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PICKME CULTUREdelmarria/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:43 PM
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Did you by chance look him up on that account, or connect the account to your phone number? Facebook is super creepy and will recommend friends based on that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 12:27 PM
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Omg nooooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:29 PM
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My question is, how can I differentiate between this, and normal human flaws? I know I'm not perfect so I'm confused where the line is in terms of discerning between manipulative male behavior and regular human flaws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 01:50 PM
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Notice too the implication of "power move." A move to establish a position of power over her. Why? So that she feels ashamed and afraid for the crime of rejecting him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:17 PM
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Wait so can I ask - if adjectives aren't good, then what would be an example of a good response?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 01:09 PM
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To be honest I don't know where you live or what kind of media you've been consuming to come to the conclusions you have. we're told on here that a man's profession has nothing to do with his attractiveness. And it doesn't. So that's why there's absolutely no male fantasy about a sexy teacher or librarian! /s In all seriousness though, I promise you, a guy loses a lot of attractiveness for me and a lot of other women if he suddenly turns out to be a construction foreman or a crude oil driver. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 08:50 AM
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You implied in your original comment that attraction involves marriage or sex. Now you're telling me that no-one is marrying these guys and that relationships don't involve attraction? You know where I got those professions I listed? Google. Go and Google "hottest male professions" and see what comes up. As a woman, I can tell you that I've wanted to have sex many times with many people in the professions I listed. I've also wanted to have relationships with some of these people, but only when i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 03:50 PM
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Because CEOs, entrepeneurs, professors, lawyers, and doctors, who are all examples of "intelligent guys with good jobs," are all utterly unattractive to girls. Rightttt. Seems like someone is a bit out of touch with what women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 03:30 PM
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When it comes to initiation of physical touch with girls, you need to focus more on the lack of shying away rather than any specific signal to look out for. Since you're nervous, I'd recommend next time just sitting next to her and casually resting your knee against hers. If she doesn't move her leg away, put your hand on your leg, letting it just barely touch hers. If she doesn't shy away, you're golden. You have your "signal" - escalate.
/r/seduction03/10/16 08:56 PM
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If you've ever talked to a cashier you'd also know that none of them remember who bought what, or even really notice for a moment.
/r/seduction03/10/16 08:49 PM
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Like when I fat shame and fat people don't accept it. They're still over using resources and crippling themselves while expecting us to pay for it and call them beautiful, so their refusal didn't negate the shame. The most harm I can see fat people causing is crippling themselves and asking for money from the government. Saying they're over using resources is a bit ridiculous considering a) they're the ones paying for the food, b) at least they use those resources...as opposed to all the people …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 08:22 PM
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I'm pretty sure second-hand smoke affects people way more than fat people buying too much food for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 05:42 PM
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The guy wrote this from his own personal experiences as an exchange student, and he happens to be a white guy. Where would he get the material to write a more comprehensive article based on the different races, if he's not Asian?
/r/seduction14/07/16 06:12 AM
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The guy wrote this from his own personal experiences as an exchange student, and he happens to be a white guy. Where would he get the material to write a more comprehensive article based on the different races, if he's not Asian?
/r/seduction14/07/16 06:10 AM
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I guess it's good that you think 100k is so little. It must mean you're very lucky in terms of finances. You are forgetting that the average family (with both parents' incomes put together) makes around 50k. You have to spend on the children, a decent home, sometimes schooling, and then oftentimes you're expected to contribute to college funds. I also think you sound very bitter. Let's not fall into the trap of thinking women are evil just because they are attracted to a specific stereotype of p…
/r/seduction12/07/16 10:54 AM
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Raising a child from birth to legal age takes around 100k dollars. Average number of children per family in the U.S. is 2.5. Therefore the average family will spend 250k on their children. Software programmers do make a lot of money, often ranging in the 100k/year range after some experience.
/r/seduction12/07/16 08:03 AM
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I don't know the word you would call someone from a soviet/eastern europe country Eastern European. If you want a more specific nationality you could always go for Ukrainian. They're so close to Russian that it's almost like you're saying the same thing, yet neither Russians nor other Eastern Europeans will get offended at being mistaken for being Ukrainian.
/r/seduction29/04/16 12:41 AM
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Statistically there are going to be more single mothers than fathers (in terms of actually being active in a child's life). Moreover I don't see what is so surprising or discriminatory or what-have-you about a website specifically established for mothers to have a picture of...a mother on one of their pages. If you want a more gender neutral article find one on a site not established for mothers in the first place. Also just because you get benefits as a single parent does not mean that you and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 08:06 AM
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Isn't English your first language? It isn't, actually, but I know it well regardless. If you don't see anything wrong with such a view, please refrain from talking to me further, I don't deal well with crazy. Look who's making ad hominem attacks now. I never said anything so hostile as that to you so I'm not sure why you are so defensive. She basically means that fathers silence their daughters so their husband can rape them later. I agree with you actually. I downloaded the pdf of that book and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 09:14 PM
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ad hominem According to Wikipedia, that means "responding to arguments by attacking a person's character, rather than to the content of their arguments." Where was I doing that? I have no idea who you are. All I said was that I didn't understand why that quote was bad. I personally took it to mean as her describing female genital mutilation, though admittedly I don't know the whole context.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 05:33 PM
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Great explanation!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 11:52 AM
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You are just dodging the original point here yet again. It's okay though, see ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 12:19 AM
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Serfs are a very specific part of human history. I'm pretty sure we're talking about overall gender dynamics and rights, not a specific enslaved minority in European countries and their rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 10:08 PM
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No, the killers are men themselves. I don't know about them killing only men, but if that's true they likely kept the women alive so they could enslave them/rape them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 10:07 PM
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All I said was based on my own experience. I also don't think it's reasonable to demonize every woman with AWALT and claim that we all think ugly men are creepy. Generalizing in general is a logical fallacy. There might be a bit of a "halo effect", but I don't think the reasonable way to counter that would be a "devil horn" effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 09:16 PM
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Because they're men? Or for some other reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 09:12 PM
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Why wouldn't I be sure? If we're talking first world here, men could vote and own property long before women could.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 09:12 PM
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I don't know, I feel like you were avoiding my point a lot so that you wouldn't have to admit you feel that men and women deserve unequal treatment. Am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 09:10 PM
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You don't want to cop to this obvious truth for reasons that are unclear, but likely ideological. What truth? That women are physically inferior to men? Yeah, in general women are physically weaker than men. That doesn't mean that every single woman on the earth is weaker than every man on the planet. And just because women are physically weaker does not mean they are inferior to men in every way - hence life is not all about brawn. Again, ought versus is. Again, you are ignoring my original poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 07:11 PM
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"You grow up with your father holding you down and covering your mouth so another man can make a horrible searing pain between your legs" — Catharine MacKinnon I'm not sure what you find wrong with this quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:54 PM
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Sorry if I disagree; life is not all about brawn. And again, you're ignoring my point. Regardless of whether they are inferior or not, women are still people and deserve to be treated as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:52 PM
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Yeah, I'm not denying that women have been treated like shit throughout the centuries because of their supposed inherent inferiority. My original comment was Well, yes...there would be a lot less rape and violence against women if the power dynamics changed and women were seen as a more equal gender, yes...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:39 PM
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So basically we're agreeing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:33 PM
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They still had more rights than women did.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:32 PM
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You are talking about how women are inherently unequal. I'm talking about how there would be less violence against women if they were seen as a more equal gender. Children are weaker than adults and much less intelligent. Does that justify doing whatever you want with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:30 PM
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Uh so where's the entitlement again?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:28 PM
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Haha please find one of these articles because that sounds incredibly unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:27 PM
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Maybe as a preventative measure? Better to prevent rapists' existence than to lock them away after. Besides sorry, I really don't think a (nonexistent) orientation class is that oppressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 09:44 AM
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Fair enough, people do give good-looking people a lot of second chances. I just wanted to point out that it's not so cut-and-dry that in the woman's mind an unattractive person=creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 08:52 AM
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I don't want to pretend to be representative of the female gender at large, but in general it's not ugly guys that creep me out, it's the ones I feel threatened by because of their behavior. I might reject an ugly guy, but I won't interpret his advances as harassment just because of his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 07:39 AM
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Sorry bro, you made the claim, the onus of proof is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 07:36 AM
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Lol how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 07:29 AM
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Even if women do less that doesn't mean they deserve the treatment they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 07:21 AM
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You haven't exactly responded to my point soooooo Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 07:11 AM
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When you grew up, did your parents have an equal relationship or was there a power dynamic? The power dynamic was terrible. Constant fights because my dad never wanted to do anything and was incredibly lazy and whiny, while mom was the one actively pursuing career opportunities and at the same time taking care of four kids, two with severe mental disabilities. Did your parents teach you any red pill truths, blue pill truths or anything about dating at all? If not, from where did you get your kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 07:04 AM
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No worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:48 AM
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Oh please. If women are not allowed to hold jobs, drive a car, or even go to school (lest they get acid in their face), then how the fuck are they supposed to do anything outside of what the men in their culture want them to do, unless they don't mind being raped or killed?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:46 AM
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Please tell me who prevents women from doing all that shit. And remember, third world countries! We can discuss cultural influences on women's success in the first world another time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:35 AM
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Now while you telling me why your argument isn't full of shit Thanks for the respect. Appreciate it. As for women not instigating violence on men so much, let's step out of lala land, shall we Okay, yeah, I have a huge problem with people who dismiss physical abuse of men by women. It's disgusting and it's sexist. But statistically, men instigate violence on a much wider level than women do. I also hope that you remember we were talking about third world countries here. I really doubt that over …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:19 AM
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The ability to impose your power on another is the only factor in places like this that are not civilized. Agreed. However there is a difference in that over there, each woman is at risk. ISIS doesn't kill men because they think men are inferior or because they are misandrists. ISIS is pretty much composed of men; a brotherhood of sorts. As an example closer to home, the KKK has probably killed more men over the years than women. However they are not hating or killing men because they are men, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:13 AM
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Of course there is violence against men. But it is men inflicting the violence upon other men - the genders in this case have nothing to do with it. When it comes to women, the treatment they endure are mostly because of their supposedly inferior role in society. Mind you, the women don't really inflict violence on the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:01 AM
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You seem to be thinking of a different context than I am. I don't know how "changing a ruler from a man to a woman" would change or not change the society; I'm talking about the overall respect and equal treatment of women on a more fundamental level. When it comes to these kinds of places, I don't give a fuck if they make a woman a leader. I care that the average man might think it appropriate or moral behavior to rape a woman on the street or throw acid in her face when she just wants to go to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 05:53 AM
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Well, yes...there would be a lot less rape and violence against women if the power dynamics changed and women were seen as a more equal gender, yes...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 04:52 AM
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What, as soon as someone contradicts your point you condescendingly dismiss it with a "good for you"? Smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 09:24 PM
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Yep, that's definitely the correct response. And I agree the lack of courage/agency is an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 11:32 PM
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Haha I know it's a problem. I'm working on it. I just wanted to point out that it's a pretty common thing to do. You have to battle with the sense that you have to be "nice" and can't full-out reject the guy, so you try to make it seem like it was his idea so his feelings don't get hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 11:16 PM
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Maybe you just don't make them feel comfortable enough to open up, who knows. I usually only use one-word answers when I want to get out of a situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 06:28 PM
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Honestly when I look at internet eye-candy Idgaf about how famous or rich they are. In real life I'm not attracted to muscular guys at all, and I don't know any rich or famous guys in real life, if that means anything. Muscle is nowhere close to a universal standard for attractiveness in men for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 03:40 AM
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Really? Do you really think women find men like Marc Bartra attractive only because of his fame and riches?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 03:23 AM
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Just like a guy might want a girl with big tits and a great ass, a girl might want a taller guy. You really can't complain if you have standards for the girls you date or fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 07:00 PM
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I really don't think you're going to convince anyone of the folly of TRP if you call them turds. I personally partially agree with both sides. I'm perfectly okay with going with three or more months without sex if there is no-one I'm attracted to or there is no opportunity. However if there is someone who somehow got past my attraction meters and I'm horny and so are they, I'm going to forgive them a lot for their possibly lousy personality. Women are definitely not horndogs, but thinking that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 08:23 PM
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Yeah that makes a lot of sense actually. I was thinking that a lot of men likely base women's mentalities on their own (because they need to hit it as often as possible, women must need to as well). But that is definitely another factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 01:50 AM
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I think that a lot of men overestimate the sex drive of a woman. TRP has AWALT and all that but trust me. I'm a reasonable looking chick and I can calmly and happily go for three months without getting laid. Girls are not guys. Then again, this is just based on my own experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 01:21 AM
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I really don't see the mental gymnastics. Go ahead, compare the amount of rape that goes on in male vs. female prisons. But you really can't compare prison to the general population. Now that is mental gymnastics, and faulty use of statistics. In fact, even though it's far more prevalent, male/male prison rape is seen in our popular culture as not as big a deal Ha. I promise you that it is logically impossible for there to be more male/male prison rapes than there are rapes of women in the gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 01:03 AM
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I would argue that you can't compare the statistics on rape among the general public vs. correctional institutions. Of course there's going to be more rape there, there is a reason that the prisoners got into jail. They're criminals. They have a different moral compass from that of the general population. Please look up statistics on number of rapes of men and women in the general public; that would be a better comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 08:43 PM
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Try to find something unique about them ask them about it and try to relate to them personally. Can you give an example?
/r/seduction03/07/15 11:16 PM
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The Rules Revisited is an amazing resource for FPUA.
/r/seduction10/12/14 08:56 AM
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I wouldn't really advise following that craigslist script, but honestly, it's very important for you to let loose. Stop avoiding situations and making up excuses. It's not just unattractive to girls, it's also unattractive to everyone, and you're losing out on a bunch of really cool experiences. Before finding someone to date, you have to turn into the person that you would like to date.
/r/seduction10/12/14 08:48 AM
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I can't really help you with as to why girls lose interest in you, but I can tell you that a) being sick isn't a "lame excuse" but b) if she cancels, let her be the one to reschedule. Do not reschedule yourself.
/r/seduction10/12/14 08:43 AM
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I honestly don't really understand what you're trying to say, but what I said is true. Most women are afraid of becoming emotionally attached to a person who doesn't really care about them and will use them for sex before going on to the next woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/14 09:15 PM
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Women perceive the label "player" as negative because they think that players will use them for sex and then leave - aka "pump and dump." EDIT: Thus the player "plays" with the woman's emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 01:18 AM
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That last sentence is sick. Men don't choose to continue having sex, the man AND woman do. If the woman does't want to continue, it's done. The man does not inherently have more power after sex. Based on your comments, you sound like a red piller.
/r/seduction07/11/13 12:23 AM
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I turn her cheek away from me and whisper into her ear slowly that she owes me a date. Don't do this anymore. That would creep me out too.
/r/seduction21/07/13 06:23 PM
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What pitykit and Freevoulous said is completely true. Just a confirmation.
/r/seduction04/11/12 09:01 PM
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