desertstroller Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	She cheated she wants divorce Get an attorney, stat!	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/20 02:35 PM
1	Can life still be normal and enjoyable after divorce with kids? Think about how they will remember you when they reach child-bearing age. Act accordingly.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/20 06:54 PM
1	How to proceed? You have to get an attorney. It's not what you know that's going to screw you over, it's what you don't know.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/20 03:40 PM
5	Careful what you ask for. Too bad about your dog. No relationship to your situation.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/20 11:40 PM
1	What exactly is fair (the opposite of "divorce raped")? Outline your situation on paper. Go to an attorney. File the papers. The court will decide according to the laws of the jurisdiction. He's a controlling bastard.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/20 03:45 PM
0	A little help with perspective Get an attorney. Joint accounts are now yours alone. Lay off the blame game. Eat healthy. Exercise. All things go through your attorney, including emails both directions. Get counseling. Good luck!	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/20 04:50 AM
3	Just had to email my stbxw Copy your attorney on all communications, both ways. Exercise. Eat healthy.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/20 04:39 AM
7	NEED HELP - Wife cheated Document everything. An attorney is needed. File preemptively. Get the upper hand. If you have joint accounts, repurpose them for just your use. Avoid doing anything that will come back and bite you. You're pissed, upset, and this is no time to seek revenge. That can come later. Take care of number 1.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/20 07:10 PM
6	My ex wife is crazy and I dont know what to do? Certifiable. Document. Contact an attorney.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/20 10:33 PM
3	I’m going to file tomorrow morning. The shit storm will begin. Stay the course.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/20 04:54 PM
2	Need a male perspective on my on divorce It's over. Move on. Keep doing what you're doing. Log the juvenile behavior in a journal.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/20 08:03 PM
5	Communicating with ex-wife Don't ask questions. Just be declarative and send the effin' cancelled check copies. Log the action.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/20 03:45 AM
2	Is it worth staying with an abusive SO for the sake of a kid? NEVER!	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/20 03:35 AM
5	Signing my divorce paperwork. Feeling conflicted. How did it make you feel? Yes, it's like breaking your vows. Admitting failure. But, as long as you tried, find some new activities.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/20 07:37 PM
1	Control the narrative. Perfect!	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/19 06:42 PM
8	When will this feeling ever go It will and does get better. Physical exercise can help mitigate the worry and anxiety.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/19 10:26 PM
1	Could use a bit of advice Hire an attorney.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/12/19 04:28 PM
3	wife begging me to stay Get an attorney.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/10/19 04:16 AM
1	I wrote this 2 minute song about my divorce. It's free :) Stay strong brothers It's got a good beat, easy to dance to....	/r/Divorce_Men	21/10/19 03:16 PM
1	If I file on her, do I really ever have to give a detailed reason? See if there's a chapter nearby of Equal Rights for Divorced Fathers, or similar names. I used them years ago. Inexpensive, super helpful. It's what you don't know that will stick it to you. Group meetings, ask attorneys questions. Back then it $5/meeting. But that was 30 years ago. Still, best information I obtained. 50/50 down the middle for child support, medical, dental, etc. Leave no stone unturned and nothing more than 50%.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/10/19 09:24 PM
4	Need advice before filing tomorrow. Do it! Put them on the defensive.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/10/19 12:54 AM