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I'm traveling at the moment so I have a good number of failed attempts for the few successes I've had. We saw a small group of HB7/8 girls dressed up at the bar, they were in different coloured wigs and whatnot, just out having a good time, I stuck up a conversation with one in a black wig, then playfully try to convince the girls I was a professional escort - they love it when I ask them for a tip for the conversation! I stick with this persona for it's comical value.. Find out the girls are al…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/13 06:19 PM
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Hard to determine exact sluttiness because it's a plea for plausible deniability from a known negative trait... a good last fitness test that needs to have been prepared for and tackled with more than a single sentence. She wants to maintain the illusion of not being associated with 'easy'. Be really <something> while executing your fool proof plan to allow for plausible deniability to her friends and herself... separate her at the right times, gain friends (or others) sub-conscious approval of …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 07:04 AM
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Hard to determine exact sluttiness because it's a plea for plausible deniability from a known negative trait... a good last fitness test that needs to have been prepared for and tackled with more than a single sentence. She wants to maintain the illusion of not being associated with 'easy'. Be really <something> while executing your fool proof plan to allow for plausible deniability to her friends and herself... separate her at the right times, gain friends (or others) sub-conscious approval of …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 07:04 AM
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Language only gets us so far in conveying meaning because we all associate different experiences with a term. I think the no bullshit definition is allowing the collection of ongoing happy emotions associated with someone to remain untamed, later rationalising them as reason for allowing infinite influence since the happy thoughts are addictive and usually tied to someone's continued presence/behaviour. Love can exist if its illusion is never broken, a break involves experiencing a situation whi…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/13 10:54 PM
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Her real name is Olivia Cockburn, and I'm sure she burnt her way through a few - having status built on beauty must also make it hard to see the wall, but I'm sure it's there. Regular women taking this advice will become less desirable than the younger alternatives for men expecting LTR/kids/loyalty. Beta men, as unaware as they are, won't be attracted to entitled, slutty, older looking birds.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 09:09 PM
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Would serve as a good start to a myth busting section.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 04:20 PM
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I'm okay for the repetitive ah-ha moment style posts so long as it's accurate... I believe it is somewhat needed to remind us and the newbies that have to fight battles every day and considering not everything is going to be breakthrough red pill data presented nicely. I can remember my experience trying to swallow TRP: Sitting down for lunch somewhere when one of my then favourite blue-pill songs came on the radio (songs are the worst, literally designed to drill into your head by way of least …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 03:22 AM
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I now see and agree to OP's interpretation... However, I was a well-functioning drone when I first saw it and unfortunately the main message received by most non-critical thinkers is that love is the be all and end all and you should chase it with the tenacity that this guy did because it will set you free...
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 04:06 PM
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Why not do drive-by pregnancies if that's your goal because it's objectively the same thing... hear me out. Can you expect loyalty from someone (a child, dog, friend, partner) who is heavily controlled by someone else (ex-wife, owner, father, etc) who you don't have much influence over? ... NO So what you want all hinges on the influence you have over the person with authority over person you want a relationship with. In order to continue that primary relationship the authority, although capable…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 03:43 PM
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Would you build the best castle in the world and let a trojan horse in? I keep the keep the gates closed and occasionally, with my full knowledge, allow a limited number of enemy scouts in to scope around and confirm how impenetrable the rest of my defenses are, they don't know that I planned their entry, and I allow them to leave unscathed to report back that all defenses are operational and for the queen of the sister city to maintain the current diplomatic climate of submissive allegiance.
/r/askTRP08/08/13 04:46 AM
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You've got to go down deeper to destroy the cause of all this and build up again with foundations based on truth about who you are or who anybody is. Use meditation or time away from your current destructive activities because all they have done so far is produce who you are now. drastic change, focus, and introspection about why you hold each emotion is needed. I've been there, hard, so feel free to ask away, I think it comes down to being confident enough in your ability to analyze a social si…
/r/askTRP08/08/13 04:27 AM
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Mixing the sexes of the contributors muddies the water too much, male and female thought processes differs greatly, the extent of which being societal or biological difference is irrelevant. Anyone is free to absorb the information but we want contributions to be as accurate and logically soluble into an impressionable males mind as possible. It's historically proven to be much clearer if everything is designed by men for men as that correlates strongly with the current genders of reputable sour…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 03:18 PM
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I have never seen a composed feminist making logical points or counter points which leads me to believe it's all about continually grabbing unwarranted attention and power where ever they can get it.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 02:52 PM
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Because it's a very common thing for people who are "infertile" to still be able to conceive a child through very slim chances and miracles. Obviously if she cheated, yea fuck her. Found this well liked comment, is it just me or is it completely contradictory to say births can be 'very common' for infertile men while describing it as a 'slim chance miracle' in the same sentence... This person leaves no room for the fact that infertile might actually mean infertile. Upvotes are loosing value in s…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 02:09 PM
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the permalink to just the comment What got me was how he so eloquently described how the now powerful feminists relinquishing all their prior gender responsibilities effectively enhances the mans expected gender responsibilities both legally and socially, leaving no acceptable outlet to discuss the issues affecting men.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 04:06 AM
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He needs to realise that all emotions need to be understood and controlled even shame of guilt, find out exactly where the feeling comes from and weigh up whether it's worth feeling guilt because something you do falls outside of what someone once told you what is right and wrong.
/r/askTRP06/08/13 04:15 PM
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chivalry stops when it is used unfairly to extract more expected value of you - controlling this shows that you decide your level of affection. 180's are possible, but the amount of power there is in the ability to walk away and reject her has very large affect on her willingness to control the situation in her favour at the expense of your happiness. If you're not willing to threaten and carry out the walk then it's easy to see it's just a bluff. shit tests are loaded questions/premises that yo…
/r/askTRP06/08/13 02:38 AM
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"why do we fall bruce?... so we can learn to pick ourselves up." Make mistakes, make many many mistakes, especially when the consequences are only learning how not to do it. On the next encounter, take the lead a little bit, have a somewhat flexible plan with multiple options... mention coffee but plan for: coffee + walk in the park or coffee + movie, based on the situation (weather, social ques) Always aim to have a good time talking and never let her think negatively of you, the cringe moments…
/r/askTRP06/08/13 02:20 AM
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I'm not a huge fan of the chase, so any heavy signs of resistance after interest has already been shown tells me she is just after more attention which isn't that attractive to me, keep her around to flirt with her friends in front of her - change the dynamic into her qualifying to you or move on.
/r/askTRP06/08/13 01:53 AM
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Aim for the number, don't communicate too much over email cos that's like pen pals... It's not like we can just write down a few sentences that you read and you become socially brilliant. You have to get out there and see what it takes, trial and error, develop your interactions based on your interpretation of social ques.
/r/askTRP06/08/13 01:41 AM
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I'll take a stab, It's a natural attraction sweet spot, an easy to understand representation of the level of mental ability that shows natural ability, dedication and importantly, the controlled expression of a truth/vulnerability the artist has experienced in a way that resonates well with people. Art aims to invoke emotions and thought in others and that is an ambitious act which is a measure of status.
/r/askTRP06/08/13 01:29 AM
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Now they just have to put that same watermark in all mirrors to discourage girls from looking unrealistic with makeup. Oh wait, they sell real beauty enhancers in the form of makeup.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 12:41 AM
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She can shit test you all day knowing she has a monopoly on the superior vagina - she will be mentally rewarding herself with her own thoughts of success when you fail shit tests. My advice would be - don't let her reward herself for her own bad behaviour because as that would be like incentivising it. Fap away but you have to control your desperate thoughts that break your frame. Break down your frustration and put it directly into her calculated punishment for putting shit on you at the time o…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 04:14 PM
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I noticed that oneitis can happen at any time and completely clouds your judgement, I went out drinking with friends who were standing around only focusing on approaching one or two good looking girls (which they never did) and I found myself saying, "there is no target, every reasonable hole's a goal!" basic reminder not to get caught up trying to force a situation, make your own situation and merge into others where appropriate, and if it appears to happen naturally it'll be more authentic.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 03:43 PM
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I don't see any real advantage to dating red pill women who are either passively very aware of the ideas or actively using them in other areas. I see them as the type who can understand the principals of value and control in relationships well and so could too easily use that information to their advantage at a time of their choosing... I don't enjoy the threat of being regularly challenged and/or manipulated by a well trained person I only really want to sleep with and remain loyal. Case in Poi…
/r/askTRP04/08/13 07:23 PM
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RP deals with understanding points of control, you lost some control by loosing your license (maintaining expectation of attraction) and letting someone else turn your gf against you (her respect for you was less than the friend). You are best to realize all the points of control that people find valuable in the world and navigate them to extract the value you are after.
/r/askTRP04/08/13 06:52 PM
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So what do you choose? Repression? I see love as a social construct to extend lust, so I repress love and feel it's necessary to do so like fixing my computer desk posture. Guilt? don't be overly misleading and things will be manageable. Loneliness? unfulfilling/unemotional sex is lonely? it's ironic that not being emotionally attached to sex actually gets you more sex. Loneliness is easy to deal with since i've noticed that all other relationships have ended up turning into unemotional sex. Foo…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 05:57 PM
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They are basically qualifiers to determine her level of control over you, which should quickly show her if you are some bitchnigga spewing out false-confidence that can be broken easily... She tests in many ways to see if you could easily be swindled out of value or confidence, it's a win-win filtering approach. I think you will get a good idea from other people what some direct examples are... but most are 'loaded questions' or loaded premises for arguments, they are mostly illogical if you bel…
/r/askTRP03/08/13 02:14 AM
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She has named her son 'hunter', the most masculine name in existence, and wants to make him into a passive-carer for her side-project. She never touches on her premise of toxic masculinity outside of declaring it has led to men who are depressed and lonely, with a disconnected portrayal of masculinity. Baseless feminist propaganda and a reminder that many 'education' practitioners like teachers, psychologists and psychiatrists all have bias towards key issues.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 03:59 PM
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I came across one of these pretty-face hamplanets earlier this week, I got the feeling they believe their face, hair and bubbly personality should be the only factor in being found sexually appealing, ignoring all other points men outwardly admit they use to gauge attraction. If the front of the car is nicely painted and the back end is the rusty remains of a destruction derby limo, listing it as a full-price sedan online using only front-on images is false advertising.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 03:06 PM
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The main reason is because like most men you struggle to find a logical personal reason for it, as your only incentive to even look or a reason against it is to stop the shitstorm of shame coming from her and her friends for commitment. You needed to nip this in the butt a long time ago so the idea didn't grow to epic proportions. Now you might have trouble getting her to willingly accept she's not going to Disney land with her friends. The act of signing something that is easily voided adds lit…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 02:07 PM
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why beta behavior is currently rewarded and cultivated Because people who while in their impressionable beta state have been led to believe their cause is the most rewarding, noble and productive to society. Any alternative to their supposedly fair and equal ideals are taken for promoting anarchist-type behaviour where 'might is right' turning us all back towards medieval-like times.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 05:04 AM
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Apparently the countless role-play jokes calling for nurse outfits don't get heard in the library.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 11:23 PM
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Don't let this slide or show how it affects you, situation needs more information before it can be said to be entirely innocent though. Plan something easy for her to decline(or do) for the same time and offhandedly ask if she is available? If she says no, probe and gauge her reaction, should tell you how devoted to the cause she is... also worth a follow up/interruption call during the event just to get some realtime information.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 10:46 PM
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when everything you are absorbing from the media, and society as a whole, is so blatantly against what actually makes a man... how can you blame a generation for not realizing what it takes? These days 'distraction' entertainment has a feedback loop of positive emotions and values. New pieces of pop art must attach themselves to existing themes to get accepted and this means slightly offensive values have to remain well hidden. Positively charged values get over-represented because that's where …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 10:04 PM
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Very dense discussion around the moral and monetary values involved in polygamy throughout the ages. Contrasts that with what happens in monogamy and gives several theories for how our species supposedly transitioned from the former into the latter when we had to consider resource and educational abundance in a growing society. It's definitely worth a listen.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 02:13 AM
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Learning when to "pay it forward" is a red pill teaching to do with value and control. Looks like you got it down pat but anyone who buys what you are selling will likely not be that red pill. DIY mate, more rewarding and less bias.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 01:40 AM
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tl;dr Loyalty needs maintenance. Boundaries are crucial for respect. Most women are not taught boundaries, modern life incentivizes no boundaries for them, disincentivize certain area's for everyone's benefit. Even in symbiotic mutualistic relationships there are subjective points where one partner has more to do/gain/loose but at the end of the day they have evolved to work really well together provided the right level of input.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 01:19 AM
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This sentence will hurt me when I finally run for office but, there is no real need to date ugly chicks long term because they can't fulfill the man's main needs for a LTR relationship... needs are: a definite social status symbol and unquestionable respect through the choice of mate. this one is playing on the mind of the listener and so should only be a practice chick that no one should be make effort to come and see - he should get himself a game day chick as he is ready.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 12:54 AM
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finding an LTR with TRP. Are any of the girls you've seen/dated before been LTR worthy in your eyes? They can't all have been dumb sluts unworthy for LTRs... Or could they... Have any of your friends gf's been worthy of LTR, what is their story? Also I'm trying to find an intelligent women You want a power drill that converts into a magic blender for smoothies too? you might have to get something custom made and spend effort making sure it always does both well... What will she use her intellige…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 12:41 AM
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+1 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4YAL20UVvjY In its audio book form or just search youtube for "iron john 1of"
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 12:24 AM
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Illusionary power... you certainly have that part down pat, you might be a little bit red pill (by your own definition)
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 10:55 PM
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Lying is a complete necessity in many aspects of PC culture, most important aspects are concealment and deflection which need to be used regularly, others like pure falsification have a short shelf life and high volatility so use rarely and for good reason. Be honest with yourself about the need for lying and weigh up the pros and cons for each scenario, aint no one got anywhere being 100% honest.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 10:45 PM
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It doesn't have to be a long term relationship, or one that goes in any direction away from what you want but I'm just saying I keep certain girls around because they provide me with content not of my own choosing which I can analyze and have learnt to appreciate. e.g. seeing this new girl and she let me in on all her supposed power plays that she has between so called friendship group, she explains how/why she plans them, her justification etc it like a glimpse into a reality show where you're …
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 10:25 PM
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Anyone can be beneficial to your life in certain doses so long as you accept that you shouldn't always aim to have predictably pleasant experiences. Sometimes it's those other seeming less pleasant and unexpected experiences that create the random subconscious life lessons which could help you understand a concept many years down the track. There is always something more to learn and if you think women can't teach you anything about life or people or yourself then you may be at risk of wanting t…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 10:06 PM
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this may be the only outlet existing today that allows for shamefree criticism/understanding of people, and in most cases guys are referring to their former selves as overly beta, which is just a part of their own path to acceptance of themselves and the change they have begun. Most guys here have come to this conclusion by way of harsh lessons they weren't properly prepared to receive, all stemming from a lack of a strong male figure to learn from or confide in and so they crowdsource some of t…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 02:56 AM
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haha the concept of practice dinner - I'm using that. I take all advertising with a grain of shame-salt so while this may reflect the times it may also just be an effect of high masculinity that used to be prevalent in those times - "If your man is really a man, prove it by buying/doing/suggesting this"
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 10:55 PM
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Correct, not showing immense interest in a girl while being playful with her will build attraction. It just seems like other people put a dampener on your night, and you were being too nice (I don't mind paying for a simple round between friends but when it becomes expected then they are just taking the piss)... Ben even pushes her at one point and storms off. This guy that drunkenly drives away after a heated argument with his gf needs to realize that some girls aren't worth the hassle. You foc…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 10:38 PM
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I love your insert-favourite-sexual-feature I don't say I love you because I'm still in control of my emotions... I'm not some dumb arse baddy in an action movie who leaves the barrels of fuel stored next to the rockets... leaving it wide open to one ricochet or flung cigarette to blow it up. No, I lock that shit away separately and use it to fly my fleet of helicopters where ever I want to go.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 04:27 PM
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Everyone is a salesman for their own values, morals and beliefs (however they are obtained). An alternate view or even an additional aspect to a view about a theory is usually welcome to a theorist, however most of the time NAWALT sayers are completely disagreeing with your main pattern recognition and subtly requesting you allow for the entry of a tiny function that should have super user access to destroy all the other sub-theories. NAWALT and TheRedPill are currently opposing theories, so you…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 04:12 PM
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Paraphrasing a user's story I read here recently: Two women are sitting at a table discussing slutty behaviour and one girl asks "how long should I wait before having sex with a guy?" before her friend can answer, our RP user interrupts the conversation and says "The question you should be asking is - why should he stay after he's had sex?"
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 03:24 PM
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The wikipedia entry explains it well http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dadagiri#Controversy "In an episode of Dadagiri: Beat the Bullies, the actress playing the role of "Esha, the Goddess" slapped a contestant, Ravi Bhatia, in the face after instigating a brief, antagonistic verbal exchange. In response he slapped her, and then kept saying 'How can she slap?". This resulted in the male host (and several other members of the crew) attacking Bhatia, with the crew appearing to be slow in breaking them …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 03:09 PM
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Every word is true, good advice for any LTR - I wish i would have been so wise to absorb this about 1 year ago... Pass the shit tests on her time (but if it takes too long, she might not be worth your time), use subtle dread (in their eyes)... there is rarely equal power distribution in relationships, you have to be ready and willing to show you still have it when they indirectly ask to see it. My TRP success story is that I was in this very similar situation described above and with this advice…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 04:07 AM
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The guys who don't care about the cock carousel because they are the carousel. good one. But you haven't really accepted it. This world could be anything, it is what it is today because some people made it that way either by control or unintended consequence (we'll never know the extent of which)... To keep with the matrix theme of red pill - you could be a battery in a tube used for energy by some higher power if that supreme power really wanted to control you. You have to accept, and be gratef…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 03:17 AM
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"ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhcadscjasjcdokakekekekekkkkk!!!" Who the fucks wants to go to the lake with the 11 year old who didn't get the toy from walmart.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 02:41 AM
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No source was given but upon further inspection you are right my good sir.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 02:09 PM
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Give me your worst, I'll take it constructively. What makes your desire not to have sex more worthy than the mans desire to have sex? About the moral high ground you hold... I watched a show today that touched on ethical compromise in politics and a great quote from Malcolm Turnbull of Gough Whitlam's was that 'There are none so pure as the impotent.'. It basically means you can either stand in isolation with your morals and never get anything done, or come to a compromise on aspects of your cor…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 05:14 AM
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The love women request is the type where she wants you to lose control of your emotions towards her so she can fully test her influence on you. But it's not actually what they want. Think of it like a game, it can be very alluring to get those achievements of influence you know you want, but boring for the player if it comes too easily and with no story behind it all. Be the hard, entertaining, interesting, time consuming adaptive UI in the game... and you will have taught the player something a…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 02:01 AM
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"to manipulate fear in others, you must first master your own." - Ra's al Ghul fear can be replaced with pretty much any instinct or emotion like shame, validation, affection, praise, incentives.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 09:11 PM
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she openly said to my face that she would have sex with me if I was fit and muscular dude, don't fall too deep into this trap, if she likes you, for who you are, you like her for who she is (and she is around), then fuck or be friends or what ever makes you both happy. But she's moving, so there is no need to become long distance validation for her, as proximity is obvious an important factor in every relationship, do tell her to make plans to come visit though if that's what you want, and if yo…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 04:42 PM
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