my hookups tend to be ONS where after i fuck them we don’t talk again. but for dates from tinder/bumble/hinge for example i go on the first date, don’t seem too invested. girl asks if i’m seeing other people to which i say “i’m talking to a few people”, we end up making out and then she has to go back to work (this was during her lunch break). when i drop her off at work she hugs me goodbye and says “see you next time?” and i say “yeah”.

the problem is i message after a few days saying “let’s do x at y next week”, and she doesn’t reply. what can i do to turn these dates into plates or at least get a second date so i can escalate to sex.