Today is a short one on why I think you should be very weary of ‘no social media’ guys in 2021- especially given the fact many ‘seemingly normal’ men are hiding behind misogynistic alternate personas online.

And especially ones who ‘seem’ HVM and ‘appear’ to be making you a priority / wanting to get serious with you.

Both me and another mod have ran into red pill clowns pulling this card. And our instinct that ‘something was amiss’ has always been right.

For starters - most people have some form of social media in 2021. It allows you to sniff someone out- who they know and what they get up to.

Guys who have left a trail of emotionally abused women and ‘crazy’ ex’s and one night stands- will not want to have much if any public social media. They will not want them finding eachother. Abusive men want to isolate victims.

They do not want their reputations getting back to them and for all you know they have secret children they don’t see or secret ex’s they don’t want you to know about.

I can tell you now it is highly likely many pick up artists and red pill types do have secret kids in the background with the amount of vaginas they are running through unprotected every month.

Too many women are quick to think a guy with no social media is an advantage or a sign he doesn’t follow women etc but in most cases - it’s the opposite.

Men with stuff to hide will do just that - keep secret accounts where they message /follow women and repost misogynist crap.

In fact a man having NO social media to hand is far more of a sign he’s got a bad reputation he doesn’t want getting back to him- if you ask me.

Sometimes the only ‘friends’ a man has are friends he met online on redpill /gaming forums etc.

So if a guy seems the reserved type with few or no local ties in the area - stay on guard. Especially if he’s a gamer. And especially men who work in tech / cyber security / computing jobs. I have found them to be the most manipulative crafty cheaters.

The reason I say to keep tabs on those types specifically is because they spend far more time on laptops, know how to hack and are far more in the know with current social/digital trends online and ways to cover their tracks through encrypted apps/incognito windows.

In the book 48 laws of power - it puts emphasis on guarding your reputation with your life and being in control of the narrative you put out. That’s exactly what a man is doing when claims he has no social media.

Oh and don’t believe his lies that he’s a ‘private simple guy’ who doesn’t like excessive phone /social media use or modern dating culture. Quite often those are the opposite of what they say they are and are hiding all their red pill / pickup artist conversations and cheating on apps. They are incredibly active...in secret.

Which reminds me - if your partner constantly leaves a clean google history on his laptop. That is another bad sign he is being careful not to be caught doing something. Likewise if he’s super fast to close notifications on his phone in front of you and keeps it face down.

If he seems secretive with his phone/laptop and you catch a glance at him on secret social media accounts- do not trust him and take mental note of who he follows.

If his name brings nothing up in a google search- don’t assume that’s automatically a good sign. He might of scrubbed his online presence online for alternate reasons.

You have to think about the behaviour of a man with nothing to hide and ask yourself - why is this man so flinchy and secretive if that is the case?

Most times these men are playing games and don’t want to give you any ammo to uncover what they’re really up to.