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Chris Williamson has Bachelor and Master Degrees in Business and Marketing. No a PhD, no formal education in Psychology or Psychiatry (according to his LinkedIn). William Costello, who is a PhD student in evolutionary Psychology, has published something on incels and was on the podcast of Chris Williamson.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 10:01 PM
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I've had girl show interest/want to hook up but I'm too autistic to any kind of reciprocal relationship, be it sexual or romantic.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 11:34 AM
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I'm persueing grad school. Otherwise I go to the gym, truck nutrition, no drugs and little alcohol.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 11:54 PM
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I went to a bar and then a techno club for Halloween with friends and it reminded me of how much I hate partying. The alcohol (I didn't even drink that much but it's still poison), the loud music, so many people etc. It just makes me feel exhausted for several days. You point is probably valid but I'd probably blow my brains out if I had to go to a bar or club every week.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 11:36 PM
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Get back in shape. Honestly it's very cool to be fit, being physically stronger than your peers, having abs etc. Even if it doesn't get you girls it's still a great feeling to mog others in the physical domain. Very primal.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 12:07 PM
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You do know that male physique competitions are pretty much exclusively watched by other men?
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 01:05 PM
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I think giving oral is a bit gross so I'd accept if someone doesn't want to do it (I don't wanna do it either tbh).
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 02:51 PM
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Idk what to say about your response lol. Clearly men find muscular women attractive because otherwise they wouldn't coom to explicitly muscular women. That's all the proof you need. Yeah sure all else being equal women will prefer a fit guy over a non-fit one. But unlike gay men they don't place a huge premium on it, it's more of a "nice-to-have" thing. Gay men on the other hand explicitly seek out men with muscles.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 12:59 PM
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Lol women don't find muscles attractive. No girl cares about how much you lift. And btw many men find muscular women attractive. It's a trend on TikTok/IG etc.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 10:22 AM
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Tfw no mentally ill BPDemon gf...
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 08:22 AM
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Yeah I use asmr videos as a kind of self soothing technique. It also really helps me sleep when I feel down or anxious.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 11:36 PM
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Good that you're making a very strong and coherent case for your position.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 06:09 AM
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Physics
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 09:12 PM
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Yeah but most people are overweight/obese and hence it isn't normal.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 05:15 PM
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The point is you can't raise your IQ by studying. And you can't make yourself more extraverted or less neurotic by therapy or whatever. It's behavioural genetics.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 05:13 PM
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Yes
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 03:44 PM
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Nah this just proves that most incels are actually just mentalcels with some kind of social disorder like autism or anxiety etc.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 10:04 AM
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I've always gotten along much better with more extraverted people, both male and female. So I guess option 2?
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 10:02 PM
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work is boring
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 10:01 PM
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Would only want a gf, hookups are degenerate and disgusting.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 10:19 PM
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Personally don't care much about sex. Would personally just like to have a relationship and someone to cuddle and build a future with.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 07:42 PM
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OP is correct. Nobody wants to date some degenerate with a minimum wage job in their 30s.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 07:36 PM
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Abs Too many skinny/underweight dudes are trying to cut or "maingain" because of they think they're fat cause "no abs". It's bs you need enough muscle mass otherwise abs are only visible at unhealthy weight levels. I'm currently slightly heavier than in 2020 when I wasn't lifting only doing cardio and I have a 6pack now and didn't even have a single visible ab back then. And I've only been lifting for a short time (~1 year) and I'm not even good. Obviously you need to cut at some point... Social…
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 05:35 PM
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Starting strength Don't let mark "gomad" rippetoe ruin your physique boys. Seriously, look up some SS "body transformations". Good way to make yourself ugly. Abs are made in the kitchen No they aren't, they're made in the gym like any other muscle. Plenty of underweight guys have no abs. You need to build them up to get a 6 pack. Social skills can be learnt Not really. If you can't learn them in kindergarten/school like anyone else it's unlikely you'll suddenly learn as an adult. Friends Come ba…
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 11:30 AM
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It's called envy. It is a poison to the mind
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 07:08 PM
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Looks, don't care that much about sex I think.
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 04:53 PM
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Height is definitely overrated unless you're an actual midget, so like below 5' or something
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 09:15 AM
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Sounds like she has Borderline
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 05:55 PM
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Wtf is that cope, ofc a cheating wife says something about you. Cheating in women is mostly not "just for fun or a random event", she is trying to secure a higher value mate and then mate switch/monkey branch. If you're getting cheated on means that you're too low value for your partner.
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 12:55 PM
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It's not hard to tell if a guy is inexperienced. Lying about this just makes you look bad.
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 02:03 PM
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The app needs filters at least or better a stable diffusion extension to improve your pictures. Most guys don't even get matches, swiping/chatting is only the bottleneck for girls.
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 01:06 PM
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Casual sex is degenerate. I think waiting and establishing a relationship first is preferable. No sex before marriage is of course very based but probably not realistic nowadays.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 11:15 AM
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How are women counted whose husband's have died? They is a large amount of women over 60 with no men left cause they die earlier.
/r/AllPillDebate07/06/23 05:42 PM
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0 iq take It's about validation. They want to feel validated/choose by the woman. Sex workers can't give them that
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 08:42 AM
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Lol what, one of the most common female sexual fantasies is how she can "fix him". The whole "you have to be posturing as an alpha 24/7" is just Red pill brain rot
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 08:40 AM
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Imagine not being a based milf connoisseur
/r/AllPillDebate03/06/23 12:22 PM
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You should hairmaxx Long thick hair is very attractive. Maybe extensions if you have a hard time achieving this natural
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 12:12 PM
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Meh, most guys here are doomed to live shitty, sex-/loveless lives. At least let them have their low quality shit posting. Doesn't hurt nobody
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 08:40 AM
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I mean if you just want sex with strangers you might as well just get an escort.
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 08:07 AM
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Drug pill is real. But I'm not sure if risking destroying your life for sex with strangers you'll barely remember is really worth it.
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 06:24 AM
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0
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 08:52 AM
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No
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 08:15 PM
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Every generation is having less sex since the boomers
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 09:10 PM
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Ugh. Another self improver... I gotta "SELF-IMPROOOOOOVE"
/r/AllPillDebate17/05/23 11:25 AM
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Ask her out.
/r/AllPillDebate17/05/23 10:58 AM
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You can't really hide it. Women can detect if you're incel or not very instinctively.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 08:55 AM
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I think the whole friendzone thing is something that happened to GenX guys and early millennials. But it's a dead meme I think. Nobody behaves this way anymore (except for some internet lolcows maybe). Nowadays everyone has the Internet and Zoomers watch Tate tiktoks at like 14 and know being nice/a friend won't get you laid.
/r/AllPillDebate25/04/23 08:21 PM
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Yeah the name-calling is pretty cringe But at the end of the day nobody really cares. Language doesn't change reality
/r/AllPillDebate08/04/23 07:44 AM
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You got fat because the women told you so? LOL Cope harder little piggy. You got fat because you ate goyslop. Nobody else's fault.
/r/AllPillDebate08/04/23 07:12 AM
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Didn't you admit to having a gut and being overweight? Fatcel=Volcel
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 07:43 AM
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Did not grow up in a "political community"
/r/AllPillDebate05/04/23 11:20 AM
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I read the article. I understand it. But I disagree. "What do you have to offer" will just lead you to being a doormat and pay pig. Being smart, funny, interesting, talented, ambitious is all fine, but it won't cause a woman to be physically attracted to you. This is just nice guy thought with extra steps. Instead of "I'm a nice guy why are women not sleeping with me" you take an extra step to "I'm a successful guy with 6 fig salary why are women not sleeping with me (unless paid)." Or "I'm such…
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 10:13 AM
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Dad bod = muscular with high bf%. Think powerlifter physique with a huge back and thick arms/legs Not average obese dude with a huge gut and skinny arms/legs
/r/AllPillDebate24/03/23 10:17 PM
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Yes but the fundamental assumption is the problem. Red pill/self help gurus/pickup artists all have this idea that men need provide financially, have a promising career path/useful skills/game etc. to attract women. No they don't. They need to be physically attractive. Tons of broke losers that live at home, leach off other people and can't get their shit together but have women drooling over them. Do you really not know cases of guys leaching off their gfs? According to those selfhelp ideas tha…
/r/AllPillDebate24/03/23 10:12 PM
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tldr; autism
/r/AllPillDebate24/03/23 04:26 PM
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That article is just a tutorial on how to become a women's bitch-boy. "Just to useful to her" - Yeah good plan to try and become a servant. Seriously stuff like that disgusts me. https://nattyornot.com/why-male-self-improvement-is-a-scam-that-fixes-nothing/
/r/AllPillDebate24/03/23 03:21 PM
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Yes. Being emotional makes you vulnerable to manipulation and exploitation.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/23 10:01 AM
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He has a point that this whole hypermasculine image is not attractive to women. But where he loses me is when he starts to talk about how "every body can be attractive" and "just be yourself and someone will be interested". That's just BS as well. I'd look at some male tiktokers/ig models that are popular with women, some boybands or sexiest men alive winners as examples of what women find attractive.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 10:47 PM
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I swear "nice guy" is such a 2010 meme. I mean seriously nobody in the current generation believes that being nice will get you pussy. I have never heard this "Oh I'm such a nice guy" from zoomers. Maybe some retarded boomers incels used to believe it but today with the internet fucking teenagers get redpilled at max 14 on tiktok. You would fuck teenagers only if you could My porn-induced milf fetish begs to differ.
/r/AllPillDebate13/03/23 07:27 PM
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You must be real fun at parties, always discussing "serious topics" and "work" Tbh irl I'm often the guy people come to with serious topics because I'm well informed. I'm the guy with the plan and known to be extremely reliable.
/r/AllPillDebate09/03/23 04:48 PM
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The idea that sex is the result of "hard work" and "taking responsibility" is idiotic
/r/AllPillDebate09/03/23 02:33 PM
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The self-imprOOOOOOver is in the house Gotta imprOOOOOve
/r/AllPillDebate09/03/23 01:26 PM
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9 months of gym...
/r/AllPillDebate06/03/23 09:40 PM
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Similar situation, although I wouldn't describe myself as a nice person. Too honest for that. I just try to accept that I'm not popular with the ladies and live life on my own terms and pursue goals I have control over. Don't go down the people pleaser route. It's undignified and probably won't get you the results you're looking for anyway.
/r/MenSupportMen06/03/23 09:35 PM
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No
/r/AllPillDebate01/03/23 01:58 PM
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They are seen as attractive, hence they are confident in their attractiveness. Young women have no issues getting dates or a boyfriend if they want. Most guys get little to nothing, how is this surprising?
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 08:22 AM
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High school was forced 1:1 ratio and daily social interaction with girls. Guess how many were interested in me? It's such a retarded argument
/r/AllPillDebate01/03/23 08:18 AM
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Nah they can be very direct if they are into a guy.
/r/AllPillDebate20/02/23 10:42 PM
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Hell even I've been asked out before and I don't socialise much. Definitely happens. Also have female friends who approach. "Women don't approach" is a cope because women don't approach you.
/r/AllPillDebate19/02/23 10:25 PM
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Yeah this is probably true. Just look at all the past kings etc.
/r/AllPillDebate19/02/23 08:46 AM
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Gotta be confident bro
/r/AllPillDebate19/02/23 08:41 AM
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Oh geee I don't know why people are sick of having empty platitudes shoved down their throats.
/r/AllPillDebate18/02/23 06:30 PM
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I agree. The timepill is the most brutal of all. You can never make up for lost time. The clock is ticking relentlessly. Missed out on teen love and there's nothing that can change that. And things only get worse with time: In your teens you miss out on teen love. In your 20s you miss out on having the first real long term adult relationships. In your 30s you miss out on having a family and kids. It goes on.
/r/AllPillDebate15/02/23 10:14 PM
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They are never going to let single men adopt a child. Wayyyy to high risk of him being a child molester etc.
/r/AllPillDebate06/02/23 06:03 PM
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Dating is just a depressing thing if you compare men vs. women. Just like it's depressing to compare physical abilities between the sexes and men just dominate with ease due to being bigger/stronger. I think you just gotta learn to accept it instead of plotting revenge fantasies about "the wall" or whatever.
/r/AllPillDebate04/02/23 02:25 PM
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I'm pretty sure attractive male bodies are typically equipped with quite some muscle. That doesn't come from nowhere. You gotta eat and workout to grow and have an attractive body.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 11:38 PM
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This is just low quality rage bait
/r/AllPillDebate02/02/23 08:39 AM
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Even in the US people in the lower class have more kids than the middle class
/r/AllPillDebate02/02/23 08:34 AM
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You shouldn't have kids if you dislike women so much that you couldn't tolerate having a girl.
/r/AllPillDebate01/02/23 10:26 PM
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I think it's going to hit the middle class way harder. Already today poor people and the upper class are still having a good amount of kids. It's the birthrate in the middle class that is falling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:57 AM
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I think I've always had very low empathy.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 06:56 PM
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I'm pretty sure people overall are having less sex today than they did in the past.
/r/AllPillDebate28/01/23 08:01 AM
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Everyone who peddles "self-improvement" is trying to make money off of struggling guys. The whole concept can only work if people keep coming back to pay more money/click more videos. If it worked the "self-improvement" industry would run out of customers.
/r/AllPillDebate25/01/23 10:12 PM
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Personally, I'm opposed to the idea of "self-improvement". It's just a marketing scheme to sell books/courses/... to men and keep them serving the system.
/r/AllPillDebate25/01/23 08:50 PM
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A ton of ethnic people (both men and women) have some serious white worshipping tendencies. This results in them wanting a white mate. I think it's gross and unhealthy.
/r/AllPillDebate23/01/23 11:54 PM
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Idk irl women are pretty alright. Terminally online women, so the kind that use Reddit feminism subs, are not representative. Don't listen to them.
/r/AllPillDebate23/01/23 11:52 PM
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They wanted pattinson to get on PEDs for the role and he refused. Most male superhero actors are on roids and lie to the public about it.
/r/AllPillDebate21/01/23 11:38 PM
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Because the movie is portraying a fantasy. Because in real life nobody wants the the fat balding guber.
/r/AllPillDebate21/01/23 03:07 PM
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"if you don't like it you can just suck my dick, literally" Easiest retort ever.
/r/AllPillDebate20/01/23 10:40 PM
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Can relate. I like attention.
/r/AllPillDebate20/01/23 08:18 PM
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I'm pretty sure 2 women having sex is gay.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 08:14 PM
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Idk having libido is mostly a nuisance to me. It serves no gfunction. It has no benefits. It's just annoying.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 10:58 PM
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Have tried to look for answers to this as well. Doesn't seem like there is much you can do aside from castration. I guess becoming obese can destroy your libido. Or some SSRIs. But there seems to be nothing that doesn't seriously compromise your health in some way.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 09:24 AM
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Talking mostly about people in their 20s since that's my age demographic
/r/AllPillDebate18/01/23 01:57 PM
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I mostly interact with women in their 20s
/r/AllPillDebate18/01/23 01:42 PM
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Germanic country
/r/AllPillDebate18/01/23 01:41 PM
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Idk I'm also in Europe. At least in 20s ~50-60% of guys are incel. Women are all happily dating
/r/AllPillDebate18/01/23 01:18 PM
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Men rating other men has some serious homosexual vibes. Might as well go to a gay bar and ask around.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 12:55 PM
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khhv Kissless handheldless hugless virgin It's old 4chan lingo.
/r/AllPillDebate15/01/23 10:18 PM
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The girls are being filmed ofc they don't behave normal
/r/AllPillDebate14/01/23 07:01 PM
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Most people have never been in shape and it only gets worse with time. I was recently in a big shopping outlet while it was super full. So many people just look terrible it's disgusting. I don't know how they can even leave the house. They have no shame. Makes me wanna puke.
/r/AllPillDebate14/01/23 06:45 PM
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Never had any help really
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 01:00 PM
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No such thing as unconventional love
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 11:47 AM
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Men hit the wall, not women.
/r/AllPillDebate14/01/23 11:45 AM
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Low quality bait
/r/AllPillDebate11/01/23 08:48 PM
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I'm always very suspicious of people who advocate for politics that are supposed to benefit other groups. Humans are selfish, so what benefit are you drawing from your public advocacy for others? Often there are hidden motives
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 10:17 AM
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This has actually happened to a friend of mine. Kinda funny to see only meme stuff occur irl
/r/AllPillDebate07/01/23 09:31 AM
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Being lonely accelerates aging because it causes stress responses in the body. If you wanna look young just go for the school girl look with short skirts and a ponytail.
/r/AllPillDebate06/01/23 09:48 AM
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He is very deep in the "all the women who rejected me will die alone and miserable" cope. It's probably just projection because that's exactly the road he is heading towards.
/r/AllPillDebate05/01/23 12:34 PM
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That covert contact stuff is taken straight from the nice guy book. Never understood the whole nice guy trope and why someone would behave like that. Is there any actual empirical research on this? The whole book seemed like something Dr. Glover just pulled out of his ass with nothing to back it up besides "trust me bro" Personally, women mostly told me that I'm an (arrogant) asshole (or something of that nature) and went off to hookup with some nice guys. I've never really seen this "girls go f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:47 PM
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There are just men who will stick their dick into any warm hole they can get their hands on. But I doubt the majority of inmates rape. It's probably just guys who are in the closet (because being openly gay will get you killed in prison) who rape other dudes and use "I had no options" as a copeout.
/r/AllPillDebate23/12/22 09:04 PM
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I don't think most men are bi as in attracted to manly men/masculinity. But there seems to a ton of guys into mtf and even just crossdressers/femboys. In many cultures like the ancient Greeks men often fucked boys. Even the Taliban and some other Muslim groups fuck young boys even today. Catholics do it as well. So idk it's not really bisexuality as it is attraction to bodies that aren't 100% masculine (missing masculine body hair/smell etc.)
/r/AllPillDebate23/12/22 08:33 PM
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I think you might be too deep down the cuckold fetish rabbit hole. You constantly post about men getting cucked it's kinda weird
/r/AllPillDebate23/12/22 08:17 PM
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So much for the "black women are unattractive" meme. Also, milf very high up there. Women age like milk argument debunked once more. I don't see much interest for bald middle aged men. Men hit the wall way harder than women.
/r/AllPillDebate23/12/22 08:05 PM
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I think it's mostly a porn/fetish thing for submissive white males
/r/AllPillDebate22/12/22 01:37 PM
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And now you post on allpilldebate, go figure
/r/AllPillDebate22/12/22 10:14 AM
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Chocolate > curry and rice
/r/AllPillDebate22/12/22 09:23 AM
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Autism is becoming more common because people are having children later in life. Autism rates are heavily correlated with age of parents.
/r/AllPillDebate22/12/22 07:58 AM
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Nah that's a myth on Reddit. Go outside and talk to some real life early 20s women and ask what they think of short and balding men.
/r/AllPillDebate20/12/22 08:59 PM
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I was one of the top students at my school (we don't have those fancy names over here). The straight A students mostly didn't date, especially the guys. Academic performance is anti correlated with sexual success in male students. You didn't have any friends Yes I did.
/r/AllPillDebate20/12/22 08:46 PM
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I was one of the top students at my school (we don't have those fancy names over here). The straight A students mostly didn't date, especially the guys. Academic performance is anti correlated with sexual success in male students. You didn't have any friends Yes I did.
/r/AllPillDebate20/12/22 08:46 PM
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Just because you have a patriarchy and a woman is forced to be with you to get by doesn't mean she will genuinely love you. She'll merely tolerate you for the benefits you provide. If you're fine with that then you can just go to an escort today and get the same thing essentially.
/r/AllPillDebate19/12/22 09:16 PM
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How old are you? Do you have kids? Self-improvement is a meme, it's a scam to make men submit to the system without questioning it and fill the pockets of some guru.
/r/AllPillDebate17/12/22 04:57 PM
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He even has the broccoli hair
/r/AllPillDebate16/12/22 07:34 AM
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Some would rather take white or yellow bussy than black pussy.
/r/AllPillDebate16/12/22 07:27 AM
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Well if you want to stay single and ldar in your room nobody is stopping you.
/r/AllPillDebate15/12/22 10:38 PM
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Dude who the fuck cares why they like you. Just go for it. Personally I think many black women are quite attractive. "Black women bad" mostly a US specific thing (because of their stupid race conflicts) that the internet has copied. Chocolate>rice
/r/AllPillDebate15/12/22 10:29 PM
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Zyzz was a complete degen. A drug/roid addict. His substance abuse brought him an early death. Not something to be emulated. But there are plenty of zyzz copycats. Just looks at all the teenage SARM goblins. GenZ will have enough guys dieing young just like zyzz.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:18 AM
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"bad boy" I'm 0 bad boy sorry. No drugs, no motorcycle, not a criminal. You are just not able to think beyond a 2 dimensional world of nice guys and bad boys which tells me that you probably don't interact much with real people. Only able to think in terms of stereotypes. I base my ideas of what women want off of what they tell me and off of observing the people around me.
/r/AllPillDebate13/12/22 08:25 PM
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I don't think anyone irl has ever called me nice. Even my friends say I'm kind of an asshole. Never understood this whole niceguy thing. Who the fuck grew up thinking women liked nice men? Did you not watch TV or see all the hot girls in school date bullies, druggies etc.? Most guys here are just failed providers. Women don't need their provision anymore so they're just drifting aimlessly with no real goal or plan. They're unattractive. Nobody cares about "niceness", it's a complete non attribut…
/r/AllPillDebate13/12/22 05:17 PM
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I personally just try to bully short girls irl. Revenge for all the manlets out there suffering every day. Also it's kinda fun
/r/AllPillDebate12/12/22 10:56 PM
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Well without expensive surgery (which most young men can't afford) you can't get that jawline women desire so much. Also heterosexual women like the male physique. I'm a complete DYEL and a antisocial autistic khv and I've still had girls touch me because they liked some part of my body, like arms/legs/calves.
/r/AllPillDebate12/12/22 08:47 PM
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Gym is full of young men looksmaxxing/gymmaxxing. Most of them are probably not gay. Gay men have higher rates of alcohol/substance abuse and smoking which makes you fatter/look older.
/r/AllPillDebate12/12/22 07:25 PM
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The fundamental problem is not dating apps. Like the video said, men were scarce after many bloody wars and women needed men to a certain extent back then because they didn't have equal rights. Men had a lot more leverage when it came to relationships and hence many could get their virgin trad wife. Today women have much more leverage. Men are no longer scarce ("Dick is abundant and low value") and aren't needed since women have equal rights (and have even started outearning men).
/r/AllPillDebate11/12/22 10:27 PM
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Don't bouncers get laid all the time? Seems like one of those jobs that gets you free puss all time
/r/AllPillDebate11/12/22 09:44 AM
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Reading this is kinda depressing ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:51 AM
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Assertive I don't like passive/submissive/"going with the flow" people in general. I want a gf and not a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 08:57 PM
5

Agepill is brutal. It's so depressing to see people decay. At least chads have their memories of young love.
/r/AllPillDebate09/12/22 08:31 PM
0

LOL
/r/AllPillDebate09/12/22 04:50 PM
2

If you're hot you're hot, if you're not you're not. You can't replace raw sexual attraction with anything else. It is non negotiable.
/r/AllPillDebate09/12/22 12:01 PM
2

I think the fundamental changes in the economy and technology are much more important. Feminism doesn't work in a old agrarian society where women primarily function as baby making machines.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:52 PM
2

I think many Asian women play into the trad wife fantasy many guys have. They are failed providers in the west so now they want to provide for some chick from SEA.
/r/AllPillDebate08/12/22 08:43 PM
2

To be honest 10-12% is probably too lean if you're natural. You'll look like a DYEL with a shirt on. Just eat and bulk up and make gains so you actually look big while dressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:47 PM
7

Kinda disgusting to see such beautiful young women fuck some obese ugly white guy. It is just so unnatural. Prime women like that should be reserved for gymmaxxed moggers. On the other hand it is funny so see the Reddit soy patrol lose their minds over this.
/r/AllPillDebate08/12/22 10:04 AM
5

Yeah I have female friends. What does that have to do with getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:19 PM
2

Dancemaxximg maybe the way to go If it just wasn't so degrading. Makes me wanna throw up
/r/AllPillDebate04/12/22 11:17 PM
1

Worse foods and not enough micronutrients will make ugly humans. All these chincels with a recessed jaw line have it because they didn't develop correctly in the womb.
/r/AllPillDebate04/12/22 03:58 PM
1

Genetics are only one part of the equation. Humans are eating more and more processed foods with not enough protein and micronutrients and too much fat/sugar/salt etc. Hence everyone gets more fat and ugly.
/r/AllPillDebate04/12/22 02:34 PM
2

Dude everyone in Sweden is white so it doesn't affect anything. And 5'8" in Sweden is manlet territory. The whole racialized dating thing is mostly a us thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:49 PM
0

You are not Koko. This is not a koko post.
/r/AllPillDebate03/12/22 02:05 PM
1

Nikola Tesla
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:37 PM
-1

My primary stance is laughing at burgers being retarded again from across the pond. From my understanding this whole ruling only effects people in conservative states who can't afford to just drive or fly to the next blue state. Is it really that big of a deal? Aren't most people in rural red states prolife anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:38 PM
5

But I don't wanna be a neet, I don't wanna be obese or live at home I want a gf...
/r/AllPillDebate28/11/22 11:00 PM
3

Men tend to socialize more around activities. This makes them vulnerable to lose friends if they stop these activities. Also in general when people move, get in more serious relationships, have families or work long hours the time spent playing sports etc.is severely reduced. Women often socialise more 1:1 so those relationships are easier to maintain nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:20 PM
3

GenZ is not old enough to be rich doctor/lawyers yet. But yeah just going to a good school for STEM/law or medicine alone won't attract women. At uni everyone is poor so of course looks matter most. But hey maybe in 20 years when you're middle aged and get that sweet partner bonus you can attract a gold digger from Seeking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:42 PM
8

Being picky only makes sense if you have options to pick from.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:31 PM
6

God that is depressing. Probably true though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:20 AM
1

"The average height of a female runway model is 5’10” and the minimum height requirement is usually 5’9″. " https://www.ngmmodeling.com/what-is-the-average-female-model-height/ Also I am male and I find tall women more attractive. Long legs=hot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:22 PM
1

Wtf are you talking about? Tall women are the beauty standard. The average model is your height. Tall women are more attractive than short women. Is a huge part of being feminine being under 5'6? No but is a huge part of being a hobbit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:36 PM
2

I think it's reasonable of you not to want a guy with homosexual inclinations. There are enough straight men out there.
/r/AllPillDebate26/11/22 12:40 PM
7

The average Joe is the POV character so the guys watching can imagine saving the day and getting the 10/10 gf
/r/AllPillDebate26/11/22 12:39 PM
3

As a guy, if you want to get laid you either need a ton of LMS or you need to be a woman's bitch and do everything she says in exchange for some pussy (maybe). It's kinda depressing but that's life in 2022. As a man, you are ultimately replaceable. Women have much more leverage in all sexual and romantic encounters. All this alpha male "I'm the leader" stuff red pillers talk about is just a big LARP.
/r/AllPillDebate24/11/22 10:00 PM
0

Libido. For me personally is was: Started weight training -> libido increased -> unhappiness increased. Problem is I don't wanna stop going to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:51 PM
1

Male, 23. Girls in high school didn't like me and STEM undergrad so no girls. Now I'm trying to interact more with women via social circle etc. A couple girls wanted something from me, but they wanted to hookup and get fucked I guess and not teach. I think I don't give off the shy boy virgin vibes, girls keep telling me I come across as very masculine (what does that even mean?), Confident/dominant, I look older (people always tall me I look late 20s), so yeah idk what to do from here...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:55 PM
2

Isn't mgtow banned?
/r/ExRedPill22/11/22 12:57 PM
0

Looking for new clients for your rent a girlfriend business?
/r/ExRedPill22/11/22 11:18 AM
2

Approaching women as a khv seems so weird and pointless to me. Like, even if she says yes I'd have no idea what to do with her.
/r/AllPillDebate21/11/22 08:37 PM
2

Yeah, as a man you get no free hand-outs (unless you're born super rich or gigachad). You gotta carve out your own path in life with blood, sweet and tears.
/r/AllPillDebate16/11/22 09:38 PM
1

Are you sure you're even into guys? Maybe read up on compulsory heterosexuality.
/r/AllPillDebate15/11/22 11:53 AM
6

r/incelexit I believe
/r/ExRedPill15/11/22 07:57 AM
2

I believe there is already a subreddit for this kind of stuff
/r/ExRedPill15/11/22 07:38 AM
1

I sometimes get baked goods from my female friends cause they like baking but don't wanna eat it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:00 AM
1

Can confirm, have seen this irl with my own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:52 AM
1

I don't see what any of that has to do with sexual attraction and getting a gf.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/22 11:16 PM
3

Having female friends does not guarantee a gf.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/22 10:27 PM
3

Looksmaxx Improve your looks. Get fit in the gym (don't be afraid of real weights), get long beautiful hair, fix your skin if necessary, etc. etc.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/22 08:20 PM
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Eh, my mom never told me those things
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:03 PM
1

Instagram Dude fuck that shit. It's an app for women anyways. I've had women ask me for my IG, fuck that. It's degenerate. If she doesn't want exchange phone numbers she's not interested anyway. Dead end job Stop being a degenerate and get a real career going. Go back to university if need be. If you want to study medicine go for it. I know a bunch of med students and wouldn't call most them "elite" by any stretch. It's mostly memorizing. Arranged marriage It's probably the best you can hope for…
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/22 10:36 PM
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I may know one guy, my trainer. He has a kid now etc. but has hinted at a more adventurous past. Not sure though as I never saw it first hand to confirm. Does have the more extroverted, cool personality for it.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/22 09:00 AM
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Status is so underrated here. Being in a band or a barkeeper/bouncer in popular bar/club etc. will open many doors.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/22 08:56 AM
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I was talking more about the behaviour stuff like be stoic, be a leader, be ambitious, be this and that. Fitting this kind of traditional masculine social role seems like something men care deeply about than women.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/22 08:23 PM
1

Personally, I would definitely ascribe to the values you shared here and try to implement them as best I can. I don't think that this stuff makes you particularly attractive to the ladies. I think this masculinity stuff is mostly something guys care about.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/22 07:58 PM
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I think most men realize how much sexual opportunities women in their 20s have. It's just that the guys don't have that. So you end up with an imbalance of sexually experienced women and inexperienced men and the guys feel a) envious cause they don't have the same opportunities and b) insecure because most women don't want to deal with less experienced men.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 07:36 PM
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I just scrolled through the thread. They even recommended menslib and that bell hooks book. Reddit users are really a caricature of themselves it's insane.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 06:33 PM
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Unironically, maybe go out and suck some dick or get yourself some bussy off Grindr. Take the bussypill. Maybe the guys will treat you better.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 10:49 AM
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Based shizo rambling. Also, wtf are you even complaining about. You're literally getting laid despite being a complete turbo manlet.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/22 10:36 PM
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I think trying to get education/career figured out so you can make a decent living is important. Gym is also very good. Imo yes I think you should focus on other things. Women do not want men on the spectrum. Stop trying to please them and cater to their desires. Focus on your other interests and get yourself into a position financially in which you can afford escorts/sugar babies etc. if you want that
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/22 03:06 PM
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I would advise you to move out but don't think it will do much in terms of dating. I moved ASAP at 18 to go to uni, did not make girls suddenly more attracted to me.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/22 01:08 AM
1

Emotional intelligence (EI) is the ability to perceive, interpret, demonstrate, control, evaluate, and use emotions to communicate with and relate to others effectively and constructively
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/22 08:40 PM
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Idk from my experience women are still much more empathic and have higher emotional intelligence. They would definitely understand how not being desired sexually would hurt a relationship. Idk what to say about your gangbang fantasies
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/22 06:54 PM
1

*mstow
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/22 10:14 PM
3

The west is slowly following the model of Japan. Rental girlfriends will become more common.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/22 04:20 PM
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a) I don't think I am relationship material. I'm a very weird/peculiar person and honestly couldn't imagine myself in a relationship. b) I don't go out to meet women. I guess I meet women more or less regularly through sport activities and at parties (friends of friends basically).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:09 PM
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I played a bunch of sports and met friends when I was a kid and in my early teens. Played outside etc. But I also always sucked at sports so I stopped playing them when I went through puberty and team sports became more 'serious'. Always sitting on the bench sucked. All I did was school and then video games with my friends. What does that have to do with ordering my lunch?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:42 PM
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These are teenagers, not 5 y.o. At that age good luck forcing them to do anything, they will do the opposite just because their parents said so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:38 PM
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Hit the gym hard (and maybe up the T a bit ) until you mog your brother, maybe that will give you a nice confidence boost
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/22 09:32 PM
2

You can't replace genuine sexual attraction with green pieces of paper.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 08:46 AM
2

I never understood the idea that having a good career is supposed to translate to success with women. Working 60+ hours in some office is not sexually attractive even if the pay is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:10 PM
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Imagine writing papers about Pepe. I think I chose the wrong major LOL. "Hello, I have a PhD in trolling"
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 09:34 PM
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Maybe hair? If you're a woman without hair it's pretty fucking over. No man wants a woman without hair. Yeah female hairloss is less common but if you have it as a woman you have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:28 PM
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Just don't have Instagram. It's an app for women anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:56 PM
5

There are some documentaries about "rent a girlfriend" or "rent a family" as well as "cuddling for money" services in Japan on YouTube.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/22 09:22 AM
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I think multiple long term relationships with attractive, high quality women is impressive.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/22 08:59 AM
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I don't think there is a solution. I think western societies will slowly follow the trends of Japan and South Korea towards less and less relationships/sex etc. Instead there will be a growing number of services to cater to the arising needs, both virtual (porn, OF, cam stuff) and in person (rental girlfriends, escorts, professional cuddlers).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/22 08:41 AM
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Disagree. I think many guys say they just want sex and don't care about a relationship because it's more socially acceptable to say that. If a guy states that he desires a relationship for the nonsexual parts he will be labelled as weak/desperate/emotionally needy etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:13 PM
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Most men don't offer much financial or social benefits for women Physically men are getting less attractive. Physical cues for women include (upper body) strength and being lean. Men are getting weaker and fatter. More work and more stress. Chronic stress/anxiety disorders and depression are all on the rise. Not conducive for healthy sexual development. Technology. Too much screen time is fucking zoomers brains. (Gen alpha will be even worse btw.). Also I think technology doesn't work well with …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:02 PM
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I believe our tech overlords will find ways to sedate the masses. I think the west will trend towards the developments in Japan and Korea with high rates of sexlessness, as well as many sexual services both virtual (porn, OF, cam stuff) and real (rental girlfriends, escorts, professional cuddlers).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:49 PM
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If he has social status. The DJ at a popular club is probably batting way out of his league. But if you're just a normie with maybe a well paying office job then probably nah
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/22 05:56 PM
2

Neuroticism/high inhibition has always been a huge problem for me since I was a little kid. Personality black pill.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/22 09:05 PM
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Do something about mentalcels. So much of this pill-posting is basically dudes trying to rationalize their problems with girls due to their mental issues (autism, ADHD, social anxiety, depression etc.).
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/22 08:25 PM
1

Tfw touch starvation is kicking in...
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/22 08:18 PM
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It's a coping mechanism for guys who can't get laid and it sells them a product that's supposed to help get them laid. It's the same as a ton of other schemes of online gurus like e.g. Tai Lopez. They all sell the drugs copium and hopium.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:31 AM
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There is a market for sexual content by soldiers. Moreso females obviously, but there are probably also a bunch of gay guys who pay money for a dude in uniform
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/22 09:09 AM
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M en G rabbing T heir O wn W illies
/r/ExRedPill13/10/22 08:23 PM
1

Yeah people go out way less than older generations. I expected university to be wild with tons of partys, drugs, alcohol and people hooking up. Instead many people don't drink at all, it's mostly fairly boring LTRs or perma singles and bars are so fucking expensive
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/22 09:38 AM
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I think the real black pill is that a bunch of guys would prefer this situation to being alone.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/22 08:14 PM
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I call bs. Even the fat nerd girls got laid because there were only a handful of them Vs a ton of guys. Same thing in uni. The stem girls have their pick of the litter simply because there way more guys than girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:25 PM
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Bringing up the stupid wolf study is retarded. Chimpanzees (and many other primates) have alpha males though. Which is arguably much more relevant to the discussion than wolves anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:51 AM
4

Just learn game brah Just buy my book brah Just join my course brah
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/22 09:14 AM
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"Looks are not the only thing that matters. Certain personality traits are also very important for attraction" So how do you develop those traits? "Well they are determined by you genes and your environment when growing up" Oh wow, really disproving determinism here. What a great argument indeed.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/22 09:08 AM
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You're not ugly (although definitely a bit skinny). Calling yourself too ugly to get laid is just a cope. You're probably a weirdo and have either social anxiety, depression, autism or a combination of the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:42 PM
1

Dad is 5 years older
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:48 PM
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I don't think my parents could have made much of a difference. Their advice was just given from their perspective, i.e. of more attractive/popular adolescents Stuff like Don't put girls on a pedestal/treat them like a princess Don't let people take advantage of you/no simping Girls don't like "nice guys" work hard/have your shit together/take responsibility etc. So yeah I guess decent stuff but if your son is a guy with little to no options teaching him to have standards or avoid certain women i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:44 PM
1

As someone who has always been a bit of a memer I can tell you that this is not true. The fun guy is the guy who's not getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:14 PM
2

Personally, my mom is definitely not happy about my lack of sexual success and I sometimes wonder if she also blames herself Mothers don't want unattractive sons that's for sure
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/22 09:27 PM
1

A friend of mine tried to match up me and her friend once.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:41 PM
2

What is a rented girlfriend going to teach me about anything? How are they better than regular female friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:39 PM
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This reads like some kind of fanfiction. People who make that kind of money are typically young. And they tend to be workaholics. Not guys who tons of time to roam the streets, workout, eat healthy and get tons of sleep (which is needed to be jacked).
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 08:46 AM
2

Money can buy escorts, not genuine attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:50 PM
1

Try to cope with video games/porn etc. as best you can. Maybe try things like therapy, meditation or church to accept your life circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:34 PM
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I think what's holding me back is moreso personality. My looks are definitely not perfect, but I don't have any major flaws either. I'm just a bit weird, introverted and high inhibition Just always got along better with the boys...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:20 PM
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No.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 10:37 PM
1

many women are indoctrinated with the idea that they can fix a man Isn't this just a very common erotic/romantic fantasy women have?
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:09 AM
2

Korean beauty standards for men are also very high. Male makeup is normal. So is surgery. Source: Korean friend
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/22 08:08 PM
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I don't think she's attracted to me. Also she is a bit older and goes on dates with guys older than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:18 PM
1

The first time I got shit for it from a girl was at 17... Male virginity is unattractive at any age
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:16 PM
1

Incels talk about mental issues like high inhibition, social anxiety, depression, autism etc. all the time wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:01 PM
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It's a form of hopium that older dating coaches/content creators sell to their young audiences. They want these young guys to believe that they will one day also have the chance to get with a young, attractive woman.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 07:25 PM
1

Confidence comes from competence. Men are confident because they have been successful with women in the past.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 12:37 PM
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Relationship I want to get into model planes so I can show off my model collection to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:19 PM
2

They took male students and took pictures of them and had them do some upper body lifts/machines or grip strength tests. These pictures were given women for a rating. They were asked to either guess a man strength or rate his attractiveness. The study showed that women could accurately rate male upper body strength and upper body strength was strongly correlated with attractiveness, i.e. the strongest were rated most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:06 PM
2

BoJack has got to be one of the best shows released in a while.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/22 06:44 AM
1

Not everyone can be attractive. That's life, I suppose
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 07:18 AM
1

Of course there are. But taller men have higher partner counts, married men are taller than average. On the other hand I know 6'5" tall incels. Height is simply an attractive trait, many women do care and short dudes are often treated like shit for their height. It's not over for them, but they do have a disadvantage.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 08:13 PM
1

Yes, I listen to women. They all say that height is attractive. They say a dude bring shorter is an absolute deal-breaker. They make jokes and say very cruel things about short men. I really don't know what to tell you but height matters. If you deny that it just shows that you need to go outside and talk to people.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 07:58 PM
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Then you are an outlier, please talk to women irl. Height is a important factor in male attractiveness. I don't get how you can deny this. It's just so out of touch.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 07:33 PM
2

You don't need it but people with degrees (on average) earn more and are seen as having more status. As someone with a Bachelor's (still in uni though): If you don't want to study, don't do it. "Real" degrees, so STEM, law, medicine/health-care more broadly are a ton of work. If you have no real interest you won't make it.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 09:03 AM
2

Seems like a clown. He's like in his 50s, looks like shit. A friend recommended me his book and it's the most generic garbage imaginable. Most of his advice is just some weird posturing. Be confident, be alpha bla bla bla
/r/ExRedPill15/09/22 08:23 AM
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This doesn't make sense. Men are known to be a lot less picky. Women are the sexually selective sex in humans, not men. I think many of those "nice guys" just invent standards for themselves and claim women don't reach those because in reality nobody wants to date them period. It's a defence mechanism to preserve the own ego
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 09:21 AM
2

Sunken cost fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:19 AM
3

solution He said that he wants to communicate modern, real science and debunk misconceptions. He doesn't see himself as some kind of dating coach. He doesn't think most guys that are struggling (incels etc.) are gonna make it.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/22 06:48 PM
3

Bold claim
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:59 PM
2

The wall is a massive cope and doesn't exist. Or more correctly, it exists for men. Dudes who go bald and get fat have very few options unless they're loaded. And no 100k p.a. at 40 is not loaded
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 04:08 PM
1

I was not and am not dateable. I have no problem admitting this, but I think many people have problems admitting past mistakes both to themselves and to others. I think the reason why many men stay bitter is because when you're young there are no ulterior motives such as money involved. So it proves that just you have no "internal value", nobody actually thinks you're hot or would date you just for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:53 AM
3

Started going to the gym this year. Lift 4x per week, upper lower split. 1-2 a week I do some uni fitness stuff or cardio. Idk everyone and their mom says lifting is the best thing ever so I'm giving it a try.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 08:28 PM
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Similar situation as you op. My parents stopped asking about girls when I was like 18 (when I moved out). Now I just get some shitty comments here or there but whatever. I think people here overestimate what you can do as parent. Teenagers are super stubborn and most won't do what their parents want them to just because. Or at least that's what I remember it was like during puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:29 PM
1

You sound like somebody who reads Nietzsche
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 07:21 PM
1

Fat=volcel
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 07:19 PM
1

Islam was right about men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:42 PM
2

The worst are his bug eyes. I think that's the reason he always wears sunglasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:41 PM
0

I think you just need to solve your own problems. Nobody is coming to save you.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 08:13 AM
1

"Too long; Didn't read/Didn't watch." Also known as a summary
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 01:22 PM
1

Probably at ~22 There was not really a defining moment, more like me reflecting on my past experiences, reading up on blackpill ideas and talking to others in a similar situation. I do prefer the label robot though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:41 PM
1

Sounds like you were just a turbo simp. I have never in my life "done so many things for women" in the hopes they treat me like a good boy or whatever. Don't generalize I'm pretty sure the "groom well, get a good job, go to the gym" is what every Redpill/PUA says always, not my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:59 PM
-1

Doesn't red pill always talk about being masculine and being real men again? Since when is lieing masculine and based and alpha? Also, it wouldn't work anyway and you come off as even more insecure acause you lied and got caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:05 PM
17

The whole "men peak in their 40s" is a cope that is sold to young, undesirable men. Telling them the truth, that if young, attractive woman don't want you now In your youth, then they never will, just doesn't sell as well.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 01:59 PM
2

I'm in uni at that age range and 30-40% seems about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:24 PM
0

Do you really think women are always super honest and open to eachother? Grow up, women are not these magical creatures that we as men need to emulate in every way. It's on you to find and create friendships/relationships that you enjoy.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 02:27 PM
5

men only talk about football and women No they don't, I don't talk about sports or women with my friends much. Honestly, stop blaming your friends if you don't like them or conversations with them.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 05:05 AM
3

Yes the 80/20 thing only applies to the apps. But if you're actually in the bottom 5-10% in the looks department you're probably fucked. And attractive personality traits such as extroversion, assertiveness, dominance are also mostly determined by genetics and upbringing.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 09:45 AM
9

I think it's also important to add that relationship skills probably require actual relationship experience. Yeah a therapist might try to give you some helpful tools, but you ultimately can't teach someone to swim on land. You can know all the swimming techniques, but you still need to actually jump in the water and swim at some point.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 08:16 PM
3

Whenever a dude says he's not good looking enough to get a girl he gets shit on and told he has a victim mindset and should go to therapy etc.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 10:10 AM
1

Kissless handheldless virgin
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 02:32 PM
2

Lol I'd suspect that a ton of guys who act all macho online want a dommy gf in offline. It fits so well I'm khv so I can't really answer the poll
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 02:09 PM
2

I've started to listen to girlfriend asmr roleplay channels. It's probably not healthy, but it sure does feel good. And it helps me sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:28 AM
0

Yeah the "are you 18" banner will stop any horny 14 y.o.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:45 AM
0

The psych students I know all say therapy is kinda bs and that everyone who is working towards becoming a therapist mostly does it because they want to fix their own mental issues. The med students here also have to take some psych intro stuff and all confirmed that it's mostly garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:10 PM
1

You have to remember that the red pill was conceived by and for men who learnt early on the "being yourself" etc. was not attractive to women and meant they'd stay alone.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 02:49 PM
7

Wait I'm not the only person reciting SpongeBob scenes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:12 PM
0

To women obviously. Don't know what the gay crowd is into.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 04:37 PM
3

Red pill is wrong that we should apply sexual roles to gender roles overall, e.g. just because a women likes to be submissive in bed doesn't mean she has to be a submissive trad wife , isn't allowed to work etc. But I think it's still true that when it comes dating/sex the classic sexual roles still very much apply. Masculine men are the most attractive to most women. Most women will refuse to date a shorter guy etc. Men who are weak, introverted, shy, sensitive etc. are less attractive than men…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 10:33 AM
0

What is a masculine mother?
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 07:46 PM
1

If you can afford it go for it. Just do some dude diligence and make sure you're not scammed
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 06:44 PM
2

Sure they're human. They are just different than men. Moth physically and mentally.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 12:55 PM
0

Looks money status
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 12:49 PM
-1

Face and LMS
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 11:21 AM
2

Meh, I think it's just part of a rebranding to get away from the negative association of the red pill. He still preaches mostly the same as before with a bit of mindfulness/meditation added to the mix.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 09:38 AM
2

I'm inclined to say 'not really ', but girls have also accused me of "not getting it". Short girls comment on my height all the time though... oh you're so tall teheehe But I've had a girl or 2 express interest very clearly. But I didn't know what to do with that, was just completely overwhelmed with the situation...
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 04:09 PM
2

I'm 6'3 and even the crazy face bones people say I'm a 6-7 of 10 (borderline chadlite) and I still get "no bitches", as the zoomers like to say. Trust me autism>>looks
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 03:18 PM
3

Your problems mainly stem from the autism, not from all the other stuff like some weird bones or whatever. The virginity rate of autistic males like >95% in teen years, so you're doing better than average if you almost got laid.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 11:35 AM
1

Yeah many later virgins (especially 30+) have persisting issues in the bedroom. But you don't even have a gf/potential partner so it's not like you need to worry about that anyway
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 01:47 PM
2

If you find a way to truly go monk mode tell me how you did it
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 08:13 PM
1

I've heard it gets better with age (40s-50s) But ultimately you can't escape your desires and sexual drive. You'll just have to live with it. How old are you?
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 08:00 PM
1

Yeah I was also always a very sensitive, intellectual kid. Was never really able to overcome this...
/r/ExRedPill31/07/22 08:27 PM
11

There are not enough aspie gfs for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:54 PM
-1

Incel is not a ideology, it means you can't get laid. Personal beliefs are irrelevant to this state
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 11:09 AM
4

I think it's getting less. Look at the absolute view counts of many channels. They are not that high.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 11:07 AM
1

Accepting that many things in your lifeare not under your control. You didn't choose your upbringing, your parents, your looks etc
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 12:18 PM
1

Just world fallacy
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 12:10 PM
1

Autism spectrum disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:32 PM
7

A bunch of military guys are on roids She is probably not in a sec ops team Women just straight up can't naturally build that much muscle mass unless they are blasting test. Even jacked military soldiers and male weightlifters are not running around with a BMI of 33
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 09:53 PM
8

BMI has it's flaws, but you're no slightly overweight, you're in the obese category. That cannot be explained by bone density and body types. Unless you're into heavy weightlifting (and blasting anabolic steroids) I see no way to reach that much mass as a woman that isn't plain excess fat. Hell, I'm 6'3" and weigh ~210lb and could probably lose some fat..
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 09:45 PM
39

Always has strong opinions on even very minute details This to 100% percent sounds like a STEM-lord. I know people here like to portray us all like little insecure pushovers, but trust me that arrogant and pedantic demeanor is so so typical.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 09:34 PM
8

I don't know anything about female clothing sizes nor do I care, but 5'4" and over 200lb is not "curvy", that is a BMI well over 30. That makes you obese.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 09:25 PM
4

Hamza is basically red pill, he just dropped the label a while back. Also he is a grifter and prays on insecure men.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 09:14 AM
1

I mean it was not enough to ever get a gf. I don't really see the connection. Had a hard time ever " connecting " with girls at all, let alone attracting them
/r/ExRedPill24/07/22 09:49 PM
6

Treat women just like men/Have no anxiety talking to women Confidence Working towards goals Those things never helped me lol
/r/ExRedPill24/07/22 09:34 PM
2

Maybe I'm not as good looking as I thought idk
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 09:35 PM
1

I'm over 6 feet and don't get laid and know a bunch of other dudes in that height range who also get nothing
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 09:30 PM
2

Men have much lower standards lol. It's not the same Hell I could go on Grindr and get laid tonight. Same is not true for tinder and Im not ugly.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 09:28 PM
1

Yes.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 06:36 AM
-5

Virtually every women I've ever interacted with hated it when I got passionate about some interest of mine. Best way to make her check out of the conversation asap.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 05:21 PM
-5

Does being a nerd make you a bad person? No, of course not. Is it attractive to women? No.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 04:56 PM
1

Autists can't read body language/non verbal signals . Also, water is wet. I think even most PUAs say that dudes with autism can't really run game.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 03:46 PM
4

I believe the vast majority of (hetero) men need a woman in their life. Just look at old dudes who never managed to get a long-term gf/wife. Don't you know any men like that irl? They all seem deeply unhappy and get progressively more weird.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/22 08:59 PM
2

basierte Sojabohne
/r/ExRedPill19/07/22 08:16 PM
-1

Most guys just want to have a cute gf. If you want to deter guys from consuming TRP content you need to give them a way to get gfs.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/22 08:03 PM
3

My parents made sure I was educated on sex etc. It was just presented as normal/natural. They just expected me to start talking to and bringing home girls at ~14-16 and I guess started to worry a bit when it didn't happen.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/22 06:33 PM
4

Like I said, I don't believe you can develop the skills you mention "on your own". Flirting/in relationship communication and emotional maturity are developed through experience. Experience with relationships, setting boundaries, dealing with breakups etc. No 30 y.o. virgin/person whose never had a relationship is going to be good at it. He is going to act like a teenager in their first relationship. At best it's just super unattractive because the girl will have ~15 years of experience in relat…
/r/ExRedPill14/07/22 05:46 PM
5

My point is that I'm highly sceptical that a bunch of women will somehow flip a switch in their head at 30 and suddenly find what I in have to offer in terms of interests/personality etc. appealing. I personally know a number of female med and law students and I get along with them quite well btw and they usually have no problems getting attractive dudes.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/22 01:43 PM
7

Yeah I don't want to date someone who only likes me if I have a certain degree/job with status/money etc. At that point I'd rather use escorts, at least they are honest and upfront about their motives. If she doesn't like me at 20 because I'm a weird nerd with boring interests then I don't want her 15 years later when I'm a senior engineer. Fuck that.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/22 08:04 AM
7

If they end up in relationships they don't have emotional maturity Yeah of course not. Just like teen-agers. The problem is that you can only develop emotional maturity through relationship experience. Everybody else made those experiences at high school/college age in their first relationships. If you didn't have those of course you are behind. Second choice Being the second choice for someone, being chosen because you are "stable" or whatever sounds like the biggest turnoff ever. Makes me wann…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 09:54 PM
1

I don't think these polls are representative of the red pill followers. I think many participants here are incel/virgins or incel adjacent. Don't see many here that even implemented basic red pill ideas like lifting, a successful career or tried running day/night game. Instead a bunch of dudes who still live at home and are skinn, broke, unkempt etc.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 08:54 PM
11

Chimps and gorillas have a dominant male that leads the troop. But for chimps the social structure is still much more complicated than just alpha/beta. Bonobos are matriarchal. Humans as a species are kinda Inbetweeners. We are more sexually dimorphic than bonobos, but than chimps.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 09:07 PM
4

It started as a meme on 4chan. The irony was simply lost on people, as is often the case with memes that spread from 4chan to other places like YouTube etc. (Same thing with the sigma male btw.) That being said I do think that the perceived status of men within social hierarchies does strongly influence their attractiveness.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 07:36 PM
3

Mostly when trump came on the scene in 2015.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 06:26 AM
1

Ja ich glaube insbesondere Pickup ist sehr ami-typisch. Leute sind dort auch einfach offener gegenüber fremden. Man merkt auch dass viele politisch geprägt ist, der "based conservative man" gegen "liberal soyboy". Gibt allerdings auch Deutsche foren/YouTube...
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 05:23 PM
1

Ich bin auch Deutsch.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 05:18 PM
2

That is not a program. r/gainit has some in their FAQ. You won't progress without a program with progression scheme etc.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 03:24 PM
2

You should. What program are you following?
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 02:47 PM
1

I mean having sex no strings attached for a women is about as difficult as ordering a pizza in the age or tinder. And walking into a bar with a short skirt and taking home a dude is also not particularly difficult.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 02:44 PM
1

Eh, the empty barbell is 45 pounds, or are you not counting the bar? What program are you following?
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 02:38 PM
3

You're misrepresenting the argument. It goes something like this: The claim is that women only want the top X% for sex and romantic relationships. Women can get casual sex from top tier guys easily, but it's hard for them to get relationships with them because these dudes have other options. So these top guys have all the power when deciding if there will be a relationship or not. They can decide with whom they want a relationship. The bottom guys struggle to get sex from women and only get it i…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 12:18 PM
9

Autism is much more prevalent in incel/forever alone/black pill spaces.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/22 10:45 PM
0

Only have a source in German https://de.statista.com/statistik/daten/studie/500610/umfrage/geschlechtsverkehr-erfahrung-von-jugendlichen-in-deutschland/ The percentages are just how many % have had sex, with/without migration background. I think there.were similar studies for the US posted in this subreddit, but you'll need to use the search bar and dig for them.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/22 10:38 PM
13

Being a kissless virgin at 25 is normal Not it isn't. 90-95% of people that age have had sex. Being confident is toxic masculinity No it isn't. You clearly don't understand the idea /concept behind this term It's normal to go through years and decades without romance No it isn't. Dude, I'm sorry to tell you this, but you are an outlier. All those things you describe are not normal. Stop deluding yourself into thinking the average man is in the same position as you. It has been discussed here mul…
/r/ExRedPill08/07/22 02:19 PM
12

I don't think you can learn to get laid by watching videos
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 10:33 AM
2

Jup
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 10:07 AM
3

I'd advise anyone to read "Fooled by randomness" by nassim taleb. He also has a lecture series on YouTube where he discusses common statistics mistakes which often occur when non-mathematicians like social scientists/economists/psychologists use tools they don't understand.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 10:00 AM
1

Yeah the height thing is weird because there really isn't a comparable thing for men. I think you just have to accept it and move on. At 5"8 you're taller than most women so you should be fine.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 06:11 AM
-4

If you actually think college aged women (who are in decent shape etc.) are unattractive you are clearly delusional or not a cishet male.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 08:10 PM
10

It's just dudes trying to rationalize their sexual attraction. That's why you can't win them over with arguments like this. No dude wants to seriously date a single mom if he has other options.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 03:42 PM
2

Redpill says men peak later in life and that young women chase men in their 30-40s. Blackpill call bullshit on that and says young women chase young hot dudes.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 08:16 AM
1

Yeah I don't think you choose to be a dominant alpha personality. You're either have it or not. People who try to fake or emulate it just come of as cringe and fake.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 08:32 PM
8

Tldr: incels are just the bottom 5%, not the average man as some like to claim
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 09:56 PM
3

Gary vee is a snake oil salesman
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 07:47 AM
2

Well did you go and talk to them?
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 06:08 AM
0

That would never get permitted here lol
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 11:57 AM
0

I'm a STEM major and yeah, people who partied every weekend did not pass the first year. We had to study every weekend. But I know quite a few people via my dorm and sports from other degrees (mostly STEM/medicine/law students). Again I see mostly LTRs or single. And the people who are actively "dating" all use tinder/OLD I mean there is noise if you live at the street with all the bars, but that is to be expected I assume. But huge outdoor campus parties? WTF
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 11:38 AM
7

It's envy, just a natural human emotion. It's tough to deal with the emotions when other people have/get what you want and you can't have. I think it takes quite a bit of emotional maturity to just accept the feeling and not rationalize it with e.g. morally condemning other people.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 11:02 AM
0

I live in Europe as well, I'm in uni and I think casual relationships / active dating life is not common for men in uni. They are either in LTRs or pretty much perma single. I only see some women who are actively dating/having more casual sex, although also the vast majority is in LTRs or just plain single.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 10:51 AM
2

You're real ignorant if you think ops problem is his height of body fat percentage. Unless he is literally a midget or disfigured, his main problem is his autism. That's what's holding him back and causing his issues, not that he isn't 7 feet tall and 5% body fat.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/22 11:13 AM
0

Well, the truth is: The problem is not that you're too ugly/short/skinny or that you don't have enough game or whatever. You're autistic and male and therefore pretty much fucked when it comes to dating. Welcome to the club. Just stop with the NoFap garbage and find a sustainable gym routine. None of that is in any way relevant to your problems.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/22 08:37 PM
14

The problem is that a mid twenties kissless virgin is probably not exuding big dick energy, but rather has never pleased a woman energy. And op is simply not a flamboyant extravert and never will be.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 06:38 AM
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