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When trying to learn more about a man, you can’t directly ask him for his opinion on a topic (porn, cheating, finances) because they’ll just tell you what you want to hear. Instead, bring up the topic casually, gauge his reaction and listen very carefully to what he does or does not say

LevelUpWoman

December 17, 2021

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Title	When trying to learn more about a man, you can’t directly ask him for his opinion on a topic (porn, cheating, finances) because they’ll just tell you what you want to hear. Instead, bring up the topic casually, gauge his reaction and listen very carefully to what he does or does not say
Author	LevelUpWoman
Upvotes	564
Comments	27
Date	December 17, 2021 1:21 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ri5gv7/when_trying_to_learn_more_about_a_man_you_cant/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/when-trying-to-learn-more-about-a-man-you-cant.1092066 https://theredarchive.com/post/1092066

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I have a suspicion that a large number of modern young men think hentai child pxrn images are fine because they are victimless, but I would have no clue on how to vet for that. They discuss it openly on reddit though. There’s a thread now on the dataisbeautiful subreddit where a commenter is upvoted for correcting another commenter that the child pxrn and violent rxpe images on hentai sites are not real, but animated. The original post is about what hentai is most popular in each country, and many comments note that lolita content is intentionally withheld from the data, because it is usually a top searched sub-category. I learned a new term for lolita stuff by reading through the comments. Shota. Lots of talk about vpns and whatnot.

Sigh. Anyway… If someone here is out on a date with an anime loving zoomer or millenial, maybe they can bring up some lie about a fake program/study in which researchers provide sex offenders with shota, and see how they react. Maybe they will say something like “at least it’s not real kids”, and have a whole diatribe about it that they’ve obviously thought a lot about. You can lie and say something like “the use of shota pxrn in the fake program showed tentative positive results in stopping cases of repeat offenses.” I dunno. I legit feel crazy for writing this out, but that thread I was just reading has traumatized me.

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