What do u want when u approach girls?

bournit · 2019-07-05T10:08:58+00:00

Are u looking to flirt casually (texting, talking on phone, social media etc), or going on dates, or sex, or long term monogamy relationship?

Looking for abundance.

Basically if a girl likes u a lot and is down to do whatever u want to do. What would u want to do?

It depends on your goal. If you want a gf, stay with her in a LTR.

I think it also depends on how much time you spent on cold approaching : if too less, you're gonna settle down for a LTR as soon as possible (you're still in the initial pain phase of cold approaching), if enought you'll see that you can't settle in a LTR (that is quite more reasonable for me, why the fuck I would stay exclusively with a random chick I met in street, while I can "spin more plates" ? )

In approaching the less lucky are the more lucky and viceversa : only who has the opportunity to experience a lot of approaches will develop the ability to say "next" also if the girl likes him a lot. Who experiences too less apps, has no idea if he has or not ability, so, instead of knowing he can approach more and, anyway, get laid (as you see no unicorn or "this is a special girl" mindset here) he prefers to settle for the sure.

So, ask yourself what you really want : long term learning potentially high rewardgign but painful, or leaving the dream of having gf that hold you down to be your only opportunity (preventing you from learning pickup).

Captain_w00t · 2019-07-05T10:13:05+00:00

If I approach, it means I’m interested in knowing her, whatever the outcome.

I prefer to enjoy the process, but in general I’m not oriented toward LTR, even if I can’t exclude that after all.

crawleydown · 2019-07-05T10:24:11+00:00

If I approach a girl, it's because I want to have sex with her. Ideally that night

Title	What do u want when u approach girls?
Author	sexualdream
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	July 5, 2019 9:55 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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