doll-life Archive

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25	Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions. They also chase and harass other women. Met one such unemployed, stay at home dad through my social contacts and had to block his number as he wouldn't stop calling and messaging.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/21 11:28 AM
3	The maze I went through to find ONE seemingly HVM on OLD. The statistics are staggering. Most things are open in my country but people are not socialising as much as they used to do before. Even the guy I went on last date (this was a very socially active guy) was saying how everyone has now gotten used to indoor lifestyle and activities and this is not going to change anytime soon.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 02:17 PM
9	The maze I went through to find ONE seemingly HVM on OLD. The statistics are staggering. The revulsion is real! I have been so appalled with all the ugliness that when I came across a super attractive guy recently, I agreed for a date with him without vetting him properly. Date where he arranged and paid for me traveling to come visit his nearby town to have a lunch date. Bad idea! He tried getting me drunk and making excuses to take me to his house. I was actually going to give in because I was tired af with the hour long traveling and he kept pestering assuring that he won't even …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 02:09 PM
5	Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him. Yeah, it's not worth it to prove anything to men who don't even view women as humans. What I was trying to say was that this is how most men are, so women just get exhausted and settle and try to do what they can to make their man behave a bit better. There is so much pressure from everywhere for women to not be single. Many are afraid that if they let this one go, the next one might be worse than this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 01:10 PM
10	The maze I went through to find ONE seemingly HVM on OLD. The statistics are staggering. They blame women for not being attracted to most men. Like how does that even makes sense? How can anyone force themselves to be attracted to someone? Attraction is either there or not. Instead of whining, try making yourself into something attractive. Most men I saw on OLD there were unfit, couldn't carry conversation, broke. They had absolutely nothing a woman will feel attracted towards.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 01:01 PM
4	The maze I went through to find ONE seemingly HVM on OLD. The statistics are staggering. That maybe a blessing in disguise to have no match. All my likes are turning into matches. This gets my hopes up, spend time chatting and getting to know them, even going on dates with few of them, only to go back to square one as all of them are flaky, narcissists or thrash (one even tried to date rape me)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 12:57 PM
3	The maze I went through to find ONE seemingly HVM on OLD. The statistics are staggering. I am matching and went on dates with very good-looking guys. Both models (so am I). Both were narcissistic and one was pretty insecure too that I could do better than him. I thought if I could avoid men insecure about their looks, I will meet with better quality men. Turns out they are thrash as well.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 12:49 PM
10	The maze I went through to find ONE seemingly HVM on OLD. The statistics are staggering. Is this still true after the lockdown? Where are HVM meeting women now that most people have adapted a lifestyle of mostly living indoors? The OLD guys don't even seem to want sex, they just want to message a one-line text like "Hey" twice a day and ask for Instagram account and follow it. I don't even know why they are there other than stalking women on social media.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 12:44 PM
3	The maze I went through to find ONE seemingly HVM on OLD. The statistics are staggering. I tried that "looking to see where things go" with a guy I found attractive and charming on there, but didn't seem good enough for husband material. He lost his interest very quick. Lol. Their ego can't take it when same thing is done to them what they do to women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 12:35 PM
7	The maze I went through to find ONE seemingly HVM on OLD. The statistics are staggering. Wait, you all are finding guys with anything written on their profiles? Most profiles I came across had no bios, only the most low-effort selfies and height (mostly fake) mentioned.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 12:28 PM
7	The maze I went through to find ONE seemingly HVM on OLD. The statistics are staggering. Same here sis. This is feeling like a full-time job. Worst are men who seem so great initially, show all the interest and enthusiasm, and then start with their games to test just how much this woman is into them and how much nonsense will she put up with. Oh and it is absolutely true that those men who have nothing to offer (lookswise, careerwise, not even have their own car!!!) are the best behaved. Like does it ever occur to these men that instead of wasting their (and the women's) time on OLD…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 12:22 PM
5	The maze I went through to find ONE seemingly HVM on OLD. The statistics are staggering. It's been more than two weeks of me trying OLD for the first time, I haven't had any luck so far. Went on two dates with two different guys, blocked both of them. The first one was being a gentleman and doing and saying exactly what I want from a guy, so I was pretty attracted to him. Then, he started acting flaky, playing games, and dared me to block him when I called him out. So, that's what I did. The next one basically tried to date rape me on our first date (making excuses to call me to his…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 12:06 PM
3	Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him. THIS. This is why I am not keen on marrying. I want my own separate room. I can share living room and kitchen, but not bedroom and bathroom.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 11:34 AM
8	Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him. Because this is how (the overwhelming vast majority of) men are. I am still going on dates with hopes of finding something good, but honestly, I am tired. It's so rare to find a half decent man, then forming initial connection with him, texting, going on dates takes up my time. My hopes go up and then starts the manipulations and games. I cut them off but it does take emotional toll and is a huge waste of time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 11:31 AM
16	A weird form of negging, but I can’t quite put a finger on what I should call it Wow, being in this community has made me realise how many women face same things that I did from men. There was this classmate who kept calling and bringing up that I have no friends even though I never told him anything about that and I did have a very close female friend back then. He would say something to get me angry like "don't say anything about his favorite topic or I will punch you in the face and break your teeth" and when I would tell him to not speak to me in that way, he would accus…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/21 06:06 AM
27	A weird form of negging, but I can’t quite put a finger on what I should call it I once tried calling out a desperate, clingy "male" friend for using continuous guilt tripping, emotional manipulations to try and get me to consider dating him. This is a guy I knew for years, so he did know that my father has abandoned us and we were in a bad financial place. He used to say stuff like - "oh your mother would be so worried about getting you married. If you were my wife I would have helped you all financially, but you can't be my wife and you can't make me change my mind. Let's …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/21 05:51 AM
59	A weird form of negging, but I can’t quite put a finger on what I should call it Yes, I don't want to lie about relationship with my father because eventually they will figure it out that he isn't involved in my life. Being vague in initial vetting seems to be the best response.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 10:14 PM
35	How do you handle men in your professional life who think they’re in love with you? I have had this problem all throughout my entire career. First job, now promoting my online work. Nothing, absolutely nothing deters men. Not the fact that I claim to have a partner, not that they themselves have a partner (many are married or soon to get married), not me putting posts about what traits in a guy is a deal breaker for me (hint - those same exact traits that these losers have), even me going to the extent of claiming that I am a transgender didn't work (the scrote claims that he c…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 10:08 PM
109	A weird form of negging, but I can’t quite put a finger on what I should call it This is why I am having a hard time figuring out what to tell about my father to potential dates. My father is a pos and lives with his other wife, absconding his responsibilities towards us. I live in a conservative country where daughters stay with parents till married and fathers play a big role when it comes to choosing a potential husband for his daughter. I am from a minority and I am planning to date guys belonging to the priveleged majority. Many times they ask beforehand if this will wo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 09:53 PM
217	A weird form of negging, but I can’t quite put a finger on what I should call it Exactly this. At first, I was confused when men (random colleagues or "male" friends) would start describing traits they observed about me out of nowhere in conversations, like being shy or not having lot of friends or having only female friends, Or taking too long to type. I used to be so confused by this behavior. Like "Huh, who has time to analyse someone they just met so much?" Turns out men have that time. They have all the time in the world to over analyse, stalk, get whatever information …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 09:22 PM
54	Pornsick scrote can't be asked a normal question without turning it sexual...this was our first conversation 😒 Have I discovered a new vetting question?? From what I have read men discuss about this with each other on Reddit, they claim to do this to avoid "freindzone". They claim that if they don't move the conversation to sexual as soon as possible, they are in danger of being forever friendzoned. Sadly, I believe this tactic works on some pickmes, so they keep doing it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 10:29 PM
57	Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩 Sis, I just can't with these incels. I got one more DM saying that my comment history is all about being female incel. Lol, what? My comment history is mostly about facing unwanted sexual attention from men and being repulsed by that. That's literally opposite of female incel if there even exist such a term. Looks like porn has damaged their brain too much. They are now living in a pornified universe where they punish the pretty model/actress by denying her dick.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 05:00 PM
30	Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩 They don't really like it though when they actually get a woman chasing them. They find her unattractive and annoying. It's just their ego making them wish for stupid stuff. Like how nice it would be if they could wear a dress, look pretty and a handsome prince would swoon them off their feet. The reality of their chase is usually that they get some pickme woman, whom they obviously don't find that attractive hence her need to chase, calling them incessantly, crying over lack of attention, being…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 04:46 PM
83	Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩 They also have their hand ✋ but apparently until they can degrade and debase a female body, they can't control their homicidal rage. Sucks to be a man, I suppose. This intense need to objectify and abuse other live humans must be taxing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 04:30 PM
14	Why do south asian girls settle for average At this point, I don't understand why south Asian women are not going the way of their South Korean sisters. Avoid marriage and childbirth. The men here are literal definition of thrash. They spend years trying to match with one real woman on OLD. Situation is so bad that Chinese companies are hiring scammers to pretend to be girls and talk with these despo desi men on Chinese made dating apps as real women obviously run at the very sight of their grotesque appearance and behaviour. But the minu…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 03:48 PM
109	Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩 Lol. Some incel read my comment and sent me a message that they ain't footing our bills no more and we are female incels and tried bs threats in the end that we go either 50-50 or stay female incels. They are simply mad that they can't have the power in dating that women have and want to reverse psychology it so bad. Ain't happening incels, dream on. Men are no prize for women. Most women find most men repulsive and can't even orgasm through them. Most will just stop dating men if you continue w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 03:30 PM
6	Never call a man out for negging you Please tell all this to the naive me from about 5-6 years ago. It would have saved me so much mental trauma, guilt, anxiety, self-loathing. I still get flashbacks over how this so-called male friend treated me, whom I knew for so long and whom I thought genuinely cares for me. Long story. Sharing so others could learn from my past naive self and realise how unempathetic men truly are to their female "friends" - Basically, I had tried dating him years ago at his severe insistence but that didn't …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 03:19 PM
15	The good old “what’s your type” question I am going to reply I am looking for someone who worships the ground I walk on. Hopefully, that will eliminate fast the red-pillers and men who think they are the prize.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 02:34 PM
1	Shout out to everyone who told me to lower my standards, that no one would ever meet them That's great to hear. How did you vet him there and how long you made him wait for sex? Good-looking guys usually ghost if they don't get sex fast.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 02:22 PM
171	Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩 At this point, they are just looking for ego trips. It's not even about sex with many of them anymore. They just want that ego boost of doing absolutely nothing and still have a woman worship them. Anything else is considered "simping". I recently stumbled upon a YouTube channel in my local language with millions of followers. Each video on that channel was about how to get girls to chase you, beg for your attention, how to get her to propose to you. It seems men want to be treated as woman in d…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 01:53 PM
180	Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩 They are doing everything in their power to make sure that more and more women give up on ever interacting with them and then they become incels and screech that "why women turn us down? Men need sex. Women making us lonely and depressed. Blah blah"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 01:46 PM
201	Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩 Lol, men are hilarious. On one hand, they think women are dumber than a fish and can be easily tricked. On the other hand, they also believe women are these manipulative, gold-digging vixens who are out to use them. Whenever it comes to spending money on women, the excuses men make will cause even a little child cringe in embarrassment. Thanks to red-pill, incel culture and this whole "simp" narrative, there are so many men now who will spend all their time messaging women day and night for mont…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 12:58 PM
16	Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩 I am not American and owning cars is quite expensive here, but I will still only date men with cars. No Car is a huge turn off. But pickmes here want to ride on motorcycles with men, even if they have the option of going in Car with another man, cause it's fun 🤡 There are hardcore brainwashed pickmes here. So, young men don't even get cars here until they are married with kids.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 12:48 PM
251	Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩 This. Ladies, stop traveling so long for first dates. Unless he is some super busy CEO with great time crunch and sending you limo to travel, make him come to a place near you. Enough with these lazy ass men behaving like they are some prized princesses to be chased. The minute any man starts behaving like a female and wants to be chased, condition your mind to immediately start seeing him as unmasculine and get repulsed no matter how good-looking or charming he is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 12:43 PM
6	Would you give your phone number to a guy before meeting for the first time? You should have reported and blocked him when he tried gaslighting you with the trust issue stuff. Women need to be more ruthless with men. We are the prize and men should get no say whatsoever in initial courting stage.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 12:30 PM
11	500 Days of Summer: A Cautionary Tale This is one more example of how men are liars when they claim they would love it if more women were into casual flings. What they really want from casual flings is ego boost. The feel that the woman really wanted them and they are the ones not making it serious. When they see the woman doesn't really care about them or their existence, and is only in it for some good time, and worst of all, if she then chooses another man over them (like she did in this movie), all hell breaks lose. So ladies, i…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 12:09 PM
36	Never call a man out for negging you THIS. I also was under the assumption that maybe some of these guys are not very bright seeing how simple things need to be explained to them over and over again in detail. Now it's crystal clear they act confused to get womens' attention or to rile up feelings in her. Recently I announced name of my website on my social media and told followers to visit there if interested in my content. Some men messaged me asking for the link. I thought maybe some of them are having difficulty finding it, so …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 11:44 AM
9	Never call a man out for negging you Same. My father is also a bit of a pervert and my sister claims he molested her. Thank god he never really stayed with us, so I don't know the extent of his perverted behaviour but he had multiple wives and never really cared for us. I am baffled my all these "Daddies lil girls" who claim their fathers are angels. From what I have observed and men themselves claim, they cannot control their sexual thoughts and get attracted to any female body. Maybe those fathers' didn't act on those feelings be…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 09:42 AM
22	Never call a man out for negging you I am also having a hard time trying to comprehend what exactly men think they will achieve through this disgusting behaviour. Certainly not the woman's affections. From what I have understood is that they don't really want the women to love or even like them, they just like to cause mental distress to women and make it as hard as possible for us to live our life and earn money with dignity. I even tested out this theory. After having my facebook inbox flooded with hundreds of unwanted messages a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 09:16 AM
31	Never call a man out for negging you “She doesn’t really like you just what you’re giving to her.” Women should just start agreeing with this position. I have pledged that I won't ever interact with a man unless I am getting some profit out of it. As you said, they are bad for our mental health. For the love of God, I don't understand why any woman would want to interact or talk to men for free. They will constantly neg, gaslight, belittle, try to bully you in their pathetic attempts to "seduce" you. And no I am not just talking ab…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 08:40 AM
50	Never call a man out for negging you Men have all the time in this world to devise ways to cause mental agony to women. Never underestimate their sociopathy and hatred towards women. And 9 out of 10 times if they are offering you anything work related, it's because they want you to feel thankful to them and then get on your knees and blow them. It's the truth.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 06:44 AM
37	Never call a man out for negging you I am currently promoting my work online and the amount of disgust I am dealing with men is making me want to puke. In my country most women don't work, so unfortunately have to deal with men to get reach. And they seem to have only one mission in their head - to try and get me to talk to them on chat. Many are writing comments on my posts that why will they follow me if I don't chat with them. And of course when I open my chat they have sent something gross calling me hot or sexy. Yesterday some…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 06:37 AM
4	I found dating to be really empowering, and I wish other women would experience it that way too. That's real queen mentality right there. More and more women need to wake up to the fact that men want women much more than women want men especially as women achieve financial independence. So don't come at us with nonsensical talks of "both sides" or "I am looking for such and such women". No one gives a single damn about what you are looking for. Either impress us and show us why we should even bother giving you a minute of our previous time, or leave us alone.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/21 09:04 AM
5	I found dating to be really empowering, and I wish other women would experience it that way too. That's solid rules you have there for filtering men on OLD. OLD gets a lot of hate here because many women have had bad experience using it, so it would be super helpful if you make a post about how you implemented the rules and your overall experience using OLD.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/21 08:26 AM
4	Hypergamy is not evil, and I'm tired of pretending otherwise. Yes, this is the level of delusion they have. I have tried explaining to some oldies about why will a young, attractive woman entertain them if not for money, but they don't get it at all. They start ree reeing and saying you have no guts if you don't want to date them. Like wtf. That's like thrash saying you lack guts for not keeping it at your home.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 01:47 PM
10	Hypergamy is not evil, and I'm tired of pretending otherwise. Yup, since human males are having such a hard time tolerating rejection, put them back to dueling. That should toughen them up. MakeMenMasculineAgain	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 01:40 PM
1	Stop worrying about the existence of HVM: Some strategies Wow. So glad I never had this intense desire to have a partner. In fact, when I am in nature or outside in general, I prefer to be alone and kind of get irritated if someone disturbs me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 01:34 PM
2	Srsly guys. What is the generation of male princesses we’ve been lumbered with. Having to approach a woman to get laid is to much effort for them now - they should be able to press a button and order us like a McChicken sandwich meal. BARF. This reminds me of a much older dusty, who started talking to me on the pretext of being a rich man willing to provide, then started manipulating me to not care about money. I told him then I don't want his old, unattractive self and he got mad and called me coward for rejecting him. Like lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 12:49 PM
17	Refinery29 Article: I Earn Much Less Than My Partner, But We Split Costs Evenly. How Do I Stop Resenting Him? This is why I have accepted most female friendships are waste of time. Most women love to be the martyr for some disgusting man and will keep pestering you why don't you become one too. I only interact with select few women who put their interests above men. I care not one bit about male approval or validation and happiness for me is freedom, security and comfort. Not being made to work like a mule to satisfy a scrote who watches teen porn in his spare time and is probably looking to cheat with …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 09:19 AM
18	Broke FDS guidelines after years and regret it so much I am planning to use nickname in my profile because I belong to a minority whose women men want to claim for boasting reasons. I have encountered such weirdos who hate my minority but still want to get with me. I was planning on revealing my real identity after few dates, but reading these comments is making me rethink my strategy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 08:58 AM
10	Don't take it personally if you get banned from FDS. We ban a lot of people, it's actually very common. Ah! the cope of "sisterhood" and "you should support all women even the ones who will throw you under a bus because they are poor victims of internalized misogyny". I would have believed this lie some years ago and support all women. But not anymore. I have experienced pure evilness of pickmes desperate for male validation. So, I know very well to stay far away from women who have sympathy for men. The reason I almost exclusively interact with women here is because FDS states it that this is abo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 08:47 AM
2	“Build with him” True. For a long time, I didn't want to be in a relationship at all and avoided men like plague. The more I tried to get them off me, the more they would chase. And I see all these women being super nice to their man and getting treated so bad. So yeah, the secret to keeping a man loyal and forever in love with you is to treat him as thrash and give as little love as possible.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/21 07:23 AM
2	“Build with him” This is my fear as well which I want to address before I venture into online dating. Especially in my sex-ratio skewed country which has lots more men on dating apps than women. How do I keep track of the clowns I previously matched and rejected? I have especially hard time remembering faces of people I just met once. I am thinking of keeping a database with name and screenshots of all the clowns I noped on. Seems too time-consuming, but with all these liars and manipulators being forever on dat…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/21 07:18 AM
1	“Build with him” THIS. I am a gold-digger and so many men waste my time by claiming they are wealthy then trying to manipulate me to not be "materialistic". I straight up tell them that if not for money, someone like me won't entertain an old, unattractive guy like them. They completely lose their cool then and try to verbally bully and abuse. Men are so psychotic. Even an ammoral woman like me has more morals than an average, normal man. They are that unemphatic.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/21 07:05 AM
2	‘No social media’ guys Thing is women use anonymity for completely different purpose than men. We have a need for it to avoid harassment and male violence. They don't have that need. So, them being so insistent on privacy is definitely a red flag.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/21 08:56 AM
15	🚨 Male shit tests and the pickme radar 🚨 "pursued princess". Nice term. If I come across one more guy online who gives me his number and tells me I should call him, I am going to hit him up with that term.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/21 07:45 AM
74	🚨 Male shit tests and the pickme radar 🚨 Same. Why are men so repulsive in general? Like so many of them are so so unattractive looks wise and make you feel to throw up just thinking of them in any kind of sexual way. On top of that, so many of them are so feminine these days and want to be courted and chased like a girl. They shamelessly admit they cannot do much if it comes to protecting their women if need be, making fun of Jack dying in Titanic to save Rose. So weak. Even if I come across some half-decent looking man and try to wor…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/21 12:38 AM
65	🚨 Male shit tests and the pickme radar 🚨 Yup, they all do it to some degree. The key is to have multiple guys on rotation and not give too much attention to any one guy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/05/21 10:58 PM