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| 3 | If men can pump and dump, can't I just do the reverse and use them for dates and provision, etc without giving my body?So this is the female equivalent of red pill rage stage, but with the added spice of self-sabotage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/24 09:54 AM |
| 3 | What beginner routine did you start with and are you happy with the one you picked?Beginners see progress with almost any half decent routine. The difference in results for a beginner usually fall into 2 categories that you can actually control for (genetics ain't one of them) Consistency. It's better to do 3 full body days a week consistently than sometimes 5 and sometimes 2 and sometimes 3. Eliminating the word "sometimes" from a beginner's vocabulary generally gets you trhough all your beginner gains with most any beginner program. The routine should at the very least imple… | /r/askMRP | 10/01/24 03:14 PM |
| 3 | How do I help my husband who is obsessed with his muscles/body?I'm sure that if you were to measure and write down how much of each ingredient you use for him and are attentive to his nutritional needs (is he bulking, cutting, or maintianing?, cook accordingly for him), then he will love that even more than worrying about if the food is as tasty as can be. Sometimes this might mean you guys having different meals or eating at different times, but life has far more to offer us than the most tasty possible food every meal. Regarding the scale, it's a tool to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/23 06:37 AM |
| 1 | So I'm the Drunk Captain. How do I know identify structural improvements v. something that only makes me more of a plowhorse?Will do. Thanks | /r/askMRP | 28/08/23 04:41 AM |
| 1 | So I'm the Drunk Captain. How do I know identify structural improvements v. something that only makes me more of a plowhorse?Thanks for the recommendations. I'll definitely give them a read. | /r/askMRP | 26/08/23 01:48 PM |
| 2 | So I'm the Drunk Captain. How do I know identify structural improvements v. something that only makes me more of a plowhorse?I don't have oneitis. Leaving and getting new plates would be the easier decision for me. I'm confident in my game outside the context of a LTR. It's the relationship game that I'm not so practiced at and in all honesty probably should improve, even if her and I end up splitting down the line. The sex is fine as far as her desire. If she had her way we'd be having sex 2x/day everyday, but I don't have the time for it with how much time I spend working, studying, and training. My mission requires… | /r/askMRP | 26/08/23 10:16 AM |
| 1 | So I'm the Drunk Captain. How do I know identify structural improvements v. something that only makes me more of a plowhorse?It would seem that I am Drunk Captain 1 from that post. I was doing college up until very recently, but I just finished, and have some other things I've been working on to further my mission. This has led to me not having much time and that made it easy for me to neglect my captain's duties, especially since my mission still has a long way to go. Stats: Age: 28 5'10.5" BW: 162 lbs S/B/DL: 374/286/440 (converted from kilos, so some #s look weird) BF around 11-12% | /r/askMRP | 26/08/23 05:11 AM |
| 6 | Should the man still pay the bill if a woman asks him out on a date first?I think going 100% trad isn't necessarily the response. I.e., my current girlfriend opened me on Tinder and this is the most serious relationship I've ever had. I used to make it a point to not message immediately after matching in order to allow women that were very interested the opportunity to signal it because matching is such low effort, and on the occasions where they did message first, especially with more than just "Hey", it was always refreshing and made me look forward to the date a lo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/23 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Agree or disagree? Women peak earlier than men.Biologically, yes, women peak in their early 20s. Since women's value is skewed more towards their biological traits, while men are more valued for developed traits, they typically peak later due to needing more time to develop themselves. Obviously if you aren't taking care of yourself, overweight, have a terrible personality, etc. in your early 20s as a woman, but then you get yourself together later on, you can "peak" later; but that peak will always be lower than if you had done the same goi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/23 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Submission or Leadership - which should come first?You should be vetting for leadership qualities before entering in the relationship. Upon entering the relationship you are submiting to his lead. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/23 12:57 PM |
| 1 | How to lose weight and keep it off?Find your daily calorie expenditure and don't stray too far from that for your intake. Renaissance Periodization has books and a whole Youtube channel tahat beat's anything else I've ever found. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/23 12:20 PM |
| 6 | Do men have a wall? When do they become HVM?The wall for men is at the start. If they don't climb over it, they don't get much for options. It can take a while to climb for many, while some are given a shorter wall to climb over. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/23 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend doesn’t know if he sees a future with me because of N-countJust to add a bit of a different perspective, it might not be that he's had this whole time to "figure it out". OP didn´t say if they were serious from the start, just "after 10 months of dating". They could have been seeing each other casually for a good portion of that time, especially if OP recently changed her worldview from the "fuck whoever you want and don't worry about the repercussions" mentality. I had no intention of being with my girlfriend long term initially for a few reasons, most… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/23 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually care if a woman is smart/professionally successful or not?Most men are. Some things are obvious men or women the things that they like, some are not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/23 11:01 AM |
| 6 | Do men actually care if a woman is smart/professionally successful or not?Adding some perspective here. Some guys will say they want that, and may superficially think so but not have a good reason when asked to explain why. Sometimes they value education/career simply because mainstream info sources push it like it should matter to us. I doubt many men would consider it more than a bonus if asked to defend their reasoning or explain why. Unless I was the only one. Some arguments for it look good on paper, but at the end of the day, I doubt these things will matter to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/23 02:44 PM |
| 0 | I feel like I have nothing significant to offerAs Vaz has already done a great job answering, I'd just like to add my 2 cents on a point he made here. When it comes to working on your appearance, you say you have a boyish figure by not having curves. Part of this you can work on, by training and I mean learning to train properly. If you take that seriously alongside eating well, you'll likely find that you'll be happier with some of your curves since you can actually do something about that part of your appearance with a bit of discipline, p… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/23 11:31 AM |
| 11 | What is day-to-day, concrete ways to show respect to your husband ?I would modify it to, "If you don't want solutions, mention it before telling them your problems." If you're gonna vent, you gotta let them know or they'll be confused why you don't want solutions or even take it as you subtly attacking them, as if they were the source of the problems and you want them to subtly guess it and change behavior which feels like underhanded manipulation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/23 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Real life RP effects: men in 40s divorcing wives who helped them reach high SMV/RMV?Also, she was 7 years older than him. That alone is extremely uncommon, so you might expect him to make other rather uncommon decisions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/21 04:45 PM |
| 2 | The unplugged alpha by Richard CooperAs far as I'm aware, his 1% Group os for people who are already making money with their purpose and are looking to grow it faster. That's about all I know. | /r/RedPillBooks | 25/10/21 02:36 PM |
| 3 | What can I bring on the table other than sex?Common interests and values. However, not everything needs to be the same, and likely would not be ideal if it were. For example, if you each have some separate interests that you each pursue, then you will always have something that you can teach the other about and also separate skill sets beyond the basic ones every adult should have like budgeting, basic cleaning and cooking, etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?The point is it's not a health problem that causes the man to leave in this case. It's a compatability problem. No different than if all of a sudden OP changed her mind to not have kids after marriage, it would make sense for a man that wants kids to leave. Preferences drive compatability. Let me put this in a way you can see it. Flip it around. If a man is compatible with you, you get married, then he changes in compatability, you won't be able to sustain a relationship. You're looking at how y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/21 12:08 PM |
| 2 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?You are correct. Good job on keeping your convictions and still staying respectful in the face of some seriously lacking perspectives. Hopefully things work out well for you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 04:22 PM |
| 3 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?I'd say she's looking at things for how they are. Her views are rather logical. Even though people are down voting her left and right, and telling her she needs therapy for accepting reality, she's responded respectfully. I'd say her control over her emotions is better than the women that are trying to change her mind to fit their own world view, just so it can be validated. I wouldn't stay with a woman that I couldn't have kids with in most cases. Especially if she didn't bother confirming befo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 04:19 PM |
| 13 | high body countWell, she did make some bad decisions in the past and she aknowledges that. That's a sign of maturity. That's good. Shift all of the blame to others, a victim's mindset, that's bad. That gives all power to others to improve her situation, when she's the only one that can do that, but only if she aknowledges her part in her past. The fact that she's seeking ways to do better is good. I say don't try to disuade her from that. She's not perfect, but she can be better than who she was and it's good … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/21 12:13 PM |
| 4 | Im having a lot of sex and I think that is making me look “easy”No, we like virgins for the reasons above, but some guys don't know how to teach them what they like, and that's where they falter. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/21 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Need help with fitness motivationOne thing that will help is learning how to plan and execute better. Renaissance Periodization has the absolute best explanations on fitness and nutrition on their YouTube channel and they have some books as well I recommend reading. They even have a video on motivation I think. The point is, once you understand how it all works better, you'll see how not training is so terrible compared to consistent training and you'll start to see training as the only way to satisfy your loss aversion of your… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/21 09:36 PM |
| 5 | First Date? Tinder?When I said drinks, I meant like a cup of coffee, tea, etc. I don't drink, but even if I did, I can't imagine spending that much for a drink. That's such a waste of money imo. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/21 03:45 PM |
| 3 | First Date? Tinder?What you would do and what guys do are not necessarily the same. Most guys will spend 7 bucks to do a drink date. Disposable income is almost irrelevant at that point, or will be painfully obvious during the date. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/21 02:55 PM |
| 7 | First Date? Tinder?I notice a lack of anyone making a case from the other side. Some men do drinks only first because there are women that will take advantage of them doing dinner dates and just trying to get free meals. My 2 cents, you shouldn't rule out a date for drinks if the guy is checking your other boxes. You should be capable of deciding for yourself whether a date is a waste of time relatively early into it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/21 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Do women count for body count?You should probably still disclose the women should you choose to disclose your body count at all. Most guys would not appreciate it were you to disclose only the men, even if they don't see the women as a problem. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/08/21 04:34 PM |
| 11 | Do women count for body count?You should probably still disclose the women should you choose to disclose your body count at all. Most guys would not appreciate it were you to disclose only the men, even if they don't see the women as a problem. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/08/21 04:31 PM |
| 11 | Do women count for body count?The problem I see with #1 is that the vast majority of men do prefer a lower body count so OP may unnecessarily put off the majority men. If OP is to take your advice and disregard the preference of most men, she will have to accept the consequences of women with lower body counts being preferred over her by most men. Is she can have tighter boundaries on who she gets with, she can be one of these women most men would prefer to be with, giving her a much better chance of ending up with a man she… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/08/21 04:29 PM |
| 7 | Things feeling weird with boyfriend after saying ‘I love you’Pro tip to avoid similar situations in the future. Don't jokingly ask a man if you're receiving anything for any occasion from him. Then it puts pressure on it and some guys will do it out of obligation, making it no longer a matter of generosity. If a guy does want to surprise you with something, well now it's ruined, and he may resent you for that. I know I did with a couple of my exes way back when. General rule of thumb, don't ask about gifts and they can actually be enjoyed more, not giving… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/21 03:28 PM |
| 2 | What the f*ck has happened to men these days?Did you even read it. I'm happy men aren't coddled. I wouldn't be where I am now if I had been. Most women don't know where their peak is because society tells them lies to sell them ideas and women tend to look for consensus when seeking answers. People trying so hard to not look "misogynistic" will tell sweet lies over hard truths, which only delays the vast majority of women from realizing their peak value in time, let alone doing anything to actually maximize it. One example of this, 9/10 wo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/21 06:25 AM |
| 7 | What the f*ck has happened to men these days?The double edge sword is that women can be low value and society will make sure she doesn't feel bad about it, at least until the wall makes it too obvious that they wasted their best years. Most women can at least get sex despite being low value. Low value men can't. You've never heard of a woman who's had it so bad sexually that she shot up a public place, not that those guys handled it right. On one hand, women don't have it as bad in their 20s because people make sure their feelings are lo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/21 08:40 AM |
| 82 | What the f*ck has happened to men these days?It's pretty much everyone, men and women. Our side of the fence doesn't look any better. At least in our cases, society (and women) punish the vast majority of men for being low value earlier on. Most women aren't relationship worthy either. You need to come to terms that you are dealing with a very small viable dating pool in modern times, and that the best you can do is be the chick a high value guy wants the most, then sift through til you get to one you want just as much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/21 09:00 PM |
| 2 | I [33M] just decided to separate from hot ukrainian wife [32F] right after she started to build a new LTR with a random dude. Why has she ruined our marriage? To what extent is it my fault?She's got about 5 years max. Forget her. YOU should be your mental point of origin. You should be able to replace her with plenty like her but even younger if you are on your purpose and continue improving your game | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 06:14 PM |
| 8 | I [33M] just decided to separate from hot ukrainian wife [32F] right after she started to build a new LTR with a random dude. Why has she ruined our marriage? To what extent is it my fault?This is the right mindset to look at it. You got her best, now let some poor bloopie be the one to get her worst, while you continue improving yourself and getting the best of other women. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 01:16 PM |
| 1 | How to get over the sexual past of a potential LTR?My policy is don't ask don't tell. Is she acting right? Is she a compliment to your life? Have you vetted her long enough to make sure she's not putting on an act? Does she respect your boundaries when they are enforced? Those are the questions I find worth answering. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 03:38 PM |
| 6 | Realization about RedPill blind spots!Life is a series of trade-offs. There is no perfect life. Just one that leaves you more or less fulfilled than the other potential options. Maybe she feels like she missed out on some stuff, but ask her if she would trade it for what she currently has, what most people want. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | I Notice Friends in LTRS Have Gone “Soft” and I have no desire to be in one.Getting in LTRs doesn't HAVE to make you soft. If you get into one, it should only be if you control the frame, and therefore determine what you will and won't do. Most people are bluepilled and lazy, so getting into a relationship for their unaware asses is a perfect setup to go soft. At some point it can be more beneficial for you to get into an LTR, provided certain conditions are met. The problem most people run into, even RP aware guys is that they think getting into LTR is somehow "winning… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 12:40 PM |
| 3 | My plate introduced me to her girlfriends.All you gotta say is, "Who did I end up fucking that night, her or you?" Then treat it for what it is, nothing and move on, with or without your plate. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 04:29 PM |
| 2 | My thoughts on the “What Next” or “Why am I miserable still.” After achieving material success feeling. Why do we do this? (Discussion)About a year after finding TRP and years of working on self improvement, I had to question it. For a couple of days, I had no answer. Then I realized that I couldn't respect myself nor the man I would become if I stopped. I do everything I do to become a man worth not just my respect, by reverence. Maybe if I could even inspire others to do the same, that would be a nice bonus. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/21 09:38 AM |
| 23 | Backing off and letting my husband pursue me?Then do a worse job and massage specific parts more. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/21 10:21 PM |
| 11 | Backing off and letting my husband pursue me?A massage is always a good option. Few people would turn one down, and they're usually pretty intimate and get most of the clothes off anyway. It makes sex so much easier to happen. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/21 09:09 PM |
| 64 | Backing off and letting my husband pursue me?Alright, I'll be that guy since no one else has mentioned it. You didn't say what kind of shape you're in. If you're not in so great shape, that is probably why. In which case, own your situation, start working on it, and it should be sorted. If that's not the case, then it's probably got something to do with how he associates how he feels when he's around you. If you tend to make his life harder, rather than easier, he probably won't feel like fucking when he's around you, but rather stressed i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/21 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Help me respond to this shit testI don't need babysitting and they know it. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 09:06 PM |
| 4 | Should I end a great LTR over partners sexual past?Sounds like you're handling things well so far and they're going your way so far from what very little I know. The fact that you have the question tells me you yourself aren't sure of it. There's something causing those doubts. Maybe consider Rian Stone's Patreon. He's one of the best people in the sphere on LTR stuff. He'll help you sort yourself out on this. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Should I hop on roidsSimple law of thermodynamics. You HAVE to eat the same calories whether on foods or off. It's just a matter of calorie partitioning between the 2. If you are still seeing decent progress, steroids are probably not necessary. Remember that doing steroids intelligently will require more learning of how to implement them into your current lifestyle, how you will cycle them, how you will get stuff that is of decent quality, how high to dose, etc. It's not just stab and lift. If you do them wrong you… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Show LTR the RPW Sub?What do you gain? Thing is, you sound happy with how things are, and RPW is not exactly in line with TRP. If you think it willighten your load in leading the relationship, think again. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Should I end a great LTR over partners sexual past?How well have you lead the relationship so far? Do you lose frame often? Have you been enforcing your boundaries well? | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 08:44 PM |
| 6 | Should I end a great LTR over partners sexual past?How long have you been seeing this chick? That's crucial info you can't leave out. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 08:37 PM |
| 9 | Show LTR the RPW Sub?I don't see what you have to gain, but I can tell you that it goes (indirectly) against Rule 1. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 07:26 PM |
| 10 | Girl being too dominant?Yo, this | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on texting first and double texting?Maybe. I honestly don't know but that's what my first guess would be. Sometimes they send me something first, sometimes I send it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/21 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on texting first and double texting?This kinda sounds a bit like me in how he responds, so maybe it's for the same reasons. I personally hate texting for more than short and infrequent exchanges. I'd rather have that conversation in person and save those topics for then. When it comes to texting I personally typically limit it to sending a girl that I'm already seeing casually a meme that is related to something we've talked about before, a few back and forth messages after about said meme/topic, then I'm out. I only do this occas… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/21 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on texting first and double texting?There are many things different for men and women and it's usually not a binary thing, but a matter of degree. A nuance missed by those in both the "men and women are the same besides the plumbing" and the "men and women are completely different" camps. Men are typically punished more than women for showing high interest early on by women. I repeat the word "more". Men are typically turned off less by interested women than the reverse. We're told by women's words all the time to be more open and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/21 12:29 PM |
| 13 | Thoughts on texting first and double texting?I can tell you from my experience that most women suck at holding their end of the conversation early on. This is because for the guys that just wanna fuck, they'll tolerate that low level conversation until they get laid. Many women I've ended up going on dates with or seeing for any period of time and enjoyed that time with them still sucked and relied on me to carry the conversation early on but got better as it went on. Sometimes when a woman sends something that makes the conversation a PIT… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/21 06:12 AM |
| 1 | My brother wants to LTR a 22 year old with 2 kids and two fathersMake sure to tell him to wear a rubber and be there for him when it goes south. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 09:53 PM |
| 2 | How To Find My Passion?Yo, don't forget to upvote this post guys. There are a lot of good gems being dropped here in the comments that many men need to see. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Getting a lot of shit tests from guys when out with my LTR.Seems to me like you have a good handle on it. Keep holding frame. Personally, if a dude were to keep bothering me and ruining my good time, I'd just nuke these with a "Look buddy, I've tried to be nice about it already, but me and my girl are trying to enjoy ourselves and you are getting in the way of that. I see what you're doing and Just because none of the single girls here are interested in you doesn't mean you should try with the ones that already have a man. In fact, it probably means you… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 07:23 AM |
| 1 | found tinder on gfs phone after vacationAre you asking for our permission? You already know what it means. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Can you be a beta orbiter if you have had sex with a girl multiple times?You can be demoted to beta orbiter of you accept it. That means she no longer has sex with you, but will accept free attention or even lead you on like you'll get it again | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 09:30 PM |
| 23 | What do you do if a man asked you out on a date, but he never set a time or place?You said it was the other day that you agreed and he didn't really say when he would get back to you so he probably just isn't sure how the next week or so will play out. He's probably just waiting to see when he's free for sure to set date so that he doesn't have to look bad rescheduling last minute. At least that's what I do when I'm interested but also have a a busy schedule. I don't really see any harm in asking him how things are going and if he has any ideas yet. All these comments automat… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/21 08:56 AM |
| 3 | Couple questions on potential platesGoing absolutely no contact will likely end in the 1st one breaking and it's not much to send something you found over the course of your week that you think she'd like. It would be a simple meme, a song link to a band you've spoken about, etc. Basically something to stoke the fire. Just make sure you don't do it all the time, and cut the conversation after a handful of messages and go work on something or hang with a friend. Do this 1-2x/week max. As for the other chick, just enforce your bound… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/21 09:31 PM |
| 8 | Plate of 7 months says she felt “used”Personally, I wouldn't give it too much thought right now. She even admitted she was probably just extra emotional. She'll likely forget about it by the next time you see each other then. If she brings it up again, then it's probably just a comfort test. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 12:38 PM |
| 18 | How do you handle being rejected or disrespected by a chick below your SMV?Shrug your shoulders and realize she's the one that's lost and then be thankful you don't have that problem as you find another chick to approach. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | My friend was getting married next week... his girl basically left him at the altar.Sounds like he got lucky. He might be open to reading a bit of TRP to help him try to avoid women like this in the future. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 01:40 PM |
| 5 | How much can last the anger fase? 6 years has passed since a toxic woman rejected me in the worst way, ran a smear campaign about me and now is happily living with her sugar daddy 40 years older than her.The anger phase lasts until you become a man that can enjoy being with women knowing their nature, rather than hating them for not being the lie that you were sold growing up. Becoming relatively successful with women helps speed this along as you build a roster and find that despite all of the less than attractive parts of female nature, they can still be positive additions to your life in the right contexts. You're stuck on some chick that rejected you over half a decade ago? You should be too… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 01:38 PM |
| 3 | List of 1st Date Questions and A Bit of AdviceNothing special honestly. Used to be as BP as they come growing up. Found some purple pill material at 19 that introduced me to testing anda few other things and saw an increase in success with women, then found TRP about 2.5 years ago and these days I've been able to build a decent roster and maintain 1 plate for over a year and another coming up on a year. Made it through "the talk" a few times without plates breaking, though eventually all will break. I've definitely still got a long way to g… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/21 02:36 AM |
| 4 | List of 1st Date Questions and A Bit of AdviceRight, I addressed this as well, in the paragraph just before the list. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/21 09:45 PM |
| 5 | List of 1st Date Questions and A Bit of AdviceI don't think you read the post. I addressed that specifically. I agree that silence can be fine, in the right context and if done properly. Problem is most guys will have a harder time successfully maintaining a silence than asking a question and then STFU. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/21 09:33 PM |
| 8 | List of 1st Date Questions and A Bit of AdviceThanks. I tried making the title something that would likely be high on the list of results should they bother looking for an answer before asking the question. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Should I buy the car, or invest the money?Your car is likely not a bottleneck for you getting laid. This is especially true if you live in a large city where public transport and horrible traffic render a car simply an unnecessary expense. The nicest cars I ever drove were a Celica and a Scion tC and I still got laid, so I doubt your Yota is cockblocking you. Besides, if a woman is interested, she'll fuck you without a second thought of the car. A nice car can actually work against you by them automatically slotting you in the provider … | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 07:23 PM |
| 7 | My parents don’t want me going to the gym what should I do?You are 19, not 12. If you pay for a gym membership yourself, they can't really stop you. Lifting is one of the most important things you can do as a modern man. It has too many upsides. If they make it a rule for you in order to still live with them (I'm assuming you do based off the post) then work on getting a job that will support you and GTFO. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 07:07 PM |
| 2 | My parents don’t want me going to the gym what should I do?In reality, a man that has a few years of lifting will outpace and have a significantly higher peak than someone who does only body weight stuff, especially in regards to training legs. I know because I used to be of the mindset that I was somehow better for training without lifting. I was wrong and eventually got tired at being relatively strong for my size but overall still not that strong because I was still pretty small as well as having stalled. Not to mention I had very little leg strength… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 07:04 PM |
| 7 | Realistic results the average guy can obtain from applying trp? In terms of frequency of getting laidFirst off, the goal should be to be above average. I get laid each time I have a plate over and I currently have 5 so as often as I want it and honestly sometimes more than that. I'm not an average guy though as I've been lifting and eating properly for 5 years and have been working on game for the past 2.5. Really, it's not too terribly tough if you have the patience and work ethic as well as are willing to learn. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 04:55 PM |
| 0 | If you want an LTR then you are probably purple pillDamn, ya caught me. I'm as blue pill as viagra. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/21 04:40 PM |
| 24 | List of 1st Date Questions and A Bit of AdviceBlack pill subs get shut down and so a lot of the quitters who and defeatists come to TRP because they have learned the truth about women but refuse to accept the burden of performance and do the work necessary to be a man women want to fuck, let alone choose over other men. Some of them go keyboard warrior and try to take positions of authority on things or complain about the sub, rather than being able to be a positive contributor to help other men. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/21 04:36 PM |
| 2 | If you want an LTR then you are probably purple pillI didn't say it was a guarantee either. Simply put, children who grow up with both parents rather than just one usually end up better off in life. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/21 04:33 PM |
| 6 | List of 1st Date Questions and A Bit of AdviceThat's a job for the sidebar | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/21 04:06 PM |
| 2 | If you want an LTR then you are probably purple pillI assumed it was implied that you have children and raise them well. Having both a mother and a father in their life results in better prepared and adapted children for the world. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/21 04:05 PM |
| 1 | If you want an LTR then you are probably purple pillLTR are necessary still for having children, something many men want. Other than that, I would agree that for the vast majority of men that don't want kids that it's a bad idea to get into an LTR unless they 1. Make sure it doesn't fit the criteria for common law marriage. And 2. are at a point in their life where they would prefer to use that time for other shit and have reached the level where they can get a decent woman to be exclusive with them and can easily replace her should she not be a … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | I matched with the manager of my gymI wrote a FR a while back but didn't post it on here. If you want I can send it to you. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 03:02 PM |
| 5 | I matched with the manager of my gymIt helped that in comparison to the other guys there, I was by far and away the strongest and in the best shape, though mostly because I wasn't up against stiff competition. I actually wrote a FR on It but didn't post it here. Of you want I can send it to you. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Questions about fat lossMike is the best at explaining and hilarious. I'd go as far as to say it's the best channel on Youtube. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 01:56 PM |
| 21 | I matched with the manager of my gymI actually fucked the manager of my gym a little over a year ago though I didn't match but approached her. However, I was moving in a couple weeks so I wasn't worried and to this day she's srill the hottest I've fucked. If you can switch gyms no problem, then I say go for it. In my case, we hooked up again just before I left and the entire time I was at the gym after I enjoyed it. Again, I already had plans to leave so it was convenient. Your choice if you want to try it. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Help. I am worried I fucked up big time. I married at 22. We are 2 years in he’s 27 from Mexico and hates being the breadwinner & doesn’t want to provide It seems likeRarely is it only one person's fault when things go this bad. Determine what's your fault and work on it. See if he's willing to do the same. Put in any work you have to on your end (little gestures can go a long way provided you're consistently working to improve the situation). If you do this and he's still not willing to put in any work (like learning to better manage the money), he's probably a child wearing a man's shoes. The fact that he wants "an equal" rather than a complement is part of… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/04/21 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Help. I am worried I fucked up big time. I married at 22. We are 2 years in he’s 27 from Mexico and hates being the breadwinner & doesn’t want to provide It seems like" but also worried I’m wasting my life with someone who won’t give me at all the true happiness I desire" Your happiness is your own responsibility. No one can give it to you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/04/21 01:10 PM |
| 6 | Questions about fat lossPreworkout is completely unnecessary at best, and detrimental to you sleep at worst. A good night's sleep is 20x better than any supplement you will ever take. If you don't have problems sleeping after evening coffee, then you should be fine but I prefer not being dependent on preworkout of any kind for training. Supplements make up 5% or less of your results unless you consider steroids supplements. Almost all of your results will come from nutrition, training, sleep, and stress management. Dia… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 12:03 PM |
| 38 | List of 1st Date Questions and A Bit of AdviceMy guess is that black pill quitters are flocking over here to hate on guys who are actually putting in the work, seeing success, and then contributing to the space rather than getting together to cry during a circle jerk with them. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/21 11:47 AM |
| 36 | List of 1st Date Questions and A Bit of AdviceI agree 100%. I'm in Europe rn so kissing on either side of the cheek is usually good, though admittedly less so with fucking masks. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/21 11:44 AM |
| 10 | List of 1st Date Questions and A Bit of AdviceThat's the idea. The cheesier ones I usually use to break the ice. I avoid them once there's rapport. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/21 10:06 AM |
| 3 | Ungratefulness to the MAXShe's also older than you. You'd be much better off getting out ASAP to minimize the damage to your life, recover from the divorce machine, and getting better established in your career. Then spin plates for at least a few years to better internalize TRP principles and let a better quality ( and younger) woman rise to the top of your ranks so you can NOT put a ring on her, but still commit if you want without the state's involvement. Even if they do have common law marriage where you live, it do… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 06:50 AM |
| 3 | Ungratefulness to the MAXThe longer you're married, the more you'll be expected to maintain her standard of living. If marrying you isn't enough to make her want to change her name, then that's where your investment should stop imo because hers certainly has. She sounds like she's bargaining for it now. Doesn't sound like genuine desire to me. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Anyone successfully enacted a girl's rape fantasy?In this context, don't actually rape a chick. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 06:20 AM |
| 10 | She says she feels bad for sending nudesHer: I feel bad for sending those nudes. You: I don't. Nothing more needs to be said. Don't start dumping either. Just start making plans to meet and fuck. Easy. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 01:15 PM |
| 6 | Girl has a boyfriend who lives 5h away and yet asks to hang out in the eveningShe'll take the attention either way, but also likely some alpha seed if she thinks she can get it without getting caught. She's throwing the boyfriend line so that she gives herself plausible deniability that she isn't craving sex with a guy that gives her tingles and is discreet as well as can give her plausible deniability to end up in a position where the sex "just happened". | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 12:32 PM |
| 6 | Anyone successfully enacted a girl's rape fantasy?Kinda. A plate I've had for over a year likes to try to test her strength against mine while we're in bed and I usually use this to lead into sex when it happens. She'll say things like "Try to move you arms." as she tries to hold me in some position. I easily turn the tables and we start kissing. After kissing for a bit she tries harder but I hold the position. After a little of that and some "wrestling", we get to sex and it's a good time. She's told me on several occasions how much she loves … | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Is it advisable to validate and give generous compliments to your plate/fwb?The key her is dosage and how you frame them. You shouldn't be furiously looking for opportunities to compliment her, but when she wears those leather pants you like, let her know she looks sexy in them. When you cum on her face, let her know how sexy it looks. When the compliment is something from your particular preferences like the above examples are the best ones to give so that she sees them as 1. more genuine and 2. from the context of your preferences so that she's looking good for you. A… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 11:34 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with guys trying to disrespect me in front of my gf or amogYou're generally best off with Amused mastery, acting as if what they say doesn't even matter to you and just doing whatever the fuck you want to do anyway. You can usually treat these situations the same as you do with shit tests from women. A&A, Flip it on them, simply ignore it, or in rare occasions nuke it by calling it out directly. (I recommend reviewing the post in the sidebar). Alternatively, you can suck his dick to prove he's gay and no longer sexual competition. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 11:30 AM |
| 19 | Newcomer to TRP, broke up with Ex GF after she revealed her past (24M)Honestly OP, you seem to be handling things well so far, especially for recently finding this space. If you honestly think you can handle keeping her as a plate, go ahead but make damn sure to game lots of other women to keep the oneitis away. However, the likelihood of it failing fast seems high from what you wrote. If you do decide to just demote her, keep that in mind and don't be surprised if it does. If you decide to next her, a hard next is definitely the right call, especially taking into… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 11:23 AM |
| 17 | Newcomer to TRP, broke up with Ex GF after she revealed her past (24M)Yep. Trickle truth can work for you or against you. Just depends on if you're the other guy or not. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 11:17 AM |
| 2 | She's not yours, it's just ...Women still are the gatekeepers of sex. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Whats the best way to reject a girl without her tripping and starting bsFirst, tell her no thanks. Then go directly to your boss and let them know that she seemed to be making advances and you politely declined. Maybe have your phone recording in your pocket as a safety in case she does anything crazy. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 09:47 AM |
| 1 | trouble converting to plates/second dates?One way is to stop answering the question so directly. It's a classic shit test. Just yesterday I had a new plate for this to me where she asked if I've been with many women from Tinder. I just started counting on my fingers and acting like I was struggling to remember them all and it got her laughing. Then she pushed further so I flipped it and asked her why che cares so much. You need to read the Shot Test Post in the Sidebar. Edit: I've been experimenting with cutting 1st dates off at a high … | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 10:12 PM |
| 3 | How the FUCK do you have fun at a bar/clubI don't | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Whats the best way to reject a girl without her tripping and starting bsJust get other women and tell her you're seeing someone else. Until then, minimize contact. Women pick up on that stuff pretty well in general. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | why is she doing this?The medium is the message and your medium of telling her something to try to get dread intentionally the medium told her that you aren't seeing yourself as a prize, so why should she? Now she's shit testing you to see if your response will be congruent to the way you were being before you brought up other women explicitly. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 10:01 PM |
| 7 | Things FemaleDatingStrategy gets right:They don't like bald men. They do like hot, muscular, high status men whether or not they're bald though. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/21 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to get a hb9 or 10 with poor social skills and no social life?No. Do you think that having no interesting aspects about you makes you deserve one? If so, start there by fixing your mindset and expectations. The world owes you nothing. You must earn it. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 06:57 AM |
| 12 | Looks like my boyfriend is RP and I don’t know what to doThe common misconception of AWALT, even among some RP guys is that AWALT means a woman WILL do X thing or exhibit Y behavior. What it really means is that we realize (for those of us who know what it actually means) that all women are capable of doing X thing or exhibiting Y behavior due to biological wiring. It's not something that exists in a vacuum but it is a factor that we can't forget. Also, RP is not an ideology. It's a toolbox with different men using different tools to build the life th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/21 09:46 PM |
| 0 | The wall DOES NOT EXIST for the promiscuous womanYou missed the part about them not optimizing on hypergamy. They still want tingles even as they get older and they still feel a need for social status and to have someone they can brag to their frenemies about and flaunt online. The emphasis just shifts to securing resources. They realize that their bluepill plow horse they manage to secure is not worth either tingles or showing off since he doesn't give other women tingles either. At best post-wall women get their tingles from being pumped and… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | First ever sexual Red pill real life experience messed me up, need help.For starters, you should probably focus on not fucking women after telling you they have a boyfriend. It clearly was a bad call based off your reaction. Also, I personally don't see a point since there are so many women out there who are single, or at the very least going to lie and say they are. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Can we have some good success/turn around stories please.Currently have more plates than free days. 4 is generally my limit and 3 is my comfy number. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Can we have some good success/turn around stories please.For a first date I look at proportions like this. The main dish is listening and getting her to talk with good questions. Have a few backup questions that can lead to deeper conversation by being able to ask more about the reasons behind the answer. She'll think you're the greatest conversationalist in the world when she's talking about herself. The side dish is to sexualize with kino and a bit of sexual references (a little goes a long way with the references, but don't puss out half way throug… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 12:18 PM |
| 6 | Question for the military members herePeace time militaries are lead primarily by pussies. Joining right now would only hamper your progress as a man based off where you're coming from. It doesn't instill discipline anymore and the coolest shit you will likely do is get bombarded with new policy changes requiring you to need to retake you SHARP (Sexual Harassment Prevention) course because someone lost your certificate from last time and also because your commander has his higher ups telling him to make sure each person is current o… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Why do high value women date betas?These women would often cheat on these betas with alphas, but they seemed to be unable to hold a real, stable relationship with any alpha, and would often go back to the beta. You answered your own question. They don't date them, they just use them for emotional support when they get denied by alphas. Cheating with alphas and having "LTR"s with betas fulfills both sides of hypergamy. 101 level shit. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 09:12 AM |
| 1 | High value guy - thought I had vetted LTR well - she cheated with a fat loser.Check the edit | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 09:09 AM |
| 4 | Would you stay friends with your friend if he decided to transition to female?I have a question for you OP. If you had a friend who started getting into weird shit, like a cult of some kind after talking to some guy on the street who "gave him a question he didn't have an answer to", then your friend begins getting all into this cult, spending progressively more and more time on things related to this cult you have no interest in, would you then continue seeing your friend or just let your friend do his thing and you continue on your path seeing this as a divergence? Sure… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 09:01 AM |
| -6 | High value guy - thought I had vetted LTR well - she cheated with a fat loser.If it happens only once, you should probably just consider it an isolated incident and move on. If it happens again, then maybe consider changing how you do things going forward. Edit for clarification: Ditch the girl and move on. Don't consider it a knock on you as a man for it happening once and seemingly so randomly. If it happens again, then that means a pattern is starting to form and you might be the common denominator. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Help me decide what books to readIt was some Reddit bot saying to use "gender neutral" language. Don't use salesman but salesperson, etc. | /r/RedPillBooks | 18/03/21 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Caught LTR in a lie and nexted her a week ago.You shouldn't be promoting plates to LTR after just 4 months. If you can't risk losing her, you definitely won't fare well in a relationship. Something tells me this was the case, or you clearly don't realize that women should be tested for longer than a semester (at least a year imo) to see how she changes over time. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 06:00 PM |
| 4 | No social media = increase in attraction?Social media is a magnifying glass for your SMV. If you are already in great shape making lots of money and doing cool shit with your life, it's probably going to help. If you aren't those things, it exponentially becomes bad for you to have for every area you haven't already basically won in in life. I personally hate social media with a passion so I don't have it. I still pull fine, though occasionally a Tinder chick will stop talking when I tell her I don't have it when I go for the number. N… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 05:22 PM |
| 0 | How would you guys have handled this?If he wants to act like a bitch, treat him like one. Amused mastery (like your idea you had) is probably the best option when guys try to fuck with you. Bombers only get flack when they're above their targets. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 05:14 PM |
| 6 | This generation of girls seriously pisses me offHoly shit Batman! Sure enough. A guy yesterday was worried about not being attractive enough despite being 6'4. I said there would be a guy within a couple of days complaining about how something else, like height, matters more. I have a plate taller than me, and I know I'm not the only one. Being in fantastic shape certainly helps, so lift, learn to eat right and lift right (Renaissance Periodization is good for this) and focus on the rest of the shit under your control. Also, this is not a que… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Where did you find your partner?Regarding school, just remember that high school and college are not the same if you choose to do college. College often entails lots of debt and does not guarantee high income while offering very little information that isn't already available elsewhere like the internet. As for value to men, men care far less about college than women do in potential partners so keep that in mind as well. Being good with what you make matters more and is a life skill all adults should master. Make sure you have… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Help me decide what books to readThis is dumb as shit. | /r/RedPillBooks | 17/03/21 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Help me decide what books to readI'm currently listening to Rich Cooper's The Unplugged Alpha. So far I haven't learned too much new stuff because I've already been in the space for a couple years, but he has a pretty good way of making it entry level friendly. I recommend it for beginners, and of course the Rational Male series as well, although it might end up being a bit tough to follow the first time through for some. You really should read books more than once anyway and take notes along the way so don't worry too much if … | /r/RedPillBooks | 17/03/21 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Losing passion for the gym.My passion is not wanting to be a weak ass bitch. I spent almost all of my school years weak. Being weak sucks. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 08:31 PM |
| 4 | It just feel like it's all about looks?Why are you complaining about something you have at least some control over? On top of that, you aren't as bad off as some guys that will still go on to fuck 8s, maybe some 9s, and a 10 or two. Wait a week and you'll see a guy post here ab about how he got passed over for some tall dude and that it's all about 6'0 or taller only with women. There are various factors that play into looks, many of which you have some control over. Shit, you got lucky because height is a hurdle most short guys will… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 12:57 PM |
| 2 | What's up with psychological terms being overused in western society?Because they made their way into politics and most of the western world is made of good little politics consuming NPCs. So many people are trying to debate each other and shit, rather than just become a better example of their own values, so they hear these words and think they can use them to "own" the other side, usually on the internet. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Why is not having social media looked down upon as if you're weird?Then as long as you're good with conversation and attention management, and dicking them down well of you've already fucked, I don't see where the problem comes in. How often does this happen to you? | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Why is not having social media looked down upon as if you're weird?Not having social media usually ends up with them giving me their number. Those that want to only give their social media I wrote off as not very interested. Bit more often than not, it works in my favor. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Plate made a 20 slide PowerPoint show on why I should promote her to LTRI say make sure you know what you want from an LTR first, then determine if she fits that. You'll probably be wrong about what you want by a bit, because you'll realize other things might be more or less important than initially thought since you're new to LTRs. For that reason, I say wait a bit longer, a few more months maybe, and if she sticks around then go for it if for no other reason than it will give you some experience of LTRs firsthand. Just make sure not to give into the betaization by… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Plate of 1yr recently got told she has cancer and is starting treatment soon. I'm experiencing feeling I haven't had before. Possibly not TRP related. Just after some advice or something.You have already decided that this girl is not what you want from a LTR. Committing to her won't end well and you already know this. It also won't make the cancer go away, so I don't know what else you might think will come of it that's good, but I can guarantee it won't happen. This doesn't mean that you can't be there for her, but being there for her is not, nor should it be, considered committing to a woman you otherwise would not. If you want to be there for her and turn up the beta side a b… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | PLATE CAME BACK after I nexted herI don't see it | /r/askTRP | 06/03/21 10:00 AM |
| 5 | Why do short girls care so much about height?Maybe something to do with the fact that short women are weaker than taller women usually, and have less security in their ability to physically defend themselves. At least I can see how that may have been the case a long ass time ago. Maybe something residual today. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/21 09:57 AM |
| 2 | When a chick does stuff to annoy you on purpose on social media (whatsapp, etc). What do you do?If you ain't fucking, nothing she does matters. You're an orbiter. Time to exit that orbit. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | PLATE CAME BACK after I nexted herYou can bring her back, so long as you make it clear that your stance hasn't changed. Undoubtedly she'll try to whittle you down over time, but just be aware of it and don't let it slip. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 05:02 PM |
| 3 | When a chick does stuff to annoy you on purpose on social media (whatsapp, etc). What do you do?Not once did you say you two are fucking, so I'll give you benefit of the doubt. Just don''t commit to her, ever. If you wanna raise the bar for quality of women you fuck to above what she's exhibiting, go for it and just drop her. No reason to make a big thing of it. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 11:49 AM |
| 3 | What if I want a girl best friend?Just not with a girl you wanna fuck. Especially if you're crying in her arms. When your eyes are wet, her pussy dries up. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 11:45 AM |
| 5 | This is the only subreddit that can help me - need advice...In the 4 Hour Work Week, Tim Ferriss mentions some principles that will affect time allocation. Basically, you should look to: First eliminate anything that isn't producing enough. IF you can cut out 2 hours of something that makes you an average of $75/hr to replace it with something that is making you more per hour, then you can do that to either 1. increase income or 2. reduce total time spent working to achieve the same income. In your case you could start at just making same money for less … | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone had to tell a plate to not make it obvious they’re fucking other people?..... something about having class..... | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 12:45 AM |
| 3 | Need help processing this. Why would she show me these videos? Was this some sort of tactic to win me over with sick humor?He asked for help processing the "Why" behind it. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 08:47 PM |
| 36 | Need help processing this. Why would she show me these videos? Was this some sort of tactic to win me over with sick humor?You have to remember that if a woman is attractive, she will receive validation for almost anything she does. They also do dumb shit like this for attention because that's what they love to get and this was likely an experiment with too many false positives. People will rarely call her out for doing stupid or disgusting shit, much like this chick. She probably had so much validation from her friends (mostly her orbiters that were probably also disgusted but too scared to "blow their chance"). Th… | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 10:46 AM |
| 7 | [Semi-Long] I purposely experimented being blue-pill on a plateThis is a great contribution to the sub man. Really. I've been wanting to try something like this for a while in addition to some other things since for the most part spinning plates isn't too tough, even now with social restrictions. Problem is I don't have the time to really do some of these experiments justice right now, like the intentional blue pill treatment since you have to give them so much more attention. If you do run this again, I'd say don't do the I love you so soon and see how it … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/21 12:54 AM |
| 6 | She doesn't want to be monogamous with me but still wants me to court her.The scarcity is strong with this one. You can not be the one to bring up monogamy first. Also, why would you be required to "court" a woman that's just told you she hasn't finished sampling other dicks before deciding if she's decided if yours is her favorite? You are clearly not her top option so here's what you do. Keep her as a plate, wear a rubber, DON'T spend any extra money on her, get some better prospects, and ALWAYS be working on yourself to keep these situations from happening in the f… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 02:53 PM |
| 5 | I got immediately ghosted/unmatched after first date sex at my place. Should I be concerned here or just move in to the next one?Sounds like she wanted some dick and you happened to be a dick-haver. Women can get dick whenever they want. If that's all they want from you, they don't need to keep you around. There are plenty more dick-havers that she can match and fuck as often as she likes. It's the ones that she decides are either 1. Beta enough that she will keep them as an orbiter or 2. One she wants to keep around for whatever reason. If this is the first time this has happened to you, don't worry about it. If it's the… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 02:07 PM |
| 12 | "Do you think she's hot?" - did I handle this situation correctly?She's begging for some amused mastery by asking such a dumb question. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 01:53 PM |
| 0 | I’m really heavy and need to figure out how to lose weight as quickly as possible. Tips?I didn't say your math was off or that 100g wasn't enough as you can even safely do only .7 g/lb of bw. I just think it's better to teach one to fish, rather than give them a fish. In which case, you might also break down how you arrive at your number for OP initially. As for the rest, I didn't say cardio was necessary. It is generally better though. There's nothing magical about HIIT except that it's calories burned per unit of time is higher, because intensity is higher so that makes sense. Pr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/21 10:13 AM |
| 3 | Dates with no sexStart planning your dates at sex, and work backwards from there. If a girl isn't happy to fuck you the majority of the time, she's not that into you. I personally think this co.es from the female equivalent to a dry spell. They can always get dick, but is the guy one that's good enough to act well for. If they don't see you as high enough value, they'll always accept a date for validation, but sex only if she's particularly horny because she's trying to hook a better guy. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 05:36 AM |
| 0 | I’m really heavy and need to figure out how to lose weight as quickly as possible. Tips?Wrong. Lifting weights burns fuck all calories. I think lifting heavy (in the rep range of 5-30 reps) is amazing and that everyone without major health impediments should do it, but not every problem is a nail. Lifting is by far one of the least efficient ways of burning calories vs. the fatigue accumulated. Burning calories is best done through your preferred form of cardio. This is only useful though if you already have healthy eating habits first and foremost, which is OP's biggest obstacle c… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/21 04:44 AM |
| 1 | I’m really heavy and need to figure out how to lose weight as quickly as possible. Tips?Your title says it all. You can: 1. Lose weight as fast as possible. 2. Lose weight and never gain it back again. Pick one. Focus on lifestyle changes and building healthy eating habits. Some people are thin until they aren't, and never figure out how to get back because they always try to do what they were doing before when usually the most effective thing they were doing was being young. Look up Renaissance Periodization. They have a YouTube channel and some books that will teach what you need… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/21 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Choose a bitch!I personally don't take them putting out fast as the only metric. What's my value compared to hers? Was my game on or really bad and I still got the lay? Most importantly, how does she act now that we've fucked? Those are all things I would recommend most guys take into account at a minimum. All you really know for sure about her putting out quick is that she is interested enough to fuck. Watch her behaviors over a longer period than just a date or 2 to determine if she has potential. The whole … | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Dates with no sexIf a plate "isn't in the mood" I don't look at that as a good sign. I've never had a plate that "wasn't in the mood". That's not to say that I don't hang out and not fuck sometimes. I do on occasion. However, if you are initiating and she doesn't want to fuck you, that's not a very good plate. Initiate every time you hang out. If she doesn't want to fuck, call over one that will and demote her to "that girl I see only as often as she wants to fuck". Also, not fucking after having already fucked … | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 04:08 AM |
| 1 | My post was deleted from r/offmychest because I post on r/redpillwomen"No matter the content". So no free thought. Good things can never come from one they see as bad from a particular group. When this type of thinking is applied to a group that happens to have the same color skin, it's called racism. When applied to a group that has differing opinions it's okay. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Trying to get to the fundamental biological reason why women have abundance?Roissy has an article called "Eggs Are Expensive, Sperm Is Cheap". Also, I'm pretty sure this was somewhere in the sidebar. I don't remember ever struggling with this concept because I read the sidebar once I found this place and saw it mentioned in a comment on a top post. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 11:37 AM |
| 20 | I'm obsessing way too much over feminism in society and how men are left behind. How to cope with this?Work on becoming top tier and do what the fuck you want once you're there. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 11:33 AM |
| 2 | How not to sound butthurt?I'm seriously surprised someone hasn't made a bot by now to link to it when the questions contain key word combos. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Fucking the neighbor took a wrong turn...I think it's a waste of time on the man's part. New plates>trying to glue old ones back together. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Frustration Slaps?It can be perceived as a sign of disrespect depending on the situation, but can be extended all the way to, "I won't tolerate you hitting me in any capacity." | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Frustration Slaps?Because it's a boundary for some guys (red flag) or a simple test (Amused Mastery). | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Frustration Slaps?Is it a boundary for you? If so enforce it. If not, find a way to play it off with amused mastery and tease her. Logic behind it is non-existent. She's probably not even thinking about it a tenth of what you are. Only thing that matters is if you allow it and how. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Thinking about unplugging my friend after he just got out of a two year relationship. Need advice if it’s the right choice or not.You can try showing him how to get to the sidebar, or even toss him a copy of TRM but at the end of the day if he doesn't want to, he won't unplug. In my earliest of TRP days I was trying to RP all of my friends. Some didn't even bother looking it up and one came away with the understanding that somehow TRP is only a stop on the road to MGTOW so there's really no telling what he'll do. Best thing you can do is lead your life thee best you can and if he wants to follow the example, he'll begin lo… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Should I move in with my girlfriend or break it offShe's less invested in this relationship than you if she wants to live together, but doesn't want to live apart from you.There are so many red flags from her kissing a coworker to "needing to find herself". I just consulted the Manglish to Womanese dictionary and that is literally the womanese translation of "I want to ride the cock carousel and see how well I can do, and if you end up being the best then I'll come back." If she wanted you enough, she would move to the city without needing to be… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 12:37 PM |
| 3 | How do I handle wanting to break up with an LTR who has done nothing wrong and is deeply love with me?Met this girl about 7 months ago and after a short talking period her bubbly personality and caring nature eventually convinced me that a long term relationship with this girl was not a bad choice. 1st off, don't LTR so quickly in the future and you won't have this problem again. My main plate is wonderful and will make a good LTR for someone one day, but it won't be me because my plans don't line up with staying where I am. What I have done that's helped is realize that at the end of the day, w… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Keeping failed leads aroundI don't see any use in it. When you're trying to get with her friends, their friends will ask her why she LJBFed you and that's the opposite of social proof if they didn't already get the message. If I got LJBFed, I'd consider that a hard rejection and hard next. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Can you build a serious relationship while spinning plates?So you have abundance. That's what will make them fall for you. You can't "fall"for them like you used to and them still be into you. Men and women love differently. Welcome to the Red Pill. Also, your standards for LTR material should be higher than that of plates. Plates should prove they're worthy of LTR. And stop looking to fall in love. Fall in love with accomplishing shit. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 12:12 PM |
| 7 | Fucking the neighbor took a wrong turn...Just do your damndest to fuck new women and just bear with it until then. Also, she's already on another dick so she's already disqualified herself from the race. No reason to keep telling yourself she can still win a trophy. Edit: I second making sure to fuck other girls while she's home as well. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 12:06 PM |
| 1 | How do I navigate my LTR taking a bartending job without losing frame?Holding frame mostly comes down to not losing your cool. She keeps asking if you're mad because she knew it would make you mad. From what you said, this is a boundary you have that she's trying to cross. You can demote her or let her know you don't date bartenders. However, if this is a real boundary for you and you don't enforce it, you won't need to worry about maintaining frame since you'll then be operating in hers instead. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 11:59 AM |
| 3 | How do you even demote a LTR to a plate?Looks like her attempt to set the bait for other guys didn't get a guy worth swinging to. As for how to demote her, I say there's not a lot of point if you plan on leaving her when she leaves in a month. Either break up now or ride it out. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 07:28 PM |
| 1 | How not to sound butthurt?This would amuse someone with mastery. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Rules for Paying on DatesThis is the sharing of notes that makes this sub worthwhile. Your rules make sense to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/21 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Rules for Paying on DatesSee my response to the main comment. I fucked up. I really like that box idea though. Funniest part. Shame I made a fool of myself earlier. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/21 06:05 PM |
| 6 | Rules for Paying on DatesMy bad. I thought I was replying to a couple of different guys from the notifications page instead of on the main post page so I must have fucked up responding to the right ones. In all honesty, it was like 4 am here and I couldn't sleep so when I saw that so I didn't process what you wrote evidently. I'll leave those comments up where I make a fool out of myself as penance to the Great Big Chad in the Sky. As for criticism, I'm cool with it as long as it comes with some sort of counter point to… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/21 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Are there any groups like TRP or asktrp but which are more interested in bettering oneself not overfocusing on the sexual side but also on the intellectual and economical one?Money? Money subs Fitness? Fitness subs Intellectual pursuits? Subs over intellectual topics. TRP? Ostensibly sexual strategy. Sometimes just ranting or complaining, but the occasional gem. Overfocusing on sexual strategy in a sexual strategy sub is like saying that a swimming sub should try talking about cycling more. If an aspect supports the main goal (lifting to make yourself a more attractive man) then it makes sense to cover, but go to those subs for better focus on those things. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 10:35 AM |
| 5 | Rules for Paying on DatesOhh, the good old days when all I needed was Mt. Dew Voltage and Black Ops to make me happy. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/21 05:50 AM |
| 4 | Rules for Paying on DatesI'll tell this to all of the past girls I've fucked from coffee dates. I'm sure this will be news to them and that I should have had to do more to fuck them or that they needed to be more drunk. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/21 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Rules for Paying on DatesLike I said at the beginning, feel free to adopt or modify. I never claimed to know the One True Way. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/21 05:08 AM |
| 8 | Triggered her panic attack whilst making her cum100% of the time they say they've been raped, you need to cut the date short and suddenly remember that you have to get up early. Implications are never good. There are a lot of women out here mentally fucked t by past shit hat are just jumping on Tinder and leaving it up to us to deal with rather than working to fix the shit before trying to get with people. If she tells you she's been raped, she's probably one of the ones who didn't bother trying to sort herself out emotionally or mentally fir… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Women terrified of getting olderMost responsible teenager in the house. A classic. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 04:59 AM |
| 0 | Rules for Paying on DatesI'm assuming you've not had a successful date in a while or you are too scared to miss a crumb of pussy to do anything other than show up with flowers and chocolates, do dinner, a movie, and have her back home by 10. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/21 04:56 AM |
| 3 | Rules for Paying on DatesI use the term "Coffee date" as just a name for it to set it apart from "dinner date". The idea is that it's not supposed to be a big date. I don't even drink coffee. I prefer tea. I'll usually just get that, and they usually get a soda or some will get a glass of wine or a beer. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/21 04:51 AM |
| 11 | Rules for Paying on Dates"Paying devalues me in her eyes. It sets me as the provider." That's what I got from it, that you interpret paying as painting you as a beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/21 04:49 AM |
| -1 | Rules for Paying on DatesMan it must suck to be an incel. Look, if you don't like it or it triggers you, don't do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/21 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Rules for Paying on DatesI already answered your question in my post quite thoroughly. You do you then. I'll keep doing what's worked well. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/21 04:43 AM |
| 4 | Rules for Paying on DatesBecause coffee dates work. I would argue that coffee dates avoid the provider frame by not investing too much before I even know them. They also don't usually need much more than to confirm you aren't a weirdo to fuck. I only do "fun" dates once we've fucked and I've determined I actually want to keep seeing them. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/21 04:41 AM |
| 4 | Rules for Paying on DatesI also don't particularly enjoy going out to eat and I measure my food so I'd much rather make something at home. They are also just inferior 1st date choices for a lot of reasons. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/21 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Rules for Paying on DatesYeah, there's definitely a cultural component. Any country that feminism has infected, so mostly western countries, you'll be able to get away with it more. More traditional countries would definitely require that I tweak my game. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/21 10:53 PM |
| 45 | Rules for Paying on DatesI actually know a guy that has done this with good results as well. Thanks for the reminder. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/21 10:22 PM |
| 18 | Rules for Paying on DatesI used to think this. However, the idea that you need to be 100% Alpha all the time leads to breaking plates faster and more often than necessary. It's fine if you just wanna smash once or twice. I'm kinda bored with having to go on dates each time to get laid with a new girl personally and the text to sex just isn't as good as a girl that's learned what I like. I prefer to have a manageable roster and work on my more medium and long term game since I want to be a dad someday in the distant futu… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/21 09:12 PM |
| 6 | Rules for Paying on DatesI'm in Europe as well, though not France. Complainers are usually not worth the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/21 07:13 PM |
| 13 | Rules for Paying on DatesI would normally agree and this is likely the case for most guys. Personally, I work in movement out of the first venue fairly early on as this has worked well for me, so often (but not all) times I can't know before we leave if she's down. I work while walking around as well as I hate sitting around in a coffee shop for too long. In the times I know they're down before I try to move, yeah just pay and GTFO and on to the smash location. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/21 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Availability tests??Personally, it makes no difference if she's testing me for availability or not because my response is as above. Don't bother trying to determine whether it's a test or not and you'll come off as more natural about it. Using it against you would be like her "We never see each other." You: "Sure we do." "No. I tried to see you that one time and you said no." "No. I rescheduled. I won't risk wasting my time waiting and you still not being free. IF you can't be certain, then there's always another n… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Second date or move on?FWIW, here are the rules I set for myself in regards to dates. Modify them to suit your preferences. 1st date is a "coffee date" ALWAYS. I don't drink, but if I did, a glass of whatever would be fine too. I'll pay according to the bill, if it was brought split or together, I don't care. If she offers to split, I usually just do it. If not, it's $3. Idc. If she offers to pay for me, I ALWAYS let her. So far, I have gotten laid every time they've done this so I take it as a sign of high interest. … | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 05:09 PM |
| 115 | Women terrified of getting olderWhat do you think is the reason for that? The Wall I usually talk to them about the future with excitement for myself because I know that my lifestyle is productive, not destructive. In 5 years I'll be in better shape, know more languages, have more skills, make more money, etc. If I had a girl that started freaking out then I would ask her what she thinks she can improve about her life starting now and tell her to start that. I certainly wouldn't consider a woman for an LTR if she wasn't taking… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Availability tests??I don't make it a habit of being available for someone who can't be sure. It's too easy to reschedule and make the night productive just as you did. Just don't let them try to use it against you. I usually just tell them, "Ok. We can do another night then. I can do "Xday". This is a completely reasonable response. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 04:50 PM |
| 5 | My girlfriend has asked me for dick pics/videos a few times. Is this a shit test?Nobody else need respond. This guy got it. Only addition I can think of is what can she do with those pics if shit goes bad? Consider that too. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 04:46 PM |
| 3 | sex with unexperienced girl: does it ever get better?Had a virgin over a year ago. She was very reserved for the first handful of times. Now she is one of my best plates because I went through the trouble of exposing her to what I liked and she turned out to be into it as well. She's even surprised me a few times with stuff she's asked me to do to her. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Plate found out I’m seeing other girlsBasically a few things you can do. I list them in order of utility. Let them know you don't just get exclusive. You are dating, not jumping from one relationship to the next. Be more discreet with your plates, though many will likely catch on to this, hence it not being #1 and "the talk'' usually goes better if you start out honest and open. Find out who snitched and confront them. This doesn't guarantee anything. They might even go out of their way to do it afterwards, or they may stop, so your… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 04:42 PM |
| 2 | How to make better bank in Third World Countries?Find income online in a stronger currency. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Girl tells me were friends but gives me relationship vibes at the same timeCongratulations! You're an orbiter. If you aren't making moves and making plans, expect this to keep happening. She's getting your attention for nothing. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Social Media InsecuritiesYou can't reasonably expect him to not be attracted. However, you can reasonably expect that he not be taking actions based off of that attraction (liking photos). He's going to be attracted to attractive women, but what you should be paying attention to is who is he sticking with (again, sans taking action on that attraction for other women). | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/21 04:17 PM |
| 19 | I'm (27f) wanting marriage but boyfriend (26m) delaying?Not having enough to offer is a legitimate concern for most men, though honestly it's hard to tell from what you've put if that's the case for him. Don't pay any mind to people who are getting engaged/married "left and right" since you have no way of knowing how long they will last and if their engagements or marriages are premature and end up killing the relationship long term. It sounds like he has every intention of marrying you so I'd say your relationship won't be anymore secure because of … | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/21 04:05 PM |
| 5 | How do you actually go for the kiss?Going for the kiss can't be telegraphed. If you telegraph, most women, interested or not, will not want the responsibility of the decision of making the first kiss happen and pull away. Find an excuse to have your face close to hers once you're getting positive signals and just look at her and kiss her. One solid way I've found is to have her pull up something for you on her phone, lean in real close to look at the screen, then go for it. Though I must say I've never considered u/gbizzle2's appr… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Immunity to Feminine Psychological AttacksYou can't care what they think, then what they think can't hurt you. Insert philosophical quote about your reaction to thing being the real source of what hurts you | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 05:46 PM |
| 20 | Plate talks too much.If it's that annoying for you, put a movie on. Then when you shush her you can say, "I'm trying to watch the movie." This should buy you 1.5-2 hrs. Or you can have something that you have to do and limit your time spent with her to fuck time + X minutes of plate maintenance of letting her talk. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Foreign Women aware of SMV?Women's minds tend to change from one hour to the next. They'll only bother to make up a reason for it if they have to. She was probably in the mood for an average guy because average guys are easier to get their way with. They're more likely it act a certain way with her and she probably was just in the mood for it. Remember that the abundance of most women is more than most men will ever know. In 2021, food is in a similar abundance for most people. Most people eat what they feel like eating. … | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Dm me for any premium course related to pickup fitness and sex I have everything I have courses which are not share normallyAre they free? | /r/RedPillBooks | 04/02/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | How to call out girls when they are lying?"I don't believe that. Prove it" | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Soft Next: Explain Reasoning or Let Her Get the Hint?She can be in a bad mood as long as she's not doing something to actively make her problems your problems by trying to drag you into drama. Personally, I'd have just teased a little bit for being a part pooper and done my own thing until she came around. Sometimes people have something that bothers them, but they realize that it doesn't make sense to dump it on other people so they stew in silence. Even some women realize this. I get silent and try to cheer myself up when something grinds my gea… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Girl tells me she loves me and wants me to text her more oftenBetaization by a thousand concessions. Black Label Logic wrote about that I think | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Plate reacts to IG story of me and my sisterIgnore it. Tease her for not realizing its your sister if she brings it up. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 10:05 PM |
| 1 | why can I pull girls but can‘t get a gf?Sounds like you're the one asking for an LTR which is the 1st mistake. When talking with them, make sure you're coming across as open to a relationship, but not searching. Searching implies neediness, relationship repellent. Plate them, and on occasion do something with them other than fuck. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Am I the asshole for refusing exclusivity after my FWB went above and beyond taking care of me after nearly dying and going through a debilitating surgery recovery?You can also point out how now would not be the best time to make that decision considering what you went through. Sounds like she's worth keeping, but that doesn't mean you need to pull the trigger when you aren't in a good place. Tell her how much you appreciate what she did and that you think it would be best until you are in a better place to make that decision. Her doing this doesn't oblige you to commit. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 09:53 PM |
| 1 | What to do after flakeOnly offer her the option to come to you and to let you know X minutes before she arrives so that you don't waste your time. Have something or someone to do if she doesn't show. Apart from that, next her. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Dread game with fwbWeather the silence. She'll get horny again. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 09:36 PM |
| 2 | She is damn good about covering her tracks...for the most part. What is worse?Sounds like a keeper. You should marry her and have kids. Make sure you move to California first since it seems like you really like to fuck yourself over. But for real, only fuck her. Leave if you catch feelings. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | 19M not getting any matches on tinder after switching Tinder settings from my age to 28+Focus on approaching older women then. When they give you the age question shit test, say you're 12 and a half carry on | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 09:21 PM |
| 10 | How to fuck flatmateMaybe try recreating the situation but actually closing? Or just find a new girl | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 09:19 PM |
| 16 | Girlfriend of 3+ years, DM'ing some dude. Told her to stop. Immediately kept doing it ..on a week long trip right now.3 years is a fairly long turn | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 09:13 PM |
| 6 | Tips on not feeling bad about “hitting the wall”I disagree with this. You aren't completely wrong but here's the truth. You can do better in your thirties if your 20s were wasted and then you get yourself together in your 30s, but it can't compare to getting yourself together earlier in life. A 20 y.o. v. a 30 y.o. doing the same things, the 20 y.o. will gain more attention from higher value guys. This doesn't mean your 30s are doomed and in fact can still be good if you get yourself together as stated above, but don't try to delude yourself … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/21 03:05 PM |
| 0 | Tips on not feeling bad about “hitting the wall”Take care of your looks as best you can by not smoking or drinking excessively, and learning how to eat and train properly. Notice here I said learn, because the fitness markets are saturated with fads and BS. Renaissance Periodization is a good resource for that info. If you can do those things above then that should keep your looks above most young women these days and especially above those same women when they hit their wall. Also, bring more to the table than just your looks. Make sure to b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/21 02:59 PM |
| 2 | You’re too young for me.This is a shit test. If asked your age, always throw out some ridiculous number and some line about it and keep going with conversation. If she insists, I choose not to lie but you do what you want. However, sometimes this can be enough to still get the lay | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 10:38 AM |
| 2 | How do I graduate from HB6 to HB8+ plates?Become SMV 9+ I'd say less than 10% of women I've been with are 8+ and I'm fairly picky. Some will fall in your lap or you'll have a great night of game. The reality is 5s (if you want, I don't care for them) 6s, and 7s for the vast majority. Women date up. Be better than them and they'll want you. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Small hands shit test. (Are small hands even a big deal?)A&A, flip it on her (not all of us can have man hands like you honey shit eating grin), or just ignore it and carry on as of it doesn't even register as something that could worry you enough to merit a response. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 10:18 PM |
| 1 | 178CM, 87KG. Do i bulk or cut?I'll do you one better. Look up Renaissance Periodization. They have a YouTube channel to get you started with playlists better than entire channels and then when you feel ready read some of their books on programming and nutrition. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | 178CM, 87KG. Do i bulk or cut?Depends on Body fat percentage, not weight. 10-15% is a good place to start massing from. Above that you should probably cut to get into that range so you can have more productive massing phases that don't leave you fat. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Anime Is Red Pilled As BallsI love the show, but it's far from Red Pilled. It's all in the writers and how they choose for events to play out. The apex of this phenomenon is harem anime where a dude does nothing attractive but ends up with, well, a harem. Remember who is making the shows you watch and what motives they have. Many anime writers are just dudes that couldn't get any in school like most guys and are now painting parts of the world the way they wish it was, much like feminists with their BS shows like Batwoman.… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 10:05 PM |
| 5 | Last minute resistance? Never dealt with this type before.Sounds like she used you for a trip out of state. Even gave you the idea sex was on the table for a moment with the shower thing. No more sex = Plate is broken. Move on now with some dignity and she might even come back once her and boyfriend break up. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Had a sex slave; lost frame and now there is no contact... but shes coming to my country in a couple of months...Learn from your mistakes and move on. There is no such thing as phone sex. Sex needs physical contact of sexual organs. You didn't even fuck, so really just try not to get used for attention so easily in the future. If she reaches out again, go for logistics after some very brief teasing and flirting (like 5 messages max). If she's actually interested, she'll be down. If not, forget her. You should already be sourcing other women. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 09:48 PM |
| 13 | How do you know if they're telling the truth about their n-count?You can't and shouldn't worry about it. Pay attention to her behavior. Is it desirable? That's the real question. N count is just a way to get an idea, but her behavior is going straight to the source, as that's what N count is supposed to predict anyway. All learning her N count will do is make you A. lose respect for her if it is high or B. Start to look at her as some special unicorn to be protected if it's low. Let women's actions speak for them. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 09:42 PM |
| 6 | How to get women in a small town? Or should I just stay in monk mode?Move. It's what I did. Getting good at fishing is a lot more feasible when there are actually fish where you are. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 09:34 PM |
| 4 | Best LTR strategy using RM as a guideMy thoughts are as follows. Maximize your SMV and do take steps to make sure it stays s high as possible for as long as possible. Then enter social circles that tend to carry high value men that you are attracted to. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/21 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Best LTR strategy using RM as a guideSMV is primarily determined by the dating market. RV (not RMV) is what's determined more by the individual as that's where less of the instinct and more of the logic and emotion come into play. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/21 09:27 PM |
| 1 | I act like a girlIf you aren't lifting, you should be. Being physically strong increases confidence quite a bit. Look for a role model to emulate characteristics you find desirable. I, and likely many others, did this growing up with movie and TV show characters without really realizing it. An important note is that media has never produced a "perfect male role model TM" so that is why I say emulate traits. For example, Hank Moody from Californication is a witty, self-interested ladies man, but is also very blue… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 01:18 PM |
| 8 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksBut she didn't invite you and that's the point here. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 09:59 AM |
| 1 | I can't seem to get over my ex girlfriend even after a long time why am I so stuck on her?Get on or under 10 more women and see how you feel then. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Only seem to get laid at the 2nd dateJust read this after posting my response. I'm so glad we can compare notes and see similarities like this. I've done this a few times as well, but I personally always go for the 1st night unless I'm not feeling it. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Only seem to get laid at the 2nd dateNot fucking on the first date is fine. I've noticed that most who fuck on the first date tend to be only looking for ONS. I prefer to plate and get returning pussy, so if they don't fuck til the 2nd or 3rd I'm cool with that too. However, the level of escalation by the end of date 2 should probably be higher than it was on date 1if you want to bang on date 2 or 3. It's just another way to do things really. Just make sure you're always escalating towards sex, even if you don't plan on going for i… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Advice on improving my workout routineIf you want truly great info, look into Renaissance Periodization. They have books, a YouTube channel that puts out insane level quality videos Every.Damn.Day. The Scientific Principles of Hypertrophy or Scientific Principles of Strength (take your pick based off your goals) are really all you need in regards to training, kind of the equivalent of TRM but for lifting. I recommend you read The Art and Science of Lifting by Omar Isuf and Greg Knuckols first. Renaissance Diet book is all you will l… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 07:39 PM |
| 2 | My LTR could be cheating on me.Demote to plate or drop her and begin sourcing newer, better pussy. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 07:14 PM |
| 32 | I did it- i kicked that bitch to the curbThis is why it took 30 minutes instead of 5 to get her gone. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 03:49 PM |
| 5 | Help, i've become a mysoginistWelcome to the anger phase. It's natural to see women for how they really are and become angry because you were sold lies. Social media makes their flaws more glaring, but they were always there. As long as you keep working on yourself, that includes upping your level of game, it will pass. Learn to enjoy the aspects of women you find pleasurable and stop worrying about the rest. The way they act depends on who they are around. Eventually you'll raise yourself to the point that you are the guy t… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 12:10 PM |
| 7 | 17 and need some wisdomI would add that at 17, fucking this one other girl is not going to get it out of his system and to take that into account as well. OP could let this relationship run its course, and if (when) it does end, can fuck the other girl and any others after that. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 11:10 AM |
| 1 | A female coworker made it her hobby to call me ugly and loser behind my back to all other women... how can handle her?In front of others: "You sure like to talk about me quite a bit it seems. Don't get me wrong, I always appreciate the free rent in someone's head, but with how much you think about me, I can't help but think that you're actually interested, kinda like a kid who picks on their crush. However, I unfortunately can't reciprocate this interest." Work place safe but still brutal enough to reject her in front of everyone and distance yourself from the impacts of her thoughts on you. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Chick that FlakesI concur. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 02:09 PM |
| 2 | How do I lose the skinny fat look?Cut to somewhere in the 10-15% body fat range and start putting on muscle while not being stupid with your surpluses and cut when you're getting around the 16-18% body fat. Rinse repeat. Look into Renaissance Periodization for more in depth info. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 02:06 PM |
| 11 | How dangerous is sending my own nudes?*Definitely be showing | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 02:01 PM |
| 3 | How dangerous is sending my own nudes?Some chick I had a date with once saw that I wasn't feeling it and really started qualifying herself to me and eventually got desperate enough that she resorted to trying to use preselection (like I give a shit) by asking why dudes send nudes. She showed me her phone with a picture of some rando with his dick out. I ended the date there. Point is, she'll likely show it even to a random stranger she's known for less than an hour given the proper circumstances. You willing to put yourself in that … | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 01:59 PM |
| 4 | LTR mentioned how they are struggling that I am shorter than themAlways be ready for your turn to end and stop worrying about the things outside of your control and definitely never let it show. It makes you look helpless. IF she leaves, she wasn't worth keeping. If she sticks around, cool. Either way, focus on what you can control. I say keep fucking and stay practiced in game. If she brings it up, treat it like its something you never even considered an issue, like you couldn't see how it could outweigh the rest. If you're leading the relationship like you … | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Date women your self esteem can handle.Most important take away is to notice when you are under the Hot Girl Retardation EffectTM by asking yourself, "If she was a 6, would I put up with this?" Looks are no excuse to give up your ability to respect yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/21 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Should I talk to my LTR about a non-legal marriage?TRP is a toolbox, not an ideaology. Each man takes what works for him and leaves what doesn't. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/21 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Feel like i fucked up my sons lifeAll you can do is try to do better going forward. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 09:50 AM |
| -1 | LTR keeps bringing up marriage in the future?This exactly. She may hit 25 or so and realize she's missed out on the majority of her carousel years. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 08:18 AM |
| 8 | LTR keeps bringing up marriage in the future?Don't marry her then? This seems like an easy one. If she requires your explicit consent for the government to involve itself in your relationship (aka marriage), then you might want to ask yourself if she's really worth staying with. She either wants you enough to be with you regardless of getting married, or she requires the marriage to continue being with you because it's the status and government mandated security she gets, not you. Consider planting seeds now about there being no real benef… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 08:16 AM |
| 2 | The "are you a feminist?" Shit test"Never had one. Do they taste good?" *Bring up new topic and never commit to her* | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 06:47 PM |
| 2 | How do I politely tell a plate that there is no long-term chance with her?You can just tell her you like what you guys have and don't want to ruin it. I would like to offer a note on something. Women that have sex on the first date with might just well be very into you and see you as the best she can get, and a chick that makes you wait 2 or 3 dates might be playing hard to get because she doesn't feel enough of the tingles on the first date. 1st date lay is one factor of many. Based off of what you listed, it seems like you've come to a reasonable conclusion. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Red pill and fragrancesI get some cheap $5 cologne from Adidas on amazon and forget to wear it half the time. I still get compliments on smelling goodl if I wear it. I can't think of a single time it made a difference in my levels of success though. Just don't wear women's perfume or use half a can of Axe like a 7th grader, bath and use deodorant and you'll probably be fine in this area. Your time would likely be best leveraged looking into fashion or fitness if your game is already on point, fitness being 100x higher… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 01:53 PM |
| 25 | How to plate girls as a 17 year old who doesn't even have his own room?Honestly, that's something that comes with being young and having to live with your folks. You can try taking them to your room when your parents aren't home, or go to hers when theirs aren't I guess. However, you'll have to get creative and adapt to your specific situation. Regardless, just be glad you're TRP aware at such a young age and that your current biggest obstacle to game will be gone in a year. Then you will have others, but such is the burden of performance. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Total volume per muscle group per workout?Your Maximum adaptive volume is a moving target. It is not static, but dependent on various factors. 1st read this this. Then read Art and Science of Lifting by Greg Knuckols and Omar Isuf to get you understanding the most basic concepts so that you can start the next book. Then read this book from Renaissance Periodization to understand how to write your own programs. Scientific Principles of Hypertrophy. Then refer to this to get you started on finding your MV, MEV, and MRV and 99.9% of your l… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 02:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys cope with all the "psudo alpha gurus"? I'm so sick and tired of all the liars ruining the manosphere.Just take what you find useful. You don't have to 100% agree with your "mentors". Also, don't spend too much time here or consuming "manosphere" content. If you've read the sidebar and TRM, you've got plenty of info. From that point reading/watching should only be supplemental and target towards issues you're having in your application of TRP principles. Regarding the fitness stuff, Renaissance Periodization is what you want. YouTube is full of low quality content for the most part. They do have… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 05:31 AM |
| 3 | Devestated about being rejected for my height, how to forget itLooks like you need to focus on approaches IRL since your presence alone can make the difference. These women have higher standards for guys online than they do for guys that have the balls to approach, especially in regards to height. I've got a plate taller than me, and I'm slightly above average height so I figured she would "need" a man to be freakishly tall. However, I'm in great shape and have no problem dominating her in bed and she loves it. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/20 06:07 AM |
| 4 | How do I tell a girl to leave without sounding butthurt?Talk for 10 minutes more about whatever, then tell her you have to get up a do stuff in the morning. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Girl threw up on my dickHad this happen with the first girl I ever fucked. She was a real freak, into everything. I tried face fucking her but that gag reflex got her. I laughed, made her clean it up, and that was that. Doesn't have to be a big deal. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 03:54 PM |
| 9 | Interview with an OnlyFans girlAlso, it's important to remember that 99.99% of these women will not be viable on Only fans at this level 3-6 years from now as they will be competing with next gen thots. At least if you invest in yourself as a man, the skills are a lot more resistant to being replaced. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/20 11:15 PM |
| 2 | To flex or not to flex?You don't actually have to have social media if you don't want it. Sure it cuts out an avenue for game, but if you aren't in a position to leverage it then that doesn't really matter. I choose not to have social media and anytime I get the question I just say "It bores me." Problem solved. I've never had a woman question me further or refuse to have sex because of it. If you don't want it, don't have it and focus on other areas. I personally think that playing the social media game is dumb unles… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/20 01:32 PM |
| 1 | I think I'm fucked and it scares meIt's not all about anything. I was getting laid shortly after moving to a new country within a couple weeks without any social circle and mediocre language ability. Some were from cold approach, some from tinder and the like. I still don't have much of a social circle here thanks to social restrictions but that hasn't stopped me from getting laid. I've even had to take my foot off the gas in terms of sourcing and I'm not Chad Thundercock. Social circle is one of many domains of game along night … | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 04:58 PM |
| 8 | %99 of girls in my society are virgin, and they don't want to date any men. How TRP rules applies in my society?In this case, having high status makes up a larger percentage of your ability to get women. However, it's still important to learn game to make sure you don't fuck yourself over during the relationship. Rian Stone has a lot of material on LTR focused game. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Broke up with ny LTR and it's making me feel like shitBest way to get over a woman is to fuck new ones. You'll see how your LTR was better and worse than these different women and it'll put into perspective the rest of you experiences with other women. You broke up with your LTR for a reason, don't go through the garbage once you've taken it to the curb. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Plate is falling in love with me, and it’s making me feel like shitTo OP, I have been in the same boat. It isn't fun but YOU have to be YOUR mental point of origin. Do what's best for you and your goals/desires. Know the consequences of all of your options. They may not be perfectly what you want, but you do have a choice which is better than most men who will always end up on the other end of this. My main plate told me the same thing about 8 months ago and I was her first. I of course felt like shit as well since I don't plan on staying in the country I'm in … | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 08:49 AM |
| 3 | Seducing a girl somehow gets harder after closing her?One thing to keep in mind is that due to the abundance that women have, they are quite likely to just go for a ONS. Most of them know they can get another dick if they want it and that most guys will commit to them with little effort. Given these conditions, does it make sense that unless they are actively looking for a boyfriend that they would try putting in as much work? Not really. Just enjoy your turn for however long it is. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:07 AM |
| 3 | Girl I’ve been seeing lied to me about having bumble account...now whatYou gotta remember that if she's a fairly young (let's say for sake of argument 27 or less) and she's remotely attractive then she's going to be given abundance on levels 99.999% of men will never experience, especially in today's simp culture. Not to mention how much women love attention. The only way to make a woman want to invest more in you is by following basic game principles and being a higher value man. If you're improving as a man and she notices, she might try investing more, but until… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Why do women try to change you, if they just end up hating you once you’ve changed?Because they don't actually want a man they can control and make do what she wants. She wants a man that is strong enough to resist her and other people. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 03:30 AM |
| 3 | Female gameSounds like you have something similar to me. One of mine has what I consider to be female game, but here's a bit of context for the lesson at the bottom. This one also started taking some direction and started educating herself on lifting more from resources I pointed her to which I thought was pretty great and major points taking direction, but you gotta remember no to get attached too quickly. I've been spinning this one for about 6 months now and her and I get on well in and out of bed. Howe… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Made a Fake Tinder Profile as a WomanSounds like the fake followers I heard Til Tok gives creators. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/20 12:53 PM |
| 9 | Made a Fake Tinder Profile as a WomanSame thing happens to me. Over time I've noticed the app just shift to more and more shameless shilling of its shitty features like pretty much holding the majority of your matches hostage behind a pay wall. Must be working for them though. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/20 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Which is better, TRP or MGTOW? I’m struggling between the 2 theories.Depends on if you like getting laid or not really as well as of you're willing to put in the work for game. Personally, I refuse to let my genetics end with me. I'm not going to self-select out of the gene pool because feminism or whatever. I'm just taking it all into account and take precautions with what I can control and having to leave the rest up to chance. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Are first date lays non-conducive to relationships?I don't consider it a disqualifier and it can actually be a sign of high interest depending on how she acts after we fuck the first time. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 12:38 PM |
| 1 | How to handle the double pressure flip?"Because it doesn't sound fun to me" | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 12:34 PM |
| 3 | how to not turn redpill super power against myself anymore?For one, stop comparing something that doesn't compare. A woman that can't get laid is a real uncommon occurrence in nature. Men have to make themselves. Women just are. However, a man's ceiling is usually higher. I say usually because plenty of guys never even look up, let alone approach the ceiling. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Natty lifting is a jokeEducate yourself because you're probably doing a lot of shit wrong. Renaissance Periodization. Greg Knuckols. Omar Isuf. Jeff Nippard. These are some places with quality info, better than you will get on here because of the scope of the topic. I went my first 2.5 years with only 6 months progress before I learned enough to actually get results past the beginner phase and not once did I feel like steroids were the only way. I've got shit muscle building genetics and was a meth baby to boot and ye… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 08:39 PM |
| 2 | I'm beginning to question my red pill identityRegarding the men wanting career driven woman, it's often part of blue pill conditioning for men to want a woman like that, while their natural inclination will be to prefer to have a homemaker. Some men don't wake up from this part of the blue pill but can still hold a resentment for their woman not being the homemaker AND the career woman because they don't realize that it's usually not a feasible thing for most, as to be great at one requires sacrifice in the other. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/20 11:43 PM |
| 3 | what happens to these young whores when they group up?Most will not lock down chads, just by pure statistics. Many will have that one friend that managed to get a chad or know someone who did and will think "If she can do it then I should be able to" without realizing that she won't get one by just having a vagina unless she's 8+. Few of them realize this and even fewer of them are willing to put in any work like getting in better shape for example or learning how to be more valuable to a chad specifically, still believing they can prioritize their… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/20 04:49 PM |
| 4 | I did it ... I switched to part time work!With twice the worker supply in the work force, average wage can be lower (market equilibrium) as well. Some more food for thought. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/20 04:50 PM |
| 4 | After 6 years of following TRP but being an incel, joined the army and suddenly started succeeding with women.Women love your Army pictures because it means they can become "Dependapotamus". Getting a girlfriend so quick into having success is prove that you're not implementing RP principles for you, just to get companionship. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/20 04:11 PM |
| 2 | My LTR (7 years) Just Moved OutOnly thing to add is to NOT allow her to pop in whenever. She ended it. Not being able to have access to you and your lifestyle is a consequence of that. Also, to lighten it up a bit, watch a skit on youtube that kinda fits the theme of here popping back into your place whenever she wants. The skit is Trent Reznor from WKUK. Main difference is you won't be benefiting at all from it. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Ex LTR Messaged MeFuck 10 new women and see if you still care. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Ex LTR Messaged MeThere are many ways to put this, but I think Rollo did a pretty good job. "Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was." - Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Back to basics -- To stop living in her frame and stop setting covert contracts, you must be willing to not just fake it or make it, but BE it and embrace any authentic outcome, whatever that is.The way I look at advanced things is that they are really more just context specific things that can help increase your successes if implemented properly in the respective context. This is why I couldn't agree more about mastering the basics. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Why You Should Even Bother.And thus it comes full circle. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/20 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Why You Should Even Bother.Living the truth is definitely a matter of degree and not black and white. However, when a man is living it to the best of his ability, and when a man is not living it at all, both are obvious. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/20 01:59 PM |
| 16 | Women in the US VS EUROPEAmerican living in Spain currently so here's my insight. You are getting the American women that are traveling and therefore have no one to answer to so they can be more "open minded". I get them here too though I prefer that Latinas that moved here from Latin America and are still on average much more feminine than the Spanish women and the American women. Though I have a had a few Spanish girls as well, one of them was the hottest and most fit woman I've had to date. It's all relative. You go … | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Why You Should Even Bother.You're right. There's knowing the truth, and there's living the truth. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/20 01:07 PM |
| 1 | How to get a Girlfriend in the Modern Age of Social MediaI read Corey a lot before finding TRP and it helped as much as as it could be have. However, Once I found The Red Pill, I literally threw his book away. He is Purple Pill at best, bit I think the guy's got good intentions. Funny enough, I could tell long before the last line that you had read 3% Man. I think you did a great job putting a more RP spin on his principles so I'll give it my upvote, but I think his book is a bit remedial for anyone who's read the sidebar and/or the Rational Male. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Why You Should Even Bother.Good point about checking to see if pleas for selflessness are really just pleas for furthering someone else's agenda. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/20 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Why You Should Even Bother.Not with me. I call that shit out provided she's not checking in with her family or something else reasonable. After this they are usually a bit more respectful as well. But yes, I have seen this with other guys. I think that comes down to what kind of man she's on a date with. Remember, most guys are beta. I've yet to have one start scrolling through Instagram and keep doing it once I call it out (usually in a teasing manner). I imagine someday I'll get one that can't unglue her face from her p… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/20 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Never Let a Woman See You Bleed.My take is: Don't intentionally open up weaknesses to a woman. Save that for the Bros or some other healthy outlet (training is a good one, just don't go snapping your rolling partner's ankle because of it). We are all human and at some point we WILL have a moment of weakness in front of a woman. If she's LTR worthy AND you've established competency to overcome things, she likely won't hold it against you so long as YOU PICK YOURSELF UP AND TAKE CARE OF THINGS AFTER. Also, it's probably not a go… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/20 07:27 PM |
| 0 | Why You Should Even Bother.I doubt they're swiping when ah high SMV man is in their presence, trying to run game. However, I agree with everything else you've said. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/20 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Why You Should Even Bother.Good catch. I accidentally had "the" instead of "his". An important distinction that I don't want to fuck up in the post. Will fix. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/20 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Why You Should Even Bother.I can respect a man that is getting with the women he wants to. That's where TRP comes in. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/20 03:10 PM |
| 9 | Why You Should Even Bother.I know a man who puts this as "Pimp or be pimped". | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/20 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Why You Should Even Bother.I've considered it before but decided not to be a coward. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/20 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Dad just passed away two days ago. How to pick myself up?That sucks to hear man. I'd say to continue what you're doing on a daily basis but don't take on anything new until you've had time to process. Don't let it derail your life though. No sense in 2 men losing their lives. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 01:12 PM |
| 10 | Why You Should Even Bother.Step 1: Have S.M.A.R.T. goals. Step 2: Have a specific plan to work toward those goals on a regular basis (i.e. lift 6 days/week to get in better shape). Step 3: Actually execute your plan consistently. Step 4: Reach your goal and define a new one for yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/20 01:06 PM |
| 19 | Why You Should Even Bother.There is a small caveat to this. In person attention will always feel better to women than points in the internet (at least in the moment of attention). Also, attention from high value men in person feels even better. That means that unless they get so lazy they prefer to just sit around on social media and NEVER go outside, things aren't completely lost. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/20 12:18 PM |
| 9 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?She's just going to use it to post pictures and stories. It's clear this one is a waste of time. You would literally take an active part in helping her advertise to other men while not getting any yourself. Almost self-cucking territory there. I bet if you told her she can't take any photos or videos she would have something come up or just flat out ghost once she realized you were actually serious about it. If I had a situation like this, my 2 conditions would be that she's already been a good … | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 04:06 AM |
| 1 | I need an objective opinion, please. Am I spending too long in the gym?I'd say you're probably better off adjusting your sessions to going more frequently with the volume spread out over more sessions. 1st, take a good and honest look at your accessory work and make sure it isn't junk volume (not sufficiently overloading and too far in specificity from the Big 3 since you're powerlifting). Consider taking the accessory work and doing it on what are currently your off days. For example, I go 6x/week U/L (kinda) with many of my upper body accessories on days that I s… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/20 03:24 AM |
| 1 | All I'm doing is nexting girlsYou're a little quick to jump to the gay train. What I said was walk back your standards of what concessions you'll make when it comes to setting dates. You'll find you are likely kicking girls to the curb before your SMV can afford you the luxury of doing. I swear, this sub seems to become more and more like MGTOWs trying to come in and justify why we should be MGTOWs too or guys coming in asking for permission to be mediocre at game. If you don't want to improve, don't. More women for the rest… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/20 02:24 AM |
| 3 | All I'm doing is nexting girlsIt's a matter of calibration. First, know exactly what you are and aren't willing to put up with. Then enforce it. If that is getting you 0 or very few lays, walk your standards back a bit and enforce those consistently. Eventually you will meet the point where you hit market equilibrium for you SMV or you will find that your standards are higher than what you can ask for, in which case further improvement is necessary. Regardless self-improvement should be happening. Also, remember that tons of… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 05:35 PM |
| 1 | The carousel in the East versus the WestI don't remember writing anything about doing anything for women and was talking solely about learning game for one's own benefit, but while we're on that... First you have to acknowledge that some part of our brain does indeed consider whether things are beneficial for us in regards to women. Just because that happens doesn't mean that thing is bad. It can and often does line up with us becoming the men we want to be, because many men probably also want to be very similar to that man and many w… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 08:04 AM |
| 1 | The carousel in the East versus the WestI am not currently the man I want to be, but I am willing to change aspects of myself (aka improvement) and am on my way to becoming that man through deliberate changes in myself. Not being willing to change yourself for the sake of improvement is being a coward and lazy. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/20 05:55 PM |
| 1 | The carousel in the East versus the WestLearning game is about more than just getting laid. That's level 1 of game. Get women to fall in love with you and they can actually provide more value in your life if they actually know how to (cooking, cleaning, massages, whatever else you want). Also, a major part of game is having and enforcing boundaries to keep from being fucked over. Learning game protects you from many of the dangers of a BP mindset. Also, if your game is tight enough and your value is high enough women will fight each o… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/20 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Female Coping Strategy: A short analysis of FDS's main copesI just don't do meals for first dates. I grab a tea at a coffee shop or bar (I don't drink). This way I'm not investing too much upfront IF I decide to pay. I've found that there tends to be a slightly better chance of a successful pull if I pay separately. However, this isn't a significant enough difference for me to base whether or not I pay 1.5 euros for her drink. I usually decide that by how generous I feel in the moment, and usually tend to feel like paying more often when they act more fe… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/20 12:36 AM |
| 6 | “You Were Born This Way”Probably one of the best posts I've seen in a while. I've always had these thoughts, especially recently. However, you put them into words well. Basically, letting her in on your loser past is only convincing her (subconscious) that she shouldn't fuck you, lest she potentially have genetically inferior children. She won't be able to explain why, but if you convince her of the loser you used to be and how far you have come, she won't appreciate it like men do. Quite the opposite, she'll lose attr… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/20 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Let it die? She’s gone cold, no contact for 7 days now.I'd just send one final message. "I don't really care for how things have been lately between us. Take care." | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 09:08 PM |
| 1 | I've been spinning plates and hooking up with random girls and I don't like it.What u/menazich said was spot on. I'd like to add for your purposes what the utility is specifically. Hooking up and spinning plates: Gives experience interacting with, seducing, and handling women. gives the aforementioned abundance mentality. It is one of the most efficient ways of finding a woman for the long term since you are seeing multiple at one time. She stays a plate until she proves after sufficient time and screening that she has potential to be trained to be a good LTR. You also hav… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Being much weaker than the 20 year olds at my gym is making me really want to quit. What should I do?Realize that you are at a different point in your fitness journey, suck it up, and put in your work. My little brother and I are both adopted. He has significantly better genetics for lifting than me. When he was 15 and I was 22, he was already outlifting me. I just told him "good on you", kept seeking good info on programming for lifting, and kept showing up to the gym. Also, following other people's prewritten programs is holding you back. I heard nothing but the best about Candito's program, … | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 06:47 PM |
| 2 | strength gains no muscle gains?No problem. I forgot to mention that if you get to those books and you don't understand them, there are some books that might help ease you into it a bit more. The Scientific Principles of Strength Training sounds like a fucking textbook, but it's not nearly that dry. If I remember correctly, they even make a DBZ reference or 2. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 02:25 PM |
| 2 | strength gains no muscle gains?You need to pick a primary goal. If you do any type of cardio, you need to be able to measure the calories burned so that you can take them into account. If body comp is the primary goal for you atm as it sounds like to me, don't do boxing. Actually don't ever do boxing for cardio. Only ever do boxing for boxing. There are better ways of doing cardio that allow you to better measure your calorie expenditure. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 02:04 PM |
| 2 | strength gains no muscle gains?24 hrs is applicable in some but not all cases. If you do 4 sets for a muscle group one day, you can come back the next day and likely do it again. The same can't be said for doing 10 sets in a day though so context comes into play here. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 02:01 PM |
| 2 | strength gains no muscle gains?6x/week allows for more volume (measured in number of reasonably hard sets weekly for each muscle group) and volume is what drives muscle gain. Also, lifting doesn't really burn that many calories. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 01:59 PM |
| 3 | strength gains no muscle gains?You sound like me from a few years ago same height and nearly the same weight. Here's what I wish I had been told sooner. 1st, in regards to getting enough calories in, I have the same problem. Add sugar to things like cereal for easier calories. Also, Everything you drink pretty much should have calories, milk and juice are great options. It sounds like you still have quite a bit to learn in these areas so here you go. Nutrition book: Renaissance Diet. Hands down best and most likely the only b… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to get tired of endless random hookups and crave something more?I'm not a fan of pushing numbers for numbers sake after about 20 or so. Don't feel compelled to hit new girls just because. Push to improve your game, and let the numbers come from there. Getting new girls will only take you so far. Learning to manage plates on a long term basis requires you to learn new skills, and an LTR even more skills should you eventually want that. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 09:44 PM |
| 35 | I'm 42, had sex with a 20 yr old Sat, now ghostedNot every girl wants to become a plate. Not every girl wants to become your girlfriend. Some just want some dick and you were the one she was in the mood for. If they don't pursue you after sex, they probably just wanted to get laid. Going forward, what you can do better is remember to at maximum match her level of interest, especially post sex, if not less with the 2/3rds rule. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 09:30 PM |
| 14 | What should I do about a girl I’m seeing wanting to record smashing?Do what you want. Just be willing to accept any consequences of either choice. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Had my first date in 3 months. Accidentally blew my load in a minute - Can this be salvaged?Read Sex God Method. Don't worry about this one. Certainly try again but either way, source other women. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Stop giving a fuck about her.I think questions about what to do with women are fine provided it's for your improvement of handling and managing them. If it comes from a place of fear of loss of your beloved plates, then the answer should always be to replace her. Focus on getting better with women is what the goal of a question should be if it is in regards to women. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/20 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Why has every girl I dated become fat after I broke up with them?Because they pretty much all get fat eventually. Getting older but still don't work out and eat right? Blame weight gain on age. She gets a new guy and they get comfortable? Gets fat since she knows he won't leave her as most guys are too ashamed to. She's single and hasn't had steady a boyfriend in a long time? Might as well give up and enjoy ice cream, pizza and wine. Not all, but pretty much all. Especially in America. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/20 10:47 AM |
| 0 | How do I deal with my ex-girlfriend telling people lies about me?Become more successful and get better women or a better woman in your life. Then you'll quit caring, and she won't be able to stop caring. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/20 05:32 AM |
| 0 | Anyone else lost the desire to chase girls after a certain n count was reached?It will depend on if you prefer new looking women all the time (simply "new" would be misleading as Pareto principle aplies to how much women vary from one another) and/or the hunt for a new one, building a solid roster and training them to your tastes, or if you want to focus less on having to source and more on retention with an LTR (that has earned it). Personally, I'm more in the 2nd group atm with the intention of going through as many women as necessary til some stick around long enough an… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Just got kicked out my houseGreat stories start like this. Shitty ones end like this. Up to you which story you live. I'm remembering this. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 01:23 PM |
| 3 | Looking for a shit test buster for thisPerfect | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Looking for a shit test buster for thisSo fucking simple. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a shit test buster for thisDecided to just go with an obvious fake number, or even the number for a pizza place or some shit and then move on. That or flipping with " Why, you want to try to creep on me on social media? I've got enough cyber stalkers." Just soft nexting here feels like admitting defeat too easily. At least this way I show I'm not too concerned with her test and if she doesn't respond, her interest probably wasn't even high enough to show up anyway. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a shit test buster for thisKind of feels like giving up too easy. Like the mod said, it's not high level testing. It's just not much to A&A from. Flipping it on them hasn't worked yet. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Looking for a shit test buster for thisWhich one have you had the most success with? | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Looking for a shit test buster for thisFor some reason this one's been getting me caught up. Normally my text game is fine. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 10:31 PM |
| 0 | How can i stop my son (14) from being a beta?"It's weird, bit I haven't dated in years" That's the first problem. You're the first person he's going to look at as an example of how to be with women. You have to be living a RP lifestyle for him to do the same. Even then he would have questions, but that's when you would give him the small RP nuggets because overloading him with lectures certainly wouldn't be the way to convey this info to a 14 year old. I'm not saying you need to try to find a new mommy for the kid. You didn't specify anyth… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Stop reading TRPI like to come back to the sub a few times per month to see what cream has risen to the top. I realized a few months back that with game, just as any other skill, you reach a point where practice becomes more important than study. Though occasional study past this point is fine, useful even, you're right about the mental masturbation. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Female prison officer jailed. Dark triad inmate seductionI worked in a jail for 2 years. Pretty much every attractive (and plenty of nonattractive) women did this shit all the time. Shit, I'll go one further. We got some huge (fat) guy that was brought in for having a standoff with the police and killing his teenage son. Some hot rando saw him on the news and visited him and regularly and put money on his books for the rest of his time at the jail. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/19 09:20 PM |
| 3 | How An Alpha Buys Christmas GiftsI don't buy presents unless I feel like doing it. Now, time to read the post. Edit. That. Was. Wonderful. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | '96 BabiesThanks for the insight on Gen Zers. I graduated as social media climbing was still on a small scale and not huge yet in HS so it's amazing to me to see the difference in the experiences of people just a handful of years younger than me are thanks to the shit storm of social media. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | I’m getting married in 40 days and I don’t know if I can go through with it.You came for advice, here's what I'd do. This is assuming you stay with her. The alternative is to leave her and figure out the rest of your life. Every man should have the capability to live on his own. Kids make that harder, but not impossible. Also, the fact that things got worse after the proposal should be a major red flag to you. It's not you she wanted most likely. At least you're not the primary objective. Don't go through with the marriage. If you think it's possible this woman has real… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 08:41 PM |
| 5 | The Red Pill Finance ThreadGame, Money, Looks (physique and fashion). Three major parts of a man. With enough of 1, you don't need the others just to get laid. However, without the others you're not likely to reach your potential as a man. Point is, this sub focuses on the 1st one primarily. There are enough other subs for the other 2. Info on the other two has its place in this sub, but our focus here is sexual strategy. I don't need coping when I have improvement. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/19 08:26 PM |
| 1 | I get paid to sit around for 8 hours. I can do whatever I want. What would you do that is productive?I did this exact same job about 5 years ago. I wasn't allowed to have my phone, so I started reading books. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 07:30 AM |
| 63 | The Red Pill Finance ThreadJeff Bezos, Elon Musk, Bill Gates. Three guys with Fuck You money for days but not a second of game. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/19 07:27 AM |
| 5 | Plate canceled 8th date. Should I call?She'll likely eventually look back at her time with you as nothing but good (a logically fallacy we humans are prone to). Or maybe she gets married and divorces the guy 7 years down the road with 2.3 kids and a shiny alimony check every month and probably 10 extra lbs. Then she'll try to come back. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Possible I have a kid that nobody knows about..MY thoughts, ghost her for the following reasons. You did not mention wanting to be a part of your possible kid's life, but hers if he is indeed yours. She's clearly proven herself not a woman you want to be involved with in the long term. Communist parade and all that. She may have got her alpha seed (you) and is benefiting from her current beta bucks and that's why she hasn't sought you out for paternity... yet. Eventually BB might find out about the aforementioned parade and they fight, split… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 02:50 PM |
| 1 | You are allowed to game girls in your social circle.Haven't really given social circle game a try yet, but perhaps getting better at gaming women you don't know and building your skills through that,then trying social circle game is the key here. I'd imagine social circle game's biggest difference is that there are a lot more variables, like a show with more characters to keep track of. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/19 09:37 AM |
| 1 | What makes a man see a woman only as "fun night" material?Of all the women I currently see, the one I find myself spending the most time with is the one that 1. Is not only always down for sex but actively tries to get better for me (she's a bit inexperienced) 2. Cooks for me. 3. She's pretty drama free and very pleasant to be around. 4. She gives me massages. There are probably other things I'm not thinking of, but while I'm not looking to commit atm, I'd say this girl has gotten a lot closer than any of the othes by getting more of my time and attent… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/19 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Second wave of red pill rage after self improving , changing my game and getting women now ???I think I saw something mentioned about gold once but didn't really ever learn any more about it. I have no idea what any of that is. Cursory Googling tells me I wouldn't personally benefit too much from the silver, gold, or platinum anyway. I'm mostly just here for TRP and it's related subs. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Second wave of red pill rage after self improving , changing my game and getting women now ???What is a silver? | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Women in LTR are all potential cheaters? Regardless if you are alpha or beta?Don't forget that as a high value man you can actually both directly and indirectly influence what she values. Women aren't completely random. If experience applying TRP has taught me anything, it's that they're fairly predictable and easily influenced. You just have to learn how to influence them more than social media, ads, etc. It's not impossible, and the fact that it's probably not easy means that it's probably not easy to undo. Our level of attractiveness is not completely subject to women… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Been sitting on these thoughts and tweaking them for a couple weeks. Posting them here for potential discussion and evolving themThis was just some random dots I felt connected at different points in the past few weeks. I'm sure there's a subreddit dedicated to conspiracy theories, but I don't want to jump down that rabbit hole, at least I don't think I have a reason to atm. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/19 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Texting Game Advice. When she says to "Ask me anything over text".Personally, I don't maintain any type of contact with women I don't plan on seeing again. And even then, I keep it low. Then, when I'm in person I usually have their attention instead of them scrolling through IG or some shit instead. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Texting Game Advice. When she says to "Ask me anything over text".No prob | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 02:05 AM |
| 49 | Second wave of red pill rage after self improving , changing my game and getting women now ???Don't commit to these women and just enjoy them. There is a difference between women with potential, and women with problems. Women with problems make great plates, women with potential might make great LTRs. Enjoy them for what they are and if you ever need to remind yourself why you came to TRP, treat them the way you used to. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Texting Game Advice. When she says to "Ask me anything over text".Don't condition her to expect your attention for nothing. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 01:52 AM |
| 6 | Women in LTR are all potential cheaters? Regardless if you are alpha or beta?But if you're better than most men she interacts with, it's only going to be a positive. Women know where they lie when it comes to who they can get, though admittedly it's warped to shit right now for most women. However, you should already be trying to be a high value man anyway, so this should be a nice bonus, knowing that you're better than the vast majority of guys she meets. Just because she comes into contact with someone higher value doesn't mean shewill trip and fall on his dick. She ma… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 01:51 AM |
| 6 | Texting Game Advice. When she says to "Ask me anything over text"."How long will it take you to get ready for our date?" Then move to logistics. Don't try to game over texting. You're giving her all of your attention for free. Don't inflate the value of your attention. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 01:44 AM |
| 9 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?I don't see the anger phase the way you described at all. When I found TRP, any anger I had toward women went away shortly after my first lay with a woman while implementing RP principles. I realized that women aren't as mysterious as I thought after all and that they will treat you how you allow them to. I'm still have a lot to learn, do, and accomplish in my RP journey, but even still whenever I do feel anger, it's not towards women because they have a vagina. Any anger I have now is with myse… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/19 12:57 AM |
| 9 | Been sitting on these thoughts and tweaking them for a couple weeks. Posting them here for potential discussion and evolving themInsights like this are a reason I posted this. Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/19 11:24 PM |
| 4 | Been sitting on these thoughts and tweaking them for a couple weeks. Posting them here for potential discussion and evolving themI just mentioned that it only benefits companies in the short term in another comment, so I agree. It's likely the few people who know the game and are at the top that benefit, which is it only needs to be a short term benefit for the companies. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/19 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Been sitting on these thoughts and tweaking them for a couple weeks. Posting them here for potential discussion and evolving themCompanies gain on the short term with increased markets(literally doubled) plus women spend more. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/19 11:20 PM |
| 4 | Been sitting on these thoughts and tweaking them for a couple weeks. Posting them here for potential discussion and evolving themI mean that China could flood the market with U.S. currency after accumulating enough and drive the value of the USD down. This could do real damage to the U.S. economy, and the world economy since most of the world generally considers the USD as the standard if I'm not mistaken. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/19 11:00 PM |
| 7 | Been sitting on these thoughts and tweaking them for a couple weeks. Posting them here for potential discussion and evolving themThanks. I touched on making the population more docile a bit, but I don't know quite enough about communism atm, to go into the few ideas I have there. I wanted to keep it as concise as I could and that would have required me to elaborate more die to a lack of understanding the following ability to explain it concisely. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/19 10:21 PM |
| 10 | Been sitting on these thoughts and tweaking them for a couple weeks. Posting them here for potential discussion and evolving themOh, I'm not really angry. Shit, I left a few months ago and only ever plan to go back to visit. I noticed the outside interest part too, China buying tons of U.S. currency, ostensibly to keep it's place as a primary provider of labor for other countries by keeping it's currency low. However, once China has enough U.S. currency, they will have the U.S. economy by the balls. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/19 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Gen X vs Millennial TRPers, the main difference..The village was still enough to get me despite me spending most of my teenage years with a naturally RP uncle. It took me being tired of bitching out on approaching women to seek out answers that only TRP has produced solutions. Sometimes the village still going to get to kids. Of course I was also on ADHD meds for 10 years growing up, so that didn't help. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/19 10:09 PM |
| 1 | You will have to pay for your parents' debt.In Ancient Athens, there was no social welfare. Parents were incentivized to make sure their children were successful so that they could take care of them in old age. If the parents did not or could not do this, the children were not required to take care of their parents. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/19 10:00 PM |
| 4 | Women in LTR are all potential cheaters? Regardless if you are alpha or beta?Gotcha, also nice analogy. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 09:56 PM |
| 7 | Women in LTR are all potential cheaters? Regardless if you are alpha or beta?But women are fickle and random and logic does not enter into their thought processes. You may be an absolute unit and by far the best man to ever moisten her panties-- and yet a random hot guy saying the right things at the right time to her when you're not there and she suddenly becomes pliable. I'm saying that the problem lies in thinking they aren't capable of these things and that it's a matter of how good of an option you are for her that determines the odds of her doing this. If you're ju… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 09:50 PM |
| 17 | Women in LTR are all potential cheaters? Regardless if you are alpha or beta?I'd argue that it can be at least influenced to a good degree by being a high value man. If you're the best she can get, she's a lot less likely (though still capable) of cheating. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 09:29 PM |
| 9 | Social mediaIt's a tool, neither good nor bad in and of itself. What matters is how you do or don't implement it. There are guys like Andrew Tate who can run mad game and get some real hot women through Instagram. There are guys pulling hot chicks all over the world from cold approach and don't use social media. My rule of thumb for it is of you don't have a larger following than her, don't try to get with her through Insta. Snapchat is a great way to be her orbiter. Facebook is for hobby groups only. Not p… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 04:26 PM |
| 2 | My brother with his gf - he’s incredibly blue pilled. Do I try to help him?He did the same for me. It's what finally pushed me to leaving her and trying to learn. After I found TRP, I threw his book away since it was basically Red Pill Lite, or maybe Purple Pill and dove down the rabbit hole. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 04:19 PM |
| 1 | My brother with his gf - he’s incredibly blue pilled. Do I try to help him?Honestly, there's not a ton you can do. To BP people that still believe in it whole-heartedly, coming to them with the The Red Pill is like a Jehovah's Witness asking you if you've met our Lord and Savior. This is especially true for those who have a girlfriends, because they believe they're already doing it right just because some chick touches his dick occasionally and lets him spoil her with gifts, dinners, and dates. When I was 19 and started my longest relationship I've had before TRP, I wo… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 04:10 PM |
| 3 | 2 years of lifting. What is the best option, Bulking/Cutting or Recomp?"Recomp" in the sense of 0 fat gain with weight gain is not possible unless you're losing a ton of fat, an absolute beginner, or on drugs. However, it is possible to have a moderate surplus with very short and easy cuts to take care of the relatively small amounts of fat gained. Realistically it would look like this for a hypothetical example. Obviously these numbers are just to illustrate the point, not exact. Gain 10 lbs in 5 months in a very moderate surplus of 300 cal/day. Muscle gained, 6.5… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Shamed for hitting on younger women. What would you do?As long as you don't get on planes with a man named Epstein to go to a private island to hit on them, I don't see the problem. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 12:16 AM |
| 9 | Shamed for hitting on younger women. What would you do?This, but with the addition of the following: It's completely natural for you to find beautiful women attractive, and the most beautiful women fall inside of the age range you described. If anyone ever shames you directly, you can always flip it on them. Shamed by someone after expressing interest in attractive woman You: You don't think she's attractive? Them: Of course she is. You: So what's wrong with me thinking the same thing? Drops mic | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 12:13 AM |
| 3 | What is the best way to approach a girl while she's working?Just little trolling I'm good fun. It's fuckin creepy no matter what, unless it's literally 2 or 3 minutes before she gets off. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 12:09 AM |
| 2 | How old when you moved out? Hows your life changed?Just make sure your apartment is in an area that still allows for reasonable logistics for game. Doesn't necessarily need to be in the center, but we'll connected to it. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 11:18 PM |
| 1 | How old when you moved out? Hows your life changed?In that case, I'd get an apartment and focus on establishing your network, really getting your roots deep. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | How old when you moved out? Hows your life changed?I'd go apartment route, but consider this option. Do you have to stay where you live for business? Could you benefit more by moving to a cheaper area or find an area where you can get more consistent business? Don't limit yourself by location if location isn't a limiting factor. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 11:11 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way to approach a girl while she's working?Damn, I was thinking maybe ask her when she gets off and stand outside her work until she clocks out to ask her then but this is a much better idea. But seriously, I agree with only doing so if she's not busy and is not in an area with a bunch of co-workers that might rat her out to the manager. I wouldn't make myself a regular just to eventually try to ask her out, but that's just me. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 11:06 PM |
| 3 | What is your cold approach conversion rate?So far it's mostly been while I'm at the gym, out for a run, or incidental like at the grocery store. I've tried bars/clubs but absolutely hate night game, so I'm doubling down on day game, which I think I'm much better suited for with my personality. I honestly haven't done a lot of traditional "go out specifically to approach" yet because of time constraints, but plan to once I finish this semester and get a bit of a break. Probably going to start with High traffic metro stations and monuments… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 09:53 PM |
| 1 | How do you distinguish girls who like you from attention whores, without wasting time?Escalate and try to get her in a date and/or fuck her. Remember the medium is the message. Anything less than a yes is a no. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 08:48 PM |
| 2 | What is your cold approach conversion rate?I've finally started doing more cold approaches lately and I'm noticing that when I do, these women don't act like it happens to them very often. I'm still less than 30 total, but these women act like it's their first time ever, or at least in a long time. They act really surprised and are a bit flustered. Keep in mind I'm usually pretty direct with my approaches currently, so there's not a lot of room for them to confuse my intentions. Maybe they get more indirect approaches that dude doesn't g… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 08:26 PM |
| -1 | Unemployed for 4 months and it got me depressed and lose confidenceJust a suggestion for something that might help. Get a part time job doing anything that you're willing to, even if that means making and delivering pizzas for Pizza Hut (because fuck McDonald's). It will at least give you some income, but more importantly it'll give you at least a little bit of purpose and take a lot of this pressure off of you and allow you to be in a better mindset to find a job. Yeah, it'll take some time from job search, but your improved mental state will likely be better … | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Case Study: A Reddit user's perception of a male friend who harasses women (with lessons)Point #1 Made me realize why I haven't felt much of a connection with long time friends and find myself on my own more than I used to with less desire to make normie friends. They can't relate obviously, but it will be a lot harder to find someone I'm willing to trust as much as I used to in the context of friends if I know that he's going to envy my successes because of his lack of them. This is yet another reason to surround ourselves with successful people. Not just for their direct effects o… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/19 04:44 PM |
| 2 | International Men's Day messages are so cringeworthy it's now certain that society has no idea what a man is, let alone actually help them. And social media is utterly biased to support the Blue Pilled narrative.Just saying, Mike Matthews of Legion Athletics isn't bad info, but there's way better out there. Honestly of there's info out there that could be considered sidebar material for lifting, it's the Art and Science of lifting by Omar Isuf and Greg Knuckols for Beginners and Scientific Principles of Strength Training by Mike Israetel+others after that. Those 2 (I guess technically 3) books took me from spinning my wheels for 2 years to progressing again with good results for the past year. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/19 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Question about backdoor positions.Never heard the term wave orgasm before. What's that? | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Question about backdoor positions.Thanks | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Question about backdoor positions.Always make sure that when she does get her releases she is looking at you or immediately afterwards. Plant that memory in her head that it was you and not some other chad that rocked her world. There is ALWAYS someone with a bigger dick or longer fuck session. It's you she is fukking right now and make sure she knows it. Never thought of it this way but I like it. I've noticed that I tend to tell them to look me in the eyes when we fuck but never considered this angle. Off note but something to… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Question about backdoor positions.Ok. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 06:40 PM |
| 12 | So, gentlemen, is there a way to enjoy women again?I do enjoy her company, and like to spend time with her, but I am not on cloud 9. I think it’s a good thing IMO because emotions tend to cloud your judgement and you can’t think rationally. I believe this is the point, otherwise we're just trying to use RP to achieve BP goals. BP guy revels in the feel good chemicals he gets from having the opportunity to spend time with Her Highness, making him like a junkie susceptible to manipulation just to get that hit again. RP guy takes her off the pedast… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 06:17 PM |
| 1 | All the girls on Tinder are landwhales ?It all depends on where you live. I lived in OK, one of the fattest states and lived in a small town and easily 65-70% of women were land whales. However few tips for checking if they're fat based of the photos. 1. No body pics=fat. 2. Look at the arms, neck, wrists, and hands. This is a little harder to tell, but you get better at it. 3. If you do get fatfished, there's nothing illegal with calling them out on it when you meet them. Just say somethinime, "Well you are obviously a liar and fat s… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Just the reflections on some sidebar material that made it finally click for me after over a year.Thanks. For some reason when I posted it fucked up the font and stuff and wouldn't let me change it to normal. I meant to try to fix it later but have been busy/forgot. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/19 10:59 PM |
| 4 | Just the reflections on some sidebar material that made it finally click for me after over a year.The reason you feel the need to share these feelings with her is because of our BP conditioning. For your woman, you are supposed to be her rock. This doesn't mean of you make one mistake you're done, but can you see her respecting her father if he constantly came to her with his problems?. This is what male friends are for. This way they can help you to deal with these things in a way that actually helps you solve these problems. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/19 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Just the reflections on some sidebar material that made it finally click for me after over a year.Make sure you look into the laws of where you live before you marry. I can't keep you from doing it, but I would strongly consider asking yourself exactly what marriage does to benefit you as opposed to keeping her as your gf for the long term and having kids. Be careful about willingly giving a third party power over your relationship since in most Western countries (especially Spain) they will only give that power to women. My personal philosophy on marriage (not that you asked) is that any wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/19 10:34 PM |
| 3 | Just the reflections on some sidebar material that made it finally click for me after over a year.I couldn't really say for sure. I can only guess and if I had to I would say that if you plan to keep her as an LTR then you may want to work your way into a more fatherly role seeing as how you never know when Dad could kick the bucket or maybe cut her off and you wind up in a drastically different position than before. I would look at it as having the "luxury" of easing into the position. However, if you don't plan to keep her then you can let it stay easy for now, but I personally would prefe… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/19 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Just the reflections on some sidebar material that made it finally click for me after over a year.I'm not 100% on this part yet. What I do is I don't look at them as a father figure when we're actually having sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/19 12:02 PM |
| 6 | Just the reflections on some sidebar material that made it finally click for me after over a year.Rian Stone I think gave the analogy of a benevolent dictator. Just because you have power and use it doesn't mean you have to abuse it, and I personally think that is one of the marks of a great man. When you have a lot of power over someone/people but don't abuse it. That's just the way I see it. Insert Uncle Ben reference here | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/19 10:23 PM |
| 12 | Just the reflections on some sidebar material that made it finally click for me after over a year.Yes, with some obvious differences. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/19 07:12 PM |
| 23 | Just the reflections on some sidebar material that made it finally click for me after over a year.I'm not a father either (hopefully for a while) but I see it as asking myself, "Would a father treat her like this?". Is this behavior or decision I am making coming from someone she should seek validation from (father) or someone seeking her validation (son). Additionally, don't let her treat you in a way her father wouldn't. Have boundaries, don't give her authority over you, punish bad behavior (i.e. withdrawal of attention, this is a difference from an actual father grounding her or somethin… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/19 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Unintentional Historical Example of why men should be the leaders.I have seen enough women fight to know you're full of shit. Women are capable of violence, just as much as men. I've had to break up fights between women where one threw hot water in another's face and proceeded to beat the shit out of her. Women tend to resort to emotional attacks on people rather than physical violence because they're better suited, but when that doesn't work or work as well as they want, at the end of the day they will resort to physical violence. They just aren't as good at … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/19 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Unintentional Historical Example of why men should be the leaders.I'll remember that when I pick the textbook that my University uses for their history courses. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/19 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Unintentional Historical Example of why men should be the leaders.Great point. Really great point. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/19 09:04 PM |
| 5 | If you aren't physically picking up girls, or you can't, you are doing it wrong.I'm using this at the next opportunity | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/19 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedI mean, it's still not sex. I personally only have them do it because I find it sexy when they do things that please me even when it doesn't please them. Otherwise, it's maybe a 3 or 4/10 experience at best. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Lived in small towns my whole life but just moved to a large city. Got some questions for you guys.The issue with number 1 is that I don't like having to rely on my phone and Google. If it dies I'm screwed and I also look like a tourist, which draws the attention of the people who prey on them. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | No more Interest from Girls after Maximizing my Looks & Steroids. Diving into Depression. Should I switch to Cold Approaches?First off, you're most likely relying too much on the outcome here. You're living your life for the validation of others. Stop it. Strive to be a man you can respect first and foremost. If you don't respect yourself, nobody else will either. If you are not a man you can respect, congratulations, you now have a purpose worth working for. Second, I don't know how old you are, but the roids was probably a bad idea to start out so early in your lifting career and at such a young age unless since you… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 06:30 PM |
| 38 | Is there even a point at my age?Dude, women were getting pregnant at 14 in my HS. My dad got a girl pregnant at 14. Maybe you haven't fully swallowed TRP. You are at the age where pretty much all of your peers are interested in sex for the first time in their life. Not only is it sex, it's got the novelty factor. Sex is happening at your age. Not at quite as high a rate as older people, but this is usually due to lack of game on the guys' part since most of you at that age are so inexperienced with game. If you apply TRP, you … | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 10:39 AM |
| 0 | Logistics regarding shared apartments?I'm not sure how to handle roommates of mine or hers being home or coming home while I'm trying to escalate. That would send ASD into overdrive. I guess I can do what the other guy said and try to get in right with my roommates, but what what about if it ends up having to be at her place? | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 12:53 PM |
| 0 | Logistics regarding shared apartments?No | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 12:36 PM |
| 2 | How Should I Improve My LiftsI'm guessing by your talk about proportions that you're mostly interested in bodybuilding. If that's the case, I have identified 2 potential problems. Your Bench: Military Press ratio is way off. I know you said you're focusing on shoulders, but you are either extremely overdeveloped in the shoulders, in which case focus on everything else for better proportions, or more likely, you are cheating your military press reps. This will not help your back, just your ego in the short term. Also, I was … | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 07:55 AM |
| 3 | I’m in a long distance LTR and she’s being selfish and hypocritical with no remorse. What do I do?Step 1. Don't get into a long distance relationship. If she wants to bone when you guys are together in person, cool. But why commit to a woman that might as well not exist and has a much easier time cheating and getting away with it? | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 07:45 AM |
| 5 | Should I confront my dad?Also, consider that no father figure is better than a bad one. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 07:40 AM |
| 1 | I never have the balls to go for the kiss and it's tearing me apartCreate tension through proximity and kino. When you're together, gradually work towards standing/sitting closer. This does 2 things. It helps remove the awkwardness of going for a kiss from a distance where her rational portion of her brain has time to process what's happening and freak out. In this case, she could very well want you to kiss her, but get nervous and decline. This makes her part of the decision making process of whether or not you two should actually kiss She wants it to "just ha… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 07:38 AM |
| 0 | Is it worth spending 30 min a day reading novels?You should definitely read RP books over novels if you only have time for one. I'm reading RP books daily for at least 30 min. Even if a book doesn't introduce new concepts to me, I usually find a unique way of framing an idea or a lime that helps me to put a loose concept I was aware of into a concrete phrase I can then write into OneNote. A lot of my notes I take while reading books are actually just reflections on a concept covered in the book, both new and familiar, or concepts that I see in… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Holy shit... I think I'm slowly actually getting it.It collects a lot of RP ideas into a fairly logical order and expands on and includes some stuff that the sidebar doesn't, because it's a 300+ page book and it has that luxury. If you haven't read it, I recommend it. I read the sidebar first and still found value in the book. Maybe you will too, maybe you won't. All of the 1st book is also on his site for free. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Girls love to be choked during sex..?I second the Sex God Method. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 02:29 PM |
| 4 | Approach at the beach todayKeep sourcing other women and if she hits you up, add her name to the list of women to bone. Otherwise, stop thinking about her. The only things you should analyze about an interaction with a woman should a. Be in your control. and b. Be diagnostic of any lessons learned about what you did wrong or right that you can use in your future interactions with women. That's my take. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 06:12 PM |
| 3 | PT told me I need at least 4 to 7 days recovery time for most muscle groups.Get a new PT then. If you take recovery seriously (eating enough and the right foods, limiting drinking, and getting enough sleep) you will easily be able to handle 6x/week U/L split or PPL. Aside from recovery requirements above, how taxing your sessions are on your body also matter and will determine how much time it takes to recover. I recommend reading Scientific Principles of Strength Training by the Mike Israetel and the other Renaissance Periodization boys. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Should I enlist or is that a bad idea?The key is keeping unnecessary fat off, lift and run consistently, and actually take sleep seriously. This is literally all I did to max the test for my 6 years in and I was never anything special in high school or after. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Should I enlist or is that a bad idea?Peak physical condition isn't exactly how I'd describe the selection. They require a 270/300 points on their cake APFT that kids coming from high school are maxing it. 72 Pushups in 2 min, 78 situps in 2 min, 12 min 2 mile is maxing, so 90% of each of those for Airborne school requirements. I'm out now, but I hear they're about to change the tests to pass/fail with different events, so that will hopefully change and for the better. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 06:55 PM |
| 4 | How to properly boost a girl for obeying me"Be a Skittles Man"... Oh wait, they shut down Roissy's site. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 10:13 PM |
| 1 | The Sixteen Commandments Of PoonCan we put this in the sidebar? Of course, add a note that it's from Roissy so new guys can go look him up if he ever gets uncensored. This is some of the best RP advice out there and while the sidebar contains parts of this throughout the posts, this collects them all together beautiful for review. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/19 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Whats your gym fuel?The fact that thanks to a childhood of ADHD meds made me scrawny as hell throughout school and I have an immensely hard time gaining both weight and strength. I don't care how long it takes though, because it's a part of my lifestyle and I'll keep lifting even if my progress slows to 5lbs/year per lift. I just enjoy the hell out of being able to move heavy objects. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 02:47 PM |
| 3 | A quick cautionary tale: you can't win by picking "good girls"I second the request for FRs. I'm looking to move to Japan in a couple years and am interested to get more of your insight. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/19 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Men who leave after learning their kids aren't theirs aren't doing anything wrong, in u/unpopularopinionthen he should legally be considered as such because it is in the best interest of the child to live in two parent, "traditional" home. And this is the only time that they will aknowledge this. Otherwise, single moms are empowered and considered heroes. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/19 11:54 AM |
| 5 | She told me she wanted some time to think, I first agreed, then watched a youtube vid and called her to end things.When it comes to LTRs, I look at it this way: She needs to be "Hell yes!" about you. Anything other that, then you should do as God would with someone lukewarm about you and get rid of her. You did the right thing. Even it wasn't, going back to her would only give you a short time with her, as her respect for you going back on your decision would have dropped, never to rise again. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Field Report and the RP Principles that made the difference.This was a couple months after finding TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/19 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Shut Up"Shut up" aka Law #4 of the 48 Laws of Power. This one in particular has been making a world of a difference for me lately. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Field Report and the RP Principles that made the difference.I can't disagree with you at all. Push/pull is still a little harder for me to grasp than most aspects. Thanks for the feedback. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/19 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Field Report and the RP Principles that made the difference.Read 2 more sentences and you'll see why. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Field Report and the RP Principles that made the difference.Thanks. As time goes on, it seems to get a bit easier, but this night was certainly a major turning point for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Field Report and the RP Principles that made the difference.Whatever floats your boat and raises your crane. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 07:02 PM |
| 7 | Field Report and the RP Principles that made the difference.Sex God Method is a book. I recommend reading it. It is quite useful. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Field Report and the RP Principles that made the difference.I see what you mean. It makes sense when you out it like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Field Report and the RP Principles that made the difference.It is readable for any English speaker. It is not going to win any awards for formatting, nor was that the purpose. I did my best to break this post into themed parts to better identify parts of the story due to its length and nothing more. I'm not writing a theory post here with any abstract concepts that need to be formatted in such a way as to make its content more digestible. I'm telling a long story that has some nuggets in it. I even added a conclusion at the end with a list of these princ… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 12:39 PM |
| 6 | Field Report and the RP Principles that made the difference.FRs are stories for us guys to swap notes. I see a lot of talk on Reddit about people want TLDRs for long posts and disagree so I prefaced my post with as much. While TLDRs can be nice at times, as I stated before, I don't believe they work well for field reports. Nowhere did I say I'm a good writer. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 12:24 PM |
| -8 | Field Report and the RP Principles that made the difference.I never said my writing was good. I said it was a long post. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Field Report and the RP Principles that made the difference.Also, I live in a small town so pretty much all women hot enough to have sex with that stuck around are damaged. The rest went to become someone's unicorn. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Field Report and the RP Principles that made the difference.Thanks. It feels good to finally get to post the FR here and get some feedback from you guys. Field reports and constructive feedback on them are some of my favorite parts of TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 11:54 AM |
| 11 | Field Report and the RP Principles that made the difference.I see what you're saying. I will add a conclusion paragraph listing the principles covered. However, your definition of a TLDR fits my definition of a title, so let's just agree to disagree there. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Field Report and the RP Principles that made the difference.That's all it was. My set of standards for ONS or plate are vastly different from my standards for LTRs. Also, as I mentioned in the post, I used condoms. I never don't use them. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 10:46 AM |
| 1 | The Thing You Really WantThis is the best post I've read in a long time. It gave me chills how true it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Feminine sexual strategy is presumed wholesome, male sexual strategy is a-priori vilified. Any sort of imbalance is encouraged when it favors women, extremely evil otherwise, and never their fault even when directly resulting from their actions.Agreed. The only productive thing to do here is to work to become that 15% and date as you see fit. Take advantage of hypergamy or it will take advantage of you. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/19 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Workout question: as a man, how do I build an attractive butt?Squat and Deadlift. I did just these only for a couple years for legs with running as well and have received multiple complements from women on my butt. These alone should be enough. I'd recommend learning to program for yourself once you stall on 5x5 and 5/3/1 though. I wasted 7 months on 5/3/1 before I learned enough to program for myself and start seeing gains again. 5/3/1 is just too low intensity and volume for a lot of people. As for what makes it attractive to women, have mass back there,… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 01:53 PM |
| 1 | What things can I start doing now to develop a more positive masculine character? Also, how do "artistic" types fit into the SMV heirarchy/get laid - pure game?Goldmund has some a book and some other stuff over photography game. There's bound to be some principles that will carry over for artsy types. There's a niche out there for musicians too, though it's probably not so much a niche as a straight positive thing when it comes to women. Don't forget to develop skills to get you paid, or to get paid for skills you've developed. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 11:09 PM |
| 9 | Starting my TRP and lifting journey. Am i doing this right?1000 is a bit high for a deficit. I would recommend no more than 700, and to make sure you eat maintenance at at least 1-2x a week to help keep your metabolism from crashing. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 04:37 PM |
| 20 | What motivates you to improve yourself?To be a man I can respect. To become the man I used to envy. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 03:58 PM |
| 13 | Tinder to roll out height verification but still no weight verification. Thoughts?Next will be dick size verification. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 01:19 PM |
| 34 | After being a part of the TRP community for 5+ years, here is my #1 observation I have of the community: Most of you are not ready for LTRs.I don't remember who exactly posted it, bit it's a pretty popular one. There's a post on here about women on the beach and taking them on a boat out to sea. That perfectly laid it out for me. Edit: Here's the post. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/9ooeft/are_we_there_yet/ | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/19 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Plate left me for her ex I feel weirdly sadPlates break. That's just the nature of it. It's better that you don't LTR a girl just because she's hot and asks for commitment. If you had simply told her that it's fine that you stop seeing each other, you'd have kept your frame better. Then the possibility of her boomeranging back would have been higher. Going forward, work on aquiring new plates. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 07:11 PM |
| 1 | TRP Raising Children Series: "In Their Own Words: Parents of Kids Who Think They Are Trans Speak Out"I've looked into long term options for living in Japan and have accepted the challenges that will come with them. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/19 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Should we fuck married women or women having a serious boyfriend.Chirp chirp and a good day to you. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 06:01 PM |
| 13 | what's so wrong with wanting to live a simple life?Are you asking for permission? Permission granted. You do you, just be sure that it's what you want, and not someone else. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 05:59 PM |
| 0 | Should we fuck married women or women having a serious boyfriend.This is a tool box. Use the tools to build, fix, or dismantle what you will. Actions do have consequences, but we all have free will. What we choose to do is up to us and us alone. Does it make it more or less wrong if you have sex with a woman who later tells you she is married? Doesn't really matter. What matters is the potential consequences of your following actions and your decision. It's no one else's place to make that decision for you. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Asking plate to shaveNp brother | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 05:21 PM |
| 8 | Asking plate to shaveI'd give her benefit of the doubt and leave it alone for now. If she does shave, tell her afterwards how much better you liked because she shaved. If she doesn't shave tonight, afterwards tell her straight up, you want her to shave. If the plate breaks because of this, then you should ask yourself if she was really even worth plate status to you. I prefer shaved pussy too, and no, it's not too much to ask. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 05:16 PM |
| 4 | How to be a kind alpha male? I lost my friends by trying to be a douche bagI was tempted to write this off as a troll post, but then I realized I would have asked the same question only a few years ago. Nevertheless, listen up. Being a dick in and of itself is not what makes you Alpha. Doing the things you want to do in the manner you wish to do them and having boundaries for others makes you Alpha. It keeps people from walking all over you. Your friends will either respect your boundaries, or they won't. If they don't, find new friends. As for women, you can get away … | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Should we fuck married women or women having a serious boyfriend.Sexual strategy is amoral. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 04:42 PM |
| 7 | TRP Raising Children Series: "In Their Own Words: Parents of Kids Who Think They Are Trans Speak Out"Japan bro, for better or worse, they hate change. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/19 07:03 PM |
| 8 | TRP Raising Children Series: "In Their Own Words: Parents of Kids Who Think They Are Trans Speak Out"I could only stand to read the first story. This BS is part of why I'm glad I won't be raising my future children anywhere near America and any laws threatening me of losing custody if I don't do what my child wants. The rest of you gents can have fun being raised by your children. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/19 01:27 PM |
| 1 | The Wife As A ParentAgreed. | /r/askMRP | 15/03/19 03:32 PM |
| 25 | Shit test: All men are trashWe could really use a Shit Test flair for this sub. I'd have a jolly good time reading some responses to people's questions on them. A&A away. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 01:09 PM |
| 2 | The Wife As A ParentThis is actionable advice. | /r/askMRP | 15/03/19 01:07 PM |
| 0 | Insults v. InsightI agree that most questions can be answered by the sidebar. What I'm saying is that you can't expect insults to convince them to read the sidebar. If it can be answered by the sidebar, "Read the sidebar" or no comment at all would be no worse, perhaps even more effective than a comment containing ONLY insults. A lot of people don't know what they don't know, and informing them of their status as a faggot for example is probably not gonna teach them anything actionable. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 01:03 PM |
| 3 | The Wife As A ParentYou're not the first to call me a smartass and I'll take that hug if you're down, but we have to be naked. My only concern here is that the responses be offering some type of advice, and of course your feelings above all else. As for gatekeeping, you're free to comment. I have no power to stop you. I'm just helping people identify wheter they're here to help other men or entertain themselves. | /r/askMRP | 15/03/19 12:59 PM |
| 0 | The Wife As A ParentI was referring to the first comment asking what's wrong with OP and the EC's comment. I then looked at EC's again after the post and cuaght the arrow to the sidebar along with get to work. I missed the arrow the first read. I put this here for the guys that come to only offer insults and 0 insight. | /r/askMRP | 15/03/19 12:35 PM |
| -2 | The Wife As A ParentTo those here with only insults and no advice: I think he's asking for advice on where to proceed. Not to be insulted. He's here to learn. Sure he needs to be able to take criticisms and razzing, we're not here to coddle him after all. However, if you don't have any advice you think can actually help, why comment? To OP: Keep reading, keep lifting, keep implementing, and don't expect to be perfect captain at all times, just strive to be. As for the incident, if she doesn't bring it up now (she w… | /r/askMRP | 15/03/19 12:20 PM |
| 0 | Sheep Live Short LivesJust saying, I've done the math before for S&Gs. You could realistically 60 years off of 2M (~33k/yr) and quite well off 3M (~50k/yr). Invest it in something to provide passive income and/or maybe get some super easy part time job to reduce burning through savings, and you could just live in a new country every year if travel was your thing, or get your white picket fence or anything in between. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/19 12:07 PM |
| 8 | Sheep Live Short LivesI've done this kind of math myself before and I can't disagree with OP. However, let's look on the bright side for a sec. We're 10x better off than our ancestors of even 150 years ago. Back then, we would have spent the majority of our time working on our parents' farm (assuming they had their own amd weren't working someone else's) doing chores and going to school. Our potential to learn new skills from someone on the other side of the world or to even know of those things would be quite low. W… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/19 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Women's Existential FearIt's because he has other options and can walk away but chooses not to provided his boundaries are not crossed. He is the one choosing her. This is why dread is so important for female attraction. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 11:47 AM |
| 5 | Wanted to share my thoughts after reading No More Mr Nice GuyI see no reason to willingly sign any papers that legally bind me to any woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 05:31 PM |
| 17 | Never understood the concept of a monogamous relationship.For RP guys who choose to get into monogamous LTRs, it's simply a matter of preference. When you prefer to not have to occupy your time with aquiring new plates (because they break) and you properly vet a woman, it can be preferable for some to have one girl to deal with. Yeah, she'll also require time juat as would aquiring new plates, but some men prefer to bond and have sex with a woman they have deemed worthy of more than just plate status. There are pros and cons to noth sides. Like I said … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/19 06:04 PM |
| 2 | My secret to wake up at 4:30am that delivers 100% success rate in a DAY.I second this and have been implementing many of these things to make sure I can still lift BEFORE I go to work so that there is never anything that can get in the way of me getting my training in. Remember, tomorrow's success begins with today's planning. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/19 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Which RedPill books helped you out the most and are a must read for noobies?I have only read a couple RP books so far since I found TRP in August las year but made this year the year of TRP book reading. Here is my current list, plus a few I've already ready. Game by Roosh V Art of Seduction- Robert Greene Reread Rational Male Positive Masculinity- Rollo Tomassi Art of the Deal- Donald Trump Rational Male#4 - (Releases in October) Gendernomics The Tactical Guide to Women -Shawn Smith The Feminist Lie- Bob Lewis The Way of Men- Jack Donovan No More Mr. Nice Guy Mode One … | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Run.Jack Daniel's running coach. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/19 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Run.Jack Daniel's Running coach has a book called Daniel's Running Formula. It outlines the principles to making an effective running program. It got me to a faster mile now at 153 lbs than I could get 9 years ago in HS track at 135. I only run 3 days a week. I train for a fast mile and at most hit 15 miles in a week and my joints don't hurt. Just saying "Run" is a bit too simplistic though, just like a lot (not all) of guys on here think that simply moving weights is enough to reach their physical … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/19 03:30 AM |
| 0 | Paranoid and anxious with LTR - obsessed over cheating and disrespectProbably not gonna last due to you giving up the frame right from the beginning. Best bet to get it back is to start implementing dread. Her hamster could use some exercise. Go cold on her. If she takes too long to reach out to you, move on. If she asks why you haven't reached out to her, just tell her you've been busy, or maybe catching up with some old friends (don't specify who and let the hamster spin). | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Should my girlfriends sexual past bother me?I wouldn't LTR it, but nothing wrong with keeping her as a plate. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Every Path Leads to Unhappiness [why live in a world without genuine care?!)If you have to, make a list of traists you wish to have and what it will take to achieve them. Then ask yourself, " What are you currently doing that is working against that? " Then, kill yhose bad habits first. Otherwise, you're always going to slide back to your old ways. After you kill the bad habits, focus on building yourself. It should be noted that if you change your mental triggers for bad habits by making it something else that you do instead, you'll have an easier time killing the bad … | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Every Path Leads to Unhappiness [why live in a world without genuine care?!)What traits do you wish your role models would have? What thibgs do you find to be most respectable? First, define what's important to you. Then, work to become that. Become the man you want your (future) son to grow up to be. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 08:13 PM |
| 1 | New to red pill and this knowledge has completely shattered me. Was thinking of marrying but...?Work on yourself and try to spin plates. Do that until you're 30. You can make some serious progress in 7 years. Then you'll find that more women eill find you attractive. Maybe find you a 23 y.o. then. But I wouldn't sign papers for marriage, at least not in here in the U.S. I don't k ow how it is where you're from. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Every Path Leads to Unhappiness [why live in a world without genuine care?!)Strive to be a man you can respect. Try becoming the caliber of man you looked up to as a kid. You never know who you'll inspire someday. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Tired of Sex Denials with LTRIf she's doing that but not putting out, she might be getting it from somewhere else. Not saying she is, but don't let yourself get blindsided. Make sure you're running game on her, and if she still isn't into it, start implementing dread game. If she doesn't straighten out then, you should next her. Or be her Beta boy. Your choice. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 01:35 AM |
| 26 | Tired of Sex Denials with LTRSo you're saying you're not happy with your roommate? Read the 12 Levels of Dread. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Am I too big of an asshole(Girls/LTR)?Reward her good behavior with affection and attention. Punish her bad behavior by withdrawing them. Eaiser said than done, but definitely doable. Never be too attached to be able to walk away if it isn't going the way you want. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Gf and TRPWomen talk, men do. Stop talking about it, and be about it. If she brings it up, change the subject or leave make an excuse to leave the room. She'll likely forget about it if her attention span is anything like other women today. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Am I too big of an asshole(Girls/LTR)?First off, showing affection is different than buying her stuff. Don't mix the 2. Second, if you start doing things just to olease her because she's saying she won't stay with you if you don't, you need to go take a couple red pills to get over your oneitis. I had a very similar situation about 2 years ago, long before I found TRP. LTR told me she wanted me to text her all the time, even though I told her at the beginning I hate texting. Long story short, I entered her frame by doing as she aske… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 12:16 AM |
| 2 | One night stands seem like an impossible goal...If you don't annihilate yourself every session, you can hit every muscle group 7x/week. Whether or not it's optimal is a different story. Break your weekly sets up into smaller amounts, and you can then do those lifts more days oer week. Ex. Squat 3x week, 3 sets/day v 2x/week with 5 and 4 sets. Bothel scenarios have 9 weekly sets. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 12:03 AM |
| 7 | Update: Discovered wife has had an affair, have kids, she doesn't know that i knowThis is the best answer by far. By staying with her, you are showing your kids that it's okay to cheat when they learn what happened and how daddy didn't respect himself or the example he's setting for his kids enough to leave cheating mommy. By allowing her to stay, you're exhibiting the same behavior that made her lose respect for you in the first place. | /r/askMRP | 25/01/19 04:49 PM |
| 5 | Red Pilled and still trapped in "Pleasure Palace"It's you knowing what you should do, but not actually doing it. Get to work. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 02:25 PM |
| 1 | How to lift?5x5 is fine to start, but realize that it is only a beginner program and will only take you so far. Once you reach that point, I would advise against searching for the program that works best for you. Every man should learn the basics to programming for himself so that you can program based off of your individual strengths, weaknesses, goals, and recovery ability. 3 books to give you the majority of what you need to be able to start programming for yourself are "The Art and Science of Lifting" a… | /r/askMRP | 22/01/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Woman giving me this shit test. How to pass it?I only have a Facebook for Tinder. I don't really use it. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Books on approach techniqueI am. I've been lifting and reading for about 3 years. I'm looking for specific recommendations to address a specific problem. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Books on approach techniqueI remember reading that somewhere. I figured I could still learn something from his book. I've never really read much else from him. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Might be a bit of a cringey question so heads upIf you know she is leaving the country then she's clearly not what would qualify as LTR material. As for her comment, if you try to escalate kino and she keeps shutting you down, she meant what she said and hard next. It could just be a test, but you won't know if you don't try. Don't stick around if she keeps shutting down your escalation attempts. It just means she's using you for validation. Remember 2 steps forward and 1 step back. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 08:53 AM |
| 4 | Question Specifically for 18-25 Year OldsSnap is where she gets her attention from her orbiters. Be different. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 02:58 AM |
| 2 | GF acting sketchy with her phoneYep | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 01:57 AM |
| 1 | GF acting sketchy with her phoneShe could also freak out because she hasn't secured the next branch yet. Also, it woul be a major blow to her ego to be dumped. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Missed out on the social experience of college, years later still miserable in my 20s. What action can I take to fix this?Take a week off work. Drive to another city and find a place to stay. Do all the things you wanted to do. Go to a college campus, act like a student or prospective student, and find the parties. Attend them. Be extremely social. Experiment. You'll likely never see these people again, and if you do, then it's probably because you made friends. See what all the fuss is about. Then you will be able decide for yourself of you really missed out, or if you're afterwards you're living the way you wante… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Is their an optimal or MRP recommended strategy for weight loss vs muscle building in early days of Red Pill?I hit the 1000 l s club at 153 and 12% bf af 5'10. I could certainly be bigger, but I still get IOIs from women. I imagine you won't look too skinny if you cut first. Also if you get visible abs (12% bf), your wife will certainly notice. | /r/askMRP | 14/01/19 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Sick of not seeing any progress in the gym. What’s so wrong with just giving up?If you mean you don't plan on lifting and watching what you eat for 5 years then I found your problem. If you're happy with your lifts amd physique, then you'll still need to lift intelligently and track macros to do so, though it will be significantly easier. Otherwise, the mindset of not being committed for life is what will make you be that guy who always talks about how good of shape he used to be in. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Sick of not seeing any progress in the gym. What’s so wrong with just giving up?This may be a long answer, but it's thorough. I know exactly how you feel because I've been there. This could be from a few things. I will refer you to tools and resources, because your question is a bit vague. The resources I mention are simply the best I have found. 1.Your nutrition is not on point. This is by far the most common mistake people make. If you aren't at least tracking your macros, you're probably making this mistake. Drinking too much and eating too much garbage hinder recovery b… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 12:18 AM |
| 2 | LTR of <1 year offered a 6 month overseas assignmentIt seems she has come around and I hope things continue working for you brother. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 11:53 PM |
| 3 | LTR going to slute city in 5 weeks. Don't trust it. Leaving her. Help with logistics plz?You'll be dicking down some other chicks so what would it matter of she's getting some too? Get some plates spinning and watch your perspective change. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 11:58 PM |
| 1 | What could I have done better?I too have considered dicking down a hottie that I work with who has blatantly expressed interest in me. However, I am choosing to learn from the mistakes of others. It's when you're trying to get with women you work with that it's obvious you have a scarcity mindset. There are plenty of women outside of the work place. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Dating a virgin girl, I was her first kiss. How do I get her to fuck? This is a bit harder than the non virginsAddressing some of the other guys' qualms with him sealing the deal first. She's going to lose her virginity at some point. Doesn't matter to who, because all women will assume they're the victim, even if she isn't. Everything happens to them and it's never their fault. OP has a chance few of us get nowadays. Take it, but find a way to be tasteful about it. To the OP, it's fairly simple, and I think someone else already said it, but I'm seconding it. Isolate, you'll encounter less LMR if you're … | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 01:10 PM |
| 4 | Is she a slut?Plate only material. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 02:33 AM |
| 3 | What workout program do you suggest?Jeff Nippard knows his stuff. Start with 5x5 until gains stall for a couple months. After that, do Jeff Nippard's programs. However, you should strive to become knowledgeable in lifting principles so you can start programming for yourself (you all should). For learning, I recommend reading from some of the greatest minds in lifting today. The guys from JTTS/RP like Mike Isratel and Chad Wesley Smith are the perfect place to start. Greg Nuckols and Omar Isuf are also good. Start by reading the Ar… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 02:31 AM |
| 4 | Best country for study abroad trip?Why isn't Japan an option? | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Dating a cop?I worked in a jail for a couple years (with the women who would go on to become cops) and became a cop for a while after that. In general, these women are going to be (unsurprisingly) more masculine by working in a male dominated profession. However, cops tend to also be more conservative in their views I've noticed, or at least in my area. I never dated any of them, mostly because I was still a BP pussy at the time. However, I can honestly say that even then, their masculinity kept me from bein… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 12:10 AM |
| 17 | LTR of <1 year offered a 6 month overseas assignmentDefinitely don't bring it up. It would make it essentially an ultimatum. As we all know (if you read Rollo's work) ultimatums are declarations of powerlessness. Demonstrate, do not explicate. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Anyone who also suffered/suffers under ad(h)d and depression?I have experienced both what is called ADHD (10 years on meds until junior year HS) and depression (7 or so years until junior year HS). I no longer take meds for either. First off, I am starting to question the validity of ADHD diagnoses, and lean now more towards thinking it's just a label to put on kids to medicate them for money and parenting/teaching on easy mode. I've found that my level of focus has a direct correlation to my level of interest. I can focus on something for hours on end, p… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 12:00 AM |
| 19 | LTR of <1 year offered a 6 month overseas assignmentI couldn't agree more, but woth a caveat. You say she was offered it. You might wait to see if she accepts the offer before breaking up with her. If she changes her mind on her own about the job and realizes she'd rather not do the 6 month thing, then she's really into you. If she accepts it, she clearly doesn't value the relationship enough. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 11:28 PM |
| 0 | What are some controversial topics you need to address before thinking of marrying someone?I'll just leave this here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2W02ViocTeI | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 05:02 PM |
| 3 | What are some controversial topics you need to address before thinking of marrying someone?Having a checklist is good. Asking her about it is wrong. Vet her based off of your checklist. Remember that woman prefer to communicate covertly, not overtly. If you have something you want to talk about with her, and you address it from the context of "This is a requirement for my commitment, do you accept?", you're going to have a bad time. Bring things up as they naturally are introduced to you two through the world is probably best. Don't rush these things. Also, why get married? You don't … | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 04:50 PM |
| 2 | I need help with weird friendship or a crushStop talking to her. Move on to other women. If she comes around, cool. If not, cool, you've got other women. Edit: Don't tell her you're not talking to her. Just stop talking to her. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 04:48 PM |
| 2 | I need help with weird friendship or a crushShe might be trying to slide you in her back pocket. You should only be sliding in her somewhere else. I'd soft next. If she breaks up with boo, then get it in I guess. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 04:46 PM |
| 3 | I need help with weird friendship or a crushShe either has a boyfriend, in which case she's looking to branch swing,or it's just a test, and she wants the D. There's also the ever present possibility that she just likes the attention. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | How much Karma do I need in order to post on TRP?I just sent my message to the mods. Edit: I am on mobile. I just clicked "Contact Mods" and sent the message. Is thst sufficient, or do I need to send it to one of the listed Mods directly? | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 04:20 PM |
| 2 | How much Karma do I need in order to post on TRP?There are some exceptions to this line of thinking. I can lurk here for 5 years, but never take any action. Or I can learn about TRP, already have something's covered and be at a great point to apply TRP principles to the remaining areas of my life immediately and see more progress in 6 months than most 2 or 3 year readers. If you use time as the only measure, you have no way of knowing their actual level of experience. Also, Field Reports should be allowed much sooner. That way we can help each… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 03:51 PM |
| 2 | "She's not yours, it's just your turn": a defeatist cuck mantra for losersRegarding the1st point about losing and winning, I don't really agree, and here's why. If you're worried about "winning your sexual strategy ober her winning hers", you're adopting a me v them mentality. There's nothing wrong with not wanting to get into a committed relationship if that's the way you choose to live your life. However, if you are saying all men should strive for that lifestyle, you're wrong. I'm not the first to say this, but I'll reiterate it here. Looking for a LTR is the wrong… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/19 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Girl lead me on and is now rubbing it in my face.Friends don't get laid. Just stop talking to her and find other women. She may break up with other guy and come to you looking for some. If not, it shouldn't matter, because you'll be aquiring new plates regardless. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Plate has boyfriend - how to handle?Good call man. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 03:16 PM |
| 45 | Plate has boyfriend - how to handle?Perhaps your turn is over. If she comes back, cool. If not, oh well. You'll eventually find a girl even better than her, but that will only happen so long as you are aquiring new plates. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Tinder Messaging HelpBasically, just dont say "hey". Move on to whatever you feel like saying after "Hey". Assume "Hey" is imied at the before your message. She's got 137 other messages from other guys. Half start with "Hey", and the others atart with "You're so beautiful". | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 03:54 AM |
| 90 | Plate has boyfriend - how to handle?You're responses have been fine. It's your line of thinking that you put here that tells me you likely think of her as more than just a plate. If she's a plate, it's expected that she break at some point. Stop talking to her if she's not trying to see you, or else you'll be placed in the orbiter category. If you're right about the BF, then she'll either come back to you, or she won't. Don't go chasing after her. Pursue other women. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 03:51 AM |
| 8 | Addressing the half-assed responses in this subThis, but also most of the time when we have oneitis, we're the last to know because the easiest person to fool is ourselves. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Resources for Learning a New LanguageSorry about finally getting this answer out so late. Had a lot more on my plate than I thought today. I want to preface this by being upfront. I am not some hyperpolyglot that has spent the last 8 years learning a new language every year or anything. I only currently speak English (native language) and Spanish (second language) and am about to start my journey of learning Japanese. That being said, I will mention some of these polyglots who have useful information on their sites. However, unlike… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 04:43 AM |
| 4 | Resources for Learning a New LanguageBoy do I have some answers for you since language learning is a passion of mine. Unfortunately I'm juat about to head back to work. I'll sit down and write a proper response later today. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Does putting on muscle really that make that much of a difference when it comes to attraction?Yes | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Handling shit tests via text?You might ask yourself why you're in a LTR where you are separated from 5 weeks at a time. Maybe just demote her to FWB or plate and spin more of them. There's really no reason to be in a LDR. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 06:25 PM |
| 3 | What does it mean when a girl does all this ?Why are you concerning yourself with this one chick? So she changed. I'm sure you've changed, especially since find TRP. She's probably just riding the carousel. Don't worry about burning the bridge with her. You should be focusing on you and spinning plates, not fixating on one chick. Maybe try to plate her, but stop fixating. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Handling shit tests via text?Your strategy is correct. If she wants comfort, make sure it's when she's with you in person. Otherwise you're doing the same thing her beta orbiters do, texting her for her validation and comfort. Don't text except for logisticical things like where you're going for dinner or something. If she really is seeking comfort, only give it in person or ver rarely over text. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Depression and suicidal thoughtsLike I said, since nothing is interesting you, it doesn't matter what you try. Just try something. Get into photography, running, (you should already be lifting), ultimate Frisbee, basket weaving, etc. Since nothing sparks your interest, look up a list of hobbies (preferably masculine) and start checking them off the list. You will eventually find something that you like or are good at. Some of my current endeavors/hobbies outside of work and school are powerlifting, running, longboarding, readi… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Trying to turn a friend into a plate, made a bold move but at a stalemate. Need some advice?That's what we're here for. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Depression and suicidal thoughtsSince VickVaseline already addressed the suicidal thoughts, I'll focus on the others. Start trying things. Get good at something, and people in that social circle will want to spend time with you. You will make friends. Also, if you don't know what you do want to do, at least stop doing what you hate. Hate your major? Change it. Hate not having cash? Get job, even if it's only part time. Pick up hobbies and see if you like them. Through making these changes in your life, your circumstances and o… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 09:55 PM |
| 4 | What was attractive about this?Np. Hopefully it helps you in a future holiday or endeavor. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps rescheduling on me. Do I just soft next?If she is offering to reschedule, she is interested. Setup another date. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend cheated, what do I do?Drop her. Never speak to her again. Never give a woman closure. It's just a way they can "break up with you" in their mind. Taking her back made you lose frame. Even if you did stay with her, you've shown her that she can do you wrong and suffer no real consequences. She will never truly respect you. You should have more respect for yourself. Also, the throwing things at you for breaking up with her for cheating is a red flag. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 09:37 PM |
| 6 | What was attractive about this?First things first, you're different, novel to them. Women are curious creatures. Second, you were social with a group of random strangers with which shows confidence. Third, and least apparent, you were unable to talk to them much due to the language barrier. This does 2 things. 1. You can't step on your own dick (as Rian Stone would say) by saying something to turn them off or fail many tests. 2. Since their options for testing you and therefore disqualifying you were limited, it left their ha… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Trying to turn a friend into a plate, made a bold move but at a stalemate. Need some advice?Create an opportunity for something to "just happen" as women like to put it. Hang out in some fashion, preferably at or near your place, but make sure there's plausible deniability for her. She won't want to seem like a slut in your guys' social circle. Then implement what game you have. If she turns you down, she's likely not interested. In which case, soft next her and focus on aquiring other plates. If she comes around, cool, if not cool. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | New Years ResolutionsIt can be, but for the large number of people who have made and failed to keep multiple New Year's Resolutions, it is nothing more than a sentiment. The most important part of the New Year's Resolutions is the "Resolutions" part. The "New Years" part should not be the focus of the equation is what I am saying. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 09:14 PM |
| 4 | How would you feel if a close male friend started dating your ex?She was never yours, it was just your turn. They belong to the game. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 06:58 PM |
| 3 | New Years ResolutionsI don't really believe in New Year's Resolutions. It always made more sense to just resolve to do something and set a start date. If that happens to be Jan 1st, fine. Ranting aside I have resolved to read (or re-read) 1 book per month in addition to the other things I currently have in the works. It is not enough for me to just say "I'm reading 1 book per month this year". I have made my list of books I intend to read. I only have 10 so far, but the other 2 will likely come to me before November… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice on a LTRYou're not in a LTR. You're pen pals that meet to bang on an annual basis. You clearly have oneitis for this girl. Best course of action is to shift your focus from her to yourself and spin more plates. Don't worry so much about her. If you are going to have an LTR, it should be something that she earns. Going into it with the mindset of "I want to make her my LTR" was your first mistake. Women should have to rise through the ranks to be your LTR. Don't give them the keys to your exclusivity if … | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 03:13 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants me to delete pictures of me and other girls on my InstagramThis | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 05:45 PM |
| 5 | Girl does not start the talk and new plate appears, please adviseSpin 18F. If 26F doesn't bring up LTR, you were never considered. If she does, then you have a decision. Keep in mind that since 26F hasn't explicitly stated exclusivity, she is likely spinning others and/or at least entertaining orbiters. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Girl is super into me but says another guys name?This chick should not be promoted from plate. Plain and simple. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Giving her plausible deniability?I have used my Switch as plausible deniability before. I have definitely been overthinking this. Thanks guys. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Plate still texting her exTreat her like a plate if she's a plate. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Is a common thing to have envy for a good looking guy?Yes | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 02:51 AM |
| 1 | 100 day journal for better communication.Self improvement is a process, not a switch. Somethings will come easier than others, and will vary person to person and even day by day. As long as there's an upward trend in the long term, you're doing fine. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 02:49 AM |
| 1 | 100 day journal for better communication.I've heard of people using videos of people looking into the camera to practice eye contact, though I don't know if it's effective. For me, I jist got tired of being uncomfortable looking people in the eyes and afraid to make others uncomfortable by looking them in the eyes. I decided that I had to become comfortable making others uncomfortable. When you look someone in the eyes that is confident and maintains eye contact with you (man or woman) don't just look away. Looking at just one of their… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Should I be having sex at my age?I would still recommend gaming women in your free time. 1. You will improve your game. 2. It could lead to sex. Just make sure you're always putting yourself and your goals 1st. Don't make any of these women your focus, or you're doomed to fail. If logistics don't work out, oh well. Don't move your schedule of self improvement to accommodate her. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 12:58 AM |
| 0 | Should I be having sex at my age?Work on yourself first, get yourself in a stable spot. Don't try to get a girlfriend so soon. One of Rollo's Iron Rules is that the sex is never worth the wait. Also, wear a condom, ALWAYS. Don't trust her if she says she's on the pill. Don't give her that power over you. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Was it LMR or rejection? What next step to take?Something small, but worth noting. Don't make anything seem like a request as you're about to kiss her. Always at least go for the K close on a date. If that doesn't happen, I usually soft next them (stop contacting, but allow them to contact back). Focus your efforts on aquiring more women.** Learn from this one and apply to the next.** | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Should I be having sex at my age?I didn't lose my v card til I was 20, though I could have lost it at 17 with my 1st gf. My BP conditioning was very strong back then. However, I realized a few things once I finally had sex. 1. It's good, but it's not everything. Don't make it your #1 priority. 2. Don't let yourself get into your own head about the subject of sex. I recommend you work on yourself for a bit. To ease your mind about sex, read the Sex God Method. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 12:21 AM |
| 1 | What kind of workout allows you to do rets until failing? And what benefit does that have? How do you organize that workout and know all the things you’re supposed to do on this or that day?You may want to read the book too. I think you might find some great info there that will help you. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 10:49 PM |
| 1 | What kind of workout allows you to do rets until failing? And what benefit does that have? How do you organize that workout and know all the things you’re supposed to do on this or that day?More failure sets equals less total sets you can do, and therefore total volume. In the long run, its a bad idea. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 08:16 PM |
| 1 | What kind of workout allows you to do rets until failing? And what benefit does that have? How do you organize that workout and know all the things you’re supposed to do on this or that day?If you're serious about learning how to program for yourself, get the Scientific Principles of Strength Training ebook. It was written by the JTTS/RP guys, and they make it very digestible. You can't read all of it and not know how to write a solid program after. Edit: Also, going to failure often is stupid. Anything works of you're on steroids like Arnold was. I trained to failure for 2 years and had very modest gains to show for it. I stopped doing that and my lifts have been moving quite well… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 08:13 PM |
| 6 | Girl is intimidated by meMove straight to logistics. Less texting equals less opportunities to mess it up. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 08:10 PM |
| 4 | LTR is that comfort test cuz it's annoying.Don't answer questions like that in the first place. If women are fishing for compliments like that, ignore them. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Might have gotten bipolar crazy girl pregnant please help ready to end it?Honestly, if she's pregnant, she's pregnant already. I have no idea about yours or her stance on abortion, ro whether pr not isn't legal in your state. The pregnancy test would likely only serve to confirm suspicion a few weeks early. If she's playing games, don't give in to them. Stop contacting her. It's also possible she might have sex with someone else, so if she does grt pregnant and have a baby, and claims it's yours, make sure you have a dna test done. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Recurring problem on setting up datesBe attractive. 2. Don't be ugly. There are several Ti der guides to help on the main sub if you're profile is what's lacking. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Might have gotten bipolar crazy girl pregnant please help ready to end it?First off, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem and the most cowardly option in any situation. Just don't. Also, don't stress yourself over what you have no control over. You've done all you can up to thos point. Continue on with your life. It doesn't matter if she starts taking birth control, because she's already shown signs that you shouldn't have sex with her ever again. As for the Plan B, assume it worked until you have evidence it didn't | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 12:56 AM |
| 3 | Afroid of missing out on doing something "meaningful" in my healthy yearsPick something to become good at. In regards to your youth specifically, pick a hobby that demands physicality beyond just lifting. Something that allows you to express athleticism in some way will likely be highly fulfilling. Exapnles would be: Ultimate Frisbee, longboarding/skateboarding, powerlifting/weightlifting (the sports, which you have a head stsrt by lifting) running, and paintball are some examples. Getting good at one of these things will also have the bonus of providing higher SMV i… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 12:31 AM |
| 1 | So how does trp feel about paying for dates?I usually do something free like longboarding for the first date. If I pay for anything on the date, it is likely only something small like a coffee. If you get dinner, don't pay. If the date went well, then it will tell you what she was looking for from you whether or not she is up for a second date. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 12:02 AM |
| 1 | What to say?This isn't real a solution for you short term problem most likely, but some food for thought about future situations. One thing to avoid this in the future, is to pick up a hobby that allows for you to include her. For example, I got into longboarding recently. I enjoy it as a chill way to get out and do something physical. This also works great for dates, as it allows for some early kino (teaching them how to ride) as well as giving them something novel to do, rather than boring dinner. Also, y… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 11:59 PM |
| 4 | How to best approach other guys trying to start shit?What you did was right. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 11:54 PM |
| 6 | Recurring problem on setting up datesWomen flake/ all the time, and it can be for many different reasons. Some may flake/ghost because someone more Chad hit them up. Some may flake/ghost because they don't think you will like them. Some may flake/ghost because they got back with their ex, or because they decided after setting the date that they weren't that attracted to you. Hell, I've unmatched or ghosted women after setting dates because I realized after further review of their pics that they're fatter than they try to portray or… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Girl from tinder I keep on talking on who’s pretty cute sent me selfie video out of the blueMan, that sucks. First and foremost, continue gaming other chicks. If you become her pen pal, you'll most likely be relegated to orbiter status. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Me being an initiator among my friends...Man, it really depends on the relationship. One of my best friends and I live at the same apartment complex, and still he and I rarely speak. Maybe once a month or so. We're there for each other when some major stuff goes down, but otherwise we hang in short bursts with almost no contact for sometimes months at a time. OTH, if you feel like your time being spent together is you being used for free drinks, nothing better to do, etc just start hanging out with other freinds more, and let him initi… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Girl from tinder I keep on talking on who’s pretty cute sent me selfie video out of the blueIf you've already made plans to hang out, don't say anything. It's her trying to bait you into giving her more validation by messaging. If you haven't already made plans to meet, why not? In this case, only take care of the logistics, and maybe add the line about telling her to look good. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 09:39 PM |
| 5 | Now GF had a thing while we apart but lied about it when I askedIf she lied abiut that, she's not GF material. Next her. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 09:24 PM |
| 4 | About to lose virginity, wrap up?Straight from Tomassi's book Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 Never allow a woman to be in control of the birth. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 11:48 AM |
| 1 | How has Red Pill helped you this year?I found TRP at the very end of a trip I took for S&Gs to NYC back in August this year. I immediately wished that I had found it before the trip, as it would have been prime grounds for me to begin implementing aspects of game. I have already been lifting and working on myself for a while so I had that covered, and I read Corey Wayne's book a couple years ago, but never took game seriously enough. However, TRP has made a huge impact in my life in these past 4 months and I couldn't possibly begin … | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | The Importance of Short Term MGTOW (A Personal Observation)I believe you're referring to "monk mode". But yes, it has it's benefits. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/18 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Gaming without alcoholGood kino opportunities with longboarding too. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 06:41 PM |
| 1 | How to prevent Tinder flakes?Where are these rules? | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 01:11 PM |
| 1 | How to prevent Tinder flakes?Where are these rules? | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 01:11 PM |
| 1 | How to prevent Tinder flakes?I see what you mean. However, I don't really know what else to say without coming off as beta texting to confirm. Also, I've had flakes with chicks that I talked to about it earlier that day on the day of. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 11:45 PM |
| -1 | How to prevent Tinder flakes?I've got 2 of me lifting on there, deadlift and a shirtless squat pic. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Girl I'm seeing found TRP posts in my reddit history and I think it killed my chances with her. How do I recover?Then out of nowhere she also asked if I voted for Trump (which I did). I told her I didn't because she's super liberal and I knew that would kill any chances I had with her. Don't ever lie to agree with a woman. That's beta. Here, you should have stuck to your guns and told the truth. Never let the pussy sway you. You're supposed to have a rock solid frame. "I guess you're just a beta cuck now" You should have told her to kick rocks at this point. By her calling you that and you just taking it, … | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Why you shouldn’t be afraid of the friendzoneI can tell you from experience, that you can (and should) cut off all communication with her unless you're doing the dirty. Otherwise she's still getting the validation of your attention without giving you anything. I quit giving a girl attention back in my BP days, but only because I wanted nothing to do with her. A few years later she hit me up, we banged, and I went back to texting her. She then promptly dropped me. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/18 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Plate with held sexThere is a post HumanSockPuppet made that covers managing your women. If she's a plate, don't mess with her u less you're having sex. If she's a FWB, you can still hang out without having sex. Honestly, look up the post. I coyld have butchered it. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Can someone explain and dissect this Instagram video?I do too, but realizing this means that I have to catch myself if I start trying to hamster because of my preference for them (or asians). | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 09:28 AM |
| 17 | Girl cancelled plansThe general rule for a cancel is: If she offers to reschedule, she's into you and her reason is legit. If she only cancels, say "Ok", and soft next. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 09:23 AM |
| 4 | Potential LTR gave off major red flagShe's obviously not LTR material if she is in a relationship but seeing you. If you're seeing her and screening her for a LTR, she has failed by cheating on her current one with you. Keep her as a plate if you want, but it seems like you are starting to develop oneitis. Be honest with yourself. If you are developing oneitis, hard next her. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 09:18 AM |
| 1 | To all the young guys out there.I'm obviously biased, but basically what I'm saying is just because the military is always an option for younger giys like us, doesn't mean that it's ever the best option. Then again, neither is inaction. No one can give you everything you need. You're gonna have to go out and take it, and "it" will likely come from many different sources in life. I'll leave you with my favorite Bruce Lee quote that guides the way I view everything. "Absorb what is useful, discard what is useless and add what is… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/18 10:36 PM |
| 5 | To all the young guys out there.Most all "4 year" contracts are really 8. I'd recommend trying to aquire skills on your own with which to make money i.e plumber, electrician, sales. Don't count on something else to do it for you. You get out of life what you put into it. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/18 07:32 AM |
| 7 | To all the young guys out there.Regarding the recommendation to join the military to man you up, I disagree. It is up to you as a man to man yourself up. I just finished my 1st and only contract in the Army. I'm turning 24 this month, and many "men" I knew, both younger and older, many were still children. The military should only be viewd as a career if you've thoroughly looked into it and decide that's what you want to do. My first contract was 8 years, and technically, I have 2 years left, they just don't require anything f… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/18 09:52 PM |
| 1 | She's just your Girlfriend, she's not your Siamese twin. She's not your partner on a mission to Mars. She doesn't control your oxygen supply. (How to do a LTR.)I think this is side bar material. Not simply because it is good, but because even after reading the side bar, this post is extremely helpful in terms of LTRs. While the points mentioned in this post were pretty close to what I intended to do IF I ever get into another LTR, this post made me much less unsure about how to handle a LTR differently than being single (which is not much). Also, it would be a great post to revisit for recalibration for those who get into LTRs and find themselves start… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/18 11:43 AM |
| 4 | A plate just messaged me"don't you have other girls to mess with?"Nope. Logistics only | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 09:21 PM |
| 2 | A plate just messaged me"don't you have other girls to mess with?"An hour before I'm supposed to pick her up. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 09:19 PM |
| 2 | A Clarification on Rule 6: No examples from fiction or lyrics.I second the recommendation for Californication. I first started reading RP a month ago and saw another recommendation for Californication on another thread 2 weeks ago. I went into watching it with a fair understanding of RP principles (devoured RP sidebar, RP guidebook, Rstional Male, and many more posts as well as having read 3% Man 4 times before finding TRP), and in the 1st few seasons, Hank Moody does serve as a valuable template. Thanks in part to me (occasionally) asking myself "WWHMD?",… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/18 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Game PrinciplesThanks for the recommendations, I'll definitely get started. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 11:09 PM |
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