The bar is in hell ladies 🤦🏻‍♀️

engineergorl · 2021-08-14T00:02:18+00:00

This is why the #1 piece of advice in "The Gift of Fear" is "trust your instincts!". If it "feels" like a huge red flag, then it is!

K0rla · 2021-08-14T01:09:34+00:00

“Mildly” offended? A dude cannot even bother to save your name because he only care about crossing you off of his fuck bucket list, and the offence is mild??

revengeofgivingtree · 2021-08-14T00:21:00+00:00

Been thinking about this, I think a new standard of mine is dates should be planned and asked for over a phone call.

Some_Ad_7636 · 2021-08-14T00:33:26+00:00

She should literally feel so disrespected to the point of being repulsed and completely turned off by him.

RadiantMist · 2021-08-14T01:20:05+00:00

6 year age gap ( 🚩) , texting for a few weeks but haven’t gone out yet ( 🚩), she has to ask what the plan is ( 🚩), he’s “not sure” ( 🚩), he didn’t save her contact as her actual name ( 🚩), he identifies her by her race ( 🚩), they met on tinder ( possible 🚩), she’s excited before even having gone on one date ( 🚩). There’s lotssss going on here and none of it is good.

BxGyrl416 · 2021-08-14T01:47:18+00:00

Run, don’t walk.

lostmillenia · 2021-08-14T00:30:18+00:00

This is who he is. Great! He's racist! Bingo!

Mighty_Wombat42 · 2021-08-14T04:34:47+00:00

Please tell me she cancelled it.

Ladies if you feel like something is a red flag, that’s reason enough to end things or block/delete. If you feel the need to ask other people’s opinions, it’s clearly bothered you. If you’re stressed, bothered or upset by his behavior before even date 1, that’s enough of a red flag and a reason to block and delete.

electroloop · 2021-08-13T23:36:42+00:00

Really she’s asking if she should cancel the date? Not only did this dude fetishize her, but he dehumanized her to the point of not putting her name down as a contact! And on top of that, subtly negging her by sending her the screenshot of the train wreck.

She’s beyond help.

YesPleaseMadam · 2021-08-14T03:55:40+00:00

james cameron just discovered the bar at mariana’s trench

punyhumannumber2 · 2021-08-14T03:10:09+00:00

Not sure if this works with every phone but if you get them to send you an audio recording over text message and save it to your files, the file name displays what they have put your name as in the contact list.

VividPsychology7 · 2021-08-14T08:33:36+00:00

Why is a 30 year old man incapable of having an adult conversation, incapable of organising a date with a woman, and why has he saved a woman’s number in his phone according to her race rather than her name? She should cancel the date and block his number, and he should start acting his age rather than his shoe size.

dancedancedance7 · 2021-08-14T07:31:37+00:00

He rubbed the disrespect in her face - it's one thing to do this stuff in the privacy of your own phone and at least put in a semblance of resonable behavior, but this guy took it up a notch.

elainejay82 · 2021-08-14T01:17:26+00:00

Uh. The age gap should have this girl running.

PicoPicoMio · 2021-08-14T07:51:03+00:00

I’d run so fast I might break my ankles. This girl is in for a world of pain if she gives into her pickme urge.

MofoMadame · 2021-08-14T09:02:53+00:00

I don't understand why she's only almost ready to cancel. Wtf?!

hopewings · 2021-08-14T01:02:49+00:00

That 6 year age gap is the first and biggest red flag. There's also the fact that they met on Tinder.

The rest are just window dressing.

isa_banana · 2021-08-14T09:00:24+00:00

Mildly offended ????!!!! wow !

Conclusion-Waste · 2021-08-14T13:06:31+00:00

The bar is in the deepest circle of Dante's Inferno.

HumanFondant · 2021-08-13T23:37:45+00:00

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HumanAdhesiveness360 · 2021-08-14T12:23:16+00:00

Holy hell

Feminineprincess · 2021-08-14T21:59:43+00:00

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Title	The bar is in hell ladies 🤦🏻‍♀️
Author	LevelUpWoman
Upvotes	738
Comments	41
Date	August 13, 2021 4:17 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/p3od07/the_bar_is_in_hell_ladies/
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