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dolanthesemicolon/r/askMRP15/11/23 02:33 PM
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dolanthesemicolon/r/askMRP20/10/19 10:44 AM
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It still is a fringe "belief system". I presume you realise that all of those that bite aggressively at the worm you dangle in front of them are very blue pilled men. For what it's worth, someone that would also call you a gold digger for wanting to be a homemaker is again someone portraying a very blue pilled reaction. Heck, our parents grew up in a world where this was the norm, and it was, in fact, frowned upon for women to even work. In some countries it was even illegal. Now, we somehow hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:57 PM
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Still, lawyor up. This is now an exit plan. If you've been here 5 minutes, you'll have heard the phrase "the stay plan equals the go plan". Spoiler alert, there is no stay plan. Start building the "go" plan. If she decides she wants to hang around, then so be it. But on your terms
/r/askMRP18/09/24 10:34 PM
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Twice... she's called it twice. If my wife did that to me (once), I'd lawyer up, and stick the fucking papers in front of her.
/r/askMRP18/09/24 06:36 PM
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You don't need a PT to get started. Look up the book Greyskull LP by John Sheaffer. Start with this, then move on to Phraks to get the optimum addins. You're not going to start with huge weights. You're going to find a zone where you are able to lift a lot of the weight. Perhaps something like being able to do 5x5x10 (or12) on bench. Then check out the starting strength reddit, it has loads of "technique check" videos and stuff on each weight category. There's an abundance of videos on YouTube a…
/r/askMRP09/09/24 10:04 AM
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And cue the most common response you'll get - STFU and lift or something to that accord. And they're probably right, but it's pretty throwaway advice. I'll throw you a different bone. As I've been where you are, and sometimes a good ol' victim puke is required to get you started on the road. Mine is almost a mirror of a story of yours commically. Historically a geek. Make loads of money. I had some great sex stories. Then I met my wife, thought sex was on tap, and things just slowly went downhil…
/r/askMRP07/09/24 08:22 AM
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I'm not gonna lie. Dudes come on this forum and I think "you're not that bad, you got some shit together". Others come on, they're in a bad place, almost like a start from scratch. I'm not gonna lie, you're not even at the starting line. She shuts you out of your own house? She controls the finances? After practically abusing you you freely hand her your phone so she can monitor your emails? Heck, you have to ask her permission to do a fucking piano lesson? I'm not gonna sugar coat this, you hav…
/r/askMRP30/08/24 07:25 PM
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Male Action Plan. Kind of a get your shit together type thing. If mommy is wiping your ass and you still want her to fuck you... then you ain't got your shit together
/r/askMRP30/08/24 06:14 PM
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I've read many people on here having access to their wife's phone and regularly doing check ups. I'm against it myself. If you trust them, then you trust them. Even if I didn't trust her, it's a waste of my time and energy. Requesting phone access and checking up on them reeks of insecurities Why do you want her unlock code? If you're not suspicious or there's nothing specific you're looking for, why do you need it? What are you going to do with it?
/r/askMRP12/08/24 07:05 AM
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Sounds to me like either your wife is noticing change, knows how weak you are, and then just prods you accordingly to try whip you back in line. Or maybe B, this marriage ain't salvageable. Harsh? Maybe. Either way, you need to stick with the plan. But... you need to stop implementing a stay plan and actually implement a "go" plan. Yes, the stay plan = the go plan, but most "stay" plans people seem to implement around here are not go plans. Not all stay plans equal a go plan. Implement a plan th…
/r/askMRP11/08/24 06:57 PM
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The list is gonna be different for most people, for example, I always looked after the bills and money in my house. But I'll include things that surprise me to hear about: Paying the bills. Your salary stays in your account. Take over your kids Dr/Gp visits. Take over the cooking. Clean up after you're done cooking. Do the laundry (at a very minimum do your own laundry.) Clean the house Fix the fucking house Take out the trash The list is obviously not exhaustive. But you really need to act ike …
/r/askMRP20/05/24 09:56 PM
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I'm not someone like you, but I gotta be honest, your situation doesn't sound awfully shit. It sounds more like you're caught in a rut and need a kick up the ass. I'd like to pick out a few lines that stand out. I'm going to read between the lines here on this one. You say ended up marrying a prudish woman, who was a safe choice for me, after being dumped (multiple times) by my sexy ex So, do you like your wife? Do you want to stay with her? You give the impression that you "settled" because you…
/r/askMRP20/05/24 01:34 PM
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(continued... First time I've exceeded the comment character limit) Second, I listed out all the jobs my wife does that I should be doing (Hint: its ALL jobs). And 1 by 1 started taking them back off her. For me, I was already in an ok place here, I was probably more of a slightly tipsy captain. I have always looked after my own shit. Third, I made a list of what activities I could do every evening that would take me away from the house and away from her. And then I proceeded to add 1 of each of…
/r/askMRP20/05/24 11:16 AM
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I have a similar-ish story so I'll puke it here and maybe there is something you can learn from it. Because if you don't turn into one of those "u/deleted" accounts, and you stick around, you'll potentially find yourself in a similar boat that I did. Way back when I first dated Mrs Semicolon I had these same insecurities. Now, possibly not as bad as you, as I wasn't a virgin going into my relationship with her. But her "number" was higher than mine. Not by much, but enough to give me hamster bra…
/r/askMRP20/05/24 11:15 AM
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This is just a bitchy shit test, I wouldn't even class as comfort. She's testing you as the Oak (well, right now let's say dogwood...) as she attempts to slap you into submission. There's too much "you you you" in it for it to be a comfort test. But I could be reading between the lines too much. Anyway, just stop defending your actions. Whilst I don't condone the STFU response, it's actually quite usefully in these bitchy shit tests. So I would start there. And here's how I would implement STFU …
/r/askMRP09/05/24 04:10 PM
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Now this I like!
/r/askMRP16/11/23 09:39 AM
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God I hate when a decent reply comes from that elusive user called [deleted].
/r/askMRP16/11/23 09:36 AM
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Firstly, this is askMRP, not MRP. So it is the "autistic" part of MRP, for lack of a better term. That aside, if you read the post, the taking the piss out of your driving was just an example Jacktenofhearts used to portray what public emasculation might look like. If that isn't strong enough for you, then pick another example. "[You] is so weak, look at his tiny arms! Look at [other husband]'s muscles, I bet he's really strong." Or "[You]'s dick is so small sometimes I don't even feel it go in"…
/r/askMRP16/11/23 09:27 AM
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I'm not a fan of STFU in this instance. I'd even favour a public belittling from Billy Blue Pill himself over STFU. How about an "aw babes, you tell the bestest stories" in your most patronising voice. Something easy for a beginner to implement, and more effective than autistic mute mode
/r/askMRP15/11/23 05:35 PM
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Let's say a friend of yours, billy blue pill, was constantly being belittled or emasculated by his wife publicly. And let's say you handed him the red pill. But he's too new to not give a shit. He's still in his victim puke "woe is me" phase. What advice do you give him for when he next get's publicly emasculated by his wife?
/r/askMRP15/11/23 04:45 PM
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Come on, you can do better. I'm not looking for advice, I'm looking for some note swapping. Give me your best response if you were publicly emasculated by your significant other.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 04:39 PM
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Whilst I somewhat agree that she ultimately needs to be taken down a peg or two, don't you think that needs to be done in private? Perhaps you disagree, if so then how, in a public setting (using the example by jacktenofhearts) would you have disciplined her / taken her down a peg or two?
/r/askMRP15/11/23 04:38 PM
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I agree with another comment on here (possibly just the one), but for a different reason. Go. Just fucking go. I'll give you the 1 big ass reason why I say that. I am pretty new to MRP There. That right there. You're supposed to be taking this slowly. 101 of MRP, a month for every year of marriage. A big part of going Rambo is reading the sidebar and thinking you can apply everything all at once. You have beta back, it's too early to apply alpha. Yes, it's going to be a shit show. But not one yo…
/r/askMRP29/08/23 09:42 PM
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Is bedtime the only time you initiate? Because there's lots.of other times during the day you can initiate. Like first thing I'm the morning. TV Time in the evening. The advice isn't to say "never initiate". The advice is - if you struggle with outcome independence or feeling butthurt when rejected, and your ainitiations are regularly being rejected. Then initiating at bedtime isn't an optimal way to practice OI and not being butt hurt. Practice in a scenario where it's easy to walk away or leav…
/r/askMRP20/07/23 12:17 AM
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Hell yes. And its not necessarily anything to do with them not being attractive. A guy who I grew up with used to work in the local factory in our town. Let's call him Ben. He was a big strong muscular guy, probably average to good looking. This factory he worked in had that standard canteen where all the workers did lunch. Ben always planned his lunch at the same time as 1 particular girl that worked there, whom he was besotted by. And just to note, Ben wasn't single. He was in an LTR. Anyway, …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/23 07:20 PM
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OK, so things are beginning to make a little sense now. I've just read your OYS post. Lacks a bit of actionable detail, but at least I now have context. Dude, you are very very early on a long journey. To be completely honest, tonight isn't going to matter a flying fuck what you do. But I suggest you just go do your BJJ. Or be that needy husband and try have your validation sex. But let this be the start of lesson 1. You need to fix you. And you need to do it slowly. Imagine this: Day one: She a…
/r/askMRP19/07/23 06:26 PM
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Your post reads needy. Which is probably why your turning her off rather than on. Outside of the neediness there's not a whole lot going on here, so I'd focus in on that a bit. For example, and others have pointed this out: she texted me that she made it to work safe (as she always does). I told her I love her and to have a good day. Texting is for logistics. She got there safe. Great. I probably wouldn't respond unless I have something logistical to add. Or if she asks a question you feel like …
/r/askMRP19/07/23 10:22 AM
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I found a good girl to start family , No you didn't. my mother did not want me to marry this specific girl because... Doesn't matter, because you won't. I am paranoid about her past and if she will cheat Probably can you give me some advice big brothers ? Probably not. Dude, if you're being serious, ditch this idea. I'm not being funny, but I'd seriously consider hiring a few escorts and just blow those first few loads out of your system. You're not ready for this forum. You are years, correctio…
/r/askMRP18/07/23 08:17 PM
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I feel like I just read a high school essay. Badly written and barely covers the topic. My general rule is if you need to talk about shit, do it with friends, not with someone you plan on banging. It's nothing to do with hiding your past. Spilling your beans about everything removes layers of mystery. Be it your count, bad shit that happened, even sometimes good shit that happened. Even to this day I will bump into an old friend whilst with my wife, and he brings up some funny shit regarding som…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 11:37 AM
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Exhibit A and B. I'm stating that the current state of my marriage is NOT respectful which is supported by the liquid in the face. I want a FUTURE state where my marriage IS respectful. ​ My bad, I misquoted you. And shit yes, she threw both a cup of water and a cup of vodka in your face. Tell you what, it's crazy how different people's boundaries are. If Mrs Semicolon did that to me I'd be very fucking angry with her. It's close to red card, get out of my fucking life, territory. I don't tolera…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/23 08:18 AM
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So, basically playing the dread game, but in super fast mode. If you haven't read about the levels of dread, I'd do so. But you could do so much before you get there. In summary, the main things you need to start looking at are: Stop being unattractive (lift / go to gym) Start passing shit tests (quite frankly, yours just sound like a plethora of slightly annoying comfort tests) Start building a life outside of your LTR (hobbies, stuff you can easily divert your attention to) Start using said ho…
/r/askMRP07/07/23 08:02 AM
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I must have been awol for all this goodness. You see my dear friend. You have fallen fowl to thinking you're employing the "DNGAF" tank, when in fact you accidentally deployed the "COVERT CONTRACT" tank. Ok, maybe I'm being harse. it's not quite a covert contract. But you see, this whole "we should have sex *because* it's our anniversary" is not quite the way these things should be approached. If I were you I would try think of it this way instead. When you guys have navigated the waters suffici…
/r/askMRP06/07/23 11:56 PM
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All of the rest of the advice here is solid. But I want to add one thing. Slow, down for a second. Like, take a breath. You're going to read a lot of material and think "Oh, that's me." "Oh I should do that".... etc etc. My advice is don't change anything initially. Read. Read a LOT. Read both NMMNG and WISNIFG. And don't change anything while you read these, just read and internalise. Some tiny bits of advice. Add a smidge of STFU to your responses. You need to realise you don't own her problem…
/r/askMRP06/07/23 11:29 PM
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So, I have to call you out on a whole lot of shit here. Exhibit A.: Marriage is respectful. ​ Exibit B: She throws the cup of vodka in my face. ​ No. Just no. This is not a respectful marriage. You mention in comments below it was water. Was it water or vodka? You know what, it doesn't matter what it was. ​ Our refrigerator has been on the brink for weeks. I've asked the wife to make arrangements for a repair guy (didn't lead on this as I should have). She opts to attempt to fix herself. She's h…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/23 10:54 PM
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She said “if we have sex you will turn into a jerk again” I replied with “would you rather me be a jerk?” She went silent and walked away, no response, unamused. This trigged me because she knew I was trying to put my best foot forward for the long weekend to repair things. She has been mostly silent since, and it’s been driving me up the wall. ​ I honestly can't stop laughing at this bit. So let me rephrase this for you line by line ​ She enforced a boundry on you. You shit tested her She STFU …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/23 10:35 AM
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My sister was too (a bit later in life), but on the contrary medication massively improved her life. Sounds like you were just misdiagnosed in my opinion. But to eat my own words, I'm no Dr either.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/23 06:21 PM
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Easy on there, Dr. Whilst I might agree that every Tom, Dick and Harry are getting diagnosed with some form of mental illness that's somewhere on some fucking spectrum, point blank throwing about an opinion that ADHD isn't real is not only unhelpful, but a bit dangerous. Highly recommended you do some real reading on this subject before you throw dangerous comments like this around.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/23 05:56 PM
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Scratch that. This is the correct answer.
/r/askMRP28/06/23 05:13 PM
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Look, you obviously don't want to tell her. So how about this. Don't tell her Theres many responses. Crack open the broken record on this one. Find a response, and use that exact same response EVERY SINGLE time. "You'll never find out the real number." Or whatever response works for you. Or change the answer every time. "Last time you asked it was 8. It's up to 42 now! Imagine that" Or be sarcastically honest/not honest "only you baby!" And a big wink. Like, who gives a fuck. Decide if you want …
/r/askMRP28/06/23 04:38 PM
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Don't stop. Just don't fucking stop. I'm on attempt 3. I'm 44. I got fit, fat, fit, and fat again in the last 5 years. Don't stop. Be the best you. That's my only advice.
/r/askMRP28/06/23 04:28 PM
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I'm going to straight with you, I don't usually do this. But I'm gonna get right to it and be honest here. ​ Yesterday, we agreed to go but was raining where i was and decided we reschedule ​ Well... don't you sound like a bundle of fun. It was fucking raining. So I cancelled our date. Are you fucking kidding me? It was raining so you rescheduled? Jesus. Fucking. Wept. I honestly can't get over this sentence. You fucking cancelled because it was raining? What the fucking fuck. Are you actually t…
/r/askMRP26/06/23 09:32 AM
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Jesus Christ. We were complaining because we don't get posts here. And now I don't know which I prefer. Does this look like a "Dear Ruth, I have a problem with my pee pee" forum? Correct answer, no. I'm going to spin a wheel here and see what lucky prize you land on. Ohhh, it says "Spin plates"!! Go you. Aren't you lucky it didn't land on "Monk mode".
/r/askMRP26/06/23 09:21 AM
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That gave me such a laugh!!
/r/askMRP26/06/23 09:05 AM
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I'll be honest, I had to really think about this one. It has definitely improved but why? That was the question I had to ask myself. When I sat back and really thought about it, it was 2 really simple things that changed. First major change, she defers to me more often. Especially with the kids. I don't know how to summarise this so I'll just say this. "Don't fuck with dad". Obviously that's not what she says to our kids, but that's the message she now conveys. It's not just with the kids, it's …
/r/askMRP26/06/23 09:03 AM
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I agree that you're asking the wrong questions. I landed here from deadbedrooms. Realised I was the problem. I came here to fix my sex life. I ended up kinda giving less of a fuck about my sex life and giving more of a fuck just about my life in general. If you start caring more about you everything else kinda works itself out. But to answer your question, how long did it take for me to turn the corner, let's phrase it. 3 years. Because there's something everyone leaves out. Most people don't ge…
/r/askMRP25/06/23 03:33 PM
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Clicked wrong reply button /facepalm
/r/askMRP25/06/23 03:32 PM
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Ok, so maybe you're not in as bad a place as you think. But if you've come from an RP background you must have already known that throwing your emotions around is a million miles away from what you should be doing. From self experience, one of the things I learnt was a couple of years back was although I was a little butthurt when rejected, what bothered me more was knowing that I was just going to get rubbish sex anyway (not quite, but almost starfish). So I just point blank stopped initiating …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 04:06 PM
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Ok, so you lift. That's good. But I would need more context about a couple things, I'm gonna go ahead and guess them. You recently had a kid. I'm gonna guess within the, what, last 4 or 5 months? You have no OYS posts, and mention nothing about how long you been doing this. I'm gonna guess... less than a month... So with those guesstimates in place, I would say, you missed the first step in the process. But before I introduce you to the first step, I recommend you read: https://www.reddit.com/r/…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 07:38 AM
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I like my garden grass nice and tight, just a little furry.
/r/askMRP20/06/23 09:50 PM
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Ok, hold on there a sec. Are you actually being serious in this thread? I honestly took you as a troll. You are a troll... aren't you... aren't you? Think my brain just exploded... people usually end up here from dead bedrooms, not from getting too much pussy.
/r/askMRP19/06/23 11:00 AM
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Yes, as u/KagedRageius mentioned can you re-post this into the r/askMRP as it may get deleted from here. I'm intrigued on the insights you may receive from some of our more seasoned members. I will offer my own there too, but I fear it will be a waste of words destined for the trash if I reply here.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/23 10:52 AM
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Ah, we're sorted, as I've just poured myself a nice Roe and Co to reply to another thread. So I'm loving life right now. And it's a school night. Go me. So, you have a wife that's fucking you too much. Man, I have nothing but sympathy for you. You swallow the red pill and look what's happened. Looks like you are just too fucking red pill. You must have swallowed 2 of the fuckers. What you need to do is turn up the beta a bit. Stop being such a sex god. So here's what I recommend. Buy yourself a …
/r/askMRP18/06/23 09:15 PM
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So, you're probably gonna get torn apart for this.... and I'm going to need a large dram of an Irish whiskey before I launch into this... so hold on there for a sec and I'll edit this... --- Ok, have my whiskey. Where do I start... how about with - are you sure you're in the right forum? Cos in these parts we hope that you've at least read a fucking paragraph of the sidebar? I'm gonna go right ahead here and presume that hasn't happened. Next, let's go with this phrase. A common phrase in this p…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/23 08:27 PM
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Me motherfucker. ME. 🤣
/r/askMRP12/06/23 07:11 PM
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You've gone from nearly fucking your wife to death, to what's the point of a long term relationship. Did you finally kill her? Or maybe just ruined her with a bacterial infection switching from anus to pussy and no longer getting your dick wet? I'm super confused. Enlighten us.
/r/askMRP12/06/23 05:42 PM
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Just hit that big massive pause button on this marriage until you sort this out. You'll be in one hell of a dead bedroom in a few years otherwise. MRP principles may fix it. Or look at this post from u/HornsOfApathy, see if something from that stirs her loins.
/r/askMRP11/06/23 12:30 PM
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I'm a bit late to the party, but I'm just back from a big ass cycle and feel like sitting down and typing some shit today. So here goes. Firstly, everyone else has dealt with the huge fat 48 foot elephant in the room. The right course of action is to get the fuck out of this marriage. I'm not sure what sort of order of events you need to do it in your country, but in mine you can file for separation first, which means you're not fucked when you walk out the door. Then serve her the divorce paper…
/r/askMRP11/06/23 11:52 AM
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There's a lot of truth in this, but I'd say it's not entirely the whole picture. I'm kind of repeating myself as I eluded to it in a previous comment of mine in another post, but I'll go again. One of the problems is the initial message everyone is set is lift and STFU. My problem with this is that it's only the first step. People take it too far. It's level 1 of dread game. Part 1 of raising SMV. Etc etc. But then what starts to happen is every mother fucker on the planet (particularly those in…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 12:45 PM
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I indeed agree. I've witnessed a similar transition of contribution here depending on how long you've been around. I went through it myself. A lot of people go from victim, to getting their ego chopped, becoming the aggressive ego chopper, to actually having the ability to contribute. But after both getting a furious ego chopping to becoming that aggressive ego chopper, they drop off instead of risking "not being alpha enough" and getting another whelping. But in the end, who gives a shit about …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/23 02:22 PM
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OK, so yes, and no. But mainly no. You see STFU has become a term I dislike, because its been thrown around like it's the fucking golden hammer that you smack on you wifes head and boom - you're no longer beta. One day you are arguing or mansplaining the shit out of yourself with you wife about God knows what, maybe you bought the wrong balsamic fucking vinegar in the shop, and you're like "but they all look the same!". Or whatever crap comes out. Then, next day you're an autistic mute. Next mon…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/23 08:31 PM
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The point is you suck. Mainly you suck at what is referred to as Red Pill - Hard Mode. You failed at keeping that 1 woman you thought of as your dream girl so insanely attracted to you that she just sucks your balls, because they are attached to you. You fucked 25 girls in the last 5 months? Had to check for a moment to see if I was in the "Who has the biggest dick" reddit. Nobody cares. This forum is about how to unfuck married beta men so that they are no longer faggots (or to prevent said fag…
/r/askMRP28/11/19 05:19 PM
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Pure awesome! The only thing I will add is, I could boil the post down to 1 sentence, presuming he's being honest at least on this matter: I am now not in love with my wife and I don’t even feel bad. If that's true, just do the girl a favour and give her a divorce. She still has time to find a real man.
/r/askMRP28/11/19 01:57 PM
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I know what it means. Its refreshing to be reminded I have it. Gives me motivation to execute. Edit: You edited mid response! I don't pretend, but if that's how its perceived it doesn't bother me. This forum is an immense sounding board for me, so I'll take whatever punches it throws as I came here with a huge ego. The punches keep me on track. On saying that, it's time for me to give this place a break for a while. I needed this place to help me set a path. Now I need to walk it for a while. I'…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/19 03:20 PM
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This, and the main post, get a major upvote from me. Personally, I am not into anal, but this here is an awesome guide for those who are. Definitely need more posts like this, it's almost paint by numbers, if I ever change my mind I'll be back looking for this guide. People who are afraid to upvote, or reply with some smart ass "you're gay" comment come across as quite sef-conscious and judgemental. If you are judging someone else just because you're not into it, then good-bye. There are a whole…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/19 02:28 PM
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I tend to gym on a Monday, Wednesday, Friday, and golf on a Sunday. So always have 2 days recovery under my belt. As gym progresses recovery should be faster. I ensure to stretch and get protein in after each workout. That probably helps too
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/19 11:10 AM
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If you had been leading..., your kids would have known why I'll paraphrase, but that there is bang on, I haven't been leading. I am fully aware this captain has been AWOL for many years. I see it im my kids reactions. Kids are smart, they have learnt quite cleverly a defer to her often means an override. But in about the last month this has not been the case, but old habits die hard. Them realising I'm the leader, just listening to my decision and abiding is where I'm trying to get to, but until…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/19 09:21 AM
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Navy mode says 19%. Although RedRanger says 23%. I think Navy is closer to accurate in this instance. Good spot on the metric, thank you. I have fixed the post.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/19 05:18 PM
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Pulling out the "because I said so card"... how could have handled this better? Fair point. Perhaps I could have phrased it more succinctly, but this wasn't delivered angrily or aggressively at the time. It was a matter of fact. But in hindsight I can see this could be percieved otherwise. Perhaps I could have said "I've decided they're not watching TV this morning". Sounds a little less blunt now that I write it down! But at the time I didn't want to have to explain myself too much, that has hi…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/19 05:15 PM
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OYS#5 Early 40s. Wife similar age.2 young kids. 5"6. Weigh about 170lb. BF: Will use the "how do I look" method. "Slight improvement. Still slightly flabby". Currently reading MAP, Unchained man Physical Early 40s. Wife similar age.2 young kids. 5"6. Weigh about 170lb (it's gone up a little with Gym work). BF: No fucking idea, how about "slightly flabby". 5xSQ: 155lb, 5xBP: 100lb, 5x DL: 150lb, 5xOHP 70lb Still hitting gym 3 times a week. Originally I put down a physical goal down to hit the 100…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/19 10:44 AM
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Thanks for that, good stuff for me to keep in mind. By the way, 165 was my 5x, I never tested my 1RP, but I calculating it would put it at about 180.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/19 02:48 PM
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That's some heavy shit. My opinion - Forgetting about all the bullshit around the keys and the car and the drama, and who's fault it is that it got to this level... violent behaviour around the kids, especially when it directly starts to impact them, and the fact it's repeatedly crossing that boundary... that's a sackable offense. But as they say, I do me, you do you. Whatever you decide to do man, good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/19 09:30 AM
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I stagnated on greyskull previously and didn't change for months. So hit a repeated wall. I can't recall what my squat was exactly, perhaps 190lbs, but bench reps plateaued at about 165lbs. I couldn't get past it so I think change will be something I'll consider next time to keep progressing. Note on the 190lbs, on greyskull I chickened out of heavy squats with all the usual excuses. This time I'm determined to get decent numbers up.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 09:28 PM
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It was grey skull lp I used to do, but yeah similar thing. I guess that's why I am a bit uncertain on how long I need to stick SL for. I hit a wall on grey skull that I didn't know how to pass before I messed up my shoulder. I'll keep at SL for a good 6 months if needs be.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 05:27 PM
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I have lifted before, the SL weights are low due to being out of the gym for 9 months due to injuries. So I started SL from scratch again. I up the weight every gym visit by the program amount. I'm sticking religiously to it at the moment.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 05:05 PM
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OYS#4 Early 40s. Wife similar age. 2 young kids. 5"6. Weigh about 170lb (it's gone up a little with Gym work). BF: No fucking idea, how about "slightly flabby". Currently reading WISNIFG, MAP, Unchained man. Physical Current SL weights: SQ 130lb. BP 90lb. DL 125lb. SP 60LB Gym 3 times a week. Weights are still easy. Progressing nicely, looking forward to where I will be in about a month. My immediate plan on this front is to keep it habitual. I already consider it so, but I don't want to get com…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 04:27 PM
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Ah I get what you mean now. Yeah, I agree with them too.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/19 10:09 PM
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Ok, I reread the above and although it was meant to be humourous, on retrospect it reads like a stupid ass reply. Don't want to hijack someone elses post, but fuck it. Yes I went to the gym, but not just because "the internet told me to lift". If you read SBIIIs reply in my OYS I also lift because I don't like the way I look. I also admit in my reply I know I'm faking this. So do I get it? I get what it "is", but you are correct, no I don't "get it". Some switches have been flicked, but I'm a lo…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/19 08:50 PM
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I dunno about the other faggots, but this faggot is going to gym
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/19 07:22 PM
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I'll give you an insight into the future. But first let me introduce you to MY past. About 17/18 years ago I found a girl who wasn't a girly girl, was great fun when out, she said she never had a relationship like the one we had, we fell in love... but there was a distinct lack of passion. There just wasn't a spark in the bedroom. We tried things, but it was... a bit boring. I thought it would develop, surely it would? All the love and "feelz" are there? Our relationship was awesome, just apart …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/19 12:24 PM
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Maybe he can join us for a joint cum face session just for old times sake.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 09:07 PM
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That's a fair point. I didn't even catch myself saying it, but it aligns with an aspect of me I'm trying to unfuck. I always seem to fall into the trap where I try to protect other people's happiness over my own.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 09:03 PM
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Ah no, I am being honest when I say I am over the whole ex-boyfriend thing. In the post what I say bothered me is the truth. I know some people will not believe me, and I am ok with that.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 08:51 PM
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I was speaking in a little jest when I said it. I don't intend on intentionally meeting up with this guy, but because it will just come across as me playing the shit test games my wife plays with me. I'll more than likely bump into this guy some day, but this time it won't be an issue for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 07:22 PM
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Something else for my list... be less of a faggot...
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 05:57 PM
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Wow, that's suddenly given me a focus I never had before. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 10:40 AM
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Why am I here? I used to look good, I don't like how I look anymore. I don't look awful, but I've let things slip a lot. So I lift because I want to look better and be stronger. I lack assertiveness. I want to be mentally stronger and more assertive on decisions I make. I can do this at work, but I'm useless at home. I am not selfish enough. Historically I thought everyone elses problems and happiness was my responsibility, even to the detriment of my own happiness. I now know this is arseways, …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 10:05 AM
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OYS#3 Me: Early 40s with wife similar age. Together 15 years, married 10. Young kids. 5"6 and weigh about 165lb Mission No idea. I keep reading that you just need to keep work on other things and this comes to you. There's a great post on MRP by ReddJive about it. What I do know is I'm lost on this one, kind of bumbling along rather than progressing in a focussed manner. So this week I'm going to start setting goals. See does that get me anywhere. Goals 1000lb club. (Almost a direct rob from Red…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 08:54 AM
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Hang on... do we get 1 free victim puke on here? Shit, I missed out. Maybe I'll spit out this pill for a quick victim puke just for shits and giggles...
/r/askMRP21/10/19 09:41 PM
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Legend!
/r/askMRP21/10/19 10:22 AM
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This captain has been drunk for many many years! Cheers for the feedback.
/r/askMRP21/10/19 07:04 AM
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This shit test comes up regularly for me, generally in and around shark week. Next time I am so using this line!
/r/askMRP20/10/19 06:34 PM
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Probably a bit of both! Yeah, ok, I see how I can turn this up a bit.
/r/askMRP20/10/19 04:33 PM
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I like the playing up of the camera type response, "Gotta have high def to get awesome pics of your hot ass!"
/r/askMRP20/10/19 11:50 AM
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I like that, play up the camera. Nice one.
/r/askMRP20/10/19 11:46 AM
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I needed to go through this phase too in order to hit and break down certain barriers in my head. So you're obviously making progress in the right direction. Theres a couple of things I learnt from this phase though: A lot of what I read I was applying incorrectly. Mainly due to misinterpretation or lack of broader knowledge. New readings fill in the gaps for me all the time and shine new light on older readings. Which is why I now get why you're told "read the sidebar". Yes all of it, not just …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/19 07:38 AM
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I changed gyms recently due to a serious dose of fuckarounditis. People just holding up zones and equipment doing piddly shit on mats and dumbbells my 2 year old son would lift. These were 2 particular guys that do a circut of the benches / squat rack area, and I kid you not, one of their exercises was to tie one of the rubber bands to the sqaut rack and work their triceps. Never thought I'd next a gym, but there's always a first.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 08:45 PM
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I was like this some time ago, just not quite as ballsy. Things like this: While we are arguing Why were you arguing back? If you're "arguing" to demand respect (which is what it kind of sounds like to me) then that's pretty frame-less. I argued my ass off like a BP bitch too. Doesn't work, I have started to discover that. I'm still beta as fuck but this is one thing I have recently switched off. she was just trying to deflect and argue to ensure sex was off the table She's got every right to ta…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 08:34 PM
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Thanks, I'll check that out.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/19 09:01 PM
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OYS#2 Before I get to owning my shit, a valuable lesson I learnt last week... I mentioned I needed something to get me back on track. I did not know what form this "something" needed to take, so I puked some dog shit into OYS. Then the best firecracker ever imaginable got firmly planted in my buttocks, first response in, I get triggered, cue passive agressive me, and then a ban. This highlighted my biggest issue right now. At the time I honestly could not see what I did, but at the same time I k…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/19 05:56 PM
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Amazing feedback. Cherish your thoughts buddy. Sometimes people need to download in order to process. I don't need yours, the internet's, or anyone's forgiveness for this. If I want to put my thoughts up here I will do so unashamedly, and without looking for anyone's permission.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/19 07:41 AM
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Excuse the wall of text. It's been a while. I used to post here a bit over a year ago. But doxing put an end to that. Anyway, I'm back. Because I have plateaued. And I've read about this, things get bit better, you think "it worked". But you don't carry through and you end up right back at square 1. So I'm back to put a firecracker up my ass to get me going again. I took the redpil and what they say is true. You can't spit this bitch back up again. My eyes are opened and I don't like the way I l…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/19 04:07 PM
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