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| 1 | Do you admit to girls you’re a player? | dirtydeadgayjesus | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 05:24 PM |
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| 13 | How did you meet your current or last fuck buddy?Doesn't matter where. I learned it from listening to girls I met. I was stunned how many of them enjoy going to the movies alone, but... they dont mind watching with you if you can make fast friends Edit: movies aren't my first choice, but its worked out a couple of times for me | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 07:22 PM |
| 71 | How did you meet your current or last fuck buddy?Afternoon matinee at the movie theater. Lots of solo women | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Blonde vs brunette, you guys notice any difference between the two?In white America, blondes are put on a pedestal and they often put themselves on a pedestal too, like they’re perceived to be higher value. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 02:46 AM |
| 5 | Why a girl doesn’t like me calling her cute?Agree with the other comment. Some girls don’t like it, or maybe she’s not into you. Ask her if she prefers being called ugly instead. When she says no, settle on “bro” and punch her in the arm (playfully) | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 02:28 PM |
| 2 | What is the single best book you have ever read?The game. It was a life changer for me | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Does it sound like she likes meDude I only read 1/2 of your post. HELL YES she likes you. She’s begging you to make a move | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Finally took my first married woman to bed tonight in large part because of this subredditCongrats brother | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 06:33 AM |
| 7 | Is this all just sales?Yes it is sales. You rarely see a good salesman with an ugly woman | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 11:27 PM |
| 1 | What are my next steps here?FMAC... Find, meet, attract, close. You’ve already managed to accomplish the first three while you were shitfaced drunk. She likes you, so you don’t have to play so many mind games. Just keep cool, don’t get needy, and close the deal bro. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Advice needed for a Tinder predicamentSounds like you blew it on this one my man. It won’t hurt to message her in a few days, but she’ll probably be gone. Maybe you didn’t build enough rapport with her or you said something that creeped her out. I’ve found tinder girls are quick to give you their number if they’re into you and enjoy the banter. Live and learn. | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Advice needed for a Tinder predicamentI use this often, but the Louis CK version: the #1 fear of women on a blind date is that she’ll be killed. The #1 fear of men is that the girl will be fat... Then roll into a funny story about my blind date with a fat girl | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 09:45 PM |
| 6 | "You know... Girls only tell me about their boyfriends when they like me and are trying to make me jealous."Good strategy. “Boyfriend” is just a speed bump. It’s up to her to decide what she wants to do. It’s up to the player to offer her a better option. If she really gives a shit about her “boyfriend” she’ll walk away. | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | I want to give this letter to a girl I like at school; is it creepy, and what can I do to improve it?Well said | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 05:35 AM |
| 12 | I want to give this letter to a girl I like at school; is it creepy, and what can I do to improve it?Nooooo not a letter!! This is a guaranteed rejection. Youre making excuses. Find two minutes to verbally tell her the same thing (minus the social anxiety stuff). You’ll get a lot further with her if you man up and approach her | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 12:25 AM |
| 1 | What’s up with Revelation being so obscure and expensive?I dont know anything about it but I can’t imagine it is. His fundamentals are still the same | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 06:20 PM |
| 3 | What’s up with Revelation being so obscure and expensive?Theres no book on earth worth $800. The original MM book is floating around as a free pdf download | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Attractive girl at my gym, Advice for a beginner.Next time you see her there smile and/or wave as soon as you notice each other. Do not hesitate, do it right then. Make a point to end up in the same part of the gym shes in and say something to her. Make a joke... “Geez you’re everywhere, are you following me?” or “I see you every time I’m here. Do you live in the locker room?” She will probably giggle and the two of you can chat for a minute. Also, Introduce yourself to her... “by the way my names XXX” . This is all low risk, just friendly ban… | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 12:56 AM |
| 1 | One way getting past "I have a bf/husband"We all have free will. I suggest do what you want to do | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 12:38 AM |
| 1 | One way getting past "I have a bf/husband"Classic stuff, good examples too. Casual indirect approaches like this allow you to deflect her resistance. Push/pull, keep the convo going, and keep building rapport. Plausible deniability allows her to talk to you without feeling like shes doing something wrong. After all, you’re just being friendly. If you approach direct and make your intentions known upfront you’re forcing her to choose between her bf/husband and a complete stranger, and you’re probably gonna get blown out | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 07:06 PM |
| -1 | Less Is More--How To Keep A Woman Interested In Your ConversationStill no answer lol | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Less Is More--How To Keep A Woman Interested In Your ConversationDo entertaining conversations ever develop into long term relationships?? They certainly do! But if you have a better theory I’d still like to hear it | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Less Is More--How To Keep A Woman Interested In Your ConversationI think this is a great technique and I use it all the time. It’s classic banter that two people bond over... giving a little shit and taking some back. If you disagree I’d like to hear your ideal approach... please elaborate | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 12:16 PM |
| 114 | Less Is More--How To Keep A Woman Interested In Your ConversationThis is exactly what PUA coaches talk about when they say to have a good time and stop trying to fuck every girl you talk to. Be social, meet people, and play the long game. The girl you cross paths with today may be a girl you sleep with months down the road. Focus more on meeting people and less on putting your dick in some girl right now. It will pay off in the long run | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Are there any students of the Mystery method here?Yep | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 01:00 AM |
| 2 | How do I get guys interested in me?Good luck! | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 11:34 PM |
| 2 | How do I get guys interested in me?Ok gotcha. I’m way older than you but this comes from the perspective of a guy who was so nervous around girls, the only girlfriends I ever had in school were the ones who approached me first. Shy guys are terrified of rejection. A shy guy will also get excited if a cute girl talks to him or shows any interest in him. If there’s a guy you’re interested in just smile at him when you see him. Say something to him when you get a chance, make a joke, be a little flirtatious. It will make him more co… | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Is there a point to any of this if I don't plan on meeting women?r/socialskills has similar discussions that aren’t so focused on guys chasing girls | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 10:53 PM |
| 1 | How do I get guys interested in me?Need some context... still in school i assume. Do you have a big social circle? Do guys approach you? Would you say you’re more funny, serious, nerdy, or bitchy? Rate your looks from 1-10 | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Is there a point to any of this if I don't plan on meeting women?I get those feelings you described now and then when I need some “me” time, but they don’t last more than a week or two. If yours is long term, I can only imagine it must be chemical/hormonal imbalance or some external stress, but I’m no doctor. It just kinda seems like guys are all wired to pursue girls (or whatever you’re into). If you don’t want to pick up girls there’s nothing wrong with that. Do what makes you happy. But developing the social skills that come along with pickup is an invalua… | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 10:40 PM |
| 9 | how can i get rid of the guiltGet your heart crushed a few more times and you won’t give a fuuuuuck brother | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 07:16 PM |
| 5 | Something you guys should know about dating adviceI agree women are attracted to older men. I’m quite a bit older than you and can pull girls way younger than me. But I think what they like about older men is the maturity, leadership, life experience, etc. (the alpha male) so when you say the answer is to “look older”, I think the better strategy for younger guys is to act older. ... and yeah putting on muscle always helps. Chicks dig the gun show whether they will admit it or not | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 06:47 PM |
| 2 | When you see guys on YouTube approach women do they actually get anywhere with them?Fuuuck Yeah!!! | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 06:58 AM |
| 1 | This chick is mission impossible. I failed the mission yesterday. How do I succeed again? (Long story, girl is insane)You said you don’t know why she’s attracted to you bc you’re not like her ex’s. Thats a good thing. I’ve been with many girls that told me I’m not their usual “type” and I love hearing it. That’s how I know my game is pretty good (although I prefer taking nice girls and turning them into bad girls lol) This girl sees something in you that she likes and that’s why she’s testing you. Bad girls like her fuck guys to win their approval. She recognizes that you’re different from her past guys and wan… | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Does low social status work against you in game when you're older ?The way you describe your status isn’t very appealing, but you can certainly change your presentation. Women can be as attracted to a mans potential as current success or status. You should strike “unemployed” and “benefits” from your vocabulary when you talk to women. Put a positive spin on your situation. i.e. I decided to leave my old career behind for a bigger opportunity... I’m living on some passive income while I build my new career, etc. Make sense? | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 08:00 PM |
| 3 | This chick is mission impossible. I failed the mission yesterday. How do I succeed again? (Long story, girl is insane)Remember when you said she’s insane? Uh yeah.... some girls are legit batshit crazy and you probably don’t want to hitch your wagon to a girl like that. But they can be fun. Just get ready for a wild ride Edit: she probably has some major emotional scars and wants to like you but is scared of getting hurt. My guess is that she’s testing you to see if you really want her or just easy pussy. If you really like her, be patient. Take her out and don’t make any sexual advances. Treat her like a prope… | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 04:10 PM |
| 0 | Is there some kind of magical formula in day game?No. Women are humans with free will, not computers | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Phycal relations with father-in -law. It's Good for me?This is how people end up dead | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 06:06 PM |
| 23 | Interesting trend I’ve noticed...The trend is that you’re not holding frame. Win her over, lead the way, and set the time. She will follow | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 09:19 PM |
| 7 | Lack of confidence has made me an incredibly boring person...Get yourself fixed. Work on being someone you like when you look in the mirror. And get yourself laid even if she’s a little below your standards. It’s a big confidence booster when you’re down. As for the tinder girl, unless she was being playful, that’s a harsh response from her. I wouldn’t even reply to a bitch like that. Don’t let it get to you. There are good opening lines everywhere, better yet come up with some creative ones of your own. Good luck | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Direct vs Indirect when approaching women?Indirect. Filipino girls are usually more shy and reserved. Direct approaches can seem inappropriate and even offensive | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 02:24 PM |
| 42 | Staying at my girlfriends house tonight to “Netflix and chill.” This will be my first time having sex and I’m clueless on how to initiate it without being creepy or awkward.Foreplay starts long before sex. Flirting, being playful, touching, tickling, kissing, etc... draw out foreplay and escalate the mood slowly. You can lead her and make her comfortable without a lot of talk. Just let it happen when the mood is right. Also, don’t drink too much. It’s easy to drink too much if you get nervous, but that can lead to things getting sloppy and out of control | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 01:14 PM |
| 4 | How do I get a boyfriend?Go where the type of guys youre interested in congregate. Gym if you want a gym rat, upscale bar if you want upscale guys, etc. Just smile and show a little bit of interest if you see a guy you like. A good guy will pick up on that and make a move. Dump your imaginary bf 😝 | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when my gf sends me pics of her in her underwear as snapchat streaks+1. Well said bro | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Lol okay need to avoid blowing it for one week(at least) The pre-date texting...Ask questions about her, then listen and ask follow-up questions. Don’t try too hard. Your texts sound a little needy already. Don’t mention getting lost in the shuffle. Be cool, casual, entertaining, and a little funny. Also, judging by her profile she’s all heart. Turn up the charm and show her your sweet (not weak) side | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 12:05 AM |
| 5 | Old guy looking for advice (repost)Yes brother the girls are out there and if you take care of yourself and develop some game they’ll be interested in you. Your age and life experience is even an advantage at times. I’m a little older than you and have pulled plenty of hot girls 25-30 (although I’ve found 30-35 is the sweet spot for me). Face your anxiety and get out there Edit: the rules of the game still apply. Adapt what works for you. You’d look foolish if you dress and act like you’re 20, but just because you’re older doesnt… | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 10:17 PM |
| 5 | Picking up girls for the confidence boost, not for sex?The hunt is greater than the kill | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 11:37 AM |
| 3 | My alpha male classroom observations.No I’m not familiar with established millionaires who go back to school and game 20 y/o girls. The millionaires I know are living in the grown up world. But good luck in school lil fella... keep those grades up | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 04:17 AM |
| 6 | My alpha male classroom observations.Lmao. The alphas are out playing in the real world with the grown ups. You’re still in class. Whatever man... | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 03:18 AM |
| 8 | Can I use Just money to attract women?What’s the difference between a girl that only wants you for your money and a hooker? A hooker will leave after you pay her. A gold digger will hang around until your money is gone... but they’re really the same person. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 01:54 AM |
| 5 | Can I use Just money to attract women?If that’s all you want go buy a whore. They’re a lot cheaper than a gold digger | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 01:49 AM |
| 2 | I'm stuck at zero and thinking about suicide more and more...What have you done to improve your game with women so far? What are your sticking points? How far do you get before rejection? Where do you try to meet girls? | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 01:43 AM |
| 2 | How important is race?Sad but true. Ultimately most girls wanna make daddy happy | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 01:06 AM |
| 7 | How important is race?This is a good discussion topic. From a white American guy perspective I’d say white guys have it the easiest because there are less prejudices towards them. I’ve had asian and hispanic girls tell me they’d always wanted a white guy, like I was some kind of prize. I wasn’t complaining but it was funny to hear. We all have our likes and dislikes. Personally I only date Asian girls now. I think many girls have the same mindset about about who they are attracted to, but it’s more about the individu… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Chads of reddit, how many girls are on your rotation right now?Some of the incels around here are just depressing. Some of the shit advice I see them getting is even more depressing | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Chads of reddit, how many girls are on your rotation right now?Ahh come on we all brag a little lol | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 11:39 PM |
| 3 | LingerieWtf | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 11:38 PM |
| 12 | Chads of reddit, how many girls are on your rotation right now?2-3 for me. Any more than that is fun to brag about but it’s fucking exhausting | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 11:26 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Seeing a girl I approached well a few hours previous AGAIN...Not a strong move my man, but all hope isn’t lost. Your best play is probably not mention it and act like you really didn’t see her. After all, you were focused on studying. But for future reference always introduce her and include her. Girls love it when you’re eager to show them off. It’s also good social proof for you | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 11:01 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Seeing a girl I approached well a few hours previous AGAIN...You’re looking at it wrong. This is a good thing. It shows you’re not creepy and you have a life of your own. But if that happens again you should introduce her to your friend. At the very least, say hi and acknowledge her | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 10:34 PM |
| 2 | No kiss on first date, thought she wasn't interested. Now it sounds like she's interested again through text?How did the lunch date go? | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 10:27 PM |
| 1 | F-close (fieldreport)Good stuff. Definitely a learning experience. Blowing girls off drives them crazy | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 05:37 PM |
| 1 | No kiss on first date, thought she wasn't interested. Now it sounds like she's interested again through text?Lunch with a stranger is difficult. You already know each other and have established some rapport. Maybe a lunch date won’t end with sex, but... maybe it will. It’s a process | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 05:32 PM |
| 1 | No kiss on first date, thought she wasn't interested. Now it sounds like she's interested again through text?I think lunch today is fine. Go for it | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 05:06 PM |
| 2 | No kiss on first date, thought she wasn't interested. Now it sounds like she's interested again through text?If I were you I’d set up another date and plan for somewhere you can be close. Get a booth at a restaurant. Start out on opposite sides. Then switch sides to show her some pics or something funny in your phone. Watch her face when you do it. She will light up. Good luck | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 04:47 PM |
| 3 | how to 'prowl' on a cougar?I’m “older” and have talked to older women a lot about dating younger partners. While older women are physically attracted to younger men, they are usually turned off by their immaturity. If you want to get an older woman you have to exude confidence when you approach and hold up your end of an intelligent convo. Thats it. | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 04:43 PM |
| 5 | No kiss on first date, thought she wasn't interested. Now it sounds like she's interested again through text?You need to work on physical escalation bro. Kino... touch her hand or leg when you laugh or tell a story. Not in a creepy or sexual way but in a friendly way. You have to break the tension and make her comfortable, then she will get closer and touch you back | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Weird reply or written test?I use that too. Great push/pull... open her, reject her, and make her jealous before she even has a chance to say anything lol. | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Weird reply or written test?Be patient. Don’t bring up the bf. If she brings him up, that’s fine. Then you can ask things like “how did you meet?”, “how long have you been together?”, etc. She will let you know how serious it is. A lot of guys disqualify themselves when a girl says she has a boyfriend, when it’s really just a shit test. Let her decide how serious she is about that “boyfriend”. You just do you. Be interesting, engaging, and fun. | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Weird reply or written test?🍸 vs ☕️ is brilliant. This is the kind of subtle technique that gets a girl thinking | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Weird reply or written test?Proceed with caution. She might not be serious with her boyfriend or might not really have one at all. She agreed to meet for coffee, so see where it goes. She will let you know how serious she is about the boyfriend | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Increase Your Attraction To Women By Working Out And Eating RightWell said. Agree completely | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 02:42 PM |
| 7 | Going to be spending an entire day with a girl, should I wait until evening for the "mood" to go for the kiss and make a move?Man it’s not a movie. Kiss whenever the time is right. It’s on you to make her feel comfortable and escalate. Fortunately youve got all day so there’s no rush, but if the kiss feels right mid-afternoon then go for it. Then there’s more time for building comfort, escalating again, and moving to the next step. Good luck Edit: If she’s set aside a whole day for you she’s probably hoping you’ll make a move too 😉 | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 12:37 AM |
| 1 | How do I game this 10?Neg the shit out of her. Be playful, funny, a little cocky... You be the prize. Hold frame and make her chase you | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 04:14 PM |
| 2 | How to ask her for a date indirectly?“I’m going to do (whatever), you should come along. It’ll be fun. “ If she says no, it’s ok, it was just an invite. They’re your plans and you’re still going. It’s not a rejection. | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 12:40 PM |
| 0 | Why am I instantly unattracted when women show interest ?The hunt is greater than the kill. We want what we don’t have. It’s human nature. Once you’ve been with enough girls, just getting one isn’t enough and when a girl makes the game too easy it’s a total buzz kill | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | What is the first thing you do when you meet your date?If you’re talking about tinder dates, hi and a handshake then immediately a quick story about something interesting or funny I just saw. Beginning a new thread right out of the gate is a good distraction from awkward tension, builds comfort for her, and provides a chance to display your personality. | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Approached a 10 on the street. She yelled fuck offI’m not sure if you’re serious or not but it underlines my point. Famous musicians are humans just like us (so are hot girls). If you’re gonna treat them like they’re on a higher level than you, just leave them alone... they’ve heard that shit before. If you’re gonna talk to a celebrity or a hot girl you have to talk to them like an equal. Rational people respect you for it, no matter their status. If you kiss their ass you may as well cut off your balls and hand them to that person | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 02:39 AM |
| 10 | Approached a 10 on the street. She yelled fuck offExcuse me? The first thing out of your mouth was an apology for interrupting her day. That’s strike 1. How many times do you think a 10 gets told she’s pretty? That’s strike 2. Perhaps your body language was strike 3, idk. I hope all the “direct approach” advocates see this thread. Direct works best on youtube clips when you can edit out all the times you get shot down in flames. My advice, get some creative/conversational openers. Her yelling fuck off is kinda funny though. Laugh it off and don… | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 10:27 PM |
| 1 | How can you tell which women at bars, parties and nightclubs are more open to being seduced?I wouldn’t say more than single. Some married women just want a little attention, but there are definitely married women out there that can be pulled | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 07:19 PM |
| 3 | How can you tell which women at bars, parties and nightclubs are more open to being seduced?In a bar or nightclub they’re all open to being seduced, even the ones with a ring on their finger. “Girls night out” is bullshit. They want to be approached. That said... the loud ones, the ones who are most dolled up, and the ones with wandering eyes are usually the the ones who are consciously thinking they want to get fucked | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 04:22 PM |
| 1 | I’m dating 3 different girls at the same time AMA.Who’s trying to keep em around lol I always have 2-3 at a time. If you’re gonna play the game, may as well play hard | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 01:55 AM |
| – | I’m dating 3 different girls at the same time AMA.I fucked 5 girls in the same day. Step your game up son | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 11:55 PM |
| 1 | M20 Extreme sexual frustration in college help !The most obvious thing to say is you’ve just gotta pull yourself together, get in shape and lose some weight but it’s not so simple when you’re fighting depression. Have you considered seeing a therapist? It’s amazing what just a few sessions can do for you when you’re down | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 10:23 PM |
| 6 | A thought I had recently: if you are willing to work out a lot and become a "Big guy" in order to attract women with looks, keep in mind that if you are really big this will transform you in a walking stereotype and women will automatically have some bias when looking at you.Yes if you put on enough muscle that people notice, you might get some shit tests about it. You know what else you’ll get? Pussy from those same girls. You’re not gonna accidentally start looking like the rock. That’s a lifetime of hard work, dedication, and steroids. I’ve been skinny and now I’m muscular (not huge), and can tell you from experience chicks dig the gun show even if they tease you about it Edit: muscle is great peacocking. Much better than buying some shitty hat. It takes time and… | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Need texting adviceShes probably interested in you too. Think of something fun to do. Tell her “I’m going to (wherever) later. You should come along, it’ll be fun” | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | I was obsessed with cold approaching and game. Now I got a girlfriend, but can't stop cold approaching. I find myself automatically starting conversations with random girls nearby. How do I stop? My habit and identity keeps making me do that bc I invested so much time into learning this.Roll with it bro. It’s the new and improved you. (Opening strangers is also a valuable skill set in the business world) | /r/seduction | 01/09/19 09:34 PM |
| 0 | MM infieldYes you certainly can attract someone who wasn’t initially attracted to you. Maybe it hasn’t happened in your experience, but it happens all the time. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 08:25 PM |
| 2 | What's better - mysterymethod or modern game?I still like mystery method, being playful and disinterested. Ive gotten lots of girls that were out of my league and plenty of pillow talk including “You’re normally not my type” | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 02:46 PM |
| 3 | No one has ever made me cum the way you didIncel is the definition of how the man described himself, but I see how it could sound like an insult... not my intention. You know what makes me feel good about myself? Pulling girls and fucking them. Know what else makes me feel good? Helping other guys do the same. I used to suck at getting girls too but I never got mad at dudes who were good at it | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 10:34 PM |
| 0 | No one has ever made me cum the way you didLol. Wow an incel has determined there are no techniques in this post. I’m guessing your angry attitude could be a problem. Seriously, a lot of dudes here have no clue what they’re doing. But like they say, even a blind squirrel finds a nut once in a while. So here’s some advice: Read, the game. Get on youtube and watch guys in field. Learn the basics and watch guys apply them. Then you go apply them. Good luck | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 08:32 PM |
| 1 | No one has ever made me cum the way you didReally? These “humble brag posts” are guys who are getting some action and sharing strategy, technique, and advice with each other. Pickup is a brotherhood. If you’re not getting girls its up to you to change that. There’s plenty to go around. Good luck | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 08:18 PM |
| 1 | No one has ever made me cum the way you didGood luck dude. Little angel has a dirty little secret with you already. Keep building comfort and she will eventually give it up. Keep us updated | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | No one has ever made me cum the way you didIts not really my style but its not a bad line. You know the situation best. Just hold frame and keep her chasing you. She definitely wants another ride.... just don’t start acting desperate | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 07:53 PM |
| 1 | No one has ever made me cum the way you didTell her something like “no worries, I always liked your dirty mind”, then start a new thread. You can come back to this one if she doesn’t come back to it first. You make a girl squirt and she’ll be in love with that dick forever | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 07:41 PM |
| 2 | No one has ever made me cum the way you didPush/pull my man. Let her know you like it but you’ve already got her chasing. Give her a little love but keep her chasing you! | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Avoid these biscuits🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | How to respond?Move onto the next thread. That ones dead. Shoot and move. | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Do any of you use CBD and does it help with approaching women?Thats fuckin funny 😆 | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 01:57 PM |
| 1 | First night in Seoul and couldn't pull a single girl while in Hongdae (college district), I'm 21 myself, what went wrong?Asian girls are way more reserved, even the ones in a nightclub. Direct approaches are going to scare most of them off. It takes a lot of work but the payoff is worth it | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Small victory with first intentional approach!So much more natural approach than using canned material | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 09:51 PM |
| 10 | Small victory with first intentional approach!Well played my man! I like the situational opener | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 08:10 PM |
| 30 | I think I learned the most crucial lesson in pick up. And maybe life.Great motivation bro. Keep up the hustle | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 01:42 PM |
| 2 | What's the best?Spread ass pic | /r/seduction | 13/08/19 04:26 AM |
| 3 | Are there good PUAs?It’s irrelevant. Any good pua can be a good salesman. We build rapport and make people feel good. There’s a saying in sales “If you wanna know how good a salesman is, look at how hot his girl is” | /r/seduction | 13/08/19 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid humiliation if your penis is small?Not all, but many are built a lot lot smaller. Also many traditional asian girls dont talk a lot about sex with their friends. That’s why I asked. But if you’re not into them it doesnt matter. Good luck | /r/seduction | 13/08/19 01:23 AM |
| – | How to avoid humiliation if your penis is small?Have you tried an Asian girl? | /r/seduction | 13/08/19 12:40 AM |
| 1 | I cant get out of my friends shadow (M 21)I hear you brother. I had a friend like that in my younger days. He commanded all the spotlight and I was left in the shadows. If you keep getting blown out by girls you’ve got to change your approach. Don’t get discouraged. Adjust the game to suit your personality or you will always come across as that creepy drunk uncle at family gatherings. congruence is key. Here’s a video worth watching: https://youtu.be/nZ1q07WHuOs | /r/seduction | 13/08/19 12:03 AM |
| 3 | I cant get out of my friends shadow (M 21)Your friend is reckless and DGAF. I’ll bet you’re more cautious and well rehearsed. Its not bc he’s brown or exotic. It’s classic bad boy vs nice guy. Girls may not see him and think “boyfriend material” but he sure seems like fun at the time. Watch how he interacts with women. Then get a bump of his his coke and give it a shot lol | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Are there good PUAs?Sales $$$ | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 08:44 PM |
| 9 | With all this game, do your create a pattern which can lead to sex addiction and ruin potential relationships?Yep. It’s a zero sum game. If you remain a player you can’t commit to a serious relationship, If you pull that perfect 10 and fall for her, there’s a good chance you’ll eventually get crushed and feel as hopeless as you did before you became a player. Idk about sex addiction. If anything, pickup cured mine. For me its more about the chase. The hunt is greater than the kill. 10’s fuck the same as 5’s... some good, some bad. | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 08:01 PM |
| 1 | So i am intermediate at Pickup but i still suck dick.There’s so much good info out there for free. You can watch pua’s on youtube for days. Steal every good opener, routine, neg, and joke you like and make it your own. Remember it’s an art, not a science so keep what works and drop what doesn’t As for text game practice, tinder is a goldmine. Match with every girl you possibly can and use those matches for practice. See what you can get away with and what works | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 07:18 PM |
| 2 | So i am intermediate at Pickup but i still suck dick.Nice work doing so many approaches and number closing that many girls. You’ve definitely got the confidence. Looks arent that important to a girl if you’ve got swagger. So what can it be? I’m guessing you need to recalibrate your approach. You’re not pushing the right buttons to get her interested in you. If you are nice to a girl she will talk to you and sometimes even give you her number just to be polite and avoid awkwardness, even if she is completely turned off by your approach. You said yo… | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Where to find PUA coaches?Right here! Let’s go meet some girls | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | How can I get women in Hamilton/Toronto being an Indian guy?As far as solo pickup, I do that more often than not. I have a lot of success with it too. I don’t have any solo game resources to recommend but I can tell you the principles of pickup are all the same. Just recalibrate for a one man show | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 06:12 AM |
| 1 | How can I get women in Hamilton/Toronto being an Indian guy?I still think you’re putting more focus on ethnicity than anyone else. I have heard on the news about the rapes in India. But honestly the first thing I think of when I think of India is hot women. I have never heard of Indian men being stereotyped as rapists until now. | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 06:09 AM |
| 1 | How can I get women in Hamilton/Toronto being an Indian guy?Man you sound like you’ve attached a ball and chain to your own leg. I think you’re way more focused on being Indian than anyone else is. From your stats you sound like a real catch for any girl. Maybe you should rethink your approach when you open a girl. Also, get your ass in a bar/club where the women are. You said its just not you... Well how has that worked out for you? Get out of your comfort zone brother. If you think your ethnicity is really an issue when you talk to a girl, throw out a … | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 05:12 AM |
| 2 | What can I do.Clean the pipes before you see her. Eat her out until she cums or you get tired of it. Whatever takes the edge off and you can go as long as it takes. Make her cum multiple times | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 04:44 AM |
| 2 | 0811 Field Report (Apartment)Smooooth! Nice work | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Do you admit to girls you’re a player?The fact that you are/were a PUA makes a girl a little insecure. I think it’s always in the back of her mind. When arguments start it’s the most obvious thing she can bring up to prove what a jerk you are. That’s my experience anyway | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 06:19 PM |
| 2 | How can I get laid if the people around are in relationships or religious?It’s a sneaky move but you can become closer with the girls bf. It will disarm him and you will be able to get closer to her. Become good friends with the guy and girl and keep her in YOUR friend zone. You can still build attraction with a girl even if she is in a relationship, after all girls fantasize about other guys just like we think about other girls. She won’t be in a relationship forever, and when it ends you will be the first one she tells 😉 | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | How can I get laid if the people around are in relationships or religious?The girls you like are in relationships, do you know their boyfriends? | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 05:57 PM |
| 4 | I Went To The Strip Club Last NightHell yes! Do what every other guy is not doing and plant yourself right in the middle of those girls. Nice going! | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Just can’t seem to do it.Good luck | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Are there any subreddits for more advanced guys?If you find one or get one going lmk. I’m in | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Are there any subreddits for more advanced guys?Agreed. Im looking for more advanced too. I wanna get down to brass tacks with some fellow players | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Just can’t seem to do it.You need a better opener brother. I was waiting to see a field report from your post yesterday. Asking for directions is a safe harmless way to approach a girl but what is your next step? Work out where you’re gonna take the convo after you open her... Where’s a good coffee shop/restaurant? What do you recommend there?... ”Oh I don’t like that dish. I would invite you to come along if you didn’t have such bad taste.” (Laugh) If she laughs and defends herself shes into you. Now you’ve got a real … | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Logistic question: for a festival better take an Airbnb or camp?Stay sober. There will be a lot of drunk chicks who will need a place to crash 😴 | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 04:51 AM |
| 1 | How to cure "oneitis"Go fuck somebody else. Plain and simple | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Logistic question: for a festival better take an Airbnb or camp?Why not both? Whats a tent, $30? If people are camping set one up and join the party, but it’s much better to have a nice private air conditioned place to bounce a girl to. A bathroom is a bonus you can offer her to “freshen up” | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 09:20 PM |
| 11 | Girl came straight to my home and left 5 minutes after (?)Maybe a messy house, maybe she started her period and was embarrassed. Don’t give up on her yet, but get the place clean | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Newbie in need of adviceOk you could use this as a positive. PM me if you want. I’ve got a game plan for you | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Idk why people think PUA or Game worksYou’re wrong. Game works. Looks are only a small part of the equation bro. What changed along with your looks/weight is your confidence. Girls like a guy with confidence. Ever see a good salesman with an ugly wife? Doubtful.. a good salesman knows how to sell himself. My gym is full of good looking shredded guys with ugly girls or no girl at all. They have no game and can’t talk to women Edit: I will concur, much like having a Ferrari, a good body and dressing right make the game easier to play | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 07:12 PM |
| 6 | One Major Realisation.Getting your mindset right and getting some material is step one, but the MOST IMPORTANT is getting out there and talking to girls. Get blown out, get shot down in flames, and get comfortable with it. Think of it like a video game. A cute Asian girl I opened slapped the shit out of me in the middle of a crowded bar once. It turned into a same day lay | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Shit test?Definite shit tests. She wants to see how secure you are. On the jersey shore thing I would have replied how I’d like to split sammi sweetheart down the middle. If she can get you jealous and insecure she’ll lose all respect for you. Let her know that you CHOOSE to be with her just like she chooses to be with you | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Guy in the club slapped my girl's assMaybe just a shit test for you and the guy didn’t exist. If it really does happen and youre there to see it, you’ve gotta confront him. | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 03:38 PM |
| 2 | "You're a great guy, but I don't find you attractive"Yup. You’re telling girls you belong in the friendzone. Yeah you’ll be close to them but you’ll never get what you want like that | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Newbie in need of adviceSo bad posture? Don’t stand up straight? | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Newbie in need of adviceWhat type of physical disability? | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 01:09 AM |
| 14 | Today at the gymGood for you bro. Nothing wrong with cutting it short. It’ll be easier to chat next time you see her | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 09:36 PM |
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