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Ohh when you said subs I thought you meant subreddits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:09 PM
16

What dating subs have interesting men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:50 PM
50

I'm sure there has to be some kind of charge for that legally. Poisoning and tapering with medication jfc he better go to jail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:26 PM
17

Omg yes, the huffy "you don't understand". When they think that they understand others so well. I think many just don't understand empathy. You don't have to have lived the same experiences to feel for someone. And there is no comparing 'severity' of different lived experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:34 PM
28

And not turning their sadness into anger. Way too many of them have been socialized to just get angry and reactive and it's just fucking annoying, especially when that anger is wrongfully taken out on someone else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:31 PM
30

Someone told me I was a great conversationalist, but he was talking most of the time lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:16 PM
50

There are guys that don't follow but still look
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:28 AM
29

Yes, this describes it perfectly. I always feel kind of weird or wrong for saying I want a close gay male friend because I enjoy male energy, but I do want to have the comfort of being close with a man as well who I don't have to worry about in certain ways (sexualizing, etc.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:38 AM
82

You mean to see... what’s poppin’?? Sorry, couldn’t resist lol I do wonder why those two are trending today though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:17 AM
6

Supposedly it's because they had made the same joke about roko's basilisk, a thought experiment about ai. They have similar interests. Grimes had gone to school for neuroscience. I think Grimes is awesome. I used to think Elon Musk was cool too before I found out how he was. I saw basically he didn't want to deal with his kids until they were old enough to do fun dad shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:43 PM
12

Not the Joker but they're still a clown 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 02:51 PM
5

Lmfao... Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:05 PM
17

Oh yeah, I definitely keep my own finances and stuff, I just worry about the emotional toll that would take especially as I've dealt with a lot of turmoil in past relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:01 PM
12

"He faces up to two years in prison if forensic experts prove she died of hypothermia, say reports citing law enforcement." Are you fucking kidding me? That's it?? JFC the video is still up on YT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:44 PM
27

It's very terrifying! You think you've found a good one and them bam, it's something else. I wonder if that was lurking under the surface or they changed through life's circumstances? It seems unavoidable with no way to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:19 PM
7

When I read things like this it really scares me. How are we supposed to know in order to avoid this? Were there any red or yellow flags? I'm sorry that happened after so much time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:16 PM
3

I'd like to know this too as I've had similar experiences with FWB.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:13 AM
10

It took me a while to leave my last relationship of 4 years. The last straw was an anxiety attack after being yelled at after something that wasn't my fault. I still have a terrible time of it since my emotions keep having me wanting to go back thinking he will change, but THAT is what has to change because he won't. Logically, it's a big no. I wish you the best of luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:38 AM
3

The bbq grill would prob give me more meat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:23 PM
16

What kind of glue do you use that helps them stay on that long?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:25 AM
43

He is definitely still selfish, just generous in other ways. The cheating makes him very low value. I think it definitely shows a lack of respect towards woman that he is behaving like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:24 PM
5

Omg yes, just listened. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:10 PM
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Yes, it's Theory and Practice of Psychotherapy. Each chapter covers a different theory and this is from the chapter on feminist therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:29 AM
1

Omg yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:52 AM
1

My ex has anger issues. He had been into martial arts his whole life. There were times he didn't go or work out and said he was worried it would make him mad cause his body changes or testosterone or whatever. He would go on about how you needed a different mindset to be a fighter. Thing is, there are plenty of peaceful fighters out there who wouldn't hurt a fly. This guy was always itching to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:49 AM
2

I hate that. Like gee, thanks for complimenting my winning the genetic lottery in the looks department but what about any of our similar interests or something that stuck out from my bio? We all know you're only going to message someone if you think they're attractive anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:12 AM
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I'm always conflicted. One part of me thinks, "I don't think I'd necessarily want to date the type of guy to be on that app anyway" even though I'm on it and I'm pretty great (just am suspicious of how guys can use it)... On the other hand, the pool is so large, there are all types on there, and it's not just a hookup app anymore... I don't know. I'm kind of a cynic at this point with a dash of hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:10 AM
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Reminds me of how my ex would always unload his angry rumination on me... and one time I asked him when telling him about my needs in the relationship how I want to know his needs too (tried every method of communication)... this guy really said "I'm not your therapist"... in what way does that make sense???? Of course he refused to ever go to therapy. Btw, just started graduate degree for counseling lmao so I've REALLY gotta keep my eye out... maybe find a fellow therapist who knows how to comm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:36 PM
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It sucks because the only people who can successfully intervene are men unless the women outnumber the men. I remember feeling in some type of mood on my walk home from the station after work and saw this man walking after a girl saying I don't remember what. He was following her and kept trying to talk to her so I was just like, "Leave her alone, she doesn't want to talk to you". (Stupid, I know. I am usually ignore , ignore, ignore) He started walking up to me and yelling shit. Luckily some pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:51 PM
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What bothers me when I read about the porn problem is that they only talk about the violent porn. What about the "regular" vanilla type? I know it's said they progress from that to worse, but if they don't what then? Is that not seen as a problem too to participate in watching even "tame" porn?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:32 PM
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ITT: All professions lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:07 AM
2

I've only ever had one guy make me come from just his dick. I really hope whoever I end up with is like that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:05 PM
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I just know if she wasn't getting it elsewhere he would wanna keep on doing it. Funny how that works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:52 AM
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I don't understand how the whole not brushing their teeth anymore is a thing. I've seen it so often on here and my ex did it too. Why that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:04 PM
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Good point! I'm convinced
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:00 PM
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It's crazy they balk at the idea of therapy when their gfs are doing something similar for them. It's why they still lean on their emotional support ex gfs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:29 AM
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It's hot where I live too. Good point, I completely forgot about the bathing suit thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:17 AM
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I disagree with kayaking. I went kayaking with friends recently and had fun. They paid cause it was my birthday so it wasn't free. I don't own a kayak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:57 AM
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^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:55 AM
12

I don't see it as focusing on the past. It's more like something you turn to when you start missing them, to remind you that you are better off without that. After which you can look to your new collage/vision board to motivate you for what you want for yourself in the future :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:51 AM
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Then at the same time they still refuse to go to therapy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:55 AM
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I wonder how they feel about "throuples" with 2 men? I know the post was being sarcastic about the grape feeding and all but it seems one female with 2 men might be more in line with the view.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:22 PM
11

This makes me question my ex. He did stuff like this but also had some LVM attributes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:57 AM
13

The Korean men I've seen are so beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:44 AM
2

Lol I love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:17 AM
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I've heard this, too. I know there are nvm/hvm across ethnicities and races but I've consistently heard some negativity about them being conservative/patriarchal. Which blows cause I think they are so attractive (along with men from everywhere else -- though I think as a hispanic and living where I do I've dated far too many hispanics lol). I just wish hvm were more ubiquitous. I wonder how it's gonna be for later generations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:49 PM
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I keep trying to join but no one ever gets back to me when I message the mods that I signed up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:57 AM
12

Ohh, I wasn't sure what you meant at first since I know there's the rule for no sex during the 3 months so you can't really tell if sex would be good till you're having it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 09:48 PM
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After the 3 months?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:52 PM
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I have never faked it in my life. Funny though, even though I didn't they (the hookups) wouldn't even care or notice that I didn't get mine anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:46 AM
7

I feel like I went through similar, but it was his sex drive that plummeted -_-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:35 AM
3

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 06:15 PM
4

What game is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:11 PM
10

I need to know this too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 11:14 PM
15

Lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 04:28 PM
7

I know I definitely live in one of those cities. Thanks for the free book!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:37 PM
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They're white or yellow roses which signify either innocence or friendship. I think this is sweet. He's trying to make his sister feel better, I'm sure right now she hates men and he's showing her not all guys suck, he's there for her, and cheering her up through a hard time. I see this as something a friend would do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:30 PM
3

Mmm... I'd rather build things myself, or have someone teach me. They can learn to cook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 03:41 PM
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"Deeply in love with my wife" and "need to see other women" don't go together. They should divorce so she can live her happy single life or find one with someone who doesn't feel like they "need" alternatives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 10:53 PM
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Same, spent the majority of college with a guy 2 years older than me and this sounds very similar to him, but he also got physI call abusive. What a waste of time and a huge hit to my already low self esteem. I should have been off studying abroad instead of staying at school, worrying he would cheat (spoiler, he still did).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:31 PM
3

I second this, I haven't had a wand but the womanizer is amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:21 PM
1

Is the not wanting to be married thing because you don't wanna marry him, or you just don't wanna do marriage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:16 PM
7

So in that case would that mean the guy is a LVM though? If he doesn't resume the chase until you move out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 02:40 PM
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I used to work at a tattoo shop where I was the only female and there were about 5 other guys. The amount of disgusting, misogynistic shit I heard was unreal. It really made me feel bad and made me feel like there's no hope for any guy if this is what they're like. I even heard one of them say they had sex after hours on one of the tattoo chairs! So gross. I'm a pretty quiet person around people I'm not friends with so a lot of the time they would just say whatever, forgetting I was there. I rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:28 PM
2

I'm definitely not doing that last one so hopefully that helps haha. Thanks so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 06:53 PM
2

Thank you, I'll look into that. When it comes to all accounts and investing I sadly lack a lot of knowledge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:40 PM
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Can you get a 401k on your own or does your job need to provide it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:50 AM
6

Congrats, girl! I'm in the process of looking/applying for graduate programs in counseling too :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:32 PM
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And the researchers do not believe that projection of sexual interest is likely to be a specialised male adaptation for boosting their reproductive success. Perhaps, they suggest, it might rather reflect a tendency for individuals to assume that other people think the same way that they do. If this interpretation is right, then men seem to be more susceptible to this than women. A great example of the false consensus effect and/or egocentrism, the wiki page states: According to George Butterwort…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 05:55 PM
0

What emoji was it? I'm only seeing boxes with an x in the middle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:46 PM
7

I almost downvoted this, it's so bad. What a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:52 PM
3

I think in that context they mean South East Asia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 09:45 PM
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She said it was over a couple trips. I still find it crazy that some people get huge pieces as their first tats though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:12 PM
2

There are no gi classes as well, I'd recommend those as your attacker will probably not be wearing a gi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:18 PM
2

Got it, makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:43 AM
4

How does one avoid this? I picture a man a woman is seeing telling her about an issue he is having. Does she then say, you should talk to your friends about that? You should see a therapist? How does that work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:46 PM
14

Part of me wants her to tell him to leave her and then just ghost on him once he has. He deserves to be alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:35 PM
12

Not unless he was going back to his own country. I remember I slept with some British dude I met at a bar in my own country. He took us back in his fancy ass lambo or w/e expensive car, jizzed in me, then had the balls to say he had no money when I asked him to pay for plan b. There was another guy, rich as hell cause of the family business he was a part of, lived in a 4BR just him and his dog, I saw him a few times. One time we slept together, and some days afterwards I remember telling him I h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:44 PM
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I wonder if the results of that could change if posted in a different sub. Like if that sub attracts certain types of men or not. It's sad to know that most men think that way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 09:11 PM
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His lawyer:"we believed it was in the best interest to resolve this case ... so his life can go on." ....no.. jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:48 PM
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Jfc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 12:35 AM
12

I remember being at a club some years back and some guy asked if I wanted a drink, and then he said "but you have to dance with me" (can't recall if he said for the rest of the night or not). I just said "no thanks" and he walked away looking shocked lmao. Proceeded to tell my friends what he said and they were all like yeah, fuck no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 05:40 PM
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After reading your comment of course I had to go there. The hate some of these women are getting, it's disgusting. And the comparisons are ridiculous too, they're showing a celebrity at 16-18 red carpet ready next to them at 30+ with some weight and probably a paparazzi pic on their day off. There are boys on there saying "she looked soo good back then" when they are barely to adulthood while they are saying there's "no good pussy after 29". I bet most of those guys are incels with beer guts tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 06:06 PM
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I had an abusive ex. He pressured me into anal. He pressured me into anal directly to vaginal. He kept doing it even after I got uti's and didnt stop until after the 4th or 5th one where I bled. Now I have interstitial cystitis. I can't eat the foods I like such as citrus or spicy food. I can't have a beer with my friends cause it makes me have to pee every 10 minutes. I can't remember the last time I slept without having to wake up several times in the night to pee. Fucking bastard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:56 AM
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Isn't this a huge things for some guys? Always with the "don't bring up the past!" when it's evidence of when they ask "when" they did "that". And then they go ahead and bring up the past for their examples.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 05:41 PM
3

It says the link is broken and when I search the group I'm only seeing one that has 80 members and one that has 30
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:19 PM
3

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:15 PM
9

What was the fb group if you don't mind saying?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 03:39 PM
2

And then there are those who mindlessly scroll without liking or following
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 09:31 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 09:28 PM
4

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 09:28 PM
1

I thought the same thing lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:28 PM
5

So what if you live with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:12 PM
2

I'd like to know too! I checked my Libby app and they don't seem to have the book available in my libraries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:11 PM
3

Not a fan of beards anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 09:29 PM
2

We are renting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 02:00 PM
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Understood. Okay I was starting to feel like was doing something wrong, but I'm living with my SO in a LTR and we make about the same and split. I just wasn't sure where and why the lines were drawn and I understand now. Thanks for the responses all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 02:49 AM
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Gotcha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 02:48 AM
1

Though this wouldn't apply in a child free relationship, right? Or is it still losing even then even if housework is split?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 10:41 PM
1

Thank you for your response. Definitely makes sense when starting to date. So 50/50 is seen as okay after exclusivity engagement as long as housework is equally distributed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 10:40 PM
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Can I hear your argument about the 50/50? I'm still relatively new to this sub but I love it so far. In my mind I see 50/50 as fine, splitting cost of rent, bills, groceries, house work, etc. Occasionally one person treats the other if one comes into extra money. Both people work, both do chores. Why is it that 50/50 is frowned upon? Edit: so I'm getting down voted instead of someone actually trying to educate me as to why 50/50 isn't good? I'm trying to learn more, as this sub is still new to m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:04 PM
1

I thought the same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 06:03 PM
379

Masturbate to porn on the couch instead of having sex with HIM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 08:05 PM
1

I don't know if he will. I have a bladder problem too that gets aggravated with sex so it's more of an issue at night cause I wake up a lot to use the bathroom. I explain that to him and he says he only really gets horny at night cause in the daytime he feels too anxious/bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 12:21 AM
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He says he only gets horny at night cause he usually feels too bad/anxious in the day. It sucks cause I have a bladder issue so if we have sex too late then I get up to pee a bunch. I stopped being available the few times he has asked recently and then I walked in on him jerking it. I feel like the sex issue isn't as big for him as it is for me. We are still affectionate and he still calls me sexy and beautiful and he touches me but we just aren't intimate in that way much anymore. This probably…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 12:18 AM
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Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 04:57 PM
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My IRL friend told me about FDS lol. Also, what is OLD?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 03:40 PM
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My SO goes to bed later than me usually and he only really seems to want sex right before going to bed so I usually have to wait up to get laid, and I'm not quite energetic for it. I feel like he should want it more. It's annoying, it gets to the point where weeks pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 03:33 PM
14

I live in Miami and back when I was using it the population definitely reflected the area lol can't say it was a good thing. Glad it worked it for you though :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 05:59 PM
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It's been a while since I've been on it, but isn't it geared more towards hook ups than finding a relationship? Has it changed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 02:52 PM
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Especially considering what happened afterwards. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nujood_Ali The gist of it: Publisher helped buy her a 2 story home, family moved in. Money was paid to her father to continue her education since legally it couldn't be given to her. Eventually it was found out that they were putting pressure on her because of her "celebrity status" so she wasn't going to school much anymore. Her father was witholding her money, and used it to buy himself more wives like a fucking d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 03:14 PM
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You know what sucks is that guys can be like that in the beginning and give it a few years and the relationship gets stale and it isn't like that anymore. That may be a different issue entirely though, more like a "we" thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 04:05 AM
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