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11

Skip the reconciliation. She'll just go for more. Rip the bandaid off & get on with it. CYA all the way.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/25 01:45 AM
4

She's never made a mistake & called you "comrade?"
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 03:07 PM
6

Never!
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/25 02:17 PM
2

Tell the was-new gf, you hope to see her when it's sorted out. Apologize for not knowing about soon to be xwife. Tell girl to get TRO. BS on wife suicide, and if not, it's not your fault. She's playing you & will continue to. Be calm, be firm, move forward. Do what you gotta do and get the hell out. This will not get better.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 05:33 PM
5

It can be a highly infectious disease.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/25 02:12 PM
4

In this case, it was purple.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/25 01:54 PM
9

She's gonna thinl what she's gonna think & do what she's gonna do. You can't stop anything. That'll only backfire & cause more resentment. Ask her what's missing for her in your relationship. What can we change? Make it a "we" thing. Really listen to the "I want", "you should" & "we need" stuff. Ask about what her friends say that causes her distress with the current situation. Do not berate them. If need be, tell her you have to think about some items. Lastly, know the friends will circle above…
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/25 12:19 AM
6

You're married. Best hope your not on birth cert.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 08:16 PM
6

The audicity, indeed! Block her. She's playing with you. Take your bat & glove & move on.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/25 09:19 PM
7

Many don't think guys have the balls to do it. The shock & awe is cuz u screwed up their plan. Those that NOW want to work on it is a nope. Just a stalling tactic. You did try. Did u try enough? Only you know; but when you've had enough, move on. Get a good divorce attorney. Batten down the hatches. Learn about silver bullet problems & heed them. Leave no stone unturned & CYA. They may wimper & weep; but will turn on you when it doesn't work. Human nature. Guys do the same thing. Don't run rough…
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/25 04:27 PM
4

Depends on what they want you for.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/25 04:09 PM
4

He tried. She's happy enough as long as things go her way. It's tough either way.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/25 04:04 PM
10

Well, become a bigger dick than her ex. She meant it. May well not be true & said it to hurt you. Decide if she's worth it. She doesn't respect you.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/25 07:50 PM
1

And when it fails you're back where u started. Heck, most folks under the gun will agree to alot.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/25 03:15 PM
6

You don't mention WHY you're blocked. Court ordered.... What's stopping you from showing up & not receiving event stuff. Be quite clear when speaking with Admin. Ask for specific law why. In writing. Or better yet, everything in writing or vid. 2nd part not likelhy if inside. They'll play dumb & play you. In sime instances just waiting to see u misstep & call police. Seen it happen.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/25 04:25 PM
11

Uh...thanks. I think.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/25 12:47 AM
1

Find the laws for kids being alone or babysat in your state.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 02:21 AM
3

Now, now! Don't hold back, say what u really mean.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/25 05:28 PM
6

Again, it's not for the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/25 05:22 PM
1

Get ur ducks in a row. And start the D. She is setting herself up.. And would u rather the kids hear her version or yours first. There is no ideal time.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/25 06:32 PM
13

She's smiling, being nice and patting you on the back. Why? Looking for the soft spot to stick the knife in. Nothing wrong with that. You are now competitors. Smile, be nice & get all you can. The name of the game.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 05:12 PM
2

Get your money & run. Anythimg else you'll be running around tryna get your money.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/25 03:43 AM
6

Leave her out of your feelings no matter the outcome. Stay matter of fact in all matters. She's taunting you. Hopefully, things get better for you.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/25 07:03 PM
7

Judges be BS.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/25 12:37 AM
3

No! And you should have deflected her statement. Well, I don't know if I'd be able to handle that and... You are over & she's tryna get over, more. 50-50? Yeah-no.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/25 02:45 PM
1

I'm so amused by "organically." As if it's really better for you. The US had non-organic weapons. Others had punji sticks. How comfortable was the guy walking with a non-organic weapon on a path with possible "organic" punji sticks to greet him? Not to mention all the other "organic" items about.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/25 11:00 PM
2

Is a kind of fwb+ ok for both of you for the time being? Enjoy each other's company and appreciate her for who she is. If not, continue with the "catch & release" program till it meets everyone's needs.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/25 01:44 PM
0

Is this a reddit group?
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/25 02:45 AM
14

Show up with a hot girl waiting in the car next time.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/25 03:54 AM
1

You'll not be able to afford anything if u end up in jail. Do it early in the week with the lawyer too. (Very possible scenerio- you turn yourself in without counsel on a Friday. Can't see judge that day. Normal. Bail hearing, etc will have to be next court worday. In the meantime, meet your new weekend & possibly longer term friends. If it's a holiday weekend, hopefully, they'll get to you onTuesday. The wheels of just us turns slow. You have alot you'll be learning. Hopefully, some of it's goo…
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/25 09:46 PM
22

Get a good criminal defense lawyer BEFORE you turn yourself in and have them go with you. If not, this could be a 2nd big mistake.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 01:28 PM
2

When you are playing poker, you don't show your hand.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/25 04:49 PM
17

"You go girl" has multiple meanings.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 04:51 PM
9

He does do everything right; but...
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 04:50 PM
2

Go for it bucko! You have absolutely nothing to lose this time round. You've already lost it. I've read your replies to comments made. But, but, but. Go back for another whoopin.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 12:57 AM
3

Yours may be interesting; but Houdini's is who I'm holding out for.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/25 01:41 AM
4

Skip the X. She left b4, justified or not, it's over. Stay away. The gf? Someone died. Geez, it's understandable. Calling it a party is to limit the underlying grief. Buckle up bucko. Be a man & do some man shit.(As Bill Burr would say).
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/25 11:11 PM
1

Get your blood work too. Need all the Different T results. Endocryonolists(sp) too probably.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/25 06:02 PM
0

Is D still ongoing? Family/work circumstances for both? Those & numerous other items and her approach to things should help determine your strategy to keep yourself healthy. Folks troll this site so...
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/25 03:12 PM
5

Men-o-pause
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/25 03:46 PM
0

Sell it.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/25 03:47 PM
2

You hold the cards, so to say, at this point. Don't show or play them till you have to. Say u keep in contact with friends of both of u. Members of her family. If she leaks out bad stuff, give it some time to get around, mention your sorry she's being like that and let it go. For the moment. Then, when it's out enough, send pics of the info you found & phone call texts. (Do not lose the recording). If u had to snoop to find these things, that doesn't look good on your part. Send nothing to her. …
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/25 06:05 PM
2

Women love them bad boys. Some never grow up & stop.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/25 10:05 PM
1

Totally agree with last line.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/25 04:12 AM
1

Is there a transcript taken?
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 03:57 PM
6

Nope! Put your child 1st. Work from that angle only. You have to be a part of 1st in order to care for the child. You're divorced. Be a good father. Time together doing things together is much more important than buying stuff. Fishing, interesting day hikes(hint: it's not about the hike), camping, exploring, maybe minor league baseball games, museums, small projects together, meteor showers, abandoned areas. Mostly just being there as a father.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/25 03:47 PM
5

Water was probably too wet for her.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/25 02:43 PM
7

Drop her b4 you you are dropped. Literally!
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/25 08:16 PM
5

She can try to keep kids away any way. Nope.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/25 07:03 PM
5

Geez, coulda been alot wirse for you.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/25 04:09 PM
1

It's not a surprise. It's just not relevant till you do it. So NO, don't say anything to her or offspring. Why offspring? Undoubtedly, she digs for info. Give her nothing.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/25 05:39 PM
8

Shouldn't be asking. And not likely to be truthful. Why? It's history. Her history. One is too many if it caused her problems. 20 be fine if she's fine with it. Some stuff in the past belongs there. Get that she feels a certain way. Not a good way either. Nothing to do with count for most women. It's the asking & judgment thereafter. Whether said or not.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/25 03:10 AM
3

Nope, nope, nope. She'll set you up & when she's in the right position, she'll cut you off at the knees or worse. You've left and NOW it's a problem. Her problem goes away if you come back. Your's never goes away. You can put lipstick on a pig, it'll still taste like pork. What color lipstick you like? Cuz you about to get porked. Find the laws pertaining to divorce in your state, prepare & do it.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/25 05:22 PM
3

So, you haven't learned of all the other men. Early on and just as likely now. This really sucks; but is the kids yours? Back away quietly. Prepare to go away. A good attorney could be a + or even necessary to cover your bases. Don't ask about other men again. If she starts talking a little, trying to feel you out, she suspects something's up. Really watch what you say and do. You could be the star of vids. Same around kid. DNA test? Don't know how to do privately. You're in for a heap of hell n…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/25 09:26 PM
4

Preparefor the evenuality.. Seperate out all you can & cover your butt. Seek a good DIVORCE lawyer. Look at online forums. Learn your state laws. Good luck. She's already sounds resentful.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/25 10:45 PM
9

Her dream. Your nightmare.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/25 03:47 PM
2

Find a partner that's color blind if you're the problem.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/25 06:29 PM
18

Yup. Kinda like multiple dead husbands.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/25 06:25 PM
6

And why should we trust judges? They make up their own rules alot & it's BS. Rule of Law? BS! Rule of MY Law is more the standard.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/25 07:40 PM
1

Tell the kids you're about to buy xxxx & mention the progress a cpl times over time. Don't buy, just see what happens. Best, if you're evil, & kids mention mom bought it, is say it was pos so.... Not so smart if in the end you're paying for it. (How does one keep up with the Jones' if their a Jones' too?)
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/25 01:49 PM
2

You haven't lost your mind yet; but keep it up, she'll keep those text msgs to help her case and your mind will be included with everything else you lose. Do what you gotta do; but cover your bases as the guy is always the bad guy. Ask about good divorce lawyers in your area. Best of luck.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/25 03:38 PM
5

Let go. She will work on setting up the best possible out for herself then divorce you. You will be blindsided. She's been threatening you. You really think she'll change? Yes, she will - change her tactics as they aren't working. Won't be better, just different with resentment towards you+. Divorce will suck, but life goes on. Get your ducks in a row.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 11:46 PM
5

Always be calm and firm. Why aren't you preparing for divorce? Lotsa good info out here besides the bad stuff.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/25 08:28 PM
3

Be nice. Be unavailable except for the kid. Sure she wabts to be friends. It's a win-win for her. Lay low. Keep your private business private.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/25 02:00 AM
6

Ya done screwed up. Now that she knows, she'll adjust for her benefit. Hold on bucko and sleep with one eye open.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 01:59 PM
13

Say bye
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/25 10:00 PM
5

Ya don't answer. I was busy, sleeping, exercising at the time. OR to cause more wrath - I was out with the new girlfriend. (At 3 pm?) Besides morning & nite, she likes afternoon delight. Then she took me out to dinner. I declined the show for well, you know.... Nothing in writing & u may be recorded.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 11:21 PM
2

But 3rd time's a charm!
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 04:00 PM
0

I heard frog legs are tasty.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/25 08:04 PM
4

Those pauses by women during the vows is them saying, under their breath, "for me."
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/25 07:43 PM
5

Yeah, that's called a Unicorn for a reason.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/25 07:15 PM
5

I love it.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/25 10:39 AM
1

Divorce her b4 she divorces you. Get your ducks in a row. NOW! She wants to come back cuz it's not working out.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/25 03:37 AM
3

Go & enjoy yourself. This person only exists as a coworker. Keep in mind, most get togethers have political overtones. Work the room in you favor.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/25 05:57 PM
1

Could one be in the house. The other deep in the backyard. Honey, I know you like cooled temps year round & love your home so....
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/25 04:35 PM
1

If married less than 10yrs, rumor has it that's it better to file ASAP. After 10yrs you're hit harder $$$.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/25 09:16 PM
3

Gotta keep judges employed. The wheels of justice turn slowly. Guess who the grease is?
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/25 07:17 PM
9

She's amicable now. Wait till she can't manipulate you.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/25 09:05 PM
2

Nah, scorched earth may fall back on him for more support.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/25 06:13 PM
8

Get the divorce over with first. IF there are any legal ramifications to what she's saying then cya.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/25 01:19 AM
2

They are already involved. Just smart enough to stay quiet.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/25 09:42 PM
2

Ask the kids - offhand. Mom said she was...
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/25 12:52 AM
1

Get your ducks in a row & divorce. Period.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/25 04:12 AM
3

Dude, not only no; but hell no. Your "friend" maybe sharing more than just the details b4 too long.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 02:42 AM
2

10 yrs gets you $$$$ more in divorce, supposedly.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 05:08 PM
4

Once again, 10 years. The magic # in divorce?
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/25 12:30 AM
17

Quietly get info to the wronged party if you can. You must protect yourself. Play indifferent with the coworker & clients.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/25 02:18 PM
3

Have your cake & eat it too
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/25 02:14 PM
3

Skip the separation and go for divorce. Dipping your toes in the water doesn't get you prepared. Jump in and get the shock over with.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 05:10 PM
5

Sometimes, ya gotta RIP the band-aid off
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 03:38 PM
1

Oh I wouldn't want to be confrontational. Reading folks political comments on here, I'm shocked at the level of hate spewed towards others. Granted this is no date. Have fun.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/25 03:18 AM
3

Why not bring up the possible problems earlier than later.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/25 12:50 AM
2

What are the kids doing those days. (School exam day, school off days). What are you missing? Say you'll think about it. Keep the list and see if there's something up or not. Your past situation should guide you some. Have divorced friends with kids? What is school schd? Just a start, regrettably.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/25 12:24 AM
5

Get the hell out! Now!
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/24 05:47 AM
1

Don't doubt it. But odds are, so it seems, she's gonna do it anyway. And he'll be in worse shape when she does. Her "reasoning" may be to get him out of house, then divorce. Possibly a cake & eat it too situation; but...
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/24 08:06 PM
3

Courtesy? No! None of their business, period!
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/24 05:49 PM
11

Set it up & divorce. CYA! She made the decision. You gotta protect yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/24 04:31 PM
5

Please remember, the term is MANipulate.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/24 06:39 PM
3

If multiple people tell you & they are all women, then you may not be wrong. If your guy friends are honest & tell you, then it is you. Never noticed women trying to change me for a long time. Change me for the better? For the better for them in many instances. Could be why things didn't work out. Honey, how do I look in this outfit? Tell the truth and be damned. Then, she looks at you and sez, you're going out (with me) and wearing THAT?
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/24 06:37 PM
4

10yrs. Figures
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/24 01:25 AM
1

Get the divorce over first. Having some friends be helpful.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 09:07 PM
1

Get that Lawyer. Lucky you found her.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/24 05:57 PM
8

Maybe Biff or Todd been a better match than Chad.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/24 12:06 AM
3

Don't let the 10yr pass. Get a good attorney & file for divorce now.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/24 03:48 PM
1

The X is going to enter the picture thru his words or her actions. No one has time to tell you everything. You ready for a ready-made family? Not marriage, as gf. There's lotsa good & bad things about divorced men. Biggest ? is why divorced? There's at least 3 sides to every story. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/24 11:17 PM
8

Get u out of the house, then go for divorce. Stay in the house, get your ducks in a row. File for divorce & read, read read.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/24 11:32 PM
6

Unless you're a Fireman, do not proceed into the fire. Get the Hell out of there. Whatever she's delaying for is not in your best interests. Only hers.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/24 05:54 PM
7

"Set you up" is right. Let the lawyers do the talking. Stay away. Can only lead to problems for you. Big problems!
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/24 05:43 PM
1

Get a good lawyer, quietly. You are done.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 09:06 PM
1

And keep your mouth SHUT about your doings.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/24 07:53 PM
5

10yrs. Always a telling time. Let her go. You're going to pay for it either way.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 08:45 PM
1

It's her work. If someone contacted you about it, briefly explain it to them. She's gonna drag you thru the mud anyway. Why bother with a false front.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/24 03:43 PM
0

Please understand just-us doesn't include you.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/24 04:08 PM
3

I think she's trying to make you jealous.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 07:09 PM
1

And, ask who you're texting with. Could be him & deleting texts b4 she sees them. (Or so the story may go). Yes, it may seem extreme.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/24 06:41 PM
1

Lay low & get ALL your ducks in a row. Once she knows, she can do all kinds of stuff to screw you over. Leave the kid out of it as long as possible.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/24 06:51 PM
2

Don't keep waiting. At 10yrs may be alot worse for you $$$.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 05:33 AM
4

ALWAYS!!! Do NOT give any more than absolutely necessary. She's gonna hate you no matter what & screw you at every turn. For the kids? NO! As once you agree to more "for the kids" it'll never stop.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 12:57 AM
1

Her upbringing & family shaped her. Mom was a problem. Most think they can change you. If they do, it's better for them, not necessarily you. Think ex was given the - if he does this, you have to do that. Might be by design of the mom. Definitely happens. Odd the way it finally went down. Too planned. Religion, etc can play a big roll. She was raised by controlling folks. She didn't stand a chance, given her beliefs. And neither did you. I watched it happen with a married couple after alot of ye…
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/24 05:51 PM
2

This sounds like the best way to avoid problems. Probably don't mention that mom doesn't want to see you cuz she may & could've mentioned such to your son. Be kind to your son, it's his mom. But limit your exposure. Don't be too frank and hard when speaking with him.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/24 05:09 PM
3

NO!
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 07:52 PM
5

How much $$$$$$ you got? And how much $ you gonna have after divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 02:35 AM
12

Keep your mouth shut & get a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/24 06:19 PM
1

Tell us, what was it like with your xwife early on? Think but don't do. Unlike ORD folks that really f* up, YOU get to do it again.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 04:25 PM
3

Do NOT let her back if/when she decides she wants backin. (She'll get the kids involved to twist your arm). Get off the rollercoaster and do some things you liked b4. Date? Hard to say; but at some point. Talk to your kids about stuff & your former spouse (skip the word wife). It sucks; but it's over kids. Time to move on. YOU must show resilience AND vulnerability so your kids learn it's ok being sad; but you adjust over time. Concentrate on where we are and where we want to go. Make the best o…
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 09:25 PM
8

You don't, you just move on. It'll fade in time. Let it. Get your ducks in a row. You're about to be pummelled, if it hasn't started already. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 08:01 PM
8

Nope! Stick it out & LIVE there. It's yours too. Don't discuss it with her at all.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 10:43 PM
2

"Kiss it & make it better." Where have I heard that b4?
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 10:18 AM
5

It's BS. She's behind this & using her family to soften you up. Stay the course, be direct, keep calm ALWAYS and say how sorry you are for the family & especially the kids. She decided this and though it was hard to accept, you have. (Get a good divorce lawyer ASAP. She's coming for you). I think she had plans with another and they fell through somehow. It was too easily done. And now were back. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 10:31 PM
1

It's not an issue till it is. CYA!
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 04:42 PM
3

Having been married quite a # of years. Not only NO; but F* NO! CYA at every point. Not worth all the BS over time.
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 05:40 PM
6

True love for sure. Love of money. Run! This is bad, REALLY bad.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 04:44 PM
2

She's giving you BS. Keep in mind, she may change & go for more custody later anyway. Go for the money. You can't "win" no matter what happens.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/24 06:15 PM
7

Your a lucky guy. Still having time with the kids. Go outside yourself in all things possible. It'll change you & your situation for the better. Hug the kids. Everyone of you needs it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/24 04:39 PM
4

Don't move out!
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/24 04:50 PM
5

Indifference is the key. The absence of love is not hate. She will interrogate the kids gently about you. Don't expect it to ever end. She'll keep poking. Your nonchalant manner will make it more frustrating for her. Greeting the guy with a true smile, ask how he's doing and understanding he's just a pawn will help. Saying "I wish you alotta luck. You'll need it." Is a classic. Let your kids know that mom's gonna do what mom's gonna do. (detrimental or not). Ask the kids what they think. (Might …
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 05:26 PM
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