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She is not playing hard to get ; she is indeed hard to get. She is too busy going on dates with other guys, but u.
/r/seduction30/03/22 06:35 AM
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Basically just approach her and see if she would carry on. Good one.
/r/seduction24/05/21 08:24 AM
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You actually analysed it very clearly. I actually agree with ur POV.
/r/seduction20/03/21 08:13 AM
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I would think in Brazil it's less than $200, more like $75. Unless u go to a developing country, hiring a hooker for 30mins costs WAY more than OnlyFans. Guys go on dates because it's fun even if u don't get laid. I went on dates before and I can have fun without getting laid.
/r/seduction15/03/21 02:01 AM
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Autism or not, it's hard to get good without a coach.
/r/seduction14/06/20 08:40 AM
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U talked and hung out all night and showed ur affection, but she didn't display clear affection in return. 3 guys frd said she was into u, but u didn't feel it, I think your instinct is prolly more accurate than their instinct. Ur confident, experienced with meeting girls and going on dates, u made ur move but u didn't see the green light so that's why u were hesitant. If a girl is interested on going on a date with u, she prolly will suggest on hanging out in the future. Not much u can do with …
/r/seduction14/06/20 07:31 AM
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He mainly likes the super high maintenance white women on instagram, and doesn't want anything less.
/r/seduction17/03/20 09:47 AM
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I think attractive guys usually are either married, in a relationship, or already seeing a girl, or multiple girls. If she is seeing a girl already or even multiple girls, there isn't much reason for him to approach any girl.
/r/seduction17/03/20 07:12 AM
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A dick picture with rock hard boner, and without your face. Just jokking.
/r/seduction17/03/20 07:03 AM
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Buy a drink and stand there by yourself like James Bond holding a martini. Go like if u were on a business trip and having a drink in the hotel bar.
/r/seduction06/03/20 09:30 PM
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I get u. I know it's hard to start a conversation if the other person isn't looking at u. I rarely even approach someone like this, I usually just approach someone if the other person is looking at me.
/r/seduction05/03/20 12:33 AM
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She ignored u from start because she didn't wanna have a conversation. Now she looks at u because she finds ur dancing interesting. But now she still doesn't wanna have a conversation.
/r/seduction20/02/20 06:42 AM
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Do u mean a sign of DISINTEREST*?
/r/seduction10/02/20 05:38 AM
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I would have done the same thing, I might even add "No problem, if u still wanna go next time, let me know". Don't say anything rude because u might see her again. Someone flaked me a few years ago and I said something rude, but we have the same circle of friends so I still see her at parties and it gets awkward everytime.
/r/seduction10/02/20 05:31 AM
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It's pretty common for me. I'm a dark skinned black men but I'm into pale white girl. Whenever I approach a pale white girl and if she has a black female friend nearby, the black friend would always pay a lot of attention to me. But if she has other pale white female friend nearby, none of them would pay much attention to me.
/r/seduction07/02/20 06:02 AM
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Congratulation. But next time can u just go straight to the point. Anything that happened before u encounter the group of 1 guy and 2 girls were pretty irrelevant, as far as this forum is concerned.
/r/seduction31/01/20 12:29 AM
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In the midwest usually only the low quality white women date black men. Like the chubby ones, single moms, older women who want a younger men. Most 5'6 men I see don't do well with women. But they are usually not black, because black men arn't 5'6.
/r/seduction28/01/20 05:19 PM
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Mind if I ask where u from and what ethnicity are your tall friends who don't care about height? Because usually white girls in USA care a lot about height.
/r/seduction27/01/20 04:38 PM
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A 5'8 girl dating a 5'6 guy is NOT the norm. And unlike him I don't have the superstar personality to make up for my height. Mind if I ask where u from? Because girls in my region don't dig short men, especially white girls, they are 5'1 and they want 5'11 white guys. I never have problem with being shorter than a girl, it is the girl who have problem with me being shorter than them. I have plenty of crushes on girls between 5'6-5'9, but they don't like me because I'm only 5'6. Ur white so u hav…
/r/seduction27/01/20 04:34 PM
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I think most white USA guy would rather have 5'6-5'9 girl instead of 5'1-5'4. So taller girl have more dating options. Unless ur short like me, I'm 5'6; I can only be tall enough for a girl in heel if she is 5'1 or less. But black women are not 5'1, and even if she is she wants a 5'11 black guy. Oriental girls, brown, hispanic tend to be shorter but I'm not a white guy so they wouldn't really like me. Also I don't really like them either I like white girls.
/r/seduction27/01/20 08:39 AM
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But a 6'0 girl is not only tall, but super tall. She's a good 7 inches taller than average; Average white girl is 5'5, most girls are between 5'2-5'8. So realistically a girl has to be 5'2 or less to be considered short. I feel tall guys usually like tall girls, at least in USA. A 6'1 guy would want a 5'8 girl, which is pretty tall. Tall girls get plenty of love here, a lot of the cheerleaders and dancers are 5'5 or taller.
/r/seduction27/01/20 07:02 AM
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Yup confidence matters as well as height. White USA girls usually like taller guys. Unless it's a shorter than average girl who sometimes feels more comfortable with a guy of similar height. But in USA girls are not short, the average white girl is like 5'5 barefoot and 5'7 with heels.
/r/seduction27/01/20 06:20 AM
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I would say 90% of white men are between 5'7-6'1 bare feet. So at 6'1 with shoes u would still be on the taller end of the common height range.
/r/seduction27/01/20 06:09 AM
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Average white USA men is like 5'10, and in my region it's even taller like 5'10-5'11 because most white are of western and northern european ancestry, who tend to be taller than those of southern. 5'8 ur looking at USA men of indian ancestry, vietnam, colombian, or edcudor etc. Black USA men are also 5'10 Most white men in my area are 5'7-6'1. And women prefer taller men, so it's definitely better to be 6'2 than 5'6.
/r/seduction27/01/20 05:52 AM
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It does. If ur looking to meet turkish and white girls, ur better off going to places with more of them.
/r/seduction27/01/20 03:38 AM
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Sometimes I wonder why would one single female hang out with a bunch of mostly guys. Looking to get a bunch of guys into a gangbang? lol
/r/seduction27/01/20 03:27 AM
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Not sure where u from, but in USA plenty of women state clearly that they like taller guys. Average USA white male is 5'10 and most guys are between 5'7-6'1. Being 6'4 obvious your height is a non-issue. But if ur 5'4 your height can be plenty of issue.
/r/seduction27/01/20 03:19 AM
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I don't because I'm straight and I don't consider myself physically attractive enough to get attention like this. I think it might only works if both guys are attractive and look like they can be the next member of a boy band. And even so I'm not sure if it would work.
/r/seduction25/01/20 03:55 PM
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I would say go for someone who is about the same attractiveness as u. I'm in the same boat, I'm a chubby 5'6" dark skinned black guy, and English is not my first language. I'm 5'6", but the average US white guy in my area is like 5'10 and most of them are between 5'7"-6'1". I don't really do cold approach on girls out of my league, which is like 95% of the girl in my area. Only if I happen to find a rare girl who is within my league, then I might make the move. All the girls I dated were the lef…
/r/seduction24/01/20 11:01 PM
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I think it's because some group of men don't appeal to some group of women. For example my frd is a light skinned white caucasian guy; Black or dark skinned women rarely gives him IOI, while white women sometimes gives him IOI. On the other hand black and dark skinned women gives u plenty of IOI, but less so with white women.
/r/seduction24/01/20 10:26 PM
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I think she finds u good looking, because she usually doesn't look at anyone, but she looks at u a lot. She's prolly looking to facility a conversation or interaction, assuming she is indeed purposely walking closer to u. But I think u shouldn't leave ur number unless u two both have expressed clear interest on each others. In my opinion u missed a step, and shy person might not proceed because it might be a bit awkward. Maybe when u see her u can try to start a conversation and look for a way f…
/r/seduction23/01/20 12:10 AM
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It's a huge advantage. But your other attributes are important too. Like being in shape, decently dressed and well groomed, and respectful with sexual boundries. If u have all of them, u prolly don't need much game.
/r/seduction11/01/20 08:05 AM
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If you smile, and they look away, and doesn't smile or look back; It probably means they are trying to avoid a conversation. It's like sending a resume and doesn't get a call back. Only thing u can do is wait, and hopefully the guy she is interested in has rejected her, and she MIGHT go back to u.
/r/seduction10/01/20 06:41 AM
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U gotta let him know that ur ready for a relationship now, and that you were into him but was not ready. U gotta make it clear by telling, don't give off sign. If u give him sign, he might think ur just being friendly.
/r/seduction10/01/20 04:13 AM
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I would have done the same. Since she doesn't care about going on dates with u. But I would still stay friends with her and say hi to her if I see her at parties next time.
/r/seduction09/01/20 08:50 PM
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I think physical appearance is extremely important. If ur look don't pass, ur personality isn't going to make a difference. And u look very good, so u don't need to worry, just think of yourself as Liam Payne. U can wear whatever style u want, different girls are attracted to different clothing, so wear a style that will attract the type of girls u looking to date.
/r/seduction02/01/20 12:01 AM
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Some people go for people who are the same attractiveness as them. Also everyone has different preference, a girl might think a guy is 8/10, but another girl might think the guy is only 6/10.
/r/seduction26/12/19 02:29 AM
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If u wanna pick up men for casual sex at a business conference, u have to be obvious with what ur looking for. Any setting is appropriate for hitting on men, but in a business conference u need to start a conversation related to career first and try to turn it into a dating conversation. So start talking about business, then ask about whether if he has a girlfriend, ask to see if he finds u attractive, ask to see if he wanted to have sex. When I was younger, I missed out on a chance to have sex …
/r/seduction18/12/19 07:01 PM
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I was a private in Congo, I never felt I made good impression on girls in Congo. Even when I was going to other countries for training exercise, I didn't think people viewed me as a hot ticket when they knew I was in the military. However, I was not a lieutenant.
/r/seduction16/12/19 11:24 PM
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I'm in the same boat. I'm black, I like white girls but I was never their first pick. I feel a black guy has to be the cream of the crop black guy to compete with average white guys. For example I would say I'm an average looking black guy. I'm able to attract average looking black girls, but I'm unable to attract average looking white girls. The white girls whom I dated all of them are below average.
/r/seduction06/12/19 12:13 PM
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Personally I have NEVER seen ANY 40-50yo men made out with 19-23yo women. I don't talk to the men so I don't know if they are successful or not, but I assume SOME of them got to be successful and motivated. But none of them pulled any young girls. The only time I saw 40-50yo men pull 19-23yo women was at a club in Philippines. But the girls there were kind of getting paid by the men. It was more like a strip club minus the naked dancing.
/r/seduction03/12/19 01:49 AM
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19-23yo women like men between about 16-34yo. I used to work at a club that has ALOT of 19-23yo women customers. I rarely saw 40-50yo men make out with 19-23yo women. And when I saw any 40-50yo men make advance to a 19-23yo women, they usually got shut down, and some women would even call him grandpa.
/r/seduction02/12/19 07:02 AM
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If she was into u, why didn't she wanna look at u, and why didn't she want to speak to u?
/r/seduction01/12/19 10:36 PM
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So they were staring at u before u look at them, or they stare at u when they found u look at them?
/r/seduction01/12/19 09:53 PM
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A good way is to say hi, smile, and try to start a casual conversation and see if it leads to anywhere. Don't watch too much youtube cold approach videos, they are for people to laugh at, guys in real life don't approach like this.
/r/seduction29/11/19 08:09 AM
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Don't be pushy and u won't come off as desperate/need. It doesn't matter how directly u are when u ask. Just be respectful and be able to take no for an answer.
/r/seduction29/11/19 08:05 AM
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Your face is wide, not fat because u are not fat. Plastic surgery might prolly make u look better. But it really depends on how u look like, if ur face is wide, there isn't anything surgery can do.
/r/seduction29/11/19 08:00 AM
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I'm assuming your asking if a girl would come on a date only for the free drinks/food, and she has no interest on the guy. Yes a girl would do that, and my sister is one of them, she would go on dates even if she knows there's no way a guy can go pass the friend zone. She sees the guy as a friend who would take her out to free drinks/food. To not fall into the trap I assume u can set the amenities so low that it would be not worthy for her to spend the time on a date to earn the amenities. For e…
/r/seduction29/11/19 05:57 AM
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For us brothers unless we are the cream of the crop, an average black men is not that hot of a ticket as far as non-black women in America are concerned. If it was back home in Kongo or maybe any other african countries it would be another story because I feel the women would actually respect us.
/r/seduction28/11/19 09:11 PM
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You shouldn't feel shame for approaching non-black women. I'm a black dude too but I feel that non-black women are less receptive than black women. And a big percentage of them wouldn't consider dating a black guy, unless he is the cream of the crop, or he makes like twice as much money as other guys. White guys they can be out of shape, geeky, weirdo and they might still get a decent non-white woman, but for us bros if we are out of shape, geeky, weirdo, AND you arn't a high earner, there isn't…
/r/seduction28/11/19 07:30 PM
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For sure she wants to meet u. I'm surprised that there is absolutely NO IOIs from her verbally or emotionally, like she didn't say anything that suggests she wants a date or that she likes u more than a friend, and she didn't smile too. I'm from North America and I would NEVER pick it up if it was me, girls in my area usually don't do this. Mind if I ask what country or region are u from, because her behaviour is not usual for western society.
/r/seduction28/11/19 07:05 PM
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Incident1&2 are debatable. But incident3 is definitely IOI, It means something for sure.
/r/seduction28/11/19 05:36 AM
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Lol, as a shorter guy I gangbanged a couple of women who were taller than me. I didn't approach them, I met them we talked and when the connection developed, they invited me.
/r/seduction09/11/19 04:52 AM
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Lol I used to hang out with a guy who went to get a massage parlour every weekend.
/r/seduction09/11/19 04:48 AM
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They are indeed attracted to u, they are not faking it. They don't let u go further because maybe: 1) It is against their boundary, or 2)They don't like u enough to go further. Girls like that remind of my older sister, who would talk to a bunch of guys she likes, dance with them, but NEVER make out or go home with any in her life.
/r/seduction28/10/19 02:33 PM
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I have the same problem. I'm a black guy who likes white women. I work in a predominantly white suburb and when I get a white women's number, they usually reply me less often. And the ones who reply often are usually the undesirable ones like the chubby or older. But when I go for black women, the desirable ones would reply often too.
/r/seduction08/10/19 11:39 AM
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What is man of power? Is it related to wealth? Can a man with average or lower than average income have power? And what is social presence.
/r/seduction08/10/19 11:25 AM
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I agree. And when a girl is playing hard to get, she is not faking it. Like my sister would go on dates, but she would not put out or make out unless she is in a committed relationship when both parties are blood tested. She would have great times on dates, but would reject all sex requests, and continue to have a great times. And sometimes guys would misinterpret it as playing hard to get and would try to work their game, which never work.
/r/seduction23/09/19 05:09 AM
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Yup. And when a 8 or 9 black dude find a girl who thinks he is worthy, that girl is prolly only like a 6 or 7. At least in america. I see in shape brothers dating chubby white chicks, but I don't see in shape white guys dating chubby sisters. I see 25yo brothers hooking up with 55yo white chicks, but I don't see 25yr white guys hooking up with 55yr sisters.
/r/seduction22/09/19 08:04 AM
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Speaking from a black dude who was born in africa I feel girls in America are generally less forgiving to black dudes than to white dudes. The girls who only date black dudes, they usually require black dudes to be in shape, stylish, smooth etc and they don't want to accept anything less. But the girls who only date white dudes, they are more likely to accept a white dude even if he is not in shape, no style, not smooth etc. If ur a dude who have everything going for u, u will prolly get dates r…
/r/seduction22/09/19 04:20 AM
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If a girl shoot u down out of the gate. What did u do to make her more comfortable?
/r/seduction08/09/19 06:08 AM
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What's AA? And how did u know she was into u before she said hi to u.
/r/seduction08/09/19 06:01 AM
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Are u posting on the wrong forum? It doesn't seem related to seduction.
/r/seduction30/08/19 09:43 PM
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I think it's kinda acceptable. If she is tired and doesn't wanna go out, what can she do? What is important is whether if she is indeed tired or she just doesn't wanna go on a date with u.
/r/seduction30/08/19 09:33 PM
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I agree, men arn't as racist when it comes to dating. On average men are more likely to hit on every nationalities.
/r/seduction17/08/19 09:08 AM
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If ur a 9.5/10 guy, u still need good character to attract 9.5/10 women. Unless u wanna go for a 6.5/10 women, then SOME MIGHT forgive u even if u have bad character. But 9.5 guys don't wanna go for 6.5 women, so they still need good character to attract 9.5 women.
/r/seduction17/08/19 09:02 AM
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U prolly arn't doing anything wrong. If u scored 25 time, ur approach is definitely fine. Good looking girls have a lot of good options, so even when ur approach is fine, they might still choose to go on a date with a guy they like more.
/r/seduction03/08/19 10:48 PM
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Unattractive males can have more money to compensate for what they lack in looks. If ur make like 2 times more than an average male u will be able to provide a much better dating experience than an average male.
/r/seduction19/07/19 05:22 AM
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It would be lack of height for me, and being dark skinned doesn't help either.
/r/seduction19/07/19 05:17 AM
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Im like Kevin hart. Even most black girls think I'm too black and ugly. I never have luck with non black girls. I don't like how I look and I don't have the money to make up for it. And no personality is going to help me make up for it. The only girls I get are dark skinned chubby black girls, which is my mirror image.
/r/seduction16/07/19 03:36 AM
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I have a good circle of frds, and I have been told I'm fun to hang out with. My problem with girls is just that I'm a chubby short dark skinned black men from a french speaking african country with a low paying job. Guys like me are not that hot of a ticket as far as non-black girls are concerned. Girls see me as a good friend but I'm never a boyfriend material.
/r/seduction15/07/19 11:41 PM
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Damn I prolly was only 6 the first time I had a cold sore and realize it was a cold sore.
/r/seduction14/07/19 09:21 AM
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Speaking French don't do much for a black men. And this is coming from a black men who was born in a French speaking country in africa.
/r/seduction12/07/19 04:17 AM
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If u arnt black u don't know how it is like to be black.
/r/seduction12/07/19 04:16 AM
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I feel your pain, because i'm the same boat. I feel that a regular black man is not that hot of a ticket as far as women in American are concerned. We get picked on for every little things while white men can get away with so many more things.
/r/seduction11/07/19 10:28 PM
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That happened to me a few times too, and none of them went well. Once we both got naked and I couldn't do it because there were no connection, so I told her I couldn't do it unless we have a date first. She got so disappointed that she wouldn't even give me her number to set up a date.
/r/seduction10/07/19 10:29 AM
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Yes, it is important to get a girl's contact when u are not going to see her again.
/r/seduction10/07/19 10:19 AM
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Some are flattered by it, some are not. I wanna figure out who is and who is not. In america people usually either smile or nod when u see them. Not doing either could mean something different.
/r/seduction01/07/19 07:19 AM
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U only approach someone who wants to be approached by u. If someone is looking away already before u approach her it could be a sign that she doesn't wanna talk. And if u still try it is harrassment, knowing someone doesn't wanna interact with u and still interact with the person.
/r/seduction01/07/19 01:04 AM
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I never fear of rejection, I only fear that I harass someone. If someone is looking away already and u still try to approach it looks bad.
/r/seduction01/07/19 01:01 AM
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Nope, just go women who accept you for who u are. I don't know what kind of women u like. But I hate to say it but a regular 30's men is not that hot of a ticket as far as college women are concerned, college women might be receptive to regular college men, but a guy in his 30's prolly has to be in the top 20% tier of his group to have college women be receptive to him.
/r/seduction30/06/19 02:53 PM
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The first girlfriend I had sex with was a multiple dater. I dated her and I became a multiple dater myself.
/r/seduction30/06/19 02:40 PM
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Ur question is contradicting, can u clear it up please. U told her that u wanna receive her selfies. Then u said u don't want to receive her selfie on phone. Then u said because she is sending u selfies and u like them, so she might not wanna have another date.
/r/seduction28/06/19 07:48 AM
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This is not a game. I think she likes your company, but I don't think she is looking forward on having a date.
/r/seduction28/06/19 07:36 AM
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Sometimes u don't know what's going to happen until u escalate. Or u can simply just ask her straight what the deal is. I met a girl who was seeing multiple guys, I made the move and ended up gangbanging her. She was a 8 and I was a 6, and I didn't have to waste any money on her, so I was proud of it. I know I will never have a girlfriend or wife as good as her but at least I had her.
/r/seduction28/06/19 07:23 AM
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I'm a guy but I have female friends and female friends of friends. I notice that some girls don't do one night stand or friends with benefit. I used to live in a triplex and on top of me are 4 college age girls, I can hear everything on top of me, I can hear the time they go out and the time they come back, and none of them ever bought home a guy, and none of them ever stay over at a guy's home too either.
/r/seduction27/06/19 11:03 AM
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I don't. I always try to become friends even if there is no chemistry on the date.
/r/seduction24/06/19 02:37 AM
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I upvoted u. Do u think girls sometimes purposely look at u hoping your eyes would meet her to see if u like her?
/r/seduction24/06/19 02:27 AM
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Sorry was she checking you out or was she checking what u needed because u approached her?
/r/seduction18/06/19 01:32 PM
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Maybe they just havn't yet met a guy they like. I know seen female frds get hit on by like 15 guys throughout the night and she still go home alone. But every women is different, some isn't into casual sex.
/r/seduction18/06/19 12:30 AM
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But do most women go to club to pick up someone? Because I have known women in real life that go to clubs with female frds in group and they rarely go home with any men they meet. They might make out, dance, exchange numbers, but they never put out.
/r/seduction17/06/19 11:41 PM
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Pick up their phone as they see u approaching? How would they know ur going to approach before u started talking. U could just be walking toward her direction.
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:06 AM
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Interesting I will try it out
/r/seduction17/06/19 02:24 AM
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Ur right. If I catch her looking, chances is she has been looking at me before I catch her.
/r/seduction15/06/19 10:21 PM
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I usually don't go for the ones I'm most interested in because they most likely have better options. I go for the ones who are willing to accept me. Seriously how is a chubby 5'6 Micheal Jordan who doesn't speak English well really going to have a chance with a Taylor Shift? Confidence can help but there's only that much it can help.
/r/seduction15/06/19 08:47 AM
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If u glance and lock eye, and she quickly averts her eyes, doesn't it mean she doesn't wanna interact with u. Sorry mind if I ask u what culture or region are u from because I'm from North America. And here when someone looks at you, if u don't wanna talk u look away, if u wanna talk u nod or smile.
/r/seduction15/06/19 08:38 AM
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If cold approach is uncommon, then maybe you can look for an reason to start a conversation.
/r/seduction15/06/19 07:56 AM
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I'm sorry to say that it probably mean the woman is not that into having a date with u, because she doesn't care that u will get disappointed and not ask her out on a date again. I think she is not that into u even with your game, u have tried ur best and there's nothing u can do about it.
/r/seduction14/06/19 07:56 AM
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I'm assuming ur a shorter guy. To be honest dead, height does make a difference. But being tall doesn't mean everything unless u have all other attributes. One of my friend is 6'3 chubby black he doesn't do too well with in shape white women. He always wanna think just because he is tall he can get away with everything about him, but it's false.
/r/seduction14/06/19 07:37 AM
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So u like her and she felt it, so she told u she doesn't have a boyfriend, which is an indication of a green light for u. I think u should ask her out and see whether if u guys are a good match. Are u looking for long term or fling? And figure out what she is looking for for too.
/r/seduction12/06/19 10:27 AM
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In generally if u ask her out and she says she is busy and she doesn't try to plan a date on a later day. It means she is not looking forward to having a date with you. Lol she is like me when I was younger. I used to meet SO many women that I like and I would talk to them on phone and text but I wouldn't ask most of them out. Because I don't have enough money and time to go on so many dates. I would go to a nightclub and get like 5 numbers and I would only take one of them on a date, because of…
/r/seduction11/06/19 10:32 AM
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Nope, not talking about myself.
/r/seduction10/06/19 09:48 AM
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I was scammed by a girl too. The fucked up thing was I only saw her as a friend, I didn't intend on asking her out. I helped her because I thought I was her friend, but I was not. It sucks because after you get scammed, u are forced to unfriend a girl. It's hard to stay friend with someone after the person scammed u. Because u were nice to her, and now u are forced to unfriend her. If u weren't nice and u refused to help her, u would still have been friends.
/r/seduction07/06/19 08:37 AM
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I'm WAY below average looking in term of face, body, height and race, and get very little matches on dating apps. I do kind of okay with women in real life, but I only go for women who are in my league. I'm a out of shape dark skinned minority men and English is my second language, so I go for out of shape women in my culture and I do okay with them. I do VERY VERY bad with american born white women, my friend told me one even called me "fat black monkey" behind my back. I work as a janitor in a…
/r/seduction07/06/19 08:12 AM
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As a minority guy myself I have to say an average Asian guy or an average black guy is not that hot of a ticket as far as white american women are concerned. U can appreciate urself all u want but what's important is what others people see of u.
/r/seduction05/06/19 12:34 AM
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Are u talking about urself having difficulties or white USA men as a whole. I have known a lot of white USA men who traveled China and I feel that as long as they are in somewhat decently fit shape they are able to have dates with Chinese women in China. On the other hands I have known a lot of Chinese men from China who traveled to USA and I feel that they arn't getting dates with White USA women in USA. If ur Chinese men from China, and u don't have higher than average income u literally have …
/r/seduction04/06/19 06:22 PM
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It is true that USA nowadays is extremely welcoming to immigrants, and I agree that it's easier for immigrant Chinese men to blend into USA society than it is for immigrant white USA men to blend into china. But dating is not the same as blending in. I know alot of immigrant Chinese men in USA and I honestly think it is way way easier for white USA men from USA to date Chinese women in china than it is for Chinese men from China to date white USA women in USA. If Chinese men from china go to USA…
/r/seduction04/06/19 10:11 AM
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Everyone has to play with the cards they were dealt. All u can do is improve yourself to be a higher value man. I have known Asian american man who married non-asian women. But I have to honestly say it is way not as easy as the other ways around.
/r/seduction04/06/19 07:36 AM
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Yeah. I think in American asian women are percentage-wise more likely to date out. Do u want asian women only?
/r/seduction04/06/19 07:16 AM
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I guess u are sad because she doesn't reciprocate your feeling. Well u can be sad if u asked mom to take u to Disneyland and she refused and decided not to. But she is still mom and u still love each others.
/r/seduction04/06/19 07:05 AM
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I personally think interracial couple is not a bad thing, and when u think this way, u will stop hating them. If Asian women and non-asian men are choosing to date outside their group and find someone worth while, good for them. It's a win-win situation for both parties.
/r/seduction04/06/19 07:00 AM
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You should stay as good friends because you guys enjoy and help each others with life problems. U won't get led on because you know your nothing more than friends. You see her as a potential girlfriend, but she doesn't reciprocate what your feel for her.
/r/seduction04/06/19 06:44 AM
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His kids are all 18+.
/r/seduction04/06/19 12:24 AM
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Just so u know I'm not an old guy. I'm saying my frd is an old guy. Thx anyways.
/r/seduction04/06/19 12:23 AM
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For him it is not the case of some girls are just not interested. It seems like every girl is not interested. He could talk to 20 girls and none of them would be interested, and the few who gave him their numbers, they only saw him as a friend because he is a nice person to talk to.
/r/seduction02/06/19 08:21 PM
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Lol ur only 21 and have 45 kills already. Then just keep meeting girls at social circle and tinder, don't need to figure out a way at bar.
/r/seduction31/05/19 08:39 AM
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It's like a decade ago. I would have asked out more girls at my attractiveness level, instead of aiming high and playing pick up artist games with out of my league girls. Those games rarely work to get u in the bedroom, all they do is let u have fun conversations with a girls. I would have joined the national guard.
/r/seduction22/05/19 02:16 PM
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I got rejected by a girl from a dancing class. U just have to go for it and be honest and true to it. Say something like "Right now we are friends and I really enjoy u as a friend. But we are both single and I'm looking for a partner. I think there is a chance that we might be a good match for each others. I'm not sure if u think of me the same way, but would u like to go out on a date with me?" U have to say it with a genuine smile. And if she says no. U say "Oic, I don't mind. We will just con…
/r/seduction22/05/19 02:28 AM
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I'm actually different, I met every single one of my FWB, ONS in nightclubs. I actually couldn't think of one woman I meet organically that turn into FWB or ONS.
/r/seduction22/05/19 02:05 AM
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What I mean is be friends first and talk more and see if she would let u take her out on a date. For your case u just need to take a chance and propose to her. Just be honest and tell her u find her attractive and like her more than a friend. And even if she doesn't see u in the same ways, at least u guys are still friends.
/r/seduction20/05/19 11:23 PM
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Having a fwb 2 houses down is gold. U gotta make the move, start a conversation try to be friends first, and try to get her number, facebook etc, then make ur move from there. Since ur neighbour so even if she only sees u as a frd she prolly will be down to give u her contact. Stay in the friendzone first and see if she let u go further.
/r/seduction20/05/19 11:00 PM
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This question seems to be more about diet and working out than about seduction. Anyways an optimal protein intake range in gram could be between 80-120% of your body weight in pound. So if ur 150lb, ur intake could be about 150grams. Just so you know steroid is much more common than you think. A lot of the guys at college gym are juicing.
/r/seduction20/05/19 10:53 PM
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Just remember that not everyone is perfect. Look for a women who is at ur level and who will accept u for who u are.
/r/seduction20/05/19 07:24 PM
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Smaller penis are harder than bigger penis in general, especially if ur a grower. Hardness matters as well.
/r/seduction20/05/19 07:22 PM
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It's hard to say. Because you checked her out first, so obviously she would look at u to see what ur up to. So her looking at u doesn't mean much. But if she was checking u out her, then it could mean something.
/r/seduction20/05/19 04:15 AM
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One of my most successful guy friend is 5'6.5 to 5'7 and the average white guy here is about 5'9.5 to 5'10. But he has a nice face like justin bieber with blonde hair. He has a lot of FWB's and ONS's who are equally as attractive as him. He is extremely determined, he knows he is not perfect but he still play with his cards and try to ask out women who accept him for being just a bit smaller and look for ways to connect with them.
/r/seduction20/05/19 04:00 AM
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You don't need to be intimated by her that she is a 8 and ur a 6, and she has a super fun social life and know a lot of hot people. Because It doesn't matter much in your case. All u need to remember is that u can make her cum. Tell urself that u can give her an orgasm and that is what she wants u to give her. And the objective of that day is to make her cum. Tell her u want to take her to the family washroom and remove her panty and ur going to finger her and put on a condom and fuck her until …
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:22 AM
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Now it's ur turn to have some fun. Date as many girls as possible, go girlfriend after girlfriend, date 3 to 4 girls a year, and try to date 2 girls at the same time. Try all sorts of sexual acts with them, never dump a girl, try to have a harem of 4 to 5 girlfriends. Try not to spend too much money with them.
/r/seduction12/05/19 09:51 AM
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First of all, people would eye someone even if the person is not spouse material. It's like if ur at a restaurant, ur server eye u all the time to see if u need anything. I'm not sure what sup with her, but right now I'm assuming it is the best case scenario that she was eyeing u because she sees u as a potential spouse. When something like this happen u tell her "I'm single and I think there is potential that we can be a good match, if u feel the same I would love to meet up with u in the futur…
/r/seduction12/05/19 09:22 AM
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I meet them everyday; I work janitor at a golf resort. Guests and coworkers find me fun to talk to but none are interested on dating me.
/r/seduction08/05/19 07:11 AM
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Truth hurts. Most women who has shown interest are chubby dark skinned black women living in the project, and they are my mirror images. But what do u expect, do u really expect there is going to be any inshape educated white women living in the suburb actually want a chubby dark skinned ghetto black man like me.
/r/seduction07/05/19 11:20 AM
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I have heard from a girl that smaller ones are harder than bigger ones. And she wasn't saying it to make me feel good because she wasn't even my gf, she never even seen mine.
/r/seduction06/05/19 10:52 PM
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You should ALWAYS try to get multiple girls numbers instead of focusing on one. While I do agree that if they see u with other girls, they MIGHT (,or might not) be putted off. But ur giving up way too much for not talking to the other girls. Even if indeed most of them would be putted off, ur only losing a bit of interest from each girl, but ur gaining ALOT of opportunities by talking to multiple girls. Listen I was a charming guy and gamed a lot in my younger days and there were many times that…
/r/seduction05/05/19 09:45 AM
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U don't wish u were shorter, because your height prolly doesn't hurt ur game. For every girl that told u they didn't like how ur a lot taller, there are prolly 4 other girls that like how ur a lot taller. Maybe u can start going for women who are taller than average women, they prolly are less likely to complain. Now everyone upvote me please.
/r/seduction05/05/19 08:25 AM
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Let me summarize your story: You met a girl in school. She was always looking at u and curious about your classes. On the final class day, you two talked for an hour but didn't exchange contact. You two remained acquaintances. One day u needed help, she gave u her # and met up to help u, and kinda hung out with u. You guys kept in touch, and she didn't respond ur text. U randomly ran into her, and u guys grabbed a bite. One day she needed ur help, u returned the favour. U texted her and she won'…
/r/seduction04/05/19 12:02 PM
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U didn't do anything wrong. She might genuinely like ur physique and flirt with u. But maybe she doesn't have time to go on a date. Sometimes I give compliments to girls and flirt too, but it doesn't mean I can afford to take every one of them to a date. If I go on 5 dates a week, I would be blowing away $1000, AND I wouldn't have enough time for my career, I would be on welfare. So if she is flirting with 5 guys and go on dates with everyone of them, even assuming the guys are paying, but then …
/r/seduction02/05/19 09:24 AM
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But why would a girl smile at a guy if she doesn't even know if he is single or not? Do women do that stuff?
/r/seduction01/05/19 09:45 AM
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Ur be surprised that alot of women who go to club doesn't wanna fuck. I always see women going home alone and didn't find one single worthy guy.
/r/seduction29/04/19 11:19 AM
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It's not weird. You would get WAY more attention from women. It is only creepy if the girl doesn't want u to approach; to not be creepy u don't approach a girl unless she has shown interest.
/r/seduction29/04/19 07:20 AM
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I think so. That's why I dont do it, unless she is already looking and wants to talk.
/r/seduction29/04/19 07:15 AM
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U say hi and see if they wanted to talk. I assume your single and is into meeting women, not sure if ur looking for marriage, relationship, or just fwb. But if they wanted to talk then u figure out if they are looking for the same thing ur looking for.
/r/seduction28/04/19 10:43 PM
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I think u can't get women by making them feel sorry for u. I don't think anyone of them actually went on a date with him, they might feel sorry for him so they gave him their numbers so they can be friends, and only friend. If u were a hot girl, and there's this blind dude who smells and is fat short and ugly, and u feel sorry for him that he doesn't have a girlfriend, would u be his girlfriend because of it? Some girls might, but 99% of the girls won't.
/r/seduction28/04/19 10:37 PM
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Being tall is good. Be proud and happy for who you are. Eat healthy to be in reasonably good shape, because having too much body fat is not good. Being tall certainly help with girls. I worked at a club and girls are usually attracted to men who are taller than them, but not TOO MUCH taller than them. I will just assume on average girls are about 5'4-5'6, and taller girls like 5'7-5'9+ would prolly find it more comfortable to be in contact with u like hugging and kissing u.
/r/seduction28/04/19 10:31 PM
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She's trying to say you look good and find u attractive. It seems like she truly mean it, not like she's sucking up.
/r/seduction28/04/19 10:18 PM
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It seems like the girls didn't want to mingle with u. U approached them, they clearly saw your approach, but didn't reciprocate in return. U didn't do anything wrong, u didn't even have a chance to do anything wrong. Maybe tailor yourself to be more attractive, like shoes, clothing, hairstyle etc. Also ask yourself why do other guys were given the chance to slide in while u were not, what do they have that u don't.
/r/seduction28/04/19 08:53 AM
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I think you should ask her out. It's not going to ruin your reputation, in fact it's going to help u. You sound like a nice guy, you should tell her "We get along fine as friends, but we are both single and I think we might be a good match, would u like go out on a date with me and we will see what it would lead to. I understand that we are friends and if u say no I'm perfectly fine with it and we would remain as friends like nothing happened." It's not going to ruin your reputation if the words…
/r/seduction28/04/19 07:49 AM
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Some girls do have flirty personalities and very touchy, but they only flirt and get touchy with guys they like. It's not like she's your escort, your only friends and she is doing this, I'm 100% sure that she finds u romantically attractive. Maybe would be able to get a french kiss out of her, or oral, or sex. It's like this, I'm a guy and If I had a girlfriend and I hang out with another girl. I go into her home and sit on her rug, I put her between my legs, and have her leans her back/butt in…
/r/seduction28/04/19 07:34 AM
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Every girl is diff, my girl wasn't the same as the girl ur close to scoring.
/r/seduction27/04/19 03:17 AM
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Tell her that u want her, but u gotta decide yourself whether if telling her ur a virgin would increase your chances or not and act accordingly, no one here can decide for u because we don't know her more than u. Some girls are virgin collectors, some don't want virgins. U can admit it if u like, or just don't tell her because ur scorecard is not her business. Don't play games, be straight forward and don't leave anyone guessing. Tell her "We are only friends but I have feeling for u, I really w…
/r/seduction27/04/19 03:13 AM
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Their biological clock is ticking they are desperate for an attractive career driven man. They kept u as frd because u were a good frd and easy to get along with. Male and female can be friends. They prolly would have stayed frds with u even if ur married.
/r/seduction23/04/19 10:46 AM
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Not enough details. But I assume he likes looking at women he is attracted to. Guys who have girlfriends look at porn and/or playboy all the time.
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:22 AM
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