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What about a socially awkward 30 yo guy who gets nothing, could game get him a 4 or 5 ?
/r/seduction15/03/18 12:46 PM
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The loose woman who had sex with the whole hood except you? Or becoming the bf of a shy girl who doesn't actually ever leave the house? Because other women are almost never that shy. At best they're pretending.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 09:55 PM
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Fake it till you make it doesn't work for everyone. Yeah it takes time. And some things are just about luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 03:39 PM
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http://ewn.co.za/2018/02/09/george-cop-arrested-for-raping-girlfriend-s-daughter I can find you A LOT of these articles. As far as Incel-like guys go, working class women are even further (if that's even possible) out of their reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 11:45 PM
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Just go outside and force yourself to learn social skills. Yeah man, it's so easy! And then you just have to lower your standards and treat women whom you're not attracted to as if you were. And then you'll finally no longer be alone. Instead you'll be sad for a different reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 11:42 PM
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Most experienced women will not hesitate to shame a man for his lack of experience. A lot of them will also be very jaded and unwilling to try a relationship with a less experienced partner. Yet surprisingly (haha, not) they will jump in bed yet again at the chance of an experienced, attractive, confident man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 11:38 PM
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Well, before widespread porn, fewer men knew about the possibility. But yeah, no shit, we have depictions of anal sex older than fucking writing. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 11:34 PM
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except they'd rather date the guy who beats them up and rapes their daughter instead
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 11:17 PM
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Yeah man so great to be the "man with a gut and a comfortable sedan" who "makes you laugh and cooks a mean quesadilla". And in return gets a dead bedroom and getting cucked by the neighborhood poolboy or the wife's ex who's now "changed" and wants her back.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 11:14 PM
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Except if you're incel. Then it's like living 100 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 11:09 PM
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okay
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 11:08 PM
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As 30 yo Incel, the only time I ever had sex was when I paid a hooker at 29. :D I guess if you count prostitution, yes it's very easy for men to have sex. But i wouln't want a repeat of that anytime soon. Guys want to be desired by the women they get intimate with as well. BTW, apparently 44% of Americans are single. https://www.statisticbrain.com/dating-relationship-stats/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 08:20 PM
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You don't get it. You think I'm some 300 lbs neckbeard, fedora-wearing, basement dweller who only wants to date 120lbs hotties. Closest women to my "tier" would be Amish daughters and nuns. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 10:08 PM
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Haha... who knows ? :D She's likely over 6000 miles away anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 10:00 AM
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Well, I'm 30 and dateless, and I guess that (along with a few other things) pretty much makes me an Incel. Thanks for confirming my romance prospects are fucked once more. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 08:52 AM
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LOL I'm 30 and have never even dated. Only time I had sex was paying an escort. And you complain about making out with women :))
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 02:23 PM
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Loved the profile until... single mom. Pass. :P /s #choosingBeggars
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/18 09:40 AM
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Yeah but... there aren't enough Chads, surely you must realize that. And even Chad has a limit as stated before. Even the biggest Chads have sex with < 10 women / month. The ones who can get a woman horny every day (especially a different one every day) are EXTREMELY rare. Like the 0.001% of Chads.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/18 09:32 AM
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So here it is bare for all to see women are entitled to sex and men aren't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/18 09:29 AM
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Sure man, sure :P
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/18 08:36 PM
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Unemployed too, what a catch! :P
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/18 02:37 PM
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Yeah, I'm going to a therapist once I week, and I have much worse & deeper seated issues than what I said here. Victim mentality is well put, and true.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 05:53 PM
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Holy shit, comedy gold right there. And not too improbable either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 10:15 AM
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Haha... Who knew that "looking at women while creepy" would be the first sanctioned form of thoughtcrime? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 10:13 AM
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Can't do it man. Extensive bullying left me with crippling social anxiety and prone to self-sabotage in social interactions. Also I work pretty long hours too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 10:07 AM
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You bet your ass it does. The lower the SMV of a man compared to a woman, the more susceptible he is to dread game from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:08 AM
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Hey man, INTP is both a blessing and a curse. Lots of scientific models aren't true 100% off the time what matters is that they're true for their purpose. Think of TRP as an attempt to codify female sexuality in a way that science & tech oriented minds can absorb. I'm sorry I didn't find TRP earlier as I'm now a 30 y.o. guy struggling with dating even though I look decent, because my personality is shit (as far as romance goes).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:06 AM
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Wow, if Aziz Ansari wasn't famous he would totally be on r/ForeverAlone right now. Just how desperate can a man act !? Worst of all he would have gotten the sex he wanted if he had been just a tiny bit more patient. A lot of men need to study up on foreplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 07:35 PM
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Sorry my mind was in the toilet. Yeah, that's probably for the best. At least it'll help me take sex off the pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 09:53 AM
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The only thing most men care about physically is that a woman doesn't look like her fat's about to burst out of her clothes. (The whole "just don't be fat" thing). Some men don't even care about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 08:22 AM
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What's hot is in the eye of the beholder. I too find most former gymnasts (since they're usually underage when performing) to look very attractive. And no, most men would not sleep with a dead obese pig woman robot. Unless you're talking about 14 year-olds, but even then I'm skeptical.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 08:19 AM
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At the very least what? English isn't my first language.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 08:11 AM
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And that's all you're going to get. I'm not risking becoming a meme just to assuage your fears of my being creepy. Plus, this being the internet I am half-trolling, I don't behave like this IRL. I don't consider myself to be a nice man, helpful and a bit naive sure, but I don't go out of my way to be nice. Since you consider staring to be sexual harassment, I guess (in your eyes) I have sexually harassed women. A helpful, shy man with no friends and a pretty nasty case of anxiety is a lot more a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 07:52 AM
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Fair enough. So, hire an escort then? Cause I'm pretty sure at my age (29) I have a better chance at winning the lottery, than convincing a woman to even date, much less get intimate with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 07:40 AM
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Pretty much! The prohibition didn't stop the sale of alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 07:13 AM
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I can personally attest to that. Was sexually abused as a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 03:41 AM
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I'm not from the U.S. I live in Eastern Europe, in Romania. Also love the tone "places like this might be a bit more accepting of your differences." You meant to write "kind", didn't you ?:D Honestly, we just open up harder, we're not rapists and murderers. And we are humans. Classy way to tell me to fuck off 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 03:22 AM
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true dat :D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 03:21 AM
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Well, let's just say that appearances can deceive (the caring family part). Unless you're asexual, motherly love isn't going to fill a man's craving for a partner. Why is modern society so much into shitting on men's chances with women just because they're not football playing mountains of muscle and confidence? Most guys using trp wouldn't have needed it 30 years ago. If trp helps 2% succeed, but makes 80% of them develop an intense hatred towards women, I can't see how it's helping overall. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 03:20 AM
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How do you know I'm unattractive? Maybe I'm making part of this up, or maybe the truth is even worse. So unattractive men expressing themselves freely are creepy, gotcha! You readily accuse me based only on your mental image of a fat unattractive 30 y.o. dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 03:15 AM
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One can't master a 2 player game alone. Sure I might suck or I might not. But other than scenarios in my head what other real option do I have?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 03:09 AM
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What exactly was creepy about that? It's a freaking internet forum :P And yeah I find going down on a woman to be really hot. I've never been offered the chance but still...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 09:20 PM
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Hey, I'm a 30 y.o. virgin partially on the spectrum and and I still agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 09:15 PM
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TL;DR NO. Long answer: Unless you're very autistic, FUCK NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 09:11 PM
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I would so love to give women pleasure, alas I can only give it to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 09:05 PM
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I'll get back to you on that in 2 weeks. Source: a real 29 y.o virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 09:02 PM
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I'm not that autistic. I have no touch aversion. More like other people have an aversion to being touched my me. :) I'm trying to fix my insecurities with the help of a psychologist. So where all the "liberal artist hippie women at" ? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 08:53 PM
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You should know your kind is pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 04:55 PM
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Hey at least she's honest in a roundabout way. She wants a hot chad scientist who plays the shy guy card.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 04:54 PM
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None really. And if you have the ability to become a savant, might as well become a savant at attracting the opposite sex. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 04:52 PM
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Aspergers men become red pilled b/c nobody gives a shit about them. And if TRP helps even 2% of them succeed that's more success than they ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 04:50 PM
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I'm one right here, so go ahead and ask away. We're not that rare, you just don't see us too often. High functioning, live in my own (rented) home, have a job but find it almost impossible to talk to new people IRL. When an opportunity to talk to a woman I'm attracted to presents itself I either lock up or stammer and repeat myself like a shy 12 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 04:49 PM
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Hey, you've woken up 14 years earlier than I did. Congrats on that. Workout in whatever way you can. A proper workout would be the best, but really any kind of workout is better than none at all. Best starter diet is to cut out soda (even the "0 callories") and only drink water. As for food, slightly reduce the quantity, while upping your physical activity. This should net you a loss of 9-10 kgs in the first month. Watch out for the yo-yo effect. Study for your SAT, go to a decent college if you…
/r/askTRP10/12/17 01:45 AM
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Managed to cut through the anxiety a little bit and talked to a bunch of total strangers (men & women, younger & older). Lost 9 kg since 25th of November. Women at work are no longer as apprehensive as they were before.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 01:11 AM
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I'm technically still 29 for 2 more weeks but, really, what are the odds? No hint of wizard powers yet. :P I'm just an awkward CS guy who can't even talk to most women. Most guys my age get much more physical with women, even their friends. At least I don't do the hover-hand in pictures. But for the most part I'm OK, not really that sad about the lack of sex. Much more sad that I have nobody to share my life with, travel with, you know, the works.
/r/seduction08/12/17 12:35 PM
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Sorry for the agressive tone. The article is fine as a sensible chuckle piece. And it deals in truth. Don't put women on a pedestal. That's the sensible part.
/r/seduction08/12/17 12:02 PM
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Nope, I'm caucasian, living in eastern europe.
/r/seduction08/12/17 11:59 AM
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You're not alone. I'm a 30 y.o. virgin who's also a STEM major. Unlike you I'm generally afraid of talking to total strangers regardless of gender.
/r/seduction08/12/17 10:12 AM
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Dude I'm a 30 y.o. virgin who can't even approach a woman. That article is useless to me. Reading Herman Hesse, Ernest Hemingway, Kurt Vonnegut and Charles Bukowski is great but it won't get one laid. Robert Altman, David Lynch, Werner Herzog and Stanley Kubrick are also great directors, but watching their movies won't get one laid. Confidence, frame and a show of power is what ultimately gets men laid. Sure for the more intellectual women pulling a nice quote out of your ass helps but not that …
/r/seduction08/12/17 10:04 AM
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Yeah, I read some things. I don't have enough confidence to pull any of this off. I still have to work on my body image for a while. I'll also keep practicing on Tinder. Maybe if I had a wingman to push me forward, but right now I'm simply too terrified to do any approaches.
/r/seduction08/12/17 09:59 AM
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You got a couple of make-outs. That's a hell of a lot more than I've gotten. There is no "pure luck". You're on the right track. Think back to those make-outs. What did you wear? How was the lighting? What music was playing? What did the girl look like and how did she behave? Maybe that's the kind of girl you best mesh with. Try game on more girls like that. Then you can branch out. Not all of us can (or even want to) be Mystery. I'm not very dexterous right now so I can't pull magic tricks in f…
/r/seduction08/12/17 12:05 AM
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You complain that game works for you? WOW! Maybe you need a break? Try to go steady a few months with one of the women you attract? I wish I was able to work game even 1/4 as good as you guys.
/r/seduction07/12/17 02:39 PM
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Actually I would be "bothered" (due to my anxiety) but I would talk to her anyway. The problem is I'm not a cool guy. School took a huge dump on my self-esteem. Also lived far away from college (and the parties). Now I work in IT as a programmer, I don't watch any popular shows, I don't know any popular bands and haven't traveled in almost a decade. When I go out to clubs and concerts (mostly thanks to luck and FB events) I have no idea who the band/artist playing is 95% of the time. Sure I can …
/r/seduction07/12/17 02:07 PM
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Do you actually go up to completely random girls/women and start talking to them ? What about the whole principle that women don't necessarily wish to be bothered on the street ? Also how does one get over anxiety, especially at my age ? FTR, I'm a 30 y.o. virgin who has absolutely no game whatsoever as well as huge approach anxiety. It also leaks outside as, while most people tolerate me, a lot of people tend to just avoid my proximity.
/r/seduction07/12/17 11:08 AM
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Am I over reacting? Yes and no. A lot of girls will be flirty even though they have BFs. Whether it's AF/BB or just seeking a new orbiter. Depending on just how slutty they are they may even be willing to cheat. You did good to delete her. Bad you didn't try to see if she was willing to cheat. Go full retard: rat her out to her BF (on FB) and enjoy the fallout. Embrace and love the slut that she is You're not in an LTR and you seem to have some game so embrace and love sluts (obviously using a c…
/r/askTRP02/12/17 12:34 PM
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I'm sorry for being a whiner and a dick. It wasn't just her being plus sized, but the pics, the multi-colored hair and the bio didn't really mesh in the end. She looked like someone with skeletons in her closet. I'm not really interested in dragging those skeletons around. Let's assume I did go through with it. What if she became clingy afterward? Truth is I lack game and frame. You're right it's a step by step game. The first step is to fuck up. I fucked up. Step 1 done. I'll go lurk and read t…
/r/askTRP02/12/17 12:24 PM
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If she won't fck you, fck her. As in end the relationship. Do you have a chastity vow ? Does she have an OBS-GYN issue ? Also lay off the instant pussy for a few months, you'll fry your dopamine center. Just date but don't fuck. Invest time in yourself. After a few months fucking will feel great again.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 11:10 PM
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Start chatting online. Yes, for no reason at all. Hell just wait for a rainy day and ask them if they miss summer. Don't become a wizard like I did. It gets harder as you age. I'm almost 30 now and have started changing things for a while. It's hard as hell but hopefully the payoff will be worth it. Not just in terms of women but my own self esteem.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 11:04 PM
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Oh, that opportunity has long since passed. She caught on and stopped replying. Maybe I'll regret it in the morning, but for now... nah! I get to feel like a top-tier Chad for once, she even complimented me on my looks (and I have a BMI of 28 :D). If I have to BB (hopefully not) I'd rather BB a passable chick. But @vandaalen, seriously now. I'd rather actually enjoy my first time and have a fond memory of it. But we'll see.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 10:59 PM
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You know, for once my id, ego and superego are all in agreement to stay the fuck away. I'd prefer a cute anorexic chick with no boobs and no butt to this. :/ Imagine your first memory of sex being a purple haired +200lbs feminist crushing you. Last I checked I didn't murder anyone to deserve this. I also think I awoke the asshole genie: "Oh you wanna get laid, here take this 200lbs chick". There's a silver lining to it all as I'm no longer an incel but a volcel now.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 10:44 PM
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I'm just figuring things out here. Read my previous posts. I mean I do want sex but... not like this man, not like this... I'd need to pop a viagra just to stay up.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 10:16 PM
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Turns out you're right and I'm wrong. Mr. Tesla Explains Why He Will Never Marry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 06:30 AM
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Holy shit man! Unrelated but thanks. I could totally use this idea when I move to my new apartment in a couple of months. Set up my music gear (monitor speakers, 2 MIDI keyboards, my music laptop) in a separate room and call it my "studio". Then I have an excuse to show invite in any girl that might come around.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 09:34 PM
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I stopped playing long before I took the RP. AAA games themselves have become just "boring drivel", "boring drivel 2: the sequel", "boring drivel 3: just cancel it already". But hey, more Chads staying in playing FIFA and Madden means more chances for guys like me! :D
/r/askTRP30/11/17 09:27 PM
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Video games both saved and ruined my fucking life (and my work is related to game development). So, my advice is: only in moderation. No more than 2 hrs a week! Just start up your PC or console and let it update on say, Tuesday but don't play. Play for 2 hrs Sat or Sun morning. Fri and Sat night should be reserved for going out.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 09:23 PM
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2-3 matches a day has been what I've seen as well. One or two usually text back, then unmatch.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 09:18 PM
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Actually I'm from Eastern Europe and my building isn't climate controlled at all. It's funny that Eastern Europe is generally considered a place where you can easily find a girlfriend. The closest thing to Chads would be dubious dudes who trade weed & drugs for sex with 16-year olds. We also have some sports teachers (who aren't even all that fit) hitting on their students (who are usually 12-14 year olds). kids born in the Congo to die from diarrhea due to dirty water when they're 10 years old …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 09:09 PM
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LOL my personality is INTP as well. INTPs aren't exactly pinnacles of social life. Fuck us doubly so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 06:04 PM
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And again, I'm sure that in time I'll fix some of this, maybe I'll even have a few LTRs. But at what cost? Say I find a woman who really is tired of the CC and get married. If it's true that she's so tired, after having kids I'll only get intimacy once a year at best, if that. Back when I was a kid I thought this would pass or get better but as an adult it's only gotten worse. I never expected I'd reach fucking 30 as a virgin who's never even been on a date. Let's top that too: 90%+ of my dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:59 PM
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Of course I'm bitter. I'm a 29 y.o. virgin I missed out on it all in school, high school, college and after. Things have been looking to take a better. But it's really unfair that I have to invest a fuckton of effort to simply get a date while Chad simply walks into a room, asks "wanna fuck ?" and 3 women jump him. Also, even after all that effort if a Chad takes notice of my date all my effort will have been in vain. I've been had this happen twice in school. Was making progress with a girl, wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:53 PM
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Hey, women with Down's might be freaky, ya never know. FFS, I hope you're joking :/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:23 PM
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C'mon Incel you're a nice guy and a not that bad looking to boot. Look at this brutish Chad. Goes on to fuck Chad and regrets it next morning. Complains to Incel about it. Nope, no reason whatsoever. Literally every late virgin mate of mine who married had to turn himself into at least a bit bad boy to find a girl. Even gamer girls go for "bad boys". BTW bad boy doesn't necessarily mean "in a gang".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:13 PM
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Also why are only men supposed to "lower their standards" ? Why won't women accept to date a shy guy who takes more than a few minutes to get in the mood ? Why won't women accept virgin men ? A lot of virgin men are neither that ugly nor that fat. A woman with autism is accepted. A man with autism is "undateable" and ends up with a high functioning woman with Down's, who leaves him for a man who's both fitter and not autistic. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:07 PM
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I've chatted up a few chubby girls on tinder, many of them are even worse than the somewhat fit ones. But lowering your standards can be any of those things you said. Dear God! So, in the extreme, you'd literally have shy men date women with Down's? I know "Undateables" was a real show but those people weren't simply shy. That's not just lowering your standards. At that point you might just give up and pull a Wilkes McDermid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:00 PM
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I was stating that there are very few girls (even fat ones) that men will consider universally ugly. Top tier men might not sex them up (except they sometimes do) but they can get sex. As a woman you can be literally disabled (yes even down's) and there will be a man who's DTF & even marry. As a guy, you can look decent and most women will pass on you over relatively minor (but overall very important to an alpha male) flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:42 PM
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Really? Not in my experience. Sure, Chad won't fuck the ugliest girls (not sober at least). But ugly girls have a lot more opportunities than ugly guys. Also there are very few truly ugly girls. Many girls are just plain. A lot of features that are ugly on a man are less ugly on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:14 PM
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There are ~4 million male Incels in China alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:10 PM
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lower your standards I hear this one a lot. Nobody ever explains what it means. Ugly women? Fat women? Much older women? Single moms? Women with disabilities? Are we talking Physical or Mental disabilities? What exactly is so weird about the women you get laid with on tinder? Not an exhaustive list, just a few examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:06 PM
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Until that friend gets married or leaves the country or (heaven forbid) dies. Even as an introvert one has to realize that you need to socialize at least at a bare minimum. Also beggars can't be choosers. If you're an omega and get a nice girl who's not a SJW landwhale try an LTR for at least a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 02:46 PM
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Luckily, it seems I'm good looking enough that I can get laid from weird chicks on tinder every so often. Lucky you. Why not give a few pointers while you're at it. I highly doubt you simply ask these girls "wanna fuck ?" and they just come over. If you use weed or alcohol to get laid you're already a step above Incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 02:44 PM
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Do you want to fuck him? Of course not. Did anyone want to fuck Nicola Tesla? No. And he was Nikola fucking Tesla. Did anyone want to fuck Newton? No. And he was fucking Sir Isaac Newton. Most Incels are neither Tesla nor Newton, so why would anyone want to fuck them. The only saving grace for an Incel is: looksmax get as ripped as possible memorize game beat anxiety suppress the need to be a smart-ass while on dates I know of 2 incels who made it out of inceldom the way I just described. But it…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 02:41 PM
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I experienced a lot of bullying and rejection. Not to mention the girls that toyed with me. That hurt the most really... well... other than the beatings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 02:34 PM
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Here's some Facebook Chad's drivel (translated): "I enjoy loving everything around me. Everything in the universe is made to be loved, from the tiniest blade of grass to the human soul. True enough I am a dreamer and I love my visions. I love my ideals. I love the music that makes my heart sing, the beauty of nature that makes my mind soar, because these take care of the building and growth of my own world…" This shit was written by a fucking philosophy major. In fact I'm pretty sure I fixed som…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 02:29 PM
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I used to lurk on the incels and even made some self-hate posts on the Incels group and the blackpill mentality is basically nihilism. Nihilism in and of itself is correct, at least from a human standpoint. But Nihilism has no way out (other than suicide). So TRP is the next best thing because among other things it offers multiple ways out. I'd give you a ton of Facebook pages of "Chad-like" guys who boast degrees in psychology, philosophy, science and arts and yet spout the most vile and putrid…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 02:22 PM
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I was never a "strict" Christian I just had a lot of relatives in front of whom I had to pretend. And I got so good at pretending I almost lost my mind. Yeah I think I do tend to blab about the whole still being a virgin a bit too much. And it's doing me more harm than good. I mean my lack of sexual experience is already apparent enough without me shouting about it from the rooftops.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 12:03 PM
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I tried, she doesn't want to, fears that I'll shame her in front of her friends. When they work, long-winded LTRs can be great but they don't really work all that often.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:59 AM
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Nope! I've been living alone for the last 10 years. But college, job, being a "good boy" and all of the mental strain meant that I fucked up a lot.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:57 AM
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Well, he's gay AFAIK... He's also somewhat of an interesting character... for about 30 minutes. Then you remember that the world he lives in is not the world you live in and he stops being funny.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 10:33 AM
1

she recently got pregnant You sure it's yours ? Because you don't sound too sure. Also pregnant women can become a real PITA to deal with. I remember back when my mom was pregnant with my sibling. Just be there to comfort her but not the way a beta would do it.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 10:30 AM
5

Condoms. Anal. If you really never want kids again, vasectomy. Also they're working on a shot for men (male birth control). Keep an eye out for that.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 10:26 AM
3

Is it a bird? Is it a plane? No! It's Captain Save a Ho! Sure SOME of her clients likely legit can't fuck her and just hire her out as arm candy. BUT ALL OF THEM ? Nah! If you've gotten your fill of fun just cut your ties and move to a more decent gal for an LTR.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 11:49 PM
1

Because I would if I could (even more often than just once a week), except with my shitty personality nobody wants me even for dating much less sex. Also I saw that you misread my message the first time. :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 11:35 PM
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In a different context I'd find that proposition interesting. :P Jokes aside I guess it's somewhere in-between the other two. There's the whole "I want" vs "I would want" thing. Maybe "he" (hypothetical "he") doesn't want to be the father of your babies yet.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 07:43 PM
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Oh yeah it most definitely does. /s If there's one good thing that came out of playing a lot of video games it's that I'm now bored of video games. Haven't played a game in 2 months.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 10:06 AM
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Okay, so, for now I'll just focus on getting and keeping fit, keep up with therapy and find opportunities to talk to strangers more often. Hopefully that will, in time, calm my anxiety down to a more manageable level. I've also begun reading the books you guys mentioned. "No more mr. nice guy" is being quite an eye opener. I also won't try to make up for my lost teens and 20's too hard. That time has long since passed. As for social opportunities I just have to stop caring about what other peopl…
/r/askTRP29/11/17 09:09 AM
4

From what I hear sex with girls with daddy issues can be downright amazing.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 10:42 PM
1

My man! I suffer from a similar anxiety issue. I manage to flirt with a girl every once in a while but can't get myself to approach.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 10:41 PM
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"I really would love to be a mother" puts a lot less pressure on a man than "I want to get married and have children". The second one sounds a lot more controlling. "When we have kids" is even worse-sounding for the guy as it sounds like you've already planned everything and he now has to tow the line.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/17 10:23 PM
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I was being sarcastic. If you really want a relationship get off the sex tap for a year. Next 6 months only fuck 2 times a month tops. After that only once a month. Let your dopamine center recover a bit. You want an LTR, you gotta start enjoying fucking the same girl. Or you could enter one of the myriad types of open relationships. Or just keep on doing whatever you're doing right now, you're clearly getting results.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 07:25 PM
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Man, you've been having sex right off the tap. Whenever I hear guys like you complain I feel like slapping you across the face. You fritzed your own dopamine center and now you complain. There's guys like me who are over 25 and are still virgins. No woman, and I mean literally NO WOMAN wants to fuck us. Not because we're deformed but because ... actually fuck knows why. We're not alpha enough or interesting enough or we don't have the abundance mentality, or hell knows what else. So go on, get t…
/r/askTRP28/11/17 07:15 PM
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I telling you this as a 30 year old virgin who's helped fix a lot of relationships. Twice a month is the bare minimum before 40, for some people even before 50. Otherwise your SO will be either wanking it to porn or be tempted to cheat on you. Physical injuries, stress and child troubles can happen. But if you don't have children and aren't married, if you can't stand having sex with your SO even once a month why are you still in a relationship ? Heck, if I had a willing partner I'd do it at lea…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/17 02:19 PM
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I didn't write: So is Chad. As for being emotionally immature. Well I just have a hard time talking to women, online and offline. A lot of my emotional immaturity has to do with lack of experience. I haven't been on a date since my early 20s (and that was a failed date). But, yeah, lots of Chads are emotionally still at the level of a teen, except as Chads, they can get away with a lot more. Let's say a guy leans in to kiss a girl he's dancing with in a nightclub. A Chad will be seen as "confide…
/r/askTRP28/11/17 12:35 PM
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Yeah I have a couple good male role models at work. They're not perfect in any way, shape or form. But they're good enough. They don't lift, instead they play sports and eat healthy.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 12:03 AM
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"Black pill" is basically nihilism. Not too long ago I actually used to lurk and sometimes post in that godforsaken asshole that was Incels. But a number of events since then changed my life for the better. The other pills (other than red blue and purple) are just internet memes. https://funnypictures4.fjcdn.com/comments/One+pill+two+pill+red+pill+blue+pill+_bb7c741f3f78400e0bb11c2c8e427935.jpg
/r/askTRP27/11/17 11:57 PM
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No I'm not a troll. The only lie here is that I'm not actually 30 yet but I will be come December. My family also tried and succeeded in controlling my actions, sometimes for the better (at least in the short run), but mostly for the worse. Had I taken my self determined flaws too seriously, I would've probably tried to off myself years ago. It's just that depression is really easy to get into and really hard to get out of. And I still have so much more to learn about both the world around and m…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 10:53 PM
7

I just fucked up my first tinder match. It was glorious! :) The girl had a photo wearing a very loose shirt so i used that as an opener and asked her if it was her boyfriend's shirt. Amazingly, she actually replied to that and told me it was not. I then replied that I was just imagining her wearing one of mine. Instant Unmatch. Honestly I probably don't look good enough for that kind of a reply and it was a crapshoot but hey, you live and you learn. 2 matches left.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 10:37 PM
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Hey I used to be a believer in the "black pill" not too long ago. Then I realized that while it does contain truth, it doesn't really offer a way out. All pills have their share of truth. Except the blue pill. The blue pill can go fuck itself. I swear if I see another beta orbiter...
/r/askTRP27/11/17 08:43 PM
2

Thanks for the wake-up call. Unfortunately I can't really lift (doctor's orders) but I can jog, bike, do crunches, etc. Also Hogwarts ain't all it's cracked up to be.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 08:31 PM
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no more mister nice guy Not yet but you're the second guy recommending it to me so I'll read it.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 08:27 PM
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I already did.. on tinder ... 3 of them. What now? No like, seriously. What have I unleashed?
/r/askTRP27/11/17 07:29 PM
3

Wow that's... deep... Kids in third world countries probably have to "scoop maggots out of a heavily rotten deer carcass for breakfast." Maybe it wasn't hardcore enough.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 07:29 PM
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Well you're right that your average Chad may not be that much more emotionally adult but he's physically bigger and stronger. And he's usually got charm. On another note, I just got my first tinder match. A 31 y.o. girl. What do I say?
/r/askTRP27/11/17 07:14 PM
1

Practice. Practice Practice. Just do it. So what if you screw up. So what if she says no. She was bound to any way. Best case scenario is that you learn and move on with it. Like, practice on random women? As in you just go up to a girl you find somewhat attractive and do what? Ask her out? I obviously can't risk losing my (already very few) female acquaintances over practicing my dating skills. My fucked-up feminist upbringing ("you can't just tell a strange girl/lady she's pretty") guilt-trips…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 05:30 PM
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