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| 2062 | A reminder for the recovering pick-me girls | MINDSET SHIFT | dogeatpawworld | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 02:43 PM |
| 2035 | Amazing response by a woman who was prepositioned by an LVM to be his side piece | MALE DEPRAVITY | dogeatpawworld | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 02:49 PM |
| 445 | If you have a pattern of “saving” men please read this. | MALE DEPRAVITY | dogeatpawworld | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 07:22 AM |
| 1 | I found this amazing thread explaining how problematic sexualising female heroes is in the media | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | dogeatpawworld | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Rephrased to: Ben Affleck uses his talented, amazing wife who mothered his children as character development. | DISCUSSION | dogeatpawworld | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:48 AM |
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| 58 | I haven't had the sex I want eitherThis is a really good point, I never saw it this way before either. If i were to think about it I think I never got the sex I wanted either. It was always boring and uninteresting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 03:35 AM |
| 2 | The perks of dating multiple men before commitment (FDS art by me)I was always offended when my grandma referred to my boyfriends as my friend but now I know she was being a lady boss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | I came across this exercise from FDS recommended book "the power of pu*sy" and it had me a bit stumped! Would love to hear you ladies' opinions, if you'd wish to share! *WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM MEN?*Raise your standards! This is what you NEED to be in a relationship. It’s still relevant but next write out what you want! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 04:37 PM |
| 12 | Being sexually desired ≠ Being respectedIt’s hard to see the downside of trash men thinking I am trash and the trash men therefore not wanting me. Please go away. I rather be alone than be with a trash can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 03:59 PM |
| 25 | Opinions on dating a man whose dad is a serial cheater?My fathers parents were serial gamblers and my father never touched a playing card. I think we can separate the individual from the family but I would have a good talk with the man in question first about his attitudes to it. It’s more likely that he is very triggered by cheaters as it hurt him as a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 05:55 AM |
| 49 | Serious question, do any of you not want to get married?Never experienced as much misogyny as you but I can count on one hand the times I experienced an attraction to someone. 2011, 2016 and 2020. (4-5 years gap in between) And out of those times I don’t think I ever felt the desire to rip out their clothes and perform sexual acts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 08:40 AM |
| 21 | A wholesome dad 🥰Wholesome idea! high value man indeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 03:31 AM |
| 3 | If you have a pattern of “saving” men please read this.Me too. And I am working hard on moving on from this mindset. I wish the best for you and your relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 04:05 AM |
| 6 | If you have a pattern of “saving” men please read this.Oh my god you just described what that LVM does. do you know him too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 04:05 AM |
| 3 | If you have a pattern of “saving” men please read this.It’s ok. Me too. I wrote this post not to shame people but I just wanted to share my perspective. Identifying the pattern is the first step :) and I feel the same way. Why can’t I meet someone who shares my values? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 03:42 AM |
| 4 | If you have a pattern of “saving” men please read this.Amazing self work! Good on you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Amazing response by a woman who was prepositioned by an LVM to be his side pieceOne thing a therapist told me was that allowing people to cross your boundaries actually lowers your perceived self esteem. So actually the whole world has been teaching women that “boys will be boys” “act like a lady” “smile more” basically all sorts of strange things that police women’s behaviour. this policing doesn’t allow women to develop their own internal compass about what is right and wrong for us, therefore no ability to assert boundaries and thus, Low self esteem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Amazing response by a woman who was prepositioned by an LVM to be his side pieceThe real content is always in the comments ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Amazing response by a woman who was prepositioned by an LVM to be his side pieceThis is a great perspective on self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Amazing response by a woman who was prepositioned by an LVM to be his side pieceDid he clarify what did he mean by a hormone surge? If she gets a mood swing and starts crying he is a real asshole tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Amazing response by a woman who was prepositioned by an LVM to be his side piecewe all need a strong female figure like her in our lives fr. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 03:19 AM |
| 7 | Amazing response by a woman who was prepositioned by an LVM to be his side pieceSelf esteem intentionally kept Low by the men in her life smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 03:18 AM |
| 6 | Amazing response by a woman who was prepositioned by an LVM to be his side pieceI had a 31year old proposition me for casual sex once after two dates. And I responded the same as the woman in the video. I said “you aren’t hot enough for casual sex”. He burst into tears, I felt quite bad at the time but right now I am thinking like if you ask stupid questions expect stupid answers. I didn’t mean it as an insult anyway. I mean I need emotional connection to have sex and if I don’t have that you maybe could look like a model? Or maybe you have a vibrating penis? Not saying I l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 03:17 AM |
| 95 | Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of colorI am in a different country so I am not white but rest assured there are existing levels of privilege here too A minority man once told me that he found women of his own race dirty and he preferred women of my race. I was 19 at the time and I really struggled to empathise with his self racist POV. I am 29 now and openly disgusted with the way he saw women of his own race. I think minority men can 100% have a connection with non minority women but it cannot come from a place of self hatred. It ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 02:58 AM |
| 143 | Instead of looking for a partner, look for the father of your childrenMy ex got me pregnant, but I miscarried before any doctors visits. One of the things I realised after miscarrying was that I realised that I didn’t want him to be the father of my child. He was emotionally distant, selfish and my needs never mattered and I never want my children to feeel that way. Idk why I accept such poor standards for myself when I wouldn’t accept this for my children. At the point where I was pregnant I remembered thinking “I need to break up with him, he cannot be in this c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 05:58 PM |
| 19 | Ummm. What?I wished I could unsee this too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 02:04 AM |
| 3 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌I never actually cared about height hahha I care about weird stuff like eye shape and hair poofiness. and forearms and hands are really important too. But I live in Asia most dudes won’t be 6 foot tall anyway. It’s kinda normal and expected here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 05:18 AM |
| 5 | Look who apparently "Picked Up" COVID (screenshot lifted from a sub almost as reviled as this one...😆)I was on a Ghibli movie binge at that point when I caught it. Shortly after My neighbour totoro I caught this film. I did not expect that ending because I have a habit of not reading plot summaries. I kinda assumed it would end like My neighbour totoro. I never cried so hard after a movie before I needed to call my friend for emotional support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:54 AM |
| 9 | Be Wary Of Male DoctorsWasn’t a doctor but I had a hairdresser reach a lil too far down when he offered to give me a complimentary shoulder massage. And he started breathing really heavily and I was like omg nope bai. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 06:28 AM |
| -7 | Look at how normalized it is to make ""jokes"" like this...1k upvotes 🤢She really is a qt tho. RIP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:54 AM |
| 2 | FDS approved fiction?I need that in my life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 04:30 PM |
| 10 | FDS approved fiction?Tombs of Atuan by Ursula K Le Guin Young girl fighting a large religious institution. Can’t get any better than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:19 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Check-inAlso your handle is amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 12:08 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Check-inOmg it has been a year for me and I am still processing the anger ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Have you taken your husband’s surname? Or, will you take your future-husband’s name?My partner and I have the same last name oddly so no difference here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 11:58 PM |
| 18 | Sorry ladies but I gotta use this space to mock poly people 🤣“Trust patterns” So true honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 08:31 AM |
| 15 | Sorry ladies but I gotta use this space to mock poly people 🤣🏅 <- a poor woman’s gold for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 08:29 AM |
| 12 | Sorry ladies but I gotta use this space to mock poly people 🤣No they actually don’t legit. I know poly people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 08:28 AM |
| 20 | Sorry ladies but I gotta use this space to mock poly people 🤣WOW OH MY GOD THIS IS AMAZING “go work on your overreacting sacral chakra” LOL Not that this needs saying but I 100% agree with you. No one ever NEEDS to be poly. You can be greedy and want it and just own it but NO ONE ever needs to live life needing another partner One partner is enough work. I don’t get how you can have more than one partner. One partner for each function/hobby like Jeez get some healthy friendships you don’t need to fuck everyone you spend time with And also my peers who are… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Low Value Men are like Low Value FoodLmao this is so accurate I cringe at myself daily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 04:33 AM |
| 6 | He’s dumb af if he thinks we won’t be able to pick him outNarcissist actually come from a place of insecurity and pain tbh, never underestimate what a hurting person would resort to in order to alleviate their pain. A narc would be the absolute PERFECT HVM he would - (should be find out that you are on FDS) pretend to be a HVM - pretend to be the perfect boyfriend. You want a sensitive soul? He would emulate that. You want a quiet but intelligent man? He will be that in a minute. NPD people have a weak sense of self so this means they are never themsel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:35 PM |
| 81 | He’s dumb af if he thinks we won’t be able to pick him outNPD tends to love bomb though. Which means they will do what they think is necessary to win us over. Like dinner dates, showing off a likely false high income. FDS vetting strategy is mainly 3 months before any sexual activity Dinner dates over coffee dates Man is supposed to be paying for dates This is the initial vetting strategy and overtime we invest our energy to learn about them And NPD person can easily get through the first few dates, but as long as we never stop vetting after that this … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 05:53 AM |
| 10 | This was shared by a pickme who is currently the target of a NVM I and my friend group recently cut off due to his gf finally breaking up with him and sharing all the messed up stuff he did to her. This type of thinking will lead u right into the arms of an abuser. Save your best for yourself.The best in a devil is still a devil wtf. Get the best out of a chiseled Greek god with a heart of gold smh woman raise your standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many guys and girls say size doesn't matter? Do they genuinely believe this? Because it does matter for me....LVX actually asked me to get breast implants LOL so you are 100% right about this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:27 AM |
| 11 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accountsOther than the obvious outrage I am feeling I really wanna know if she is safe. And that she left the dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 05:42 PM |
| 6 | GREAT ANSWER TO "WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A MAN?"Great vetting tip | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 10:17 AM |
| 8 | So true. I may not be where I want to be at 31. But I am wayyy happier.I love the Wu Zetian role play on Twitter haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 07:30 AM |
| 5 | It baffles me why men who complain about FDS think they are the type of men we want in the first place. Male biological delusion is realWe don’t want them. But honestly they know that they just hate our rhetoric because they don’t get to fool and gaslight women into lowering their standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 07:20 AM |
| 26 | Daily reminders ❤What an excellent reversal of the pervasive dating narrative that we were taught since we were young women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 12:46 AM |
| 21 | Daily reminders ❤I am floored and it’s only 8 in the morning let me sit down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 12:45 AM |
| 6 | I just love everything about this absolute Queen!!OWN THAT SHIT LADIES. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 08:25 AM |
| 51 | If a guy has a high "body count" he is probably a rapist.WOW I CANT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 05:01 AM |
| 23 | 🤨This is why. I reject men via text. I once broke up with my NVX and he actually punched me in the gut and smashed my computer (I did it at home like an idiot) I had PTSD for months after fearing that he would come and throw acid at me in public | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 04:50 AM |
| 3 | Things don’t change even if he marries you. He would get you pregnant and still force you to abortThis is amazing. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 03:44 AM |
| 16 | My Pickme past thoughts 🤦♀️ The shaaaammmmmme.YES OH MY GOD. SLUT SHAME MEN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 02:58 AM |
| 9 | My Pickme past thoughts 🤦♀️ The shaaaammmmmme.100% agree with your sentiment but the side effects are too severe for me to dare to try. A friend of mine went blind in one eye due to BC (she regained her vision after stopping BC) and my doctor told me I have to live with an increased risk of stroke. I just remain celibate haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 02:57 AM |
| 16 | Once again, All of Reddit vs. FDSI get that you want give him a piece of your mind. I don’t know this scrote, although I have dated men like him and in my experience, even if you had the chance to tell him everything, he wouldn’t get it. It’s like throwing pearls to swine. he might even disrespect you one last time. His sense of entitlement will overpower any empathy he has for you. I am very sorry you got disrespected by a husk of a man. He is the very definition of an LVM and unfortunately there are many around. The best reve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 03:27 AM |
| 6 | When a man says “If you don’t lower your standards you’ll die alone” he is admitting he is not good enough for you.The value of a woman’s household/emotional labour is truly overlooked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 04:26 AM |
| 76 | When a man says “If you don’t lower your standards you’ll die alone” he is admitting he is not good enough for you.Most women live longer than men so dying alone is a reality for many married women too. The people who don’t die alone are men who marry women who outlive them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 01:09 PM |
| 16 | When their lame man-brags are deeply unimpressiveWhy do I feel like I have been in the same position as that peahen before | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 03:59 PM |
| 4 | Tired of being shamed for wanting my own big houseThis isn’t a hard ask, I don’t see what’s wrong with wanting a big house as a single woman at all I don’t get why people are bothered. Especially since you seem like you can afford it. You should feel free to do whatever you want in life that brings you joy that’s the definition of freedom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Women aren’t actually as complicated as men like to pretend we are. Men just benefit more from acting like morons, so they spread this narrative that women can’t be understood.Yes exactly this! You said what I wanted to say in four words hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 07:12 PM |
| 35 | Women aren’t actually as complicated as men like to pretend we are. Men just benefit more from acting like morons, so they spread this narrative that women can’t be understood.I think it’s also the culture giving passes to men all the time so they don’t think they need to take responsibility. They don’t think they CAN take responsibility, therefore they choose not to. It’s learned helplessness and it’s highly selective. They can learn to be stem leaders but can’t learn empathy simply because they were taught that they can’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 12:03 PM |
| 16 | A boyfriend you don’t like looking at naked, who STINKS?! I’d rather be single, thanks 😘A moment of silence for our fallen sister | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 06:05 AM |
| 3 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳I am so sorry to hear that. I am not gonna pretend I know what you are going through but I have been there before and it’s difficult to pull yourself out of that. But it’s possible and I have recovered with no relapse since 2017. Sending hugs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳My rapist also raped me while drunk. I severely underestimated how strong drunk people are. Just because they can barely stand doesn’t mean you can overpower them. I am sorry to hear about your childhood. Please feel free to reach out. I am a survivor too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 02:20 PM |
| 10 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳Fuck I am so sorry this happened to you. I really am. What a piece of shit and I am SO HAPPY YOU GOT HIM CHARGED. women are so tough sometimes I am absolutely flabbergasted by the resilience in our community. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 05:36 AM |
| 6 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳Sooooo true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 05:34 AM |
| 16 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳That’s actually the opposite I believe. There’s bacteria + glucose in semen and that is exactly how you fuck up an already bad throat. That’s absolutely fucking bullshit and he was putting your health at risk. Fuck him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 02:20 AM |
| 5 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳No I was such a disgusting pick me I actually swallowed back my vomit (idk how) ran to my toilet, Projectile vomited and then went back and pretended nothing happened. I need therapy LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 02:19 AM |
| 83 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳I was vomiting from food poisoning and my LVX tried to get me to give him a blowjob because my gag reflex would have been weakened because I vomited 20 times before that It was bad I had to be hospitalised. Edit: FYI I basically had salmonella bacteria in me cuz I ate a bad chicken. That’s why it was so bad. Doctor said I could have died. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 04:25 PM |
| 15 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳This is disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 04:24 PM |
| 12 | When I talk about FDS concepts with other women, I don't even acknowledge that what I am saying is controversial at all. I just act like it's normal.I get that too. Hate comments on my comments and posts on other subs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 05:30 AM |
| 60 | When I talk about FDS concepts with other women, I don't even acknowledge that what I am saying is controversial at all. I just act like it's normal.FDS is honestly not controversial. The only reason why people react badly to FDS is because women gathering together and questioning the patriarchy, rape culture and toxic dating culture is a threat to a society that already wants to put down women. I firmly believe this to be true. Through FDS, I finally learnt why people say it’s a man’s world. I learnt that it’s not my fault for picking bad partners, ITS JUST THAT THEY ARE EVERYWHERE. The more I read the stuff here and in other subs I realise… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:34 AM |
| -16 | Dick does nothing for me.Hey I may be reading too much into this but being “tight” might be a sign of a medical condition. Either that or maybe you had some medical issue but you kept having PIV anyway and you ended up conditioning yourself to dislike it. If it’s the latter then, it’s fine, you like what you like. :) but if it’s a medical condition (I think it’s called vaginismus or something) you can consider seeking medical help for it. I am not saying you must enjoy dick to have sex but honestly, I support enjoying e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Nothing but factsSo many truth bombs pelted at me I needed to lie down for a bit to process this! Thank you for posting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 03:50 PM |
| 5 | So you don’t want to date women who strip or do porn? That’s fair. We don’t want to date men who go to strip clubs or who watch porn.This sounds really fair. barely even a controversial opinion honestly. Like if they don’t want to date or even regard women who do sex work as their equal then they should not be using porn or visiting strip clubs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 03:29 AM |
| 16 | I'm a therapist and I can't do couples counseling anymoreI have been hacked like that. I still have PTSD from it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 06:33 AM |
| 3 | To “scrote” or not to “scrote”They can’t handle that. Women must be seeking men’s validation all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 11:12 AM |
| 3 | To “scrote” or not to “scrote”Asking women to tamper their language... seems to be in the same line as “lowering your gaze” “speak when spoken to” “dress appropriately” Ultimately it’s some bullshit reason to gaslight women into thinking we have some agency over men’s actions No one can control another person, and I am not responsible if some man decides that he wants to be violent towards women because he saw one word on one subreddit. Please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 11:12 AM |
| 4 | How to reject men without fear of violence?You aren’t the one who did something wrong here but I get it we want to believe we can stand up and say fuck off to people who wronged us. I have no answers, I am equally meek. Still learning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 11:33 AM |
| 55 | Nothing newYea tbh I think that part of the brain that turns women into objects is very subjective. Some men are maybe turned on by younger women so if you had a certain build then you would become an object to them There’s no way to say, if I dressed completely “regularly” I would not be objectified because whats regular to one man is not regular to another. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 11:18 AM |
| 6 | What are your experiences dating neurodivergent men?He needs to go for A LOT MORE therapy. Haha. He is wayyyy too low functioning. He is not coping well and tbh, I think men have less access to coping resources (like reaching out to social support) because of toxic masculinity. Like I have ADHD and like I cope better than that but it is because I reached out for help a lot. not just therapy but social support and stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 06:42 AM |
| 29 | What are your experiences dating neurodivergent men?Damn I am neurodivergent but this dude really needs to go for more therapy before he is ready to date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 02:23 AM |
| 1 | There are a lot of different flairs this could've went under, but I settled on this one.Wow this sounds insane to me who would do this??!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 05:55 PM |
| 15 | DO NOT SHARE NUDES IN NEVER EVER EVER.Proud of you for making him pay! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 11:33 AM |
| 9 | There are a lot of different flairs this could've went under, but I settled on this one.This post raises a very valid point about being groomed by the misogynistic rape culture we live in. It’s shows us that the agency we assume sex workers have isnt real agency. So they make the choice to sell their bodies but isn’t there other factors like poverty, psychosocial factors and access to education that intersect and invariably influence this choice? How is it agency if 1. The woman is born in poverty. 2. The woman is taught at an impressionable age that the only value of women is in s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 11:06 AM |
| 20 | Your worth is not defined by how you please othersWhere is the lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Love her certainty and confidence.God this entire comment thread is a dissection of famous male characters but according to FDS. Love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 06:59 AM |
| 31 | 14 year relationship TL;DR: age gap of 10 years 20sF 30sM, constant fighting, including violence, gaslighting, pregnancy, 3rd year together she "brought home another woman because she is not possessive", got cheated on and lied to for one whole year. Now he left her for another woman.“Choose to be respected rather than liked” Saving this in my mind for future reference | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:54 PM |
| 10 | She Should just try hAVinG sEx LIkE a mAnIt’s just one second to check then you cuddle what’s the big deal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 01:47 PM |
| 4 | Mass shootings have been solved everyone! Turns out lack of access to women's bodies is why men go on violent rampages killing women/poc/children/everyone.I meant that if my lot in life is to be a sex worker and receive such violence from men that I am so under privileged in this world that I’d have to resort to sex work just to survive, I wouldn’t wanna live It’s crazy that The poster in OP’s post is trying to give a purpose to sex work. TO RECEIVE VIOLENCE. Really. It’s so dehumanising. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 07:22 PM |
| 11 | Mass shootings have been solved everyone! Turns out lack of access to women's bodies is why men go on violent rampages killing women/poc/children/everyone.I know this is said in jest but to be born a woman and therefore having to be the object where men vent their anger on sounds absolutely terrifying idk I feel like I should just end my life if I have to live that reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 04:52 PM |
| 248 | They are definitely more fragile.This is honestly terrifying. Donald Glover said it the best when he said that the reason why we hear more about crazy ex girlfriends is that men can laugh about crazy girlfriends but women don’t survive crazy boyfriends so the dead can’t tell their stories. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 09:35 AM |
| 41 | Human penises are shrinking because of pollution, warns scientist. Dr Swan believes that the rapidly decreasing fertility rate means that most men will be unable to produce viable sperm by 2045. These chemicals have long been known to cause infertility in women (PCOS), but men affected makes news.Yea lmao I still took BC even though my doctor told me “hey this might give you a stroke” casually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 07:46 AM |
| 11 | A reminder for the recovering pick-me girlsI am sorry things have been tough and I really hope things get better. Hugs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 04:59 AM |
| 10 | Not dating broke men isn't "mean-spirited." It's a matter of having you and your partner having your priorities in order.Not dating overweight women is considered shallow too but men still justify breaking up w their partners who gained weight. Honestly you just need to have the self entitlement of a man. Everything I do is right, and everything everyone else does it wrong and therefore I can criticise and label things according to my point of view. To be male is to enforce your own solipsism on everyone else and people will accept it. Fuck people’s expectations you answer to no one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:18 PM |
| 37 | For all the male redditors asking why women don’t approach first 😂😂This is so true my friend is an attractive male and he has never needed to ask out anyone. Women ask him out all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 11:08 AM |
| 99 | Men cause 100% of unwanted pregnancies. Unwanted pregnancies happen when men orgasm irresponsibly.Wow garbage men never fail to shock me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 05:20 AM |
| 4 | He just ended things because I was making him wait for sexI dated a guy who wouldn’t wait a month for sex and I ended up being coerced into sex for years. A good man will know to wait. Sex is not an entitlement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:00 AM |
| 12 | Scrotes' advice on how to get away with avoiding household choresWhat kinda crap father deliberately does a bad job caring for his own child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:50 PM |
| 21 | This is the double bind society presents women with when we try to speak the truth about male pattern behaviour. If we call it out, it’s misandrist. But if we don’t call it out and end up getting harmed anyway, it’s our fault for not seeing the signs. Head men win, tails women lose. Again.Honestly most of the experience of being a woman is a double bind Don’t put out? Prude. Have sex? Slut I am sure there’s more I don’t need to list it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:35 PM |
| 30 | Anybody else met a guy who's pro-mask but anti-condom?I am sorry but I spat out my drink in mirth the level of stupidity is too high. I wish someone collected all of these into a mega list because I would like to come back and read this amazing post again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 06:42 PM |
| 36 | Just realized the extent of the damage caused by a narcissistic scroteThis is beyond an LVM. This is narc territory man. There’s a scale of LVM and NVM and this guy hit rock bottom and started digging. Glad you escaped this nightmare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, if you find yourself in such a situation, you now have the perfect answer.Oh my god so true But the truth about my bisexuality it just means I am attracted to women and sometimes men lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 06:13 AM |
| 2 | What did I just read?!What the fuck who are these people and how are they allowed to have jobs. What the actual fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 05:52 AM |
| 2 | These middle aged men are dating teenagers, disgusting 🤢. They admit they do it because they're easier to manipulateThis is fucking hilarious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 05:50 AM |
| 5 | Men and their double standards will never fail to astound me.I once had a man argue w me on Reddit explaining how pressuring and coercing a woman into Sex is somehow seduction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 05:35 AM |
| 7 | Women eloquently explains HomosocialityThe female orgasm generates oxytocin for a reason. We are here to bond with our babies and also bond with our partners. Men can experience an oxytocin rush too. Why is bonding is important? Basically because the human baby comes out half formed. Other mammals (look at giraffes and horses) give birth to babies who can walk and eat already but humans have the weakest babies that require care a lot of care. From both parents to help support its life. If we all just accepted cum and popped babies ou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 05:27 AM |
| 68 | Male feminists in a nutshell.Oh my god our culture hates women so much that women are led to believe that despite being drunk, hence unable to consent, they are somehow responsible. I am glad you have since learnt that this is the poisonous beliefs shoved down women’s throats by the patriarchy and it’s absolute rubbish. If you are in a good place financially I’d recommend going to therapy, it helps a lot. Additionally you can PM me for support I am a survivor too. Again so sorry this happened to you. I find that talking to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 05:16 AM |
| 2 | TradWife Twitter is Like Watching A Slow Moving Trainwreckslow clap nice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 04:50 AM |
| 18 | Male feminists in a nutshell.Not sure if I should admire or admonish this behaviour | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 04:49 AM |
| 3 | Pickmeisha (probably a scrote🤡) shames women‘s day and calls women insecure hypocrites who „criticize“ menWow is she okay like damn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 04:47 AM |
| 190 | Male feminists in a nutshell.Amazing how men are so confident that they are right even when hundreds of people and a close friend tells him that he is wrong. Just amazing. Male privilege comes with the innate ability to be solipsistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 04:41 AM |
| 114 | Male feminists in a nutshell.Oh my god I am so sorry you absolutely do not deserve to go through such an atrocity. This is a safe space for sure. Your rapist sounds 100% insane and toxic and you deserve to be surrounded by better people in your life. Hugs to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 04:39 AM |
| 3 | 👑 Listening to this on repeat! It’s valid for me to happiest single. Marriage and babies don’t have to be my life goals 👑So much truth in one video I needed to lie down even tho I am already lying down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 05:47 PM |
| 6 | That update tho 🙌I’d watch the shit out if that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 05:45 PM |
| 6 | It’s called grooming :) I’m glad to see this on my For You pageHonestly a lot of toxic patriarchal beliefs are passed down by women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 05:42 PM |
| 14 | I wonder if he texted her back yetWELL SAID | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 05:38 PM |
| 13 | “don’t protect women, teach men how to behave!” 👏🏽 this brown queen is spitting FACTS! I wish more people in Desi culture adopted this mentalityMop the ocean LOL I am stealing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 05:34 PM |
| 11 | “don’t protect women, teach men how to behave!” 👏🏽 this brown queen is spitting FACTS! I wish more people in Desi culture adopted this mentalityIt’s terrifying. I don’t know where she gets her bravery from I really admire her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 05:27 PM |
| 5 | Chris Meloni Demonstrating Why We StanIt’s two commandments. Covetousness and adultery, but apparently not important to this pastor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 05:21 PM |
| 142 | Chris Meloni Demonstrating Why We StanThe worst part is he probably isn’t an incel like celibate. Some sad Christian woman with the lowest possible self worth married him and is probably having his LVM sons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 06:57 PM |
| 24 | Why were/are these “headache” jokes so popular? She’s literally faking being ILL just so you would stop forcing yourself on her because her saying NO isn’t enough for you. The comments are something else too. The only one making sense got downvoted hard.Glorifying coercive sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:17 PM |
| 131 | wOmEn ArE tOo eMotIoNalTo be honest the hormone that causes mood swings and angry behaviour during our periods is testosterone. Which is abundant in men. We basically just become as aggressive as men during our periods and are labelled crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:12 PM |
| 11 | I don't have a good title this is just hilariousI had a man mansplain to me how not washing his hands was perfectly hygienic because they never needed to open a cubicle door. Truely disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 03:59 AM |
| 15 | I don't have a good title this is just hilariousVomited a bit in my mouth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 03:58 AM |
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