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| 1 | As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here..In this thread, you didn't mention that the woman was you. Therefore I think this woman is not you. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8az7jv/this_female_pickup_artist_puts_you_all_to/ | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that cold approach is a bad idea in college?If you getting bad rap then you are doing something wrong. Also get off the internet dude. You are being affected by the extremist of both sides. You need to reconnect with real society where talking to girls is ok. | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 07:46 PM |
| 4 | Most guys don't have game!Because approaching is your job. | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 02:05 PM |
| 118 | Most guys don't have game!I know women who actually complain that guys don't try and pick them up. Just taking a chance might be good enough. They are willing to forgive mistakes, they are not gods bestowing sex upon the deserving. | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 10:33 AM |
| 6 | Meeting college girls while not being a student there.Really dude, staying in the basement masturbating is driving you insane. *I am a biologist, and it is quite cute how the stupid extreme misunderstand how the body works. | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 06:15 AM |
| 3 | Meeting college girls while not being a student there.You need to get out more dude. | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 06:06 AM |
| 1 | PUA literature and status. ProblemPAU guys need to sell something. It's pretty hard to sell that you need to put yourself out there and take action. | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Help with a girlMet this girl 4 months ago? Meet more girls. Fail with them. Learn from them. | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 10:01 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Not your usual FRVery thoughtful, thanks. | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 08:49 PM |
| 3 | STOTD - I like big strong menshort weak guy Start off by stop being self deprecating. | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 04:47 AM |
| 2 | STOTD - I like big strong menElaborate. If "we" are on the incorrect path, set us straight. | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Feel like i'm messing up by not staying friends with women who reject me.Don't feel bad. They don't owe you anything and can say no to your approaches. You don't owe them anything and can say no to their friendship. Only be friends of you truly want to be one. Otherwise if they want to be with you badly then they know what to do. | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 03:56 AM |
| 4 | Remember "Put a woman on a pedestal and she'll kick you in the face"If you repost a woman will kick you in the face. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 02:39 PM |
| 2 | help for a shy goth guyWhat he is actually saying. This is me if you like it, stay. Dressing non-conventionally is a good way to polarize women's opinion about you. I don't mean dress like a slob who doesn't have a style. But have a well put together style. It will push the girls who don't like that style away, but those girls who love it will be super attracted. And that is the point. | /r/seduction | 19/02/18 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Too fearful of rejectionLaying the responsibility of your happiness on someone else is foolish and dangerous. It leads to a co-dependent relationship that fixes nothing about yourself. When it ends it can leave you in a worse place than when you started. | /r/seduction | 19/02/18 04:52 AM |
| 8 | Too fearful of rejectionA woman is not going to fix you. So /r/seduction is not a place to be. | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Rejected by Ex's Best FriendAsking some guys on the internet why a girl YOU KNOW rejects you. | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 03:44 PM |
| 1 | FR - All-night festival street approachesRe: the burger shop girl, I don't know, but maybe it's just the circumstances that resulted in a no. I've never had so many signs before and not either got a number instantly or a real reason like the girl being legitimately married. And I'm talking about multiple shop assistants there. Just.. "no". I guess I was really just another Saturday night drunk, You should get some more burgers. Still be open to wanting her number, but be cool if she still says no. It has potential to build a story line… | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 10:16 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Who gives a shit what she is thinking. | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 04:57 AM |
| 6 | Is rejection the only way?Do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Ask any guy stuck in a loveless marriage if that is a great idea. | /r/seduction | 16/02/18 07:18 PM |
| -2 | Advice for a guy with a good lifestyle but filled with anger.I am completely relaxed. I have bullshit free diet. Keeps the colon cleansed. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 03:26 PM |
| -4 | Advice for a guy with a good lifestyle but filled with anger.Well go and waste your time with him. In the scheme of things, who gives a fuck. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 03:20 PM |
| -5 | Advice for a guy with a good lifestyle but filled with anger.No. I don't have time. I also don't care. That is what is great of not following political bullshit anymore. *Also the other side has "facts" like he does. Complete waste of time, go build something. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 07:51 AM |
| -1 | Advice for a guy with a good lifestyle but filled with anger.The solution to anger is more anger. Makes sense. Dude, you should drop this politics bullshit. Both sides are the same. You should rise above the bullshit and think for yourself. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 06:48 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]"Thanks, wanna touch my bicep/abs?" In a humorous way. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 05:44 AM |
| 20 | Finally managed to tell a random girl I thought she looked great and now I feel like shitI think you have a bit of nice guy syndrome going on. You gave the comment with the expectation of a positive outcome. She doesn't owe you anything. Say she is beautiful because she is, not because you want some positive reaction. | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 08:53 PM |
| 3 | What to say to girls? Always at a loss for words, hard to carry on conversations...This might be too much for you, because I think you need to talk to people in general. But this ultimately what you should be aiming for. His flirting with Katy Mara is brilliant. Notice the amplification of her statements to the ridiculous by him. https://youtu.be/7E2U14-tOAo That is called banter. With practice and the right girl, the words will just flow out like this. | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 05:11 PM |
| 18 | Do you feel more appealing to woman as you get older? [32yo male]Despite all the PUA videos on here says it's actually quite simple. Get fit whatever age you are. Skinny? Muscle up. Fat? Thin up. You don't need to be muscle bound just be defined. Get fashion. Get a proper haircut that cost money ( I go to the place where the hipsters get their haircut). You can dress according to your personality as long as your clothes fit. Realise that not all women are attracted to you. You have to filter them out by not being friendly but by being sexual. Keep the ones wh… | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 09:59 AM |
| 15 | Do you feel more appealing to woman as you get older? [32yo male]Average Frustrated Chump... a guy who doesn't know how to interact with women sexually and who isn't a natural. | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 06:56 AM |
| 3 | Do you greet girl that rejected you?Don't listen to that guy. Good you said no to the friendship otherwise you would be one of her orbiters. But do be polite and greet her. | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 06:29 AM |
| 1 | How do I reconnect with girls I went to high school or college?Why? Meet more women. | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 05:18 AM |
| 31 | Do you feel more appealing to woman as you get older? [32yo male]Yes absolutely. I am getting more early 20 year old girls attracted to me at 38 than at any time in my life. Granted I look young for my age. Also I am more aware of them and how to respond to them than when I was in my 20s. They could have always been into me but I just was an AFC. | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that cold approach is a bad idea in college?Why cold approach them? College has a huge party scene. So much easier to get them at a house, frat or club party. Joining societies will also put you into contact with new girls. Loads of opportunities. Cold approaching can be hard, especially when you are starting out. College is the one place where meeting women is easy. | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 05:11 AM |
| 1 | How do I show interest without seeming needy?Who says that he should chase her. Most guys on here would say move on. Except those weirdos who post their videos on here. | /r/seduction | 01/02/18 11:49 AM |
| 0 | [Discussion] What separates the boys from the men?Boys pine for a woman. Men select them. | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | A question about vulnerabilityWhy would they ask you if you slept with a prostitute? Seems like a convoluted sequence of events would lead to this question. | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 07:13 AM |
| 1 | [Meta] Let's talk about the r/seduction has become r/selfimprovement issue (and other issues too)Yes. | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Do good looking guys have an easier time with girls? How much do looks matter for your success?Looks matter. But guys can look more attractive if they gym, get a good haircut and dress better. | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 03:55 AM |
| 68 | I was told by a girl today that I’m not fucking material and instead more of dating material, what does this mean?Don't base your opinion about yourself by what one chick has said. | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 07:49 AM |
| 2 | [Meta] Let's talk about the r/seduction has become r/selfimprovement issue (and other issues too)Correlation does not equal causation. Having the script might have increased your confidence to go for it. They might respond to that confidence rather than anything you said. You used it as a crutch to get yourself out there, which is inner game. | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Getting girls in college is EXPONENTIALLY harder than in the real world, but there are a few things that help you out and make it way easier.No it isn't. | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 12:08 AM |
| 2 | A question about vulnerabilityYes. But you don't need to emotionally vomit all over the person. If you share that you slept with a prostitute out of the blue, you are going to freak that person out. Everything has a context. | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 05:04 PM |
| 2 | I want to say how positively surprised I'm with this subredditI know that you are scared of women. But if you slowly start talking to strangers, then you too can one day say words to a girl. | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 05:16 AM |
| 2 | I want to say how positively surprised I'm with this subredditStill crying about how the little girls are treating you like shit? | /r/seduction | 26/01/18 10:13 PM |
| 3 | I want to say how positively surprised I'm with this subredditWhere do these basements dwellers come from? | /r/seduction | 26/01/18 07:53 PM |
| 0 | I want to say how positively surprised I'm with this subredditI suggest you get laid, buddy. | /r/seduction | 26/01/18 03:08 PM |
| 2 | How bad is it for going out with girls that I live with my parents and am unemployed for now? Other than those things, I feel very confident myself. I just want to know if they're deal breakers.You are in college so it doesn't matter much. But try and get into small apartment. It does help. | /r/seduction | 25/01/18 11:13 AM |
| 7 | How powerful do you think 'game' really is?Game are methods to show interest towards a woman in a confident and non-creepy manner, which is clear and cannot be misinterpreted. It will not get you a girl that is not interested. It might get you are girl that is sitting on the fence about you. It WILL get you the girl that is attracted and invested in you. Inner game, improving your fitness, confidence, fashion and humor, will increase the number of fence sitters and attracted girls, while decreasing the number of disinterested girls. | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 02:37 PM |
| -1 | How to approach the apathetic hipster chick?Tease her about her hipsterism or veganism or whatever she outwardly wants to project to make people like her. | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Not being a "nice guy" doesn't mean you can't be nice.I seen this, why can't I talk about this? You have seen a damaged person, then generalised to all women. you take a fact you disagree with and make personally attacks So you are saying you opinion about women loving abusers is not negative? Women date violent men, and fall in love with them, One or two, but they are not the norm. therefore I can conclude that being violent doesn't mean you won't find love. Just as negative and toxic opinions about women will let you attract shitty women in your … | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 05:38 AM |
| 3 | Not being a "nice guy" doesn't mean you can't be nice.No, women will fight tooth and nail to protect her abuser all the time. I read the first line and I immediately know your attitude towards women. Its is toxic and negative. You are what you think dude. Time to have an honest chat with yourself. *edit This opinion about women are something a "nice guy" would have. | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 05:26 AM |
| 3 | Not being a "nice guy" doesn't mean you can't be nice.Bad boys get laid more because they don't have filters that prevent them from approaching a girl and hitting on them. They are socially inept like a the timid guy who never speaks up, but in a different kind of why. They don't understand social norms that allows them to keep the girls they get. Once the girl realises that she is with a fuckhead they leave. Their tendency for violence is a side effect not the cause. They are highly likely to go to prison and not be a success in life. Two things t… | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Not being a "nice guy" doesn't mean you can't be nice.Science doesn't say things like that. | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Girl i spend time with at the party, should i ask her out through fb?how should i ask her out. Do you want to go out with me. | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 06:42 PM |
| 2 | How do I find out if someone is taken?Stalking, yes that is a why to find out. Asking her is also a good way. | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 06:07 PM |
| 2 | "You were never not in the friendzone!" Had sex 3 days later.Still not a friendzone. Friendzone is when a girl rejects you by making you her friend. You never had a sexual relationship with the girl before. Don't give false hope to people. If a girl friendzones you don't hang around. It's only going to get worst. | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 01:40 AM |
| 3 | "You were never not in the friendzone!" Had sex 3 days later.I don't see the friendzoning in this story. | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Confident, attractive, but girls never love me romantically?You must make the first move. You are the guy. Take the lead. | /r/seduction | 11/01/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | A girl asked me to go to a danceclub with her.Looks like she is inviting you as a friend. You need to show her, you should not be considered as one. Escalate and be flirty. You run a chance of rejection. You are going to need to prepare yourself to take it on the chin and move on quickly. You can always try again later. In the friendzone you will struggle. | /r/seduction | 05/01/18 07:10 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys deal with being rejected over and over?Boxing, Judo, Kickboxing and MMA are the most useful in fights. I went from a scrawny kid to being packed with muscle purely just doing Judo. Moving people around is just as effective as moving weights around. | /r/seduction | 22/12/17 10:20 AM |
| 1 | How should you text a girl you've barely talked to both in person/online, where banter isn't established?If he was very attractive he would know what to do instead of coming to the internet for texting advice. | /r/seduction | 21/12/17 04:00 AM |
| 1 | How should you text a girl you've barely talked to both in person/online, where banter isn't established?Do you banter then? If so the topics and inside jokes you have with her are used in the text. Otherwise just arrange meet ups and dates through it. | /r/seduction | 21/12/17 03:47 AM |
| 1 | How should you text a girl you've barely talked to both in person/online, where banter isn't established?Getting a message from a random guy without a reason might come across as creepy. Unless you had a good in person interaction. | /r/seduction | 21/12/17 03:40 AM |
| 1 | How should you text a girl you've barely talked to both in person/online, where banter isn't established?It is a genuine question. He is going to come across creepy. Just like your reply. | /r/seduction | 21/12/17 03:39 AM |
| -2 | How should you text a girl you've barely talked to both in person/online, where banter isn't established?If you never talked to her in person, how do you know you like her? | /r/seduction | 21/12/17 03:22 AM |
| 7 | 29 year old virgin suddenly getting facebook friend requests from attractive women - wat doHave you met these people in person? If you don't know them then its weird to be FB connected. | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Physically Escalating With Women Without "Harvey Weinstein-ing" It {+Inf...Be in a bathrobe after sex not before. | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask my coworker if she wants to go to a party tonight?He deleted his post. So he is a pussy. He is not going ask her out. | /r/seduction | 16/12/17 03:59 AM |
| 10 | Respect and picking up womenIt doesn't matter what one anonymous idiot on the internet says | /r/seduction | 15/12/17 05:36 PM |
| 2 | I took too long to make a move on a girl that still likes me, do I still have a chance?You wouldn't be writing this if you were not putting her on a pedestal. You would be on a coffee date with her right now. | /r/seduction | 14/12/17 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Guys, stop deleting your fucking posts...It's actually more of an indication of why they are single. They have shame. | /r/seduction | 12/12/17 03:12 AM |
| 1 | I can't find a canned opener that feels congruent with me, can we discuss how to come up with them?Yes. There are millions of instances where a canned opener doesn't fit the context. You will probably use this as an excuse and not open. Naturally opening a conversation takes practice. | /r/seduction | 30/11/17 03:37 AM |
| 1 | 10 Pick Up Lines That Spark Attraction & Really Work!You don't need to be original. But genuine might be good. | /r/seduction | 27/11/17 07:37 PM |
| 6 | Being a virgin is killing me M/17It shouldn't, you are 17. The reason why girls are probably not hugging you is that you seem needy. Recently the idea of losing my virginity has become more apparent since I've been talking about it with my friends (Who are both boys and girls) and how they've had it. These people are probably bullshitting you. Don't do something because others are doing it. Follow your own path. I know a clueless guy who shaved his really pathetic beard in half, so that one side is shaven and other is not. He l… | /r/seduction | 25/11/17 11:14 PM |
| 13 | To anyone in the Friendzone. Inspiring storyIt should be a warning to you when you obsess over one girl. If she doesn't return the feelings, stop immediately. Don't even become friends with her. | /r/seduction | 25/11/17 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Never drank before. Going to a club alone for the first time tomorrow. Not sure what I should do.It is wierd going to a club alone. You should rather find out something you enjoy doing rather than what other people say you should enjoy. | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Is college supposed to be the easy mode for getting laid? If it is then I might be screwedI don't think you get what I am saying. It has nothing to do with intelligence. | /r/seduction | 23/11/17 10:27 PM |
| 1 | [My Thoughts] HOW BEING A "NICE GUY" CAN ACTUALLY WORK"Nice guys" are not nice guys. They use being nice as means to get what they want. They are not honest with their feelings and desires. They will do anything to please people even if it hurts them. | /r/seduction | 23/11/17 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Is college supposed to be the easy mode for getting laid? If it is then I might be screwedWhy do you want to rush. You just realised something most people don't. In your 20s you are a fucking moron. Now that you know this. Get out there and become a man. | /r/seduction | 23/11/17 08:18 PM |
| 4 | Advice for girls/womenI can guarantee one of your friends has a crush on you. He is probably thinking he is stuck in the friendzone and posting on here. | /r/seduction | 22/11/17 01:41 AM |
| 6 | Really want a girlfriend and to experience sex but I do nothing to get it, why is this?If you have normal social interactions and get out there. I can guarantee there is a girl there who likes you and might even want to fuck you. The biggest change I have made is to see them. Before I was oblivious. You need to chill out and just enjoy them. You are too worried about an outcome and that is preventing you from getting that outcome. | /r/seduction | 18/11/17 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Any of seddit dudes here done the 1000 number challenge?Most girls will give you their number if you ask. They just won't answer your call. | /r/seduction | 18/11/17 12:55 AM |
| 0 | 3 body language techniques that work on every girlGuys talking to girls? What crazy shit it this. Has to be faked. | /r/seduction | 17/11/17 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Does "just go for it" actually work?Who gives a shit if it is awkward later. You don't know her. | /r/seduction | 17/11/17 01:09 PM |
| 4 | I hate being a late bloomer when it comes to sex and dating.I am nearly 40. And most girls who are interested at in there 20s. Date younger, you are a guy. | /r/seduction | 17/11/17 01:07 PM |
| 1 | 3 body language techniques that work on every girlDepends on the country. I think it is only a thing in USA | /r/seduction | 17/11/17 01:00 PM |
| 7 | K-closed and now She says "it wasn't really cool to do that"Red flags are fluttering | /r/seduction | 16/11/17 01:00 PM |
| 1 | is it ok to be weird?Most women will not like you if you are weird. The ones that do will like you ALOT. If you do something, own it. Who gives a fuck about those who don't. | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 11:23 PM |
| 0 | What do you do when online dating isn't working?I find this is for weird guys who don't build cool lives. If you see a girl on the street you like you should approach her. But if it is only way you are meeting girls then something is wrong with your life not your game. | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Though it's a fun video, look where confidence can get you.The one is so turned on. | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 11:53 PM |
| 3 | How can I not give a fuck about any girl?Forget about getting girls. Start out by chatting to them and enjoying their company. I think they are sensing your agenda and rejecting you of hand. It's called establishing rapport. Then move later to break that rapport. | /r/seduction | 09/11/17 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Long distance girlfriend hates being complimentedUnless she is coming back in a few months a LDR is not worth it. | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 09:45 AM |
| 4 | Asked a friend out, she said noIt is probably best you don't hang out with her. It's going to be too painful to be worth it. Also you are going to miss out on awesome women who want to be with you. Instead if she is a friendzoner, she is going to keep you around for her validation. Pick up the friendship when you are dating someone else. | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Little to no sex drive, what could possibly be the cause?The working out and going to the gym is something I guess I've struggled finding motivation and not being lazy to go I rock climb and trail run instead because I find the gym too boring. If you get yourself into a routine and go to the gym no matter what or how you are feeling, you will find that the motivation and psych will come. It is just a matter of getting over that initial hump because you have shocked your body into doing something. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Little to no sex drive, what could possibly be the cause?You think it's low testosterone? Probably. You are going to need to be tested for that. But it does look like you don't have a healthy lifestyle. I suggest sleeping at night and be awake during daylight hours (I was really bad at this). Drop the sodas, and drink water only. Start exercising by walking. Do hiking trails if you can. Once you feel ready, add running short distances. Slowly build up until you are fit enough to do a weight training program. The cardio might sort out the blood flow an… | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Little to no sex drive, what could possibly be the cause?Do you have late nights, drink alcohol and don't exercise? Did you have a concussion recently? You most probably have low testosterone. Try getting some sleep. Do heavy weights three times a week for three months. See how it goes. If you still have low libido, then you are going to have to see a doctor. I get horny as fuck when I put on muscle. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Where to go on a date with a girl who isn't into you?If you are not fucking then you are just her girl friend. You can anywhere with her it does not matter. You don't matter to her. | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 07:19 PM |
| 8 | To self-proclaimed losers and low self-esteem posters everywhere...Dancing is the best to learn how to interact with women. You get to ask, touch and lead a woman. All skills you need to establish attraction. I love swing dancing. | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 02:39 PM |
| 13 | Am I the only one who finds quality girls to be so damn rare?If you do interesting things you will meet interesting people. People who entertained by night clubs are not interesting to me. | /r/seduction | 27/10/17 01:18 AM |
| 5 | How do I convey my feelings for my dream gurlNah. The way to the girl's heart is through her Grandma. | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Why do all of the online PUA's open direct?As an opener especially online yes its not a good idea. A hot girl hears it a million times a day. | /r/seduction | 24/10/17 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Why do all of the online PUA's open direct?There is nothing wrong with telling a girl she is cute. You are displaying interest. A hot girl told me once, a guy said she was a gift from God. Yeah, she is not dating that guy. | /r/seduction | 24/10/17 03:33 PM |
| 7 | Friendzoned with Best Friend, Cut Contact, Now She's Begging for Friendship Back, What Now?Did she really do anything wrong? She rejected him but wants boyfriend behavior from him. You can't have your cake and eat it. | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 08:42 AM |
| 2 | Friendzoned with Best Friend, Cut Contact, Now She's Begging for Friendship Back, What Now?She is wasting your time. If she wants you to be around then she has to commit. Move on. Maybe when you get a girlfriend you will be in the right place to resume the friendship. | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 08:40 AM |
| 2 | A thought exercise that will help you get real with yourself very quickly.I have read this a few times and still don't know what you are on about. One thing you don't touch on Reddit is gaming. You play games for hours with no one around, gain weight, and get bad skin. Then expect that the girl you like to go out with you when you cannot speak to her because you never speak to anyone. You don't have anything to offer her because you built an awesome character online and not in real life. I am not talking about seducing every hot girl here. I am talking about normal ev… | /r/seduction | 22/10/17 05:48 PM |
| 3 | A thought exercise that will help you get real with yourself very quickly.Yeah, holy shit. That someone out there thinks like you do. | /r/seduction | 22/10/17 06:05 AM |
| 6 | A thought exercise that will help you get real with yourself very quickly.You really think being obese prevents you from being an amazing man women would die for? Yes. If you are not a football player, wrestler or in a motorbike gang, then obesity is not going to help you meet women. | /r/seduction | 22/10/17 05:50 AM |
| 21 | A thought exercise that will help you get real with yourself very quickly.Is a woman who wants to date an obese gamer a quality woman? | /r/seduction | 22/10/17 05:21 AM |
| 30 | A thought exercise that will help you get real with yourself very quickly.You can do that. But don't expect to be attractive to most women. | /r/seduction | 22/10/17 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Kino during early stages of dating?Holy crap dude. She was practically throwing herself at you. | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 02:24 PM |
| 3 | The Only Way to Know if Her Interest is Genuine/u/Hector_Castillo, you provide value. | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 12:21 PM |
| 4 | I want a girlfriend and want to lose my virginity but I am a virgin and I never had one before.What other people look like from the outside is not necessarily the truth. | /r/seduction | 15/10/17 11:20 AM |
| 6 | A Beginner's Guide: How to Get Good Fast, The Natural WayLots of salty replies but what he says is true. Don't believe the haters. | /r/seduction | 15/10/17 07:25 AM |
| 2 | How do you talk about your past with a woman?You can talk about how your childhood was not the best. And how it shaped you etc. Women eat that shit up. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 03:01 PM |
| 2 | How do you talk about your past with a woman?I find talking about your childhood is fine. Talking about your ex is a no go. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 07:05 AM |
| 1 | This absolutely fugly guy at my university completely slays. He reminds me that anyone can do it.You brought the gays into this. In fact, it is actually a good idea to look at gay guy's looks because many of them attract loads of women because they dress well, keep fit and don't give a fuck about women's approval. | /r/seduction | 04/10/17 09:35 AM |
| 2 | This absolutely fugly guy at my university completely slays. He reminds me that anyone can do it.It is gay to have a fixation on how gay other guys are who don’t have same hangups you have. | /r/seduction | 04/10/17 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Is she interested or trying to offend me?She is fucking with you. You seem to be a kind of guy that would take it so seriously that you go on a forum to ask about it. Agree and amplify is the typical advice for shit tests. Or ignore her. Learn not to give a shit what people think of you. It’s not an attractive feature. | /r/seduction | 03/10/17 08:51 PM |
| 1 | I am extremely sensitive to being ignored and I fucking hate itYou have a deeper problem here. Approaching random girls during the day is not going to solve your neediness. In fact it is a further display of neediness. You are seeking these girls to validate you. If they accept you and attach to you like an unhealthy limpet then you will feel happy. | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 02:47 AM |
| 1 | I am extremely sensitive to being ignored and I fucking hate itYou do pay money for therapy in general. | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 02:44 AM |
| 2 | For Over 40: Is your % of success increased or decreased ?It depends on the woman and situation. The rules are for guys who tend to show neediness. Those guys will say "I love you" or bring flowers or stand outside a girl's window with a guitar when they haven't spoken to the girl or know her. Once you get rid of that neediness and stop putting women on a pedestal. When you don't really care if she likes you back that much. I think then it is okay to say "Hey, I like you, we should go get some coffee". Only after you have built some kind of rapport tho… | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 05:07 AM |
| 5 | **Women are sadden by this act of their close male friends**If the guy has feelings for her then the "friendship " she is looking for is already ruined. It's only a matter of time. So asking her out on a date is the best option. | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 01:13 AM |
| 2 | For Over 40: Is your % of success increased or decreased ?just build rapport and let it happen naturally through kino That is showing interest. You are sub-communicating that this is not a 'friendly' chat. Guys who get friend zoned just chat with a woman without leading the conversation to a man-woman interaction. Now I immediately start the banter, if she rejects me, it is no loss because I don't really know her to care enough. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 08:13 PM |
| 20 | For Over 40: Is your % of success increased or decreased ?I am 38. My success with women between 25 to 35 has greatly increased. Mainly because I know whats up now, lost weight, dress better, show my interest early and drop the 'let's just be friends' girls without skipping a beat. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Quit Being NegativeI don't think that dude is sane. | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 08:03 AM |
| 3 | Trying to figure out what girls would be attracted to me and how to meet them as a struggling guyI'm either ugly, unlucky, or bad Yep, your diagnosis is correct. | /r/seduction | 26/09/17 06:40 PM |
| 25 | Guys, please do not delete your post after your question gets answered....If you are embarrassed about your lack of knowledge it is probably translating to your IRL. Possibly explains the lack of results with women. | /r/seduction | 26/09/17 07:13 AM |
| 3 | I keep running into the wrong demographic when I go out.Those communities would be super conservative. Go to church bro. Loads of women looking for God to send them a man. I gave this advice to a friend who had no game and was over weight. He is married now to a beautiful woman. | /r/seduction | 23/09/17 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Finished PIMP. Shift, tengame, or blueprint decoded?The RSD stuff is all about getting drunk club chicks. | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 10:01 PM |
| 4 | Don't be afraid to experiment with your lookFor me it was getting contacts and wearing shirts and jeans that fit. These got better results than any game improvements. | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 07:40 AM |
| 1 | "I'm down if this is just like a friend thing lmao cus kinda have a bf" Abort or Continue pursuing?Deleting post after you got your answer is kind of lame. | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 04:36 AM |
| 5 | Feeling discouraged. Gotta vent a little.Wow, I feel bad for you. You've managed to convince yourself that your height doesn't matter, when it's probably the single most important factor for attraction. You are so sad. You don't realise it matters to some women not all. You need to screen these women out. You need to buck up fella. Your attitude to women is holding you back. *edit Several women at 1.7 to 1.8m had major crushes on me. I found it weird at first, but I just rolled with it. **edit one more thing. Game is not about convinci… | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Feeling discouraged. Gotta vent a little.I am 5'5 (1,65m). The only time I ever got an issue is when a girl is impressed by me or has the hots for me and tells her friends. When meeting those friends the first thing they say is that they thought I was taller. Of course you are going to get women who have issues with your height. But there are many more who don't. Always ignore them and next them as quickly as possible. You must be doing the selection. Not them. | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 04:16 AM |
| 3 | Negging AlternativesI don't like negging. I love teasing a girl I like. | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 11:04 PM |
| 5 | Feeling discouraged. Gotta vent a little.Do you have a type of girl you would like to date. Do you know your demographic? A professor trying to pick up girls at a club is going to fail. But at an art gallery he has a higher probability of success. There are plenty of issues that could be going wrong. You need to be self aware and willing to analyze yourself. My problem was I was too sensitive about what a girl thinks of me and my height. It made me miss the girls who were interested. I only slept with sexually aggressive women because … | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Any suggestions for seduction related poscasts?The Ask Women podcast. The comedian woman can be annoying, she fails constantly with hot guys and thinks the rest of us should do what she wants. But the guys who on as guests are great. | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Girls who post about their amazing relationship ,make me sickYou can have a girlfriend and still be a nice guy. | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Girls who post about their amazing relationship ,make me sickYou are displaying nice guy behavior. You are angry because you are nice therefore deserve something from these women. They don't own you anything. They may be an idiot for being with an abusive man then lying to themselves about it. But is it sure not your problem. Your problem is yourself. Have a hard look at you. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Girls who post about their amazing relationship ,make me sickSorry, but who gives a shit if they happy or sad. A person who cares what they say has no abundance in life. Improve yourself and get real relationships then you won't care about these people because you will be too busy living your life. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 01:28 PM |
| 3 | The Best Advice for Dating You Will Ever Hear.Really? U dont rite like this. You are not slow or stupid. Read more books. Watch more comedy specials or listen to comedian podcasts like Bill Burr. He is basically ranting into the microphone twice a week about what a dope he is. But he is hilariously witty. Finally, do interesting things that you would want to tell someone else about. You won't forget those things because you did them. | /r/seduction | 15/09/17 11:45 PM |
| 1 | She will lose the opportunity to fuck the pre-Super MeYou are both in a relationship. | /r/seduction | 15/09/17 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Pre-openers are key in DaygameGet outta here with your normal interactions and stuff. | /r/seduction | 14/09/17 11:05 AM |
| 2 | No longer care about flakes/ rejectionsWell his response justified her decision to flake on him. Good girl. This sub makes a big deal about getting rejected and being okay with it. But some guys need to analyze why they are getting rejected all the time. | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 03:47 AM |
| 100 | No longer care about flakes/ rejectionsYou have cancer? haha no worries. | /r/seduction | 12/09/17 02:45 PM |
| 3 | How to approach and get her number in 60 seconds (or less)why does this make me feel so uncomfortable? Give the guy your number so that he goes away. Then block him. | /r/seduction | 12/09/17 04:23 AM |
| 3 | How to approach and get her number in 60 seconds (or less)Why waste 60 seconds on a girl who is never going to call you. These numbers are useless. | /r/seduction | 12/09/17 04:21 AM |
| 8 | So, are women not attracted to funny guys?They like witty guys with a sense of humour. Not clowns. | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 05:00 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach? (According to Mark Manson)If you have good social interest or hobbies then you will find women there naturally. They are more likely to be attracted to you. Whereas trying to game a random girl on her way to buy tampons is just making shit hard for. But if you really like her and not doing just to practice game then you should go for it, even if it is on the street. | /r/seduction | 07/09/17 01:15 AM |
| 4 | Got Rejected, HappyHear you. The more I get into this, the more I realise it is just plain honesty. If you like a woman, tell her. It is better than letting the feelings build up until she screws another guy. | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 02:22 PM |
| 3 | How do I approach? (According to Mark Manson)If you are not needy then you won't say needy things. Usually you are meeting her in some context like at a swing dance lesson. So you are talking about that. But you are making your intentions clear so that she knows this is not a plutonic interaction. I hold a girl I like a little tighter than normal during the dance for example. I think approaching random women on the street is weird and unnecessary. | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 07:14 AM |
| 5 | How do I approach? (According to Mark Manson)He tells you to say Hi my name is X. If you got your fundamentals sorted the rest just comes naturally. Also don't scare her. And know what your demographic is. | /r/seduction | 05/09/17 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Can an Indian guy get white girls by becoming a cowboy?No. Be an Indian guy and look for white girls who don't mind. You are going to get rejection but keep going. Also, Indian guys tend to be skinny. If you are one of those, become a doctor or do some weights in the gym. | /r/seduction | 05/09/17 02:55 AM |
| 11 | Guide to Alpha-style kino and some reading suggestions.You should replace the word alpha with confident. Alpha brings up connotations that sometimes are actually negative. Like overcompensation, overt aggression or loud mouth bragging. Confidence is different, you are not changing into some "alpha gym ape". It is still you, but you believe in yourself that you are good enough or better than these women you are pursuing. Unless you are an alpha gym ape, then stick to that bro. | /r/seduction | 04/09/17 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Best way to approach girlsMake an effort. Not like this post. | /r/seduction | 02/09/17 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Why does talking like a serial killer on tinder work so well?Serial killers are very good at getting girls into their van or basement. | /r/seduction | 02/09/17 01:16 PM |
| 12 | I can talk forever, to anyone my age now. Thanks guys.Think of a word like "cellphone " then think of ten things you immediately associate with cellphones. Like people constantly on them. Or the batteries are pretty weak. It can be anything really. You can then associate more things to the associations themselves. People constantly talking on cellphones leads to more accidents as they are driving or walking. Whatever you want. | /r/seduction | 02/09/17 04:53 AM |
| -1 | I can talk forever, to anyone my age now. Thanks guys.He is talking about word association. You don't need Tyler to tell you well known things. | /r/seduction | 02/09/17 04:26 AM |
| 3 | Need help to 'hit on' an this cute salesgirlI didn't say anything about sleeping with her. | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 06:14 AM |
| 6 | Need help to 'hit on' an this cute salesgirlHi. I think you are cute. Would you like to get some coffee after work? Even if she says no, you tried. Game is not about manipulating women to sleep with you. It's about showing your interest in a non creepy way. | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Roommates friend comes in my bed to sleep while I was sleepingFind out if she is single. Never ask her about her love life. Her girl friends talk about her boyfriends. Not the guy she wants to fuck. | /r/seduction | 26/08/17 03:29 PM |
| 2 | First Date Flake..Why are you worried then? | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Took care of a woman who drank for the first time.It is okay to be a nice guy. But you should make a move soon otherwise she will see you as just a friend. Even if she says no, she will frame you as a sexual option. | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 08:43 AM |
| 3 | Is getting good at approaching women...No. Trying to approach women will increase your anxiety because it is a pressured. You need to start off small. Talking to the cashier or waitress, they are people who are paid to like you. Then you slowly ratchet up your interactions with more and more people. Not necessarily women. Once you can talk to everyone, chatting to women will come naturally. | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 06:42 AM |
| 2 | First Date Flake..She is not that in to you if she has forgotten (she won't forget a date with Brad Pitt). But since she suggests the next date, go on it knowing you have nothing really to lose. | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Who thought a porn site had adviceYou can always ask again. But at least you know where you stand. | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 05:23 AM |
| 2 | 100+ Tinder swipes. No reply. Is this normal? What can I do to change my profile?Most girls are on it for validation. Your pic is the only thing that is important on Tinder. If you get a match, message FIRST. Display leadership. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 12:17 PM |
| 1 | 100+ Tinder swipes. No reply. Is this normal? What can I do to change my profile?A weirdo who thinks the obvious advice is funny? | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 12:16 PM |
| 1 | How to kino/physically escalate in a university dining hallI see I have to explain to the slow people. Your legs can touch accidentally. If you wait for her to move it instead of you moving your leg away then she is giving you a sign covertly that she likes you. If she doesn't like you she will move her leg away first. Do you get it now? | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 06:24 PM |
| 2 | How to kino/physically escalate in a university dining hallSit next to her. Start with legs touching, if she doesn't move her leg then you are good to go. | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 10:11 AM |
| 9 | "She’ll accept the value proposition you’re offering at the start, whatever the form. The guy sets the frame, and it’s hard to change once in place."It is something you call your dad when you have issues with confidence and a belief in debunked social dynamics. | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Am I wrong for this?Yes it is cheating. | /r/seduction | 14/08/17 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Why is it i can only get girls with low self esteem?You attract who you are. | /r/seduction | 13/08/17 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Did I mess up with my crush? No response.You probably need to talk to other women. You seem overly invested in someone you hardly know. If she emails back fine. If she doesn't, move on. Time is to precious to waste on people who don't care for you. | /r/seduction | 13/08/17 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Do any of you just ditch online dating altogether? I used to pick up girls on them all the time (~3 years ago) but now it feels like pulling teethYour lack of capitalization is making me autistic. | /r/seduction | 13/08/17 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Whats your best texting hail mary?You sounds like a needy beta. | /r/seduction | 11/08/17 07:42 AM |
| 2 | This sub Reddit had changed my mentality a lotYou must be a theta. I find these alpha beta morons so funny since the whole wolf hierarchy thing actually does not exist in wolves and certainly does not exist in humans. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 10:58 PM |
| 26 | My guy friend told me that the girls in our friend circle say I am too touchy and creeping them out. Help?!This is incorrect. They don't like to be touched by someone who doesn't understand social norms and can't calibrate the situation. This is a creep. They do like being touched by a guy they are attracted to even if they don't know him. Therefore the apology advice in most of the comments is a good way to go. Also OP shouldn't drink. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 10:45 PM |
| 1 | This is next level girl shitIf you consistently get friendzoned then you never do this. Some guys need the direct approach until they learn how to flirt in a group context. | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 08:51 AM |
| 14 | I'm 20 years old and have already given up with girls, is this a bad mindset? I haven't had success so I'm done.You are 20 years old. Two things I can guarantee you will say to yourself when you are is 30 is: Shit I was an idiot. I wasted my 20s What I have learnt being a failure at women is: Get fit. You don't have to be swole just don't be fat and don't be skinny. You don't have to physically handsome to be attractive. Attractiveness is a behavior and being fit signals part of this behavior Don't present yourself as a friend to any woman unless you actually just want to be friends with her. Induce sexua… | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 08:36 AM |
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