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Hello, welcome to redpill. Read the side bar.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 02:59 AM
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There's a reason Nietzsche called women the most dangerous plaything. They are fun to fuck but they are life ruiners, so proceed accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 06:14 PM
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Fuck your feelings and fuck your morals, I'm having sex tonight.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 02:20 AM
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Don't trust. Do you expect a dog to hold a conversation? Then why expect a human not to cheat?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 12:30 AM
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Read the side bar.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 06:28 PM
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Marriage is the best way to ensure this. Marriage doesn't ensure anything except more financial pain for you when the inevitable divorce happens.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 02:34 PM
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I have a good friend who did that, the step father raped his kid and he gets to pay hundreds in child support every month.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 02:27 PM
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You still want to have kids because you haven't internalized the fact that you are much more likely to be removed from their lives by their mother after about seven or eight years, if not sooner. If you persist in the delusion that fatherhood as it historically existed is still a thing it's going to lead you to ruin.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 02:26 PM
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Welding. Construction. Get a high paying job and get out of school. Save money with the high paying job. Yes, it is hard work. That is how you stop being a boy and become a man. Do a job that makes you be manly. You will get yelled at sometimes. You will be called a pussy. Excellent. Do it. Save up money, and then when you're ready to go into law, business administration (from a highly accredited school- don't shortchange yourself. Go big or go bust) or maybe engineering, do that. But don't fuck…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 08:15 PM
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One might also put it this way: Desired for making babies? Alpha. Desired for taking care of an alpha's babies? Beta.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 08:03 PM
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It's easier to think in terms of alpha and beta traits rather than characters. Leads the conversation? Alpha. Cannot lead? Beta. Assertive? Alpha. Passive, or passive aggresive? Beta. Attracts women effortlessly (with self confidence, because he knows there are others who he can fuck if his current interest declines)? Alpha. Focuses all emotional energy and interest on one woman and tries to win her heart with his behavior? Beta. Fuckbuddy? Alpha. Caretaker and provider? Beta. Women fuck men who…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 07:53 PM
1

You actually haven't cut your chances for STDs by that much if your wife cheats on you without protection.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 07:47 PM
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wife monogamy 2016 I've got bad news for you bro...
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 07:31 PM
0

I don't know if I dig that. Sheepdog has connotations of being a loving protector provider type, which is chump behavior.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 06:33 AM
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A real alpha and a "fake alpha" they didn't detect are the same thing. Everybody's beta. Some people just don't let it get in the way of them being alpha.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 04:25 AM
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If you were raised and conditioned to be a beta provider you are always going to be a fake alpha, I think. The important thing is that you don't let yourself get tricked into being a provider you're as real an alpha as you need to be, and then from there you either have game/SMV or not.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 09:21 PM
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TO EVERYONE THAT GOT ANGRY OR UPSET OR ASHAMED READING OP THAT WAS THE INTENTION, geniuses. I'm not the sharpest tool in the shed but even I could detect that this was essentially a motivational post. THIS IS WHAT YOU ARE UP AGAINST when you are attracting women. There are guys who have portraying themselves as flawless down to a science and if you don't wisen up and realize it you are never going to beat them. This is the reality for all of us. You are competing with Chad.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 07:08 PM
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There is no reason for you to be on theredpill then. Got to a MGTOW forum instead.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 06:11 PM
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If he's here he already knows that he fucked up when he got married, no need to rub it in on him.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 11:41 AM
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Attaboy. See you at the iron temple.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 06:29 PM
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It's because your inner beta has died a violent death and you are mourning him. Denial Anger Bargaining Depression <--- You Are Here Acceptance I'll add one more on at the end of this. Elation. Once you've learned to accept that the affection of any woman is essentially fleeting and meaningless , you stop giving a shit about it and it frees you from a ton of psychological weight.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 06:21 PM
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30 year old desperate women are pretty good for a quick pumpndump though.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 09:02 PM
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The women don't see it coming either. That's what makes it so dangerous.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 05:10 PM
2

Not really. Marriage is a stupid risk to take and it instantly puts you in the position of being thwarted; your assets and your children (if you don't get cucked) will constantly be hanging over your head like a Damocles sword. You can have children but you'll have no rights to be with them, whether you're married or not; it's up to the woman you knock up. When she gets bored of you she will remove you from her life and from your kids' lives. Your dream might not be impossible, but it's not reas…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 05:09 PM
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I'm pretty sure that there are surveys that show people on average get a lot less happy when they have kids. It's not worth it, especially since you have no rights to your own children anyway unless you're the mother. Fuck marriage and fuck having kids unless you're cucking some beta bucks.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 01:52 PM
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Women have the right to abort. Men should have the right to abort financial obligation to the bastard and if they aren't notified of the pregnancy they should be exempt from it.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 04:42 AM
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Like that ever happens. And I didn't say men shouldn't wear condoms, but the fact that they're made to bear the responsibility for a choice that ultimately isn't theres is straight up bullshit. It amounts to "If you didn't want to be saddled with child support you should have kept it in your pants." Say something like that to the stupid bitch in the OP and you'd get run out of town.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 04:41 AM
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Fuck me. Even on the red pill everybody goes into protector male mode for this bitch. Screw that and screw her. She made the decision. We live in an era where, for women, the choice to have a kid is almost completely removed from the choice to fuck. I have absolutely no sympathy for an irresponsible idiot like this one, only the poor bastard who had the misfortune to be born to her.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 10:15 PM
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Yeah, no. Any woman who gets pregnant has at least ten opportunities to avoid this shitty situation, most of them after she has sex. The gist of your position is that men should use condoms and if they don't want to be fathers, be celibate- that they should bear a penalty for a choice that isn't their own. Blue Pill is you, in this case.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 10:08 PM
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Speaking! Your post about The Lost Boys is what made me decide to start lifting.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 09:54 PM
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The glass is already broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 09:30 PM
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Such is life. I think a big part of letting go of the anger and resentment is to stop thinking about how you want women to lead responsible lives and be held accountable for their actions. It really is against our natural instincts to do so- women have to be coddled and made comfortable at all costs, including themselves. It doesn't matter that her bad lifestyle decisions ultimately ended up killing her. She reproduced, and that's all nature cares about. Why give a shit? Just recognize it for wh…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 10:41 AM
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Pretty sure that's the point.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 10:34 AM
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'ware the fury of a patient man. Not to say that Rogers was in any way virtuous, but the idea that a quiet and meek person's anger can be particularly terrible when it comes isn't a new piece of wisdom. I think it's just one of those things we've collectively forgotten.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 06:23 PM
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Men who don't want to wife up a slut are misogynists, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 02:31 PM
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You weren't wrong though. We're bad marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 06:45 PM
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It's almost like if you do it to her you're doing it to her marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 06:41 PM
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I get ya. I was speaking abstractly- like "If you're going to be coldly rational about things you don't want to marry a red pill man, a blue pill beta is far more easily controlled and will put up with any amount of bad behavior." Of course women tend to chase after RP-ish guys to try to trap them or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 06:29 PM
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All granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 04:17 PM
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"No downvoting?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 04:12 PM
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butt fuck marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 03:56 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 03:48 PM
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Uh, no don't marry. AF/BB isn't advocated so much as acknowledged, and it's not going to change in our lifetimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 03:45 PM
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Top post. If you're a woman you don't want to marry a Red Pill man, you want to fuck him while your beta bucks is at work or asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 03:44 PM
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The fuck was this at -5 for? Have an upvote man.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 02:34 PM
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There is no question that girls like this exist, but girls like this can come into existence too. They come into existence by disrespecting their own bodies. Twenty, thirty, forty years ago, any guy with half a brain would have called a washed up hooker or stripper a bad bet in terms of relationships. She's screwed up in the head because of the day to day existence she had. Her sense of value comes from her sexual attractiveness, which fades fast, and she resents men for it. Any girl who gets ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 01:37 PM
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There is a supplement that is good for increasing the man feelings within you. It's called black coffee.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 01:12 PM
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Conclusion I could tell it'd end up like this. Both having a child at 19, not knowing what the hell they want. I'm 14 and glad I could see the fucked up shit that goes on. TRP is no lie. YOU ARE ONE LUCKY BASTARD. Having your eyes opened at 14. I wish I had been so savvy.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 05:06 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-vasectomy_pain_syndrome FYI
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 09:59 PM
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Right now she wants a baby.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 09:22 PM
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Minnesota humanists must be cut from a different cloth, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 08:58 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 08:52 PM
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Guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 08:52 PM
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You said it, not me. :v)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 08:50 PM
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You're getting awfully passionate about this. You should seek therapy, it doesn't seem healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 08:49 PM
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I've given you everything you need to understand me already. If I were to just hand it to you, I expect that you would simply throw it to the ground and stamp on it like a child- so instead I'll leave it for you to reread until you get what I was saying. Or just be angry. Whichever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 08:48 PM
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You can say the same thing about absolutely anything a person's passionate about. You failed to pick up the point I was making in as gentle a way I could in the other thread above here. I don't really expect a higher standard of discourse on reddit, though. So..... seek therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 08:45 PM
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Just think on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 08:42 PM
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No, there aren't. And if you think there are you just need to be re-educated and brainwashed by a professional bullshitter seek therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 07:21 PM
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Whether women have an understanding of red pill theory is ultimately irrelevant, because it has no bearing on whether or not it works for the men who utilize it. It's just a how to manual, not a political movement like feminism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 07:18 PM
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The Humanist movement is feminist, though. It's the same shit with a different wrapper.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 05:53 PM
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"Ideas" are just words. We have a fine grasp of feminist actions and actions speak louder.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 05:49 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 05:08 PM
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QED
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 02:37 PM
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Did it sound like one?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 02:27 PM
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RP says that if you've gotten married you've already fucked up and that dread game is a way to not be boring, because being boring will get you divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 02:21 PM
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You really think that any kind of womens' liberation would have happened without the technological advances that made it possible? Women in the workplace became inevitable as soon as "Doing the laundry" stopped being a four hour proposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 02:08 PM
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You need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 01:43 PM
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Women, on the other hand, have had to walk through fire over the past decades to get where they have gotten. Nah. They just needed to wait for men to invent things like automatic washing machines, dishwashers, electric ovens, microwaves, central heating, tupperware and vacuum cleaners. Sometimes literally. There are women firefighters who've almost been killed by misogynist male counterparts, who've tried to stop them from doing their job. Source please? I'd like to read about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 01:37 PM
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This. A coworker had this happen to him in the worst way possible (married a lawyer, she completely fleeced him and took his daughter out of state; his daughter has been indoctrinated for 10 years and feels nothing but hate toward him) He is like a zombie. He had a brief period of time wherein he was waking up; he was angry, jaded, and he was alpha. Then his liberal friends staged what was essentially an intervention and got him on meds. Now he's a zombie who has to take a daily happy pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 01:34 PM
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Your comments are always fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 01:25 PM
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1) Being raised by a single mother is an experience capable of screwing up a young man in a unique and deep sort of way. Much of it probably comes from resentment toward mothers; I'll own that right off the bat. 2) There is no group more unrealistically full of itself than single mothers. This goes for in the work place as well as in the dating world. If a single mom is repeatedly tardy it's justified because she's a mommy. If you don't want to date a single mom you're a sexist misogynistic shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 01:12 PM
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Yah. I'll stick to condoms and spermicide. And vasalgel maybe. Vasalgel when????
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 09:30 PM
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Ah, glad you're making an informed decision. It's a little disturbing how many people yammer about getting snipped without any mention of the fact that you can spend your life feeling like you've been kicked in the balls afterward.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 03:42 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-vasectomy_pain_syndrome FYI edit- ah, Right after I posted this I saw that you mentioned it already. Leaving it up regardless though.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 03:40 PM
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You know Jesus didn't give much of a hoot about marriage because he believed that the world was going to end within a matter of weeks or months? Consider it like that. World is ending next month. The fuck you want to get married for?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 02:06 PM
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Men best you to a pulp That seems like a typo but I like the way it sounds. It's competitive. I'm going to best you to a pulp.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 02:00 PM
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Show love. Never, ever, ever hold back from giving a compliment, as long as it's sincere. There's never a bad time to say something nice; get in the habit of doing this. People will love you for it. Seriously? That seems a little nice.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 07:18 AM
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For what it's worth I know what you're talking about dude. I don't know what your specific flavor of bullshit was but if you have a moment of weakness and try to talk about abuse to your parents they just gaslight the shit out of you or "don't remember that," so you get to just deal. That's the hand you're dealt, so play it.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 01:49 AM
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She's never yours, it's just your turn.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 03:04 PM
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YOU BASTAR--- no. No it is not.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 12:22 AM
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I like this idea. I'm adopting it. Here is my glass box. There are many like it, but this one is mine.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 07:58 PM
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I think there are, but I would bet that there's a high correlation between that and dark triad personality traits. If you don't naturally have those traits you have to learn- not that the traits themselves are a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 03:55 PM
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You are telling us that it's acceptable to lie about your past but it's unacceptable to "lie" about your future.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 02:34 PM
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I have no interest in having my morals dictated to me by idealogues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 02:15 PM
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no, i've really never seen that, K
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 01:58 PM
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I would tell you that I don't give a rat's ass about what you find morally acceptable and take your shades.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 01:55 PM
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Having a strategy is good, Morality does not factor into what works. There is no "good" or "bad," there is only what works, what doesn't, what strategy has one outcome and what strategy has another outcome. Collective trial and error has revealed that the strategies you're touting as "good" are in fact extremely unwise for a guy to utilize because they will either put him into situations where he's beholden to people who don't respect him or keep him sexually frustrated indefinitely. This approa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 01:36 PM
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This is the direction I lean in. I wouldn't call it a conspiracy, though, it's just innate. Sort of like an uncanny valley response but in terms of "is desireable as a mate" rather than "is human."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 01:19 PM
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TRP does not advocate any particular strategy. Morality does not factor into it; it merely says what works and what doesn't for one particular goal, which is an acceptable sex life for a hetero male.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 01:18 PM
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It's the upshot from statements like "Just be yourself" and the ideas that using heuristics (like AWALT) and modifying one's behavior to get better results in the mating game ("game") are manipulative, bad, immoral, and not kosher. You see a great deal of this from BP posters here. What it comes down to is that if you just "get it" then you won't have a problem and will be Chad. If you don't just "get it" then it's somehow bad for you to compare notes with others and discuss the behavioral mecha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 04:52 AM
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Blue Pill mentality is that your value as a mate is ordained fate and cannot be changed, and it is immoral to attempt to change it. In so many words it is "listen to your betters and stay in your hole."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:31 PM
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My guess would be that most women try to put on a facade of thinking that way but actually don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 07:36 PM
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ENFJ. It has as much bearing on anything as my horoscope. (read: it doesn't. Myers Briggs is woo.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 06:56 PM
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I'll give you that, but I'll add a qualifier: When women are treated as children with no expectation of accountability for their own actions they will naturally be inferior to men. If you raise a boy to rationalize all of his failures and give him all kinds of social entitlements without asking him to examine them beyond "I deserve this because X reason" you will end up with a shallow, self centered human being prone to rationalization rather than reflection. The treatment would have the same ef…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 06:07 PM
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KIA is pretty redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 06:04 PM
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Here we agreed that a) your treatment of other people is circumstantial and b) the conditions that affect women's treatment of men are particular We also established in the other thread between us that men are to an extent governed by biological impulses. All men who haven't been afflicted with some sort of damage, be it brainwashing or otherwise, are like that. This is uncontroversial. AWALT says that it is also not controversial to say that women are governed by similar-but-different biologica…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 08:58 PM
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I'm not talking about stuff. I'm talking about behavioral cues and circumstances. Phrased more simply: Do men treat women differently from how they treat men? Do women treat women differently from how they treat men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 08:25 PM
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That sounds like ever increasing work for ever decreasing payout. It almost seems like LTRs aren't worth--- heeeeeyyy....
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 08:22 PM
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Doesn't matter. If religious brainwashing is the only exception you can think of to the AMALT I just presented you (and it doesn't actually work, by the way) then QED.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 08:10 PM
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I didn't ask whether the urges are suppressed. I asked about the presence of the urges.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 07:54 PM
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GOOD. Here is where you have admitted that your treatment of other people is conditional, just like it is with the rest of us nonunicorns. Next question: is it unreasonable to say that the behavioral cues and conditions that will change men's treatment of women are different from the behavioral cues and conditions that will change women's treatment of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 07:53 PM
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Since you already got my answer twice, I'll pose my question again to you here: Would you have a problem with treating a person badly if you hated them? If you resented someone's existance with every fiber of your being, would you treat them differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 07:35 PM
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That makes you foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 07:22 PM
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Fuck lots of different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 07:15 PM
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Would you believe me if I told you that there are men with intact testicles who don't get the urge to wander?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 07:06 PM
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Having spent some time in a management capacity in a highly frictive workspace, I think the "You callin' me a liar?" conversational tactic you're using in this thread makes you sound like a liar, and not a very good one. I'll pose a question to you: would you have any problem treating a person in the way you're thinking of if you hated them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 06:22 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 05:58 PM
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No. When you're talking to women a "relationship" means you're there to offer cuddles, you're fixing her shit when it breaks, you're keeping her out of trouble, giving her rides and being "her man." Read the sidebar. If you give a woman like this a "relationship" you are devaluing yourself. The extent of the relationship should be fuckbuddies and nothing more. Anything else is just born from lack of self respect in the man; he is making her a priority while he remains nothing more than an option…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 03:15 PM
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It's a praxeology, not an ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 01:46 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 01:41 PM
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There are no unicorns.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 01:37 PM
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If any of them are practiced through something other than a behaviorist/evolutionary psych. lens I have no time for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 01:30 PM
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This is where you start seeing, OP, why all those posts on TRP exist about how as soon as you try to make yourself a better, more attractive person you'll start seeing who your friends and enemies really are. People get antsy and uncomfortable when you improve yourself. It makes them notice their own failures, or it threatens the sense of superiority they had over you. People don't like that, OP. When you start getting comments like "Ugh, you're turning into an asshole" and "You used to be [misc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 12:32 AM
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Other theories are suspended from axioms that aren't examined nor justified by the theories. We're just animals with an unusually high capacity to make ad-hoc justifications for our actions; the only reason we have the intelligence in the first place is because it was naturally selected for. I'll give behaviorism a pass, since somebody mentioned it- but I don't really think it's all that different from Evo Psych.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 12:19 AM
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The only psychology that isn't bullshit is evolutionary psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 03:00 AM
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When you notice how common false tropes are from the blooper side of things you begin to realize how worthless the conversation is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 04:26 PM
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And then I realized "what would an alpha do in this situation?" The answer? "Go to the gym. And ignore That's pretty applicable to a lot of things, I think.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 02:32 PM
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Every person I've ever spoken to who self identified as a sigma male was nothing more than a beta too ashamed to admit their own failings to themselves.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 02:07 PM
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That's the biggest change. if they call you an asshole or a jerk you know you're getting away from beta behavior.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 01:15 PM
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"There is no such thing as a closed relationship" should be a more common redpill refrain.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 08:42 PM
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They strike me as spoiled little boys who are angry because they got oatmeal raisin cookies instead of chocolate chip. "I hate raisins! I don't want your cookies!" I mean they really do if they aren't homosexual and have a functioning pair of nards. They're just playing at a bluff that everyone can call them on instead of learning to appreciate the world the way it is and adjusting their approach accordingly. Except in a few cases they don't express anger over laws or specific types of mistreatm…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 08:08 PM
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They think that they will eventually change basic human relationship dynamics by boycotting marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 07:59 PM
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It's because the Social Justice movement is just the same populist/authoritarian human tendencies that were coming from the religious right in the 90s and 00s. The only differences now are the demographics under fire and the terminology used, but the moral authoritarianism is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 07:57 PM
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Her: "You're only pretending to be nice just to get into my pants." Translation: "I'm shaming you for using our 'friendship' to get sex, to hide the fact that I'm using our 'friendship' to get attention and favors from you. I'm also preventing you from escalating the friendship by shaming you for wanting only sex from me. Go back to being my servant." This one is interesting, because the girl who pulled this tactic on me did it before and after letting me fuck her. My interpretation was that she…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 06:50 PM
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So "no" then? Thank god.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 06:25 PM
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We just had this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 06:20 PM
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Better than allowing random chance to decide which you'll receive. Do I understand you correctly to be saying that it's better for children to be given hormone therapy regardless of whether they meet diagnostic criteria for transexualism?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 06:18 PM
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Don't try to understand anything in Soc Jus beyond understanding that it's a cult of cultural marxism. No, seriously. Don't try. That way lies madness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 06:09 PM
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However, I don't believe you can change the core of a beta or an alpha. That's the only part where we're different, I think. I want to believe that men, at least, can change for the better at their very foundations. For my own sake! So that's what I'll do. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 05:16 PM
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That's a factor but I think redpill exaggerates it somewhat. I've seen girls engage in some truly stupefying levels of rationalization about their own bad decisions and bad behavior- they're more prone to it than men are and can't ever get rid of the tendency entirely, but it's not insurmountable any more than beta personality traits/conditioning are for a guy. They're just discouraged from doing so at every turn unless they experience an ostracism of some sort to shock them out of it. One of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 04:14 PM
2

Yes, but the zeitgeist encourages women to rationalize rather than evaluate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 02:54 PM
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There is not a thing I've said here that I haven't personally known a victim of more than once, offline. In fact it is the observations I've made offline that led me to the red pill to begin with- and guess what, when I got there I found divorce lawyers talking about the same BS I was describing. If me saying as much to an ignorant European making flippant remarks about justified concerns over some seriously fucked up policies in the US counts as circlejerking then pass me another bottle of lube…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 02:23 AM
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There is no wrong 'type' of woman. All women are the 'wrong' to varying degrees. TRP allows a man to sieve out the excessively poor choices of women and inoculates him from the pitfalls of relationships with the least worst types of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 03:12 PM
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You write like an idiot, so this will be my last response to you. Lol so if you don't care what Reddit thinks, how come yall always saying 'We don't hate women!! You asked. Lol so I'm the sexist. Yes. You're the one saying that women are terrible subhuman scum if red pill insights are true. We're only saying that the insights are true and as such they are merely human. You're throwing them off and stomping them into the ground and pissing on them. So you do recognize that women are pedestalized.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 07:31 PM
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it's a nice idea but considering the pitfalls involved I wouldn't proceed without some extreme caution and hardcore vetting. I need to build up my experience before that, anyway, so it's not even on the table for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:21 PM
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This reads like a young white woman trying to sound like a mid twenties black dude and failing badly. That said, I'll grit my teeth and respond paragraph by paragraph. I started following you clowns a couple years ago, and some of the shit you spit is right, and makes sense. However, some of the shit I see on the sub is straight scary. LOL Yall are just as nasty and irrational as the fat feminists you point and laugh at. Oh? If you hate women because they're crazy or whatever, just say it. Don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:03 PM
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All of this is irrelevant to the fact that the laws incentivize the divorce, are arranged to shaft the husband as much as possible, and invite the wife to use the children as pawns against the father during the divorce proceedings. Your suggestion to let the children decide for themselves who they wish to live with is utterly laughable, also. Let a son or daughter spend 13 years with a mother who for saw fit to divorce her husband, move across state lines and who spent five of those years convin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 04:29 PM
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If divorce is the only option, he can go to court and face an astronomically high likelihood of losing his assets and his family, and a good chance of being financially crippled for a couple of decades as well. The fact is that men have no right to their own families under our current laws, and our access to our families if we're foolish enough to try to grow one is subject to the whims and fancies of the wife, who is incentivized by current laws to divorce whether she's unhappy or not. The moth…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 04:04 PM
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I invite you to reread KoennonTiger's post, in that case. If the state of affairs he describes is not enough to say "matriarchal" then nothing is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:55 PM
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Are you a man or a woman, Reed? If you're a man do you think that the de facto divorce policies and family courts in the US will have your back in the event of a divorce? If so I invite you to try them out sometime and laugh your ass off at "matriarchal society" afterward.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:28 PM
1

Sure I do. I just recognize what instincts are at play when it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:17 PM
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If you're not sure which way is up, your first stop according to TRP should be the nearest free weight room. Lift the weights up and lower them down again, and everything else will start falling into place.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 10:04 PM
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Tell him what you saw. Let him make his own decision. If he leans on you for support over a breakup, provide it. If he leans on you for support over not being able to break up, withdraw from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 04:17 PM
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Have an upvote. That post gave me a smile.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 02:59 PM
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It's the feeling men get when they think a woman will make a good stand-in for mama. It's the thought process women have when they think that a man will potentially be prosperous and secure in his future and will be a good one to lock down, unless they are still riding the cock carousel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 01:26 PM
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They learn to fake the virginal behavior and demeanor, though.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 10:02 PM
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Think of it like this: Every thing that a woman says must be prefaced with "Right now I feel like." "Right now I feel like I love you" "Right now I feel like I want to spend the rest of my life with you" etc. etc. Women are slaves to their emotions and those emotions are fickle. Most of them are incapable of examining their own emotions, also, so they remain oblivious to their own fickleness. It's not that they have zero emotional attachment- it's just that the emotional attachments they form wi…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 09:41 PM
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Having parents who were liberal arts majors, maybe.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 09:25 PM
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Listen to actions, not words. Surveys are just words. Watch what a woman does - if she's hooking up, she's good for hooking up.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 01:42 PM
1

Time to stop bitching and work on changing your situation or to stop bitching and accept your own prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 06:42 PM
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Hahah, I know. I just put that in there to head off any suggestions about going from white knight (this armor is difficult to shed) to blood knight, which is just as bad imo.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 06:30 PM
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WILCO. ♂
/r/askTRP28/07/16 04:10 PM
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It's more along the lines of "I wish you'd be exclusive," but yeah. What I take from your post is that I need to set boundaries on the level of drama I'm willing to put up with and enforce them- a mentality I hadn't really adopted. I have no patience for mens' drama, perhaps I just have far too much patience for women's drama.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 04:07 PM
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My conditioning kicks in and I instantly think "Oh shit I misbehaved" --> "Better show them I care and make them feel better" Stepping back I know this is idiotic and self compromising, but it's reflexive. Maybe I'll make your second line a mantra or something.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 04:02 PM
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That's right, Mister McSexington.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 03:32 PM
5

Roger Dodger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 03:14 PM
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I am Jelly, OP. I would pay my fapping arm to have had the realization at 16 instead of 26.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 03:14 PM
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Yup. My working theory is that feminist society creates single moms who then automatically brainwash and program their male offspring to be beta. Beta is really counter to natural instincts for most men, hence skyrocketing suicide rates and other issues. We eventually get to a point where we can't ignore the flaw in our programming. If we're lucky we find a way to be deprogrammed. Red Pill makes the deprogramming relatively painless.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 02:51 PM
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Freshman year of college, (community college in a town population 24K) girl I never slept with but nevertheless liked/dated a few times told her friends I gave her herpes. The rumor didn't get very far because people who knew me knew I wasn't the type of person to be getting laid at all, but I guess it was enough for her to save face in the social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 02:10 PM
2

Your moralistic outrage is unconvincing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 01:59 PM
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Beta bucks are tolerated, not desired- and then comes resentment and divorce with a 50% split of assets if Billy Beta is lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 01:57 PM
1

It is shitty and unethical. Everything about human attraction is shitty and unethical, including Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 01:53 PM
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I've dated sluts in the past. Non-committed though. Red Pill. Good that you seem to have all of this down instinctively; some of us do not and need to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 01:50 PM
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Not all women will cheat when given the opportunity and a decent amount of plausible deniability. In the same manner, not every human being will snatch a cockroach off the floor of a prison cell after being starved for three or four weeks. Why bank on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 01:48 PM
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Comedy is truth delivered in an unexpected manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 01:43 PM
3

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 01:41 PM
2

Just a shot in the relative dark - your background. Single mother? Weak father?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 01:37 PM
1

For me it was the un PC wisdom about attaching "right now I feel like" to about everything that women say - behavior that had absolutely baffled me or outraged me in the past suddenly made sense. It all seemed to fall into place because I had been missing that puzzle piece. Now I'm still lifting bitch weights, but I'm lifting, and my weights are not as bitch as when I started. Can't wait to see what the future brings.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 08:59 PM
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No. There is only a finite amount of things to be said to and about incels and it's all been covered already.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 04:31 PM
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See my first post in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 03:59 AM
1

It's against human nature to care about the genetic dregs, which FAs have turned into a club. Again- there's a component to this that is your self sabotage. FOREVER alone is stopping you before you start. Stop identifying as FA. Drop the label. You are merely alone, a state, not an forever-alone, an identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 03:44 AM
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Red Pill subreddit is basically the only place that will give you that hard talk. Read the sidebar. After that, you can occasionally glean words of encouragement and reminders of its principles if you can sift through the idiot posts that come with the high school kids on summer break at the moment. In a sense, Blue Pill people telling you to "just get it" isn't so far off the mark. There isn't a thing anyone can say to you to magically make you improve. It has to come from inside. I'm of the op…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 07:08 PM
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They occupy an interesting position - Red Pill withholds disdain but will flatly say that they are celibate because they are seen to be socially and sexually worthless, blue pill heaps disdain on them for being socially and sexually worthless but can't quite bring itself admit it, so they try to accuse them of moral failings. To do otherwise would be red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 03:48 PM
1

Underrated post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 03:40 PM
2

If you step back from the discussion itself you begin to realize the psychology behind our collective treatment of these people. We're the same animals we were when we lived in small tribes of 200 people- social status is essentially individual worth tied to perceived usefulness to the tribe, although not understood in the abstract like that. Incels are instinctively seen as genetically and socially useless, which means they are worthless, so who cares? Just let them be miserable and die, our in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 03:30 PM
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I see them talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/16 03:43 AM
1

actions > words
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 11:09 PM
1

Red Pill is like a series of tips on how to avoid stepping on a land mine. /r/marriedredpill is more about what to do once you've pushed the spring down but haven't decompressed it yet and blown the mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 11:08 PM
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I'd put it this way: status is the most important thing and physical beauty contributes to status, and for young women it is probably the most important part of status. Stability is desirable but only becomes necessary after reproduction or when they decide to settle for less than what they've been getting. Stability does not contribute to status.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 04:01 AM
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Again, though: Do the women who go after skrillex and Jimmy Page describe those guys as "ugly?" The question at the beginning of this thread is whether physical looks matter more to women. The answer is yes, at a certain age. That doesn't mean that physical attractiveness isn't subjective- but the alternative is that these girls are thinking that Skrillex would make a good father. When women sleep with DJs, it is unlikely they are thinking of settling down and having children. They are thinking …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 07:48 PM
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Do the women who go after skrillex and Jimmy Page describe those guys as "ugly?" They would probably describe them as "rugged," "sexy," or "cute" or "handsome."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 06:51 PM
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OP's question was whether women care as much about looks as men do. but implying that early 20s hot girls are always only interested in TRP ideal of looks is not accurate from my experience. Let us re examine my statement. Women are not generally attracted to stability as such when they are in their early and mid twenties. It appears that I said that for women by and large, stability does not become an important factor to who they want to be with until they reach a certain period of their life. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 06:45 PM
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How many women do you see in their early twenties dating med and law students who are physically unattractive? How many are dating guys with less promising careers who are physically attractive? How many content themselves with hookups while they focus on other things? The potential stability is a nice to have at that age, not a must have. It doesn't become a must have until much later. Edit: If ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 06:23 PM
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Only when they're young, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 06:11 PM
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That's dependent on other factors. Women are not generally attracted to stability as such when they are in their early and mid twenties. If they've already reproduced or have failed to reproduce but are nearing the end of the fertile period of their lifespan, stability becomes attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 06:10 PM
1

You look for your unicorn and I'll look for my fountain of youth, then.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 02:27 PM
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I would advise against marriage unless it's an absolute unicorn. There are no unicorns. That is the joke. They are mythical. You will not find one. You may find a white horse with a horn taped to its head, but nobody will find a damn unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 02:01 PM
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Incorrect. Never marrying is a basic tenet of the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/16 02:12 PM
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I'd say that the feminism is demoralization and the BLM/unchecked immigration is the destabilization, but yeah.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 07:32 PM
5

Ever watch the interview of Yuri Bezmenov, KGB defector on youtube? You'll find it interesting OP.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 06:31 PM
2

Would you rather be malditto or would you rather be the smurf paying for his kid?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 03:16 PM
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I lurked for a good nine months before I even started commenting. I don't think most of these guys have even read the side bar.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 03:08 PM
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It's funny how peoples' reactions to these stories can show whether they are alpha or beta. When you read this, do you feel angry and sad? Do you empathize with the cuck? That's the biggest proof that you're a fucking cuck to be unless you work on yourself for more.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 02:41 PM
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This is "Women are wonderful" and "Women are mysterious," the poem. They are neither. :]
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 08:15 PM
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That Smurf can't even see how badly she smurfed him when she picked up chlamydia by smurfing that Chad at the ski hill! I actually think that Smurf is close to swallowing the pill. He already has a very keen understanding of the fact that women do not like to be held accountable for their own actions, will not accept accountability for their own actions. His only problem is that he then thinks he must provide them a world where their actions do not have consequences, especially where he is conce…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 01:32 PM
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This is a variation of "if you're alpha enough she won't cheat." It's a myth, bro. There is always someone she will cheat on you with. There are no unicorns.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 01:18 PM
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Nobody here is confused on what rape is. What the OP is talking about is the kind of "rape" that involves the bitch begging for it, giving it up enthusiastically, then "realizing" she was raped because you didn't provide her with a written consent form beforehand. (Facetiously speaking, for all the autists out there.)
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:13 PM
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OP is not proposing anything new. This is a variant of "If you put effort into getting laid you're still pedestalizing women and are actually a beta." It's nothing more than neckbeard hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 01:14 PM
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