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Apex Mindset. His content is based on 'red pill knowledge' but is more so on evolutionary psychology. He promotes a healthy, positive narrative and actionable advice. He focuses more on having good inner 'game' and a positive mindset, so you can have better relationships. He does not bash women or men. Instead he lays out the facts, and explains what you can do with it to get the great relationships you want.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/23 11:19 AM
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Went through it. That's exactly how we do it. I'll try switching up the ways I call her a slut and see her responses.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/22 02:16 PM
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Yea that's exactly what I said. Not sure what I should add to the aftercare seeing as we already cuddle and talk after fucking.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 10:28 PM
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My very fresh GF texted me yesterday morning asking if she could call me after work to talk about something. She called me and was nervous, she's typically anxious about confrontation. She struggled a bit but got it out that she doesn't like it when I call her a slut during sex saying that it affects her subconsciously and makes her feel like I hater her. I A&A and didn't really say much other than Ok and we laughed about it. I'm not sure if she's shit testing me or if it genuinely makes her fee…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 09:37 PM
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Just talk some shit back and keep walking.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:09 PM
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I’m already at the size I need to be but sure, I gained a few pounds leading up to the powerlifting comp.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 01:57 PM
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I did both over the course of 6 months. At the end of the 6 month period I competed in both boxing and powerlifting, only a week apart from one another, won both. Also had a grappling competition a few weeks before that which I also won. It’s going to be tough but you can do it if your schedule allows for both. Are you going to compete or just for fun? I’m my case I was in a different country during that time and saved up tons of money beforehand so I didn’t work. Wake up, eat, shit, go lift, ea…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 01:01 PM
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I believe in owning up when you make a mistake. Refusing to take accountability and apologize is weak. Just firmly tell her you’re sorry for reacting in that way. No big deal.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 10:49 AM
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More like all women are capable of being like that. Not ALL women do it. Some are better than others. If she does it with you, she’ll do it to you.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 07:31 AM
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Has a BF, LTR material, yet flirts with you and you want to fuck her If she does, she’s automatically disqualified from LTR material
/r/askTRP01/06/21 07:18 AM
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Depends on what’s going on psychologically in that moment. I was able to get it open through taking it slow and letting her become comfortable + alcohol. We fucked hard and good for a while and finished. 2-3 hours later we did it again, but this time I couldn’t get it in more than 1 inch tops, and when she was about to orgasm she had a flashback to the traumatic event that caused her vaginismus and her pussy closed it’s doors entirely again. So yes, even if you successfully fuck her once, it can…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 01:21 PM
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Been there done that. Managed to get her pussy to open up through alcohol and comfort, taking it veeery slow with tons of warmup. Later we tried to fuck again after the alcohol died down, but her pussy closed up like a wall. Unless you plan on LTRing her, don’t bother.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 12:53 PM
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Damn the fuckin disrespect for the boyfriend. I'd say nothing if I was him and leave her a couple days after. "I lost my feelings for you, it's over."
/r/askTRP28/05/21 08:53 AM
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Because it puts huge emphasis on the big 3, which will give you more gains than any other bullshit you end up doing in the gym if you’re a newbie. You don’t have to actually become a powerlifter. Just focus on the big 3, grow big and strong, just watch your caloric intake/belly and cut down some if you start getting fat.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 07:25 PM
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Usually I’ll wait a few days after a date to set up a new date, but in this case she’s showing high interest by texting you the same day after the date. Text her tomorrow or the day after and set up another date for the weekend or whatever works for you.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 10:01 PM
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There you go. NEVER let her know in any way that you would judge her for anything, or else they’ll just hide it. Lesson learned for you. Just keep going about your life like you are, and your emotions for her will fade. It sucks but it is what it is.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 09:56 PM
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Really depends on the girl. Some girls expect to be paid for if you take her out, while others see it as a bribe for sex and feel pressured to sleep with you if you do. I ususally don’t unless I invite them out for dinner. The girl I’m currently seeing spends more money on me than I do on her.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 09:10 PM
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Do you sit down when you need to piss? What’s your body count? Do you take it up the ass?
/r/askTRP22/04/21 11:43 AM
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suck my balls
/r/askTRP22/04/21 10:53 AM
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I’m shitting and crying
/r/askTRP22/04/21 10:00 AM
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If it’s cringe you’re not doing it right. It takes some experimenting to get it right. I’ve probably sent 1000 first messages to girls over the years and 40-50% of them didn’t respond. Never start out sexually. It might work out on some women, but the risk-reward ratio is too high. 1a) If they have something interesting in their pictures, an interesting clothing article, a dog, a cat, any animal, simply say «Bring the X to our date, (insert their name)» 1b) Or say «I suggest we cook dinner and d…
/r/askTRP19/04/21 08:45 PM
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Completely unimportant. I’m in my 20s and have less than 100 followers. A lot of people I know have around 300-3000 folllowers. I’ve dated girls with 10x my follower count, and we met through Timder. They wanted my instagram, I gave it to them thinking it’s all over, then unexpectedly they message me and we end up going on a date. You just need to have really strong game and that shit won’t matter.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 08:11 PM
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Good for you man. Enjoy the slanger.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 03:51 PM
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Small girl =/= small pussy in my experience. Not 100% of the time atleast. Some have had giant hallways, while some tall women have tiny ones.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:57 PM
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Bruh ikr. I’m exactly average and I’ve had girls tell me it hurts or that I’m going too deep. Needing a big dick is utter bullshit. Some women are built different (lol) and need a huge wang, but even then just fuck them the right way and you’ll be fine. They’re just saying shit like that to fuck with you.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:55 PM
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Fucking go for it dude.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 08:53 PM
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Maybe she has an avoidant attachment style. Some people are just like that.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:17 PM
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How far into it are you with them? If you’ve hung out with them for a few weeks in a row, they will need space to allow for attraction to exist. You just learn to expect it. Give it a week or two, they’ll be back with an «I miss you» text.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 10:03 AM
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Stupid to ask her that in the first place. She probably responded that way to test your reaction.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 12:08 PM
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You broke frame the moment you got pissed off at her little joke/jab. Don’t take shit like that seriously. If you want to hang out with her on Friday, just say «Friday is good, bitch. I’ll see your ass at (location) (time)»
/r/askTRP06/04/21 10:40 AM
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Well, if he disrespected you and you stood up for yourself, that's a thumbs up in my book even if you got your ass kicked. That's life. Only way to stop bullies is to stand up to them even if you get fucked up. I promise you people respect you even if you got your shit kicked in, because you're not a pussy. Now, you can hide from the guy and stay home, or you can go to the party. You shouldn't instigate anything, but if he tries to AMOG you again, stand your ground once more. Try to stay more so…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 10:45 AM
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What the fuck? Who cares how long you last if she's giving you head? The girl probably doens't want to suck dick for 45 minutes straight. My go to is start off with a BJ to get the first nut out of the way, then when you actually start fucking you'll last longer. Go multiple rounds. After 2 round you'll probably last 30-45 minutes sober.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 08:33 PM
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Depends. If they’re straight up ugly with no redeeming physical attributes, hell no. If she’s a butterface, aka kinda ugly face or normal but hot body, I’ll smash. They’re fun to keep around as backup booty when you go through a dry period.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 06:41 PM
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You’ve already read 40+ books. Stop fucking reading. You’re overwhelmed with information and structure, and that’s what’s stopping you. Put your book down, put some clothes on, get out on the streets and TALK TO GIRLS. Do you get that?! No more books, no more information.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:49 PM
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Jump head first into the chaos. Do not try to control it, learn to become comfortable with the uncertainty.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:34 PM
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No. Don’t try to educate your brain. Just do it. Go out. Talk to girl. Fight your anxiety and do it anyways. If it goes to shit it goes to shit. Educating is the only thing you’ve been doing the past two years.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 12:55 PM
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I’ve been there man. Your strategy should be this simple: Step 1: See a woman, decide to to talk to her Step 2: Walk up, say «Hello» Step 3: See what happens. My first time all I could say was «Hello», the girl said Hello back, and I didn’t know what the fuck to say so I kept walking. It doesn’t matter. Next time I was able to hold an actual conversation. After that, I asked for a number. Your anxiety will wither away more and more each time you do it and you will feel like a fucking CHAMPION ea…
/r/askTRP04/04/21 12:17 PM
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You need to adopt a different mindset. Take action NOW. Go out TODAY and approach atleast 10 different women. Don’t bother thinking about results. Think «I’m going to talk to 10 random girls and the results doesn’t matter.» Just go out and do it. Your dick doesn’t matter. Your height doesn’t matter. What matters is that you take massive action RIGHT NOW. You’ve spent so much time reading and spinning up scenarios in your head instead of actually doing anything. That’s your problem. The solution …
/r/askTRP04/04/21 11:43 AM
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Once or twice a week. I feel more ‘manly’ when I’m not busting all my juice every day.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 11:37 AM
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That’s fucking awful. I nearly shed a tear reading about it, man. Take time to grieve. Don’t be afraid to let the tears flow if you want to. A dog truly is mans best friend. I’m more of a cat person but I love dogs too. Don’t blame yourself though. There’s no way you could have known it was your dog making those sounds. Your parents didn’t know either. It’s just another one of lifes terrible jokes. You have no fault in this. It is what it is.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 02:48 PM
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muh misogyny
/r/askTRP02/04/21 01:40 PM
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And they won’t see anything wrong with it, because nothing could possibly be bad about them, ever. Supremely arrogant, hiding extreme insecurity.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 11:07 AM
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You can have absolutely nothing to your name and still fuck bitches if you have some game. I live in my parents basement rn and it hasn’t stopped me. For a while I didn’t even have a job. You won’t pull the highest quality girl, but you can still get laid with good looking girls.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 10:16 AM
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Do you get butthurt when you lose a friendly competition? Are you so into yourself that you ignore the wishes of others for your own benefits? Being a narcissist is not a good thing. A true narcissist will never have true, good relationships with anyone because of their nature. People don’t like selfish dickheads with no empathy.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:41 AM
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That’s funny, I checked out the FemaleDatingStrategy sub for fun earlier and it seems like a mantra that they will ONLY go on dinner dates where the guy pays on the first date, and never coffee dates lmao.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:35 PM
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hilarious
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:40 PM
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That feeling is fucking wrong. I felt that way too and it’s utter bullshit. Just do it, get some practice. If it goes bad, just leave.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:33 AM
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That’s what happens. Talk to more girls either through dating apps or IRL approaching.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:23 AM
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He probably has it memorized at this point
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:22 AM
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Suck my fat balls
/r/askTRP31/03/21 09:51 PM
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You misunderstood me. Read the second part of your comment.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:43 PM
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This sounds like some blackpill bullshit. Yes, probably. But who cares? We don’t give a shit about competition.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:18 PM
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Nice cope. It has nothing to do with FDS. You fucked up by commenting on her cleavage. Should’ve made plans to meet up instead.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:59 PM
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Whats her @ man I’ll talk to her. While undressing her.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 12:43 PM
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Who fucking cares. Just go with option C and if you don't like it, just get out.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 12:33 PM
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I don’t care what they think, but I might engage them playfully. Agree and amplify. Getting annoyed/defensive is buying into their frame.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 11:06 AM
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Yes that was a shit test, and yes you failed by getting annoyed. When girls say shit like that I always agree and amplify. «Yeah I’m a girly man» «I’m secretly gay» Don’t take them so seriously.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:27 AM
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I fully agree with this. It's not about the woman. It's about being a man and standing up for yourself. If you can't fight, get your ass kicked. If you don't want to get your ass kicked, learn how to fight. Train MMA, boxing, wrestling, whatever.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 08:43 AM
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Depends on wether they initiate contact or not. If they're texting me, I'll reply, otherwise there will be radio silence until I show up at the agreed location and time. If they're just sending attention seeking shit like selfies I don't respond usually.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:47 AM
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Dogpill?
/r/askTRP30/03/21 06:31 PM
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Then I don’t know what you’re doing wrong. Could be a coincidence. What does it look like the days leading up the date? Besides, if they’re letting you know early on in the day, they could have legit shit that came up. Would be a different story if they texted you one hour before the agreed time.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 05:30 PM
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This implies you didn’t already set the time and location though.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 05:29 PM
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Are you texting them the same day as the date for confirmation? If you do, stop it. Just set the date, once she says «Yes», say «Great see you then» and just show up. You can do a sneaky confirmation by showing up 5 minutes late on purpose and text them beforehand «I’ll be 5 minutes late» or something. Preferably say nothing. If you text them «Hey are we still meeting up today?» you seem like you get flaked on a lot (which in your case, you do) and that doesn’t signal high value. I had the same …
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:40 PM
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My lifts are around 550 deadlift, 350 bench and 500 squat I can toss around most girls with ease. I was strong before I started getting girls though so I didn’t pay attention to it.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:35 PM
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You can be very dominant with women in bed, and still be passionate.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:02 PM
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Big penis dick
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:37 PM
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Bipolar Personality Disorder. A quick Google search of 'BPD" would help you.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 10:21 AM
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Hell yeah man. My N-count isn’t as crazy as some of the other guys here but it’s high enough that I can conclude a canted smile is no big deal if you can become confident despite your insecurity.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 08:01 AM
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I bet my canted smile is way worse than yours bro. Best way to overcome insecurity is to expose yourself to it as often as possible. If you have certain angles you’re anxious of being viewed from, which I’m assuming you do with a canted smile, like myself, FORCE yourself to put yourself in that angle as much as possible. Try to be confident through your insecurity. It sounds dumb but it does help. Cheers for canted smile bros!
/r/askTRP29/03/21 09:51 PM
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I’ll admit I laughed
/r/askTRP29/03/21 09:46 PM
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6’4 220lbs lean, very wide shoulders and back, which makes me look gigantic even though 220lbs isn’t SUPER massive. I am very blessed in terms of my physique. The biggest difference is I now have more of an abundance mentality than before, since you asked about mentality. Not that I have a constant set of plates or anything, I just don’t care as much. If you’re thinking about the actual hairstyle, I really just keep a short buzz cut, 4-7mm.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 07:56 PM
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It is amazing how a non-issue can become catastrophic and anxiety inducing in our own minds. Then you look back at it and wonder why the fuck you ever worried.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 07:27 PM
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Well yes, you can’t be shit in bed and expect them to come back, but paradoxically enough, when you focus too much on performance, you perform worse. When you become immersed in the moment and stop worrying, you perform better.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 06:02 PM
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Well I must admit I am decently good looking already. Big jaw and all that, plus I have a great beard to go along with it. In addition to that I am well built so it makes me look intimidating and girls dig that. Not all, but many. Girls with daddy issues flock to me. What I’d do if I were you is to get fucking jacked. Lift heavy weights, get big and strong, and a bald head will look badass.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 06:00 PM
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Yeah man, same here. I’ve only gone directly from Tinder -> Meetup twice.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 05:57 PM
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Balding made getting women easier for me
/r/askTRP29/03/21 05:10 PM
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Stop thinking of sex as something you need to ‘perform’ at. Make out, suck them titties or whatever floats your boat, put your dick in and fuck them. Who doesn’t like multiple rounds? Just keep fucking. At some point, you’re both gonna cum. Whenever I think I need to do this or that (besides foreplay) in order for them to cum, I enjoy it less and worry more. When I do whatever the fuck I want, the opposite happens and it’s just a better time for both parties involved.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 05:06 PM
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There’s no correlation between any of those you suggested, except a really tall girl, whose pussy was just fucking massive. The ones with the smaller/tighter pussies have been everything from really tall to really short, fat, skinny, and petite. The two with the largest/widest pussies, one was really short, and the other really tall. Most of the girls I’ve been have been perfect for me. I’m 6’4 220lbs for reference. You’d expect me to have a huge wiener but I’m 100% average, maybe a bit girthier…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:41 PM
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Another thing, try to get them off Tinder. Get their number or something else. Becomes more personal then and they’re less likely to flake in my experience.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:17 PM
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This really isn’t me trying to force positivity, but it’s going to sound like it. My dick is 5.5 long and 6 girth. For the longest time I thought I was fucked, until I actully started to get laid. For more than half of those women I was too big. I hit their cervix and I had to not go so deep. This was a huge shock to me because I thought they needed like 6-7 inches. So that was a fucking lie. With the minority I was too small, or their pussy was a hallway, depends on how you view it. With most w…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:08 PM
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That works too. If she’s into you, she will make it easy for you. If she says «I’m busy this week but I’ll let you know», give it 2-3 weeks then hit her up and try one more time. If she still won’t set a date, move on.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:52 PM
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Idk. I've fucked fewer girls, but my standard has only gone up, not down.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 11:57 AM
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Try this: "Lets do X. What's your availability this week?" - If she's interested she'll give you a few days she's available, you pick whatever day works for you. For example: "I'm free Wednesday, Thursday and Sunday". "OK, let's meet up at X location at X time."
/r/askTRP29/03/21 06:59 AM
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Took me like 2 «dates» and 5 hangouts to smash a girl once upon a time, and it was totally worth it. I probably won’t do it againx though. She was a special case due to some trauma.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:56 PM
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Why not tell her? Morality apparently is not a very big thing here, but I suggest you tell her you want to be fuckbuddies from now on, unless you’re emotionally invested in which case you’re better off dropping her for good. Be better than her, man.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:49 PM
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For a short period I forced mystery way too hard. I basically refused to tell women almost anything about myself and they did NOT respond well to it. They seemed weirded out instead, and surprise surprise, did not sleep with any of them. Thank fucking god I stopped with that bullshit.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:24 PM
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I still think it's massively disrespectful. What you want in an LTR is a girl that has enough sense to not pull shit like that.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:12 PM
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So if a dude is genuinely funny, she's supposed to hold back laughter? What if they go to a comedy show, she's not allowed to laugh because it's "disrespectful"? LMAO
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:03 PM
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She only asked him out AFTER he went «Wtf?» on her.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 06:59 PM
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So many different answers here. It’s either «Nofap is for retards with no evidence behind it» or it’s «Jerking off will literally make you beta and kill you.» Just try for yourself for a few weeks as a challenge, see if you’re mentally strong enough, and see if you notice any differences. What’s the worst that can happen?
/r/askTRP28/03/21 06:29 PM
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That’s fucked. Get out, bro.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 04:56 PM
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Shit balls cum
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:29 AM
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I notice the same thing myself. Do you get stressed/worry if they for example don’t text back etc? Acknowledge it, then move on to other thoughts. Focus on something else.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 12:30 AM
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Probably a bit of both. Letting me know she’s a free spirit while simultaneously checking my reaction.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 12:00 PM
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Yes. It’s been ages since I last took a look at the sidebar. I thought ASD too, but it wasn’t clear to me what exactly prompted it.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 11:24 PM
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Sounds about right. I interpret girls too literally sometimes instead of recognizing what’s really going on. I remain disattached from outcome regardless, but there’s still some work to be done.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 11:09 PM
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No goats around here unfortunately. Otherwise we might’ve made it a threesome. Thanks mate.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 11:06 PM
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Oh I have a rule now to always text girls the day after we first have sex something like «I had fun last night» so I did that this morning. She agreed and she’s going away for a few weeks so I told her to hit me up when she gets back, to which she gave me another shit test with «We’ll see;)» which I responded «Bad girl;)» to and we left it at that. We’ll see what happens. Was a fun lay.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 11:05 PM
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Just don’t neglect biceps like I did. My triceps are now 3/4 or my arm, at least.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:29 PM
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«Oh yeah? Be a little more specific, please.»
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:25 PM
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For the first 20 years of my life I only had one experience with a girl who was sociopathic and manipulative at the age of 18. She would only let me eat her out, and barely gave me a shitty BJ once. After 4 months of her tearing me down I had enough of her bullshit and got out. Proceeded to lift like an obsessed retard for the next two years, and gained 100lbs of fat and muscle through heavy powerlifting. During this time I paid no attention to women at all, except one time I did my first approa…
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:28 AM
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It happens to the best of us. I rarely drink but last time it happened to me I had to go take a shit and then it woke back up to life.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:27 PM
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Goddamn that’s fucking brutal but hilarious. Shows how much abundance bitches have, tossing you aside immediately like that.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 08:48 PM
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Dating apps and approaching.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 08:10 AM
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Nice rationalization bro. Porn is porn. Doesn't matter if they're "average" or not. And come on, there are tons of really hot amateurs posting on reddit..
/r/askTRP23/03/21 08:08 AM
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Are you srs bro, porn is porn
/r/askTRP23/03/21 07:45 AM
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I just can’t fucking stop laughing at your comments
/r/askTRP22/03/21 08:57 PM
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I always wonder how the girls look when guys here say they’re plating 9’s and 10’s.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 08:35 PM
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This is it. If you gotta compete for her, she ain’t worth the trouble.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 09:13 PM
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What this guy is saying. If you’re just sitting at home doing nothing all the time you seem like a loser. If you’re keeping busy, suddenly you’re just «focused», and well, there is truth in that. Personally I’ve got like two people I consider my friends, but I don’t use the word lightly. I have a lot of acquaintances but I probably wouldn’t hang out with them. I like to be by myself and with people with the same mindset as me.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:24 PM
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What do you mean by «she seems shady at times» ?
/r/askTRP21/03/21 03:00 PM
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You can be a cool adventurous loner. Being content with being alone is good. Learn to be happy by yourself and find things you enjoy doing by yourself. Just yesterday I went snowboarding by myself and had a fucking blast. People will come along eventually, and since you’re fine being by yourself you won’t tolerate bullshit and cut them loose if they aren’t good for you. Being fine by yourself is powerful.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 02:20 PM
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The one that doesn’t try to get her. Just chill out, have fun, at the end of the night she’ll wonder why that one guy hasn’t made a move. That’s when you strike.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 01:27 PM
4

See that ego is too fucking big dude. I’m taller, bigger, and compete in MMA too but you don’t see me talking like that. There is a fine like between confidence and arrogance. Right now, you’re in arrogant mode. I’ve been there. What you need to realize, and what I had to realize, is that we’re not better than anyone else. Be proud of yourself but don’t think for a second you’re above others. Silent confidence speaks for itself. Arrogance is loud and screams insecurity.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 12:47 PM
4

Haha. I have people test me too, every once in a while and I’m 6’4 230lbs lean. I recommend picking up martial arts, man. At least then you’ll be able to respond properly with confidence.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 07:05 PM
1

What do you mean by positive/negative/neutral inquiries? Why would she lie, when she could’ve just told him beforehand that she can’t drive due to the meds kicking in and ask for a ride instead of sleeping over at this other guys house?
/r/askTRP17/03/21 06:36 PM
4

Because you haven’t made her your GF, dude. Meet up with her, say something like ‘You’re my girlfriend now’ or whatever and kiss her. IF you want to.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 02:05 PM
7

There is no ‘perfect moment’ to go for it, you gotta create it yourself. Turn towards her, and go for it. She’ll recognize what you’re doing and either reciprocate or back away. If she backs away, no big deal. I’ll give you an example. I was on a date, had very little time left to catch my train back home. We walked side by side so out nowhere I turned to her, got close, put my hand on the side of her face and kissed her. She kissed back and I then I had to run to the train. Simple as that. You …
/r/askTRP17/03/21 10:54 AM
1

They see you as being way higher value than them -> Their attraction is very high -> They want to fuck you badly and stare at you. I’ve noticed this too. The bigger the difference in value, the more they want you, unless they’re really insecure, then they’ll not look at you at all.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 09:05 AM
1

My favorite is «We should do X together (drinks, watch a movie, whatever), what’s your availability like next week?» Then ask what her number is. If she wants to she’ll give it to you and set the date, if she doesn’t want to she won’t give it to you. To the point, direct. Just try and see what happens man, don’t be so hung up about results. Being unattached to outcome helps a loooot.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:31 PM
2

I am only speaking from my own perspective, as it seems when I ‘perform’ I do way worse versus when I’m just chilling. I know I am at least a little charismatic so that tends to work better for me than ‘performing’ as it becomes inauthentic. That doesn’t mean not to escalate physically et cetera but it seems I get laid a lot more when I’m just chilling.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:27 PM
2

So, do you escalate or do you not escalate?
/r/askTRP16/03/21 07:05 PM
1

I got dumped a while back and not 24 hours later I fucked another girl I met on Tinder. Felt good then and there, but I still felt like shit after. I’d say give it a week or two. It’s not healthy to deny yourself feeling sadness.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 06:57 PM
7

How do you feel when they approach you? Do you smile, hold eye contact and feel confident, or do you stumble over your words, and feel insecure? I imagine it’s the latter, and the girls can probably tell, hence them losing interest. What I suggest you do is start talking to more girls. Approach girls, until you get to the point where talking to them doesn’t make you feel insecure anymore. You’ll be more relaxed and feel confident. I know it sounds weird but be yourself. Don’t try to ‘perform’ wh…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 06:52 PM
3

"I don't even consider myself a bad looking dude" Maybe you should start thinking of yourself as a sexy motherfucker instad of *not bad looking*
/r/askTRP16/03/21 02:19 PM
3

Try NoFap for a week or two. Or limit yourself to 1-3 times a week. Start doing kegels too (google). Kegels literally give you a diamond cock as it enhances bloodflow. You won’t even lose your boner after you nut when you do kegels regularly.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 10:21 PM
1

Holy fuck you’re retarded. You’re not supposed to attack her looks you buffoon.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 09:26 PM
1

AMS did a video on this, availability test. If you’re clearing your schedule to see her, you’re low value. In their eyes, anyways. I’ve had this happen recently. Agreed to make dinner and drink wine at a girls place, 40 minutes before agreed time she hits me up saying she did an oopsie and had a 5 hour nap in the middle of the day! Oh no! And if I could do it tomorrow. Hell no, didn’t even bother replying.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 06:22 PM
1

I see what you mean. I would only really follow it on the first date, as if I felt I had to do something to create attraction. I’ve come to realize that either you click, or you don’t, and if you don’t, so be it. The script doesn’t really run after the first date. After I’ve had sex with a girl I am able to completely let go and it just flows naturally. My goal is to not start the script in the first place, just letting go and if there is attraction, great, if not, move on. I struggled more with…
/r/askTRP13/03/21 11:41 AM
2

Maybe that’s what it comes down to. I made a resolve to only focus on my personal growth this year and it makes a difference.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 04:46 PM
2

That’s true. But that doesn’t change the fact that the last two years I haven’t been authentic when dealing with women. Not to say going full blue pill is the way, but when you force things like I did, it makes everything all weird. The few times I’ve stopped ‘running the script’ in the last two years are also the times I’ve had the most success, like last night for example.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 02:21 PM
1

Yep, learned that the hard way. Couldn't figure out why I had more success before TRP than after. I only use certain things now to make sense of girls behavior instead of using it to re-shape myself.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 10:07 AM
2

Well said.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:04 AM
0

Idk about the laws in the US, but let's say some guys wants to fight. I say sure, put my guard up, in my stance, and I wait for him to come closer. If he keep coming towards me, am I not then allowed legally to defend my space if I deem him to be a threat?
/r/askTRP13/02/21 08:24 PM
1

Good job and good luck, man.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:20 PM
5

Fuck BMI, dude. I swear you’ll feel better if you lift weights and slowly gain weight up to 180-190lbs.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 10:33 AM
2

Some guys just like to punk others. They don’t actually want to fight, they just want to scare guys and feel like the alpha male. It’s pathetic. Best way to handle them is to accept their challenge. Either he fails to punk you and backs down, or he actually did want to fight. Only problem is, now you gotta fight. Best tip I have for someone untrained is to keep your fucking hands up. Try and duck his shots and grab him, take him down. DON’T take him down if he has friends with him. They could ju…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 10:01 AM
-1

There is great danger in allowing the enemy to strike you first. You could easily get knocked out immediately. Strike first, strike hard, no mercy.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 09:57 AM
3

It happens man. Some girls just happen to be wider than others. Some guys have bigger dicks than others. Sexual compatibility is definitely a thing, no one is to blame.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 09:51 AM
2

Is this really worth the headache for a 7?
/r/askTRP13/02/21 09:49 AM
1

Wait a minute. Does she bring her own weed?
/r/askTRP12/02/21 07:39 PM
1

For sure man, weed can ruin the whole thing if you’re not already super tight with eachother. I rarely smoke with girls unless it’s some high CBD shit. But yeah man just go for it next time. It can be nerveracking but if she’s at your place, she’s there for the same reason you’re there.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 07:08 PM
1

I was like that at some point too, looking for IOIs from women to feel good. I made it a point to try not caring about it, and hey it worked from me. Validation should mainly come from yourself. Doing things you enjoy, getting better at them and gaining self respect goes way longer for your confidence than IOIs from women ever will.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 06:08 PM
3

If you find yourself unable to escalate naturally, just go for the kiss out of nowhere. That’s what I do 90% of the time and it works every time. You don’t HAVE to gradually work up to it. Better to take action than to do nothing. Move closer to her and go for it. If she’s already at your place alone with it, that’s what she wants. Another thing to consider is that you might not be high when you’re in the other scenarios. Being high definitely makes me overanalyze too.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 05:51 PM
1

I had several 2-3 month streaks and my longest was like 6+ months. I lost count. I was horny all the fucking time, was still insecure deep inside but I had a bigger ego and became arrogant. Made no difference in the gym. The confidence boost I felt probably came from self-respect from gaining discipline. I had the LEAST amount of sex in my life during those SR months. Why? I was fucking crazy horny and it made me desperate. I haven't been on NoFap in 10 months and I feel exactly the same. Except…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 07:31 PM
1

Who cares dude? Get her number and see what happens.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 05:59 PM
2

Yeah man you nailed it. I had to stop going on here for a few months because I was constantly overthinking this shit and stopped being authentic. Pretty sure I fucked up a few dates by trying to be 'mysterious' when I had plenty of success before.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 05:50 PM
2

It's good to put yourself first if it's for mental/physical health reasons, your dreams, et cetera. But always putting yourself first in all situations will surely tarnish your relationships, especially when "putting yourself first" hurts someone else in the process. Obviously this doesn't matter if you're in a toxic relationship or something like that. Then, of course, put yourself first and get out. For example if you grab and eat the last slice of a pizza without asking the other person if th…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 05:19 PM
-4

«Easy tiger, I wouldnt even fuck you with another guys dick»
/r/askTRP18/10/20 06:34 PM
1

What do you mean she has unrealistic expectstions? She told you she loves the sex, so it doesn’t seem that way to me.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:03 PM
-2

Pretty sure I know my dick better than you. A quick Google search also confirmed that some guys just don’t get it.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:39 PM
1

I see. In that case it’s probably nothing that you’re doing wrong that I can see atleast. I met a woman once that straight up told me before we had sex that she has never had an orgasm with a guy before, and she was 28.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:38 PM
2

Are you warming her up properly? You should be making out, kissing her all over her body for atleast 10-15 minutes before you even touch her pussy. The idea is to let the anticipation build up. Making out first, sucking her earlobes, kissing her neck and chest, slowly but surely working on her titties, all the way down to her mound, inside of her thighs etc. By the time you get to her pussy she should be dripping wet, and then you fuck her. Personally I enjoy eating a nice pussy so that works fo…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:20 PM
-3

Curious about precum. I’ve never had it before. The only cum coming out of me is when I orgasm, until then theres no fluid leak. Anyone else?
/r/askTRP17/10/20 09:16 AM
5

That sounds like a good thing to me. This one chick had vaginismus due to trauma so I could barely get an inch inside and go slow. Eventually she did all the moving.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 09:54 PM
15

Smiling isn’t beta at all. If you feel good and want to smile, fucking do it. Forcing yourself not to smile because it’s more ‘alpha’ is beta as fuck. Do what is natural to you, or it won’t be authentic.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:09 AM
32

Jesus christ WHO FUCKING CARES BRO, you’re overthinking this shit dude
/r/askTRP14/10/20 08:41 PM
1

I got on NoFap because I had issues with confidence and discipline, as well as ED. I no longer have those issues. There is literally zero difference in how I feel now compared to when I was on NoFap for 2 years. Only difference is now I feel less desperation and I don’t feel like shit after a wank. You keep telling yourself that shit man. Enjoy the cult. Meanwhile I’ll go squirt all my precious semen all over the walls before I have a slut suck me off later.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 09:18 AM
2

You just keep saying the same shit stating pros of NoFap and making judgements about men that jerk off, apparently placing yourself above those men since you abstain from it. You don’t provide any actual counter points on what I said.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 05:18 PM
2

I see, gotta do what you gotta do. Or not do.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:10 PM
3

First you say «it's because your mind cant differentiate you actually having sex with a woman vs jerking off» then the next sentence you say «Once it realizes you didnt actually fuck a woman you feel unaccomplished, like you cheated» What’s it gonna be? Like I said, if you think you’re wasting «precious sexual energy» by having a wank, you’re literally making yourself feel like shit afterwards. Another thing is, it’s not like your only options are jerking off a hundred times per day or not at al…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:02 PM
6

I never mentioned porn. Porn is another beast entirely, and is definitely best abstained from. Jerking off once at night is also not the same as jerking off five times in a row. It’s not like your only options are jerking off five times in a row or not at all. Moderation is everything, man.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 03:47 PM
31

Man if you would just realize it’s all placebo. Listen, I was in your boat one year ago. Constantly horny like a roided up silverback gorilla, ready annihilate any ass my death ray shooting eyes could get a glimpse of. I thought, «man, my testosterone must be through the roof!!1!1!1!1!11» and figured it was worth it. Constantly denied by women because I was so fucking horny and came off as desperate. I still got laid a few times but only with random sluts from tinder coming straight over. Basica…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:19 AM
2

I disagree with confirming on the day of the date. Once she agrees to go on the date, just say ‘Great, see ya then’ or something and just show up at the agreed place and time. Most of the time, they will show up, or they will confirm for you. You can be sneaky and subtly comfirm by saying you’ll be 10 mins late or something, but just showing up works best.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 06:17 PM
7

Having an abundance mindset comes from realizing you don’t even need girls. You’re just as happy being on your own and you can always just have a wank if you don’t have a girl. There’s literally billions of girls out there, and as you pass through life you’re bound to meet some that want to be with you, so there’s no point in stressing over one single girl.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 10:07 AM
2

Do you need to do night game? You could just go about your day and talk to random women when you see them or the situation calls for it (at the bus stop etc). Takes way less effort and you don’t have to dedicate your weekends to it.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 03:01 PM
3

I feel you bro. I had to force food down my throat for a long while, but I ended up gaining too much. Just keep going and eventually you’ll adap to it so it won’t feel forced any more. Keep eating and lifting and you’ll get there.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 09:39 AM
1

I fall into category 2. I say that even though I’m tall, muscular and lean with a good face. Game is absolutely #1. I have fucked up plenty of opportunities because my game was lacking. I know status is also greatly valued in the TRP community, but from experience I can say game trumps even that. I have less than 100 followers on Instagram, yet I manage to get dates with women with over 1000+. I used to be insecure about giving my IG to girls on Tinder, but as long as I game them correctly while…
/r/askTRP08/10/20 10:48 PM
6

I cum every day and I’m also happier than ever. Did NoFap for two years and I was actually more anxious and desperate for chicks back then. Now IDGAF. Whatever floats your boat man.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 11:33 AM
6

Just go and have fun man. Don’t focus on trying to fuck or meet girls. Whatever happens happens. Outcome independence is the way.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 10:50 PM
5

The man is being bullied and you’re saying not to do anything, then? There is a difference between a random guy on the street being disrespectful and being abused over and over by bullies.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 08:55 AM
3

You are your actions though. However, lying to your friends/family is different from lying to a hobo to make them stop bothering you. I expect 100% honesty between my closest friends and I give back the same. I can’t stand being lied to.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 08:47 AM
3

There comes a time where a man has to stand up for himself. Not seeing eye to an eye and having your asshole verbally torn apart are two different things. Some people won’t respect you unless you show strength and that you will stand up for yourself. Wether that is by giving a verbal warning or whatever your prefer.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 08:40 AM
15

I get that but it doesn’t work like that. Respect goes both ways, and if they treat you like shit you are under no obligation to treat them better. Your best bet is to send it flying back at whoever does it to you, and if things escalate or don’t get better, find another place to stay. Don’t let these insecure pussies ruin your mental health.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 11:05 PM
20

You talk shit back to them. If they keep treating you like shit you ask whoever does it if they want to take it outside, if you’re capable of fighting it out. Some people on here will disagree but people like this will only do what you allow them to.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 10:58 PM
4

You already sound like you can’t stand not telling him man, it’s actually eating at you and I bet it’ll only get worse the longer it goes on. Why do you care about losing your gf’s friend? She’s a shitty person that cheats, that’s the bottom line here. And you can bet her friend won’t be discouraging your gf from cheating either. If he forgives her, that’s on him. If you lose your girl, you can always meet other women even if you really like this one.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 10:21 PM
1

Honestly, just get in contact with the guy and say you need to talk to him, best done in person. Sit him down and carefully break it down. It will be way more sincere and believeable this way. If your gf breaks up with you because of you it, that’s a good thing. If she doesn’t break up with you, that’s also good. I’d probably even warn your gf about doing it first, so you don’t go behind her back. You literally can’t lose here. If you don’t tell him, you’ll have to watch this guy live a fucking …
/r/askTRP01/10/20 09:49 PM
8

Why the fuck do you care who a plate texts? She’s a plate, not an LTR or your wife. And the whole point of trust means you don’t need to check her phone. If an LTR is actively hiding her phone from you, turns away so you can’t see and always leaves it upside down, that’s something else.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 06:23 PM
4

Well. if you keep thinking about it and feeling you can’t trust her, that’s only going to make you obsess over it more and more. Wouldn’t you agree with this? If you are truly able to not think about it, and be honest with yourself here, then do what you want. But feeling like you need to check her phone tells me more than enough. Keep your mental health prioritized here.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 06:22 PM
1

Ah, I thought you’d been on more than two dates. Women that like you and want you to respect them won’t fuck you immediately. Atleast that’s been my experience.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 04:59 PM
2

Yeah that’s the one. It’s a great read and gives great insight into how different types of women behave, and what type of women to avoid depending on what you’re looking for. It goes into great detail about how their emotional thinking makes them act out in different ways and how to handle it effectively.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 04:57 PM
1

Exactly. Women make it easy for you if they are interested.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 04:53 PM
5

No, you state your intentions by setting up a date as soon as possible. Just say you’d like to get to know her better and ask about her availability. If she’s interested she’ll give you a few days as options and you pick whatever fits your schedule.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 01:40 PM
2

I’m not one to bother with field reports but I’ll keep it in mind. Why don’t you try yourself?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 12:52 PM
4

Never tried that so I can’t say. Now that he’s made it clear that he’s not interested in being friends and (I assume) walked away, that shows strength and self-respect. So when she inevitably reaches out in the future he should just assume she wants to see him and set up a date at his place and initiate sex. If she rejects sex, next.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 12:25 PM
1

I see, and what you’re saying is acne and migraines fuck with your well being and confidence. That makes sense. Doesn’t apply to everyone though. I eat lots of carbs with no issues but if it works for you then go ahead bro.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 10:35 AM
7

As others have pointed out, your first mistake was not having sex with her. Doesn’t have to be on the first date, but if you play your cards right you should be having sex by the third or fourth date at the latest. If she won’t put out, put her out. As I’m sure you’ve heard Corey say, you don’t want to be platonic with a woman. Some people said not to sext, which I don’t really agree with as she’s the one that started it. But keep it to a minimum, and don’t give any validation, and you can get a…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 10:17 AM
1

the mind is very powerful. it’s entirely possible you’ve told yourself that and now you believe it, and it makes it reality for you. that doesnt make it true though. what makes you think it compromises your masculinity?
/r/askTRP30/09/20 11:13 PM
7

All you need is practice, my man. If you try to talk to more random girls when you’re out and about you will eventually get better at it. Just need to build that confidence and you’ll be fine.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 10:26 PM
5

carbs has nothing to do with it. it’s called exposing yourself to scary situations repeatedly until it not longer scares you.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 10:25 PM
1

That makes sense. I didn’t really care for what she said as I was just looking to fuck anyways, but in hindsight it really stuck out as odd. Typically I’ve never had a woman throw out shit like that before. Great insight, man.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 11:33 AM
2

I mean it is counter intuitive unless you’ve experienced it
/r/askTRP29/09/20 10:49 PM
1

Strong disagree from me on this one. I had terrible anxiety for a few weeks and was lucky if I was even able to fall asleep. Decided to try 2,5g of shrooms for my first time, and had a fucking amazing trip. I had pretty awful anxiety on the come-up but once I peaked the anxiety disappeared and it was gone for a very long time. No I don’t deal with it at all anymore. Shrooms can be incredibly useful in situations like this, because it quite literally changes the way your brain regions interact wi…
/r/askTRP29/09/20 10:18 PM
1

Yeah I definitely need to get better at recognizing the crazy ones earlier on. I don’t really have a clear way of defining what is a shit test and what is going to far. My alarmbells definitely went off with her, but at first I thought it was just a giant shit test. It took some time before it really set in. I suspect my somewhat narcissistic mother may have something to do with it. What we are used to from home can feel normal and OK.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 09:46 PM
1

Great insight. Thanks man!
/r/askTRP29/09/20 09:41 PM
1

In the past I’ve always sent a text the next day but figured I’d wait a bit extra this time. Got blocked before I had a chance but it is what it is.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 05:56 PM
1

I mean she didn’t text me either.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 04:53 PM
1

I honestly don’t think it’s a coincidence. Women are masters of sniffing it out, but I didn’t let it bother me. I only feel more compelled to get over it now, but who says something like that?
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:26 PM
1

I know right. Well it’s not like I even can mess with her anymore and I don’t want to either.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:14 PM
1

No, can’t contact her due to read the post again, and I don’t want to. Just curiosity.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:13 PM
1

That could be it. She knew what she wanted and nothing more. Interesting.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 01:56 PM
4

Could be, but she certainly seemed to like me unless she was just faking it to get some dick. Who knows
/r/askTRP29/09/20 12:03 PM
1

Sounds plausible. In hindsight she reminded me of my first experience with a woman from five years ago who exhibitet the same traits. Bullet dodged.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 12:00 PM
7

Yeah mate. It actually fed my motivation to overcome it instead so I’ll be putting myself into more uncomfortable situations going forward. Only way out is through.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 11:57 AM
1

I am. Just curious about the psychology of this particular woman
/r/askTRP29/09/20 11:19 AM
1

Bro, I’m a few years over 20 and living with my parents to save up money, and I’ve had no issues with bringing bitches back down to the old shitty cellar in our house for sex. They don’t care as long as you’re ambitious and driven. You don’t need a luxury apartment or this and that furniture. Try not to care what a girl thinks about it, because they don’t.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 10:47 AM
1

I mean it depends on the context. If you go chasing after them after that then sure, but if months go by and you don’t say shit to her, did you really care?
/r/askTRP17/09/20 09:46 AM
-5

Just say alright, let me know if you change your mind. Sooner or later she’ll be back, then you fuck but never go back into an ltr with her again.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 09:32 PM
1

Didn’t even bother reading the post. The title was all I needed to know you’re a fucktard. She’s busy hanging out, leave her alone.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 09:02 AM
5

Done it every morning for the past year, it's simply amazing. It's a direct test of frame. Every morning when you force yourself to turn on the ice cold water, your frame gets a little bit stronger. In addition to waking you the fuck up, it tightens your skin up and is better for your hair. There is literally not a single down-side to cold showers, but I would not to them right after lifting weights, as it fucks with your protein synthesis. Do it in the morning instead.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 02:56 PM
2

Sperm is dead once it’s dry. It can survive for 3-5 days in warm and moist environments, such as a womans vagina. Don’t worry about it.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 12:59 PM
2

So fucking what you absolute autist? Just go over, ace her shit tests and fuck the shit out of her
/r/askTRP27/05/19 08:33 PM
10

imma be straight up wit u dog just pop da bitch on da chin like u woulda popped a bitches cherry
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:04 PM
3

Weed directly weakens frame in my experience. It makes sense if you often feel anxious when smoking, it will drip over into your regular sober life as well.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:04 AM
2

You are giving her too much attention beyond what is necessary to maintain decent workplace relationships. I mostly keep it to some friendly small talk, but nothing more than that. It's a waste of time and I'm at work to do my job.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 09:27 AM
5

It goes up and down. Summer last year I was smashing a new bitch every week like no ones business, even though I didn’t know about TRP. One year later I’ve barely fucked 3 girls this year, even though my career is vastly better and I’ve progressed in other areas as well. My body looks better as well so I really don’t know what’s going on. Getting far more IOI’s as well. Just can’t seem to get a date/lay even though I get numbers.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 02:21 PM
2

You're going to get a lot of different answers on this question. If you're having sex regularly, what's the point of jerking off? ​ I guess you could reframe it like this: Only bust nuts inside or on chicks. ​ I certainly feel more powerful and commanding after 7 days of NoFap, especially if I'm not having sex. It's feels like my T levels are on constant overdrive and I'm feeling in both in and out of the gym. Right now I'm roughly 2+ weeks in, and I'm feeling fucking amazing. Haven't had sex in…
/r/askTRP03/05/19 08:07 AM
3

ROFL this fucking guy
/r/askTRP23/04/19 02:50 PM
1

Cured my anxiety so I disagree there. Mushrooms taught me the exact opposite of what it taught you.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 11:20 AM
5

So first TRP tells us to go out and cold approach 100 women, then it says don’t go out looking for women. Ok.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 08:00 AM
2

I second this. Worked wonders for me.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 06:23 PM
2

Fucking don’t. Been there done that. It WILL end badly for you. She basically commanded you to come with her, and all you’re going to do is give her attention up and down the whole mountain and get nothing in return. Move on ASAP and stop being her beta orbiter.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 06:20 PM
3

Fucking don’t. Been there done that. It WILL end badly for you. She basically commanded you to come with her, and all you’re going to do is give her attention up and down the whole mountain and get nothing in return. Move on ASAP and stop being her beta orbiter.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 06:20 PM
1

I struggle really fucking bad with texting. I had the most success on Tinder when I was texting/snapchatting them casually. I actually feel fucking autistic trying to text them because I have no idea what to even say anymore, it's gotten so fucking bad. Even if I approach 10 girls and get 5 numbers, I fuck it up with every single one when it gets to the texting part.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:09 PM
1

I was in the same boat until I approached 2-3 girls and realized that you can literally just walk away if it goes badly, and you will never see her again. My first approach I said «Hello» and just kept on walking. Warm yourself up by going up to a random person and asking for directions. You can also say Hi to strangers with a smile and keep walking. Once you finally make that approach, you will feel like a GOD because you slayed a dragon, and overcame your fears. After that, each approach becom…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 01:18 PM
2

I'm currently in that obsession, only difference is that I'm actually out there approaching, not just thinking about it. I've been in this state of mind for 3 weeks and my standards are extremely high right now so I'm only approaching like 2-3 girls a day.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 10:05 AM
2

I’m was in the same boat yesterday after approaching every day for 2 weeks. I walked around the city for almost 3 hours and only found 4 (!) girls I considered hot enough to bother approaching. In my earlier stages I approached 5-6 girls every day because I was desperate to improve and get better at it. Now it’s like I know 100% that if I find a girl attractive, I am going to approach. Therefore I don’t bother with the other ones. My standards have gone waay up, so I approach less girls.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 09:25 AM
88

This guy is right. Let her pay for it herself.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 12:32 PM
2

My employer has offices throughout the world, so whenever I'm travelling to another office it's go time, but it depends on other circumstances as well. I've had plenty opportunities to smash colleagues my home office as well but I would never risk it.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:14 AM
2

21, 9 through 2018 and 2 in 2019.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 07:37 AM
3

I’m 21, receeding hairline so I’ve been shaving it down to 1mm. Jacked. Still getting laid with girls of all ages. My point still stands. You will look badass, trust me!
/r/askTRP10/04/19 01:20 PM
6

Keep lifting. Your male pattern baldness is likely genetic depending on how old you are. Seriously, keep lifting and stop giving a shit about going bald.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 12:57 PM
4

but only once
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:48 PM
2

This post is no longer relevant lmao. Went from 2-3 approaches a week to 5+ daily. Gotta pump those numbers up.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 12:18 PM
1

"Even made one of them cum and she stills ghost me..." Here's your answer. If you make the bitches cum every time, multiple times, they wont ghost. It's about how you do it. Fucking her for 30-45 minutes and making her cum will go a loong way. If you can't go that long, go multiple rounds.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:47 AM
1

This is it chief. Never ask. Do.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:29 AM
1

The ONLY time I've been denied last minute was my first time, also the time I asked "wanna fuck?" while we we're almost completely naked. Never made that mistake again, and I've never been denied again either. Just start touching her while making out and start taking clothes off. It's seriously not that complicated.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:29 AM
1

The only way to strengthen your frame is to expose it to danger, aka face your fears.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 03:55 PM
12

Since when do we give a fuck what gangsters think? A man does what he wants. If he wants to eat pussy, he flips the bitch over, grabs her legs and goes down on it like a bulldog. Because he wants to.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 11:00 AM
1

«Yea you’re lucky a young guy like me is giving you the time of day»
/r/askTRP03/03/19 12:07 PM
34

Instead of viewing them from a place of anger, look at it opportunistically. You hold the powers of knowing how they operate, so use it to your advantage.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 09:03 PM
3

You can talk to strangers whenever you want. I’m born and raised in Norway, where strangers pretty much NEVER talk to eachother compared to lots of other places. I’ve been conditioned like this for 20 years, so you can imagine how fucking strange, weird, and uncomfortable it felt to break all of that my first time doing a cold approach. I’ve done it maybe 10 times now and there is always a part of me that is reluctant to strike up a conversation with a stranger. It’s totally unnatural for me. It…
/r/askTRP22/02/19 06:24 PM
6

135lbs at 6’ you say? You’d get your ass handed to you real quick. Everyone felt superhuman at 18.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 03:57 PM
56

Probably an edible. Weed in food.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:35 AM
2

You already lost, sorry. It’s happened to me a million times. Overthinking like this, it’s already over.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 10:35 PM
2

Are you fucking serious? She won’t lose interest just from you showing up. Trust me it doesn’t work that way. You’re obviously nervous and overthinking it. GO.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:36 PM
7

Ooof
/r/askTRP11/02/19 02:14 PM
3

Most of the time I hold my gaze, but it's uncomfortable making other men visibly insecure. Especially the ones that "should" be quite confident in themselves. I'm trying to find a middle ground as I prefer having a balanced dynamic. With women I never break off though as they tend to respond better to it.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 12:10 PM
1

If she taste fine and it’s not roast beafy then absolutely. Love it and they will get off even harder later.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 11:24 PM
2

Pick some good clothes on go approach women. You’re never going back so who cares what happens?
/r/askTRP09/02/19 12:59 PM
2

I say escalate with some physicality, but be careful. Watch how she responds, and next time she offers you something like that you accept the offer. It has happened to other students before, the other guys in here are just jealous. Your brain does not magically make up someone staring at you from across the room multiple times. That's a classic IOI. ​ ​
/r/askTRP02/02/19 09:19 PM
1

Haha
/r/askTRP29/01/19 06:25 PM
2

What I did gained me 100lbs on squats and deadlifts in a year so I’d say it worked out pretty well in the end. My only regret is only sleeping 4-5 hours a night for most of that time. Potential gains wasted.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 07:31 AM
2

The final year I went from 440 - 550 on deadlift, 350 - 460 squat, and 250 - 315 bench. My bench always sucked ass relative to bodyweight due to horrible technique. Now my numbers are roughly the same except squat, at 90lbs lighter bodyweight. Lost the bodyweight in 8 months.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 11:35 PM
4

Yes, it is fucking stupid and not optimal at all. I mainly did it because all I cared about was getting strong as fuck, but when I got to 275 at 6’4 I thought wow, I look disgusting now, and slimmed back down ti sub 200. I should have made it more clear that my comment was a joke.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 11:31 PM
5

You could go turbo bulk monk mode which I did for two years with great end results. Basically, lift heavy ass weights and eat like a madman, gain 30-40kg in 1,5-2 years (a lot of it is going to be fat), then slim down 90% of the weight you originally gained. Congrats, you’re now slimmer AND more jacked than you were previously. Only downside is that it’s basically 2 years of looking like shit lmao
/r/askTRP23/01/19 10:15 PM
6

Lol don’t say that. Just smile and chuckle. She will get it eventually. Not worth getting into trouble with HR for. If you think she’s making sexual advances then ask her to stop.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 04:00 PM
1

Bro what the fuck, you sound like YOU were the plate pushing for LTR. Always assume a girl is fucking other guys. The girl I’ve been fucking casually mentioned she’s had three other guys over just this week. These hoes are plating harder than a lot of us. Doesn’t mean I got butthurt.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 09:45 AM
6

He puts heavy TRP theory into simple laymans terms. It's way easier to watch his stuff than read through 30 pages of a TRP post. ​ I like to do both.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 11:07 AM
5

Winter depression isn’t too uncommon. You can alleviate the effects of darker months by using a tanning bed once a week for 15-20 mins, supplementint with fish oil containing Vitamin D every day, more rigorous exercise etc etc. I used to be affected by it as well, now I don’t notice as much of a difference anymore.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 02:17 PM
20

When it comes to shit like TRP, solid evidence like this really is necessary. This is because TRP views are extremely different from what we’ve been told our entire lives, it’s hard to believe it and change accordingly without evidence. Like, when I first started out I thought I would somehow ruin my life and all chances with women because «not all women are like this!!» and that people would see me as a fuckin asshole. Now I see that is not the case at all.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 01:46 PM
1

Tell her to get a hot one.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 11:02 PM
1

How many girls are we talking about? I had it happen with one girl, she kept asking questions at a bus stop after cold approaching her but because she seemed so nervous and insecure it was very uncomfortable to ask for her number, so I dropped it. If you stop talking, and they keep engaging you, then I'd say they just find you overwhelmingly handsome/charismatic etc, like the other guy said. ​ This should just make it even easier to pull them, so I'd say you're lucky! ​
/r/askTRP12/01/19 10:27 PM
1

That’s exactly what your first comment read like, and why I disapproved of it. Speaking from experience here. First time I hung with a chick, that’s what I did and I could literally see her attraction wither away in her eyes. I learned my lesson about physicality that day.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:02 PM
3

That is not the same as being in bed with a girl, watching a movie, and then asking «wanna have sex?», with no KINO. Bringing up sex and saying dirty shit, while also KINOing is the way to go. There’s a huge difference.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:55 PM
27

No, asking is beta as fuck if it's your first time. She wants you to be in control and make it happen physically. Remember, they don't want to be accountable for sex. If you ask and she says yes, that makes her accountable.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 12:19 PM
5

Yeah I preach NoFap like a cultmember but the whole point is to be more energized and get shit done. If you just stay home and watch TV you won’t be able to stop thinking about chicks. When you finish schoolwork, find something else to do like lifting, or learning a new skill. In my case, learning JavaScript works fine when I’m not in the gym or not seeing girls.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 09:10 AM
4

Ok, that’s an important detail here then. Do whatever you want, but it’d be better if you focus on talking to new girls IRL rather than adding randoms on snapchat. If they add you back, you should send a selfie. Not a tryhard selfie, more IDGAF attitude. And you better be attractive or they probably won’t bother responding. Good luck
/r/askTRP10/01/19 11:13 PM
8

Have you even read the sidebar? That’s the whole point TRP, approaching new women. Not going on social media hiding behind a screen, and being a bitch about it. All you are to them now is a username, nothing else. Why do you think they’ll even talk to you on there, or even add you back? If you see them at school, go up and talk to them. If you get lucky with one of them without talking to them IRL first, please let me know cause I’d be shocked.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 11:05 PM
15

What the fuck? Why didn’t you just talk to them IRL and get their snapchat instead. You’ll just look desperate if you go around adding random girls you’ve never spoken to before.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:54 PM
4

Her friend probably hates you because your plate is, a plate. She understands the dynamics of your relationship and knows plate is hurting from not getting a LTR from you. It’s up to you if you want to go LTR or not though, friend just doesn’t want plate hurt, I guess.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:44 PM
1

Do you go to school? If no, get a job. If yes, you should still get a part-time job. ​
/r/askTRP10/01/19 03:32 PM
1

Three hours a week?! You should put in ATLEAST 1,5-2 hours per session. Do more compound movements and add more accessory corresponding to those movements. Ex: Pullups/Lateral pulldowns + Chest supported Rows + Curls after deadlifts, Romanian dealifts + Leg press + Quad extensions after squats, Dips + Incline Dumbbell press + Tricep extensions after Bench Press, etc. Three hours a week is nothing, and won’t get you the test boost you need. Pro tip: Squats makes your body go into testosterone ove…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 11:23 PM
2

This guy is full of shit. You could get far more jacked than that natty. Stay the fuck away from tren if you’re only doing it for the sake of getting jacked and girls.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 11:19 PM
1

Good job on your 75 day long streak! That’s no easy feat, especially if you didn’t have sex either. It’s no problem to jerk off _once_in_a_while. Meaning, keep at it with NoFap, but if you made it 75 days then there is nothing to be upset about. The bad thing about relapsing is that it’s so easy to keep jerking it after that initial one. If you are able to stay away after that one relapse, you will get right back on track in no time.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 05:47 PM
3

Lmao. I was only trying to make a point. The hotter they are the more attention they need.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 08:52 PM
7

Fuck, you’re right. I never even thought about it that way. She sucks up attention and validation like a goblin, it’s actually insane.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 08:50 PM
14

Next time, don’t shit where you eat. At work there’s an HB11, hottest bitch I’ve ever seen. She grabbed my thighs and shit I flirted some back. Next she suddenly becomes avoidant and distant. Notice she has a fuckin ring on her left hand. Married. Now I just ignore that bitch. It’s not worth it. They just want validation.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 08:40 PM
4

Short answer: No Long answer: If you have to ask, no.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 07:39 AM
1

Bro that’s awesome. Like the other guy said, older women know how to work cock. I fucked a 6 in her late 30s, early 40s from Panama, and she sucked cock like I’ve never felt before. It was great.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 10:55 PM
5

You check her. Not angrily, but you let her know you don’t appreciate her being late and disrespecting your time like that.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 10:05 AM
3

«theres mermaids now🧜🏻‍♀️🧜🏻‍♂️» ALWAYS gets a response for me no matter how good looking they are. Just talk utter nonsense and transition to sexual stuff asap.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 10:28 PM
6

I swear I haven’t seen a single 10 since fall. Whats happening
/r/askTRP05/01/19 09:29 PM
1

Yeah sure, but does it matter? As guys we have competition no matter where we go.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 12:45 PM
3

Yeah man learned the lesson now, should be easier to spot in the future.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 12:47 AM
2

Right on
/r/askTRP05/01/19 12:40 AM
1

It takes time, man. It's way more fun if you focus on getting stronger and seeing the numbers go up every week, rather than just look at muscle growth which can be slow. ​ Try something like 5x5 and add 5lbs to your main lifts every week. Start out with a weight you can lift for 5x5 with moderate - high intensity and go up each week from there. ​ This WILL make you stronger, and it WILL make your muscles grow. I hate bodybuilding style, high rep training only. It get's really boring, at least fo…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 05:02 PM
2

Just start lifting bro. You won’t regret it.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 06:35 AM
1

See my comment above. Instead of getting super excited and jumping straight to sex, get the girl to blow your gun first. THEN proceed to give her multiple round of gorilla pounding. Fuck for multiple rounds, instead of putting everything into the first round, busting in 30 seconds and giving up. The next round always lasts longer than the previous.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 12:25 PM
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