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deenath247/r/Divorce_Men12/05/24 06:51 PM
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You want casual for reason..the old ways are just pipe dreams. Deadbedroom calculation Cost benefit analysis Marriage 20 years , had decent sex less than 10 x ( got two kids 🥴) never cheated or strayed. Total cost 300k divorce. 30k a pop 😢 By all means if you want to half your net worth again.. enter into LTR 🤯
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/24 01:22 AM
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Simple equation. I’d rather adjust to your absence than frustrated by your presence. Your age matters. If you feel there is 30+ years on earth still left for you. Then why compromise 🤔 Hell it could be another 50 years. Time is your greatest asset and don’t let her steal or suck the joy out what remains. Your life , your choice. Having said the above Please do a Proper financial analysis and calculation. Poverty in later life is not good. Suggest Find out the core causes of conflict. The stress …
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/24 10:24 AM
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Don’t believe her lies… good luck 🤞🏽
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 08:30 AM
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Like how many shoes they have The real number on bedpost notches will be higher. Hazard a guess the number x 2 At least 8 cocks.. 🤢 The tinder slutty butty
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 11:01 PM
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Have some self respect. You will forever be cursed with this knowledge and power play. Fact of life. Some things that get broken , never quite mend the same way. Is she pregnant? 😳 STD’s etc. Separated was not a licence to fyck 4 guys and then come asking you to return if you want. Research - narc discard and supply. End the loop, end the pain. Move on mentally.. or be forever on the yo-yo
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 10:59 PM
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Cos opinions are like Arseholes. Everybody’s got one..☝🏽
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 10:29 PM
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Same boat 8 years and counting… 🙂
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/24 09:27 PM
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Your information is out of date. You cant contest now. No fault divorce rule changes occurred 2 years ago.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/24 06:58 PM
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Suspect - Loneliness and the long term commitments on OLD I have specifically asked a friend and sibling to never allow me to be gullible again. 🫣
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/24 12:12 PM
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This 👌🏽 because the end goal is raise INDEPENDENT functioning Adults that will fly the nest one day to create own path.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/24 12:09 PM
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Bite your tongue. No emotion No anger = no conflict. Silence is your best friend. Become the greyest of rocks that weathers the Storm.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/24 12:06 PM
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Possibilty your son (being only 5) Saying ‘he wants to fight you’ It may have been taken out of context - fight you in court. Etc. As others have said record and ignore. You be continue being the great dad. He can never replace you. 💪🏼
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 08:17 PM
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You never got married.. amnesia.. 🥴 You were coerced .. Hope you learn from this mistake. Now you might be left with a quarter of original divorce settlement. 🥴
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 10:29 AM
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You can forgive one time acts Like them abandoning you. You come to understand you were also part of the reason. But you can’t forgive constant Gaslighting and maniluplation. Financial and economic abuse. Anxiety and stress on a weekly basis. Parental alienation or acting like a child. So imho this forgiveness stuff should be reserved for religious people.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 10:46 PM
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Even minor Criticism directed at them will reveal their true nature. A normal person won’t have a hissyfit and accept flaws. See this link
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 10:21 PM
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You are not ready to date. But agree I look at the reasons why most divorced. If you are going to date Filter and laser look focussed Rare gems - husband deceased of natural causes or accident where she had nothing to with it. Some will have genuinely been abused but you won’t hear them initially complain about it. If they are shouting from the riff tops or looking for free therapy run a mile. Narcissist and emotionally abused is the easy projection based tactic. You are right ONLY the ones that…
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 10:02 AM
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The courts don’t seem to care What’s important to you is rarely important in law system. The blame game just costs money, time and headspace. Vent to therapist it’s way cheaper. Imho
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 07:19 AM
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Tip - google the number Who called lookup Romance scammers may have been reported. Mine tailored everything to my past and history. Obviously going through post history profiling vulnerable ppl.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 01:59 AM
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Suggest posting in Dead bedroom sub. - withholding affection or menopause? As sole breadwinner you will get screwed big time. And get to see your kids weekends only. A divorce means you get too provide all financials and have the pleasure of working full time and with what energy you have left to see your kids. It would be easier to wait it out till kids older and divorce takes time despite what media portrays. Try and work on the situation first. If this fails. Outsource sex - discreetly withou…
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 10:34 AM
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So true I’m potentially undiagnosed neurodivergent and awaiting Assesment. Impulsive thinking and being misunderstood can create even worse outcomes and hardships.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 09:47 PM
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I often think about the lyrics of this song Flowers.🎵 And how it women would say it’s their anthem In this day and age. And truth is they can get by on a smile. 🥴Wild world The current world is very different today. Men find it harder to Adapt and change and to accept blended families.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 09:03 AM
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I would also look into Cluster B male psychology. NPD, borderline and bipolar disorders. Another thought. Harder for men because we find it harder to find Purpose and meaning in our lives after being devastated by lifePLAN decimated , cut in half. And fragment into a million pieces.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 08:43 AM
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Another random thought popped into my head. Why are there more NuNs than preists ? Could you go without sex and entire lifetime..?? Ultimately harder and difficult to get right partner after a failure. Even the Opposite gender has more choices, more options on OLD pre/post divorce 🥴
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 08:27 AM
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Not sure if I have the energy for 30 min zoom meeting. But here a summary cliff notes version. 1) It’s Hard for men because sometimes with stress and anxiety it’s goes ‘Soft for men’ ED jokes aside. 😉 Any failure is compounded by high expectations. 2) Ego and pride driven decisions. Sunk cost fallacy. 3) We as men take comfort in stability and little changes over time. Partner wants new shiny and ‘keeping up appearances’ 4) Wired to be Blindsided. Scammed or unsuspecting of fidelity. So put all …
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 08:20 AM
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This too shall pass. Never give up and May strength be your friend.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/24 01:23 AM
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Never stop a train wreck. Don’t second guess your intuition. Why waste more of your life on someone who has done last minute hoovering. Love bomb Discard Hoover Rinse and repeat. Classic pattern covert NPD ( google this )
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/24 06:26 PM
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Poverty diet. Pot noodle, soup and Everything bulked out with bread.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/24 03:02 AM
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You can outsource most things she can do and get better results every time. Life is about freedom and sense of control. Have you asked yourself this question. Even if you get back together. You have just let her know you can be a doormat. it will be fine to do it again and again and again. Most likely open marriage will be used as caveat and you become a cuck. Have some sense of self and don’t cave into needs. Sometimes we really do self sabotage ourselves. Countless men have regreted the decisi…
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/24 03:17 AM
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Mediation assumes both ppl are adults, ( not sulking squabbling children) normally adjusted without a personality disorder and not toxic liar manipulative cheaters. One of factors is present always present in 99% of most cases. To me it’s the equivalent to costly psyche out before the main event.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/24 07:00 AM
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Get a lodger - paying one!!
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/24 01:37 AM
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Another Q Has she blamed YOU for her drinking ? Victim tactics.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/24 01:11 AM
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Treat like a job Trial period and caveats 3 month probationary period You get 12 weeks to decide your future. Also tell EVERYone so she is accountable if this fails.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/24 01:08 AM
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Perhaps you gay You mention bumfuck a lot. 👀
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/24 05:18 AM
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Get over divorce before getting your leg over. Coming up to 4 years. It’s often unfair on the other person. Ex Drama, stress , anxiety Can be a deal breaker for potential partners.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 01:14 PM
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Power play to control and manipulate you forever? Read this phrase a few times - this a good summation of why divorce may be only option left. I would rather adjust to your absence than be frustrated by your presence. 👀 Some things that break can not be mended with no amount of apologies or grovelling. your trust in her , your self respect. Your values. Communication is the hallmark of a relationship. Imho ask her straight out if she emotionally cheated or had an extra martial affair. Or pay to …
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 03:10 AM
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Cos she hit the Man O Pause 👀
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 05:00 AM
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Spread that wealth around. Hope he gets married and divorced several 100 times. 👀
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 01:49 AM
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Biggest regret and mistake I made was asking her to come back first time she left me ( pre kids). 13 years ago. Applying logic to the situation It was either a power play to get you to change as a person or become subservient. Either way it’s just a train crash waiting to happen. Salvage what remains of your life and move on. You will always remember this period in your mind. can you ever forget and forgive how you felt and how were discarded like disposable trash. WIn her back with what? High p…
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/23 01:16 AM
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After you awake from your dream./nightmare. Go get an STI/STD check. I suspect you were one of the 60+ over the years. Look up the meaning of Ex. 👀
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/23 07:20 AM
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Arm yourself with a new perspective and don’t rely on own “cognitive bias” from your experiences so far. After my last experience with a tinder date I’m was ready to give up and go back to hating women and avoiding them. The universal truth is .. 👀 everything in life is temporary and we are just one swipe away being replaced. But yoda wisdom and logic keeps me grounded. “Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.” — Yoda “Once you start …
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 07:06 AM
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Jack Reacher - I can’t afford you.. https://youtu.be/yAA6hxQgTjQ
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/23 11:01 PM
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If you snore and overweight. Please get checked for sleep apnea.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 10:11 PM
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Back to the Futurism 👀 Narrative distortions
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/23 11:48 PM
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Emigrate to Guatemala.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 10:20 AM
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The Victim
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/23 11:39 PM
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Nightmare on my street
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/23 11:38 PM
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Propose marriage again 👀 best gift forever 🎁 …..
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 09:54 PM
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Think they all read or watched EAT pray love….. good luck finding yourself. 🤦🏾‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/23 07:34 AM
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As good as it gets… 👀
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/23 07:32 AM
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In a nutshell - rather adjust to her absence than be frustrated by her presence.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/23 12:08 AM
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