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throwhawayyyy/r/askTRP07/08/20 10:32 PM
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yes, it’s better to polarize right away. you’re not escalating enough on the date. you should be doing kino and always teasing/flirting. always go for the kiss during the date. you might be able to turn this into a fwb, just escalate the next time you both meet and make sure to go for the kiss
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:37 AM
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stop texting and set up a date. you said you got her number so send a text saying hey, then invite her out. “hey it’s x, i’m going to grab drinks/coffee this y, come join me” when you’re on the date, once you’ve gotten drinks or coffee, you can just suggest drinking the coffee while watching a show back at your place or her place. in your case you can say “is your place free? let’s go watch a show” when you’re at her place just escalate during the show then go for make out and escalate more. if …
/r/newTRP19/12/21 12:50 AM
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if she comes around then good, otherwise you date other women. let her message you first
/r/seduction27/07/21 02:02 AM
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that’s awesome. and exactly, i’d say it comes off a bit too strong if you message her before she’s ready. let her come around and make her wonder what you’ve been up to so you can catch up when you meet haha
/r/seduction17/07/21 03:31 AM
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if you’re still new to dating then i’d suggest casually dating multiple women. you’re having these feelings because you’ve met someone that reciprocated. you need abundance, keep in touch with her though and give her a bit of space
/r/seduction17/07/21 03:10 AM
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yep, make sure you touch her playfully throughout the date OP. go for the kiss when you’re comfortable
/r/seduction11/07/21 02:55 AM
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most cars have tinted back windows. it can also be roomier if you have a van, and further away from the windshield so it’s harder for people to see in
/r/askTRP07/06/21 01:55 PM
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i’ve been on car dates and this is how you should escalate. start the date off by giving her a hug. talk and make sure to touch her arm or push her away jokingly occasionally. escalate to resting your hand on her thigh for a few seconds while making a point, then remove it. make sure to not look at your touches, you should be making eye contact with her. eventually you just go in for the make out, start moving your hands across her body, tell her lets go to the back seat and escalate more. if yo…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:27 PM
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bring up something that came up in your conversation. for example if you mentioned that you play guitar on the date, you can say “let’s go back to my place, i’ll show you a few guitar riffs i’ve been working on”
/r/askTRP06/06/21 03:23 PM
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this. also i’d say one is enough, make sure it’s not a selfie. get your friend to take one of you at the beach
/r/askTRP06/06/21 03:19 PM
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lmao got it. no girl has said this before because it’s mostly implied we’ll do something small before we chill in the car.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:43 AM
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i’ve had food dates before, it’s just that none of the girls said they don’t want to stay in the car the whole time. also neither of our houses are free, so escalation has to happen in the car which is why i’m asking
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:41 AM
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why do you see her as ltr material? if she’s texting other guys then keep spinning her as a plate. also don’t explain (DEER), instead make a mental note and maybe soft next if you find it disrespectful. it kind of sounds butt hurt when you’re explaining it and giving examples of the scenario
/r/askTRP13/04/21 04:50 PM
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i would discourage asking about it. the most important thing is to own your kinks and fantasies. this website is also fun to use to see what kinks you have in common https://mojoupgrade.com something you can try is when you’re both getting in the mood lead her to what you want to do, such as for anal you would start rubbing around her ass. if you have a foot fetish then grab her feet and tell her to give u a footjob, etc
/r/askTRP12/04/21 02:55 AM
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the “ho” part might be too much, but sounds like a decent caption. you could also do something like “drinks on me next time 😉“. just make sure you have other girls or group photos on your profile so you can pull this off
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:26 AM
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not post them often/multiple times. don’t have a picture of you two seeming like a couple (restaurant pics). if you’re going to post plates on ig then make sure you post pics with other girls too so ppl don’t think you’re in an ltr. just post pics of you two doing a fun activity
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:57 AM
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if you’re tall put your height in your bio
/r/askTRP06/04/21 12:46 AM
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you gotta balance out being alpha/beta in a relationship. give a bit of comfort once in a while, but only when she deserves it.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 10:38 PM
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you have to be kidding if you think she’s smashing all the chads liking her picture. instagram isn’t that deep, everyone likes everyone’s pictures if you got mutuals
/r/askTRP04/04/21 07:10 PM
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who the fuck cares who likes her picture? they’re probably college/university mates from the campus. i’ve seen average guys or girls get liked by hot ones just because they know of each other, it’s not that deep look at her pics with other guys, just regular dudes.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 06:46 PM
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i’ve never really heard about this, as long as your back is neutral and your core is braced you should be fine dude
/r/askTRP03/04/21 03:54 PM
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yep, OP can pull better. in that situation he played it right by not reacting, just keep a mental note about her actions.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 03:51 PM
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what do you mean tightening lower back? you should aim to brace the core (pushing outwards against your abs like you’re preparing for a punch). your back should be straight
/r/askTRP03/04/21 03:47 PM
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to test your frame. they want to see if you’re overly invested in them.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:43 PM
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this make sense for ons, but for dates where it ends in a make out i still have to get a second date before it can get to sex
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:35 PM
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already do for hookups lmao
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:34 PM
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damn bro, if you keep texting plutonic, you’ll turn into an orbiter. ps: it’s platonic
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:23 PM
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no, don’t reach out. i was in a similar relationship and broke up, it was hard and the good memories invade your mind sometimes. but realize that this happens with mostly anyone when you form a bond and have no abundance. cut off all contact, delete pictures, and do your own thing, it’ll definitely take a few months but you’ll get over her
/r/askTRP28/03/21 07:07 PM
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you’re only 4 months into the relationship and already had doubts. this should be the last straw for you. drop her and game better women
/r/askTRP28/03/21 07:02 PM
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wouldn’t even recommend dread at this point. op should not consider proposing because he knows what’s about to come, it’s way easier to start fresh than try to salvage a 5 year relationship by introducing dread
/r/askTRP27/03/21 03:14 PM
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specifically which natural instincts are you taking about? i’ve always thought of natural male instincts to be primal and actually help when escalating (for example with kino)
/r/askTRP26/03/21 07:06 PM
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yep, keep 1 and 3. also add a group pic of you and a group of friends doing a fun activity smiling, you seem serious on all these pics so it’ll show that you’re a social guy. make sure your friend group has people of the race you want to attract, to act as social proof.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:06 PM
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she wanted anal?
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:01 PM
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lmfao op, it’s gonna be hard during covid but it’s a test of strength to see if you can hold your frame even during these tough times
/r/askTRP26/03/21 06:46 AM
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the same concept applies. don’t entertain this behaviour, withdraw all attention if it happens
/r/askTRP26/03/21 06:03 AM
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jesus christ dude, you broke frame multiple times. first why would you wait there at her beck and call from 10 to 12? and if she flakes don’t even say anything, just go back home do something fun. ghost her for a couple of days because you don’t condone that behaviour and you have better things to do. if you really want to you can set up one last date in a week or two, but if she ends up flaking just ghost her fully. only reply if she hits you up first from thereafter, and tell her to come over …
/r/askTRP26/03/21 05:59 AM
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exactly this, when you’re escalating just go down on her
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:49 AM
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no, don’t ever overtly say anything sexual. you can flirt and make sexual jokes from time to time. you’ll come off as creepy if you’re not confident in your approach, talk to her and flirt and especially kino which makes your intentions clear. for the first few approaches you can also try direct, which is saying “hi i saw you from across the room and i thought you were cute so i came to say hi”. this way your intentions are known from the beginning
/r/seduction25/03/21 05:29 PM
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no, it seems fine. you’re most likely getting stared down because of your posture/body language. stand up straight, look everyone in the eyes when walking by them. walk slower than usual not fast and nervous
/r/seduction25/03/21 05:27 PM
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you seem to be skinny fat or it could be anterior pelvic tilt. right now focus on putting on more muscle instead of getting rid of the fat. eat a caloric surplus which is 300-500 calories above maintenance, and lift consistently
/r/seduction25/03/21 05:16 PM
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thrill of the hunt
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:02 PM
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this happened to me as well during my LTR, but not as overtly. “i was just doing this to make you jealous...”, DONT fall for this trap. her: “he’s taller than you” you: “ask him if he can reach the top shelf for me” or just smile and don’t acknowledge it. keep doing what you’re doing but don’t show weakness with these tests
/r/askTRP25/03/21 02:58 PM
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AWALT bro, you have to change your thinking about this. right now you think a relationship is fair and you can make her your emotional tampon. but you need to think of yourself as the rock/oak tree which is solid. also no one said you can’t say “i miss you” either. just do it in an LTR and not to plates, but only when SHE has said it first in the relationship, same goes for “i love you”. this girl sounds like she had red flags, don’t worry about it.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 11:42 PM
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this. talk is cheap, don’t mention your value to her. also no one likes the current state of things, i’m sure she’d rather have you + be out of quarantine over have you + be in quarantine. don’t let your ego take a hit because of what she said, it most likely didn’t have anything to do with you
/r/askTRP24/03/21 11:33 PM
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who says you can’t show weakness or emotion, you have guy friends and your mom with whom you can do all of this. just hold frame in an LTR
/r/askTRP24/03/21 11:31 PM
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yes, you don’t need to refrain from having sex with random girls. neither you or your future ltr need to reveal your true body count, there’s advice on here given to estimate that without asking
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:35 PM
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why’s that?
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:26 PM
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you should read the rational male. “NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. The single most disastrous AFC move a man can make is to OVERTLY describe past sexual experiences and/or give a number (accurate or not) to how many women he’s been with prior to the one he’s with. This simple act, whether you offered the information or she dragged it out of you, ALWAYS …
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:22 PM
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block her on everything and never get into contact again. then lift and game other girls
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:16 PM
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no you shouldn’t be revealing your body count anyway. always agree and amplify or the opposite “how many women have you slept with” “like 10,000” or “i’m a virgin” (use this if she knows you’re obviously not)
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:14 PM
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it all boils down to would you rather be a man or woman? it may seems easier to be a woman, but that’s because you want sex and it appears easy for them to get. but remember that as a woman in her 30s she’s going to have to settle with a beta because alphas won’t LTR her, either that or she will be too hesitant on LTRing an alpha because he can get better options. you can get the best of both worlds
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:24 PM
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you’ve taken a lot of steps to better yourself and they’re working. don’t worry about grinding too much because you’re doing something productive rather than stay in your room and jerk off all day. you’re 17 dude, you’re still young. you have imposter syndrome because of what happened in your past. keep your good habits going while adding another one: to improve yourself mentally. to do this, cut off those people who talk negatively and read books. join some clubs where you can interact with peo…
/r/askTRP23/03/21 12:12 AM
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if she’s good say it, if she’s not just give constructive criticism. “use more spit” if she does something you don’t like, don’t say “don’t use teeth”. say “ah, your tooth scraped me” with a little recoil. this way she doesn’t think she’s been doing it wrong the whole time, while also actively trying to avoid doing that in the future. this way she improves and doesn’t get discouraged
/r/askTRP22/03/21 11:14 PM
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“I said i’m trying to fuck you but it killed the attraction” that was a good response but make sure you deliver that confidently with a smirk. it seems that she’s just wasting time, as the other comment said i’d try one last time if she hits you up, and tell her to wear something sexy. if you don’t fuck that night then next her
/r/askTRP22/03/21 08:19 PM
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did you escalate the first two dates? on the first date you should at least try to go for the kiss, then second date f close.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 12:13 AM
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probably isn’t even worthy of a lol. just leave her on read
/r/askTRP21/03/21 10:18 PM
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that means she doesn’t want to commit to a relationship. if you’re on tinder i’m assuming you’re also looking for something casual. have you fucked her yet? if so then keep her as a plate
/r/askTRP21/03/21 09:37 PM
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you can sense it. when you’re talking to her and touching her then it comes to a silence after you both laugh at a joke or something just go for it
/r/askTRP21/03/21 07:39 PM
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just avoid saying you had fun, say something like “i’ll see you later”. the more important question is why are you hanging out when you’re not having fun?
/r/askTRP21/03/21 03:03 PM
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is she’s your business partner? who cares if she’s not independent lmfao, just fuck her if you’re attracted to her
/r/askTRP21/03/21 02:48 PM
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yeah if you consider a 35 year old going for an 18 year old then of course they’ll say that. but anything above early twenties and it’s normal in this society. a males peak is around 30 so it makes sense women are attracted. they are at their most masculine because early twenty males still have some adolescent traits while 30s you’re stable
/r/askTRP20/03/21 09:16 PM
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lol what? are you saying you can only marry a girl the same age as you when you’re 30? a 30-35 year old guy can get a 20-25 year old girl
/r/askTRP20/03/21 08:26 PM
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also think about it this way, girls typically date guys taller than them. girls that are 5’4 have a lot of options from guys ranging from 5’6+, but a 5’10 girl has to look for 5’11+ guys, which is a very small percentile compared to the former.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:40 PM
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not even an ex, he never fucked her. op just pay no mind to it, it’s irrelevant
/r/askTRP20/03/21 06:59 PM
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yep. i’ve had instances where girls just lose interest because they assume you’re taken. best to make them think you and the girl are just fwb or something. this way you can demonstrate high value and also not close any doors
/r/askTRP20/03/21 05:48 PM
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if you’re going to include pics with your plate then make sure you’re doing a fun activity and also have other pics on your page with other girls so it doesn’t look like you’re in a relationship. have pics with guy friends too or it’ll seem like you’re trying to show off
/r/askTRP20/03/21 04:59 PM
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do literally any beginner program, starting strength, stronglifts. the important thing is consistency and eating. you don’t need to track calories but try get 3 full meals a day and not miss a day of your workout
/r/askTRP20/03/21 03:25 PM
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lmao, good stuff my man. thanks again. been trying to get quick on my feet with responses in online dating, but never really had one like this where the girl overtly asks me to entertain her.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:36 AM
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that makes sense thanks. and i thought of my initial message as qualifying HER just a bit, because she was the one with the joke and i was the one approving of it and saying “we can get along” if she enjoys dad jokes. what do you think i can reply to her message of “ok tell me a joke”, i think replying with an actual joke would put me in her frame, how do i come back from it
/r/askTRP20/03/21 06:56 AM
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you’re still young man, don’t worry. it’s most likely performance anxiety. what i suggest is focus on your own pleasure during it don’t worry about anything else, and live in the moment. keep at it
/r/askTRP20/03/21 02:57 AM
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don’t take it too seriously, she’s just bantering. you’re not officially exclusive yet so you are friends, whether that be with benefits or not. just try to meet up and escalate
/r/seduction19/03/21 09:39 PM
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read my previous comment again and the reply. “treadmill helps burn calories, but if you eat in COMPENSATION for that, then it won’t matter”. meaning if you run on the treadmill burning x amount of calories, then you eat that much again because your body feels hungry, you won’t lose anything. your body naturally leans to equilibrium meaning if you are low on calories you will want to eat more to reach equilibrium. if you TDEE is 2000 and you burn 600 on the treadmill then you will lose weight, g…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 06:38 PM
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there’s 2 things to consider: have you had an abundance of women before and feel like you’ve experienced it all? if not then you may regret it later when you can’t get more women since you’re tied down are you considering marriage because SHE wants to, or you genuinely want to? it should only be for the second reason. don’t let her sway your opinion
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:25 PM
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planning/agreeing to drinks, asking you to come over, “i had fun last night” texts
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:21 PM
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the only thing that matters for losing fat is a caloric deficit. treadmill helps burn calories, but if you eat in compensation for that, then it won’t matter. you can eat as healthy as you want but still gain weight, or vice versa. track your calories and eat under maintenance.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:52 PM
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true, but from the sound of it i would tell op to avoid her and ghost at all costs because making her a plate would probably result in him catching feelings again. game other girls OP
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:43 PM
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this. don’t take it as a loss, if anything you saved your time rather than chasing her more and wasting time.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:40 PM
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not necessarily. with this ideology you’re treating cold approaching like tinder, where your appearance is the only thing that makes her give signals. if your frame is on point and you’re a confident and masculine guy, then approaching without looking for choosing signals would be good.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:38 AM
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don’t overthink it, theres no set schedule. just try in general to send less texts than her. for example for every one or two texts she sends you can send one back.
/r/seduction18/03/21 11:53 PM
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just keep fucking her, don’t bring up exclusivity again. you shouldn’t have ignored her at the party. not saying to give all your attention to her, but at least give a quick hi like how you would to your other friends
/r/askTRP18/03/21 11:48 PM
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don’t take it personally dude, it’s covid and everyone’s on dating apps. 90% are men, and the women have free attention during quarantine, and flaking rates are high
/r/askTRP17/03/21 08:44 PM
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in the future you should be making the plans during the approach then get the number to follow up. you: “i gotta go, but let’s grab a coffee sometime next week” her: “okay” you: “cool. give me your number i’ll hit you up with the details” in your case you can just text her saying you’re so and so, and it was fun chatting. when she replies set something up
/r/askTRP17/03/21 08:42 PM
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“let’s see” girls are the worst. don’t invest too much time. let her msg you about friday, if it doesn’t work try hitting her up one last time, if she flakes then just next her.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 08:24 PM
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remember they’re a business. and as all businesses do, they would drop you in a heartbeat if it’s best for their business. keeping this in mind you have to make your decision based on your own future.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 10:36 PM
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don’t go every day. personally during university i tried to do PPL which is 6x a week, this resulting in me missing a day or two per week due to the workload. i switched to a 3 day program instead and it was great. remember that consistency is key. with a 3 day program you’ll crave the gym and want to go on your rest days but you have to have restraint.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 07:03 PM
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since you’re planning to leave your job just give it a shot. tell her about some plans after work and ask her to join in
/r/askTRP16/03/21 06:56 PM
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what the fuck are you saying lmfao. just send a few messages and change the convo to another place like text or a social media
/r/askTRP15/03/21 03:25 AM
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this. fuck in a building bathroom, abandoned stairwell, in the woods, car. wherever gives you a thrill and rush. once you start getting into a routine it declines.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 06:01 PM
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you should put your pleasure first, if eating pussy/making her squirm is something you like, then go for it. i like eating pussy so i do it
/r/askTRP14/03/21 05:59 PM
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nothing is wrong with escalating, you just need to read her body language. is she receptive when you kino? then go another step further if she closes herself off when you touch her, then take a step back kino wise. for example if she’s receptive to arm touches but goes cold when you touch her leg, go back to arm touches. you can retry in a few minutes but if she goes cold again then best to save that for another date. i would personally have a second date if she’s at least a bit receptive, other…
/r/askTRP14/03/21 03:43 PM
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“come over, you can take some yourself” idk how much rapport you’ve built but if that comes off to strong say something similar which suggests a date
/r/askTRP14/03/21 06:40 AM
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you’re only going to make it worse by talking to her. game other women, if this one comes around then ok, otherwise move on
/r/askTRP13/03/21 08:06 PM
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find new girls
/r/askTRP13/03/21 07:42 PM
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cry in front of your mom. cry in front of your male friends. in your ltr you have to be her rock. how will a woman trust you with her emotions when you can’t handle your own?
/r/askTRP13/03/21 06:55 PM
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who cares are you going to unfuck her?
/r/askTRP12/03/21 10:27 PM
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first of all this post didn’t need to be this long. second, why would you buy her gifts before getting sexual with her. you are going to catch oneitis if you don’t make a move soon. go on the date, kino, kiss and escalate back to her place. don’t rely on her, if it works it works otherwise game other women
/r/askTRP12/03/21 05:28 PM
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talk is cheap. let your actions show it
/r/askTRP12/03/21 05:01 PM
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reject her. i’m saying this because most people fuck it up by catching feelings even though they think otherwise. leave her in the past and game better girls.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 03:22 PM
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Uncle Vasya’s Guide to Submissive Women Of Human Bondage – Uncle Vasya’s Guide for Men Who Like To Tie Up Young Ladies.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 03:20 PM
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listen to this OP, they crave closure or drama. whatever you plan on doing will give her something to talk about and create more drama. what better thing to do than “i’m breaking up with you”, then ghost her forever. “The opposite of love is not hate; it's indifference. “
/r/askTRP12/03/21 03:06 PM
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go for it dude, i did anal raw with my ex. just use a lot of lube and make sure to hop in the shower with her before you try it.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 07:04 PM
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last part is especially true. todays society has taught people to “try and make it work”, mostly causing men to sacrifice their needs and compromise to stay in the relationship. there are billions of girls out there, find out that doesn’t have you wasting time thinking if she’s out there fucking another guy
/r/askTRP10/03/21 05:55 AM
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nice trolling, buddy. op should be learning about abundance not “hold onto this woman, good ones are rare to find”
/r/askTRP09/03/21 11:26 PM
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lmao who gives a fuck what girls say, take everything with a grain of salt. you’re doing fine, keep at it and try to escalate
/r/askTRP09/03/21 11:22 PM
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just saw your post history about ltr clubbing and having cheated in the past. as a guy who broke up with his ltr around a year ago (she also went to clubs), take it from me when i say if the relationship is causing you to overthink frequently then it’s time to end it.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 11:18 PM
8

the fuck? she’s going out with her girl friends (most likely single) to a bunch of guys to drink at their house? you did good by not giving it attention over text, but if she ends up going, she won’t be my gf anymore
/r/askTRP09/03/21 11:13 PM
11

what the fuck are you on about?
/r/askTRP09/03/21 11:03 PM
2

then do those activities with guy friends and call up plates only to fuck. nothing wrong with a fun activity with a plate though, you just gotta get out of the mindset that you’re giving away value.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 10:58 PM
17

listen to this op. move out as soon as you can, no explanation is needed just “i’m breaking up with you”, then ghost
/r/askTRP09/03/21 10:55 PM
1

lmao
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:27 AM
5

this op. don’t downplay anything, just say it how it is them: “did you actually win #1 ____” you: “yeah.” and give a sincere smile i have a friend, he’s a confident guy but very kept to himself and his close friend group. he never tells anyone what he’s up to, which makes it even better when myself or others find out because of how humble he is.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:18 AM
1

if you think she’s going to initiate contact then keep the silence, if not give it one more day to let her hamster spin then hit her up. whatever you do, DO NOT bring up what happened, pretend like it never happened
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:54 PM
2

seems like you’re on the wrong sub, especially given your post history about “explaining to your gf” what you want in your sexual relationship
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:29 PM
5

this OP. leave and do your own shit, you’re not trying to be butt hurt about not getting sex, you’re simply doing something better because sex isn’t available.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:26 PM
2

what the fuck did i just read? you lost frame, is probably not salvageable. next her and game other girls, don’t buy valentines gifts next time for plates and don’t explain through words. if you want to soft next/dread then do it rather than talk about it, you should never “tell her i gave it to another girl”
/r/askTRP08/03/21 05:33 PM
16

some guys don’t mind. i personally don’t like to lower my standards, i only fuck girls i find attractive
/r/askTRP08/03/21 12:44 AM
3

having a separate leg day is sometimes boring, if you want a workaround change your split so you go 3-4x a week but have a mix of upper and lower per day.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 12:41 AM
2

no. if you’re going to hard next why does it matter? do you have hopes that she’ll try to change and promise that she won’t do it again?
/r/askTRP07/03/21 06:07 PM
14

the first red flag is you ltr’d a single mom, then she sends messages behind your back. you never bring up issues, if you have a problem with her actions then next her. soft or hard next depending on the severity, in this case hard next if she’s acting sus and your gut feeling is bad
/r/askTRP07/03/21 05:52 PM
1

and look up tooturnttoni
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:42 PM
5

no, the more you chat with her platonically the more chance she’s gonna turn you into an orbiter. just go for it, but it’s up to you because you’ll be shitting where you eat
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:09 PM
8

stop playing her games. you’re the man so ask her out if you’re interested
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:30 PM
1

true in a sense but it doesn’t have to be one or the other. you can get them to talk about themselves while making statements. the reason why you should avoid asking a lot of questions is because you don’t want it turning into an interview. for example: “where are you from?” can be turned into a statement “you look like you’re from ____” your guesses don’t have to be accurate all the time because even if they are wrong they’ll correct you and expand on that
/r/seduction06/03/21 07:47 PM
1

and most importantly, lift
/r/askTRP05/03/21 06:43 AM
4

preselection, then game the waitress
/r/askTRP05/03/21 06:39 AM
5

there’s nothing more to explain, if she asks you then just say “i already told you yesterday”. from your post history it seems like she’s denying you sex from only a few months into the relationship. have other options ready and don’t get too attached
/r/askTRP04/03/21 05:57 PM
4

then why u stressing bro lmao, if anything buy some chocolates and ask her to come over and fuck
/r/askTRP04/03/21 05:22 PM
5

you had a valid reason not to buy it. in an ltr it’s not a bad thing to buy gifts time to time. if she’s acting normal again forget it and go fuck her
/r/askTRP04/03/21 05:05 PM
5

asked this a while ago “Agree and amplify. This is just girl flirty banter. Back to the sidebar breh. Say “yea neither do I, that’s why I’m bringing my mom along”. Or some light low effort joke. This is basic pitch and catch conversation.”
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:19 AM
0

you got this dude, you’re ahead of the curve by realizing this already. but it’s important for you to realize that like any skill you must not only read but also apply to get better at it. for example to be better at a sport you need to practice it, initially it may not be the best but you’re learning a lot. try to approach until you no longer have the fear, rooting for you
/r/seduction04/03/21 01:30 AM
10

stop overthinking and just set up a date, you’re not trying to be her texting buddy. if she keeps playing games ghost her and find other girls
/r/askTRP03/03/21 08:46 PM
4

if you’re just starting off go for anyone you want. just be careful to not shit where you eat, such as a workplace. you don’t need to think of it as cold approaching, talk to both guys and girls so you’re known as the social and cool guy at the gym. this way when you approach you can do it like anyone else and at the end of the convo offer her to join you for a coffee or drink and get her number to follow up with it. in places that are not the gym and etc. where you are unlikely to ever see the …
/r/seduction03/03/21 08:13 PM
4

the touchy part is good, your next step is to just go in for the kiss when the convo gets stale. from there escalate slowly until sex. and since you were the one that ended the date early you should probably send a text when you want to next meet up, don’t overthink it, she seems interested
/r/askTRP03/03/21 07:04 PM
13

dude, this is one of the best things that could’ve happened. you made a move, and even though you got rejected you have an answer now. it would have been worse if you dragged this on and became her orbiter. the important thing is to not dwell on why you got rejected, it could’ve been a million different reasons. now that you know you’re capable of making a move, your next step is to do it on the first or second date. also ask yourself if you kissed her out of nowhere or was it kind of expected a…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 07:00 PM
7

you’re definitely right, she gave horrible advice for beginners. they need to focus on getting rid of approach anxiety and the added “don’t approach at x, y, z” doesn’t help. her opinion is valid however there are many guys that approach women at the gym and succeed. with that being said you should approach at the gym with hopes to strike up a conversation whether it be with a guy or a girl (between sets and if they are not wearing headphones preferably), and if they show signs of interest then …
/r/seduction03/03/21 06:48 PM
3

definitely a troll. “destroying something good, in search of perfect”, screams no abundance. OP, most people on here would rather not waste time trying to make a relationship work, they would rather take it for face value and move onto the next.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 05:40 PM
3

really? ive always thought it was a bad idea to overly sexualize the conversation before you actually fuck the girl. then again if you deliver this line perfectly and playfully it should be good.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 07:10 AM
5

misread your post the first time, i thought it said the girl you’re trying to have sex with is your ex. if it’s another girl then of course go ahead and fuck her my man. the best thing you can do to get over a breakup is time and fucking other women
/r/askTRP03/03/21 07:08 AM
7

lmao good line, but i think this should be used after you’ve fucked her at least once if she decides to keep shit testing you.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 06:43 AM
10

listen to this OP. there are guys on here that plate their exes after the breakup but this should be avoided until you have an abundance mentality. focus on other girls and block your ex and go full no contact.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 06:41 AM
1

yeah it doesn’t have to be expensive, you can just go out and eat something small then come back and fuck. about your last sentence, don’t listen to what she says. only look at her actions. if she’s withdrawing then try incorporating the above, and also spin more plates. having only one available option is risky
/r/askTRP03/03/21 06:09 AM
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don’t overthink it OP, your line is fine. agree and amplify is good, when she brings it up just playfully say something like “yeah you better be careful or you’re going to catch a case”. you can also flip it onto her “try to keep up grandma, don’t break a hip”
/r/askTRP03/03/21 05:59 AM
9

not necessarily. if YOU want to commit then consider an LTR, but giving breadcrumbs like having dates with no sex afterwards is going to lead to more dates with no sex. if all she’s doing is coming to your place to fuck then you can add a walk or grabbing something to eat before that, but taking the sex out of the equation is going to give her power over you.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 05:56 AM
14

no giving more commitment will not solve the problem, it will just cause her to want more. you have to decide if you want to commit or keep fucking her. don’t let her influence your decision, if you’re not ready yet then just tell her you like what you have now and you want to just go with the flow
/r/askTRP03/03/21 04:56 AM
2

lmfao
/r/askTRP03/03/21 04:36 AM
3

take the advice above and if she doesn’t let you try then drop her, sounds like it’s a dealbreaker for you and it would be for me too.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 12:12 AM
2

definitely the way, keep busy whenever you can. after a few months you should be good, but you have to delete all pictures with her and block her on everything. absolutely no contact with her.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 12:01 AM
9

first of all why the fuck would you say that quote to her? my ex in the past who was a virgin would have never imagined anal but she tried it with me, the key is to treat it as a normal thing and ease her into it. when you’re getting sexual then rub around her asshole, use lube and get a finger in there. eventually you can work your dick in. if she reacts badly then try again another day, the key is to be confident not ask, LEAD. if she refuses after a few tries then it’s your call to break up, …
/r/askTRP02/03/21 11:59 PM
6

sleep early don’t stay up past 12 it makes it harder. i had a relationship of 1 1/2 years first everything that i broke up with. it was definitely hard but just realize that you can find better. there’s many more women in the world, the key is to hang out with friends, cut out porn, lift if your gyms are open. it’s hard in quarantine but when everything is over you’ll come out better.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 11:55 PM
1

definitely this. don’t even think of upgrading her past plate OP, use this as an opportunity for threesomes. she’s ONLY a plate you hit up to fuck now, nothing more. if you don’t think you can plate her without getting emotionally attached, ghost her and never msg her again
/r/askTRP02/03/21 11:34 PM
5

she sounds like a good ltr but you’re way too dependent on her dude. ask yourself if you could do everything yourself and she only provided you with sex and companionship could you find another woman like that? the answer would probably be yes i’m not saying give up on a good ltr but she has way too much control of your life right now
/r/askTRP02/03/21 11:25 PM
8

only text for logistics why are you having small talk. msg her when you feel like hanging out again
/r/askTRP01/03/21 10:43 PM
3

you’re thinking of it too black and white. maybe she wanted you to ask to come over with that sexy pic, who knows, how you handled it is fine but you could say something like you did before but add something to the end of it “nice (insert article of clothing) , i’ll have to see it in person sometime”. this allows her to invite you over without feeling like she’s outright sending an invitation out of nowhere. she could reply to that with “why don’t you come see it tonight” or whatever
/r/askTRP01/03/21 10:34 PM
2

dude you’re definitely a good looking/above average guy. id say you’re having trouble because while you might get initial attention you don’t sexualize the interaction fast enough. you’re not trying to make more friends so don’t be afraid to touch women you’re talking with and break these boundaries. always be escalating and if you’re at a bar or club you can eventually lead them home. otherwise you can set up a date and ask for their number to follow up with
/r/seduction01/03/21 10:28 PM
5

don’t worry about it too much. but try slow down your speech and talk from your lower chest so you almost feel a vibration when you talk
/r/askTRP01/03/21 09:20 PM
3

are you fucking this girl? if not then you’re just friends. if you are then just keep doing what you’re doing and don’t open her pics, only msg to meet up
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:27 PM
4

Of Human Bondage – Uncle Vasya’s Guide for Men Who Like To Tie Up Young Ladies.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 05:17 PM
2

are you talking fast?if so, slow down your talking, and talk from your lowest chest and get that natural deepness.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 04:01 PM
4

well what do you do asides from being polite that may make you seen “too nice”. are you sacrificing your own plans to help others? being nice isn’t inherently bad, it’s the being a pushover part which you normally see along with that
/r/askTRP01/03/21 03:45 PM
1

she should be hitting you up to hang out not for small talk. if she’s hitting you up without plans to meet up or hinting at it next time she messages, then drop her as a plate altogether
/r/askTRP01/03/21 03:43 PM
1

you said it yourself you’re scared to break the touch barrier. next time you go out forget getting the girl, instead make it a point to kino. your goal is to talk with a girl while breaking the touch barrier early such as a playful push on the arm when joking around. you’ll realize it matters less on what you say but what you do, after a few times you’ll realize you shouldn’t fear sexually charging an interaction
/r/seduction01/03/21 03:06 PM
6

own it, make sure to go clean shave if theres parts left. also lift, there’s many jacked bald dudes that pull
/r/seduction01/03/21 03:03 PM
2

ask her to celebrate if she says no then just ghost until she hits you up
/r/askTRP01/03/21 02:41 PM
6

obvious bait, go troll elsewhere
/r/askTRP28/02/21 09:27 PM
5

definitely the correct response, however i wouldn’t even include the second part. “my girlfriend doesn’t go clubbing in a relationship” is more than enough. if she still goes drop her.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 07:51 PM
1

handshake is fine if you’re cold approaching and never talked to her before, but on a date where you’ve messaged before i’d definitely go for the hug, even if it’s your first time meeting her in person. this sets the tone from the beginning that you’re a guy that isn’t afraid to sexualize the interaction
/r/seduction28/02/21 07:39 PM
1

you can escalate during any conversation just do it at the right pace. if you’re talking about hobbies and she mentions she likes that too say “no way, you don’t seem like a ___ girl” while giving her a touch on the arm or leg. as for verbal escalation it’s not as important as physical, you can talk about anything but if you can drop sexual/flirty lines occasionally it’s cool. if she mentions she goes to the gym you can be like “yeah you look like you’re in shape” with a touch and glance at her …
/r/seduction28/02/21 07:37 PM
19

you need to be escalating from the beginning of the date. when you meet her greet with a hug, when you’re sitting next to her touch her as you talk. like when you laugh at a joke you can playfully push her away. eventually get to a point where during the date you have your arm around her or your hand is resting on her thigh. go in for the kiss eventually then escalate more from there
/r/seduction27/02/21 11:14 PM
2

can you expand on the second part?
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:16 PM
2

well what do you actually feel you want to do? if you want to meet her again then do it. ask yourself though if you’re meeting with her because you enjoy HER presence or just crave anyone’s presence.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:13 PM
1

stop giving a fuck what the women might think. she was probably cool with it since you demanded it instead of going “well i wanted to know if you would be okay with doing ...”. you’re still being dominant by giving the demands of what you want, while the act might seem submissive.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:14 AM
21

who the fuck cares what she thinks. her opinion is irrelevant to you, and she’s talking cuz you fucked her friends. money may play a small part, but if you’re not their sugar daddy then it just adds to your status. your smv is made up from more than just that
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:10 AM
2

definitely. even with platonic female friends i’ve found the conversation to be emotionally charged and revolving around their stories mostly. there are going to be outliers but in a general sense most women i have encountered followed these trends
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:58 AM
1

appreciate it bro, will def give this a try when on dates. what do you suggest during the small talk stage with guys and girls when first meeting them, this is shally where i lose interest in the topic
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:47 AM
2

i agree that there are some women that you can have convos like this with, but many women in the past including my LTR always seemed bored when talking about the meaning of life, space, etc. whereas my friends have a genuine interest and curiosity with which we can bounce these ideas off of until it gets deeper and deeper
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:45 AM
2

for hobbies i like salsa, basketball, reading i also do lifting, software engineering, deep philosophical convos and you’re right, do you just change topic or steer it using what they’re talking about
/r/askTRP25/02/21 09:29 PM
3

if anything blocking shows that she’s out of your life, and you’re not at her beck and call. quit justifying your reasons and block her. as for being out of options it’s hard, but use this time to not jack off, read, do something productive and keep your mind off her
/r/askTRP25/02/21 08:40 PM
3

just go and see what happens, the worst that can happen is she doesn’t let you escalate. keep the date short and don’t pay for her food or whatever. edit: as a reply you can be like “i’ll pick you up on x and we’ll go to y”, don’t reply to the her last msg directly
/r/askTRP25/02/21 07:57 PM
4

she wouldn’t be on a dating app or trying to “meet as friends” unless she was looking to hookup, treat the “just friends” thing as plausible deniability. meet up with her and escalate if you don’t mind that she has a guy
/r/askTRP25/02/21 07:41 PM
4

well why did you leave her on read instead of suggesting plans? maybe she was looking for something asap also private stories are perfect if you want to orbit her, just mute them
/r/askTRP25/02/21 07:38 PM
7

definitely doesn’t make you creepy, if anything id say it makes you masculine and gives you that sexual boost. if you let one off before then you might not be interested in escalating during the date.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 07:26 PM
5

you don’t need to text her anymore for small talk. just send a text saying you’re coming on the weekend and you want to hang, that way she knows to make that day free
/r/askTRP24/02/21 07:22 PM
2

you don’t. there a reason why LTRs are called hard mode. break up and spin plates, there’s no reason to continue a dying relationship, it’s not going to get any better
/r/askTRP24/02/21 07:13 PM
1

eye contact and smile until she breaks. reengage eye contact only when she has reengaged otherwise she’ll think you’re staring
/r/seduction24/02/21 06:07 PM
1

car or daytime hotel (if you can’t spend the night)
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:46 PM
1

could be risky, but if you want to do it then make sure you’re not looking at the camera directly (candid picture), and both of you look like you’re having the best time in the world. it should be at a music festival or rave with other people in the picture to make it seem like you picked the picture not for the grinding itself but for the event
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:43 PM
2

holy shit op, you lost frame in every possible way. first of all your gf is an idiot “saying parents aren’t home is not asking you over”. second, what the fuck were you thinking getting on the train when you don’t even have confirmation of any plans. i’d say to drop her, it’s going to be hard cuz she’s your ltr of 2 years but the sooner you do it the sooner you can game other girls. this incident means her respect for you is dropping and the conversation after it meant it dropped even more. don’…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 12:37 AM
14

you definitely have oneitis. “she got with him in a week”, and you still took her back?? drop her and game other girls bro
/r/askTRP23/02/21 09:47 PM
14

good job op, you’re doing a great job of providing her with free validation while orbiting her
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:37 PM
11

lift and keep approaching.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:35 PM
4

the point of approaching is to teach outcome independence and abundance mentality, it’s not going to guarantee a 90% close rate. the key thing is you know what you did wrong, write it down and don’t repeat those mistakes.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:15 PM
1

are you using oil or proper lube? try out water based and silicone based and see which one works best for you
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:12 PM
1

she definitely overreacted. also remember DARE not DEER, never explain yourself. if she wanted to start something so stupid withdraw attention and do something else. this might be happening because she’s expecting commitment soon, but make it clear (through actions) that you are only fwb
/r/askTRP21/02/21 05:19 PM
7

this, op. if you like chilling and vibing when you’re out then keep doing it. as a response just give a smirk and continue
/r/askTRP21/02/21 05:12 PM
1

lmfao
/r/askTRP21/02/21 04:58 PM
9

go assert dominance by fucking the brother
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:31 AM
2

this. OP, you described that you’re not physically attracted to her. there’s no point of doing something to please another person, especially marriage
/r/askTRP21/02/21 01:58 AM
2

very true
/r/askTRP20/02/21 09:34 PM
1

then keep fucking her and upgrade her if you think it’s a good idea. don’t upgrade her to ltr just because of her past. i’d wait a few months before considering ltring her
/r/askTRP20/02/21 09:17 PM
3

are you fucking her?
/r/askTRP20/02/21 08:08 PM
4

the second set of people you mentioned are definitely not your friends. only befriend people who bring something positive to your life
/r/askTRP20/02/21 06:34 PM
1

how did you break out of those bad personality traits? i was always social but in the past i never really sexualized convos with women, and also complied with most people’s demands because i wanted no tension.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:49 PM
1

getting into an LTR before vetting during the plate phase. THEY have to earn being an ltr not the other way around
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:37 PM
2

just look at their prompts and work off that. for example if they had “i love sushi” i’d say something like “you definitely seem like a california roll type of girl”. make statements so they can expand on that
/r/askTRP20/02/21 02:53 AM
3

this. you only get into an ltr if you’re enjoying the sex and relationship thus far
/r/askTRP20/02/21 01:37 AM
10

actions > words. also, you’ve gone on 3 or 4 dates and you want to LTR her? why not spin her as a plate then upgrade after a few months if you still want to
/r/askTRP19/02/21 11:24 PM
4

software engineering is a good path, as for your hobbies try to talk to guys and make friends. make plans to go to a bar or something when covid ends. your goal for body should be to get it to an 8 by hitting the gym at least 3 times a week, don’t miss a day. improve your hygiene, and your style. don’t stop approaching while you’re doing this, and make sure to note what was good/bad mentally after every approach and calibrate. edit: also remember it’s covid, cold approaching may be harder becaus…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 11:01 PM
1

if you matched on a dating app then move it to another place asap, ask for her number or social media then talk on there. trying to set up the date via the dating app is riskier
/r/askTRP19/02/21 10:47 PM
1

thats what i mean, i feel like the app shows you options based on elo, but if you swipe through all the unattractive ones, you’re bound to see the others. that’s interesting though, did you know if he swiped through all the girls in the area? or did he just give up because he saw unattractive ones.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 10:44 PM
3

what would you rate your body out of 10, and what would you rate your overall out of 10. also do you have a job/hobbies
/r/askTRP19/02/21 10:42 PM
0

there may be elo in terms of who you’re shown first, but i can tell you the pool of who you’re shown is the exact same as long as you have the patience to swipe through all of them
/r/askTRP19/02/21 10:36 PM
4

keep lifting, what would you consider yourself out of 10 both for body and overall? maybe try night game and some online dating to switch it up. do you have approach anxiety anymore?
/r/askTRP19/02/21 10:35 PM
1

what’s your height weight and how long have you been going to the gym? how many approaches have you done?
/r/askTRP19/02/21 10:27 PM
-1

nah, the options are the same for everyone, you have to swipe through the unattractive girls until you see the attractive ones. my friends who also got hinge quit because they didn’t want to swipe through them. the persistent will prevail.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 10:24 PM
2

also the same as you. hinge being the best and there is no elo. also you have a chance at sending a witty message before you match
/r/askTRP19/02/21 09:16 PM
3

“Her: a 7½, 8 on a very good day. Seems compatible with me, she loves it when I tie her up und give her a beating and bruises during sex. Very difficult family background, both parents have been in a psych ward. Confessed me she did cocaine on ocassions in the past. She's got 3 tattoos, slacks at UNI. A little too street smart at times. Been in a 4 year relationship before me.” holy fuck, OP. how do you expect to get any suggestions EXCEPT for “keep her as a plate”
/r/askTRP18/02/21 06:48 PM
4

The proper order of events should be as so: LTR wanted to break up. I told her to take a hike she came back crying wanting to be taken back. ghost her and move on
/r/askTRP17/02/21 10:48 PM
3

i think if you keep bulking and cutting you can get to ~187 while being below 10% bf when plugging those numbers into a FFMI calculator.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 03:25 PM
6

i’ve noticed this in the past because i like helping people, but sometimes it felt like i’m giving more than getting. what are some more tips like this to live for yourself
/r/askTRP08/02/21 08:09 AM
2

when she comes over, ESCALATE. break the touch barrier immediately with a hug, when you’re watching the movie put your arm around her or on her leg. it’ll make it way easier to escalate during the movie since you’re already touching
/r/askTRP08/02/21 08:05 AM
1

it’s not about recovery, it’s if you don’t have time for other stuff you can switch to something like upper lower split, 4x a week alternating between upper and lower day. it hits muscle groups 2x a week just like PPL. only difference is the length of the workout might be a bit longer because you have multiple muscles a day.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 08:42 AM
2

this came up in my past ltr, i’d avoid mentioning it over text because it can be easily forgotten or brushed away. i’d say if you know exactly what you want to do then tease her with it in real life when you’re both in the mood. another helpful thing was this website https://mojoupgrade.com say your friends were doing this and you wanted to check it out, then do it with her and see your mutual kinks, you can do it when you’re with her or just send her the link after it generates one for you once…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 03:58 AM
19

you can improve your vocabulary and learn new concepts from fiction. take 1984 as an example, it’s fiction but still makes you think.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:55 PM
2

idk what the fuck these other comments are but you have valid past trauma for your concern. the past incident was also definitely rape, don’t let these guys tell you it’s not just because you’re a guy. don’t let these events keep you from making guy friends though, but also don’t put up with stuff like this. if anyone invades your personal space like that knock them out. keep your head up bro and keep doing your thing.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:31 PM
1

good shit, but what do you do before the dating stage to let her know you’re dominant? do you approach like normal? do you smile or don’t smile
/r/askTRP03/02/21 12:03 AM
2

there’s always going to be a bigger guy than you, does that mean you shouldn’t escalate? also just because he’s the centre of attention doesn’t mean he’s going to make a move, so go ahead and make a move and be the confident guy who goes after what he wants
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:28 PM
16

i’d say don’t break until they break. when they break then you look away until they reengage eye contact otherwise they’ll think you’re staring at them when they’re not looking
/r/askTRP01/02/21 06:31 AM
2

If you’re living on residence the first day is essential, you’ll meet your floor mates so make sure to go and meet everyone. you’ll get more friends through the friends you make on the first day. add them on some social media and hit them up to grab food or join you to do an event. at classes go sit next to someone random, literally no one knows each other and they’re hoping someone sits next to them. talk to them about class and build friendships my first year consisted of me getting lunch with…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 06:22 AM
2

I started university a year and a half ago so here are some things: Talk to everyone; I made friends in first year but limited myself a bit because i was in a relationship when entering uni so i didnt talk to many girls Having access to campus food is good for bulking, go to the gym and lift heavy Stay ahead in school
/r/askTRP01/02/21 02:33 AM
1

exactly this. if you wanted to shave your beard do it, don’t ask her. the moment you asked you seeked validation
/r/askTRP30/01/21 11:36 PM
2

read the rational male. also here are some tips on what i did well and stuff i could’ve improved in the past relationship: set a sexual tone early (escalate and try to have a sexual presence whenever you meet up) if she acts up -> soft next, no compromising or giving attention as time goes on her sex drive might be “decreasing”, this usually happens when you two become comfortable and she doesn’t need to please you anymore to keep you around, don’t let this happen ALWAYS be ready to walk away, t…
/r/askTRP30/01/21 11:31 PM
3

exactly, your photos look solid op but i’d throw in a picture or two with friends having a good time to show you are fun/social
/r/askTRP30/01/21 09:18 PM
7

it’s normally a thing with online dating where after you match you should try to meet up as soon as you can, if you wait too long texting back and forth she might lose interest. it doesn’t matter how attracted she is over text, get her out asap. if you were busy you wouldn’t even match/text her during that time, text only for logistics
/r/askTRP30/01/21 09:13 PM
8

true, he should’ve gone a bit easier on her because it seems like it’s not just excuses. he also shouldn’t have mentioned the no sex part. but it’s also not fair for op to stay in this relationship without sex, it’s just incompatibility. i’d say give it a little time and try your best to find ways to make sex work, if it still doesn’t with lube and possible advice from doctors then part ways because otherwise you’d be staying with her due to pity
/r/askTRP27/01/21 08:10 PM
6

what the fuck op? first of all why would you confirm you didn’t do anything with the girl. this is perfect dread because your gf knows you have other options if this relationship doesn’t work out. also why’d she looking through your phone. don’t say anything else to her, soft next until she messages you and when you meet act like it never happened
/r/askTRP27/01/21 08:16 AM
5

break up with her op. i’d say go on one last date and try to escalate to sex, if it doesn’t happen then end it.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 08:02 AM
1

lmao, perfect reply to this shittest
/r/askTRP27/01/21 07:54 AM
1

maybe she was expecting you to escalate during the first date, not walk around a mall. hit her up again but this time invite her over, that should give you your response
/r/askTRP27/01/21 07:51 AM
11

absolutely false
/r/askTRP26/01/21 09:16 PM
27

while you’re kissing make sure your hands are roaming her body. don’t go for the tits or vagina right away, slowly move it there from the thigh or from her face when you’re holding her head. slowly tease her with your fingers until she’s warmed up, you don’t want to rush it. once it starts getting hotter then lead her into a bj or go down on her then progress to sex
/r/askTRP26/01/21 01:16 AM
3

i’d say go on the first date, escalate as far as you can. if she stops you then act unphased and don’t escalate for a few minutes, then try again. if she stops you a second time then wrap up the date and drop her home. wait for HER to message you and possibly plan the next date, if she doesn’t reach out in ~2 weeks and make another date. repeat escalation from first date, if she doesn’t want to go any further then respect that and next her.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 08:45 PM
3

what i did was movie for the first date, it was a trash one which was good because it allowed us to focus on each other. this doesn’t have to be during a movie just in general; break the touch barrier at the START of the date. hold her hand in her lap or something like that. eventually move your hand to her thigh then eventually inner thigh and caress it while talking, don’t look there. you should feel it getting warmer. go for the kiss when you feel ready and slowly escalate more
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:56 PM
7

mostly the same as non-virgins except a bit more comfort when you escalate. be sure to lead because she expects you to be the experienced one.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:49 PM
1

I’m 20, around the same ballpark as you. A trend i see is that lot of my friends want relationships too, but the ones that got out of them understand the hassle it can be and are focused on hookups for now
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:40 PM
1

Happened to me too, but we learn. Never put up with anything and live for yourself
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:36 PM
7

LTRs at a young age not inherently bad, it’s just that you don’t have experience to know which relationships are worth staying in and to get your needs met. You see a lot of young people these days compromising to stay in their relationships because they feel empty without one. They sacrifice their own needs for the relationship. Plate theory on the other hand teaches you abundance, it gives you options so you’re not stuck on a oneitis. And if you decide to want an LTR in the future you know you…
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:29 PM
4

that’s like saying every girl on birth control isn’t ltr material. see if there’s any more red flags or if it bothers you just plate her
/r/askTRP24/01/21 11:47 PM
1

makes sense, thanks. also she suggested we meet up after lockdown and to message her back confirming it, should i hold off on messaging until near that date or confirm then ghost til a month from now (when lockdown ends)
/r/askTRP17/01/21 03:23 AM
1

yeah if it wasn’t for the pandemic i’d def be back on dating apps and have her blocked. and do you think it’s best to not mention my intentions before meeting? because she’s also the type of girl (like most) to be petty since i broke up with her and i really don’t want to be wasting time on her if she’s not putting out
/r/askTRP17/01/21 02:31 AM
6

saw you had a bit of mgtow in your post history. let me tell you quit that. lifting helps, do it. you don’t need to deadlift if you have a bad back, i personally don’t deadlift, do everything else. lifting gives you confidence. remember that appearance isn’t all you’ve got for smv, it’s a big trait for women but for males there’s status, masculinity, appearance, confidence. if one of those is low like the guy you mentioned, something else must be boosting his smv. keep at it dude, things are bor…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:12 AM
12

“This relationship isn’t working out, i’m breaking up with you”. leave it at that and block fully, don’t let her respond, any more messages after that you’ll be losing frame
/r/askTRP15/01/21 08:59 PM
2

why do women go for bad boys even though they might not be making a lot? don’t let it bother you or she’ll see that
/r/askTRP15/01/21 05:21 AM
1

i’d argue and say you can be a 10, johnny depp and sylvester stallone are 5’9.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 05:18 AM
3

dude what? first of all losing virginity =/= breaking hymen. and if you do a quick google search you can see athletic girls sometimes don’t experience their hymen breaking during their first time having sex because it already broke from vigorous activity
/r/askTRP15/01/21 05:14 AM
2

typical entitled tinder girl. you did well by not playing into her frame. just leave it at that and if she replies she does, keep swiping there’s plenty more girls
/r/askTRP14/01/21 11:55 PM
3

only a problem if you let it be a problem. if you don’t mind it then keep it going, if part of your mission is to be the provider then break it off. the most important thing if you decide to continue the relationship, is to not let it bother you. if you’re visibly bothered by it, she’s going to notice those insecurities. keep doing your own thing, have hobbies, be masculine and don’t even acknowledge it
/r/askTRP14/01/21 11:51 PM
1

i don’t know why no one is saying this, but she keeps doing this because she knows she has you twirled around her finger. right now SHE is the one accepting sex even after you go cold. you’re showing her that no matter how many times she declines (15) you’ll accept her offer show her you’re not gonna play these games, next time she puts up ASD go cold on her for the day, do your own thing. she’ll get the message
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:46 PM
14

don’t use insta as often or whenever you see a post that arouses you, click the three dots and click “i’m not interested”, this will make the algorithm hide that type of content from you
/r/askTRP13/01/21 03:55 PM
7

what do you mean by quitting? you found yourself reading more than you were applying?
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:13 PM
12

actually it’s more like a logarithmic graph. you can say what’s the difference between 1 and 2, since it’s double as well. try asking what’s the difference between 8 hours of sleep and 20 hours of sleep. 8 hours is all you need, anything more than that is not beneficial or yields diminishing returns. OP already knows 25 is a lot so 60 is around the same ballpark as that because it’s past a certain threshold.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:10 PM
9

why did she feel like she could hit you up? because you fucking matched with her... unmatch and tell your friend you were just swiping on girls and she came across, or just don’t mention it at all
/r/askTRP05/01/21 01:11 AM
2

i think there’s a post on this already that every girl is an HB7 at max under all the makeup. keep that in mind OP. if you can’t stand her without makeup then don’t date her
/r/askTRP04/01/21 08:12 PM
2

it’s definitely a must try for everyone, not saying to stay on it but experience it at least once. go on a 30-60 day streak and see how you feel. imagine never waking up feeling dehydrated or groggy, having the motivation to do a lot of things you would otherwise procrastinate on by masturbating.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 07:30 PM
2

run for your life op. the sex is only going to decline
/r/askTRP03/01/21 07:27 PM
1

i tend to notice my facial fat increasing when i’m bulking. do you normally find yourself cutting before the end of your bulk because your face is getting fat or do you finish the bulk first then cut
/r/askTRP24/12/20 07:52 PM
2

your pics are good, but remove any selfies and the one of you as a kid. add a pic or two with friends having a good time to show social proof.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 09:58 PM
1

Familiarity breeds contempt. The more you get used to each other and comfortable the thrill dies down. my ex pulled the same thing, saying she might be “asexual” even though we fucked like rabbits for the first year. break it off while you can OP, because it’s just going to be no sex or fights because of the lack of sex from now on
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:29 PM
1

good job OP. leave on a high note and don’t listen to her bargains anymore. block her and forget about her
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:23 PM
5

no, don’t give any closure or the drama they desire
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:22 PM
1

Good on you OP, don’t take shit from anyone. Especially women who pull the “i don’t want to be with someone controlling” card when they get caught validation seeking. just remember after your breakup go full no contact as it will help immensely with the recovery process. don’t check up on her, don’t reply to her messages
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:19 PM
2

golden
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:56 PM
1

you’re writing an essay about a plate, that in itself should tell you that you’re thinking a bit too much into it. but i don’t think it’s too late to pull back, you can just try contacting her less the upcoming weeks if you want to and make her think you’re with other girls.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:55 PM
2

don’t give a fuck about what your plate thinks. you’re overthinking this right now because you have no other options. keep your plate on rotation while gaming other girls too. the most dangerous number of women to have is 1
/r/askTRP14/12/20 09:30 PM
1

ok then get rich or famous? i also know short guys with an average face in university but are jacked that pull. what’s your excuse for any of those
/r/askTRP14/12/20 05:36 PM
0

take a look at Danny Devito. whoops i forgot only looks get you in the door right? now look at Patrice O Neal you’re right, looks are definitely what got these guys in the door.. “looks only get you in the door” does not mean “looks are the only thing that get you in the door” male SMV is made of a lot of things, improve everything else along with the best you can do for your looks
/r/askTRP14/12/20 03:04 PM
13

“i think she’d be a good girl if’s she got some attention” you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife. enjoy your time with her op but i’d be careful about keeping her as anything more than a plate. she sucked your dick when she had a man, do you think it’ll be any different if you ltr her and forget to give her attention sometimes? once a cheater always a cheater.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 04:45 AM
1

realistically you should aim to gain 0.25-0.5 lbs of muscle a week, checking every day won’t give you an indication of progress because you don’t know if it’s water weight or real weight. ex. you weigh yourself and see you’re heavier than the day before and you think you’re gaining weight but maybe you just drank more water than the previous day. you should track calories but take daily weight with a grain of salt, you should notice progress every few weeks in your weight, a quick google search …
/r/askTRP12/12/20 01:15 AM
1

i wouldn’t say weigh yourself every day, maybe once every two weeks. your weight will fluctuate daily due to water weight so it’s not as accurate as long term
/r/askTRP11/12/20 11:51 PM
24

yep, what they don’t realize is the attraction would’ve grew if they didn’t even listen to the woman’s request on him changing
/r/askTRP11/12/20 06:13 PM
2

had a similar situation with my ex, first everything. broke up with her, blocked her but eventually let her get to me slowly bro through new numbers instead of blocking those as well. this delayed the healing time, don’t make the same mistake i did, block her fully and don’t ever contact her again.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 06:11 PM
55

because they want to be the one break your unshakable frame, once they realize they’re figured you out, they move onto the next puzzle
/r/askTRP11/12/20 06:08 PM
2

“you should’ve tried harder to keep me” classic argument my ex also gave me. don’t fall for it, keep doing what you’re doing and ignoring disrespect and passing shit tests
/r/askTRP11/12/20 03:36 PM
7

this is very good advice, giving a starting point like limiting it to one day a week initially like that makes it reasonable. then slowly add a day to that every few weeks or so
/r/askTRP11/12/20 03:32 PM
5

op is talking about minuscule things like cold approaching. in a few weeks i doubt anyone would remember, and in the grand scheme of things we’re all just on a floating rock so just do what you want
/r/askTRP11/12/20 03:30 PM
6

this was tough to read because i’ve been in this situation where a girl is all talk but no action. what you should’ve done from the start is pressure flip it onto her, don’t ever obey her request. her: “I’ll let you do anal if you don’t cum for a month” you: “damn, you really want a big load inside your ass that bad huh?” this makes it so she doesn’t have a way to respond. next, when she messaged you checking up on whether you’ve nut or not, answer something absurd like her: “have you been keepi…
/r/askTRP10/12/20 02:53 AM
2

this and what PlottingOnTheComeup said, cuddling is fine, do what makes you happy. but make sure you’re not too dependent on your girlfriend for your happiness. just like sex, cuddling should be an act that you can do with anyone, it’s not exclusive to her so don’t put her on a pedestal
/r/askTRP08/12/20 08:22 PM
3

you’re not eating as much as you think, enter your info here https://tdeecalculator.net/ and eat 300-500 calories above that. track your calories for the first week or two if you really want to see how little you eat. it’s not metabolism
/r/askTRP07/12/20 11:07 PM
1

you have to treat ltrs different from plates. you can’t always be alpha in one because you need to give comfort at times. regarding texting, you should mostly be texting to set up dates with her because you can talk and escalate in real life. on days you cant see each other you can text, but don’t give all your time to her. the most important thing in an ltr is to not get comfortable, the moment this happens it’s a steady decline. never make her think she’s the only option and that you’d never l…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 09:43 PM
2

get yourself together op. i know how it feels, breakups are always hard but the first thing you need to do is block her and go full no contact. you’re on your path to improvement and increasing your smv while she is damaged goods now. go lift, stop jerking off and game other girls. read the rational male if you haven’t.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:40 AM
4

in that case it’s too risky to plate her, block her and no matter what don’t reply. she can send you emails, friend requests, messages from a new number, just don’t reply. first breakups are tough, but you’ll get over it, go full no contact with her and talk to other women.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:36 AM
7

you’ll get mixed answers here. normally it’s ex = block and never contact again. but if you’re the one that broke up with her and have no feelings then some would say you can keep her around as a plate. don’t take this as an excuse to see her again though, if you’re worried you might be plating her to try to get her back then don’t even try this option. the question you should be asking yourself is why do you want your ex as a plate anyway, do you lack abundance?
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:06 AM
-2

i don’t see that part as a red flag because it’s a valid situation. if she was fucking a random guy she would a) go away for way shorter than 6 weeks b) not even tell OP. but op tell us, has she been invested up until she left? or was she always like this. she may have you lower on her priorities than you thought, what you do with that information is up to you.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 12:40 AM
3

can tell by your other comments you’re a racist. edit: women go for the alpha and guys that display masculinity, whether that be a black guy or one of any race. it’s not trp’s fault your chick got fucked by a black guy
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:35 PM
1

this. maybe if it was your idea to breakup and wanted to plate her, but if she disrespected you like that you should have no contact with her. block her on everything with no explanation
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:35 AM
146

don’t say it’s ok, it excuses their behaviour. say “i forgive you, don’t do it again”
/r/askTRP03/12/20 05:59 PM
1

had a girl i was talking to that kept saying this too. hit her up one more time another day, if she flakes then cut her off
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:40 AM
5

why are you even looking at her story? stop opening it altogether also what seems easier, trying to get into an LTR and change her ways, or keep her as a plate? trp says that your plates will obviously be seeing other guys, but the red flag is posting about them so much, you can continue into something serious at your own risk but be ready to jump ship at any time edit: profile -> mute story. to stop giving her that attention
/r/askTRP28/11/20 04:02 PM
1

listen to this advice op. and while being pakistani might not work in your favor, it probably won’t hold you back as much as you think. defy your cultural stereotypes and lift
/r/askTRP26/11/20 04:49 PM
17

this. be lucky it’s only been a month, don’t give her any more explanation OP. just hard next and ghost
/r/askTRP26/11/20 04:46 PM
17

there’s a lot of responses given on here. if you want to proceed while knowing she has one: “me too, but he doesn’t mind” “only one??” etc
/r/askTRP26/11/20 04:41 PM
2

you met her in person, it’s not like she’s a bot on tinder. go for it dude, just wrap it up
/r/askTRP22/11/20 07:14 PM
3

it seems like doesn’t matter because it doesn’t. she’s your ex, leave the past in the past and don’t think about it. once you’re over it then it’s a different story, but at least until she’s just a memory you should be working on yourself and forget fully about her
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:49 AM
6

why the fuck is your friend telling you everything she’s doing. the first thing after my breakup i told my friends she doesn’t exist anymore and i don’t want to hear anything related to her. you’ll get over it with time, cut out porn, focus on yourself, lift and keep busy.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:55 AM
7

so you didn’t want to fuck her because other dudes made out with her, yet you kissed her... edit: you should’ve made a move while she was at the bed, or talk to other girls and if you see her free again sometime then hit her up to go fuck
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:46 AM
3

it’s not a question why do you need to reply. leave her on read and call the manager back, “ok” if you must reply
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:44 AM
4

fwb with no sex, you mean a friend? and you have no other options thats why you care so much, she’s probably trying to get more than a fwb out of you. forget her and game other girls
/r/askTRP21/11/20 05:12 PM
2

“i think my sex drive is low” i got that same line 1year and 2 months into my relationship. we fucked like rabbits the first year but the ending months had an increasing amount of arguments. do yourself a favour and end it now. say “this isn’t going to work out, i’m breaking up with you”. that all, she’ll know why, she’ll ask you for closure, you won’t give it. then you block her on everything and focus on yourself and other women
/r/askTRP21/11/20 02:20 AM
3

if you have three plates why don’t you just set up a date every other day. that way you don’t go more than than two days consecutively without sex
/r/askTRP21/11/20 02:02 AM
1

this op. hit her up with one last plan if you want, if she declines or flakes without rescheduling hard next her
/r/askTRP21/11/20 01:52 AM
6

you learn eventually. especially on dating apps these girls like to talk to you then give you whatever excuses to not meet up. a few months ago i matched with this girl, added her on snap. tried to make plans but she was busy, few days later she says she’s coming over to visit me but i tell her i can’t because i’m busy that weekend. try to make plans after that week and she kept saying “maybe” or “can’t because of x”, went on for longer than it should’ve until i removed her. long story short giv…
/r/askTRP21/11/20 01:46 AM
3

you’re not eating anywhere near 4-4.5k calories. if you were you’d be gaining more than two pounds a week. i’m guessing you were bulking but now you’re gaining weight slower. this is is because your tdee increases as you body weight increases. you should be eating 3.3k or 3.4 calories to gain around 1lb a week which is a +500 calorie surplus. track what you eat so you know you’re eating in a surplus. make sure to get enough rest and protein for muscle growth because your lifts are looking good b…
/r/askTRP19/11/20 03:31 PM
2

how are you getting them to come over with weed as the basis, are you offering them weed or do they just come to your place in hopes of that and you make a move?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:16 AM
2

what a woman does is not because of a man. that’s why you screen before LTRing. of course a woman is more likely to cheat on a guy with weaker frame, but a woman who is a cheater will cheat on anyone. it’s not your job to change them, it’s your job to pick the better ones off the bat
/r/askTRP16/11/20 06:02 AM
1

check my reply
/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:55 PM
5

I found good progress in 3x week full body routine. if you want to do 5, you can modify a 4 day Upper Lower split. so it’s ULULU, 3 upper days 2 lower days. put your 2 rest days where it seems most convenient You mentioned 45 minute limit so i’d recommend PPL but increase it to 6 days so you do PPLPPL. if you’re trying to put on weight definitely eat a lot, that’s the most important thing to keep progressing, along with increasing the weight every week so you never get comfortable
/r/askTRP14/11/20 06:24 PM
0

you don’t need to have only carbs while bulking. forget carbs and start tracking calories. go online and type your height, weight and age into a TDEE calculator, then eat 300-500 above that every day. also get the myfitnesspal app, you can track your food in there. rice isn’t the only way to get a lot of calories, try burgers, subs, protein shakes, etc
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:00 PM
10

definitely this. if you don’t block her just invite her straight to your place for the next date, no point in wasting more time setting up proper dates for her
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:41 PM
2

what would optimal instagram game look like?
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:22 AM
9

tinder is not for everyone. if cold approaching works for you then do it but don’t go bashing something you don’t understand. it’s all a means to an end.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 04:41 AM
1

if you’re having these thoughts 1.5 years into it, it’s not going to magically get better. it’s good that she’s loyal, but you don’t owe your loyalty to her just because she stuck around. there’s a lot of scenarios where women leave men when they’re at their lowest. live for yourself and on your own terms
/r/askTRP13/11/20 12:43 AM
20

because you’re butthurt. if you’ve read up on how to soft next/withdraw attention, it doesn’t say to act petty. don’t immediately turn and go on your phone, take a minute finish the convo (without any attitude) then go on your phone. this way she has no leverage to say why are you being butthurt. the thing about withdrawing attention, it should be synonymous to actually being busy, not making it obvious that you’re being butthurt.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 12:36 AM
1

she confirmed with him before even mentioning it to you? hard next. ghost her and don’t give her any more explanation.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 12:32 AM
3

it’s never too late. next time you catch yourself interrupting just say “sorry, you were saying?” and let them finish. try actively listening and understand what the person is saying instead of listening to be able to contribute.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 02:37 PM
1

why don’t you bulk to around 210, you’ll obviously have a bit of fat. then cut from 210 to 200 or 195. that way you’ll retain muscle while losing fat.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 12:47 AM
2

“So, I said ‘You know what, you are not leaving the guy, so stop repeating the same thing’. And told her to leave, I did not want her to sleep with me.” lmfao. good shit, you have the right idea of not LTRing her. just keep her as a plate
/r/askTRP07/11/20 11:18 PM
1

a majority of redpillers are older, which makes sense why a lot of them are conservative. as time goes on more kids will be raised liberal. it’s not a matter of red pills supporting trump, i think there will be more that support biden as the majority of this sub turns to millennials and gen z.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 09:36 PM
26

pretty obvious she’s trying to meet up with you again. “let’s meet and catch up this friday”
/r/askTRP07/11/20 09:32 PM
8

"Hey Katy ,I find you cute,lets come to my place in Frieday to have sex" what the fuck. i think you need to work on social norms, don’t ever talk about sex, only if you’re one on one at a place you can escalate then you can slip jokes in. you should have asked her something like “hey come over on friday and we’ll do ____” so it gives her plausible deniability. when she’s at your place you can escalate slowly up to a kiss, then towards sex
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:59 PM
4

don’t say this. ghost her and don’t bother replying. she’s going to want closure, don’t give it to her
/r/askTRP01/11/20 06:36 AM
3

lmao
/r/askTRP31/10/20 05:03 PM
1

Something in this order: Bench Press 5x5 Cable rows 3x8 Rope tricep pushdowns 3x8 Bicep curls 3x8 Arnold’s 3x8 Squats 5x5 (had to take these out because gym time is limited to 1h 15m due to covid) Lateral raises 3x8 Face pulls 3x8 Maybe some ab work at the end the most important thing though is remember to progressively overload especially for compounds. for accessory workouts (ones with 3x8 try to increase reps until you can hit 3x12 then increase weight) for the compounds (5x5 increase by 2.5l…
/r/askTRP31/10/20 02:15 AM
3

PPL is good for recovery because you have 2 rest days for each muscle group before you hit it again. but let me tell you something, i used to be on PPL but when university started i found myself skipping a day or two of the program maybe every week or so. this led to gains being lower, so i switched to full body 3x a week and saw amazing results. it shouldn’t matter what program you pick, but pick one you’re going to stay consistent with. if you know you will miss days on PPL then switch to 3 da…
/r/askTRP30/10/20 09:01 PM
6

working out 3 days can give you even better results that 6 days. for example 6 day PPL routine hits each muscle group twice a week. while a 3 day full body routine will hit each muscle group 3 times. ideally you want to hit each muscle group 2-3 times a week for best growth
/r/askTRP30/10/20 08:33 PM
1

what do you mean by the second part? do i open sexual or not?
/r/askTRP16/10/20 05:01 AM
1

what do you mean by that? i normally go for something like “let’s grab drinks later this week, what’s your number” or just “what’s your snap”
/r/askTRP16/10/20 01:25 AM
-4

i get what you’re saying but a lot of the time it seems like they’re interested initially but when it comes to asking their number or snap they ghost for whatever reason
/r/askTRP16/10/20 01:10 AM
3

definitely this. can’t judge your body from this pic but if you’ve been hitting the gym your smv can be 6-8 at least. smile more to give off a friendly vibe when you first meet people, it’s hard to get people to open up if you’re stoic even in settings where the mood is light edit: you can also trim your beard so it’s even and get a nice haircut
/r/askTRP16/10/20 01:08 AM
1

good shit, i think your next steps are to try to set up a day to hang out then get her number so you can talk logistics
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:17 AM
1

it’s called being a high smv male
/r/askTRP20/09/20 11:42 AM
2

not necessarily. i’ve seen rp males post a lot of pictures of adventures they go on over the years
/r/askTRP12/09/20 03:15 PM
3

this is your answer op
/r/askTRP09/09/20 06:15 PM
4

if you want to play with her then do it. if you’re only doing it in hopes of sleeping with her then that’s bad
/r/askTRP09/09/20 12:58 AM
2

instead of saying you’re not compatible, tell her you’re not looking for something exclusive and instead just seeing where things go. this way you’re being honest and if she’s down for that then you’re both happy
/r/seduction02/09/20 01:44 PM
3

might be the option. wait a bit and see if it was just a one time thing. if she keeps rejecting your advances or feeling in the mood, it might be time to part ways
/r/askTRP02/09/20 01:35 PM
19

not necessarily. outcome independence plays a part in this because no matter what you say, you’re saying it because you want to, not because you want a certain outcome.
/r/seduction01/09/20 06:59 PM
2

maybe instead of “sorry” and “creepy” try “hey, i know this is random but i thought you were cute and i wanted to say hi” it shows you know social norms and have the confidence to approach
/r/seduction01/09/20 06:58 PM
10

read the sex god method, it mentions the key tips and a sort of push/pull method in bed
/r/askTRP01/09/20 02:04 PM
19

this. you already know the talk that’s going to happen, so just grab your stuff and leave. if she tries bringing it up again just say “ok” and be on your way. Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging f…
/r/askTRP31/08/20 02:13 PM
0

don’t listen to this. as a beginner who is learning to cold approach you should take any opportunity that isn’t weird. on the side of a road or a mall is fine, a college is sometimes not recommended because social circle and parties are more effective and you don’t want to get a reputation if the college is small enough for word to spread
/r/seduction29/08/20 05:14 AM
11

How’s she bringing any value when she’s leeching off him for his boat. Ignore that girl
/r/askTRP25/08/20 03:45 AM
2

This. Fuck what women want, you are the prize
/r/askTRP23/08/20 01:05 PM
6

In the beginning it will be awkward because you’re not used to contact but keep faking it until you make it. Also kino is gradual, something like a handshake when you meet someone isn’t sexual, but it helps with the touch boundary so going to the next step like touching their arm when you laugh at a joke is normal. Keep escalating until you get to a point where you can make a move such as go in for a kiss when the tension is there.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 07:37 PM
5

It’s fine to post on social media because you’re demonstrating that you are doing something high value.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 12:20 AM
27

Yeah that’s a fine response. When you stop radio silence the soft next is over so act as if nothing ever happened. If you’re actually busy then tell her and give an alternative time, if you’re not then take the offer.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:52 PM
135

You’re thinking of it in the wrong way. Withdrawing attention/soft next is not supposed to be a petty way of getting back at them. They are just not worth your time because of the behaviour they showed you so you’re doing something better. When she reached out to you and you ANSWERED, that means the soft next is over. This means you should have suggested an alternative date because you’re on speaking terms again
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:04 PM
0

It doesn’t matter where you set it up, it’s your house so just escalate. You could set it up on the couch if you choose not to be too obvious. Your bed is right there so if anything happens just lead her there
/r/seduction18/08/20 07:01 PM
1

One that you don’t want to actually see because you won’t be watching it half the time lmao
/r/seduction16/08/20 05:36 PM
2

Your shoulders shouldn’t be in use during curls. Try retracting your shoulders just as you would for bench then do curls. This should make sure only your biceps are activated. And please lower the weight. A lot of people ego lift in the gym, start off with a really low weight you can rep for 12-15 then go up when you can do that perfectly for 3 sets EDIT: this is in regards to the shoulder pain. If this doesn’t help and your pain is indeed in the bicep and not the shoulder then get it checked ou…
/r/askTRP16/08/20 05:16 PM
4

lmao
/r/askTRP13/08/20 04:50 PM
3

You’re right, I just didn’t want to waste time on a date if she was looking for an orbiter from the beginning. But it’s best to try escalate and see where it goes. Thanks
/r/askTRP07/08/20 10:57 PM
7

Ghost. Why are you even wasting your time playing mind games. Game other girls don’t even plate her. Block her on everything, she broke up with you, you don’t owe closure nor do you owe her attention
/r/askTRP07/08/20 03:32 PM
5

Give her all the space and time she wants and break up with her. If you want to try to make it work then ghost her for a few days. By the sound of it, she was completely disrespectful and playing mind games. Let her reach out to you and set up a date. DO NOT message first. Also you told her that she was disrespectful and that didn’t work, so don’t bring up situations you’re upset about in the future. Just softnext
/r/askTRP07/08/20 03:35 AM
1

The general rule is once they break eye contact you hold it for 2 more seconds than them then break. Then when they make it again you hold it
/r/askTRP06/08/20 06:43 PM
2

To clarify for OP, this doesn’t mean you have to be way more attractive than the girl. Men’s smv is composed of money, looks, status and other traits while women’s is 90% looks.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 05:55 PM
1

Well if you’re building muscle that means you’re in a caloric surplus. This means you won’t be losing the fat you have only building more muscle, you have to be in a caloric deficit to lose weight so it doesn’t matter if you drink milk, just make sure you eat less calories than your TDEE.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 08:08 AM
5

Check the age of consent in your country, in Canada it’s 16 and in some states it’s also 16. So there won’t be any legal problems if you sleep with anyone from tinder. The only problem is you can’t send exposing pictures of yourself since you’re under 18
/r/askTRP05/08/20 08:06 AM
3

I’m saying what you called a “successful” relationship was just you putting up with her actions to make it work. Also I forgot where I saw it but to introduce rp concepts to an existing relationship you have to go slow. If you do it out of the blue she’s not used to that and might want to break up.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 08:04 AM
2

What? You answered yourself. You were a simp so you put up with whatever to stay in the relationship.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 06:55 AM
3

Impressive physique but you can add more mass to your arms chest and shoulders. Also you have fat covering your abs so after bulking you can cut to a lower BF to make them visible
/r/askTRP03/08/20 07:36 PM
7

How long have you been in the relationship? In my past LTR, the sex life was initially great but a year into it, it started dying. Spice things up and don’t have the same dates every time you meet. For me it got repetitive when she would come over to my uni dorm and we fuck and stay in bed most of the day. Try something different such as do a cool activity then come home and fuck. Also you’re giving her too much comfort, she thinks you’ll stay no matter what without sex. You need to put some dre…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:23 AM
1

This is a good thing because you can just ghost and do something more productive like game other women or do a hobby. Take it for what it is and don’t look into it
/r/askTRP30/07/20 07:14 AM
39

“Do you feel like you had a choice, or do you feel like you just accepted whoever eventually agrees?” You should only go for women you are attracted to. It’s not like you’re approaching random women who you have no attraction for and “settle” for whoever.
/r/seduction30/07/20 02:42 AM
21

Reply to a story she posts, if she never stories anything then just send a dm. Nothing to lose
/r/seduction29/07/20 05:39 PM
2

Then suggest it at an earlier time and by the time your date is done bring it back to one of your places. If she’s only free at night then say “Hey it’s X from hinge. Let’s try to go to a bar on Thursday, if nothing’s open let’s do a bottle of wine at my place or yours”
/r/seduction28/07/20 01:26 AM
2

Why don’t you reply to one of the said snaps and build it up to a date?
/r/seduction27/07/20 10:51 PM
1

As the other comment said you can message continuing off of your conversation. Don’t use text to talk though, try to set up a date asap
/r/seduction27/07/20 06:48 PM
2

Are you recommending using witty responses like one you gave or not? Because OP used a few in response to the girls saying they have boyfriends, or do you recommend completely ignoring it and changing convo
/r/askTRP27/07/20 06:30 PM
1

This or something similar is your shot at a recovery
/r/seduction27/07/20 03:02 PM
2

Go after other girls, if she comes back she does, if she doesn’t then it’s her loss
/r/seduction27/07/20 02:59 PM
1

It’s not randomly, it’s for example something you talked about with the girl and she seems interested
/r/seduction27/07/20 02:58 PM
3

I’d say try to avoid questions like “mind if I sit here?” and instead say something like “sorry I’m late” in a funny vibe and just start a convo.
/r/seduction26/07/20 05:57 PM
44

Give them a reason to come over with plausible deniability. Ex. Come see my dog, or come see my collection of ____. Never straight up ask them to come over and have sex
/r/seduction26/07/20 05:51 PM
1

It’s LMR just escalate as long as she doesn’t mind. If she says no then back off and maybe try once more a little later. Next time go for the close and don’t talk for the whole day before getting her home, you might have revealed too much and she got too comfortable
/r/seduction26/07/20 05:06 PM
1

kino And read models by mark Manson
/r/seduction24/07/20 02:12 PM
2

Always escalate, the sexual tension wasn’t there because you weren’t building it. Look into kino and start right off the bat, it’ll make going in for that kiss way easier because you’ve already established touch boundaries
/r/seduction24/07/20 02:00 PM
12

Ignore. Text only for logistics
/r/askTRP23/07/20 10:00 PM
5

This, op. It’s not like she’s just hitting you up online, she wants to meet up so you won’t be wasting your time. If she lets you escalate do it, if not then next.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 08:06 PM
3

Make it seem like their idea Edit: I’ve heard the 48 laws of power is also good
/r/askTRP23/07/20 07:05 PM
4

Just give a quick hi and that’s it. Then go about the rest of your day as normal whether that be gaming other women or having fun with friends.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 05:38 PM
12

It doesn’t work that way, your body needs rest and a good diet. You don’t need to do every single movement on one day, stick to one session
/r/askTRP20/07/20 04:09 AM
13

What’s the point of working out three times a day? Stick to a program, if you want to do 3x a week go for full body, if you want to do 6x a week do PPL. Your sessions should never be longer than 1-2 hours, 3 times a day is absolutely unnecessary
/r/askTRP20/07/20 03:56 AM
3

This, good on you OP for holding frame. Ghost her, and act like it never happened then let her hit you up for a date.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 03:22 AM
55

Should I just end things and be glad that I didn't marry her? Yes. She has been slacking off and losing SMV - she has the potential to be a solid 8 in my eyes,but right now she is a 6 - she always tells me she is going to take better care of herself, but always has failed in the past to deliver. This is the most concerning part. If she’s slacking off by not taking care of herself BEFORE you’re married, do you think she will take care of herself MORE after you get married? She has all the securit…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:41 AM
1

You didn’t have to, you displayed your intent by not giving into a relationship
/r/askTRP17/07/20 09:32 PM
1

You stood your ground when you made it clear you only wanted to be fwb. She probably won’t make wrong assumptions again. If she’s trying to talk to you again just hit her up sometime, she’ll know what’s up
/r/askTRP17/07/20 09:18 PM
6

Maybe give one more chance until nexting. It’s a med student so she might be legitimately busy. Just confirm and do your own thing until the date, if she flakes again ghost her
/r/askTRP17/07/20 07:33 PM
12

This happened to me in my LTR. DO NOT answer seriously or argue. Just pretend like it was never said. Apply dread and don’t give too much comfort because right now she’s testing you to see if you’d stay even without sex. If it gets worse it might be time to bail
/r/askTRP16/07/20 11:04 PM
2

Depending on the age of consent it’s fine. In Canada it’s 16. Just remember to avoid nudes at all costs because you still need to be above 18 do do that
/r/askTRP15/07/20 10:20 PM
18

The moment you “relax” around women is when they can see right through your cracks. Even in a relationship it’s constant pushing and pulling as advocated by dread to keep her interested. Ask anyone who got too comfortable in their relationship or let themselves go and become beta
/r/askTRP15/07/20 07:47 AM
8

Happened to me in my LTR. In person she’s submissive but over text she’s throwing all these shit tests. Most likely you are showing more dominance in real life than over text. You can try to be more busy and not text her all the time so she doesn’t take your time for granted.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 03:58 AM
2

Ah you are both still fairly young. I assumed you were around the average age of users on this subreddit for which kissing is something done within a few dates. She’s giving you signals bro, she’s your girlfriend, next time the opportunity comes up definitely go in for the kiss she’s waiting for you to initiate it.
/r/seduction15/07/20 03:53 AM
2

Replying to their stories with something that relates to it is a good way to start a convo
/r/seduction15/07/20 03:22 AM
6

Idk if this is a troll post but you’ve been dating a girl for 5 months and haven’t kissed her yet??
/r/seduction15/07/20 03:21 AM
1

Just do it, you’ll never really know unless you do.
/r/seduction15/07/20 02:33 AM
1

Can you give some examples of the indirect openers you use
/r/askTRP15/07/20 02:30 AM
5

OP, if you are just considering telling her no because of the trp rule of no cohabitating, then this seems like an exception. It’s only for a few weeks and if she isn’t showing any red flags it might not be too bad as long as you find time to do your own thing as well.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 02:28 AM
1

This
/r/askTRP14/07/20 09:41 PM
3

Surplus of calories + adequate protein = muscle growth Calorie maintenance + Only protein = maintenance Calorie surplus + below average protein = slower muscle growth I’d argue that calories are more important than protein. You’re bound to get protein in a day anyway, but being in a surplus of calories is very important when trying to build muscle
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:16 PM
21

I think it’s healthy as long as you’re not compromising your needs in the relationship. If all your needs are being met and you are happy then keep doing you. It would only be beta if you are putting up with her shit just to keep her around
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:21 AM
1

We messaged here and there during that 1 year when I had an LTR but only as friends.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 02:18 AM
6

“I’m on a strict diet don’t eat my food again”
/r/askTRP13/07/20 01:49 AM
38

I just saw some more posts on trp about it and some are like: “You can bring your dad” or things like that
/r/askTRP12/07/20 06:37 PM
21

I think the basic lobe piercings and maybe one more are fine but excess piercings are a red flag in trp. And tattoos fall into this as well. Remember watch what they do not what they say.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 06:33 PM
2

What do you think would be the rp reply to this message?
/r/askTRP12/07/20 05:25 PM
2

I’m 19 so it’s a good indicator of social proof for this generation. Also we have mutuals but never met in real life which is why I suggested the date. Quarantine is making approaching harder because of the mandatory masks rule so for the time being it’s not a bad option
/r/askTRP12/07/20 05:19 PM
4

Scarcity = lack of options Abundance = many options
/r/askTRP12/07/20 04:22 AM
2

Instead of going out for a few drinks why don’t you just call her over to watch a movie at your place? It’s low effort and sends the message without blatantly calling her over to fuck
/r/askTRP11/07/20 06:45 AM
1

Yep
/r/askTRP11/07/20 05:33 AM
1

Quick calories and it doesn’t take anything away from the taste. Just don’t leave it out for a long time Edit: put it in a blender ofc
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:37 AM
1

Ah, that makes sense. But yes definitely try the shake you can squeeze in easy calories
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:36 AM
1

If your lifts were that much when you were 190lbs I’d say you need to get on a better program. To linearly progress you need to consistently up your weight and eat a lot, but what probably happened for you is you gained a lot of fat but not muscle because of not enough hypertrophy
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:34 AM
2

Why are you eating 200g of protein? Typically it’s around 1 gram per pound of body weight. And I used to make a protein shake, with 2 scoops of protein, a banana, 2 tbsp peanut butter, 2 eggs, and an instant oatmeal pack, with 2 cups of milk. Around 1000 calories. Then the rest of the day you can eat your normal meals
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:31 AM
3

Not necessarily, your lifts might drop due to the cut but you can stay on the same program. You can add more cardio if that helps you to be in a deficit
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:06 AM
1

How would the shirtless picture in a lake knee deep in water be? I’m looking off to the distance, it shows off my physique well so I wanted to include it
/r/askTRP06/07/20 07:45 PM
6

Red pill is a mentality, pua is a toolbox, and black pill is also a mentality but it believes that if you didn’t win the genetic lottery you’re fucked.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 06:53 AM
1

Awesome, thanks man. I’ll cut out #2 and try to replace it with maybe a sport picture or of me doing something fun
/r/askTRP06/07/20 03:32 AM
2

Yeah in the group pics there’s peoples arms around me, is this good or bad? And I am also the tallest in the group pictures, maybe similar height to one other friend but nothing big
/r/askTRP06/07/20 03:29 AM
2

I see what you mean, mind reading my reply to the other comment and seeing how those pics would be?
/r/askTRP06/07/20 03:03 AM
2

Currently thinking of the following, feel free to give feedback: 1: solo pic 2: pic on couch at party with arms around two girl friends who are covering their faces with beers 3: group pic with friends (guys) 4: pic with friends outside restaurant (girls guys)
/r/askTRP06/07/20 02:59 AM
5

Don’t get into a routine (especially with sex life). Keep things interesting and exciting. Don’t let yourself get beta, always be improving your smv. And don’t give too much/too little comfort
/r/askTRP06/07/20 02:18 AM
53

Was in your exact situation a few weeks ago ltr of 1 year+. Broke up with her because she felt comfortable refusing sexual things more often than when we started dating. After a few days regret started to come in and whether I made the right decision, but block her on everything and go full no contact, you will feel better after a few weeks. To get your mind off hang out with friends more and read the rational male
/r/askTRP05/07/20 06:48 PM
1

Use it very sparingly, and don’t become dependent on it. For the first time it might be a good idea if you can’t get it up again
/r/askTRP05/07/20 06:19 PM
2

If it’s similar to approach anxiety for you, the only way is just to say “fuck it” and go for it. After a few times you’ll probably have nothing stopping you. Next time follow the 3 second rule, so right when you think of something do it within 3 seconds before your mind starts talking you out of it
/r/askTRP05/07/20 06:08 PM
5

Do you masturbate? If so cut it out completely so you are more sensitive. Also start slowly escalating from making out and etc put her hand on your dick and build up.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 06:00 PM
1

If you want cheap dates you can do something like taking a walk at a park and going back home for drinks. Or offer her to come over and cook dinner with you and watch a movie. I think a typical date should be 30 min to an hour while escalating the whole time, then just try for the close.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:53 PM
3

When did you hear that you have to ignore women completely? That’s not the point. Self improvement and sleeping with women are not mutually exclusive. You can still approach a woman who you think is hot and strike up a convo and escalate. You’re still improving your social and pickup skills by doing this so don’t think of it as wasted time.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:51 PM
3

This. Read the rational male
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:31 PM
5

DO NOT contact her again. This happened to me when I broke up and my ex kept contacting me asking for closure. The minute you reply it’ll turn into her asking justification for your actions and making you feel guilty.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:26 PM
2

Lmao
/r/askTRP04/07/20 06:08 PM
21

It’s literal. If a child argues with you do you argue back with them as if they’re an adult? Or do you do amused mastery or agree and amplify in a silly way? If a child throws a tantrum how do you deal with it? By getting mad yourself or giving them time to think about it and cool off?
/r/askTRP03/07/20 04:09 PM
3

Lmao, why would it be awkward to get her number then? It’s not snaking your friend either because she showed attraction to you so next time you know what to do. Just isolate and escalate, if that’s not possible get her number at the very least
/r/askTRP03/07/20 03:59 PM
2

Drunk words are sober thoughts. She misses you and has the courage to say that while drunk. Take it for what it is and just ghost
/r/askTRP03/07/20 03:43 PM
2

This is what typical “nice guys” do. They do favours while hiding sexual intention. As a guy you should never hide sexual intention
/r/askTRP03/07/20 03:25 PM
3

If it’s actually your friend’s gf and you don’t want to lose a friend I’d say back off. If he’s ok with it then just escalate the next time if you guys are alone.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 03:24 PM
3

Doesn’t lead directly to losing gains. You could be in a caloric surplus and still make gains even if you eat out a lot. For your health though it may not be the best
/r/askTRP03/07/20 06:43 AM
3

Used to do PPL but during uni it got too busy to manage so ended up going 4-5 days instead of 6. Then I realized if I can only go that many days it’s better to do another program instead of half of PPL. Switched to full body 3x a week while eating a lot and saw good gains
/r/askTRP02/07/20 04:58 PM
1

At what point does it turn from A&A to self deprecating? I’ve heard you shouldn’t use self self deprecating jokes. How do you tell the difference in situations like this
/r/askTRP02/07/20 04:30 PM
2

I think op meant similar to how guys cold approach, or in a non party situation like waiting in a checkout line
/r/askTRP02/07/20 04:28 PM
3

Current situation is tough because I broke up with my ltr during quarantine as well. But it’s a great time to work on yourself and read
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:03 PM
1

She’s showing her interest in you by making all the plans no biggie. Just as I said before as long as you lead in bed and she’s in your frame everything is good.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:01 PM
1

Never have convos over text, if she was willing to meet up that means she was comfortable so no need to talk more. You show only using actions not through text
/r/askTRP30/06/20 11:20 PM
2

I think you’re overthinking. If YOU are the ones turning down her plans then it shows you’re a busy guy with other things to do. I’d say let her lead by making plans for as long as she wants but just make sure to lead in bed. If she slows down on the plan making it wouldn’t hurt for you to set up a date once in a while
/r/askTRP30/06/20 05:09 PM
1

Text is only for logistics, build attraction when you meet up and can kino
/r/askTRP30/06/20 05:07 PM
5

Yeah, happened to me few weeks ago. Broke up with my ltr of a year and a half. Everything was smooth sailing after that until she started contacting me and trying to make me jealous. Then I started overthinking about if I made the right choice. That’s what lack of abundance does to you, especially during quarantine where you hardly have a chance to go out and meet new people.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 04:08 PM
4

“I noticed when I had the power my ego was being stroked like never before but when you lose the girl , you are potentially left with a damaged ego.” This is saying that you didn’t really have the power. If she broke up with you it meant she was willing to leave. If you have true abundance you would be fine if she or yourself left because you have other options and it’s her loss.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 04:00 PM
2

Start slow, aim for a week or two and just go cold turkey and cut it out. You’ll probably relapse in a few days but that’s progress. The longer you go the more you don’t want to relapse and break the streak. Also don’t stay up past 1am or you’re probably going to get tempted. Cold showers also work wonders when you have the urge.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 11:30 PM
12

She knows you follow her spam and she still posts this shit? It’s one thing if a girl talks like this to her other girl friends but blatant disrespect like this definitely means you should softnext for a few days or even next her.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 10:37 PM
9

I think you should change people to women. It’s fine to do it in front of close guy friends who truly want the best for you and your family who gives unconditional love
/r/askTRP29/06/20 08:56 PM
17

It’s fine to watch it once in a while but don’t be the first to view everything she posts. What I did was turn my Instagram and Snapchat notifications off so now I find myself on those apps maybe 2-3 times a day. I rarely find myself looking at stories unless I’m free in which case I just go through everyone’s stories together. Try turning your notifications off and seeing how little you use those apps when there’s nothing tempting you to check them
/r/askTRP29/06/20 08:55 PM
1

Don’t think about WHEN you’re capped, get capped first and then see. I’m guaranteeing you’ll look way better if you bulk instead of thinking about your max genetic potential without even getting there yet. The truth is you’ll look a lot better than someone who has better genetic potential but doesn’t work out
/r/askTRP29/06/20 08:06 PM
1

What’s your height and weight? And bf if you know it
/r/askTRP29/06/20 07:10 PM
1

Girls are more into pleasing their partner than guys are. So they don’t necessarily have to be into sex itself, but seeing their partner pleased is good for them. So if you feel good then express it in bed so she will want to fuck you more enthusiastically. Your sex life could’ve also become repetitive which makes it boring, so try kinkier things and break the cycle of her coming to your place just to fuck. Maybe go out and then come back to your place after a nice date and fuck
/r/askTRP29/06/20 05:43 PM
3

When your shoulders and lats get more mass added you will definitely look wider, it may not be your dream v taper look that bodybuilders have but they are definitely not worth looking up to because they’re all on gear
/r/askTRP29/06/20 05:30 PM
1

Yes 100%, I’m just saying in OP’s case I don’t know if he wants the v taper for himself or to impress others, in which case I told him no one cares either way.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 05:29 PM
1

It doesn’t matter if you have a v taper. People who don’t lift, and females won’t even know the difference. Keep lifting and getting bigger, they mostly care about arms and abs so try for those of you can
/r/askTRP29/06/20 03:14 PM
4

I think the proper response to lmr is never a serious answer or an “ok”. It’s either ignore it fully and escalate and see her response, or give an answer like “I’m not THAT easy” and play it off. I think what you should do from now is just fully ignore her until she replies and you set another date if you want to give it a go with the casual thing giving her one last chance to have sex, otherwise just ghost.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 05:01 AM
1

I think she was looking for comfort as she felt left out when you guys went together, but her ranting at you would justify the soft next. Maybe if she was ranting about the barber then you should just listen, but in this scenario it’s neither of your fault. Just act as if nothing happened the next time you meet
/r/askTRP26/06/20 02:38 PM
1

A van is the best place to do this because you can break the back seats and lay a cloth on it. If you have tinted windows like me it’s even better. I found these places successful: behind the movie theatre school parking lot when no cars are there park parking lot street with not many cars next to a fence mostly any isolated/crowded place(so other cars block the view) at night The key thing here is have tinted windows and you can do it basically anywhere.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 08:34 PM
1

What does your knee have to do with upper body exercises? Stick to body weight like squats but for bench and upper body accessory exercises get the weight up and progressively overload. Also even with “bad” genetics if you workout to your limit you’d look better than the average guy who sits on his ass
/r/askTRP20/06/20 01:39 AM
1

Yeah, the truth hits when you realize you had oneitis because you had no options and you were clinging onto the relationship out of the fear of change
/r/askTRP19/06/20 08:02 PM
19

Don’t cheat, but you don’t have to give her closure either. Just say it’s over or it’s not working out for you and that’s that
/r/askTRP13/06/20 11:02 PM
2

I don’t think it matters as much as you think. In models by mark Manson he talks about if you are in a weird setting then say something like “hey I know this is a weird place to say this but I think you’re ...” Which makes the girl realize that you acknowledge social norms. I think excuse me is fine if you are interrupting something she is doing, but a normal “hey, ...” is fine as long as she doesn’t seem to be busy
/r/seduction11/06/20 10:21 PM
2

There’s nothing wrong with easing her in. Maybe a day or two of just texting before setting up a date. But if you’re entertaining her for days straight then there’s something wrong and she probably wants you as an orbiter. So build comfort and then set up dates as fast as possible
/r/askTRP11/06/20 10:19 PM
6

You can avoid both of those scenarios by not giving a serious answer. Agree and amplify or give an absurd joking answer.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 10:17 PM
3

I don’t know if this question has an absolute yes or no answer. If you want to meet again Saturday then do it. I think you’re worried about being seen as needy, so to avoid that you can say something like “I’m going to grab x at y on Saturday after meeting with some friends, you wanna join me?” That way even if she declines the offer, you still have something exciting going on
/r/askTRP11/06/20 09:31 PM
-1

Go back to your smith machine squats and leave the actual lifting to the real men, pussy
/r/askTRP11/06/20 09:26 PM
1

That’s what I’m trying to figure out. Maybe at the thought of losing quality friends
/r/askTRP11/06/20 09:24 PM
7

Your smv could have increased due to your seeming stability. Most women will be this way, but if she’s seeking an ltr she most likely wants the security of an alpha with a good job. It’s best to keep her as a plate
/r/askTRP11/06/20 09:03 PM
1

Yeah i feel you, with quarantine my gym routine has gone to shit. But start getting active somehow, and after quarantine get into a full routine. And if you’re not depending on viagra every time, it’s probably just anxiety in certain situations. I can relate to the public sex being a factor so the more you get used to it the more comfortable you’ll be. As with new girls just own it and own your sexuality. Think of yourself as a sexual man who the girl will want to please
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:54 PM
3

In that case follow the workout advice. Also definitely stop using viagra as a crutch because you will be dependent on it. If it doesn’t get better talk to a doctor. Most likely it’ll get better as your T raises from working out and you fuck more so you get used to it
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:45 PM
10

Start working out in moderation again. Squats especially raise your testosterone so make sure to incorporate them. Quit porn and reduce masturbation so when you’re in a sexual setting you’ll be horny again
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:41 PM
-4

Wow dude you’re so edgy and must love your dark jokes!! Some people actually want quality conversations and not hear just fucked up and inconsiderate jokes. But I guess that’s what I can expect from people like you who have no substance to their conversations and cover it up with an edgy persona
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:39 PM
1

No it’s not for approval, it’s more of I’m not hesitant to enforce my boundaries around women but around guy friends it’s different
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:00 PM
2

I think the rp response would be not to lie. Don’t directly give answers if your plates ask if you fuck other girls, the proper answer would be to use amused mastery or AA. If you are in the wrong for something I’d say saying sorry would be fine
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:29 PM
2

People saying yes are lying. You CANNOT build more muscle while in a deficit of calories. It doesn’t make sense biologically because you need hypertrophy and to be in a caloric surplus to build muscle. If you are in maintenance you might be able to recomp. I’m guessing the people saying yes are experiencing the loss of fat during their caloric deficit revealing muscle thus making them think they built muscle. You can however gain strength and other benefits whether or not you are in a deficit or…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:12 PM
2

Or even better a van where you can recline or break down the back seats
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:58 PM
2

This, I’d say tell her or show her you are not interested in an LTR from the start, don’t lie to just fuck. Or get in an ltr is that’s really what you want but again, don’t just leave once you fuck. Or forget her and go game other girls
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:46 PM
11

It’s not about bluffing, it’s about actually having other options. You can try to fake it until you make it, but being in abundance would make it easier.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:55 AM
1

Adding on to 3. Do not borrow money, but DO get a credit card and start spending monthly and paying it off right away. You will build a good credit score
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:04 PM
5

Try to set up a date one more time maybe a week from now and if she flakes again then next
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:02 PM
1

I’ve seen this post before and people said in the office it works differently because your employer has all the power, they need you less than you need them therefore holding frame wouldn’t really make sense. Also holding sexual frame in the office setting would also not make sense because I assume you’ve heard of the saying don’t shit where you eat
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:01 PM
1

Had the exact thing as you man, went through a breakup myself recently. Read the rational male, it helps. What helped me was realizing that I lived fine without my exes after the breakup no matter how bad it seemed
/r/askTRP03/06/20 07:57 AM
1

Did this, worked like a charm. After I said it she said she’s not going to do that then I proceeded to ignore completely and finally she sent it
/r/askTRP31/05/20 09:07 PM
3

You develop an abundance mindset by being in abundance. If you know you have other options readily available you won’t be clinging on because you know that even if it doesn’t work out you’re going to have more options. So to develop abundance you increase your options also known as spinning plates on trp
/r/askTRP08/05/20 10:43 PM
4

See how she feels about an iud
/r/askTRP26/04/20 07:29 PM
8

Plan b is supposed to be for emergencies, if it’s a regular thing then see if she wants to take the pill instead or just use a condom
/r/askTRP26/04/20 07:19 PM
1

Look up the 12 levels of dread. The basics of it are if she does something bad -> withdraw your attention.
/r/seduction25/04/20 05:48 PM
3

It’s not your high standards that’s a problem, as you said you got a 9 or 10 interested initially, but your lack of confidence killed it. If she already invited you to her house all you needed to do was escalate there, you need to tell yourself that you are definitely ready to pull these girls
/r/seduction19/04/20 08:21 PM
1

Maybe “Next time I expect you to stay true to your word when you make a commitment” would be an assertive thing to say without bringing in what she did to you. Or trp would say to not even bother calling her out and soft next for a few days because she’d likely realize what she did
/r/askTRP19/04/20 05:14 AM
7

You’re 6’1 so you can go down to around 180-190 on a cut. Bf lower than 8% is going to be hard to do natty and not worth it IMO, so just try to get ~10%.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 12:22 AM
7

That’s a good line thanks
/r/askTRP16/04/20 12:33 PM
-2

We started dating before university, but during uni we meet around once or twice a week which is enough given that we’re both busy with school work most of the time
/r/askTRP16/04/20 12:32 PM
12

Reply with something that has nothing to do with her, like commenting on something in the background
/r/askTRP16/04/20 03:43 AM
1

This seems like a good way of avoiding it, but what if it leads to something along the lines of her acting dry because you’re not giving her answers? How do I shut the question down fully without retaliation
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:11 AM
1

Might try this out lmao
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:10 AM
0

I agree, I made it clear that sex is important to me, but now that we're back together how do I show to her I meant what I said and am not going to fall to her demands (she said she doesn't want any sexual activity)
/r/askTRP12/03/20 10:17 PM
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