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dandsed/r/seduction25/11/12 10:49 PM
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TL;DR I was basically kicked out of the military because I can't have pictures of half naked women in my own personal space, It's too offensive. Was it because of the mormons? Sounds like this video where they have to get rid of their porno because they were offended
/r/becomeaman02/07/14 07:30 AM
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Yes, that certainly answered my question and it's more helpful than you know. I going down the same road you did when you were 21-22, and I am also a 5'7'' Asian. I have a couple more questions: How different were your success rates with Asian girls compared to white/hispanic/black girls? I have the unfortunate problem of being an Asian male that is not generally attracted to Asian females. Would you do it all over again if you time traveled to your 21 year old self? Any other misc advice would …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 05:00 AM
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You should try L-Theanine with cannabis. It's fantastic.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 04:35 AM
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I looked through your post history and found this: I will warn you as well then. Guys who date a lot become numb to girls - to all girls. You may think you're waiting for your special one and that she is out there somewhere, but she isn't. And it isn't because of your high standards but because a huge component in our idea of a 'perfect girl' comes with the idea that she should make you feel fireworks. But when you meet her, you won't feel those fireworks because you've broken the thing in your …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 03:50 AM
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So, you're saying we should purposely pause for 4 seconds after some girl says something? Because I see that likely backfiring when the girl hamsters that you're the awkward one.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 09:02 PM
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90% of the Asian girls I know are dating other Asian guys. That beside, the vast majority of the time I meet other Asian guys, they act extremely beta. This is why they have such a disadvantage outside of their race. All of my Asian friends rarely if ever approach a girl on their own and, when they do, it's another Asian girl.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 08:21 PM
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Nah, I'd rather not marry at all.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 08:40 PM
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Also good for weeding out women who are only good for a quick lay. The fact that the internet is around and people still fall for this shit blows my mind. I will be learning how to do tarot cards now, good suggestion OP.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/13 05:14 AM
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Women should never be allowed to come between guys, it's up to men to realise that. That's not the way the real world works. It's called filtering yourself for your own self benefit. Why should you be expected to change your game for some bitch that he considers to be special? Because you'll lose your male friends. If these bitches aren't special like you say, why risk losing friends over them? Very few men have a redpill mindset or can be swayed into having one. Unfortunately, that means you ha…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 01:29 PM
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Just from reading the description, I bet watching this video will make me mentally regress a little. No thanks.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/13 07:49 PM
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Clubs have been doing this forever though. Free entry if you have a vagina.
/r/MensRights08/09/13 05:10 PM
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OP needs to work on his "not coming across as a douchebag" skills but he might have something here. Let's get past the ad hominem attacks on OP. I'd rather see people finding proof that what he's saying is wrong. The wording on the theorem needs a lot of work but the two premises make sense.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/13 04:22 PM
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For me, I can't get past the fact that the escort is probably pretending to enjoy my company. With other girls, I get off on knowing that I played myself into their pants.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/13 11:36 AM
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OP was going for the drive-by compliment so he couldn't really compliment her on her brains. For a compliment opener, looking for an accessory (necklace, wristband, ring, etc) is usually your best bet IMO. I do agree with what you said though.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/13 04:00 AM
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I never barged in on him crying. I just listened from outside of the door. This kind of does effect me because he could be suicidal and then he'd kill himself. I can't take care of an entire house and myself. If he killed himself... who would take care of the house?!
/r/TheRedPill31/08/13 01:32 PM
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I put this in my bookmarks. I'll get back to you in 5-6 months when I actually get around to reading it.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 11:36 PM
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OP is that classic guy that won't admit he has feelings for a girl - meanwhile he desperately vies for her attention via text but rationalizes his actions as "just fucking with her."
/r/askTRP07/08/13 11:34 PM
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Yep. Also, there's a difference between an "I'm friendly" smile and a "I'm better than you" smirk.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 06:07 PM
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Did you actually get your test levels checked between these periods? If not, your symptoms sound more like mania/hypomania to me. Lots of energy for a few months and then boom it's all gone.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 08:59 PM
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I thought I had this on lockdown. You were wrong. Let's be honest about what happened here, Nat was already looking to swing to a different branch. Sam merely provided the opportunity. If Nat was still into you, there's no way a friend can talk her into breaking up with you. She would hamster out reasons why she wants to stay with you. Since she came to pick up her stuff, I'm afraid it's game over. She's probably sitting on another cock as we speak.
/r/askTRP03/08/13 03:11 PM
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Personally, I wouldn't have focused so much on getting laid from the get go. Entered my freshman year going to parties for the sole purpose of bringing a girl home. This meant I was that guy who wasn't having fun unless I was talking to a girl. I should've focused on meeting friends first.
/r/askTRP02/08/13 11:12 PM
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you overstay your welcome thinking you'll salvage it Still a learning experience because you won't know when you have overstayed your welcome until you have done it a few times.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 08:41 PM
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I have read material suggesting that pedophilia cannot be "fixed". I'll believe it when they show proof for it. There is fairly concrete proof that all people are somewhere along a continuum of exclusive homosexuality/exclusive heterosexuality. Meanwhile, pedophilia is strongly correlated with childhood abuse, lower IQ, and childhood head trauma. Homosexuality is not. This leads me to believe that pedophilia is a mental disorder.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 04:44 AM
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I'm surprised nobody mentioned the obvious self-selection bias that makes this thread useless to proving OP's so called "theory". But yeah, I'm a 2nd year Biochem student.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 07:23 PM
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With a combination of flexing + good lighting + pump from recent workout, it is definitely possible. It's still impressive progress though.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 01:33 AM
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-SSRI_sexual_dysfunction There are physiological changes while on SSRIs... Changes include reduced hypothalamic-pituitary-testis axis (HPTA) function, decreased testosterone levels, reduced sperm counts, which showed marked improvement after discontinuation and reduced semen quality with damaged sperm DNA, which is reversible after discontinuation.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 07:08 PM
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BUT I wonder if this is worth continuing because "She doesn't know what she wants" regarding being my girlfriend or not. Hold on while I go ring the Shit Test Alert™.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 04:43 AM
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He's being snarky. The cube is a conversation "routine" that someone came up with in /r/seduction
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 04:18 AM
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Why not got to your doctor and tell him to ween you off anti-depressants? Do it ASAP. SSRIs demolish your testosterone levels. SSRIs are helpful for some people but since you complained about it twice in one post, it's clearly not working out for you.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 04:08 AM
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Deep soul-bond? Explain what you mean by that because it sounds like you are talking about some fantasy idea that only happens in Disney movies. Karezza can be very fun, but don't buy into all the mystical chi ideas behind it. The taoist sexual practices are outdated explanations for the phenomena that a man feels when he goes several weeks without cumming. I.E. you start to feel horny and energetic (debatable) and the Taoists falsely attributed it to getting Chi energy out of the woman's vagina…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 12:24 AM
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According to this graph, attractiveness is more important to females than to males. The fuck?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 11:48 PM
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Inferior beings... I chuckled. My thoughts are that you should be more tactful with the way you explain things. /r/thebluepill just creamed their pants when they opened this thread. Women are not inferior beings - they are just different from men. More or less, I take Carl Sagan's perspective on things. Things just are. Men are men and women are women. Superiority is completely subjective. Imagine if every woman drops dead tomorrow and you had to live in a perpetual sausage fest for the rest of …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 10:58 PM
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Guys jerking off are more common How do people on the subway react to this? Is it anything like Dave Chappelle's reenactment?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 04:59 PM
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Maybe just make up a hypothetical example so i can better handle situations that go south really quick. You win the battle by not reacting to the situation going south. And I don't mean looking like you are not reacting - instead, I mean literally not having an internal emotional response. Donaldfuck likes to to knock them down a peg by smiling at them, but my preferred response is to walk away without giving a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 06:21 AM
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Never ever admit that you have a mental disorder to acquaintances. Some people in this world relish in the suffering of others, it is as simple as that. They search for targets and being an Aspie made you an easy target in their eyes. I'm sorry to say, but there is nothing you can do to make them stop at this point. You just have to tough out the next few weeks. Report everyone to corporate HR before you leave and cross your fingers that justice will be served. Even if nothing happens right away…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/13 05:55 AM
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I actually like water and I drink about 3 gallons a day. Jesus dude. I struggle even drinking one gallon. Doesn't that much water make you feel bloated all day?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 11:15 PM
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though the women were more likely than the men to work in medicine I wonder if this still holds true if nurses are excluded.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 11:08 PM
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Aww yeah. All the cock gobbling skills with none of the fat.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/13 01:07 AM
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You should post that ad and tell us what replies you get.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 08:29 PM
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I like this guy.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 07:13 PM
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After hanging out with these girls, do you go home and fap using your tears as lube because you couldn't bang them? If no, then no you don't have to "break up" with them. That's ridiculous. Take advantage of your friendships by networking (meeting new girls) through them.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 03:50 AM
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and she tried to turn me into an orbiter. Girls don't "try" to turn you into an orbiter. You make yourself one when you put her on the pedestal and perpetually fail shit tests. I've found that they secretly resent most of their orbiters but still keep them around for the confidence boost. What should I do between now and college to become as alpha as possible before hitting campus? If all you have is one and a half month before college, the best you can manage is start screening your day to day …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/13 11:53 PM
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This height one is surprising. The number of sex partners for guys who are 5'4'' and 6'0'' are about 8 and 10 respectively. I was expecting a bigger gap.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 08:23 PM
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that it seriously threatens womens place in any given mans life, as optional. Sounds about right to me. The more advanced porn gets, the less males will feel the need to chase after women. Thousands of years ago, cave wall porn could only satisfy a dude for one day max before he felt the need to chase after real women. 50 years ago, VHS porn (since you had to buy them at a store) could satisfy a guy for a couple months. Now, internet porn (instant novelty in seconds) can satisfy a guy for a few …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 10:29 PM
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was told you have to have already had at least 2 kids in order to qualify for the procedure. That's up to the doctor.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 08:40 PM
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Sometimes I have to hold myself back from slapping it out of their hands when it happens.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 05:17 AM
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During one class meet, I felt I had a little rapport built when I let her know there was a spot on her pants where she must have sat on something. She was greatly appreciative and expressed that her car was dirty because of her 2 year old. Ding! Knowing women with kids gives me a common ground to start a conversation. I don’t escalate this conversation That's barely even rapport. Women have small talks like this with guys all the time. If you waited weeks after that, she probably barely remember…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 02:51 AM
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Post-vasectomy pain syndrome is probably the biggest one. Another study contacted 470 vasectomy patients and received 182 responses, finding that 18.7% of respondents experienced chronic genital pain with 2.2% of respondents experiencing pain that adversely affected quality of life.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 12:02 PM
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The only thing holding me back from a vasectomy is the possibility of RISUG/Vasalgel in the future.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 04:04 PM
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The worst part is that he thinks it is just a "phase".
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 07:07 PM
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Can you upload that doc somewhere for me?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 02:51 AM
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Trust77 sees tattoos as permanent scars while people who actually get tattoos see it as more of a work of art. It's all a matter of perspective. I have no problems with tats but let's be honest, tats are highly correlated with sluttiness.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 03:04 PM
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At least he acknowledged the diminishing returns. I wish I could still enjoy a new game like I did when I was 13 - now, I can only maintain interest for 30 mins tops before I abandon the game completely.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 09:08 PM
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Any alternatives to milk? It makes me break out in acne (which shouldn't be happening because I'm 20).
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 12:50 PM
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How are they downvoting when there is no downvote button?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 01:07 AM
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if she hits you real hard, you hit her real hard back. Sounds great until a bunch of bluepillers start swarming you
/r/TheRedPill19/05/13 07:49 PM
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Casual sex is extremely overrated. You aren't missing out on much. There are so many dudes in college whose main source of self-esteem are based on the number of girls they hookup with and it's great that you aren't like that. However, sex with a girl that you're really into... totally fucking worth it. Don't close yourself out to women because of TRP, there's no feeling like defiling an awesome girl.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 06:31 PM
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Tell us some other examples of you trying out RP theories, it sounds really interesting.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 11:06 PM
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OP, I have done lots of drugs just like you have and I started coming to the same conclusion as well. The only ones I partake in now are cannabis, alcohol, and LSD occasionally. However, LSD has shown me that there is no explicit meaning to life. The only meaning to life is the one you assign it. Calling any action a "worthless pursuit" is 100% subjective. The meaning to my life is achieving short-term and long-term happiness. Getting laid is not a worthless pursuit to me because it makes me hap…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 01:54 PM
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They may say that they "support" her but that's only because they're family. They're disappointed so obviously they disapprove of her actions, but cheating isn't bad enough that they're going to disown a family member for it.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 01:47 PM
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I am so fucking jealous, OP. I will be reading those books you recommended. I've always thought that girls who are into BDSM like that are usually unattractive which holds me back from ever getting into the BDSM community. Where/how did you meet her?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 12:12 PM
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Asians are simply playing the cards they are dealt and are excelling with work ethic. How can you blame them for that? Compare them with other minorities of similar socioeconomic background and you'll find that at least they are contributing back to society significantly.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/13 01:41 AM
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How to achieve everything on the left column: Look good Touch his penis
/r/TheRedPill19/04/13 05:28 PM
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As a guy in a fraternity, I can clear some things up. Sororities/Fraternities are just social groups (although they can be academic as well). Fellow members are called brothers and sisters because the bond between each member is supposed to be as strong as those in a family. Also, it's a tradition. Sigma Nu is most likely their brother fraternity since some fraternities and sororities will pair up and associate with each other. Some fraternities/sororities have rivalries and it is considered bet…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/13 05:22 PM
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Hmm, I thought this was well known knowledge. The ultimate goal of private universities is to make money. They've created a mutually beneficial relationship where they recruit impressive students (as you said) who, over time, bring publicity and money back to the college. As the reputation of the university improves, the privilege of putting that university's name on one's resume also becomes more valuable. This allows the university to become even more selective, allowing them to pick even more…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/13 08:47 AM
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Red pill is about the knowledge imparted, not specifically about "self improvement as a man". Red pill knowledge can be used however a person likes. I think you are misunderstanding zionController's message because he agrees with you that the guy is a dick. And let's be honest with ourselves, the word "alpha" has really lost its meaning recently because everybody is coming up with their own interpretations.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/13 03:32 AM
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Everything you learned that doesn't work with women, usually does work with men. Could you explain this one more?
/r/TheRedPill19/04/13 03:23 AM
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I'm fairly sure you suffered a stroke halfway through your comment.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 02:21 AM
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tl;dr ...beardedness affects judgments of male socio-sexual attributes and suggest that an intermediate level of beardedness is most attractive while full-bearded men may be perceived as better fathers who could protect and invest in offspring.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 09:03 PM
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I don't get it either unless he's talking about males that wear skinny jeans... otherwise, skinny jeans are only second to yoga pants. Mmm...
/r/TheRedPill06/04/13 10:47 PM
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Dime piece = 10/10, bombshells that people stare at upon entering a room.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/13 05:45 AM
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I'm a fellow Asian American red piller and I've been having these thoughts for awhile - this subreddit just put my thoughts into different words. This used to hit home hard for me but I've found that thinking about these statistics brought my confidence down and made it harder for me to approach women. Worse part is that I find other Asian women unattractive so I'm playing the dating scene on hard mode. Over time, I'm starting to feel that being Asian can be advantageous in certain situations - …
/r/TheRedPill01/04/13 12:32 AM
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OP I saw one of your other posts where you said: I hate the fact that women are attracted to me far more when I'm depressed(boned 3 chicks last week) What are you doing while depressed that is getting these women wet? EDIT: Holy shit, I just went through OP's profile and the dude is extremely interesting. He runs a porn site, wrote what I assume is a red pill book on love, and gets laid like no other (assuming he isn't lying). OP, post your picture man. I really need to put a face to your storie…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/13 01:44 AM
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Hold on a minute, I thought obesity rates were still rising? Modern men gearing towards physical fitness is news to me.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/13 01:25 PM
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Looks like I just found modern day Aristotle. Nice.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/13 07:11 PM
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To this end, I, an avid atheist is considering joining a Catholic church as part of my harem strategy. Are you me? I have thought of the same thing. I suggest you look into Raelism. Their beliefs are a little ridiculous even by religious standards but... sex. They have lots of it.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 08:50 PM
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Wow, somebody else that finally gets it. NoFap focuses on porn as the problem and I found their claims suspect. Their theory on dopamine downregulation checks out, but the part about a 90 day recovery did not. Dopamine downregulation from addiction takes at most one week to recover - even after hard drugs like coke. It's not the porn that is the problem, it's the cumming part that destroys motivation. Fuck away, but for the love of god, do not cum. I am practicing kegels and hopefully will one d…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 07:25 AM
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75% of fashion is literally just finding clothes that fit.
/r/seduction26/02/13 03:05 AM
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I'm inclined to agree, but I feel that a generalization can be made no matter what campus this video was taken on. A reasonable "opposite" of a religious campus would be a liberal, party type one - If this video took place on one of those, people would be saying that the girls only put their numbers in the phone because they are sluts/whores/etc.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 03:03 AM
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We're probably just not hearing the full story. In our mind, we're picturing a complete stranger offering his crotch as a seat for this girl. In reality, I bet there was quite a lot of silent flirting - Synzael probably felt the sexual tension escalating (no words need to be said) and knew she'd be up for it.
/r/seduction23/02/13 02:52 AM
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As a person who grew up in poverty... I'm going to take a wild guess and say his ex-wife is addicted to meth as well (probably through V) which is why this guy seems "exciting" to her. I've seen this same pattern way too often.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/13 12:33 PM
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But... but... thumb kissing!
/r/TheRedPill05/02/13 06:41 PM
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I have issues with sleepiness too, somewhat like OP. The only "solution" I have found is taking a long nap (2-4 hours) in the P.M. but it screws up my sleep schedule each time I do it. The reason I can get away with it for now is that I work my university schedule around this but I hope to find a real solution before it's time to get a job.
/r/seduction03/02/13 04:45 AM
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I am 24 years old from BC, Canada. I am tall(6'3), white, overweight(technically obese), and hardcore recovering AFC(pic) As an American, I did not know that Canadians have a vastly different definition of obese.
/r/seduction27/01/13 06:08 AM
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This sums up my thoughts as well. Also, the phrase "This thread is useless without pics" has never been so relevant.
/r/seduction27/01/13 04:15 AM
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I've never personally seen The Bachelorette but I highly suggest not basing reality on what you see on TV. Watch this clip from Charlie Brooker's Screenwipe and you'll see how much context and editing can manipulate the audience's perception. As far as dates are concerned, I believe that depends on what country and culture you live in and you didn't really mention where you live.
/r/seduction27/01/13 03:18 AM
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Appearance is simply a foot in the door and you are making the mistake of thinking that attraction is all about appearance.
/r/seduction27/01/13 01:16 AM
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If I'm understanding what you said right, this girl is a complete stranger? Uhh, yeah, that sounds like a normal response towards an unfamiliar person in the wrong environment. It might have worked if you were on the dance floor/rave/MAYBE a bar. Otherwise, you jumped too far in escalation and that kicks in her natural defense mechanisms.
/r/seduction21/01/13 01:37 AM
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Or, you know, you could just crush the amphetamine and slip it in the enema. Dat water solubility...
/r/TheRedPill16/01/13 05:26 AM
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It's difficult to explain a lot of feelings. I mean, try to logically explain why people get stage fright. It doesn't make a lot of rational sense, but the anxiety is still there. Cheating sucks because it's betrayal. You put your trust in this girl and she fucks you over.
/r/seduction03/01/13 06:41 PM
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(makes you really horny) so I began to dabble in all types of nefarious sexual escapades, mostly with married and/or taken women. I've done some unspeakable things while on speed as well bro. How's your libido now that you've stopped? I think my binge periods have honestly permanently increased my libido.
/r/seduction02/01/13 06:54 AM
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Or you could do the alternative - smoke so much that you have a stonewall tolerance.
/r/seduction27/12/12 11:47 PM
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The most upvoted posts on "goal-oriented" subreddits (such as /r/seduction) are typically overmotivational like you said. On the fitness subreddit, you'll get over the top advice that is also unrealistic for most people and the same can be said for the addiction help subreddits. That's sadly how Reddit works.
/r/seduction27/12/12 10:09 PM
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Truth. Video games are no different from other hobbies - it's just a result of the negative stereotype that gamers play for 10 hours/day and disregard other aspects of life. This sounds like a conversation I'd have with my friend after a few hits from the pipe, ha.
/r/seduction27/12/12 05:23 AM
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No. The movies are a horrible date spot. an hour and a half of her NOT paying attention (=becoming attracted) to you. I suggest a date that has a goal OTHER than her in mind. Some of my successful dates have included: shopping for my halloween costume, buying a new blanket for my bed, visiting a wacky art exhibit that I wanted to see. Your life is exciting, she is just along for the ride. If any high schoolers are reading, this doesn't apply to you. Pretty much all high school "movie" dates = ma…
/r/seduction27/12/12 12:21 AM
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This is pretty much a summary for CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy) and it has a lot of scientific research backing it. Most people will just gloss over this advice because it sounds like BS but it's actually the real deal.
/r/seduction27/12/12 12:12 AM
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Yep. In my experience, they are very unpredictable. You gotta go with vibes and intuition with religious chicks. To make it even more complicated, some girls will just say they are "religious" because it's a label they are used to - but in reality, they don't believe/follow much of the teachings.
/r/seduction27/12/12 12:03 AM
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and the things I do with my saved money (this is currently being written from my room in Thailand as I deal with the jet lag as I wait for my tailor's shop to open up). Gross. Good post, otherwise.
/r/seduction18/12/12 02:07 AM
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But aren't all sitcoms like that? I can't think of any sitcoms off the top of my head that doesn't have some type of repeat formula.
/r/seduction17/12/12 01:16 AM
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Playa still gets thrown around sometimes here but its always a joke. I can't remember the last time somebody has used playa with a straight face.
/r/seduction16/12/12 06:32 AM
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Shit man, I used to do the same thing early in college. Soon you'll feel burned out. I can't fake a personality for long and all the connections I made with people felt superficial.
/r/seduction11/12/12 02:30 AM
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Alcohol, in any form other than wine.
/r/seduction09/12/12 06:08 AM
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Sucks to see "was" there. Ha, I can just imagine you accidentally licking a girl's dingleberry at 18 and losing all attraction for the butthole.
/r/seduction09/12/12 05:54 AM
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I have bookmarked this page. I love this type of scientific approach.
/r/seduction08/12/12 12:32 AM
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Haha, wow. Out of curiosity, how do the girls respond during the times you fucked up? I imagine they just drunkenly slur something about being tired.
/r/seduction08/12/12 12:22 AM
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specific (non-lewd) part of the female anatomy as sexy. The second I saw this, I instantly thought "foot fetish". Am I right, OP?
/r/seduction06/12/12 11:34 PM
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Xanny + Weed usually means I wake up with very few memories of the previous night.
/r/seduction04/12/12 06:56 PM
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Ask yourself realistically, has anybody EVER creeped you out by keeping eye contact with you? And I don't mean people that were already sorta "creepy" to you in the first place. If an awesome chick was making strong eye contact with you, chances are that you'll start getting turned on. Girls feel the same way when you make eye contact with them. P.S. I have a theory that most people that are uncomfortable with eye contact just never had friends that would look them in the eye. I honestly find it…
/r/seduction30/11/12 11:52 PM
6

Maybe she sees what you did as a rejection. Lots of people get bitter about that. Maybe she thinks you're not interested so she is actively ignoring you so that she can take away the feelings she has for you. Maybe her friends told her to act that way because it'll win you back. Maybe she took something you said the wrong way and hates you for that. Maybe she never liked you in the first place and merely saw you as a temporary source of amusement that she has since gotten bored of. There are sev…
/r/seduction30/11/12 01:17 AM
3

Heh. Having done both meth and heroin, I can say that people who take either drugs exaggerate the amount of pleasure that one can get from them. All I can say is that love is an addiction itself and its the only addiction that I keep coming back to.
/r/seduction29/11/12 10:12 PM
5

Agreed. Next, we're going to have threads telling us to hook ourselves up to electrical shock machines. The prevailing logic in this thread is "JUST MAN UP, BRO!"
/r/seduction25/11/12 10:12 PM
2

Yeah... there's a good chance she sent those first two texts herself. Just from personal experience, girls are quick to explain themselves so she would have specified that her friends sent those texts. And when you say she sent those today, do you mean 1:00 A.M. or 1:00 in the afternoon?
/r/seduction25/11/12 05:00 AM
3

Planned times during the day to ask the teacher to "use the restroom" so you two can meet up if you're in different classes. As I typed that out, I just realized how silly it sounds now that I'm older. It was fun as a high schooler though.
/r/seduction25/11/12 04:50 AM
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I'm going to plug in this article I read the other day since it relates to this thread.. Neurally, only high social anxiety participants showed a trend for higher P100 amplitudes to averted gaze and significantly enhanced processing at late latencies (Late positive potential [LPP]), indicative of a specific processing bias for averted gaze. In other words, the fact that you are overthinking their gaze aversion indicates a presence of social anxiety. It's not a big deal and you shouldn't worry ab…
/r/seduction25/11/12 03:42 AM
1

why you feel better when you make a great, healthy meal as compared to eating a big mac. Is it just me, or am I the only one that feels the same whether or not I ate a big mac or a meal that is typically considered healthy? I count calories and lift weights if it matters. A little part of me thinks that the difference in how you feel between the two meals is a result of a placebo. As in you feel ashamed of eating fast food, so you simply don't feel as good.
/r/seduction22/11/12 10:56 PM
2

Personally, I'm almost asexual in that I don't feel immediate sexual attraction to people. It just doesn't happen. I have to actually have feelings for someone before sex is even on the table. I believe the word for this is "demisexual".
/r/seduction20/11/12 10:56 PM
3

Until you are 30-40 years old. You'll age like wine.
/r/seduction16/11/12 02:54 AM
4

Listening to this has just reaffirmed why I will never marry.
/r/seduction11/11/12 03:11 PM
19

Each time I see the a field report end with a blog advertisement, my bullshit radar goes up. I'm sorry if this story is true, but I just feel that you have an incentive to make these stories up to advertise your website.
/r/seduction22/10/12 04:31 PM
1

What would you say your approximate success rate is? For every 50 numbers you get, how many end up with kissing and how many end up with sex?
/r/seduction19/10/12 08:04 PM
3

I look forward to bookmarking all of your posts.
/r/seduction19/10/12 12:08 AM
1

Before I watch, I just saw this in the description: Gestures, facial expressions and body movement compose ninety-three percent of communication. I keep seeing different numbers for this. Is this just some bullshit statistic they are using or is there actual science behind it?
/r/seduction18/10/12 12:12 AM
1

It's a mix between weighing a lot, tolerance, and genetics.
/r/seduction17/10/12 10:58 PM
1

It would help if you posted a picture / atleast post your weight and height.
/r/seduction17/10/12 09:28 PM
7

As someone who still has never upgraded to a smartphone... shhh!!! You don't know how many times I could have saved myself from a shitty situation if I had a phone that could pull up the internet. Plus the number of times that people send me images over text that I can't open... :(
/r/seduction12/10/12 11:37 PM
3

Lmao, I guess I'm the only guy that thinks redheads are fucking cute. Redheads + Dem Freckles = Yes, please.
/r/seduction12/10/12 08:04 PM
1

Er, don't you need a script for cialis?
/r/seduction11/10/12 08:45 PM
2

I am jealous of your patience. If people flake out on me especially on a first hangout, I burn bridges with them ASAP. Fuck people that flake without legitimate excuses...
/r/seduction10/10/12 03:05 AM
1

Post a picture, please.
/r/seduction07/10/12 04:45 PM
2

I'm not genuinely "happy" to see anyone except for my closest friends. Wait, this is not normal?
/r/seduction06/10/12 02:52 PM
47

Hell, is it even an "F-close" to begin with if they've been hanging out for months?
/r/seduction06/10/12 12:05 PM
1

Do you take hot showers? If the glass in your bathroom fogs up, the water is too hot. It dries out your skin and your face compensates by kicking up oil production. That's a problem for a lot of people and they never realize it.
/r/seduction05/10/12 07:16 PM
1

My mind is pretty blown right now. I thought everything the OP did is normal. Add shaving and meditation and my morning routine is the same as OP's (weightlifting and jogging instead of P90x though).
/r/seduction05/10/12 07:05 PM
1

When I turned 20 I realized I was not... normal. I really enjoyed dominating and beating women, always consensually of course. Can you explain this part more? I sometimes get off to BDSM porn but I don't feel like that makes me unnormal. I have found that I enjoy most fetishes that people are into. Are you only able to get off to BDSM? Lastly, was performing BDSM in real life what you expected before you tried it for the first time? It's something that I want to try once but it seems like doing …
/r/seduction03/10/12 01:52 AM
2

Next song she moves in front of me, we start grinding- first time ive ever done that. Fingers locked, crotch to ass, going at it for two songs. Stop, I turn her slightly and grab the k-close. Same reaction as prior- nothing changes, no excitement but no shying away. Another song, try for another kiss, she isn't turning enough to face me, fail. This continues till we thought it ended, she says a word or two to her friends, and leaves. No #, fuck, I forgot her name. Until this though, she was on m…
/r/seduction01/10/12 09:11 AM
2

I joined mostly because my older brother is a member and he pressured me into it. I thought it would be a great opportunity to make some friends so I went ahead and promised him I would join. Note that most fraternities keep their hazing practices a secret because it is illegal. I had NO idea what I was getting into, I thought meetings = sitting around a table talking. Nope. Meetings = getting screamed at/dunked in ice cold water/reciting information/calisthenics from 8P.M. to 5A.M. in the morni…
/r/seduction01/10/12 02:32 AM
4

No, just be straight with him. "Why did you cockblock me and get in between us when you saw us talking?" If he has no real excuse, be firm about him not ever doing it again. If you two are pledge bros, you'll probably be close friends by crossing time anyways if neither of you drop. Bad blood between pledge bros = a shitty class. I don't know if your fraternity hazes but I'll let you in on a little secret... we had to swap bodily fluids on hell weekend while sleep deprived and reciting fraternit…
/r/seduction01/10/12 12:57 AM
3

What exactly did he say when he interrupted you and got in the middle? Honestly, I am impressed by what he did. Seriously though, if he's your pledge bro, you need to call him out on what he did.
/r/seduction01/10/12 12:08 AM
1

Problems that I suspect might fuck this up: Stop worrying. You'll come off as nervous and that's what will fuck you up. None of those things you listed are serious problems at all. "Hi, I'm ____." is probably the pickup line with the highest success rate. I also agree with 2oosra when he says meet other people in the class as well.
/r/seduction30/09/12 10:02 AM
5

I think your plan would take too long and is a bit too vague. When people tell me to message them on Facebook, I think they are being polite/insincere and so I don't get around to doing it. A girl offering to give me her number is a lot more clear about her intentions. Give him your number and then when the cell service problem comes up, send him a message on facebook. Or, you could skip all that, have something lined up and tell him you want him to come with you. "I'm going to Starbucks later t…
/r/seduction30/09/12 08:57 AM
2

I tell racist jokes, sexist jokes, rape jokes, mock religion relentlessly, and say things that everyone else thinks but dare not say. I call them (they're mostly girls) inept, and say that they're assertions are embarrassingly infantile. The only way you can get away with this is if you're actually being funny about it. It's all about the way you pull off the joke and not going too far. Plus, you called yourself witty which leads me to believe you are at least a bit egotistical. Not being a fres…
/r/seduction29/09/12 10:58 PM
5

Just stick with the ice cream shop. Go karts seems like a bit too much for a first date and skeeball has a chance of failing because lots of people find it boring. The alt ice cream shop is a safe option.
/r/seduction29/09/12 10:26 PM
3

Why do I know so many lonely white and tall dudes then?
/r/seduction29/09/12 10:05 PM
8

It's been 3 weeks and not an hour goes by I don't think of her and the guys she's with... why wasn't I good enough for her? What's wrong with me? :( We've all been there, man. You don't need to work on your game right now. You need to relax and take some time off. Don't fall into a pit of self-hate and despair because that shit will eat you up.
/r/seduction29/09/12 05:08 PM
3

Hooking up was literally the last thing on my mind while pledging. OP, I'm not sure if your fraternity hazes but prepare for a fun ride. And by fun, I mean prepare to feel like shit until you cross. P.S. Depending on how many pledge bros you have, one of you guys will probably lose a pin. Getting it replaced is... heh. A lot of work on all of you.
/r/seduction29/09/12 06:37 AM
2

Only problem I'm having is that I feel empty when I'm not in the field. I feel like head is bitching at me non stop, telling me I should be be out chatting to girls when I need to be doing work. I normally go out 2-3 times a week and if I don't I get extremely depressed. Um, yeah, this just SCREAMS, "I need to meditate!" 20 minutes of meditation a day and I promise you will have better control over your negative thoughts. Or, just do the American version of meditation called cognitive behavioral…
/r/seduction28/09/12 12:32 PM
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