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i'm trying to articulate what it is that rubs me the wrong way about this video and it's along this line... It's just so superficial content farming, and it almost seems like its more about you just practicing creating zoomer content with all the necessary cliches. There's nothing authentic about the video, it's just content.
/r/seduction13/04/25 08:57 AM
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yea this lol, met a girl last year, still together and got married, I've been very happy vs when i was single. Some people are just genuinely better off in a relationship.
/r/seduction08/10/24 02:58 AM
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OP, this is shitty advice. Do you and what kinda things you enjoy. Not everyone has the same idea of a good partner or type, or wants to live a certain way. Met a girl at a cheap dive and we're getting married next week. We don't make much but it's the best relationship I've ever had, and we're pretty happy overall.
/r/seduction04/08/24 08:16 PM
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Lying to get laid isn't good game, it's pretty weak. If you're gonna go that route just start telling girls you're a crypto millionaire.
/r/seduction14/07/24 03:09 PM
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I don't think most women care, but yeah if you're crying and going into deep emotional subjects within the first 3 meetings she's going to think you aren't really stable and will stay away. Doesn't have anything to do with masculinity.
/r/seduction20/06/24 05:05 AM
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Meh. I mean yes, generally good life advice to eat a balanced diet, hit the gym, live an active lifestyle, it'll do wonders for your mental health and confidence. However, I'd strongly advise against obsessing over your body image for the sake of getting laid. That will get you to a very unhealthy place mentally pretty quick. I've been a bigger dude most of my life. I did get slim in my mid 20s and held it down for a few years, yo-yo'd a bit (usually gain weight in relationships or when I'm stuc…
/r/seduction04/06/24 03:22 PM
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Depending on where you're at there's still a bunch of active telegram groups. As with everything else in the community, 80% unhinged weirdos, but I've met some cool dudes through them.
/r/seduction13/07/22 07:53 PM
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i made literally zero mention of being funny and listed things that make you look better lol
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:23 PM
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Solid. Either way, what are you gonna do about it? Give up and die alone? Do the best with what you got, look the best you can, dress well, hit the gym, get a good hair cut, be social and live a decent life. Do those things and almost any guy is at least a 7.
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:43 PM
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Yes. Work on yourself but keep trying anyway. At the very least you'll be building social/flirting skills
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:55 PM
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Lmfao y'all had live together, had a convo like 'we should prob start having sex' they agreed, then y'all just shook hands and parted ways?
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:10 PM
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1) don't buy girls drinks unless you're really hitting it off and vibing. Bribing her with a drink isn't a good opener and she'll probably just bounce when it comes if she's not into you 2) if your parents are cool with it, it's not a big deal to just bring her home. If she notices or asks who you stay with just say you moved back home to help out your parents. Alternatively, most of the time girls have just pulled me to their place. Very much an option to just go to the girls place if she's coo…
/r/seduction17/06/22 04:01 PM
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I mean yeah it was a thing, it was mostly all popping off on myspace and okcupid/POF. The general attitude was still overall skeptical about it and kinda weird to date online
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:53 PM
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what
/r/seduction17/06/22 12:26 AM
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Ok
/r/seduction16/06/22 11:54 PM
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First suggestion would be to open your mind a bit re education. I've attended a great law school, went to the best UG in the state, and many of the people there were the dumbest fucking people I've ever encountered. I've also worked a lot jobs in the service industry and met some of the realest most intelligent women there. You'll prob have a better time if you focus more on meeting cool chill girls with awesome personalities over pedigree and social status
/r/seduction16/06/22 11:53 PM
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k. Not even hating this just reeks of some shitty promo effort for some greasy coaches
/r/seduction16/06/22 11:46 PM
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Jesus Christ just use the photo
/r/seduction16/06/22 11:43 PM
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The fuck are you on about
/r/seduction16/06/22 11:41 PM
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This. Honestly just say whatever, when in doubt 'hey youre super cute, I'm antman567184'. If they're into it, talk back to you, flirt, smile, etc then keep talking to them, joke around, see if they wanna dance etc. Don't get glued onto one girl though, especially if it's still early just bounce around a bit and talk to people, be social. Most girls aren't gonna be trying to go home with a dude the first couple hours of the night. Get leads and build up momentum. After midnight start hitting up a…
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:12 PM
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Orrrrr they just have a little anxiety about going out with/hooking up with someone new and have some drinks to loosen up and be more social? Aka the same reason most normal people drink
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:05 PM
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Nah just wait for her to come and do it in person
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:09 PM
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She could just be busy? Lol. Only way to know is ask her out. If she dodges it then move on.
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:07 PM
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Weird answers here lol. But yeah of course, if you're able to be friends and get over hopes for more.
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:04 PM
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Join this telegram group. Hundreds of dudes there to wing with. A good handful of weirdos too into pua, but there's some chill normal dudes too I've met through it.
/r/seduction16/06/22 04:46 PM
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If he refers to himself as a sigma male then run fast from the both of em. Work on you and talk to other girls
/r/seduction16/06/22 04:04 PM
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You're not going to pick up a girl by just banter I'm struggling to even picture how that would work. Physical chemistry and flirting go hand in hand and just being all of one without the other is probably going to come off creepy.
/r/seduction16/06/22 03:31 AM
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If you really love her and wanna stay with her, gotta game her all over again and spark the passion back up. Took relationship psych and the biggest factor in slowing the inevitable decline of passion in a relationship is novelty. Make it a mission to escape your couple routines you've gotten entrenched in. Take her to fun new places she hasn't been in a while. Go ride a roller coaster or go rock climbing. Explore an abandoned building. Check out a new restaurant y'all have never been or heard o…
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:10 PM
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Similar spot here, had a ltr and when I came out of it everything was different and harder lol. The environment now, especially since COVID, is very very very online dominated for dating. Which still sucks because it's more of a sausage fest than ever. My irl game has varied a lot based on the location. Been sucking shit in Florida. I moved to Nyc though and was a kid in a candy store and felt like 2016 all over again, numbers and random make outs every night out, hook ups here n there. If feasi…
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:04 PM
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Nah f that. Several of the hottest girls I've been with I met while they were working at the mall. There are just some guidelines I'd recommend to not make it weird.... If it's a cashier just go up and be direct right away when she has downtime. If you do some pretend customer shit you'll probably piss her off when you switch to 'oh actually wanna go out sometime' and you'll waste money. If it's a service worker you're hitting it off with, tip first, do not hold the tip hostage to how she reacts…
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:51 PM
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Idk if that's a new thing with the internet though. I'm sure it's helped exasperate it though. I remember in HS 2007ish when internet was obv around but not like this, it was pretty much just myspace and online dating was still super taboo, there was this clique of the ugliest girls who were still mean as shit and super picky yet still managed to at the very least get attractive dudes to bang em. Pretty much just relied on trying to trap the hot dudes who banged them into relationships.
/r/seduction15/06/22 07:50 PM
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Or night game lol. Met all my GFs through night game. Makes no sense, I'm pretty low energy and often called quiet but Ive had a lot of phases I crushed it at night game, yet continuously suck shit at day game. I'm pretty direct though and hate small talk though, so I think being fairly direct plays out better in night game
/r/seduction15/06/22 07:46 PM
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An infinite supply of options
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:21 PM
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That or they eventually give up because it seems futile. Studies have shown around 97% of people who lose >5 lbs gain it back (and typically more) within 3-5 years. So we can either believe 97% of people are just weak minded lazy assholes or we can accept that there are more systemic issues with our overall diets, lifestyles, and genetics in consortium making it overwhelmingly difficult to lose weight and keep it off in the long run.
/r/seduction06/06/22 10:40 PM
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Been using the same line for about 15 years lol. Same line got me all my GFs. super basic and simple: 'hey I thought you're super cute and wanted to say hi' Adjust slightly for the environment. Daytime environment, the mall, bookstore, coffee shop, etc I go for a slightly more subdued maybe even shy tone, 'hey super random but I just thought you were cute and wanted to say hi, would be kicking myself if I didnt'. Nighttime/club/high energy environment can be a more bold variation, 'damn you're h…
/r/seduction31/05/22 06:50 PM
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There was one girl I saw out in the crowd on a busy Friday night who really caught my eye and was fine as hell, hit her with my standard 'hey you're super cute blah blah', introduced ourselves, tried to get the date/number, she said maybe if she sees me again while out, I said I don't believe in leaving it to fate, she gave me her number and went on a date with me lol. She brought up during the date what won her over was saying I don't believe in fate
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:26 AM
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Flirt, see how it goes, see if shes down to grab drinks after work. If she's not receptive then let it go. If she is then yeah she prob thought you're cute.
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:49 PM
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Just be yourself from the start. Even if it doesn't attract as many girls because you aren't playing mind games, the ones you do click with who are into it will be way higher quality matches
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:47 PM
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What?
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:44 PM
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Not about always having stuff to say, that shouldn't be a huge worry especially in a group setting. have fun by being adventurous, curious, and enthusiastic. Bunch of people lined up for a food truck outside the bar? 'oh shit they must have good food we gotta go check it out' ... Any kind of activity in the bar? Do that. Make it fun make a light bet with them. If things start getting a little stale or quiet see if they wanna hop to a new venue. Ideally know cool venues in the area you wanna show…
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:19 PM
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I don't really feel the urge very much though anymore. I've gotten too picky, but when I get to know a girl if she's semi cool and interesting I'll get attracted even if the initial it factor in her looks was missing. Why I kinda like and benefit from gamifying it w bit and forcing myself to just approach.
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:21 PM
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I'm down for that stipulation
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:25 PM
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You can legit just roll up and say 'hey gang I am hitting on your friend' if you carry yourself the right way while doing it
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:19 PM
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Stop worrying about the friend zone lol. Make a move. Does she like it/reciprocate? Yes -> proceed. No -> are you able to put any attraction and hopes of a romantic/sexual future aside and enjoy her friendship? Yes -> be friends, female friends are dope. No -> let her go and move on Basically the way to handle any situation you're worrying about 'the friend zone'
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:00 PM
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If you're an introverted beginner I'd highly suggest against any system. It's like if you've never played baseball and are in fact terrified of baseballs but you're trying to find the best advanced system for specific pitches. You're skipping ahead. Step one is just go start talking to girls. It's gonna suck and you'll be bad, at first. Start small. Build charisma; go get a coffee and ask the cashier what's going on in their day. Take an interest in people. Chat up your Uber drivers and learn th…
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:05 PM
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There's a sample bias in the two different groups. People on dating apps are actively looking to date. So yeah once you match it makes sense they'll be more willing to go on dates. Girls out in 'the wild' though could be in one of a million different predicaments. She could have a bf but gave a number to be polite and not hurt your feelings or out of fear you'd go psycho if she said no. Could be hung up on an ex. She could be seeing several guys and her dating capacity is just maxed out she does…
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:53 AM
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Goddamn bro had to check this to make sure I didn't post this while drunk. I'm going through the same shit with a coworker. We'd been flirting for months and she finally got single, we went out, made out, I like her a ton but she's moving across the country in a week. Fucking blows. Good luck with yours, I know it's a shitty feeling. As for advice, my plan is just work out, focus on you a bit and distract yourself. Stay in touch as friends and take it as a bonus if there's an opportunity for y'a…
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:48 AM
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fairly yeah, not always with friend drama. But usually some kind of hazing if friends see it. source: am a bartender. been going out 2+ nights a week for 7 years now.
/r/seduction19/03/22 02:02 AM
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idk going hard with the makeout in line doesn't usually scream 'please rescue me'. I doubt they were gonna cuddle up and watch a movie in the bathroom and hog it for hours on end.
/r/seduction19/03/22 01:56 AM
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uhhhhh you must not hit the nightlife too much, people hooking up in bathrooms and friends getting catty about it is pretty common lol.
/r/seduction19/03/22 01:45 AM
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No need to be holier than thou about it, if it's not your thing don't do it. But far from abnormal behavior for a bar or party. You empty out other fluids in the bathroom, just cuz there's two of ya doesn't make it all that different. It's not his future wife, it's a fun party hookup.
/r/seduction19/03/22 01:40 AM
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Yeah this. I mean if you're with a hot girl this kind of thing is just going to happen, she's going to get hit on and flirted with a lot. Just take it as a compliment that others think she's hot too and be glad she's loyal.
/r/seduction09/03/22 04:49 PM
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tbf i feel like no one is having a good time dating. We've let a for-profit online dating monopoly (the Match Group, which owns Match, Tinder, POF, Hinge, OkCupid, blackpeoplemeet, I think even the fucking farmers only site) be the arbiter of our dating lives, and their financial interest isnt in helping people connect and partner up, its in keeping you addicted to the apps and the little dopamine hit you get when you get a new match in a seemingly endless sea. It just makes the whole process bo…
/r/seduction24/02/22 01:57 AM
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Yeah I love St Pete, moreso than Tampa even but just named Tampa out of simplicity. Be sure to hit up downtown Orlando also if you do make the move. If you're in your 20s Gainesville is also a lot of fun. Miami is just overhyped and too full of itself, good eye candy but that's about it
/r/seduction30/11/21 11:01 PM
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If you're gonna do Florida Orlando/Tampa >>>> Miami
/r/seduction30/11/21 01:29 PM
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You can give compliments but you have to follow it up. If all you get out is 'you look cute' 99.999999% of girls will just say something along the lines of 'thanks.......' and walk away. "You're pretty cute and I had to come meet you, what ya got going on today?" is at least a conversation starter and lets her know your intention off the bat. Nothing wrong with starting with it IMO, worked plenty and it gives the girl an easy out if she's not interested since you're making your intention clear; …
/r/seduction29/11/21 02:19 PM
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If you've actually been into the community for more than 10 minutes it's very common knowledge and stated frequently. 'seduction' is a misnomer because yeah this isn't about convincing that one girl you like to like you, that's dumb teenager brain thinking. The community has, at every opportunity, harped on how to be more attractive generally, how to better socialize and interact with everyone in an attractive way, and how to give fewer shits and go for what you want. If you're taking lessons th…
/r/seduction26/11/21 12:58 AM
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women are just confusing. some of it even comes down to where you are. I was in Tampa and having shit luck all year with girls, came up to NYC and get looks constantly on the street and I've been on a pretty hot streak with pulls and makeouts. I think I even looked better in Tampa but it's just easier here.
/r/seduction21/11/21 06:20 AM
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yeah this, its a whole ordeal. I also got banned. Also had the best luck on hinge. Flew too close to the sun though.
/r/seduction21/11/21 05:59 AM
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on the flip side, I'm an average, very much not ripped guy. More dad bod. I do well IRL but pretty shit results with online. Obv yes, get ripped if you can and truly love the gym or are willing to make the dedicated effort. It's not the end all be all though, and it's possible to have a good time just going out and making out with and dating randoms from bars even if you're an average looking dude but confident and funny.
/r/seduction21/11/21 05:49 AM
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Went above and beyond and consulted with my female best friend lol, so two for one here. Her take: "Pic is weird, you can tell he's an attractive dude but the filters make it very uncanny Valley, awkward pose" "Solid pic of him standing but in a casual pose (like one hand in pocket or something) would be better" "Just a simple "these are my interests and what I feel passionately about"" "Like if your front and center personality trait is "I'm tall" I'm just not interested" My take: Yeah your pho…
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:13 AM
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You have to actually make the move 99% of the time, most women aren't going to just explicitly say hey I'm into you. It doesn't really sound like youre making moves, just rejecting yourself before you try.
/r/seduction09/11/21 01:16 AM
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pic - yes, thats why I said it's def not your looks. So you're only gaming your social circle, that's not really 'game', and a very, very small sample size. The whole point of game/seduction/cold approach/whatever you want to call it is to empower you to go talk to girls you like when you see them and do it in a healthy and attractive way without solely relying on your friend group, which is severely limits any options you have. There are literally billions of women on the planet, why would you …
/r/seduction09/11/21 12:21 AM
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I only use it when I legitimately can't tell if I already approached her before or not lol. Not worded that way though, more of a 'wow you look really familiar, where do i know you from?'
/r/seduction09/11/21 12:13 AM
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Yeah it's not your looks. Do you actually go out and actively talk to women, approach women you like, and flirt with them? Or when you try are we talking more just asking out friends in your friend group and maybe a half assed approach at a bar once in a blue moon?
/r/seduction09/11/21 12:01 AM
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"I've never had a woman consider me attractive" - there's absolutely no way for you to know this unless you've discovered the secret of omnipotence. Shoot it over let me see. Also, mind if I ask what kind of work you do?
/r/seduction08/11/21 11:52 PM
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I highly doubt you're so ugly that no girl has ever found you attractive. Moreso sounds like your self esteem is in the gutter and you THINK no girl has been attracted to you or shown you signs. If you keep telling yourself that you're ugly/unattractive then confirmation bias is gonna do it's thing and you'll only notice when girls reject you, turn away, etc and you'll completely ignore or miss it when a girl does give you eyes or flirt, or smile, or if you see it I'm gonna guess you don't let y…
/r/seduction08/11/21 11:37 PM
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Yeah man, same deal just send me the screenshots and I'll be happy to give my two cents
/r/seduction08/11/21 08:15 PM
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Send me a screenshot of your dating profile and of the last 5 convos where she ghosted. Also you're 28 you're nowhere near out of time. You're not even in your prime yet.
/r/seduction08/11/21 02:29 PM
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"You're cute do you wanna make out" if you're looking for the magical phrase.
/r/seduction04/11/21 04:56 AM
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Just ask. String frame required obviously
/r/seduction04/11/21 04:52 AM
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You can literally just ask girls to make out in night game and half will say yes. It's amazing and addictive. Have fun
/r/seduction04/11/21 04:06 AM
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It's happened at my hottest where girls would just directly approach me. Hasn't happened in a few years though. For most girls they'll still 'approach' you but in girl talk. Approaching for a girl is giving you strong eye contact, or finding a reason to ask you something, or glancing at you repeatedly if you're next to each other at a bar.
/r/seduction23/10/21 05:20 PM
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Idk I disagree. Doesn't make sense to make step one 'having your life together'. What does that even mean? Financial success? self actualization? Being happy? If you make step one vague and unobtainable then you'll never give yourself permission to start. Relationships and connection are the key to having a solid life in my experience. Our relationships to others are what make us happy and fulfilled. Connections can easily get you whichever job you want within reason. If learning and practicing …
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:05 PM
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I needed this. Also been in the game a long time but lost my way recently. Everything you've said resonates though and has been true in my experience, and some of them I've quit doing and realized I should get back to doing. Thanks for the high value post bro.
/r/seduction16/06/21 05:32 PM
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At bars yeah. I've done it. At least half say okay and do it lmao. One even walked me outside the bar though because she said she'd never made out with a random before and didn't want her friends to judge her. Record was like 6 or 7 makeouts at this beachside edm venue. That was a wild day. This group next to me was super shocked and asked me if I knew her and I was like nah we just met lmao. But yeah I wouldn't try that at the mall or something.
/r/seduction23/05/21 04:11 PM
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I never fucked with lines. Only line I bother with is my opener which has stayed the same for like 12 years...'hey I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi'. Is she about it and acts interested? Cool, proceed and have a convo and just ask if she wants to go on a date/makeout/whatever. If she seems weirded out or isn't about it or says she has a bf just say ah cool congrats and it was nice to meet you.
/r/seduction23/05/21 04:05 PM
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100% yes. It's like any other skill. The more you do it you'll become less anxious about it and more natural. Have fun with it. I find it helps to look for the story in every interaction. Get some funny ass rejections. Turn those into stories. Tell your friends the stories. Rejections are chill, just more funny experiences.
/r/seduction23/05/21 03:56 PM
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A while lol. Started at 18 and I'm 32 now. I have/had bad social anxiety and prob looked and sounded like I was having a stroke when I first started, just kept hammering out approaches and got to be pretty smooth eventually over the course of a few years. Had my great days around 25-28, that's also when I got pretty fit and first started drinking and things all aligned Somehow back to having generally shit luck, possibly because of covid as I've mentioned, but at least I'm smooth about it now I …
/r/seduction23/05/21 03:51 PM
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I think covid has made it even harder than it already was. People are more awkward now, more afraid of strangers after a year of isolation. I've been going through it too. Been cold approaching for about a decade, I've had great periods with frequent makeouts, dates, gfs all from cold approach. Had some rough periods. But this is by far the worst I've ever experienced it. Just constant rejection or numbers that go nowhere. So yeah it's just particularly difficult. Keep trying, I am. Online datin…
/r/seduction23/05/21 04:44 AM
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Wanna join in on the gauntlet tonight virtually? Lol
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:04 AM
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I'm on a super bad dry steak though. I think my last bar makeout was easter despite fairly frequent going out. I'm out now for Cinco and thinking of doing this challenge I made up where I just start at the very first bar and have to hit on one girl at the bar then go to the next one and repeat and see how far I can get. I call it the gauntlet challenge. Idk if it's worked but it's super fun
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:50 AM
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They totally could have just been using me for drinks too, I did get them a round. I think I tried to get them another but the bartenders ignored me (I'm friends with the bartenders so they were either tryna help or knew I was getting too fucked up, or both). Covids been hard.
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:45 AM
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Tbf I was pretty fucked up and also tried kratom the first time as well. But even though I was drunk I have super vivid memory, enough for my stupidity to haunt me lol
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:38 AM
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Most of the RSD coaches were like mid-late 30s in it's hayday so yeah id say just hit the bars, clubs, day game, same principles apply. It depends on the nightlife where you are though. In my town there's a lot of collegey bars and yeah I feel kinda creep there now (I'm 32, had my best days there so it sucks) but we also have bars where the hospitality crowd hangout, lots of late 20s/mid 30s hooking up going on there like crazy. There's a ton of other bars with totally different vibes and age ra…
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:13 AM
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I don't think I've ever had it happen where she seemed to do it accidentally lol. Why I generally refuse to ever buy a girl drinks unless we're already vibing for a while or on a date. I made a recent exception because I befriended this hot taken girl while out and she was winging me and kept swearing to buy a girl drinks and it works. I tried it again against my instinct. Random girl said sure she wants tequila for her and her friend so I order. This girl chimes in and asks for don julio. Soon …
/r/seduction24/04/21 03:40 PM
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I mean I can't imagine how they would do it on accident lmao
/r/seduction24/04/21 03:30 PM
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The worst example I can think of is girls who ask for a drink then dip as soon as it comes lol. If you actually think about it that's some seriously antisocial behavior
/r/seduction24/04/21 02:31 PM
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This. Follow the advice of terry crews and just enjoy going, learn to love the gym. Not everyone has to have the same obsession. I enjoy running so I run a ton. It gets me in a great mindset. I try to lift some as well and I totally fuck around and do what I feel like. I dont have any delusions I'll get jacked doing that, but it's what I like and will keep me going to the gym
/r/seduction22/04/21 07:13 PM
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Wrong mindset mate, shit the RSD reaction would be to find that hilarious. Stuff like that will happen. You have to just find the humor in it and keep soldiering on
/r/seduction19/04/21 12:59 PM
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Kinda disagree mate. I've dated some 8s when I was an insecure fatty just because I learned to still try at every opportunity, and eventually I'd still get yeses and was pretty shocked by them. There are girls attracted to every type, girls attracted to weird things. Yes, the more conventionally attractive you are the more success you will have. But if you aren't there yet, what're you gonna do, sit around jerking all day? Nah fuck that, still try AS you improve yourself, get those skills, get o…
/r/seduction14/04/21 02:03 AM
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This kinda comes off as clickbait bullshit without any new, useful, or particularly actionable information and reeks of self-promotion. Yes, most of us acknowledge we should develop our careers, eat right, lift, and try to not look like shit. Lol, not groundbreaking info but that appears to be the main take away just in more words. As some others have pointed out you don't even need financial success to have a great dating life. I've had great jobs and not great jobs and I was dating app the bes…
/r/seduction13/04/21 08:02 PM
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Why's it matter though? Most pretty girls are probably going to be going on dates with other dudes. Talk to lots of girls, go on dates with girls so you don't get hung up over one girl and whether she's getting railed. If she gets exclusive with someone else it's fine, it's how the dating game goes. When there's a strong mutual attraction and compatibility she'll pick you to get exclusive with (if she's even in a place in her life to be in a relationship). Until then it doesn't matter, just enjo…
/r/seduction09/04/21 02:07 AM
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"damn girl let me get your number?" "Okay it's xxx-xxx-xxxx" "...aw fuck you"
/r/seduction25/03/21 03:31 PM
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On a date yeah you should be able to tell. If she makes any kind of avoiding motion when you start leaning in then abort. In nightlife though fuck it I'll just ask a girl to kiss her in a fun way and you'd be surprised how often they'd say sure lmao. Although one time this girl even dragged me to a private area outside to do it because she didn't want her friends to see her kissing a random and judge her.
/r/seduction09/03/21 01:46 AM
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Don't waste it then. It's a Friday, beautiful women are out and about today. Would love to hear how it goes
/r/seduction26/02/21 03:38 PM
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Approaching enough can overcome being unattractive. I still dated some girls out of my league during my fat fuck days by playing the numbers game
/r/seduction26/02/21 04:28 AM
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Counterpoint: I know of several doctors/dentists with good bodies who suck with girls. I've been to law school, worked good jobs, worked in restaurants, best period in my life was working in the restaurants. 'just chase money' is kinda naive. If you chase after it by say going to law or med school, or pick a mega grindy career with 12 hour days just because you think that's what's expected of you or it'll impress girls you're gonna have a bad time and miss out on a lot of life in the process. Tr…
/r/seduction25/02/21 07:15 AM
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Lol what's a 'guaranteed' way to get a girl? Sounds like a cowardly cop out imo
/r/seduction22/02/21 05:26 PM
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You wot mate
/r/seduction22/02/21 05:25 PM
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Not at all. I've met every girlfriend and the lion's share of my hookups through cold approach. It'll suck hard when you first start. You'll get rejected a lot. If you get good you'll still get rejected a lot. But the resilience you build to rejection is a valuable life skill (as in not letting rejections bring you down and you keep trying with other people, not trying with the same girl post rejection for the autists out there). Plus not having to rely on tinder (which has an 8:1 mf ratio) or j…
/r/seduction22/02/21 03:32 PM
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Approaching and developing better social skills don't need to be mutually exclusive. If your only goal is to work on socializing and being flirty in general there is a sub for that, and that approach works for many. This is (or at least was) a community founded on the idea that you can talk to anyone, which includes cold approach. In some situations it will be unnatural. Sometimes it'll be scary, but the benefits have been amazing. There are situations where being sociable just aren't enough, ie…
/r/seduction21/02/21 01:21 PM
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Idk about this. Sure if it's someone sitting next to you in a bar or cafe, or a store worker then yes, it's more natural to get better at striking up convo, knowing how to flirt naturally, and develop charisma. But if you see a girl you really like who could be 'the one' walking down the street it's more 'unnatural and creepy' to run up and act like you just need directions from her in particular. In that scenario yeah just go up and approach and less creepy imo to be honest about what you're do…
/r/seduction21/02/21 12:42 PM
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Agree and disagree. I agree with the main point that you shouldn't try to memorize a bunch of tactics. During my best times with women I found it great to just get out there and try, work on myself a lot, and the 'tactics' would kind of happen naturally when you're vibing with girls. My pua friends who would get overly technical and memorize routines just came off super weird and cringe and I'd usually get embarrassed when we went out together. That said, I also found it really helpful to get in…
/r/seduction30/12/20 01:43 PM
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Wtf I was LITERALLY just about to post the same thing lmao. I'll pm you
/r/seduction19/11/20 09:53 PM
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If you are serious - This is a toxic mindset and you need to abandon it immediately. Nothing wrong with sex obv, and if he made fun of you sorry, maybe he's just a dick and you shouldn't associate with him? In any event, best thing you can do is lift weights, practice talking to girls until you suck at it less, and go from there. Worry about you, not others.
/r/seduction18/11/20 09:35 PM
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Not sure if incel or a really weird troll
/r/seduction18/11/20 09:31 PM
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Way too many generalizations in this thread. OP, you've barely done any approaches, aren't calibrated/warmed up, and can't expect jack from a single approach. It's great that you tried, but that's just a first step, not the end all be all. Some girls will want to go out and just have a girls night, some girls will want to fuck, some girls want a man, some girls are only gonna be there for 6'8 black dudes, some girls will be there for dudes like you. Overthinking it does nothing for you. The only…
/r/seduction18/10/20 08:47 PM
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In my early 30s now, but eh. After like 6 attempts at the white collar world I've come to terms with that being a hard pass for me, current plan was to work on a cruise, do more traveling and get better stories, but that's on pause (COVID - but fingers crossed for the coming months). For the most part not really. I know my niche, I'm an adventurous spontaneous dude with lots of stories. Plenty of girls into that, plenty of girls who would prefer a stable boring dude with a nice house and car. No…
/r/seduction18/10/20 05:04 AM
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Just own who you are and be a fun person. I dropped out of law school and the white collar world when I came to the realization I hate it and don't even care about getting wealthy or buying a house, I'd rather just build a more adventurous life, travel, etc which is totally doable with a job in hospitality, and it worked. Dated the hottest girls in my life while serving at an Applebee's. Spent the time I would have spent working 80 hrs a week in a firm at the gym and bars instead. Girls don't ca…
/r/seduction18/10/20 02:09 AM
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CNN aired a segment on this a couple weeks ago. Had some health expert on to say if you do hook up don't do it face to face, avoid kissing, wear a mask if possible lol.
/r/seduction26/09/20 11:45 AM
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That wasn't the question though. Just noticed a correlation anecdotally and was looking for more data points.
/r/seduction18/09/20 07:23 AM
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I mean I do think 'tactics'/routines/mind games etc are lame; but I've valued this sub in particular for generally emphasizing lifestyle improvement and taking action over some kind of strict approach methodology or tactics.
/r/seduction18/09/20 06:32 AM
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The best feeling is when it's a girl from cold approach. I literally have flash backs to when I was just contemplating approaching her like oh fuck I can't believe it worked
/r/seduction18/09/20 04:02 AM
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Good now keep the momentum going! Would love to see a daily approach thread from a girl's perspective
/r/seduction22/08/20 03:40 PM
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Only tangentially relevant but please please please get out of the habit of punching walls asap. A couple months ago when bars first opened some guy tried to fight me for talking to his friend's gf, I left the bar but punched a news stand and my hands are now permanently fucked up. Had to go to occupational therapy and everything, which helped, but they're still all fucked up and it takes concerted effort to reach in my pocket for anything. Lose that habit immediately
/r/seduction22/08/20 12:38 AM
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Approaching someone you don't know (ie a stranger) and starting a convo
/r/seduction06/08/20 01:15 AM
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Where the fuck are y'all doing all these cold approaches? Everyone wearing face masks and mass death seems to be a turn off
/r/seduction05/08/20 06:03 PM
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Just a word of caution, you can't let your guard down even after it feels like you 100% made it. I had a similar transformation and the experiences after were the same but in my mid 20s. Went from about 275+ to a low of 203 (I'm 6'2 so I look pretty slim at 203). Totally different world. Constant compliments, which made me feel like damn was I that garbage before? Women actually looking and smiling a lot, confidence naturally goes up, girls even start approaching me in bars, random make outs, so…
/r/seduction02/08/20 02:20 PM
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Yeah this. Your mindset changes, which is why I hate living in a small city. My most fun nights out were when I didn't give a fuck and talked to tons of girls. The energy carries over the next day and i continue talking to girls, with thick skin and solid energy. Whereas sure you can go snipe a girl or two, maybe you'll get lucky or not, but it's usually not super memorable outside of an amazingly unique interaction. Then the next day it's back to square one and you don't usually experience the …
/r/seduction30/07/20 12:43 PM
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Most girls won't... But getting out there approaching and getting socially loose is still beneficial
/r/seduction26/07/20 03:22 AM
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Well duh. Have you seen the guys who consistently pull in bars and clubs? Not the top minds. Confidence and sustained effort will get you 90% there.
/r/seduction23/07/20 10:37 AM
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I'm in US.... Florida. Everyone is wearing facemasks myself included. Meant more in the sense of the awkwardness of all parties wearing facemasks, since that's the only option
/r/seduction21/07/20 11:13 PM
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Go on a lot more dates. It's gonna be learned and there's no way you're batting your first date ever out of the park even if you read every post on this sub and every book out there. So much of it you just have to learn by practice and you're going to get rejected a lot in the process. Also work on going out and socializing more, it'll help correct those weird behaviors that turned her off and get you grounded. Which I mean is kinda hard RN because of the whole pandemic thing depending what coun…
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:39 AM
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The downturn started after the Julien fiasco when he got a lot of media attention and they shifted to self help; then after a UK(?) pua got arrested for harassment (and BBC simultaneously put out some pua expose on a few sleezeballs with bad advice on approaching minors,pushing through last minute resistance - which is pretty rapey), YouTube started taking down lots of PUAs and apparently RSD got spooked and called it quits
/r/seduction03/06/20 08:04 PM
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It's a fairly old meme where a neckbeard sees a pic of a model and replies 'pointy elbows, would not smash'
/r/seduction28/05/20 03:10 PM
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You've either never lived in a big city or you're a 'pointy elbows' guy
/r/seduction28/05/20 02:46 PM
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1/3 kiss close ratio? Lmao even the pros don't have those numbers. 10% is considered great, 2-5% being more average.
/r/seduction28/05/20 02:40 PM
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This sub has turned into almost entirely people complaining about this sub. I've been around for years and the seddit philosophy has always been work on yourself and take action. I can't even remember any big posts focused on gamey specific old school pua style techniques. Yeah, I agree it's weird to get in the weeds with dumb techniques. I honestly just enjoy cold approach and the adrenaline and adventures that can come from it. When you're doing it right a lot of things happen naturally unless…
/r/seduction19/05/20 08:02 AM
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Online dating is just boring. I'm assuming that's what you're referring to since everything has been shut down for two month now. I haven't had interest in texting either. Just wait out the pandemic and practice nightgame when life resumes.
/r/seduction17/05/20 07:16 PM
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I feel like you're addressing a different issue that what OP is getting at though. OP is talking about worrying excessively over having a plan for once you approach, working out a full routine, knowing every technique for going from approach to the close and then some. In which regard OP is right, it's nonsensical to worry about all that excessively when instead you should just start doing it and build your skills from there once you're comfortable at least approaching and taking action. You're …
/r/seduction01/05/20 02:49 PM
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You had me until 'so you can get and keep a good GF'. Not your place to ascribe the end goal for everyone here. There's nothing wrong with dating or sleeping around if that's your goal as long as you're open about it. Yeah don't be a manipulative douche, but if the women know your intentions and are game there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/seduction01/04/20 05:33 PM
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'You' lol. I mean don't be a psychopath or murderer though.
/r/seduction25/03/20 06:03 AM
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Honestly the most important thing is going out, having fun, and talking to people. At least in my experience game/'technique' just kinda happens naturally when you're in the right headspace and having a good time.
/r/seduction16/02/20 05:13 PM
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I don't really understand what the simple trick is.... She was actually interested in you, you hit on her, and so far it worked out? In any case yeah, don't avoid hitting on 'hired guns' but use common sense. Whenever I see a cute girl working at the mall sure I'll shoot my shot. A lot of times it's a no, sometimes it's a yes. As with every other female. If, however, it's a waitress/bartender at a place I frequent, I prob wouldn't just go in guns blazing. Maybe flirt, feel it out, and keep it mo…
/r/seduction15/01/20 03:30 AM
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Am I the only one who thinks this post is a douchey turdnugget? Yeah great if you can make high quality friends but this also screams 'i am very smart' except replace smart with status. You haven't necessarily done any great life merit but you're bragging about this group of people you seem to have been introduced to 100% by chance and are now complaining that normal plebs just can't compare. I don't even understand what the question/problem is, this post is just a humble brag with no practical …
/r/seduction04/12/19 04:49 AM
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Eh, everyone is different and yes maybe about half the girls I've approached seem generally uncomfortable with being approached in public by someone they don't know. Which is totally fine, the key here is enough awareness to know when she feels like that and just fuck off. But a solid handful did either say I made her day/week/month, wishes more guys would do that etc, and have gone on dates and even gotten in relationships with random women I've approached in public. So I don't regret that at a…
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:12 PM
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That reminds me, do you usually have more female friends? Just because your dynamic reminds me of my own with women. Turns out 'opposites attract' generally is bullshit and we much prefer people who are similar to us EXCEPT for masculinity/femininity. I grew up with a single mom, prob act a bit more feminine, good number of female friends growing up and most of my girlfriend's have been the opposite, act more like guys in the sense they like casual sex more, have lots of guy friends etc. Never r…
/r/seduction01/11/19 04:17 PM
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Haha yeah it's crazy how much of it comes down to pure evolutionary mechanisms. A kind of obscure fun one was that women do prefer some body odors more but only when they're ovulating iirc, and that all comes down to signals about our genetics and immune system since our BOs are manifestations of whatever bacteria we attract. At the end of the day we're just animals.
/r/seduction01/11/19 04:10 PM
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Here ya go, most relevant and recent starting point: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S016748701630277X
/r/seduction01/11/19 03:22 AM
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Yeah I'll have to dig around Google scholar when I get home to see if I can find it. We were taught it in social psych classes and they cited a study for everything, that was a few years ago though lol. I'll try to find it tonight though
/r/seduction01/11/19 12:31 AM
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Also: the biggest perpetrators of slut shaming are other women (and there's empirical research to back it). The evolutionary explanation is women protecting their sexual market value. Historically, men are willing to offer food, protection, shelter whatever for sex but if some women are giving it away willy nilly then that decreases how valuable women putting out is and how much value they can earn from simply having sex.
/r/seduction31/10/19 04:22 PM
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This seems to gloss over the 'congruent' point though. How many of you actually give a shit about Yoga and would consider that part of your identity if not for the getting to be surrounded by hot chicks aspect?
/r/seduction16/10/19 03:03 PM
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That's always been my philosophy. If you trap a random girl in a long conversation about nothing she doesn't even have a polite way out and you're just trapping her unless she's clearly enjoying it a lot. If you're direct you give her a quick out by saying she has a bf or whatever if she's not interested but if she is interested she'll choose to hang and have a convo
/r/seduction08/10/19 06:01 PM
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Approach more. 8 in 9 months is not even trying. That's the equivalent of walking on a treadmill for 10 minutes once a week then saying you need to reevaluate treadmill technique because you aren't happy with your results. Shoot to start doing at least one approach a day every day.
/r/seduction13/09/19 06:51 PM
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Who knows doesn't matter, most likely doesn't even have anything to do with you. Maybe she was just a catfish, maybe she went on a date the night before with an awesome dude. Pretty young girls have infinite options, they're gonna be flaky. Accept it and keep trying until your number is called
/r/seduction06/09/19 03:34 PM
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I appreciate the post, we need more content like this. And sorry for any cringe replies or PM's you've been getting. Maybe the incels found their way over here
/r/seduction17/08/19 06:51 PM
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A lot of this is taken out of context. I've been following RSD for years now. It's been cool having them as a reference point to stay grounded in the fact that pick up isn't weird and get some practical advice. If you are one of the original followers and aren't totally Asperger's you'll know they say outlandish things sometimes with a clear tone that they're fucking around. Hell that's a huge part of pick up in general: get outlandish and fuck around a lot, don't hold back, but have enough soci…
/r/seduction02/07/19 11:35 PM
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This is bad advice. Some of my hottest lays were girls I had a very mediocre first interaction with and didn't even think they'd answer my text. Go for the close every single time, you lose nothing by trying. Some girls are just caught off guard and awkward.
/r/seduction26/06/19 02:43 AM
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No but why would this even stress you out... Always look to improve and spice things up, if you're just banging her missionary and getting yourself off any girl is gonna get bored
/r/seduction25/06/19 01:21 AM
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Uh they look identical. You'll be fine champ
/r/seduction25/06/19 01:19 AM
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That's the whole point of this sub. Sort by top > all time and get to reading
/r/seduction25/06/19 01:17 AM
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Cheers mate, I know the rut well. If you're ever in the US feel free to hit me up for a wing
/r/seduction24/06/19 10:38 PM
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It's a numbers game. My best nights involved approaching constantly until I get the physical green light (her leaning in, touching you, etc) then you're gold. But trying to keep a conversation going with a girl who is only semi into it is exhausting so I'll just take her number and dip and see if I can set up a date later. Sometimes those do lead to sex or more so it's still worth following up, but gonna take too much time and work on a night out to invest it all in one girl. The name of the gam…
/r/seduction24/06/19 10:29 PM
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The music doesn't matter they go off vibes. Just say hey you're cute or whatever loudly and if they lean in to hear you then you're in. Loud music is kind of a blessing since you have to get really close to speak. My gripe is more with small towny bars where everyone knows each other
/r/seduction24/06/19 10:20 PM
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Idk I just got tired of going on dates then they say they didn't feel chemistry. No shit I'm sober and we just met I'm prob gonna be a bit awkward. At least with girls at bars or day game they already know what they're getting and my conversion rate post first date is way better.
/r/seduction24/06/19 10:14 PM
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Same, I suck at online dating but do well in night game. If possible just move. Some cities/countries just have shit night game where it's all boring social circle whereas bigger cities and cities with lots of transplants are gonna have a night crowd more open to outsiders Edit: never been to UK but surely London has decent nightlife? I'd imagine it's comparable to nyc
/r/seduction24/06/19 10:06 PM
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It's not just a UK problem, it's more of a dating app era problem. I'm in the US and have done the nightlife in most East coast cities. NYC and Orlando have a handful of hookup bars but aside from that it's 95% girls just out with a group to chill and most bounce by 1130 to crash or get with their fwb. Meeting guys at a bar or club is risky, why do that when you can prescreen from a distance on tinder, stay with your group and just invite your vetted dudes to come hang with your group?
/r/seduction24/06/19 08:34 PM
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Eh it was the heat of 2016 so i thought it was funny
/r/seduction03/06/19 09:27 PM
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I disagree with this. This is more about meeting potential partners (whether for dating sex or relationships) through more direct methods (ie approaching them as opposed to relying solely on online dating, social circle, coworkers etc). Plenty of us are looking for relationships but just aren't satisfied with the more limited pool mainstream methods provide. So to that effect yeah plenty of the advice here is applicable to women. If a woman wants to be more direct, get her shit together, and app…
/r/seduction03/06/19 09:22 PM
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I had an incident of my own years ago. It'll get better the more you practice and get less anxious and become better socially calibrated. Most likely the issue is one of two things (or both): 1- excessive anxiety and hesitating to approach. This is the main thing I struggled with that'd get me in trouble. Make sure you follow a five second rule from now on if you don't already. If you're like me there isn't an malicious intent here, but it can look weird if you end up lingering (typically becaus…
/r/seduction03/06/19 07:09 PM
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Balance. You shouldn't spend all day chasing girls nor should you spend all day every day focusing on work. A healthy dude can juggle multiple things.
/r/seduction28/04/19 08:26 PM
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Don't get a car to attract girls. I've been carless when I dated some of the hottest girls be I've been with and girl less when I've had my shit together. Just get a car you like. That said I work for a pretty large car company and have driven a ton. If youre tall and or have people in the back a lot Volkswagen is the shit. They also have solid sound systems. If you want the most flashy name recognition for the least you can get a decent 2014-2016 Maserati for like 25-40k. Edit: I'd stay away fr…
/r/seduction28/04/19 02:36 AM
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You shouldn't be drinking half a gallon either though is what I'm saying. Actual research says that's one of the biggest pop culture misconceptions. We get plenty enough through food and natural thirst.
/r/seduction24/04/19 02:03 AM
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I'd argue for removing the water part of the list. No research to support the old saying of 8 glasses a day (which is half a gallon....the original quote about 8 glasses even stated we get most from food). Therefore drinking a gallon just seems unnecessary. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.livescience.com/61353-how-much-water-you-really-need-drink.html
/r/seduction24/04/19 12:44 AM
3

I hate the term pick up artist and makes me cringe that it's still used. But I guess 'decent at girls without relying on internet or social circle' is a bit of a mouthful
/r/seduction22/04/19 02:48 PM
1

Well yeah, worst case trade Facebook's. I've had several phones stolen over the past few years and went up to a couple weeks phoneless. I'd just have girls I meet add me on FB so I could hit em up on messenger
/r/seduction19/04/19 10:48 PM
1

I can't imagine it being a problem but do make it clear he has to call you. When I get a number I'll text once, if no response on to the next one.
/r/seduction19/04/19 10:43 PM
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It varies by city and bar scene but trust me there is a fairly large variety. Yeah some elements you described are common and you'll always have to deal with (guys standing around trying to look hard, girls constantly getting pulled away like it's a rape in progress), but I think college bars are in particular hard for meeting new people. Everyone is hyper socially conscious and (if you live in most of the US) very concerned with Greek life and that whole heirarchy. I've had some good nights in …
/r/seduction25/02/19 01:16 AM
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Man idk I've been doing day game way longer but I'm so much better at night game. Day game is kinda boring, girls are taken aback sometimes in a good way sometimes bad, can't insta make out or anything, way higher percent have boyfriends than girls at the club.... Your night at the club sounds much better than most day game.
/r/seduction25/02/19 12:29 AM
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Just tell her to stop shit testing you. Seriously though I would just explain that you're interested in the self development aspects and that the sub isnt some handbook of techniques or lines (which is true if you're doing it right).
/r/seduction24/02/19 01:44 AM
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I've been in the community a while and met all different types. There have been plenty with gaping insecurities, and guys who are a little strange, and I've also met some genuinely cool ass dudes who are very focused on self improvement and would like to be more social and better with girls. Even after years I still think a lot of the lingo and guys who get overly technical is pretty strange and probably counterproductive. What I think this community is great for: (1) meeting like minded dudes w…
/r/seduction13/02/19 02:38 PM
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I love tall Amazon girls. Decent sized frame but proportional. I'm a big dude with banana hands so it's nice when it actually fits with the girl and doesn't feel like I'm escorting a small child
/r/seduction09/02/19 05:58 PM
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Just read all the top posts on this sub. This whole sub generally promotes positivity, taking action, and self improvement. The tldr of this sub: work out, dress well, live a cool life and do shit that interests you, approach as many girls as possible and be transparent about what you want.
/r/seduction08/02/19 01:44 AM
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Just saw the ad and thought the same thing lol. Look honestly it’s a blurry line at times and there are some people who think all forms of approaching a stranger are bad or harassing. You can’t control what others think and that unfortunately comes with the territory of approaching. Just focus on what you can control. Keep being a good dude. If a girl seems uncomfortable know when to back off. Make sure you do what you can to come off non threatening and non ‘cat cally’ (the difference with cat …
/r/seduction16/01/19 05:00 PM
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Let it go. If she hits you up sure but I'd just drop it.
/r/seduction29/12/18 03:52 AM
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What's crazy (and one of the things that got me into cold approach when I first learned about the study) is there was a study on gender differences where a Confederate would ask people on campus of the opposite gender either to have dinner tonight, come to their place, or come stay the night (I think that was the wording, whatever it was was strongly indicative of sex). For the latter questions it flatlined with women to near 0, but asking to have dinner was like 60%. I was amazed it was that hi…
/r/seduction29/12/18 03:43 AM
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Back when I was a server I'd get numbers on the receipt every now and then. Even if I wasn't interested id just take the compliment and do nothing. So yeah posting the whole number unedited on social media is pretty malignant attention whoring, I couldn't imagine even thinking to do that. That said I also wouldn't just pass a number without at least some flirting first and an indication of interest. But whatever, bullet dodged.
/r/seduction12/12/18 05:29 PM
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As a dude who's had a handful of gay guys approach me even that is awkward to deal with once in a while, and I know it must be exhausting to constantly have to deal with that. The only thing creepier than a guy getting better with girls is a guy who doesnt get better with girls. Theres different manifestations of being bad with girls; catcallers are high in confidence but low in skill (or just extremely lazy, dont value women, etc). Not trying at all and creeping on your social circle is another…
/r/seduction22/09/18 12:02 PM
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The me irl side of me wants to bitch at how rare these iois are
/r/seduction16/09/18 02:22 AM
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I just keep it simple. Hey I thought you were cute and I wanted to meet you. Sometimes her eyes will light up and you're golden, sometimes she'll throw up a bitch face in which case I just walk away, sometimes it's in the middle and you have to chat a bit after that to guage her interest vs shyness. It doesn't have to be a science just talk to girls
/r/seduction26/08/18 01:41 AM
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I've been using that line for about 10 years now and results have skyrocketed the last 5 years as I got more confident, knew what I was doing, could joke around better after the open, got more used to bars and clubs and worked on my physical appearance a lot. The line is fine. Yeah if you're just spamming it at the mall 90% of the girls are gonna give you a wtf look. Some won't and will be down for dates, but best of all at bars it really doesn't matter wtf you open with, just come at them with …
/r/seduction22/04/18 08:28 PM
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The claw stuff is kinda weird for me and I haven't done it, but I've been doing this for a while and my most fun and memorable nights have been when I followed their advice pretty strictly (state hunting, talking to everyone to get to that place, 'spam approaching'). I've had more chill nights, even chill nights where I hooked up or met a girl who'd become a gf whatever, but as far as fun and good stories spam/getting hype/looking for that high energy social state has been the best way to get th…
/r/seduction30/03/18 09:27 PM
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I just check snapchat after the fact. 98% of hot girls at bars have one, and if they give you a legit # it'll show up when you go to add someone from contacts (usually with a username similar to their real name). Pretty roundabout way but eh at least it gives me an idea of how many legit numbers I got at the end of the night.
/r/seduction11/02/18 04:06 PM
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Similar experience here. I'm 29 now (and glad to hear you're killing it at 30, starting to get self-conscious about age), went to a huge public undergrad (that year it was #1 ranked party school) and fucked maybe one chick the whole time. After undergrad went on a drought for years, lived in NYC for 2 years and couldn't get laid. I got horribly depressed, ruined my career and everything because of how depressed I was. Finally lost a shit ton of weight and started going out to bars/clubs regularl…
/r/seduction06/02/18 03:48 PM
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I've been using dating sites for about 10ish years. Night game for 3 years. LTRs acquired through nightgame: 3 LTRs acquired through dating sites: 0
/r/seduction20/01/17 03:26 PM
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Check out the adam ruins everything episode on sex, he has a whole segment on herpes and how its really nothing at all
/r/seduction12/01/17 08:19 AM
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My advice is to reevaluate and open up to bars. I used to hate the bar scene, would day game, get a date every now and then but it mostly sucked. I started giving bars a shot even though they terrified me and had my ideas that the women there aren't relationship types, etc. I finally started having fun and bars have been way more efficient. My last two long term relationships have been with women from bars, I get way more numbers, kisses, etc in a MUCH shorter period of time from bars, more date…
/r/seduction17/11/16 04:16 PM
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