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'm amenable to us each paying our own way but only if discussed before expenses are incurred because (get this) if I know I'm paying for myself I'm going to order precisely what pleases me, none of this politely ordering the special of the day and not the fillet steak nonsense... also if we're each paying for ourselves I might ask that we go to a different place if the restaurant is far too 'spensive or I'm not real keen on the type of food sold at the date location.. I agree, if you are asking …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 05:03 PM
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100% hair free No, just no. The bald pussy fetish is so freaking disturbing, I would feel like I was with a pedo creeper ugh Men and women have been attracted to each other since the b beginning of time without the need to have hairless genitals. Trimming/shaping is always nice of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 03:42 PM
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Personality:generally happy, not being treated for any clinical mental disorders. Able to express emotions, but still mostly masculine. Looks: Brown eyes, Brown or black hair, at least 5'6", can be slightly muscular or overweight. I tend to go for teddy bear types, definitely no skinny guys! No hipsters, super religious guys, or men who can't do basic home repairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 05:27 PM
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I've felt conflicted (and confused) about this topic for while now. If certain RP men want women to embrace their natural female natures which include being a receiver and allowing the man to lead, then shouldn't they be the masculine one and provide/pay for the date? On the other hand, I think men have a point when it comes to feminist women: if these ladies want gender equality, then they shouldn't expect old fashioned chivalrous behavior from a guy on the 1st or 2nd date when they barely know…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 10:19 PM
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Great, I will check out your post before I start writing :)
/r/RedPillWives17/09/16 03:31 AM
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My husband is always in a better mood when he's had the time to go out with his friends for a few drinks, or even just have some alone time at home with a computer game or a movie. His having free time to relax benefits us all as a family. Yeah, I think free time or alone time benefits everyone, and it's unrealistic to expend someone to be a machine 24/7. I think a lot of wives are insecure about letting their husband go out, because deep down they know the marriage has problems or they never ha…
/r/RedPillWives17/09/16 03:25 AM
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Excellent article, I have heard from a few men I work with that their wives don't even ask them how their day was when they walk through the door, they just get bombarded with useless info. My co-worker Gonzalo said "all I need to know is if my kids are alive, healthy, doing well in school, and respecting the household rules. Beyond that, it's white noise" He said his wife gives him detailed descriptions of the kids bowel movements, what they ate that day, what cartoon they watched, etc. Sounds …
/r/RedPillWives17/09/16 03:20 AM
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I would like to volunteer and write a post about "monk mode", if that is appropriate for this project. Specifically, how to amp up your SMV, how to bring out your unique expression of femininity, and also to prepare yourself to be in a healthier relationship within a RP context. This stems from my recent experience in MM, and includes many psychological journaling activities as well as weekly goal ideas for improving your looks. I would probably aim for a 60 program since it takes over 20 days t…
/r/RedPillWives17/09/16 03:06 AM
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RPwi is a great place for women focused on marriage or LTR that will lead to marriage. They are supportive but will definitely hold you accountable and not sugar coat things. also EXCELLENT posts on homemaking and relationship skills :) It seems RPW has become a little more uh, lax since the sub split into two groups. I definitely think the input from men has a negative effect because other than telling the women to grow their hair, lose weight, etc., most of the posts I have seen from the men i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 02:28 AM
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I know. I feel sorry for guys who have never experienced being desired or pursued by a woman. My married friend had that in 20 years, his wife only initiated a handful of times, and he felt like she only did it because she "had to".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 07:15 PM
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Family can be some of the worst offenders of enforcing the beauty rewards, as well as being harder on the daughter who is not attractive, because they know her looks aren't doing anything for her. Just because they are family doesn't mean they are immune to discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 02:41 PM
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They aren't really concerned with feelings, it's just about portraying a "I'm hot no matter what" don't you dare judge me, attitude. Big difference, I see a lot of insecurity in these people, they just hide it with crazy hair, tattoos and SJW buzzwords.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 01:50 PM
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Nah... the more beautiful a woman is the more people notice and pay attention to her insecurities, the more they got out of their way to dispell them and make her feel better. No ones gonna take time to talk to an uggo about her feelings, though they're just as real and valid. She has to develop a thick(er than the pretty girl) skin. Agreed 100%, I went through my teens and childhood with a lazy eye and was never catered too or given extra concern by men. I had to have a thick skin, and develop …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 01:47 PM
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In some ways, yes. Other than his issues with marriage, he was a wonderful man and we had great chemistry
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 06:53 PM
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I was legally blind, had a lazy eye, it's safe to say that until my surgery at 28, most men did not find me attractive. I dated that man from 29 until 32.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 06:52 PM
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I was talking about a specific man, not my first LTR.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 05:04 PM
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So, basically each time you bring it up he has different reasons, aka excuses? I was in your shoes at 32, this man was seriously the best and I loved him until the end of the earth. However, he was never going to marry me, each time it was a different issue or he said, 'i don't want to ruin anything". Eventually, he had me feeling guilty for wanting to be married. I felt like a bitch for even bringing it up. And here I am, 35 and still unmarried. Please, understand these are your few last years …
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 04:46 PM
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Agreed! The angry posts and super critical comments section made me depressed a few months after I first found TRP. I almost said eff this, these guys are asses and could never respect or love a woman. Then I realized that these guys are a small minority, and not the type of men I'd want to try to date anyway. OP, congratulations on your successes and I wish you the best marriage!
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 04:37 PM
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I agree. If the OP likes short hair the men who approach her will accept her looks as they are. Generally, men like long hair so growing it out has some benefits. You will definitely have more options to choose from as potential mates.However, then you may feel stuck keeping a hairstyle that you don't like. If long hair is super important to him, then you are stuck keeping it long because you know he won't approve of short hair ever.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 04:30 PM
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barring a whiskeydick type situation they pretty much always get off from sex. Women rarely get off the first time they're with a guy, which is why one night stands don't happen sober DING! DING! DING!! give the lady a prize. I have been saying this for years. Rarely is a ONS going to get a woman off. If she's drunk her inhibitions are lower which may mean better sex for him but that doesn't mean the guy is going to be any good, even if he's sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 01:05 AM
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My Nana because even in her 50s and 60s, she dressed nicely, and would wake up early and make breakfast, do her makeup, etc before my Papa woke up. She was very sweet, maybe a bit naive in some ways but overall had a soft inner strength that many people might not have noticed about her. She also loved gardening and animals, and was extremely knowledgeable about birds. My favorite memories are going bird watching with her. My other choice would be my great aunt Trisha, her sister. She was very st…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 11:34 PM
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My day is filled with battles that she will never understand. My dealings with people, particularly. When I come home, I want to relax, not be bombarded with meaningless trite bullshit. The big things, sure.. but I don't care about your friend Becky being pregnant. Years ago, I was in a relationship with a man who really hurt my feelings when he said "I don't care about your friends or their drama". When I would tell him about work stuff I was dealing with, he just didn't even respond. What I fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 02:14 PM
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"should" men be 100% upfront about their commitment and LTR intentions BEFORE sex? No, if a woman wants a LTR, then it's her responsibility to make her boundaries clear and not have casual sex with a man she thinks is LTR material. She decides who she has sex with, and if she allows herself to sleep with a man and get attached to him without having the commitment, it's her own fault, not his
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 05:26 PM
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Welcome! Getting this information and support from women who will encourage you but not sugarcoat things can really do wonders for your personal development and your relationship. I am single but I have grown so much since becoming a part of this group because unlike real life friends, we aren't here just to make each other feel better. It's scary to let a man lead when you are constantly told men are jerks, unreliable, and will use you until they find someone new. However, you chose to marry th…
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 04:01 PM
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Ok, well I guess it depends on how much you value your time. Typically, when a guy comes over or send you a drink, he's going to initiate conversation. So you either have to deal with talking to someone you don't want to, or deal with rejecting a potential creep who won't take no for answer because he spent money on you. My time is more valuable than a $6 drink, and I'd rather not deal with having to fend off dudes because they bought me a beer. Sure, it's the gamblers responsibility, but the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 02:29 PM
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Yup. And it makes when angry when women play dumb. While I don't think that a women owes a man anything for accepting his drink, I do think she shouldn't accept it if she already knows that she's not at all interested or has a boyfriend. This isn't pre-school, he's not buying you a drink to be nice. Sure, men buy other men drinks, men may even buy their friends who happen to be female drinks, but you are really a moron if you can't understand this standard social cue of adult interaction between…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 01:29 PM
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Waylon Jennings and his wife Jessi Storms Never Last Come With Me."if you're in a valley with a troubled mind, I'm a mountain.." One of my favorite Waylon songs, good example of a man knowing what a woman really needs Good Hearted Woman "through teardrops and laughter, they'll pass through this world hand and hand..."
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 06:06 AM
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Thanks for sharing, I had never heard of this woman before. It really is frustrating that you can't say women would be responsible with their actions because people will call you a rape apologist. Yes, in an ideal society, everyone could walk around naked or whatever and not be harassed or assaulted. We could all leave our windows and doors open without fear of being robbed. However, that is not reality. In both instances, saying that the victim could have done things to protect themselves seems…
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 06:01 AM
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That's great! It's a win-win, and takes only a few minutes of the day. My ex boyfriend loved a classic pinup girl look (simple shadow, red lipstick and blush). At first I was scared of the red lips but he loved it so much I got over it pretty quickly. We have since broke up and I still love to rock the red lippie!
/r/RedPillWives09/09/16 05:27 AM
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Too much body hair. I think one of the reasons I mostly sleep with Asian guys is I love smooth, hairless skin. Such a turn on. See, I'm the totally opposite. I love hairy guys!! If he doesn't have a nice patch of chest hair, I'm outie. In fact, I'm crushing on a chubby, hairy Greek man right now haha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 03:03 AM
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Yeah, like their workouts or food controls their life, and they are constantly giving people unwanted tips about working out or eating, are a pain in the ass to go out to eat with, like vegans and shit lol I guess I'm just used to men who get exercise from doing manual labor or being outdoors, not going to a gym and primping in front of a mirror Again, personal preference, I'm sure if I was raised in a wealthy suburb instead of country, I would feel differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 02:31 AM
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OMG YESSS that look <3 You just know a guy that intense that takes complex and interesting roles instead of going for mass media appeal every chance he gets is passionate about his craft, and probably in other areas as well ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 02:25 AM
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Exactly!! Pratt before weight loss had something adorable about him that was very hot. Mark Ruffalo is another example, at some points he's been more chubby and I actually think he looked sexier. Maybe it makes their faces look more friendly or something, IDK.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 02:21 AM
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he's always complaining/overly critical of everything. Another vote for this. So unattractive and not masculine. My ex was very, uh, fussy and always criticized things. He was a PhD and thought he was hot shit but really, most people simply tolerated him. You could tell even his "friends" found him annoying.He said one girl dumped him because she thought he was pretentious. I broke up with him for basically the same reason, nothing was ever good enough for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 11:12 PM
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I am that way, don't need two of us that can't make a decision Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 11:03 PM
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Lol no. One guy on my sexy celeb list happened to transform himself and I still think he cute. I'd hardly say that qualifies as being into jacked guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 11:01 PM
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No, I said he was attractive before he lost weight. Why would you interpret that as me not knowing what I want?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 10:26 PM
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I had to ask myself this went I first encountered TRP. Why was I making myself invisible and plain? For each woman that answer will be different, but I think many women are on the offense. Either because they are scared of creeps or guarding their heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 10:23 PM
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I wear skirts in the middle of winter and I live in Chicago. They make fleece lined leggings and also your legs are not as vulnerable to getting cold as your feet ears, hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 10:17 PM
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Maybe it's just because every guy I've met who is like that is super obsessed with their looks, maybe even a bit metrosexual. Also, they tend to be picky about food. I grew up around men who were bikers, country boys, blue collar, etc. Eating a plate of biscuits and gravy or homemade pie wouldn't send them running to the gym lol I guess it's just a result of life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 10:11 PM
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Yeah, it's really about that perfect combo of confidence and caring. Too cocky and uncaring is a turn off, but too emotional and insecure is also not attractive to me. He had a good combination of the two
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 06:52 PM
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I'm at work, can't do photo search. One man I have found extremely sexy throughout his career is Vincent D'Onofrio. Chris Pratt is attractive now, but I also thought he was sexy even before he got in shape. John Goodman was very big but still cute to me when he was on Roseanne. I don't mind a man being overweight if he has a good smile and personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 05:53 PM
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-Extra weight doesn't bother me as much as men who are skinny or jacked. My ideal is a teddy bear type, maybe a little extra weight but not weak or obese. -Men who are clingy when you just start dating. -Indecisiveness. -Men have long hair that looks like shit. If you are going to grow it out, trim the ends regularly and if you are going bald in the front, just chop it off. I'd rather see a bald man that a guy who looks like a washed up roadie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 04:58 PM
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Excellent, thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 04:48 PM
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My passions and interests are : soap making, canning, candle making and herbalism. I also love to write and I have a goal of reading 1 book per week. Also, I enjoy history and I want to learn more about prepping. Am I interesting to others? Maybe. I think what makes me stand out from other women in today's world is that I'm not addicted to my smartphone or reality TV, have a feminine disposition, and I try to be a lifelong learner and remain curious. Most people, especially women seem to give up…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 04:02 PM
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Good point..A woman can raise her perceived attractiveness by honesty evaluating her body, and dressing well (wearing her most flattering colors and shapes that create a slimmer, shapely figure). There are definitely those women who are "sexpots" and should use that image to their advantage, but I think most women have a different type of beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 12:59 PM
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That's true. Years ago, IIRC there was a reportof interviews with rapists that said they go after women wearing loose clothes because they overlooked in a crowd, easier to pull off, probably shy less likely to fight back,etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 12:52 PM
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My style could also be described as shapely but covered, and most days I wear a skirt or dress with stockings or leggings underneath. I feel I have received the most gentlemanly attention dressing in this manner. However, I don't receive as much attention as other women who dress in more revealing styles. Basically, it's quality over quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 12:48 PM
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No, that's not my personality, but thanks for assuming to know me. Have a pleasant day :)
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 07:34 PM
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In this day and age, I am most impressed by a man who is considerate and confident. Too many times men are one extreme or another i.e. "too nice" or a cocky jerk. Being well dressed would probably be the least important on my list of what I find attractive in a man, blue jeans and a t shirt is fine.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 07:32 PM
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All of these ladies have given you great advice, and options to consider. Working with mostly females has been difficult for me in the past; they either resented me for being more professional and driven, or didn't like me when I was friendly but quiet, refusing to contribute to the gossip mill. For dealing with personality conflicts in the workplace, I highly recommended the book "Emotional Vampires: Dealing with People Who Drain You Dry" by Albert J. Bernstein. It definitely helped me learn to…
/r/RedPillWives26/08/16 04:36 AM
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That mom appears to be unhinged, and in need of mental health care. I get trying to teach your kids a lesson, but WHOA. Psycho.
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 08:33 PM
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Women should have complete sexual autonomy even though they aren’t even obligated to say “no”. Only men should have to be treated like consenting adults. Wow...you are so right. That is really messed up, and I never thought of it like that before. Like, if they are both drunk why is the man the one who has to get consent. If she is drunk and can't remember what happened, how do we know that she didn't hop on top of him without a condom?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 04:48 AM
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Thank you so much for this post! I'm just getting back into the dating field and will be going on my first dates as a RP lady. As much as I like the idea of a man picking me up for a date, I have also chosen to ignore Laura's advice. Most of the men I'm meeting are online and it just isn't safe or practical to rely on them for transportation. Naturally, I will let the man lead the conversation. However, I might add the suggestion to have 1-3 fun, light-hearted, interesting questions prepared jus…
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 03:57 AM
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I wish I was married and had a husband who did this. I am horrible at money management.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 03:50 AM
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Jason Statham. Almost every girl I know thinks he is sexy but I just get grossed out everytime I look at him. No amount of muscles can fix his weird face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 05:36 PM
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Iagree that Chris is not hot at all, weird face. Jeff and Steve definitely have or had major sex appeal over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 05:30 PM
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I never thought he was attractive. Him and Matthew Mcconaghey are so overrated IMHO
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 05:28 PM
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Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. ha there's a guy on youtube that says that all the time and now I find myself saying it to idiots when they act like a fool!
/r/RedPillWives29/07/16 05:06 AM
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Not my circus, not my monkeys. and Being a bitch is easy, but having an open heart takes courage.
/r/RedPillWives28/07/16 03:05 AM
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Nope not me :)
/r/RedPillWives26/07/16 08:36 PM
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I went to see Rachel at Best Dressed in Philadelphia. It took me 3 years of learning about the different color systems and deciding who I wanted to go to. My result was Dark Winter, Yin Gamine. I love it, and she has secret facebook groups for clients to get ongoing advice.
/r/RedPillWives26/07/16 08:34 PM
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Hmm, I will have to see if this is carried @ my local supermarket. Thanks for the tip!
/r/RedPillWives26/07/16 04:55 PM
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Good for you, you will feel healthier and look great! I went through a similar situation at my old workplace, these women practically harassed me for turning down chocolate cake. I started saying I don't eat sugar for medical reasons, and that shut them up pretty quickly.
/r/RedPillWives21/07/16 05:05 AM
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I think what you said about being your authentic self is so important! My best friend was married and she was reasonably satisfied, but somehow she always seemed stifled when he was around,. They divorced and now she has been married to a man for 5 years and she is so much happier even though they struggle at times. It's so great to be able to spend time with them and not feel like my best friend has been given tranquilizers LOL Anyway, congratulations on moving forward in a healthy manner, it d…
/r/RedPillWives21/07/16 04:56 AM
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Agreed. If a man threw me against something with no indication from me that I wanted/liked that kind of sex, you can bet I would fight back and his ass would either be arrested or running from my dad, who isn't afraid to use his gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 05:13 AM
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Every women is different in the bedroom. Hell,, I've even been vastly turned on by different things based on the guy and our relationship bond. With one ex, I wouldn't do certain things that I happily did for another, because I felt loved by him more, and he seemed to have a good blend of being caring and aggressive. A purely aggressive or dominant man who wants every encounter to be rough would get boring after awhile. Expressing desire in a way that is not immature helps. I would say most wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 05:08 AM
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If I feel attacked or insulted, then it is a red flag for me. It is my responsibility to understand why I'm allowing someone else to influence my emotions. Agreed!! Unfortunately, the majority of people put their happiness in the hands of others, and never realize they have to power to choose to react differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 12:52 PM
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That's a good point, thank you! Yes it takes time and a lot of inner work that women aren't prepared to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 12:49 PM
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thanks, will do!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 05:37 AM
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There is a man I am interested in and I did make him brownies recently, which he seems to enjoy. I'm hoping we can move forward but not putting all my eggs in one basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 05:37 AM
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I'm working on it, slowly but surely dealing with my shyness and improving my body language to appear more open. Thank you for the advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 05:35 AM
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I guess just embracing traditionally feminine traits/values? I'm not sure if there would be a difference if you are not in a relationship, thanks why I was asking :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 05:17 AM
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No. I feel like if a man is wanting to be a positive force of masculinity, he needs to be honorable and deal with the issue or break up. Lay down the law, tell her this isn't acceptable and you want it to change and if she doesn't show initiative, then GTFO. And by all means, do not marry her until the issue is resolved!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 04:52 AM
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Yes, the kittenish girl routine works wonders for me once I get him alone. What you say makes sense, since most people fall in love with how you make them feel. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 04:45 AM
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Thanks for the encouragement!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 04:43 AM
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Oh, I definitely prefer a man who leans on the masculine side! Thanks for inviting me to RPwi :)I posted in there a few times but have been in "monk mode" the past few months, trying to sort myself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 04:39 AM
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ha Dance is actually one of my talents! Looks wise I'm definitely ingénue cute opposed to sexy vixen, which is what men generally seem to prefer
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 04:33 AM
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Wow! Yes, I thought she was very pretty but had no idea she was in her 60s.
/r/RedPillWives02/05/16 04:50 AM
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This is simply amazing, thank you so, so much! I find myself drawn to a man who I find extremely attractive, we have similar interests and fantastic conversations. It would be so tempting to push forward and ignore the practical aspect of being in a LTR that is marriage bound. Ladies, if you are in the early stages, do not get swept away by the "woo" factor, keep your goals in mind and those emotions (and hormones) under control until you are reasonable sure he would be potential husband materia…
/r/RedPillWives01/05/16 06:16 PM
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I once worked with two women from Albania. One was trim, long hair, more submissive to her husband and generally more soft spoken. The other was overweight, loud, etc. The complete opposite. They were both managers and "respected". However, the men loved woman A and the women disliked and gossiped about her. If she wasnt a manager, I could have seen her actually being "shunned" and possibly resigned due to a difficult work enviroment. Thankfully the dept. we worked in was a pretty even mix of me…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/16 12:32 PM
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"The possession of a sunny disposition is indeed a wife's most valuable asset" Yes, it is amazing how simply being cheerful can make such a difference with men. In the long term, it probably has much more value than keeping a trim figure. Not that you should neglect yourself, of course. "So wholesome and attractive may the home be made by a content cheerful woman, that the husband will leave it with reluctance, and will return to it at night with naught but thoughts of quietness and peace." Expl…
/r/RedPillWives12/04/16 02:07 AM
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Yeah...would never sleep with a married man. That's disgusting.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/16 05:59 PM
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Thanks for sharing! I have a Bali Home Canning Cookbook that has tons of recipes but for some reason, I'm scared to start, especially using a pressure canner!
/r/RedPillWives11/04/16 05:44 PM
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Ah, missed that, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/16 05:31 PM
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A woman who is passionate about a man does not consult her girlfriends about what an "acceptable" amount of time to "make him wait" is. A woman who is passionate about a man does not bargain the promise of her body for a wedding, like some jaded whore negotiating a "session". A woman who is passionate about a man will find a way to reach his bed. She will fly across the country, crawl under barbed wire, climb in through his second story window, do everything he desires... SO TRUE! I had personal…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/16 05:29 PM
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I would say more sweet/flirty when out alone but when with him on a date, sexier and more revealing but not trashy (unless you get to know him well and know he likes that look in public). You are young, but am in my mid-thirties and find that when I wear cuter, more innocent clothes, men are much more welcoming and nice to me. This works for me personally because I have a young looking face, to this day men say I am so cute/adorable instead of beautiful/pretty/sexy. I used to hate that but now t…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/16 05:15 PM
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I would love to have flair if any mods have time to update. My info: F/35/Single/Looking for LTR
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/16 05:04 PM
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Whenever I complained about my body in the past, my exes got annoyed after trying to convince me I was pretty or suggesting I work out to feel better. Then I would get mad because they would often not be as complimetary or affectionate for a few days. Lesson: He wants to be attracted to you, so STFU and take care of yourself. Dont give him a neon arrow to the roadmap of your flaws.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/16 05:01 AM
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I have only been on the RPW journey for a few months but this post clarifying some things for me that I was unsure about. I'm not married but have no desire to be the plate of a HVM, period. I have never really had close female friends that were in good marriages and am glad to see that even though there are changes happening in the RPW community, this sub won't be encouraging other types of "relationships"
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 08:18 PM
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Good tips! I need to work on sending approachable energy when I'm out alone. Living in the city, sometimes I feel like it's so easy to go everywhere with my guard up.
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 08:08 PM
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I was going to wait until my last day on campus. You are right, I need to step back and not idealize him right now. I've been trying to watch how he interacts with others, I know I have a tendency to "see signs" that might not be there. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/16 07:51 PM
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Fair enough, I will keep this in mind. I definitely do not want to be the one pursuing.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/16 07:48 PM
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No, we don't. I figured that would probably be crossing the line
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/16 07:41 PM
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He sounds like an intelligent man and with a lot of mutual interests you would probably be more forward if it weren't for the student/teacher dynamic I'm trying to encourage him not seeing me as a student and that's why I try to avoid referring to him as Professor or asking him questions about papers or tests. I sensed that it was something he enjoyed about talking to me, the fact that we had common interests about history but I didn't challenge his knowledge or ask dumb questions that could eas…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/16 04:57 PM
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Amp up as the problem begins to dissipate. Any suggestions on how to do this but still maintain appropriate conduct while on campus? Like I said before, I totally respect his position and if you care for someone, you obviously don't want to mess up their career for your own selfish reasons!
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/16 04:51 PM
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Yes, I will :) I am an A student and would not want to damage my reputation or cause people to suspect I didn't earn my grades properly.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/16 04:44 PM
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Yeah, they are pretty delicious hehe :) Thanks for the advice. I knew giving a phone number would be probably be too much, and I want to be able to walk out of his office not feeling uncomfortable. This was, he can read it when I'm gone and take matters in his own hands.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/16 03:17 PM
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I was fairly new over at the other sub, and while I am not married, I do appreciate all the advice many of you ladies gave on making your husband feel appreciated and creating a happy marriage :)
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 03:13 PM
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I am fairly new here and did not feel that people were being shamed. That being said, I am glad others are stepping up to keep things going and let the flow of ideas not be censored. To the mods: thanks for all the work you put into RPW, it really is one of the few places I feel at home at on the internet.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/16 02:13 PM
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Ooh, I will have to steal your moves. You benefit yourself and your SO by being classy and kind, as welll as your SO by getting more respect from other men. Perfect!
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/16 04:37 AM
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Personally, an occasional tryst wouldn't bother me but an affair that was emotional or lasted for years would be devastating. Is dumping a cheating husband about seeking validation? Possibly, although I think the validation they get (in America, anyway) more from women than men. I find that most men are turned off when they find out you were cheated on, unless they are looking for an easy lay, because they are expecting she is going to have trust issues (especially if he is the first guy after h…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/16 09:03 PM
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Not everything is an opportunity to "discuss" an issue. Especially if he is asking you to do something in front of other people. I witnessed this at a party over the weekend, my friend's husband looked mortified when he asked her to make another batch of nacho dip and she replied with some snotty remark about how when they decided to throw this party, he said he would help and she did all the cooking, shopping, blah blah blah...Definitely not the time or place to be having that convo!! I felt so…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/16 08:33 PM
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I get that. Maybe my original post seemed bratty. Not my intention. I can pay for myself, I just find the lack of manners frustrating. Guys- let a girl know when you are asking her out that you expect her to pay for herself. It makes things a lot less complicated!
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 07:52 PM
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This makes sense, thank you! I just never know how to approach this when a guy asks me out because I don't want to ask him if he expects me to pay before I answer yes or no. I guess it just seemed aggressive but I suppose it's better to know beforehand.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 07:41 PM
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I understand that guys feel women use them for free meals and drinks, that would be really frustrating You have a point, a first date is not that big of an investment and I guess I should lower my expectations that a guy will pay. However, I still think the guy should have the manners to let the woman know ahead of time that they are asking the woman out but will be expecting her to pay her half. Especially if he is planning on taking her to a nice restaurant that she might not be able to afford…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 07:35 PM
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I definitely think that having your own space can improve the relationship, whether its a bedroom or a study or sewing room, etc. Sleep is so important and even if you love someone, it doesn't mean they are going to snore and keep you up all night. Glad you guys found what works for the relationship!
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 01:52 AM
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I feel like this is "victim blaming", and aren't feminists against that?!! She is saying that because of a womans choice (being submissive), she's going to end up getting abused. If she inserted "rape" and "drunk" or "miniskirt" in her statement, the commenters would be in a rage. The bottom line is, a man is responsible for his temper and what he does with it. Submissive women get abused. Rich women get abused. Career women get abused. Bitchy, dominating women get abused. the writer should be a…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/16 03:01 AM
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Very nice, thank you for sharing! I remember watching my stepmom constantly blaming my dad for not being x,y,z (insert typical woman complaints here) and I just never understood why she didn't just try being nice and sweet to him. Try to make him feel appreciated, etc. A year or so ago, I asked her "Why dont you make the changes? I bet he would respond". She sat there stunned and basically said if a man loves you, he should be willing to change for you and go out of his way to make you feel love…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/16 06:40 PM
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Haha never heard of this before. Eating a good steak is an aphrodisiac for me so it's a win-win!!
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/16 06:18 PM
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I am 35, unmarried and childfree. Gaze into the future... In my early 20s, I was full of crazy dreams and desires that frankly, were unreasonable and unachievable considering other factors. Yes, bar hopping and clubbing was fun, and there were a few memorable trips and adventures along the way. I never wanted kids, so I avoided men who did. This went on until I was about 30. One day, I realized that all my friends were married or obsessed with their career, and no one had the time to do fun thin…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/16 12:51 PM
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To be straight forward, most women I know are either very, very boring or physically unattractive Do you consider them boring because you don't share the same interests? It seems like a lot of people place such an importance on having things in common (hobbies, taste in music or movies), but my experience has proven that compatible/complimentary personalities, goals, beliefs matter more in a long term relationship. I don't need a man to like all the things I like. As long he's willing to spend q…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/16 04:42 AM
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I like to quilt, garden, and cook, am hoping to start canning this year. I read a lot and enjoy journaling as well as scrapbooking. My current BF does not really share hobbies with me, and I view my hobbies as "me" time, so it doesn't bother me at all.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/16 04:26 AM
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How could the author think we are focused on MRA? Did they not read the FAQ? And why leave out the simple basic truth that men are gatekeepers of commitment, women of sex. The author could have explained that our goal here is focused on sexual strategy that will more likely lead to commitment, and supporting women to build happy marriages. Could have also explained how modern feminism is working against women by devauling sex, wasting their prime years, etc.I guess the truth is too "shaming" and…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/16 09:57 PM
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I wonder if vegetarians look younger on average? Good advice, I need to learn how to lift weights and create a routine. I don't think I'm exercising hard enough.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/16 02:16 AM
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Good skincare does not have to be expensive!! For exfoliation, if you have oily skin or acne, beta hydroxy acids are the way to go. The cheapest and least irritating one is Stridex in the red box, less than $6. This helps with redness, oily skin and is alcohol free. if you hae normal or dry skin, you want alpha hydroxyl acids. The best and cheapest is the AlphaHydrox line they sell at Ulta or walgreens, its also fairly inexpensive. Make sure you get the on in the pump, never by jar products beca…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/16 02:08 AM
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Yup, everyone made fun of me my teens and 20s b/c I was a pale girl. I look much younger than my sister and her friends who always laid out in the sun, they are only two years younger than me but definitely look older. Even went my sister got married in Chicago and I came up from Texas, they were all more tan than me because they fake bake. ugh so bad for your skin!!! Another big tip: retinol or alpha hydroxyl cream. Have been using the simply, fairly cheap Neutrogena Healthy Skin Anti-Wrinkle R…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/16 01:55 AM
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Some people just can't be helped. That sad part is she knows she isnt happy with the results of her current behavior, but is too stubborn to change. I am SO grateful I finally had the sense to move away from the current feminist movement! It was hard to face the truth and admit it was turning me into a very unpleasant person. I hated men yet still wanted one. Everything was problematic, I was facing "everyday oppression"...it never ends with these people. I hope she reads the comments and recons…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/16 04:22 PM
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UGLY- Like some of the other ladies admitted, my diet has been way off this week. Mostly because of drinking sugary caffeinated crap. One of my Starbucks's choice was almost 400 calories :( BAD- I am having a hard time surrendering and trusting my man right now. The more feminine I become, the more I feel like he is lazy and not living up to his potential. He is not alpha in any way at all, and if I rely on him to take the lead, nothing gets done! My fault though, I chose time during a time when…
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/16 03:46 PM
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No...just no. If a man is not ambitious or confident enough to ask the women that loves him to marry him, then what else will he be afraid to do? How does he deal with the uncertainty of the outside world who doesn't give a crap about him?
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/16 03:16 PM
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OP I think you are doing the right thing at this point. I also commend you for being honest with yourself and having the ability to look at your actions critically. Sometimes, as much as we might like to fix a relationship, too much damage has been done. I know some other may disagree but it sounds like he has other issues that don't involve using RPW tactics, and you can't fix that. Monk mode was great for me, personally. Did it twice in my life, once in my mid-20s and only when I was 32-34. Th…
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/16 03:11 PM
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I love that people here aren't afraid to tell it like it is, no sugar coating. TY!!
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/16 07:28 PM
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Do I think she wants to change but isn't self-aware? No, if I am honest I think since we were small she has always had the world revolve around her. She was the pretty one, didn't get punished as harshly, always got men to do what she wanted. I don't know if she could actually change her personality for good, she's been this way for the majority of her life. Even when she was a "good girl" while they were dating, she would be nice and sweet to him, but then turn around and be rude and mean to me…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/16 07:27 PM
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Our family situations sounds very similar. Thanks for the input!
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/16 07:20 PM
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Thank you, this is important for me to remember!
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/16 04:28 PM
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You are totally right. I think sometimes people feel more entitled to speak up when it's family, even if we are not asked for advice. I will try to be more caring and supportive toward her, sometimes it's a struggle b/c of her attitude but it's up to me how I choose to respond/interact with her.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/16 04:20 PM
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In some ways, I did perceive him as alpha- financially successful, physically fit, etc. but I suppose you are right. If he is not willing to put his foot down and express his wants/needs, they why should she want to change? Thanks for the input!
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/16 04:10 PM
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You're looking for doe-eyed, not Nikki Sixx on a bender. Hahaha perfect. He was such a hottie back in the day! OP: look to hairstyles in the late 20s early 30s. They were growing out their Louise Brooks bobs and have soft surls that lay flat at the crown. Also using headbands or hair accesories with flowers is a cute way to doll up your 'do. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 04:36 PM
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I am in a somewhat similar situation being that I am 25 lbs overweight and realize that while I have a pretty face, not having a trim figure and being over 35 really knocks my marriageability factor way down. No matter what, we should always be improving and making the best of our features. Make sure you continue to keep your weight in control, as you get older that will be another point in your court. My advice: still embrace your kind, loving and upbeat feminine nature, it will put you ahead o…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 04:10 AM
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And you know they aren't having good sex because he secretly hates her and can't get it up, every time he pictures her all that comes to mind are her shrill commands and put downs. Even if he could get aroused, she is so repulsed by him and views him as just another kid she's taking care of. I could never respect a man who let me humiliate him like that in public, no way.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/16 07:32 AM
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You are right. A lot of women don't even know how to be civil, let alone sweet or appreciative. I am fairly new to RPW concepts, but even before coming here it really disgusted me to see what these women were doing. What's even more disturbing is that when I speak up and say something lighthearted or positive to the man women suddenly get really bitchy and defensive towards me. It's like they get really scared if the husband sees that there are actually nice women in the world.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/16 07:24 AM
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when I worked in retail management at a mall, I saw this all. the. time. Women embarrassing their husbands in public and criticizing them loudly "why are you so stupid? it's only half off if you buy both of them!!" And when they returned a gift he bought, they always had to add a snide remark "He's like a kid and doesn't listen to anything I say. I hate pink!" umm...maybe he likes pink and thought you would look pretty in it? Women barking orders at their husbands, dragging them throughout the m…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 07:02 PM
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Ok, just finished watching the video and here are my thoughts and SPOLIER ALERT: I find it interesting that Connie chose to be with someone who was a pilot considering what happened in her childhood, her parents dying in a plane crash. It was almost as if she really was trying to recreate her past somehow and if only she could change/control him, it was the only way she could ensure he would never leave her. However, I also think that allowing herself to trust him and his ability to fly or buy n…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 03:24 AM
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I will be watching this whole thing, thanks for posting!! Currently reading Surrendered Single, let's just say I still have a lot to learn.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/16 08:42 PM
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There are missed interviewed because he can't be bothered to get out of bed? That should not be happening. I am sure some of the other girls will have better advice, basically I think you should concentrate on actions to help him focus on the job search. Are you setting his alarm, waking him up when he has an interview? Are you enabling him by staying up with him until 7am? Are you actively helping him send out resumes online?
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 04:26 AM
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Once, my ex bought me a small food chopper for Christmas. It was the first time I had ever received a "practical" gift from a man, so at first I was a bit angry that it wasn't "romantic". Finally, after a few days of me giving him the cold shoulder, he said he bought it because he knew that I hate chopping onions but love using them. Then he reminded me that he didn't really like onions, I was the one who was always adding them in my salads, chili, etc. Basically, it was a completely selfless gi…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 03:53 PM
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Good tip! Always looking for ways to save $ and have less clutter. OP: This list is Amazing, thank you!!!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 03:42 AM
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Stop the hamster before it starts Exactly! I know it's easier said than done, but wasting your time wondering what he's doing and why he didn't call is pointless. Besides, do we really want men who don't have it together and can't manage to ask us out, not lose our phone number, forget the date we will be in town, etc? NO, that means he's not excited about you and it's not important for him to remember your info. Let it go if he calls you, then give him a chance but otherwise, do not pick up tha…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 09:09 PM
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That's great! Something similar happened to me years ago with a man I had been seeing for a few months. I was just getting to know him, we were in our early 20s and went out on a few dates, once we stayed in bed all day making out. After a month, he was falling for me really hard and kept telling me "I wasn't like the other girls he knew". We split up because of his partying lifestyle but to this day, 10 years later, whenever my friends see him in town, they say he never fails to ask about me.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 02:10 AM
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I feel your pain, in that process myself. We can do this! :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 02:04 AM
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Spot on! Attraction + honesty + willingness to have fun/relax matters soo much more.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 02:02 AM
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"I know right now it’s some sort of achievement to give no f*cks and be emotionally detached... But it’s fake and as much as you lie to yourself that sex means nothing and that it’s fun and you do what you want and no double standards and liberation and feminism and blah blah blah. It’s me, or someone like me, that you are calling the next day asking to analyse everything that happened and what it means. It’s you, the next day who feels like maybe you gave too much, maybe it wasn’t really worth …
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 01:58 AM
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been wearing mascara every day so I feel more feminine and pretty, been doing more self care and getting more sleep so mornings have been much, much better Mascara is amazing, isn't it? It does wonders for me as well! Also, picking out my outfit and accessories the night before makes it easier to not slip into "hoodie" mode. What is the Surrendered Wife? I've seen it mentioned a few times since I joined, but I'm not married.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 01:22 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 01:15 AM
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Thanks! I really think this is going to bring great changes into my life.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 01:14 AM
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I'm new here, hi ladies! Just began making changes last week after discovering TRP in the comments from men on a dating advice blog written by a woman. This was the wake up call my life needed. Progress so far I've lost 2 lbs in the past week and have been drinking a lot more water, began taking supplements, eating more veg. Began wearing skirts/skater dresses with fleece lined leggings underneath, instead of using "I just want to be comfy" as an excuse for wearing hoodies and jeans/yoga pants. …
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 06:02 PM
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I graduated from college!!! :D That is so wonderful, congratulations!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 05:28 PM
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I completely understand how you feel. Sometimes, I think men don't know how to make us feel better unless it's something they can fix. Maybe if you told him directly "Sweetie, can I just vent for a moment. I need some encouragement, I just need a hug, etc" that might have helped understand what you needed. My SO has accused me of complaining with no real purpose and he never knows what to say. It's true, I complain about stuff that can't be fixed, don't tell him I just want comfort and then get …
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 01:12 AM
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taking time to reflect and own our imperfections is very helpful in relationships Oh yes, and for me, it's been the absolute hardest part of this process. I expected my past partners to give, give, and give some more, while I did not put in any extra effort at all. To the OP: I'm glad things are working out for you :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 06:22 PM
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I'm new here, and as a women who is in her mid-thirties, would love to see a RPW class that would specifically target the challenges a woman who is in the that age range. for example: -the first things she should be working on, and what to downplay/not focus on -how to explain why she's never men married/breakups to men without seeming bitter -how to handle the subject of marriage so she doesn't appear pushy but also isn't wasting precious time on a road to nowhere -tips/tricks on embracing your…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/16 05:44 PM
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