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| 88 | Here’s a thought: attraction is triggering primal instincts instead of intellect | Conversation | debu206 | /r/seduction | 15/03/24 11:56 AM |
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| 1 | Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested inIf you let go of trying to control the outcome, this entire game becomes essentially joking around with strangers | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Financial Freedom Is Nice, Nothing Beats Social FreedomCurious on how you would open a girl with her mom… or girl with a group of friends .. | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 06:59 AM |
| 3 | 3 Flawless Flirting Techniques You Must KnowI think this dude is joking | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 08:19 PM |
| 3 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?Or maybe they do want the threesome | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 10:09 AM |
| 3 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?Pure gold. By keeping it easy you make it… easy ! And the hippie social events tip… gonna keep an eye for these ;) | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 10:07 AM |
| 4 | why does it seem like the less energy a man puts into women, the better his life gets? such an enigmaI actually agree with you, you might be misunderstanding me | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 10:00 PM |
| 12 | why does it seem like the less energy a man puts into women, the better his life gets? such an enigmaGames ? Im saying treat women well in a relationship since you know theyre worth the effort Im not going to treat women extra special just because they exist | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 09:58 PM |
| 20 | why does it seem like the less energy a man puts into women, the better his life gets? such an enigmaIn a relationship. | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Here’s a thought: attraction is triggering primal instincts instead of intellectThats interesting, though primal i feel is more « automatic » ? | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Here’s a thought: attraction is triggering primal instincts instead of intellectDidnt know, thanks ! | /r/seduction | 15/03/24 01:32 PM |
| 7 | Here’s a thought: attraction is triggering primal instincts instead of intellectSmarter sure, and this is still triggering the primal instinct of being capable to protect… maybe all of it is about protection ?? | /r/seduction | 15/03/24 01:31 PM |
| 8 | Here’s a thought: attraction is triggering primal instincts instead of intellectAh it looks like you were genuinely friends with her and there was mutual respect intellectually… I meant initial attraction… whereas i believe what youre talking about is the deeper connection | /r/seduction | 15/03/24 01:30 PM |
| -1 | average looking guys who have had success dating, what did you do?I farted | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Question about a date I just had todayYeah well, at least you went out and did your thing On to the next one ! | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Question about a date I just had todayAlright so next time, suggest beer, drink, touch , laugh, tease have fun and make out as soon as you catch a vibe. Make the kiss as physically intense as possible. Works every time!! | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Hookup app Tinder vs Facebook dating?Dating apps arent in the favour of men, and they can damage your inner game … and so it to me is the same as sugar | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 10:55 PM |
| 3 | I’ve (27M) got 5 dates booked this week, but I suck balls at escalation. Any tips or advice?At the bar, once youve broken the touch barrier, look into her eyes, and kiss her. Easy :) Take her home quickly after this, and use that energy for sex instead of drinking. Thats what i do !! | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 05:57 AM |
| 4 | Rarely approached, but often gawked at, how do I change this?Lets say this: smile and let things take their course. Opening a window does allow some crap to come in, try to overlook the annoying ones for the ones who might be a bit shy but sweet :) So cool to see someone putting in effort to be more approachable and friendly. ( some will take your openness as sexual interest, in time you’ll find ways of defusing unwanted tension ) | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Does day game/cold approaching work well because women aren't approached at all anymore outside of bars and apps?Kind of easing it mentally as just a game helps me with approaching women and asking them to make out as soon as i can catch vibe helps me | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 11:44 PM |
| 2 | How do I get rid of this bottled up frustration from being unable to attract women as a 26year old male? I’m always alone and have no one to talk to and it makes me so mad because I can’t figure it out.Hey bro. Im going to give the bullet points. 1- enjoy yourself. Find things in life that genuinely make you happy. 2- workout, buy clothes that fit you, figure out a sense of style that brings out the man in you. 3- be the best you can be at your job and at your passion / hobby 4- as a man you are smarter, more capable, and more independent than women. Women are to you the same as alcohol is to a healthy man. Delicious and fun when consumed in moderation. Be selfish! Fuck five of them. Be ruthle… | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 12:08 AM |
| 17 | How can we get lots of casual sex?Disagree. Lots of sex will make your testosterone go up, your confidence and drive. | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 07:36 PM |
| 5 | From a total introvert to multi champion in talking with girls & genuinely making them interested in you as a person.Go to the gym. Work out. As much as you can. Regularly. Eat good food (salads, avoid junk, avoid fried) Dont drink too much, actually if possible dont drink at all. Wear well fitting, fresh, clean clothes. Watch a video on how to style yourself simple, and classic. Clean shoes are key. This will help your confidence, posture, skin, and overall attraction. These are things i picked up, and they changed the game for me. | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | What is the best day of the week to ask a girl out?I ask them on monday, for a date on thursday. This way, more chances of yes and avoiding the conflict with friends & family plans. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 12:57 PM |
| 6 | I may have asked a girl out a little too quickly and messed up real bad. Any remedy to the situation?This is true. Never tell them you like them. Or love Them. Women are fickle, they arent the white angels you think they are. Follow your goals and everything else will follow, this is what i see works! | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Guys who are successful with women, how long do you wait until you kiss a girl on a date?If you initiate physical touch early (hug, a greeting kiss ( la bise ) touch the shoulder etc and you catch a vibe, ask for consent and go for it Also try to move to sit next to her and touch her leg with your leg, just casually. And of Course use judgement. Try not to be a creep, though also dare a bit to be physical. Girls want it too, theyre just a bit on the back foot. Take the lead :) | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 03:41 PM |
| 3 | If you are attractive, how much effort should put in?Seems to work best, and keeps you focused on your true goals | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Any clever/witty replies to, "Why would I want to get to know u?"“Lets get drinks and ill tell you why” I would say this in an equally flirtatious fun way, and smile. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?You were sitting across the table ;) Essentially, be flirtatious. Make that a part of your personality, so being physical doesnt come as a surprise to her. Physical touch initiated will get you laid my friend :) | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?Dont sit across. Sit next to her and when you move your seat, kiss her cheek. Easyyy | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?Ask her about her life and try to keep the conversation fun, happy and with laughter. Be funny! | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?You build sexual tension by touching her. Appropriately. And ask to kiss her as soon as you feel some chemistry | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:23 PM |
| 1 | FWB: How to maintain it / General AdviceEasy. Dont talk much. Avoid emotional conversations. Treat her like a bro, and itll be good ;) | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 11:30 AM |
| 4 | Getting girls is easyJust because someone dresses well and looks attractive does not make them superior to you. No one is superior. We are equal. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:53 AM |
| 4 | Getting girls is easyGirls are not special. Observe them and youll see they need you more than you need them. And there lies the secret. You are the catch. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:52 AM |
| -1 | When she says she has a boyfriendId become friends. Exploit her network. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:50 AM |
| 1 | is your goal one woman or multiple?Get as many as you can. That way youre always on top . More is better. The more women you have, the more confident you will be . The more confident, the more women you will approach. The more women you approach, More likely you are to find the girl you want to let go of the others. And here is the plot twist. No woman is worth your time UNLESS she proves it to you. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:45 AM |
| 1 | is your goal one woman or multiple?15-20 | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:42 AM |
| 2 | The instant you show a girl too much interest, she plays hardDamn straight. Women love to chase. do not text more than setting up date and confirmation. Do not reveal too much. Reveal only what you would to a stranger. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:40 AM |
| 1 | What if I just said this? Would it work?Change this approach to : lets get drinks this week. You come across as much more confident, even though you are saying the same thing :) | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:36 AM |
| 1 | I just fumbled the easiest approach everIve made it easy. Here is what works for me. If a girl shows interest, just say lets get drinks in the week. She says yes, exchange numbers and done. Easy as pie ;) | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:30 AM |
| 7 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?Sample text for dating Text thread 1 : hi, lets get drinks this week Close this with a location near your place. Text thread 2 : during the day of the date, hi see you tonight! Sends confirmation and builds excitement Text 3 : post successful date, hi lets meet during the week! Keep texting to an absolute minimum, that way it builds anticipation. Texting DESTROYS sexual tension. Talk in real life. Girls do not know how to keep sexual tension. Thats your job bro ;) | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:27 AM |
| 5 | Help meMake a plan and invite her “ hey lets go to x bar / kets get drinks tonight etc “ remember to escalate touch, start with the shoulders. Etc. Escalate to a kiss and take her back to yours or hers ;) Remember youre cool and women are plenty in the world, so even if this doesnt work out, there are other ladies too. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 07:37 PM |
| 7 | What is good sex?Generally speaking, if the girl shows enthusiasm. Like she wants to fuck me. Its nice, means you like our company. Youre alive, you know? | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 07:32 PM |
| 2 | What is good sex?Choking sides of the neck and some pressure on the chest makes it intense ;) | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Got a girlfriend! Thanks r/seduction!Dont ghost the other girls. If they reach out to you, meet them and just tease them with your status of being taken. Why? Jealousy turns them on. Why? Ghosting is for immature people. Why? Because im happy for you but i do not trust a woman’s word or commitment. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Got a girlfriend! Thanks r/seduction!Congrats! Remember to not get too close, familarity ruins sexual tension Dont forget your normal schedule, this will keep you happy The day you change for her, is the day you start to lose. This means the day you lose your motivation and drive towards your goals, you lose the game! Women are lovely, most certainly not over yourself. Hard to trust anyone other than yourself these days man :) | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 05:03 PM |
| 6 | A lot of you guys have a toxic view of women, and it’s holding you backNo one is so important that you are not your best, most authentic self. We work on our goals, we keep moving forward and are genuine to other people. If she is interested in you, she will show it. If not, we move on. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you personally word it when you are asking a girl on a date?« Lets get some coffee or lets get drinks this evening » is my go to line, Pre ask build up is more important IMO. Meaning how you keep the interest and conversation is more likely to get you the date than your « line » And, keep the abundant mindset : if this one says no, i will ask another girl out. Goals > Girls | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | How do you personally word it when you are asking a girl on a date?Interesting. Going to remember this | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 07:23 PM |
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