. But if someone pushes the limit to an extent, and is somewhat more arrogant than they should be, women appear a…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 01:04 PM
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​ The kind of incident you describe can happen in any country. Human aggression and people starting fights over little things isn't limited to non European countries. As I've became a little older, more experienced, and generally more successful, I realize more and more that I don't have the time, nor the inclination, to defeat every piece of shit in the world. There are lots of them. I have too much going for me to even care. That is something you will develop IF you are successful with money, …
/r/askTRP10/10/19 12:58 PM
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I didn't know what "red pill" was until recently. The school of life will make you red pilled, if you are willing to learn and not pre-programmed by the media and American (or European) simp society.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/19 12:48 PM
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" All of my focus goes to my career, my fitness, branching out into other hobbies, etc. When I'm not doing that, I value my downtime and would rather spend it alone than going out with a woman or even having them come over or whatever, " I see a lot of people saying this. Honestly, I can't relate at all. I LOVE spending time with women. It beats focusing on work (career) or hobbies. Psychologically, relationships with women should be, and are, much more fulfilling than hobbies and work. I also s…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 12:28 PM
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I've had two LTRs who were getting too friendly with other guys, just like yours. I did the same thing both times. I didn't fight with them. I didn't get angry. I didn't try to change them. I ended up meeting other girls while we were still officially going out. You could call it a "branch swing" as people say.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 12:20 PM
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What kind of information where you asking about regarding her exes What specifically were the lies? It sounds to me that you want her to come clean about her past. A lot of girls have done some dumb shit, I don't require them to confess their sins to me. Unless there is something egregious about her lies, I wouldn't make a decision based on this.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 12:08 PM
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simply being arrogant will not gain good results. Although I believe that OP shouldn't try to act like an asshole (because it won't be effective in his case, because you can't feign an aggressive, dominant personality), I feel compelled to disagree with a part of your comment. Narcissism and arrogance can be turn-ons to women. Why cocky guys get girls Even Women who should know better Are attracted to narcissists Study explains why we find narcissists so attractive The allure of Aggressive men E…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 12:02 PM
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Well said.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 11:47 AM
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Define being an asshole. Being assertive, even aggressive, can have its benefits, but only when done during an appropriate time. I don't think it will work if you're forcing it. The "angry phase" doesn't have any benefits in my view, if you skipped it, good for you. Ultimately, your ability to successfully interact with people shouldn't be based on being an asshole. Overall, would say NO.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 11:46 AM
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Your post also illustrates why one-itis is so dumb. I had the experience in high school of being hooked on a particular girl, but eventually realized how replaceable she actually was. Placing girls on a pedestal decreases your options, decreases your resiliency, and causes you to put up with too much shit during a relationship. You might feel bad, but feel good, because you improved yourself greatly and now have a better perspective on life and on women in general.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/19 11:36 AM
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I could do that, but sometimes I lose the motivation to try and educate simps. If he's that committed to simping, I would rather let him simp.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 11:29 AM
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This sub has turned bluepill. This thread got invaded by simps.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 11:23 AM
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I am who I am. I do laugh at a lot of simps here who believe what they want to believe rather than believe what is. If my ego comes off as crazy, that's fine, its just a reflection of how things work out for me in life. The percentage of men who are high achievers in many aspects of life is rare, and I don't expect most who haven't had the success that I do to understand.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 11:20 AM
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My success in life would say otherwise.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 11:17 AM
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I just don't feel like trying to educate someone who is completely wrong. TRP isn't for short term only, they are principles regarding female psychology and the cold, often unaccepted truths as to what works and what doesn't.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 11:13 AM
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I'm a TRP O.G., I learned it through experience. You haven't even read the sidebar yet, based on your blue pilled comments.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 02:12 PM
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I sound like a realist who realises TRP principles are not suited for a LTR's and knows what the limits are. You're wrong about that.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 02:08 PM
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TRP helps you with attraction and if you take it way further than that with an LTR you WILL fail. Why? Cause LTR-ing requires validation, commitment and other aspects TRP fails to addres.. lol. You've sound like a blue pilled romantic movie.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 01:05 PM
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To me, her saying these things is a RED FLAG that she has some issues that will probably worsen later.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 12:53 PM
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One of the biggest Red Pills out there is that a woman's behavior is mostly a reflection of YOU. You are trying to blame your lack of success on TRP because you are "attracting sluts." You are also blaming the fact that women dump you after you fuck them on TRP. I got news for you, its YOU. If you are doing things right, both "sluts" as you call them, and higher LTR quality girls want to spend time with you and be with you. The fact that girls are dumping you or not wanting to be with you isn't …
/r/askTRP09/10/19 12:50 PM
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The answer is NO. You ARE NOT the success you think you are. You are extremely bitter about women, so that tells me that you have done things wrong. If you are really doing well with women, you enjoy their company and it goes hand and hand with success in other areas of life.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 12:41 PM
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This example also illustrates that conventional SMV is not everything. There is something about the guy, the way he treats her, or the way she is wired, that makes her like this old guy better than OP (at the present time, anyways).
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:20 PM
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UPDATE? What finally happened this weekend, what is going on?
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:32 PM
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Its not common to see a girl's interest dissipate THAT quickly. Two likely possibilities: You gauged her interest incorrectly. She wasn't actually "head over heels" for you. She met another guy Or perhaps a combination of the two. I'll tell you this, you are looking for someone to tell you there is still a chance and saw fit to say "she has complained in the past we don't text each other much." It's not that my friend, stop looking for someone to tell you otherwise. Your ONLY chance at getting h…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:27 PM
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Club game can be hard. I'll be straight up with you, unless you can improve your build or you clothes significantly, you're probably better off with day game or using other kinds of game. Club game is just "raw masculinity" game. Factors such as intelligence, charisma are minimized because of the loud music and the competitive atmosphere that is based on the immediacy of primal attraction. Appearance, mannerisms, build, and clothing is what brings club success. I improved it drastically over the…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 01:55 PM
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I've been there. The good news first. If you are one of the FEW guys who can keep his cool and not get oneitis with a 9 or 10, she is sometimes thrown for a loop and ends up more interested in you as a result. You correctly articulated the long term solution. The short term solution is just to do it. I remember after hooking up with the HOTTEST girl that I had ever met, I was sitting in my living room mentally going crazy trying not to call her. To make a long story short, I just fucking made my…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 01:42 PM
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I see a lot of COPE in your post. Its not about approaching girls "these days," girls have always reacted this way and its always been hard to approach them. You are having a hard time coping with these recent rejection. I salute you for trying the cold approach, but you need to learn to brush off rejection. Brushing off rejection does TWO hugely positive things for you. You are more likely to approach (every time you role the dice, you have a chance at success) Without the approach-anxiety that…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 01:24 PM
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Men who go into "monk mode" and stop pursuing hotties aren't wired the same way that I am, that's for sure! Monk mode for many seems like a way to avoid rejection and risk taking.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 01:18 PM
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Great post, but I don't think he's in a position to make her a plate at this point, so setting up a meeting to catchup would just end up in her thinking she has him as an orbiter again.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 01:05 PM
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Its crazy how I have an experience that is pretty much EXACTLY like yours. I killed a girl's attraction for me the exact same way that you did. She went from begging me to come to her dorm, to acting like this girl did with you, lol. She's trying to get you back as an orbiter so she can enhance her self esteem at your expense. If you get weak and start conversing with her again, then you are a big SIMP and haven't learned anything. Follow the advice here and don't be weak.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 01:04 PM
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He doesn't have the skills and experience to recover with this girl and make her a plate. Most likely scenario, she succeeds in reacquiring him as an orbiter to stroke her self esteem and ends up dissing him again. He's better off ignoring her or sending her a vague text that does not appear butthurt and is non committal.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 01:01 PM
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You are confronting a truth that most are too cowardly to confront. Yes, you have to get a new job, yes, you need to throw yourself in if you want to pick up hot girls, yes, you need to have BALLS and get out there and change your life if you want things to get better. Most men are too weak to do it, the men who are here at asktrp have a tendency to be the guys who understand what needs to be done and put it in practice. The question is, do you have the resiliency to make these sacrifice and mak…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 12:54 PM
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That's a weak ass "friend" that you have there.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 12:47 PM
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Don't feel sorry for them. It was their choice. You blame it on the guys who "dumped" them. You've been programmed.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 12:35 PM
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Not a "new" trend, but definitely a growing trend. Women don't need a father anymore, with the government and child support taking care of their financial needs. They get the best of BOTH worlds, they get to fulfill their fantasies and be impregnated by guys based on attractions, even irresponsible guys, psychopaths, and criminals, and then they get to be financially supported while doing so. The kids suffer, as does society. But women's whims always come first. That's just the way it is, and th…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 12:32 PM
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Make sure you middle-management aren't selecting underperformers to protect their own position.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 04:33 PM
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You are making the assumption the actual productivity is the most important characteristic for employment success. I hate to break it to you, but charisma, office politics, charisma, and even manipulation often carry the day, especially in office jobs.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 03:43 PM
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True, good topics!
/r/askTRP05/10/19 02:31 PM
4

They are SECRETLY crabs in a bucket. You assume that everyone is happy for you. I have news for you, a lot of them don't give a fuck one way or another. Some are happy for you, and some are secret haters.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 02:26 PM
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Being beta is a reflection of who you are INTERNALLY. Sometimes being handsome and positive feedback and work to make you more confident, which may result in you assuming alpha traits. But being handsome alone doesn't mean you are alpha. Ultimately, the hottest girls aren't for the best looking guys, they are for the guys who have the most BALLS - and that is what makes you alpha.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 02:24 PM
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Its because you're probably good at connecting with people ONE on ONE. You are good at reading people and reacting to them in a way that causes them to like you. Each person is an individual, so when there are TWO or more people, you are not able to focus on the one person and create the same dynamic. Its not actually a reflection of you sucking in groups, its a reaction of your STRENGTH which is reading an individual and interacting with them in a charismatic manner.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 02:22 PM
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​ Yup!
/r/askTRP05/10/19 02:18 PM
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It shows that you have a backbone, a spine, and are confrontational. Strength and courage are positive traits that females naturally look for in a mate.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 02:18 PM
1

" non-binary,non-conforming, asexual, " They are flags that they are low quality girls that aren't worth your time.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 02:17 PM
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The same thing happened to me. I applied for the same position in two different cities. The first interview, I showed up and answered the questions intelligently and sharply, very eloquent and confident. The second interview, I just relaxed and just made myself likeable. I got the job during the second interview, not the first. ​ Same thing happened to me again, a friend tried to get me in to where he was working. When the person in charge of hiring saw my transcripts and grades, he commented to…
/r/askTRP05/10/19 02:13 PM
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You make a good point. What I want to do though, is put things in perspective. Logically, there is no reason to feel anxious and depressed when nothing happened and you are fine. People tend to get anxious and depressed for small reasons. It is what it is.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 01:53 PM
1

Women might support you for a while but they tend to lose respect for you when you show weakness, even for totally understandable reasons. ​ Well said. That is the truth here and the real point. A married man I know (friends with his daughter) got into a car accident and became paralyzed from the waist down. He had to use one of those little motorized cars to get around. His wife left him and tried her best to take every dollar that she could. Before she left him, she started treating him like c…
/r/askTRP05/10/19 01:45 PM
1

Quite the opposite. I've had enough trauma, probably substantially more than most people here, to realize that there is a huge difference between actual tragedy and the little things that people get depressed and anxious here. The psychologist hasn't experienced as much trauma as I have, and I don't have a lot of confidence in the mental health industry.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 01:40 PM
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If someone is sad because a family member dies, than I have sympathy for them and I don't think they're "weak." But OP's post is NOT about a family member dying. Everyone escaped with minor injuries. HUGE distinction. Being sad about a real tragedy, losing a family member, is different than having anxiety and depression over nothing or over insignificant things. If he shows anxiety and depression in front of this woman, her brain will see it as weakness and her attraction for him will decrease a…
/r/askTRP05/10/19 01:38 PM
1

If someone becomes depressed because someone in their family dies, I understand. If someone has anxiety about a life or death surgery, I understand. But anxiety and depression when there is no real problem? That's just weakness born out of a pampered life style and a blue-pilled perspective of the world.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 01:25 PM
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Interesting question. People have PLENTY to offer in the way of specialized and technical knowledge. I have an accountant that does my taxes, for example. I have a plumber come and fix a clogged drain. They have more specialized knowledge about those sorts of things. But I don't need a life coach or a therapist to help me cope with life. To those who need anti anxiety meds and anti depressants to cope with reality, go right ahead. Not all men are equal, some men are conquerors, some are not.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 01:21 PM
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The normal advice you get is to try to succeed in all facets of life. Socially, athletically, academically, professionally, hobbies, exercise, dress well, etc. Sure, I agree with all of this, but number one is your charisma, your BALLS, and practice talking to girls and trying different things with relationships and plates. What I did, (which hardly anyone else would do), is started playing a HUGE numbers game. I would approach girls on a daily basis and get their numbers/contact info. I wouldn'…
/r/askTRP05/10/19 01:09 PM
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I don't accept the definition of "man up" that has been pushed by feminists, who are also decrying "toxic masculinity." Manning up is accepting the reality for what it is (nobody got hurt, everything is okay) and not letting little things shake your frame and destroy you.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 12:54 PM
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The immortality bias is something that's not programmed in my brain the way that others have it. I don't live in the same fantasy that most do, which might be why I am at asktrp, and I didn't learn it from reddit nor anywhere else other than life. Nobody here will believe me because it doesn't reflect their life, but who cares? A family member murdered (shot in the head), another disappeared (never heard from him again, almost 100% murdered), and have had two close family members die right in fr…
/r/askTRP05/10/19 12:50 PM
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No, I've never done therapy. I understand that its been effective for you so I won't make a blanket statement about people who go to therapy. But to me personally, therapy is BS. I can't envision me sitting around with a therapist accomplishing anything that I can't figure out on my own.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 12:38 PM
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No, its called having balls and confronting what life has to offer. Life can and will offer a lot worse than what people get so-called "depression" and "anxiety" over; although a lot of sheltered people at reddit don't seem to know that.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 12:34 PM
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What I meant by Hoe Dress is wearing eccentric clothes. Just like piercings, tattoos that is an expression of inner fucked-up-ness. I don't mean to dress like Barbie girls. Yup, that's how I see it too.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 12:30 PM
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Hyperbolic sarcasm aside, anxiety is for pussies.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 01:50 PM
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Yeah, society has a lot of selfish shit afflicting it. This is what I suggest, be aware of what society is and secure YOUR best life possible anyways. Oh, and don't be a force that makes it worse, make it a little better and be good to people.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 01:21 PM
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Yeah, I would. Hot girls still look hot if they put on 15-20 lbs. Sometimes they look better. I like girls with big butts and breasts. But if you are going to LTR her, start developing hobbies with her that involve physical activity and exercise. Also, start injecting healthy eating little by little. Otherwise, 5 years form now, that 15-20 is going to be 40-50 and THEN you will see a difference.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 01:15 PM
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OP thinks that you need a dog for companionship and a prostitute for sex. I say that's bullshit. Women are great for companionship and sex. MGTOWs who say that women are worthless have just failed. I think women are great, their company is enjoyable, and sex with a girl who actually has interest in you is infinitely more fulfilling than paying for sex. RP should be about mastering the tactics needed to enjoy this fulfillment.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 01:13 PM
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MGTOW is for failures. Those who say " She’s not yours, it’s just your turn" don't have the same results as me. I have my LTR and I have a roster of girls who have been following me for years. A lot philosophies and gloom, especially anything that smacks of MGTOW, are examples of what could, and likely will happen if you SMV is not high enough and you aren't alpha enough. The biggest Red Pill, that most Red Pillers can't even swallow, is that a woman's behavior is mainly a reflection of YOU.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 01:07 PM
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Define "help." A weak psychologist telling you to open up emotionally, cry, and seek support? Anti anxiety meds? Life is hard, the fantasy that there is effective "help" is a just a coping mechanism. OP just has to man up and realize that it happened in the past and that everyone is fine. Nobody got hurt, WTF is all this worry about anyways? Nothing even fucking happened.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 12:56 PM
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Stop with the guilt. It happened, its in the past, you are fine. Welcome to the real world. Life can be violent, brutal, and short. It can end in an instant. I think on some level, you denied the reality of life and were enjoying modern civilization and the fantasies of security that it provides. To put it bluntly, stop being a wimp. You only had a minor injury, everyone is fine. The girl is not your psychologist, and she is fine too. The way you look in her eyes is going to be (figuratively) li…
/r/askTRP04/10/19 12:54 PM
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The tattoos, short hair, or piercings are the biggest give aways. To me "hoe" dress is meaningless. Girls enjoy their sexuality and looking pretty. Its not something to be discouraged. Girls like male attention and want a larger pool of men to pick from. I've found that guys who get upset at women who dress sexy are the same kind of guys who just aren't cut out to be with 10s.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 12:48 PM
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No, they're not. Those who say that they are, or that "all women are sluts" or that "she's not yours, its just your turn" aren't getting the same results that I am. When applied correctly, alpha tactics can get you a lot of plates to spin, or a quality LTR. Those who say its hopeless just aren't good enough. Another Red Pill right there.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 12:46 PM
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You missed that AWALT. TRP is not here to help you achieve your monogamous blue pill goal by finding your sweetheart unicorn who's not a slut like the rest of girls. It IS possible for a girl to be faithful to a man, if you are the right man. Those who say that it isn't possible aren't getting the same results that I am.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 12:45 PM
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my point was that girls who get tingles from criminals definitely have some issues going on MOST girls, if not all, get tingles from rule breakers, aggression, the ability to inflict violence, and other traits that criminals have. Its natural, is evolutionary psychology, its biological. Its not necessarily the criminality that gives them the tingles, its the traits the criminal has. Men without these traits tend to bore women. Human are violent animals, females are attracted to strong, aggressiv…
/r/askTRP04/10/19 12:33 PM
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Blue pill goals aren't wrong, but blue tactics and life styles are. Every beta wants a wife and family, but they can't achieve that because they don't behave like alphas in the sexual market. We can achieve that. Succinctly put and SO accurate. So many have a hard time understanding that. You can have a quality LTR as a goal, but must use red pill tactics and life style to achieve it.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 12:28 PM
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There are a lot of misconceptions about relationships and 9s and 10s, among those even in the RP community. IMO, the goal of the Red Pill shouldn't be to spin plates until eternity. You are going to get old, and eventually, a family with kids and a great LTR with a 9-10 is the ultimate goal. Its RP on God Mode and most can't master it, even here. But I'll be honest with you. I am in an LTR with one of those 10s. She's not the first great one that I've had and I don't turn into the blue pill beta…
/r/askTRP04/10/19 12:25 PM
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Yeah, that sucks. But it will be okay, a relationship with her sounds pretty shitty. There is much better out there than this. And with her, it will only get worse. Plan something else for your other two days this weekend and make it happen, either with friends or with another girl if you can. When she see you don't give a fuck, she might start giving a shit again.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 09:46 PM
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There are some beta-provider accountants out there, I'm sure. But their women would rather be fucked by Jeremy Meeks. (In reality, not all accountants are beta pushovers, the example is symbolic, not completely literal).
/r/askTRP03/10/19 09:40 PM
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Something is seriously wrong with your LTR, don't even bother sending her another message after that. I'd start planning a weekend without her at this point.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 09:38 PM
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Honestly, I'm not sure. I haven't maxed out on either one of them.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 06:09 PM
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Perfectly said, and the other 80% of accountants are posting in the cuckold subreddit.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 06:00 PM
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Not only that, but also that the kind of women waiting for their criminal bf's to be out of jail are not the same kind of women being posted about in deadbedrooms. A girl who likes to hang out with criminals and the likes of them definitely have issues. I see a lot of NAWALT in your post. The women who are waiting for criminal boyfriends aren't being talked about in deadbedrooms because they have men who excite them (as opposed to the boring, low testosterone, rule followers who post about their…
/r/askTRP03/10/19 05:59 PM
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True, not every accountant, there are alphas and betas in every profession. But criminality does better than boring conformists on average.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 05:57 PM
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I would invite her to do something ONCE and if she doesn't get out of the house to do it with you, stop calling or texting her. Here are my reasons for that. She's the one who declined YOUR invitation to get coffee. She is also not being very nice the way that she is accusing you of not texting nor calling her. I tend to think that this a manifestation of her losing interest in you and starting fights over nothing. However, I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt and saying that you invite her O…
/r/askTRP03/10/19 05:55 PM
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No need to. My legs are naturally strong to begin with, and I get the leg exercise by playing sports and occasionally sprinting.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 05:40 PM
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" I don't want to go there anymore because of this, it's not fully comfortable, there's no intimacy. I don't know how to tell her that yet. " Talking like that won't get you anywhere. " I told her if you want to speak, we can go for a coffee and catch up. " Let's get a cup of coffee???? WTF? ​ Honestly, the reason why she doesn't want to leave her home isn't because of homework, its because you are BORING the hell out of her. No matter how much homework she has, she'll always find time to leave …
/r/askTRP03/10/19 12:39 PM
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You're not understanding TRP. (Or MY understanding of TRP anyways, lol). It's simply using strategies to maximize your results with women. It can be distinguished from conventional (blue pill) strategies because it is pragmatic and realistic (as opposed to fictional, ineffective, and based on falsehoods). Red pill is simply accepting what actually works and doesn't work with women (and in life if you want to apply it further). It can be used for a healthy LTR. In fact, I would say that applied t…
/r/askTRP03/10/19 12:27 PM
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Unlike many here, I never "discovered" the red pill movement. I learned things only through the school of life and learned there was something called the red pill after I was already set in my beliefs and ways. I'm a teenager, working at a store. There was this girl who worked there, early 20s, older than me. 5'8", 120, long hair, real pretty face. She ends up getting a boyfriend who is an old gangster, about 40-45. This old gangster takes her places, starts hooking up with her, and eventually t…
/r/askTRP03/10/19 12:17 PM
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No, don't next her. No, don't get butthurt and say "I won't tolerate it." I would probably laugh about it or ignore it entirely. She is trying to drag down your self esteem. All you have to do is not give her the reaction she wants. There is no point nexting, you won't find a girl who doesn't do this, they don't exist. How a girl behaves is partially a reflection of YOU and not just of her.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 12:09 PM
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Yeah, I know a girl who had a kid with guy who is 20 years older than her. I seriously was tripping the fuck out how he got this girl. She's about an 8. But he looks like dogshit, kind of chubby, kind of short, looks like crap. He is actually shorter than her and two decades older. She said its because she liked him for being a "bad boy" and that he used cocaine. Her words, not mine. I would have thought that the bad boy aspect was not enough to overcome this guy's terrible looks and age differe…
/r/askTRP03/10/19 12:05 PM
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Its fun to talk about, and it can't be repeated enough. You should see some of the girls waiting for their boyfriends to be bailed out of jail, they show up to the jail girled up for these guys. Meanwhile, the nice guy accountants and middle managers are posting in dead bedrooms about not being able to get a kiss. I think its hilarious and its so eye opening that it can really teach guys a lot about women.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 12:00 PM
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I know a guy who sent a text "I miss you" to a girl he had been hooking up with. After that, she ended up kicking him to the curb. We talked about it and he admitted that it was a simp move. Should you EVER say I love you or I miss you? It can be said sparingly and at the right times (I love you). I would recommend saying it the context of her sharing her feelings with you, if SHE says I love you, or I miss you. Don't initiate the conversation with these words.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 11:50 AM
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"Just be a good listener bruh"
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 11:42 AM
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lol, bullshit. I'm not trying to hang out with a bunch of swinging dicks. I prefer nutting in dimes over male bonding. You go ahead an hang out with a bunch of men, while I go nut in a girl and then lounge with her as she makes me something to eat afterwards.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:08 AM
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Sprinting isn't like long distance running, it won't drain muscle. When I sprint, I only sprint for a few minutes. Run 100 meters, take a few minute break, run 100 meters, take a few minute break, I'll only do 5 total sprints. Do a search in google for a sprinters body vs. a marathon runner and you'll see what I mean.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:07 AM
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I agree that it isn't constructive to insult the people who come here asking for advice. If they have come here, they are realizing that the conventional advice they usually get is not working. I try to take the time to explain to them what they need to do. They are looking for something more personal and specific than "read the sidebar," as they are brand new to some of the tactics here and have not yet digested them or don't fully believe them yet. Great post for pointing this out.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:44 PM
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I've only got up to 185, it depends on your height. You reach a point of diminishing returns and negative returns with weight lifting. Going to the gym is great, but going extreme with your physique makes you look like a try hard and eventually even makes you less attractive.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:39 PM
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Its approximations. Of course it doesn't go up in extreme increments.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:38 PM
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It was pretty simple, I looked at a bodybuilding forum, looked at the beginner routine, and partially adopted it. I just do a 4 or 5 sets of bench press, barbell press, barbell curls, bent over rows with some heavy ass weights. Sometimes I'll do some weighted dips, pull ups, or weighted pushups instead. No bullshit squats or autistic deadlifts, I don't want to mess up my lower back and joints, I do jump rope and just a few sprints every now and then for HIIT, and hit a heavy bag. The sprinting d…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:36 PM
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Good luck, you can do it, but you have to strap on your balls and actually do the things that I say.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:33 PM
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Agreed. Brad Pitt on fight club is a little thinner, that works too. I'm built similar to the legend of Tarzan guy, a little bit wider shoulders and traps, a little bulkier and more fat as well, but similar.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 07:31 PM
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You need to grow a spine and be strong enough to make big changes in your life. It might sound difficult, but its NOT, because the alternative is wasting your life, wasting your time, and getting old with nothing to show for your youth. When you put it in perspective, it should be easy to be motivated enough to do it. Lose the weight, 5'7" 204 is terrible, lose the weight and put on some muscles, do some HIIT (look it up) and lift heavy. Getting in shape has a domino effect of positivity in your…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 04:47 PM
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VERY good advice, the biggest one of all is talking to hot girls. I did this same thing (all of the above) and the results changed my life.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 04:38 PM
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Improving the way you dress and losing the GEEK look is something that many men don't do. They'll go to the gym, but they'll keep dressing like a boring ass, and they keep their nerdy haircut and style.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 04:37 PM
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" Onenitis is a bitch especially for me to have those feelings for the first time in my life. Bc school I am surrounded by girls everyday but they don't compare, so rare to have the physical AND mental plus In a girl. " ​ Let that be a lesson to you, never develop oneitis again. It always has the same result. I disagree with your reaction, I don't think focusing on the gym, studies, and hobbies is effective. The fact that you still feel empty inside is proof of that. ​ I had an LTR break up with…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 04:34 PM
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I think your problem was lack of abundance. You should have an entire roster of girls that you are going for AND an entire roster of second tier girls who always want to talk to you. That is my fix for your problem, I don't think anything else is effective. Apparently, you did not have enough numbers, so you are looking for an alternative. Realistically, I don't think an effective alternative exists for male psychology and needs for female attention. Just the honest (although inconvenient) truth…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 04:29 PM
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I do HIIT for cardio, either sprinting, jump rope, or accelerated heavy-bag work. It is very minimal. Aside from that, I just do heavy compound lifts, bench press (usually sets of 200 10X), bent over rows, curls, barbell press, weighted dips, pull ups, and weighted pushups. Its amazing how efficient HIIT and heavy weights are when compared to more conventional exercising that most people waste their time with at the gym.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 04:25 PM
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When your girlfriend tells you that you can have sex with other women, it means her interest in you has DECLINED. If she likes you and/or thinks you actually CAN have sex with other attractive women, she does not say this PERIOD. ​ ​ This is a symptom that your value, in her eyes, has declined, and that your LTR is close to being on life support. She might think you can't fuck a hot girl, or is questioning your actual value. If she is willing to tell you that she wants to spend time with other m…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 04:18 PM
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I agree with that, I don't think the ideal build is that of a bodybuilder. It would be low body fat, pretty good muscles, but not huge. Its actually not real hard to accomplish, I only lift about twice a week for 45 minutes or so.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 04:08 PM
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In ask trp, you said " 90% of girls couldn't give two shits about meme biceps and big muscles. " I disagree with your general opinion about girls not caring about muscles and strength. When I started lifting and got buffed, I noticed things go easier with girls. I was successful before, but it just got a lot easier after packing on some extra muscle.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 12:30 PM
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Yeah, I did this. I invited a girl to a hotel, she walks in dressed to the nines to look good for me. We've never hooked up before. We start touching and I immediately pick her up, her legs in one of my arms, her back/shoulder in the other, and she puts her arms around my neck. I start kissing her while holding her. I'm 5'11" 180 and she is about 5'2" 115 would be my guess.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 12:27 PM
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To me, oneitis is cured by spending time with another girl. My biggest example, was when I was in high school and was hooked on ONE girl for a long time. I ended up meeting another girl. She invited me to her place, I was with her for a few hours and left. I said "wow, after being with her, I don't give a FUCK about that other girl anymore."
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:21 PM
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I did fine with women when I was skinnier and before I lifted heavy (I used to train for speed and sports). But once I put on 15-20 lbs. of muscle from heavy lifting, things got SO MUCH easier. I wondered why I didn't do it before. You CAN do fine with game alone, but why would you make things harder on yourself when you can have things on easy mode by lifting?
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:09 PM
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It might be an easy shit test to pass. She is trying to see if you are going to get rattled by her calling another name. Some guys will get real jealous and start asking about this other guy and doing all kinds of whiny, insecure bullshit. I would just laugh about it or ignore it and not be rattled one bit. See her shit test become instantly deflated when you don't care. ​ If it wasn't a shit test and just happened because she was thinking about the guy, which is unlikely IMO, she is just a plat…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 11:55 AM
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I really liked that article, a lot of great insight in there.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/19 02:49 PM
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I hate to break it to you: It's NOT your fucking job. There are lots of badge bunnies out there, I know cops who have hot ass girls, reliable girls, faithful girls.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 02:16 PM
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If you are looking for "informative, stategic information about getting ahead in the modern world" search for that. Red pill videos are going to focus on dating strategies and what you are looking for is only related to the extent that it increases your marketability with women.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 02:11 PM
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To everyone who says "65,000 is not a lot of money" just STFU, this is a worldwide forum and if you make a mere $32K a year, that puts you in the top 1% of earners worldwide. https://www.investopedia.com/articles/personal-finance/050615/are-you-top-one-percent-world.asp 65K might not be a lot in New York on California, but in most places, you are doing just fine. Now, on to the question. To some, spinning plates, finding hobbies, and making money is a mission. To me, its not enough. You're getti…
/r/askTRP29/09/19 01:54 PM
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If you want to be a bad boy, treat women like shit, etc., you might get some play early on, but you will end up divorced after your wife becomes tired of your shit and starts banging someone on the side. You are very blue pilled. Most women that are getting banged on the side have a BB husband and are getting banged by the bad boy. Your assumption that being nice to women guarantees a happy LTR and will make her faithful to you is CLASSIC blue pill mythology.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 01:46 PM
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Let's take those qualities away from a 4-star general and see how much of an alpha man / leader he is. ​ There are 4-star generals who are losers with women. ​ Douglas Macarthur, his wife would always talk about his limp organ and tell her friends that he might be a general on the battle field, but he is a private in the bedroom. ​ Being a good beta provider or a reliable company man doesn't mean you are successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 01:43 PM
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Going to the gym doesn't raise your physical attractiveness by much Yes and no. Most guys who go to the gym continue to be BORING simps, despite their muscle. You need to couple the muscle with fashion sense and a high social IQ. ​ Going to the gym can bring you up a few points.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 01:40 PM
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Because its not just SMV that gets you hot girls, its BALLS. That is something that a lot here just don't get. In reality, its not the most handsome or the richest guys who get the hottest girls, its the guys with the most BALLS. Looks and success and SMV definitely help, they help immensely, but they don't guarantee that a coward, a cuck, a beta, or a wimp will have a hot girlfriend. Actors and singers are often betas who don't deserve and don't have enough balls for the hottest women.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 01:46 PM
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I've hit up on girls of different levels of attraction. You aren't any more likely to get rejected just because the girl is hotter. Ugly girls will reject you about as often as hot girls, maybe even more, so they can boost their self esteem with one of the many guys who are brave enough to talk to them, (those same guys being too insecure to hit on hot girls). ​ MOST guys are intimidated by hot girls, so those of us who DO hit on hot girls are a select few, and the hot girls tend to reciprocate …
/r/askTRP26/09/19 02:36 PM
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I actually appreciate the existence of guys like you. You eliminate yourselves form the competition for the hot girls. Thanks bruh!
/r/askTRP26/09/19 02:33 PM
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How many approaches have you tried? ​ I decided to try lots of approaches, and I had the OPPOSITE impression (from rejection), I completely lost all fear of rejection after rejected a few times. I've now hooked up with lots of girls on approaches, including my current LTR.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 01:27 PM
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I would go, and just wouldn't buy them shit and see how they react.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 01:23 PM
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The lesson in that is not that you need to work on your texting, its that you need to text LESS.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 12:36 PM
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You might be right, but you might also be a little too optimistic.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 12:02 PM
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I'll make sure I consult with you before I say anything next time.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 12:01 PM
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lol, I got my red pill knowledge from real life experiences, not from exhaustively reading the "sidebar," so sometimes when a member of the comment-etiquette police points out that my knowledge matches the red pill philosophy, I always take it as a compliment. In any event, it needs to be mentioned MORE, and I know from personal experience, dating hotties, and having other hotties wanting to get with me as a result. Yesterday, after I answered this question, on another thread someone said "You m…
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:34 PM
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Nope. It's not that they can't tell, it's that they don't care. To put it more accurately, whether a man is good or bad is totally irrelevant to female mating strategy. It does not even appear on their radar. Perfectly said. Both OP's post and the response both operate under the assumption that women are trying to avoid "bad guys" and would really prefer "good guys." That makes both posts completely off from the start. Just look at the girls that drug cartel members and mafia hitman get, the sam…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 01:27 PM
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You might come off as a "player" even if you're not, which might make women not want to date you. That sounds blue pill as fuck. If a girl knows you can get a lot more girls, she likes you more.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 12:28 AM
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I'll be honest with you, its lack of balls. A lot of guys who are handsome tend to underperform, guys who are 9s and 10s have girlfriends who are 7s. They are used to being approached or having girls being so available that they don't have to try as hard. They don't have the balls to risk it all with the hottest girls and get shot down. They can't risk a hit to their ego. The fact that you are here telling us that you are handsome tells me you haven't taken a lot of risks and gotten rejected nea…
/r/askTRP22/09/19 12:28 AM
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I used to be in strength training - I was into playing a lot of sports, including combat. I used mainly bodyweight training, pushups, pullups, dips. I was fast as fuck and strong as fuck too. ​ I did a 180 and hit heavy weights for hypertrophy.. I don't play sports as much as I did, but I look a lot more buffed.. Female attention went up BIG TIME after putting on the muscle and focusing on looks. ​ It depends on where you are in your life and what is important.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 12:26 AM
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Yeah, I had one-itis for a girl real bad a long time ago. I still see here now and then, and after having hooked up with a lot of girls, I am embarrassed to think I used to be into her and wonder WTF was wrong with me.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 12:24 AM
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I didn't mention "fucking chicks," but since you brought it up, YES, the quality of fucking chicks does have a positive impact on a man in multiple ways. Only a coper or a MGTOW would pretend otherwise in order to shield themselves from reality. Its not just number, its also quality, being in a great sexual relationship with one high quality woman is great as well.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 12:18 AM
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Your little brother probably won't be able to pull off what is needed in this situation, but its time for him to try. If he fails, so what? That is part of being a man. A great aphrodisiac that is rarely mentioned here for some reason, is when girls see you hook up with SUPER HOT girls, they start liking you too. He has three options: Take a hot ass girl there Hook up with a girl there Meet several girls there and save them for later Most guys don't have the balls to try these, he needs to try, …
/r/askTRP21/09/19 02:01 PM
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You're red pill, but you're acting like the fact he doesn't have a gf is cause for embarrassment. Hmm. Red pill ≠ MGTOW It IS embarrassing if you don't have a girl to take or don't end up hooking up with a girl at the party, it says a lot about your SMV and a lot about what kind of man you are (lack of balls, lack of success with women, undesirable, social loser). If I'm going to a party, I'm either going to take a girl, or hook up with a girl there, or meet several girls there for later. I will…
/r/askTRP21/09/19 01:57 PM
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Yeah, lol. Check out what happened to me, this is my biggest simp moment, and I think its hilarious now. I'm trying to get with this girl for a long time just like you. A huge, fat, ugly girl becomes friend with my one-itis, just to try to have access to me. The fat girl talks to my one-itis and asks if she (the fat girl) has a chance with me. My one-itis tells her, "yes, yes you do, deathhandmachiavelli is such a nice guy" ​ That was a wake up call that I was acting like a simp. You got yours a…
/r/askTRP21/09/19 01:48 PM
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If on reddit you can't apply the IDGAF attitude it says a lot what you are like in real life. Well said, when I see people here get angry about post etiquette, I think to myself they must have never had to deal with some REAL shit in life.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 01:43 PM
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Just relax about the sidebar. Why get so mad about this? I like it when people ask questions and like to discuss things. The REAL answer to your question? The sidebar is helpful and provides information, but a post and a discussion has more life and is much more interesting.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 01:41 PM
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They're just saying that the end-goals of that process might not be about sex. MGTOW is nothing new, it is simply the weak being locked out of the sexual marketplace. In ancient Egypt, only 1 in 17 men actually managed to reproduce, in Britain over 1,000 years ago, the native British were essentially locked off from having sexual access to their own women by invaders (both shown by genetic testing). Conquerors like Genghis Khan have plenty of sex, regardless of whether or not they see women as t…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 01:34 PM
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Great post, so many truths in there. There are literally millions that would improve their lives immensely if they read what you just wrote and followed it. I came to many of the same conclusions as you by living a tough life and having to overcome adversity.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 01:31 PM
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Why are your 20s the prime years for attracting dimes? You are also in your physical peak (regardless of what some copers say). You are acquainted with much more young women. You have a very high sex drive and so do they.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 01:16 PM
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You had an LTR with a 3? Be happy it is over, why are you sad? You should be celebrating, you were wasting your life with an ugly girl. NEVER have an LTR with such a low quality girl again. I see guys do this, they date ugly ass girls because they don't have the BALLS to face potential rejection by going after the hotties. So they settle with the ugly girl who gave them attention. To be honest, that is just pathetic. Its not your SMV, its your lack of balls and your fear of taking risks. It says…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 01:24 PM
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lol, no it doesn't. You might find it easier to say "bye" to low quality girls though, and nothing is wrong with that.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 01:18 PM
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I just say I don't know or I don't remember. No matter how much they press me, I don't tell them, they give up and its never had any negative results. For me, I'm being honest, I'd have to sit down and count girlfriends that I've had, I've never done it.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 01:17 PM
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I find posts complaining about the way people post to be the worst of all. People have different ways of expressing themselves and different topics that they want to discuss. Why complain that you don't like the way they are doing it? That's petty and silly to be bothered by something so small. There are plenty of quality posts here, and for those who are new here, they want to DISCUSS, not just read the sidebar. Discussion and feedback is very useful and more enjoyable. The purpose of the subre…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 12:58 PM
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Don't overreact. I've had girls who invite their friends and we still end up being intimate. In a quality relationship, sometimes she is going to invite her friends and vice versa. If you are ALWAYS with her friends, then you are right. If it is only occasional, its okay. Soft-nexting is overkill.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 12:56 PM
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Churches aren't doing it for anyone anymore, which is why they are empty and shutting down. They used to be center of society in many ways. Their abandonment of anything masculine has caused their decline, their cowardice if the face of societal change.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 12:53 PM
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Going to modern Christian services, and that includes Catholic, is deflating. It is so weak, there is nothing about strength or following the teachings of the church. The mega-churches are about praying to a god so he can give you wealth, health, and other goodies during your life.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 12:51 PM
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You need to read through the lines, he said " Been forcing myself to cold approach, go on dates, try and spin plates, go out to bars, ect but I'm not really enjoying any of it that much right now. " If his game was any good, he would be enjoying it and wouldn't have "performance anxiety" and feel like shit the way he does. If your game is good, than life is good. Handling school and working out isn't that fucking hard that you need to stop gaming girls to focus on it.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 12:47 PM
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Improving SMV is mainly approving your appearance and your ability to talk to girls, practicing game in real life, improving attitude,social intelligence, like you say. Improving your education, profession, and things like that do help, but they are only secondary characteristics that are not, in themselves, enough to have any success with woman whatsoever.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 12:45 PM
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I am thinking of some examples of how I have escalated and don't really have a guide. Some are lame AF but these are some real life examples, some of them are rookie, some are embarrassing, some worked better than others. What I observed AFTER writing them, is that there is no guide (for me anyways), you just go for it and it happens. You usually feel it. I tried to force it a couple times, but it sometimes works out at the end. ​ Example 1: I'm trying to get with this girl, she says she only wa…
/r/askTRP19/09/19 01:01 PM
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Yeah, she's about to break up with you. And she's looking to boost her ego while doing it. The WORST thing you can do is engage in this stupid discussion that she wants you to engage in. It will just be an ego-boosting exercise for her to break up with you after you ask her what is wrong and tell her how you want to fix it. Don't acknowledge her feelings by saying "I feel the same thing, it won't work between us." Either break up with her or don't answer at all and completely ghost.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 12:20 PM
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You're looking for a technical manual, it doesn't exist. You have to develop social skills and know GENERALLY how to respond, you aren't going to find an effective list of canned responses.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 12:08 PM
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His body language is illustrative of the kind of weak man that he is. It is also a reflection of the fact that he wants your girl and subconsciously, can't look at you because of the shame he feels in wanting to wrong you, and because he's a little afraid that you might be aware of this at some level.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 12:05 PM
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Cut the time spent perusing pussy and invest it improving your SMV and life, pussy will be gotten as a side effect. I see this a lot here, and its total bullshit. I just answered a post from someone who has a good job, goes to college, eats healthy, exercises, and wonders why he doesn't get girls. Getting girls is a function of how ATTRACTIVE you are, as well as your attitude, social intelligence, charisma, psychology and BALLS. These are first tier qualities. Improving other facets of your life…
/r/askTRP19/09/19 12:01 PM
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" Anything wrong with taking a few weeks off of honing my game to get my mind right? " Yes, EVERYTHING is wrong with it. You actually think you are going to get better at something by NOT doing it? The best way to hone your game is to PRACTICE.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 11:56 AM
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I wouldn't worry about it, let him be a beta-orbiter hovering around. You can't do anything about it. If you look disturbed by his presence, your LTR will perceive you as insecure, and it will even look worse that this weak-ass beta orbiter is making you insecure. My response would be to OCCASIONALLY crack jokes about him or laugh about something you observed about him. But don't look butthurt. Ridicule is a good way to diminish someone in a woman's eyes, but it should only be used sparingly so …
/r/askTRP19/09/19 11:42 AM
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I don't know about your theory, but what you say about the church is true. Modern Christianity is pathetically WEAK.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 11:36 AM
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" I can't just approach and say 'Hi" because that just doesn't work in a place like school. " ​ Works for me.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 11:30 AM
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" The problem that I have is that approaching girls that I find attractive. " ​ This is what separates those who get the hottest girls and those who don't, BALLS. Most guys never can get the nerve to talk to the hottest girls in person, so they never get them.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 11:29 AM
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You're assuming the foreigner is a BB, how do you know that he isn't a AF?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 11:23 AM
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Great post, I upvoted - girls LOVE to get back with you to break up on their own terms. Its a self esteem killer for them to be dumped by a guy, they can't stand it. But I don't think he needs to show that he is butthurt the way you recommend, he doesn't have to say "I don't give a fuck, you are disqualified" or block her. Indifference is a MUCH more effective weapon, and it also acts as an aphrodisiac. I wouldn't block her, I would just ghost like I don't care and not even care enough to block …
/r/askTRP19/09/19 11:18 AM
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I'm glad you broke up with her, but my method of breaking up with her would have been different. I would have just ghosted for the fun of it or just sent her a real simple break up text. Simple break up texts crushes her self esteem a lot more than a thoughtful essay. If you were on the brink of being broken up with yourself, than it was too late to ghost, but ghosting is the funnest way to break up. ​ I guy that I know had a girlfriend that kept going out to parties and acting meaner and bitchi…
/r/askTRP19/09/19 11:14 AM
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Much like following an ideology that teaches you how to get casual sex from women and despises marriage while simultaneously whining that you want traditionalism. You much be getting me confused with someone else. You are attributing attributes and beliefs to me that I don't have. But as far as your assertion about "getting" casual sex. Women choose who they have sex with. No need to take that responsibility away from them, that's sexist of you. It is better to be one of those men than not be on…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 11:03 AM
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Plenty of women split the bill on dates and ask men out. It’s pretty normal. A sample of 54,000 OKcupid users were asked about the question. https://theblog.okcupid.com/undressed-how-progressive-are-millennials-when-it-comes-to-paying-the-bill-6f8e8b91a7bf When it comes to the first date: 59% of men and less than 1% of women say they’d pay the whole bill. ​ ONE PERCENT! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 11:35 AM
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Well said. Women don't really ask for "equality," they ask for more privileges in SOME areas of life, while maintaining the old privileges of traditional male-female relationships in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 11:25 AM
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I looked at your history and you're an opiate addict. So right back at you, any man who is addicted to a substance isn't much of a man at all.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 10:58 AM
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It was based more on genes and natural ability to build muscle. Now, with weights, anyone can FRAUD having good genes.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:34 PM
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"I came to the realization last night and this morning that...I can't save her. Even if I could, why would she want to be saved? Women have an unlimited source of validation, attention, and resources to not face their internal problems. Yes, I had the chance at sex that other men would pay hundreds for, but wouldn't that be feeding into the problem?" ​ Save her from what? What "problem" are you talking about? It sounds like you've been living in some kind of fantasy land or some kind of bubble. …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 01:32 PM
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Nice post, but not true. Females always have more SMV than males, even into their 30s, they still have more options than men most of the time.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 01:30 PM
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There is much discussion on here about boosting one's SMV and about AWALT and branch swinging. People take those concepts to logical extremes Good posts. People here try to approach it as a science and it leaves out a lot of social nuances. No matter who you are, you will get dumped and you will get rejected by girls.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:23 PM
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lol, come on bro, getting dumped shouldn't hit you that hard. I've been dumped too. Just bounce back.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:22 PM
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It depends on the guy. I HATE fixing things and don't get any satisfaction for it. I fix things when I have to, but I don't find any fun in it, nor do I feel better about myself after I do it.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 01:13 PM
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Great post. Living outside of the US is very eye opening in so many ways. I lived outside of the US for a while.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 01:08 PM
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Aggressive strong men give girls the tingles. Attraction isn't a logical decision, it is an innate one. Naturally speaking, girls are looking for a strong, courageous, aggressive mate. The criminal probably has higher T levels, is more likely to take risks, better fighting skills, and has better genetic quality than most other men. This is actually very revealing, and flies in the face of the standard advice that many give around here "pursue your hobby, become a success, make money, and THEN ge…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:56 PM
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I could care less about women, my guy friends always take priority. -infamous3238 You are telling people on here to hang out with their guys friends and develop hobbies. And that you regret the time you spent with girls. Anyone giving that lame-ass, bullshit, advice hasn't had the same experiences I have with women. You must have been mediocre as hell with them if you are that jaded. If you apply the RP successfully, then this wouldn't be your advice. I've had a DREAM ass life with hot girls. I'…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:48 PM
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After you’ve slept with enough women you realize there’s more to life then “nutting in dimes” which isn’t a hobby to begin with. Like it or not, being with a very attractive woman is one of the biggest endorphine creating, psychologically fulfilling moments to a human male. No male ever gets tired of being with hot girls, nor regrets it. Unless he has a low sex drive or is trying to COPE by saying "being with girls is a waste of time." I don't regret a single girl I've ever been with, those were…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:43 PM
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I never said I put anything on hold. But before I made any money or started any businesses, I was already fucking 10s. People can choose not to believe me if they want. The thing about being successful is that most people are only successful in one or two areas of life. A successful person's advice is rarely followed. And its easier for mediocre people to disbelieve the advice and even attack the person giving it. For girls, its easy for losers to believe that its better to pursue "hobbies" or w…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:14 PM
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Money and achieving goals only makes you a beta provider.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 12:06 PM
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I'd be careful to listen to you. This all sounds like bullshit. Which part of it? The part about getting DIMES? You admitted yourself on this thread that you are "bitter" So obviously, you aren't one of the ones getting the dimes. So I'm not surprised that you're being a hater when I try to give OP real advice. ​ ​ Also, I noticed on your post history that you said "I played over 1100 games" on a video game subreddit, you also said that you have depression, and you also said " I'm a bitter, mad …
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:55 PM
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never thinking about the sacrifices their man makes so they can go fuck around. A lot of guys have the misconception that their sacrifices will be remembered and a girl will stick by you because of them.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 01:46 PM
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"I will go in monk mode this month to regain my energy." ​ Great story, but is that really necessary? I obviously function differently from a lot of you guys, I would just call another girl. You are supposed to have an entire roster of back ups.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 01:46 PM
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and always remember: your mission is not pussy :) Stop with that bullshit, nutting in a dime is better than getting "accolades" at work, or whatever other coping strategy you are using. Too much MGTOW loser bullshit filters its way into here. Like it or nut, being with a very attractive woman is one of the biggest endorphine creating, psychologically fulfilling moments to a human male.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 01:41 PM
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I'm like a 7, and people are still like this. No one is happy to see other's succeed. SO true. I was reading another thread in asktrp, they were asking guys in their 30s for advice for younger guys. A bunch of the guys were giving the advice to "cultivate male friendships" In my experience, my male friends have been jealous of the girls I get, my career, my money, traveling, and success.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 01:40 PM
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Damn, this is a great post. Thanks for sharing. Keep it up bro!
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 01:39 PM
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What is a BPD? I checked the glossary on the sidebar and didn't find it. Do you mean borderline personality disorder? ​ No, I found the TRP through LIFE and personal experience. I stumbled onto the "red pill" discussions after figuring this all out on my own. I figured this out during my last couple years of high school.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:36 PM
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I wish I had taken bigger and more risks and failed harder. (now age 60) Good advice. Take BIG risks, I have been taking big risks, talking to the hottest girls I can find, stock market investments, starting my own business (now have started TWO businesses - the second makes some money on the side and the first one is doing well). It has been working out, BIG risks, going for it all, life is short.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:32 PM
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Don’t chase girls, not even for deep friendships (it is ok for superficial shit)... it never ends well. Cultivate good deep male friendships What the fuck is this? MGTOW? Most of my male friends are less successful than me and resent my money and the hot girls that I have, I am much more successful than them in all aspects of life, the myth of the noble male friend is being pushed here a lot, they can be petty haters as well. Why would I waste my time cultivating deep male friendships, just fuck…
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:29 PM
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You can focus on making money when you are in your 70s.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:28 PM
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OP, be careful who you listen to here. There is a LOT of MGTOW garbage here about pursuing your career and hobbies instead of women. This sounds like all the crap our high school teachers told us, lol. You have your WHOLE LIFE to work. But in your 20s, that is when you enjoy sex and women the most, and it is also when you are in the position to get with the most dimes. It was in my teens that I said "fuck it" and started taking big risks in every aspect of life, hot girls was my first success be…
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:26 PM
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EXACTLY! I'm shocked at how many people here are saying "I chased too many women." BULLSHIT! Going after dimes in your teens 20s is something you should NOT miss out on. Like it or not, the 20s are prime year for getting with dimes. You don't want to miss out on that in your 20s for ego protection.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:20 PM
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Now I could care less about women, my guy friends always take priority. Is this what TRP has become? Hanging out with guy friends? MGTOW? WTF seriously?
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:17 PM
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Spent less time staying out late chasing girls, and more time investing in my career and hobbies. ​ So basically, your advice is go MGTOW and pursue fucking HOBBIES and a CAREER? If this is such good advice, why are all of the mgtows and incels so miserable? Let the guy enjoy his youth and stop giving this terrible, youth-jealous advice that you are giving. My best memories are with hot ass girls. Hobbies? My hobby is nutting in dimes.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:15 PM
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"She's not yours, it's just your turn". I say this phrase is bullshit and we need to stop saying it. " OP, thank you for this. I'm glad this is finally being addresses. That line has been bullshit from day 1. Whoever says it obviously is not getting the same results that I am.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 01:03 PM
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30 minutes a day is too much cardio and gets in the way of muscle gains when you are lifting heavy. What he should ACTUALLY do, is HIIT. High Intensity Interval Training. It increases testosterone and is more effective than long cardio sessions.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:04 PM
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20 a day? You aren't going to get anywhere with that. I used to focus on pushups and do 300 in an evening. The first couple sets would be 50 each, and then they would go down. Pretty soon, I would be down to 10 and would wait 1 minute between sets. I'm a natural push up machine though. You should do inclined pushups, clap push ups, and buy yourself a 20lb weight vest and a 40lb weight vest. Do pushups with those on and your overall strength should increase so that you can do more. Pullups, I'll …
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:58 PM
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You are going down the flawed road of believing what women SAY about what they like.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:54 PM
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I also theorize that there is a feedback loop, when you are having sex with hot girls, your overall mental health, T-levels, and success in all other levels also increase. My dad told me this, he said he would get "energized" whenever he had sex with a hot girl. I've noticed the same through experience, I haven't had a dry spell in a while and have sex about 5-10 times a week.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:49 PM
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Too much cardio lowers testosterone.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:42 PM
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Being celibate is for losers. Men crave and need intimacy with women. Historically, weak and conquered men have been forced to celibacy. I think of two examples, ancient Egypt and ancient Britain, most men did not reproduce with women, they were locked out of the sexual marketplace because of weakness and/or they had been conquered. The existence of MGTOWs and Incels today are just the least desirable men being locked out of sexual relationship with women because of their inability to be sociall…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:41 PM
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I don't know him real well, he seems kind of quiet, masculine, hard working, and dedicated to her. He's not a great looking guy.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:21 AM
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If you have 1 million dollars, you can set it up so that you don't have to work anymore. You can easily buy some apartments, dividend stocks, and bonds and REPLACE a middle class income without having to show up to work. So, he has TIME, and a middle class income for life. That means he has it made. TIME is your most precious asset, and a million dollars gives you enough work-free income to enjoy your life.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:20 AM
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No, don't tell your parents (or her parents) that you are having sex. Nothing good will come out of that either. It sounds like you are so focused on finishing her, that you are considering all sorts of options that are bad ideas.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:11 PM
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You're not trying to hook if with a lot of girls, you're just doing the solitary "self improvement" that is praised here. Social life and talking to girls every day is what you are apparently missing here (the most important part). ​ I never went "monk mode," I just started talking to new girls EVERY DAY. Being with dimes and eventually high quality LTRs is something I experienced before any other kind of success.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:08 PM
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She didn't finish you another way?
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:02 PM
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No, don't do that. Don't force someone to ingest something that they are unaware of. The morning after pill has side effects and has a very strong hormonal dose.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:01 PM
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it's because as a MAN you are physically and mentally stronger You are coping. Society and individuals just like women better.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 12:58 PM
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You are set for life, so why are you doing overnights fulltime???? You are 34 and not getting any younger. Quit that job and have some fun. But I agree with you, don't disclose your fortune, you'll attract the wrong kind of women.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 12:54 PM
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lol, the only reason to use dating apps is to FIND the kind of girl you are describing here.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 12:44 PM
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I had a girl who was super religious. I mean SUPER religious, would only listen to Christian music, would only watch Christian movies, would only wear dresses. She would always talk about the bible and go to church 3 times a week. It ended up not working out because I wasn't willing to accept the lifestyle that she chose. ​ But she was a GREAT girl, and she was hotter than hell. She didn't skimp on the makeup and dolling herself up. In her long dresses, you could see her nice silhouette. To say …
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:34 AM
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No, that's not the reason. Society and individuals just like females better than males.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 01:17 AM
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Watching porn causes it. I never watch porn myself and am not into it at all. I'm only interested in real relationships with women and don't see the appeal in cuckold.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:08 AM
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Good response though. I hope date #3 works out for you.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 01:46 AM
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She is basically checking if you are a guy who fucks girls like her on a regular or if she is your unicorn, at which point she will lose all interest. Yup. High quality girls give you some tests to see if you are really up to the task.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:10 AM
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I might have subconsciously put her on a pedestal; I think cutting off all my FWBs in preparation for monk mode caused it There you go right there.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:08 AM
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In my experience, when a girl wants to hook up with you, she'll go anywhere with you, even if you don't have a particular destination in mind. And they don't risk shying away from kissing a guy she is interested in over and over again.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:07 AM
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An aside to begin my answer: "Although I'm in monk mode, it would have been stupid not to talk to her. " Which illustrates the problem of the famed "monk mode." Contrary to the myth that has been pushed here for far too long, "monk mode" doesn't help you with women much at all. The best traits for being successful with women are social intelligence, charisma, psychology, and BALLS - also looks and body (yeah, there are also less important traits that still do help, like money). You develop those…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:01 AM
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Its not that they aren't "good" at spotting misogynists, its that this is not important when they are seeking out a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 07:27 PM
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Women don't chose a man based on whether or not he is a "misogynist," they pick a man based on his GENETIC QUALITY. If a woman senses that a man has great genes, is attractive and powerful, than whether or not they sense the man is in trouble becomes irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 07:27 PM
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Tough pill to swallow, but very true.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:55 PM
1

Great post, yup, this has happened to me. I've let women get too secure while they are in a relationship with me. Talking to them about it doesn't do a lot of good, some really love looking great and are self motivated, but just as many will only get motivated once they think you might be acting bad.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:50 PM
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Apologies to those who like monk mode, that's your thing, you do you. Personally, I think monk mode is complete and utter horseshit. I never had to cut off social interactions in order to improve. When a guy is on "monk mode" he stops trying to get with girls because he's focusing on "self improvement." In reality, honing your charisma, social IQ, interaction skills, IS self improvement. This is actually the kind of self improvement that creates more success with women.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 09:41 PM
1

That was cringey how you passed up on an easy hook-up. ​ (Its not too late to recover though)
/r/askTRP09/09/19 10:59 AM
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Feminism is about empowering ugly and unpleasant women (and hating men, attractive women, and hating men and women getting along).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 10:40 AM
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Yes, true. The societal arrangement, one man married to one woman, contributed to a very productive and stable society, but it was temporary and is not the natural state of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 10:37 AM
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I'm not saying its good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 10:35 AM
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Can I ask you then, what would be a list of things or guideline you would say to a new guy to do? Attitude, social intelligence, charisma, psychology and BALLS are the most useful tools to get women. Those are the first tier traits to be successful with women. I would throw looks and body in there as well. Having hobbies, making money, and having a special purpose are second tier. They help, but aren't a pre-requisite to go out there and start hooking up. I know plenty of guys with purpose, hobb…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 01:54 PM
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There are too many to discuss. The "pay gap" nonsense is a good starting point, its a myth, and is going to be used to economically disadvantage men. https://www.forbes.com/sites/karinagness/2016/04/12/dont-buy-into-the-gender-pay-gap-myth/#50ba32b02596 Democrats always have, and still do, push for affirmative action for women, giving women advantages over men while applying for education and jobs. Democrats always have, and still do, favor giving all decisions over reproductive rights to women …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 01:45 PM
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lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 01:38 PM
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No, I disagree with things here all the time. Most of my posts here are argument, not agreement. I vehemently disagree with the "find a hobby" advice that is constantly pushed. I disagree with the "you need a greater purpose, women love men with purpose in their lives" I disagree with the "work on yourself FIRST" I disagree with the belief that achieving money and success will make you a success with women. ​ Its not an echo chamber as far as I am concerned, ideas are developed and questioned on…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 01:28 PM
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White knights are the same men who use the dating strategy of trying to befriend women with the intention of the friendship eventually developing into something more. Both mentalities/strategies are the outgrowth of a complete misunderstanding of women.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 01:22 PM
2

Cheap-shotting is a very effective strategy in fighting.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 01:16 PM
2

GREAT post about white knights. There are actually a lot of them here at reddit, try to give some real advice in the dating subreddit and they verbally lash out, downvote you to oblivion, and even call for you to be banned. They are a very frustrated, said, and angry demographic.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 01:15 PM
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Very eloquently put.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 01:13 PM
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Guys will try anything to increase their favor with women. White knighting is just another tactic. It is very ineffective and is also pathetic.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 01:12 PM
3

Democrats might change SOME of their ideas to suit the moment, but their hatred for men and eternal struggle to dis-empower them will never diminish.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 01:11 PM
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Except that this helps to eliminate liberated men from the gene pool, preserving the thoroughly ruined status quo. Perfectly said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 01:08 PM
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Procreation isnt some ultimate goal only a few select men accomplish, any bum could do it. And ironically, at the end of the day, procreation is the only thing that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 01:07 PM
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I predict any real effective men’s movement will come from the left. lol. The left HATES men, and hates them more and more every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 01:06 PM
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I'm hyper liberal. I socialize in hyper liberal circles. Yet women clearly want masculine guys. A decent number have actually said that. Explicitly. And I see that regardless of age group. If anything, it's more true of younger women. Excellent point. I believe that this is a RESULT of women having to be less reliant on men as a provider and being able to select what they really like; namely, attractive, masculine men. In the 1950's beta-provider game was legit. Most "incels" whining about their…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 01:03 PM
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True. Democrats will always advance any policy that aims to take resources from men to give to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 12:58 PM
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I'm noticing a lot of my guy friends have either checked out, So what if they check out? The only things that "checks out" is their genetic legacy and any influence they have on children or on the future. Women are still having babies with men, just not the men who can't, or won't have relationships and reproduce with women. It's nothing new. Its actually a reversion back to normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 12:56 PM
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No, they won't. As many have pointed out here, the men who "opt out" of masculinity simply become MGTOWS and incels. MGTOWS and incels have always been around. Here is an article about Egypt, 8,000 years ago. 8,000 Years Ago, 17 Women Reproduced for Every One Man https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success Actually, what is happening now, is just a gradual movement towards normal human nature. Women being impregnated and having sexual relationship with only the ELITE men. 90% of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 12:54 PM
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Yeah, it is normal, and should be expected. I internalized this and knew this as early as high school, so I am not experiencing the same psychological shock as the rest of you. If you know how it really is, it doesn't affect you as much.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 02:40 PM
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I agree with the top part of your post, but not the "our world is fucked" part. Women have always been the way they are. There are studies that show that in ancient Egypt, most men would NEVER reproduce. Women always go for the top guys, the emotional experience is a sign of weakness to them - by nature. Don't hate the way the world is or blame it on western culture, that is what human females do. They pick the strongest man to breed with - it would be a biological, evolutionary disadvantage for…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 02:39 PM
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Good post. I forget this sometimes and engage in an argument over something dumb. I've noticed the more I engage, the more she'll bring up arguments in the future, its like I've been reinforcing it.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 02:29 PM
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When I refer to "silent treatment" I mean when we are in each other's presence and she turns it on. She never blocks me out and doesn't contact me. If she did that, she knows that I would call someone else.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 04:14 PM
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So true, I love women and spend my time with women. The problem is, your typical "relationship advice" has gotten to the point that its full of outright lies and falsehoods. If anyone seeks to uncover the bluepill lies about relationships, they are literally insulted, maligned, silenced, and banned in order to protect the dishonest house of cards that our society has constructed around a false relationship ideology.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 04:04 PM
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They should at least read the sidebar and top 100 before asking questions. I'm happy to read their story and try to give them an answer.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 03:54 PM
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The above question is basic relationship advice that should be asked in that sub instead. No. Those other subs are worthless. They ban and delete any TRUE advice.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 03:53 PM
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I've had this same problem before and haven't been able to COMPLETELY ELIMINATE the silent treatment, but I have been successful in limiting it. But for me, when my LTR gives me the silent treatment, it is for an hour or two. I'm not going to sit her an pretend that it never happens. Since this girl is doing it to you for 4 days, your best bet is to ignore it completely and not respond to her AT ALL. If she never reaches out to you, then its a good sign that she isn't worth being your LTR. What …
/r/askTRP25/08/19 03:52 PM
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Great. He always gives bad advice about women though.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 03:46 PM
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Don't worry about it, be glad that it happened. It made your date be more attracted to you.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 06:15 AM
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89% of 68,000 women in 180 countries say kindness is the attribute they look for in a partner. SAY is the key word there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 06:07 AM
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Like you said "you do you." That's cool that he likes to work a lot. I prefer nutting in dimes over working my life away. But each to his own.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 03:10 PM
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Which highlights one of the downsides of "beta provider game" and working your life away for money.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 02:38 PM
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I don't know if it does either, but if I had to guess, he does seem to have more of a sense of style than the guy on the right. Sense of style = social aptitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 02:33 PM
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I disagree. I think women care a lot about income. It’s just most men on this sub wont ever reach that level of income so they’re hamstering. Income is a last resort for unattractive men to try and get women. That's a pretty low quality relationship though.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 02:31 PM
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Good post. The lower SMV a woman is, the crappier her attitude, and the worst her behavior is. The myth that ugly girls are nicer is bullshit.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 02:29 PM
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Look at the little article about closure from BusterVadge, that is what is at play here. Don't waste your time being her emotional tampon. Avoid her and don't answer her texts, if you do call her, don't waste your time talking about stupid things like "the two years were a dream" or "in what ways have you changed," lol. BTW, the reasons why you supposedly broke up "due to money stresses and her panicking about moving in with me." is bullshit and the fact that you said that this is a reason is a …
/r/askTRP24/08/19 02:26 PM
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GREAT, succinct article, and so true. OP, check this out!
/r/askTRP24/08/19 02:18 PM
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I've had friends ASK me advice on what to do with their women who treat them like shit. I give them advice and they don't follow it (then the continue to be treated like shit).
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 02:04 PM
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I think its still 80/20.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 02:01 PM
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I like something that your uncle did, find someone attractive and breed. Mix your genes with top notch, attractive girls.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 01:59 PM
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Money matters a lot. Obviously not 100k a year rich. More like 500k a year and over rich. Girls don't care about this as much as they used to. In western countries, even welfare hoes have their housing, food, and medication paid for. They want some good dick.. Young women make their own money now, they are out-earning men in most big cities. This shit about "have money, get women" is outdated A/F. In the 1950s, beta provider game was tha real shit. Not anymore.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 01:58 PM
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Looks to guys is money to girls Obviously looks are a factor, but nothing on the planet raises your SMV more effectively than a Rolex. Millions of thirsty beta-providers disagree with you. I've seen your theory in action. My friend's (female) cousin is a hot little hoe. She ended up getting wifed up by a rich guy. He was making tons of money in his job so he wifed up a dime. Lucky rich guy right? She made him buy a huge mansion, new cars, a yatch, and basically blew as much money as she possibly…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 01:56 PM
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This is why the red pill advocates focusing on your mission . My mission is nutting in dimes.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 01:50 PM
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but you get to define it... convenient. You're right, I do. I can offer social commentary about what I observe. Your point being?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 01:45 PM
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If I relied on meeting girls in my hobbies, I'd have to be poaching other guys wives/gfs mostly. Another reason why pursuing "hobbies" to meet women is stupid. Many hobbies are sausage-fests and girls only go to them because their men are there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 01:44 PM
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You know that that’s how you’re supposed to look in a bodybuilding progress pic No, I don't know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 01:40 PM
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I see what you're saying, but the idea of the post is to try guess which of these guys are a "chad." I agree that its unreliable to determine such a thing jut be looking, but its just a mental exercise for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 01:39 PM
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With respect, I disagree with what you are saying about hobbies. This often repeated idea that Hobbies = Success with women is TOTAL horseshit. The real "nuance" is the hobbies=pussy is the exact OPPOSITE of what you are saying. The more hobbies you have, the more likely you are a loser. The more time you have to actually develop hobbies is time you are NOT socializing with people, going to parties, going clubbing, grinding with hoes, and hanging out with your ladies. You can have a stamp collec…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 01:35 PM
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I see that hear all the time but haven't seen it play out in the real world. All loser guys have tons of hobbies. The more of a loser a guy is with women, the more hobbies he probably has. I know a guy who is a lawyer, has a hobby reloading ammunition, four wheel drive vehicles, and has a few other hobbies that I mention here. He's desperate for any female attention, can't get a girlfriend for his life. When you need to use the fact that you're "passionately pursuing a goal" its only because you…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 01:22 PM
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Sounding butthurt decreases your stature in the eyes of a woman immensely. I agree, the "none of your business" sounds butthurt as hell.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 01:06 PM
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Great post. I'm going to go on a little tangent here: What I would like to point out, is that none of the guys were selected for their "hobbies." This exaltation I have seen over here lately about pursuing your "hobbies" as way to self improve to get women is fucking ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 01:02 PM
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There you guy, I agree with this. Not a swimmer, but I had the same experience when I went from ripped to a little more bulky.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:58 PM
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But why are you lifting for women you pleb? Because nutting in a hot girl is one of the best things in life. All of this cope, "don't do things for women bruh" is just coping, MGTOW shit.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:57 PM
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i like women doing the deed so i can focus on more important stuff. If you wait for women to approach you, they will. But they will be much lower quality women than what YOU could get if you do the approaching.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:55 PM
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Between the two, I would guess rugby player. There are LOTS of skinny ass guys walking around with gangly arm and low bf%. ​ I used to be skinny, but ripped, when I was 17-20. I started lifting heavy and put on some muscle, and some fat, and started getting WAY more girls. I had a 6 pack before, now I don't, but still low bf% but more muscle and do much, much better.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:54 PM
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For a lot of women it's important that you take an interest in their hobby or interests. lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:35 PM
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blue pill isn’t about giving dating advice. Blue pill dating advice comes in many forms and is all over of the place..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:34 PM
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This is what TBP doesn't get. If she's attracted to you she'll enjoy a lot of what you already do. Exactly. This idea that you need to pursue women based on their hobbies comes from guys who obviously have not been successful with women or from girls who are giving their normal, ineffective, blue pilled advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:31 PM
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Losing BF is generally good, but if you lose too much (without putting on muscle) and start looking malnourished, then you are losing attraction. Low BF with more than average amount of muscle is ideal. In my case, I noticed that I have better luck at 185 (more muscle and more fat) than I do at 165 (completely ripped).
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:13 PM
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I think there is more of a chance of seeing a hottie around the arm of the guy on the left. I think the guy on the right looks like a "try hard." There gets to a point of diminishing returns to most guys who hit the gym. There is probably a peak amount of musculature that you amass, and from there, you probably actually lose some attraction. The fact that he would take that picture with his glasses also shows me that he has a degree of social ineptitude and lack of awareness. With that said, res…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:11 PM
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The idea that you need to find someone with niche hobbies to be happy in a relationship is only true for socially inept, introverted losers. You meet women everywhere, and let the chips fall where they may. Every girlfriend that I have ever had ends up being compatible with me and we do lots of fun things together. I tell my girl "lets go hiking" she says okay. I tell her "lets go to the beach" she says okay. I say "lets go clubbing" she says okay. I tell her "lets go catch a game" she says okay…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:02 PM
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" How many confessions you get from betas after months and months of deceptive friendship? " That sums up the blue-pill dating strategy. It always works on movies, and in real life it is creepy as hell and doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 11:58 AM
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I don't think your 80% figure has any basis. But generally speaking, yeah, the cream of the crop girl are more likely to get engaged and get wifed up. Smart women know that marriage benefits their lives. Feminine women want children and prefer to have children during marriage. High SMV girls want to get wifed up with a high quality man. I am speaking in generalities here, but I think generally speaking, you are on the right track. With that said, the more attractive and efficient you get with wo…
/r/askTRP22/08/19 04:41 PM
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The guy who wrote this is all full of shit when it comes to women. You aren't going to "craft" and interesting message that is going to be effective with women. A lot of blue pilled simps sit around thinking how to be "interesting" with their text game. What they have in common, is that they are all abject failures with women.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 04:34 PM
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non westerners like myself need to look at the western culture as a cautionary tale. You hit the nail on the head.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 04:25 PM
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​ ​ It reads like an Onion article because perceptions have been warped by blue-pill programming. Women like MEN, not supplicating simps. But society at large has forgotten this.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 04:23 PM
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​ Start talking to other girls. Start blowing her off. Start hooking up with other girls. I hope you have some back up girls - you always need some when you are in an LTR. It actually helps keep your frame strong and gives you a back up when girls start doing this. Don't call her. Don't text her unless she texts first, and even then, take a LONG time to reply. Consider not replying at all for a couple days. I think she is probably hooking up with another guy or planning on ending the relationshi…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 11:53 AM
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The way that I would have handled it. I would tell her she has TWO options - either put a restraining order on him, or have the cops give him a no trespassing notice so that next time he shows up at the property, it is criminal trespassing (or both, which is preferable). I would tell her it is clear that this is needed based on the multiple incidents. If she is willing to do those things, than I would not end it with her. If she is NOT willing to do those things, then tell her that you want a gr…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 11:45 AM
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True, but if she says no every time, you've already blown it a long time ago.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 11:46 PM
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Stop being an introvert, its a death sentence in life.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 09:47 PM
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Well said. Most men eventually get so comfortable in a relationship that they settle down and turn into boredom machines. Lots of spontaneous fucking is a good place to start.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 09:40 PM
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GENETIC legacy. What does Darwin say about those who abort their own descendants.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 03:05 AM
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I wouldn't abort my own genetic legacy.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 11:35 PM
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No big deal, I don't know what all the fuss and fear is about. Once the kid is born, have a paternity test. If it is not his, than he walks away. If it is his, pay child support and he has his first kid. Who GAF? Find a second girl who isn't a hoe and have some more kids. You'll never turn a hoe into a housewife, although lots of guys give it a try. The fear that so many western men have of child support and having a kid with a girl they break up with is hilarious to me. It shows how cowardly we…
/r/askTRP14/08/19 11:32 PM
1

Very well said!
/r/askTRP10/08/19 06:40 PM
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After looking at the various posts and thinking about it, I think you are spot on.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 04:15 PM
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Love seeing updates to the advice here. Let's see if you can put the lessons you learned to use for the long term or if she goes back to denying sex. ​ I had the same thing happen to me in a prior relationship. If a girlfriend denies me sex, another girl's hotline is about to bling.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:24 PM
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Maybe mom was abusive. Blaming parents for our own lives is a popular trend in the US, and 99% of the time, the complaint is "my parents were abusive."
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:16 PM
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People whining because their parents spanked them just look like pussies to me.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:03 PM
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GREAT field report. This is the kind of thing that I do.. If a girl DOESN'T try to look like a high end event with me, I drop her ass. Latinas are off the hook, another thing you are right about. And some wisdom right there, if a girl wants to fuck you, she will find a way.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:57 PM
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You are right, it has nothing to do with "hobbies," You aren't going to feel better after nutting because you have a "stamp collection."
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:55 PM
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This, all day. When I've been with a real shitbomb I am mortified for a good while. When I have banged an 8-10 I feel fucking amazing. All depends on the quality of the woman. There you go right there. I nut with hot ass girls and just feel good and relaxed after nutting.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:54 PM
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Maybe its because the sex is meaningless Not at all. Quite the opposite.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:53 PM
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lol, good topic. After I nut, I don't feel disgust towards the girl or women in general, I'm just completely relaxed and DGAF about anything at all. Sometimes I'll tell my girl to make me something to eat, sometimes I'll fall asleep with her in my arms. ​ I have a friend who told me something similar like you. He said as soon as he nuts he things, "sex isn't really that great, what is all the fuss about?"
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:52 PM
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No, you shouldn't be punching your 50 year old mom. Your blaming your mom for you being violent towards other kids. Your complaining about your mom hitting you with a spatula when you were a kid. I hate to say it like this to you, but seriously, stop being a wimp. Corporal punishment has been used for centuries, and a hell of a lot more than what you experienced. A lot of great men, MOST as a matter of fact, had their asses kicked by their moms and dads growing up.\ ​ Don't blame your mom for yo…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:47 PM
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you need to seek professional help I see this here at reddit all the time, but usually in the "relationship advice" section. Everyone gets professional help and sees psychiatrists, counselors, therapists and psychologists. Sure, they'll help you recognize and "unpack" your traumas. Everyone suggests marriage counseling when there is a problem. Everyone takes anti anxiety medication and anti depressants. American culture, and perhaps western Europe as well, worships the mental health field but so…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:41 PM
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lol, I got downvoted. Damn haters.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:23 PM
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True. This is one of the reasons why so many marriages and LTRs fail. Most men simply don't have the will and strength to do this. You see men with "honey do" lists and who say "happy wife, happy life." They are the men who end up getting cheated on and divorced. Which, actually, is the way is SHOULD be.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 02:10 PM
0

You might be right there, he was a little too bitter and insulting.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:06 PM
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True, he was a little too insulting. I disagree with most people's rosy impression of him. His response to both shit tests was to INSULT. Although I do like the arrogance that he showed, he could have more cool and indifferent under the circumstances.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:04 PM
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A lot of great insight in your post. But hot women who decline STILL have a lot more SMV than you are giving them credit for. Also, those nerds remain nerds. They win at some aspects of life, but continue to lose at others. Nerds in their 30s and 40s still do terrible with women, often getting divorce raped and cheated on.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:00 PM
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I love Ed's arrogance. Arrogance is an aphrodisiac to women. I'm extremely arrogant myself and it produces insane results. I don't understand what you meant when you used the word "successful" though. Do you mean successful with women? Or do you mean "successful" because he is a cardiologist? Successful at work ≠ Successful with women I have a million examples of betas who have high paying jobs and are great at work and are flat out pathetic losers with women.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 01:57 PM
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I've done this. This is how it went down. I show up at a club with my friend, we meet some other guys who also got there early. I never knew these two before. We decide to get a VIP table between the 4 of us (its a concert). Half an hour or so later, one of the guy's girlfriend shows up. She is with a friend, the friend is smoking motherfucking hot. I'm just sitting at the table and looking around. Once of these guys tells me "my girlfriend's friend likes you." I played it cool and didn't do any…
/r/askTRP08/08/19 03:31 PM
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REAL knowledge includes the inconvenient fact and realization that men naturally yearn for women.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 12:49 PM
0

I had 3 girlfriends at once at one point. They weren't really just plates. They all saw me as their boyfriend. I felt bad about it because the second two were good girls. ​ I like relationships with great women and usually fall into that after a couple of months of spinning plates. That is what I do with red pill knowledge.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 12:48 PM
1

AWALT Its wrong to the guys who don't get hot girls.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 12:44 PM
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Get their number. Giving out YOUR number screams that you are insecure, and it also wastes opportunities. I have got a lot of girls' numbers and ended up hooking up with them. I know that these same girls probably would have never even called me if I just gave them mine.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 04:46 AM
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Well said. Most guys have a very hard time getting this.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 04:45 AM
0

Dating hot girls can suck dick. Not for me. Most guys can't handle hot girls. You guys are demonstrating this right now. Dating hot girls is the best. But like I said, most guys don't have the BALLS to do it. The hottest girls are reserved for the guys with the biggest balls, and I've long accepted that most other guys can't handle them.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 04:44 AM
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9s and 10s have the best personalities to me. All of this talk about "make an ugly girl your wife and you'll have a happy wife" is BS. The uglier the girl, the more issues she has, the more likely she is to be a feminist, the more insecurities she has, and ugly chicks aren't more faithful, I have observed the OPPOSITE, ugly ass girls are the first to cheat. They are also the first to invent false allegations to try to KEEP you (pretty girl doesn't give a shit and will walk away). The "ugly girls…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 04:42 AM
1

I don't use the word USE. But I do hook up with 7s and 8s when I am waiting for the 9s and 10s. They are good practice and are still good times.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 04:39 AM
2

Partially true, not totally true. Profit is certainly a huge motivator, but they also try to shape society, and have said so themselves.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 05:50 PM
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One difficult thing about success with women. You find a great fuckin woman, treats you great, intelligent, fun to be with, and hotter than hell. The hard part is you remain faithful to her, you see a lot of TENS try to get with you and you have to pass them up to be faithful. Other thing, no matter how successful you are with money or women, life will give you some FUCKED up moments, tragedy, loved one dying and things like that. You never succeed in life completely because the world is a fucke…
/r/askTRP03/08/19 05:52 AM
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I can tell right off the bat that you are lifting all wrong. You need MORE WEIGHT, and less reps. Also, use barbells instead of dumbbells and get rid of the useless machines and cables. ​ Bench Press Barbell Press Bent over rows Curls ​ With those 4, you're upper body will grow fast, IF you use the max amount of weight you can do for about 8-10 reps. Lifting light weights if a fucking waste of time if you are doing if for looks.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 11:56 PM
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I don't hate "chick flicks." They aren't any worse than typical mainstream movies. "Action" movies are all about women beating up loser-men. "Dramas" are about women overcoming men's oppression. "Sci-fi" always portray women in the most intelligent and heroic roles. "Comedies" always showcase the buffoonery of men juxtaposing competent and well-put-together women. MOST movies have girl power and portray men as idiots and wimps. Chick flicks aren't really much worse. As pathetic as it is, Chick F…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 11:39 PM
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Text game is by far my WEAKEST area. I really appreciate anyone who shares some successful examples so I can improve.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 11:34 PM
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Your friend doesn't know what he's talking about. "I'm not like other guys" "I thought we had a connection" lol, WTF is that weak ass shit? If she likes you, you don't need to comfort her with all of those weak fucking words that your friend told you to say. You're getting close to looking like a supplicating pussy when you start talking like that. The text that you sent her was just fine. If she wants anything with you at this point, she'll take you up on it. Otherwise, don't text her back, at …
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:10 PM
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No. Blue pill mentality is ANTI-TRUTH and ANTI-KNOWLEDGE about the nature of women and relationship. Having a mix of bullshit in your head doesn't help at all. Red pill doesn't mean you act like an asshole all the time, it means you apply REAL psychology and REALITY to your relationships with women, either long term or plates.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:04 PM
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I LOVE going into the blue pill subreddits and get down-voted into oblivion and attacked. I get in a few jabs myself.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 12:38 PM
1

No, not me. I never felt envy. My friends would get a car, or a stereo, or a hot girlfriend, and I wouldn't have any of those things. I never felt the envy though. They would show me how cool their car was and I would be enjoying it with them. ​ I never really understood envy because I would never feel it. Now that I've been successful in many areas of life, I notice that some people have a hostility towards me.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 12:33 PM
2

He's all full of shit. I went from 165 to 180-185 with some heavy lifting and saw a HUGE, motherfucking HUGE difference in the attention I was getting from girls.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 11:09 PM
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I give this woman a LOT of credit for honestly saying what turns her on and what doesn't. I also give her credit for having this introspection which is very uncommon. I have a female friend who went through the same thing. She told me that when she finally found the first great guy who actually treated her well, she kept thinking something was wrong with him. She noticed that she was having a hard time even seeing him as a real man because he treated her well. She eventually settled down with th…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 12:49 PM
1

GREAT topic. I've been wanting to get myself some new cologne.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 12:39 PM
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Social media presence/use. Even some social media stars give it up when they meet the right man. I know TWO examples of girls that I know who had thousands of followers and several hundred guys would like anything they did. Both girls are local models where I'm from, and both closed their accounts once they met the right man. This goes back to a point that I sometimes make. Ultimately it is weak men who are responsible for a woman's bad behavior.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 12:38 PM
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Great list. I'm happy to say my LTR doesn't have any of those.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 12:35 PM
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Don't overreact. A lot of people have searched for their ex out of curiosity on social media.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 12:32 PM
2

Buy a multi-unit rental property. Try to get it at a price so that you get at least 1% of the purchase price per month. Set up a diversified stock portfolio (no mutual funds, just ETFs and quality companies, some bonds as well). The dividends from your stocks (only quality companies with healthy balance sheets) and your rental income will take care of your needs. Purchase a small home for yourself.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 04:41 AM
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I happen to like the field reports very much.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 04:36 AM
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Its easier to approach girls when they are alone. But I have done it with their friends around. Sometimes it shows even more balls. There is nothing specific that you need to plan to say, that will just make it come off more awkward. If she has any interest in you at all, she will make it easy on you once you start talking. For the approach, the most important thing is NOT what you say, it is that you are approaching.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 04:24 AM
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20K? Put down a downpayment on a duplex. Rent one side and live in the other. Or put it in a low cost, S and P 500 index fund. ​ Make another 20K and then invest it as well.. That is what I do, rinse and repeat, real estate and stocks.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 02:53 AM
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When women see masculine, sexual dimorphic traits, they automatically react positively. When they see weak men, they are automatically disgusted. Its not learned, its natural and hard wired into their biology. Even feminists who hate men, which is fashionable these days, like strong men and muscles (and often get ANGRY at the attraction that they feel towards raw masculinity).
/r/askTRP31/07/19 02:51 AM
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Not EVERY girl, but lots of girls. I do it so often that it comes out completely natural and I don't even have to think about it. ​ Its great, it is a topic that is rarely discussed here. Your raw ability to talk to a girl when she is in your presence is vastly underrated but can mean more than anything else if you are good enough.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 02:48 AM
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Great report! This makes all of the blue-pill tactics on movies so hilarious. "just be super nice and kiss up to her"
/r/askTRP31/07/19 02:46 AM
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This is textbook 'Using RP to chase BP dreams' A widely propagated MYTH.. You use Red Pill for ALL relationships with women, both long term and short term. The idea that RP is only for plates is completely wrong. You need it to keep a LTR together as well.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 02:32 AM
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Most people fail to bulk because they don't EAT enough. and they don't get enough protein. The formula is simple, lift heavy compound lifts with free weights (bench press, weighted dips, overhead press, barbell curls, rows) and EAT tons of good foods. I have a fast metabolism so I drank a gallon of milk a day for a month. The milk thing doesn't work for everyone and apparently usually just makes people fat. But it worked for me. I went to bodybuilding .com and read some posts about lifting and l…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 12:56 AM
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Yeah, eventually you get to the point that people become envious of you. You'll see it with your own friends and family. It will be at work as well, and even neighbors. I never felt envy for anyone, but as you become more successful in all aspects of life, you'll see some little haters pop up everywhere.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:17 PM
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Great post. I like your part about training at the end. I used to weigh 165 at 5'11", EXTREMELY fast, and I would train for strength and speed. One day I decided to bulk, started lifting heavy. I put on 15-20 lbs. in a couple months and the attention I got from girls just multiplied, it was crazy. I did the super-nice guy bit myself. But this was when I was 15-17, so by the time I got out of high school, I was already leaving it behind. My guess is that I did this earlier than most other guys he…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 03:14 PM
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" Been following and slowly swallowing the red pill (got to work a lot, this is not a race, it's a marathon), studying at college right now, diet, lifting and sleep on point. I think it's time to climb the social/professional ladder and start to make money, so it would be considerable to understand that topic. " I am an intellectual independent and don't necessarily buy ALL aspects of what SOME (mistakenly) believe is the red pill. What you said in my quote is unadulterated bullshit if you think…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 01:42 PM
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Some really great comments here. I had a friend who invited his LTR to China with him. She refused because she got a new job (a minimum wage job at a department store). Before his China trip, he was already thinking about marrying the girl. He ended up going alone. When he came back, guess what, he broke up with her ass. ​ When a girl blows me off like this, I talk to NEW girls. Don't be a fool and hope to regain the LTR status. Don't show up tomorrow and act like nothing happened. Don't waste y…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 01:35 PM
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The very concept behind reddit encourages mindless group think. When you make a comment and it gets downvoted, you lose karma. Without karma, you can't post. So basically, you are FORCED to say things that the group agrees with. ​ I occasionally go to relationship advice and get downvoted into oblivion by all of the feminists and simps when I tell them truths they don't want to hear. With that said, I'm going to keep on saying it.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 01:21 PM
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I actually love seeing this happen to simps.. It provides me with good entertainment.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 01:00 PM
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I haven't had that experience. Girls are nice to me everywhere I go ever since I got more buffed. This goes from ugly girls to hot girls, to older women. ​ Maybe I'm not quite as buffed as you. I don't use creatine or whey or any supplements at all. I just lift occasionally to maintain, and eat natural. I weight 180 and am 5'11"
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:55 PM
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They have been conditioned through mass-media their entire life to think that you are SUPPOSED to be a supplicating, shameless mangina. These men tend to have lower social-IQs and can't read between the lines. They are basically doomed to bad relationships. ​ I remember having a conversation with a fat guy at work. His wife left him. He was telling me he had no idea why. There was no substance abuse, domestic violence, or cheating on this part, and she just upped and left. He just couldn't under…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:53 PM
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Bullshit, you'll need TRP even more. EXACTLY! A lot of guys here think you are supposed to turn into a blue-pilled simp when you get into an LTR. Then they wonder whey their girlfriend loses interests in them.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:46 PM
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WRONG! You use redpill knowledge for ALL interactions with women. Anyone who thinks that you need to dispense with redpill skills when you enter an LTR is a fool. ​ There are MULTITUDES of stories of men who wonder why their relationships went soft when they turned into a SIMP, thinking there are different rules for an LTR.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 03:15 PM
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"If you're in a relationship with a woman, you've already lost, because she's in a different relationship altogether." That is a quote from YOU. You spend a lot of time railing against relationships and saying how worthless it is to be in a relationship with a woman. Many of my life's best moments have been spent with women and I have had great relationships with them. I'm sorry that your experience has been different, but understand that your bitterness towards relationships doesn't mean that a…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 03:03 PM
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How many bars are there where you live? Make some complaints about her, talk to the manager, have your female friends make complaints against her, but space them out over a period of weeks so its not obvious that you are the source.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 02:57 PM
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If a girl says "no" at any time, I cut her off and move to the next one. I'm not going to play guessing games about her true intent and I am not going to risk getting into trouble.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 02:44 PM
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You said "If you're in a relationship with a woman, you've already lost, because she's in a different relationship altogether." You are AGAINST having relationships with women. Its only natural for men to be in relationships with women, powerful heterosexual men have been in relationships with women throughout history. renaultcliodriver, if YOU hate being in relationships with women, you are abnormal and not a typical male, you also aren't a winner, aren't powerful, and most likely have very low…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 02:41 PM
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Your relationships with women have clearly left a bad taste in your mouth. I haven't had the same bad experiences as you.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 02:33 PM
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Yes, great points. Having one's shit together, social IQ, and fearlessness ultimately are extremely important in the quality of woman that ultimately get.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:04 PM
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I agree that the laws are unjust and pro-women.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 05:01 PM
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Give me some examples and I'll see what is going on. ​ I can tell from the language you use though, that you are a little too scientific to understand subtle social cues. You are trying to put everything into a box: "shit tested, comfort tested, or just straight up talking" Your woman has you confused and probably has a higher social IQ. ​ Its a good thing you reading TRP so you can get your shit together.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 03:52 PM
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To each his own. I like spending time with women quite a bit, not just the sex part. To me, part of being productive is fucking constantly. I usually get into an LTR pretty quick with high quality girls and have high quality LTRs. But when they end, it doesn't really phase me and I don't spend any time alone. I respect the way that you see things.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 03:45 PM
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I can tell from your posts that every time you enter an LTR, the woman dominates you to the point that you are afraid of relationships. You have concluded that since women have all the power in LTRs with YOU, that ALL LTRs are about women having all the power. You were successful enough to fuck some girls since you have 4 kids from 2 relationships (although I wonder about the quality of the girls), which does show that you have a limited amount of success. But your 4 kids with TWO women, coupled…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 03:32 PM
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You always seem to believe that if you are in a marriage or an LTR, that you GAVE all the power to the woman. Understand that this may only be true for YOU. You just might not have the skill set to maintain power in an LTR, but that doesn't mean that all LTRs are mini-matriarchies. ​ I give you props for having kids and not being afraid of having kids like many here. But your never ending idea that all LTRs are women dominated affairs is only YOUR experience. ​ Not everyone becomes a hen-pecked,…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 03:29 PM
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Watch what they do not what they say. This would have to be rule #1 with women. So many men have a hard time internalizing and understanding this.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 03:25 PM
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I'm sure she's petrified of you leaving and her still being entitled to all your shit. If you are doing things right, she wants your DICK more than your things ("muh resources" "she'll leave me and take my stuff.") I wouldn't expect a lot of people to get that or even knows that feels like.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 03:23 PM
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Women are usually also a by product of success. They're waiting at the finish line for champions. Which leads me to believe that a lot of people here aren't champions. The FEAR that I see in so many of these posts is very palpable.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 03:18 PM
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I can always tell the posts from guys who aren't very successful with women.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 03:16 PM
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There are TWO levels of TRP rules. You are referring to the lower level, level 1: TRP rules for men who are afraid of women because women have more power in relationships. They play it safe and are aware of women's nature to the point that they are truly fearful and take precautions. ​ Some men are able to get waaaaaaay beyond that.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 03:12 PM
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Never dump your emotions on a girl or 'open up'. Vulnerability is not attractive. So true! This is extremely hard for most men to accept. They want someone who "will always be there for me." In this world, this person is NOT your female partner. They say they want a sensitive man who can talk about his feelings. They say they want this shit on TV, social media, and everywhere else. But its the biggest turn off ever.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 03:08 PM
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You did what most guys do. You think that if you are in a relationship with a girl long enough, you can turn into a SIMP. Girls despise boring, sensitive, predictable men. Even the men who who CLAIM to be red pill, think that if you are in a LTR long enough, you can turn into a soft, comfortable, "safe male," who shares his emotions and puts up with your woman's bullshit. ​ WRONG!!!!!!!! ​ ​ BONUS MATERIAL: Understand that what I do is at another level of psychological manipulation than other gu…
/r/askTRP27/07/19 03:06 PM
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You still did good. Great field report. Based on the limited information that you provided about the 8, the most logical conclusion is that you got phased by her boyfriend pictures and backed off.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 02:54 PM
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A true red piller would either remain single and play the field or save up for surrogacy. No, those are losers who don't know how to master women. There are stories all over the internet about what desperate women do for the bad boys. Become one of those bad boys and stop being a terrified, perpetually single, evolutionary dead-end. Saving up for surrogacy, lol! Man, you guys certainly aren't conquerors.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 02:48 PM
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MGTOW philosophy is a cancer that occasionally seeps in here. The idea that women are constantly going to leave you or use you for your precious little resources shouldn't provoke fear if you are a real man. IF you have truly mastered TRP (which most of you haven't), you DGAF. SHE should be the one afraid of YOU leaving, because she knows you have so many options. I can't believe how many of you are still so blue pilled you don't understand that. The SIMP programming is strong I see. Its okay to…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 02:44 PM
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Okay, okay. Its time I tell you guys the truth about who gets the hottest girls. NOT the most handsome guys, but the guys with the most BALLS (who are fairly good looking). The most handsome guys have never had to be rejected, they haven't had to develop all of the skills and knowledge that we learn here. The most handsome guys tend to underperform and date average to above-average girls (rather than the hottest) because their looks have allowed them to be blue pilled betas and never really unde…
/r/askTRP27/07/19 02:34 PM
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Have you done it? Are you speaking from experience? Yeah. And I even have back up girls that have been following me for years. A lot of the doom and gloom I see here isn't necessarily reality if you really know TRP.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 02:26 PM
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Something else that I picked up on between the lines. The kind of guy who doesn't cheat (this guy), is the same kind of guy who women find to be extremely UNattractive. He's a turn-off to her, and he's the faithful, supplicating beta that we are all told to be.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 12:16 PM
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I'm not saying there is true love or that there is love for the sake of commitment. But if you internalize the knowledge that is found here to the point that its a habit and your automatic nature, you can do it. For me, TRP is a way of life. I've been doing it before I knew there as a name for it.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 01:46 AM
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It depends on who you are. I've seen girls loyal to the SAME mf'er no matter what he does or what other options she has. I think your analysis of women is flawed because you think they logically always go for the objective BEST option. That's not always the case. Some guys play their cards right and the girl stays with him no matter what. I have tons of examples.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 01:43 AM
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Your solution of having a lot of back up plates is the reality of what one must do. But I've seen people over and over again with the results that you seem to think are impossible. I've seen guys who are fucked, who have done every bad thing in the world to the girl, who AREN'T successful in anything, and STILL have the loyalty of some hot girls. You're misattributing logic and game theory to female selection.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 01:41 AM
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Interesting perspective and some good information. But there is another way to see it as well. If you are on the SUCCESSFUL side of the coin with women, then you have at least one woman who would do anything for you and is the one doing anything she can for YOU. ​ I feel that your post is from the perspective from men who aren't quite at the level of success that we strive for after learning TRP.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 11:46 AM
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" If you're in a relationship with a woman, you've already lost, because she's in a different relationship altogether. " ​ Not true. ​ Contrary to what lots here believe, it is possible to be in a great relationship with a woman who loves you and is loyal AF to you. You just have to be able to inspire it in her.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 11:42 AM
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get the basics first. after that you can and you should put yourself into market. I keep seeing this here. ​ You don't need to "get your finances in order" to get women. ​ The idea that you need to achieve some pinnacle of success before you start trying is nothing but bullshit. ​ I've had lots of women while being broke as fuck and before I reached any success at all.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 11:34 AM
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"have been told that "girls will come along", but man because of trp I have cut ties with most of my female friend" ​ ​ ​ You've done everything all wrong. The MOST important thing is to interact with girls. You somehow concluded that the best way to be successful with women was to cut all ties with them?
/r/askTRP25/07/19 11:30 AM
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Women love amibition and driven men who know what they want You are listening to what women SAY rather than what they DO.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 11:25 AM
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That's pretty fucked up. A psychopath.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 11:24 AM
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Fuck, I don't know. If I had to guess, I think its because you didn't escalate. You should have tried to start kissing her. When I look at my failures, they usually involve me waiting to long to make a a move. ​ It's funny that girls are so fickle and can lose interest so quickly with no explanation. My only solution is to try, try, try with a lot of them and sometimes success strikes. I always like to see what some of the pros here have to say though.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 11:19 AM
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It depends how much of herself she lost while investing in you. And how much of you remains.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 12:14 PM
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The more you invest in a woman, the LESS she cares about you. The more she invests in you, the MORE she cares about you.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 07:06 PM
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I respect that you have a different experience than me.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 01:31 PM
2

After you hook up with enough girls, the tendency to get one-itis goes away.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 01:14 PM
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It depends on what you mean when you say "willing to deal with her shit."
/r/askTRP23/07/19 01:13 PM
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Your game won't work on them. WRONG! Hot girls are actually easier, because they are used to men kissing up to them and turning into insecure betas around them. If you don't get nervous around them, and have the balls to talk to them, and your game and frame is tight as fuck, you'll be surprised at your success with them. ​ I know, because I've tried to hook up with SO MANY girls, success and failures. When I get a 9 or 10, and we are going out or I'm hooking up with her, I look at her and think…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 01:11 PM
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7s, 8s, 9s and (rarely) 10s who are clearly completely unreceptive and actually annoyed by a man’s presence. I disagree completely. Contrary to the popular MYTH, ugly girls are more likely to be insane. ​ Pretty, feminine 9s and 10s have less insecurities, less complexes, less history of abuse, less likely to be "gender confused", less traumas, and will actually even treat you better when you approach them. Girls who are 10s have male friends too. I have lots of attractive female friends. I lear…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 01:08 PM
1

When you realize that life is short and the alternative for "going for it" is to let your short number of opportunities and youth slip away forever.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 12:41 PM
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Does creatine contribute to male pattern baldness? It increases DHT. I've never touched the stuff. I don't even take whey protein. I just EAT. I wonder if I would have more success if I took creatine, although less hair!
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 12:28 AM
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I say ZIP. I drive an old car even though I have bank. I don't wear expensive name brands nor jewelry. When I go out, I get girls to like me because they think I'm hot. You have a much better time with girls if they like you before they know how successful you are.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:34 PM
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Feminism is fed by male weakness. If men weren't pathetic, groveling losers, it wouldn't exist. ​ Ironically, feminism ASKS men to be weak, supplicating wimps. The more men agree to adhere to feminism's demands, the more women complain and hate men. Rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:30 PM
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" You not going to meet a 10/10 with good social skills, who is a virgin, and wants to lose her virginity to you and be a 1950s housewife who will never look at another man. This generation does not produce those types of women anymore. " ​ You can find a good woman for an LTR. If a woman likes enough, she'll do all sorts of things for you. This generation is socially programmed to be shitty, but if you do everything right, you can have a loyal LTR.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:23 PM
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-she is accustomed to attention so will shit test constantly Which is actually an opportunity. She is used to most men collapsing from insecurity.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:13 PM
2

Fools Die - Mario Puzo. ​ An okay book, there's some red pill stuff in there.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:08 PM
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​ " One helps me better myself and one really doesn't so much except "I did that". " Fucking always makes me feel better. This is an easy decision.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 12:52 PM
1

Next tomb raider is going to be trans. Not likely. Its MEN who are being eradicated and replaced.
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 11:31 AM
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I think the Strip Club is a "safe zone" for men who don't like being rejected. I actually know a guy who THINKS he's great because he flirts with strippers and gets positive feedback from them. It's tempting to talk to these girls and think that you are doing well when you talk to them. But they are only there for ONE reason, money. They are trying to make money, so I'm not going to waste their time by trying to flirt with them while withholding money. If I'm going to a strip club, it is for the…
/r/askTRP06/05/19 01:32 PM
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Red flag. I had an ex girlfriend tell me she HATED her ex, was not attracted to him at all, and that he was a completely asshole. Fast forward to a party on a Sunday, I was at work so couldn't be there, her ex was there at the party. On Monday she called me up and broke up with me, it turns out she had gotten back with her ex. Good learning experience for me.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 01:22 PM
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I think that all you need to do is be unsure of yourself and act like anxious and insecure around her she'll be yours. Real answer: She is likely lying about not liking you, but if she doesn't like you, it's because of something else.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 01:09 PM
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I have always been "fit" but used to be on the thin side. I constantly played sports before girls became my hobby. I decided I wanted to bulk up, so I started eating mass quantities of food and lifting weights. It only took about 2 months since I had a pretty athletic base. I put on about 15 lbs. or so and LOOKED much more buffed than before. A lot of the 15 lbs. were fat, but overall, I looked a lot better after gaining it. I noticed the extra weight filled out my shirts and everything got easi…
/r/askTRP06/05/19 01:05 PM
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have you ever been downvoted to death by BP betas? you know you did, I did... most of us did, giving good advice only to get mocked by clueless beta BP. I do that. I get downvoted to oblivion by pathetic "males" who think they will magically become attractive to females by kowtowing and showing how weak and compliant they can be.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 12:48 PM
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Its not because you want to have "the upper hand" stop coping. It is because you are too shy and too inhibited to make the moves. You are also guarding your self esteem in case they reject you. I can tell in the short paragraph that you wrote, that your fear of rejection is there. Part of the reason is because the coping explanation "I do this to protect myself and feel like I have the upper hand" and the fact that you did not try with these girls. How do get over this? Just make the moves and s…
/r/askTRP03/05/19 01:18 PM
2

I despise them. Why do you despise them? Is it because they are your competitors? As the cliche says, don't hate the player, hate the game. ​ They are successful with women because of the cold realities of sexual evolution, survival, and biological psychology.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 01:08 PM
2

wild @ wildtimes, Good discussion, I know its been a month, but I am reading this, dropping some knowledge right here, even though I disagree with some parts from you and cooldad.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 01:04 PM
1

What makes you think that? Having lived and traveled in violent, third world countries for good portions of my life has painted the contrast between feminist-cucked America and normal societies.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 01:00 PM
1

This has an easy solution. When you approach girls,, approach girls who don't know you and don't know about your money. Drive a normal car, wear normal clothes, don't ACT rich. ​ I disagree with the "improve yourself brah" crowd around here, vehemently. You don't need to "improve yourself" to get women. If they like, they like you. I pretend that I'm poorer than I do, I'll pick her up in an old ass car and still hit it. ​ You are in DANGEROUS territory right now my friend. You end up with one of…
/r/askTRP03/05/19 12:57 PM
3

Yeah, it's interesting how much of what we refer to as "red pill" could also be called "pre 1990 masculinity ". Perfectly said. In many places still to this day, it is masculinity, not red pill. It is red pill in cucked areas.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 11:29 PM
3

You are doing right, you are SUPPOSED to make her feel that you can get someone else. That will result her in treating you better and will make for an overall happier relationship. The dealing with her jealousy and self-doubt is a necessary evil. Keep it up and don't fall pray to any validation or comfort traps that she is trying to set for you. ​ Don't listen to those that are telling you to "compliment" her to make her feel more comfortable. That is a really bad idea. You are simply raising he…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:28 PM
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I don't think this incident really tells you much about her fidelity at all. I've had girls who turned out to be completely faithful throw me some questions like this early on in the relationship. And I've had girls who turn out to be hoes act like little miss sweet. But I do think you handled it pretty well. ​
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:17 PM
3

I don't know that dark triad men "mimic" "alpha behaviors," being socially adept, selfish, manipulative, and ruthless are attractive in of themselves; and come naturally to dark triad men. See my above post on evolutionary psychology. The manosphere has attempted to define "alpha behaviors" but successful survival traits exist in dark triad individuals regardless of whether or not you try to define them as "natural alpha behaviors." Women are attracted to whatever increases the likelihood that t…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 09:12 PM
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Because as a "red-pill" believer you are isolated and surrounded by cucks. The people that I know already instinctively know about the red-pill without referring it as such.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:06 PM
3

Women do not have judgement. It's why she'll date an alpha loser. I disagree with that. They DO have judgment. They pick physically fit, aggressive, dark triad men. This kind of man is not conducive to building and maintaining a modern society, but it is their choice nonetheless. They will pick ATTRACTIVE men who might be perceived by losers because of their lack of hard-work or accomplishments, but women do have an eye for healthy genetics and narcissistic personality traits. I also disagree wi…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 07:40 PM
1

Great essay! What you articulate is EXACTLY what is going on.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 07:35 PM
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Just say you weren't right for each other and she deserves someone who is just right for her. ​ The machiavellian way to see it: Ex LTRs eventually get over their anger when you leave them, and their occasional attention provides a little ego boost and are usually available to do favors for you in the future. ​ ​
/r/askTRP05/04/19 07:24 PM
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lol, stop hanging around wimps and dating feminists.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 07:22 PM
-17

NO, spread the truth.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 07:21 PM
18

It depends who you hang out with and where you live. I imagine throughout the gynocentric, cucked United States, you would provoke mostly rage if you say anything that challenges the feminist orthodoxy that you live under. Most people in the world still know the red pill though. Just not the psychologically castrated American (and European) males (not men) and the women who hold them in contempt.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 07:20 PM
4

And if you give off the vibe of a brooding, potentially murderous psychopath you probably aren't going to get laid very much. You're using hyperbole to make your point, but in even Charles Manson, Ted Bundy, and Richard Ramirez got laid, lol. Women find arrogance, narcissism, and even violence to be quite an aphrodisiac. They DO want Dark Triad men. Of course, successful dark triad men can also be successful in other aspects of life and they aren't all killers like you imply in your post. But if…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 07:10 PM
2

what they But its based on the fallacy that "what they want" are the positive, logical desires that HE expressed. ​
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 07:09 PM
0

Just the opposite in fact. Men become LESS aggressive and give up. ​ Just look around. Look at men now and compare them to men from 1850. We have a bunch of non-aggressive, cucked, pathetic "males."
/r/askTRP05/04/19 06:33 PM
1

Why is it so high? Because American men are cowards. They have been influenced by the media and society at large and have freely given away and shunned their masculinity. Women find cowards and non-masculine men to be sexual turn-offs (even though we are bombarded with messages that say the opposite). Since men are less masculine than they used to be, and less manly, they are less likely to provoke female sexual attraction. In the aggregate, females are less attractive to males in the United Sta…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 06:31 PM
14

Rape fantasies and claiming that she was raped. Doesn't sound like girlfriend material to me.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 06:14 PM
-3

I think you're splitting hairs and attributing to women positive and logical traits that they actually don't have.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 06:11 PM
14

GREAT topic. Most men are well-meaning, good men, but are dismayed by the fact that women are drawn to bad-boys and pieces of ****. They don't need that industrious provider anymore. They make their own money. And if they don't, big governments will provide to them. The entirety of western civilization is dedicated to providing comfort to women. So a woman can now pursue the most dangerous, cruel, and selfish men and can reap the same benefits as if she had a dedicated good man by her side. Dark…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 06:09 PM
1

The title is actually and understatement. Feminism, and the demographic catastrophe that it has caused, will literally destroy western civilization.
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