For example if they wanted a legit hot girl, is there just no chance and to just give up?

I believe in blackpill pretty hard, but sometimes I see couples where a shortish average looking guy is paired with a cute, fit, young girl.

I think I'm above average (get matches, gets hookups) but these are all with average to maybe slightly above average girls never with the super hot baddie looking girl.

So is it time for me to give up?