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There are noticeable differences between Asian Hawaii girls, mainland Asian girls and Asian girls from Asia (other than accent and the obvious parts). The ones here on exchange or visiting are physically more attractive, the ones from the continental US are typically more reserved than Hawaii born Asians (I didn't quite get the Asian stereotypes until college), the ones born in Hawaii are typically louder and look more plain to me. Perhaps I have been here too long or my preference towards white…
/r/seduction08/09/12 08:40 PM
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There are always girls interested. I played it safe in high school and first few years of college, I never showed interest until it was shown to me, I feared rejection. The first time I made a move, all I could think was "Fuck it" and kissed her, and it worked. That was in my second year of college, catching up with one of the most attractive girls I went to high school with. After that I realized even though I played it safe, every girl who I asked for her number has given it to me, every girl …
/r/seduction08/09/12 07:20 AM
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6'2" Asian woman? Where the hell does that happen? I'm Asian and from Hawaii, here an 5'4" Asian girl is considered tall. As for my first approach, it wasn't bad at all. I'd consider it a great success even though she turned out to be a flake. I didn't yet find seddit (actually found it later that week), but I was at the local e-cig cafe and there was a guy there chatting with the workers (they seem only to hire attractive women there). The guy was well dressed, spoke well and the girls were cap…
/r/seduction08/09/12 06:33 AM
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Was at a rave, met a girl and started giving her a massage. She was moaning rather audibly so I cracked the remark "I hope your boyfriend doesn't hear you." While it turns out she didn't have a boyfriend, her girlfriend sitting next to us was not quite pleased...
/r/seduction08/09/12 05:50 AM
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We refer to the beggining of school as hunting season, the freshman are trying to establish roots and for me it is a boost since I am over 21 and I also bartend. For the last few years I bartend and have never charged for drinks so I am quite well established and apparently somewhat well known (my dorm was seen as a restrictive club of sorts, lights, music, free drinks, I had a stripper pole and also RA immunity). Just get out there and start talking, build up contacts. Since I have raise my GPA…
/r/seduction23/08/12 01:35 AM
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Friends one should be a vertical drop, but I'd say everyone's graph should differ
/r/seduction23/08/12 01:24 AM
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I never do Facebook to meet women, you put yourself into a bad frame for one, asking her to friend you or not. She can deny you or ignore you which gives her the upper hand. You also would do this for attractive girls who, in most cases, already have had dozens on men grovelling at their feet to be their friend nothing will be outstanding enough to actually get her to differentiate you from them. If she happens to add you, you'll be one of the several hundred friends she has and you'll get caugh…
/r/seduction23/08/12 01:02 AM
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Well my idea was right, there are only a few girls my age on board, the bars are empty and the night club are filed with people in their 60s, just going to enjoy the vacation.
/r/seduction26/06/12 06:27 PM
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I've always wondered about the crew, they must have quarters but im wondering how tied down they are if they are since their place of employment is continuously moving
/r/seduction24/06/12 03:11 AM
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That wasn;t all to clear, my parents specifically did not choose Disney since it was too kiddy, but after giving it some thought I am not quite optimistic about the demographics. I figure a lot of retired people, couples and honey mooners would be most of the population, but either way I'm sure there will be some young single ladies on board I just have to be a little more out going than my typical self.
/r/seduction23/06/12 11:39 PM
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My dad bought the rum runner flasks I'm hoping he lets me use one but I understand if he doesn't. I am a former bartender though it was for private events but I do have a few original drinks I don't mind to give away
/r/seduction23/06/12 10:49 PM
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i looked through my old photos and all i have is a pic of me and another friend setting it up, if there are photos of it in use, i dont have them. If you want to see the pic of us putting it up i'll put it up. but the ceiling didnt have tiles it seemed to be plaster probably to cover concrete behind it, but there was a light fixture and a very antiquated sprinkler system going though the middle of the room so it very much limited us in where to put it up.
/r/seduction02/05/12 05:01 AM
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We went through kalakaua on Halloween playing, costume or hooker, my gods was that difficult
/r/seduction11/04/12 03:53 AM
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Never tried but I don't think it'd be anything good, one of my ex's freshman year had no idea what sex wax was (surfboard wax) was extremely tempted to buy it just to see what she did with it.
/r/seduction11/04/12 03:50 AM
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I feel its more of a confidence thing, when you first get a girlfriend is when you get more women attracted to you, which coincides with your initial excitement and enthusiasm for the new relationship. However when your relationship levels out you get less notice from other women. Personally the only time I noticed other women giving me alluring looks past a 4-6 month mark was when she was with me. Also many women enjoyed being chased or "prey" though that is a term with a very strong negative c…
/r/seduction08/04/12 09:34 PM
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Yeah, that's my thinking, I used to bartenders for private parties so we would cater to customers, but I chose not to go into working at bars because of the hours and high stress/no sleep. There's a few drinks that I would prefer to have that I mixed myself so I don't know the name if there is any. If it's busy it's a high energy environment so beer suits me fine but on a slow night I like talking to the cute barmaids and wonder if asking for some off menu drinks are acceptable to ask for (I hav…
/r/seduction05/04/12 10:39 PM
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Yep, text after leaving with a pleasure to meet you and call for the date to show you mean business, gotta balls up to get ahead
/r/seduction05/04/12 09:16 PM
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Just wondering do bartenders find it annoying when a customer asks for a drink made in a certain manner? Like 2 oz this 4 oz this shaken and so on, like something that may not be common or on the menu? Or does this depend on establishment and busyness?
/r/seduction05/04/12 09:10 PM
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Well for me escalation has never been an issue, since I've entered college I've slept with every girl I have kissed. My only fear at the time is that I could go in for it, sleep with her and in the end have a marginal girl following me around when I am cable of attracting much more. Reason why I've turned down multiple girls before, but there were other factors involved then too
/r/seduction04/04/12 08:36 PM
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well its affect with alcohol is quite interesting, all the positive results of drinking that you would want, but you keep a clear mind.
/r/seduction24/03/12 05:22 AM
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Sounds like ADD in an unusual way, psych yourself out first it should keep your mind on the goal. I am diagnosed with ADD but I take my adderall when I go out
/r/seduction23/03/12 09:29 PM
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Agreed, it's also obvious you seek her validation. She then controls the frame by choosing accept or deny. Then there is the stalker issue of you searching for her rather than playing it off as an alpha male. That friend request just screams "Hey! Remember me? Add me so we can talk!" Personally it leaves a similar bad taste in my mouth to hearing Christian rock or Christian EDM music
/r/seduction23/03/12 09:25 PM
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I love dancing, I tend to do it very well especially solo. My friend who comes with me loves dancing but he's terrible at it. Dancing with girls isn't hard, its just that I don't do it often enough so I kind of make it look like I do it a lot when the time comes (I prefer bars, clubs are to loud to have any conversation)
/r/seduction23/03/12 09:19 PM
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Wow I just posted something on this, should have checked page 2 first...
/r/seduction23/03/12 08:03 PM
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Well I don't add people on mine only friends that I actually talk to so less than 100. Girls ask me to add them or send me a request and I let it sit in my requests without an action taken for a very long time. I have been against social media game since its inception (dating websites are excluded), its gives a stalker feeling when something is mentioned from it. It also keeps the girls from not interacting, even in a situation where you are open with your girls knowledge of each other will even…
/r/seduction23/03/12 07:44 PM
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Asian or Happa have the highest concentrstions
/r/seduction22/03/12 10:12 PM
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As an Asian I prefer white girls, tried blonde, brunette but haven't tried a red head yet, my goal for this year. Asians are just too homely in my experience, the ones I've been with display that they just want to rope you in for the long haul. But if you find a mixed girl, here in Hawaii they are referred to as happa which means mixed though most commonly used to refer to a person of mixed Asian and Caucasian ethnicity, those are the best. Physical appearance either is drop dead gorgeous or rep…
/r/seduction22/03/12 10:10 PM
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Okay I'll keep that in mind, but do you meet her to tell her, or would a call suffice?
/r/seduction21/03/12 09:50 PM
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It demonstrates that you need to show off, that in its self is a turn off. Leave the cube at home, and focus on yourself first. Plus do you really want to try to teach her? She'd be way too preoccupied and probably frustrated in the end for it to do anything.
/r/seduction21/03/12 09:06 PM
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I do this a lot, raves are the easiest. But for parties in general, sometimes I'm not paying much attention and my hands end up way up in her shirt, not one girl complained or pointed it out. From the "oh god, you're amazing" you can get her to take her shirt off, any resistance I encountered was countered with a "just trust me," sometimes it goes really well and more girls just take their shirt off because one is already without one. For areas I start normal, shoulders, neck, base of neck, work…
/r/seduction21/03/12 08:50 PM
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Well its not a bad thing but eventually you'll lose count I mean once you go greater than 20 recalling names and faces will get challenging and you'll eventually forget someone
/r/seduction13/03/12 01:24 AM
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Kisses are just kisses, a no biggie type of thing, women do give them out a lot but they are quite definite IOIs. No one really remembers how many people they have kissed, but lots of people know how many they have slept with, once you can't remember either you gave them out too many times to remember hence its not that big of a deal. So if its a date and you are being even moderately aggressive it should have at least a k-close.
/r/seduction12/03/12 07:39 PM
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Kind of a similar experience but Im born and raised in Hawaii, which is predominantly Asian, and they are raised extremely reserved. If you try to talk to one in a bar or club they seem extremely uncomfortable and are awkward constantly looking for a way to eject. When talking to white girls when I go out they keep conversation and are generally more open, probably why I k and f closed with more white girls than Asian. An Asian friend of mine took a semester in somewhere in the mid west came bac…
/r/seduction09/03/12 07:01 PM
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A fellow Asian sedditer, you do well my friend, do you find it harder to pick up white girls than Asian ones?
/r/seduction09/03/12 06:29 AM
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From my experience with these they give the impression of them doing me a favor, now that I know how to handle that it's no big deal. The lack of girls approaching is probably attributed to where I am, not trying to use this as an excuse but in hawaii the demographics are primarily asian and they are extremely reserved, to the point of just trying to make small talk is” creepy” and they try to find any way to get away. Only girls who seem more open to approach and approaching are the white girls
/r/seduction08/03/12 12:12 AM
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This should be something guys that wait for girls to approach them should read, I used to be one of those guys, but your friend is right. Women that approach you feel like they are empowered over you and did you a favor, therefore you should be grateful to them. Because that doesn't happen as often as you would like, you are hooked and be her bitch.
/r/seduction07/03/12 08:37 PM
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The HB scale works better for us this is too hard to remember,on a side note my friend uses a scale from 1-13 so it he can use it with women around, the 7/10 becomes a 9 but out of 13. He doesn't do to well with women though, pretty much a slave to his girlfriend who is like a 5 on his 13 point scale
/r/seduction07/03/12 08:19 PM
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Headaches though, the release of endorphins through sex is supposed to make the headache go away
/r/seduction06/03/12 01:28 AM
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Take care of yourself, if you infect her you can't see her for as long as you are sick and as long as she is sick, I'd also feel like I "owe her one" since her sickness was my fault
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:58 PM
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Could be that we feel more confident, there was a big study before and color actually changes a lot of things, one study had a referees of taekwando watch matches of two fighters one in blue one in red. In a set of videos to judge this was added, the same video with the colors digitally reversed was added as well, the results actually showed that red won more often. On top of that the original and the edited video had the red fighter scoring higher, the human mind is more keyed to observe the co…
/r/seduction29/02/12 11:16 AM
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Stand behind a group of attractive girls at the bar, the bartender will assume you are with them and serve you after them. Its also an opportunity to mingle with the girls there rather than stand by some guy complaining how service sucks. Source - I am a bartender
/r/seduction28/02/12 04:56 AM
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I actually like this a lot
/r/seduction26/02/12 06:55 AM
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The girl I thought I could never get with in high school because she was out of my league I eventually slept with in college. Fuck buddies for close to a year, there were long gaps in between where it settled to just a friendship and reignited whenever I felt like reigniting it. Eventually I made the mistake of falling for her really hard, after cheating on her boyfriend for about half a year with me she broke up and we went out, lasted a few months. What I should have done was kept it as what i…
/r/seduction22/02/12 11:28 AM
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Put some boundaries! Definite integrals will give you a value your indefinite integral leaves a variable with and a constant
/r/seduction21/02/12 08:19 PM
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Actually that's 50x+c his formula just makes it more convoluted
/r/seduction21/02/12 08:15 PM
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Raves are the EASIEST place to pick up girls, MDMA gets the sensory nervous system to go nuts and touch is overstimulated in a pleasure able way, lights as well, it also lowers inhibitions and everyone is more sociable so approach is easy. My recommendations, buy a pack of cigarettes since its amazing while rolling, use it to meet girls and sit down and get a light show with one. Just work relatively fast because girls find their guy for the night relatively early and stick with them all night
/r/seduction21/02/12 07:33 AM
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As far as parties we tell him to bring women (his groupies, if you can call them that) to add those I bring and those others bring. He comes alone, I'd understand if he kept them for himself but he doesn't, I don't resent him just accepted it as one his character defects. What my dilemma is that I can see the abundance of attractive single women around me but in order to access them I may be utilizing my friendships in a manner I am not sure if I am comfortable with
/r/seduction21/02/12 12:23 AM
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I've offered, once winged for him and put a good HB7-8 who wanted him in front of him, he pretty much ignored her. I still offer my help but it seems fruitless.
/r/seduction20/02/12 11:07 PM
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I'm not saying I don't go out and meet girls its just when we invite him out and tell him to bring women to the party he comes alone, but when ever we go to his gigs there are women all around him. If I go to more of his events I double the amount of women I have access to with the added bonus of already having good rapport and demonstrating a high value by pretty much being able to chill back stage. I just don't want to make it appear I'm using my friendships to pick up
/r/seduction20/02/12 11:00 PM
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I haven't been in the game for a while and they were the first books I read, I recommend the alpha male one more because it is more self betterment and how it applies to pick up. It is a very beginners crash course that is thorough and provides a step by step instructions to making you the man you want to be. Swingcat's is a very detailed look at the prizing system.
/r/seduction20/02/12 11:03 AM
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Swing cat's guide to real world seduction and john Alexander's how to be an alpha male gave me many major epiphanies
/r/seduction20/02/12 07:22 AM
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He blew it more than once, as much as I love hear his stories of failure it makes me want to hurt myself
/r/seduction20/02/12 06:52 AM
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Yeah, I offered to teach him a few things on picking up women, but he refused said it was far down on his list at the moment.
/r/seduction20/02/12 05:39 AM
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That was what I was thinking, he was telling me about a gig they have next week which is at a nice bar, but his music much slower something that you take a girlfriend to rather than a date. He is set up to be a great PUA but is horrible with women, he told me a story about going to a party and one groupie was there drunk and asked if she could crash at his place. When they got to his house he tells her he has a spare bed and his night ended there.
/r/seduction20/02/12 05:37 AM
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Well I do make sure I shave after I shower after sex, shaving my balls though I do seem to need to find a way to do it more thoroughly
/r/seduction20/02/12 05:01 AM
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We figured the one by the university would be good, there's one really well known one in town but it'd have been so crowded there finding parking would have been impossible
/r/seduction20/02/12 01:23 AM
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Yeah, no reason to buy a separate razor for both, I mean I do clean it before using it on my face.
/r/seduction20/02/12 01:21 AM
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Damn I went to the bar with a friend and there were no women there, maybe its a demographic thing
/r/seduction19/02/12 10:33 PM
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That doesn't sound exciting at all...
/r/seduction19/02/12 01:39 AM
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Shave balls, anything on the shaft, trim everything else, I use the second closest guard on my electric razor, but I'm lazy and that's the same I use for my beard
/r/seduction18/02/12 11:04 AM
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Its something you have to get used to, most of us have to deal with tons of flakes and girls who reject on the first date or approach, maybe 20-30% are successes, which is low but with the sheer volume we approach it appears women come easy. Its like an exponential graph, slow in the beginning but once you reach a point you don't even remember your failures or how many times you got rejected cuz you are too busy with your successes.
/r/seduction18/02/12 10:59 AM
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If you had close encounters just go for it, I have yet to fail when you just go for it in similar circumstances
/r/seduction18/02/12 10:53 AM
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My god, that makes it WAY too easy and you end up with an F-close a good 80% of the time (if you can even get it up)
/r/seduction18/02/12 10:51 AM
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I've learned this the hard way, never put the woman on a pedestal maintain your frame, no one is too good
/r/seduction17/02/12 10:33 AM
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Okay the varsity on a weekday, I'm honolulu, sucks on a weekday, everyone is coupled up and it's slow even in valentines day, figured it'd be the best since it's close to the main college but no...
/r/seduction15/02/12 07:58 AM
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I found PDF ebooks for john Alexander's how to become an alpha male, by far the best read of my adult life, I'm contemplating rereading it so it sinks in better or to read another ebook on seduction
/r/seduction15/02/12 01:03 AM
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I always hoped to get stuck in an elevator with a really hot girl just to force me to chat her up. That or when you're on a date and the two of you are alone in the elevator and you are going down to a crowded lobby, tell her to lie belly down on the floor with you, scream and when it opens up stand up shaking and say "oh my god, we're alive" and watch the people take the stairs. I've tried to get numerous girls to do this, the day one actually does that with me I'll ask her to be more than a ho…
/r/seduction15/02/12 12:52 AM
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Mini FR: Wasn't as vibrant as it was before, made small talk with a few girls but there were few HB7s and above. Didn't attempt for numbers since I don't stoop below my standards. After a while left and chilled with a friend, his friend HB7 came by and gave us lunch (very nice since i just met her) very easy to build rapport, having a bag of condoms on the table made for sexually charged yet humorous conversation. Didn't # close since it wasn't very long, but I'm pretty certain I'm going to see …
/r/seduction15/02/12 12:39 AM
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Now that you mention it, this does sound much more like AFCs and just obnoxious hooligans than PUA. Not every guy hitting on a girl at a bar is a PUA, and even so PUAs don't only rely on the night life to meet women, its actually one of the times we/anyone is least successful.
/r/seduction14/02/12 10:49 AM
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I've hung out almost exclusively with girls in high school (HB7s), they aren't always helpful. I started hanging at first because I was interested in one, it didn't develop but the girls got to know me so they were cool with me around. It was extremely insightful, learned how they thought, why a girl would pick the ass hole over another guy who just seemed to be a really nice guy. Needless to say I put myself in the friend zone, they berated me over not being attractive enough to get girls on a …
/r/seduction14/02/12 10:22 AM
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My goal is to start small go for coffee most preferably, only hic up is that there is a coffee shop right in the middle of the area the condom fair is held so its not really getting away, going to somewhere near by for lunch is doable but if it escalates to dinner I feel like that maybe a bit too much for a first date type of thing. But hey it's to change me and some lucky girls S.A.D day into a v-day (of sorts)
/r/seduction14/02/12 08:56 AM
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I have ADD, I also am prescribed adderall so I usually take that, it keeps kinda talkative and combined with alcohol it keeps my mental sobriety while all other effects of the alcohol still help me. Its been my god send.
/r/seduction13/02/12 08:40 AM
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I've realized I try to exude alpha when I go out, I try to overshadow my natural alpha friends. I don't know if I'm trying to hard but they are treating me more like equals rather than a beta, and I've noticed more women taking notice
/r/seduction13/02/12 08:30 AM
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though I was not very religious the environment I was raised in negatively affected my sexual life. I tried to learn many things that would have gotten me laid in high school (skateboarding, guitar, bar tending) had it not been a religious private school. Upon college I lost my virginity to a girl who was a hook up at the time and I wanted her to be more than just some girl so I pursued her, she didn't want a relationship but eventually caved. She left me a year later, I fell into the arms of a …
/r/seduction13/02/12 08:26 AM
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Not to be rude but could "tits or gtfo" at the door be benefitial in your position, done in a tasteful joking way?
/r/seduction03/02/12 11:34 PM
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My friend did "have you met boring" a couple months ago at a supermarket. He did not come to my rescue...
/r/seduction02/02/12 09:08 PM
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Well don't go straight up and just rip an inhale, just keep it in mind. Also its a lot about having her smell you. Pheromones and everything are the key, you just don't have too much say on that.
/r/seduction30/01/12 07:46 PM
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I've actually been used as the "boyfriend" a lot to get guys to back off, I actually done stuff like that many times when deep in the friend zone. Haven't really been much of an issue since, but every so often when I go out and girls are with us and they aren't interested when a guy approaches they point to one of us and go boyfriend and they back off.
/r/seduction30/01/12 05:36 AM
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What pill reports is for
/r/seduction27/01/12 06:59 PM
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"Can I touch you, ohhhhh my god your skin is soooo soft"
/r/seduction27/01/12 06:58 PM
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I don't buy into genetics giving us character traits, I believe characteristics are determined through life experience and psychology. If that were your argument, I would say possibly. But your typical guy in FZ got himself there by not taking risks and taking a situation that should be handled head on in such a manner. So to tie that into your theory, a woman would not want a man who has little to know experience handling a tough situation head on, to father and raise her children to be the sam…
/r/seduction27/01/12 11:00 AM
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I am very familiar with this, but usually any impairment can put me into an alpha state where I do substantially better than sober. Even a good sober adrenalin rush does wonders, but what I always try to take from it was that I did well then and fundamentally I am still capable of doing all the same things sober, its just a state of mind.
/r/seduction27/01/12 10:47 AM
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That was my original idea, but it was the smaller things that I found more amusement from. Like carrying it through the dorm quad on move in day and you get all these looks, girls just curiously staring while you see their fathers whisper something into their ear which we had no doubt was "You are not going to party there." In the end since I no longer could use it, my friends didn't have room for it we decided to retire it to the dumpster. Didn't feel like that much of a loss, definitely got wa…
/r/seduction26/01/12 07:53 AM
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They'll come when I can retrieve my data from my laptop, been using my tablet since it crashed
/r/seduction26/01/12 07:31 AM
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Just copy and paste?
/r/seduction26/01/12 05:02 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/owua3/built_a_stripper_pole_works_like_a_charm/
/r/seduction26/01/12 01:04 AM
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I would love to do this, the second pole is just revisions on my prototype and one of my friends thought it'd be funny to run at it at full speed which caused the bearings to jump threads making it hard to disassemble. Since then I moved and my ceiling is slanted so I'll rebuild it with the lazy susans once I get my own place, but that's great info on the 2" diameter
/r/seduction26/01/12 01:03 AM
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My boss keeps telling "lower your standards and you'll always be happy" he's a fuckin troll
/r/seduction25/01/12 11:00 PM
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Actually if anything it was another load bearing column, but regulations we found we had to meet was only not to damage the dorm, so I used two large bases to distribute any forces caused by moment. Actually I feel like posting a how to guide if anyone wants to build one, my first was good but my new design is better.
/r/seduction25/01/12 10:05 PM
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Don't make it your main point, I'm an engineering student and I don't bring it up until asked, I make it a point to let her see I'm fun before letting her on to being a sort of nerd. Even so I used my ME background to enhance my fun, like I would use it to ease my way into how I built a stripper pole for my dorm, designing it to fit into housing regulations and what not.
/r/seduction25/01/12 08:33 PM
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Standards, I've been using a prizing system and going under your standards simply won't cut it HB7 is my minimum
/r/seduction25/01/12 07:41 PM
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I fail to see how this happens
/r/seduction25/01/12 07:36 PM
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I find slow bars less threatening, no distractions, moderate volume which means more conversation. High energy things make approach easier in the sense that even if you fail, she won't remember you because you'd just be one of those other guys. But high energy also means she's in the mind set to have fun, bitch shield still activated but out for a good night. Conversation is not really going to happen much since you'd be yelling at each other a lot, so its more about dancing and kino. With this …
/r/seduction25/01/12 10:05 AM
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Failure = learning experience. Try doing things differently, if you find a style where you are genuinely having fun and she sees it she's more likely to bite and it will be more natural to you. Perhaps use some sarcasm, troll a little, in the end don't take it so seriously, no point of all this if you aren't enjoying yourself.
/r/seduction25/01/12 05:30 AM
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Not sure if it helps but I make it a point to have a pink pillow (usually fuzzy) somewhere on my bed, when I threw parties when I dormed girls would always ask about the pink pillow (great conversation starter). Usually played it off as something to even out the overwhelming manliness of the room with something feminine. I'm not sure if it really is a bull shit answer though, because I think some girls do like it and think that it shows I have a softer side. Either way I've always had one ever s…
/r/seduction25/01/12 05:23 AM
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Possibly all of them. New: So why can't I have a drink by myself?
/r/seduction25/01/12 05:09 AM
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Second favorite time of the day. (So she wants to know what your favorite time is) New: You seem new at this
/r/seduction25/01/12 05:04 AM
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To keep the womanizers away, that is pretty damn good.
/r/seduction25/01/12 04:50 AM
1

Wait what? If you're talking to her how is her head on your back? You'd be facing away from her already...
/r/seduction25/01/12 04:42 AM
2

By night I'm the leader of an underground criminal organization, and by day I'm a detective trying to thwart my nocturnal counter part's evil deeds. I'm so conflicted... you? (We all gotta let some go every once in a while and just have fun, but who knows you may get lucky doing so) New: You're not the first guy who used that one tonight
/r/seduction25/01/12 04:37 AM
10

Since I got here? 53 you are 54. (On a slow bar or early on in the night) New: This seat's taken.
/r/seduction24/01/12 11:00 PM
1

About a year back I felt like my life need some spice and I did something like this. I live in Hawaii, and took the bus to one corner of the island and skated 26 miles back home, got some cool pics, video and a T shirt from a skate shop I stopped at. I tell/show this to girls and they gobble it up, especially freshman/transfer girls at the university its almost too easy.
/r/seduction24/01/12 07:40 AM
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Go out, I had a pretty boring life but under close scrutiny there were exciting moments, the key is recognizing them. Since I made a few friends in college, one in particular I always called him out on his stories saying they were too awesome/crazy to actually happen. He later provides picture and video evidence, I started hanging with him more and today he's amongst my closest friends. Since I tag a long I have just as many stories to choose from. From the reason I quit smoking pot being my bro…
/r/seduction24/01/12 07:30 AM
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Stop being modest you two, <------------------> At least that much
/r/seduction24/01/12 07:11 AM
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That is something I should add to my repertoire if the case ever came up. I don't know if the email thing is meant to be offensive, I've never gotten an email before but it seems like an award for effort. Honestly dude you seem to be able to quite well when thrown curve balls like that
/r/seduction24/01/12 05:20 AM
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I don't go out to clubs, mostly just house parties. My recommendation is to move quickly. My boss was a PUA back in the day way back in the day, and his advice then was to make first contact, be charismatic, very subtle kino, but when the night comes to a close then you make your move. You being friendly without directly showing you want to get in her pants takes down her defenses, and when the night is drawing to a close then you throw on all the kino and don't be very subtle. She will typicall…
/r/seduction24/01/12 05:07 AM
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At raves I end up massaging girls (probably my strongest aspect going from talking to direct kino and more) I can typically get them moaning at which point I say something along the lines of "I hope you don't have a boyfriend with the way you're moaning" or "Shhh, your boyfriend might hear you moaning." That should clear up that question, unfortunately on one such occasion her girl friend didn't quite like that, too dumb founded by that to work on both.
/r/seduction24/01/12 04:52 AM
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I'm Asian myself and always wondered about this when approaching white girls, granted I never let any racial barrier become apparent, just a guy looking for a girl who wants to have some fun. I've score rack time but I've never been brick walled by that before. I would totally have lost my frame, but you handled it pretty well it seems. Honestly with that kind of response I'd would have not wanted to go down that road anyway
/r/seduction24/01/12 04:39 AM
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Good advice, wasn't exactly sober but I've learned quite a bit from this apparent failure
/r/seduction23/01/12 09:06 PM
1

I find it easiest when I host parties, already at my place, if she drives there the easy line would be "well, you're drunk I can't possibly let you drive." But,over the course of the night feel her out, she's kind of more promiscuous you can be more forth right, more conservative use subtle but well thought out kino (hand on waist, cup her hand, etc), at some point when its died down find a way for a massage. This always works for me, get her to lie down on her back, either have her take her shi…
/r/seduction23/01/12 07:09 PM
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Adam Lavigne of Maroon 5, but that's because as an adolescent I wanted to be a rock star living the life he currently is living
/r/seduction23/01/12 06:54 PM
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Once I read few months you already did some irreparable damage, read the rest and dude wtf...No.
/r/seduction23/01/12 06:51 PM
1

Beat me to it, but use it to your advantage unless it becomes a detriment to your health
/r/seduction23/01/12 06:48 PM
1

I've actually got kneed in the nads when picking a girl up in a hug, that was my last time I tried.
/r/seduction23/01/12 06:45 PM
2

One said its because an ex used to just grab her throw her over her shoulder when she refused to go places, the other girls just didn't like it.
/r/seduction23/01/12 09:20 AM
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Oahu, I must say Zanzibar sucked, raves are way better in terms of picking up
/r/seduction23/01/12 03:34 AM
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Well a few of the girls I know actually turn from nice girls into this ape shit crazy mode if you pick them up, after that I just stopped
/r/seduction23/01/12 03:33 AM
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Why would you do that?
/r/seduction22/01/12 07:13 PM
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I'm only an inch taller than you, but I also live in Hawaii so the demographics are predominantly Asian so height isn't much of an issue. I have gotten with girls taller than me, but the thing that worked was not to make it look like it bothered you, or that you even notice (just don't go for the girl who makes your head at a full tilt). But clubs suck, I'd much rather take my chances in the quad of a dorm at a local uni. Its easy to meet girls but you can't come off too strong or it maybe creep…
/r/seduction22/01/12 07:13 PM
1

I would have said this a year ago, I just realized this yesterday that since I don't care if the girl I'm going for is just for fun or wants something personal, treat all girls like that. The girl I couldn't get out of my head went from "I hope I do everything right" to "its okay to try different things, experiment, failure is just a learning experience and there are tons of girls out there."
/r/seduction22/01/12 02:27 PM
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Sounds like B is doing this intentionally, she probably won't budge. You are looking for a good time but she is looking protect a friendship, in her mind you are some dick who only is looking for sex at the cost of your friendship with A and B's friendship with A as well. Hopefully B won't tell A about your move or you'll loose any chance with both.
/r/seduction22/01/12 01:34 PM
1

You gotta work fast, being slow was my problem before lost far too many being cautious. Kissing her is the best way, she's interested now but if you are always there without having made a move you'll fall into the friend zone. If the kiss goes well and you should already know what to do, doesn't go so well brush it off and move on because that train isn't going anywhere.
/r/seduction22/01/12 01:15 PM
2

Well I would call, or text, some kind of contact. But when you do already have a date and place set, she says she's busy, move on.
/r/seduction22/01/12 12:42 PM
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I would say perhaps the best is for you to leave first, feel it out and time it right. With you leaving you assert more control and you could get a number, something simple like "hey it was a pleasure to meet you, we should hang out sometime." If they respond well it could lead you directly into "how can we make that happen" I actually found that line extremely helpful (thanks seddit). Get the number and walk away, I'm still on the fence about the look back, some times the look back with a smile…
/r/seduction22/01/12 12:37 PM
2

I really wanna try this one tonight, its just that my friends are catching a ride with me...
/r/seduction22/01/12 02:21 AM
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Been down that road, my response of its now worth it may not sink in, but seriously dude there is a lot of easy catches that may stick around longer than her that would be worth looking else where. The trust issues you'll face won't make it enjoyable, well maybe except for the sex but its not worth it in the end
/r/seduction21/01/12 11:24 AM
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I actually know that this would work, curiosity more than anything, but anyone with an ounce of skill can kick it off, seriously at raves with girls rolling balls is an almost unfair handicap
/r/seduction20/01/12 09:06 PM
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