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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | How are you leveling up?Learning how to set boundaries and getting another degree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 02:29 AM |
| 8 | A joke eh?How did he expect you to answer that honestly??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 03:18 AM |
| 28 | My HV boyfriend turned in to a LV fiancée. I need help on how to leave.Go somewhere semi-public in case he goes berserk, "I can't be with you anymore," and get packing. It's simple but it's hard. You can do it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 05:46 AM |
| 38 | The Struggle Is Real...Math time! The average population in each US state is 5,763,868 (source https://www.states101.com/populations) Half of the population is male. 5,763,868/2 = 2,881,934 2,881,934×0.0016= 4,611 rounded to the nearest whole number You have a potential dating pool within your state of apx. 4,611 If you went on a date with a different man every day it would take you about 13 years to date them all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 03:37 AM |
| 5 | I was told by a female colleague that at first sight I’m totally unapproachableThat's good! Keep doing what you're doing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 09:00 PM |
| 7 | When your 11 year old son starts watching violent and degrading rape porn all you gotta do is let him know that it's totally not a guidebook nor an okay portrayal of women!"you're not in trouble because you didn't know, it's normal to be curious about love and sex, porn isn't making love and it isn't how we treat women. If you want to know something you can ask me or your mom and we won't tease you. I don't want you watching it anymore because it sets a bad example, understand?" It's that easy bro.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 01:52 AM |
| 2 | He’s picky af! 7-8ths are only for banging not love.Wow that's wonderful he has standards and knows what he wants. I'm sure he's respectful and sympathetic when women reject him because of our own standards //s Tbh men saying I only want x doesn't bother me, what bothers me is that LVM think what they want is the only thing that matters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 01:41 AM |
| 91 | This is why setting clear boundaries from the beginning is important. He showed his true colors before wasting any time. I had ghosted him many years ago after a few dates and always felt bad cause I thought he seemed nice, so I decided to respond when he reached out again and this happened"there she is" bro wtf it's like he was expecting you and you're late or something. Don't like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 06:12 AM |
| 6 | Having a baby via sperm donorConsider fostering too! There are lots of kids out there already who need a Mom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 01:28 AM |
| 42 | This is narcissistic abuse.Title is completely correct. Fighting to fight is their supply | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 12:50 AM |
| 31 | From the dad of one of my daughter’s friends, out of literally nowhere.I know it's not my first instinct but remember Block and Delete! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 06:47 AM |
| 35 | 2.5 Year together and he doesn’t know what she likes. How is that even possible?Sounds a lot like he's negging her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 10:42 PM |
| 261 | I came across this exercise from FDS recommended book "the power of pu*sy" and it had me a bit stumped! Would love to hear you ladies' opinions, if you'd wish to share! *WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM MEN?*To be treated like a person lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 06:37 PM |
| 18 | A guy once wrote me a huge paragraph on how when a man offers to pay a bill, you need to argue and insist to pay for yourself. Pls, share your funniest and dumbest interactions about first date courtesy.Emily Post, basically Ms. Manners, doesn't have shit to say about that rule so it's made up Source: https://emilypost.com/advice/guide-to-food-and-drink | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:21 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on changing your name after marriage?I like hyphenating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 10:17 PM |
| 35 | This is the kinda shit we women have to put up with on OLD9/10 paragraphs were red flags! That's a new record | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 06:18 PM |
| 214 | What theme would you like to see displayed more in movies?Ugly creepy boy does not date gorgeous, funny smart queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 03:45 AM |
| 5 | FDS Gift Guide?Under 3 months my limit is $20/holiday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 03:23 AM |
| 104 | Quick test for misogyny while vetting: compliment a woman and watch for his reaction!This checks out. I complimented Simone Biles at work around a scrote and he went on a tirade about how she's a snowflake 🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 01:43 AM |
| 34 | Title is along the lines of "she doesn't have a sense of humor." Nah bro you're just being a creepI know he had her name in it too, I covered both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:44 AM |
| 237 | Title is along the lines of "she doesn't have a sense of humor." Nah bro you're just being a creep"are we gonna have a problem?" Aka will your dog bite me if I try to assault you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 09:20 PM |
| 11 | FDS opinion on casual sex with other women (as a wlw)?Depends on how you define casual. You still need to vet so you know you can trust her with your body to not distribute photos or harm you emotionally or physically. So at least one date is necessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 04:26 AM |
| 16 | Male friends are a myth.ONLY 2k over a year???? Obviously camwork isn't endorsed by the sub but ONLY 2k???? Selling your body parts on the black market will get you more than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 10:32 PM |
| 11 | He’s perfect but needs the government to give him a wife 💀His mom calling him "her handsome little man" doesn't make him any more attractive, nor does his repulsive attitude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 09:11 PM |
| 165 | What are the most ridiculous pick-me opinions you had before reaching the age of reason?Unequal power dynamics (BDSM, age gaps...) are sexy 🤡 Love is enough to sustain a relationship 🤡 Only being able to talk to each other in a sexual context means you're passionate, not that you're a poor match 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 01:28 AM |
| 57 | Things you used to find romantic before FDS?Texting all day, phone calls that last several hours, texting past 9:00 pm 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 11:32 PM |
| 12 | Thanksgiving blues..Misery loves company. You don't have to settle just because she did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Which one of you is this aboutSo it's okay if she only has had two orgasms throughout their whole relationship but he's had more... Scrote math 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 03:37 AM |
| 416 | Just a friendly reminder that men will date and marry women they don’t like.Not the point obviously but she is pretty??? Idk what he's talking about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 04:22 PM |
| 18 | I deserve better than this relationship, but I have never experienced love this deep.You already know what the right thing to do is. You have to leave. There's no reason to hitch yourself to a wayward man. Not love, not desperation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 04:30 AM |
| 5 | Red pill favourite Jordan Peterson doesn’t agree with their views on women and dating…Jp has some sketch shit but I read his book 12 rules for life. He talks about women being the natural selectors for men in it a lot, which I agree with. We should be the selectors not them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 04:29 PM |
| 60 | LVM Love to label womenMy stance is that people on death row and convicted rapists should be compulsory organ donors. Once they are brain dead they lose personhood and are property of the state, to be divided and distributed to local hospitals as necessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 10:32 PM |
| 10 | FDS when you're down on your looksListen to the podcast episode with Dr. Gail Dines, she talks about makeup in a relevant way. Don't start dating until your confidence is rock solid. LVM can smell any vulnerabilities you might have and will prey on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 04:35 PM |
| 41 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 37 - Body Shaming Men For Their Own GoodAwesome episode, my favorite part was when Savannah said "I've examined my preferences, they're still there" 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 08:04 PM |
| 376 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.Yeah that sub cares too much about protecting men's feelings tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 02:23 AM |
| 19 | Woman translates the real meanings behind men’s dating demands. Just a reminder that men defined ‘femininity’ as submission, passivity, performance & endless forgiveness because it serves abusive men & makes us easier to exploit.Oh cool. Here's how he can meet those "needs" 1 & 4. Get a dog 2 & 3. Clean his nest and add some floral print. //S | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 04:49 PM |
| 69 | JFC. Men: she cares more about material things more than me. Also men: I had to buy a bed frame to get laid.Bedframes are only $60 at IKEA, he's employed with a good job... Where TF is that money going???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 06:19 PM |
| 105 | These NVM ain’t even trying to cover up what they really think anymore… it’s truly sad that their are women that will actually choose to match with these sick men.Nah, this is a man looking for a mommy. Gay dudes aren't usually so creepy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 11:21 PM |
| 7 | This is why we don’t do hike or walk “dates”…he proceeded to MAKE FUN OF ME, before I unmatched. DANGEROUS.🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:59 PM |
| 16 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers onlyI try to "keep" men away from me lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 05:40 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?Here's the plan: 1. I have the "a-ha!" moment of "I want to marry this woman" 2. I ask if she would be interested in marrying me (not a proposal). 3. Ask her parents for their blessing (I'm old fashioned don't roast me haha) 4. Using my prior knowledge of her style and likes, I pick out four rings I think she'll like which I show to her best friend, mom, and sister. They vote. 5. I show her the top two and ask which one is her favorite 6. Proposal time I think I'll be the one to propose because … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:57 PM |
| 8 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?Quality first, price second. I (F, butch lesbian) will probably be the one proposing and I don't care what it costs as long as I know it's my fiancees style, she's proud to wear it, and it's not going to snap in half (should have sturdy band, prongs, and a well set stone). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 03:39 PM |
| 18 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.Oh my god my mom used to do this when I was a kid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 09:41 PM |
| 103 | No... just no.. we met at a tire shop and "bonded" over coffee loving but I didn't think he would actually commit to asking on a coffee hopping or whatever this is.🤦"Can I take you to dinner?" Is only six words bro. It's not hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Quick question: what are some narcissistic traits?Makes things a bigger deal than they should be, lots of emotional responses. Brought you fries but you put them in the fridge to eat later? Bitching that you're ungrateful. Can't find anything nice to say about somebody they dislike. When problems arise, they aim to "win" not to "solve" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 09:37 PM |
| 84 | Ladies, do you consider seeing a man once a week (every Saturday) as fulfilling dating?🚩🚩🚩🚩 Shows he has bad communication skills | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 09:24 PM |
| 13 | Queer women, what are some things you consider red flags while dating?Women who are "bi-curious", I completely understand questioning your sexuality but when they try to get in a relationship when they're unsure about their feelings I end up getting hurt. Also, women who have something against Butch lesbians. Tells me she has internalized homophobia or internalized misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 01:37 AM |
| 11 | Happy to see this posted on another subGod created me with an appendix too, does that mean I'm destined to appendicitis? //S Also, your ovaries aren't just for baby making. They're a critical part of your endocrine system, but Ok Boomer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 07:45 PM |
| 6 | I don't like women with stretchmarks!"I do agree that we are held to extreme standards while men get away with doing nothing. It's fucked up." ^ Seconding this as a lesbian who prefers body hair, hairlessness freaks me out because it reminds me of babies and I'm not into that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 02:48 AM |
| 7 | What’s your best FDS quote?"stay vetting" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 04:53 PM |
| 32 | Best Sports for Self-DefenseThere's a book called "when violence is the answer" and it shifted my mindset about violence, that it should be avoided at all cost but when you have to be violent you should act to incapacitate your opponent. Most women I know don't want to hurt people, so I think this is an essential read to move past that instinct that could get you murdered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 10:40 PM |
| 107 | The bar is in hell ladies 🤦🏻♀️Been thinking about this, I think a new standard of mine is dates should be planned and asked for over a phone call. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 12:21 AM |
| 23 | Breakfast first date?I've been thinking about this too, I like it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 03:41 AM |
| 84 | Today's 👀 moment (can you spot the 🚩?)I'm willing to bet he doesn't put any effort into seducing his wife, which is about passion not about sex. You want passion? Be passionate. Are you drawing her a bubble bath when she gets home, putting her robe in the dryer so it's warm, and pouring her a glass of wine? Did you cook and clean up a delicious dinner because you love her and want her happy and fed? Do you tell your wife she's beautiful? How often do you kiss your wife like you mean it? When was the last time you danced with her? Al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 04:45 PM |
| 51 | Does anyone else have a low value male father?Yep. His single high value trait is he provides financially. He negs me and yells like crazy because he hates confident women, is a slob, and has 0 boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 12:11 AM |
| 46 | is a guy ranting about pornsickness a red flag?If he made you feel weird that's your body telling you he's not right for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:15 PM |
| 47 | But he’s got a 2k PC set up for gaming, complete with a $200 chair, spends $300-500 a month on weed/alcohol/fast food…but you should settle for this Cracker Jack ring because he shouldn’t have to prove he loves you. The pick me’s in the comments were just sad…Why not just get a band if you can't afford a big rock? It would be sturdier and look classier than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:30 PM |
| 40 | Make it stop. 💀This sounds stressful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 09:00 PM |
| 9 | When Asks her husband to go Shopping, this is what requires *facepalm*The only reason this would be acceptable is if he was visually impaired... I highly doubt he is though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:36 AM |
| 16 | Why is he single ladies??? Where is his queen??Wow, so is he a model or just a narcissist? /S | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 02:51 AM |
| 9 | I can’t evenTell me you have poor boundaries without telling me you have poor boundaries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 02:28 AM |
| 447 | Clearly an FDS lady in the wild, with a sparkly blue penWhat has to possess someone to write "I have shit stains in my underwear" in a book they intend to publish, knowing full well they could silently remedy this with bleach and wet wipes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 04:06 PM |
| 186 | It’s pathetic that this level of scrotery is so normalizedHell, at least a cat knows how to shit in a litter box | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 10:18 PM |
| 72 | It’s pathetic that this level of scrotery is so normalizedYou deserve better, maybe its time to rethink your marriage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 10:17 PM |
| 50 | This is What LVM consider “great dating” and gaslight us into believing is acceptable. Hope the PickMe Woman Who Settled for these Low Effort Dates Wakes Up...Inviting a strange man into your home sounds like a quick and easy way to get murdered | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 10:16 PM |
| 194 | Guy I was dating left me at 4 am alone in the middle of the city to go rescue his ex. WTF?10:00 imo, I've never said "wow I'm so glad I stayed up past 10:00 for this date" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 10:08 PM |
| 128 | POV: Date with a LVM 😂Christ my Butch ass would be mortified to pick up a date like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 03:31 AM |
| 123 | Loyalty through cruelty is not ride or die.Another thing I've been grappling with lately, you don't have to stay with somebody whos going through hell and back. If the cost of dealing with that stress is greater than the benefit? Adios baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 03:18 AM |
| 40 | On a dating break, starting to notice I'm getting way more rest now! 😴🥰I have do not disturb mode set on a timer, the only person I've allowed to contact me via my settings is my best friend and she knows I go to bed at 10:45. One of the best choices I've made about how I spend my time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 12:29 AM |
| 21 | Toxic femininity. What's your take on this?Masculinity and femininity are flawed ideals, not natural and innate states of being. Extreme adherence to either ideal is unhealthy in my book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 10:24 PM |
| 8 | “She’s stressing me out”How do you forget your baby's birth day? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 08:54 PM |
| 21 | Why are all female halloween costumes sexual??I agree but also you inspired me to go as luigi this year because I have a green shirt, green hat, and overalls already lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 08:29 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Handle This Comment/ Argument Tactic by MenRedirect. As relaxed as possible respond "I'm not upset, I don't know why you'd think that. Circling back to the issue..." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 05:39 PM |
| 9 | Tips on raising daughters to keep them safe from LVM?This needs to be a joint effort between you and your husband so she is surrounded by positive messages. Tell her calmly and politely what disrespect looks like: point it out in movies, when people are yelling at each other in public, and when she does something disrespectful. Explain to her that she deserves a sense of dignity, that she is allowed to leave or protest when she is being treated unfairly, and treat her accordingly. Also, build her up every day. When she does something well make a f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 04:10 PM |
| 31 | Porn isn't hot.Theres a great essay about this called "Everyone is Beautiful and no one is Horny". Heres the link: https://bloodknife.com/everyone-beautiful-no-one-horny/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 02:58 PM |
| 37 | Another winner I came across today .. I’ve had OLD profile for less than 24hrsI love it when they're honest. You dodged a bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 09:03 PM |
| 217 | How scrotes treat “The One that Got Away”Bro keep it to yourself? Your ex gf doesn't give a shit I promise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 09:31 PM |
| 169 | If Carrie Bradshaw posted on FDSA- "Objects with desire" "people with desires" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 03:00 AM |
| 5 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???Some of these questions are appropriate, but most of them are BS. Asking it this way says "I am completely tactless" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:25 AM |
| 12 | I salute this woman who built a fence. Good job lady.So telling that he saw one of her accomplishments and said "how can I make this about me?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 12:12 AM |
| 2 | I know most of us know the pitfalls of pursuing age gap relationship, but would you pursue a friendship with someone in an age gap relationship?I think its okay to be friendly and maybe even comment on the boyfriend situation if it comes up but don't get too attached. If she gives you any trouble take a step back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 01:48 AM |
| 97 | The Red Flag Song!The playboy shirt really elevates this. Great attention to detail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 01:41 AM |
| 3 | “Why are you still single?” And other questions I hate answering"Are you hitting on me?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 01:36 AM |
| 19 | Film: Good On PaperI started watching it this morning because of this post. About 45 min in right now and had to pause to second this recommendation. This is a must watch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 07:31 PM |
| 8 | I need to vent but I also need adviceYou did the right thing imo. Fight, flight, or freeze response is instinctual but usually your instincts are right as your brain can process lots of info at once to evaluate the threat. I suggest you read The Gift of Fear, it gets into this in detail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 04:03 AM |
| 4 | 🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drivesTailgating when someone is driving the speed limit and he wants to go faster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 02:20 AM |
| 20 | Texting all day is low value.This was me and my LV"X", texting all day, "talking" for years, yet we never defined the relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 02:15 AM |
| 5 | Seen in the wild on a 'listicle' about why older men date young women. Also included gems like "women my age are so bitter" "younger women need the guidance and nurturing of an older man" 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮Heres a very in depth summary of every man's response I am a predator | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 12:04 AM |
| 35 | Blood in the water: a custom made tacticUsing this, please provide examples of false blood though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 10:16 PM |
| 46 | Blood in the water: a custom made tacticIt reveals he is a LVM who will use your insecurities to try to manipulate you or put you down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 10:14 PM |
| 15 | Finally met my HVM 🥰You had me in the first half not gonna lie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:41 PM |
| 7 | My dirty secret to dating men who are clean and tidy.I'm somewhat neat. I feel compelled to clean when I am uncomfortable in a room, it makes me feel like I belong in the space because I am taking care of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 05:45 AM |
| 56 | Ask a man which gender child he wants and dig WHY, not for the gold ya lurking scrotes 😅You'll find why he wants a girl if that is so, and if the reason is similar run in the other direction ladies🏃 That's dad duties reassigned🤡💩& a cheap💍 will buy him 2 slaves🤮👿That is so fucked up. I'm the eldest and the eldest daughter and being forced to take care of my sibling traumatized us both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 12:47 AM |
| 27 | A lot of Female Bonding is Secondary Status/ Trauma BondingTotally get what you mean. This is a niche example, but with Christmas gifts especially. I don't shave and female family members CONSTANTLY get me razors to shave my legs. Its like a sick person trying to kiss you: the affection/kindness doesn't feel very good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 07:46 PM |
| 33 | Am I lesbian or do I just hate men?I am a lesbian. I struggled to figure that out too. Listen to your body. When I have a crush on a woman, I feel like I just ran a marathon. I get warm, my heart beats faster, my stomach acts up, endorphins, cant think, I spend more time looking at her than other people, I use self soothing gestures like touching my neck or hair. If we're sitting next to each other I notice how she sits, how she smells (when I'm attracted to a woman she always smells really good to me idk why), if she's comfortab… | /r/askFDS | 04/06/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | bought myself a ring as a promise to myself to always value myself, and to stay away from men who don’t!I love this idea, and your ring is beautiful :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:23 AM |
| 36 | Men with sistersIt sounds like you feel like hes acting inappropriately towards women. I think if you can find some specific examples of the behavior thats bothering you and bring it up to him that may help. But going deeper, it sounds like you don't trust his loyalty. Follow that instinct and find out why. | /r/askFDS | 30/05/21 06:27 PM |
| 15 | Any good reading about beauty standards in relation to the male gaze?Yes, was just about to suggest this book. Sensory grounding activities like baking, swimming, or using lotion helped me connect to my body. Also, you might try exploring "body neutrality" because the "body posi" movement is all about being sexually desirable = valuable. Where as body neutrality is about accepting your body as you, giving it no positive or negative value. Last suggestion is if you wear makeup, stop. It takes about a month but after seeing your normal face every day for that long … | /r/askFDS | 29/05/21 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Is having a male therapist a no?If you feel like you can't talk to him/you're cautious about bringing up specific subjects because you don't want to upset him, go to somebody else | /r/askFDS | 23/05/21 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Flowers???Thank you :) | /r/askFDS | 18/05/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Non-athletic hobbies that I could get into?I saw a really cool video on pottery making this morning. If that sounds interesting give it a try. Also, if you do get a part time job, maybe do something where you have to move a lot? I hate going to the gym but I applied to a materials handler job where you have to move around with purpose and it doesn't feel the same to me. | /r/askFDS | 18/05/21 04:41 PM |
| 7 | What to do about a relentless exseconding this. Don't send any more contact. Its like feeding a raccoon, the more you do it the more they come back. | /r/askFDS | 18/05/21 12:49 AM |
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