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0

Did you miss that conjunction there, pal
/r/seduction23/07/22 12:01 AM
1

You being a female has nothing to do with this conversation. All women sleep around. Just because not all women talk about it doesn’t change that and I never said with every guy they meet. Like I said one day you’ll grow up and this will make more sense.
/r/seduction22/07/22 11:19 PM
1

Friend you are in for a real rude awakening when you grow up some. All women cheat and sleep around when not in a relationship.
/r/seduction22/07/22 11:07 PM
1

Why do you have to find out? It’s on her if she chooses to be dishonest. If you allow yourself to be a plaything then that’s on you and you better learn from it.
/r/seduction22/07/22 11:04 PM
3

You’ll get to the point where you really stop caring and these things won’t even bother you. It’s “fake it til you make it” and the “make it” is when you can’t be bothered by peoples bullshit enough to even call them out on it
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:36 PM
4

/r/niceguys
/r/seduction23/04/22 01:49 PM
9

Never ask women for advice on picking up women
/r/seduction13/06/18 10:59 AM
6

Not worthy of posting here either.
/r/seduction09/09/17 11:53 AM
1

Whatever norm
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 09:06 PM
30

Because he doesn't want his wife to know.
/r/seduction05/01/16 04:38 PM
2

If you have to ask, you blew it.
/r/seduction23/10/15 02:44 AM
1

Those are three different things.
/r/seduction23/09/15 02:21 AM
2

If he was confident at all he could have turned it around. She was too invested to not care and anyone who had to talk about their confidence isn't very confident.
/r/seduction26/07/15 10:40 PM
1

Who cares what they like? Do what you like.
/r/seduction28/04/15 11:36 PM
1

It's okay to care but it's not okay to be needy. Leave it alone until she texts back.
/r/seduction28/04/15 11:26 PM
1

Up voted for visibility. People need to see this stupid shit.
/r/seduction22/04/15 05:31 AM
0

April Fools?
/r/seduction01/04/15 03:28 PM
1

If it was omitted then why do we all know that?
/r/seduction22/03/15 12:25 AM
2

Sometimes mid twenties, always mid 30s.
/r/seduction22/03/15 12:25 AM
10

What would be the point of telling you she has a boyfriend?
/r/seduction14/03/15 12:01 PM
-2

Classic in denial "nice guy friend"
/r/seduction13/03/15 03:19 PM
1

Who cares? That had nothing to do with this post.
/r/seduction13/03/15 03:16 PM
-2

No. People need to learn from their own mistakes and gain their own comfort. What works for me won't always work for you.
/r/seduction06/03/15 05:13 PM
0

not good for you Not everybody is going to accept everything about people's past. It doesn't make them a bad person.
/r/seduction21/02/15 04:56 PM
2

Also sometimes you're just speaking to boring people. No amount of skill on your end will turn someone from dull to interesting. It's good to know when to leave.
/r/seduction11/02/15 06:21 PM
4

Why is this bullshit allowed here?
/r/seduction24/01/15 05:43 PM
1

It gets easier every time. 14 in one night may be too many though. Focus on having fun and talking with everyone and then the approaches will be more natural.
/r/seduction11/01/15 10:56 PM
0

Why do she can flake again? She's not interested in him he needs to find another.
/r/seduction01/01/15 04:09 PM
-3

She's toying with you and you sound like a bitch being all pouty. If you don't want to be friends with her then don't be. If you want to be friends with her even though you won't hit it then be that. Either way at this point it seems like you're the one being different and flaky, not her. Also, is she the last woman on earth? No. Cool, find another one.
/r/seduction01/01/15 04:08 PM
1

That's what I do. I still send cock pics and I still get nudes.
/r/seduction29/12/14 12:15 PM
2

I thought we agreed to stop with these posts.
/r/seduction26/12/14 02:17 PM
4

Clearly reading comprehension is an issue for you. Maybe get somebody to help read my last post and explain it to you.
/r/seduction16/12/14 11:21 PM
12

Wrong. Asking a question that you want answered does not make you a loser, it actually makes you more assertive as a man. However not making that move is what gets you not laid.
/r/seduction16/12/14 07:50 PM
-2

You have oneitis bro. Go find help elsewhere because that not what this sub is about.
/r/seduction10/12/14 11:39 AM
-1

You bang several other chicks cause you don't have time for boring women.
/r/seduction10/12/14 03:55 AM
5

Dudes who make women their priority: fathers of girls friend zoned losers who get no pussy.
/r/seduction24/11/14 07:13 PM
-8

Except she's not straight forward and it seems like she's indecisive or just not really that much into OP. All are reasons to keep moving and find different women to keep you company.
/r/seduction30/10/14 08:55 PM
6

There are literally millions of other "opportunities" out there. You guys have serious oneitis with OPs friend.
/r/seduction30/10/14 08:54 PM
1

Use the girls as wingmen if that's what you need.
/r/seduction23/10/14 01:35 AM
2

From reading a few comments here my guess is OP is probably an attractive guy, so women smile at him and give him a chance and then he ruins it. However he's attractive and probably has a lot of things handed to him so he's not used to people telling him no and he doesn't know how to improve himself. You get to that point where you're playing a new level of the game but you haven't upgraded any of your skills, you're going to keep losing that game bro.
/r/seduction15/10/14 08:05 AM
0

Stop jacking off
/r/seduction06/10/14 09:42 PM
0

Guys like you make it possibly for guys like him to get laid. Just keep getting in your own way and the rest of us will keep getting the girl.
/r/seduction13/09/14 02:47 PM
2

WTF is wrong with me
/r/seduction13/09/14 02:45 PM
0

Not everybody is going to get the girl. May as well be me.
/r/seduction06/08/14 03:45 PM
0

Shit yeah. I hope it makes them feel like they need to protect her and amplify their nice guy ways. Makes my job easier.
/r/seduction06/08/14 03:40 PM
2

I would like to add something's else here but it really doesn't take a detective to realize what has already been pointed out twice in these comments. She already hooked up with your roommate and she left her charger there. That's why she knew the charger was there and that's why she wouldn't take no for an answer.
/r/seduction26/07/14 11:19 PM
3

Psych40 nailed it. And the point is to be so confident in yourself that if you don't know, you just ask her and clearly state your intentions. Why wait for her to make her mind up?
/r/seduction21/07/14 02:09 PM
2

Gotcha. I misread that part. Are you guys not American? I know different cultures sometimes put emphasis on things like that. Honestly though its like trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. The harder you try to force it in there the more likely it is to just break and never fit. Work on yourself and get yourself to a point where you can be at peace and then you can allow someone the privilege of hanging out with you. My advice would be to ask them to not pressure you so much and maybe tell…
/r/seduction14/07/14 08:08 PM
2

Do your parents make fun of you for being a virgin? That's not typical.
/r/seduction14/07/14 07:06 PM
3

I think you're far too sensitive to be posting on this subreddit. You ask the wrong question and worry about things that should not matter to you. It's not my business if a girl I'm talking to has a boyfriend, that is 100% her business. If she doesn't care about her relationship why should you? Obviously a chick who is cheating on her husband is not worth my long term attention but if she's gorgeous those little details are not enough to stop me from gaming her and having fun with her. And usual…
/r/seduction14/07/14 12:28 AM
1

First off, please read more in the sidebar and figure out why you are posting or reading anything in this subreddit, I honestly don't believe this is the place for you. Secondly, what does that have to do with having a girlfriend? I have had quite a few "girlfriends" that I absolutely was not in love with, it is possible and common. Finally did you watch the video? Nobody in that video is deeply in love with each other.
/r/seduction13/07/14 06:38 PM
2

Relieved. That's one less person I have to deal with.
/r/seduction13/07/14 06:09 PM
-3

Why do you question that? Don't care about that shit.
/r/seduction13/07/14 05:08 PM
2

So many "9s" are boring as shit. Hang out with people who aren't boring.
/r/seduction12/07/14 05:13 PM
8

Don't take advice from women.
/r/seduction09/07/14 05:55 AM
6

I'm calling bullshit on this one. This whole story is something out of a PUA playbook to the letter. He just took very common techniques and wrapped a story around them.
/r/seduction06/07/14 07:46 AM
-1

Lol. Go back and read all of this and then please explain why YOU are angry. A little defensive there bro? It's always the dishonest ones who get offended and upset first. Figure out a way to grow some confidence before you start giving out advice to people on the internet. It's extremely disingenuous to go around trying to tell people how to pick up chicks when you are so insecure about yourself that you have to lie about a story online.
/r/seduction05/07/14 12:05 AM
4

Good luck bro. Do yourself a favor and fucking do it. Now you have included all of us so even if you can't do it for yourself, do it for us.
/r/seduction04/07/14 08:25 PM
-1

That's a really boring fucking story. Maybe you should get over SWIM. Sharing stories that do not involve you at all is the first sign of being too invested in other people's lives and not having one of your own.
/r/seduction04/07/14 08:24 PM
1

You'll get nowhere advocating people cheating, especially on reddit with this bunch, but, I personally have no problem banging girls with "boyfriends" To each his own. We're all just playing the game.
/r/seduction04/07/14 04:45 AM
2

Bullshit. NEVER EVER ask or even acknowledge her "boyfriend" that's her business and its up to her to stop things.
/r/seduction04/07/14 04:43 AM
1

We all fail. We all get told no and we all get laughed it. There is not one guy who has 100% or even 80% success with opening. What separates the good from the bad is knowing when to move on and knowing to not get emotionally attached.
/r/seduction28/06/14 05:22 AM
1

Sounds like you consistently get flakes.
/r/seduction28/06/14 05:19 AM
-1

You're still a kid so this won't make sense but I'm curious, why do you wanna hang out with girls? What do you have in common with girls that makes you want to go hang out with them? What are you going to add to their girl conversations? What are they going to talk about or do that genuinely interests you? Dude, nothing you can do during this coffee date/ hang out/ whatever the fuck you're convinced this is, will lead to you getting the girl. Girls don't want to be with people who are in their g…
/r/seduction22/06/14 08:18 PM
2

Which makes his actions disingenuous. He shouldn't have expected repayment only if the date went bad, he should have expected repayment regardless, otherwise it's a shit move.
/r/seduction05/06/14 02:13 AM
1

Damn some of these responses are long as shit. Talk to everyone. Talk to fat girls or girls you wouldn't normally be interested in. Practice your approach on everybody you see and it will be much easier. It sounds like you're putting the hot girls on a pedestal and messing your own head up.
/r/seduction27/05/14 01:22 AM
17

If you're not getting the reactions or responses that you want then move on. Don't sell yourself short just because a chick is hot.
/r/seduction27/05/14 01:17 AM
1

You care too much.
/r/seduction23/05/14 06:02 PM
0

'Help me overcome AA' is not exactly something new or something we haven't all dealt with. All he would have to do is read. It's obvious some people don't have a desire to better themselves they just want a quick answer to put a band aid on their insecurities or they want to vent those insecurities and never return to the post. This isn't a blog. The information to better yourself is out there if you're willing to do the work and find it.
/r/seduction25/04/14 02:03 PM
0

His age is irrelevant. He chose to come post this nonsense and ignore all the information that's already out there. I'm not going to pander to someone online because they happen to be 15 and neither should you.
/r/seduction25/04/14 01:45 PM
-4

You pussies really need to start handling these issues on your own. I see too many threads begging for help from beginners. Read the side bar. Find the information you need, it has been discussed several times and there are tons of resources. Help yourself.
/r/seduction25/04/14 12:36 PM
8

The girl you're into is blowing you off. Also, you sound needy and I bet she thinks you're a needy guy. The fact that you tell us you don't need her is a huge sign that you do need her.
/r/seduction18/04/14 01:48 PM
1

Acting a certain way to "get the girl" and then changing how you act after you have her is never a good plan. "Fake it til you make it." Is about actually improving yourself and not just putting up a front to get laid under false pretense. You should be working on your own confidence so that you aren't a needy person and then you won't ever show needy love or needy attention, because only needy people are needy (it sounds dumb but that's the best way to put it).
/r/seduction13/04/14 03:59 AM
1

And they'll do anything to make you.
/r/seduction13/04/14 03:54 AM
-2

Please ask these questions on http://reddit.com/r/askseddit/ and not here. Also it doesn't matter if that place is dead or not as popular, this is not the subreddit for these questions.
/r/seduction09/04/14 06:42 PM
-1

Upvoted for visibility. I'm sure a lot of people are thinking something similar.
/r/seduction04/02/14 09:10 PM
4

I'm not saying he didn't do well, I'm just nitpicking on the phrase.
/r/seduction02/02/14 04:43 PM
10

Can we just call a kiss a kiss? K-closing sounds like its some major achievement.
/r/seduction02/02/14 04:13 PM
1

Just because they are a cashier doesn't mean they don't want your dick. Be a pessimist in everything in life, otherwise stay on the outside looking in.
/r/seduction14/01/14 07:38 PM
3

He also had an account that was more than a day old. Come on man I promise you have a lot of red flags in your profile that you don't even know about. This is a lazy attempt to defame another guys work. Stop being lazy, do the work and make your own success, otherwise you'll stay the cynical little asshole that you currently are.
/r/seduction11/01/14 03:54 PM
1

You can confidently declare the earth to be a square but all you'll do is look like a moron. Confidence is not the be all end all of game( intelligence, health, humor and not taking yourself so seriously/ being able to laugh at yourself are all equally important.
/r/seduction07/12/13 12:34 PM
3

You mean second sentence.
/r/seduction07/12/13 12:31 PM
-11

Oneitis. Move on.
/r/seduction10/11/13 05:24 PM
-8

Move the fuck on. There are millions of single women out there.
/r/seduction10/11/13 05:24 PM
1

I guess you know exactly what you are looking for and are unwilling to date around with girls who don't fit exactly that idea. I can't pretend to know myself that well, so for me dating around with different girls is ideal. Just because I've never tried something doesn't mean I don't or won't like it. The idea of only dating a specific type is very close minded but I applaud your clarity.
/r/seduction14/10/13 02:39 AM
-4

It's not at all satire. Most women have no clue what they want and to disqualify yourself so easily is defeatist. I have had a few relationships with women who told me that I was not at all their type but they couldn't help themselves.
/r/seduction13/10/13 08:29 PM
4

Umm it can't be a secret that women like confidence and go for the men who prove their worth. Obviously OP fell short.
/r/seduction13/10/13 07:43 PM
-16

No. It's because the other guy has game and OP doesn't. She likes confidence.
/r/seduction13/10/13 07:40 PM
2

After reading your replies. Very simply; you're over thinking everything.
/r/seduction29/09/13 02:30 AM
-4

Talk less. Be honest. Only explain yourself to people who deserve an explanation. Realize nobody deserves an explanation. Be honest. Smile.
/r/seduction29/09/13 02:00 AM
2

I disagree. Why lie? That's careless and immature. Also what's wrong with people thinking you are better than they are? The point is to build yourself up and actually be someone they want to have more of.
/r/seduction06/09/13 02:18 PM
1

Keep trying.
/r/seduction03/08/13 02:41 AM
3

She doesn't go out? Tell her you'd like to go in.
/r/seduction04/07/13 10:18 PM
0

Giving away your interest too soon is a common life mistake. Making a major purchase. Settling on a salary. Fantasy draft? Don't show your excitement too much on that sleeper RB in the 6th round. Uhh that's all I got for now but it's a very common mistake.
/r/seduction04/07/13 03:20 AM
17

Texting girls who you can't meet up with tonight? What's the point? You'll be too busy texting the girls who you can get together with.
/r/seduction26/06/13 02:07 AM
2

I think the real question is where do you live?
/r/seduction19/02/13 01:11 AM
-1

The whole point is that you don't give a fuck what lesser people think of you. This sub has turned to shit since it became 'cool'
/r/seduction22/12/12 05:06 PM
2

Happiness is an emotion, get the fuck over it.
/r/seduction18/12/12 01:17 PM
3

exactly
/r/seduction27/11/12 03:40 PM
1

Great post. I American Googled it and found a good amount of information on the subject. Apparently just turning the water cold for the last 2 minutes of the shower is enough to see the health benefits. I don't suggest just jumping full board into a cold shower tomorrow morning, but easing your body into the temperature change seems to be ideal.
/r/seduction25/11/12 09:10 PM
-2

Are you my mom? Well, mom, I think the real problem is the dude has been coddled enough and is constantly over-evaluating everything. Being told to man up is never bad advice.
/r/seduction12/11/12 08:37 PM
-4

shut up, yes it will.
/r/seduction12/11/12 08:11 PM
1

Tell me one thing you are interested in.
/r/seduction21/10/12 01:48 AM
6

Sarge that shit bro.
/r/seduction19/10/12 10:58 PM
76

Him: "What can I say, I'm looking good tonight."
/r/seduction19/10/12 10:35 PM
2

You absolutely need to work on your confidence.
/r/seduction10/10/12 09:36 PM
8

You have to slay a few dragons to get the princess.
/r/seduction05/10/12 11:57 PM
1

What about if that guy talks to you?
/r/seduction04/10/12 04:44 AM
4

You are out of your element. High school was so easy, there was readily available chicks all around, and countless opportunities to open and connect. Now, its different. Now you have to work for those connections. Read up on the materials, and go out tonight.
/r/seduction03/10/12 11:05 PM
1

Don't say anything. Just go with the flow, they have to say that because they are conditioned into thinking girls who have sex are sluts. Society puts more pressure on them to not be a slut than most guys put on them to just do what they want. Obviously sex is on their mind, just as much as its on yours so just keep doing whatever you were doing.
/r/seduction03/10/12 11:02 PM
1

What is DHV?
/r/seduction03/10/12 10:42 PM
0

Well what I suggested was carrying on a conversation with someone they already have to speak to anyways. It is not easy to speak to just anybody but if you are too anxious to speak to a cashier or a waiter then you are far beyond my or most peoples help.
/r/seduction03/10/12 01:32 PM
4

Make conversations with every single person you interact with. Whether they are attractive or not, male or female. Just speak. Ask them about their phone, or their food or if they enjoy their job. There are literally unlimited things to talk about, so just start small. If it helps, drive across town or to a town you would have no reason to go to and go shopping, and start a conversation with every person you interact with, the bus boy, the waiter, the cashier etc. It gets easier but the point is…
/r/seduction03/10/12 05:08 AM
-26

No way you're that stupid bro.
/r/seduction02/10/12 08:45 PM
-21

Not true. All women, regardless of how we see them, feel unattractive and insecure. Some know they are hot and that they can get guys to do whatever they say, but when you confidenly prove that you are not attracted to them, they begin chasing you.
/r/seduction02/10/12 07:39 PM
9

The only way I have ever built attraction through text or facebook (which I have success both ways) was AFTER I had already built rapport and attraction in person. Both ways can work but you have to be good and it has to be the right girl.
/r/seduction30/09/12 03:58 AM
0

You escalated too late. You had built trust and spoke about life and shit, which is fine if you want a new friend and maybe a girlfriend but not if you want a hookup on the first night. She thought you were building trust and you basically broke that trust by just trying to bang her within a few hours of knowing her. If you sort of liked the girl and want a relationship then act like it. You wouldn't date a chick you banged after knowing her for a few hours
/r/seduction29/09/12 11:28 PM
9

I maybe would have believed it if he hadn't said he was dancing for 30+ minutes on a table in somebody's house. The whole story seemed fishy at best after reading that.
/r/seduction29/09/12 10:45 PM
17

I am not a broke ass college student but whenever possible I prefer for us to hang out somewhere while spending the smallest amount of money possible. Coffee, happy hour, movie at my place/ her place. I usually date girls 23-30 so the whole idea of us not spending a lot of money is already understood and appreciated. Late night dessert shops sound like a solid move also.
/r/seduction29/09/12 10:16 PM
19

Honestly, and I am probably going to get hate, but those are the girls you get blow jobs from at the bar, not the ones you text a few days later.
/r/seduction23/09/12 03:44 PM
33

A chick so drunk she can't dial her own phone number doesn't deserve to have her number in my phone.
/r/seduction23/09/12 03:20 PM
1

Honestly you should dress up, but if you just can not then I would say something like, 'I found out about the party last minute' or 'My good camo tank-top is at the cleaners' You're not totally fucked, but it's going to be an uphill battle kind of night.
/r/seduction22/09/12 02:17 AM
9

Is Eckerds still around?
/r/seduction20/09/12 01:45 AM
-19

Yeah but for the sake of not giving a fuck, genetically is fine, although terribly inaccurate.
/r/seduction20/09/12 01:44 AM
9

So much more than 2.25% of the population is stupid. Which is why I get laid regularly.
/r/seduction12/09/12 01:49 AM
11

That's where I am at right now. I fucking hate it and I know what I have to do but I just block myself from going out. I go out and usually have fun. I know I am attractive and fun but I just don't get out enough. Excuses are killing me.
/r/seduction11/09/12 01:09 AM
2

I look like a man everywhere it counts.
/r/seduction09/09/12 03:38 PM
8

Seduction is much easier than dealing with the trials of actually raping someone. Rape is not easy, bro.
/r/seduction07/09/12 02:20 PM
-4

If she wants to beat around the bush that's her problem. Lies and misdirects are just weakness which means she doesn't really have a clue what she wants. Its your job as the man to show her what she wants.
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:27 AM
2

Dude. Don't ask redundant questions.
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:24 AM
1

As is my response.
/r/seduction25/08/12 12:31 PM
5

Stop looking for confirmation. Just do and be happy.
/r/seduction25/08/12 02:16 AM
1

One of the hottest girls I know happens to work with me, but in a different department. I flirt with her a lot and have made my attractions very clear, but I would never ask her out. It's a personal choice and not worth any risk towards my job. If she left the company we would go out the next day.
/r/seduction09/07/12 09:18 PM
7

You have a problem, sir.
/r/seduction09/07/12 09:14 PM
0

Wait, so we now downvote people into oblivion on seddit? This place is getting out of hand.
/r/seduction09/07/12 09:13 PM
-1

Whoa, that is a huge freaking turn off. Was she 14?
/r/seduction09/07/12 09:10 PM
0

So because a few dudes commenting on a post in r/seduction, which is a tiny portion of a decent sized website, are 'shallow' then it is okay for a girl to be shallow to dudes she meets in public in everyday situations?
/r/seduction05/07/12 06:53 PM
2

Being so eager. It foreshadows a lot. She left it open for you to leave when you wanted and unless you're on your way out the door already, saying 'shit, let's leave now then' makes you look like someone who isn't in control and who just does whatever any pretty lady tells you to. This is seddit I shouldn't have to explain further, so I won't.
/r/seduction05/07/12 06:50 PM
3

I would say most guys would be turned off. I personally would ignore it, I probably wouldn't even think about it once I handed the phone back. I also wouldn't be the dude who types my name in your phone though.
/r/seduction05/07/12 12:23 PM
11

People who make those posts have defeated themselves before the girl didn't return them. Stop investing so much into a single girl and then whether they don't return or do return will matter equally. The point is to have fun and not give a fuck. When you start giving fucks you lose attraction and they don't text back.
/r/seduction05/07/12 12:20 PM
11

Luck she was already very interested and also young. A more mature woman hears something like 'shit let's go now' and changes her mind.
/r/seduction05/07/12 12:16 PM
6

Cast a bigger net? Just kidding, its just a small battle to win and further proves your status.
/r/seduction05/07/12 12:14 PM
3

That's chicks man, young girls especially.
/r/seduction05/07/12 12:13 PM
18

What's the best way to get in contact? Cut 'by phone' completely. Let her make that decision and it'll be her idea, not yours. You end up looking aloof and not at all pushy, and she gains a sense of power.
/r/seduction05/07/12 12:13 PM
0

Fake it til you make it.
/r/seduction04/07/12 02:06 AM
1

Role play?
/r/seduction03/07/12 01:38 AM
4

Trust me. You'll know. The whole freaking room will know.
/r/seduction02/07/12 10:07 PM
31

You had us at 'I don't get it.'
/r/seduction02/07/12 10:06 PM
2

We weren't there. There is a small difference between running away from the rejection and realizing there's nothing more to do there and leaving. I don't know why people are downvoting you though.
/r/seduction30/06/12 09:18 PM
8

It's decent. But the way he wrote it seems like he ejected way too fast. I would've laughed and played along.
/r/seduction30/06/12 05:28 PM
3

Man I must be either ugly, or hitting up the wrong chicks online. I send out some of the most witty first messages on POF and never get a response. I know I have game in real life, but I can not get a date online to save my life.
/r/seduction17/06/12 12:15 AM
2

Came here to say this. Leave where you are.
/r/seduction27/05/12 05:48 PM
1

It's not the same as killing the person, its just facebook. Too many people take Facebook too seriously. Maybe I am the only person in the world who doesn't give two shits about my facebook contacts but I honestly think if you don't want to see them or hear about their life, then delete them. Both parties can move on and shouldn't even question it.
/r/seduction06/05/12 11:05 PM
3

No. Who cares if its awkward? Delete her from everything that you could possibly see her or read about her life at all. Nothing good comes from having exs on Facebook so by all means delete them.
/r/seduction06/05/12 01:38 AM
14

I would have said something along the lines of the other friend had to earn it.
/r/seduction29/04/12 02:42 PM
2

If minimum wage is $20 then I imagine most people make a good deal more than that.
/r/seduction28/04/12 01:52 PM
5

Don't talk shit about Texas bro.
/r/seduction28/04/12 01:50 PM
-2

So you're telling us that you're going to hug a girl you've met three times? A girl who is already planning on spending time with you? Sorry bro but we didn't need to know that.
/r/seduction26/04/12 04:19 PM
8

this. the most love sick women I have ever known were these types. its all an act to hide their insecurities.
/r/seduction23/04/12 06:58 PM
2

It wouldnt work because the dude would then ignore the target and aquire a new target, the bartender.
/r/seduction06/04/12 02:14 AM
1

Personally I have never asked anybody thousands of times for anything. I know you're just exaggerating for the sake of the story but one should never beg for sex. If a dude is begging for sex then I am not talking about him in this instance.
/r/seduction26/03/12 03:41 AM
28

She said she wasn't going to sleep with me and I replied "We hardly know each other" (not a yes or no response to her no-sex statement). Some readers will disagree with saying this as it reminds her we just met (I think its OK to say, but its such a long explanation that I wont bother). Most chicks say this as a sort of shit test. They expect you to plead with them or make it into an issue, so by brushing it off and taking an apparent firm stance (you neither said yes or no but it all depends on…
/r/seduction24/03/12 07:06 PM
2

I hate to ignore so much of the post, but seddit isn't about all of us just wanting to get laid.
/r/seduction10/03/12 01:46 AM
1

I learned hanging out at bars with negative people will not help with opening and just makes you look negative. went out with a couple dudes I know and they're cool dudes but for some reason my one buddy that's single wouldn't open and was pretty much just standing there holding a drink all night and then talking crap about different dudes in the place. it affected my game worse than anything ever had.
/r/seduction27/02/12 12:47 AM
-11

drinking and then driving is perfectly fine, just don't drink while driving.
/r/seduction25/02/12 08:41 PM
0

This is seddit. There is an understanding that most people here know how to be likeable and it is expected that we all have a can- do attitude about things, especially when speaking to and approaching women. If you are defeated before you ever approach then what's the purpose of approaching
/r/seduction24/02/12 01:37 AM
2

I don't think its necessary to try to soften the blow by telling her she's a nice girl, that can come off condescending.
/r/seduction13/02/12 02:35 PM
0

I read this like you are speaking really fast. Whatever works, works. If you're happy with it, so am I.
/r/seduction15/01/12 05:35 PM
1

Well, if I want a friend I make a friend and then I don't worry about who she dates and why she's not sleeping with me, just like one of my dudes. I don't care who my friends sleep with and I don't have any desire to sleep with them. This post and this subreddit is not about how you are treating your friends.
/r/seduction12/01/12 03:53 AM
2

I don't think I've been friendzoned in my adult life. And I am always honest and straight forward. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't but there is very little time wasted.
/r/seduction12/01/12 03:41 AM
2

Or maybe if he was just honest instead of trying to make her guess what he wants.
/r/seduction12/01/12 03:31 AM
0

There is too many bullshit posts here to debate everybody so ill just say it. You guys sound like pussies. Man the fuck up. This story is completely accurate. A few posts here have said how they thought that being a friend first would make them sexier to chicks... That is precisely what is being described in this comic. Being honest and open with your wants and intentions saves everybody the time of playing that childish game and is usually what gets the girl. Being fake and biting your tongue t…
/r/seduction12/01/12 03:30 AM
1

Did you really not get the point of the story? Some guys aren't doing those nice guy things to get closer and try to get with the girl. But this story is not about those guys. It's about a guy who puts on the facade of being a friend in order to get close and possibly get with the girl. Women aren't stupid and when you get friendzoned its because your shit is weak and transparent. Men speak up and say what they want when they want it, and women respond very positively to that. They don't respond…
/r/seduction12/01/12 03:24 AM
-2

Also, you sound like a bitter old guy who doesn't know how to hang on to a girl. Did I sleep with one of your girlfriends, bud? I would apologize but I don't take pity on people weak and that far below me.
/r/seduction09/01/12 10:53 PM
-2

Easy there bud. And as far as you know I am a master of manipulation. Or maybe I just know how to make people do what I want.
/r/seduction09/01/12 10:47 PM
32

If she's not right now, it would be very easy to get her to.
/r/seduction08/01/12 10:11 PM
2

Because that's the story he told people.
/r/seduction08/01/12 03:18 PM
1

With the data you gave us I am going to go with, work on whatever problems you are having that are making you have to go a few weeks without any type of telephone, and then when that is resolved, resume meeting women.
/r/seduction08/01/12 03:53 AM
1

and get into HER head.
/r/seduction01/01/12 03:03 AM
9

Just walk up to the first 5 people you see tomorrow and say 'hi, how are you?' Add one person per day until it becomes comfortable and fun. Then next time you see an attractive girl, just smile, walk up to her, hold out a hand and introduce yourself. Edit. Read that I did NOT say first 5 attractive looking women you see, I said first 5 PEOPLE.
/r/seduction31/12/11 03:26 AM
3

Be happy, arrogant people aren't happy.
/r/seduction24/12/11 09:34 PM
1

I've probably said that to a handful of girls, and every one of them came back for more. It's more than saying it though, its believing it what makes me different. I don't sike myself out with want I want and I don't lead anybody to believe I'm full of shit.
/r/seduction21/12/11 07:06 PM
1

Obviously you are strongly misunderstanding what I am saying. And I guarantee you are not a 'nice girl' just because you are nice to people. A 'nice girl' is a girl who wants a relationship, they are usually tired of the bullshit and ready to settle down. Yes they wanna get laid, but not by every asshole who pretends to be nice or convinces them to. Being nice and being a nice girl are two different things. Edit: I can't help but be annoyed by how douchey your post comes off. You sound like some…
/r/seduction21/12/11 07:03 PM
3

That's understandable, and very relateable to probably all of us. I always say, 'I don't have a clue what I'm looking for, but the moment I find it, ill know it.' When asked about what I look for in a woman.
/r/seduction21/12/11 04:45 AM
4

I would stop texting her, unless she hits you up first, until you got back to school. It won't be weird, she remembers you, you remember her. Just wait until the morning after you get back, and call her. Don't be too into a new girl when you're supposed to be home for break with friends and family. You can call it game, I call it enjoying time back home with friends and family while you have the chance, which is a much more valuable trait.
/r/seduction21/12/11 04:41 AM
1

ill admit, im lazy when it comes to posting. i go out enough and open a few times every single time i go out, i just dont post because i either forget the important details or just dont dedicate the time to type one up and post it. which all adds up to my being too lazy, sorry seddit ill type something up soon though.
/r/seduction21/12/11 01:42 AM
2

you gotta get that baby batter off your brain
/r/seduction21/12/11 01:39 AM
7

hmm.. like i always say, whatever you have to say will work just fine as long as you say it with confidence, adding charm to it is what makes em lunge for your phone and enter their number
/r/seduction21/12/11 01:35 AM
7

Wanting a girl ONLY for 5 night stands, isn't exactly 'nice guy' behavior. Although it is what a lot of liars do. Look, if you don't want a serious girlfriend, then stop dating and hooking up with nice girls and pretending to be a nice guy to get them to have sex with you. I am never 'nice' and I get laid just as much as anybody, and girls never have the wrong idea about what I want, even if they want more, they know better. Be honest, don't lie to get what you want.
/r/seduction21/12/11 12:43 AM
1

I'm confident enough to realize that I am not perfect, and that I am not always correct. There are plenty of women I don't find attractive, as there are plenty of women who don't find me attractive. With that said I am very eager to find them, even if it means I have to hook up with the other women who do find me attractive, for science.
/r/seduction21/12/11 12:28 AM
3

MILF does not equal cougar.
/r/seduction20/12/11 01:28 AM
6

Cougar does not equal MILF and vice versa.
/r/seduction20/12/11 01:27 AM
2

I actually think it was a shit test, most Jewish girls will only date Jewish men.
/r/seduction18/12/11 05:43 PM
-5

Don't ever, even as the worlds most hilarious joke, ask a girl to wear her gloves, scarf, sweater or any piece of clothing/ accessory ever. Even if you're on fire and she has an outfit made of plastic bags full of water. Even if she's wearing boots you size and you have to run through a field of broken glass and bent nails.
/r/seduction16/12/11 03:28 AM
16

Maybe stop just running up and putting your arm around random strangers. I suspect grabbing somebody's girlfriend out of the blue is what makes dudes mad enough to threaten violence. I could be wrong however.
/r/seduction16/12/11 02:38 AM
8

I don't think he forgot anything.
/r/seduction16/12/11 02:23 AM
4

Didn't read the article, but to the question. No. I've met women who act very sexual, wear low cut shirts and tight dresses who later, in bed, wouldn't even give blow jobs. I've met women who don't look sexual at all, act prude and professional at all times, but the moment we were alone for 30 minutes, would pull me out and blow me wherever we were. Not saying girls who give blow jobs are the most sexual beings, but its a valid scale, in my mind at least.
/r/seduction14/12/11 09:14 PM
2

Great article, I personally use the 'I'm a virgin' line fairly often.
/r/seduction14/12/11 07:50 PM
2

Unless he's 6'8 and a lineman.
/r/seduction09/12/11 01:06 PM
2

Ok. Haven't lost your v-card is enough info for me to know who I'm talking to, you're a nice guy and more than likely clueless. I bet a bunch that this girl is not. She chose you and initiated because you're safe and not a real threat. You're the friend zone guy who isn't really a good friend. Which is better but just barely. Don't beat yourself up, this could turn into a great friendship and a great opportunity for growth towards getting what you want, and becoming the man you ultimately want t…
/r/seduction09/12/11 02:36 AM
3

This. Figure out what you want and go for it. Personally, this would be an ideal situation as I don't want to ever have a lady friend who lives so close, but if all you guys do is make out and cuddle, then she can't get too jealous when you bring someone home.
/r/seduction08/12/11 04:30 AM
3

Just 5 minutes of me saying whatever is on my mind. this is a very important detail in the story. Also, good job balancing your time and understanding what you wanted. You knew time was limited, so you opened and closed quickly and probably left a fairly good impression which will help establish rapport for the next time.
/r/seduction08/12/11 04:26 AM
1

you said she wasn't that good looking (ok looking) so why all the sudden is she on some pedestal? you didn't make the move, so you missed your shot, so now you should move on. if she flirts with you again, or gives you another opening, then go for it. otherwise stick with the act of her not remembering you thus you don't remember her.
/r/seduction08/12/11 03:46 AM
10

Don't put your butt in her face. Otherwise, do this.
/r/seduction08/12/11 01:55 AM
2

i can't give you any examples of what to say, every unique situation, requires a unique perspective and rehearsing it becomes obvious if you have nothing, just walk up and tell a story about the last time you got laid.
/r/seduction06/12/11 12:46 AM
2

look, as long as you say it proudly and with confidence, people will be so excited to hear about those damn cookies. but, it wouldnt hurt to speak on a more adult level.
/r/seduction06/12/11 12:29 AM
1

the only way to really know how hard you can succeed is to watch yourself fail even harder. keep fucking up and smile the whole time, you'll be fine
/r/seduction06/12/11 12:22 AM
2

bro, youre overthinking it. always start with something you want to say, worry about them later.
/r/seduction06/12/11 12:13 AM
9

Bra, if the dude isn't feeling the same as you, remember one thing that you already said... You're fucking him. Not dating, not loving or any of that shit. So fuck it, keep fucking him, if only for practice and you're own pleasure.
/r/seduction03/12/11 11:24 PM
5

It depends on the girl, obviously you would only open on a girl you found attractive, so if she says she needs to lose weight, turn it around with a line about you two doing some real hard cardio later.
/r/seduction03/12/11 08:54 PM
2

the only things i tell my friends are the crazy experiences or moments that are almost unbelievable or hilarious. obviously if they ask me questions about a girl we all know or whatever ill tell them, but only to a certain degree. also keep in mind, its very important to keep good friends who you trust and only share certain information with certain people.
/r/seduction10/11/11 09:09 PM
3

pretty much
/r/seduction31/10/11 12:58 AM
2

did i get her drink right? theres a strong possibility that if shes younger than 30, drinking and hot, her drink is a vodka cranberry with a lime.
/r/seduction26/10/11 11:10 PM
8

so, we should buy the girl were picking up a drink? im sorry, but how is this 'game'? it just seems like a typical thing to do at a bar. i also think you read into minor details too much, there really isnt anything to this story a regular customer walks up with a guy shes talking to, guy asks how you know each other, then pays for the drink you made for her. any bartender should know the drink request of a regular female customer (usually a vodka cranberry with a lime)
/r/seduction26/10/11 07:26 PM
2

If the women you work with are unattractive, then how the hell do you know?
/r/seduction25/10/11 01:36 AM
2

A few tips, don't be the old guy at the club, just standing there looking at girls. Find a bar, sit at the bar not too far from other people, and engage them in conversation, when they leave do the same to the next person or people who come in, do this a few times a week, until you start seeing the same people, be the nice guy who says hey. This is how you meet friends and often, ladies. It's only creepy if you have some creepy look on your face, or worse, you think you are being creepy. Just be…
/r/seduction13/10/11 02:34 AM
1

In the rare instance that it actually works out, its a freakin blast to walk in the office, and see that girl at work that you were inside of the night before, and nobody else in the building has a clue. Getting to go around the corner, make out hard as fuck for like 7 seconds and then both go off in opposite directions. I speak from experience from a office fling that went nowhere, but didn't end bad at all.
/r/seduction13/10/11 01:39 AM
2

First, man up. Whenever people put 'ill get downvoted' its the same thing as expecting to fail, which is characteristic of a loser. Don't be a loser, and stop worrying about what people want you to do. Experience things you haven't yet experienced, because you never know if you'll enjoy something until you try, and fail at it. As far as sleeping around, I always say this, you have to slay a few dragons to get the princess. Get out there, learn some game, and when you do find a serious girlfriend…
/r/seduction13/10/11 01:35 AM
2

To the point. If you expect to look creepy, you will look creepy. So get that shit out of your head.
/r/seduction13/10/11 01:20 AM
2

Good point. Regardless of her hitting on you, if you felt an attraction to her, you should have spoke up.
/r/seduction11/10/11 10:48 PM
-1

I wasn't there, and body language says a lot, but I doubt she was hitting on you.
/r/seduction11/10/11 09:01 PM
1

You have no clue, bro.
/r/seduction26/09/11 02:00 AM
1

You know how to find her, so do it. Hot girls don't call guys they aren't already seeing.
/r/seduction26/09/11 01:54 AM
1

guys who know bout being friend zoned, are the ones calling this friend zone. if you have a defeatist attitude, you will be defeated
/r/seduction23/09/11 09:11 PM
2

let me emphasize a little here, yes she wants your dick, but dont start being an asshole and dont start being all complimentary, just be the same happy bastard that you were when she walked up to you. thats the dick she wants, not the sudden asshole and not the sudden sensitive douche, just because she wants you doesnt mean the game is over and you can just walk away (unless you enjoy being alone, again, forever) you still have to do some work, but now the game is pretty much being handed to you…
/r/seduction22/09/11 06:56 PM
1

you want to friend zone somebody? treat them like a friend call her 'dude' make stupid nasty jokes flirt with other girls when yall are together ignore her phone calls/ texts honestly its good to have a stable of girls, i have a few girls i am friends with and i occasionally call them for advice and stuff like that, just to keep them friendly, but wont/ havent tried to make moves on them, but i know that if i ever were to they would be down
/r/seduction22/09/11 02:47 PM
1

I'm not super worried about getting rejected...I don't think it's something that would ruin our friendship... would it be bad for business? probably so. if yall have been friends for years, its probably too late unless you really feel like this is someone you could be with long term. i hate sounding so 'relationship advice-y' but thats something to consider when money and work is involved
/r/seduction17/09/11 07:52 PM
1

oh well, you obviously werent interested so let it blow over. talk to your boy though, thats real bad form.
/r/seduction17/09/11 07:01 PM
2

its not bad to follow a girl, when you see something you want, go get it.
/r/seduction17/09/11 06:53 PM
2

thats the best, you have little time, say what you gotta say, get her number and get back on your way. i call that a surprise attack. keep her wanting more so when you text her in a few hours, the anticipation has built so high it would be nearly impossible to screw it up.
/r/seduction17/09/11 06:51 PM
2

i rarely go to 'clubs' i typically go to bars or a lounge, however even at clubs around the bar is much more quiet and an easier place to communicate. if you are in a real loud place, it seems like it would be a better place to get close and lean into their ear to speak to them... i dont think i need to say how much this is an advantage already
/r/seduction17/09/11 05:17 PM
3

My opinion on the whole situation, the girl is playing hard to get, she ran the game first, so be conscious of her game, let her make her moves, even fall for them, but be conscious constantly that she is playing a game with you. dont make anything you do obvious and in the end, or middle, you will get her. right now however it is too late for you to start playing your game, and if shes worth it to you to sit through her crap, you will get it in the end, so do it.
/r/seduction14/09/11 02:04 AM
1

well then its in her court, thats definitely her decision to make, its your job to make her make you the right decision (or wrong, whatever)
/r/seduction14/09/11 02:00 AM
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