We're having a mediation in two weeks and a court hearing in about a month. How was the process for you guys ? What can I expect in both? Will mediation be an hour of cat fighting or will it be properly regulated? How long did the court hearing last? How were the judges ? Were they hostile to you guys. Did she try to bring up dirt on you that was untrue with no real proof ? Did they go through your social media . I just want to know what to expect. The lawyer has bled my pockets after I just spent 8 months taking flights and paying airbnbs every two weekends to see my child for a total of 7 hours. I just want about 45% of the time with my child but she wants me to have 3 hours of visitation every other weekend.