delidoll Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
194	my quality of life is better when I weigh less…if youre thinking of losing weight DO IT	SELF IMPROVEMENT	delidoll	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/21 04:57 PM
49	WIVES OF HVM - how’d you do it?		delidoll	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/21 02:20 AM
30	how much of an age gap is too much?		delidoll	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/21 07:03 PM
11	anyone else think Charlotte from Sex and the City is an RPW?		delidoll	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/21 12:35 PM
0	Are my boyfriend and I red pill?	RELATIONSHIPS	delidoll	/r/RedPillWomen	20/02/21 06:48 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
67	One thing Feminine energy coaches don’t address That's why you need to approach things holistically. While looks do fade character does not. Men aren't animals. They are visual for sure but they also appreciate other qualities. Developing a good personality, well rounded interests, and healthy habits are just as important as taking care of yourself physically. I don't think they miss this but they certainly emphasize looks more than anything else which I don't think is necessarily beneficial, a lot of women only focus on their looks and have …	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/21 02:25 PM
1	my quality of life is better when I weigh less…if youre thinking of losing weight DO IT There’s a few ways. I live in an upper class area with my parents near one of the biggest cities in America. Theres HVM all over. I’m lucky I guess, but also not lucky because theres gorgeous women all over too. Sometimes I meet them on dating apps (Hinge), other times through friends, and others through my family. I’ve had the most luck with dating apps honestly. I can really pick and choose on them and I’ve met a lot of really amazing guys off them. I would try dating apps if you dont live in …	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/21 04:21 AM
4	how much of an age gap is too much? I feel like if I have a connection with someone and I could see it turning into a serious relationship its fair for me to look at it from every angle. Aging and having kids is apart of that.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/21 08:36 PM
7	how much of an age gap is too much? Something I will have to bring up. Thats one thing that makes me nervous, I know not all older men who pursue younger women are just in it for the fun of having an unestablished partner but that is definitely a discussion that should be had. Thank you!!	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/21 08:34 PM
3	how much of an age gap is too much? Amazing. Thank you! I wish you & your husband and long and healthy marriage. ❤️	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/21 08:31 PM
2	how much of an age gap is too much? Thank you for the advice!	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/21 08:31 PM
3	how much of an age gap is too much? Oohhhh I didn’t even think about the grandchildren aspect. I think if we got serious and he really wanted children and we were married then I would consider it but I just want to enjoy my 20s without children. That and I want to be as stable as possible (mentally and otherwise) to give my children the best possible shot of developing a healthy mindset/coping mechanisms/all the other stuff that goes along with that. Something to definitely think about though. Thank you!	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/21 08:30 PM
4	how much of an age gap is too much? Thank you! We’re moving slowly so we can actually get to know each other. I’ll keep the baggage thing in mind.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/21 08:27 PM
1	my quality of life is better when I weigh less…if youre thinking of losing weight DO IT I dont know why they feel the need to come into womens spaces to criticize lol. Thank you.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/10/21 07:28 PM
1	my quality of life is better when I weigh less…if youre thinking of losing weight DO IT I answered this already. But go off lol. Clearly they wouldnt be interested if I had nothing else to offer.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/10/21 06:34 PM
1	my quality of life is better when I weigh less…if youre thinking of losing weight DO IT ok…thats fine lol.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/21 06:29 PM
3	my quality of life is better when I weigh less…if youre thinking of losing weight DO IT Thank you for being so kind!	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/21 06:29 PM
28	my quality of life is better when I weigh less…if youre thinking of losing weight DO IT I mentioned superficial things because weight and looks are inherently superficial and that was the topic of conversation. I am in the beginning stages in a career in advertising, I have been told I have a good sense of humor, I read books and journal everyday, I enjoy running, I’m a talented painter, I’m currently in the process of writing a book and am training for a marathon. I also come from a good family and was put in etiquette classes as a child so I know how to act in public and handle c…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/21 05:35 PM
2	Mrs Midwest I don’t have empathy for people who endorse racist rhetoric.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/21 07:55 PM
-1	Mrs Midwest I’m unfollowing her, not starting a hate campaign. I could get into the difference between celebrating your heritage vs. celebrating just being white but I don’t think it would be useful. You seem to have your mind made up. Have a nice day.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/21 07:48 PM
-1	Mrs Midwest I don’t agree with you. I think you need to educate yourself more on racism and white supremacy and the normalization of it all through people like her and maybe start to question the people you support. There are plenty of influencers who aren’t racists who give good beauty & cleaning tips.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/21 07:38 PM
-1	Mrs Midwest You’re missing the part where she follows racist accounts on Instagram and let’s these accounts post pictures of her. Sure, she’s not in the KKK (as far as we’re aware), however she clearly supports racist rhetoric and that is where racism stems from. We can’t normalize this stuff and we can’t support people who are even just casually racist. It’s a moral thing, if all this stuff is ok for you then that’s on you. I can’t tell you how to live. But to me it’s morally wrong. I’m a white woman in a …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/21 07:10 PM
5	Mrs Midwest Just because you follow woc on social media and pin them on your beauty boards doesn’t mean you’re not racist. This is the same thing as being like “but I have a insert race here friend, I can’t be racist” like...that’s not how that works. She follows accounts that posts pictures with only white people with quotes about our “ancestors not mixing races so we shouldn’t either” and approving them to use her pictures...there’s absolutely no excuse for that. I don’t think the conversation was about f…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/21 06:57 PM
10	WIVES OF HVM - how’d you do it? Can we just not assume what other peoples relationships are like based on your own assumptions and cynicism ?? I promise you my boyfriend does not look at me like a “hole” as you so eloquently put it and dating comes before marriage, it’s just what happens, no way around it. Don’t come on this sub if all you’re gonna do is spread bad faith. It’s weird.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/21 07:38 AM
10	Should I let go? I’m 21 and have been w my (24 y/o) boyfriend for eight months so take what I’m about to say w a grain of salt, aka if somebody older who has been in a long term relationship/marriage offers you different advice, go with theirs, BUT I think you should just drop this one and move on. You’re 22, prime age to find a HVM who has clear intentions and isn’t going to waste a year of your life going back and forth. In my opinion, online relationships aren’t worth anything. I don’t mean to be harsh when I…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/04/21 06:20 PM
8	Should I let go? How old are you?	/r/RedPillWomen	16/04/21 06:04 PM
11	Tell me about the little things your partner does that make you feel loved Before bed every night he brings me a glass of water to keep on my nightstand because I always wake up in the middle of the night thirsty. Such a sweet thing.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/04/21 12:17 PM
9	How do you define Success and a High Value Male? A high value man to me is someone who is well educated, dependable, compassionate, and can take care of me in ways that women naturally want to be taken care of. I don't need to be provided for but I want to have the security of knowing my partner can and will if something were to happen. I also want the security in knowing he is stable enough to do so for our children. I also think setting goals and being able to achieve them is a huge part of success and being able to rethink things if thing…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/04/21 12:56 AM
5	Thinking of moving out of a blue state for a more traditional life, 21F Yes! I forgot about churches! I’m not super religious myself but I do know those are great ways to meet people. I would avoid the mega churches though. I haven’t heard very man good things about those. I would try to go to a small town one...one of my friends actually met her boyfriend because she sat next to his great aunt during service and I guess she was charmed enough by her to want to introduce her to him lol.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/03/21 09:35 PM
20	Thinking of moving out of a blue state for a more traditional life, 21F Hey girl! I’m 21 as well lol, I actually grew up in the Indiana and moved to Chicago a couple years ago (so went from a hardcore red state to a hardcore blue state lol )...all I have to say is most small towns in red states, which is where these more traditional guys would be, are very close knit meaning if you move there as a newcomer without having any ties there first it might be difficult for you to break into a social circle. I grew up in a small town in Indiana from 8-19 and I had a diffic…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/03/21 09:29 PM
3	Where do you draw the line between girlfriend and wife duties? THANK YOU for taking the time to type this out. This is what I was thinking the entire time. I’m not playing house. We’re not playing house. We’re merging into a team. I have more to offer than just sex and some fun on a Friday night. I’m there to cook dinner after a stressful day at work and I know he’d do the same for me in a heartbeat. I was looking for married women’s advice, not whatever this person (who doesn’t sound like somebody who has ever been in a serious relationship considering how…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/21 02:07 AM
6	Where do you draw the line between girlfriend and wife duties? I...don’t think you & I have similar values. Thanks for your advice but my boyfriend and I are very happy. He does plenty of things for me that me helping him out chores wise isn’t that big of a deal and I know he appreciates it. To me, relationships of any kind are about making each others lives easier in whatever way you see fit. He pays for my food/drinks when we go out because he knows I can’t afford it while I’m in school. I do his laundry when I see notice that his basket is full. It doesn…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/21 12:15 AM
3	Where do you draw the line between girlfriend and wife duties? I’m sorry that you’re going through something right now...I hope your situation gets better. Sending love.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/03/21 11:55 PM
1	Where do you draw the line between girlfriend and wife duties? hmmm...I definitely do listen to him about some things but others I don’t. I’m not building my future around him just yet but I do take his feelings and whatnot into consideration. I think this question is being taken in a million different ways and it’s becoming blurry lol. Thank you for your answer! I appreciate it!	/r/RedPillWomen	25/03/21 11:51 PM
8	Where do you draw the line between girlfriend and wife duties? I did not say I live with him. I don’t. I live at my parents while i go to school. We limit seeing each other to two or three times a week. Also, he doesn’t look at me as an object that he can get things from just like I don’t look at him as a bank machine or a place to stay when I don’t want to be at my parents. He views me as a person he’s in love with who shares similar values as him and vice versa. We’re not moving any further in our relationship until I graduate from school, get a job, and …	/r/RedPillWomen	25/03/21 11:49 PM
4	Where do you draw the line between girlfriend and wife duties? yooo he is very appreciative of the things I do for him...I definitely didn’t say anything about that. His mother was a housewife and he deeply respects her. I was just seeing where other people have drawn the line or even if they did at all.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/03/21 11:43 PM
8	Where do you draw the line between girlfriend and wife duties? We both want children...he knows I will not have his kids if there is not a ring on my finger. We also discuss our childhoods and how we were raised and talk about what we would change to raise kids. Just this morning he made a comment about him being my husband in the future. I’m really not worried about his ability to commit.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/03/21 11:39 PM
2	Where do you draw the line between girlfriend and wife duties? Can you explain?	/r/RedPillWomen	25/03/21 11:26 PM
7	Where do you draw the line between girlfriend and wife duties? I agree with this! Thank you!	/r/RedPillWomen	25/03/21 11:21 PM
25	Where do you draw the line between girlfriend and wife duties? He definitely does know how to do things and while his cleaning isn’t exactly up to my standards it’s not a disgusting pig sty (ex. I dust as part of my cleaning routine, he doesn’t even think about it, that sorta thing). I really like how you explained it. The nice gestures vs. expected. That’s a really good rule of thumb and an easy thing to keep an eye out for although I haven’t had problems yet. Cheers!!	/r/RedPillWomen	25/03/21 11:20 PM
4	Where did you find your partner? I really do not agree with you but I guess we’re all allowed to have our own opinions. I’m not sure how old you are but dating apps are the primary way to meet potential partners for gen z/younger millennials. Not to mention we’re in a pandemic, it’s basically our only choice. The dating game has changed and online dating is no longer just for losers who don’t know how to talk in real life. It’s more about efficiency and doing things with intention than anything for me. I don’t want to waste tim…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/03/21 03:43 PM
5	Where did you find your partner? Oof, I really would not recommend putting negative things in your bio, dealbreakers come off super snotty in my opinion. I really like hinge because they give you prompts. I like to keep things short and sweet that might sound relatable. Like I think one of them was most irrational fear and I put sneezing while driving and crashing my car and I remember getting a lot of replies from that. Also, sorry for not fully answering your question! I’m 21, my boyfriend is 24, we officially met a week afte…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/03/21 05:51 AM
12	Where did you find your partner? Hinge. I literally almost cancelled the date lol. We’ve been together seven months now, incredibly happy. Don’t knock online dating !!!	/r/RedPillWomen	17/03/21 01:18 AM
2	Is this a red flag? Thank you for a sincere reply. I found out it was a tear in my throat. I was freaked out because I hadn’t seen him act like that before so thank you for the reassurance. (-:	/r/RedPillWomen	07/03/21 11:14 AM
15	The love of my life prefers chubby women. I’m thin. Should I gain weight to be desirable to him? No. Just straight up no.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/03/21 03:15 PM
0	WTF was this? Women are fucking retarded. she’s not interested and was trying to get you to catch the hint...no need to call her names?	/r/askTRP	25/02/21 03:03 PM
0	I feel like women are different by race in terms of attraction hey, white girl chiming in here lol my boyfriend is brown...I’m canadian but I live in chicago. I know plenty of other interracial couples here. Maybe you should get out of the south?	/r/askTRP	22/02/21 04:27 AM
8	Issues as a “thick” woman myself I promise you things are not all that great over here...I naturally carry fat in my hips, ass, and boobs but that also comes with fat on my stomach (any naturally thick girl will say the same thing). I’m envious of women with a perfectly flat stomach, I would trade my boobs for a flat stomach any day of the week. However, beauty standards are always changing and we can’t control the cards we’re dealt, we can only work with them, and the grass always seems to be greener …	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/21 03:49 AM
2	Are my boyfriend and I red pill? Thank you! I try my best to keep him happy lol.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/21 01:07 AM
1	Are my boyfriend and I red pill? what is plate dynamic if you don't mind me asking?? Also, thank you for the congratulations! I for sure just got lucky as it fell into my lap lol can't take too much credit here but I can definitely say as a former stereotypical feminist I enjoy this so much more.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/21 01:07 AM
4	Accepting my partner's weakness? I agree. Men are allowed to be emotional, what men (and women too) are not allowed to be is controlled by it. It sounds like this man is having issues with anxiety. This is common and can be helped with therapy. Everyone has weaknesses, jumping ship at the sign of the first one is a recipe for perpetual unhappiness. He sounds like a great guy aside from this, OP, I would just discuss your concerns with him. If you feel like he takes care of you and you view him as a viable lifelong partner than …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/21 11:10 PM
5	Women who have lost weight, what was your experience with dating/men in general before and after? I think any classics are good to read (first one I read was Great Expectations by Charles Dickens, still love it to this day). Classics are a solid choice because most educated people have read them and are an easy topic to discuss. After that finding a niche you enjoy is a good idea. I love prose, narratives, and essays. I recommend Too Much and Not The Mood by Durga Chew-Bose to literally everyone, it’s beautifully written. White Girls by Hilton Als is really good too. If you’re interested in …	/r/RedPillWomen	17/02/21 03:04 AM
5	Women who have lost weight, what was your experience with dating/men in general before and after? I don’t know why but this comment was lovely lol. I agree, I think he would appreciate improvements even though he loves me for me right now. Cheers to you!	/r/RedPillWomen	16/02/21 08:05 PM
3	Women who have lost weight, what was your experience with dating/men in general before and after? That’s what I was thinking! I think decent condition paired w a pretty face and charm gets a girl further than just a nice body. Also, regarding your personality thing, one thing that helped me cultivate my personality is reading books. I might be giving unsolicited advice but people are always impressed when you can recommend books they might be interested in during conversation plus they give you more of a worldly view. Cheers!	/r/RedPillWomen	16/02/21 08:04 PM
4	PSA: men care a lot more about your body than your face I’m in my early 20s as well and have ~15 pounds extra too...this is interesting. I might just lose it to see what happens lol. I have a boyfriend so the results might be a bit boring but can’t knock your experience.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/01/21 03:39 PM
7	PSA: men care a lot more about your body than your face I didn’t ask them about me in particular, I was asking what they look for/prefer when dating. Obviously having a pretty face and a hot body is ideal but I think most men would choose a pretty face and an average body over a 10/10 body and an average face for a long term relationship. The guy I dated before my current boyfriend would easily be in the top 1% of guys (25, making 6 figures, went to an Ivy League, over 6 ft) and I’m almost positive he was mostly attracted to my face which tbh I wasn’…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/01/21 03:36 PM
14	PSA: men care a lot more about your body than your face I would disagree with this post entirely...I’m not going to lie I don’t have the most amazing body it’s pretty average but I know I have a really pretty face. I’ve dated guys most would consider out of my league if you were just comparing bodies that have told me that my main feature that they were most attracted to was my face. I think a hot body helps for sure but most guys I’ve talked to (including my guy friends) say that face tops everything.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/01/21 03:28 PM