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Looks of course fade but you can do your part to fight it too. Probably because reddit is so young as a demographic but they act like 30 is just old and 40 is mom and dad old. I know very hot 40 even 50 year olds but they work hard to keep up. Its a fight we all lose but some choose to give up rather than go down swinging.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 05:34 PM
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All of it eventually catches up to you at some point and you will not be physically attractive anymore. Excuses. You can do a lot to maintain looks, even if they are not your 20's hottie looks, you can still look quite good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:41 PM
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MGTOW is a hospital of sorts. Its an asylum.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 03:50 PM
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land whale.. Applies to men to, only men own it more, almost all fat activist types are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:45 PM
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Its an option, just a less desirable one. The problem isn't really sex, the problem is being wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 04:41 PM
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Lol no. Use Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:06 AM
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9, I'd make a fortune as a child actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:21 AM
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Children and government over reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 06:02 PM
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Given this near ideal situation to wait doesn't really say much. Its like yea sure I'll wait, (though TBF she would need to be 2 points probably higher for me). But in reality... We don't really know how shes been in the past. Its hard to see a future exactly when you are just dating. I've been with my wife for almost 30 years now but I didn't know that at 1 month or 3 month. It was probably 2 years in I was pretty confident we would be married. So if my now wife did this, I wouldn't have dumped…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 07:28 PM
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It's still nothing like porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:25 AM
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It's not the same as porn. Boy bands are nothing new. New trend but same shit every so many years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 03:37 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 03:05 AM
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Romance and errotic novels sold 1.5 billion a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:46 AM
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Romance novels are womens porn. Its the biggest literary segment in terms of sales by like a factor of two. Women read their porn, men watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:11 AM
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Young you date potential. Older you date results. Play the cards you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:12 AM
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How many kids do you have? You don't have to train your kids, you guide them, you can't train them, trying to is a fools errand. Anyone with more than 1 kid can tell you how different they are. Some woman bitching online in a comic isn't something I care about, it doesn't apply to my wife and I, 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 06:23 PM
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Women don't like assholes because they are assholes, but because they like men who don't act like they need them. That might be an asshole or just a guy with his shit together. Guys with their shit together don't get dirty looks from guys who can't get a woman but assholes do. Looks are just again another factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 06:20 PM
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Flip side to me is if you can't share an account you shouldn't be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:14 PM
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If anything I think its completely the opposite. Its why men want naive virgin's, its not just some paternity fears, many IMO don't to be compared to possibly better men. No man wants to think his wife liked sex better with her ex. Women tend to hate men that are aware of womens behaviours of probably only liking a guy for his looks, Sleeping around before settling, knowing he needs a certain amount of money, knowing to get a prenup, being aware of changes in her behaviour, knowing about hyperga…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:12 PM
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This is going to depend on the women's personality. Some personality types are so oblivious to how men think about this they will happily tell you without understanding why it might bother some men. Others have either been burned by telling or understand men better and will lie. I always recommend downplaying n count. If they don't want to lie they should be vague. Its generally not going to help any relationship to give details.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:05 PM
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So? Most are below average IQ. I personally have a high IQ I don't need to move and still have a great life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 01:50 PM
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Waking up in the middle of the night multiple times every night? Feeding? Changing diapers? Dealing with infant screaming without knowing what happened? Yea first couple months is less sleep. Its not that difficult. Dealing with toddler tantrums? Lol, they are cute. You remember you are the adult and they pass. Dealing with them strengthening Making sure they don't kill themselves? Not hard, survival instincts are strong. Making sure they're happy and properly socialized? Outside of kids with pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 06:31 AM
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Because they are? Whats so hard about them? I'm not even that far from being an empty nester. Time flies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:40 AM
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Its in the thread somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 06:16 AM
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Kids are easy tbh, and much of personality is genetic. My son and daughter have been raised the same but are VERY different people, luckily both good. The sort of horror story about having kids as a meme is sort of tiresome. Usually the people who worry most about having kids, actually make the best parents because they are thoughtful. Its ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 03:56 AM
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Look how long BLM have been able to lie and gaslight Its not BLM its the MSM and those who control them. BLM itself is just a puppet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 03:22 AM
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If unlucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 04:30 AM
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Take a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 03:16 AM
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Being RP isn't conducive to politeness, period So alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:32 AM
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Society, not this sub, literally everyone in society does this Social media is a segment of society. Talking to people gives you a different picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 12:36 AM
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I have three ex-stripper friends but only one has fantastic tits. I go to sex parties, its funny that an ex-stripper might like sex eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 12:35 AM
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Have you ever seen what FDS posts. Most of the material is about finding the lowest of the low. Scouring the internet for the 1% of men to justify their “involuntary” celibacy. No, I don't care what FDS thinks about anything. I laugh at them like I laugh at MGOTW or Menslib. Its a fraction of losers. We aren’t taking the lowest of the low, we’re taking the women who have millions of followers who are half naked on IG. Fully naked showing, pussy on OnlyFans. If they are showing pussy on only fans…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 12:33 AM
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I don’t think you’re ’normal’ I'm not I'm better, but I still know how to interact with people and get women to want to fuck me. Who cares what does it really hurt here? If a woman wants to post full frontal nudes and doesn't want anyone to talk about anything but her nails, hey don't care saw naked. I'm struggling to see why this matters at all. Yes there are double standards a bit, so fucking what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:40 PM
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It impossible to interact with ppl when they make up the rules as they go I've got bad news, thats how it goes with all people. Do you really NEED to sexualize some thot online that you have to worry about if shes going to be pissed you said her "ass is fine"? This isn't an issue for normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:20 PM
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So some women are like this? Who cares? Why care?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:02 PM
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Asian pollution?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 10:53 PM
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Some women. I can tell my ex-stripper friend "Nice tits" and she just smiles (because they are spectacular). This sub has a problem with taking segments of society and pasting them on all of society. Yes there are women who do this, I once interacted with one like that, but its not a majority of women, just some women. Also this sub has a fascination with low IQ twitter and IG types. Quit caring about what trash does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 10:35 PM
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This is feeling like one of those posts written by an alien.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:57 PM
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And ugly women more than hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:57 PM
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They die sooner... https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/pdf/10.1111/1556-4029.13566 They are lower intelligence... https://www.newscientist.com/article/2118547-real-life-psychopaths-actually-have-below-average-intelligence/ This guy is a very intelligent psychopath telling about his life struggles. https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/01/life-as-a-nonviolent-psychopath/282271/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:24 PM
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Again, I'm won't be thankful Thats fine, you aren't my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 05:27 PM
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Civilization is held together on the backs of men, not women. You should be grateful every road you are on, bus you take, every light switch you flip, every shit you take that doesn't backup, and every shower you take. Civilization would be worse without women. It would cease to exist without men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 05:15 PM
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I realize this sub has a rape fantasy hang up for women, but its not like its a common theme to be raped in womens books.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 04:29 PM
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You can be a "bad boy" without being a psychopath. Wrong back at you. Psychopathy is not that common.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 04:22 PM
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Is sex a special moment of intimacy that should only be shared between romantic partners or spouses? No. Most people will have sex with their future spouse long before they are in love with said future spouse. Dating, sex, love. How do you have a deep moment of special intimacy with someone you just like and want to screw? You don't. Even womens romance novels don't go there, and thats story book land. I doubt even waiting for marriage types have this as a rule. Is sex simply cold hard biology, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 04:20 PM
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Without men women wouldn't have any power. Something women just can't understand as a group. Edit: You can downvote but what happens if all men decide to make women nothing but sex slaves? Now what happens if all women decided the same for men? Which scenario could actually happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 03:57 PM
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This is a minor form of the trolley problem. If you flip a switch you kill 1 person and save 5, if you do nothing 5 people die. Its up to you to decide to kill one person though action to save 5 or let it happen. The logical thing is saving the 5 but your action is directly responsible for the death of the one. So what you are saying is for the good of everyone else you must be fired. Added its not always a must its that it makes the most sense. Firing isn't done just for survival but profitabil…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 01:34 PM
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I wasn't saying escapism is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 03:08 AM
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It's mainly a label used among women. Low class women IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 09:38 PM
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lol Anyone over 5.5 inches girth is screwed in the US, pun intended which is like 10% of guys IIRC.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:37 PM
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asual sex has been seen as a male activity for some time, but a poll from TresSugar and SELF Magazine show that many women enjoy the occasional anonymous hook-up. The report analyzed the responses of 2,000 unattached women between the ages of 18 and 63, and found that 82 percent of them have engaged in casual sex. I'm not sure I trust that survey data. I mean I never trust it but that seems even worse looking at it. Same site... Think You’re Too Big For Condoms? #NoExcuses Thats bullshit, I'm to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:29 PM
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found that 82 percent of them have engaged in casual sex. One issue is how many at a given time. If over the course of a lifetime you had sex once you have engaged in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:02 PM
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You try moving cargo to Cardiff with a Gerry Wolf Pack hunting you without an escort, and see how far you get!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:27 PM
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I've had to fire people as CEO of my small company. Usually because they weren't doing a good job. It still sucks. Families depend on it. My small business is the main source of income for about 1/2 my employees. Some its the best job they could possibly get at their education and training level. It sucks to fire even when needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 04:55 PM
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Following orders and making the decisions are different things psychologically. One can't argue they "had no choice" if they are the ones making it, there is no way to shield their actions mentally. Basically if a CEO tells you to fire 5k people, you can mentally say, "Well if I didn't do it someone else will and I might as well keep my job", just like a guard could say "Well if I don't shoot them, someone else will and I might end up being shot too!".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 04:34 PM
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It takes a certain degree of it I think to do something like fire 5k people and still feel good about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 04:24 PM
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Most psychopaths aren't like movie pyschopaths, and they end up having pretty shitty lives. You can only lie and gaslight so long before people figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 04:05 PM
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While attraction can be built, I'd never pursue a relationship hoping for it. Some women I've worked with, who I wasn't attracted to over time, I became attracted to for example. Its not a sure thing though and its a big risk. One should never base a dating strategy on it. I've had women warm up to me as my personality intimidates a lot at first, but you can't ever assume it will happen. That leads to orbiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:15 PM
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RP Truth isn't truth, its generalization. There is no AWALT anymore than AMALT. The generalization would be. 1 - Even in the best relationship, the primary motivation is sex. (And a trip to the Deadbedrooms sub will show you that its not for all men). 2 - Your beauty is your key asset. 3 - His satisfaction in the relationship is going to be tied directly to the quality of the sex. If you keep looking good and the sex is good the rest follows a lot easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 02:24 PM
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Never had that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 11:43 AM
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I don't care for Disney myself but there are a lot of adults, even without kids who go stupid into Disney. It's another form of escapism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 11:42 AM
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LMFIFY. A and B build a car together. If B decides they will keep the car instead of selling it, A owes B gas money and maintenance for 18 years and A will maybe only get to drive the car every other weekend. If B decides to sell the car and A wants to keep it, B gets to tell A "B's car B's choice" and A is sol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 02:45 AM
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I think a lot of people men and women are not attracted to their partners. Fat wives and dad bod ++. This has nothing to do with the 20% "rule" though its simply age and all you can eat with no real exercise program. They drift into death together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 08:48 PM
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Its like being raised by any programing. I defected from my Catholic programing early on. See the truth, maybe forgive your mom, and be better for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 06:57 PM
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I see you're not being serious Actually that seems spot on based on what I've seen in subs like MGTOW or WHATGMG. The way much of the manosphere speaks, if a woman was wet for you, and you didn't have to somehow pay, you must be chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 05:51 PM
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Sharing your feelings is acting like a woman TBH. You don't need to share your feelings because you are icked out by n count. You just get icked out and find someone else. Who cares about sharing it? Who cares what feminist thinks? Men shouldn't care, its not manly because its not a male nature to give a shit. So you get weirded out by n count. Thats fine, I was there too when I was about 20. It really bugged me. I didn't get over it by talking to people, I didn't go to a therapist, I fucking ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:40 PM
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Fuck the pain away. If I were in that situation, and it really bothered me I'd not commit until I had enough play time on my own that I was over it. N count bothered the shit out of me at 20. I couldn't care less today.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:24 PM
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Oh you’re one of those guys who believes he’s so alpha that a woman wouldn’t cheat on him No, I just understand people well and how to manage a relationship. I know many men like that. Their ego and pride comes before their downfall. Most of my female friends, are in fact sluts to some degree. I'm not an average guy in this. I've been at parties where I've had sex with every woman in the room. I got this. If you have kids, get a paternity test. I don’t care how much you believe they look like yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:16 PM
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So why is your rhetoric that men shouldn’t care about wifing sluts? I can handle a slut, I'm not worried I'll be cheated on because I'm able to handle women. Why wouldn’t you advocate that other men marry good girls too, and just use sluts the way they are meant to?( for easy sex) Because again, I know how to handle a slut. If I had to remarry I'd marry one. Sluts are not "bad" once you get how they work. I'd treat them like a male sex drive in a female. You said in another thread that you are p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:12 PM
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Yet my youngest fwb is 29 and I don't have sex with fat women.... Ballsack must be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:45 PM
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Lol I married a good girl I turned into a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 12:55 PM
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All men in their 50s look like they are 50 How would you know? Think about that. This is like saying "all gay guys look gay" because you know the ones who fit the stereotype only. I'm usually thought of as late 30's. I have no visible grey, I'm in good shape, and my skin has no sun damage. I don't understand what makes women in 30s to go for it. Do you pay them or something? Oh dear. No. You just don't get that people look different and the older you get the more lifes bad decisions (and genetic…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 11:17 AM
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I bought a cheese plate and a box of crackers the first date with my wife. Apparently that makes me BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 10:46 AM
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Depends. I'm 50 next year but look nothing like it and as such most of my fwbs are cute women in their 30s. If I were single I could easily mary one who wanted security and I know guys who did that. People age differently and some look far older and some far younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 10:42 AM
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Kinda reminds me of the old definition of slut. A woman who has sex with everyone...but me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 10:00 PM
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Laughs in genX
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 08:45 PM
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Because every girl crazy bout a sharp dressed man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 08:19 PM
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I think they wouldn't. As an adult you are looking at life through an adult lens. I'd listen to "buy apple", but life advice would be just about impossible to process.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:44 PM
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It feels like they have no agency in having a good time. Mmm didn't think of it but this one is true for me. I tell her often that if it weren't for me her life would be very boring. She agrees but I still have to be the one leading.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:31 PM
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Like a 12 year old would listen. I had a hard enough time getting my son to say "no fat chicks". Without life experience such advice is kinda meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:24 PM
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so common that sex is doggy style for instance which does look submissive to me When I met my wife she thought doggie style was degrading and wouldn't do it. We did it. She realized why doggie style isn't really degrading and its her favorite position.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 04:00 PM
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My wife will cry at a hallmark commercial when shes PMSing. Luckily she knows its her hormones so I don't have to deal with it as a thing, but on a less aware woman or more likely high maintenance, such behavior would feel like dealing with a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:51 PM
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So you've met Maddie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:38 PM
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My town was looted by organized antifa types. They wouldn't dare hit the burbs as guns are common here. The business district is all that they could get.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 04:42 AM
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I think disarming yourself is insane. Guns are also why my town was looted by a mob but not the burbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:53 AM
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My wife is taking a girlfriend shooting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:50 AM
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You paralyse my mind and for that you suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:36 AM
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First The fact of human paternal investment also argues against polyamory. In promiscuous species, fathers rarely invest in their children, instead focusing on impregnating more females, which is a more certain bet because they don’t know which children are theirs anyway That argues against it. Secondly we are midly polygamous, and often monogamous even when there is no society to force it. Since men die off more often this is an understandable condition but we are not a harem species either by …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:36 AM
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In some situations yes, but some have taken it to mean all relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:02 AM
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I can't tell if this is a joke, sarcasm, or if you are trying to be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:01 AM
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dont have a spare few hours a day to start cool hobbies Yet here they are, on reddit, and ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:51 AM
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The second you're doing things, specifically to get pussy, you've identified yourself as both a simp, and a pussy worshipping bitch. Next time I'm balls deep in a woman 15 years my younger who is into me because I lift and take basic measures to be attractive, I'll remember this. And laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:49 AM
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People ate less and moved more, thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 12:45 AM
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I've NEVER seen a woman do anything for someone's attention. You aren't very observant I'm guessing. Even when its not directed at you, you can see it, often easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 10:16 PM
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You already are wasting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 07:46 PM
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All they yes responses I'm sure could find a clinic to neuter them. I personally like my attention to women. I'm better physically and mentally by trying to be fuckable. The closeness of sex is amazing and I'm not giving that up. Only reason I'd turn it off is if I was in some horribly tempting situation where see was a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 04:26 AM
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Nola had/has a very corrupt police force. This is actually known and was investigated at the federal level. The cops in my town are the rescue cats up trees type. People treating "the police" as a thing are missing the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 01:47 PM
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This, I don't care if you have a PhD or are a waitress for life, but if you are an idiot, no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 12:10 AM
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Planned leftist terrorism. They were waiting for the excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 09:31 PM
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The wall is about looks and is something of a myth IF you take care of yourself. My wife does this and shes had a very gradual decline, she still looks fantastic in her 40's. We were at a gathering of like aged people and the women were all definitely "Post wall" which should really be called "Giving up". Lack of effort and overweight. I think "the wall" is the female version off "dad bod". There was one other woman there who's the same age as my wife who was also fantastic but she works on keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:22 PM
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My guess is women in a happy stable LTR would be happy if men placed less value on sex as a rule. But they never would have had that happy stable LTR for the most part if men didn't value sex. Sex is the ultimate together activity, it doesn't get any more personal than that. Sex is no longer the main thing in our relationship, but it sure as hell was the first several years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:07 PM
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What would you call a solid window after which finding a good mate would be impossible? 95 Its never impossible, just less probable. Most early thirty's women I know who did well ended up with an early 40's man. There's too much variation in life to say "ITS IMPOSSIBLE" I've seen some shit, but every year older makes it that much harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:04 PM
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Women already hate porn, masturbation, prostitution, and any other sexual alternatives You need to meet better women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 04:39 PM
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Killer cops are a problem. Killer cops are a tiny problem. Police are not a problem. Police are the only thing keeping us from total anarchy as the looters have shown.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 04:29 PM
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I realize people will say of course, but I think a good % of the guys posting her are truly on the spectrum. I don't mean this in internet sarcasm way, but honestly there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 04:28 PM
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Swinging is literally cuckdom. Oh noes, some guy online says I'm a cuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 04:27 PM
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Unless you're a bisexual guy it's a bigger turn off for your SO to be bisexual Nope thats not about you, let me show you to make it about you. For me it's a bigger turn off for your SO to be bisexual. See now its about you.. THIS Unless you're a bisexual guy it's a bigger turn off for your SO to be bisexual Is about every guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 04:23 PM
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MFF's and swinging, learn your alt lifestyles. Also for you wanna be studs out there, good luck with FMF's and straight chicks, those are more work than fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 02:54 PM
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Conversations flow, you should read the lead up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 02:08 PM
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Normal people (not metrosexuals) date women who have "normal" mentalities (straight). Lol Why would a man want to have a life-partner who is abnormal? More lol The whole point of sex is to make babies. Women fucking women doesn't make babies, it's just abnormal. Final lol Dude this is a you thing. When I was a horny 18 year old I wasn't thinking "sex is to make babies". Now when I found my wife I didn't know she was bi and for that matter she didn't either, she was very repressed in that dimensi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 02:07 PM
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Who said anything about cheating in this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 02:00 PM
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As a young insecure due to lack of experiance guy (yes I used the insecure) I was very concerned about n count, I didn't want a woman with more than mine, which wasn't too hard at 18-19 so I can feel sympathy for 25+ year old virgins who are still inexperienced because good luck finding that low ncount virgin by then, but it was only guys. I couldn't give a flying flip about women or bisexuality in women. Its always "dick" related.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 01:57 PM
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Unless you're a bisexual guy it's a bigger turn off for your SO to be bisexual No, its not. I'm 100% straight and bisexual women are fantastic. "Women don't count" is a common theme for guys too. There is no ego to be hurt because your woman was with another woman, no dick to feel inferior to, no cum to feel grossed out by. Added if I did lose my wife to another woman (not going to happen but lets pretend) that would hurt a shitload less than to another guy. Another woman could offer her somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 01:53 PM
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I don't fuck stupid people. I don't fuck ugly ones. Degrees are optional. I've had sex with a literal rocket scientist and a stripper. Both very intelligent and fun in their own ways. If it was dating instead of just fwbs I'm not sure which I would pick. It's not accomplishments I worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 11:50 AM
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This has got to be another bait post. No one is this stupid and still functioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 04:59 PM
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Gym. Men put more effort in. Much more effort in. It's importance is overstated. A good body cant beat a bad face. Due to the high % of gymcels here they seem to think all men go to the gym doing 5x5. More women are 'fitness enthusiasts' than men but most athletes and proper gymgoers are male. In truth a lot of sexually successful men dont go gym. They drink, do drugs have sex and that's about it. Gym was the literal line for me between getting 5-6's to 8-9's and a rare 10. I think you have a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 01:49 PM
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A nice watch is a very flattering accessory. It's the man's equivalent of attractive jewellery. Lol these are promoted so heavily by pickup youtube channels that if I were a woman and a guy was wearing a nice watch, I'd ask him why to see how suave his answer was, as there is almost no need these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 01:04 PM
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Any group...really? How about MGTOW? Lol you know I should do this but I'm not that bored. Post on MGTOW as a female that pretends to be sympathetic, have profile pictures that are reasonably attractive, see how many DM's you get from MGTOWs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 03:50 AM
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I don't tinder but if I did, I'd want to meet rather quickly since email games tend to go nowhere and you can't get to know someone that way very well. 10 seconds in person is worth 100 emails. I'd meet somewhere public though, just in case its a nutball.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 02:32 AM
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I only met her once, I remember her being very attractive, but it was 20 years ago. We were classmates in grad school so I knew him very well but it was an intense program and didn't have a lot of social time so we barely met each others SO's.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 12:42 AM
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Are you for real or just trolling? This is getting silly. The average man in his lifetime, be it single, married, in the military etc, has a 14% chance of paying for sex. Meaning that 86% of men never payed for sex in their entire life. Then add in a country like the US where its mostly illegal, do you really think the shy ugly guy is going to commit a crime to have sex with a prostitute at some rate that will equal the chance of a normal guy doing it or cheating? Really? I really want to play p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 08:06 PM
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If I were writing a troll post to rile up men, especially MGTOW types, your post is perfect. Its wrong in such a way that would require longer explanations which take time. I started to respond and decided it wasn't worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 08:03 PM
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This hits a lot of bait points.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 07:45 PM
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I don't think you are getting the difference between likelihood and ability. Ugly dork would need to get a prostitute, that lowers the chances of him cheating. It doesn't eliminate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 07:30 PM
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So why would it lower the odds Directly. Ugly shy dude, isn't going to get a lot of women throwing themselves at him. Odds lowered by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 07:01 PM
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Esther Perel Most overrated sex therapist of all time. I saw her big Ted talk and was like "Yea she knows whats shes doing!" I decided to read her book and it was like "This says absolutely nothing." She identifies problems but offers not real solutions. Its like "this can happen!" ok great.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 06:20 PM
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Completely unrelated to risk. Sure a guy who is a loser could cheat with a prostitute but it definitely lowers the odds of him cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 06:19 PM
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I keep getting old but the pretty girls stay the same age. Old joke thats been used a few times, and I think is older than its original attribution. Basically as one of the older guys on PPD, yes physically 20-25 year olds are the hottest assuming they didn't have kids and are in shape. That age the body is screaming for pregnancy so to speak and they are supposed to be the hotest if genetics has anything to say. Physically. It would take a lot for me to fuck a 20 year old at this point in life.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 06:13 PM
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I'm officially old enough to see these things happen to people. There isn't a pattern I can see. Its people and circumstance. The best looking guy I know, who's also rich and very intelligent got cheated on by his business partner (who was fucking his wife) for 5 years before it was caught. This is the kinda guy that would walk into a room and you could hear panties drop. College sweetheart is the one that cheated on him, I'm not sure if his kids are his even. You simply can't predict these thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:48 PM
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STD’s and probably pregnancy are the reason I quit sleeping around as I got older. For you. You don't matter, I don't matter, its the trend here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 07:30 PM
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maybe an extreme case He is. It doesn't matter what one or two or 1000 people do out of millions, its the general population isn't worried.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 05:24 PM
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My point in typing this, is because I see a lot of people mistakenly thinking that looks mattering for men are new. Those people are probably on the spectrum. I'm old and we always knew this. What we didn't do was whine like bitches because we weren't pretty, we just did our best and lived our lives. It worked out fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 03:37 PM
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Gen X checking in. No real idea what you are talking about. We partied, we clubbed, we met people, we fucked around, we got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 02:42 PM
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I wasn't going to get into resistant STI's because so few people even understand the concept that its not the reason people don't have sex. As bad as they are for those who have them, they aren't on the radar. Hell most people don't even get the difference between HSV and HPV, or even more HSV-1 vrs HSV-2.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 01:38 PM
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Heh, no they didn't care before and I've noticed an uptick people wanting to go raw lately. They think things like the vaccine make it safer now, not understanding that HPV can come from skin contact and condoms might help but don't stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 01:20 PM
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Most people don't live in neurotic fear of an STD. The only one anyone cared about was AIDS and thats because it could kill you. The rest are curable and mostly an inconvenience. Now that the HIV threat is a lot less, and condoms are more common, no one really cares about HSV or HPV as a factor (and the rest as well). Men who claim their big fear is STD's with high n count women are trying to justify their ick but their ick would remain even if STD's didn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 12:37 PM
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Happy with her man, yes. Let's not forget that conservative doesn't mean Bible thumper, most are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 11:04 AM
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This is especially true for bond movies. Most of these movies don't display any "love" at all. Who is looking for love in a Bond movie. One of those universally panned things is when they actually had him get married. It was totally not the character.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 02:27 AM
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Not my wife, I can't speak for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:50 PM
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Everyone does because we mind our own business and don't get pissy unless you are trying to get into ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:15 PM
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No just the opposite, if you count libertarians as conservatives. Hell the most pro-Trump guy I know is a swinger, and while in Mexico on a swingers vacation there was a guy wearing a Maga hat right after the election. I should have been having sex with a cops wife last weekend too but the event got canceled due to covid nonsens. Obviously social conservatives are rare but freedom small government conservatives are the norm. Now poly is just the opposite, its almost all far left.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 10:53 PM
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Swingers yea, she told me about the "no Trump" thing after we already had sex. I don't talk politics and swinging, so I just internally chuckled.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 10:45 PM
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There is no type for this sub. I am going to assume you mean you don't want the stereotypical 1950's wife that never really existed in the first place that some men talk about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 09:36 PM
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Roles evolve, there is no role, just a partner in this crazy ride. Roles only go as far as what we are good at and what we like to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 09:34 PM
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With all the horrible SJW comics, I could see a new superhero whos power only comes from tears.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 09:21 PM
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I'm not arguing they shouldn't have it, I've had sex with a lot more women because of it, I'm good. I think women are coming to realize it wasn't all that though, now that the first wave is hitting their 50's.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 09:07 PM
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Thats not using sex as a weapon. Sex as a weapon is "If you don't do this I won't have sex with you". I'm not going to be controlled by sex, THAT is a turn off to me. Now if she gets pissed at me for not doing X thats fine, even if she doesn't have sex with me because of it. Sex is a innocent casualty then, not the main focus of the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:33 PM
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women eventually got tired of putting up with the double standard Sometimes wanting is better than having.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:03 PM
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Specifically women that say they don't have sex before marriage Fine but if its not an arranged marriage I'd not risk that game. women that say they won't have sex with a conservative I get a kick out of fucking my anti-Trump FWB. She starts blathering politics, I smile and nod, and then we talk about things she actually understands. I think its totally up to them but there is a reason women are happier married to conservatives as a group, and lets not forget that most men are conservatives in n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 06:24 PM
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Male nature is male nature, no one is cherry picking by saying that men like to fuck multiple women when they can, we do. Even the Romans knew "sex is just for babies" is false, and probably every culture before it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 05:56 PM
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Its fun to have a lot of casual sex. Most guys though are like me I think, in that while thats fun, its not the main point of living and having a partner you are close to is far more important than just frequent sex with random people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 05:28 PM
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Then I got a lot better at playing the lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 05:18 PM
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You think looks matter significantly less for guys looking for a relationship? Yes. I know for a fact on this one. I've seen it too many times. I personally could get a much hotter and higher quality woman for a relationship than a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 05:03 PM
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That this isn't due to womens sexual liberation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 04:44 PM
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Ask any reality TV producer, I know a couple, reality is boring. All fiction is extreme on some level or no one wants to watch or read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 04:27 PM
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I think the problem isn't that you are wrong but that people are really bad at self evaluation. They think they are a 6, but they are really a 3, and nothing works so its not worth it, why should they "work hard".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 04:08 PM
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This is like saying every man can win the lottery, so long as he buys enough tickets. Ok, you are correct, but that's not really the point is it. When a man needs to invest so much resources and time gaming women and getting rejected that he's better off just hiring a pro, does it really matter that he can theoretically get casual sex? Its a skill like anything else. The first time might take you 100 tries. The next maybe 50. After a while you learn to read people enough that you know where to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 04:04 PM
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I'm about a 6 and yep. Been there done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 12:11 PM
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Where genetic fit is more important (or coparenting need is low) you might expect more men to employ short-term multi-partner strategies Aka social "safety nets".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:49 AM
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Brothels and mistresses are as old as civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:45 AM
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There is innate/learned slutty and there is desperate slutty. Desperate slutty is slutty due to low self esteem, lack of ability to get laid, etc. Those women will usually be less attractive as a rule. Innate/learned slutty can be quite attractive, but attractiveness isn't the reason they are and they are not more attractive than average outside of some will take better care of themselves. Players know how to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 04:45 AM
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I think its the major issue in the dating market tbh Not at all. If it were you would see something like 30% of all marriages being lesbian ones with those bi women paring up. They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 03:05 AM
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Most bisexual women are spaghetti bi, straight until wet. Few of those women playing around would have a serious long term relationship with a woman. My wife is bi, shes had sex with I dunno, maybe 10-15 women, I didn't count, but she'd never be with one outside of that. This is why so many want to redefine bi as only counting if you would have a relationship with another woman/man as a woman/man but thats bullshit, its bi-sexual not bi-romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 03:03 AM
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That's the joke but it's true. For causal sex I'm in a good place and it's not worth working hard enough for the next level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 12:00 AM
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3 date rule is older than you are. It's not what hard to get is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 07:49 PM
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https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/why-interacting-with-woman-leave-man-cognitively-impaired/ Because men are wired that way. Its not a cognitive thing we think about doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 05:41 PM
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I'm already at max level for the zone I'm in and the next level isn't worth the grind.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 04:24 PM
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I realize changing your view is probably impossible on anything feminist but your view is horribly flawed. This could only work if the woman involved is a much higher SMV than the man, and the man is something of a simp. The idea of hard to get is part juvenile thinking given by parents which means "don't get pregnant before you get married" or romance novel tier thinking. I'll explain. There is this fantasy that some really high value man is somehow intrigued by the woman he can't get and turns…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 03:03 PM
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This sub. Women don't like sex much. Also this sub. Women cheat more. Pick a lane people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 06:59 AM
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Why exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 06:57 AM
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Lol a different thread I was responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 04:30 AM
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its just confirmation bias. https://www.newsweek.com/google-engineer-anti-trump-conservative-bias-fox-news-employees-kevin-cernekee-tucker-carlson-1452492
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 03:41 AM
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Nah thats one people lie about all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 01:54 AM
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Is this where I put a cock shot?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 11:37 PM
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No thats not the problem. The problem is that just because someone pays net taxes doesn't mean they are owed something. Nor does it cover the people who do not pay net taxes, which in turn often have more children than those that do these days. Nothing you said has anything to do with family leave. It addresses none of the issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 08:23 PM
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That doesn't follow nor is it all families. There is no logic there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 06:30 PM
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What does that have to do with family leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 05:43 PM
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I find older women just the opposite, but I hang with sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 04:03 PM
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TIL mid 20's is an older woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 03:53 PM
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I should rephrase so I'm editing. It totally up to you what you want to do, but no business or government should be paying for you not working. Leave has a cost on a business since you lost someone but you can't really replace them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 03:51 PM
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but it's something that will take more time to change. I hope it doesn't. Father of two and its stupid beyond maybe a week or two max.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 02:44 PM
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their performative masculine roles? I am what I am and thats all that I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 02:42 PM
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I've made that point too but it's usually ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 05:08 AM
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but the truth is that this woman is showing mental instability. Why would she take the high risk that comes along with sex? If shes on birth control her risks are about the same as a man. Haven't you ever been horny?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 04:33 AM
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Embrace sluts. Something we agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 04:30 AM
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Sticks and stones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 04:29 AM
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Cutting off your nose to spite your face. Women can play regret games after casual sex, but when they want to get off they want to get off, and they can say it was a bad idea 10 years later because good girls don't do that. When it comes to sex, one thing I agree with RP on is never listening to what they say, most don't say what they really feel, they say what people think they should say, even on surveys. So yea if feeling powerful because you say no makes you feel powerful, hey great, I'll go…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 01:38 AM
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swap bodies for a week Takes longer at the gym and diet to fix many incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 12:05 AM
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nagging is part of nesting I don't think its inherent to nagging, but a certain personality types. Nagging feels like it stems from a matriarchal stand point, but perhaps thats not fair, men can nag too but its something a parent would do it a child. You shouldn't treat a husband as a child nor should he allow himself to be treated as such. Added he shouldn't act like a child if that is indeed the problem, but resorting to a parental role isn't the solution. Everyone with kids know kids tend to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 07:26 PM
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If long hair got men laid just because it was long hair, there would be a lot more men with long hair. Men know muscles increase their odds and work their asses off to do it, so hair would be a no brainer. Do blue eyes see better? Nope, they're normal eyes. Do they see in the dark? Not at all. Are they more resistant to ultraviolet radiation or something? No. Like blonde hair, they signify youth. Its a mutation that kept them for some adults. When I was young I had blonde hair and blue eyes. Now…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 07:13 PM
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. So if you hate the nagging and the nagging stops... she's leaving. I rarely get nagged, shes not going anywhere, and when she does nag I throw it back that I'm not a child. Husbands should never allow themselves to be nagged. Weak men get nagged. Now many women marry weak men, men who need to be nagged to get anything done, but I think if you need to nag as a woman, you already made a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 05:56 PM
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owever I don't think most women dream about becoming single mothers They have a show on TV to find a baby daddy. Lets think about that. And burn down Hollywood. https://www.latimes.com/entertainment-arts/tv/story/2020-05-21/labor-of-love-fox-reality-show-woman-looking-for-father-baby Its paywall but that shows how these fuckers are promoting it I'm a degenerate myself and I think Hollywood is irredeemable at this point. McCarthy did nothing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 04:13 PM
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I think that about covers the basics. I'm interested what the new angles will be though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:52 PM
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You know what would be fun? An incel challenge. Get an incel to give you verified photos of himself and see if you can get a date online.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:49 PM
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I've been raped in college, technically, (drunk off my ass, she was sober and unattractive). I've been molested several times, ass grabbed, cock grabbed, a drunk woman started to grab me in a restaurant from the table behind me, hell one woman once just started to blow me without even saying "hi my name is" and while it was at a sex party, thats not allowed even in those circumstances and would never be tolerated if someone did something like that to a woman. And IDNGAF. I only give a fuck when …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:20 PM
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It would help that 20% or so of sexless females as they would seem less undesirable by the men using porn as their sexual outlet instead of actual women. People forget that almost as many women are sexless (not in a year) as men. This would also reduce the number of sexless males. Basically I'm guessing it would possibly improve the lives of the upper 5% of that bottom 20% so to speak. Might make the lives worse too as relationships are not guarantee of happiness but no risk no reward. I also th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:57 PM
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No, because women only really desire the top 20% of men. So basically ever guy thats had a woman love him, or had a woman wet for him its top 20%? It's literally written right into TRP: "She's never yours, it's only ever your turn." And Jews don't eat bacon because god said not to but that doesn't make it real.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 11:51 AM
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So let's fix the real problem I reject there is a "problem" to fix. And there is definitely nothing that would require some drastic eugenics program.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 11:47 AM
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Ah, thats not really fundamentalism mormon, thats crazy sect, a bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 11:37 AM
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Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 11:18 AM
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But you suck ONE dick....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:45 AM
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that number will give you nightmares. I don't dream of dicks personally. I find this idea more about your mindset and less peoples reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:41 AM
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I'm a swinger so these are womem involved in that mostly. If a woman sends me nudes I'm not going to say "eww gross" even if I think it. I try to be nice as possible but also not directly lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:28 AM
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I think it's more thrist and hoping for inter action. Added there are some women I know on line who I have no attraction to who I am complementory to online.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:22 AM
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Because men care more. It's not a hard nut to crack.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 11:03 PM
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Its like this comic... "Neckbeard" is a whole package of bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 10:00 PM
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Directly. You are trying to get one group to do a task, who might not be the best suited, by giving them incentives. Good: Giving men info and promoting the idea that they could be a nurse too. I would make it more inclusive though than "Nursing is for men!" like the girl power stuff. Bad: Selective scholarships for men because they have a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 08:53 PM
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I've seen people who are M.D.'s who have absolutely no business being near people in that capacity but clicked the right boxes. This literally kills people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 08:24 PM
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The idea is that women don't need/want nursing jobs so there are spare men to fill it. So programs that say "Hey guys did you think of nursing" is find, programs that said "Hey guys, here's a special scholarship because we need more men" is sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:23 PM
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Most women I know are insecure in how they look. Its easy to look at someone else and say "they are attractive" its very hard to do it to yourself. On the flip side men (and women) are actually too nice on social media and porn sites. Its common to see people who are.... well horrible looking... to get a lot of praise for their looks, how hot they are etc. I think because online its easier since you know you won't ever have to meet them. Online attention is just different from IRL. I'm not sure …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:46 PM
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Apparently one of the best Greek fighting force was the Thebian Legion who were all gay and had long hair. Outside of a ambush fight I'm sure the manbun is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:33 PM
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Possibly but I don't think its much of a handicap.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:20 PM
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Different, because there are real differences between the sexes. Exactly, until we accept this and work with it and human nature rather than rally against it because its not fair we won't solve any issues that are men vrs women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 04:43 PM
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Based on what I've seen the only long hair benefit to men is peacocking since its rare. Its like if every man had long hair then some women will be attracted to short because its different. Its called the rare male phenomena and its seen in many species.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 04:41 PM
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Because fewer women than ever are going into nursing and if men aren’t interested in it, you’re going to have a critical shortage in a field that is extremely in demand and always will be. Stem fields can always recruit internationally because those fields don’t have the same barriers to entry. If the jobs are there and women are better at nursing (hypothesis) why focus on men instead of nursing in general? If the women don't want those jobs why would men instead? About the only reason for male …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 04:38 PM
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Did you know that nursing schools are now giving scholarships to men to increase the numbers of men in the field? The reality is that any profession that only recruits form 50% of the population is going to have a tough time surviving in the future. Why? Did you know that nursing schools are now giving scholarships to men to increase the numbers of men in the field? Which I'm also against on principle. Scholarships based on identity and worse acceptance based on it, don't make things better, if …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 04:28 PM
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Tosh said it best and I'm too lazy to link but "Being an ugly woman is like being a man. You are going to have to work for a living."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 03:53 PM
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I've found with my kids the schools aren't anti-male but pro-female. Example that stuck me the most was in my kids grade school. They had an advanced math class. To qualify you had to have certain scores on testing. It was all boys. The solution for this "problem" was to give girls who were close to the cut off extra help. Only girls. Not boys that are close too, because this was not about helping students but some sort of fake equality. If they would have helped all students near it would be gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 12:56 PM
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still more likely be fatter than a person in the 1980s even if they consumed the same amount food and exercise. Unfortunately there is no way to study this reliably. I also grew up in the late 70's and 80's, the 70's was still the age of a lot of prepared foods like TV dinners, frozen pre-prepped and canned foods. I get more fresh foods now than then. Back then it was the tail end of the 'liberation' of women from the kitchen which started in the 50's.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 12:56 AM
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Without even arguing what you said, true or false, it doesn't matter. Its still calories in vrs calories out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 12:45 AM
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For everyone 1 person that succeeds at losing and keeping weight off, another 19 will fail Thats because they don't want it enough to succeed. Its not because of a conspiracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 12:43 AM
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This is conspiracy level nonsense. Take it from a former fatty. I ate too much too often and I got fat. It wasn't magic chemicals, horse hormones, or "toxins", it was too many damn calories. I learned to count my calories and I got thin! I ate less than I burned and no magic toxins did anything to me! That is literally all there is too it. In the US the average American eats 500 more calories a day than 1970's. Using a basic linear progression thats guess how many pounds in a year! Guess! 52 mot…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 11:37 PM
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If they are smart the best quality men. If they are evil and smart, they can play a lot of men for cash. I was once at an event with a lot of baseball players wives. Not a bad looking group. I'm sure it was coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 09:29 PM
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Having known many Europeans, I think the difference is pretty minor and more due to local fashion than anything else. https://www.alamy.com/stock-photo-new-students-of-viadrina-european-university-attend-an-introduction-58069511.html Edit: I should add European men are far more likely to smell like BO than an American. God help you in a tourist spot full of Europeans in the summer if its something like an elevator. I had a European professor that I owe 70% of my success to early on at least, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 08:14 PM
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Face it, you wanted to be that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 06:18 PM
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the collection of female narcissists, psychopaths, and sociopaths is a sight to behold. While this is going to get mod nuked, you can't take people mentally ill and then do... if you control the frame, she will adopt it. Good luck controlling the frame of a real psychopath...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 05:44 PM
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Thirsty men deal with a dessert. Thirsty women are on the ocean. Men can't get a date. Women can but most of them make them throw up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 05:28 PM
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Women are more realistic and practical Yet women can't seem to leave abusive relationships, or negotiate pay and need outside help?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 05:06 PM
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My wife says I was romantic once. Thats about right. It was our second date. It cost me about $15 and was an outdoor picnick. Word of advice marry a low maintenance woman who doesn't require gifts to feel loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 02:14 PM
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They don't even love a woman for who she is, they only fall in love with the ideal of woman. Lol no. In fact I fell in love with my wife despite her faults. There was no ideal woman but a insecure 18 year old girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 02:01 PM
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This is PPD where people will claim "all men" and "all women" so 1 billion isn't even close to extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 02:00 PM
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Aside from the obvious fornication I think that about covers it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 01:58 PM
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Most women say that they are not feminists. Think about that. Feminists can say what they like but they are generally working from a position that isn't based in reality fighting windmills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 11:45 AM
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Women cannot be creepy, because they don't usually approach and secondly because when they act "creepily" they are considered as shy and not as creepy. And women acting shy means they are attracted to a guy I had a young woman with some sort of mental illness stalking me once but quite creepy. I think the term used for woman is just umbrella crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 10:08 PM
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How much is really society though? I think focusing on hookup culture is the minority, not the majority. Its over represented in media because who's going to post/write/etc about "Timmy and Sally met at 21 and got married at 26". Wholesome is boring and not attention seeking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 07:08 PM
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Yea from what I gather its a "well you fucked up so try this at least".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 07:02 PM
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I'm not blue and I'm not red, but I'm not RP because RP is basic life advice (good) and followed up with a prevent defense which you can never be happy, like never getting married. I had a funny dream last night, where my wife and I broke up while dating, and in this dream I instantly had some hotter girlfriend who seemed perfectly nice. Funny thing was I spent the dream trying to figure out how to get back together with my wife and woke up quite anxious. I normally don't remember dreams, I'll b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 05:57 PM
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Some of us just found someone we liked and LTRed not over preoccupied with what everyone else was fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 05:37 PM
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Of course its on them, I'm not saying its your fault, I'm just trying to help you understand the male perspective on this. Some people can handle it with poise others can't and every time they see you are they going to feel bad because they are reminded of it. I think much of where the friendzone comes from is due to this. A guy wants to ask you out and can't because of that rejection fear and the fall out. Its better to not ask than risk that pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:53 PM
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because they didn't want your dick. See thats not how it feels to a guy. Its not wanting them, you know that whole person you talked about. Its literally saying "you are not good enough for me". Its basically "you are ugly" either in personality or looks. I mean, I had crushes on friends before, and I got rejected before, but you learn to manage your feelings and be friends by setting your attraction to the side. So you asked a friend out on a date, they said no, and it didn't change your dynami…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:41 PM
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Watching the American white privilege crowd Lol you are trying to hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:35 PM
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I know personally three ex strippers. All college educated. They made a choice that they would rather do that then work normally. 100% on their own. I would not be shocked if they took money directly for sex at some point, lots of those guys were throwing around a lot of cash for no sex, so I can imagine the $ would be enticing. In a way the idea that all of it is somehow wrong makes it worse because of the stigma. These three women don't have any shame over it but due to how society handles it …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:17 PM
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People using mostly alts on a focused idea, news at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 03:51 PM
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Think of it from a guys perspective, even if most men can't articulate it. You have this great friend you really like, you are both single, and she doesn't see you as a potential boyfriend. That's natures dagger. Thats a "you are not good enough to reproduce the species with me". Its sort of the ultimate rejection by the universe. Now once you aren't single and thats off the plate you can be normal friends again, but when you are single and she is single and you are attracted to her, what you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 03:49 PM
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People beyond redemtion post here all the time. I post here hoping a few who aren't completely lost to reason might get an opinion a bit different than the incel dogma of MGTOW (sorry boys you are no different and the overlap is huge, a real MGTOW isn't posting about how much women suck and convincing 18 year olds that they have no future with women, thats actually quite sick).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 02:48 PM
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Apparently swingers aren't women. This sub is full of contradictions. Women apparently only have sex for purposes other than pleasure... Unless he's "Chad".... Or a swinger... But that doesn't count or motivation is assigned to fit the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 11:49 AM
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Every swinger female was once a vanilla. Most weren't always sexually free like this but came into it, often quite late in life, usual seems to be about mid 30's for most and were just standard wives before from just about any background.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:01 AM
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He himself is not very sexually active therefor will feel more insecure being with a more experienced woman. I think most us feel that way when we are young. I think a lot of young men who aren’t good with women or have trouble getting laid may start to resent slutty women because he feels he is missing out. Welcome to PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 02:28 AM
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It can go both ways there, maybe she wants other guys to think shes hot for her own validation, maybe she wants to look hot for her husbands ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:37 AM
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But I think its disrespectful to dress like you're single when you're in a relationship. Which only would apply to you and your relationships. Its just as valid to say its disrespectful not to in a relationship. You should try to look your best and most attractive for you SO. You could even argue you should do that to help them show off that they are with you. I'd rather someone look at my wife and question what she sees in me than not look at her at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:03 AM
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So ignore your science?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 11:59 PM
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Just remember based on that, your ideal number if you can't find a virgin based on your science, is n count between 5-6, 2 is almost as bad as 10+.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 11:51 PM
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Or we could pretend we are humans and evaluate people on their merit beyond survey statistics. For example: Woman one: N=6. Married twice. Had an excuse for an affair at least once. Is very impulsive and very self centered. Woman two: N=35. Was invited to a sex party by a girlfriend. Became part of the culture for a while. Never had a serious boyfriend and got sick of that lifestyle. Now I get some would say neither women and thats fine, but if it came to future loyalty, I'd trust number 2. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 11:37 PM
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Yet you are talking about absolutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:26 PM
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0: -- 1: 2.54 2: 4.05 3: 3.5 4-5: 3.18 6-9: 3.22 10+: 4.25 So if you are dating a woman with an N count of 1 before you, you want her to fuck at least 3 more guys to be maximum faithful, 6-9 would be ok too but not quite as good as 4-5.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:18 PM
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You know how probabilities work right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:17 PM
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interview indicates that the probability of infidelity increased by 13% for every additional lifetime sexual partner 8 dicks and shes useless, its scientifically proven!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:13 PM
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Women who are open about their sexuality and willing to talk about it will be open about having more sexual experiences. How would you know a woman is bi unless you either saw her with a woman or she talked about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:49 PM
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Have her invite a friend over.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:03 PM
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Bisexuality in itself is a pretty big slut tell. Bisexuality isn't a slut tell, them being open about it does seem to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 07:06 PM
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Being my wife has always had my blessing to have sex with women whenever she wants I agree. Women don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 07:03 PM
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And there is a reason Canada sends patients to the US and not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:12 PM
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Laughs in lower taxes and no VAT. Cries in understanding that there is no free lunch but most people don't get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 02:13 PM
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Rule, no, commonly excluded yes. Funny thing about those single dudes is that a common issue for couples who do have sex with them, is they often try to steal the woman away from the guy. Being a single guy in swinging isn't easy and many guys who suck with women think it will be easier when its actually harder. I'd never be a single guy in swinging, I'd have much better luck if I were single in the normal market.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 06:45 AM
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ItI had a surreal moment in my life once. We were at a swinger gathering of sorts and there were some 12 women sitting mostly together on a couch and a few chairs around the couch. I'd had sex with every one of them at some point in the last 3 years, some just once, some multiple. So what did they get out of it? This was about 7 years ago now I think and I've only seen one in the last 2 years. I never paid any a dime, they all live out of my area, all they got out of the encounter was sex. So wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 03:21 AM
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It also requires a certain level of IQ. A large % of my employees are single mothers. Night the brightest bulbs. The nicest of the lot is obese and I'm going to guess has an IQ of about 80. Its no ones fault that I've given her the best job she'll ever have in her life and I'm willing to put up with her intelligence due to her attitude, but nothing will stop her from making some bad decisions simply because shes literally not smart enough to make good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 02:30 AM
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Why is it so shocking that men are easier than women in terms of putting out? Thats all there is too it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 02:13 AM
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Sometimes you gotta look in the mirror to figure out why you are suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 01:50 AM
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Nah -- that's just a bit chubby. You've mentioned your tastes. On the left, without a chin, with a gut, is 5'4" 170. "Chubby" has no set definition, but if you have no chin, you aren't chubby by mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 11:55 PM
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The implication there is that rich people are not fat. Got a source for your statement? Poverty correlates with obesity, at least in the US. https://diabetes.diabetesjournals.org/content/60/11/2667 And the usual sources will give the usual excuses for why that doesn't involve calling out people who tend to make bad life choices economically, and socially, might also make shitty food decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 09:56 PM
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will eventually happen though Never settle for mediocrity. It's not an inevitability.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 09:52 PM
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Obesity has a two factor reason for increasing sexlessness. The first is the medical physical reason. Obesity affects both men and womens physiology. For men it can increase estrogen, reduce bloodflow and reduce stamina/energy, and effect sleeping. All of which can lower sex drive and lower ability to have sex. Women it can also influence their hormonal system, reducing sex drive, messing with periods, and the sleep/stamina plays a part there for them too. From an ability too do it, I think it h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:02 PM
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Trump is a case in point. Can you imagine anyone less self aware? I think he legit can’t acknowledge that everyone in the world including his own family and associates think he’s an idiot. This is one of those moments where you can say someone is illustrating a lack of self awareness. Someone who's spent his life in the limelight, became generational wealthy, has always been with the most attractive women, became president of the United States against literally all odds and was actually rather w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 03:33 PM
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My cynical take about self reflection isn't that some people don't do it. It's that they do it and come to the conclusion that they are in fact "all that".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 03:20 PM
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Based on how to phrased this, I'm guessing she's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 12:47 PM
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None of these get to the meat though. Who's fucking who. Who's in a relationship with who. Its just messages sent and received.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 04:12 AM
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Are the women who use onlyfans being shortsighted? What do you think the long term effects will be? Is it exploting people's thirst? The same as its always been for doing porn, only not as severe. I think for most the only real repercussions would be if they can't own up to it and are embarrassed/shamed later. Being only you can make yourself embarrassed its on them. I know cam girls and strippers who just own it and don't freak out someone saw them naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 12:51 AM
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I think we're missing the point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 06:41 PM
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Not to me, so I must be Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 06:31 PM
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The overwhelming majority of people who are unrealistic about what they bring to the table are women. Thats just like your opinion man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 06:23 PM
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I think some people do, hell we have a lot here which I think probably are suffering inceldom because of it, but you said Most people make that mistake and I don't think they do. I think most people know their league either instinctively or through self evaluation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 10:10 PM
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So, a sound and rational SMP strategy is to take a hard look at the mirror and assess our own SMV and then look around and limit our scope and search to people who have a similar SMV, no much more, nor much less I'd say that's pretty much what happens anyways. Its rare to see too much leeway in SMV turning into a good relationship long term. I mean it does happen, but over time one side seems to get resentful (of the lower SMV) or insecure of the higher, stuff that can mess up a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 10:02 PM
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I know one. She used to run a cuckolding website and her husband was a full on cuck. She's very bisexual. She's sort of forcing her new husband to be a cuck even though he doesn't want it. He's kinda weak. Basically you need to find almost extreme people to be as open as they are online. There is no point in pissing off people around you just to have a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 06:22 PM
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Men have less friends than women? Ok? That implies men need more shallow friends? Most womens friends are quite trivial and fleeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 06:20 PM
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I'll fix it. If as a guy you can't pull a fat chick, you really need to look in the mirror and see what you can improve. Most fat chicks are easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 05:39 PM
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There was some show on last night that I thought was a bachelor clone but instead it was 15 guys trying to be some chicks baby daddy. Nuke hollywood when?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 05:06 PM
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This is going to be mod nuked, but that is a very odd posting history.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 05:02 PM
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Reading this thread gave me a headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:59 PM
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But its still the bar
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:53 PM
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Maybe they should get together?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:52 PM
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Over night? Why do you think I bring up millions of years?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:40 PM
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We should still have instincts from then though? There are certain systems which have some carry over in almost all living creatures, but even in pre-history humans didn't seem to have one size fits all mating patterns, so assuming that THOSE haven't changed in multi-millions of years doesn't make sense. Obviously rape of outgroups has been common in the past and even currently, but rape in your own clan would not be. And it's not like the moment we diverged from chimps we had an entirely differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:06 PM
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Chimps are our closest relatives 5-7 million years is a long time. every one of our other relatives are more similar to chimps than bonobos, if 99% of our ancestors are one way, why would you assume we are more similar to the 1% that we aren't even closest related to? No, this isn't accurate. Chimps and us have BOTH been diverging for 5-7 million years under different circumstances. Its why they at best can barely figure out how to use a twig as a tool and we fly into space. Their sexuality has …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 03:13 PM
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You can't use a animal model for a species we diverged from some 5-7 million years ago as a model of human behavior. Chimpanzees sexuality is not at all like humans. You picked the type of Chimp that best fit your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 02:28 PM
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As someone who's non-monogamous I view cheating as an ultimate betrayal of trust since there is no excuse about the excitement, being just sex, caught in the moment etc. Trust is the cornerstone of a good relationship. IMO if you can't trust your partner, they shouldn't be your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 02:25 PM
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Nah, women don’t have nearly as high of a sex drive as men because of 10x less testosterone. Statistically speaking you are correct. Individually speaking, you are not. I have one FWB who's husband is literally like "fuck it I can't keep up, you go do your thing". And I'm glad I'm not married to her because I couldn't keep up either. She's not the only one I know like this. These women don’t even cum during hookups, so it can’t be to satiate their sex drive. She came in my car with my finger. Ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 02:03 PM
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The species is best characterized as female-centered and egalitarian and as one that substitutes sex for aggression. Whereas in most other species sexual behavior is a fairly distinct category, in the bonobo it is part and parcel of social relations--and not just between males and females. Bonobos engage in sex in virtually every partner combination (although such contact among close family members may be suppressed). And sexual interactions occur more often among bonobos than among other primat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 01:56 PM
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There are so many possible reasons for having a high partner count that I think anyone worrying about this needs to lay off statistics and evaluate on a 1-1 level. High partner counts can mean anything from mental instability to intellectual logic (its just sex). Very high sex drives in women can easily lead to huge partner counts. There is nothing wrong with them, its not about pair bonding, they are just insanely horny. Others might have some sort of avoidance disorder. Men have the same issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 01:54 PM
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I'd really like to know why this idea, which is actually valid IMO, always goes to the worst aspect and tries to tie it into rape fantasies? Women do select for mates, but males pre select. We both select which is to be expected in an intelligent species with long childhoods. To put it in PPD terms, men approach (select) and women accept/reject. Chimpanzees don't matter btw or do we include the Bonobos too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 05:13 AM
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I had a friend on Tinder, she got sick of weirdos she was meeting and quit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 10:45 PM
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You’re forgetting one very important part. The obesity crisis includes women too. This. As a fit guy I am better looking number wise than I deserve. But I have less women to pick from who are also fit. I'd rather we go back to the 70's in bodies so personality really is what matters most.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 09:51 PM
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I don't agree with you at all. I've personally had a very good time being a man. I'll agree that often women get a handicap in the game of life, but I don't mind having the zero handicap, I still usually win.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:23 PM
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ridiculed by well-adjusted people I hope you don't mean redditors, where it seems the average early 30's millennial is mad they have to work for a living and on anti-depressants while blaming their parents for the ills of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:05 PM
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Technology makes it easier to hook up. To counter point this following some of the logic people use here, the problem with online is too many options for women right? When you go out those options are greatly decreased. I might not be her ideal option if shes horny but I'm the best option she has that night. A song older than most of reddit ... "If you can't be with the one you love, honey, love the one you're with".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:45 PM
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Exactly. I'd love to be 18 again but not 18 mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:07 PM
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TRP has 130k members online right now. What are they doing, as they are not posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:41 PM
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129,234 Thats the number supposedly on right now. They've had 4 posts in the last 24 hours. The only sub that probably came close to that many on at a time was /r/the_donald before reddit did its authoritarian lefty thing and that sub would have like a dozen posts a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:38 PM
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If as a guy you can't pull a fat chick, you really need to look in the mirror and see what you can improve. Fat chicks are easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:21 PM
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SMV in early 20's this script sreally screws over young men, they'll never have the same great experience young women have. Pity party, I brought salty snacks! What "great life" do these girls have over the guys? Take my heterosexuality out of it, and give me the choice to choose my sex starting over at 18, I'd pick a man every time. Sure women have it easier in some ways but I personally really like being a man, I like being stronger, I like being more logically driven than emotional, I like no…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 03:45 PM
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Hobo's are free, but I wouldn't recommend it for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:54 PM
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Counterpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:37 PM
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then you may spend the time from 18 to about 25 in higher education and with dating around ie. living your best life If 18-25 is your best life you are doing it wrong. 18-25 is training, be it school, a skill, whatever. I'm going to guess that most people who say 18-25 was their best life didn't do what they needed to make the rest of their life their best life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:37 PM
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cheating_stories Never heard of that sub but its got to be the most fantasy of fantasy posting subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:56 AM
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I have a friend who's a natural Chad. We'll go to parties and I'll see women do double takes when he walks past, all the time. Poor guys got a 4" penis hes ashamed of, but he get them to the point they deal with it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:38 AM
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At what point did society tell you women don't like good looking guys? They always have and always will and its never been hidden or secret. And saying "looks aren't everything" is still 100% valid too. Who told some guys here that looks didn't matter at all. And why can they be mad about it if they had a brain to look around at the real world, 10 minutes of a womens magazine would tell you that they matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:34 AM
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I said I didn't get it. You didn't explain it you went into attack mode. I still don't get it. Keeping a separate account isn't going to alleviate money issues, it creates the possibility for new ones. I also can't see how your relationship is different from just a bf/gf. Nothing says you are married outside the paper. You didn't hit a nerve. You are projecting. My wife is fully my partner. I trust her completely. I feel for people who don't think they can trust their spouses. What a horrible wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 11:01 PM
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If you're "bettering" yourself for anyone other than yourself, you're simping for pussy. I hit the gym for pussy. No ragrets. It was for me because I really like getting oral sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 10:17 PM
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What percentage of men do you think actually improved themselves and experienced sexual abundance or even a better dating life after finding TRP? Unknowable. How many were helped by PUA? Or how many were helped by r/menslib (ok zero there). etc? The real problem is that lets say I was full on RP, I did it and it did work? Most people don't hang around forums. Its impossible to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 09:56 PM
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Dish it out but can't take it. So the usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:38 PM
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Having sex makes me feel closer to a woman, how can it not, its about as personal space as it gets, but its not really attached. Really getting to know someone makes me feel closer to a woman, but its still not attached. Getting to really know them, and having sex is what makes me attached, and only over time. I can't get attached with only sex. I can't get attached without sex. I see it as a needed combination.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:21 PM
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A bit defensive aren't we? I expect my wife to take my name, I trust her completely with the money I make, and we go to sex parties. You didn't take the last name, can't feel you can trust each other with money, and don't go to sex parties. I feel thats a win to me. I didn't dictate terms any more than you asking about last names. YOU didn't do that. I think its semi-important. You don't share finances I do that. Its funny how fast you turned this personal because I dared question something you …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:07 PM
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I guess some do for stability. But what about people on equal footing or where the woman makes more? Is that the only time it's acceptable for a woman to want to keep her last name? I'd personally recommend against such marriages for a guy like me. I've seen marriages where the woman makes more and the problem seemed to be either the guys felt/acted like they had to prove something or they were completely subservient. Neither type fits me as this is a personal thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:04 PM
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Yes but neither is taking a last name.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 05:26 PM
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We keep checking accounts separate. See now this is something I never understood. At all. We're married and that includes all aspects of our lives. There is no "her" money and "my" money but "our" money. We are a complete team.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 04:28 PM
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kids have a hyphenated name. Somewhere out there is Chris Jones-Merrik-Franks-Aggarwal. Poor kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 04:14 PM
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Why is it indicative of a woman’s love for a man but not indicative of a man’s love for a woman? Because an old tradition said so? Yes. Symbolism has a degree of power to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 02:29 PM
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I just like to compel people to rationally interrogate their sense of traditionalism and consider why they feel so strongly about things like this. :) No one seems to be commenting on the second part of my post, I wouldn't force her. So hypothetically lets say I was with a woman who said she doesn't want to take my name while we were dating. If we started to get to that point of marriage and she still didn't despite me asking I'd take that as a red flag. If she said she would I'd tell her if she…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 02:18 PM
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Its needing dominance. Women try to marry up for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 02:04 PM
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Not being willing to as a deal breaker means shes not fully committed in my eyes. I've been with my wife for 27 years now, I appreciate being "all in".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 02:03 PM
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Being fit just increases your number but it doesn't become the only number. Women this is known as "butterface". Guys I don't think have a term but its the same deal. All I know is when I went from meh to fit, the looks of women who wanted to be FWB really improved despite my same personality and face.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 01:09 PM
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I'm more of a Chip.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 04:48 AM
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Great!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 03:58 AM
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There are good examples of the double standard when it comes to things like sexual assault, but this isn't one of those examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 03:49 AM
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I wouldn't marry a woman who was adamant about not taking my name. I also wouldn't force her to take it. If she doesn't love me enough to take my name then shes not that in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 03:47 AM
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Both are stupid things to do. So better looking guys have an easier time? So women like to fuck them more? Getting mad at women makes incels as a toxic trope incels. Getting mad at men who are better looking is just as stupid. What you do is see your faults in dating, and maximize yourself, not whine about others having it easier. That gets you absolutely no where.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 11:12 PM
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Swingers tend to have fast and easy divorces. You keep your mouth shut, I'll keep mine, we'll go our separate ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:03 PM
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If your wife/gf would leave you for being unemployed and not you being lazy, its about as meaningful as seeing a "friendly" prostitute. If she wouldn't then while I can see them as an outlet, I would never trust it to be anything more than an act.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 06:24 PM
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I mean it wouldn't cringe me that much if those dolls were more realistic I don't' think the type of men would change though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 05:06 PM
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I'm really excited.. (that was sarcasm for those of you living in Rio Linda)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 03:58 PM
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Meaning he does the usual thing and pays for the meal she says "I'll get the next one" meaning the next time they go out she pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 01:40 PM
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If you want a partner, who has egalitarian views Egalitarian could be "I'll get the next one". By refusing to let him pay you could also be a "I don't need no man" type.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 01:36 PM
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The reason to pay is purely psychological. People are more inclined to give when they get a gift prior regardless of value. Its why charities send out stamps or the like. Its why car dealers will often have a free soda area. Its why reps take clients out to lunch. Pussy has value, if it didn't you wouldn't see sites like onlyfans. Cock has value, but only if you are selling to older gay men. So basically on a date you are asking her to give up something of value to you. She might not think of it…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 01:29 PM
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It makes them uncomfortable when their man is legitimately better looking than them. I don't think this is the reason for most of it. LTR's require a lot more qualities than a night of sex. For that, who cares if he's a stable, or smart, or works hard. She wants hot guy and hard cock. LTRs are worse looking because to get the whole package sacrifices must be made. The only time the guy being good looking seems to come into play, study wise at least, is when he's so good looking she thinks he'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 02:58 AM
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You were more fun back then apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 12:57 AM
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My response was appropriate and measured. Why are you getting involved? It's like pinknighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 12:27 AM
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Women are horrible at this game. Please stop. It's not helping.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 12:16 AM
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So what I said after you were unclear and blaming me for not reading your mind. Hey you are really a woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:25 PM
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Agreed but 30 would fix a lot of things. Younger people vote from low experience not understanding long term implications as a rule. Its why a certain party in the US is trying to get it so 16 year olds can vote. Its not because they think 16 year olds have anything important to say or do but they know they can fool the shit out of a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:24 PM
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To be fair voting age should be like 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:09 PM
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Most married people I know take their vows very seriously. I don't think this is accurate. I don't even remember my exact wedding vows. They were just words. Taking your marriage seriously isn't the same as the vows, and really the vows aren't even tested until things get shitty somehow. If they never get that shitty have you really taken your vows seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:08 PM
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That said, as a MGTOW it's really society and it's gynocentric laws that inform my choices. PPD is one place to debate personal choices of men and women without being banned like on FDS, or quarantined like TRP. Be fair, you would be banned on MGTOW if you didn't agree with that narrative too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:02 PM
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Not quite. Pussy whipped = that one guy with his one woman. Example: Chad says he can't come out tonight because his wife wants him to shopping with her, that man is pussy whipped. White knighting: Taking up any womans cause, mostly online. Example: typing I think what Becky did under the circumstances was perfectly reasonable, men are dangerous, and she had no reason to trust him offering her a ride home! Him getting mad when she told her friends he was a rapist is just proof he is the kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:07 PM
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I was my wifes Chad. I gave her shit first for getting fat. She then gave me slight shit (much less than I gave her) when I got fat. I've focused on staying youthful looking as has she. What I see this as really asking has nothing to do with chad and branch swinging. What really happens isn't father time its just letting yourself go. Father time fucks women harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 06:05 PM
0

So how is it different than dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 06:03 PM
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But muh eighty twenty!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:40 PM
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Thus, don't chase women, let them chase you. Do you want the 6 who thinks you are the best they can or the 8 who settled for you? I'd pick the 8. (Numbers are for demonstration purposes only, yours may vary) So you aren't her first ideal choice in dating but her best option at that time. Ok now its up to you to turn her from a "yea sure" to a "OMG I'm so glad I went out with him". Every woman who chased me directly has been undesirable to me, but I've been able to get women to chase me after the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:34 PM
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I think we are wrong on this 'dating down' or up thing. Women date up the social hierarchy. A middle class girl wants an UMC or better guy. She wants to marry a successful business owner etc. The guy doesn't care about social class nearly as much, a man doesn't get much hierarchy clout from that, but he can in some circles for a beautiful wife. Basically women look to marry up in class. Men look for looks. Trophy wives are stereotypically dumb and hot for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:25 PM
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I'm personally I'm a big advocate for "fuck you" towards anybody who switches up how they feel about you once you become something I think it totally depends on what that is. If its because I got in shape? Hell no, we are having sex. If its because I got rich or famous? Ok yea thanks but go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:59 PM
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I had to run through a couple chicks till i found one who was compatible with me. Guys have to be players now because of women. You mean ... dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:52 PM
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It is, and we have a lot of guys who were never cut out for "being a player" complaining they are not good at being a player, and blaming women for not being able to be that player.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:51 PM
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I honestly think society has created the belief that in order for a man to be cool and manly he needs a lot of casual hookups to prove his worth Not really, its a minority of guys. Hookup culture has always been there for a % of the population but most are at serial monogamists at the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 03:03 AM
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I'm really amused that people act like these are going to be out in 5 years, especially sex robots, when any sex robot that could give anything like a real sexual experience is so very very far away I expect we will all be safely dead by then. Right now we have sex robots, fucking machines for women, and I read something about a blowjob machine for guys, though I have no idea if its any good. I know the ones for women are. And women still want to have sex with men and men still want to have sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 03:01 AM
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Women, extremely easy, marry rich. Men makes it easier but you still gotta work for a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 12:45 AM
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Psychopaths don't need the RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 11:35 PM
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Actually it does if you want to be scientific. Some women think I'm hot. I don't need more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 05:51 PM
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I agree that dating and finding a woman isn't hard but... For the average man, dating has never been easier. Is your title yet... Reasonable diet and exercise will catapult your SMV because the average guy barely works out and eats garbage every day. So you contradicted your own argument. And if all the average guys were to take those steps, then the advantage goes away and its back to the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:38 PM
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You pick the most commonly attractive people but I guarantee that even the hottest star has someone who thinks they are ugly. Hell we have a ppd guy into fat chicks and I'd rather be celibate then have sex with a fatty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 02:29 PM
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My theory is something like this. Lets take and idea like the RP. Lets say you have 10k guys trying to figure it out, figure out what they did wrong etc. So you have those 10k and of that 8000 are normal guys, 1000 are just hopeless and 1000 are just irredeemable on some level, be it mentally ill or just pure hate etc. So at first that 8000 drowns them out, shit gets done. Then as time goes on many of that 8000 basically move on, they got all they could, they got married, they lost interest in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 02:57 AM
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peacocking Not even close to outdated, you just can't do what 10000 other dudes are doing because they read it online.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 02:46 AM
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Even looks are hardly universal. A small % of women think I'm actually hot. My wife is one of those. She also thinks "pretty boys" are not that attractive, she likes manly men. Most women think I'm pretty average. Some think I'm ugly, probably the type who only likes the pretty boys. I've known women who have very different ideas too, including one into fat guys (and shes quite attractive and not fat). There are traits that fit a majority of people in attraction, but nothing in biology, even loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 12:10 AM
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My wife is a thin blonde and she's been catcalled a few times, all by black men. Take what you will from that. I recall a feminist trying to do a "men suck" video about cat calling in the city and almost every one doing it was a minority, also most weren't' that bad just trying to get her attention. Its a cultural thing, maybe some parts of the world is culturally acceptable for the men to do it, but in the midwest of the US its not part of white culture, it is most definitely part of black cult…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 10:50 PM
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By politics its not conservatives who cat all as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 10:46 PM
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I don’t know that 28% of men legitimately try and can’t get laid or any sort of romantic attention at all, but obviously those men do exist. I’m not gonna debate about numbers but to answer your question, they are not attractive and women would rather be single than be with someone they aren’t attracted to, generally speaking. That number is the highest possible estimate of any study, many studies aren't as high. What is clear its on the rise. Whats not clear is why, and some believe its tied mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 10:43 PM
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I love projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 10:34 PM
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You might be right on this. It was funny how fast my wives "friends" turned on her over something trival at a school event. I mean completely trivial. She learned her lesson then. (I should add they were all adults, this isn't teen shit, but something very minor that was at our childs school).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:36 PM
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See men solve problems. It wasn't long ago where most teachers were male, we basically gave women those jobs up. All those issues would be taken care of very quickly and really I found focusing on dental hygienists kinda funny. What my take didn't cover though is that men do all those things for women/family. I'd be much less useful to society if I was just a guy on my own. Womens natural place and major function is raising children and minding that part of life. Its a very important part, extre…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:24 PM
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Stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 01:39 PM
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Friend's come from shared experiences. Work, school, war, stuck in an elevator, and really the worse the experience, the harder, the better the friends. If I were to ask a woman to my place for drinks, she accepted, and then I didn't do anything to escalate to sexual I expect a normal woman would be confused and perhaps upset. It's not the worst, it's how it's ALWAYS worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:44 PM
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When the freezer is full and they have to move onto the crawl space.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:11 AM
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I won't speak for all places in the world, but if every woman were to quit her job, vrs every man quitting his, which would cause more problems to the country being able to run. We are talking everything from the farms, to the power, to the roads to delivery, to manufacturing. Men rather silently keep the lights on, and water flowing, the roofs on, hell even most cooks in restaurants. What essential services just fail if there were no women? Which ones fail if no men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:08 AM
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Approaching has always sucked for most guys. Its a trope far older than I am. Pretty girl, guy can't even talk. Its not rejection that somehow is new. I was getting rejected before most of this sub was out of diapers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:46 AM
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Try 30 tops imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 02:04 AM
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Imagine the incel anglerfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 09:21 PM
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There is a sort of movement among women to ban porn TBH I've seen more men claiming this because they think it makes men too beta. Also so 20 years ago when the sexless (not in the last year) rate was like 5% lower it would have been ok to ban porn then? That level has been pretty stable, if anything the reason its higher now is because of porn. A fat out of shape guy on average can only expect a fat out of shape woman, or he can jerk it to porn and play video games. Its not women and 80-20 that…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:45 PM
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Glad I didn't give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:02 AM
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I think its because its a shock to women. Let me explain. Men are told, "you get married sex goes away". Women get told "men only want sex". So horny woman gets married and when its the dude not wanting sex its like "What the hell?" I think a lot of men just accept it because they have been told it for so long. Also fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:04 AM
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Ok? Now how does that all tie in?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:24 PM
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I get that and I worry about the quality of the education but luckily for us the public schools is quite high here. I did very well in private school, but my sister would have been much better off in public I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:35 PM
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I would spit in my dads face if he said any of this to me Never stop thinking about what you want. You may discover what you want changes over time. That's fine. But never stop thinking about it, because you're not going to get what you want if you don't know what it is. /u/psychedelictree_ - "FUCK YOU YOU FUCKING FUCK" HORK
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:18 PM
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I hear what you're saying. Some things will slip through. But she has two very protective parents, and we're sacrificing to put her through private school. The school is extraordinarily protective, and that's why we picked it. My daughter is about the same age. I think its a mistake but thats my take. I look at it this way. I met my wife 6 months after she turned 18. That just 7 years for your daughter. What are your really protecting her from? I think of it more as training. Learning stupid stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:14 PM
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I have casual sex I regret. Such is life, you take a chance, roll the dice, and sometimes you lose. That doesn't mean you don't play the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:07 PM
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I'm sure the incel types of the 80s had a tougher time, in some ways maybe even worse than now with no outlet (i.e. online) to reach out with? I'm not so sure. I mean yes there were incels but it didn't seem like a lot. Here's how it worked. There was very little to do back then at home. The internet was a 300 baud modem and a BBS, games had a best the worlds finest 16bit graphics, TV was 3-4 channels, and porn was if you got lucky and your dad had a stash hidden you found and skinimax after 11p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:51 PM
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Gen X. Was a virgin until 19. I had friends virgins until their 20's. All married etc. Gen Z is WAY to young to be worried about yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:35 PM
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At least women gain something when they're whores. If you give up the vagina for free, you often gain NOTHING, not even sexual pleasure. You haven't seen my penis, its very nice and my tongue doesn't fatigue. Are we projecting a bit here? Maybe you don't have any benefit from casual sex but other women do? Why should they give it up because some other women don't like it? Thats like asking me to stop giving women casual sex because some incel doesn't get any.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:09 PM
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Given what we know about redpill teaching it would make sense for more women to use dating sites like Tinder as if allows them to filter for high smv men versus low ones. Just the opposite. Online is lazy, online is easier, online people lie, online you can't know things you would know in 30 seconds in person. You can't weed out high SMV men online very well. You can say if a guy is good looking, kinda, with photo quality, angles, and photoshop being a big variable. You can't say if he's timid, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:55 PM
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I suppose if you aren't able to figure out life on your own you need a guide. I never needed TRP and my life would not change if TRP was never a thing. Being unable to objectively measure outcomes, no one can really change a view here, its just how you feel. So change your feelings is going to be kinda tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:33 PM
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I can't say exactly, because I know I am in a minority when it comes to sexuality. My guess is it is a minority of women who are really anti-porn but I think its a sizeable minority. Its just really hard to say because online people self segregate, and in person people lie or in this case usually it won't come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 02:51 PM
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Compare that to your average party slut who just goes for the hottest guy possible and does it entirely for fun. If you had to choose... which would you pick? As far as I know I don't know any escorts (I mean I could but they didn't say) but I do know three now ex-strippers and all three are very smart and understand men better than just about any woman I know including my wife. Being they are hot and intelligent I'd have no problem picking two of them, (the other one got fat).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 02:18 PM
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Many years ago in the early internet my wife and I in our 20's were reading a sex related forum but not a "sex forum" and porn came up. SOOOOO many women were just so crazy about how bad porn was and many thought of it as exactly the same as an affair. My wife as completely shocked as they seemed almost insane in their hatred of it. Now things I think have loosened up but only to a degree. Lots of insecure women out there and porn hit them right in their fat rolls so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 02:11 PM
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Pretending to be someone you are not or attempting to become a different person for the sole reason of getting laid will result in an unhappy life Sure but I don't think TRP is about pretending, its about becoming that guy. Working out and getting your shit together shouldn't be an act. I think TRP can lead to an unhappy life after you get the girl and you are always so worried about frame and awalt that you can't even trust your own partner, and of course there is a lot of advice to never get m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 02:07 PM
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Watching porn together is what lead us to our first FMF so I'm good with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 02:00 PM
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Ok then you just let it go as the chemistry isn't on her end. She might even come around if you just ignore her mostly. Lesson I learned in my dateless period.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:17 AM
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because I barely knew her. I got to second base with my wife before I could remember her last name when we met. Its actually far easier to get right to sexual than get to know someone first. The longer you wait, the more awkward it can get. Especially with the whole social-distancing thing going on right now If you can't meet you gotta spice up the conversation then. You don't have to be vulgar like some suggested but steer it in that direction one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 02:39 AM
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The whole "you pay them to leave" joke about prostitution only apply to guys who can get it normally. If a man is starved for sex, he's probably starved for companionship to, and probably not good with women. So a guy out of desperation sees a prostitute, shes actually nice to him, be it genuine or because thats her job, and he falls for her because its a drink of water to a man dying of thirst. This might be the only woman who's ever treated him nicely and made him feel like a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 12:30 AM
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That's not how faking it till you make it is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 10:42 PM
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I saw a documentary once on how they create a boy band. The initial marketing for example is to make them look more popular than they ever could be. The example for one (and I forget which one) was the first video they did had them hiding from swarms of teenage girls after them like they were already the top stars. Basically its the slick marketing, tailored look, trite songs, and the weird phenomena that comes from performing that it has on womens attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 09:32 PM
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IIRC correctly male average n count is like 7. Thats average. I think the mode though is probably more like 3. This number gets squed by people like me who are somewhere around 50, and for lifelong players who can be in the multiple 100's. If I wanted to play a players lifestyle I could easly be in the 100's by now, and thats not bragging it just gets easier when you know where to look. So most men are not chasing sluts, thinking about sluts etc. You have two groups who are. Ones like me who rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 09:13 PM
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How to balance the alpha with the beta so that she remains into you but you can also have a good relationship. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/gimm7w/how_many_women_actually_want_an_old_fashioned_man/fqhrxex/ I posted that this morning, but you said it more succinctly. Sometimes you kiss her feet, sometimes you smack her ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 08:51 PM
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Oh dear no. As an adult man, you see the reason for the attraction and realize how vapid it is. Its more about not being fooled than it is because of some sort of pedophilia. Guys see through that shit, women aren't as good at it because its designed to be attractive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 08:33 PM
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Thats what I meant, in that its far more equivalent with just a self shot photo than camming. Now realistically, these days you won't make a lot of money with JUST photos, but if she could then I could see it as the same level as watching porn. MY attitude though is much different now than I would have had at 21 when I met my wife, so while I can think its all fine, I can see why young men would be completely skeeved out and not see it as comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:08 PM
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I personally don't think "stress" as a thing causes huge health difference outcomes directly. I believe the link is indirect in that people under stress are more likely to make bad decisions (self medicating with food or drugs type of thing) and less likely to be motivated to take healthy but hard actions like exercise. It doesn't really dispute your point but I think for a lot of people its a feedback loop. Poor life decisions lead to stress lead to more poor life decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:04 PM
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I think the higher the mans number the less he cares. I know it was a big deal to me when I was a virgin/barely not virgin. If I found out my gf was in a orgy or something I'd have noped right out. Now I'd assume the girl was fun to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:01 PM
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Maybe, they fucked the market in Hawaii doing that and it took a decade to recover.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:40 PM
2

Its not the poor diets and poor lifestyle choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:38 PM
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I think if the dude was truly not pulling his weight and the money was needed it would be an acceptable comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:37 PM
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First this would have been a slightly more interesting troll thread if you would have said something like "If a man can see a prostitute if they are not getting sex at home than a woman can be a prostitute if hes not making enough money". But lets get to porn vrs camming. Porn is 100% impersonal. Now there are some weirdos who worship porn stars, lets assume this guy isn't some stalker freak. He turns on porn hub, he jerks it, he goes and does something else. Camming doesn't work that way. Camer…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 05:42 PM
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I don't get San Fransisco these days. I used to have to go there twice a year for work and everyone there, even those who lived there their whole lives hated what its become and want out. You would think that would crash property values.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 05:31 PM
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Purge week is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 05:26 PM
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One could probably do a study of 10000 people and find a number where it works best for most but its way too individual and location based. If I lived in San Fransisco to live my current lifestyle I'd need to be making closer to 800k a year. My home I could never afford out there. Homes which would be bulldozed here for being shitty and small I saw on the market in places there for 600k. Basically your number is your number. If you want to live X kind of life with Y amount of stress and have Z a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:44 PM
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Thanks for the link and its an interesting idea. I can see a lot of "what ifs" in the methodology though. For example the men with the highest T are the ones that most likely formed a family. What level drop did high T men with no kids face? That sort of thing. Edit: Ok I read the paper and its not so cut and dry. Fathers with lower T spent more time with children, go figure, but spending time with children did not lower T. Also the T levels being lower early on may be sleep related and they dim…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:29 PM
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I was too harsh I think because I do get sick of people claiming its impossible to not have both parents working and you see what they spend their money on and its on shit they don't really need at all. Your take on rural is true, and I think thats more due to the type of people and parenting. My father grew up very small town but was very successful too. He also left, as yes opportunities suck. He was actually told by his high school principle he shouldn't bother with college as he'd never make…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:23 PM
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I would personally argue that many men hit the wall around fatherhood: testosterone decreases as the man exhibits greater tendencies towards nurturing. Not for me, my T levels are very high naturally and my kids didn't change that. I don't think having kids and being a good dad does anything to your testosterone. I think its this ... Also, competition anxiety decreases with the supposed security of monogamy (locked in by marriage), leading many men to pay less attention to their physical appeara…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:07 PM
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Most people aren't 1%ers You don't need to be a 1% to have a SAHM. Hell I know people who are probably 65%'s doing it. It just is a whats more important to them as a family. If you want to live in the Bay area, eat out often, and take vacations, you bet both need to work unless you are very rich. If you want to live in rural Alabama, have one pickup, and enjoy rural life but only that, you can do it on a very low wage. Where people draw that line is up to them, but when people say they can't aff…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:41 PM
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Young women don't know or like to admit what they want, but they know what they think they should say they want. What they really want is a combination IMO. They want a traditional man who can be all that but they also want a guy who's not afraid to tell them to shut the fuck up every now and then too as thats the whole dominance thing. A simp is afraid to tell them to fuck off when they need it. A asshole won't buy flowers now and then or show any appreciation. Trick is you gotta be both. Somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:20 PM
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I make "good money" currently. My wife went from full time work to SAHM because we both thought it made the most sense. It wasn't worth putting our kids in daycare etc for her to keep working as we had enough money with just me. I don't think most people plan for this and really not that many go for a trophy wife even, its just the most logical thing to do if you feel you can afford it and shes not married to her career but wants to be a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:14 PM
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Dough!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 05:46 AM
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PUA is a technique, I doubt many outside of the people trying to monetize decided to really make it a lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 05:44 AM
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Black pill has good info on what makes someone attractive. Its solid there. People on the black pill are using that to give up since they are not super pretty. Its an excuse when very few men are soooo ugly that they have no chance. I walk around a busy city would prove that otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:55 AM
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Let me guess he's now somehow marketing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:47 AM
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Your post history shows you are a retard, so I'm probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:46 AM
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emotional labor Biggest bullshit idea of all time. Impossible to quantify, but apparently women do sooooo much of it. Its like totally not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:37 AM
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But also, what a gross way to speak about people Its descriptive and funny. I think its fine. I could say .... My wife is straight, but when she is sexually aroused with a beautiful woman she finds herself sexually attractived to her and will engage in sexual acts. Or I could just say.... shes straight until wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:49 PM
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Swinger, which is different than open but still non monogamous sexually. I know my wife would never leave me for another woman, but she likes to have sex with them sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:18 PM
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My wife is bi, and many of my FWB's are bi. There are two types of bi I've encountered. Few women are truly right down the middle bi. Many are spaghetti bi, (bi when wet) and would never have a relationship with another woman solo without a man too. These women are safe. Some though are lesbians married to guys, and are more lesbian than straight, those could be risky and sometimes decide they really are a lesbian. So basically if your gf/wife likes pussy more than you do, and you aren't bi your…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:30 PM
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4 days is the sweet spot I think. Long enough for all the quality shit posts, not so long that all the posts become shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:47 PM
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I got downvoted in it for saying something about women even needing quotas on PPD so yea your point stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:47 PM
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Its not the career that is the moral of the story. Its being rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:08 PM
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If I were 5'2" and ugly I'd do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:06 PM
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The middle class teenager to early 20's who lives at home still and wears a Che Guevara shirt unironically, and thinks Stalin did nothing wrong and should have killed more people. Basically the kinda of person who says "It wasn't real communism" after every communist genocide.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:59 PM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:18 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean. You can call hypergammy amoral but if a woman gets married to a guy, says how much she loves him, and then leaves him for a guy who make more money just because he makes more money shes still an asshole. Not sure if there is a term for "fuck everything" but you can call it amoral for a man too, but if he lies to a woman to have sex with her, and then dumps her he's still an asshole. You can't use grand trends to justify being an asshole to an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:16 PM
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Yeah sure but let's be real here this is a pretty snowflakey eVeRyOne Is SpEcIaL analysis the Venn diagram isn't quite a circle but it's not that far apart either For which part? If you said there are more white trash who are racist than non-white trash sure, I'll give you that as probably true, or at least not "conventionally racist". If you include the racism of low expectations, then a lot of "non white trash" will qualify. People struggling for money and not doing as well as their ancestors …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:11 PM
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Nothing wrong with being white trash if it suits you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:08 PM
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This purge week was perfect. Its gone on long enough that its completely run its course and is now annoying. MAKE IT STOP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:01 PM
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TBF the couch is what makes it white trash. Lose that and its just low income.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:59 PM
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True or false: there is a large segment of white folks doing the exact same dumb shit they call out black folks folks for doing (blowing money on booze and drugs etc.) but who think they're more civilized because they're white Thats not what white trash is though. White trash to a middle class left winger who has parent issues is probably some guy with a confederate flag, a mullet and a old pickup truck. That guy could most likely be white trash, but white trash is also the woman with 6 kids fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:58 PM
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I was going to respond with something intelligent, but I couldn't find anything coherent in your rant. Then I saw you were a chappo and that explains it. You are an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:49 PM
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I'll take a bad hand job over a toothy blow job any day. I still mentally cringe from one I had a few years ago. Dear god.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:10 PM
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At what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:08 PM
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should I not speak on their behalf? On the individual level, yes. On the population level its far more complicated. Sticking up for a group sounds great and makes you feel noble I'm sure, but does it really help them get over what the issue is in the first place? White liberals trying to "help" blacks have hurt race relations as much as Jim Crow. Things were better in the 80's and 90's than today. So many people treating the entire black race like helpless children, and at the same time convinci…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:57 PM
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I wish this was a serious post instead of purge week because its so stupid I just have to assume its a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:48 PM
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How one can see something so intimate as ‘meaningless fun’ is well beyond me. One of the most primitive functions in the mammalian brain shared across species and you put it on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:41 PM
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I’m not black but I am disgusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:36 PM
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You tried..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:32 PM
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How did they get them to leave their computers long enough to meet in person? I hate these unbelievable scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:59 AM
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Nice graphics, cutting edge for 2015.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:55 AM
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Few women care about big dicks. They just don't want small ones. Only men get really fixated on big ones. Porn is mostly watched by men. Porn looks for guys with big dicks. Do the math.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:56 AM
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I'm trying to figure out where this comic might work. I think neck beard white knight. This needs a guy with a Fedora, an anime shirt and 100 lbs over weight. Incels know they are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:54 PM
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Only even the Roman's thought they were tall as hell there, and that was no matriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:44 PM
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After 6'6" tall becomes more of a freak show, not very healthy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:39 PM
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My son is 6'5" and 15 so he's going to be fathering the master race.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:12 PM
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But I convinced her to do it, I have one of her stripping on my phone, its very nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:12 PM
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Women can't shitpost. Come on ladies you can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:57 PM
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The joke is that short is going to be under 6'3" by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:56 PM
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What if you are the one with her on the tape?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:54 PM
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Are we sure they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:29 PM
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I mean seriously. What kind of pussies can't tolerate even the slightest hint of dissent? That sub gave me a warning a few months ago that even though I didn't do anything wrong in a post, my post history means I wasn't welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:24 PM
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I can prove ugly people have children, I can't improve your situation, only you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:22 PM
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Shut up Murdock.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:21 PM
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I'm worried you are laughing at that because its the first time you've heard the saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:45 PM
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I'm saying I looked at your posting history and nothing I say is going to change your mind on anything right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:39 PM
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Its not going to matter what I say, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:22 PM
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no, he's not a chad, and he is not ugly either, he is just fat... "just" fat, he was on 600 lb life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:19 PM
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I swear you lemmings must think this guy is a chad.... That sack of lard died at 49 with, 19 fucking grandchildren.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:07 PM
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It's 97% salty men and sexism. "Neutral" my ass. Women even want a quota system on PPD. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:16 PM
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I'm guessing its on facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:14 PM
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So - why wouldn't they fuck someone else, or their husbands? Eh? Thats exactly what they do? I don't see what this question is in response to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 05:15 PM
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I didn't care about your post, I was just talking about the TRP post. Your post is vapid. Sex is good, and women enjoy it. WHY they choose to pursue it is sexy male attention. Men will do a lot for heterosexual women if they will fuck him. Women's requirements for sex are significantly more complex (over time) but for acute attraction, it's the attention. This part is silly. I don't have a stable of married women who I fuck occasional because they want "male attention" they want sexual variation…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 05:10 PM
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You want to show me your race card?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 05:05 PM
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Its wrong but its not a bad approach. Women's sex drives are much more limited than mens and by keeping them sexually stimulated you keep the sex drive going to. Its called responsive desire and while I no longer have a link, its about how 70% of women are sexual (the other 30% are more like men where they just get horny and want sex spontaneously). Likewise a minority of men are this way as well. That guy who never seems to put effort into getting laid? Quite possibly doesn't get spontaneously …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:56 PM
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You really try to hard acting black. How I believe you really look.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:44 PM
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True, its easy to forget about myspace.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:41 PM
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You don't understand debate, you must be a woman or at least left wing (same thing). See she made claims without proof. Its not up to anyone to refute them because she feels this way. If I claim say "ugly men can get laid" and someone challenges me on this, its up to me to prove it and go from there. What stupid people do online is say stupid things and then expect a cited essay to refute every stupid thing they say. They then will shift the goal posts and expect you to refute those points, with…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:40 PM
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My space didn't destroy the internet though, it was just a small pimple. The iPhone is what killed it. It took a few years but once that was in the normies hands, it was over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:20 PM
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Explain what? She made a statement I said it was wrong. Explain that being a mother is an easy job? I realize women circle jerk around this and it benefits society to do so, but its not exactly taxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:14 PM
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Population can also surge due to rising standard of living. Thats peaked and is now past us in the west where increases actually correlate with a decrease in population. Stage one - HOLY SHIT WE WON'T STARVE WE HAVE MEDICINE OUR CHILDREN WON'T DIE! (But we still have huge families) Stage two - HOLY SHIT MY GRANDMOTHER HAD 9 KIDS? Thats a lot and since our kids are no longer dying before age 3 lets just have two.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:09 PM
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She's black. She won't figure out part two if she does part one. This isn't even racist, its just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:02 PM
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Can men please explain this Yea, shes a ditzy broad. She's just factually wrong. What she states doesn't happen. Society doesn't do that, like at all. If anything mothers get far over credited for what they do, its an easy job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:59 PM
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about Feminist issues Low IQ entitled nonsense with no proof beyond some chicks feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:56 PM
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So only Chads have sex, Chads are good looking, good looking depends on genes, so we no longer have ugly people! Oh wait, something has to be wrong in that!.... Oh yea the first part. Ugly people get married too it seems and have sex, and have kids that look like them!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:51 PM
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2006 is when the internet died.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:50 PM
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The difference is that in 1997 the guy wouldn't find a group of equally dorky guys to cry like a bitch online about and how women hate them. They tended to improve the best they could and get married. Now their kids are the ones bitching online about how horrible it is to be like their father.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:48 PM
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So like incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:44 PM
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I miss the 15 or so years the internet was mostly idiot free, or at least the idiots were the small minority. Sure we had crazy people but they were legendary not typical. Generally smart people with mental illness. Now we get this shit as typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:41 PM
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Fat... Popular... Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:32 AM
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You really made up a new account for this? Dude seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:32 AM
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You stated things, I stated things. You don't have a big dick do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:21 AM
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I'd recommend keeping your head above your emotions, but thats really hard when you are as young as you are. Hormones, newness etc breaks the brain so to speak. I had my problems too, its normal, but the only way to figure it out is to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:20 AM
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You didn't get the joke. EVERYONE fucks up their first relationship to some extent. Its called growing up. You might not fuck it up totally and it will work out, but you WILL make mistakes. Hell my wife thought we were breaking up at least 3 different times while dating based on things I said or did, which had nothing to do with breaking up but thats not how she interpreted them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:05 AM
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Yet white men are quick to dismiss Asian males for incompetence with genetically inherited small penises citing they cannot even satisfy their own women thus leading white men to see Asian men as inferior whether you’d like to admit it or not. Not really no. It is an easy online insult, like telling a black kid at least you know who your dad is, etc. In the real world the only guys I've ever talking about asian dicks are asians. I suppose gay guys do to which would to back to my OP. The same sce…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:02 AM
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Having had swim class in a multi racial school, I'm not exactly worried about the cock size of the average black guy being superior. And no big dicks are not great for sex after a point. Very few women like cervix poundings. You got way too much time on your hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:41 AM
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Shouldn't incels be bitter to their parents for giving them such shit genes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:05 AM
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Nice thing about having a big cock is you can look at these and realize how retarded they are and how this is probably some guys gay fantasy but without the balls to say he's gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:03 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:10 AM
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This place would be quarantined in a month without mods
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:07 AM
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The only person 100% looking out for your best interest is the person you see in the mirror. Lol not at all. People fuck themselves up far more than other people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:04 AM
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Sounds like someone worth taking advice from.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:03 AM
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I'm judging you for whining but that doesn't mean it's a real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:58 PM
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Cocktail weiner circle jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:56 PM
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Feminism jumped the shark when they went from slut walks to complaining about sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:02 AM
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That woman has more testosterone in her (due to HRT) than the entirety of males in /r/menslib.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:46 AM
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Whats funny is the first part used actual data, and the second acted like survey data was real data. "People are less likely to say they want only their own race". Shocking people wouldn't want to look racist on a profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:04 PM
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Those women are still having sex I've known plenty of fat girls who don't get sex. Hell I had to once help a friend of mine who luckily lived out of state so I didn't have to say no to her. She finally found a BF, at a gaming group. A real chad right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:58 PM
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Genetically speaking cousins are actually safe. Cousin marriage was more frowned upon due to the Catholic Church wanting to break up big family holdings. When their are no heirs, they'd usually get the land.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:13 PM
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In the US a majority of the women are not just 'overweight' but grossly fat at 5'4" 170 lbs. Thats fucking disgusting. So I'd assume a majority of FDS chicks are fat, perhaps even more than the usual %. So fat chicks can't blame themselves for being unattractive so they blame porn. Porn which has coincidentally almost only fit thin women, which mysteriously their boyfriends would rather see than their flabby ass guts and sad fat girl tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:00 PM
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There's just a general visceral disgust among normal people to men who whine, I think. I think that this disgust is instinctual. Because of that, it doesn't matter if Black Pill is true or not. Your posting history made that super easy barely an inconvenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:31 PM
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Setting a wage doesn't increase the value of the labor. Added local value is relative and governments suck understanding it. You can live easily in parts of the US at 15 an hour but people like to cite the San Francisco bay area as somehow "normal". Reddit can't grasp this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:18 PM
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Women as a rule suck at shit posting and take things too much at face value. Most of the hate is male banter. It's how we size up other men. If you can't take an insult you are low value as a male and probably unstable. We actually have very few hateful posters here. Even most if the incels don't cross into real hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:50 PM
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On reddit every 30 year old has a therapist and is on anti depressants.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:44 PM
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They love FDS. That silly larp sub helps confirm the bias of some men so that they can feel justified in giving up on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:28 PM
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True story, I wear a paper bag over my head, when I masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:49 AM
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Its cute when children have strong opinions!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:57 AM
2

HOT!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:18 AM
2

I went Android, which only recently got soy creamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:17 AM
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It just sort of blew up in 45 and the fallout is still being felt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:34 PM
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I think the woman on the right was a model for Oblivion characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:33 PM
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iPhone in 2006 was an alpha move. iPhone is 2020 is a soy latte with extra soy cream, and by soy cream I mean semen. Real men have burner phones from walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:32 PM
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You miss 100% if the shots you don't take.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:09 AM
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I don't Warhammer but I know enough that its gotta be a Nurggle demon or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:52 PM
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Reality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:34 PM
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If its a 50 year old guy on a divorce its fine, but I get angry when they try to suck some 18 year old in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:57 PM
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Its a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:27 PM
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young I don't get why people care what 20 year olds make. I was broke personally until early 30's. Lots of schooling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:21 PM
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I think he's suppose to be a chad, look at that jaw line.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:20 PM
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How many guys played guitar growing up and now have that same guitar in it's case stored deep in their basement collecting dust? But its a choice you can make, not because you are forced to make it. Blaming women for making that choice is ridiculous. I don't do many of my former hobbies because I choose to not do them. And coincidentally a few years ago I decided to try to play the guitar. I didn't care for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:18 PM
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So wait let me see. The guy is older, has an n count of 1 and that was with a younger girl. So is he a pedo or did he stay a virgin until 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:37 PM
1

How can there be a functioning society if all males are alpha and refuse to follow/be led? It would be total chaos and madness. If a general takes orders from the president are they a beta? Don't get too far ahead of what makes alpha/beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:07 PM
3

If this is how you try to get someone to suck your cock, it might explain your success rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:06 PM
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It's not a false assumption, women only want the best. Hypergamy. Assuming its true, what they are saying is they are beta to better men correct? Most married men give up on everything but wage slaving for his family. Eh? How long have you been married? Believe it or not most men dont have the energy or motivation to invest in their hobbies Double eh? Most men I know in my hobbies are married. We aren't talking ultra rich guys either, just average middle class joes with hobbies. From a gun range…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:40 PM
5

I'm mocking. Maybe still beta but a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:38 PM
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MGTOW lead men to be free from those women and those men Crabs in a bucket. It doesn't take much, at all to lead a woman, they are women, they are not leaders by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:24 PM
4

So brave, so strong, so full of shit. MGTOW is a cope. If a guy just doesn't give a shit thats great but that guy isn't calling himself a MGTOW because he doesn't give a shit. MGTOW as a movement is for betas who gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:22 PM
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MGTOW has just realized that dating and women arent worth it unless you're the top 10-20% of men. So they base their life on a false assumption? Thats pretty beta. Giving up on women isnt the same as giving up on life or yourself. They post a moderate car or video game setup like a great victory they couldn't reach if they had women. Its sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:19 PM
4

I think its that she posts like a Berkley Womens Study class became sentient.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:13 PM
3

Good because its multiple shop owners, which is why I did a search not a link.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:56 PM
3

There is no rise in authoritarianism https://www.google.com/search?client=firefox-b-1-d&q=shop+owner+arrested
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:50 PM
3

Sounds like someone who would live like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:46 PM
4

Technically true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:13 PM
20

They have jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:13 PM
1

I don't get this subs hate for FDS. If you were dating a chick who was the kind to actually think FDS was a good thing, its on you for a bad choice. Its ugly or mentally ill chicks basically larping.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:08 PM
2

Goresome? If thats not a word it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:05 PM
5

It's very much up for debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:08 PM
1

Usually don't ask the history but wouldn't surprise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:06 AM
1

No 2, clearly fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:52 AM
2

Am I to believe that no guys posting about this in a negative light ever experienced a woman being wet for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:31 AM
3

I've fucked a lot of Mormon women. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:19 AM
0

Mgtow is the most beta thing a guy can do. It's giving up to the alpha males. It's surrendering.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:18 PM
1

I'm sure you are a blast to be around. Reminder to tell women that they look like trannies on dating apps Nice post you made there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:05 PM
4

Skinny woman with tall boyfriend pandering to the blue check marks on twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:52 PM
13

Because we see ugly dudes with ugly chicks all the time in the ugly real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:25 PM
1

Average woman is fat in the US. I am too good for the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:31 PM
2

I'm also open-minded, so I guess that's good too. Thats good. Life is a dice roll of course, but I try to take as few as I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:26 PM
7

If someone wants to pay for titties when the internet has more free titties than there is time to look at titties thats on them. Why should I be mad that some dude is paying for these titties, especially knowing that once he gets it in his head he can't touch those titties he will "leak" those titties online as punishment and then I get those same titties for free? There has never been a time in human history better for men who like to look at titties. I've seen more titties than the most deprav…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:22 PM
1

Oh come on there has got to be at least 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:07 PM
2

Someone just needs a good dicking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:53 PM
2

What will you do if it turns out he really sucks in bed or has some weird fetish after you get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:49 PM
10

Are there a lot? I can only think of like 4 active ones off-hand Thats like half the black women on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:47 PM
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Really blackpill shouldn't be banned but.....its the gate way to incel whining. Plus listening to some guy bitch he wasn't born a pretty princess and THATS why no girls will ever love him and its not his toxic personality but 2 inches of height gets old.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:46 PM
1

Oh I completely agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:36 PM
1

Why would I hate ugly women? Its like hating squirrels. They are just there doing their thing and being ugly, like squirrels act like squirrels. I'm not going to bury my nuts in them so why hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:45 PM
1

Like all cults. Can't survive if you keep the crazy level too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:18 PM
1

not all Islamic beliefs are bad & there's good & bad in every group Nah Islam is pretty shit at its core. Its a veneer of acceptability. Islam was created by a warlord to be better at being a murdering raping warlord. Christianity is basically a standard cult, this one just got lucky and took hold after saner heads tried to end it. Mormonism is like Islam, only replace warlord with con man, oh and less murdering and rape but same wife policy. Pretty much all are like this down the list. Only the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:11 PM
2

Because they don't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:04 PM
2

They love sarcasm because teehee it's so quirky. Unless a woman grew up with a bunch of brothers, they have no ability to grasp sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:19 PM
2

97% of MGTOW's would give that up in a heartbeat if a pretty woman was into them. 2% have mental illness The other 1% are in the closet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:15 PM
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I have never been to the US but I know people who lived there their entire life before moving to Europe. What they told me is that it's day and night, and that they'll never go back to America. All 3 of them. People who didn't like living in the US don't like living in the US, news at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:12 PM
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Man I think 40s is too late. You would be mostly picking trash Its too late for a life long love type sure, but there are actually good women out there by that point as the divorces have started quite a while ago prior. Not all divorced women are trash, sometimes it was the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:10 PM
1

Island, place all the incels on it on one side, the male feminists on the other. Enjoy the Lord of the Flies unfolding.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:11 AM
1

It was the first google hit, feel free to do your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:06 AM
2

I'm more sad for your cat. I like cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:29 AM
1

Good thing I'm not incel then ;) If cat's counted then no fury would be an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:26 AM
2

You post pictures of your cat.... We'll miss you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:20 AM
2

Learn like did. On a thin hot slutty Latina.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:37 PM
1

Oh that changes things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:48 PM
1

Nazi mass murderers instead. Mass murderers of Nazis or Nazis who are mass murderers?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:42 PM
3

What sort of degenerate fucks a fatty?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:24 PM
1

What if she already charged my credit card?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:23 PM
1

Date shorter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:22 PM
2

Most woman have higher emotional intelligence then men My wife will cry at a sappy commercial if shes having her period. Women are also much more emotional. are better at conversation Talking more doesn't make you better. Women are very bad at getting to the point is my counter point. Now you may have a thing here with women being better at talking to women as they will blather on together. Those skills transition to "game". Er... no. Its actually kinda the opposite. One things guys need to lear…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:20 PM
2

then my wife got involved and told me to go back to my shed. Just admit you liked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:03 PM
3

No one will buy my panties :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:36 PM
9

wooosh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:30 PM
13

Chad or progressive Pick one. The only reason to be progressive is to make it easier hitting on liberal hippie chicks, and even then you don't really mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:09 PM
1

You don't get it, obviously, I don't think I could explain it. You don't even know what makes a Chad, its not just dress or gym time, its additute, its power and confidence, its game. Being a woman, no offense but you probably don't have any game, you never needed it, you don't get it, you don't have it. I know very few women who have game and they are hyper sexual, and one works in the sex industry, its literally her job, and its still not real game. A good looking woman doesn't need to win ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:03 PM
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Older than the intenret
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:43 PM
1

people belittle me and mock me everywhere i go. Thats on you. I know a literal dwarf who gets respect because he over compensates with having a mean cuss when insulted and word got around. No one says shit to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:04 PM
1

Eh... Girl falls for guy, gets emotional, gets mad, tries to get guy jealous with revenge fuck. Nothing is weird about it, if it is all a bit on the trashy side on both ends. You don't pick who you fall in love with or the circumstances. While I don't fall for women due to sex, I could understand people who do. She was hurt even if its not "his fault" and lashed out which is what hurt people do of both sexs at times, especially while immature which I'm sure they both are. The whole story is a bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 04:38 PM
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I genuinely believe that older generations than mine had more integrity than to conduct themselves in such a way. As a guy older than you, no, they did not. They're disgusted by unattractive men when they make an advance, but when a more attractive man makes a pass, their reaction is different. They still put on the facade of "I'm a married woman, how dare he". The expression on their face is different. They speak of it less (to not draw attention to it). I specify women because i think men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 04:00 PM
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True but also genetics play a huge part. This is what my wife looked like naked and 9 months pregnant. Like identical almost (and coincidentally her heritage would be from the region discovered, go figure). Second kid she tried better with diet etc. Still looked the same. Not all women go through this. She's currently a size 4 but women who go through that change WILL get stomach stretching which never 100% goes away, breasts can have issues too when they go up 2 sizes, the skin grows to compens…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:21 PM
1

I personally view the idea of seeing a prostitute as confirming low value as a man. My personal thought on it, is if I have to pay for it, its time to retire the penis and focus on other things. Sex with a woman not into it is literally "vagina assisted masturbation" to me, so I might as well jerk off. Women I would be with I would hope view themselves high enough to not want a guy who went that route.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:13 PM
1

Most women will look permanently worse after having kids unless you like the mother look Diet, exercise, and about 10-15k worth of plastic surgery fixes this. Just a FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:07 PM
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Anger can fuel people to act Usually not very logically. Anger can be very motivating, I agree, hell I've been there, but its most productive when you are angry with yourself not others. Lets say you keep getting taking advantage of. Focusing on the person who did it does nothing. Focusing on your flaws that lets people take advantage of you might improve yourself. I think that's a reason why TRP is so rage-baity/over the top. To inspire action in men who would otherwise remain motionless. TRP, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:56 PM
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Women already on average put more effort into their looks and have higher social intelligence. Women would be Chad's at least above average. Lol no. As a bi women I can attest it's not nearly as hard as men pretend it is My wife is bi, you just don't get it as a woman. The game is completely different. I'm not saying women gender swapped would be incels either, I'm saying being a player as a guy is nothing like it is being one as a woman. Not even close. https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_contin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:46 PM
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What's even wrong with being angry? Spending your life being angry is allowed, but its also pretty bad way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:40 PM
3

This is going to be totally on the people involved. If my wife didn't have sex with me for a year, she wouldn't be my wife. She also knows this. Hell when we were having sex like once every week and a half I had to get to the bottom of it, and was better for it as it gave me more incite to female sexuality. I can't imagine going for months, thats just not going to happen unless medical reasons were involved. Sex to me is what separates a marriage from a really good friend and room mate. All of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:37 PM
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I'm not sure what view you want challenged. That people are allowed have unrealistic or asymmetric expectations? I don't think you will find many arguing otherwise. I think the argument comes when people with those expectations get mad they are not met. Most of the anger seems to be when someone doesn't see their expectations met, but gets envious when someone else's are. I think a good % of the posts tend to be men complaining they are not pretty or famous enough to get laid without effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:19 PM
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It ignores the people who have had the misfortune of being on the recieving end of abuse and trauma from people of the same gender repeatedly and some ever since birth / childhood. Soooo you should hate billions of people if someone in an group that is not your group did something bad to you from that group. Hmmm.... interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:16 PM
6

So just dangerous enough to really piss off a stronger attacker, make that first strike count, you will only get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:09 PM
2

They need to put one of those "If you need therapy" adds here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:06 PM
1

https://www.abc.net.au/news/2017-06-30/bilnd-recruitment-trial-to-improve-gender-equality-failing-study/8664888
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:38 PM
2

I've seen it go both ways. Despite the numbers difference men still do eventually find women and while women get numbers they don't get quality in those numbers as a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:34 PM
3

Well there was their first mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:59 AM
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This is a more difficult question than most know unless they are experienced in non-monogamy. The problem with open relationships is usually sooner or later someone falls for someone else and then drama happens, with divorce. I've seen it multiple times. Open is bad mojo for almost everyone who tries it. Open tends to be a last gasp for keeping a relationship together. It can prolong a dying relationship, it doesn't save it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:41 AM
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As a swinger, some try to go open. This is what happens most of the time. The wife goes off and has 20 guys wanting to meet her by the first weekend shes "free", the guy has none of that. Its less about women though, then it is men. There are at least 50 guys open for a NSA relationship for every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:39 AM
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At what point does it just become a FWB you share a home with?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:36 AM
4

It still won't get him laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:33 AM
7

Plastic surgery is a thing if you have an ugly face This isn't a movie, its not magical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:42 PM
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Lol the women saying they would be "chad". I got bad news for you honey....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 09:49 PM
3

Uh oh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 09:48 PM
0

Thats a dumb thing to ask and you know it. I do know many who have pretended to be female for no reason whatsoever that can be gleaned. I do not know what goes through the mind of the average porn viewer who feels they should make an account. I do know I wouldn't trust the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:10 PM
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Being pornhub is under no legal obligation to be accurate I'd be laughing my ass off if they just put these out to see people react in searches. "Bob just watch, we'll say Japanese is huge across the world and see how many people search! Oh yea an aliens!"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:02 PM
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This is weird as shit to me. Why on Earth would you watch porn on your phone instead of your computer? Couple of reasons. Normies is number one. Most of these people probably don't have a personal computer. Two would be easier to hide it, not get caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:00 PM
1

You would be wrong. I don't know why either. Some people are quite odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:58 PM
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They would have testosterone and a male brain and would date like a man. These hypotheticals are always silly. If I were "a woman" but with my brain, I'd be a raging lesbian. If I was born a woman I'd probably act like a regular woman.' I think the 'gotcha' here is that its "if you acted like a woman, but were a man, how would dating be like" which is obvious since hetro women want to date men, not men who act like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:31 PM
1

I've brought this up before but they never listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:13 PM
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Japanese was a top 3 category for both men and women. I can tell its photoshoped by the pixels. I always question these statistics being I like porn like any over sexed male but I've never had an account on a porn site.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:53 PM
7

While younger women are more stupid due to lack of experience, not all young women are necessarily stupid and selecting for stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:42 PM
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I'm not sure why you are saying this, I assigned no blame. Chad might have been DB by Stacy after kids. Stacy might be neglected by Chad. It was just to say marriages have problems. I know a complete Chad who married his Stacy, had the ideal life, and then found out his business partner had been fucking his wife for 5 years. I hope the kids are his. This shit happens and its not about universal blame, its about Disney stopping short of relationship problems that can happen to even the most happy…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:40 PM
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I don't see a correlation. I see "trust your gut" as more of a, "don't fall for lies" type of thing. Guy says X and she wants to believe him but she really thinks hes lying and doesn't want to face it since it would mean losing him kinda thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:27 PM
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The problem with Disney endings is that in a relationship the ending is really the beginning of the relationship. Its very realistic for Stacy and Chad to connect and marry. Thats where Disney stops. Now see 10 years from now when Chad is doing his secretary and Stacy is messaging her ex on facebook. Disney poisons the well by making falling in love some huge ass deal, with conflict and drama. Its pretty straight forward. there’s also something funny that I noticed, in the Disney movies most of …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:15 PM
1

Talking politics with your fuck buddy? Thats a paddling. I never did, what happens when they stay something stupid politically is you do the socratic method on them. You lead them into seeing they were being stupid without them getting upset for being called out for being stupid. Now they feel stupid but don't feel you called them stupid directly so you are safe. Feeling stupid they drop that line of conversation since no one likes to feel stupid. See they both know I support (they which shall n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:07 PM
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Right so you agree that women don't select for high IQ As a guy with a high IQ wrong. High IQ women, or at least higher than average definitely select for high IQ, they just select for high IQ and other positive traits. I did find one thing interesting though. A lot of women have low self esteem in things like IQ. Its something I'm fighting with my daughter, she thinks shes dumb when shes actually quite smart. I've had women who thought I was too smart for them and would not want them. This happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:44 PM
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Stupid Women might not select specifically against IQ but they select for traits that correlate with low IQ. FIFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:38 PM
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Dumb people think of consequences less, news at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:38 PM
1

Some parts of being attractive are social skills. I swear I barely knew what a mirror was in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:42 PM
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I had the same reaction to that thread but no time to post. Its not high intelligence which is the problem. Its focused intelligence without social awareness. People forget there is a whole package. Smart is sexy but only when coupled with other traits. I've had women tell me my brains is what attracted them, but when I was fat those brains were not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:41 PM
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I'm not able to judge that community as much because its not mine directly. Personally I think its a bad game to be playing at younger ages. Looking for hookups in the end isn't going to pay off for most people long term. Get the good ones locked down early while you are both young. It sounds hypocritical being I'm a player myself, but thats just because I have the right circumstances and right wife. I still wouldn't have changed what I did younger much even if I was stuck in monogamy now. What …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:02 PM
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Looking through this as a swinger, where there is a lot of OLD style sites for us, I can see the mistake millennial males are making. They grew up with everything online and think it should be the way to do it. Its not that easy with sex. Online people look for reasons to say no, we look for red flags, we look for things we don't like. We pick a few sentences since thats all we have. Its a recipe for never hooking up. I'll give two examples for why this is a stupid way to go. I have two women re…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:36 PM
1

It's how she rolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:47 PM
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Not having race or sex had more white men hired so they are scrapping that plan in Australia. It seems white men are often most qualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:46 PM
1

Why? It's motivating to stay healthy if nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:26 PM
0

The good news is that as you age you will likely lose interest in women or at least not think about them as much Being almost 50... Nope. I'm still a horn dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:24 PM
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Which part of it? It sounded pretty straight forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:39 AM
4

I always wonder if people who dismiss Peterson actually listened to what he said, or just what people said he said and snippets. I'm guessing that assessment applies to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:46 AM
3

throw me some instagram examples of such couples What dudes follows another dudes instagram?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:54 PM
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Game doesn't work. couples are looks matched with the vast majority of women in relatjonships being unhappy because they aren't sexually attracted to their looksmatch Just because you say it in your head doesn't make it true. It maybe makes you feel better but no thats not how it works. Men with game can easily do better with looks, I see it frequently. Men are not judged solely on looks, but most incels don't have game or anything else and then blame their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:51 PM
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I'll believe in redpill and PUA the day that I see repillers managing to convert such a woman that shows immediate clear signs of disinterest, into a lay/plate. PUA definitely works, but its not a magic spell. I've turned no into yes but its easier to turn a maybe into a yes, so why work so hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:48 PM
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As a man approaching 50, very much into the casual sex scene and who studies this as a hobby these are my beliefs for me. Women at my age or near it, single, would fall over trying to rush to get me. This isn't arrogance, I've seen it even in less attractive and successful friends. Dating for a woman in her mid/late 40's is hard. Getting a guy with his shit together is harder. Getting a guy with his shit together and in shape, and single? Thats the unicorn for them. Dating women -10 years from m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 03:25 PM
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Why do you define this as slutty at all? Because slutty is what slutty is. I don't view slutty as a negative trait. But they wouldn't, would they? Sometimes yes they do. Its just less common. I've met couples where the woman was the one who led the man into swinging for example, but its less common and she tends to be one of those high libido types. Being highly educated or wealthy would give the needed advantage. My theory is it is on the extremes. Most swingers are well educated and well off. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 03:10 PM
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I'll remember this, next time I'm at a sex party and I'm getting laid by a woman who's name I barely know and who won't get anything else from me. Your take on reality isn't my reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 06:30 AM
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Being a swinger I'll state something pretty obvious if you understand female sexual nature. All normal females can be complete sluts. It requires that feeling of saftey and no consequences. If everyone is onboard, and secret about it, there's the safety. Then the atmosphere creates that thought of sex in their brains and suddenly Mrs. PTA is now getting split roasted. But this requires things which the average woman would not seek out on her own, mostly due to reputation and safety reasons. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 05:30 AM
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Yup but men are not going to be more picky for sex. I’ve seen videos of dudes having sex with crackheads on the back of a truck for free. Well thats proof right there!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 05:04 AM
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I would be happy without ever having sex again in my life You obviously don't speak for all women, or even most women, anymore than I would speak for most men. How many men would refuse an attractive woman who was coming onto him? My guess is zero. I'm in a telegram chat right now with a woman 20 years younger than me who's literally begged me for it and my wife is ok with if I have sex with her. I have had her alone with me multiple times and have declined just being her friend because I think …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 06:47 PM
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I think it's funny that a handful of bitter 20 somethings is ”guys".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 03:33 PM
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Hasn't failed me once even with the most entitled of women. Thats not bad. I'd still buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 11:46 PM
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I have a female friend into fat guys. Saying "men" is not the same as "A man" or "some men". Anyone fucking one of those women is in fetish/mental problem category. They attract such with their online nonsense and I'm going to guess are watched by feeder types. Put those girls just in a club and goodluck. Its not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 11:44 PM
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How so, as a display of wealth? Psychological trick. People are far more likely to give something to you of higher value if you give them a small gift of some kind first. Its sales 101 stuff. Its been experimentally studied in controlled conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 11:42 PM
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Transactional relationships are the natural end point for late stage capitalism Lol. Well it takes all kinds but at least Chappos are obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 09:35 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 09:33 PM
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It's my kid! Do i really have to explain this? So when it really matters its ok? I'm not saying you are doing the wrong thing, I'm saying you need to be honest with yourself. You are biased. You judge peoples value on looks. You are not different or better. I do it too, and I think that its fine, but I don't claim I'm better than other people in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 08:29 PM
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All evidence points against this. Women do like good looking men better. I know this first hand. I was fat and I started to work out. Women who wouldn't give me the time of day as a fat ass wanted to fuck me after. I didn't complain about it like some do after all it was obvious. I think if just how men look at looks vrs women. For most men, I think looks are like 80% of the deal. We will put up with a lot for a pretty face. Personality matters in the long run but hotter gets put up with for a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 08:15 PM
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This means men have it easier. Well they do, and I've said that multiple times. You can become rich or gain status as a man easier than a woman can hope to get good looking if shes not, unless its just weight. I'd much rather be an ugly man than an ugly woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 08:11 PM
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You complained about bias and then say you are biased? I don't get the issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 08:08 PM
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All bets are off though when it comes to a man's daughter though. Not really, it shows your true feelings instead of a social veneer of acceptance. I disagree that things are different, I think you just didn't notice as much. If anything things are better. When I grew up brazil nuts were commonly called nigger toes without a pause for example. Let me show you what perhaps you are experiencing being you are not internet experienced. The Greater Internet Fuckwad Theory
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 07:43 PM
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People have changed! As a guy probably older than you, nope. People are exactly the same. The internet just lets people who normally had no audience spout off and form little clubs. Am i crazy? I was raised NOT to judge others based on class, race, how they look, what kind of car they drive, or clothes they wear. I suspect people today (especially in here) would call me naive or possibly even foolish. No one for the most part is "raised" that way to be overly bigoted. But yes this shit was commo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 07:05 PM
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I'm sure they say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 06:56 PM
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The only guide you need
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:30 PM
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But, a 5-1 ratio is waaaayy too high for any environment where casual sex has any chance of happening. You have just decided this. I'm part of that casual sex market as a swinger. Single males outnumber single females by close to 10-1 in that market, and when it comes to attractive single females its more like 20-1. ALL of those attractive single females in swinging don't stay single for long. Even those women up for freaky casual sex apparently want LTRs. Yes, well, that's true, as far as it go…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:09 PM
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They want men that understand her problems, not men that have problems. A sensitive guy who will listen to you whine about how bad your boss is to you by making you work into lunch that one time and how Sally in accounting is like a total bitch, and won't tell you to stop whining about nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:13 PM
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Every argument in this is going to be flawed by default. Its very hard to properly study. Most studies are "We took 30 middle class college aged people, who were in the psychology department". Bias is also rife in social sciences. Of course we also get the "this online website data" which can be quite interesting, but isn't in itself scientific and can only draw very limited conclusions. So we are left with personal experiences. In that age, lifestyle, location etc will all play a part. I also h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:53 PM
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My biggest gripe is 20% of the arguments get 80% of the feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:40 PM
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While I am in disagreement with the "men will fuck anything" trope, that doesn't matter. If women want to feel special beyond looks then they should focus promoting themselves beyond their looks, yet thats what so many turn to for validation. I'm not saying this is bad, hell I've encouraged my wife to do so because she undervalues her good looks. I should add men who don't pay for dates are not playing the game optimally. Its in their psychological advantage to do so. A handful of women who use …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:29 PM
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But what % of women would you say are into casual sex? 20% might even be slightly generous. So what you end up having is men, who are more into casual sex, perusing a smaller % of women, and then extrapolating it to relationships in general. If 100 men are after 20 women, they can't cry when 80% of them don't get any.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:19 PM
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Eh? At what ages?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 12:55 PM
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I disagree in that I think you will find 20% of the women are having 80% of the casual sex as well, or thereabouts. Motivations are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 02:02 AM
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Shouldn't that apply to women as well then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 12:44 AM
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Dude, I think its near universal that women get pissed if you even leave your socks on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:20 PM
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Even though I'm not sort, I wanted to try this as an experiment, but I'm too cheap to bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:15 PM
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I think the CC as best as I can tell would be someone who had a few one nighters, but mostly was serial monogamy, and frequent breakups. Looking at the subs that like to make fun of such women, they tend to be lower class women as a whole who made a lot of bad life choices. The 4 kids at 25 with 3 different guys type. Of course those subs go to far, and I'd see some 40 year old woman with 3 kids, aged 15-11 and they are quick to talk about the CC when its likely a recent divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:39 PM
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They basically are, even if its not thought of that way. He's short ... -20 He's bald .... -10 He's rich ... +50 We all do math in life without ever thinking about the math itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:34 PM
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Tell a guy she wants to get laid? Most amoral activity isn't in getting laid for women, they don't need it. Its from getting a relationship by letting herself get pregnant (oops!) or breaking up another relationship to get a guy she wants. She doesn't need to be slimy to just get laid. There was that college study where 70% of guys agreed to sex from a stranger woman just because she suggested it. 0% of the women agreed under the same circumstances when men asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:05 PM
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A man in his 30's vrs a woman in his 30's is going to attract differently. A man who has proven himself as a solid character is high value. My wife had to gamble on my potential while dating (which is what younger women do with younger men), but if I were dating now, that woman KNOWS my value. Done deal. This makes her panties wet. Women can be the same thing only men don't select for women based on how much money they make as a rule, or how respected they are. The men who do tend to be... slime…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:59 PM
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Easier for men in clothing styles. My wife even contemplated a flashbang for a while. (If you don't know what that one is google it and enjoy a good laugh)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:47 PM
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Well like and hate are different. Dunno why mine took to them so easily. First time we bought her one she went to look for an M&P C 9mm and they only had a 40 to try. She shot the 40 like it wasn't a issue and now she carries a sig p239. I should said she used to carry, it IS a pain to carry all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:05 PM
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And my wife HATES guns. That sucks, mine goes shooting with me. Its a fun date night at the range. Have you tried taking her? I got lucky in that my uncle is very patient and an ex-cop so he took her the first time. I think once the fear factor is over, and its natural to have it, you can get her there. My wife isn't a Tom Boy at all either, I picked up a small garter snake the other day on a trail and she acted like I had a cobra.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:01 PM
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I wish people didn't fall for trolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 03:59 PM
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You tell me you wouldn't feel safe?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 03:20 PM
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Do you think most women are fully aware of men’s nature? No. Most people have a hard time getting that other people react differently and think differently then they do. So men think of women like men and women think of men like women. They have the bias of their own experience. For example women as a group seem to think men can just be their good friends with no sexual interest. Now as a guy we can control ourselves, not show our interest, but if she says "hey lets have sex" most of us would. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:29 PM
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How is that manipulation really? I get BJ's by women I barely know but it's not manipulation if that want to give me a bj and I was honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:06 AM
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I'm not even sure you know what manipulation means.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:01 AM
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I agree. The smartest women I know are all quite slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:19 AM
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Lol, I'll remember that next time I'm balls deep in my astrophysicist FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:18 AM
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People follow the herd. If the herd posts a certain way, they think they should too. This is also why you see the same phrasing etc. They signed up, thought, I have no idea what to write, read a bunch of womens profiles, think that it must be what is expected, write the same basic profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:38 PM
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One day guys are delusional if they want a much younger woman. The next day it's the usual scenario. Both are correct for the right guys. Some out of shape 40 year old slob isn't not going to have much luck with younger women. A very in shape guy will still have problems with some who just aren't into it. But that same guy will do very well with others. I have no problem getting younger women to sleep with me but I stayed in shape and I have game. I have friends my age who would have no chance i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:15 PM
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I forgot about this thread. Here's the deal, if she could be my own daughter? Its creepy. Its also frowned on because finding some dumb 18 year old woman I could bamboozle with money and experience is predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:10 PM
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Being gay would make this much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:01 PM
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I have no idea what you are talking about or who "you guys" are. There is plenty of ways a straight man and a straight woman can be friends. Most of those involve fucking them, or they are fucking someone you know really well like your brother or some other close friend. Sex needs to be totally out of the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:46 PM
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That article is kinda amusing and the actual linked one is just one guys thoughts on it. As one goes numb, one becomes unable to feel the more subtle joys of life: sports and study, and friendships and prayer. People tend to become loners, losing interest in other people; and it gets hard to study, because it gets hard to focus; people develop attention deficit, or have their attention deficit get worse, because you need dopamine to focus. Stimulant medications act by increasing dopamine output …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:03 PM
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I don't when it comes to things like consensual sex but our morality is very hard wired. Its not fear of god that keeps people from going on murder sprees, and for most its not fear of the police. Its that as a species we are programmed to a basic moral code, which is why those who don't have this, like psychopaths are both rare and interesting. If I were not a moral person I could make a LOT more money, I could easily convince people they needed treatment for things they did not. My morality do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:50 PM
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Because we don't want to date children. My wife isn't a child, and has qualities where we are equals but I'm still the leader in the family and she wants me to be that leader. they want a father figure Or a husband figure. Women are far more naturally submissive but you have to be worthy of that submission, they won't give leadership to someone who can't lead. I again don't see how this is a problem. They, as a group, WANT this and its easy to provide IMO. The way women experience "love" is sick…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:45 PM
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stronger life force I never really enjoyed playing a healer with my magic. I was more of a alteration type though destruction is always a must due to mechanics. The main reason to not just keep jerking off is that pent up sexual energy can be used to improve yourself which in turn gets you laid. The rest might as well be talking about crystal therapy. In fact change out the two and read it. Its mumbojumbo. Edit: I just realized I was really more of a conjuration type. I felt this was obviously v…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:14 PM
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That’s coming from a dude who spend 55 years working. Should have been developing hobbies, side interests. Lol there is only so much golf one can play. When your work is challenging why do you need a hobby? The work he does helps other people, makes him a good deal of money, grants him respect in the community, and keeps his brain active. IF ONLY HE HAD MODEL TRAINS!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:09 PM
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My husband and I met in the university, we both were pretty poor students. My wife and I too, we were equal on paper. I still lead. Its not like we started for a power dynamic like this. Its not like my wife would agree completely, and I try to get her to do more leading since I'd like to have less things to worry about and she does but when it comes to something major she expects me to be able to handle it, give her advice, and do what needs to be done. This is what men are supposed to be good …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:07 PM
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so I can enjoy the limited time I have on this earth My father is 75. He's been stuck off work due to this quarantine idiocy. His line to me. "I now know what its like being retired, and I hate it."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:51 PM
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Do you like your job? Mostly yes. I just feel I would be trapped in having to work. If you can't find something you enjoy, take pride in, or feel accomplished by thats on you. Hell I enjoyed even most of my menial jobs. Its more of a personality trait. No one likes work all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:45 PM
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So don't? My kids are pretty awesome tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:42 PM
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though some people were surprised when we talked about it. Explains a bit don't you think? It also depends on when you meet and how honest you are with yourself etc. I also know few women who would say their husband is superior to them, even when its abundantly clear to an outside observer. This isn't to say I don't know people where its the other way around, but those are a minority of couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:36 PM
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From my experience as a relatively young man even with physical attributes that females tend to be attracted to, the only way to maintain a stable relationship is to be your woman’s superior in at least a few categories. This is true. But what I don't get is how many men get put off by this online. If you put a minimum off effort in your life you will be better than some women and if you work your ass off you will be better than most. This isn't a slight on women (though they are less ambitious …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:33 PM
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They are not that valuable in reproduction as a whole. Loaded statement. They are very valuable individually. My kids are very much my kids the pros and the cons. I had great value to my wife in that genetically. Much like men who get trophy wives and wonders why his kids are idiots. This results in them having to be the one who 'make the effort' to get the women. Men have to be the one that charms the women, the one that pays for a date, the one that's responsible for women's satisfaction. Thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:30 PM
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No it is well documented and accepted that when people were in hunter gatherer societies there was polygamy where anyone could mate with anyone and the tribe would raise all of the children together. No its not well accepted. If anything its an idea that was really promoted by one book that was more theory than actual fact. Sex at Dawn. Sexual jealousy is older than civilization. When people moved into farming societies then there was a new type of polygamy where one man owned land and was produ…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:18 PM
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It just really depends on the genetics and upkeep. I've seen very old 30s and young 40s in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:28 AM
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I see Karen as a late 30's more 40's. I think the 35 thing is that most people talking about "35" are still in their early 20's online and have no idea what 35 really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:55 AM
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Then I wouldn't feel to bad about it, you didn't Yoko it, he did at their friendship level. Anything bad you would feel should only be your end of it with him, his best friend wasn't so best.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:21 AM
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Remember the days of the Chadfish sub? Don’t believe me? Try it yourself Online interactions don't matter, hell do you have any idea how many "hot" female profiles are really men? I'm very good at fishing those out, and it was hilarious when google implemented reverse image searching. I busted so fucking many faking it. If she was hot, she was fake. The few times I saw one where the guy actually met the girl, it was some overly aggressive nerd berating a woman for not being happy she was lied to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:39 AM
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I really Yoko Ono’d that Who did the seducing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:56 AM
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Hahahaha the women on tinder are fucking the top 20% on tinder for sport. Sorry to break it to you buddy. You forget I get laid, I'm going with the same fucking stats that pull the 80/20. Most women in online dating sites never even meet a guy there. They are just fucking around, seeing whats there but don't pull the trigger. Sure some do, but its already a susagefest to start with. They ignore most of their matches, but they show up on attractive males’ doorstep for sex, then leave This is your…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:54 AM
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I was in a LTR with his best friend. but my friend got over it and his never did. Lol shocking he didn't forgive his best friend for fucking his LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:48 AM
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The cause of what happened 8000 years ago is irrelevant. You brought it up, the cause is very relevant and shows a lack of understanding. That first article had a lot of red flags you listed where they just assumed it was somehow not due to wiping out other males because ... reasons. Tinder culture is making us return to the 80/20 rule, so what does that tell you about women’s mating strategy? It tells me you don't get it. That 8000 years ago thing was a MALES mating strategy. Kill the other men…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:27 AM
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If majority of men truly become incel, society will crumble and devolve back to the days when the 80/20 rule was even more apparent 8000 years ago when 17 women reproduced for every 1 man The current hypothesis is that this was more due to war where winning clans (where the men would all share Y's) would wipe out the males of other clans and take their women. Hardly the woe is me 80/20 rule of tinder. https://www.ancient-origins.net/news-history-archaeology/neolithic-male-genetic-diversity-00101…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:20 AM
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You’re a doctor?! Why are you wasting your life in this shithole sub!? Because its easy to do between patients. Young nerds become old nerds. Things like this are really stress relief, it doesn't matter, I don't have to watch what I say. Doctors are in D&D groups and cosplay, and go to sex parties and the like. I mean what should I be doing in down time? We still clean our gutters and mow the lawn. (I personally don't cosplay but I know those who do. I also know some into BDSM. Doctors are just …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 09:18 PM
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While romance books/movies can poison the well a bit, I don't see how that this would make men want YOUNGER women. Younger women are all hooked on this stuff, older women know its a load of shit and compromises have to be made. I also think that its not that rom coms are totally unrealistic. Its that they never show the follow up of mundane existence after. Added if you don't date stupid people, she will realize its not realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:13 PM
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i am just wondering if the next shift will swing the pendulum back for the normal folks. Eh, probably not much. I mean sure if you thought she was only into you but it turns out she was selling panties on IG sure, its easier to find that sort of behavior out now than in the past when not being in contact with people was normal. Back when I was a kid, as long as I "checked in" now and then, I could be doing anything and my parents just had to hope it wasn't something illegal or dangerous. These d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:46 PM
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As someone who became non-monogamous mostly because I was able to find the information I needed due to the digital age, all it has really done is allowed more people to find it. "It" has always been there, you can find accounts for at least the last several hundred years. Gay clubs, mistresses, and sex parties are nothing new at all, though it was hidden for a while due to religious reasons. The digital age has simply allowed those interested to explore. For some like me it works out fantastical…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:20 PM
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This feels like it was written to be hard to read on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:13 PM
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Aren't you a doctor? I've been seeing patients this whole time, on a limited basis. It really depends on who you talk to and what they are doing. When you are working in a place where only the sickest people are sent to, usually very unhealthy to start with and now with this on top of it, its going to seem like the end of the world. Now ask yourself this, how many people do you know who died of this? People are very open to a familiarity bias even doctors and nurses. If all you see is this one i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:09 PM
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You don't need money to fuck. This over reaction to this virus is alarming in many many ways, but it shouldn't screw the dating market so to speak. Its not surprising how fast the soy boys of reddit bent over to this and listened to authority. Its kinda funny and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:01 PM
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Healthy young people have nothing to fear from covid 19. The fear hype needs to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:26 PM
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I see it both ways very often, and if anything I've seen it more non white dude with white woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:38 AM
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As a older man, if I were single my next wife would be much younger than me. This is good for me. Its not a bad deal for her either, but its not ideal. I'm a good catch but someone like me 15 years younger is a better one. My daughter I would not be happy with if its a much older man. This is good for her. I want her to be independent from needing anyone. TRP is about the male, and increasingly seems to be some romanticized view of traditional marriages, which never really existed in the first p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:01 AM
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Does vote Democrat count?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:53 PM
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And I've had women tell me that they don't think I'm attractive too. What you do is move on. This forums men focus too much on sluts and online hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:51 PM
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I don't think many would do it there either. With men online something like 7-3 in online dating sites and most women never actually meeting a guy on there, you can't blame your success or lack of their of only something like height when you were already in a stacked deck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:38 AM
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Do they say that to your face or online? If you are online you are doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:05 AM
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she is likely to be hot for other guys as well. So? I'm special but I ain't that special.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:05 AM
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It is a fatal mistake for these Democrats to speak of allowing liberal lifestyles but then won't allow a damn sex club to be open? Democrats on sexual issues go where the winds blow, if their were votes to be had by supporting it, they would, much like how they flipped on gay marriage and we were suppose to pretend they were always for it. No party is currently going to gain popularity by saying heterosexual sex clubs are ok. Ironically I think if my friends were trying to open a gay club they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:04 AM
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Blame your height if it makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:45 AM
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Vegas has shitty sex clubs and the city has tried to get them shut down constantly, Texas some of the best. The sex phobia is more of a "think of the children" level in the US, and really isn't religious based as much as people like to say. Its more of a Karen level indignation. Its hypocrisy with a halo and very local. It won't be the same reaction in all places. Ironically at the institutional level Republican states are better for it being there is more personal freedom and less government in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:42 AM
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I don't believe you one day account.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:28 AM
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I'm asking what's in it FOR HER. Me. I'm not risking my future on some low libido woman. I want a woman who is hot for me, and wants me inside her asap. Now I'll give them a few dates, but if its not a "HELL YES" to me, I'm going to lose interest. If a woman thinks that waiting months is the way to prove something, I'm not playing that game. Sex isn't a weapon to be used against me, and if shes that emotionally needy I want no part of her. Marriage is about long term compatibility and we wouldn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:17 AM
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You are allowed to cry for dead family members. Remembering comrades fallen in battle. Losing the Superbowl (and even that one is a bit iffy). Being emotional about things you can't control is the womans domain, it doesn't matter if you are angry or sad, both are just weakness. What is it with (CURRENT YEAR) trying to make women into men and men into women. Being emotional is nothing to be proud of as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:54 AM
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No. My father taught me something many years ago. You never want to be pulled over by the short cop, he is going to try to prove how much of a man he is, you want the guy 6'5" who can benchpress a cow, he doesn't need to show you. Been pretty true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:47 AM
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As a man old enough and well off enough to have a sugar baby.... Oh hell naw... Its just having a mistress, only without the romanticism of mistress and switching right to prostitute. Its not the future, its just something old guys with no game but lots of money do to get some hot young thing for sex without specifically seeing a prostitute. Its probably as old as civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 08:52 PM
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It's she is fun to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 02:11 PM
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Short man syndrome is quite real.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:47 AM
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The idea that short men are oppressed by other men. Why could it not be short men lack self esteem and confidence needed to succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:34 AM
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Why are we assuming this is an external and not an internal issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 11:49 PM
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Yes the small percentage of slutty women get laid easier. I don't see the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 03:57 PM
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3%
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 02:23 AM
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Another way of looking at this, is you are stressing about 5% of the population having more sex than you. 98% of men and 95% of single women are not fucking like mad. Add it, this doesn't even mean single. I was fucking my wife like a cocaine addicted rabbit for the first two years we were together but we were both "single" officially. How is it possible that married women are having more sex than married men? Nope, not that. This sort of stuff is from memory. If they are like my wife, they over…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 07:25 PM
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Usually when I see a post like this its usually about bisexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 06:02 PM
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Ratios are even worse in certain scenes. Desperate men and fat women (also desperate) tend to congregate in the kink scene due to lack of options. This is far less of an issue in swinging since single males are usually excluded and the couples dynamic keeps the ratios even. Single guys who try get into the swinging scene have to be well above average to be in demand and as such don't need it unless its truly what they are into. Those guys are very rare. I'm a long time swinger but I'd never be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 05:55 PM
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they are the gender most likely to repress their unique individual characteristics when it comes to conforming to the range of acceptable behavior that women and society enforce. I disagree with this statement. Women are in my experience the ones to repress their desires. Bisexuality, group sex, promiscuity etc are all things a lot of women desire but repress due to needing to be a "good girl". Women may have less pressure from men to conform, individually. Most men think two hot girls kissing i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 05:47 PM
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And ‘sex positive’ isn’t the ‘current crop’ it showed up in the 70s. Well yea, the current crop are fat purplehairs with 'all sex is rape' style thinking. https://www.newstatesman.com/lifestyle/2014/03/sex-positive-feminism-doing-patriarchy%E2%80%99s-work-it http://dailynexus.com/2014-02-20/exposing-the-flaws-of-sex-positive-feminism/ https://thefeministwire.com/2013/10/sites-of-violence-why-our-notions-of-sex-positive-feminism-are-in-need-of-an-overhaul/?fb_source=pubv1 Etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:22 PM
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but nobody is asking men to be attracted to overweight women or put up with women who don't try. Not true at all, I've seen it online but even first hand. I once overheard two fat housewives going on and on about it at lunch and how offended they were that one of their friends husbands complained about their friends weight and how they would get divorced if their husbands said anything. This is a very true conversation I heard, but it was stereotypical out of a tumblr blog and these were women I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:17 PM
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Yes, and whats interesting is some of those feminists are quite annoyed with the current crop.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:12 PM
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I think the biggest issue with porn isn't this one exactly. There's nothing done in mainstream porn I haven't seen before in person, outside of the weird extreme fetish stuff and I will assume thats not a majority of mens issue anyways. No I think the biggest issue is the body type. Porn, for the mainstream, are very conventionally attractive women. Maybe not all 10/10 (though many are) but few in the mainstream porn are even close to ugly, and almost none fat. Fat porn is a fetish thing, not ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:59 PM
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So this raises the question: is a man using a woman every time they have sex? Is it always to his benefit and her detriment? Is she “giving up” something (considering men want sex more)? Can sex ever truly be an equally beneficial, enjoyable experience between men and women? Eh? The only logical way this can be thought of is if someone subscribes to the "women don't like sex at all and only do it for (insert nefarious reason here)." Of course women like sex. Hell at one point in Christian though…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:29 PM
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Feminists who are sex positive These still exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:23 PM
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Yes but you brought up the STD angle first. I get there is a lot of desire to justify after the feeling. No guy who gets skeeved out by a woman who's has a high n-count is doing it from a logical standpoint. Well I really like Sally and she's a swell girl, but her past promiscuity indicates that she may have problems with emotional bonding to me. I shall therefore not pursue a long term relationship with her. Its more like... Ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:20 PM
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That's the secondary justification, not the real issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 01:44 PM
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I find it kinda funny that 20 ons is worse then one guy 1000 times mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:48 PM
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Anyone with enough charisma to organize incels wouldn't be an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:48 PM
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We have good genes. We have intellect, brawn, and capability. and. but we are social losers Nope. IBTL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:17 PM
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Its up like 5% from 20 years ago. Its sexless for the year. It isn't sexless and trying, sexless and never will have sex, its sexless the last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:13 PM
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So lets see... I've dumped women for personality. So according to you I'd be an incel but oddly I am not. I think there is FAR too much doom and gloom from your end. Look around you, most guys get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:03 PM
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Guess I'm one of those top 20% guys then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 06:36 PM
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That's because men don't have the privilege to judge for personality traits like women can. You know I was barely not a virgin and I broke up with my second GF because she didn't do it for me. In what world do men have to put up with every shitty thing a woman does? Any guys like that deserve what they get and its not surprising no quality women want them, they are spineless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 06:29 PM
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You don't just ask a woman how many dudes shes had sex with. That's spectrum like behavior. It would turn them off simply from the lack of social awareness regardless of the answer to start. Maybe after a few dates you can playfully, like you don't really care, ask. They say never ask a woman her weight but thats new due to how fat ass people have become. Before fat was the issue it was "never ask a woman her age", but you can infer a lot. For example, the girl I lost my virginity to told me she…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 06:22 PM
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Islam for Neckbeards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:55 PM
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This is mostly a young mans problem and its rooted deeply in insecurity. Now before I get the clap back, insecurity in itself isn't a bad thing when you should be insecure. You are a young guy and you find this great girl who it turns out fucked the entire football team. This may well repulse you, seemingly instinctively, and its firmly related in insecurity in fidelity if you were to have a relationship, and then paternity to get to the instinctive part. This is 100% ok. You definitely don't wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:52 PM
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Ah yes, the great libertarian youth movement of 2009. When did we get so old.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:58 PM
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Namely how difficult it is for them to get (and keep) sex and how most of them are placed into the “beta” category instead of the “alpha” category. Thats not "mens" issues, that some mens issues and I don't care either. Do you empathize with the fact that women are almost always viewed with a sexual gaze, making them feel like sex objects 1st and people 2nd? No. There is always the burka if it bothers you a lot. How about the fact that a woman can’t be nice to a man without him thinking she’s in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:50 PM
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You cast your net how you want. Apps are just one limited aspect of that. No law saying you can't do both. Its not like the apps take a lot of time. If the success rate on an app is lower, its up to you to decide if its so low its not worth your time. In general people in RL look for reasons to say yes, and online look for reasons to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:27 PM
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I used to be on reddit years ago and it was very center right, libertarian, free speech, do your own thing. I come back two years ago and its pure soy, and anything not pure soy is always at risk of being shut down by the admins. This seems to be 100% due to the new admins being left wingers with their usual "tolerance" for other ideas. As such the population of reddit so to speak has gone from Ron Paul supporters to crying about Sanders. These are not compatible. So what you have on reddit now …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:24 PM
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physically unattractive. I'm going to say its the mental game they lack the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:43 AM
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Yes but my cock is bigger. What's the point other than saying sources vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 11:30 PM
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College-educated women are unlikely to have a child before getting married For college-educated women, the average age of first birth (30) has risen along with the average age of marriage (27). Only 12 percent of births by college graduates are to unmarried women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 10:08 PM
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Feminist psychologists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:46 PM
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Which means a girl only has to wait and she will eventually be chosen Or the guy just has to keep on trying what he wants. I'd say in my life 19 out of 20 hot women don't want to fuck me. It doesn't matter I only need that 20th.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:15 PM
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The more a men gets rejected the lower he goes Thats just common sense. If you can't win at very hard difficulty you lower the settings if you want to have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:09 PM
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IIRC men also rate others higher too so its not a bias only about themselves. Women rate others lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:51 PM
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First, there is a mistake I think made by even some biologists. Women do choose but men choose first. So womens appearance does matter tremendously. Otherwise ugly women would have the same chances as hot ones. Hot is hot for a reason. Secondly, and I just had this conversation about my kid and theirs, boys are often very body unaware at the earlier ages, and that continues for some. I know I barely looked in a mirror in highschool, and even college, it just didn't register to me as something to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:49 PM
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For the men - Have you gotten more confident the higher it gets? Has any partner gotten angry finding out it was high? I've gotten more confident with the quality of my FWB's not quantity. Numbers are easy, very easy really, high quality though is not. Once I got in shape the quality skyrocked and that increased my confidence. No clue about N count and being my wife tended to be with me I can't say anyone was angry about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:49 PM
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Everyone thinks their way is the best way, even if they say they believe other ways are valid too. The most open minded person, will still feel better talking to people who think and act like them. Most people are not open minded at all though, and just think they know best.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:40 PM
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Nah, I think this is an excuse more than reality. Its like complaining shes stressed about housework. Guy does housework, still doesn't get laid. New pussy > old pussy is a old saying/joke with guys. The same really does apply to dick too. You can't just blame guys on dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:29 PM
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As someone who goes to sex clubs with my wife, this is why I try to avoid the recently divorced women. I feel its taking advantage of them at a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:08 PM
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I think this only applies if you base the value of your woman as a competition with other men. A man feeling this way is inherently worried about losing status with other men somehow. I won't say its necessarily an immature take but I think you will find it more with people who have less life experience because they are insecure in their own place in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 02:59 PM
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Its the subgroup basically. Most people still do the LTR thing. You get a girlfriend/boyfriend and you are together for a long time, often get married. Those people are never part of the women being interacted with as they are completely out of the system. So what you get is the subgroup of players, broken, high sex drive, etc who are not looking for a LTR or mentally defected to a point they can't keep a LTR. As time goes on early in adult hood this group will start to concentrate more. If Beck…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 02:36 PM
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A country that doesn't embrace progressive values will lag behind the others regarding development and even a country who tries to balance modernization will eventually be overwhelmed by modernizing pressures, that's the trend even in authoritarian places like Iran and Saudi Arabia Reminds me of this graph. No offense but there is no proof that A follows B here. I'd argue its only the wealth and traditional liberalism (not the US definition) which allowed nations to afford such changes. Wealth a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:20 AM
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In other places cunt is a very mild insult where in the US it is like the worst thing you can call a woman. Insults rarely have anything to do directly what what is being said but the intent and reaction to it. Hell the current generation thinks retard is a "no no " word and when I was a kid it was usually a mild insult and not taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:53 PM
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I think they can't hear them because I'm too high up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:25 PM
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Yep. Very few women I would classify as predatory rapists. I don't even know of any off hand but I'm sure googling could find a few. For males while its not the norm its definitely something we hear in every major city just about every day somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 05:00 PM
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I'd laugh and tell my son we all make that same mistake once. I'd call the cops with my daughter. I knew guys who viewed drunk women as rape targets and even as a very young man knew they were scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:28 PM
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Sluts come in multiple varieties but the most common are high sex drive or low self esteem. High sex drive sluts are fucking awesome, and awesome at fucking. Low self esteem ones are usually broken in other ways too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:26 PM
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This is why I learned to wear stilts. When I walk in a bar at 10' you can audibly hear the panties dropping.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:17 PM
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Some men just have short tempers I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:16 PM
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I agree completely in that, which is why modern "rape" has I think really diluted the debate by calling everything from forced rape to regret the same thing. But that being said if my son had happen to him what happned to me, I'd have a completely different reaction than if my daughter did. Thats the biological double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:15 PM
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I was raped while drunk by a woman. I'm a firm believer in the biological double standard too and find it more something to be somewhat bemused by than upset by. Its more of a "serves you right dumb ass" and its funny to me, not traumatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 01:19 PM
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Millions of people online. Some will complain. You can't draw broad conclusions from people complaining in certain online spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 06:11 AM
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To be fair when do you ever see people talking about how great their kids are? I think its only acceptable to complain and sympathize. My kids have their issues but they are great kids over all. Now my wife does do mommy facebook, but isn't much of a poster at least. So lets say Mommy Y says "My kids are driving me crazy, I can't stand being around them anymore!", is my wife or any mother going to say "Well that sucks, my kids have been great!" No either they will just sympathize or say somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 05:22 AM
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Who said it was from envy? Its not knowing what they want, assuming they want "equality", and finding out being a man kinda sucks at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 05:18 AM
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What sort of mental illness would make me want to read facebook mom posts? Its acceptable to complain about ones children, be it for sympathy or just because they have nothing interesting to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 04:45 AM
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Studies said otherwise. Women are declining in happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 04:44 AM
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not so much for the women Being women were happier then apparently, don't be so sure. Women like having more say etc in the workplace and all that but most of them personally don't go that route. Its better for a minority of women who want to play with the men in business and such, but for the rest, its not better. The demographics of this sub will say otherwise, but they are still young and mostly childless. They don't know much about life. I'm old enough to see that type become a mother and ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:46 AM
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But younger women are attracted to me. You might not be but thats you. Some guys get put out when a woman admits shes not attracted to them, because thats how a lot of people handle rejection. Younger, same age or older.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:42 AM
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Of my last 20 extra-marital sex partners as a swinger, they ranged from 8 to 20 years younger than me, so yea its at least common for me. Its not based on money as they get nothing from me out of this beyond sex with me so its not just being well off or a daddy figure. Some younger women don't care for older men, but I've been rejected by women my age too, shit happens. I'd be actually quite worried something was wrong with an 18 year old that was into me, and when that did happen, it was becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:33 PM
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Men are partially disposable genetically due to how reproduction works. Thats as far as it goes. You can survive as a species with less males far better than less females due to live birth. I wish people would actually study these things instead of just going with what they think it means. With that in mind, for the men that do care about relationships, does it really mean a whole lot for us to get the commitment of a woman who can supposedly replace us if she wanted to? Are we really just hangi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:20 PM
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We have the money? Or we had it anyways. This isn't anything new really, it was a thing long before the internet and photoshop filters. Not everything is post internet. Nothing wrong with a lot of the procedures. You don't want a loose belly after kids or have a hook nose? Why keep it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:06 PM
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I had googled "left wing shootings" when I saw your first comment, found something about a leftist shooter named Connor Betts, and they couldn't find a political motive, and that's it. So you couldn't find the guy shooting actual congressmen. What does that imply to you about the media, which I already pointed out? I googled "left wing shooters" and wiki sent me to "right wing terrorism". This is why people are so suspect of the media and tech.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:59 PM
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Try an internet search, we had a Sanders supporter try to murder republican congressmen, shooting several people for example. You have no idea about that one because you are insulated and indoctrinated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:44 PM
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Please enlighten me, Jesus that's sad and proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:11 PM
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Your logic isn't solid. It doesn't matter if its 1%. The fact that single mothers cost less than the Navy or Social Security doesn't really matter on the street so to speak. Its the dependence of the goverment which is the real problem though, guys whining about this as "anti-male" are if anything just jealous. My gripe with it as anything which promotes government dependence is used by one party (you know, the one you vote for) to keep people voting so they can get rich in power and fuck the pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:00 PM
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Men are more sexually driven and think about sex more. I know some pervert womem too but that's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:51 PM
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Imagine thinking less ten unhinged people is a movement. It's also only wildly talked about if right wing. Left wing shootings are buried fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:50 PM
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Usually we high five.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:31 AM
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Long bathroom lines. Sorry I get to stand ladies, but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:20 PM
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While I think red pills gets sloppy with "facts" and extrapolates to far, blue pill is more about feelings and what life should be like in their points of view. I don't think they are getting any dumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:19 PM
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The youth already gets completely screwed over by boomers though. How? About the only way is social security, which was a left wing idea and a stupid one, and only because there aren't as many kids. Its the boombs parents fault for that one. If you are going to put the minimum voting age to 30yo, you shouldnt allow anyone above the age of 65yo to vote either Why? Unless they are retired on social security you have no argument. Those people have no stake in society anymore Lol how do you figure? …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:12 PM
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When there is no chance for them to catfish there isn't a reason for them to want to pretend they are women. You must be new to the internet. People pretend to be the oddest things for the most odd of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 04:50 PM
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When I was young I was very much a liberal and a believer in democratic socialism, social welfare, tuition free universities etc. Then as I went through highschool/university and faced numerous rejections from women I built up a lot of bitterness and gradually my political views became a lot more libertarian. This is called growing up, not related to women. Young people are stupid politically as they have absolutely no real experiences in the world. This is why left wing loonies want to lower th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 04:49 PM
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My secretary has a college degree. Women haven't needed men as a provider for a very long time. It's not about needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:16 AM
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Why do people on this sub keep asking "if you were the other gender" questions. If I had my male sex drive etc, I'd be a lesbian. If I had heterosexual womens desires but my current sexual mindset I'd be a huge slut, who would fuck her way until she got a nice rich guy. If I had womens hormones and brain, I'd probably act like a typical 18 year old girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:30 PM
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Mediocre hotness women who do well camming almost have the mentality of PUAs If its anything like the now ex-strippers I know (one cammed too and made an insane amount of money but stripping is tax free) its actually quite predatory, more so then a PUA mindset, at least a non-psychopathic one. It was actually a turn off to me. The one I knew the best, was one of the sweetest and nicest girls, with the face and body of a goddess. But when she was in work mode, its was all business. Guys gave her …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:25 PM
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Confused as all hell in how I ended up in a 1970's style Disney Movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:22 PM
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This question is older than anything online. Its the old slut vrs stud. Both matter, but obviously differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:21 PM
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Most guys I know on second marriages at 40+ are are with women 10 to 15 year younger than they are. Obviously 40+ women are more desperate but you have more boxes ticked by 40 if you are competent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:47 PM
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Yea and so what? Is there a major threat of black lesbian women neo-nazis? One of the common tactics of left wing social media, including reddit, is pick out one or two comments and paint the entire community as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:45 PM
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You know how the internet works? A lot of people seem to forget this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:43 PM
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We have a lot of roleplayers on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:57 PM
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Well thats why I said yes. I can't see not being able to land a fat chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:19 PM
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Do you know any? I mean for example Stormfront was a real thing but how many people do you really think followed it outside of ironically?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:18 PM
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It’s is 100% socially constructed for absolutely no reason. No, humans are a pair bonding species. Love is basically evolution method of keeping us loyal and bonded to others who are important for our genetic survival. It can backfire at times, evolution isn't perfect, but it works over all, which is all that matters. The Jesus crispies will reference their magic book, but that’s meaningless because magic isn’t real. Edgy man. Only the agricultural revolution and non-nomadism pushes this to crea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:49 PM
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Aren't leftists the ones who first created the idea of a natural evolution of societies? Societies don't really evolve much. Three days without food and see how evolved it is. Most of the changes are pretty small and more a result of wealth than evolution. Wealthy societies can "afford" changes which are pretty meaningless in times of trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:42 PM
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Can leftists stop trying to change the natural evolution of societies by trying to impose arbitrary concepts pulled out of someone's ass in a university? No, or they wouldn't be leftists anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:39 PM
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Who is this average man? The over weight, out of shape, basic job, average IQ, average? Sure if he's willing to date the average women who is exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:36 PM
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40+ if they didn't get out of shape. If they did then established and 40+ is still good. 30's isn't where the tables aren't turned but even. 40+ is when they really turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:30 PM
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Alt-Right isn't even really a thing outside of a few tryhards online. Alt-Right is a creation of the left to paint anyone who's not in line with woke politics as an evil Nazi. My favorite is when they call Jews alt right like Ben Shaprio. Alt-Right is just a left wing schemer tactic on anything right of Sanders.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:29 PM
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Gender swapped incel post. Not buying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:53 PM
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We have a son so ya, my wife cares. I think the issue is do young women care or bitter old feminists. No one can help a bitter old feminist outside of a good dicking, so young is just part of the immaturity process, much like incels being mad at women because they are undesirable as if its the womans fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:59 PM
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. I’m 21, 5’2” and very overweight. Now one of my best friends is the complete opposite. 22, very successful, 6’3” muscular athletic build, nice facial features, etc. The typical “hot” guy type. I remember this movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 12:27 AM
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Most women would be devastated by their first, often mean spirited, rejection, not knowing thats just life for males.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:57 PM
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3...2...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:50 PM
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What if you cut off his limbs? Your response sounds like 420 philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:23 PM
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I find my wife easier to love since I can bounce a quarter off her flat stomach in her 40s and I'm not upset if she has similar feelings about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:37 PM
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Money and status on the other way are not part of who you are. I disagree, especially for men. This is why men often quickly decay when retired. Men identify strongly with what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:30 PM
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Ask yourself this question when you are 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:22 AM
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How can it ever be more than an assumption that early man even cared whether the child was biologically his or not? Because our behavior is predictive. Look at how non-intelligent animals act. They act in ways which promotes paternity, despite often having NO parental involvement at all. Elephant seals for example will even accidentally crush their own children to fight off another male. They behave in instinctive ways because those who did not protect their harems from other males looking to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 09:31 PM
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They may be intellectually a bad bet for a long-term pair bond, but the idea that there's an instinctual and biological instinct doesn't smell right to me. So explain it? I'm not a trad con in the least, I'm an atheist and I'm a swinger, but as a young man I was completely skeved out about a LTR with a slutty woman. I didn't give a shit about society, I was a self realized atheist before I hit puberty, I wasn't raised religious, I had no hang ups, yet I was completely turned off by slutty women …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 09:28 PM
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Proved how? What sort of experimental design would you suggest? What we have is an obvious bias against it, and then an evolutionary explanation which fits the difference between men and women in this regard. I'd recommend reading Matt Riddley's "The Red Queen" as it covers this sort of thing extensively.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 06:36 PM
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A promiscuous woman reduces the man's chances of reproductive success Its a turn off because of the biologic instinct against it, not a logical thing where a man is weighing his parental options. So your statement is correct but I think could benefit from some clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 06:05 PM
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so if you want kids and nonstop sex party, don't get married smug chuckle
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:37 PM
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I'm afraid to ask what "slash fan fiction" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:35 PM
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My wife is bi and is grossed out by bi men, but thinks gay porn is disgusting too, so shes at least logically consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:33 PM
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Why are we talking about libertarians? I think I hit this nail on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:10 AM
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You support Sanders I'd guess based on your grasp of economics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:45 PM
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Lol like no one was poor right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:44 PM
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I wonder if the cost of living rose with the expectation of two-earner households It did an no one likes to talk about it or are too short sighted to understand life in the 50-70's. One car, no "plans" just 3-4 channel TV. Almost no vacations that you couldn't drive to. (pre-deregulation flying was expensive). Hell usually no air conditioning. You can still live this life and live frugally, but no one wants to. Instead its credit cards and two jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:42 PM
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You make your own luck. I got very lucky I found my wife. It was a one in probably 10k chance that night. A hundred little things could have changed it. A shorter line in the bathroom and I might have not been there at the right time. So that was luck. But.... I figured out game and I had been lifting, and I matured quite a bit, and I knew what I was after, and went about looking for someone to match that. So I had the bases covered, and there she was. Had I not done those other things, I'd have…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:10 PM
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How does this prove the 80-20 rule? People are bad at reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:07 PM
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Quality guys don't fuck fatties. BBW porn is not popular. Someone once did a breakdown of reddit porn and it was one of the least popular. Low quality men may opt for fat women but its just because it's the only ones they feel they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:26 AM
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The main implication of this sub is that I'm not alone in wasting time online. I didn't read the post but I'm assuming it's the incel uprising?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 01:32 PM
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Do you think that these women can be truly sexually starved? This is male oriented thinking only. Women can be very sexually frustrated, I've known more than a few over the years. As a guy, I'd be happy just going out, finding a random woman who isn't ugly, and having sex. If all womens sexuality was like that too, we wouldn't have this forum. It takes more trust, connection, etc for women, not just a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 06:20 PM
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This is obvious but not all unattractive women are fat. But all fat women are unattractive. If they are fat its the first place to start. Same for guys. Men care about your face for LTRs more than they do about your body. Personally I care about both. It doesn't matter though. We all have our league. Not being fat raises anyones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 03:34 AM
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Blackpill not red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 10:34 PM
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To bring Jordan Peterson into it. If you take a sample of men and women and pick two, 60% of the time the woman will be more agreeable than the man. Thats only a 10% difference. The problem lies at the extremes. The most disagreeable (violent) people are all men, and the most agreeable (passive) are all women. Its why prisons are filled with more men. Its the ends of that bell curve where things happen. This applies to things like intelligence, industriousness, conscientiousness etc. Its why ash…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 10:21 PM
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who believe that we should remove women's suffrage I tease my wife that if women couldn't vote the people she votes for (sane ones) would have a better shot at winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 10:14 PM
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Can't sleep, red hats will get me...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 10:13 PM
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Yea, sex at dawn was a "just so" story unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 06:13 PM
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For them sure, but I like being honest, I mean do you really care about male rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 05:36 PM
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Me either, but this is playing into their game. Men and women are different, identity politics people try to pretend they are the same while they know its not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 04:47 PM
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I was raped by a woman. She was totally sober, I was drunk off my ass. I also don't give a shit despite her being a fatty. I wasn't traumatized, I'm more bemused with myself for being stupid. I'm ok with the double standard. This issue itself is rooted in the whole gender wars people who like to argue online. I don't think most men who claim to give a shit about male rape by women actually do. I think its just an easy way to show a double standard which can be used to justify other positions. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 03:24 PM
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This is going to depend more on the person more than the sex. Some people will stay angry, or blame themselves or whatever over stuff and obsess over it, others won't. I never screwed up with what I thought of as my "perfect" girl, so I can't say how I would handle it. Odds are if I would have blown it with my wife, I wouldn't have known it was something I'd regret and I'd have just moved on. This now that I think more about it, would probably be a thing for those people who fall for someone who…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 02:39 PM
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When did RP seem to forget this? My guess is that when incels found RP. Rrddits bullshit quarantine policy is how y learned to slowly kill subs and literally make them become what they claimed bthey were prior to quarantine. As normal people move on in life to other things the true crazies remain.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 12:38 PM
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Its not really caring by those who bring it up. Its schadenfreude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 12:07 AM
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In some countries...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 05:33 PM
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It's definitely insecurity but not necessarily a bad thing. You could say the same about dating a ex felon. You don't feel secure in dating them because of their past. Insecurity isn't always about the person feeling it though it often can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 01:07 PM
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I don't get the issue. Of course guys would use it and it's women who will complain about it. This takes power away from women and I guarantee soon after you will see articles about guys lying about not taking it. "He said he wanted to have a baby but was secretly on bc"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:05 PM
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She could have done better than my looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:43 AM
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Women don’t care about competence. As a highly intelligent and competent man I disagree. You can't be a raging nerd though, its an addition, not the only factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 01:56 AM
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Ones that involve alcohol. This is why I always hit on the chicks after communion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 04:31 PM
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Women are attracted to status More importantly competence too. Status and competence are often linked (not always) but women who chase status alone I'd avoid. Just by being around someone for a while they’ll develop an attraction for you or distain for you Do you do that? I don't think this is true. If you keep hitting on a girl not interested sure, she will have disdain but eh if anything normal women just won't see you as anything sexual if not interested, they won't actively dislike you becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 04:31 PM
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You haven't made any points.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 04:20 PM
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WAYYYYYYYYYY before this was even much of a debate outside of a few books. Like in the dark ages. Before... the... internet. I was a young man who just couldn't get laid. Mind you I was just coming into my own as a late developer so I missed that window of learning in highschool. I was, in retrospect, oblivious of women hitting on me, and there were several looking back. But now.. I was ready... and it wasn't working. And then... I figured it out. I was a nice dorky guy, who was giving women wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:04 PM
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Squatting to pee is the only major one unless its too heavy a door. Women often think differently. Thats where biology comes in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:57 PM
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I know a lot of guys without kids. They are married. It's a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:26 PM
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As I pointed out to an incel poster here last week 61% of men over 15 are father's in the US. Added survival of the fittest isn't about survival advantage it's about simple reproduction. Evolution isn't a plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 12:41 PM
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Don't be "that guy" defending socialism, its not the intent that is the problem, its the result because human natures. There is no balance to power in socalism from the government, goverments attract people who want to use power to their advantage, socialist governments all become horrible shit holes because horrible people are in control. That plus most "good" socialists don't mind killing people for what they see as the common good. People like me who enjoy things like not being overly beholde…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 09:33 PM
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Couple of things: Lots of people, especially left wingers since it contradicts the idea of a sort of "social reprogramming" that we can all be wonderful and nice, hate the idea of evolutionary psychology. They would rather their world view goes unchallenged despite the constant utterly horrific failures of things like socialism. Two. Evolutionary psychology is easy to missuse and abuse by those who don't quite get it and want to use it to push their agenda. Its the whole AWALT idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 08:00 PM
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It would be an issue with for example designers, because it's good to have a female perspective to design for women as well as men. So a female perspective is inherently different than a males? Do you see where that leads to?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 07:49 PM
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But lets say 90% of engineers were male. Would you say its sexist unless that was 50-50?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:47 PM
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So would it be safe to say that other things may well be rooted in biology?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:24 PM
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My wife and I hate about 95% of each others music. It would be nice if we liked the same stuff but eh, its music, we have a good relationship and two great kids, be funny if those things didn't happen because she isn't a Floyd fan. Music too is a lot like games or hobbies, some are far more sex focused than others. I'd be worried a bit about a woman who liked the kind of music I liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:23 PM
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So your point is life sucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:19 PM
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because of biology Is it safe to say that most men are stronger than most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:18 PM
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So for 99% of the people life was hard and awful?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 05:00 PM
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My wife is definitely better at blow jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 04:45 PM
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99% of the population You sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 04:44 PM
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One persons sexist is another persons harsh truth. I think women (as a group) are less capable than men (as a group) in an emergency. Does this make me sexist? Some would say definitely. I would say its just fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 04:20 PM
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But the reality is shallow males are the minority. Shallow for some would be perfection, but I think the term is too vague. I'm shallow but that doesn't mean I only have sex with perfect 10's, it means if you don't match what I like though, you can't talk your way into my pants. I've had women like that try. As a guy I can definitely talk my way into some womens pants who view me as a turn off at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:11 PM
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because holy fuck a lot of men are not like you and thank GOD If you think so. I just have higher standards then a lot, like don't be fat, which is a high standard now apparently but no we are all like this. What we do have is different types. I have a friend who has a thing for fat chicks, he thinks my wife is too thin. He is still visually driven and shallow just in his own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:08 PM
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I too enjoy pissing into the wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 03:21 PM
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sad you think men are this shallow. I am. I know plenty of great women who I really get along with but I'd never want to have sex with. Its a very small number who can win me over with personality, and they were already on the border of fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 03:16 PM
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Lifting got me laid as 20 year old. Gets me laid as a late 40's guy too. I've been slacking lately too. Gotta get back to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:39 PM
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Impressed, my wife is a horrible liar. I'd still divorce her ass though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:35 PM
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As an atheist slut, I'll sign too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:33 PM
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I think the acting younger is a bit of a misnomer. There is acting youthful, and acting immature. Youthful would be adventurous, open to new things etc. Immature is just being self centered like a young child. Youthful is almost always good unless your partner isn't. Immature is never good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:19 PM
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Do people still fall in love or did that end in 2012?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 07:23 AM
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It's a great way to get a man. It's being less selective though so it increases the chance of getting a bad one. It's basically like being a average guy in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 01:38 PM
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I care about intelligence not status. I'd rather date a hot lab tech than a rich empty headed hot celebrity. Note that hot is the main requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 11:52 PM
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Probably 130. Some variables makes it hard to be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 07:03 AM
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The average woman in the US is 5'4" 170lbs so yea, they aren't attractive, but I am not fucking that. I honestly think the "average guy" isn't actually going for the average girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 05:39 PM
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I'm having fun, beats having to think about laying off staff members since my clinic isn't the kind to see infectious diseases.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 05:18 PM
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Eh, all I know is this dad got laid, and will again tonight. Vague surveys and extrapolations are their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 05:10 PM
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Lol, you are precious. See despite that mistake (it was only a mistake because she wasn't worth it in the end, if she was my now wife it would have been worth it), I'm still a doctor and your friends are not. So the risk wasn't worth the reward ( her specifically) but I could see myself doing it again if a time machine put me under similar circumstances. You really don't understand men, I don't think you understand a lot of women either. Sex is important for a lot of people. If this wasn't true,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 05:08 PM
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Thanks for the headsup, some peoples opinions i don't worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 04:47 PM
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But a guy was writing about failing I did fail but I didn't miss, was 8am the next morning. I dated the girl a while but she wasn't my type it turned out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 04:43 PM
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Last night? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 04:41 PM
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I feel you have moved the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 01:22 AM
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would you do so happily? I'd be less happy than I am but still quite happy. Our lifestyle is a hobby only.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 01:22 AM
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I also want to not live in a cage but that's not a need right? Your argument is fundamentally flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 07:02 PM
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61% of men, over 15, are fathers in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 05:54 PM
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Normally I tell people like this to get out and see real life but we are suppose to self isolate right now so .. hmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 05:29 PM
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the average man is not getting any. I think your take on average isn't average.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 05:28 PM
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A hot woman wanting me is always an ego boost, relationship status aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 05:16 PM
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few years ago No idea but a quick google found this https://digest.bps.org.uk/2017/02/27/its-all-the-cuddling-psychologists-explore-why-people-who-have-more-sex-are-happier/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 05:15 PM
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Dude, sex is not a need "Need" as in life threatening no. Need as in my life would suck without it? Hell ya. I almost failed a very very important exam in college because after a year dry spell after a bad break up I had a chance to get laid. I knew it would be a stupid choice, but not taking that chance was worse mentally than possible academic failure. Side note from a paper I read quite a while ago when having this very debate a few years ago on another forum. When it came to happiness for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 04:44 PM
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This weekend we have swinger plans. A much younger couple invited us to their place. She's very cute, thin, attractive, and enthusiastic in bed. I've already had sex with her so this is a done deal when we go. And still my wife is the one I have the most eyes for. I like having sex with other people because thats a natural thing, but if I had to pick one, she's still going to be it. I have never gotten over seeing her naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 03:54 PM
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I understand people a great deal since much of my consulting business deals with knowing people but thanks for the "help". Good for you! Which is why I pretty quickly identified that PPD and the other relationship reddit subs are full of out of normal society people who are indeed trying to reconcile their behavior to the wider community but failing. You should see the other subs, reddit is mostly millennials on anti-depressants if you read those when they get personal. So we get tons of this ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 03:24 PM
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I've done a lot of case studies on threesomes, but the evidence is annecdotal. Btw hardest threesome to have as a man logistically it's a FMF with two straight girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 12:43 PM
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This doesn't even make sense...most of these studies are blind. Why would they lie in private? You don't understand people. People as a group lie to preserve their own self image. Hell I got a survey once in highschool about having sex. I was a virgin but not on that survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 06:24 AM
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You seem uptight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 06:21 AM
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I'm in a lot of women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 10:15 PM
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MOST WOMAN DON'T HAVE CASUAL SEX Eh.... I think this is a false. Most women don't want to admit they want casual sex and may play waiting but honestly I think its pretty easy to drop their pants if you have the right moves. They still get the 3 date rules and I wouldn't date a religious girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 10:08 PM
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You aren't ever going to agree with me, no matter what I say right? We're probably done here I assume. I see people all the time, especially swingers who decided that it so fun in their 30's they would have kids "some time" later. Well those women are all in their 40's now. They seem rather resigned.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 10:00 PM
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This isn't anything anyone denies. Its the different biological instinctive responses to women being sluts which is argued as humanity hasn't evolved for birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 08:28 PM
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Don't worry your pretty little head.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 08:27 PM
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Being I have no issues with "women" I have issues with very specific women, but not all women as a group. I don't need to learn how they feel since I've seen enough to get it, nor do I typecast them all into some trope. I've known nymphos and ice queens, and women always happy and women always unhappy, women who like to be whipped and women who will get angry with a light butt slap. Its almost like they are people. This is sort of an on the spectrum thing where you can't empathize with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 04:29 PM
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if women ever really understood what was going on in men's heads they'd abort all male babies and eradicate the human race. For a woman you know an awful lot about male heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 04:26 PM
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I think the problem here is that we are talking about different women. The women I dated wanted to date and have an LTR as did I. I hooked up with a player/slut once who was doing the hypergammy thing. Funny thing is she ended up marrying a teacher after all that. Thats probably the girls you are thinking of, but its a limited group.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 03:56 PM
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How is this really different than settling? Are they not settling for their best choice available?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 03:52 PM
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You state that women are not attracted or stay attracted for who they "settle" for. Thats a recipe for self doubt and failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 02:50 PM
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“I don’t have sex with guys on the first night” and proposed that we cuddle and sleep instead, implying she wanted us to keep dating. There's a kind of special irony here. Basically you are saying shes total trash but also saying she won't sleep with you and that pissed you off it seems because you figured it was a guaranteed hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 02:32 PM
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I'm wondering if high levels of neurosis is common in RP. Its like "It might go wrong, so it will go wrong, and I'll never be happy knowing its all going to go wrong!" We all fucking die at some point. Life sucks at times. Ignore the suck enjoy the good parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 02:30 PM
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You’re claiming that middle aged women who’ve never married and had children are so miserable. I have, we probably know different people. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/oct/02/the-desire-to-have-a-child-never-goes-away-how-the-involuntarily-childless-are-forming-a-new-movement https://www.ravishly.com/regret-having-kids https://www.huffpost.com/entry/why-youre-too-old-to-have-a-baby-after-40_b_4339322 All left wing sources, so no trad con bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 02:11 PM
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No idea. This isn't about incels. Why even bring them up as if unhappiness is a pissing contest?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 04:50 AM
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You sound lovely but you missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 04:49 AM
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Not as much. I think it hits women harder since theoretically a guy can have kids at any age. They can lie to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 09:31 PM
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Women should have families because families are awesome. I feel sorry for the 50 year old wine aunts. You can see the pain in their eyes while they tell you how great their life is, no seriously its really great, I mean they are totally not missing anything and who wants to be a grandmother, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 07:38 PM
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Who cares what sluts do? I love sluts, I fuck'm when I can, and I don't think anyone argues, outside of tradconincelswishforIslam losers care what a smallish % of women do. The issue is women looking for a relationship, shouldn't waste those years shooting out of their league for guys who won't commit and then find themselves with only the scraps after they are past the normal marriage of age late 20's early 30's. Then you are left with broken people and players mostly, until the first wave of d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:23 PM
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Completely obsolete is an absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 06:14 AM
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27 yeaes. Still waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 07:52 AM
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Thats retarded. Trump said "they let you grab them" or whatever, key word is "let" and thats exactly true. Its hypergammy in action. Women would let me do the same if I were single because I'm rich though to a lessor extent. Its not abusing women, its doing what they want you to. Weinstein used his power to basically coerce women into sex. They wanted him to make them stars and prostituted themselves and many seemed to be grateful to do it, apparently some where not quite so willing. They got no…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 07:58 PM
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Counterpoint: I loved my gf, wanted to be with her forever and made it official by getting married. I told her father first, the old fashioned way and in a lot of ways hes closer to me than my father as I've spent more time with him directly as an adult. Its not been perfect but its been pretty damn good. I got lucky in a lot of ways, but I still feel bad for those who never get to experience this sort of thing in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 07:54 PM
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Let me ask my wife. ... She said its fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 07:49 PM
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Women aren't less shallow than men. Women are shallow on their own set of criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 07:47 PM
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I'm just saying while I'm really good at detecting "no" I'm rather shitty at detecting yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 06:47 PM
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When women have interest, you'll know it. If they don't, they don't. Ok let me splain. I once had a woman say this to me when we were talking about things we liked to do, met her at a bar in college, both of us 21ish. Her "Do you like to smoke?" Me "No" Her "How about sex?" Me "well yea of course" woosh Me like 4 mins later "well gotta go to my meeting, catch you later." I didn't realize my wooopsy until several days later and it was a woospy, as luckily she knew a friend of a friend and she ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 06:13 PM
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vague interest in you, you'll know it. Heh no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 06:05 PM
1

I'm ok without male cuddling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 04:37 PM
1

but subtract several points from men who are average or attractive. I say they only hurt the attractive. I'm pretty average and look studly with a beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 04:15 PM
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msg them on dating sites There's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:22 PM
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Lol that's cute putting Trump in with a now convicted rapist the left elite adored. Watch if you have any intellectual honesty. https://youtu.be/NJcq1eY4aU4 Men good with women love women but they still are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:07 PM
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50 together but I read your post wrong as in with a person 50 years not 50 years after the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 09:41 PM
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As far as I can tell Chad = a guy who can actually talk to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 08:46 PM
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I agree totally, no one seems to factor in type. I am not most women's type, but the ones who I am are all over me and turned on to hell to be with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 08:21 PM
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My best friend is also my wife. I have one work colleague thats kinda close. All my other female friends are really FWB's. But I don't make a lot of close friendships as it is. Being a cured introvert means I'm quite happy with a small group of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 07:57 PM
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I got 21 years to go!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 06:25 PM
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The only real thing women have over men is makeup. Grow a beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 04:49 PM
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One thing I've noticed about "pretty" men is that if you were to shave them and fix their hair, they would all look good in a dress. Feminine features basically, and I'm mostly talking about the face. Attraction for men seems to come more from what we are. If we met and were age appropriate (I don't know how old you are but I'm late 40's so most likely I'm too old) you wouldn't look at me as hot, but you wouldn't look at me as gross either, I'd just be this guy, maybe a little cute in my 20's, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 02:44 PM
5

Ok so maybe you are more towords lesbian than bi? My wife is spaghetti bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 01:07 PM
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My wife is bi and she's much harder on women's looks than mens. My guess is a bi guy will look for different traits than a heterosexual woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 11:59 AM
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This is a horrible analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 02:45 AM
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You know whats really scary? A guy who's already aggressive, in pain, with an adrenaline surge. Going for the balls is going "all in" its a gamble.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 02:41 AM
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I'm pretty average strength for a man right now, I've been slacking on my lifting. I don't know a single woman who could beat me up. I am sure that there are some out there, but they are going to be a rare 1% type of thing. No, I am not delusional. Its not "super human" its decidedly male human. Women have about half the male strength in their upper bodies. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 02:39 AM
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25yo me would scream my lungs off, kick him in the balls, shoot him if I have to. My wife used to say the same thing. Its a stupid idea. Every woman has been overly taught that the balls are a magic disabling spot. They can be but what they don't tell you is how much a man in pain could lash out and literally tear you apart. Most women don't understand the strength differences between men and women. You should focus on only getting away safely, and if you say "kinda" hit the balls, good luck not…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 10:18 PM
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Sigh, no, but there isn't a point to really going on with this right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 10:11 PM
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solved No it was pointed out as a major problem. Junk journals in social sciences are still a thing. Recently some professors proved a point by getting bullshit articles posted in major ones, and the result? Those professors were vilified and had to fight to keep their jobs under bullshit charges of misconduct. https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2018/10/new-sokal-hoax/572212/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 08:43 PM
1

So I should tell women about my Guinness Book of World Records toe nail clippings collection?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 08:29 PM
1

Honestly I think its both. Maybe its worse if the man does first, but that would just be a hunch I can't say. I know I thought about breaking up with my wife because she was head over heels for me and I wasn't in love at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 08:28 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/replication-crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 08:27 PM
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Both risk if the other isn't in love, period. If she just thinks you are a fun guy to be around and fuck and you get all love you rest of our lives, its going to put her off. But the exact same applies to women saying it to men. I don't think it matters who said is first as long as the other feels the same way. If you aren't sure, you don't know them well enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:25 PM
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I'm officially .02% of men. Line up ladies!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:01 PM
2

I really hate the use of "thirst" as a synonym for sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:57 PM
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Despite what the woke politics is pushing, life is not "men vrs women". Thinking in those terms is counter productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 03:53 PM
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I think thats an individual thing. I blame myself for things easily, even things that others wouldn't because in my view I'm always the one responsible. A short example would be something like I once got rear ended on a highway. Looking in my mirror I could tell the dude wasn't paying attention but I didn't try to change lanes. As such while he was 100% at fault, legally, I still put blame on myself to as a learning experience. When bad things happen, figure out what you could have done to stop …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 01:47 PM
1

Reads like sugar daddy fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:47 AM
1

Solving what problem? I see observations and theories but not problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 03:59 AM
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Social science isn't very scientific.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 03:58 AM
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Anyone in the normal human spectrum of looks and personality has someone out there, but if they stop looking they probably will never find one. Hell look at some of the mental illness shows like horders. You'll see people who look horrible, are in horrible health, living in piles of filth and rat droppings like its normal, but they are together. If those people can find someone, just about anyone can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 06:48 PM
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As sex goes I think there is nothing less sexy than a pity fuck. So no. I think women as a whole under appreciate men, as a whole but thats a society thing. Its not women keeping the lights on the toilets working and the food grown and delivered for the most part. Men don't get enough credit for what we do to keep this all going. But that has nothing to do with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:10 PM
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Usually when someone tells me they feel sorry for me they are being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:07 PM
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I feel sorry for ugly women. Doesn't mean I'd have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 02:57 AM
1

Big fish, small pond syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 08:23 PM
1

Well in my case this weekend, it was almost all white big area and both men, including the 5'3" guy was white.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 04:55 PM
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No, women lie, they are lying about dating, can't you see this is confirmation not to trust them? how do you know when they are sating the truth? when it FITS YOUR WORLD VIEW, right? People lie to fit what they want you to believe about them, but my "world view" is apparent in the world itself. If I only saw women with taller men, and short guys only alone that would be evidence, but there is no evidence of this. When TRP developed one of his core principles it wasn't from hamstring like your OP…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 04:53 PM
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far more value to the table to get what other men above him don't have to with that woman. Or just different value? Its easier getting laid if you are pretty, for men and women, but only men can really improve their SMV drastically and yea its more effort but we can make that effort pay off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 03:57 PM
1

Do you leave the house ever? Go to a school event, see the shorter dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 02:00 PM
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I have both and my local harem is by coincidence 4 not including my wife. If I had to pick right now I'd pick my wife. If I was single I'd pick the harem at this stage in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:35 AM
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Shutting out 85% of men due to height is a pretty high standard. They don't. 96% of women refusing to date a shorter man is a pretty high standard. They don't. There isn’t one trait in women that men are so narrow minded and stubborn about. Don't fuck fatties. I'm sorry but this nonsense about being short isn't a real thing. Its why there keep being short men. Think about it. Its a handicap for some who are very short, but most guys have something that they have to overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 03:57 AM
1

Yes, yes, friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 03:56 AM
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