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NAH, SISderpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 06:26 PM
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NAH, SISderpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:19 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?derpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 02:14 PM
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SCROTES MADderpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 03:27 PM
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NAH, SISderpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 08:18 PM
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NAH, SISderpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 01:48 PM
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NAH, SISderpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 11:14 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKderpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:51 PM
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FDS HUMORderpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:18 PM
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derpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 09:53 PM
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FDS HUMORderpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:23 PM
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LIES MEN TELLderpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 11:41 AM
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RANTderpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:15 PM
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NAH, SISderpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 02:28 PM
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DISCUSSIONderpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 07:32 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESderpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:33 AM
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NAH, SISderpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 11:18 AM
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derpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 08:23 PM
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FDS HUMORderpinat_butter/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:06 AM
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Did you try communicating with him? Try to undestand that men have needs while your preferences and standards don't matter 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 06:37 PM
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Didn't you know? Women are only beautiful if we don't know it. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 09:37 AM
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Did she plan the trip and he's too lazy to plan smth on his own?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 11:18 AM
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"Oh no the baby could get STD - there's still a chance it's a boy so I should warn her! Forget about the woman though."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 10:25 AM
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For anyone in a similar situation - it's 100% okay to rehome the dog. It does not make you a lesser person. High energy dogs are not for everyone, if you realize they are not for you, it's MUCH BETTER for the dog to give them to a person that is willing to give them the excersice & obediance training they NEED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 09:43 AM
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Ofc, just like women! We are ALL just ANIMALS with URGES who cannot control ourselves and just have to jump on each other whenever someone as much as looks at us! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 06:58 AM
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"How you live everyday is how you live your life". It reminds me to value my life, to find time for my loved ones, to plan little special occations for myself often and to have consistent healthy habits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 10:16 AM
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Come on girls, this is not such a big thing. The bigger problem is that she's a pedo since she's clearly married to a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:16 PM
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I love how 500 $$ is some magical, outrageous amount of money a person could have. It looks like the OP was a child/teen when they wrote the post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:19 AM
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That's meant for coworkers, neighbours etc., not the people you chose to spend your life with!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:54 PM
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Did she marry my ex? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:48 PM
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"I have zero goals and plans for my future. Whatever happens, happens".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:41 PM
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To be fair, causation =/= correlation. It could also be possible that men who are more progressive desire fewer kids and are more willing take care of them or smth like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:15 PM
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Great study, thank you for posting it here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:13 AM
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It'S a JoKe NoT a DicK Don'T tAkE iT sO hArD /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 02:35 PM
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This is exactly how exspensive-quitar3609 presents himself with: "I've f*cked 60 women and I am married now".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 09:12 PM
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Actually I think he is being more resonable than her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:16 PM
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You already decided to leave him. The hard part (thinking about leaving and preparing yourself to tell him) will be over soon. I know you will miss the dog, but if it's his and you know you have to give it back, you'll survive. ❤ I had a similar situation. When I met my ex, he had a dog for two years. I loved the dog and we did so much together! Me and my ex split 6 years later and I missed the dog as hell. I still think about it every day. Yet I am glad that I left. You can do it too. What help…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:30 AM
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They are awesome and have so many funny and reletable songs! Check out their songs self esteem and I'll support you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:22 AM
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I agree! Men with high n count can easily make you feel like you are just a number. Also in small towns there would be many exes, their mutual friends etc. Plus high n count men have higher chances of STD's since condoms don't protect from all. Me and by bf both have low n count and we have a great sex life. NGL he needed some instructions at first, but I kept my standars (to come at least on 85% of sexual encounters) and he was more than willing to put in the work to meet them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:20 PM
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If he is determined to learn how to satisfy you (and has many other qualities you adore), I wouldn't dump him just yet. But if he's lazy or unable to listen and learn... boy bye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:29 PM
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I agree! I am sorry that you had such a bad and yet almost universal experience. In my case when it comes to the costumers you never wanted to see again: - female costumers wanted either everything done to perfection or came with loud children eager to run around and play (basically annoyance levels were up to 15%) - male costumers would try to touch/sexually harass you, learn where you live, offer money for sexual acts etc. One even robbed the place and didn't let me leave, another threw a bott…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:35 PM
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I've only been with 3 men (2 LTR and 1 FWB) but they all loved to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:17 AM
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I am from central/south europe and thankfully the gender pay gap is very small here (except for older people). Consequentially people in relationships pay about 50/50 for dates. Still for a first date it's the norm that a man pays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:59 PM
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That is a bit weird. Me and my bf knew each other's paswords about 6-10 months into relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:58 PM
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I agree with chaoswitchery. I'd also like to add a few things: - figure your strenghts and compliment them while putting focus away from your weaknesses. Lovely hair? Put in a flower! Chubby tighs but beautiful calves? Wear a long skirt, mabye with high heels! Etc. - if you want to appear seductive by showing skin, show either cleavage or tighs/ass. Wearing a very short dress with a lot of cleavage can easily look tacky. - if you want, you can look what is universally seen as more attractive. As…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:37 AM
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I have some male friends and my bf has some female friends, but they aren't really close/best friends. When we do activities together with friends of opposite sex (mostly parties and hiking), the partner is always welcome. My closest friends are all female tho and his closest friends are male. I would find it weird if he would suddenly start having a special bond with some girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:48 PM
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You're right, I hate the word too. The point was good tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 09:17 PM
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Yeah, most men have a hard time finding a gf since looks are becoming more and more importaint due to OLD. For women attracting men is easy, but choosing the one that will benefit your life is hard since most wouldn't. Dating would be easier if men and women would be better partners, but men have so much more to do to come close. Most men don't do housework well, are lazy and lack ambition and vision (don't know if they want to settle, don't know how to plan vocations...). Therefore most men are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 12:10 PM
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Men already die about 5 years earlier than women. Who wants to be a widow before they even retire?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 11:39 AM
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Girls calm down... it's ok because cheating is his personality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 11:32 AM
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And if you are having any troubles they will tell you that you should have chosen better (why would I give a pregnant woman a sit on the bus? She should've fu*ked someone with a car)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 07:08 AM
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And of course he blames it on the wife
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 10:02 PM
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I had a schoolmate like that. She really wanted to be psychologist and got her bachelors degree easily. Than she would have to apply for masters (with only bachelors degree you aren't qualified to do most psychology jobs) but she quit so she could join her boyfriends pyramid scheme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 08:49 PM
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I too think it works well to split bills equally, especially if both partners earn the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 10:35 PM
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It's going great! We both do housework, although I do a bit more than him. But also he works 8 hours a day (since he is essential personnel) while my uni duties don't nearly as much time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 10:30 PM
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I think it's understandable that men don't want their girlfriends to do porn. I would never date a men who would shoot porn videos. It's sad that people don't realize the hypocrasy, but stating that you want your partner to be monogamous (and not prostitute themself - even by having onlyfans) is a step in right direction. Maybe realizing porn in general isn't all that good will follow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:13 AM
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Well aren't you a psychic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:51 AM
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Lovely. I (f24) study from home, he (M27) is essential medical personal. We spend evenings and a bit of afternoon together but most of the day we do our separate stuff. I miss going out (for uni lectures, sports, walks...) more than him but we both miss hanging out with friends. A lot of stuff sucks right now but our relationship remains strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:33 AM
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If he hugs everyone, it's fine. Otherwise it's kinda weird yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:58 PM
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I'm just wondering if they also write the number of children and partner's profession for men too... great woman nontheless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:37 PM
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bad breath feminine looking really skinny or overweight long dirty fingernails shorter than me (I'm 5'4)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 10:34 AM
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Oh believe me, he does. So many women don't see his shallowness at first or think that he has a better personality hidden somewhere inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:37 PM
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Yeah, a friend of mine (M, 24, 5,9) is very good looking. But when you get to know him you realize he is sexist macho man which is a turn off for me (F, 24).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 08:42 PM
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I thought men on this sub despise short relationships and giving up easily.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/20 10:11 PM
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You can try cognitive behavioral therapy since this is a behavioral problem. Or a more specialized therapy for porn addiction. I hope you manage to overcome it. You deserve to make pure love with all the passion you have in your heart <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 06:42 PM
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For me, yes. Beside the cute wedding stuff, I want to have a formal agreement about finances, raising children etc. Not to mention I want to refer to my partner as husband, not baby daddy or boyfriend when we are 50. And I want him to wear a ring, because he is really a catch (although he doesn't quite know it) and I don't want other women falling for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 11:57 AM
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Why would you like to stoop to their lever? I know you are looking for insults, but why? It shows that you listen to their opinion. I rather carry on being happy and ignore mean words. Not caring about what they say means you don't respect them and that btw will make them feel weak. You are the one who can give or take their power, not the other way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:57 PM
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Don't forget the one saying: "you know I would never treat you badly... do you need a shoulder to cry on... come to my place at 11..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 09:20 AM
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I am also not so money oriented. Right now I live with my bf for free (he already has a job), but when I finish my uni and get a job (hopefully in 6 months) I plan to share the expenses. I don't mind paying for about half the expenses, but I still think women should be selective when choosing a partner. What I look for is respect, a sense of humor, being a nice person, education, willingness to do housework, having the same values etc. Hope that helps. Don't feel bad for buying drinks for friend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 09:07 AM
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My bf is just like that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:07 AM
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I only had 1 ex, we dated for almost 6 years. It took a lot of time, crying, time, dating simeone else, time, spending time with friends and time. Also it really helped that I kept in mind that we would never work out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:40 AM
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You are familiar with their slang! Yeah they are delusional, especially when they think women care that much about looks. Do they have any idea who women choose? Men who are gentle, smart, educated etc and will make good husbands and fathers! Basically HWM. If I will grow a child inside of me someday (what I want) I ain't doing it with a woman-hating limp-dick-having gas station worker who watched hentai most of his teen years and says women should "breed" at 14 and stay at home their whole life…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 07:05 PM
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FHM and male circumcision are so different, it's ridiculous to compare. I don't like a competition of "who has it worse, men or women?", but in that case FGM is far worse. I don't care if "my man" is circumsized or not, in my country almost no one is and they are fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 08:46 AM
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The belief that women are only interested in hot men (aka Chads), that make up few percent of the population. So only top 20% of guys can date, for others "it's over. It never began". Even men who have partners are not safe, since they are probably being cheated on. The only thing women look for is looks, especially face and height. The consequences vary in the minds of men who have this belief. But mostly they don't want to be invaluntary celibate ("incels"), so they think women should not have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 08:31 AM
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I disagree. When you want smth, tell him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 07:49 PM
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How about a joke and flirt technique. HIM: How many men have you slept with? YOU: Not enough wink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 07:45 PM
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I also don't rush to marry my bf and we live together. I want to date him sone more and also we are both kinda young (24 & 26).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 03:44 PM
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Where is that from? :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 03:29 PM
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What makes you think so? <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 05:08 PM
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For me, love is real. But although it starts as an uncontrollable feeling, later it becomes a choice. I choose to work on my relationship, I choose to think about what is good and bad for me, him and our relationship. Then I choose how to act and it's not always the best choice (sometimes I fail and have regrets), but most of the time it is. That helps me, him and our relationship to grow. There is a lot of questions that are hard to answer - When is it time to be selfish and when should one sac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 08:48 AM
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Yes, men are so great, loving and essential. We need them to protect us... FROM OTHER MEN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 08:12 AM
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I believe most overweight girls try harder because they feel like they should compensate for something. I believe many think: "I should be do grateful that he is with me even though I am fat and ugly. I have to do whatever to keep him". Same goes for sexual activities - of course LV males will like a girl who always blows them, works for their orgasm and doesn't expect a thing in return! That being said, I don't think all overweight girks think and behave like that, but many do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 08:11 AM
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Depends how much illness interviened with everyday life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:08 PM
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Having a family where members love and respect each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 10:21 PM
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That is highly unlikely, but in that situation I would politely find my way out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 07:23 PM
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Well if that were the only gift I'd be mad too. But if it's just one joke gift next to an actual gift I wouldn't have a problem with that. I also got my bf one joke gift and one actual gift this year since we both like jokes and humour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 10:29 AM
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I would laugh if my bf gave this to me because I know he loves me and adores me 100%. But I would play bit if games after just to extrapolate the joke (like oh look it's your okayest di** or let's spend time with your kinda okay, kinda lame family).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 07:27 AM
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I hate to speak about people as if they were objects, but women have more value than men. We are the ones to chose a man out of single men among us trying to be with us. We are the ones who can give a child to this world. Your child, if you are worthly, or someone elses who treats us right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 07:22 AM
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I don't think that is a good idea. For me it seems the best to stop seeing each other in any way, but to end on good terms, so you can still say hi or make some small talk if you ever bump into each other on the street.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:16 PM
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Agreed! I'm against prostitution tho and I don't think that's the answer. Just grow up, men. Give at least 40% effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:53 PM
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I wouldn't want to be with a man that had sex with 15 women or more. It would make me think that he can't commit and sees me as just another chick to pump and dump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 02:49 PM
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I've been with 3 men; 2 were fine and 1 was great. But I realized I had to teach them about my body and expect them to learn. I never pretended to come or act like my satistaction doesn't matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 06:23 PM
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The day I encourage my man to objectify and stare at other women is the day I no longer love him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 11:25 AM
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I relate. My ex loved me when I needed to be loved. He is a good person and even though we weren't compatibile enough I wish him all the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 08:16 AM
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So they would be okay if every human, bigger and stronger than them (probably a man), could just rape them anytime? I guess not so GTFO losers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 07:53 AM
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I think that it's great that he hasn't been married at that age! If you don't want to have children you should continue dating him. Buy if you want them better and things now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 12:15 PM
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Whoops haha. At least we think alike xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 11:22 AM
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I find that normal, happy, smart, successful men want to date a woman about the same age as them. The only guys that want to date much younger girls are the ones who can't impress women their age. Sadly some girls that are 19 are impressed by guys that are 35, have a part time job as a bartender while hoping their band will make it one day, stay at their parents place, play fifa everyday and eat whatever their mommy cooked. Not to mention their emotional intelligence is about the same as their s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 04:40 PM
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I sometimes hang out with a group of male friends, but they are my boyfriends friends. We have fun, drink, go to concerts, hike (usually with my bf present but not always), but I wouldn't trust them with a secret or discuss personal stuff with them. I guess they are my friends in a way, but not like my female friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 08:02 PM
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Well there's a wife...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 08:50 PM
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Actually it's not more free than public schools, healthcare etc. In order for a population to sustain, we should care about children. If every couple gets paternity/maternity leave, the system is fair. It's only unfair for people without children, but they don't have an active role in sustaining a population, so they are the leechers in the eyes of the society.
/r/MGTOW09/08/19 06:26 PM
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So they can rest after giving birth, breastfeed, take care of the baby and form a bond with it that helps it form healthy relationships later in life. Should your mom just toss you away after giving birth to you because she had to work?
/r/MGTOW09/08/19 06:14 PM
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So a man has to provide for the family? Isn't that "leeching"?
/r/MGTOW09/08/19 06:12 PM
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Than you'd have no free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:45 AM
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Woman gave birth to you and raised you, STFU.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:54 AM
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