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Snag is none of the alpha 1.0 traits the article lists are inherently misogynistic as the op asserts. So ... isn't alpha 2.0 just about convincing yourself you can call yourself alpha even if you 're really not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 01:47 PM
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She's saying buzzwords that establish her claim to victim status. Victim status pretty much absolves you of all wrongdoing so ... she gets a seat at the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 01:02 AM
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I mock all three, do I get a pass? Listen, like it or not many MGTOWs have created this image of the whiney manlet that can't handle chicks so he just sits and moans about how bad chicks are. My POV is you don't wanna mess with women, awesome, quit whining about them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:45 PM
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Maybe it's a social thing? Cause male subs as far as I 've heard really get into it, not for the boobs, I mean into being dominated/humiliated etc. and that is somehow more "acceptable" than the sadistic dude that tortures the sub woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 03:42 PM
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Doesn't that loop back to the whole men's fantasies are more visual (so more likely to act out something they 've seen) whereas women's are more cerebral so more likely to take cues from say a book and construct their own version of the fantasy which they then want to enact?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 03:24 PM
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Nah don't agree. Lots of men have fantasies that are not vanilla, but you have to account for the fact that man talking about rape, even in a fantasy setting, is not socially acceptable. But aside from rape you 'll find plenty of non-vanilla shit, from BDSM (yeah 50 shades didn't invent the genre, De Sade came centuries before) to all sorts of crazy shit. But I do agree women are way more active in the whole fanfiction/putting fantasies to words thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 02:51 PM
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So you 're saying you re the 2017 version of Alex Jones? Popular votes are wholly irrelevant by the way, Trump won period. The fact NYC and LA really liked Clinton is irrelevant in a system designed specifically to prevent NYC and LA from formulating policy for the whole country. Do you know why that system is in place? Cause if it wasn't candidates would just give the 5 major cities free stuff and just win, ignoring the rest of the country. And which "women's healthcare services" is he "aiming"…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 06:18 PM
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It was dumb. I 'm all for protesting when Trump does something worth protesting, but I don't like Trump emocry is not a rational protest. He got elected, deal with it. Especially since a huge chunk of what they are 'afraid' of is just a bunch of hysterical bs those nice progressive folk feed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 12:08 PM
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There is no such thing as an equal pay act. It was put on the ballot in the 70s and didn't pass. You sound authoritative. Please inform Kennedy he really didn't sign the equal pay act into law in 1963
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 11:52 AM
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fat tails indicate higher concentrations at the end. To simplify, more men that are either very dumb or very smart. The term known as a non-standard distribution. Lack of fat tails indicates more people concentrated around the mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 04:21 PM
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Cuck is a the guy who enjoys watching his partner get fucked by other dudes. go browse /r/cuckold (NSFW subreddit) for more info. The political equivalent, which I guess is what you 're seeing, is the right telling white beta lefties you 're sitting there watching your self interests get fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 04:06 PM
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Because an analyst sat down, did the math, and figured out you can govern for the next 50 years if you have minorities, single women and a relatively small chunk of millennials on your side. I 'm not exaggerating, it is how the math works out. So they geared their narrative to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 12:20 AM
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What keeps top positions male dominated is the different choices men and women make the freeer a society becomes, not some bizarre penis agenda. More women than men get into med school (in the US). However women overwhelming avoid the super high pressure specialties (cardio-thoracic surgeon, neurosurgeon etc) in favor of better 'quality' of life specialties. You go to an emerging, less free, nation it's reversed, far fewer women than men get into med school but the specialties are way more evenl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 04:22 PM
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i don't intentionally lie, it's just my number is a bit fuzzy ... and I haven't had the urge to ever sit down with pen and paper and tally it up. By the way, is this something that comes up often in conversations? I mean buddies might say 'oh you must be around x' or like 1-2 girls out of 10 might bring it up but is it something that really gets discussed enough to warrant the attention it gets on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 02:59 PM
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sub Saharan Africa isn't poor cause women don't get careers or marry young, sub Saharan Africa is poor cause it lacks basic resources to feed itself much less generate wealth. The West didn't become rich in the last 50 years, it's been rich for centuries, since the days 25 year old women that weren't married were considered spinsters and only poor women worked. So ... not seeing how your argument pans out. PS notwithstanding the above, in comparison are you positive 2016 US society is 'better' t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 01:13 AM
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let's see ~ 42% of Americans make less than $25,000 *in other words around 97 million working Americans are poor fucks ~70% of Americans make less than $50,000 *in other words pretty much need two incomes in the family to make the family work (sauce for the above -> http://www.census.gov/data/tables/time-series/demo/income-poverty/cps-pinc/pinc-01.html click on the "All Races" excel spreadsheet) I fail to see how we 're winning with all our freedom as a society. I question if we are doing "bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 11:30 PM
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I 'm guessing cause WWII Germany (pop ~ 70 mil) had around 5 mil military deaths ... the vast majority of which would presumably be young men. If you figure a 50-50 population split, so around 35 million men, 5 million dead is a hefty percentage, if you figure about half of the 35 mil are children and men over 60 (who probably weren't in the military)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 10:55 PM
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Both sides have sore losers, don't forget people wanted to impeach Obama pretty much the night he got elected. But the left tend to be more whiney/vocal about it ... It doesn't just apply to Trump (like him or not he's our democratically elected President irrespective of how much #notmypresident trends) ... same thing happened in Britain. They voted for Brexit ( a monumentally bad decision IMHO, but one the majority made) and off they went protesting against a decision the majority made. I can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 03:41 PM
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Trump didn't "win" .. Hillary lost. Allow me to explain. 2008 Presidential Election: Obama (D) 69,500,000 votes - McCain (R) 59,900,000 votes 2012 Presidential Election: Obama (D) 66,000,000 votes - Romney (R) 60,900,000 votes 2016 Presidential Election: Trump (R) 59,600,000 votes - Clinton (D) 59,800,000 votes Trump got roughly what the republicans got, Clinton lost a massive chunk of people that voted Obama in. And those people didn't switch to Trump, they either stayed at home or voted altern…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 11:28 PM
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Why on earth would a country with the resources and the position such as the USA elect a demagoge like Trump? presumably cause the people thought he is better than the other candidate? I mean that's how two horse races work, right? I mean people whine left right and center about Trump winning, people however seem to fail to notice it's Hillary that lost the election ... go look at 2012 and 2008. Hillary failed to carry 10 million votes that Obama delivered. Trump didn't gain anything, he's where…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 10:56 PM
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Abortion, same sex marriage, wathever. Why on earth would a president open those cans of worms? Those are state matters, not federal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 08:55 PM
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I don't agree. I 'm not saying Trump had a specific anti-feminism agenda, but Trump had a very clear anti white cis male are evil agenda. That's partly why he won the vote. Contrary to popular belief Trump didn't win riding the trailer trash redneck train, he won the middle income (~$50,000/year) white middle America of both genders vote. (there's detailed exit polls for the demographics, on cnn and other sites). The problem here is Feminists made Hillary their candidate (well the majority of, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 06:23 PM
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Trump was very much the anti SJW/PC culture candidate ... cmon ... have you not been paying attention for the last 18 months? Hillary on the other hand even played the gender card in her (delayed) concession speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 06:10 PM
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They didn't object to the supplements, they objected to the attractive fit girl in the picture promoting an "unhealthy body image". Like the other guy said, fragile frumpygirl ego is fragile
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 01:21 AM
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Nope, your analogies are wrong. You 're conflating sex and attraction with emotional involvement. Had you said "if he doesn't go down on you as much as he went down on his ex" it would be analogous. But "if he doesn't commit or move in with you" are not. Commitment goes beyond attraction. I 'm seeing a crazy hot girl, I 'm incredibly attracted to her, physically. But she's batshit insane, so i 'd never commit, movein etc. I think the TRP point you raise centers on sexual attraction. Having said …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 12:39 AM
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This one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 12:26 AM
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Curvy could mean hourglass, but it could also mean fat. Without pictures, can't judge. Hourglass looking for a fit/athletic dude is not absurd, fat looking for a fit/athletic dude is punching above her weight. Income depends on her income. I 'm generally ok with girls looking for a guy making girl's income to girl's income + 20%. But if she's a $30k/year barrista looking for a dude making 3-4x what she's making then she's what's known as a golddigger. So in short, needs more context. But either …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 05:56 PM
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I doubt anybody seriously believes the 80-20 principle in the general population, perpetually. Yeah when you 're talking casual sex a relative small percentage of men get the biggest slice of the action, but not all sex that happens is casual sex. The world doesn't end at 30, women still LTR functioning "betas", America is full of average dudes with their receding hairlines and their dad bods getting laid. Sure they 're not doing models and cheerleaders, but it's not like 80% of the male populat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 04:43 PM
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Not really ... I don't get hit with AMT (As a single guy) because my regular tax bracket is higher than the AMT bracket, so it defaults to that. It's not really a cut-off, more a case where you just pay higher taxes if AMT doesn't apply than if it did, so the federal government says thanks a bunch dude, no AMT for you. But most sort of upper middle class incomes fall under AMT, if memory serves for a couple filing together the point AMT ceases to matter (in the sense that their tax bracket is ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 12:52 PM
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Alpha is the dominant male. Not in a sub/dom way, more so in a leader way. Alpha is not necessarily physically attractive. Steve Jobs was Alpha, he wasn't super sexy though. Chad is the kid the loners hated through college. Pretty, athletic, gets all the girls, not necessarily smart, just sexually successful and definitely very attractive. Think football/basketball player through college, fratbro, that type of thing. A guy that gets lots of sexual attention from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 12:13 PM
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You're the same weight, height, and your face is similiar to what it was before. I 'd be a 6'4'' ripped chick, with a beard, some questionable ink and eyebrows in dire need of plucking. Heels would be awkward. Skirts too. Don't start me on yoga pants. Upside, I 'd bench more than lots of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 01:16 PM
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My dad was a typical Type-A Wall Streeter, started a pretty big hedge fund in the 90s. Mum's Swedish, architect, quit her career cause she thought I (and my sisters) were way more fun. She has said it was her choice, and one she made happily, no pressure. I mention she's Swedish cause most people just assume she'd be a craycray feminist, she's not. She currently does some consulting for a charity that builds infrastructure in third world countries, pro bono. Parents are still together, both were…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 12:21 PM
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The problem with donglegate was it was a private conversation, the dude didn't stand up and yell the thing. The craycray chick was just looking for something to be offended with, the internet well ... mob mentality. the problem with shirtgate was the guy was too fucking weak to carry it. You don't break down in tears and apologize cause random crazies on the internet got offended by a shirt, you flip them off and tell them to get a life. elevatorgate was creepy "hey come to my room for coffee" i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 08:34 PM
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A few years ago I did the whole startup in silicon valley thing. We would occasionally do party weekends, Vegas, Miami, that sort of thing. So we'd all be at a pool party, literally hundreds of girls, the same group of four people would separate themselves, go sit in the back far away from the "party" and play on their phones. Same when we went to nightclubs or whatever. Everybody had some measure of fun mingling around. These four, in their own little world. We 'd get back to the office monday,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 09:29 PM
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I think a lot of this is you taking things too literally. You see a very attractive girl jogging, headphones on. It's a bad idea to go tap her on the shoulder, motion <take headphones off> then proceed to hit on her. It's ... just dumb, not the world forcing you to self reject. Read social cues, read body language. You see a girl rush-shopping some groceries, well yeah she's in a hurry, not really receptive to being hit on. You sitting there like an idiot insisting she stays and talks to you isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 09:10 PM
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do you consider her a friend? Then be a friend. If not, then you 're not her problem bucket, refer her to her friends and/or professional help. But no matter what don't be her emotional crutch expecting she'll fall for you instead. If you choose to be her emotional crutch (which I don't advise) expect nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 11:34 AM
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But wouldn't you agree that some aspects of human behavior are harmful and should be discouraged? depends, who gets to define what's harmful? I 've been told male propensity to compete is a "toxic masculinity", do I agree? nope. Do I think it should be discouraged? The opposite, I think it should be encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 09:30 PM
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I wouldn't call Clinton a poster child for monogamy :S
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 12:37 AM
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Casually dating a bunch, plus some standing FWBs Happy Wouldn't say I had to work particularly hard, just got lucky on the gene pool lottery. Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 09:36 PM
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I hate the term and the concept. The term though, is downright offensive. The concept, no so much. Some dude doesn't like being 'masculine', his right, I don't really care. I 'm not gonna force him to be. I do object to being forced not to be what I choose though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 09:15 PM
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Well you asked why MRAs hate the term, I can't speak for MRAs, so I told you why non-feminist men hate the term. And it is my opinion that is some fucktard defined being slim/pretty whatever as "toxic femininity" womens (and feminists) wouldn't be all that in love with the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 09:10 PM
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Of course. The glaring difference between "toxic" and "socialization" obviously escapes you though. The one casts those that chose to be stoic or whatever other bs listed as toxic (bad). The other, oh well they 're just innocent victims of socialization ;) It's not a feminist issue, actually no, it is, but it's primarily a communication issue. Words do matter, and your choice of words just sets up the evil peeps over there, the toxic ones. That's why you don't use such glaringly negative words t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 09:00 PM
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Toxic masculinity So ... why isn't there a female version? Toxic Femininity? For all the "bad" feminine things out there imposed by women on women? If you figure out why, you 'll figure out why men don't like the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 08:44 PM
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Online just gives you access to people that are way outside your normal social circles. Negative, well if you go in taking it too seriously odds are your experience will suffer (specifically the apps, Tinder/Bumble etc, the sites probably attract a different crowd)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 08:08 PM
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I have never met an orbiter who knowingly orbited a woman who was sleeping around. tl overall but this stood out ... and it's patently false. Lots of men think they can 'reform' a partygirl, same applies to girls, lots think they can 'reform' a badboy. That's actually part of the allure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 08:00 PM
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Considering a whole subreddit (a pretty big one at that) got 86ed a few days ago cause a mod thought the majority opinion didn't jive with theirs ... I 'm gonna call bs on your deductive reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 06:22 PM
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So the person involved can't assert their opinion, but you without even a clue of what happened can assert that it's more likely they were abusive or hateful. Careful of that virtue signalling there, might blow a circuit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 06:06 PM
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You guys are so obsessed with extremes ... there's a massive grey area between wallflower and fucks the whole offensive line of the football team. The grey area is the sweetspot for both men an women, on average. Party girls are awesome to party with and casually date, trust me. But they also get boring after a while. Also trust me. But when that happens, who said you have to swing all the way to wallflower for an LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 05:40 PM
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I have very little experience with dating Go out, date some. The internet isn't an accurate reflection of real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 12:48 AM
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Dude, I 'm 6'4'' and anybody under 5'5'' is physically uncomfortable to date ... you 're walking around with a chick that looks like your kid, plus you have to constantly slouch over/bend down to even talk ... pain in the neck ... most tall guys I know date taller girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 12:33 AM
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Meh if that was true NY wouldn't be full of early thirties 'former' party girls trying to convince anybody that will listen that dating 'former' party girls is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 08:22 PM
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The problem with political movements is you don't get define them and/or accept parts of them. I can't say I don't get why everybody isn't Marxist, hell it stands for equality for all. Marxism (and feminism) both come with a fuckton of caveats. If you 're feminist you accept the dogma, patriarchy that oppresses women, rape culture, rampant sexism, female martyrdom, wage gap blah blah blah. Lots of (sensible) women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 12:38 PM
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I think millennial generally means kids of baby boomers, so born in the 80s or 90s. Broadly people that are mid thirties today to current high school juniors born in the 40s-50s -> baby boomer born in the 60s-70s -> GenX born in the 80s-90s -> GenY/Millennials
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 11:45 PM
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yeah that's why I asked, cause I didn't feel like searching though your posting history to get a sense of what you mean :S anyhow ..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 08:24 PM
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Why is this ALWAYS downvoted? Can you link some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 08:16 PM
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Do women even lie about their n-count anymore? Oh yeah lots do, if they want commitment from ya as a bare minimum THEY broach the subject and then trickle truth ya. Which I find all kinds of hilarious and nonsensical, cause I 've genuinely never asked, not even indirectly. Otherwise, if it's just casual hookups, then nah they don't lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 04:19 PM
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Women, on average, don't give two shits about what men talk about with their bros. Same way men don't give two shits about what women talk with their girls. Batshit crazy women and male weaklings that never got an invite to hangout care, brand it toxic masculity and hold workshops to cure you from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 08:12 PM
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desperate dudes inflate girls' sense of attractiveness not other girls. When her friends tell her she's beautiful she kinda knows that 's what her friends are supposed to say, proof, she does the same. But when there's 100 desperate dudes throwing hail marys her way ...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 08:05 PM
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Technically no it can't, anhedonia means the person doesn't feel pleasure from an orgasm not that they don't orgasm. Literally. An-hedonia: no-pleasure For the latter There you go
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 05:55 PM
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Ejaculatory anhedonia, ejaculation without orgasm, is a thing that exists FOD is a thing that exists too, how does that figure in your calulations?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 05:49 PM
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Go pick a fight with biology. It's literally impossible for the human species to reproduce without a dude orgasming. Yeah even if you go buy your semen in a sperm bank, some dude orgasmed to put it there. But thankfully science has evolved. There you go ... thank me later
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 05:38 PM
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Someone I see as average? Just uninterested
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 03:24 PM
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Dudes that don't just get girls think "Oh I 'll befriend her then dazzle her with my awesomeness, surely she can't resist me after she gets to know me" and somewhere along the way wires get crossed and the dude ends up lugging that girls couch cross town only to find out he's lugging it to her new bf's place. Then dude gets salty. For some girls it's intentional, for other girls it's not. Does it make a difference? Does it have to do with psychology? No IMO it has to do with bullshit people get …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 12:47 AM
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Your use of "need" lacks the obvious sense of compassion contained in the UNICEF official's. Probably cause I don't conflate first world dudes that refuse to help themselves with starving children in Africa. PS were you trying to prove my point, or was that by accident?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 02:53 PM
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Personally I don't visit and or downvote incel subreddits, so I can't really speak for those that do. Like I said I mostly ignore incel posts here, but once in a blue moon I just get awestruck by the sheer ridiculousness of it all and post a reply. PS if subreddits get trolled mods can just shadowban annoying people, but turning half of ppd into incel whining isn't really helping anything. pps no I mean THEY need their own tumblr ... an echochamber of reinforcement since at least in my limited e…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 12:25 PM
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Incels are like tumblr feminists in a way. They 're all hey look at me, look how special I am, feel my struggle. Which is annoying and difficult to ignore, although I mostly do ignore incel posts. Moral of the story, incels need their own tumblr
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 12:07 PM
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It is a geographic thing, where I live/in my social circle (and I 'm talking mid-late twenties people in 'murica) pretty much everybody gyms hard and is all about whole foods and healthy eating etc. Not everybody is super ripped, but fat is pretty rare. I think in general terms the coasts are more fit/healthy than middle america Both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 01:11 PM
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Read it and weep.. dude ... you must not go out much/know many women if you think that's no makeup (or 10, but that like I said elsewhere is subjective)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 07:58 PM
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Yup. Well I don't know if the girls are specifically in college and or a sorority, but a late thirties early fourties ibanker with a 20-22 year old gf isn't that uncommon. But it may just be a NYC thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:04 PM
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10 is a pipe dream, there is no universal 10. There's 9s that fit each individual person's definition of 10, but not necessarily everybody's Having said that, lots of VS/SI girls are 30+ and I know very few people that'd call them ugly ... Ambrossio, Kroes, Upton, Teigen, Aldridge, Shayk blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 03:55 PM
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So just to clarify, he is claiming to have sex with not 1, not 2, but THREE women in the same day. Am I misreading it? I think he's saying 2 women, 1 the pre-going out girl and 2 the girl driving him home, who's the third? Ok, oh dear. Now, he has some woman actually being offering to be his free chauffeur, drive him where he needs, have sex with him, and chauffeur him some more. Um ... A:"are we seeing each other tonight?" B:"going out with coworkers to x" A:"aw cool, I 'm meeting some friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 02:28 PM
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What's the male version of my crappy morning? Change tire, go to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 12:49 PM
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GTFO my brain is what I 'd say. And no thanks I don't care what's in yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 11:08 PM
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child out of wedlock != dad's name isn't on the birth certificate. What you described is what happens when a child is born, dad's nowhere and mum has to sue. It's perfectly fine to have children outside of wedlock, dad's there when the child is born, puts his name on the birth certificate and assumes the relevant responsibilities for said child. Paternity tests happen when the father doesn't accept paternity. Cohabiting couples isn't what you described
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 10:17 PM
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So your demographic is rock musicians that sleep with random women with no health insurance. Sounds like a reasonable cross section of 'Murica.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 10:11 PM
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And presumably the women are all allergic to pills, plan Bs etc. Still. If you 're talking some guy from LA that slept with a girl at a gig in Boston and 9 months later she says say hi to your kid do you really find it bizarre it would go to a paternity test?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 10:07 PM
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Can't this just be done without legal enforcement? So long as carrying the child to term is a decision taken unilaterally by the mother, without the spermdonor/dad having any say in it, spermdonors/dads will avoid accepting obligations they didn't specifically consent to. So the courts will have to force them to pay. Maybe you should ask yourself why are so many children born to your specific demographic of focus without both parents expressly wanting a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 10:01 PM
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It's easier for an (objectively) 6 woman to get laid than a 6 man. It's not easy for a 2 woman to bed a 9 man. Men have a fun zone, maybe 1-2 attractiveness points below theirs but very very few men that I know of go scraping the bottom of their particular barrel. PS "vast majority" is situational. There's a different majority in some rural walmart than some beach in Malibu than 5th Avenue in NY.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 07:30 PM
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The logic is a bit bizarre ... Dude kicks the crap out chick, chick's fault for not "spotting the warning signs" is a kinda strange thought process. Plus it doesn't account for whatever percentage are good at hiding the warning signs. To paraphrase your example, some repeat offenders get to be repeat offenders precisely because they are good at hiding their crimes. PS one very abusive dude that was in the periphery of my social circle was nothing like the stereotype you portray. He was pretty sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 04:13 PM
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It's a hyperbole of the whole "6'0'' or over only" Tinder thing. It exists, but it's not really as strict a rule as some short dudes think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 03:36 PM
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This is neither here nor there, but earlier this summer I was sort of seeing an actress. Well in juilliard with plans to earn a living from acting but whatever. One day they did an audition type thing where they had to kiss. I saw the video of it and she (and lots more, guys and girls) were awkward as fuck trying to kiss, it was pretty comical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 03:29 PM
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"Match Queue" ... it's at the top in your messages tab
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 02:39 PM
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90% of the women (on Tinder or otherwise) don't even interest me, 10% do and the majority of them have no issues getting drinks and whatever. PS If it helps you get a sense of scale, Bumble (similar app to tinder) has a nifty little stat that shows how many women have "liked" (or right swiped you). You can find a link to mine from a month ago here, Friday before I few to to DC that number was +35% of what you see there from a month ago. Sit down and calculate how long it will take me to even get…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 02:32 PM
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I got roughly an 80% instant match rate so ... no. And I 'm crazy picky when I swipe, I don't just blindly rightswipe everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 02:08 PM
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Your problem is you think most guys go around asking 1000 women a day for their number. Hint: They don't. That's what below average guys with PUA brainwash do. I 'm attractive, and it's literally 0 effort. Swipe through tinder, arrange drinks, done. Don't want to tinder, no biggie. Go to bar, be aware of the chick staring at you, talk to her. Your method is to try and talk to every woman in the bar in case one likes you. Well ... if you are oblivious to social cues and just try and play the numb…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 01:53 PM
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Don't know about the percentage, but they are a fucking loud minority. And loud minorities historically always get over-represented.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/16 03:47 PM
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Of course. "Safe spaces" in colleges are imaginary internet things ... The generation coming up is basically generation Whine. Pampered little whips that have a breakdown whenever they are "exposed" to an opinion even slightly different than their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/16 03:41 PM
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Do you think that today's "extreme entertainment culture" is part of what drives the cultural shift toward the alpha male because alpha males are an extreme representation of masculinity, like Superman or Batman? So you watch Big Bang Theory and you say to yourself, these dudes are what's driving a "cultural shift toward alpha males"? Nope. Sensitive 90s ended with metrosexual man with a heavy dusting of feminine features. That shit was boring, pendulum is just swinging the opposite way as it al…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 07:40 PM
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And? You can go get drunk and make decisions that cause unwanted consequences without having anything to do with sex. I could get drunk and dox you. Why limit it to sex? PS Riddle me this. Two equally drunk people have sex. Who's culpable? Cause seems to me both are breaking the law. So say A and B have sex. B says no fair, I was drunk. A says shit I was drunk. Off to jail the both of yous?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 05:43 PM
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How about making getting drunk illegal? We could all get implants, then when the implant detects you 're over x BAC black helicopters drop navy seals right on top of ya and they pack you up and ship you to Guantanamo Bay or something. I mean you are saying getting drunk hinders your decision making, so it affects everything, not just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 05:28 PM
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You 're missing the "I'm unemployed and unemployable and my wife is supporting me and my kid" part
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 01:42 PM
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That's a whole series of sacrifices, I said moving to a worse part of town, you escalate that to moving to a worse part of the country. Plus that also changes your income, I mean sure some jobs pay the same if you live in NYC or LA or the sticks but most jobs don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 12:38 AM
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Well no, unless you 're in a ghetto or out in the sticks working class, heck I 'd say even middle class (70-$80,000 household income), needs 2 paychecks that's the staple. Once you move into upper middle class you 're in soccer mom territory. Would you link me the data that says we have more housewives than average? I genuinely didn't know, all I knew was about 1 out of 5 married women were stay at home mums, which roughly correlates to upper middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 12:37 AM
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In Greece maybe, not in the States. Greece has insanely high home ownership rates and insanely low mortgages/1000 people. US ... you don't get a free home from parents/grandparents, you go get a mortgage and you work to pay it off. You miss a few payments, you get kicked out to the curb there's no weirdshit like you got over there, nobody pays their mortgage, banks can't repo homes, instead you pay to recapitalize the banks pretty much every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 12:26 AM
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Except it doesn't really work like that ... if you 're not sort of upper middle class (so if the guy isn't earning $100,000+) losing a paycheck means downgrading to a smaller house in a crappy neighborhood cause hey, you can't really afford the mortgage on one paycheck, it means losing a big chunk of disposable income not hey I will just switch from buying every new iPhone to every 2nd new iPhone. It's not "hey I 'll just be a soccer mum and everybody's happy"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 12:13 AM
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So your logic is if I go find some crazy bitch that killed x men and discover Jezebel in her browser history then it's ok to say "Feminists have killed plenty of men because <insert bs>"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 08:15 PM
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But in the end there really is no difference outside and it achieves the same "goal". Sure there is dude. You get a few drinks, take a girl home, wake up the next morning, it's a different girl cause the haze of alcohol, makeup and bar lighting is gone. Same applies to dudes. Some meek dude goes and copies "alpha" behavior one day dude wakes up and forgets to act "alpha", poof, magic's gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 07:52 PM
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Who the fuck asks "What do you have to offer"? You sit, you observe and you evaluate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 06:40 PM
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People are entitled to their opinions. Person A is allowed to disapprove of sluts. Person B is allowed to disapprove of Person A's disapproval of sluts. And the world will keep on turning. And SJWs will keep on turning hyperbole to the max. Seriously slut shaming is tantamount to racism? Jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 11:48 PM
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Does this match with your experiences? Nope, your experiences sound very suburban Middle America to be honest. Try living in NYC, it's pretty much considered losing in life if you 're in a LTR before you ding 30, 35 for dudes. And no, in my experience, high SMV men don't chase exclusively after "career girls", on average both genders often "slum it" ... yeah the 30 year old bartender with the "glowing career prospects" (/s) gets more than his fair share of professional women, it's not just banke…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 03:40 PM
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The problem with online surveys is they tend to attract people that want to have a say in a particular issue, not a representative sample of the population. I therefore always question the mathematics/statistics behind them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 01:59 PM
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how can anyone not support that idea? Sure, someone that believes the genders are already equal can find that idea superfluous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 01:50 PM
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She says it all when she starts the video. That all feminism is is the equality of the sexes. So how are the sexes legally not equal? I mean in western societies, don't start quoting me sharia law.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 01:10 PM
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Live their lives in pursuit of their own happiness would be the obvious answer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 07:59 PM
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Bonus: Do you think Cecibel is fat? she has a fat ass which is not attractive, as far as I 'm concerned. But then again I never boarded the Kardashian big booty train. In your opinion, are women more harsh on their own body image than men? Both genders have exaggerated own body expectations, relative to what the other gender expects of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 07:58 PM
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Entry level coding is literally code monkey work, lines of code/week. Not innovation. Usually entry level is handled in startups, and big names cherry pick from there for creativity, they don't hire entry level for diversity in life experiences, they hire cause they need gaps filled and they 're over quota on visa workers. The bit about life experiences is academia mumbo jumbo. It may apply to Gawker that wants to run Jezebel alongside Jalopnik but it matters not one iota in GoogleX when it come…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 02:21 PM
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The vast majority of jobs however do come with a measurable outcome for the employee. And no businesses, on average, are concerned with profit, not advancing a penis is king agenda. For every woman that thinks she was passed up for a promotion there's a man that thinks the same, cause they were also hoping for the same promotion, but someone else got it. They just don't whine as much about it cause whining is not something they can get away with. And yeah exceptions do exist on the other side to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 01:00 PM
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It isn't, both on average are choices. But there are jobs nobody wants to do, but somebody has to cause our civilization depends on what these jobs produce, and these usually fall on men. Think high voltage linemen, think coal mines blah blah. Nobody is campaigning for a 50-50 gender split there. PS the argument against the wage gap is much simpler, it makes 0 economic sense for a wage gap to exist. Any first year economist will tell you if there was a supply of skilled labor available to any bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 12:43 PM
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A human who is in good shape is usually healthy and in most cases works hard to achieve their body, which is a natural and legitimate reason to be attracted to someone. Whereas getting money/power is 100% effortless? yeah I know you can inherit money/power, same way you inherit the genes that make you attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 07:13 PM
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Of course it's an insult. When your stance is I 'm the status quo in gender issues, agree with me or you 're a misogynist, you bet your ass self identifying as feminist becomes an insult. You do appreciate the irony of a progressive liberating "movement" being as autocratic as Stalin, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 02:41 PM
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Yes. Gender studies is a walled garden environment. You are allowed to hold one opinion, and that opinion is not open to outside criticism, it just get bounced around the echochamber and reinforced. The second problem is the bizarre notion that all gender politics have to by definition get folded under the umbrella of feminism, else it's misogyny. Literaly. They actively went and shut down any "male studies" programs that were not also feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 02:01 PM
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"If we use proof in rape cases, we fall into the patterns of rape deniers" Matress Girl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 01:36 PM
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Would she have sex with you when sober? Not rape. So you 're basically re-defining rape as sex a chick regrets. Cause there's a huge grey area between stone cold sober and passed out drunk. And nobody argues that porking a passed out chick isn't rape, but you 're adding a new dimension, does she regret it afterwards and can she blame the 2 martinis and the dude for the sex she regrets and just call it rape. They in your context isn't feminists, but the straw-feminists that TRP manufactured. Nope…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 01:29 PM
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Nah ... I went to a high-brow private school in Southern California, the kids all came from very privileged backgrounds and lived in an environment that strives to help them succeed. We still had a hierarchy, and the top was still the hot girls and the hot guys. And the hot guys were tall, athletic, not guys with the nicest parents. And even though my school didn't really dabble in the whole emo/goth thing that was all the rage 10+ years ago when I was in HS, we still had outcasts, that looked p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 08:09 PM
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A lot of these guys need a group of male friends that can actually help push them into social situations involving women (kinda like fraternities back in college) as opposed to being some lonely weirdo PUA everyone finds annoying. I 'm the weird dude that QBed then went STEM in the most hardcore STEM campus you can imagine, then spent 5 years in Silicon Valley. Always was the social never had issues meeting women type. And you 're wrong. Awkward dudes don't benefit by being thrown in an environm…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 01:08 AM
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The problem with social media is they are mostly inhabited by class A morons eager to go grab a pitchfork whenever some other moron hashtags some shit. The second problem with social media is said morons need to setup little echochambers where they can all be outraged/victimized/whateverthefuck together. In this case the morons are feminist types that want to push the whole rapeculture shit agenda. So kesha, gomeshi, the brooklyn 5,and wherever there's even a whiff of a dude being accused of som…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 07:30 PM
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NYC in many ways is a different beast, and you are right the wall per se isn't a late twenties thing, but there is still a wall and it's pretty brutal. Look around at the mid-thirties Carrie wannabees. Fun girls, went through their 20s without a care in the world, have ok jobs but not really hardcore careers that can put them in the six digits income-wise.Dating is fucking brutal for them, cause the mid thirties investment banker that makes decent bank has either married already and moved to CT …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 09:03 PM
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If you do that you 're a shitlord. Go repent
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 02:26 PM
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Nah, not gonna happen. Cat sales will go up though. People (men and women) are encouraged to be selfish. Snag is after a certain point selfish "hurts" women more than men (cue "why don't men just man up and commit to wonderful late thirties me" bitchmoans heard all over the place)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 02:25 PM
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Oh it's just another spin on the perpetual victim card ... The oppressed can't be <insert bad thing> cause ... reasons. It doesn't have to stand up to any measure of logic. It just has to make SJWsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 02:11 PM
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you probably don't live in the States. Check out Seattle sometime ... the crazy has been unleashed a while now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 08:32 PM
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If you get past the fucking incessant whining TRP has some truths. You can argue they are not universal truths. You can argue they apply to a subset of women (party girls whatever you want to call them). But they exist out there, and I 'd argue a lot of the attitudes you 'll see out in the "dating scene" in a big city mirror a lot of the negative points TRP raises. I 've linked this before. It's a sex diary written by a woman, that lives in NY and is 30 years old. This is what dating in NYC real…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 01:35 PM
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1) nope it just worked out that way 2) that I suck at commitment, come the end of the honeymoon period I 'm already looking for something new. I also abhor routine. And also, for a subset of women, what gets vilified around here holds true. The less fucks I give the more women pursue me. 3) fine. Sure I 'd do it again, it's been a fun ride, and I don't really miss anything that comes with LTRs 4) not yet, but I 'm still 28 so ... not that old
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 01:23 PM
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The way i see it, what else makes a better justification for the anger phase? My feeling is the anger comes more from dudes that grew up thinking "their day would come", meaning a time in their life where what they have to offer was valued more than abs and an epic jawline, and realized it never did rather than people that never got any in HS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 01:09 PM
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My honest opinion, working on social skills gets more immediate results than spending a year in a gym trying to get shredded, for the majority of people. Obviously if you're 400lbs yeah, lose like half of it at least, but I don't think being shredded counts all that much outside of college/club culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 01:06 PM
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He didn't do anything wrong That's an assumption, he hasn't directly said he got consent to slap them around, I mean these particular women. And slapping some chick around might look cool and passionate in the movies as a fist date activity, in the real world it's creepy. Bdsm is fine, and women prefer this to any other type of sex, it is the most normal form of sex. Sure it's fine, if both people are into it. Calling it "the most normal form of sex" is taking it too far. its so easy these days,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 02:40 PM
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some kid straight out of law school could fit nagging in the legal (as described in the article) definition of abuse. Odds of a chick going to jail for nagging? about 0.00001% Vague laws suck cause they invariably allow "pressure groups" to push interpretations of the vagueness that fit their agenda(s)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 01:37 PM
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The one woman, the actress, (the apparent "ring leader") pretty much did it for the fame and money ... she went to court with a lawyer (that was mostly concerned with her book deal instead of the obvious "don't lie under oath dear client" or even preparing her client for cross examination) and a fucking shadow writer to document stuff for her book. Plus she said, apparently, that she'd "make the cover of vanity fair" as she will be "to sexual assault what Beckham is to Armani underwear". So yeah…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 01:20 PM
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Not rp, but for me it's the incessant rationalizing. When a woman starts rationalizing a fuckup instead of accepting "I fucked up" and moving on, I check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 07:00 PM
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if penis reacts positively -> attractive if not -> not attractive jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 05:35 PM
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Alimony's fine. It's awarded to whoever exited the job market for a substantial amount of time for the benefit of the marriage (kids etc). You can't just kick a 50 year old woman (or man) to the curb after 20 years of being a stay at home mum (dad) with no applicable job skills with which to earn a living. And the duration of alimony is proportional to the duration that person was in the marriage/out of the job market.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 10:59 AM
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dunno where it leans towards, I have no problems describing sexual strategy as amoral and making a moral judgement on a sex workers' career choice. "SJWs are the fucking worse people on the planet" doesn't, for me, mean I would never fuck a SJW. I would. If I found them attractive. If it's a contradiction for you, more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 06:15 PM
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"we"? holy fuck you make assumptions like there's no tomorrow. PS no
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 06:00 PM
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and? a decision not guided by morality (amoral) doesn't imply no judgement, it implies ignoring the a is right - b is wrong way of thinking. Have you never heard "I'd fuck a pornstar but I wouldn't wife her?" That's amoral. Doesn't preclude judging the pornstar for her career choice, infact it includes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 05:51 PM
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You made me search. And click the video. Arrived at the conclusion that "disgusting" referred to her age and (lack of) attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 05:37 PM
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Women did just fine. nope, women were more equitable in their nominations. Equitable doesn't mean they were right. Beyond that, the data they give says that in all 3 classes tested men graded higher and were more outspoken than females. So rationally you would expect more males to be nominated. Our work suggests that processes in the classroom may either be reinforcing pre-existing implicit biases over the quarter, or at least facilitating behaviors based on these biases. The end of every class …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 05:24 PM
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Or you are imagining it ... Feminism is mainstream, SJWs are fighting the good fight to protect every weakling's feels to the max. I 'm STEM, women that adapt to how STEM works do fine. Women that expect STEM to cease being winner takes all competitive and turn into gender studies love is all around echochamber of reinforcement for them to do fine will probably be waiting a long time. Nobody is taken seriously by default, everybody needs to prove themselves. Women that go STEM are just more sens…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 02:00 PM
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You keep reposting this phrased differently, and honestly I keep saying it's not a real majority problem. Sure there are few "traditionalists" around but they are nowhere near being the norm, the opposite. The middle class today is 2 jobs 2 paychecks joint decisions, what you describe might apply when there's a huge income disparity or if you just happen to live in a super traditional part of country ... like I dunno ... Mormon country?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 01:49 PM
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Attracting girls is second nature to him, but that took thousands of rejections. Honestly that hasn't been my personal experience. For as long as I remember myself seeing girls sexually (so from my mid teens) I was just good at attracting girls. I don't recall thousands of rejections, the opposite, rejections have always been few and far between. But part and parcel of being good at attracting has always been knowing who to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 01:38 PM
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That's becoming physically (and possibly socially) more attractive. Alpha is genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 08:07 PM
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Let me take it even further for ya. Hitler and Stalin were alpha as fuck. And Hitler was a sickly snively little manlet physically. Disgusting people, with disgusting values. But alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 08:06 PM
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Here is my solution to the "Alpha Widow" problem: Work your ass off in the gym, in your job, and social life, and become an Alpha. That's lovely but you don't become "alpha" by injecting a bunch of roids and reading a lot of self help books. You either are or you aren't. People can copy alpha behavior, sure, and for some people that leads to a better quality of life for themselves but they don't become alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 06:41 PM
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White Knights are just guys that think they gain social capital by blindly casting themselves in a protector/defender role. And probably get validation by doing so. It's not necessarily sexual. And it's not always about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 01:21 PM
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Alphas are leaders, successful people. Aside from how much sex they might get. Steve Jobs was alpha as fuck, but neither particularly attractive nor particularly sexual. Alpha-ness is just a collection of traits that make one man stand out from a group of men, that's it. And standing out (in a positive way) inherently makes him more "attractive" (even though not necessarily physically attractive).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 01:19 PM
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depends ... the progressive left-feminist-sjw intersection is a crazy scary place, and yeah lots of people that inhabit it have 0 tolerance for anything that doesn't fit in their little permissible thoughts/actions box. So they are bullies. Especially when you get them in a mob (online).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 11:31 PM
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TRP: those guys should make a whine/vent thread and like stick all the "shit women do" in there. Clean the place up a bit cause whenever I browse it's just a massive fucking whinefest. Feminism: Third wave is collection of individual problems exaggerated into massive hyperbole. And an obsession with victim culture. Victims. Victims everywhere. And triggers. For people that can't handle an opinion 0.01% different than their own. Lose that shit, it's boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 09:24 PM
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To be fair though, the gender debate is centered on hysterics ... it's difficult to enter the arena as a "moderate" movement, you 'll be ignored. You and I live in an age where "twitter harassment" (the definition of which is people "mentioning" your twitter handle without your consent) is literally a thing that warrants the UN paying attention ... you wanna be moderate in that environment?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 11:45 PM
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depends where you live, your age range blah blah ... women in their 20s in NYC fuck around like there's no tomorrow. Not all women, there's the aww we fell in love made a baby and moved to the UWS women, but most of the women you will see at the bars for after work drinks. Within those, my personal experience is the average to slightly above average lookswise fuck around a fuckton (the 5 to soft 7s) ... hard 7s and over don't really need to fuck around, they can pretty much pick the cream of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 10:40 PM
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There's no universe in which "You kicked my ass last night and that makes me want to fuck your brains out. Tonight." is a message a victim of assault sends to her attacker the very next day of the assault. Sorry. Don't care about anecdotal evidence of it happening to 9999 (that's over 9000) of people you know. Ghomeshi is probably a creep, and Ghomeshi probably got away with a lot of shit cause he was famous and these women wanted to date him badly enough they allowed him to get away with it. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 09:25 PM
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a) Bilzerian is a marketing exercise ... the male version of "instagram models" that make money off product placement in their ig feeds. A lot of what you think you see is smoke and mirrors. b) cause real nerds are not socially interesting to girls ... there are "nerds" that have been very interesting to girls (for example google Dan Fredinburg, I promise you he had all the female attention he could handle before he passed away) but the average "nerd" that plays with his star wars figurines is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 07:26 PM
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I said making an accusation is a net negative to her social standing, so she has no incentive to make a false accusation dude this chick literally used "rape" as a way to escape getting in trouble with her dad over ... hickies. You just don't grasp how some women see crying rape as a ffa get out of jail free card with bonus sympathy and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 12:58 AM
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What I can tell from what I've seen of MRAs is that you want me to drop my career and take up with a MRA. AFAIK nobody wants you to drop you career. Some ultra traditionalists might want a stay at home mum, but you are not in their radar. Nor are they prevalent enough for you to worry about. MRAs are about men's rights. Genital integrity, paternal rights, that kind of thing. They don't give a flying fuck about your career, as far as MRAs are concerned you can go be an astronaut that cures cancer…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 01:06 PM
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he said alphas who want commitment early nowadays are unicorns. And that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 08:21 PM
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Both drive it ... men were always "happy" to get no strings sex. Now women think it's ok. Who benefits? Those that are a) getting it and b) are satisfied with it (meaning don't need a committed relationship to be happy). Who is happier long term, come back in 10 years and ask. Hookup culture is relatively new, to the extent there's 30 year olds that think it's not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 07:25 PM
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Statistically yes, single parent households are (like I said in a different thread) the single worse predictor for all unfavorable outcomes as far as children go. From crime to suicide to drug addiction to mental illness, any unfavorable outcome you can imagine, children from single parent homes top it statistically. Within those statistically the worse are the ones that spent years in a single parent home, then it all came crashing down but the kids were too old to be adopted and ended up bounc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 02:45 PM
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Make people responsible (=accountable) for their decisions. And be there to tell them, no you made a bad decision, let's look at an open adoption since you are unable to financially support the child you chose to have. That's looking after the interests of child. Which are separate from the interests of the mother, which is what the current system tries to protect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 02:27 PM
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So long as you implicitly incentivize bad decisions, bad decisions will continue to be made
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 02:21 PM
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Simple, create form T3948394b for parents not in a legally committed relationship. Dad to be and mom to be sign and file it, they are both legally responsible for the unborn child. Dad goes deadbeat, stick his ass in jail. It scares me you want legal system that seeks to coddle those that are so irresponsible they don't even know who the fuck their babydaddy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 02:17 PM
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In an ideal world the mum and dad sit down, discuss it and make an informed decision. If the dad is unwilling to have a child then the woman has to take that into account when deciding the future of her pregnancy. She can abort, she can carry to term then offer the child for adoption, or she can if she so wishes raise the child herself. The problem lies in the mother making unilateral decisions (choices) and the father having only responsibilities borne out of the mother's unilateral choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 01:07 PM
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I think "nice guys" are nice because they aren't attractive enough not to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 12:42 AM
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Instead of simply going up to a girl, talking to her, making a joke, and continuing the convo to get her number and a fat bald dude that smells like onion soup can be the most confident person in the world and still strike out 99.99% of the time. You want sex be sexy. Nice just isn't sexy, it's boring. It's the fucking prius of human characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 12:38 AM
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earning potential varies ... a communications major with a cubicle job has a different earning potential than a software engineer, op's point is why aren't people focusing on those with higher earning potential. Not why they are not all searching for millionaires to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 12:33 AM
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Single motherhood is just another equally valid type of family unit which has no implications for the wellbeing of the child statistically though that's wrong, children from single parent households are literally off the charts in crime, chemical dependency, suicide, academic under-performance blah blah. It's literally the strongest predictor, stronger even than socioeconomic or race
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 09:09 PM
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When you 're not looking for a commitment, on average, it makes sense to pay more attention to the physical and overall "fun" aspects in a person you date. When you 're looking for commitment it stands to reason you start factoring in other elements, stability, blah blah, "beta" traits. The problem with being a boring ugly ass 22 year old is that you 're boring and ugly. Not that chicks will find it "difficult" to dump you if they start dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 03:24 PM
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I 'm 6'4 so the majority of women are short to me, and are mostly ok with teasing once you got some level of rapport going. Though it's not something I do often. There was this not even 5' chick Thursday though that got mighty salty when I said she looked like she could be my child. Though to be fair I was rejecting not teasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 02:46 PM
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The left appeals to the more empathetic side of your brain, the right to the more pragramatic. There's literally no more of an obvious example than Greece. Bankrupt to all intents and purposes, something insane like close to 60% youth unemployment (25%+ overall unemployment) which is incredibily scary if you sit for a minute and think about it, 1 out of 4 adults and 1 out of 2 adults under 25 literally cant find a job. Then Syria happened. And refugees started trickling in. Right was more pragma…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 05:14 PM
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She can never let the father know, there is no requirement for the father to sign the adoption papers. Literally the dude doesn't have a right to know there's a child of his running around somplace UNLESS the mother decides to ask for child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 01:50 PM
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Nobody has issues with forcing the dude to pay for half the abortion and compensate her for taking a day off work. People object cause the woman has a myriad of choices she can make unilaterally (abortion, adoption, safe harbor or carrying the fetus to term) the father has no say, just responsibilities borne out of choices the mother is free to make unilaterally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 01:32 PM
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When I was in highschool we got assigned a "identify sexist themes in Homer's Odyssey" type paper to do. California, what can I say. Anyway, I was livid. Literally one of the earliest pieces of western civilization and the discussion should be sexism. So I talked to my dad and my mum and their joint advice was ... just lie. Yeah they both thought the woman that assigned that to us was insane, yeah they both thought in a perfect world I should be able to just tell her she's insane, but since I ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 12:57 PM
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keep in mind the median household income includes single person households ... in reality "family" income gets a fair bit higher
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 03:04 AM
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not really ... this is dating in NYC in 2016. And that's a woman's POV. I just thank woman's lib and the dumbassery that was SATC for having my back ... perhaps wherever it is you are women secretly want more and leave if you honestly tell them it's just sex, in NYC they don't. So ... I don't need to be dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 02:48 AM
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The premise is false, the world is literally full of white knights. You go randomly punch a dude for no reason in a public place, bunch of white knights will preemptively rush to your defense even though the dude did nothing. That shit's ingrained in our societal DNA Ps no I 'm not advocating punching dudes for no reason just to count white knights in your vicinity
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 10:51 PM
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In the real world I am always 100% honest about my intentions, which are never "serious", and I still catch the occasional woman that thinks she can reform me. And I say occasional as in not every woman, but not a one in a million scenario either. I always cut those loose, and I always end up being the "asshole" by the way, but I can live with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 06:46 PM
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Feminists want to feminize society. Why? Cause that's their starting point, masculinity is toxic and all that shit. So they stress feminine qualities in everything.Like I had said in an unrelated thread, probably the world's top STEM college force packed us in a lecture hall and drilled our brains for an hour about how women hate the winner takes all competitive culture STEM adheres to and how we should all strive to drive it away to get more women interested. We nodded and didn't give a shit an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 04:22 PM
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in all fairness no, an attractive man usually has the experience to read social cues. Meaning knowing when and whom to approach/hit on. The inexperienced dude either can't read social cues or tends to cultivate a friendship then pull a 180 with some grandiose romantic gesture, or even worse some "admission of feelings" that's ... just ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 04:06 PM
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telling good and decent men that they are deficient for failing to meet standards that we would never hold women to Your assertion that x dude is "good and decent" doesn't mean shit if the rest of society doesn't agree with you. Like I said, a bunch of nutjobs can do all the "fat is beautiful" tumblr campaigns they want, I still won't fuck fat chicks or think they are beautiful. Beyond that if you look around you, and ignore completely how much sex I am getting, the world is full of average and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 03:56 PM
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women had support networks before feminism created them, because women are on average (cue feminists going batshit insane on my ass ) more social. Women have always vented to their female friends, half the female friendship dynamic is just that, an outlet for venting. Dudes are embarrassed to talk to their male friends. Personally whenever a friend has asked for advice/opinion I have given it to him. But aside from personalized advice, seeking a generic solution is impossible. Nomatter how much …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 01:47 PM
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I just got lucky in the gene lottery. But that's beside the point. You are an intelligent person, if using a particular approach leads to you smashing your face against a brick wall every single time the obvious thing to do is to change your approach. Getting things off your chest is I am sure cathartic, but lets be real here, you 're a dude, no matter what society/feminism says you are still expected to take the punches and shut up about it. Yeah it's a double standard, but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 01:27 PM
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So why do you want to talk about it then? Half your post is about your inability to talk about your situation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 01:14 PM
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You can talk all you want, it won't solve your problem. Me patting you on the back and saying I feel ya man won't make you more attractive. Unless you wanna clone the tumblr crazies with their fat is beautiful shit, which dunno about you, but on me has 0 effect on my aversion to fucking fat chicks. It's more constructive if you figure out how to solve your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 01:09 PM
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Do women actually love assholes? Dunno, but there's certainly a buttload of women that either view dating you as a "challenging" exciting non-routine type situation, or worse, women that think they can fix/rescue you from your ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 02:00 AM
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Oh these particular girls are not about common interests, we have none. But they 're awesome to hang out with and just shoot the breeze, bonus they are literally the best wingwomen known to man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 07:51 PM
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absofuckinlutely, once I decide a girl is a friend she's a friend period. There's a limitless supply of hot girls, I can afford to exclude 2-3-5 from the group of "potential" sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 07:29 PM
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like 3 years ago I broke up with a girl I was seeing for 6 months (which counts as a LTR for me) over the phone, from a bathroom in a lounge bar in Miami (I was on a weekend away, we both lived in Silicon Valley at the time). Reason was a) I was bored of the LTR chick and b) crazy hot girl from Argentina. And in my mind phone call breakup was better than "cheating" I 'm a guy though, so outside the scope of your thread. And probably outside of your self torture porn envelope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 07:27 PM
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With men, any attractive woman is always a potential sexual interest. That's dumb. 2 of my closest female friends are crazy hot. I 'm talking real life NY working models that have done VS catwalk hot. I have 0 intent, interest or wish to fuck them. I fuck their friends, but not them. I tell them about their friends, they "recommend" me to their friends, we randomly flirt, but there's 0 potential for sex. And that's conscious. Being sexually attracted to women you have decided are friends is a ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 07:02 PM
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What is BP and what is RP? neither is a concrete uniform group. BP ranges from feminazis to "modern sensitive men", RP ranges from PUAs to traditionalists to latebloomers. RedPill sees things more from masculine POV, hence the distinction, "blue" the norm society conditions you to, the feminine POV, "red" the masculine. But even within those (RedPill defined) opposite views there is insane variation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 05:36 PM
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1) Yes 2) No 3) Yes 4) No PS who the fuck catcalls? I mean I get talking to a girl or whatever but catcalling?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 02:53 PM
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I 've never encountered a unique set of beliefs/worldview. It's naive to think with the internet spreading every conceivable idea/thought globally people exist in an "unique" bubble. Even the nutjobs that think the earth is flat got together and formed a group
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 01:14 AM
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examples? Cause as far as I 'm concerned there's no such thing, everybody fits into a group. Some people like to delude themselves into thinking they don't, but they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 01:09 AM
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well describe what uniqueness the mainstream hates, cause seriously, as far as I can tell unique is mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 01:05 AM
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Actually today uniqueness is looked down upon nope, the opposite. Today people are running around pointing at themselves screaming at anybody that will listen "Hey look at me, I 'm so unique/special" It's like those weird people that self diagnose OCD, ADD etc. "I fold my tshirts, man I 'm so OCD"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 12:59 AM
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everybody's unique, special snowflakes just adore stressing how unique they are. Like they feed off it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 12:49 AM
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A woman who's having casual sex is in it for the sex, not for the longshot at commitment. I agree, and that's why I said the chick in the linked story is crazy. But to be honest, in the sub 30 demographic, in NYC, I can't say I 've noticed an overwhelming amount of girls who think fucking a dude is a prelude to anything more than an uber/cabride home at 1AM. But if those girls exist, then yeah they are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 07:12 PM
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If anybody claims there is an obligation of commitment after consensual casual sex, they are on the express train to crazytown. Same train as the guys that expect sex for being "nice". That's not what the op asked though. Being nice != commit to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 06:57 PM
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I 'm a 28 year old dude that does't do relationships. If there was some widespread culture trying to shame me away from casual sex into relationships I would have noticed. Nice GuysTM are annoying, like I said in your other thread, cause they come across as sycophantic. That's just it. And I find them annoying (I'd say borderline pitiable) even though I 'm a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 06:55 PM
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1 post account ... fine I 'll ignore the obvious alt is obvious and engage (even though I wonder why the fuck you felt you needed to post this from a separate acount) but anyways ... who the fuck ever claimed there are no crazy bitches out there that compelled you to triumphantly announce you found one? Yeah lots of women have unrealistic expectations. Yeah lots of women rationalize casual sex as a prelude to a relationship. And? Does that make "nice guys" magically more appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 06:30 PM
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Sex is just sex, I don't get what you 're trying to get at ... Define being nice maybe? Anyways, personally I don't magically transform after sex. I remain the same person I was before sex. Probably more sleepy, but still the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 05:56 PM
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If you've had a fair share of tail, then you are bad at dating because you couldn't make a relationship work for an extended period of time. Nope, I just don't need a relationship. The fact you may need one doesn't mean I 'm dysfunctional for not needing one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 02:41 PM
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as a dude, cause they lack the balls to be straight up about what they want. I find it slimey ... guess I just don't care for sycophants
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 02:47 AM
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Some guys are fake nice, just acting over the top "nice" to compensate for their total lack of charisma/looks/whatever. And usually don't take rejection gracefully. And yeah those types of guy are annoying as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 01:41 AM
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cause ... the most common one word descriptor for omega dudes is "creepy" ...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 09:44 PM
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In real life, we see foreign men take defeated women by the truckload. (...)Women want victors. That shit's more about survival than some inane desire to fuck victors. The equivalent happened later, in Germany. Lots of women befriended the conquerors cause that was their only means to put food on the table. And since soldiers were male, not female, the male civilian population couldn't try and fuck their way to a loaf of bread and a bar of chocolate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 06:53 PM
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Susan Boyle isn't that unattractive Yeah sure (that's her pretty version, the unpretty version is this)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 05:14 PM
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dude Susan Boyle finally got her first date at 53, and she was famous partway through that ... I am sure you are exaggerating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 05:04 PM
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Statistically you are talking about 2.8% of males and 1.7% of females (people aged 25-44 with 0 sexual partners as per the CDC ) so yeah there's more men but it's not exclusively men. And I am sure within that 1.7% it's not girls turning dudes down cause the dudes don't have a six pack, a lambo and yacht, it's mostly girls that are simply not attractive to the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 04:49 PM
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You 're wrong ... I spent college as the 6'4 jock in a hardcore STEM school with a shitton of introverted nerdy type women, they were as invisible to me at the fat ugly dude is to the cheerleaders, and they were lonely as fuck. They had no clue how to flirt, got completely intimidated if dudes talked to them ... and got passed on, even by nerds,it wasn't pretty. And that continues past college. Go talk to a bunch of single kindergarden teachers, the majority are female, and lots are lonely as fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 01:18 PM
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I have a right to not date anyone without a drop of not european blood, but it doesn't make it reasonable "reasonable"? Freedom is about being allowed to make any choices you wanna make. I don't get why you got such an obsession with imposing your preference on other people. It's like you hate a bunch of people for creating little boxes they wanna fit other people in, and your retort is noooooooo you fuckers should fit into the boxes I created, cause I put "reasonable" and "PC" stickers on them …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 02:42 AM
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Umm personally I 'm by no means a TRP expert ... So ... yeah ... still not really convinced they advocate seeking out virgins, sounds kinda dumb if they really do that and you're not just making it up. Aside from that, people are free to have any preferences they want. I don't fuck fat chicks. You wanna tell me I 'm a bad person? IDGAF about your opinion, it's my preference. Some dudes think chicks with n>x are not wife material, they have a fucking right to think anyway they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 02:33 AM
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I just find it ironic that trpers want to be sluts, while at the same time not wanting to date sluts. I 'm pretty sure their take is more "since everybody's fucking around let go of your romantic notions of the perfect girl and go fuck around too" Beyond that who each person chooses to commit to is their business. If a bunch of dudes don't wanna commit to chicks with n>x it's their business, if a bunch of chicks don't wanna commit to dudes where dude's income < chick's income it's their business…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 02:20 AM
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Men think with their dicks. In other shocking news, the earth is round. And the sky is often blue. PS Cam Newton is the posterchild for the kid coming into money carrying a golddigger along for the ride
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 01:44 AM
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dude no ... unsolicited dick pics is awkward horny dude territory ... Sexually successful men have social skills, by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 05:40 PM
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Is sending sexual pictures and messages to a very attractive women while in a relationship a form of male hypergamy? it's a form of horny thirsty dude plus the illusion of anonymity What do you think of women holding men accountable for this kind of behavior? I 'm all for holding people accountable for their behavior. Though personally, in the reverse situation, if I saw a super slutty chick I doubt I 'd google her bf and "slut shame" her, but then again if you wanna go for it, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 05:24 PM
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in 2016? 7 in NYC and 2 in London (but I 've only been here 3 days) ... but don't assume just cause NYC is Tinder on easy mode I 'm implying if you live in Palookaville North Dakota 50 miles from the nearest pop 5000 town your experience will be similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 03:20 PM
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Why was I pathetic at making omelettes till somebody that knew their shit showed me how to make a really good omelette?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 03:01 PM
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Most men I see on a day to day basis have extreme cases of oneitis and are beta as fuck. Umm didn't you just answer your own question there? Cause some men will benefit by being less pathetic in their interactions with women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 02:47 PM
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I just think people overthink online .. especially Tinder. In my experience you just need a short lighthearted convo, and the mindset that goes we find each other attractive lets meet and figure things out in person. That's where 80%+ of the girls I meet through Tinder fall. The remaining 20% that want to have super long super involved conversations about the meaning of life I just ghost ... I mean who the fuck has time to sit there and endlessly text with a stranger. The premise "meet someone s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:10 PM
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It's trying to assess your Tinder Market Value ... how useful you are to the people using Tinder and how attractive they perceive you as. Really, get the best pictures you can (min 3) and restart your account. And the first 30 or so profiles you get when you restart are "special", you can't superlike them and they don't count for your daily quota. From those only rightswipe girls that you think are within your "range", yeah leftswipe the 5-6 super hot ones and the 5-6 buttugly ones. Then you 'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 10:57 AM
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you fall lower in the swipe order ... you 're basically swiping people that won't see you, unless they sit and swipe for 5 hours non-stop
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 10:22 AM
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Yes I swipe Right to everyone. don't, tinder will punish you, trust me. If you have few matches, delete and restart account, and swipe selectively. And also don't keep idle matches around, talk or unmatch, Tinder will punish you for keeping matches with no conversations. get good pictures. Doesn't have to be pro pictures, but make them good, like have a girl vet them. You think your selfie is cool, in reality you probably look like a creepy loner. Dudes don't photograph well on average. also ...…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 10:11 AM
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In MA "making a false police report" was if memory serves a $500 fine so ...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 09:41 PM
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If you do the math (20% * 5.9%), this works out to less than 2% of all people who are charged with rape actually being convicted of rape in a court of law. Just noticed this ... no it doesn't work out to that, that's terrible math a) you forgot those that enter a guilty plea, those get convicted too ;) and b) the 20% isn't 20% of people that are charged with rape get arrested, it's 20% of reports lead to an arrest (after you take away exceptionally cleared, false, baseless, inactive etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 09:40 PM
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A while ago, when a girl used to ask me for help with something be it with a class or something else, I would answer immediately(via text), and help them without question. That's not "treating them as equals" though ... that's just being the guy they take for granted. And sadly the guy they take for granted never fucks. C'est la vie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 07:02 PM
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meh shit like that usually generates more sales tbh *I got no clue who/what Roosh is and what the books contain
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 06:47 PM
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But only convictions for false accusations count. There's no such thing, you can't be "convicted" for making a false accusation, at least in the US. In theory a person can be charged with perverting the course of justice, but that's a one in billion chance of actually happening to a person alleging rape. The accused can in theory pursue the matter in the civil courts, but hardly ever happens cause there's no upside to it According to the methodology used by RAINN The RAINN methodology is cooking…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 06:17 PM
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Yup and this isn't what counts as a malicious report, that's what you don't seem to get. A malicious report is Bob raped me at 9pm on Saturday, meanwhile Bob got on a plane for a 5 hour flight at 7pm Saturday. Provably false, aka malicious. What you just described is in the 84.4% where the issue is consent. "I regret having sex with Bob so call it rape" isn't provably false. You did have sex with Bob. Bob can't prove he was having Daiquiris at a bar in Miami at the time, he was there having sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 05:15 PM
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nope that is completely wrong, the malicious reports (or the reports that the police know the accuser was lying, or the provably false reports, however you choose to call them) are not the problem. If it's immediately obvious the report is false the accused suffers minimal consequences. Nor by the way are they a "negligible" amount, 7.1% isn't negligible,. The problem isn't that 7.1% of obviously false reports, not in the other 8.5% of obviously true rape reports. The problem is in the 84.4% in …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 04:52 PM
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Both my sisters are in college, one is sophomore on the East Coast, the other is in grad school on the West Coast. They both see the same shit, if you are the gullible type you will get terrorized with crazy numbers advocacy groups quote. They don't quote them in error, they quote them knowing full well they (meaning the advocacy groups) gain power and relevance if they succeed in terrorizing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 01:40 PM
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It is frequently claimed that only 2-8% of rapes reported to police are false. The 8% figure comes from a miss-attribution to an FBI presentation. The FBI said 8% of reported rape cases were provably false, as that got re-reported the provably part was lost and it became "only 8% of reported rapes are false". Provably false means that by FBI standards of proof the person accused could prove they weren't (for example) even present when the alleged rape occurred. Beyond that of course figures get …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 01:25 PM
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Most people they interact with have no problem with picking up obvious subtle clues, reading between the lines and recognizing body language and tone of voice. Dude, next time somebody gets charged with rape they should hire you to explain to the court all about body language and subtle clues. I 'm sure it will go down well. Personally, I get enough girls and NOs are infrequent enough that I can just treat NOs as NOs instead of worrying about the r word. Oftentimes, though, I admit the consequen…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 02:12 PM
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It is perfectly fine to have any dealbreakers you choose to have, and anybody that tries to judge you on them or guilt trip you into changing them is retarded. So long as you are civil about it. And obviously it goes both ways, you shouldn't get salty when other people find dealbreakers in you that you feel are unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 02:08 PM
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A lot of of PUAs built a business model that was based around getting the bald awkward fat dude to part with x thousand dollars for a "system" that got him women. Part of the sales pitch was the whole "looks don't matter" mantra, this kinda thing for example
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 11:44 PM
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On the other hand you have guys who think that looks don't matter and you can overcome any sort of physical shortcoming, regardless of how extreme, with good enough "game". I 'm no expert on RP but that's pretty much the polar opposite of what they say from my understanding. Their rule 1 is pretty much be the most attractive version of yourself you can be, then do whatever. I think you 're confusing PUAs that try to sell confidence to the fat dude that aint getting none with TRP. Nice rant other…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 11:01 PM
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It's a circular discussion, the 180 view is man is encouraged to not empathize with the other tribe cause one day he may have to defend his own tribe against them, and having empathy for the men he 'll have to kill is bad, or indeed go plunder the other tribes resources if his tribe lacks resources. The woman suffers no consequences if she empathizes, cavewoman Jane's maximal chance of survival was seeking protection from whoever won the fight. But anyways, I don't agree with the premise ...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 04:47 PM
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achieve gender equality equality != sameness , start there, or since you 're STEM = is different to ≡
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 03:32 PM
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so I tend to think of human behavior as a function of inputs (mostly social environment), so if you change the inputs, you'd have different results regarding social behavior That assumes a linear cause->effect relationship. There isn't one though, in human behavior. You take two children, adopt them into the same family as infants there will be similarities between the two, but there will also be massive differences in stuff as basic as personality, cognition, psych ... that's been tried and exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 03:21 PM
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Except we are not discussing feral children here. You (and lots of Gender Studies type derivatives) make blanket statements. "All humans are the same". "Any deviation in preference is the result of imperfect social structures" when in reality you are just struggling to assign causality to behavior that doesn't fit your predetermined pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 03:08 PM
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Humans are social beings whose behavior towards other humans is mostly a product of the environment That's a social sciences construct, not "The Truthtm ". Just cause it aligns with your personal views doesn't mean Social sciences constructs dont often crash and burn in very spectacular fashion. They too are theories, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 02:44 PM
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disempowering the woman and making her an emotional slave to the man spent a very fun weekend with a very empowered lawyer girl that works in one of the WS adjacent firms that kept saying she fucking hates men that take no initiative and want the share the burden in everything ... went so far as to call such men spineless reminds me of that old opinions are like assholes thing ...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 02:28 PM
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you can spot the extremes, the guy that tries too hard to be cocky/confident/blasé etc and doesn't pull it off cause it's unnatural to him. And you spot the sniveling idiot that's so desperate he basically showers every girl with attention/compliments/niceness in hopes of getting some. What's in between you probably can't spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 01:18 PM
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But in making paternity conditional on a test rather than the say-so of the mother, it has removed from women a powerful instrument of choice. I’m not sure that many people are much happier for it. That chick's on drugs, and pretty potent ones at that ^
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 07:25 PM
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Nope, no obligations to anyone means I get devote my time to my career without any guilt. Nobody making demands on my time = I get to assign my time according to my own selfish priorities. My education's done, money's veeeery very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 03:09 PM
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Spinning plates is a dumb concept. Call it having girls in your rotation, that's the NY PC term. And girls have guys in rotation. Anyway, phrased like that is a bit like "what fun is having fun, except having fun that doesn't count"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 03:02 PM
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on what? I get to be a self centered asshole and nobody cares. I get all the sex I want without any obligations. I want to travel? I know 20 girls that are happy to, in fact I told 3 girls I 'll be in London next week, all three came up with some variation of "I should tag along, make a long weekend of it" (I live in NYC). If I hadn't made other plans, I would have taken one up on the offer. I feel like grabbing a drink with someone new on Thursday night, no biggie. Half an hour on Tinder and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 02:37 PM
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Umm yeah? As a man I can get everything I want, without actually having to commit to anything and suffer no stigma for doing so. Not married, and see no point to any type of commitment at this point in my life. TBH the only sane reason I see to commit is having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 02:26 PM
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Self centered asshole, get bored of women really really easily. Do you actively work on fixing your flaw nope 28M
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 11:12 AM
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People on the net rage about things they can't rant about in real life. You need to filter the net, a lot of what you perceive as rage is just dweebs ranting/venting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 05:15 AM
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In the real world? Doubt anybody gives a fuck. Unless we are talking something extremely ethically/morally questionable. A woman being a lawyer isn't some mythical beast you only encounter once in a lifetime, you walk into any random midtown bar in NY half the women in it will be lawyers. You walk into a random spa in the OC half the women will be some variant of housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 05:07 AM
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How do you treat people who live lifestyles that aren't your views? umm I don't care? I mean ... you seriously think people walk around obsessing about how other random people live their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 04:54 AM
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I 'm a dude and I don't really keep a record of how many pretty/ugly chicks I cross paths with on my way to get my morning coffee or walking to the gym. I 'd find anybody that does weird. In terms of tinder, I find maybe 10% of women to fall within my personal definition of hot, a lot more, maybe over 40-50% to fall within my personal definition of fuckable. Which is what you wanna know. So you might as well just have asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 02:39 AM
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One of these most resentful aspects of TRP regarding us, women, is the hypergamy falsehood, this idea that all women would be only interested in 20% of the men, thus the other 80% of male populace would need to mistreat and lash out their repressed urges atr the women left over by the 20% In strict terms hypergamy means dating someone of a higher class. In adapted terms, my understanding, is it is used as dating someone the woman sees as more "valuable" than herself, and that can refer to looks,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 02:09 AM
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That's mostly special snowflakes tbh ... "don't call me as slut for posting my ass on IG" plust the whole dumbass "derogatory terms are bad" brigade. In the real world I don't see anybody particularly caring. Mostly cause the majority of casual sex isn't a football team gangbanging a girl, it's mostly 2-3 consenting adults that don't really broadcast their business on a live stream.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 02:28 PM
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I 'm enjoying casual sex, I support sexual liberation vehemently. You 're stuck beating off to porn, you don't have to support it. The next obvious question though is who cares if you support it or not. I mean I don't mean to be an ass but say there are 1.5 million people in NYC enjoying non-commitment sex, do you think those 1.5 million people care if you support their choice or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 01:45 PM
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meh model is model is model ... my personal line is porn. Chick does idk, midget gangbangs, I aint touching that shit. Playboy is really not all that big a difference from maxim or whatever. pretty girl being pretty with no clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 09:33 PM
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Do you think I am ridiculous in making these judgements? you are phrasing them ridiculously ... I can't be assed to read a biography on dead glamour model ... so going from OPs summation and assuming it to be accurate, would I tell a dude don't marry a VS model cause she's a glorified "sex object" ? Hell no Would a I tell a dude don't start a family with a drug addict? Hell yes. Beyond that it's all forks in a road unknown and all that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 09:23 PM
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You 've lost your shit, srsl, you 're recounting the op from your third account. My truth is fine, 28, getting my pick from NYU. And I 'm not a TRP salesman, but the point at hand is completely ridiculous. "Do I get to fuck rich sorority girls as a 30 yo". Maybe you can, judging by your posts I highly doubt it. But, out of curiosity, if they 're poor sorority chicks your peepee don't say hi? Is it something specific? Do you have a specific sorority you wanna rail through for your 30th bday? Anyw…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 08:09 PM
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is that your third account? I 'm not salty, OP is, over missing the college fucktrain ... and he's whining about it nonstop, like a good passive aggressive Edit: scratch that question, this is indeed your third account https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3ykbdy/at_what_age_does_your_window_of_opportunity_to/ get over it dude, you fucked up college, fix your shit and go have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 07:54 PM
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dude why do you post the shame shit over and over from two different accounts? literally ... last night ... right down to the "rich sorority sisters" https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/41mv6f/how_hard_is_it_to_actually_get_high_smv_college/ get over your unhealthy obsession for sorority chicks. seriously. you 're becoming borderline creepy. You want a better life work for it. Sitting there obsessing over fucking up in college and emerging a virgin ain't gonna solve anything
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 07:49 PM
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But adopting an abusive mindset Could you give me a breakdown of this abusive mindset? Genuinely curious. Simple bullet points/list will do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 07:26 PM
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Women rated 80% of men on OKCupid as BELOW AVERAGE looking (which is statistically IMPOSSIBLE). Attractive men are RARE. nah, men online are just weird ... I have seen female friends' tinders, the sheer amount of dudes that just can't take a decent pic to save their lives is astounding. Beyond that no, there's lots of attractive men around and I don't just mean in LA. Not all of them are Alphas that just rail through chicks, trust me, lots of them can't even talk to a girl. Yes, but being a frat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 06:12 PM
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Oh, i didn't realize it took effort to be 6'1" with a symmetrical face. I guess technically speaking, you do have to pay dues to a fraternity. That's... something... i guess. 6'1'' with a symmetrical face makes you probably attractive, not Alpha by definition. There's an endless sea of attractive dudes that are in no way shape or form alpha I went to a university with a division 1 football program. The funny thing is, it was a mediocre football program, but the football players were notorious fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 05:57 PM
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No you seem to be struggling with the concept of logic. And on top of that you're going for the classic "let me attribute things this guy didn't say" to him so that I can manufacture myself a position of moral superiority. Any arbitrary forced ratio is by definition limiting excellence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 03:28 PM
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No, I am assuming the obligation to pick 6 women introduces an arbitrary standard that differs from who is best. If the top 12 are 8 male and 4 female I have to drop 2 males that are in the top 12 and select 2 females that are not. If it just works out that the top 12 are an even split, I 'm fine. If it works out that the top 12 are 4 men and 8 women I am fine. I am not fine with having to go outside the top 12 to satisfy an arbitrary notion of equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 02:41 PM
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No feminism self defined as a movement that sought to achieve equal rights for women, not all people, just women. In fact a huge amount of criticism aimed at feminism, even as recently as the 80s, was that it was solely focused on the white middle class woman and ignored everybody else. Post second wave feminism locked itself up in the echochamber that is libarts academia and appointed itself the final judge and arbiter of all gender relations. The fact they appointed themselves doesn't mean I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 02:29 PM
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Trust me, a lot for what passes for "BP opinion" is just politically correct platitudes ... just cause RP is a bubble doesn't mean BP isn't one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 01:54 PM
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Then by definition this (referenced in the op) Feminism is truly for the rights of all people. I cannot stress that enough. is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 01:50 PM
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put in the work to get representation, but don't tell me I must pick 50% women for my board ignoring who's more qualified to be in my board, I want the best 12 people, not the best 6 men and the best 6 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 01:40 PM
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equal rights, equal obligations, equal opportunities. The current trend that interprets equal as identical little bland robots and sets a bunch of irrelevant Gender Studies majors as the defacto arbiters of what that bland robot behavior should be leaves me massively uninterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 01:07 PM
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It's too vague a question ...status is missing from the list and it's a major factor. Yeah yeah I know, reddit doesn't care, my real world experience is different. Beyond that looks opens the door,if we 're talking about total strangers. Anybody that claims their MO is "Oh hey ugly repulsive stranger, buy me a drink, I sense you have a winning personality" is fucking insane. But a crappy personality can definitely close an open door. Values/Stability are more LTR issues, not sexual attraction is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 01:01 AM
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I think you guys obsess too much with figuring out absolute truths (tm) ... Yeah on average a girl will fuck upwards when she wants casual sex, cause quite simply she can, since she's not expecting commitment she can look at out of her league guys, and the guys since they are not offering commitment will look below their league. Think of it as bartering. Beyond that the world doesn't work in absolutes. If there's dudes that really get turned on by landwales, then there probably are chicks that g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 06:16 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/B8NmcVB.png "Overview of Studies" Studies 1 and 2 were with composites, study 3 was not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 05:04 PM
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You need a better troll detector. But even if it wasn't a troll, one poster is irrelevant. Even 10 posters are irrelevant. There's nothing in TRP that even alludes to such lofty goals as reinventing society. All they have is "hey dudes, this is the society we live in, this is the dating environment you exist in, you want the best outcome for you, the dude, do this". It's no different that you saying, the best outcome for me is to do this and the other to get whatever xyz thing you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 02:51 AM
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Not really, you 're not understanding what you 're reading. Or inspite of your "I 'm a super logical thinker" assertion, you 're just reading emotionally. They are not revolutionaries that want to change society, they are simply laying out a best outcome guide, in their view, for men in the current society we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 02:37 AM
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Australian. So I 'm guessing that Turnbull dude shut down that 21st Century Ellis Island that passes for "humane" refugee treatment down there ... or are you guys still paying New Guinea money to take the refugees and stop them from soiling Aussie soil? Just curious, cause I see your righteous indignation in this thread against people that don't actually cattle heard refugees to detention centers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 02:15 AM
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I halfway hope you get Trump, because you deserve to suffer. So you 're not 'murican?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 01:34 AM
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"yellow fever" was a nerd thing, cause the overwhelming majority of girls that tolerated or even dug "nerd things" when "nerd things" weren't so mainstream were Asian. So the Asian girl was a nerd's moby dick. PS talking about the US specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 12:24 AM
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If you want to make society unfair for me, I'll play as dirty as I can. Sorry but the ends justify the means and sometimes there is collateral damage in fighting for what is right What's actually hilarious (and this coming from someone that has browsed TRP without actually identifying as RP or even trying to be RP) is you just summed up TRP pretty much perfectly in that little sentence and a half. The only difference is you care about you, they care about them. Yet while your motivation is ident…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 11:21 PM
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Cool. And it'd be perfectly fine if your opinion was nobody should ever date people without mental issues. I don't see why I 'd care. You 're bargaining over semantics tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 10:42 PM
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So? Who said I hit on girls at the gym? I still judge them while I 'm doing cardio.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 09:45 PM
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nope I assume all women have put the effort to look as attractive as possible (clothes and makeup) and judge the outcome. If some chick turns up at the gym with clown makeup on I won't think she's having fun with her makeup choices, I 'll assume she's weird af
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 09:35 PM
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Well that's excessive. But I 'd definitely go for the chick paying for pillowcase drycleaning during the smokey eye era. That shit was nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 09:32 PM
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Again, dudes don't give a fuck about makeup trends. We don't subscribe to /r/makeupaddiction. We are binary. Pretty/ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 09:31 PM
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If you are bad with social skills, particularly around women, you need to build those skills by having female friends. There is no downside to this. nope, female friends are good after you know wtf you 're doing. You try and make female friends "to figure out the female psyche" you 'll be the awesome dude nobody fucks, bouncing off walls trying to figure out why all the female friends you got say "aww you 're so awesome, I can't understand why you 're single"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 09:20 PM
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I've noticed a tendency for men, especially under 30 to go for vapid pretty women fixed it for ya ^ and I promise, the vast majority of heteroxual males don't subscribe to /r/makeupaddiction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 08:08 PM
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Meanwhile Asian, Indian and Islamic societies focus far more on marriage than relationships and casual sex. Spent five years in silicon valley, the sheer amount of Asian and Indian men that went nuts at the thought of casual sex, especially with white chicks, was astounding. Literally. I was a rockstar cause hanging around me gave them a shot at sleeping with the ugly friend of the girl I was hitting on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 07:21 PM
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Cause society valued purity in women 100 years ago and it's a latent reflex? But if you 're going for the whole slut thing, you 're heading for a fall. Virgin undesirable != dude with 10000 notches on his bedpost desirable. Women will tell you they don't wanna date a playa, men will tell you they don't wanna date a slut. Get over your fear of words.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 07:09 PM
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He's more likely to find a unicorn among the many and go she's the love of my life than to crave sex. Most low n count guys I know are low n count cause they are searching for that mystical being that will instantly love them for "who they are", they crave validation way more than they crave sex. Those guys that dig sex make an effort to get it, and usually figure out a way to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 06:59 PM
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A virgin is undesirable cause nobody else wants him, the whole he'll be unfaithful cause he'll be desperate for sex is ridiculous. If he's getting sex he won't be desperate for it. The only "sideeffects" of a 30yo virgin is he probably has no clue how to behave around women. Cause if he did he wouldn't be a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 06:52 PM
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And yet people were having sex purely for pleasure, not procreation, thousands of years before contraception. PS the stone age started over 3 million years ago, there's a huge gap in the whole "lizard brain" theory that gets thrown around the PUA circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 09:23 PM
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My impulses are to wrap my dick and pull out, yes both, so I promise you they know all about contraception. Your impulses crave the sweet sweet post orgasmic dopamine, what you 're suggesting is pseudo science, not real science. Recreational sex is an evolutionary trait subject itself to selection, this whole school of thought that selection stopped at foraging is not really ... scientific ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 09:08 PM
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From a science POV fucking around is irrelevant unless it's a strategy for producing offspring. Science doesn't care I get to fuck a lot cause I 'm tall and pretty and athletic, for science that's an alternative to me playing ping pong or watching a movie. Casual Sex, unless the intent of it is to procreate, is irrelevant as far as this particular paper goes. I hope that clarifies it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 09:01 PM
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Dude goes to Afghanistan, gets both his legs blown off, reality (no matter what Reddit crazies will tell you) he'll have a lot of trouble dating when he gets back home. Dude is 5'2'' he has trouble dating. Neither of the above are strictly within their control. The dividing line in being an "asshole" is simpler, "fuck off, I don't wanna date a cripple/rape victim/dwarf" to their face makes you an asshole. Internally having a set of standards/preferences, whatever those might be is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 07:46 PM
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I don't think you get what "sexual strategy" means from a scientific POV. Let me help ya out. "Having fun" doesn't enter into the realm of a sexual strategy. Beyond that yes, I know it, and enjoying the benefits of it immensely, thanks for asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 05:48 PM
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Dude ... reading 43 page scientific essay in order to participate in a Reddit thread is a bit of a tall order. Perhaps add an abstract. Beyond that, humans are somewhere in between a Tournament Species and Pair Bonding species. A Tournament species comes with a specific sexual strategy: a female expects no nurture from the male, so she just selects on the basis of the best possible genes to pass on to her offspring. That means you get extremes, stuff like 5% of males being responsible for 95% of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 05:34 PM
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There is no TRP/BP online, especially on Tinder. There's she thinks you 're hot and there's she doesn't. I literally got a chick's number by saying Hodor <punctuation mark> 5 times one time. Was drunk, don't judge
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 09:35 PM
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A suspect should be anonymous until charged with a crime. Anything else is cannibalism. Once prosecuting authorities have enough to charge a person with crime, talk all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 05:20 PM
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tl;dr confidence is good ps so you 're basically saying ban makeup right? What's your stance on pushup bras? Having an attractive physique makes you attractive to that subset of the population that values an attractive physique. Take a chill pill, it's not "lying" it's just presenting the most attractive version of yourself you can. If your most attractive version is a potbelly and 5 missing teeth, go with that, and report your findings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 03:45 PM
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Yeah it is You can also have your life ruined by your case being mishandled and not taken seriously. You can have your case mishandled != it's ok to throw way any due process and have a he said/she said. You can't sit back and say I 'm ok with the potential of 10 innocent people suffering so long as x victims get justice, that's not how society works. If it did we 'd all be out with shotguns dispensing on the spot justice to whoever we thought wronged us. And no victim's advocates are not equipp…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 03:31 PM
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That's akin to me saying quit crying about rape, just wear chastity belts. Meaning that's dumb. "Justice" relies on proving someone guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. You can't subvert justice and substitute your own judicial system cause you like the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 03:20 PM
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They can fuck up a person's life with 0 accountability (ok they can be sued in civil court) and 0 due process. Or do you think some guy that gets kicked out of school x that's cost him $y on junior year doesn't get his life fucked? You think he just casually moves over to college z, say hey I got kicked out of x for rape, let's talk transferring credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 03:15 PM
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False rape accusations are bad. Obviously that is the case. The reason I won't accept this is that there are a relatively small number of false rape accusations that we definitely know about. But then MRAs claim that any case where there is not a conviction must be a false accusation. This just doesn't stand up to scrutiny. We have a system that in cases of allegations of rape in a college campus there's a committee and an advocate, with 0 burden of proof, that sit down, have a she said he said …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 02:34 PM
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I 'm not sure this thread makes sense. Abundance, in simple terms, is the super hot girl that doesn't give a fuck about any specific dude, cause she can get any dude. That, translated to male. Going on a million dates and holding a million girls hands doesn't give you an abundance mentality. Heck even sex doesn't give you an abundance mentality, by default. Abundance is something you have to internalize. Sexual experience gives confidence, and a better understanding of women as it relates to you…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 02:09 PM
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From the linked article A woman's desirability peaks at 21, which, ironically enough is the age that men just begin their "prime," i.e. become more desirable than average. Following that dotted line out, statistically speaking, you can see that a woman of 31 is already "past her prime," while a man doesn't become so until 36. As we mentioned above, after age 26, a man has more potential matches than his female counterparts, which is a drastic reversal of the proportion in young adulthood, when w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 09:23 AM
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(b) anything related to rape this fucking infuriates me ... the fact you nonchalantly say IDGAF about "innocent until proven guilty" so fuck him, chick accuses him of rape, throw him to the wolves, no need to protect him you know, cause reasons. Nobody would give a fuck about fraudulent rape accusations if the accused didn't you know, get his life ruined in the process. Beyond that ... paternal rights. You and a chick have an unplanned pregnancy you have no rights. If she decides to keep the bab…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 12:50 AM
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that shit's coded in your dna over a few tens of thousands of years of evolution, it's not gonna magically change cause a or b wants it to. A man will be expected to take the (figurative) punches and shut up, if a woman takes a (figurative) punch the village will circle the wagons to protect/comfort her. It's not about equality, it's about recognizing that even though we are equals we are not identical. The above doesn't mean that respect isn't a two way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 07:56 PM
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the poophole loophole
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 07:45 PM
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you realize years ago America had this debate publicly, it was even the subject of an impeachment hearing of none other than the damn POTUS, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 07:21 PM
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Probably irrelevant to this thread, moreso relevant to the title, but that's how men think. Competitively. When I was in college we got a (very respected) STEM type professor (female) lecturing us on how we should eradicate the competitive culture from STEM education cause women hate it and that's why they don't go STEM. Nobody gave a fuck, us males went on competing. On topic, it's not competition, it's comparison. Sometimes when you 're on a ship that's just collided with an iceberg it's kinda…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 07:19 PM
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After a certain age they marry for prestige not sex, these dudes will need a system of hydraulic lifts and a ramp to get it up. The 20 year old has no prestige to give you, she's obviously there for the cash. You need someone that can at least try to sell they were attracted to you on some level. Obvious exception that one foot in the grave hero that married Anna Nicole Smith (?) all those years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 06:56 PM
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simple "ayyy baby, I gots 11 billion in this bank account here. Want half?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 06:39 PM
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sure it would, can't be a 70 year old president (not saying he will be, saying he aspires to be) with a 20 year old wife. Nobody would vote that in. His daughter is mid 30s or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 06:34 PM
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it's a dumb question I never ask but if I got super drunk and did lots of drugs and somehow asked... I guess just the number
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 06:23 PM
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Clooney is 15 years older than his wife, Trump's like 25 years older. Bad examples for dating close to your age. Di Caprio's 4x dun remember exactly, he' still chasing 25 year old VS models. If the average 35 year old is interested in dating the average 50 year old nobody's gonna say she's too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 06:14 PM
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That's plutocracy not patriarchy. Unless you think only males inherit money/ownership/influence. Beyond that, yes obtaining power requires sacrifices. For example you wanna be CEO of a Fortune 100 company (position of power) you got to make your peace with either no family, or not seeing your family except on weekends cause you 'll be working 12 hour days to get there. More men than women are willing to make that sacrifice. And I said more - than, not all - none.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 03:46 PM
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As the dumb idea that unless positions of power are divided equally between the genders then women are oppressed. Which conveniently ignores the scientific fact that men don't have an own gender bias (women do, men don't cause it didn't suit evolution for men to have an own gender bias). And also conveniently ignores the fact that power demands sacrifices to obtain, and a lot of women are just not willing to make those sacrifices to obtain it. Patriarchy was relevant 100 years ago. Today it's ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 03:02 PM
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In my case I 'm 100% clear about my intentions, and I have no delusion I got the rabbit's foot and just luck into meeting women that just want fun. Tinder agrees with me tbh. The NY bar scene also agrees with me. Past ONS, Men have girls "in rotation", girls have dudes "in rotation", occasionally they refresh the rotation with fresh talent, everybody's happy. Dunno how shit works in Suburbia.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 02:49 PM
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and you can't treat men as your beck and call providers of validation/free dinners/commitment depending on your mood and complain when they don't like it. Beyond that your idea that hookup culture = dudes going around making false promises is wrong. At least in America. Hookup culture is very transparent, we 're just sex, nothing else. The idea of dudes going around promising LTRs just to get in a girl's pants and ghost the fuck out is probably about 20 years out of date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 02:36 PM
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I 'm 28 so women 35 or older are irrelevant to me, aside from veeery rare hookups. Beyond that I did't turn dating into a marketplace, feminism did. I just think it's dumb to underestimate your own value in the marketplace you are forced to participate in just cause it suits women and their schedules. They choose to use their looks as bargaining chips, my right to use my commitment as one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 02:16 PM
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What reality are you facing? That these poor defenseless magical wonderful women are single cause of PUAs and RedPillers? That's literally the funniest shit I've heard in this sub, and that's a pretty tall order. Women think the attention they get in their mid 20s will last forever. Then wake up 35 and nobody gives a shit about them, cause they're not that special anymore, and can't handle it. Then this whole "men need to step up" rhetoric gets invented cause it suits their schedule. And having …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 01:58 PM
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a) gollum b) why does this sub have such a hardon for hyperbole?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 11:06 AM
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Only around 18% of American women The link says Americans, not women specifically, and the survey details don't specify a gender in their sample
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 02:15 AM
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Wrap dick. If shit breaks, plan b, best 50 bucks a dude will ever spend
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 01:56 AM
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This commenter said thats why IT SUCKS for women to date in NY because the few men who are economically and socially what they want. who's that commenter? Cause my experience of NY women is different. They move to the big city, want to build a career and party through their 20s (they call it have fun) then hit 35 and are mortified that the 35 year old investment banker that's still single would rather commit to a fun 25 year old rather than awesome them. And then the cycle starts. No men left. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 01:51 AM
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Instead of blaming women, you should really be blaming the PUAs and plate-spinners and all of the MRA guys who are basically misogynists. That's a lovely sentiment, but in reality what happens is these women (not all, these particular ones) go through their 20s with a crazy sense of entitlement, then the biological clock starts pounding somewhere in their early 30s and suddenly, men are awful cause they don't tune their lives around this particular chick's "plan" and "schedule". New York (thankf…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 01:15 AM
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Confidence is both. Confidence is pursuing what you want and expecting to get it (which translates to aggression for some people). Confidence is also not stressing about how I will handle A or B cause I know I can handle both A and B(which translates to calm to some people).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 02:36 PM
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5 isn't alot. The majority is still urban universities, AFAIK, I only spent 6 months there. The point I 'm making, the overwhelming campus culture over here has turned colleges into communities. People actually identify strongly with the college they went to, there are college sports fans as fanatical as ManU or Arsenal fans , there's college rivalries etc. I know this sounds foreign to people that don't experience it in person, but a college football game isn't a thing a few dads and 10 bored s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 01:38 PM
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2 things ... currently Feminism has lost a lot of agency, it's basically a subbranch of a hazy leftist ideal that basically nobody can clearly identify the goals off. Mostly cause those damn goals keep on shifting. The whole SJ invent oppression and fight it miracle the world is experiencing. And when you have to somehow balance the oppressed refugees in Cologne that we need to support, and the women they went out and sexually assaulted, the whole thing just goes to shit. The second thing is thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 12:10 AM
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There isn't a hierachy cause your colleges are structurally different. Over here going to college (on average) = living in a bubble called a campus with 10-20-50,000 of your peers and shitload of organic and/or manufactured opportunities to interact with them. I spent a semester at Imperial College in London and I was just a dude living in Knightsbridge walking to school every day, and the occasional mixer at the student union with the cheap booze. Maybe Oxford/Cambridge are closer to the US exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 07:02 PM
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yeah but DB pushed more shit up his nose (and down his veins) than the average person. Plus he smoked like a chimney.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 06:35 PM
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you do realize that if you want to attract people, being the most attractive version of yourself is the first step, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 04:37 PM
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general "you", not you specifically, I don't even know you. And it's not advice per se, it's simply observation. A charismatic, charming person will have more success than a bland person. Bland != socially awkward.Some people are naturally charismatic and charming, others aren't. The only way to figure out where you stand, and to improve you selling pitch is to socially interact with other people. Just the act of socially interacting doesn't guarantee success, but it improves your odds of succes…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 03:30 PM
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you fail because you don't sell yourself well. Selling yourself isn't monolithic. I 'm 6'4''. I 'm athletic. I can obviously sell myself easier than a 5'6'' fat balding dude. I can also sell myself easier than a 6'4'' athletic hermit. I can also sell myself easier than a 6'4'' athletic dude that's just passive about women, he waits around for a friend to introduce him to a female friend, and hopes the binary click/don't click outcome goes his way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 03:13 PM
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Secondly, it is true that social skills help you to communicate with many women, but communicating with many women does not guarantee success. It's a piece of the puzzle. But it's not everything, of course it isnt. And I promise you, a fat ugly chick that smells isn't "guaranteed" success just cause she talks to alot of dudes. Beyond that you are fighting evolution. Evolution compels the average "woman" to select the best genes she can from a male, cause she can only produce one offspring at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 02:53 PM
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Not true. Dating, like it or not, is a marketplace. You are selling yourself. Like any marketplace, there are traits that are in demand and traits that aren't. If your strength is crochet don't care how much you improve, you ain't getting any. It's no different than the job market. You want a yacht and G6 you need specific skills/strengths to acquire them, being an even better barista won't get you them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 01:51 PM
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Liberating men from their traditional gender role won't fly because Liberating men from their traditional gender role won't fly because there's no way to support the geometric rise in consumption with dudes working part time jobs so that they can play soccer with their kids more. The world as a whole just won't generate the wealth, and when the world ceases generating wealth and consuming guess what happens to our modern economies? They all come crashing down. And neither men, women nor children…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 12:06 AM
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No you weren't. That's what I 'm trying to explain to you but you just ignore it. The numbers are grossly fudged. Or twisted around to fit a narrative. Scroll down on the rainn page. Now look at the references. Then look at the bolded bit (meaning the dates) is the reference for the number of reported rapes (it's shown it the little bar chart image) is the reference for the number of arrests both are 5 year averages BUT 1.Justice Department, National Crime Victimization Survey: 2008-2012 2.FBI, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 10:42 PM
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Again, misattribution of data. The DOJ (that rainn cites as the source of rape report data) doesn't report specifically on rape, it reports on rape/sexual assault ( you can easily google the annual reports). Getting groped on the platform waiting for 6 train is sexual assault (not saying it's OK or not a big deal, just saying it's not rape) but odds are it won't get reported to the police. But rainn uses it as an unreported rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 09:29 PM
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Actually that's a misattribution. The FBI claimed that around 8% of rape accusations are provably false. Provably false means the accused person could prove they weren't even present when the alleged rape occurred. It doesn't mean the remaining reported rapes are provably true. If that makes sense to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 09:18 PM
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Of the two recent ones you cite (the 2010 ones), the one is a study on "the outcome of 51 public exams used to make appointment to four different Corps of the Spanish Judiciary from 1987 to 2007" and I 'd argue what influences that decision processes is moreso political connections than the shape of your genitals. The second is about Spanish public University Professors and I admit I am clueless on what gets person A tenure over person B. But I don't see them quoting data on how many actual Phd …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 07:00 PM
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Call police, provide $5k in marked bills, wear a wire, bust her ass, spend the $5k on an epic party
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 06:48 PM
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Affirmative action is meant to rectify that, especially because for most jobs that have it, the capabilities of men and women are very close, so close that hring 50/50 will barely have an influence on average performance. That's a cliche. Businesses on average want to make money, whoever makes more money for them gets promoted. And occasionally cause we 're not robots the more likeable person for whateverthefuck reason (doesn't have to be about dangly bits, could be cause he/she is more outgoing…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 06:40 PM
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So call yourself egalitarian. Women should (and do) get promoted on merit. Women shouldn't get promoted as part of affirmative action. Women should get in to MIT and go make the same amount amount of money as dudes make. And they do, Google/Apple/MSFT will make you an identical offer when you 're a senior, irrespective of whether you have a penis or a vagina. But women shouldn't get into MIT with lower criteria because of affirmative action. That's where the plot gets lost for a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 06:20 PM
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In theory anything excessive reads obsessive/narcissistic and people (women) say it turns them off. In practice it's different, literally never met a girl that said I wish you were skinnier/had more fat/didn't have washboard abs/whatever. Quite the opposite. And no I don't walk around NY shirtless (ie it's not like the girls I talk to, meet, date have seen the abs and selected me because of them. Obviously Tinder is different)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 05:52 PM
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Who said ALL men are by definition trustworthy and what kind of drugs where they on when they said that? Anyways. Lots of reasons. Men are saps. They are influenced by the traditional gender role of being the "protector" and to some extent a father has the right to feel they are the protector, but fail to notice the world around them has changed. They have their daughters up on a way higher pedestal than even the hottest girl they ever met in their lives. They harbor the illusion they can argue …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 04:48 PM
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Aren't both (assets & custody) on some level financial? In the US at least, if the mother gets custody then the world "freezes" and she is also entitled to a percentage of the the father's income, as it stands at that particular moment the world "froze". Which is also a real life problem, exposed to the extreme in 08 when the crisis hit and suddenly you had lots of guys with substantially less income than before 08 (or 0 income) and inflexible child support obligations. Anyways, I 'm not married…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 03:26 PM
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Oh not this shit again .... OP you keep repeating the same thread every couple of days, it's boring. No your life doesn't end when you graduate from college. But by the same token, no there is no way for you to be a lazy ass failure in everything and get hot girls knocking on your door. You 're just out of college and haven't fucked any/enough girls? Awesome. Go get a job at a bar/club in a partytown in Florida. You 'll fuck lots of hot college age girls, so long as you put in the effort to be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 02:10 PM
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I 've read some comments, I get that trp also functions as an echochamber for a lot of dudes that weren't getting any, or were getting some then got screwed, and these dudes tend to say dumb shit and lash out a lot. Kinda like a mini tumblr. Minus the sjws. And the #killallmen. And the rainbow colored hair. I assume at least, on the hair part, I haven't verified, there may be dudes on trp with rainbow colored hair, no judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 02:19 AM
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isn't trp all about improving appearance and gaining confidence to get more grils? I 'm still confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 02:13 AM
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Umm I don't get this. Feminism allows me to fuck hot young (legal age always) women. Cause they are empowered and don't need no man, except for the occasional sex, and I 'm available to provide the occasional sex without actually having to commit to anything. If no feminism I 'd be married and/or so would all the hot young women. And that would suck. I think trp blame feminism for other stuff, not the availability of hot young women. Unless you 're thinking of the unavaible tumblrinas with their…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 02:06 AM
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And some feminists suggest killing all men ... you know, for someone who keeps harping on about her intelligence you sure can't seem to stop yourself from taking the dumb shit 1-2-5 dudes say and just generalizing the fuck out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 01:17 AM
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That's just naive ... sex slavery exists, it may not exist in high street, usa (as in there's no Russian Mafia busting in and kidnapping chicks from American Suburbia, but it happens elsewhere. Then that chick get sold on and she's literally fucking dudes for food/board and to pay off her "debt" to the dude that bought her, oftentimes with a gun to her family's head back home. Plus she's undocumented, in a foreign country. Rightfully she shouldn't go to jail for that shit. But I got no issues IF…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 09:45 PM
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It's anon people, just assume it's a troll, it's the safest bet
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 08:55 PM
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You do grasp that casual sex is about attraction and sex right? I don't even remember the last hookup that went anywhere but purely superficial conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 05:28 PM
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OP probably means figuratively not literally, a hard to get chick is a challenge that makes the dude try harder, a hard to keep dude is a challenge that makes the chick try harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 03:42 PM
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Anita Sarkeesian, frankly, is hot (especially with red lipstick) and a feminist. Umm, frankly, no she isn't hot. With or without red lipstick. Tumblr has just lowered your standards way too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 03:29 PM
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Oh I 'm in CompSci/EE ->Tech, there's a lot of shy/introverted type girls in my field that I've been intimidating since I was in college. It's not so much age, it's mostly I 'm tall, athletic, outgoing and really the take charge type, which is pretty much the exact opposite of what you 'd expect in this field and they kinda short circuit, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 07:51 PM
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Do you exercise at all? Cardio type exercise gives you a natural high (and will probably help with the appearance side of things). Doesn't have to be super high impact, even a spin class helps a ton, added bonus, it makes you social. As to height, who gives a fuck. OK you probably won't get the 6ft blondes but there's a huge amount of girls under 5'6'' that are very attractive, and so log as you carry yourself with confidence won't give a damn you 're not 6' tall
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 07:40 PM
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28M Can't say there's a specific type. There's probably a disproportionate amount of college age girls interested in me, which I guess is flattering. Aside from that it's pretty much a kaleidoscope, from career type girls in Finance to artsy types to fashion girls to the idk wtf I 'm doing party girls. I have a strong dislike for hipsters so whether they like me or not doesn't even register. And I think I tend to intimidate the really super shy/super introverted types.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 07:04 PM
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Yeah that's hipsters, I literally told a friend that works on Tinder I 'd pay $50/month just to keep Williamsburg the fuck out of my Tinder range
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 04:50 PM
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I got a beard, another thing girls on tinder, at least in NYC, will say they don't care for, then yeah they kinda like it. A lot. I think trp is kinda right on this, don't listen to girls when they tell you what they like .. oftentimes they 'll just say things they think they should say they like. Social conditioning and all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 04:40 PM
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I 'm not dumb, off course I provide the alibi that "it's a beach pic" Even though I 'm in NYC and it's fucking January :p
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 04:36 PM
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No you see what happens on Tinder is a fuckton of grils include a no shirtless pics disclaimer. So all the nice guys say hey this is awesome, girls don't like douchey dudes with shirtless pics. Then the same girls superlike me and my shirtless pic and it's hilarious to me, not so much to the non-douchey dudes with the borrowed puppy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 04:13 PM
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I don't disagree with you, I 'm just saying, these types of people are naturally drawn to echochambers. Call them trp, tumblr, twox, whatever. Dudes have far fewer echochambers available to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 04:04 PM
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Short version of how I found this whole subset of the internet. Dude I knew IRL when I lived in SV, geek, average, 0 success with the grils, got a job at one of the big 4, met a girl, wanted casual, ended up married with a kid, found out kid wasn't his, stuck paying child support cause his name is on the birth certificate and isn't allowed to dispute paternity. That dude will lash out IDGAF about your sensibilities. Fuck, if he manages to just evolve into merely untrusting of women and not to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 03:50 PM
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There's a fuckton of dudes that post on TRP cause they got burned after being nice. And a lot of other dudes that spent x years being "average" and getting nothing for it. Those dudes will lash out, exaggerate, whatever. Beyond that, a lot of it is nothing more than a Cosmo article on how to lock down that successful bachelor, just from the opposite side, with a male agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 03:30 PM
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Oh I just asked cause that's what the sidebar says, over at the tbp. So with that in mind, why is uniformly wrong to promote a male centric view, even if you only disagree with parts of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 03:14 PM
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Details, things she's put some effort into. You said courting, so compliment the dress, the shoes, not the overall generic compliments. Something that shows you noticed her putting effort in. Further along (probably since you chose the word "courting" a lot further along), a girl does her squats, I ll compliment that ass. Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 02:24 PM
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Define compliments. Generic compliments (you 're hot/beautiful/blah blah) are every loser's goto and are very ineffectual. Complimenting details, sparingly, not a barrage, gets received as more sincere (and is more effective)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 02:16 PM
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At this point in my life, yes, no commitment + focus on my career is how I choose to live, and I 'm happy. Forever, I don't have a clue, I doubt I 'll be on Tinder at 55 or whatever swiping chicks and arranging hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 02:13 PM
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So everyone on tbp thinks that everyone on trp are basically a circle jerk that discusses rape strategies?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 02:01 PM
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Attraction is physical, nice or bad boy are selling points. Nice definitely takes a fuckton more effort though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 01:48 PM
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Define success. The polar opposites are I 'll do anything for the one girl cause she's my special unicorn - IDGAF about this chick cause there's literally a million similar or better chicks within 4sq miles (Manhattan, deal with it) By definition, over an arbitrary period of time, the latter will "go through" more women. That's one metric of success. And by definition the former will have longer relationships, that's another definition of success. The problem is there is no singular definition o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 01:36 PM
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Maybe, if they had the right friends. But I suspect part of the problem is they don't have the right friends, cause there's always an ugly chick in a group, the right friends would have helped the dude get her. The other part of the problem is they are so fucking insecure they crave the validation of someone "liking them for who they are" more that physical intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 04:40 PM
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It's shameful now cause back then you had 2 options to fuck. Your wife or a prostitute. There was no casual sex. Now everybody gets it for free, so the dudes stuck having to pay for it cause they can't get it for free are either a pariah or fucking unattractive. Obv though you have the parties in Vegas with the $1000 hookers, those don't count, they are not out of lack of options, they are a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 04:23 PM
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Women get an easier ride, socially, than men. You take a 5 man and a 5 woman, she'll get more "concessions", it's not just the hot in demand women. Being bitter about it though is kinda pointless. Also doesn't mean that some women aren't socially awkward/isolated/whatever. Sex is easy to get if you 're attractive, man or woman. The difference is that a woman will trade up in casual sex (ie there's more men wanting casual sex at any given time, so she has more choice, therefore gets away with "ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 03:04 PM
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Women offer literally the worst dating advice. You 'd get better dating advice from a virgin dude living in a desert island with a monkey for company all his life. PS advice isn't just about dating. Women are on average conflict averse as fuck, so they spend more time figuring out which way you 're leaning on a topic you want advice on and agreeing than taking the risk of a different (fresh) take on the subject. That's what I 'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 02:47 PM
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Who has disdain for attractive women? Yeah ok some dudes that spent x years thinking they 'll get the girl that friendzoned them might end up lashing out when they figure out they won't but otherwise I doubt there's disdain for attractive women. The logical jump OP made from attractive woman to slut escapes me. But I personally don't have disdain for sluts either, I don't harbor any illusions that my dick is being kept wet by "wholesome" monogamous women after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 02:42 PM
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The face degrades, little to nothing you can do about it, even if the booty stays firm thanks to pilates and squats. Even botox isn't a cure. You take 2 perfect specimens, one female one male, they become gym rats at 15 and never quit. The female will hit the peak of her attractiveness <25 y.o. the male 35>x>30 y.o. Doesn't mean she'll be a hag at 35, she'll probably still be very attractive (look at the Brazilian VS girls, Ambrosio, Lima, they look great in their mid 30s). But her peak will sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 01:58 PM
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That's as dumb as some dude posting a thread about how every 35 year old dude looks like Channing Tatum and Ryan Gosling (they are 35) and every 50+ year old dude looks like Robert Downey Jr (he's 50) Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp (they are 52)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 11:17 AM
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What's so great about male friends? They got your back. When you're stuck they offer actionable advice (girls tend to just offer encouragement). They don't go on endless monologues about whateverthefuck they feel. They have interests better aligned with mine. They are honest even if it's brutal (girls will spare your feelings, which is nice but counter productive). And dudes don't do drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 10:31 AM
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To be fair (and I haven't read the full report) Women and Children First is specifically an order, issued by the captain only when there are insufficient lifeboats onboard to carry all the passengers. Plus it only works on an orderly evacuation (ie slow sinking ship, when there's time for the crew to organize the passengers) If the ship sinks quickly then obviously it's pretty much a save yourself situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 01:05 AM
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Thanks man but according to that I 'm a narcissist, so I 'm at the right place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 12:50 AM
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I 'm gonna guess you 're older? Or just skipped past hookup culture? Cause when a random 19 year old invites me over (or comes over) for sex after a grand total of 15 texts and 6 pics on Tinder/quick skim through my IG then yeah, she's not looking to build trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 06:36 PM
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Early feminism was about equality. And it was necessary. And I fucking love it. My grandad's generation went through life probably only ever sleeping with 2-3 women. That's a good week now. (I said good). As a man I am way more sexually satisfied in post feminism America than my grandad's generation. Beyond that, you can never have complete parity between the sexes. We obviously all have equal rights, as we should, but circumstantially for society to function there are cases where one or the oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 05:16 PM
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True, but then again I think men on average, assuming they don't let go and grow into a dad bod, peak later than women. And I mean strictly in terms of looks, not work/carreer etc. Men tend to have softer features, more "baby faces" in their late teens early 20s and grow into more masculine features in their late 20s, early 30s, which IMO is the peak for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 04:49 PM
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whereas the proof for your assumptions you said is the teen boards your frequent. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 04:05 PM
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And I 'm trying to explain to you that this happens because they don't know where they stand. Usually by their mid 20s they figure out where they stand and stop being insecure. And I 'm also trying to explain to you that dudes get judged on looks too, they are just more pragmatic about it (in their 20s). Then later in lifer as you approach your 30s they get judged on carreer, success blah blah, grils usually bypass that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 03:51 PM
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I know a lot more average girls that work retail and think that they are princesses with so much to offer, than I know average dudes flipping burgers at mickey d's thinking they are captains of industry. That's what I 'm saying. That's not due to society placing crazy expectations on girls. That's a "support system" validating to the point there's a disconnect from reality, and when the inevitable touchdown to reality happens it's harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 03:34 PM
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It's not due to "society's expectations and norms", dudes have to live up to expectations too, it's because grils and dudes are fundamentally different. A guy will know where he stands in the pecking order, his friends won't sit around telling him he's pretty all day. The gril won't. Her friends will build her up, but reality won't always match up with what her friends say. That "confusion" if you like generates insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 03:11 PM
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Google attentionwhoring ... Beyond that, not all validation is sincere, in fact like I said, a lot of validation coming from other women is conflict aversion and/or a social norm. Real life is more brutal. To pick an extreme example, the fat girl that gets told a thousand times she's so pretty goes to a bar and some random pretty douche lols and says you 're fat gets knocked the fuck down. The validation a dude gets, like I said, he had to work harder for, and is therefore on average more sincer…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 02:57 PM
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Nah people (women especially) are so conflict averse they literally deliver validation by the bucketload. I have female friends that say if I 'm feeling down I just post a selfie on IG. Dudes on average have to work a lot harder for their validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 02:30 PM
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I think generally the concept of "the wall" is fluid ... the idea is that the same woman is considerably more attractive at 22 rather than at 35, and on average that's true, I don't care how much you spend on Lancome products. Beyond that it's situational, I know girls that were really attractive at 22 and have let themselves go completely at 28 but that's not the rule,I definitely wouldn't say the wall is at 26, that's nuts. Beyond that, double standards exist everywhere. People always underest…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 01:26 PM
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yeah but that wouldn't be too awesome from an evolutionary POV. Unless you 're implying you guys have crappy genes and the best you can do for evolution is to just remove yourselves from the genepool :S
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 02:52 AM
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Only the highest testosterone men keep pursuing after continuous rejection. Not true. In fact I 'd say only the men with no alternatives (ie the least desirable end of the gene pool) keep pursuing after continuous rejection, at least in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 01:41 AM
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I don't work in TV so .... no I haven't. But one specific family that was on one of those housewives of Whereverthefuck shows that I happened to know before they were on that thing were not THAT different from rl. Yeah exaggerated but not 180 type of exaggeration, more like amplification.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 09:25 PM
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Did I say I think it does? No. Flipside of that is, have I met more than one girl in NYC that thinks Mr Big (SATC) will turn up when she hits her mid thirties, with his 50mil bank account and sweep her off her feet? You bet your ass I have. Is that how every single girl in New York thinks? Hell no. But I promise you it's not some once a million oddity, it's how a substantial number of girls that moved to NYC from whereverthefuck think their life will unfold. So they spend their 20s conforming to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 02:58 PM
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to be fair, fiction is not the same as "reality" tv. Yeah sure lots of reality tv is stretched to the max for entertainment but it's still not the same as fiction. PS the opposite is true as well. Lots of "nice guys" got it in their heads that the "nice guy" gets the girl in the end cause romcoms told them so. And that's not how the world works 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 02:35 PM
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Both pills are the tails of a bell curve, irrespective of how fat you think these tails are, the majority still sits somewhere in the middle. And the same applies on the opposite debate, not all women are either feminazis or doormats, not all men are either potential rapists of feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 02:07 PM
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Cause order/structure/logic/rule based approaches/systemizing appeals to those that are borderline ASD. And cause they/we mostly lack empathy, so social sciencies, humanities, liberal arts etc are tantamount to Chinese. Google Simon Baron-Cohen, he's done good work on the subject. That shit's not news, everybody's known t for ages. And the fact they are mostly socially awkward doesn't mean they aren't great people, capable of incredible work. But they are still socially awkward as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 03:06 AM
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"outdated generalization" to a 28 year old guy that graduated college 6 years ago :S Half of my school was barely functioning autistic, 5 years in Silicon Valley, half the dudes you meet go to Vegas for the weekend and sit in the sunlounger,tshirt on, focused on their phones instead of you know ... the semi-naked chicks 20 feet in front of them. You go clubbing. Fuck me, the same, except it's a couch with bottle service not a sunlounger. But yeah, outdated generalization, Tech/Engineering is ful…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 02:28 AM
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Lol ... nah. But fundamentally Wall Street is billions upon billions of made up money. Shit hits the fan, like it did in 08, shit gets spread all over. Shit don't care if you 're leveraged, nice, friendly, whatever. Shit just covers you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 02:14 AM
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If a girl, "famous" for being on a singular episode of an MTV reality show called "16 and pregnant" has 3 million fans then I dunno ... I m seriously considering moving as far away from these 3 million people as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 02:00 AM
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dunno your background, but engineers are a weird bunch. Half of them are borderline autistic, shit gets really weird, really quickly even for me, and I 've spend most of my adult life around really intelligent engineering types. It's not necessarily pretty/ugly. It's social awkwardness to the max
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 01:53 AM
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My advice, irrespective of pills, is for Bob to work in whatever areas he finds himself lacking. Female interest is fleeting. Some fucker in Wall Street mashes the wrong buttons a bunch of times, mr dependable is out with a cardboard sign reading "will work for food", suddenly he has what? "Oh I 'm faithful cause I got no options anyways"? This coming from a CompSci/EE major. Who for some perverse reason was never lacking in female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 01:40 AM
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Yeah she will tell you about the fireman with the 3'' dick cause she's warm and fuzzy and you 're getting rewarded with an ego boost. She won't tell you about the dude with the 8'' dick that was fucking her brains off for 3 days in Santorini cause that's hers and hers alone. Unless she needs to turn you into the 3'' fireman. Don't be naive.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 01:13 AM
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Fool's errand IMO. Women are primarily and fundamentally emotional. You can fuck her brains out today, and she can genuinely tell you that's the best sex she's ever had because she's emotionally invested in you. Doesn't mean she actually has a scale and has compared today's sex with the sex she had 5 years ago with Bob while she was emotionally invested in Bob. Nor does it mean that if for xyz reasons she ceases being emotionally invested in you next month she wont go digging in her memory banks…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 12:34 AM
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And you don't see a problem with the fact that that Saturday night you and your gf went out, got shitfaced, went to a hotel and had sex makes your gf one of the 9.5 million women that fall under the category of "Completed alcohol/drug facilitated penetration" even though I doubt your gf thinks you raped her? That's 43% of the total number of rape incidents that report claims though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 11:02 PM
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I swear I keep seeing this thread being done again and again here and on adjacent subs. The secret is simple. Be outgoing. Be extroverted. Have interests that are social. I 'm late 20s (28 if you want to be exact). Recently moved to NYC from the West Coast. Third day I 'm in NY I go join a gym. A couple of dudes were on the ergs, I go to the ergs, we talk, turns out we all rowed in college. We shoot the breeze about our schools etc, exchange numbers, grab a beer, I get invited to the one guy's r…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 06:45 PM
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And? People will feel bad cause you 're taller/prettier/make more money/fuck more girls, I can't go through life wondering how random dudes feel about how I am/act. Once somebody gets elevated from random dude to friend then "razzing" becomes "bro-banter" which nobody really gets hurt about. But the 12 year old being mean to the weakling is his class is just asserting dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 05:14 PM
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I don't really "despise" beta men tbh. They make good friends so long as you don't fuck the one chick they 've put up on a pedestal for x years, which usually isn't that big a deal, plenty of chicks around. Razzing is just a primal form of asserting dominance tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 05:04 PM
2

Sweden/Denmark etc are very special cases. You have a state that taxes the fuck out of its citizens, then turns that money into crazy benefits. I am not joking when I say 20 years or so ago, in Denmark, it made financially more sense for a woman to be a single mother on benefits that to actually get a job. I mean benefits were higher than what they'd make working. My mother is Swedish, from Malmö which is basically a half hour drive from Copenhagen, she mostly left the sex ed stuff to my dad, ex…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 04:42 PM
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Dude looks like a fucking troll, don't overanalyze it Good for him for fucking way above his grade. Whether the chick ends up closing her eyes and thinking up a shopping list during sex for the next 30 years, or if she ends up fucking the proverbial pool boy nobody knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 04:01 PM
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It's a question you keep rephrasing and repeating, the answer doesn't change. If you 're an outgoing, extroverted type of person with social interests it's fucking easy. If you 're a hermit that just enjoys playing xbone on his spare time it's difficult. Personally I 'm very extroverted. Grew up on the West Coast, went to college in the East Coast, in a metropolitan area with at least 8 big (meaning 10,000+ students) colleges, most of my friends/girlfriends were not from the school I attended. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 11:12 AM
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The pickup community is monetizing socially awkward men. This guy is doing the same, just using a different hook. Ultimately both try to get meek men lacking confidence to part with their money, in exchange for a formula that will make them confident. Bottom line is both agree, what "sells" a man is confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 03:59 PM
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Hate to break it to you man but you are waaaaay off. The 4 girls that have superliked me on Tinder since this morning (and it's not 4pm yet) are aged 20, 21, 22 and 22. I 'm 28. proof PS In case you don't use Tinder, the way it works you swipe right on people you like left on people you don't like, if both swipe right on each other you get a match and can talk. You have no idea if the person you are swiping has swiped left on right on you. Recently they introduced super likes, you can swipe up o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 08:46 PM
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Umm I 'm 28 and good chunk of my hookups are college age. Last girl was 19. Tinder helps. The fact NYU college kids go to the same bars as everybody else does helps. Being fuckin ripped helped a lot the two weeks I spent in Miami in November. Do you seriously think dudes don a burberry raincoat and a panama hat and troll around college campuses looking for chicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 03:35 PM
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You asked for the equivalent 30 year old "apex predator", I gave you that. Beyond that everything is possible, depends on how you present yourself, how confident you are, how secure you are etc etc. But to be fair I have to point out, even though I don't know you, you come across thirsty as fuck. And thirsty never fucks. You got to figure out a way to be zen about it, money/success is just the easiest way to get there, easiest, not the only way. PS no your life doesn't end with college. I know l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 02:18 AM
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Sure. Look like Channing Tatum (he's 35 but whatever), have a billion dollars in assets and a I don't want commitment mentality you can bang 1000x the girls the athlete banged in college. You asked for a ceiling, that would be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 12:17 AM
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Wrong on two counts I work 60 hour plus weeks in NYC, same as I did in SV. Social life is 100 times better. A lot of SV is actually antisocial, in NYC you go to a bar in the village and work's over, social mode is on all around. SV, even if you exclude the predominantly male Visa workers (asians/indians) that are from a NorCal woman's perspective virtually undateable, the region is still a massive sausage fest. You have incredibly mediocre women being crazy picky precisely because a kid making 1…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 05:04 PM
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It's probably regional. In NYC tinder is stupid level simple. 10 messages max, "lets grab a drink after work" 7/10 are down, 2 will raincheck one will say something retarded like "let's get to know each other better first" you next that one. Beyond that getting from drinks to sex isn't that hard. Everybody drinks a lot (cause nobody drives), logistics are simple cause everybody's packed in the same small area you literally have to be not retarded. That's in the 22-26 crowd which is my target aud…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 01:35 PM
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I am a dude, did the reverse of what she did (after college started a company in Silicon Valley, when I sold it moved to NYC to start another) and can confirm SV is insanely boring to socialize/date in. Dudes are meek. Mostly because the majority of the dudes were the awkward highschool kid that's super smart, makes good money but never really figured out how to grow out of being the awkward kid, never actually figured out how to behave around women or that there's more than one woman in the wor…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 01:21 PM
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Depends where you live. In NYC you can have a great social life, lots of sex and 0 loneliness well into your 40s without ever getting married. Assuming you work on you and your career and are successful that can stretch well beyond your 40s. You live in suburbia then yeah, your life will suck if you don't do BBQs with other couples and go coach kids soccer in the weekends. PS I 'm 28 and have zero interest in looking for a committed relationship for the foreseeable future.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 03:17 PM
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28/M Cheating is unacceptable, the other two I 'm indifferent about ... I mean I don't expect girls I date to be virgins or to have never had feelings for anybody, quite frankly I 'd find it weird if a girl claimed either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 01:18 AM
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What you describe was probably true 10 years ago. No so much now. In my case, Ivy League School -> EE/CompSci major -> Sausage fest. I wasn't in the least bit attracted to any of the girls I went to school with, I think I slept with a grand total of 3 girls from my school and those were more pity semi-drunk lays on my part. I was lucky enough though to be the tall/athletic/pretty boy type which got me access to girls from a different school in town, but the logistics weren't always easy. Now tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 12:00 AM
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I am 28, with a super demanding career I care very much about. I simply have no time to daygame. I did however get very lucky in the gene pool lottery (6'4'', six pack, vcut, chiseled chin etc) which means Tinder supplies me a limitless amount of girls for minimal effort. Literally minimal. I 've had girls after a grand total of 10 texts exchanged both on tinder and regular txt. Online isn't for everyone, but online in my case is very time efficient.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 10:58 PM
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