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Custodydjquikstop/r/Divorce_Men12/11/24 01:41 PM
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Yeah the way our culture has socially engineered the women is for them to find " true happiness with prince charming and live happily ever after" they can be divorced twice in 5 years and they'll still believe the right one is out there. Maybe it is. Statistically speaking 2nd,3rd, and fourth marriages have higher divorce rates than 1st marriages.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/25 01:35 PM
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Divorced women may be the easiest ones out there
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/25 02:58 AM
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Yeah now it's an automated question for them. Let's be honest, there's a correlation between them having more power in the dating market and dating in general going sour.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/25 11:09 PM
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One day a conservative politician will change the rules around divorce, alimony, custody, and child support... Then all hell will break loose
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 06:35 PM
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Mine filed for Separation, I could have amended it to divorce but I wanted her to have to refile and reserve in an interest of handling the custody through mediation and not court. Her lawyer is amending it this week though.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/24 09:32 PM
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Bro, you have to distance yourself from her. Don't allow her to use you as an emotional crutch.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/24 03:58 PM
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Yeah a lot of times, it's a guy from high school, college, or a co-worker that they've been wanting to get it on with for a while
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/24 06:44 PM
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No lawyers will be present. It will be over the phone. There are pre mediation courses to take though. I expect the mediation to go like our marriage counseling. Me letting her speak and her interrupting me after every half sentence, and the counselor/ mediator having to ask her to let me speak.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/24 02:32 PM
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I was and then we had a baby. I realized that what I thought was love was more obsession than love. The baby came and she wanted complete control. She didn't want to share power in raising our child and basically declared all out war on me. I left and she begged for me to come back for a year. I never did. We're going through the divorce process but I'm sad about it all. My child is going to suffer.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/24 01:00 PM
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My STBX said she wouldn't date for a few years because our kid was an infant when we split. Hell, she said she was done with men and wouldn't date again. We both moved so she could be closer to her parents. Now we're fighting over custody while at the same time, the little time she's giving me with the child, she's using to get her brains banged out lol.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/24 12:42 PM
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Yeah I had a very similar experience. Our counselor was letting her interrupt me with no pushback. I had to threaten to end the session and never come back if the counselor didn't ask her to let me speak.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 09:00 AM
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Nahhh and the counselor was sad to see it end. We had just had a baby not 3 months earlier. The STBX just didn't take it seriously and when I told her , her response was " well I wanted to do this months ago, it's too late now" and I'm just like , so I wasted $150 per session 😑. Almost two years later, she wonders why I didn't wanna work it out
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 08:54 AM
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Yeah, to me, believing in the Halo effect is a sign of a not so smart person, there are a lot of beautiful ppl who struggle to date, thinking that just being attractive will solve so many of your programs is childish high school crap
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/24 07:38 PM
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Nah, me and the ex are going to Co parent. I'm already looking for another partner. I want my kiddo to have siblings. My ex said she's done dating or having kids. It's up to me.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 03:17 PM
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The dating has been fun at times and hell at times since my separation. In my experience, the ones who were married are better at dating than the ones who were never married. You say that they're usually the reason that their marriage failed.. idk.. but with the ones who were never married in their 30s and 40s, is a big red flag if that's what they've been looking for, they sucked so bad that for whatever reason that they couldn't get a guy to marry them.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 01:58 AM
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Yeah I'm in my early 30s and after I got divorced, I'm shocked to find that there are so many women in their 30s that are strongly opposed to dating men with kids. I can understand why but it just seems like something that comes with dating 30+. The ones with kids have been more understanding and even given helpful advice.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/24 12:06 AM
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She was 28 and had never had a boyfriend. Despite being attractive with two ivy league degrees.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 02:27 PM
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