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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 12:03 AM
3

LMAOOO BOOP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:20 AM
51

….bro what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 06:47 AM
315

This is why men think women are being manipulative when they cry bc they’re projecting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 06:43 PM
48

“If a woman is starving you feed her food not dick”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:01 AM
44

Saw men on Twitter saying either women are hysterical for being horrified by this bc “it’s not real” or them joking about DV. Beyond saving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:19 PM
21

As a black woman, it’s all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 11:03 PM
26

Men complaining about not “getting sex from their wife” knowing damn well they ain’t doing shit to pleasure their wives let alone make them orgasm. Fucking pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:07 PM
82

I swear to god…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:03 PM
7

As much as I enjoy a call out he rubs me the wrong way..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 09:40 AM
46

I have trauma therapy once a week and at most it’s been 50 mins..lmao this mf is a porn addict and I can’t believe she’s this much in denial
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 06:28 PM
6

BEAUTIFUL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 12:45 AM
103

“I am weed”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 12:34 AM
4

Smart woman. Love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 05:41 PM
29

Like what planet is she on??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 09:20 PM
57

I really don’t like her but hopefully this is productive Edit: she’s so fucking smarmy Edit 2: if she not all men one more time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 08:58 PM
109

Honestly I don’t think they care. I’ve thoroughly explained and sent sources to a man in the past about how harmful the porn industry is and he said and I quote “I just don’t believe you”. They don’t want to care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:21 AM
36

Ofc he blamed everyone in his life except himself and his father
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:10 PM
18

Yeah I’m praying for something alright 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:42 PM
162

Animals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:54 PM
4

What’s the OP called???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 11:28 PM
107

Not his anime villain monologue 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 01:10 AM
8

What is the best age to find a blazer that fits you properly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:24 PM
62

We’re not men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 10:49 PM
39

Ya throat had surgery not your fucking hands. What a piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 11:21 PM
3

Bitter bums
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:31 PM
445

Idc what anyone says she defended her rapist of a brother and now this dude. She has a problem and I don’t respect her a lick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:56 AM
16

Double agree these men are toxic and annoying as shit. Red pill losers who act obtuse on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:56 AM
66

“I don’t wanna put things inside my body” “Babe take birth control so I can c*m in you”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:11 PM
20

Can you pls link to part 2?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:09 PM
57

Men have said they’ll turn off porn if the dick isn’t big enough lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 04:57 AM
25

I’m deleting Twitter lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:51 AM
14

Thank you so much for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:24 AM
16

Yeah it’s definitely gonna get worse before we see good change. Unfortunately it’s how it always goes. I just hope we learn our lesson this time around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:23 AM
89

Oh I’m never dating again LMAO but yeah you’re right. I can’t imagine being friends with a libfem anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:36 PM
20

Man this is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 12:41 AM
173

Is there anyway I can message this girl and tell her to RUN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:21 PM
14

Noble savage trope repackaged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 01:00 AM
75

Men just everyday…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 09:29 AM
14

Chile…I have to laugh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 05:02 PM
9

I literally don’t care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:13 AM
269

Oh my god shut up. You know why no one says that take responsibility shit for women’s short comings it’s because we’re trained from day one not to have any (and are punished if we do). You don’t hear from homeless women because they’re trafficked and never heard from again, YOU contribute to patriarchy because YOU refuse to change. Take it up with ya therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:39 AM
264

What the fuck. This has to be a joke. I’m so glad the gf moved on and hope she never apologizes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:30 AM
13

That’s fair but this is so painfully stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 02:12 AM
37

Pure evil
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 12:52 AM
190

Lmfao so men are like animals? Noted. Also the pick me “he chose me” I want an update of their relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 09:49 AM
20

Thanks for the reminder to never even spit in a mans direction 👍🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 02:45 AM
18

This is such a boomer combination of words I don’t know what to say. Also it’s popular with women as a joke…?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 02:43 AM
4

It’s giving me mgtow vibes. Something about this doesn’t sit right with me. Especially when he mentions that women keep men on the back burner. Why not go into how men DO put on a facade (which he recognizes) and inevitably drop the ball? Sexual coercion is rape not something to laugh off. Idk I low key don’t like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:29 PM
25

I guess he whittled that shit and saw it after and shrugged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:40 PM
20

Absolutely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:39 PM
182

“Not make him feel interior” oh god oh fuck my husband feels like a sofa
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:51 PM
75

First mistake was offering him dinner 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:01 AM
2

“Fill” congrats on coming out king
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:55 PM
9

Even if this was planned it’s still pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 08:27 AM
31

Have we all dated the same dude?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:11 AM
48

Just block next time although I love a good dragging
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:37 AM
16

Gaslight, gatekeep, girl boss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:35 AM
1

She’s so fucking stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:50 PM
306

Gaslighting pieces of shit who wonder why women don’t even want to spit in their direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:45 PM
29

PERIOD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:24 AM
15

I feel the same way, it’s eerie. I think the perspective of a woman should be shown in a horror esque way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:33 AM
103

A man whose a cop no less..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:15 PM
106

Meanwhile women only need men to reach shit on the top shelf. Shit we got step ladders now 🙄 these answers really show you the psyche of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:07 PM
10

Okay maid, you wearing your maid outfit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:22 PM
20

My first sexual ‘experience’ was molestation at 7 and when I lost my virginity at 18 (penetrative sex at least) the guy I was with was considered a friend of mine. I thought I was the cool girl up until he couldn’t stay hard when we tried to have sex (he was a virgin too mind you, two years older than me) the only way it ended up happening is bc he had to watch porn to get hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:30 AM
14

Lmaoo the cope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:27 PM
36

I don’t think it is, these men will find anything to complain about. If it wasn’t their dicks it would be something else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:23 PM
63

What…does she need help with????? Do you need a fucking message on the wall written in blood for you to get it?!!! Jesus I’m trying to be sympathetic but my GOD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:25 AM
67

Holy shit. So this is why men jump the gun and say women are like children, they’re trying to beat us to figuring out THEYRE the actual children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:15 PM
8

I literally don’t care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:55 PM
25

I couldn’t get through this I’m so angry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:38 PM
53

“I have a dark sense of humor”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:31 AM
26

Absolutely, private contact between people in rehab is frowned upon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:33 PM
379

He’s a fucking predator. As someone who is going through rehab right now he’s preying on vulnerable young women and he knows it. It’s recommended that no one in rehab should have a relationship at least for a year let alone with each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:22 AM
35

I literally called the cops on a DV situation I saw in public along with a young teenage girl who witnessed the same thing. Men walked past without batting an eye and the abusive man came chasing after us saying he’d beat our ass too. I stayed until cops showed up and left a statement. Never went on the internet for ass pats bc that’s just what you DO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:07 PM
23

She’s a fucking pimp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:01 PM
8

Oh fuck he’s my type 🥵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:51 PM
625

This is all bizarre to me. He sounds like he’s trying to neg her bc he wants to either a) fuck her but she’s out of his league or b) jealous??? Or both. What a fucking weirdo. Divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:46 PM
97

She’s fucking incredible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:36 PM
15

Y’all know why this is happening...all I’m gonna say lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:51 AM
32

I dead ass don’t even know where to start with this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:49 PM
177

Jealous cause you built like a toothpick king? Shut up before I snap you in half like a kit kat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:11 AM
16

Idk I say this with my friends lol. Dude, bro etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:18 PM
54

Alexa play cry me a river
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:14 PM
24

She’s so gorgeous holy shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:37 PM
3

Honestly true and agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:22 PM
8

He is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:09 PM
8

That last part 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:57 AM
35

Why is this sending me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:54 AM
11

Is there anyway to reach out to her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:14 PM
76

And when they break up watch his “boys” slide right on in lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:35 PM
4

His head look like a mushroom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:00 PM
25

I’m so proud of you, it’s been a few years since I’ve been out of it too and it’s hard to leave let alone the trauma it causes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:47 AM
353

Lmfaoooo Everytime this dude comes: MY LIFE ENERGY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:04 AM
39

My ex husband was high functioning autistic and although we had miscommunications and misunderstandings (he could be very literal and I couldn’t understand it, that and how he wanted things done in specific ways). It’s not what contributed to how he actually treated me. Now that I think about it all the guys I’ve been with casually or not have been on the spectrum in some way. I have ADHD myself so it’s nbd. But his mental health as far as his depression I think is what really fucking destroyed …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:56 AM
15

This phrase was coined by Johns and pimps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:18 PM
12

Wonderful advice and oh my god he’s so gorgeous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:22 PM
4

*girls don’t like boys Girls will laugh at boys when they’re not funny Fixed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:39 AM
278

PERIOD!!! And if god is so all knowing why couldn’t he predict that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:33 PM
74

That’s why I don’t wanna hear shit about false rape allegations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:32 PM
30

Because they exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:31 PM
85

Who raped his step daughter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:00 PM
28

Saw the age gap and didn’t even finish it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:58 PM
4

It’s not asexuality it’s a normal response to male violence. Remember: THIS IS A NORMAL RESPONSE TO MISOGYNY. Dating men is always a risk because they’re influenced by porn culture. You’re having a normal response and don’t let anyone tell you anything different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:49 AM
3

“It took 7 years” I literally had to stop in my tracks. It’s as if this woman is spilling my life story. Fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 11:49 AM
34

Idc what anyone says she’s my problematic fav
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:34 PM
62

If I say something I’ll be banned..:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:20 PM
24

My father would literally start screaming at me and threw out food when he saw me cooking for my sister and I. He would purposefully starve us and was always angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:39 PM
76

FACTS!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:32 PM
27

Legitimately at a loss for words..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:21 PM
18

Wanna bang my head against a brick wall 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:46 PM
37

“dO U tHinK tHey LiKe U” No they just want to stick their dick in you. Men might as well evolve into a dildo at this point; useless, plastic, and only when I want to tease myself with no orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:45 PM
226

Funny how if men had periods they’d make it a competition and make everything convenient for them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:38 PM
149

Oh I was her years ago. Sis is suffering lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:13 PM
15

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:21 AM
27

Why the song?? What the hell is he stroking?? Boy don’t you have a zoom class to get to? Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:01 PM
22

Super sonic speed girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:58 PM
17

I’m so happy for you girlie 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:09 PM
42

It’s alright! As a black woman it’s something I’m keen on noticing now lol. I’m glad you’re learning though 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:16 AM
16

Good answer. To add if this is the beginning don’t stress too much. But if he does it again hmmm idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:48 PM
298

Oh my god thank you for telling me. This is just...so beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:10 PM
32

I’ll always have open arms for a woman who decides to change but we gotta leave these mfs behind. I’m not about to sacrifice the safety of black women over some dusty ass moid. Rich or poor idc they can all kick rocks. I want our sisters to be free so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:20 PM
4

Lmfaoooo oh honey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:17 PM
68

If you have to play Nancy drew on a man, walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:17 PM
133

I’ve heard black men saying not to call the police on them even if you’re being abused. Nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:22 PM
324

Notice how the other two have darker skin as well...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:13 PM
40

He getting it tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:56 PM
10

And things for your menstrual cycle should be free. What does this have to do with his comment? Exactly the relevance of him considering his small dick “body shaming” lmao. I can derail the point too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:40 PM
55

Nah man it’s gotten out of hand to the point where any woman expressing concern is a “Karen”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:35 PM
14

Men saying FDS promotes eugenics bc we don’t like small dicks is the funniest shit I’ve seen all week
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:09 PM
9

Men don’t need to be taught how not to rape, they need to be taught about entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:33 AM
10

This is so stupid lmao. Googling the definition of “masculinity: it’s qualities or attributes regarded as characteristic of men. "handsome, muscled, and driven, he's a prime example of masculinity" Okay so any woman could be these things?? Women don’t hate masculinity, women hate misogyny, dumb ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:31 AM
23

My ex was like this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:29 AM
26

Yeah same I just couldn’t believe already by the description that the person was real but then the photo reveal....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:34 AM
22

Pay your child support and blow ya nose brah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:15 PM
436

Shit I’ll be even more crude; don’t commit yourself to anyone until YOU have it together. Fuck all this bob the builder shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:23 AM
11

I have such a mixed opinion on this considering I was in both groups. Although I faced sexual abuse growing up I still tried to tell people (once I was stripping) that sex work was empowering as a coping mechanism. I empathize with certain naive women but others who sell feet pics/who already have a particularly large following so it’s easy for them to make bank on OF are annoying as shit. Although they’ve also been brainwashed by a culture that preys on women who aren’t financially stable they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:16 PM
26

It gets so much worse don’t do it sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:51 AM
152

I almost ain’t make it through the video
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:17 AM
157

They really comparing women finally finding self respect and the mass shooters of the world lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:42 PM
6

Oh my god i wanna buy these
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:40 PM
184

Cursed your son with the name “Chet” nuff said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:48 AM
22

So sad when she talks about how she never thought she’d be standing here today talking about pornography. The internet made it a disease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:27 AM
7

I’m in a similar situation only the fiancé of hers is a whiny “sensitive” type. When she told me her wedding was in may of this year I told her honestly that I think she’s making a mistake and she said “he’s working on it” basically dismissing what I’ve said but hey, it’s her life. All I can do is be a good friend and be honest. I love her, but I know what it’s like to have to make mistakes before you learn your lesson. At least she agreed to not get pregnant by that fool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:03 PM
16

When I was with my shit ex who pushed me into harmful sex like anal I didn’t listen either. All I can say is be there for her bc she will leave him, but the fallout will be huge bc a lot of other awakenings happen after this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:37 PM
19

God Andrea was a profit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:35 PM
100

We did it Reddit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:47 PM
13

She’s perfect tbh love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:46 PM
306

Ahh yes dont rpe the child rpe the adult who looks like a child. Great job everyone let’s hit the showers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:41 PM
78

He’s doing this on purpose, divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:37 AM
37

Hey be nice to him, he’s got a lot on his mind carrying the earths rotation with his gravity defying head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:34 AM
11

AYOOO 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:32 AM
23

Not JCPenny 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:34 AM
77

Jimmy neutron head ass, head can’t even fit in the screen boi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:31 AM
21

He has no chin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:46 AM
125

I doubt this is real but even if it isn’t I’m so sick of seeing this shit. Men hate consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:13 PM
79

Imagine your biggest problem in life is pussy or lack there of. Men complain about getting to put their pathetic cock into something you’d swear it’s an epidemic like starving children or the trafficked women they watch to get a nut. It’s embarrassing. Not sure how men evolved with us tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:06 AM
12

Men be like “I never got this social reward that no one even remembers now a days therefore I will ruin another woman’s life”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:14 PM
19

He was almost 40 at the time of doing this shit to his young fans. Both the dynamic of power and parasocial relationships and these young women who haven’t fully mentally developed is disgusting and predatory. I’m so sick of this “technically legal” shit that gets men out of trouble even though they’re creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:06 PM
354

Men: will literally encourage each other to rape Also men: no one is talking about our mental health
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:20 AM
3

Lmao idc if a man cries, what’s his tears got to do with treating me right? I understand the sentiment of being in touch with his emotions but men will use that shit to manipulate you. Fuck men’s emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:53 AM
47

Ahhh well at least the r*pist is giving them advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:03 PM
89

“Not all men” but they’ll look on as a woman is being beaten, harassed and join in on the laughter of women’s pain. If they truly cared they’d hold their ilk accountable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:53 PM
124

She ain’t spit nothing but FACTS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:52 PM
6

All men are like this. You just can’t be around any of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:28 PM
63

Lmfao this is so pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:25 PM
248

I had really bad “fantasies” like this that all stemmed from early porn exposure and sexual abuse as a child. She’s not dealing with some trauma and projecting it onto sex. As far as that last pic she needs to run, quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:13 PM
27

“Not all men” cept the 14 year old boy who took my innocence at 7, the boys who would grope me and assault me right when I hit puberty, the men who would hit on me while I was in my school uniform, the man who sexually assaulted me on the train at 14, my father who blamed me for sleeping on said train, the “friends” who touched me constantly even after I said stop, the men at the strip club who assaulted me, the other men who turned off the camera in the lap dance room while I was being raped, m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:56 PM
237

I was on pink pill before it was deleted and I remember them showing these post about the red pill. Dudes talk like secret agents lmao so cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:13 AM
54

Men will scream from the rooftops “not all men” but then defend shit like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:24 PM
18

Nah break up with her, she doesn’t deserve this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:23 PM
8

It’s why I say “toxic masculinity” isn’t a thing. It’s misogyny. I know plenty of masculine and butch women who don’t prey on women, r*pe and abuse them. A lot of it stems from homophobia as well which again if we break it down further with the assumption of perceived “femininity” it’s misogyny. Toxic masculinity is an excuse for men not to take responsibility for them being the oppressors and the fact that misogyny benefits them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:46 PM
61

I don’t even believe in toxic masculinity. It’s misogyny. Plain n simple. I’ve seen masculine women who don’t exhibit this behavior. And what’s usually deemed to be masculine is relative. Just call it what it is, misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:13 AM
31

LMAOOOO love her energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:35 AM
24

Hmmm this is....seemingly like a fetish...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:02 PM
4

Always request a female doctor. Whether your body or head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:49 AM
71

God: checks phone God: goes back to sleep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:14 AM
6

This whole thing issa mess. The internalized misogyny chile wew...both ladies are me 3 years ago. They’re both wrong lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:39 PM
186

Hello god...me again..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:37 PM
7

No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:46 PM
31

Exactly. Girls are being subjected to these impossible beauty standards younger and younger and can’t even view their body neutrally anymore. Seeing how girls who are in their teens now a days vs when I was a kid is just depressing. They’re being sold porn culture as desirability and being told desirability is the peak of anything a girl or woman can achieve. All of it centers maleness under the false notion of “choice”. I fucking hate it so much it makes me wanna scream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:43 AM
66

The fact that she can give the same introductory speech in every analysis no matter the decade. It feels hopeless. Advertising has only gotten more subversive and sneaky, under the guise of false empowerment to make it seem like they’re on your side but if only you can buy said product because you’re fucking ugly, undesirable and unfuckable; fix yourself. Women in the social media age are developing body dysmorphia at alarming rates and you’ll be sold a quick how to remedy to “fix” your mentalit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:23 AM
118

Perform what? Disappointment? Non attentiveness? Jack hammering or expecting us to get on top? Lack of orgasm? What are they performing???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 02:19 AM
2

This is insane lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:48 PM
21

Holy shit shut up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:04 PM
79

Man this shit is fan fiction cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:59 PM
1

She’s conflating a lot different things lmao. Being “godly” is just upholding patriarchal values and I don’t see any radical feminist advocating for casual sex or hook ups or even dressing proactively. The entire point of radical feminism is seeing women’s bodies, the sex they engage with as neutral and not centered around men or male acceptance. Weird video lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 07:53 PM
5

Oh I understood I think my comment should’ve had more context LOL. I just didn’t know how much of the vagina was mutilated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:38 PM
9

??? Hello??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:15 AM
48

What in the fuck? No to FGM this is absurd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:13 AM
110

And they get mad at us for saying they need to be 6 foot tall lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:39 PM
26

This is so powerful. Amazing. I love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:15 PM
322

You got ass and still didn’t get picked huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:21 PM
62

Literally dude you nailed it. It’s why I enjoy fictional men so much. Because they aren’t real. Men irl will disappoint you every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:01 PM
174

The more I think about it the more I’m like...what IS the benefit of marrying a man? Absolutely nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:04 PM
74

I hope she leaves this sick fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:11 PM
193

Men are pedos more news at 11
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:34 PM
87

You can give your son the world and educate him to hell and back and still end with them watching porn and turning into a sick fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 01:05 AM
158

He uprooted her life and destroyed her body because he needed a way to claim her. He’s a fucking sick piece of shit and I wish nothing but harm on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:35 PM
44

Degenerate porn sick piece of shit. My heart breaks for this woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:29 PM
292

He’s a monster
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:21 PM
49

Men will call women crazy then punch a hole through dry wall when you establish boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:21 PM
4

Man cmon now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:05 PM
121

If women are so cRaZy then why aren’t we accountable for 90% of all crime? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:49 PM
5

Gotdamn that sounds good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:50 AM
116

What y’all eat for dinner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:34 AM
44

I literally don’t care lmao. Talk to your ilk about the crimes you all inflict upon 51% of the population. Women are forced to internalize guilt every day. Go fuck yourself, you and the other 99%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:33 AM
126

Jesus Christ this breaks my heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:31 AM
96

Because dads get to do the “fun” stuff while women have to essentially be both parents the enforcer and the care taker. I used to think my dad was the fun one too until I temporarily lived with his crazy ass and realized he didn’t want any to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:31 AM
4

Unfortunately yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:34 AM
119

Friendly reminder that the leading cause of death for pregnant women is homicide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:41 PM
94

This is cute and all but please prioritize your daughters finding comfort outside of dating and a man. They’re other ways to teach her self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:16 AM
4

AMAZING!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:06 AM
30

He watched Porn causally, a lot like scrolling through the morning fucking paper. Matter of fact our first few months together he told me and I quote “I finally stopped jerking off to porn that reminded me of my ex”. Within those first few months he was sleeping with someone else I’m almost 100 percent sure of it bc he would compare me not wanting to have anal with another girl he was fucking in the ass. I ended up, like the pick me I was, moving down to FL with him (I was 19 at the time and he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:29 AM
126

Every woman I know has an interesting hobby and something they’re constantly working on. All men do is jerk off to porn and play video games or have a shitty podcast no one listens to or my favorite: a narrow understanding of politics to make themselves sound smart. Men aren’t interesting, men have no hobbies. It’s all projection because they so desperately want us just to be a hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:15 AM
36

I’m glad they’re talking about this, but y’all are grown and should know this by now. If you’re parking your ass on the couch at the end of the day clean your own goddamn house, take care of your fucking kids. Ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:11 AM
23

Oh my gOD. Even when women are clearly being objectified and treated like a prize to be won or a thing men will still go on about their bRoKen heArt I’m screaming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:00 AM
29

I’m so angry I’m ex’s name is Ryan too 😭 do they all share the same shitty name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:58 AM
36

My ex husband!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:59 PM
47

It honestly reminded me of my father when he would go on his tirades and throw shit. I remember seeing him and my mom fight and thought he was going to hit her. Reading Lundy Barcrofts “why does he do that” really taught me that men do this on purpose to scare you. They aren’t “losing control” they’re doing this to make you afraid of them and therefore as you stated conditioning you to their abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:23 PM
53

Men are lying through their goddamn teeth. I still look like I’m in high school and I’ve had men ask me “what school I go to” and would recoil when I told them I was 25. They’re predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:03 PM
24

All he has to offer are kids that aren’t yours, unwashed dick and the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:50 PM
63

Fastest way for me to beat the day lights out of you 101
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:54 PM
7

Men really get off on women’s torment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:29 PM
140

This triggered the fuck out of me. God please told me she’s left or safe or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:26 PM
99

Men be like: rape is funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:25 PM
8

Exactly. All these men think you’re a very expensive prostitute, and if you’re prioritizing yourself and don’t budge on your boundaries it’s easy to see the facade slip. If they even care to have one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:15 AM
11

So based
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:24 AM
10

Man I ain’t listening to 11 minutes of this. Making it sound like we in the animal kingdom n shit “mate selection” huh? If this were true women wouldn’t be knocked up by hobosexuals and other pieces of shit. How about we just collectively with drawl from men and let them jerk each other off with this non sense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:23 AM
21

Oooo ooo pick me! See I’m cool I’m so down hahah men amiright just like one of the gaise. Girl idk where your self respect is, maybe you left it on the bus idk 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:09 AM
24

Men don’t care about consent. Men don’t even want things to be consensual anymore. “Stop defending shitty men” no just stop defending men period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:08 AM
65

No ugly men just have the audacity to be bold and in your face. Don’t hype up uggos bc you give em an inch they’ll take a mile. Even average dudes are too gassed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:05 AM
66

Lmao why he telling you like you care? Men also don’t wipe their own ass why should We give a shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:25 PM
30

And the truth is, women in porn don’t even want to compete. They’re all victims in this game of pleasing male fantasies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:54 PM
258

Men should just date each other bc only they think this shit is funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:51 PM
59

Hahah get it? DV is funny get it? Now when I say all men are rapist until proven other wise I’ll get a dumb ass in my DM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:15 PM
3

The whole video is just the absolute state of the modern man. Pathetic, porn addicted, vile rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:44 PM
3

Do you own any fire arms?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:35 PM
39

Ugh not the “empowering bimbo” barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:33 PM
172

Men are degenerates part 27284738803
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:06 AM
9

Being told that you can’t get paid until you told you’ve “consented” is feminist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:26 AM
144

Definitely got buy myself a gun
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:04 PM
29

That’s fair, half of home boys room is dedicated to that shit tho. The entire room is sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:19 PM
122

No one forced him to show us this. Also am I the only one sick of grown men collecting toys n shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:30 PM
71

Why the fuck is he bragging about being the second child? God this is nightmare fuel. Ladies please don’t marry a man holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:46 PM
12

Girl bye you made your bed now sleep in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:35 AM
18

I wish a man would touch me without my permission holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:32 AM
48

LOVE THIS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:26 AM
22

As if we ain’t know lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:03 PM
44

Why don’t you help yourself to some medical procedure that’ll cure your male pattern baldness under that beanie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:30 PM
16

Bc men at their core are misogynist lmao. Selfish animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:29 PM
19

Ain’t that the truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:13 AM
78

They do that over hear in America too 🙄 even worse they’ll have some schlubby dude with a gorgeous woman and he treats her like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:38 AM
48

I like yours better 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:35 AM
45

Seems like women are peaking and men are just wallowing in their come filled socks. Whatever, they’ll be counted out of evolution hopefully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:23 AM
198

My standards for men are astronomical at this point if you aren’t built like captain America with the personality of Clark Kent why are even talking to me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:17 AM
76

She works in the Amazon warehouse those are notorious for being shitty as fuck and super demanding for crap pay. He’s a genuine piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:56 AM
59

THATS RIGHT MAMA!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:25 PM
22

So fucking heart breaking, and the fact that men watched her get strangled. Is there no end to male depravity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:50 AM
41

You can be curt without being confrontational. Just say what you mean and mean what you say in an even voice, don’t go back and forth with people. If things are getting too out of hand step away. The handsy dude definitely needed to be told to fuck off. But if you’re in a situation like that again and don’t want to ruin the vibe I find saying “hi we’re trying to enjoy ourselves and you’re ruining that please leave.” Being “nice” but snarky usually throws people off. Edit: had to reword it lol. A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:44 AM
62

Pick a better spot next time dumb ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:39 AM
8

Same! It also stopped (or has helped with lessening, always a work in progress) me from viewing myself in a third party manner. I don’t deserve pain and to be degraded and neither do you or any woman. We deserve dare I say we should demand pleasure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:34 AM
1

🤨 what you coming to Reddit for you got your answer lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:15 AM
93

I don’t even know if that’s it. It seems like a grand scheme to break down the solidarity that women hold with each other. If you can make women center men and otherwise tell them their choices exist in a vacuum then you’ve done half the work, society reinforces the rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:49 AM
204

SCREAMING!!! As a Leo I approve of this message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:43 AM
36

Men who say this never fought in wars and even if they did uhhh so? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:50 PM
131

Okay well go fuck a sex doll. Oh wait y’all even abuse those lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:54 PM
69

I had a debate with a “male friend” of mine (we no longer talk lol) and id literally gave him resource upon resource upon research and statistics and all he could do was cherry pick data and when I pointed THAT out all he said was. “I just don’t believe it”. Of course I respond “it doesn’t matter what you believe these are the facts.” And I would think since men are sooooo rational being shown facts would change their mind bc it changed mine (I used to have a porn addiction problem) but nope lol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:53 PM
3

LMFAOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:49 PM
10

I think we know the answer to that sis..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:49 PM
98

They’re just sharks out for blood sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:11 PM
22

Yeah and it’s almost like taking on a parental figure role?? Like we’re their fucking mothers checking up on them and making sure they’re not up to no good. Such a turn off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:23 AM
101

Funny how he can point this all out and continue to be a sexual predator. Just in case ppl still think men are confused about consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:38 AM
48

This comment is so based I love it so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:37 AM
11

Girl 😂😂😂😂 I’m screaming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:29 AM
124

He wasn’t even looking at the camera when she pointed it at him and he wasn’t smiling until he looked like he had too like what is this 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:26 AM
147

This is so accurate it’s painful. Men don’t have complex, deep and meaningful thoughts or any self actualization I’m convinced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:25 AM
42

I hope she got picked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:23 AM
141

The first time I read that post I had to sit back and reflect on everything and all of the relationships (familial or otherwise) I’ve had with men and it just makes me nauseous. It also made me remember seeing my fathers disgusting porn results when I was on his laptop in middle school trying to do research for homework. And omfg I remember reading that! And everyone in the comment section thought it was sooooo funny while she’s taking care of THEIR child he’s jerking off to fucking porn. It’s a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:43 AM
252

“Afraid they’ll meet a man like them when there were younger” tuh! How about currently! Read something horrific the other day where a young woman explained when she was around 12 years old her dad left her a voicemail concerning something and accidentally left it on. Out of nowhere she hears this blood curdling scream and someone saying “take it your p*ssy is gaping” while the woman screamed. He went from calling his 12 year old daughter to jacking off to violent porn. Men don’t want to see the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:03 AM
323

This is.,embarrassing.,,lmao he looks so annoyed. She don’t love haself...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:59 AM
186

Think about it this way: men watch violent porn and women often times are reading erotica, fan fiction or romance novels. We characterize and humanize me. Men objectify and dehumanize our existence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:57 AM
24

You’re doing the lords work! God the 2010s were hellish and the height of pick me liberal feminism. Atrocious. Im healing, getting therapy and trying to learn to forgive myself. Honestly I can’t tell if it’s getting better or worse for women. Or if I’m just seeing the world for what it really is for once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:55 AM
46

Yeah, I guess since we’re written off as just being hateful women aren’t directed here. That’s why I wished there was more female subreddits but they’ll delete them in favor of porn sub Reddit’s lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:52 AM
162

Men’s “solidarity” is homoerotic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:24 AM
214

😂😂 y’all are too funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:23 AM
58

At this point I don’t even know what to do. I really wish there was a subreddit that was female run that women could asks these questions and get advice that prioritizes their safety rather than men’s ego and erections.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:22 AM
30

LMAO true true. But the real test tbh is if a man just willingly lets you go through his phone and doesn’t get all defensive over it. Like for me personally the things I’d be “embarrassed” about is shit like fanfiction and other “fandom” crap that might be considered cringe or what have you. Men will have a whole double life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:21 AM
56

I am not playing Nancy drew with a man lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:36 AM
154

Pedo. Run girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:35 AM
60

Even the “good ones” you can’t be too sure. I just don’t wanna deal with them anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:54 AM
9

Gorgeous!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:58 PM
26

God I wish she’d dump him. The absolute state of men rn..do you think their ancestors are looking down on them and being like “are you FUCKING kidding me?!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:58 PM
55

My ex told me (within the first few months of us dating) that he finally stopped watching porn that reminded him of his ex and was ready for commitment. Even during my pick me days in the back of my mind I was disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:59 PM
170

Black pilled more and more everyday...all this subreddit does is permanently turn me off of men. Thank you ladies 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:58 PM
95

Unfortunately due to my own trauma with bdsm I can’t even make it half way through this article. I don’t find it a coincidence that around the time of the “sex positivity” bullshit that this became prevalent too and sold to women as empowerment. Being involved in the scene it’s easy to see why abusive men flock to this shit and prey on vulnerable, traumatized and usually young women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:55 PM
50

Yes. It’s you that’s changed, you’ve opened your eyes to misogyny and you can’t unsee it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:18 PM
5

Damn I would love to hear his rebuttal to this Oh wait
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:48 AM
25

I hollered
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:47 AM
5

It’s fake but god I wish it were true...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:46 AM
18

What the fuck your dad is demented. But thinking on it yeah my dad made gross comments about my body too casually. Males are a plague on humanity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:21 AM
49

It’s always “just a joke” when it’s at women’s expense. But if I say their dick is small and they’ve never made a single woman come they wanna whine misandry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:02 AM
56

If I could not breathe the same air as men it would be too soon. Fuck y’all lazy asses god men are so annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:58 AM
41

I remember reading somewhere that instincts are there because it’s pattern recognition. Meaning that “women’s intuition” is literally you seeing this behavior before that was demonstrated as dangerous. If something is telling you this man is off or something just doesn’t sit right, you’re most likely correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:32 PM
35

Take notes, also take note that fwb most of the times has not benefit to you. He’s not gonna magically change his mind and want to be with you and even if he did why would you want it? He’s for the streets. You ain’t cuming no how so why waste your time on someone ran through?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:51 AM
38

Men cry in other countries and kiss each other on the cheek and still beat women black and blue and use them as chattel. Fuck your tears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:37 AM
39

I’m sorry but she’s such a pick me holy shit. B Simone is annoyinggggg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:34 AM
35

I didn’t even read the whole thing to know. Start leaving these clowns!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:02 PM
118

Divorce!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:27 PM
10

Whoa what the fuck Edit: Wew chile I just read the first part of the comment and was impulsive 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:01 AM
106

Men shouldn’t be allowed to be teachers, doctors (especially gynecologist) any field that involves women and children tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:05 AM
40

I don’t care for it, my ex husband is white and it ain’t change shit. A man is a man is a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:21 PM
57

Young men are eager but terrible in bed with their porn rotted brain, older men are 🤢...will we ever win?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:20 PM
105

Reading this made me so happy I’m so happy for you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:44 PM
97

God be leaving us on read :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:43 PM
17

Jesus that’s horrifying, the pain meds are the only thing that kept me somewhat coherent lol. I’m sorry you had to go through that. And yeah like I was a pick me too so I didn’t think it was a big deal that he wanted me over for sex, with tubes coming out of me lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:03 AM
246

This is so fucking sweet and taught me a life lesson!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:47 AM
32

LMAO holy shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:46 AM
123

That’s the plan ✌🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:43 AM
63

As much as I’ve faulted my mom for my messed up child hood I’ve realized as I’ve gotten older she dealt with terrible mental and emotional abuse from my father for almost 20 years and even through that she was still as attentive as she could be. She gets down on herself for not being able to do more for us once they divorced and my father made it so we were homeless along with debt she could only provide the bare minimum (my father refused to pay child support). But she still would try to take m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:41 AM
100

As a former stripper, RUN don’t walk out of that mfs life. Run girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:35 AM
228

If the ex gf comes across this sub just know you deserve more than this pos. He doesn’t wanna put in effort that’s it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:46 PM
116

So happy for her, when I got my breast reduction and had complications my ex husband still expected me to have sex with him even though I was in tons of pain. The feeling of never having to put up with that rapist shit is so freeing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:58 PM
81

All facts, and god I could watch her talk for hours she’s gorgeous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:37 PM
3

I think I’ve gotten a msg from the same dude idk all their profiles look the same. They’re so miserable, dick in one hand and keyboard in the other lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:35 PM
17

I wish I could frame this comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:40 PM
87

Men have created an entire market over their dicks not getting hard and I’m expected to go to work with symptoms they’d experienced with male birth control and cried like the bitches they are. It’s well known that women have a higher pain tolerance than men and often times mistake serious problems as just typical period pain. Why don’t we just kick men in the balls every hour for seven days a week out of the month and then hear their opinion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:05 AM
8

My advice to all women is to only have female practitioners, therapists, hell even optometrist & dentist if you can help it. Don’t trust men when it comes to the health of your body. I’ve heard horror stories. I’m still sick thinking about what could’ve been done to be during my breast reduction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:54 AM
35

Men will confess to being a pedophile and look around the room wondering why no sane human being agrees with them. “You’re a liar if you—“ Stop. How do you even get that far in your line of thinking teaching to kids. Men shouldn’t be allowed around children, or women, just each other so we can live in peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:25 AM
21

Anna Nicole Smith, Marilyn Monroe, Britney Spears, Whitney Huston, and more recently Megan Fox and tons others. All women pathologized, all women who were mistreated and berated and and abused; all deserved better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:13 PM
132

I am looking respectfully 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:29 PM
57

Go to therapy holy shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:28 PM
153

Friendly reminder that we have laws in place to prevent from marrying children because of males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:54 AM
51

Yup!!! They know exactly what they’re doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:02 AM
32

“Fat women shouldn’t have high standards, bc I make the rules” says the penis haver with dime a dozen dick that makes no one come.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:32 PM
74

Lmfaoooo ate that ass up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:14 PM
152

Men will literally step over your boundaries and act confused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:13 PM
59

Lmao in my mind every man is. Whether or not they’ve committed a “felony” they’re probably watching porn which is a crime in my book 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:51 PM
1

The only time I’ve said “wow” looking at this is discovering his lack of a jawline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:50 PM
10

LMFAOOOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:49 PM
28

Run sis! This is only the beginning of the end. I can already see his ass making her shoulder majority of the financial responsibilities in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:06 PM
20

That’s what the FUCK I’m talking about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:03 PM
85

If it’s his place why tf am I cleaning his house?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:20 AM
11

SCUM Manifesto is a satirical book by Valerie Solanas, it’s short and legitimately has me laughing out loud at certain points. Perfect for those times where you just hate men lmao. One of my favorite quotes is “Men have the reverse Midas touch; everything they touch turns to shit.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:45 AM
119

....lmao what is this nonsense? He’s cheating on you sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:07 AM
61

No one wants to be disappointed twice on vday my guy. Go do what u were already gonna do with your pretend woman and jerk off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:05 AM
14

Extremely normal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:26 AM
30

Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:24 AM
106

Go to war
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:55 PM
38

No woman has ever co-signed on this. You can’t program us to get pussy out holy shit men are stupid. What if I were a man and kept touching you repeatedly? Will you eventually let me fuck your ass? Jeez.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 01:11 AM
118

It’s funny how internalized misogyny led me to similar conclusions when I was a pick me: there’s no way a woman can be smart and beautiful at once. I don’t mean to be put emphasis on looks but often times beauty is seen as another way to demean women. You have to choose one. They’re so many gorgeous women who are brilliant and men seem to loathe it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 01:09 AM
14

I think there’s an inherent wrong of looking at women this way especially when it comes to sex bc us having sex is a neutral act. However, the pervasiveness of hook up culture is harmful and doesn’t prioritize women’s pleasure. The reason why I’m opposed to it is because of the danger, the lack of benefit to women and the long term effects (emotional & let’s not even get started on men’s lack of care for our bodies). The concept of “energy” and all this other metaphysical crap that has nothing t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:37 AM
65

Ya love to see it! I hope that fire never dies within her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:44 AM
10

Isn’t it interesting how even when it comes to mental health diagnoses men’s propensity for violence is ignored and even seen as typical but women are pathologized for everything under the sun that has a simple answer?? (fucking misogyny).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:40 AM
8

Just a reminder that when women hate men they separate themselves entirely and don’t want to be around them. When men hate women they use, abuse and kill us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:36 AM
7

I always like to take a time to remember that the happiest people out there are single, childless women and that men depend on women for their happiness. They’re useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:34 AM
58

Honestly the entire way psychiatrist diagnose women without considering the weight and trauma of patriarchy is insane to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 03:25 PM
18

It’s really difficult to get proper support bc you have some therapist who are pro this kink shit and when everyone’s telling you “cOnSenT” when women aren’t even centered in their pleasure. I’m still trying to heal from the BDSM trauma and my relationship with sex and violence. But being exposed to it from such a young age really fucks you up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 09:56 PM
17

I did a spit take reading this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 06:08 AM
81

Lol I guess I had game when I hit puberty bc grown men loved me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 03:27 AM
160

As someone who used to deeply be into humiliation and degradation as “kinks” and talking to other women in the community I can almost 100% guarantee you her “kink” comes from some sort of trauma. She doesn’t think of herself as deserving respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 03:26 AM
57

All men are potential rapist until proven otherwise 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 03:22 AM
239

My ex husband had a “best friend” of almost 15 years and they had no depth lmao. Basic shit they didn’t even know about each other. Males share one thing and that’s solidarity with each other, the shittiest male will have another male defend them simply bc they’re male. And that’s the only page I’ll take out of their book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:23 PM
22

Take note ladies. They’re showing their bare ass...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:11 AM
3

Tbh anything by Andrea dworkin is good but specifically Pornography Beauty and Misogyny Sheila Jeffries Men who hate women by Laura bates Male fantasies by Margaret Atwood Foucault, femininity and the modernization of patriarchal power by Sandra Barkty And for funsies if you’re just hating men SCUM manifesto by valarie solanas (such a fun read and hilarious).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:57 PM
9

Uh...anyways..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 10:09 AM
62

You wanna know what’s funny? Men blame women for “changing” when the change is not wanting to have sex when THEY want on demand like we’re blow up dolls and seeing a woman without make up. That’s it. Men will have entirely separate secret lives/personalities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:54 AM
308

She nailed it and other men have confirmed it on this hellsite. Men even encourage men to put on a facade to hide shit until they can trap you then treat you like shit. Men are always the one who “change” aka show the piece of shit they truly are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:59 PM
51

Probably hard to get classified bc men who facilitate a lot of this research are degenerates themselves 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:25 PM
5

OH MY GOD!! Yes!!! Okay so my ex would absolutely NEVER know what he wanted for dinner so I would make something quick and easy and he would complain that we had it last week or some shit?? The worst thing too is that again I worked and he did nothing but sit on his ass so the simple act of asking him to thaw out meat before I get home was entirely too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:23 PM
13

Solidarity sister ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 07:15 AM
142

“Back in the olden days you could just BUY a woman. Alas those virtues are gone.” Also what the fuck are “feminine values?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:25 AM
53

This is my ex husband to a T and for the longest time I thought I was the only one going through this. I used to cook every night at first bc I enjoyed it and then it turned into expecting it even when I was exhausted. He’d watch me cook things hundreds of times and would act like he couldn’t do it and I eventually had to take over. Things like that he did consistently and all I was doing was enabling his laziness. Notice how I said “ex”. Dump him sis. They’ll never change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:22 AM
18

That’s why no matter what it’s always women’s fault. Because men don’t have to take responsibility when they’re constantly being catered to. Women: I wanna be treated with respect Men: I don’t understand what women want??? So confusing?? Women: I just said— Men: it’s crazy I wish they were more straight forward 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 01:32 AM
118

I’m also a former sex worker both internet and stripping/prostitution and what’s helped me is knowing the source of my oppression. Radical feminist literature has helped me immensely and surrounding myself with like minded women has been healing. Firstly, the guilt is going to be all consuming at some point but know that ITS NOT YOUR FAULT. We live in a culture that tells women forms of “empowerment” are through selling your body as if you’re an object. True empowerment comes from skill and lear…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 01:28 AM
4

Unfortunately avoidant :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 12:53 AM
5

Ugh I’m so over that shit too!!! I feel like as bisexual women we get the short end of the stick sometimes bc men want to fetishize you and it’s hard to find other bi women who date exclusively women and lesbians definitely seem uninterested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 12:51 AM
6

I’m in the same boat tbh. Like all the female dating apps are overrun by dudes. And it’s really difficult to find bars with lesbians/bisexual women only these days...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:32 PM
57

Men do nothing but play mind games
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 09:53 PM
14

It’s not worth it. Even the best man won’t compare to the above and beyond women will actually do for you. The connection, the care and the fact that you don’t have to be happy about them doing the ‘bare minimum’ that all adults should be doing. Men have been coddled too long into laziness and selfishness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 09:51 PM
190

The thing is we don’t even know the extent, the girl who got “lucky” could be lying I know I sure did when I did sex work. Even if she was honest she’d probably dismiss it as “nbd” we don’t even know what she’s promised or what she’s done. No man is ever just offering money for your “time” there’s always a caveat and to encourage young women into this shitty and traumatizing lifestyle is grooming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 09:49 PM
2

Not for me lol but to each their own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:10 PM
293

Just be celibate ladies. Yes all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 05:03 AM
7

This is so interesting to me bc people tend forget that we are people? We aren’t nurturers or teachers or born mothers, we’re people first. So why the fuck shouldn’t we have standards? Especially when a grown ass man can’t do grown folk shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 11:02 PM
14

This is a long winded way of saying that all men are liars and their self improvement is contingent on being able to stick their disgusting flesh tubes into a hole. Do what u men do best and fuck animals instead of pretending you have any sense of decency 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 10:59 PM
226

Us with the unfortunate curse of being attracted to men need a collective break
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 10:53 PM
108

All I have to say is, not even the most pickiest of pick mes fully trust men when they’re walking home alone at night and a man is following too close for comfort. Trust and the benefit of the doubt is something that’s earned specifically when it comes to men. Why should I treat you as an individual when 95% of your ilk commit violence? That’s like going to a fridge full of poisoned food with a small amount that isn’t poisonous and hoping you pick the right one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:46 PM
12

That’s what happens when the narrative of “equality” rather than equity was pushed. This is what happens when males aka our oppressors even get a say in our movement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:03 PM
37

You’re right it’s a perceived “privilege”, rules that they’ve created in the first place. Now turned back around on us and seen as something we innately have instead of what’s expected as is the “transaction” they’ve upheld in this culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 10:29 AM
87

Built like a teletubby, serving us serial killer trucker 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:51 AM
31

I’m in my mid twenties realizing it 😔 (25 despite the username lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:47 AM
83

Girl that needs a tw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:47 AM
8

The clit is only for female pleasure! Ladies you don’t need penetration at all for a fulfilling sex life and I know that mindset is hard to break considering women are taught that the vagina is just a hole to be “filled” but most women don’t orgasm from it anyways. It’s honestly insane to me how our culture yet and still guarantees a man will come even during our “hook up culture” vs women who even during intimacy still have to perform. Get to know your own body and your own pleasure and know it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 07:35 PM
124

Annoying. Let’s say all of what he said is true, it sounds like he tuned out as soon as he saw that she was bigger than her pf pic suggested and you know he was looking to fuck. I’m betting he was a dick the entire time and she as just trying to make him feel comfortable since guys have an interesting (read: false) perception of themselves. I would pay to hear her perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:42 AM
107

They’re telling the truth and 99% of men are like this. During my pick me days there was a misogynist I used to talk to he claimed I “wAsnT lIKE oThEr gRills” and said this exact same thing. “I’ll see a nice looking girls and I’ll want her to suck my dick but I have to date her first”. Let me tell you something: ALL men are like this. And the sad part is that they’re all hiding the fact that they’re genuinely terrible fucking people. You ain’t gonna come sleeping with them anyways, so don’t wast…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 09:32 PM
8

FACTS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 06:57 AM
139

Let’s face it, most men are just some guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 05:36 PM
14

Okay I just watched the trailer and I GOT to watch this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:47 PM
71

I’m glad the men ripped into the scrote, but it really puts in perspective for me that if men had to go through a fraction of what we faced they’d have their own version of feminism lmao. Edit: finished it and ugh him placing blame on society as to why men don’t take personal responsibility is lazy as hell. “The culture said men can’t be men” no you were told to stop being misogynist and played the victim. Men have no expectations and liberal feminism really cemented it but what do y’all do as a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:19 PM
7

Don’t be, the gag is my dumb ass still wasted 7 years on a bum!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:18 PM
7

Me!! But you’ll find even women who aren’t attracted to men struggle with this as well (I’m bisexual but I don’t want to speak over lesbians so anyone who is please correct me if I’m wrong I’m just speaking off of testimonials). Even with being over how men perceive you that internal voyeur is there because you’re bombarded with propaganda everyday telling you that you aren’t good enough. Even if you roll your eyes at a make up commercial there’s still so much that’s subtly marketed towards us w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:24 AM
23

On god. Like I can really opt out the whole game fr. Still doesn’t make me feel any better for being attracted to them LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:51 AM
102

Every day I thank god I’m bisexual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:59 AM
56

This quote been living in my head rent free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:15 AM
18

Life is freeing when you decide not to care what scrotes want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:12 AM
12

Sis the quote hits like a ton of bricks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:09 AM
35

Yes! We’re all healing not just from being pick mes but from the trauma that is womanhood in a patriarchal society. We as women are traumatized from merely existing, the key is to be kinder to ourselves and really loving ourselves fiercely. Society thrives off of women’s self hatred even under the guise of “self help” if there’s a way a woman can be commodified, they’ll find it. Even our pain is bought and sold back to us as forms of entertainment. Loving yourself and forgiving yourself is the s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:21 PM
82

They have no idea what it’s like to be always watching yourself to the point where you are dissociative between body and mind, a constant observer even when you’re alone. To be seen as a collective and internalize to the point where you exist as an idea. As if when men leave the room we go on stand by like laptops until they grant us the permission to think again. Men will never get what it’s like to not be seen as human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:17 PM
31

I’ve yet to see it but if it’s not male centered I gotta check it out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:31 PM
130

I’m still working through it, I was the ultimate pick me cool girl tm and this quote stood out to me because I remember even being “effortless” or a “slob” (carefully crafted might I add) was what men loved. I remember my ex saying I “think like a man” and it made me kind of recoil mentally bc it made me realize I was only thinking the way I imagined a man would want a woman to think and regurgitate ideas even though in the back of my mind I knew it was a performance. The male gaze is fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:18 PM
60

Hmm gonna be a little bit critical bc this isn’t doing anything but reinforcing male sexuality. All they have to do is pretend to be “woke” and “totally okay with you having a only fans ;) it’s empowering ;))))” or whatever predatory garbage they’re spewing this month. The question is WHY are men looking at leaked nudes when women clearly feel distraught and it’s an invasion of privacy (besides the fact that no nudes are “leaked” someone did it on purpose). I’d even go a little deeper, why does …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 10:07 AM
65

Gross ass mf has a kink for this shit I would say ‘how much you wanna bet’ but I think we know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:15 AM
31

My ex husband was only 5 years older than me (I was 19 at the time) and he KNEW he was preying on me then. Don’t date older men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 07:19 AM
131

Oh my god PLEASE make another avengers reference my panties are already off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:20 AM
13

“I hope this happens to you” dipshit it won’t to anyone whose not a predator. What in the headassery is this shit??? Why don’t you all stop being fucking pedophiles. Men will act like they give a shit about child exploitation and defend shit like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:20 AM
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