So I've been a TRP lurker for a while, but never had much chance to experiment with it since having a long time girlfriend (only 18 months but I am 18 years old).

I began shutting down her shit tests a few months back, and had a really really good time with her. She was submissive and really loving, moreso than ever before in the relationship. Also our sex life somehow got better and she enjoyed it more and more.

Until a mutual 'friend' (my gf's best friend who i loathe - we shall call the best friend Sam and my girl Nat) returned from university and began fucking things up.

This girl attempted to break us up about a year ago, tried to get one of her friends to date her. Succeeded, kinda, when her meddling got the best of us, and I had to deal with the fallout and attempt to repair the relationship. She lied about being raped. She drinks to excess every time she has an excuse, with Nat ending up looking after her. She is a spoilt brat and daddys little girl who, quote, said "Jobs are for people with money problems".

Recently, she brought my girlfriends ex-bf to night out we go to, never said anything to me. Then Sams been taking Nat on nights out that she can't afford, paying for nothing and making Nat skint in the process. This had a knock on effect, Nat has been working more, and seeing me less. Not having a car means I can't quickly meet up with Nat - but Sam can, shes got a car, and a whipped ass boyfriend that will drive if she cant be arsed.

To be honest, I don't know the reason Nat is still friends with Sam. There is a reason, it's something Nat has spoke of but never about. She probably will never tell me, and that's fair enough.

Now, cut to last week, I got my car impounded. I have a provisional licence and I got caught driving it. Got it back now, but I have a court date and I am facing a driving ban. This is a monumental fuckup and I don't think I've done it this bad before.

Nat went crazy.

Broke up with me the second I told her, reeled out a list of insults about me being selfish, ungrateful, never think, a spoilt brat, shes ashamed, neglect my responsibilites, that she feels like a babysitter, stupid, reckless... the list goes on.

All out of nowhere after this...

I tried to damage control, "gonna leave you to calm down and talk later ok x"

Left it over 24hours, no contact, but she came and picked up her stuff.

Sam's been spending more and more time with her over the past week, and I don't know if I can repair this one. I thought this was just a shit test but it came out of nowhere... I thought I had this on lockdown.

What do, /r/askTRP ?