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You can show that you want to talk by texting more. In person you can do things like curling your hair, smiling, eye contact.. At one point if you start to like the other person and they are that bad at reading your cues (most men are), you can just walk up to them and be like "so, when are you finally gonna ask me on a date?"
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:16 AM
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Dating is supposed to feel effortless. The fact you feel like something is wrong and you're confused indicates that this isn't going anywhere you'd want things to. Take some rest and refer to my previous message with a cool head
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:34 PM
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You mentioned her replies are detailed and it seems like you are still texting. Given she is showing that she is interested in you, it would be good to try to ask her out, especially because of these intervals between your messages
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:06 PM
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You can try to approach her when you bump into her outside of the gym by mentioning something like you'd like to try a different gym plan and you wonder if she has any that you could possibly try out together. I wouldn't approach inside the gym
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:04 PM
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I'd say you should try to be better at moving forward.. If you got to the point you were about to ask her out it sounds like you had some chemistry. Try to figure out mutual interest in the early stages instead of towards the end and offer to meet up as soon as possible. Don't use texting as a way of getting to know each other but to set up dates
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:29 AM
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Agreed :) I personally had a different experience using the app. Use whatever works for you
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:15 AM
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They are active, but they probably get a lot of matches and Tinder has a algorithm which decides how fast they see you. Attractiveness is all relative and if your standards are that high while you don't stand out the same way, maybe you're right Tinder is a waste of time for you and you are better off meeting people in person
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:51 AM
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My advice is to not have a mental checklist. Go and have fun, try to get to know her. You shouldn't treat her as a queen by deciding she can go on a second date with you before you even got to know her on a more personal level. Don't answer things logically, instead try to connect with and engage her physically, emotionally and intellectually
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:36 AM
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If you don't like texting, I don't see how things would work out between the two of you when texting is your only form of communication. Generally people use texting as a way to set up dates only. I'd say you had your fun with her, sucks she lives that far away but you couldn't know, you're still young so forget about getting anywhere with her and work on yourself to become more confident
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:33 AM
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The point is to easily get in touch with people and potentially get something fun or more serious out of it. Don't know what's the point of what you tried though, there are plenty of people on there.. Just because you found them unnatractive doesn't mean other think the same and just because you used model pictures doesn't mean women won't think you're sketchy (potentially fake)
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:27 AM
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To be honest I don't really like these "forum" type kind of conversations so that's on me. I prefer to have more natural chats for mutual understanding so apologize it took some time. Any way, good luck and hope you find somebody who is willing to put the same amount of effort into your communication
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:39 PM
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I'm not denying I misquoted you but I did reply to your clarifications so it does not matter if you relate more to what I said or to what you clarified. I think we broke down everything that was mentioned and how you can improve, just make sure you do it for yourself and not for her. Silence is an answer
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:31 PM
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Sure, you did nothing wrong. Makes no sense she left you on read, obviously you do everything right and she needs to talk to you because you are so peaceful and calm and she is weird. Why did you make this post again? Given you're that sure about yourself and your decisions
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:23 PM
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So much time went by, yet you think radio silence for 3 months gets you any closer to her? The opposite happened, you lost her by starting off very insecure by asking if it's fine to react to her FB messages, then confronting her by the fact she's mad and then left a very poor joke. I get it's hard to see when emotions are involved but I hope I open your eyes now and you can see that you are just in no way compatible with her and it would be better to focus on other people
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:14 PM
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You're saying you didn't do anything but you: Reached out to her after 3 months Dismissed the fact she blocked and unblocked you (seems like a childish way of solving problems) Mention you aren't mad at her as if she ever got that feeling about you. If anything, she just sees your hopeless attempts to getting in touch with her Seriously, take her silence as an answer and move on
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:07 PM
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Hopeless because you seem to be willing to do a lot just to make sure everything is good between you two, but she is making it very clear she isn't willing to. Your last exchange does seem hopeless / weak yes. You dismiss her from debt, what does that mean? She won't have to pay you anymore for whatever if she agrees on talking with you again? That does seem hopeless
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:58 PM
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You seem hopeless for her attention to be honest. Show some self respect and leave her until she reaches out to you, and then only accept her willingness to talk to you if she wants to work on the issues you have together. Personally I would just leave everything as-is
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:51 PM
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The situation isn't different from what you mentioned. She still seems upset and isn't willing to talk about it, so moving on is the only advice I could give you. Like I said, don't invest in people who aren't willing to give back. Dating is supposed to feel effortless and relationships require mutual effort
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:39 PM
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I don't know what happened exactly but if you are sure you respected her, just move on. Sounds like she wasn't sure about what she wanted and you are. Would be better to connect with like-minded people
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:33 PM
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Don't make it a goal to escalate things. See if she is open to meeting up again and take things slow. The fact you don't know about her experience means that you still have a few things to learn about her. Start with eye contact, light arm / leg touching as a sign of care when she says something relevant, sit next to each other when you have lunch etc. If she feels more comfortable, see if you can pick up the signs and possibly go for a kiss
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:29 PM
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I'm not a female, but ask her what she would do to let such person know she wants to get to know them. I'm trying to say that every person can be attracted to something, but as a male it does not matter at all if you can't pick up the signs she is attracted to you
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:15 PM
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Learn from the fact that she might have clearly stated her boundaries but you did not respect them. Even though she might have told you she was open to having sex, she did not feel any attraction which is what most women need before they want to. Once you let this sink in, forget about her (don't invest in people who don't invest in you)
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:13 PM
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Next weekend isn't far away. Use texting as a way to set up dates, not to flirt. Do confirm the date enough time before to confirm you are both still interested. If she texts you, just mirror her responsiveness. Read her cues while you're hanging out and make the goal getting closer. This may include kissing / going to bed or may not. Don't put pressure on yourself to achieve an arbitrary physical goal. Just try to get closer to one another emotionally. That's it
/r/seduction20/06/22 01:12 PM
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The fact that you're getting matches indicates that there is no issue in the way you present yourself. You might feel more confident when you match through a dating app because the moment you meet, you know it's a date / you're hanging out. Now try to use those words, you will notice that women don't like when you label things, instead they would prefer to simply hang out and see where things go, which is what you should be doing too. Ask people in your circle to "do 'x' this 'x' around 'x'pm", …
/r/seduction20/06/22 01:00 PM
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Well you need to be in relationships to learn how to be in relationships as complex as that sounds. You might change your mind once you're exclusive because you still get sex (a lot if you're doing things right), but you also learn about yourself. That being said, I'm not here to change your mind if you strictly want a one night stand, so just make your intentions clear as early as possible if you want to avoid broken hearts
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:51 AM
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They must be attracted to you. You might be interest in watching Helen Fisher: What we want
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:43 AM
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They probably didn't want to smash before they met but they might have been attracted to the other person and made their decision based on confidence when they met. It's all about picking up cues as a male. When you're at the bar you can try simple things like offering a drink and get out of there, or have some small talk and start putting your arms around her and offer to go to your place depending on her reaction. Just don't cross boundaries. I mentioned casual relationships because you might'…
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:41 AM
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You can be honest with your intentions but you are most likely to be rejected. Most women won't have sex unless they are attracted to the other person. Don't know how you met, but if you are strictly looking for sex, you might want to start living the bar life and have one night stands, or have a ton of casual relationships. You learn more by sleeping with 1 woman for many years
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:21 AM
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Smile, look away for a little bit, look back and if she is still smiling at you, she probably wants you to approach her
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:10 AM
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If it's somebody you're attracted to, go ask her out. You aren't in the position to tell her something that will stay in her mind unless you say something incredibly stupid. You can give her moments to remember. As for your ex, just don't..
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:07 AM
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