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| 12 | Don't be with man who is squeamish about women bodyGrossed out by vulvas or just female bodies in general, but refuses to entertain the possibility that he might be gay so he just continues to have sex with women he's not even attracted to because he's a man and according to society they neeeeeeed to have sex with women in order to be a "real man". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 08:30 PM |
| 26 | Harassment from Scrote outside FDS - Following me across reddit telling me I should be rapedHey, I'm sorry this guy is harassing you but this is just giving the guy the attention that he wants. Just block him, please, stop responding to him and making posts about him everywhere, it isn't helping | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 01:17 AM |
| 2 | One way to say "if he wanted to, he would"And everywhere else, they’ll deny this concept exists and probably call you sexist. You might hear some guys say "women fake sex, men fake love", it's what that means | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 03:15 AM |
| 560 | One way to say "if he wanted to, he would"Guys proudly admit that they fake entire relationships and will lie about anything to get them due to their entitlement to a woman's love and support. This is why we have to vet. Weed out the fakes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 11:10 AM |
| 28 | Western males are growing less useful for society, so they are lashing out in odd ways. Thoughts?Platonic marriages between women were/are absolutely a thing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 01:53 AM |
| 74 | Help. I just got banned from other subreddits if you participate in this one. My comment was not offensive at all nor was I applying FDS strategies. I call bullshit but I guess I'll make a throwaway.This is why I use a separate account for only FDS, I don't use my main account | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:40 AM |
| 43 | Gathered from the redpill sub, which is filled with posts like this. These men are literally advocating for sexual assault and somehow people still have the nerve to say FDS is the same, when it teaches us how to stay away precisely from men like this and vet for the sake of our own safety.I hope all the libfem pickmes know that this is what their fwbs and hookups think about them. Women may treat their friends like this cooking for them, giving them gifts, checking in on their mental health, y'know actually caring about them. Many men do not do these things for their friends. What many women do for their friends, men would only do for someone they genuinely cared about, that's why so many of them might get the wrong idea when women do nice things for male friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:33 AM |
| 12 | Motives and Manifestations of Sex as Self-Injury(SASI)It's a fairly new study, so it would likely reveal a lot more women do this as self-harm as more research is done on it. I also see there being some pushback from libfems if research on SASI gains more traction, since they've been the ones pushing "sex positivity" and BDSM as a healthy way to deal with trauma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 04:49 AM |
| 79 | Sharing FDS knowledge with young women and girls is crucial!It's so reassuring to hear someone actually validate your concerns instead of having all your friends pressure you into accepting things you're not comfortable with! Thank you for being that person 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 04:40 AM |
| 71 | This is what men think of women they hook up with. It is not in our best interests as women to sleep with men casually.Then they wonder why so many women regret having sex when they do shit like this 🙄 Many men shame the woman that they just had sex with, doesn't matter if the sex was ok or not. It would make anyone feel bad about themselves if the guy they just had sex with seemed chill and nice, then turned out to be an asshole afterwards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 05:33 AM |
| 53 | PSA: Halloween is almost here for many of us.Some people might still see black cats as evil or bad luck due to superstitions. There's also rumors of people torturing black cats on Halloween, but I'm not sure if this is entirely true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 11:38 PM |
| 8 | Future of social relationships between men and womenAhhh ok I heard about the damaged sex dolls, but I assumed the damages were just like... ripped hair or something not full on destroying them considering how pricey I've heard some are. Didn't know about the child ones 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 10:47 PM |
| 17 | Future of social relationships between men and womenI wonder if women getting into making these sex bots will help us? Like both will get what they want, men will get their robot housewives, and women can earn a fortune from them and put the money into something that will actually help society like proper mental health, health care, education, actual help for women who were denied abortions, improving the foster care system ect. ect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:17 AM |
| 85 | Future of social relationships between men and womenAs nice as this sounds, it'll probably be a huge target to men :( Hearing about an island of exclusively women thriving, happy, and finally being free to exist without men's eyes constantly on you no matter where you go will sound enticing to them, like forbidden fruit. That's the only thing I'm afraid of tbh, I'm not worried we won't be able to live without men. It's men's entitlement to us that will prevent us from living in peace, unless we can somehow keep this place a secret that only women… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:02 AM |
| 137 | How to you feel about the idea that "most men don't marry the woman they love the most. They marry the woman that’s around when they’re ready to marry."Maybe they're realizing their mortality, like the guy OP was talking to. Like "Oh shit turns out I'm not invincible, gotta lockdown a woman to keep me healthy and keep me from dying" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 09:23 AM |
| 93 | Women: Don't accept a single neg. Check out the dating advice men give each other.I'm not sure if this is still a thing(probably is) but I remember seeing videos of guys doing something sweet for their partner's birthday/wedding proposal/whatever important occasion and the comments were just filled with men complaining about the guy "raising the bar" for them. I reckon if you find anything about a guy just being very kind to his gf and treating her like a normal human being, there's always some scrote who gets worried and insecure about all the comments from women saying "aww… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 08:55 AM |
| 47 | Women: Don't accept a single neg. Check out the dating advice men give each other.Like a slot machine, they get a win ONCE and they go "It works!" and then keep pulling the lever over and over not caring about the fact that they only get a payout once every dozens or so turns. So it's also things like this that keep them coming back, just because they were able to successfully manipulate a handful of women despite the bigger amount of failed attempts, they're convinced it works on every woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 08:46 AM |
| 121 | Women: Don't accept a single neg. Check out the dating advice men give each other.It's sad how we see more men putting each other down for being kind to us and treating us like human beings more than we see them actually call out the scumbags that harm us or threaten our safety :/ But notallmen amirite? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 08:17 AM |
| 154 | Women: Don't accept a single neg. Check out the dating advice men give each other.A lot of us are used to being told we're pretty(mostly by other women) and a lot of women still have low self-esteem lol. Hearing men say that we'll get a big head by genuinely kind compliments is so weird to me, almost as if they're projecting. An attractive woman gives the unattractive guy a chance, and suddenly his ego skyrockets and he's already checked out of the relationship looking for a more attractive replacement thinking he can do better than her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 08:12 AM |
| 66 | When FDS Theory actually makes it in socmed: building a man doesn’t help you cement the relationship you want. Scary how many likes this post got-Cue car analogy 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 02:48 AM |
| 86 | When FDS Theory actually makes it in socmed: building a man doesn’t help you cement the relationship you want. Scary how many likes this post got-“If my girl could leave me for a guy who is more established or appreciates her more..” He says this as if she's going do this him after she builds him up for years(also implying he's going to do that thing guys do where, instead of being an adult and breaking up with her, he's going to push her away by constantly doing shitty things to her until she initiates the breakup). So he wouldn't try to breadcrumb her or guilt her into staying with him because he feels entitled to her love and support i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 02:47 AM |
| 67 | Scrote harasses a 21 year old girl and people in the comments are blaming HER for not “shutting him down”…The guy still tried to shoot his shot even after she said she had a boyfriend, so even that doesn't work sometimes :/ Scrote in the comments saying he "didn't ask the right questions" lol. So the problem wasn't that he didn't take the rejection, but that he wasn't persisting in the right way? Yet another guy empathizing with a guy he doesn't even know who's harassing a woman and claiming he's just socially awkward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 09:03 AM |
| 154 | Scrote harasses a 21 year old girl and people in the comments are blaming HER for not “shutting him down”…She rejected him multiple times, flat out said "No" and "I'm alright, thanks". His response to her rejections was "Are you sure?" We've all been in this situation before. When polite rejections don't work, being a little less polite about it will make a guy like this angry when he just brushes it off and continues talking at you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 08:15 AM |
| 17 | Brian Laundrie’s remains found…It just... Doesn't make any sense to blame her. If he was completely innocent, he would've reported the murder instead taking her belongings and hiding, not to mention there were complete strangers who noticed his behavior towards her as well as observations from the people who knew him more personally. He knew he was fucked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 05:24 AM |
| 16 | “But I love casual sex. I have a high sex drive and I don’t want a loving relationship.”Yeah, it's sad men have to be inspired by women to be better people to impress us and not just genuinely want to be better because they care about others, but this is the way things are it seems :( Confronting and holding men accountable for their owns actions is too scary and people don't trust them to make the right decisions, so we put the responsibility on women because people know they're easier targets. Teenage girls who have crushes on their male teachers or a friend of their dad are told… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 04:58 AM |
| 55 | “But I love casual sex. I have a high sex drive and I don’t want a loving relationship.”Just wanted to point out that promiscuous women who claim to have a high libido might be hypersexual due to childhood sexual trauma Women with higher testosterone levels also have a high sex drive, but this doesn't automatically mean they have casual sex, just that they probably need lots of orgasms to feel satisfied lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 04:27 AM |
| 15 | Men are the emotional sex.Yeah it's not bad to be emotional, what matters is how you handle those emotions. Most women would rather deal with their emotions now than later and talk to friends/family/therapists about it. Men tend to compartmentalize their emotions and either dump it all on one person to deal with(usually their partners) or just never deal with it at all, or at least not in a healthy way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 09:27 AM |
| 19 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?Same vein as hoping other men will remain depraved so the standards are low, and they can be the heroes. THIS is why "good men" or men who do the bare minimum continue to keep asshole friends around, because it makes them look like better people by comparison. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 09:43 PM |
| 12 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?I didn't realize that guys who say this are indirectly acknowledging this while still supporting the porn industry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 09:37 PM |
| 18 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?It's so primitive lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 09:30 PM |
| 56 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?"No makeup" but he's actually talking about the No Makeup makeup look and doesn't actually want women who don't ever wear makeup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 09:21 PM |
| 109 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?It's not hard to explain, it's just hard to get men to actually care. After all, if they cared about how their own behavior affects us, this wouldn't be such a huge problem in the first place. The stuff we have to deal with is all out in the open, anyone can see it. It's not some big secret. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 08:31 PM |
| 35 | Your opinion doesn't need to be validated for you to have it.Be prepared for insults, belittlement, degrading, false narratives, and worse misogynoir or misogyny We already deal with this regardless of what we do, whether we do things that benefit men or not, so we might as well put ourselves first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:08 PM |
| 11 | Stop fucking trying to cancel FDS because of the latest podcast episodeI grew up around conservative people and have conservative childhood friends who I still keep in touch with. The way they think is "this is just the way things are" or "it's just simpler this way". I don't blame women for finding it exhausting to reject basically being treated like the man's property when they see what the women going against it have to deal with. So many people being against a woman being in control of her own life and body, it just seems easier to agree and do whatever they sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:50 PM |
| 14 | Stop fucking trying to cancel FDS because of the latest podcast episodeI'm well aware that we have a long way to go when it comes to getting women to prioritize their wellbeing and listening to their instincts over the fear of hurting someone's feelings. Of course, not everyone is going to agree with us, but I will be glad they at least keep FDS in mind if they ever need it. We have a lot of helpful resources here on how to avoid/escape abusive and manipulative men. I've seen some ladies here say that they didn't agree with FDS at first, but then couldn't ignore th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:35 PM |
| 9 | A new Jezebel article compares FDS to TRP. How originalFDS encourages being upfront about what you want, and if a guy doesn't meet your standards then don't date him. How is that manipulative compared to stringing someone along, playing mind games, constantly putting them down, purposely targeting those with issues to make them dependent on you, yet still keeping them around for entertainment despite doing horrible shit to them? If a guy doesn't want to treat the woman he wants to date we can't make him do that. We just walk away. No mind games, no … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 06:54 AM |
| 173 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.I always saw this post as satire because of how ridiculous it is, but then I remember that some guys think it's gay to wash your ass. If the guy who wrote this was being serious, why does he still want women to "make yourselves more readily available sexually as a result". If a guy goes out of his way to try to neg you and put you down, just keep in mind he still wants to sleep with you he's just demanding attention from you in a very juvenile way. Think of when a boy is throwing rocks at his cr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 12:32 AM |
| 291 | Scrote chases woman down an alley hollering and saying “come here” aggressively. Proceeds to call the woman racist for being scared, along with “dumb bitch” a few times.She isn't scared because of your race, scrote, it's because you're a man Chasing someone and yelling at someone who is afraid of you will not stop them from being afraid of you lol. The only thing this women will remember about this night is that she was chased by an angry aggressive scrote and that she should be scared. Imagine getting pissed off that a complete stranger going about their day and trying to mind their own business is avoiding you for their own safety, when you're a part of the s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 12:03 AM |
| 159 | I saw this and couldn't stop laughing and had to share it with you all.This would make me think he had a constant boner or something This would likely attract gay men more than women LOL I think most women attracted to men would be checking out anything but his crotch like his face, hands, or forearms or something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:46 PM |
| 57 | What are your thoughts on all-girls schools?If you're worried about your daughter not getting experience from socializing with boys, maybe you could look into some afterschool programs, or kids clubs outside of school? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 07:45 PM |
| 92 | Men will have sex and date “younger women” who act like literal children. How can anyone be turned on by that? 🤮Once she ages out of his "preference" and he discards her for another younger woman, she'll end up right over here talking about how controlling he was and how she regrets wasting her youth on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 03:01 AM |
| 26 | Guy Shows A Provider Mentality. Some Women are Like "Yes, DO It!" Other Comments Show a PickMe Deprived Mentality - Ladies, Learn to Embrace Being SpoiledI've grown up with friends who have really low self-esteem and they've always struggled to accept gifts or compliments or other people's time because they think they don't deserve to be loved :( I also think some women may have had bad experiences with guys who treated them like they were indebted to them for giving them something and feel very uncomfortable with receiving nice things because of that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 08:17 PM |
| 50 | Woman wants to stay after finding out her boyfriend of four years is still married - to his best friend - because they never filed the paperwork‘You’ll never have a relationship if your first response is to leave.’ This seems like just settling for any kind of relationship just to be in one, like she's already invested a lot into the guy and thinks it'll be pointless to leave all of that behind despite her effort. One of the reasons why a lot of women are reluctant to leave a guy is because they don't want to start all over since they've been with him for a long time. They're afraid of a life that's unfamiliar to them, the thought of be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:59 PM |
| 145 | Golddigging husband wants hardworking wife to buy him a new PC (so he can undoubtedly waste time playing video games). All the comments were praising him but god forbid if a woman does the same. Men just love to project.His breadwinning wife is also probably still cleaning up after him, cooking for him, and being the primary caretaker of their child while he just sits back and plays video games all day. Do men really think housewives/sahm's just sit around doing nothing all day? They really don't care about the stuff women do to make their men's lives easier, whether they're the breadwinners or not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:42 PM |
| 226 | How are we meant to know?What was he wearing? Was he wearing expensive shoes? Was he flaunting his Rolex? What did he expect? Of course someone was going to steal from him when he looks like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 05:49 PM |
| 90 | Masturbation requires porn apparentlyExactly, she's completely missing the point(or just willfully ignoring it) I bet she'll change her tune if No Fap guys or guys in therapy for porn/sex addiction pop in and disagree with her that yes, in fact, porn does have a negative effect on how they view women and sex in general. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 05:17 PM |
| 141 | Masturbation requires porn apparentlyProbably feeling lonely because her man is ignoring her and jacking off to porn, so she's signaling for reddit bois to flood her dms and give her the attention she craves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 05:11 PM |
| 5 | "The fact real women have their own motivations IS A REAL TURNOFF"I see so many so called "sex positive" men claim that they are supportive of women embracing and reclaiming their sexuality and claim to be against slut-shaming, but turn around and blame her for being treated like shit for sexualizing herself saying "Well what did you expect? We're guys lol If you want to be treated like a person then don't sexualize yourself". They blame women for objectifying themselves when they're not, men are the ones objectifying them and treating promiscuous women or wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 05:03 PM |
| 127 | I think we can all guess how this went down-- Elon must've used his work travel as an excuse to have an "oPeN rElAtiOnShiP", a total slap in the face to Grimes after having his baby!!! Friendly reminder that most wealthy men are LVM who treat women as sex objects and incubators.Does this pickme metamorphosis thing happen with men, too? Where a woman knows she's not her man's preference because he settled for her, so she changes her looks to match what he likes in hopes he'll stay with her. Is there an equivalent of a man changing his appearance to match her physical preferences? I know a lot of men fake(not change) their personalities to attract a woman. I know men are more likely to settle for anyone decent they can get and try to just mold them into what they want be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 09:57 PM |
| 7 | Men Should Still Respect You, Even If You Don’t Respect YourselfAvoiding responsibility and not holding himself accountable for his own behavior towards you by blaming you for the way he treated you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 09:12 PM |
| 626 | I think we can all guess how this went down-- Elon must've used his work travel as an excuse to have an "oPeN rElAtiOnShiP", a total slap in the face to Grimes after having his baby!!! Friendly reminder that most wealthy men are LVM who treat women as sex objects and incubators.Wants her commitment, but doesn't want to commit to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:36 PM |
| 66 | "The fact real women have their own motivations IS A REAL TURNOFF"In their eyes, I mean, we are objects until proven that we are people(as in they allow themselves to be emotionally attached to us.) But yes, they should prove that they actually care about us if they want to earn a potential partner's trust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:32 PM |
| 7 | Men Should Still Respect You, Even If You Don’t Respect YourselfI think she's saying that now we have FDS, the quote mentioned is now being practiced by us since men who don't respect themselves means trouble for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:14 PM |
| 140 | "The fact real women have their own motivations IS A REAL TURNOFF"I can't be attracted unless I objectify them. The fact that real women have their own motivations is a turn-off. This is normal male sexuality tho. This is exactly why we wait to have sex, we have to actually prove our humanity to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:09 PM |
| 544 | I don’t really have words for this one.I've come across porn like this, but with weird captions and images of random girls usually mocking/degrading the reader in some way. He's looking at sissy hypno/femdom porn That explains the ED, of course, he's brainwashing himself to not even be attracted to women but wanting to be them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 11:44 PM |
| 60 | It’s high time for misogyny/femicide to be made a hate crime.Misandry can be treated as much of a danger when there is a back-to-back string of murderers/mass shooters who specifically target men because nobody want to have sex with them. I still find it odd that men make fun of women who can't get the guy they want and choose to be single and take care of pets rather than just settling for anybody out of desperation, while so many of them lose their fucking minds and go on a rampage when they can't get their peepee wet. So many "good men" will try and ju… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 09:10 PM |
| 64 | Pickmeisha is not like the other girls, so she’ll only befriend men when they only want to be her friend so they can fuck herThe irony is that she is probably everything she says she has a problem with. Guys talk shit behind each other's back too, especially if they all want to fuck the one girl in their friend group. They will gladly privately tell her that the other guys are creeps if it keeps her from sleeping with anyone else in the group. It's also kind of contradictory to claim that you don't want to be friends with other girls because they see you as competition while at the same time being only friends with gu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 07:03 PM |
| 26 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)Is there a way to tell if they're actually experienced as in they're not self-centered in bed and know how to satisfy the other person? Because I see a lot of people who mean experienced as in they've had sex with a lot of people, but that doesn't exactly mean the people they had sex with enjoyed it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 11:22 PM |
| 319 | Offered dating advice: now banned permanently from a popular subreddit because I follow FDShow women have it so much easier. Easy to get shitty sex with someone who ignores your boundaries. Sex with a guy who clearly doesn't care about you isn't worth risking your safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 09:42 PM |
| 28 | It’s not funnyThey don't want a woman to squeal "Aww! That's so sweet! Thank you!!!" and hug them and shower them in kisses. Lots of guys absolutely hate this because they know they're peers are going to mock and make fun of him for it. Then they take it out on the women for making him look weak and caring in front of other guys, in his mind at least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 08:02 PM |
| 14 | It’s not funnyYeah, I'm fine with being called sensitive. I'm not trying to gain their approval, so it's fine if they don't like me because I don't respond to their "jokes" the way they want me to.😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:57 PM |
| 23 | It’s not funnyYes, don't go the libfem route and try to explain why what he said hurt your feelings or try to eDuCaTe him that what he said was insensitive and offensive, they knooowww. They just don't care. They're baiting you for an emotional reaction, try and be indifferent to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:49 PM |
| 48 | It’s not funnyIt's kind of sad so many of them need an emotional reaction out of others in order to feel anything because they're devoid of their own :( :( :( But then I remember that they don't feel sad for other people's trauma to not mock them about it with "jokes" and I don't really feel bad about it anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:40 PM |
| 9 | It’s not funnyit’s good to laugh at the shit in the world. Even if he's the one causing/encouraging it? I just pretend I didn't hear them say anything. I saw someone either here or on a different sub say you should make them repeat or explain the "joke". Like "Huh? What'd you say, I didn't hear it." He repeats what he said. Act distracted and say "...Sorry what? I wasn't paying attention." He repeats it again. Be distracted again "...Huh? Anyway..." And change the subject. Or go the dumb fox route "I don't...… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Why do men want to play devil's advocate? An investigationAt the time they commented, my comment of the first part of the article was probably still deleted since I guess the automod detected some things that thought I was male. S'all good tho :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:30 AM |
| 178 | Thoughts?She's a nurse, yet she doesn't think to go to a sperm bank? There is a list of health requirements that men have to meet in order to donate sperm, it would be easier to get it from there. Maybe she just wants to do it the "fun" way, but there's no guarantee the sexual encounter will actually be fun or safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 04:52 AM |
| 23 | Why do men want to play devil's advocate? An investigationThere’s a chance, then, that in the cases where this form of debating isn’t purely being used to be passive-aggressive, or to intentionally patronise and provoke, it could just be men genuinely wanting to learn more about a topic they have little knowledge of. This comes across as insensitive and unempathetic, but some men lack the emotional literacy and communication skills to learn about things without the “logical” debate language they often rely on. One thing that’s clear is that the devil w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:47 PM |
| 33 | Why do men want to play devil's advocate? An investigationJust incase anyone can't see the article: When someone shares their personal experiences, there are those who believe this requires a counter-argument. Louis Staples looks at the reasons behind why people – often men – feel the need to play devil's advocate In the last few years, what with issues like Brexit, the pandemic, Trump, Meghan Markle, the #MeToo movement, imminent climate catastrophe, constant elections and a global anti-racist uprising, debating has seeped into every area of our lives… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:47 PM |
| 195 | "Men protecting other men" and why you should keep you standards sky high cause of it.They do this because men are more affected by tribalism Good men may defend the actions of other men who are wrong because in some way they relate to them or see themselves in their actions,” Sprowl agrees. Whether they agree with the actions or not, they’re worried about the team, or tribe. Scientists suspect that tribalism, or the tendency to form groups based commonalities such as race or gender as an adaptive strategy for survival. This system allows for members of the same community to help… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 10:08 PM |
| 57 | How do you deal with rejection?I'm a lot younger than you, but I wouldn't be concerned about a guy who didn't want to date me because of my age. Keep in mind, a man may claim to want someone younger because they want kids(even if he doesn't want any) but dating someone younger and less accomplished makes them feel more in control. They feel like they need this for their ego, or they'll feel even more inferior to other men. It's better that he rejected you than try to string you along and keep you around while he seeks out wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 01:29 AM |
| 17 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?Men were already beating up women, they never needed to use equality as an excuse. It was encouraged to "put a women in her place" if she ever disobeyed a man. Still continues to be encouraged in a lot of places. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:10 AM |
| 14 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?They know, they just don't want women to point it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:07 AM |
| 689 | AI Deepfake app allows users to face swap women's faces into porn. There are also one where they can digitally remove your clothes. Lo and behold this kind of thing gained popularity on Reddit and was said to be created here.Men are disgusting and this is horrifying.There's already enough porn for men on the internet, but that's not enough for them apparently. They want to edit in people who are not associated with porn in any way so they can fantasize raping/humiliating someone while claiming that's technically not hurting the real person, even though it could ruin her life if others believe that it's real. People are too afraid to say it, but I think most men like non-consensual/coercive sex. They feel powerful knowing a woman is doing something she doesn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 11:10 PM |
| 10 | Competition Among Women: Myth and RealityLet's not ignore that some women will make it harder to support each other due to being desperate for male validation. They might be too scared to support other women's success, or even succeed themselves because they worry that men will feel intimidated/emasculated by it. The more women that have power and control over their own lives and what they want to do, the more it'll encourage and show others how liberating it is. We have to be a little more selfish and confident instead of thinking abo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 08:36 PM |
| 40 | "It's ok if he cheats on me, my bills are getting paid." And other pick-me mom comments.Many women just give up and are too exhausted from putting everyone else's needs before their own to put up a fight about the shitty things their husbands do. To them, it just seems easier to keep the peace than deal with men verbally, emotionally, or physically abusing them when they try to communicate and bring up something that bothers them. It's also demotivating knowing that everyone around you is against you wanting to do something other than being a domestic slave and not having many othe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 08:21 PM |
| 160 | FemaleDatingStratPros is a relatively recent toxic subreddit which promotes the harassment of FDSThey couldn't find anything about this sub that was bad enough, so they had to make up their own bs. They're probably trying to get us banned just by the names of the subs being similar. We don't promote violence or harassment like they do, we actually provide tools and advice to protect yourself from abuse due to how women were socialized. Not to mention there aren't any murderers that were involved with us, nor have any female murderers blamed all the mean things red pill/mgtow/incels said abo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 01:02 AM |
| 24 | Dissociation During Sex & Strategies to Cope With ItI've come to realize that men who talk about partners who "deadfish" or "starfish" in bed are telling on themselves. Like, you didn't bother to stop and check in on her to see if she was okay??? You just continued to have sex with her, despite the clear lack of enthusiasm?? The fact that they acknowledge that and are completely aware that she wasn't into it really says something about them, even though they try to paint it as her being boring in bed. Ask yourself, what would you do if you were h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 10:37 PM |
| 179 | I just found his alphabetized nudes from previous relationships. Mine included.You're going to delete them right? Because he's likely going to put them on the internet to show off his conquests and prove he had sex if he hasn't already passed them around to his friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 02:11 AM |
| 9 | How do you feel about video games?Men who are addicted to video games and cannot properly manage their time can do whatever they want, they should just remove themselves from the dating pool entirely so nobody else has to deal with them and play caretaker when they neglect their responsibilities. They can just rot away on their own instead of making someone else's life miserable. And pickme's need to stop putting up with this, he's not going to change and suddenly care about you and be appreciative of what you do for him since h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 10:24 PM |
| 53 | Why are some men’s egos so damn fragile?Precarious manhood | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 05:55 AM |
| 136 | One of the few times you know for sure a man is being 100% honest with you.It's sad to think so many women ignore red flags like this because they don't want to be seen as too sensitive or be accused of overreacting to a "joke". Pressured into giving a guy like this a chance because they don't want to hurt his feelings. I wish more women would stop caring about what others want over their own wellbeing and start taking men at face value, rather than giving him a chance and risk being wrong about a guy and having him drain your energy. Congrats on cutting him out of you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 05:44 AM |
| 96 | John Mulaney knocks up Olivia Munn just months after his divorce is finalized.Aw not Bob Ross :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:04 AM |
| 14 | Why I Defended, Supported & Enabled Bad MenA lot of men who are friends with abusers don't want to lose their power by association. They may not have done what the abuser did, but may have done some smaller version of it in the past and are afraid of being held accountable. Men who do this so badly want to view themselves as good people even when their actions don't match up to what they claim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 01:26 AM |
| 9 | Why I Defended, Supported & Enabled Bad MenI posted this more for any lurking pickmes that think men will treat them any better if they dismiss other women for opening up about their abuse like a lot of men do. I agree it's hard to forgive women who deny men being abusive to protect their own ego and possibly opportunities, as it won't make their lives any easier. They still have to deal with abusive men even if they side with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 12:40 AM |
| 65 | What Experts Know About Men Who RapeSorry about that, I posted what the article said 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 04:02 AM |
| 61 | What Experts Know About Men Who RapeBasically men who rape or who want to do so, will admit to forcing or wanting to force somebody to have nonconsensual sex, but will not admit to it when specifically using the word "rape". To them, that word is more associated with bad people than "force" and so they do not view themselves as bad people for forcing someone rather than raping someone. Also of course men who believe in rape myths and are involved in peer groups who use hostile language towards women have likely sexually assaulted … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 03:58 AM |
| 166 | What Experts Know About Men Who RapeIn 1976, a Ph.D. candidate at Claremont Graduate University placed a rather unusual personal ad in newspapers throughout Los Angeles: "Are You A Rapist?" He sat by his phone, skeptical that it would ring. “I didn’t think that anyone would want to respond,” said Samuel D. Smithyman, now 72 and a clinical psychologist in South Carolina. But the phone did ring. Nearly 200 times. At the other end of the line were a computer programmer who had raped his “sort of girlfriend,” a painter who had raped h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 03:37 AM |
| 216 | 35 year old scrote gets offended that 16 y/o kid he groomed insults his music taste"Dependency issues" probably because she's still a kid who gets attached to older/authoritative figures for comfort, likely because she lacks healthy stable adult figures to attach herself to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 04:14 AM |
| 12 | When friends ask you for advise, ask the guy you’re dating what he would do!That was probably his way of rationalizing behavior like that, but more like he was trying to convince himself that it actually was a noble thing to do. Like if he made it look like it was for someone else's good, then suddenly there's nothing wrong with whatever happened and he'll look like a good guy. The "Whatever X doesn't know won't hurt them" mentality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 09:13 PM |
| 30 | Shaming men for being virgins objectifies women, which explains the predatory nature of men who attempt redpill tactics to get women in order to impress men.That's what I was thinking. I remembered girls from high school who did this, but they were desperately trying to look cool for the guys. When a guy they were trying to show off to called them out on virgin shaming, they would easily back down and acted shocked and embarrassed. The look on their faces were like "Wait... But... I thought that's what you wanted???" and then claim that it was a joke to save face. I wouldn't mind dating another virgin as long as he was enthusiastic about learning ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 08:58 PM |
| 32 | So close...They think by women calling guys incels, they mean "virgin" and not "mentally unstable aggressive male who hates women because they won't sleep with him" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:23 PM |
| 134 | Is this why old men in current government dont care about women’s rights today? Because their dad’s wrote & believed bs like this?You're tired and stressed out from the way your husband and kids treat you despite sacrificing your comfort for them? You're miserable because everything you do feels like it doesn't matter, and people don't seem to appreciate you no matter what you do? Too bad you're not allowed to be relaxed and comfortable in your own home, or to feel anything other than joy and docility, you exist to be a servant! If you don't put on a convincing performance of how happy you are all the time, we'll lobotomiz… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 10:12 PM |
| 146 | I hate the fact that people here think marital rape laws will devalue the institution of marriage. Makes me not want to ever get married. Women are never protected!How can they say it's not rape if they even say the words "force" and "against her wish", like...??? Do they not know forcing someone to have sex is rape?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 06:04 AM |
| 22 | The Quiet One review – controversial and evasive Bill Wyman documentary“She was a woman at 13,” Is this another way of saying that she had her innocence stolen? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 05:46 AM |
| 5 | Oh mother of pick mes... please stop.Poor guy😢😢 maybe he's just socially awkward🤓🤪 who cares if you don't feel safe, his feelings matter more so stop being mean and just fuck him already!!!😡😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 02:29 AM |
| 127 | Ask men who want casual sex why they don’t just hire sex workers and watch them explode. Why? They chase women who want commitment because it’s predatory!They literally call it a game, too. I've come to associate that word in the dating context to guys manipulating/coercing/pretending to be someone they're not to get sex over and over. The goal of the "game" is to get as many conquests as possible so they can brag about their numbers to other men. Always to impress other men lol it's not even about the sex, because as they say "bad sex is still good sex(because I still benefit from it socially)." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 02:14 AM |
| 107 | Why do so many pick mes discard close female friendships once they get into a relationship? How do we not internalize getting discarded by them?They devout all of their time into people pleasing and catering to guys' wants/needs in hopes that they will be rewarded in appreciation and affection for all their effort. It could also possibly be that the guy they are dating is actively isolating them from their support network. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 09:44 PM |
| 23 | Just got told off by a woman for being mean to a guy who idolises/sees himself in Joaquin Phoenix's JokerYeah I didn't mean aspies in general, sorry. I meant people who are aware of their disorder and blame their behavior on said disorder, but put very little effort in any treatments or behavioral therapy. They'd rather continue to have aggressive/concerning behavior towards people thinking they'll be let off the hook by saying "It's not my fault :(" and then do nothing about it. I have friends who are on the spectrum and they are very aware of how socially awkward they can be, to the point where t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 05:21 AM |
| 214 | Just got told off by a woman for being mean to a guy who idolises/sees himself in Joaquin Phoenix's JokerShe probably wants you to be nice to him because she's afraid of what he'll do when called out. Take a guess why people tend to walk on eggshells around guys like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 11:24 PM |
| 139 | Pick me-ism is a hell of a drugWoman gets cheated on: "Stop trying to cause drama, this is natural for men we have to spread our seed." Man gets cheated on: "She's for the streets King, ruin her life bro" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 10:42 PM |
| 59 | "No one likes a know-it-all" and other stupid things LV's say. Comment your own!“Have fun with your cats when you become a spinster.” I'd rather be a harmless old cat lady than hurt people because I can't get laid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 10:00 PM |
| 36 | I thought this exchange was funny. LVM gets triggered over a gif.What's even the point of being in a relationship with someone if you don't even care about their happiness? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 09:24 PM |
| 29 | Anybody following the Fresh and Fit situation?lol These clowns fighting over whose more alpha. Male social hierarchy and precarious manhood constantly make men butt heads, since some of them have clashing opinions on what a "real man" or what masculinity is. Or are they saying sigma male now? Idk I'm not really following what they're up to, I just know that it was a meme a while ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 02:23 AM |
| 10 | Weak uterusThe sad part is, this may not even be a man : ( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:44 PM |
| 132 | Anybody following the Fresh and Fit situation?I wonder if this will count as men being catty to each other? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:41 PM |
| 17 | Misogyny unites men from all around the world. They’re all cheering on the Talibans and these are the same men you interact with on a day to day basis.I don't know how men in the west can claim that they hate women because "feminism ruined them" when women have always been treated this way, waaay before we even had basic rights. This is a historical issue. What was men's excuse back then for treating women as subhuman second-class citizens? They couldn't blame feminism back in the day since it wasn't mainstream and most women didn't have a choice to not marry and become servants to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:29 PM |
| 36 | This girls IG is every red pill mans fantasy 🙄Exactly. Women can't be feminine in peace because many men punish us for having stereotypically feminine qualities. Being nurturing, polite, empathetic, dressing a certain way(doesn't have to be revealing, just in a visually pleasing way like a sundress), many men use women's socialization against us to either try to control us or terrorize us. I'm sure many women want to feel more comfortable expressing ourselves with how we naturally are, but men make this dangerous for us and society sets us … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:04 PM |
| 35 | Keep your friends safe! 🌸Right. Cockblocking=Rejecting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 05:10 AM |
| 208 | Keep your friends safe! 🌸I see so many guys complaining about being cockblocked and claiming that the girls' friend that came over is just jealous she's not getting attention. What really happened is that the girl they were hitting on is the one that signaled for her friend to come over, like the signs in this post. If she "allows" her friend to block the guy, then she's not interested in him. If she shoos her friend away, then she is interested and her friend was just coming to check up on her. She is in on the cockblo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 10:11 PM |
| 130 | Yeah. Ok.This guy is incapable of empathizing, so all he can do is project. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:52 AM |
| 49 | The "Rising Threat" of Incels - Daily MailI think men may have genuinely desensitized themselves to the stuff that they say amongst themselves, that's generally how male humor works. Say the most horrible, degenerate shit to try and shock each other and if you get offended by it you get booted to the bottom of their little hierarchy. That's why men are so quick to get defensive and brush things off as jokes. One of their buddies could very well have admitted to doing something terrible, but they're so used to saying terrible shit, they … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 02:23 AM |
| 69 | The bar is in hell ladies 🤦🏻♀️I've noticed some women do this, but I think she is just looking for reassurance/acceptance of her feelings. She has probably already decided on what she wants to do, but wants to hear what others think before she goes through with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 02:06 AM |
| 135 | This is actually my worst nightmare. It was posted on a "wholsome" sub.Until they demand chicken nuggies from her lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 01:59 AM |
| 82 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.Men are constantly unnecessarily cruel to women, and yet we're not going on rampages and annihilating random men with the intent to make them fear us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 12:28 AM |
| 129 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.I've also seen increasing comments or posts about FDS meetups or apps, groups etc. We do not allow anyone talking about meeting up on here, and you will be banned for doing so. User safety is a primary concern. Can there be a pinned post about this? Just to make sure newer people here know not to trust anything about a meetup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 12:09 AM |
| 144 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.Jfc it's like they're completely ignoring who the victims of this man were, it's only okay when WOMEN are the ones getting hurt. We're somehow mind-controlling men to make them harm us just by merely existing. Blaming women for "tempting" men and putting them under some kind of spell when it was, in fact, their own doing has been a thing for millennia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 11:15 PM |
| 744 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.Watch people blame the one female-exclusive place that warns women to be extra cautious with men(and some women; pickmes) you associate with, and not the two groups that have been around longer and openly encourage men to hurt women and string them along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 07:09 PM |
| 71 | oop 👀When I see women who were formerly in the porn industry talking about why they wanted to do it, A lot of them seem to mention their boyfriends or a guy they were seeing at the time being the one to suggest that they should make money off of their body because "he said I was hot enough to do it and I wanted him to like me". Another reason being that they were young with low self-esteem and wanted male validation and thought that was the only way guys would ever be interested in them. It was an ea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 09:24 PM |
| 44 | Men Who Get Angry When You Express Unhappiness Are MisogynistsBut I’ve noticed a lot of men have this super binary thinking where you’re either 100% happy or they think you straight up hate them and the relationship. This is called dichotomous thinking, or black-and-white thinking, and men are more likely to think this way(think of the Madonna-Whore complex). Then there is the fact that men seem to either put you on a pedestal, or treat you like shit. There doesn't seem to be an in-between or a "treat me like a human being" option, it's dehumanizing whethe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 10:02 PM |
| 201 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.Imagine trying to find yourself while having middle age men creeping over you. Many of us don't have to imagine it, a lot of us have lived through this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 07:40 PM |
| 202 | “…he’s choked me unconscious before. I didn’t really mind…” UM WHAT.It's really unsettling that not even her own husband nearly choking her to death the first time was enough to make her feel unsafe, but the second time. If she brushes this off again and stays with him, she won't get another chance to survive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:07 AM |
| 15 | Understanding Men Who CompartmentalizeYeah, it's the equivalent of a friend always crying to you about a guy and you offer them advice, but they just choose to not listen to it or make excuses for him and continue dating the guy because "He's a good guy, I swear, it's just this one thing!" :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:49 AM |
| 11 | Understanding Men Who CompartmentalizeI think the author's advice would help in understanding as in recognizing it, not trying to fix him or allow him to drag out a relationship he's not all that emotionally involved in and waste your time. There's a poor woman in those comments asking how to fix things with her husband who's compartmentalized her out of his whole social life. Like you don't fix it, you leave. Some women like this probably need more blunt, non sugar-coated advice because sometimes they just don't get it :/ Either th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:38 AM |
| 47 | Think with glands ladiesI'd like to believe that, but girls are still taught that older men are more mature and younger men are more likely to be players. Truth is, age doesn't determine a man's emotional maturity, so have to protect yourself from men of all ages :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 02:25 AM |
| 4 | Alrighty Queens, time to start spreading. These *should* work but let me know if not!That should be a line that you put with the code!✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 11:34 PM |
| 32 | Scrotes will just bring misery into your lifeBecause that's probably not the actual reason, and he's just using her past as a scapegoat. Also it seems that her "promiscuous past" was just her having sex in a previous relationship. When I hear promiscuous, I think of someone who has sex with a lot of people that they are not in a committed relationship with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 11:09 PM |
| 55 | STOP THE VANILLA SHAMING!why would we want to encourage him to nurture and act on his perversion? A lot of women genuinely believe that if they let men like this act out their fantasies on someone willing to be sexually abused, then men will be less likely to do it to a completely unwilling party. They say the same thing about sex workers and preventing sexual crimes if men had access to easy sex. ...Except that men with kinks that involve violence/humiliation WANT somebody unwilling, that's what they like about it. Sex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 10:42 PM |
| 108 | He is LV or NV if you see any of these 🚩also, “sexual compatability” is a myth. Only a porn sick man or a man with bizarre kinks struggles to get and sustain an erection in the presence of a woman. Notice how the bumblers make basic dating etiquette and healthy sex/intimacy seem like rocket science.If a guy brings up "sexual compatibility", tell him that you need emotional compatibility before you can even think about sharing your body with anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 10:05 PM |
| 13 | Women should not go on hiking dates whether as a first one or as a married couple.It's very common in male friendships to brush off something serious, a lot of them do the same with medical issues. Instead of getting it checked out sooner, some will wait until it gets really bad before deciding that they should maaaaybe do something about it. Too many men are just casual and flippant about things that would cause harm, and don't seem to care until it's too late. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 09:53 PM |
| 22 | Toxic femininity. What's your take on this?Toxic masculinity is certain traits of masculinity that hurt other men(childhood abuse/trauma making a man stronger and not needing therapy because of it. Some might say "I grew up in the hood" like it's proof that they're tough), so toxic femininity would be the same extreme traits towards women which is what you see pickmes doing. Encouraging other women to be in relationships with "difficult" men and that they just need to be taught how to love or treat you right Shaming friends into having l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 11:11 PM |
| 56 | He wasn’t yelling at you, his voice gets louder when he’s upsetMen know that a lot men can be scary and intimidating. They are afraid of other men themselves, after all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 12:13 PM |
| 41 | He wasn’t yelling at you, his voice gets louder when he’s upsetSame here. I have a relative who yells at the top of his lungs and makes his voice deeper to try to scare whoever he is yelling at and purposely tries to bait people into snapping and giving him a negative reaction, then whips out his phone to record them when they breakdown. I've learned to just leave when he raised his voice and started calling me names, but he gets very upset and throws things at people who try to ignore him. I've successfully had no contact with him for a while now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 12:10 PM |
| 43 | “Well, she was just seventeen, You know what I mean”That makes it even worse that he was aware of it, aware of how hated women are, yet still continued to be awful. It's like guys experiencing post-nut clarity admitting that the kind of porn they just jacked off to was messed up and claim to feel bad about it, but then go right back to it when they get horny again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 11:43 AM |
| 115 | The real reason we break up when he loses his job. Spoiler: He becomes a man babyI realized just how easy it is for men to feel emasculated due to precarious manhood, and losing a job is a very common reason that will damage their egos. https://www.psychologicalscience.org/news/releases/think-its-easy-to-be-macho-psychologists-show-how-precarious-manhood-is.html Men who feel emasculated from losing a job will likely be resentful of their partners and feel like they need to take "revenge" on them in some way to feel more masculine, cheating or refusing to look for another job… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Man Pens Important Message On How Anger Can Escalate Into Acts Of Domestic ViolenceThe false narrative that an abuser can be a "good guy who just can't control his temper sometimes" keeps so many women in abusive relationships because they believe and hope that he will change. The point here is that you shouldn't brush off something like this just because he seems like a good guy and hasn't physically abused his partner(yet). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Man Pens Important Message On How Anger Can Escalate Into Acts Of Domestic ViolenceMaybe I read it wrong, but what I got from this is that just because a seemingly "good guy" has never directly laid his hands on his partner, doesn't mean you should just brush off any violent acts that could be seen as anger issues such as punching holes in walls. Basically, don't dismiss his behavior just because he's a good guy in public and "that's just how he deals with his anger" as it can escalate to him actually physically abusing his partner once he knows she thinks it's normal for him … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 08:04 AM |
| 274 | About "Why women everywhere are delaying motherhood" [article from the NYT]There's a group of single moms that bought a five-bedroom house together so they could help support each other. They call it a mommune. https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20190827-the-single-mums-who-live-together-on-mommunes The website they found each other on is called CoAbode, and it's specifically for single moms to find other single moms to live with. If they can't rely on men to help and protect them, they'll look for other women to lean on :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 11:12 PM |
| 185 | “Free yourselves from the bondage of male validation” -@sheenie_weenie_, 2021 ADThey're kids, so they're likely doing it because everyone else is doing it. They want validation and to fit in with the other kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 05:25 AM |
| 7 | Scrotes will neg and try to knock beautiful women down a peg, alwaysGuys like this will do and say anything for a response, regardless if he actually believes what he says. It doesn't matter if the response is positive or negative, just as long as they get some type of reaction. Yawn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Does the Stockholm Syndrome affect female sex workers?Yeah, it mentions this in the study. For many trafficked women, entry into sex work was through false promises of marriage or of a well-paying job in a different city. Once in sex work, many women felt that the stigma of their circumstance would prevent their families from ever taking them back, or allowing them to have a normal role in public society. Furthermore, corruption and sexual abuse from law enforcement officials (who are often also clients) further convinced women that there was no ou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 01:53 AM |
| 112 | If a guy has a high "body count" he is probably a rapist.Women with high body counts are more likely to have been sexually assaulted, as their motivation to sleep around is to feel in control of their body and sexuality It's like rape victims engaging in BDSM to sort of rewrite their memories of being forced and trick their minds into thinking that they wanted it the whole time as a way to cope with the trauma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 12:33 AM |
| 40 | Beware the pick-me in your social groupIt's kind of infuriating and disappointing when one of my friends with pickme traits is so sweet and empathetic when we're just hanging out together, but when there are guys around? She becomes so unnecessarily competitive and will randomly bring up past things I've said and done to put me and her other friends down. She gets really defensive when someone tries to call her out for this. Also don't know what to do for friends who ask for advice but don't want to listen to it. It's like they know … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 08:44 AM |
| 19 | Porn does cause higher occurrences of childporn use and pedophilia and studies are coming out suggesting this connection with porn use and paraphiliaOne thing I'm grateful for men's audacity and the "sex pozzy" pickmes that encourage them for is the fact that a lot of them are unafraid of openly admitting that they watch porn, so this makes it easier to avoid them when they tell on themselves lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 11:01 PM |
| 39 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂Yeah, why do people keep using Brad Pitt as an example? I don't really find him to be all that attractive, but that's probably because I'm not into older men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:34 PM |
| 29 | I have a name. It’s not “sweetie”.I'm from the south and I'm used to a lot of older people calling me pet names, but I can see how it could feel condescending if someone around my age spoke to me like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | How to Confront Narcissists' Lethal Weapon: ProjectionI figured that this would help just anyone you are forced to deal with that you can't really get away from at the moment, like if you live with them for example. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:59 AM |
| 255 | The audacity!If he doesn't see it working out, then why doesn't he... Oh I don't know... Break up with her maybe??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:54 AM |
| 15 | Homosociality: Male Bonding at the Expense of WomenI know :( Many of us have learned this the hard way. Treat people the way you want to be treated, right? Certain types of people will take advantage of this though, unfortunately. It just... Doesn't make much sense to claim to be a straight man but say that it's gay if a man genuinely likes spending time with women in non-sexual settings(especially considering that a lot of gay men still prefer to hang out with guys, despite the "Gay Best Friend" stereotype). I'm still open to being friends with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 05:31 AM |
| 27 | Homosociality: Male Bonding at the Expense of WomenAccording to history, they've always been hurting women and other men both on a societal scale. They desire control over us because of the one thing they can't naturally do, which is give birth. You'd think they'd want to protect us and take care of us(as in actually care about us and our health) instead of hurting us if they actually valued this though :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 05:18 AM |
| 24 | Homosociality: Male Bonding at the Expense of WomenIt's really eye opening to know their treatment of women really has little to do with us, even with many cultures seeing being born female as a punishment due to religion (Eve being tricked by the snake). They needed an easy excuse to bond with each other because at the same time, they're afraid of other men but also seek to climb the social hierarchy between them. It's always been about impressing other men and using women as some sort of bridge to do so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 05:08 AM |
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