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STAY WOKEVividPsychology7/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:52 PM
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42

You’ve summed it up so well! It’s the patriarchy’s way of trying to brainwash women into thinking “only the best looking men have the option to cheat” or “at least it proves you’re with a guy who’s in demand and desirable!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:35 AM
8

No, I don’t. I believe they’re only as faithful as their morals. I agree that there’s also an element of trying to push women towards men with fewer options, but ultimately you should go for who you’re interested in, not who society tells you you have to be interested in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:31 AM
104

When I was 16, one of my classmates (F) was going out with a 21 year old man. I felt uneasy about it at the time and couldn’t put my finger on why, but now (I’m 27) it’s just obvious why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:30 PM
73

If you feel the need to brag about being something (such as rich, kind, funny etc.), you aren’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 06:16 PM
51

IKR? “Not that young” we’re still half your age dude 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 06:15 PM
174

Scrooge McYuck 😂😂😂💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 06:11 PM
7

🤢🤮 it’s literally dangerous and life-threatening for an 11 year old girl to give birth because she’s not even fully grown yet! I… can’t 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:38 PM
62

Jesus Christ I hope you don’t consider this woman a friend 😠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:33 PM
2

He doesn’t care - at least she got to discover this before they even met
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 08:59 AM
18

That’s disgusting 🤮 thank god no one actually listens to them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 08:51 AM
8

Thanks for telling me straight like this, I needed it! (I’m sure some others do too)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:45 AM
3

I think this is a case of a guy trying to come up with a novel, ‘different’ idea for a first date to come across as quirky and interesting, but it backfired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:44 AM
22

It’s honestly baffling when you see men on other dating subs saying they’re not trying to impress women on dates because of “equality”. Sorry what?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:31 AM
29

Men who try to arrange for the first date to take place at their place are the worst. Do they not have ANY knowledge of the importance of women’s safety? Are they so stupid that they would think I would happily go to a stranger’s house without having ever actually met him in person?! Have a wash and go outside 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:29 AM
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The government should “issue” them women??!! 😂😂😂😂 we’re not tax credits! I’ve heard it all now. If I were to go around saying the government should issue me men, scrotes would call me a nutcase so why are they so comfortable with the obvious double standard here?! It’s a hard pass from me on having anal with anyone thanks very much so I’m certainly not going to have it with an incel who 99% of the time treats women like dirt anyway. Oh and PSA scrotes: you don’t own your partner’s vagina 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:21 AM
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What, so, guaranteed access to disinterested women brings them hope and is something meaningful for them to strive for/gives them a path and a purpose in life? And if they don’t get that, they’ll become dangerous to society? Get a personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:37 PM
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When you break up your boyfriend: His friends: OmG can’t you see that he’s genuinely in love with you??!! You’ve broken his heart you eViL pOs!!! Give him another chance!!11!!!1!!! When your boyfriend breaks up with you: His friends, and also most other people unfortunately: He didn’t want to go out with you anymore, get over it! Do you have AnY self respect?! Being upset like this is veerrrrrryyy unattractive and will only push him further away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:38 AM
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Why is a 30 year old man incapable of having an adult conversation, incapable of organising a date with a woman, and why has he saved a woman’s number in his phone according to her race rather than her name? She should cancel the date and block his number, and he should start acting his age rather than his shoe size.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:33 AM
6

How do you mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:19 PM
7

I’ve had all those experiences with younger guys and guys the same age as me too 😭 it’s like they don’t want to have to admit they aren’t looking for anything serious in case they can’t get anyone at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:19 PM
11

I agree. If he truly wanted to do it and had every intention of doing it, he’d be doing it right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 08:41 PM
28

Spot on! I say do these things for you if you like doing them, because if you genuinely do then great. But never start doing these things for a man if you hate doing them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 08:01 PM
31

The mental gymnastics they do to try to explain things that aren’t even that deep is unreal! “Oh I see you’re trying to portray a nerdy look” or maybe you were just trying to be able to see??!! They jump to the wrong conclusions and come across as down right rude while doing so. I’m glad he’s your ex because he sounds irritating 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 07:58 PM
11

You’re welcome 😘 save to your heart’s content!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:17 PM
27

So true! These scrotes know what they’re doing in their attempts to prey on HVW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 04:34 PM
26

Men when they’re looking for a job: it’s your mOrAl ReSpOnSiBiLiTy as my partner (read: live-in bangmaid) to help me find a job and better myself Also men when their girlfriends are looking for a job: don’t expect me to help you! You should be a sTrOnG iNdEpEnDeNt WoMaN in 2021!! HA. Way to go feminism!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 09:04 AM
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I love this! My first rule is that I ask myself whether I want to see him naked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 08:55 AM
11

Scrotes be like “What?! No!!! I don’t wanna take you to dinner, yOu HaVeNt EaRnEd A dInNeR” They really do tell on themselves so early on, doing us the favour of taking their trashy selves out so we don’t have to 😂 thanks scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 07:16 PM
7

If I had an award to give, I’d give it to you sis 😂 🌟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 07:12 PM
25

😂😂😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 and some unstained clothes and a job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 07:11 PM
7

These scrotes claim that women also have to earn the big bucks… yet also never leave the house unless it’s to go food shopping, cook delicious meals on demand, and be a SAHM! They don’t realise they’re contradicting themselves 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 06:59 PM
14

This resonates too much… the dulcet tones of “that’s why I’ve got a boyfriend and you haven’t” 🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 06:48 PM
8

This is amazing and absolutely spot on! Scrotes HATE having to put in any effort whatsoever with a new woman because, as you so eloquently summarised OP, they are ‘coddled LVM’. I don’t think there’s a better adjective out there to describe them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:44 AM
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Why, as a functional adult, would you need anyone to build you up? Take responsibility and focus on building yourself up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:36 AM
8

I died at that part too 😂😂😂 my two cents is that these scrotes can’t get over women who rejected them years ago because ultimately their pride was hurt as opposed to them having been “in love” with them. They feel utterly entitled to women and they can’t get their heads around it when a woman doesn’t want them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:29 PM
7

I love this! Men do it all the time, so why can’t we?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 09:56 AM
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Why did she contact him knowing he has a new girlfriend? Sounds like the epitome of a pick-me to me. Good on you for cutting him off though sis, at least the mask dropped this early rather than a year or two down the line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 07:55 AM
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Completely agree! The worst ones are the ones who expect their girlfriends to be as muscly and ripped as they are, like that’s possible without steroids or something 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 07:42 AM
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Re picture 3 - women already DO like men for their personalities and character traits (when they’re good of course!), and positive ones are really important to them in a romantic partner. Some men seem to think that being physically attractive and having a nice, kind, loving personality are mutually exclusive and I’ve never understood why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 06:27 PM
8

Exactly! I know FAR more men who’ve cheated than women who’ve cheated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 06:21 PM
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I find it very difficult to believe that only 10% of men are attractive, kind and have a job. Oh wait, they’re projecting because they’re ugly, overweight and sit in their mum’s basement playing video games all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 06:20 PM
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“Self-ASTEAM” 🚂🚂🚂 😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:25 AM
9

I was quiet, well-behaved and studious in school, so the teacher often made the class clown sit next to me at the back of the class so I could “encourage them to behave” (nah sis - he can take responsibility for his own behaviour). I’ve always been assertive and stood up for myself even from a young age so I always called them out on their behaviour, to which the teacher would tell me off for being “disruptive” 🙄 It’s double standards and a result of deep social conditioning that girls should be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:40 AM
9

Precisely. It’s all about trying to make us women make fools of ourselves while those scrotes kick back and laugh because even they know full well that what they’re saying is a load of crap. It’s just unfortunate for pickmes that they haven’t caught on that it’s all a ploy yet… Edit: most men don’t have the wherewithal to portray a completely different personality for each and every woman they know. If he’s LV with even just one, then he is LV. Case closed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 11:41 AM
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A NVM/LVM will call you clingy/needy/keen because you don’t let him get away with the same low-effort shit that his pickmeisha ex did, and he isn’t used to women actually requiring him to do the bare minimum in showing his interest in the relationship. If a guy calls you this just block and delete him (if it’s IRL just avoid him and don’t talk to him again).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 11:37 AM
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Honestly, this narrative that a woman needs to put the work in to stop a man from behaving like a POS makes me angry. Why don’t these scrotes have any accountability?! They’re supposed to be grown adults!! Even if a pickmeisha were to do these things for him, he’d still behave like a POS if he wanted to and then just gaslight her afterwards for “not being good enough”. Don’t give these NVM/LVM the option to behave like this in the first place by avoiding them like the plague.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:24 AM
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Exactly! They should be taking responsibility and making themselves a better human rather than relying on someone else to do the legwork for them… oh wait, that would require them to be self-aware and to have emotionally matured according to their biological age!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:20 AM
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I know 😂 he’s either ten years old, emotionally stunted or delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:00 AM
12

“My ex hurt me/ my last relationship messed me up so much” is bullshit anyway. If it truly messed them up that much they wouldn’t be with you. What they really mean when they say this is “my pride was hurt and I need to prove that I’m desirable somehow, and I’m so desperately ego-driven that I’d be prepared to do anything to do it”. They don’t care about their ex, they care that they got dumped because it’s a blow to their ego - they no longer look as “cool” or attractive as they’d built themsel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:46 AM
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Because he’s a self obsessed user. At least he’s advertising himself as such for our benefit so we know to stay away from him 😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:27 AM
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Of course these NVM/LVM are blaming their actions on women yet again, instead of just behaving like adults and being accountable for their own behaviour and decisions. Also if a “fuckboi” doesn’t settle it’s because he doesn’t want to. Plain and simple. You can’t change a man and you can’t change a man’s mind - his behaviour is never a reflection on the woman he’s dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:22 AM
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NVM/LVM who only see women as “girlfriend material” if they don’t sleep with them within the first few dates/weeks/whatever are controlling narcissists. It has nothing to do with respect because if they genuinely had any shred of respect for any woman they wouldn’t say or think shit like that. They want to have the upper hand in relationships and put themselves on a pedestal in that women have to “earn” a relationship with them by behaving in a specific way. They see relationships as purely tran…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:20 PM
4

I would’ve just kept saying “I don’t understand, can you explain” with a straight face until he was forced to admit he’d royally fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:29 PM
8

It would take a lot less effort for men to simply level up than it does for them to learn “negging”/PUA tactics to lower women’s confidence so they’ll feel lucky to have them and “worthy” (wtf) of their attention. I think it’s a pride issue - they can’t admit to themselves that they could, in fact, do with bettering themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:21 PM
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If she finds another man like him I’ll feel sorry for her… and I don’t even know her! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:52 AM
3

Lurkers, if you read anything on this sub today, read this, and take note! 👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:56 PM
72

I didn’t even have to read the whole thing to say “sis, put your education over ANY guy” out loud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:40 PM
24

Yet if she were to send him an “official boyfriend application” in which he had to state his height and penis length, men would be outraged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:41 AM
1

I hate this question. I’m always suspicious of men who ask this when they’re the ones who asked you out in the first place? Like, if you can’t see “what I bring to the table” (even though I AM the table smdh) then why did you ask me to go on a date with you??!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:54 PM
2

This x100000! They don’t want to put any effort into being the best they can be, so they expect women to take on that role instead to elevate their status by association
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:51 PM
6

Nailed it! 😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:23 PM
7

This made me laugh out loud 😂😂😂💀💀💀 like they have any exes anyway…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:18 PM
15

Usually followed by something along the lines of “the nerd (that you’re not even attracted to) would treat you SO much better… you should gIvE hIm A cHaNcE”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:47 PM
10

Spot on. I’ve been saying this for years! Miranda was inspirational and pushed her to do her best in her career. She was a good role model. Her boyfriend, on the other hand, was unsupportive, whiny, childish and generally irritating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 09:43 AM
2

Same. The scrotes really advertise themselves sometimes so we don’t have to work it out for ourselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:43 PM
12

He’s put in his bio that he’s looking for friendship, something casual AND a long-term relationship Dude what actually ARE you looking for??!! 🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:15 PM
14

THIS. People still look fundamentally like their natural selves with make up on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:38 AM
3

So they regard paying for dates as toxic but not domestic violence, cheating, leaving the mother of their child, not paying child support, or pretending to love someone for years just because they want easy sex? Okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:27 AM
1

It’s much better when they come clean and tell the truth rather than lead you on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:55 PM
15

Imagine being this pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:01 PM
6

She’s lucky he told her straight that he wasn’t interested in further pursuing things. A lot of men won’t say anything because they want to keep you as an option, usually for sex. I don’t understand how she still thinks there’s a future with this guy when he’s blatantly told her there isn’t one, no mind games or messing her around/stringing her along or anything. She needs to move on, and maybe seek help because she doesn’t seem happy with herself and her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:56 PM
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And immature wankers who are shit at relationships!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:44 PM
16

I love how he deemed being dumped as a “red flag”. There were no “flags” to think about - it was over! Glad you’re rid of him, sis. Edit: he needs to learn what the definition of “red flag” is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 11:18 AM
20

Hahahaha I lost it at “value and cherish the porn” 😂😂😂 Find a real hobby, you losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 11:15 AM
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Isn’t the purpose of being in a relationship that you’re with someone who you find both emotionally AND physically attractive, and they feel the same way about you? This is why I don’t understand it when people try to push women into going out with men they’re not physically attracted to. If they’re only emotionally attracted to them then surely they’re just a friend? Men certainly don’t entertain women they’re not physically attracted to, so why are we expected to do it for them? And no, ugly p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:06 PM
3

“People act on their values and morality, not how they look” THIS. It’s like that misguided belief that attractive people are more likely to be shallow - there’s just no correlation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 09:03 PM
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I just love how it’s always women who get told their standards are too high and they should “lower them”, yet if a man has standards that’s apparently “his right”? Double standards at its finest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:08 PM
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You’re right, and thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:14 PM
1

He was honestly useless, and pretty rubbish in relationships too looking back. At least I’m shut of him now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:13 PM
74

Women are conditioned to believe they’ll be happier with a boyfriend and that their life will exponentially improve if they have a boyfriend. Why don’t we condition them to love themselves, and have satisfying career goals and hobbies instead of encouraging them to base their self worth and happiness on how much some guy “likes” them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:34 PM
9

Exactly. In the early days of a new relationship when you’re looking at your partner through rose-tinted glasses, the red flags just look like… flags!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:13 AM
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Not long after we broke up my ex told all his friends I was “too keen” because I wanted to see him at least once a week (bearing in mind we were living in the same block at uni!) and because I wanted him to text me more than once a week. So yes, it seemed the basic requirement was too much for him 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:19 PM
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I blamed myself for men’s treatment of me for a long time and it caused me so much unnecessary stress. FDS has helped to shift my mindset in the right direction and I’ve been more confident in myself, much happier and more zen since I found it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:13 PM
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I do this to anyone who tries to talk shit to me or otherwise tries to upset me. It’s a great strategy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:13 AM
17

Exactly. Attractive and successful people don’t feel the need to “prove” themselves or seek the group’s attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:10 AM
8

Shit like this has never been funny and never will be. It’s immature and pathetic, and grown men should know better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:06 AM
14

I just laughed out loud at this 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:10 PM
25

Well said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:46 PM
2

Oh fgs they’re basic standards, not “bonuses” 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:31 PM
1

Last year I matched with a guy on Bumble that had no social media whatsoever and it just struck me as odd/didn’t sit right with me at all. I ended up ghosting him because my gut instinct told me something wasn’t right. I don’t know whether I was right or not but ALWAYS trust your gut instinct ladies! You have it for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 07:14 AM
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“What they had to say was always about them and their interests. If I tried to talk about something too it would quickly be diverted back to them.” Exactly. They couldn’t give a shit about anyone else. In my experience, if I even DARE to speak they’ll just start (often incorrectly) finishing my sentences... I guess in the hope that I’ll get tired of trying and let them speak again. Don’t fall for it ladies, it’s manipulative AF. Oh, and I’ve also met men who thought I wasn’t interested in them j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:28 AM
2

Thank you 😘💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:59 PM
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THIS. People DO tell them to shut up, but they just say they’re “nagging” them and carry on 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:19 PM
6

I couldn’t agree more. I’ve always had a problem with the phrases “if he wanted to he would” and “he’s just not that into you” because they prioritise men’s preferences over women’s and imply that she has to level-up to meet his standards, which isn’t how it should be. The egg doesn’t chase the sperm and women are supposed to be the selective sex, not men. These phrases make me feel comfortable because they encourage men to be put into the position of doing the choosing when biologically speakin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:24 AM
1

Yuck. The fact an “adult” man most likely typed that is just worrying 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:19 AM
2

I always assume that if a man is dating a significantly younger woman, it’s either because he couldn’t get a woman closer to his own age or because he’s simply a creep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:16 AM
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Imagine getting triggered over a purse ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:48 AM
2

I remember one time when I confided in my best friend about my relationship at the time, and my ZV ex went absolutely nuts! Apparently it was okay for him to talk to HIS friends about our relationship, but it wasn’t okay for me to do the same with mine. I... I just couldn’t wrap my head around that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:44 AM
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