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I've never had more success than when I figured out how and when to use this. It's easy, it's fun, and I try to think of a good night out as akin to playing improv games. I'm basically looking for a woman who can play along with a bit, and when I find women who are looking for the same, it's a huge bond right away.
/r/seduction12/08/13 04:57 PM
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The advice to work on your opener so they don't use that line is definitely better, by the way. You have to decide very quickly who is in charge in their group, and whether the girls night line is actually serious. Offering to buy them drinks is only a go if you get a strong sense that they're full of it, and that you can very quickly demonstrate value.
/r/seduction14/03/13 02:17 PM
1

Like I said, read their body language, try and see who's in charge. A group of women is not really going to eschew an interesting conversation with a interesting person that often.
/r/seduction14/03/13 01:58 PM
1

Your reply is exactly correct. You need to read their body language and tone. Do they mean it? Could your line not be, "So are we! Let me buy everyone a drink to celebrate a night with just us ladies and no weird dudes interrupting us to try and buy us drinks." If it's a simple shit test, they'll laugh more than they should, as they did when you didn't push forward with your line.
/r/seduction14/03/13 01:06 PM
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You already fucked this up. Badly. Cool it for a while. In a week or two, have something interesting to do, and invite her to join you. That's it.
/r/seduction24/02/13 11:14 PM
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Here.
/r/seduction20/01/13 05:38 AM
1

If a woman did it to you, I think it's equal chances that your reaction would be the same as it would to respond the way that some PUAs teach that women will. I'm not into hard negging at all. I think it's spotty at best. As usual, all situations are different, read the people, etc.
/r/seduction12/01/13 10:45 PM
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If you're saying the things you're thinking that quickly all the time, your batting average can't be that good.
/r/seduction30/12/12 08:23 PM
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Yes. What is cooler than them bringing someone from outside their social circle in? It proves to their friends that they have value outside the social group, and that they have the ability to find people who would fit into the existing group. Seriously. It's a no brainer.
/r/seduction25/12/12 07:24 AM
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That terminology sucks. And...if you can't tell I'm not sure what can be done about it. As much as we pretend otherwise, all women are different. But, I imagine each of them will make it pretty clear in their own special way when they legitimately want you to go away.
/r/seduction10/12/12 04:30 AM
1

I'd talk to her. Call me crazy, but...well, don't. Because it's obvious, not crazy.
/r/seduction12/11/12 03:56 AM
0

And lol at all of the virgin faggots on here who talk shit and will then write a 1000 word post about "their story" (like I give a fuck) and then their musings on inner game. - cougarclaws
/r/seduction30/10/12 12:29 PM
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Agreed. If the woman you are going after is responding to, apologies for clumsy alliteration, negative negging, then you need to think about the sort of person you're going after. This technique, in my opinion, is designed to prey on the psychologically damaged. This technique, in my opinion, succeeds when the target is as described in 1. because it's easy to prey on the psychologically damaged. Negging, if done right (again, in my opinion), comes with a sort of playfulness that makes apologies …
/r/seduction18/10/12 05:17 PM
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But for the last year I've been confronted by my best friend and 2 of the girls that I recently dated about some of the rude, un-thoughtful, tactless, hurtful words that have come out of my mouth.> Think about the things you are about to say before you say them. Should those descriptors apply...skip saying those things.
/r/seduction12/10/12 04:11 AM
2

Sorry, but if he's "negging" you, he's not using PUA skills, he's just an asshole.
/r/seduction10/10/12 05:35 AM
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Chubby=easy or desperate. Nice. I guarantee this sort of attitude shines through to whomever you are talking. You probably come off as immediately and solely interested in sex, and, despite you yourself getting rejected all night, seem to think you'd be some sort of prize for someone who happens to be a bit overweight. The work you have to do probably isn't in approach or even necessarily technique (at least not at this point). It's deeper than that. As a start, keep in mind that you might WANT …
/r/seduction16/09/12 12:51 PM
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Similar experience with OKC. I'll pop on see who's new and cute, send a message, and forget about it. Response means one more message and then meeting in Meatspace or I'm out. I've actually done pretty well there, but my batting average is terrible. Women just get too many messages, and a healthy portion quit days after joining.
/r/seduction09/08/12 01:52 PM
1

I haven't been to PoF in years. Is it less of a mess now?
/r/seduction09/08/12 11:56 AM
1

"I make no promises."Laugh a bit. Have an exciting thing to do, propose it without undue pressure, gracefully exit the conversation with a concrete plan to do something that shows value and an understanding of what she finds fun. Edit: In reference to your response. If you were texting, you don't have anything after "I make no promises," which remains a solid power move if you have a good texting rapport.
/r/seduction26/07/12 05:06 AM
1

Right on with talking about that stuff. Even if I'm only opening for fun, I tend to go deep right away. It works. Playing a good surface game is so common now. More sophisticated women simply aren't into it, unless you catch them on a day, and NOT judging at all here, when they're looking to get down. And by "get down" I mean "have sex". And by "have sex" I mean "fuck".
/r/seduction28/06/12 04:12 AM
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Pretty easy to deceive oneself.
/r/seduction17/06/12 02:20 AM
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Slightly off topic. I'm rather torn with younger women. I'm nearly 30, and the difference in age is starting to be too much for me. They're just...young. Hot? Often. But many don't seem to be fully formed people.
/r/seduction16/06/12 09:03 PM
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Jokingly accuse her of being shallow while pointing out that you also have a great personality.
/r/seduction26/05/12 06:56 PM
1

Awww, buck up, sport. Go get some quality reading material, maybe read historical posts from this subreddit. You're already headed pretty far down the wrong path at this point, and need to reset yourself.
/r/seduction07/05/12 12:38 PM
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So...I take it you're new here...
/r/seduction07/05/12 04:12 AM
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And this, gentlemen, is a problem. Stop using scripts.
/r/seduction26/03/12 12:15 PM
1

Too much text. There are million different things going on here. Spend time with her. If he seems cool and she seems happy, and you don't know that you're down for whatever relationship she is looking for, you should stay away. If he sucks, don't let her stay with him while letting you know that he sucks. Waste of your time. If she's down for hanging out one on one...my advice is don't. If you're actually into her, you want it to be her friends' idea. If you want to fuck her, you'll know that yo…
/r/seduction26/03/12 05:06 AM
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Right. Infinite complexity. Like I said.
/r/seduction10/03/12 11:33 PM
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You must be new here. Things like this are endlessly complex, with at least three layers of intention behind every syllable. Pretty sure we need a few acronyms to get out of this one.
/r/seduction10/03/12 07:20 PM
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Putting that much faith in gurus is silly when there are people right here in this thread who have had positive experience dancing. I mean...maybe Mystery and Style are just bad dancers.
/r/seduction16/12/11 01:04 PM
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That is an overwhelming majority.
/r/MensRights25/11/09 11:40 PM
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I didn't say that they did. However, women owe men just as much as men owe women. That was my point. And it was a good one.
/r/MensRights29/10/09 09:14 PM
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Men, you can credit your very existence to a woman. This isn't a Men's Rights post. It's a public display of idiocy.
/r/MensRights29/10/09 12:28 PM
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I have a very atypical group of friends. More than 1 in 6 for sure. Some of us seem to have dealt with it, others have some sexual hang-ups that persist. I've got a girl friend who says such hang-ups are easy to spot, and that she knows that her boyfriend, or temporary partner, or whatever, was abused before a word is spoken.
/r/MensRights28/11/08 02:45 PM
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Thank God someone is finally giving this awful drug users what they deserve. They're destroying our society, and it is only just that we destroy...their...assholes...with a radio antenna? I'm the worst troll ever.
/r/MensRights26/10/08 03:59 PM
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Not surprising. Living with the man will show someone who works hard for money which he is forced to give to someone who didn't earn it. Living with the woman MAY show someone who is stealing money from the child's father. Sorry if that sounds blunt, but that might go a long way to explain some of the difference. I'm not saying it's the case 100% of the time, but I'll bet that narrative works for at least 15% of divorces.
/r/MensRights28/09/08 09:57 PM
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Someone wasted their time writing this?
/r/MensRights20/09/08 08:20 PM
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