How important is race?

dirtydeadgayjesus · 2019-09-22T00:57:20+00:00

This is a good discussion topic. From a white American guy perspective I’d say white guys have it the easiest because there are less prejudices towards them. I’ve had asian and hispanic girls tell me they’d always wanted a white guy, like I was some kind of prize. I wasn’t complaining but it was funny to hear. We all have our likes and dislikes. Personally I only date Asian girls now. I think many girls have the same mindset about about who they are attracted to, but it’s more about the individual girl rather than different groups as a whole

Edit: I’ve known a few hot girls I knew I never had a chance with because they only dated black guys. It works in every possible direction

PrsnPersuasion · 2019-09-22T02:52:10+00:00

There’s no need to speculate because OkCupid has years worth of data showing that women overwhelmingly prefer white men. I don’t know if that’s US only or worldwide. Obviously this shouldn’t deter you if you’re non-white but it seems like being white these days is just as much a dating boost as being 6’+.

sexualdream · 2019-09-22T04:20:05+00:00

Speaking from a black dude who was born in africa I feel girls in America are generally less forgiving to black dudes than to white dudes. The girls who only date black dudes, they usually require black dudes to be in shape, stylish, smooth etc and they don't want to accept anything less. But the girls who only date white dudes, they are more likely to accept a white dude even if he is not in shape, no style, not smooth etc.

If ur a dude who have everything going for u, u will prolly get dates regardless if u are black or white. But if ur a dude who is chubby, geeky, awkward etc, ur better off being a white dude. White dudes can get sloppy and still away with so many things. Black dudes if they get sloppy girls won't hesitate to reject him. Girls demand way more quality out of black dudes, everything has to be sharp.

Speaking from a black dude who knows a lot of black dudes who are not in shape, not stylish, not fun etc. I feel that black dudes who don't have much going on is not that hot of a ticket as far as women in america are concerned. If it was back home in Kongo or any other African country, it would be another story.

smoothmax · 2019-09-22T02:24:42+00:00

Tendencies and average likes and dislikes hardly matter at all because there will always be a ton of women in any free country that are into whatever race you are. Doesn't even matter why they do. They're out there, go find 'em.

Packie1990 · 2019-09-22T07:52:18+00:00

White guys, black guys and latinos have it the best in that order but depending on situational circumstances. Tho most of these have different advantages. Black being the most "Alpha". White having the most "Power/Influence". Latin being the most "suave". I think asians have it the worst. Most of these are cultural characteristics and you can get the advantages even if its not a particular "trait" you possess. I dont believe it holds a huge amount of "weight" except for the fact some of these can be ingrained in your psyche. This is coming from a white male perspective.

Captain_w00t · 2019-09-22T14:19:38+00:00

In Italy, where the majority of italians are white (but there are plenty of immigrants from other countries) I’ve seen many women prefer black guys. First of all, at least for what I see on the streets, black guys have super-human bodies, their genetics made them tall and muscular. Also there’s the bias of their huge penis.

There’s also a joke that says: once you go black, you’ll never look back.

Looksmax123 · 2019-09-22T03:26:44+00:00

Generally white dudes have it easiest I'd say. I would say that south asian males are considered the least desirable due to negative/unmasculine portrayals in media and whatnot. A lot of asian girls like white dudes due to self-hating tendencies, and i would say its a toss up for black dudes, a lot of girls really like them, and a lot of girls may not want to give em a chance.

Title	How important is race?
Author	realonesdie
Upvotes	4
Comments	14
Date	September 22, 2019 12:36 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/d7j8wp/how_important_is_race/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/how-important-is-race.1479268 https://theredarchive.com/post/1479268

Comments